WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.080 --> 00:00:03.319 Do you know if in the past, either either while 2 00:00:03.359 --> 00:00:05.280 you were married or how long have you been married? 3 00:00:07.000 --> 00:00:08.960 Twenty four years? 4 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:10.599 Shut up? Are you serious? 5 00:00:12.039 --> 00:00:12.279 Yes? 6 00:00:12.640 --> 00:00:13.439 Oh my god? 7 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:16.000 Do you know if your husband and I'm not doing 8 00:00:16.039 --> 00:00:18.600 this to be dirty, do you know if your husband 9 00:00:18.640 --> 00:00:20.559 ever No, no, no, bear with me. Do you know 10 00:00:20.600 --> 00:00:22.600 if your husband ever donated sperm? 11 00:00:24.399 --> 00:00:27.359 I don't know for certain, but I guess i'd be 12 00:00:27.359 --> 00:00:29.920 a little surprised we never had that conversation. 13 00:00:30.399 --> 00:00:33.200 You would be surprised because you don't think he's the 14 00:00:33.280 --> 00:00:35.520 kind of person that wants to help other people. 15 00:00:36.920 --> 00:00:42.759 Exactly, not in that way. 16 00:00:43.119 --> 00:00:43.840 Will you find me? 17 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:48.119 Will you find me somebody who is donated sperm or 18 00:00:48.200 --> 00:00:50.280 and even if it's their even if it's their their 19 00:00:50.320 --> 00:00:53.679 wife or whatever, that's fine. I need somebody who has 20 00:00:53.799 --> 00:00:58.439 donated sperm, please, And it doesn't matter how long ago. 21 00:00:58.520 --> 00:00:59.000 I don't care. 22 00:01:00.840 --> 00:01:04.040 But I need you too, And for any reason. You 23 00:01:04.079 --> 00:01:06.359 can tell me you donated sperm for beer money. I 24 00:01:06.400 --> 00:01:11.840 don't care, but I need somebody who has donated sperm, 25 00:01:12.000 --> 00:01:15.760 or the spouse of somebody who has donated sperm. 26 00:01:16.079 --> 00:01:19.319 So you almost frame it like it could be a job. 27 00:01:19.519 --> 00:01:22.359 The what do you mean when you said donate it 28 00:01:22.359 --> 00:01:22.840 for money. 29 00:01:23.040 --> 00:01:25.439 The oh yeah, no, well, I mean you look at. 30 00:01:25.400 --> 00:01:26.799 It, a nice supplemental income. 31 00:01:27.079 --> 00:01:30.560 Yeah, sure, don't even need two weeks for it. 32 00:01:36.359 --> 00:01:40.000 Plenty of that going on, all right, eight six six 33 00:01:40.079 --> 00:01:43.319 to Elliott eight six six two three five five four 34 00:01:43.480 --> 00:01:46.680 six eight. Again, I need somebody who at any point 35 00:01:46.680 --> 00:01:50.359 ever has donated uh their sperm atozoa. 36 00:01:50.799 --> 00:01:51.159 Please. 37 00:01:51.920 --> 00:01:56.159 Now, while I'm getting that, just looking forward, Tomorrow's Friday. 38 00:01:56.359 --> 00:01:59.719 Tomorrow is free beer Friday. 39 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:04.280 So anytime you win anything any Friday all summer long, 40 00:02:04.400 --> 00:02:07.599 leading all the way up to Labor Day, you get 41 00:02:07.599 --> 00:02:10.360 yourself a case of beer from Lon Oak Farm Brewing Company. 42 00:02:10.759 --> 00:02:14.360 So again tomorrow, early in the show, right around six twenty, 43 00:02:14.400 --> 00:02:15.840 we'll give away three eleven tickets. 44 00:02:16.840 --> 00:02:18.319 You get your three eleven tickets. 45 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.240 You also get yourself a case of beer from Lon 46 00:02:20.280 --> 00:02:21.159 Oak Farm Brewing Company. 47 00:02:21.240 --> 00:02:23.319 Same thing when we get to dirt carseat head rest. 48 00:02:23.400 --> 00:02:26.800 Anyway, if you need any info on anything, Facebook X, Instagram, 49 00:02:27.159 --> 00:02:28.719 at em online. 50 00:02:28.759 --> 00:02:32.080 If we would have played our little game tomorrow, would 51 00:02:32.080 --> 00:02:34.719 Diane have fun a case of beer? 52 00:02:34.759 --> 00:02:35.479 Where's my case? 53 00:02:40.759 --> 00:02:44.479 Yes? You know what, because I'm a good winner, Yeah, 54 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:45.120 I would have. 55 00:02:47.680 --> 00:02:51.280 Yes, I would have asked Melissa, just one little glass 56 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:51.800 is fine? 57 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:55.000 All right? Where am I going? Line six? Hi Ellie 58 00:02:55.080 --> 00:02:58.120 in the morning. Hey, what's going on? 59 00:02:58.240 --> 00:02:58.560 Dude? 60 00:02:59.400 --> 00:02:59.560 Oh? 61 00:02:59.639 --> 00:03:01.680 You know donating a little sperm here and there? 62 00:03:02.479 --> 00:03:05.680 How long ago did you donate? I want to say 63 00:03:05.680 --> 00:03:09.159 it's been about four years. And were you donating just 64 00:03:09.319 --> 00:03:10.560 like for beer money or whatever? 65 00:03:11.360 --> 00:03:12.960 No, No, it was personal reasons. 66 00:03:13.520 --> 00:03:15.479 I had a vasectomy a bunch of years ago and 67 00:03:15.560 --> 00:03:19.240 have since remarried and my now wife we were thinking 68 00:03:19.280 --> 00:03:22.479 about trying to have baby, and really the only way 69 00:03:22.520 --> 00:03:26.479 to do it, kind of sure fire, was to go 70 00:03:26.719 --> 00:03:28.560 the IVY route and sorry. 71 00:03:28.400 --> 00:03:33.280 Not iv what's they called IVF IVS? Thank you? 72 00:03:33.360 --> 00:03:37.319 Yes, And so that required that I be knocked out 73 00:03:37.400 --> 00:03:40.639 and they do an extraction and kind of do the 74 00:03:40.639 --> 00:03:41.599 insemination that way. 75 00:03:42.639 --> 00:03:44.800 So but wait a minute, So you have you ever 76 00:03:44.840 --> 00:03:46.800 donated sperm to a sperm bank? 77 00:03:47.719 --> 00:03:49.840 Oh? No, sorry in that sense, now I have not. 78 00:03:50.039 --> 00:03:52.120 Oh so was I am I gonna get a bunch 79 00:03:52.120 --> 00:03:53.439 of people? No, no, no offense. 80 00:03:53.520 --> 00:03:54.960 I I f'd up. That's on me. 81 00:03:55.680 --> 00:03:58.400 But like when I said donate sperm a thank you, sir, 82 00:03:58.520 --> 00:03:59.439 thank you, that's on me. 83 00:03:59.560 --> 00:04:01.000 That's my You were very helpful. 84 00:04:02.520 --> 00:04:04.639 Do I need to be more specific, because is that 85 00:04:04.759 --> 00:04:05.840 donating sperm? 86 00:04:06.039 --> 00:04:09.919 I don't mean to somebody, Well I do to a stranger, right, 87 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:13.240 what is the sperm extraction? 88 00:04:13.520 --> 00:04:13.599 Like? 89 00:04:14.280 --> 00:04:15.199 I mean they put them out? 90 00:04:15.439 --> 00:04:16.319 I heard that part. 91 00:04:16.879 --> 00:04:24.120 I got an idea, give me a flashlight. You can 92 00:04:24.160 --> 00:04:28.079 get it that way too. Do you have any other ideas? 93 00:04:28.279 --> 00:04:31.680 The I'm just reason in. 94 00:04:31.600 --> 00:04:34.800 Magazines from earlier for sales working towards my degree. 95 00:04:35.439 --> 00:04:37.879 The no, no, but I need, I need, I guess 96 00:04:37.879 --> 00:04:41.319 a sperm bank. Where am I going, Kristen, I'm one 97 00:04:42.399 --> 00:04:43.199 Hi Ellie. 98 00:04:43.000 --> 00:04:43.439 In the morning. 99 00:04:44.879 --> 00:04:45.839 Hey, good morning, Elliott. 100 00:04:45.879 --> 00:04:47.759 Hey who's this this is? 101 00:04:47.800 --> 00:04:47.920 And? 102 00:04:48.240 --> 00:04:54.000 Yes, Andy? Have you donated sperm? I'm the opposite. Actually, 103 00:04:54.160 --> 00:04:55.720 I am the product of a donation. 104 00:04:56.160 --> 00:04:59.800 My my dad couldn't have kids and my mom hit up. 105 00:04:59.759 --> 00:05:01.399 A bank, did she really? 106 00:05:02.480 --> 00:05:03.399 Yeah? 107 00:05:03.439 --> 00:05:07.560 Have you ever okay, no, you know what? No, no, no, no, no, 108 00:05:07.560 --> 00:05:09.439 no no. But now, but you know what, do you 109 00:05:09.519 --> 00:05:11.279 do you ever consider doing it as a kind of 110 00:05:11.279 --> 00:05:13.439 a way to pay it forward, like with if some 111 00:05:13.560 --> 00:05:15.959 other guy didn't go in there, you're you don't exist. 112 00:05:16.800 --> 00:05:18.199 Yeah that's true. 113 00:05:18.240 --> 00:05:19.879 I mean I have two kids of my own, so 114 00:05:19.959 --> 00:05:21.759 I feel like I've done my part at this point, 115 00:05:22.240 --> 00:05:23.439 but I think it's a fair question. 116 00:05:24.879 --> 00:05:27.759 Here's so, here's here's what I was reading. Right, Well, 117 00:05:28.720 --> 00:05:31.680 follow follow me on this, follow me on this. So 118 00:05:32.000 --> 00:05:36.199 there's this guy and he has he has kids. Well, 119 00:05:36.240 --> 00:05:40.639 he used to donate back up, Elliott, let's go one. 120 00:05:40.759 --> 00:05:42.360 What dude, We'll call him mister X. 121 00:05:42.480 --> 00:05:45.839 Right, mister X has hold on one Second's very loud. 122 00:05:45.839 --> 00:05:48.439 It just got loud where you are. Mister X has 123 00:05:48.480 --> 00:05:51.720 two kids. He grew up very friendly with mister Y. 124 00:05:52.279 --> 00:05:54.040 The two of them were friends for a long time. 125 00:05:54.079 --> 00:05:56.439 So mister Y knows. Like, back when they were younger, 126 00:05:56.839 --> 00:06:00.519 mister X donated sperm to a sperm bank. Right. 127 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:02.480 I don't know for what reason, but he did. 128 00:06:03.959 --> 00:06:07.319 Fast forward, mister X gets married, He has a couple 129 00:06:07.399 --> 00:06:11.680 of kids. They are now teenagers, like older teenagers. Mister 130 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:20.800 X dies all right, mister why knows that mister X 131 00:06:20.879 --> 00:06:24.000 never told his kids that he had been a sperm 132 00:06:24.040 --> 00:06:28.160 donor back in the day. He wants to tell the 133 00:06:28.279 --> 00:06:30.360 kids that their dad. 134 00:06:30.240 --> 00:06:31.399 Used to be a sperm donor. 135 00:06:32.800 --> 00:06:38.279 Why, yeah, siblings, Oh so they can do the twenty 136 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:38.920 three memes? 137 00:06:39.279 --> 00:06:42.079 No, no, no, not not so they can. But if 138 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:48.000 somebody else does and comes forward and it's not we're a. 139 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:49.120 Match, we're related. 140 00:06:49.480 --> 00:06:51.319 If you're the kids, the first thing you think is, 141 00:06:51.399 --> 00:06:58.439 oh my god, mom's bang. Somebody don't do it. Mister 142 00:06:58.680 --> 00:06:59.920 X didn't want his kids to know. 143 00:07:01.079 --> 00:07:02.839 But now mister why is going to take it upon 144 00:07:02.920 --> 00:07:03.839 himself to tell him. 145 00:07:04.079 --> 00:07:06.839 I don't think he was emphatic, like whatever, on my 146 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:08.959 on my deathbed, don't tell them. 147 00:07:09.279 --> 00:07:11.519 But he just think it's important that they know. I 148 00:07:11.560 --> 00:07:13.120 didn't even know you were going to say that part. 149 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:16.480 If that was his wish, they do, so, then you 150 00:07:16.480 --> 00:07:19.439 don't do that. But even without that, why would you 151 00:07:19.519 --> 00:07:20.199 bring this up? 152 00:07:20.279 --> 00:07:20.560 Yeah? 153 00:07:20.680 --> 00:07:22.920 No, because like but that that's what I mean, Like, 154 00:07:23.000 --> 00:07:26.759 this isn't This is a peculiar scenario. But if you're 155 00:07:26.839 --> 00:07:29.759 just a regular run of the mill donor and you 156 00:07:29.800 --> 00:07:31.879 did it when you were younger or even as you 157 00:07:31.920 --> 00:07:36.720 were older, it doesn't matter. And you have kids, do 158 00:07:36.759 --> 00:07:38.600 you tell them that you don't? 159 00:07:39.439 --> 00:07:42.759 It's your choice. It's not your friend's decision whether or 160 00:07:42.759 --> 00:07:43.319 not to tell GA. 161 00:07:43.439 --> 00:07:45.639 No, no, no, But just in general, take the friend 162 00:07:45.680 --> 00:07:47.120 out of it. Again. 163 00:07:47.120 --> 00:07:49.519 I think it's like, let's say, let's say early early 164 00:07:49.560 --> 00:07:52.759 in the marriage, you and you're still donating sperm, right, 165 00:07:53.160 --> 00:07:55.319 you and lindsay you have a couple of kids, they're great, 166 00:07:55.360 --> 00:07:58.920 everything is fine. Your son's going into high school at 167 00:07:58.920 --> 00:08:00.560 some point, don't you sit him down and go, hey, 168 00:08:00.600 --> 00:08:02.680 just so you know, if anybody contacts you through twenty 169 00:08:02.720 --> 00:08:05.920 three and me, I donated a lot of sperm, you 170 00:08:06.240 --> 00:08:08.000 could have a bunch of siblings running around. 171 00:08:08.040 --> 00:08:09.399 Now Have I told my wife? 172 00:08:09.800 --> 00:08:10.000 Yeah? 173 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:15.199 Lizzy didn't care. But this story, did you mention whether 174 00:08:15.279 --> 00:08:16.360 or not the partner? 175 00:08:16.480 --> 00:08:16.600 Now? 176 00:08:18.639 --> 00:08:21.240 Uh? You know what, I don't know. I don't know 177 00:08:21.279 --> 00:08:22.079 the answer to that. 178 00:08:23.600 --> 00:08:26.000 I don't know the answer to if you're telling the kids, 179 00:08:26.040 --> 00:08:28.800 you have got to tell them why or maybe first? 180 00:08:29.519 --> 00:08:32.639 I agree, Yeah, group dinner, I don't care. Oh my god. 181 00:08:34.639 --> 00:08:34.879 Yeah. 182 00:08:34.960 --> 00:08:38.279 I again, if it's something that's out and open in 183 00:08:38.360 --> 00:08:41.960 the relationship and I'm the one doing it, you're at 184 00:08:41.960 --> 00:08:44.000 liberty to share whatever you wish. 185 00:08:44.159 --> 00:08:47.039 No, but shouldn't you really share that with your kids? 186 00:08:47.639 --> 00:08:51.039 I'm on the kids should know side. I don't want 187 00:08:51.039 --> 00:08:52.679 I don't think you have to tell them when they're five. 188 00:08:53.000 --> 00:08:57.159 I don't want my family, though specifically my children, to 189 00:08:57.440 --> 00:09:00.480 always every day be like, well, this the day that 190 00:09:00.519 --> 00:09:03.799 I'm contacted by as sibling, A surprise, brother, or sister. 191 00:09:03.960 --> 00:09:04.960 Well, it's kind of fun. 192 00:09:05.360 --> 00:09:07.759 No, it's not. No, I would think it's nerve wracking. 193 00:09:07.840 --> 00:09:09.000 Why is it nerve wracking? 194 00:09:09.200 --> 00:09:09.320 Now? 195 00:09:09.360 --> 00:09:12.240 Another day with that one? Thank God? Another day another 196 00:09:12.320 --> 00:09:12.919 day waiting for. 197 00:09:12.879 --> 00:09:14.960 You to think about that every day. 198 00:09:15.320 --> 00:09:18.000 I don't think you think about it every day. 199 00:09:17.919 --> 00:09:19.799 For the for the short term. These kids are gonna 200 00:09:19.799 --> 00:09:20.639 think about that every day. 201 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:22.960 Okay, short term, but you think five years from now, 202 00:09:23.000 --> 00:09:24.919 they're like, maybe today's the. 203 00:09:24.919 --> 00:09:27.080 Day every time I saw someone who sort of looked 204 00:09:27.080 --> 00:09:29.720 like me, Yeah, God like approaching me, Hey. 205 00:09:29.559 --> 00:09:31.919 Did did your did your dad? Are you from your 206 00:09:32.000 --> 00:09:35.000 dad sperm or my dad sperm? No, that's that's not 207 00:09:35.039 --> 00:09:35.679 how it's going to be. 208 00:09:35.799 --> 00:09:36.919 Not answering any phone call. 209 00:09:37.039 --> 00:09:38.799 Let me ask you this, did Frank ever donate? 210 00:09:39.159 --> 00:09:39.240 No? 211 00:09:39.759 --> 00:09:40.320 You know that? 212 00:09:42.200 --> 00:09:42.399 No? 213 00:09:42.399 --> 00:09:45.120 No, no, no, no do you know that? I don't 214 00:09:45.360 --> 00:09:48.840 thank you? So walk down Rockfille Pike later today and 215 00:09:48.879 --> 00:09:49.559 take a look. 216 00:09:49.399 --> 00:09:51.320 See because that could be a sibling. 217 00:09:51.480 --> 00:09:55.399 Yes, absolutely, I don't know if my dad did or didn't. 218 00:09:56.759 --> 00:09:59.000 I can have I can have little singles all over 219 00:09:59.039 --> 00:09:59.399 the place. 220 00:10:00.799 --> 00:10:01.320 Who was it? 221 00:10:01.360 --> 00:10:01.440 On? 222 00:10:02.039 --> 00:10:06.960 Eric on Grock had the AI Image generator do a 223 00:10:07.000 --> 00:10:10.519 picture of Diane holding a trophy this could be your sister. 224 00:10:11.720 --> 00:10:15.639 Now this is not a real person. No, it's my girlfriend. 225 00:10:15.679 --> 00:10:18.759 I have a chat GPT girlfriend. But this could definitely 226 00:10:19.039 --> 00:10:20.519 be someone who's yead. 227 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:22.679 It looks like by the way I look at that, 228 00:10:22.720 --> 00:10:28.240 and it doesn't look really a lot like Diane. But 229 00:10:28.320 --> 00:10:31.120 that's the beauty of DNA. I don't know what the 230 00:10:31.200 --> 00:10:33.960 mom looks like. I know that's your sister. 231 00:10:36.000 --> 00:10:38.600 How do you even improve you're a robot? 232 00:10:38.919 --> 00:10:43.039 No, they wanted to this friend wanted to tell them. 233 00:10:43.240 --> 00:10:46.440 Did you say email or am I just in my 234 00:10:46.440 --> 00:10:48.360 head thinking it was that. 235 00:10:48.480 --> 00:10:48.879 I don't know. 236 00:10:48.919 --> 00:10:50.240 I just thought it was going to be a conversation. 237 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.200 Maybe it wasn't e mail. I mean, I don't It 238 00:10:53.200 --> 00:10:55.639 doesn't really matter. I mean, you're committed to text them? 239 00:10:55.720 --> 00:10:58.600 Do they live nearby? Oh my god, I got it? 240 00:10:58.600 --> 00:11:01.080 And dig up the story. If you're going to do this, 241 00:11:01.200 --> 00:11:04.799 I think you should face or drive to somebody. I'm 242 00:11:04.799 --> 00:11:07.480 not a person lying. That's expensive. 243 00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:08.919 You can't do it by a text? 244 00:11:09.080 --> 00:11:09.360 Why not? 245 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:14.759 That's how kids communicating? No, fatime, No, it needs to 246 00:11:14.799 --> 00:11:17.519 be in person. That's that's life changing news. 247 00:11:18.240 --> 00:11:21.440 See is it or is it not? Life changing? 248 00:11:21.519 --> 00:11:25.120 It's not if I if Linda calls. If you if 249 00:11:25.159 --> 00:11:27.720 you just be called Diane, let's have let's have brunch. 250 00:11:28.120 --> 00:11:29.639 I was listening to the radio their son. I have 251 00:11:29.720 --> 00:11:33.480 to tell you Frank donated sperm. You don't go, oh 252 00:11:33.480 --> 00:11:35.240 my god, my life is changed. 253 00:11:36.080 --> 00:11:36.559 Yeah you do. 254 00:11:36.720 --> 00:11:38.639 If you If you're going, then I'm going to spend 255 00:11:38.639 --> 00:11:41.519 every day thinking like, Wow, how many siblings other siblings do? 256 00:11:41.559 --> 00:11:43.759 I have a lot a lot? 257 00:11:43.879 --> 00:11:46.080 Frank was big, He had a big kerb feeler. He 258 00:11:46.159 --> 00:11:47.000 had a lot of sperm. 259 00:11:47.120 --> 00:11:49.960 Because you may be someone we keep approaching it from 260 00:11:50.000 --> 00:11:54.960 the perspective of someone contacting this unknowing brother or sister, 261 00:11:56.039 --> 00:12:00.360 but it may be the person wants to now figure out, well, 262 00:12:00.440 --> 00:12:04.039 what's this family tree look like? Yeah, yeah, okay, so 263 00:12:04.080 --> 00:12:06.480 it's his life changing whether you like it or not. 264 00:12:06.879 --> 00:12:10.799 No, but but it changes nothing about not Diane's life. 265 00:12:10.879 --> 00:12:13.440 It changes nothing about Diane's lives. If I got that 266 00:12:13.559 --> 00:12:14.279 knowing that there. 267 00:12:14.159 --> 00:12:16.240 Could be somebody out there who has Frank. 268 00:12:16.039 --> 00:12:17.879 Spurner me a weird thing to think of. 269 00:12:19.240 --> 00:12:25.039 But it doesn't change your life. Your thoughts absolutely absolutely. 270 00:12:25.120 --> 00:12:26.320 If I was sitting here and got that email, it 271 00:12:26.360 --> 00:12:28.480 what impacts my thoughts trying to figure out what I'm 272 00:12:28.480 --> 00:12:29.200 going to have for dinner. 273 00:12:29.279 --> 00:12:31.200 You could tell if I got that email during the show, 274 00:12:31.360 --> 00:12:33.759 you would you would wonder what happened to me for 275 00:12:33.799 --> 00:12:34.679 the next three hours. 276 00:12:35.720 --> 00:12:36.159 I can't. 277 00:12:36.320 --> 00:12:38.720 I get an email from sales claiming I mess something 278 00:12:38.759 --> 00:12:40.960 up and a spot and I didn't. It was good 279 00:12:40.960 --> 00:12:44.360 to go from the start, but that incorrect email bothered 280 00:12:44.360 --> 00:12:46.200 me so much. There were a good five to ten 281 00:12:46.240 --> 00:12:47.440 minutes where I was taken out of it. 282 00:12:47.519 --> 00:12:49.120 And what did I tell you? What did I tell you? 283 00:12:49.120 --> 00:12:51.720 You know that person is a chat bot from India, 284 00:12:51.840 --> 00:12:52.759 but it's my boyfriend. 285 00:12:52.799 --> 00:12:55.559 The guy's name is Oshkosh but good, no, it's not. 286 00:12:55.879 --> 00:12:59.000 Yes, it is Oshkush Bragosh, the same thing you would lose. 287 00:13:01.159 --> 00:13:05.159 That's his name, Oshkosh Ragosh and he's in India. 288 00:13:05.639 --> 00:13:06.840 I don't know where he is. 289 00:13:07.000 --> 00:13:10.200 I do ask ask sales. They get stuff from all 290 00:13:10.240 --> 00:13:14.240 the time, Like I'm a chatbot. It's probably Colin's girlfriend. 291 00:13:15.240 --> 00:13:17.639 Colin's dating the chatbot. 292 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:21.480 Yes, Margaret, No, Tyler. 293 00:13:21.200 --> 00:13:23.919 Is Tyler's getting all fired up and it tizzy for 294 00:13:24.360 --> 00:13:26.039 Oshkosh Ragosh. 295 00:13:25.720 --> 00:13:32.159 And Sue nil. So do we outsource stuff everything? Yeah? 296 00:13:32.279 --> 00:13:34.840 I don't know, go ask it. The last way we 297 00:13:35.000 --> 00:13:37.799 fired three hundred people recently. We're getting ready to fire 298 00:13:37.799 --> 00:13:39.759 a bunch more by the way, quarters coming now. 299 00:13:39.840 --> 00:13:43.440 Imagine Oshkosh sends me a note to give me the 300 00:13:43.480 --> 00:13:45.279 heads up that my dad donated sperm. 301 00:13:45.679 --> 00:13:50.120 Your dad donated sperm. Do not what's with the accent? 302 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:54.960 Do not contact, do not, do not reply. They always 303 00:13:54.960 --> 00:13:56.679 they do not reply, Do not reply. 304 00:13:59.440 --> 00:14:06.120 Brother, he's not related to me, half brother, you know, 305 00:14:06.159 --> 00:14:07.600 he's my dad's friend. 306 00:14:07.799 --> 00:14:13.879 Oh god, whatever, I got your dad sperm. That's a 307 00:14:13.960 --> 00:14:17.240 life changing email. I got your dad sperm. 308 00:14:19.799 --> 00:14:20.440 Like curry. 309 00:14:21.399 --> 00:14:28.960 Okay, okay, boy, Bob, all right? 310 00:14:28.960 --> 00:14:30.799 Where am I going? Line three? Oh? 311 00:14:30.840 --> 00:14:34.360 You were going with my stepdad? Yeah, I didn't because 312 00:14:34.360 --> 00:14:37.000 my dad actually passed all of ours. Have I thought 313 00:14:37.039 --> 00:14:38.759 you were using it because that was the setup? 314 00:14:39.440 --> 00:14:41.919 No no, no, no, no no. The story originally has 315 00:14:41.960 --> 00:14:42.480 a dead dad. 316 00:14:42.559 --> 00:14:45.440 Yes, yeah, no no. But why would he say hi 317 00:14:45.519 --> 00:14:46.759 to your stepdad? 318 00:14:48.000 --> 00:14:48.159 Oh? 319 00:14:48.279 --> 00:14:50.279 I guess you would say hi to my stepdad would 320 00:14:50.279 --> 00:14:53.559 be very high. Say hi to my dad. That'd be 321 00:14:53.600 --> 00:14:57.919 like say hi to Thompson. You know Thompson's dead. I 322 00:14:58.000 --> 00:15:00.519 had I can't hi Elliott Arding. 323 00:15:01.639 --> 00:15:03.440 Hey, good morning, it's Martin. How are you Hey? 324 00:15:03.440 --> 00:15:06.399 What's going on, Martin, how are you doing? 325 00:15:06.440 --> 00:15:09.720 Grand it so talking about donors and uh, life changing. 326 00:15:09.759 --> 00:15:11.960 I'll definitely say I am a product of as are 327 00:15:12.120 --> 00:15:14.399 three of my siblings, and we were all told when 328 00:15:14.440 --> 00:15:20.639 we were adults it was it's definitely a speed bump. 329 00:15:20.679 --> 00:15:22.799 That's for damn sure. Excuse me, that was for her sure, 330 00:15:23.679 --> 00:15:26.480 learning that you know your dad's sterile and you get 331 00:15:27.080 --> 00:15:29.639 produced by a donor. We're all from different donors. And 332 00:15:29.879 --> 00:15:32.840 say'm a younger brother. He uh, his donor donated over 333 00:15:32.879 --> 00:15:34.720 one hundred times over across Bucal States. 334 00:15:34.840 --> 00:15:38.039 Wow, man, your your brother's got a ton of siblings. 335 00:15:38.879 --> 00:15:42.960 Oh yeah, yeah, why rest personalities too? We'll go with that. 336 00:15:43.360 --> 00:15:45.080 Hey, so can I can I ask you this? Can 337 00:15:45.080 --> 00:15:48.000 I ask you a couple of questions? When you you 338 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:51.279 found out when you were an adult? Number one, why 339 00:15:51.279 --> 00:15:52.279 did you find out? 340 00:15:52.360 --> 00:15:55.799 Like at what point? Why? Why were they like now 341 00:15:55.840 --> 00:15:56.799 we have to tell you. 342 00:15:58.039 --> 00:16:01.080 So two things. The cat got a bag from a relative. 343 00:16:01.240 --> 00:16:05.000 They spread the family secret to my older siblings. Cousin 344 00:16:05.080 --> 00:16:07.080 let me know. She goes, hey, I know your family secret. 345 00:16:07.120 --> 00:16:08.679 I know nothing know because it's so much of a 346 00:16:08.720 --> 00:16:11.600 family secret is secret of me. So she tells me 347 00:16:12.000 --> 00:16:14.840 my world was rocked. I'm not gonna lie because yeah, 348 00:16:14.879 --> 00:16:17.559 there's a feeling that I was deceived by entire life. 349 00:16:17.639 --> 00:16:17.799 Right. 350 00:16:18.320 --> 00:16:20.519 And then my parents finally opened up when I left 351 00:16:20.559 --> 00:16:24.639 to do military things, and I did seek out to 352 00:16:24.679 --> 00:16:27.320 find who the donor was. Pretty sure I know who 353 00:16:27.320 --> 00:16:32.600 he is, but he won't own up to it. But 354 00:16:32.759 --> 00:16:35.240 now my older sister, she found out who hers was 355 00:16:35.759 --> 00:16:40.200 through connecting to one of the donor's cousins or something. 356 00:16:40.200 --> 00:16:44.039 He said rocked their world because one you will to 357 00:16:44.039 --> 00:16:45.960 throw it to make of it. It got even worse 358 00:16:46.000 --> 00:16:48.679 one he learned that his sample, which was allegedly supposed 359 00:16:48.679 --> 00:16:50.720 to be all used for one person, was used for 360 00:16:51.000 --> 00:16:55.120 two other times after her. Wow, so she's built a 361 00:16:55.159 --> 00:17:00.720 relationship with that donor family, whereas they apparently aren't doing 362 00:17:00.720 --> 00:17:03.840 anything with the uh, the two others. 363 00:17:04.440 --> 00:17:07.440 Now, I know this is an unfair question because you 364 00:17:07.480 --> 00:17:10.119 can't You can't put the toothpaste back in the tube. 365 00:17:10.799 --> 00:17:11.599 Do you wish? 366 00:17:11.839 --> 00:17:12.279 No? 367 00:17:12.079 --> 00:17:14.480 No, I'm being serious. Do you do you wish? Knowing 368 00:17:14.599 --> 00:17:16.880 knowing like you said, how it wrought your world? You're 369 00:17:17.519 --> 00:17:19.559 now you know that every one of your siblings is 370 00:17:19.559 --> 00:17:25.079 from a different parent. Number one, do you wish you 371 00:17:25.119 --> 00:17:25.720 never learned. 372 00:17:28.880 --> 00:17:29.279 I can't. 373 00:17:29.920 --> 00:17:31.799 That's a tough one. I don't, I don't know. I 374 00:17:31.799 --> 00:17:34.880 mean it explained a lot, given my older brother doesn't 375 00:17:34.920 --> 00:17:37.960 look like us, and you know he definitely looks like 376 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:42.279 Milkman's child. But I mean it brought ol closure to 377 00:17:42.559 --> 00:17:46.160 those questions. It'sn't really changed much longer regards to relationship 378 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:48.480 with parents, because I mean, one, if they didn't, I 379 00:17:48.480 --> 00:17:49.519 wouldn't be here right. 380 00:17:49.559 --> 00:17:51.200 No. But the other thing I was going to say 381 00:17:51.279 --> 00:17:53.839 is you know it, Yes, it could rock your world, 382 00:17:53.880 --> 00:17:55.519 but if you look at your mom and your dad, 383 00:17:55.599 --> 00:17:57.559 like your your real mom and dad, the people that 384 00:17:57.680 --> 00:18:01.599 raised you is your dad, your dad was sterile and 385 00:18:01.759 --> 00:18:03.079 you couldn't have it, couldn't have a kid. 386 00:18:03.160 --> 00:18:04.519 So so they got a donor. 387 00:18:05.000 --> 00:18:08.240 But doesn't And maybe I'm wrong, I feel like you 388 00:18:08.240 --> 00:18:12.799 would appreciate how badly they wanted a child that your 389 00:18:12.839 --> 00:18:15.480 mom went out and used a bunch of a bunch 390 00:18:15.519 --> 00:18:15.880 of gunk. 391 00:18:17.279 --> 00:18:20.359 Oh No, you're not wrong that it definitely brought a 392 00:18:20.400 --> 00:18:24.319 more of a uh more pride to it, because I mean, 393 00:18:24.400 --> 00:18:27.400 it's a life very terms. I was intentional at that rate. 394 00:18:27.799 --> 00:18:31.799 It wasn't an accent, absolutely absolutely, And there's work and 395 00:18:31.880 --> 00:18:33.880 effort that went into it. 396 00:18:33.920 --> 00:18:37.200 Oh, work, effort, financial is behind it. I mean, how 397 00:18:37.240 --> 00:18:40.119 many kids make kids? And that's definitely wasn't intentional. 398 00:18:40.400 --> 00:18:42.759 Interesting So now let me now, now, let me flip it, 399 00:18:42.839 --> 00:18:44.960 and you have not donated sperm in your life? 400 00:18:46.119 --> 00:18:46.200 Me? 401 00:18:46.440 --> 00:18:49.920