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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to you are the apple of God's eye. Welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you had a wonderful week. You're going to

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<v Speaker 1>have a transformational weekend and this coming week God is

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<v Speaker 1>really going to unpack some deep things for you. In

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus' name, giving God all the honor, the glory and

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<v Speaker 1>the praise for you. And what He's about to do

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<v Speaker 1>today in Jesus mean, today's session is the breakup and

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<v Speaker 1>the makeup because we sill a God about balance and

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<v Speaker 1>God has some deep inside. If you know someone is

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with a divorce, a breakup, they're hurting, they're suffering,

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<v Speaker 1>this show is about you. You are the uple of God.

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<v Speaker 1>He loves you, sir, hallelujah, welcome. I want to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>my family in the Gospel, my biological family. I turn

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<v Speaker 1>God for my wonderful cousin Marlene, my brother, and for

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<v Speaker 1>every single person that has ever said a word of

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<v Speaker 1>encouragement along this journey of life. I want to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>my brother in the Lord, Kenvin Peters, and all my

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<v Speaker 1>mentors and my mentees, and for every strangle in every

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<v Speaker 1>single individual that the Lord have used you to cultivate

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<v Speaker 1>in molding and developing me to be a counselor of compassion.

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<v Speaker 1>I greet you all in the wonderful name of Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>These are my two books that the Lord have allowed

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<v Speaker 1>me to write. I will give you some information in

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<v Speaker 1>the future as to where you can purchase them. But

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<v Speaker 1>today's lesson we're gonna be touching on the breakup and

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<v Speaker 1>the wake up, and I'm pulling from some notes from

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<v Speaker 1>the g Spot. Hallelujah, let's get ready. Father, we thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for every soul that would lug onto the Father

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<v Speaker 1>that you're ministering to every heart. Oh God, you're touching

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<v Speaker 1>every life. Father, we thank you for moving by your

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<v Speaker 1>spirit God like only you can. Father. I pray those

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<v Speaker 1>that are hurting, that you're touching, your reaching, you're pulling,

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<v Speaker 1>your ministering, you're pouring in your love of God like

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<v Speaker 1>only you can. Father. I thank you God that you're

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<v Speaker 1>moving by your spirit. Hallelujah. Thank you Jesus God. We

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for having your way this morning. God, we

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for mending hearts that are broken, as that

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<v Speaker 1>are confused and they don't know. They feel they can't

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<v Speaker 1>come out of this place of the spirit. They feel

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<v Speaker 1>they can't live without the person. But Father, we thank

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<v Speaker 1>you that you are God all by yourself, and you

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<v Speaker 1>are the God in the hearts of men, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>ministering to every soul in Jesus' name. Amen, Amen, Amen.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to acknowledge Minister Sylvia. I want to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>Minister Lindley and every single person every Sunday that luck

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<v Speaker 1>on during the course of the week that show their

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<v Speaker 1>support that make mention. I want to acknowledge Anti Glenda

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle and her husband Steve that are also supporters. Pastor Anne,

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<v Speaker 1>I acknowledge you every week you're logging and you're are

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<v Speaker 1>praying and supporting. Malene. I love you, my ride and

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<v Speaker 1>die my dear cousin Maline, thank you you, and for

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<v Speaker 1>everyone my brother Junior Brown, his wife Gwenette, and his

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<v Speaker 1>lovely arrows, for everyone that has ever spoken a word

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<v Speaker 1>of support and encouragement. I thank you, Amen, Praise be

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<v Speaker 1>to God. Let us get into the session the breakup

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<v Speaker 1>and the wake up. That is some heavy stuff. Whoa Ecclesiasities,

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter seven and eight. Ecclesiasities, Chapter seven and eight. A

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<v Speaker 1>breakup takes more than just your heart. People of God,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to hear this. People treat breakups as a

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<v Speaker 1>light thing, but it is not. It takes more than

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<v Speaker 1>just your heart. Wonderful people. Ecclesiasity is chapter seven versus eight.

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<v Speaker 1>You know me, I'll always be coming from the King

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<v Speaker 1>James version of the Bible. Like always. It says, better

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<v Speaker 1>is the end of a thing than the beginning. They're

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<v Speaker 1>off and the patient in spirit is better than the

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<v Speaker 1>proud in spirit. In other words, let me finish the

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<v Speaker 1>scripture is better than the proud in spirit. What that

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<v Speaker 1>means if you're patient in spirit, it means that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not bitter from the breakup. Yes, I know that it's

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<v Speaker 1>easier said than done. Of course, I have been in

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<v Speaker 1>a broke up situation. I know how that feels on

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<v Speaker 1>both ends, being the one to break a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>having someone break the relationship as well, or leave or abandon.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the pain of all of it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why the Lord chooses these topics he does. Someone

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<v Speaker 1>asks me if I had these all alive. No. Every

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<v Speaker 1>week the Lord tells me what to say, what to

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<v Speaker 1>minister on, because he's only concerned about your heart, your soul,

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<v Speaker 1>your emotions, your healing, and your well being. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>God that we save. He loves you. Okay. So when

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<v Speaker 1>it says it better to be patient and spirit, it

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<v Speaker 1>means don't be bitter. And then it says, then it's

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<v Speaker 1>better to be patient than to be proud in spirit,

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<v Speaker 1>which means pride is a placeivle to the wounds in

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<v Speaker 1>the soul. Did you hear that pride can be a

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<v Speaker 1>placebo to the wounds in your soul? A placebo is

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<v Speaker 1>a medical terminology of medication that is given. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a real medication, but the patient has no way of

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that. That is something they do. Sorry, feeling a

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<v Speaker 1>little hot. That is something they do quite often when

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing trials on patients. To see how they react,

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<v Speaker 1>to find out if it's really an illness, if it's psychological,

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<v Speaker 1>or if it's all in their mind or they just

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<v Speaker 1>do it for whatever reason. And when patients administered at

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<v Speaker 1>Place Ebo, they're never told that. Again, that is part

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<v Speaker 1>of their research techniques. Okay, so sometimes we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go into some deep things here today. Again, Blessings, I

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<v Speaker 1>know who you are. Blessing said, good morning all online

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<v Speaker 1>brothers and sisters. We thank you, miss Blessings for your greetings. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so some of the things about breakup you might want

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<v Speaker 1>to take notes today. Sometimes a relationship can be a

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<v Speaker 1>decorated band aid or past time to avoid the wounds

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<v Speaker 1>beneath or unresolved issues that keep the perpetual cycle of

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<v Speaker 1>pain or dysfunction in various distortions of love and happiness.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people use relationships the adrenaline, the moments, the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>as a decoy to not deal with what's really on

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<v Speaker 1>the inside. And that's why the breakup is so destructive

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<v Speaker 1>or impactive. It's not just the person you love, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to go into that. It's not just the

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<v Speaker 1>person you love that has broken up with you or

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<v Speaker 1>you thought would be there for you forever. It is

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<v Speaker 1>not any of that, It is something deeper. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is why God's method is He wanted us to remain

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<v Speaker 1>single until marriage and we become whole in our whole soul.

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<v Speaker 1>As individuals, we become whole and at the right time.

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<v Speaker 1>Easy Gilt Chapter sixteen talks about when it was a

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<v Speaker 1>time of love, he spread his skoits of love over

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<v Speaker 1>us and in his timing he will present or give

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<v Speaker 1>to us the spouse that He has for us. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of trauma that comes from being in

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<v Speaker 1>previous or premarital relationships, not to mention the impact of

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<v Speaker 1>soul ties and competitiveness that comes with that. So today

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<v Speaker 1>as little time as we have, and the Lord will

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<v Speaker 1>stretch it out because I want to hear from you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the next thing we want to talk about is

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<v Speaker 1>God allows the alone time, the single of seasoness, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the ego by nature. When they reach a certain age

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<v Speaker 1>posting but not pre adult in my wedding, their parents

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<v Speaker 1>kick them out and they almost never see their parents again,

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<v Speaker 1>and their parents kick them out into life. But understand,

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<v Speaker 1>their parents have taught them how to stand on their

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<v Speaker 1>tailons for them to observe. The strongest aspect of an

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<v Speaker 1>eagle is their eyes, the ability to see. A lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people may not notice. In the eyes of the eagle,

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<v Speaker 1>they are four views called the plea clates. Those of

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<v Speaker 1>you and my students have known. You've gotten that test question, plecklates.

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<v Speaker 1>It's four dimensions inside of each eye and the period

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<v Speaker 1>where they are eaglets. When they are babies. Baby eagles

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<v Speaker 1>are called the eglets and they rest in the nests

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<v Speaker 1>their parents is teaching them, teaching them the most fundamental

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<v Speaker 1>lesson of survival in life, and that is the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to observe, to pay attention, to look, to enhance, because

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<v Speaker 1>their eye is what will cause them to eat, to sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>to exist and experienced longevity. What I love about the

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<v Speaker 1>eagles too, is that the eagles marry once and remain loyal,

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<v Speaker 1>unlike the cobo or the crow, which is a cousin

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<v Speaker 1>to the eagle, and people don't know that they never marry,

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<v Speaker 1>and they have multiple birds with multiple females. Interesting and

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<v Speaker 1>this revelation about the eagle was taken from The Eagle

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<v Speaker 1>Christian by doctor Ken Price. I recommend everyone to get

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<v Speaker 1>that book. It's absolutely phenomenal. He's also my publisher for

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<v Speaker 1>my two books. But I give God praise and tanks

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<v Speaker 1>for that. So the process of the Eagle, when the

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<v Speaker 1>parents send them into the will for survival, it teaches

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<v Speaker 1>them that alone season, That single season prepares them to hunt,

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<v Speaker 1>to survive, to sleep, to save, and all of the

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<v Speaker 1>singleness should also be cultivating that as well within us.

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<v Speaker 1>So God allows that season of singleness or aloneeness, if

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<v Speaker 1>you will, to hear his voice, to learn strategies on

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<v Speaker 1>saving and building, investing, to develop your creativity, and various

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<v Speaker 1>things the Lord will do. God allows that single season,

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<v Speaker 1>like the ego, to equip yourself, fulfill you, empower you,

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<v Speaker 1>and to sharpen your desirement. God also allows that season

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<v Speaker 1>to cause you to become confident in your identity. Some

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<v Speaker 1>things you only learn as you walk along with God,

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<v Speaker 1>and the our own season does not have to be forever.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you are walking confidentally in God, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have the knee, you don't have a void where you

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<v Speaker 1>will just settle for anything and everything. The reason why

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<v Speaker 1>God chooses that season of singleness or loneliness is to

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<v Speaker 1>teach you I hear you Father, is to teach you

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<v Speaker 1>your God identity. In him. For some people God there's

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<v Speaker 1>a scripture where God told Jeremiah to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>potter to the field, and he broke the potter and

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<v Speaker 1>he made it brand new. When God is ever evolving you,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you even grow out of the relationship that you're in.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes the reason why the relationship has ended in a

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<v Speaker 1>person left you is because you may not even be

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<v Speaker 1>aware of it at the moment. But God decided to

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<v Speaker 1>make you bigger and better. And the person is just

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<v Speaker 1>a chicken, and God is calling you to become an ego.

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<v Speaker 1>The chicken will only stay on the ground. But where

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<v Speaker 1>God has called you is to so feel the presence

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<v Speaker 1>of God is to sow into dimensions. So as long

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<v Speaker 1>as you are aligned with the chicken, you would never

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<v Speaker 1>even know that you were created by God to be

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<v Speaker 1>an ego that would sow. And as long as you

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<v Speaker 1>remain attached or connected to a chicken, you would never

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<v Speaker 1>come into the fullness of what God ordained for you

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<v Speaker 1>to be. Yes, if you stay I'm talking to those

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<v Speaker 1>that are broken. If you stay broken, you will become

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<v Speaker 1>play due for the enemy with your destiny. Because the

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<v Speaker 1>enemy has a fieldy in pain and brokenness. He has no, sut.

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<v Speaker 1>He does not show compassion. All he does is he

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<v Speaker 1>how to capitalize on people, manipulate, create distorted versions, give

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<v Speaker 1>whispers lying whispers of God that is not true or positive.

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<v Speaker 1>He whispers lies. There was a time that I went

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<v Speaker 1>In for a minute, I believe that, and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>cities women, they're all the same, and that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>Or if a girl had a misplaced meant her father

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<v Speaker 1>or neglectful, or took advantage or manipulated her financially, emotionally, spirituous,

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<v Speaker 1>psychological God as a lie of a him, you name

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<v Speaker 1>it people of God. Then you begin to see the

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<v Speaker 1>male role as something not trustworthy, is something you could

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<v Speaker 1>trust in, And then the enemy will then say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>God is a man too, God is a spirit. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me correct that. John four twenty four says God is

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<v Speaker 1>in spirit and in truth. That's the word. Okay after

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<v Speaker 1>people who use relationships, after people have endorsed a delusion

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<v Speaker 1>of happiness and a mirage of acceptance, belonging in exchange

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<v Speaker 1>for this missing the slow time bombs. What am I saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Some people are so broken and so hurt and so

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship is destructive and abusive, But in their mind's eye,

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<v Speaker 1>they pay their doorst and say, oh, no, that's just

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<v Speaker 1>me overreacting. No, he really didn't punch me in my eye,

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<v Speaker 1>or she really didn't break my foot I felt down

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<v Speaker 1>the step. No, the person knew away hurt you. But

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<v Speaker 1>some people are so lonely and experiencing such void of

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<v Speaker 1>loved that they willingly, they willingly endorsed that and create

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<v Speaker 1>a mirage and tell themselves, Oh, I'm happy, this is love.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know within yourself that this relationship is volcanic. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a time bomb that is going to explode, and

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<v Speaker 1>the thing with pain when it's not resolved, and it

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<v Speaker 1>will blow up the Bible said, there's nothing under the

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<v Speaker 1>sun that everything in secret will come to lie. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the word of God, including the lies we tell ourselves,

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<v Speaker 1>including the subtle and obvious abuses we endorse and tell ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not true. It's true. And what happens is when

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<v Speaker 1>that bumb does explode or that volcano erupts, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship, it will eventually consume you and everyone that's

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<v Speaker 1>attached to you in the way. Today's session is the

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<v Speaker 1>breakup and the wake up. We're addressing the breakup a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. We're talking about relationship dynamics, and then we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to go into the breakup, the wake up, and

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<v Speaker 1>the conclusion. And I'm giving allocated time for your questions,

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<v Speaker 1>for your comments. Reflections can be a mirror. Relationships can

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<v Speaker 1>be a reflection. It can be a mirror of truth

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<v Speaker 1>or delusion. Relationship makes a person extremely vulnerable the blood

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<v Speaker 1>of Jesus. That is why you cannot open your heart

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<v Speaker 1>to someone or commit to someone that was not sent

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<v Speaker 1>by God or or deemed by God to be your spouse.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that I am a Christian, I am God's minister,

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<v Speaker 1>and I believe in the Holy Bible and God's definition

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<v Speaker 1>of a marriage is a born man marrying a born

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<v Speaker 1>woman that were born that way, remained that way married,

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<v Speaker 1>and kept it that way. Good. Now that we are clear.

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<v Speaker 1>So even though we're talking about breakup and relationship, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>God is talking about anyone's heart that is hurting from breakups.

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<v Speaker 1>But as we go into marriage, I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>understand biblically what specifically God is speaking about when he

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<v Speaker 1>looks at relationships and marriage. Let's deal with the breakup, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Pastor Hazel Richards. I'm sorry. Doctor Hazel Richards once said

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<v Speaker 1>when a marriage has end in divorce, it simply means

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<v Speaker 1>that the marriage has failed, not you the individual, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is important. Yes, the Bible does not encourage divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>that is correct, But Jesus also did not die in

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<v Speaker 1>a cross for you to for you to endorse any

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<v Speaker 1>form of abuse, not sexual abuse in marriage. Yes, people

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<v Speaker 1>are raped in marriage. Trust me as God's counselor been

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<v Speaker 1>a room for a very long time, and I'm shocked out.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing I have made physically abused, being physically beaten.

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<v Speaker 1>I know supposes who would hold even down to what

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<v Speaker 1>people eat in their marriage. And I'm not talking about

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<v Speaker 1>for example, if somebody is diabetic and hiding snacks, or

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<v Speaker 1>the hypertensive where their pressures their blood pressures is high

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<v Speaker 1>from consuming salt, and your spouse in a place of

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<v Speaker 1>compassion and love, wanting to preserve your life and help

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<v Speaker 1>you removing things. I'm talking about people who in marriages

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<v Speaker 1>where there's an argument and to punish you, they throw

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<v Speaker 1>away your food or your clothes, or create confusion and

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<v Speaker 1>chaos with those that you love, and plant seeds in

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<v Speaker 1>the mind of people lies that you did not say,

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<v Speaker 1>to disconnect all your lifelines hear me, so that you

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<v Speaker 1>can become their prisoner where you're totally dependent on me, propheties.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you talking serious? Yes, I am. People do those

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<v Speaker 1>things in relationship. I know of a situation where this

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<v Speaker 1>couple was married for over twenty years, and yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>have a permission to discuss it. And there was a

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<v Speaker 1>period of time in that marriage, my God, where the

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<v Speaker 1>person just did not work and they made their wife

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<v Speaker 1>work multiple jobs to feed all the children that they created.

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<v Speaker 1>And eventually when it ended in divorce and the husband

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<v Speaker 1>asked what was it was a breaking point and the

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<v Speaker 1>wife said this when you sat home every day for

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<v Speaker 1>multiple years and watched me go from job to job

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<v Speaker 1>to job exhausted, and you sat down. So if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>is being a financial burden to you or somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>is making you a financial mule in the marriage, that

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<v Speaker 1>is a form of abuse. So recovered physical, mental, psychological, financial.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just need to say that. Okay, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>into the point because time is running away from us.

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<v Speaker 1>Take time. If you are going through a breakup, take

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<v Speaker 1>time to heal. Excuse me and the tax the talks

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<v Speaker 1>from a breakup, Yes, the talks. The first thing you

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<v Speaker 1>do with the detas is you examine the relationship. You

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<v Speaker 1>make a list of negative things that you're ex said

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<v Speaker 1>or did to you while you were in the relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>You see, when we're in the relationship and we're soul

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<v Speaker 1>tied or we're call dependent, that the person is, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being financially there for you whatever, and now that you

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<v Speaker 1>are not under that umbrella, because the only umbrella that

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<v Speaker 1>is safe is the love of God and the provision

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<v Speaker 1>of God. I'm serious, it's I have to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. The Bible specifically says put not your trust

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<v Speaker 1>in man. I am not married, but I tank God

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<v Speaker 1>for the things that he has brought me through. If

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<v Speaker 1>God choose to bless me with her husband tomorrow and

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<v Speaker 1>my husband should leave, whether God call him home or

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<v Speaker 1>he leave where God has made me fortified him, I

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<v Speaker 1>will be okay, yep, because I have learnt from much

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<v Speaker 1>trial and tribulation, from much betrayal and deception, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>even people I love, when I saw what they went

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<v Speaker 1>through in relationships. It makes your skin thick and it

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<v Speaker 1>helps you to assess and evaluate things very deep. So

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<v Speaker 1>you want to make a list of the negative things

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<v Speaker 1>that you experienced and the things that was said to

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<v Speaker 1>you in the relationship. That's the first step to healing

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<v Speaker 1>and detoxing. You also have to ask yourself. You want

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<v Speaker 1>to bring that list before the Lord in prayer of

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<v Speaker 1>all the things they said, and you asked the Lord

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<v Speaker 1>was this true? And then the second question is you

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask the Lord why did they do and

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<v Speaker 1>say this. I've dealt with a lot of couples and

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that the men have always said,

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<v Speaker 1>the woman would be crying. And when I asked the

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<v Speaker 1>men the husband's why did they do it? You know

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<v Speaker 1>what they said early in the relationship. Pay attention to

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<v Speaker 1>single people and married people. You can still correct it.

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<v Speaker 1>They said early in the relationship, they intentionally did things

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<v Speaker 1>and they were allowed to get away with it, so

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<v Speaker 1>they kept put pushing the button. I know there's a cliche,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever we tolerate, I don't know who said it. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't take the rights for that. Whatever we tolerate grows

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<v Speaker 1>around us. So where whatever have bloomed to a level

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<v Speaker 1>of abuse has been tolerated by you, And we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tap into some things as to why you tolerated it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then ask yourself the second question, ask yourself why did

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<v Speaker 1>you stay in the relationship period? Next question, why did

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<v Speaker 1>you stay in the relationship solo? Did you stay? You

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<v Speaker 1>have to you have to write that why did I stay?

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<v Speaker 1>And the next question is why did I stay so long?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you open for them to change? Were you hoping

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<v Speaker 1>to do so much that they would that they would

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<v Speaker 1>stop doing what they're doing or stop saying what they

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<v Speaker 1>were saying? Did you feel you couldn't do any better?

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<v Speaker 1>We're coming into some things. Next question, why was the

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<v Speaker 1>environment of abuse? Where the financial, sexual, spiritual, economic, financial, emotional,

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<v Speaker 1>mental mental. I know some people that have mental illnesses

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<v Speaker 1>that are on medication and for their suppose to control them.

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<v Speaker 1>They will discard their medication to keep them a leech

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<v Speaker 1>where they can control. Yes, people, these things make me annoyed.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't cat you tell I'm very upset. I'm heard that

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<v Speaker 1>people have to go through these things. I'm very hood

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<v Speaker 1>So you ask yourself why did you stay so long?

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<v Speaker 1>The next question you ask yourself why was the environment

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<v Speaker 1>of abuse comfortable for you? Why is the environment of

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<v Speaker 1>abuse comfortable for you? Could it be because your foundation

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<v Speaker 1>and your childhood and your family also had a similar

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<v Speaker 1>environment of abuse. You might say, well, what so, prophetess,

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<v Speaker 1>My spouse beats me, but my parents didn't beat me. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but they probably beat you at their town. They crushed

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<v Speaker 1>your self esteem. That made yourself esteem solo, That made

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<v Speaker 1>you create a scent in the realms of the spirit

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<v Speaker 1>for a narcissist or a predator to sniff you out

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<v Speaker 1>and take you to a next dimension of abuse and destruction.

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<v Speaker 1>Next question, why didn't I leave sooner? You have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask yourself that sooner is the verb there? What allowed

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<v Speaker 1>you to continue remain prolonged instead of immediately exiting. Someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's self esteem, self worth, or people who have a

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<v Speaker 1>support system where they have parents to back too, not

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<v Speaker 1>just parents that are live. I'm talking to my parents

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<v Speaker 1>that are supportive to run back too, would leave sooner.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes shame would make somebody feel while I don't make

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<v Speaker 1>my bed. One of the things in Trinidad that people

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<v Speaker 1>love to say, as you make your bed and it

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<v Speaker 1>you lie in it, I tell God that I serve

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<v Speaker 1>at Jesus that can take the sheets, tear them up,

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<v Speaker 1>break the bed, and give me a brand new bed.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not have to say in any circumstance that

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<v Speaker 1>does not bring glory to God or bring you joy,

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<v Speaker 1>peace or hope. So for those of you that's been

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<v Speaker 1>set in that bandage, I even see someone crying in

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<v Speaker 1>the rems of the spirit. Now, for those of you

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<v Speaker 1>that's been told that lie, endorse that lie and its

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<v Speaker 1>riding that lie. Get off that horse today in Jesus'

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<v Speaker 1>name and be made whole from the crown of your

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<v Speaker 1>head to the soul of your feet in Jesus' name.

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<v Speaker 1>And next thing. People suffer in relationships, especially women, when

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<v Speaker 1>they have multiple children with somebody, or they're in a

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<v Speaker 1>new relationship and had multiple children with their previous X,

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<v Speaker 1>the man will say to them, oh, you can't go nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody will want you with all those children. You are lying.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the biggest lie. That's saying calories don't exist.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how fabricated that lie is. There are some men

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<v Speaker 1>who want women with children because to that when I've

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<v Speaker 1>spoken with some mature men, Because to that man, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman that have raised multiple children with multiple personalities by

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<v Speaker 1>herself exhibited a level of degree of insight, knowledge, entrepreneurial skills,

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<v Speaker 1>great management, maturity, compassion, fortitude. I'm telling you, I know

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<v Speaker 1>pastors that will leave this single woman in the church

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<v Speaker 1>or the virgin woman that's never been married, and go

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<v Speaker 1>marry somebody that have multiple children for multiple difference, because

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<v Speaker 1>they tell themselves, if that woman is able to raise

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<v Speaker 1>all these personalities, I can entrust this woman as a

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<v Speaker 1>pastor's wife to deal with the different personalities of my flock.

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<v Speaker 1>Go Jesus, I love it when the Lord pours down

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<v Speaker 1>deep and sweet revelation. There's some men that have injuries

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<v Speaker 1>as boys and cannot have children and love children and

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<v Speaker 1>want children, so they are strategically praying for the wife

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<v Speaker 1>that God gives them have children and grandchildren. Don't believe

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<v Speaker 1>the lie of a narcissist. Next question, why didn't I

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<v Speaker 1>feel I could do better or that I had to

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<v Speaker 1>accept this. One of the lies that were told growing

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<v Speaker 1>up that people who are married say to people who

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<v Speaker 1>look like they're prone to singleness, is that marriage is

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<v Speaker 1>for not everybody. Let me say this. You are not

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<v Speaker 1>God to say who is worthy of marriage. You are

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<v Speaker 1>not just as a human being. You're looking today, listening

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<v Speaker 1>and logging on today in the chat or whatever. If

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<v Speaker 1>I were to ask you, was there ever a time

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<v Speaker 1>in your life? Are you if you're twenty to forty

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<v Speaker 1>fifty one hundred years old, was there ever morning you

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<v Speaker 1>got up from sleep and said, you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>have the urge to buy a gun and kill everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, you will say, No, Prophetess, a person

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<v Speaker 1>that never crossed my mind. Exactly in all your years,

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<v Speaker 1>with good and bad days, rainy days, sunny days, disappointing days,

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<v Speaker 1>betrayal days, deception days, you have never ever entertained that

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<v Speaker 1>thought are eunuch. The Biblical definition of a eunuch is

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<v Speaker 1>someone that was that is not married and has no

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<v Speaker 1>desire for marriage. They don't even have a day. So

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<v Speaker 1>you see how you never talkt about killing someone. They

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<v Speaker 1>never thought about having sex. They never had a fan

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<v Speaker 1>to sit and grow up and get married and have

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<v Speaker 1>children and have grandchildren. They never looked at a wedding

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<v Speaker 1>dress or wedding ring and said, oh, when I get older,

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<v Speaker 1>or as they progressed it. Never now. The Bible also

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<v Speaker 1>talk about some men make men unich. That's a next session.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a topic one day all by itself. M all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So no one can tell you. And if people have

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<v Speaker 1>spoken these things over your life, I declare that you

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<v Speaker 1>take authority over it right now in the name of Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>and denounce those things. Those are giants. Those are giants

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<v Speaker 1>that you face. You have to face the giants of

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<v Speaker 1>your past. You have to face these giants, my God,

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<v Speaker 1>very crazy giants are designed. God allows a giant to

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<v Speaker 1>get big enough for you to become strong enough in

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<v Speaker 1>his power, not you on strength in his power to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to slay that giant. I'm going to read

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<v Speaker 1>a little insert from chapter five, the last page of

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<v Speaker 1>chapter five in this book for you spot a woman's

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<v Speaker 1>emotional spot. This book is designed for men, but we're

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with breakup. We're concluding in breakups, so we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to address all of it. How do you slay the giants.

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<v Speaker 1>These giants stem from I'm not reading it. These giants

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<v Speaker 1>stem from trauma from a wounded spirit in your childhood,

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<v Speaker 1>or a neglective, neglective environment or negative words that were

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<v Speaker 1>declared over your life by parents, families, exes. That transforms

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<v Speaker 1>your life into a spiral situation that releases themnic bugs

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<v Speaker 1>or other relationships to come and make you a perpetual target. Now, Sam,

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<v Speaker 1>what does the antilook for that? Psalms twenty three says

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<v Speaker 1>he anoint us our head with oil, and that that

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<v Speaker 1>revelation came from Philip Keller, that anoints my head with oil.

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<v Speaker 1>But that book is by Philip Keller, and he talked

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<v Speaker 1>about that the good shepherd, right before the season of

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<v Speaker 1>spring flies will come into the nostril of the sheep.

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<v Speaker 1>And what the shepherd will do way before the spring,

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere between winter ending and spring dreaming to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>He would annoying the eye, the air, and the nostril

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<v Speaker 1>of the sheep with oil, which I imagine would feel

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<v Speaker 1>irritating to the sheep. But what happens is when those

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<v Speaker 1>pre springflies come and enters the eye or the nostril

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<v Speaker 1>because of the oil, it will run out. So you

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<v Speaker 1>have to understand the destruction of these bugs getting into

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<v Speaker 1>the eye, the nostril of these sheep or lamb. When

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<v Speaker 1>it gets in and there's no oil, they will bound

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<v Speaker 1>their head against a tree and they will bleed to that. So,

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<v Speaker 1>for everything that has been said, declared and projected over

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<v Speaker 1>your life, that has been spoken, that the enemy wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to make that a demonic bug in relationships to take

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<v Speaker 1>you through a dungworld. Spinal, I am here to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you today that you serve the God that has pre

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<v Speaker 1>anointed you before the foundations of the earth was and

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<v Speaker 1>we asked anointing to cast out demons. We ask all

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<v Speaker 1>anointing to sing, we ask all anointing to preach. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you you can ask the Lord for an

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<v Speaker 1>anointing for the right relationship for the dessernment of anti narcissists.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether you are male or female. How do you slay

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<v Speaker 1>these giants? You have to go in the timing of

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord to slay them. You must go in the

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<v Speaker 1>strength of the Lord. When you face them, you must

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<v Speaker 1>not have fear in you, because they'll smell the flair

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<v Speaker 1>in you the fear, and you be defeated. When you

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<v Speaker 1>apply the word of God to every situation in your

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<v Speaker 1>life without doubting. This is some deep stuff. When you

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<v Speaker 1>fight in your own annoying or mantle. There's a scripture

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<v Speaker 1>that says that the Lord give us, gives according to

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<v Speaker 1>our call, according to our fate. You don't try to

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<v Speaker 1>prophesy like somebody on TV. Because I heard somebody pastors,

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<v Speaker 1>a preacher say, you don't know what that person has overcome.

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<v Speaker 1>So they've conquered and overcome those demons to carry the

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<v Speaker 1>anointing they have. And I guess I would equate that

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<v Speaker 1>to that scripture that says, according to you, each man

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<v Speaker 1>their own measure of fate. When you are not intimidated

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<v Speaker 1>by this giant size or height, that because when you

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<v Speaker 1>realize some people for generation, curses or issues you have

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<v Speaker 1>observed in your family, you see a pattern where the

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<v Speaker 1>woman may not get married, or their first child always die,

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<v Speaker 1>or the girls of his get rape, or the men

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<v Speaker 1>are in prison. When you realize that is a giant,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't care about its size or height. All you

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<v Speaker 1>know is you have witnessed the past sufferings of the

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<v Speaker 1>impact of that giant, and it is not going to

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<v Speaker 1>attach itself to your daughters. It is not going to

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<v Speaker 1>attach itself to your children or the next generation. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>When you are infused with faith, only then can you

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<v Speaker 1>face and kill the giant. Again, I keep reiterating, you

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<v Speaker 1>can never go in your own strength when you have

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<v Speaker 1>acknowledged and maintained your deliverance by beheading the giants in

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<v Speaker 1>your heart. We're still talking about breakup and weak up here.

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<v Speaker 1>Slaying the giants in your heart. The giants in your

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<v Speaker 1>heart is the secret things you don't talk about. And

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<v Speaker 1>you another lady and me tells you you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to tell God. He already knows. He said this. Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>specifically said, come and reason with me. Tell him again.

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<v Speaker 1>The best advice I ever got as a teenager when

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<v Speaker 1>I was going through depression and suicide and sexual abuse

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<v Speaker 1>and mental abuse and physical abuse. Here the greatest thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest advice I was ever given to me, is

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<v Speaker 1>that I should wake up in the middle of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>My best friend and Peter's told me that. He said

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<v Speaker 1>Nikola had wake up in the middle of the night

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<v Speaker 1>when everybody's asleep, and pour your heart out to God.

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<v Speaker 1>And every time it hurts you, tell him, tell him,

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<v Speaker 1>tell him, until you are free of it all. And

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<v Speaker 1>I implore you to do the exact same thing today,

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<v Speaker 1>almost finish. When you have acknowledged and maintain your deliverance,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to understand the lesson, and that is that

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<v Speaker 1>you just can't get delivered, but you have to live

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<v Speaker 1>a life that continues for deliverance to be perpetual. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't have open doors. You can't have you can't be

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<v Speaker 1>consultant with psychics and palm reading and reading astrology. The

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<v Speaker 1>Bible talks about godly counsel. Your only counsel ought to

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<v Speaker 1>come from God, the Word of God, the presence of God,

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<v Speaker 1>the peace of God, your prayer life. I know some

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<v Speaker 1>Christians do yoga and they think it's exercise. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a religion. It is Hinduism and all forms of it.

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<v Speaker 1>The blood of Jesus is enough. The blood of Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>is enough. People, you don't need all these added things.

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<v Speaker 1>These added things come with subtle spirits that bring sufferings

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<v Speaker 1>and invite giants into the generations. Let me wrap this

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<v Speaker 1>up by taking control of every stronghold, which in your

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts and mind, the scripture says, casting down every toad

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<v Speaker 1>that exalts itself against the knowledge of God. When the

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<v Speaker 1>enemy bring up a memory of your ex or the

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<v Speaker 1>trauma I'm not talking about. You have to have first

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<v Speaker 1>cried it out before the Lord. But while God is

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<v Speaker 1>healing you, when the enemy tries to bring up anything

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<v Speaker 1>that rub you of your peace or your joy, and God,

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<v Speaker 1>you say, Father, casting than every tort that exalts itself

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<v Speaker 1>against the knowledge of God every day that ought to

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<v Speaker 1>be something we declared daily because they are always thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>that are not of God, that are constantly designed to

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<v Speaker 1>bombard our mind and steal our peace every day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we take authority over that when you daily examine

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<v Speaker 1>yourself before the God's world, that's having a relationship with Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>And by remembering when David threw the rock at Goliath first,

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<v Speaker 1>then took his sword and beheaded him, we understand the

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<v Speaker 1>way that we kill giants is by throwing the rock,

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<v Speaker 1>which is Christ on the situation. The stone, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the word of God is an act of fate, believing

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<v Speaker 1>God will do what he said he will do. Hallelujah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're winding down now. Glory be to God, Thank you Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that you all are getting something from this.

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<v Speaker 1>I pray that you all can continue to grow and

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<v Speaker 1>go on in God. Thank you Jesus. Let's deal. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a few minutes we may go over. I will

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<v Speaker 1>take you for a request, your question, your comments. Go

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<v Speaker 1>go into it where it says live. Click on the

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<v Speaker 1>life in the show, scroll all the way down to

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<v Speaker 1>the chat box and type in your questions, your comments,

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<v Speaker 1>or your prayer requests in the conclusion. The preconclusion the

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<v Speaker 1>wake up. So remember when we read in Ecclesiasities earlier

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<v Speaker 1>that the end of a thing is actually good. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the wake up parts. The wake up sets you free.

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<v Speaker 1>You begin to breathe a fresh breadth of air on

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<v Speaker 1>your own and not the influence of someone that you

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<v Speaker 1>were in a relationship with that was not ordained by

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<v Speaker 1>God or brings glory to God. The wake up causes

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<v Speaker 1>you to explore horizons of joy and peace and happiness

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<v Speaker 1>in God. It's beyond contentment if you ask me. It

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<v Speaker 1>gives you horizons of peace, happiness and joy in your

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<v Speaker 1>soul and things you want to for granted, like yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Pampering you. Pampering does not include a voot. And you'll

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying for those whose confused revelation Genesis

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<v Speaker 1>chapter thirty. God does not condone those things in singleness.

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<v Speaker 1>Our body is a temple of the Lord, and that

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<v Speaker 1>even though the scripture and Genesis didy you'd specifically talk

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<v Speaker 1>about onnan and A, it also applies to females. Yes, ma'am,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't practice those things. Every part of our temple

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<v Speaker 1>is holy onto the Lord. The wake up. The wake

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<v Speaker 1>up sharpens your desernment. The wake up allows you to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid past pit falls. The mistakes you made in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>You will never make those again. The wake up gives

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<v Speaker 1>you in sight early. In other words, you will see

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<v Speaker 1>the pink flags. You don't wait for the red flags

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<v Speaker 1>your desernment from the wake up. My God does not

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<v Speaker 1>allow you to become a victim of a red flag anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>The wake up develops you to become and grow whole

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<v Speaker 1>in your soul, in your spirit, in your emotions, and

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<v Speaker 1>for some people, in your finances, and fulfilling your dreams,

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<v Speaker 1>your passions, those things which God ordained for you to

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<v Speaker 1>be and come into. The wake up will create a

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<v Speaker 1>low to know tolerance, dismissal of foolishness and stupidity very

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<v Speaker 1>early from everybody that is priceless. My last point, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>my second to last point. The wake Up teaches you

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<v Speaker 1>true love. A pass a prophet is what is true love?

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<v Speaker 1>Read in the New Testament, First Corinthians, chapter thirteen. It

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<v Speaker 1>is known as the Love Chapter. It says love and

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<v Speaker 1>dure it. All things bear it, all things endure it

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<v Speaker 1>all things. Love is not harsh. Love does not hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>Love does not keep count. Love is patient, Love is kind,

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<v Speaker 1>Love is tolerant. Not on a good day every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Number seven of the eight points for the wake Up.

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<v Speaker 1>Love teaches you true love, First Corinthians thirteen. It gives

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<v Speaker 1>you a second chance to become all that God ordained

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<v Speaker 1>for you to become. Last point thou shalt not make

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<v Speaker 1>your ex win or the enemy you heal, You grow,

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<v Speaker 1>and you move on in God. Yeah, take some notes.

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<v Speaker 1>We will be going a little over today. Want to

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<v Speaker 1>share something about past relationships from the g spot for

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<v Speaker 1>those of you who have it. It's on page fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>The human body is mostly made up of water. A

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<v Speaker 1>woman's emotions are like the water in the human body,

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<v Speaker 1>making up a great percentage of who she is. In men,

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<v Speaker 1>it is not emotions but ego and the sense of

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<v Speaker 1>self worth that drives him his identity. Neither of these

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<v Speaker 1>is necessarily a bad thing. What matters is what you

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<v Speaker 1>keep in mind how strong these forces are. Being mindful

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<v Speaker 1>of the strength and role they play in our lives

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<v Speaker 1>will help us develop a deeper understanding and enable marital intimacy.

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<v Speaker 1>This fart is for the couples, but enjoy. Women are

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<v Speaker 1>often told when they get married not to discuss their

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<v Speaker 1>past relationships. I the order the co author crisis my

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<v Speaker 1>order disagree. Sharing intimate knowledge of the past makes a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not say share and pass intimacy issues. I

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<v Speaker 1>said intimate things makes a relationship stronger. Understanding why a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship ended and the characteristic and traits that hurts your

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<v Speaker 1>spouse will provide valuable insights. Likewise, knowing why she remained

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship is also significant. You will discover truth

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<v Speaker 1>is hidden in the heart of the artichoke. That was

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<v Speaker 1>chapter one. The chapter one the Artichoke elaborated or elucidated

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<v Speaker 1>on the fact that the woman's heart is like an artichoke,

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<v Speaker 1>having many layers to peel off before you get to

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<v Speaker 1>the root. Again, we will be going on a little

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<v Speaker 1>longer today, so stay logged on. Exploring your wife's past

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<v Speaker 1>relationship can be beneficial. Many husbands today are frustrated, are

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<v Speaker 1>enlisted towards day and night with their wivee's emotions. However,

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<v Speaker 1>these wars may be the remnants of past relationships. These

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<v Speaker 1>are relationship ter night or Leprosy's things that trauma on

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<v Speaker 1>dealt with that stem from the past. Married people, you're

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<v Speaker 1>listening now. If your husband have to fight and disarm

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<v Speaker 1>her monstrous insecurities and her lack of trust, you will

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<v Speaker 1>need to equip yourself with the identity and strategy of

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<v Speaker 1>your opponents if you are to succeed and dismantle this

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<v Speaker 1>hold on your wife's heart, minds, and emotions. Husbands have

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<v Speaker 1>it tough. Wives have it tough to her right, imagine

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<v Speaker 1>your wife's heart has abandoned on it. Each bandage represented

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<v Speaker 1>a past relationship. As she allows you to get close

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<v Speaker 1>enough to remove them, and how she's gonna allow you

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<v Speaker 1>to get I'm interjecting now, how she's going to allow

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<v Speaker 1>you to get close enough to remove them is that

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<v Speaker 1>you never expose her. You never belittle her, You never

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<v Speaker 1>make her feel ashamed, You never divulge her personal information,

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<v Speaker 1>even in anger. You don't be a woman. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>emasculate him either. You don't run and tell his business

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<v Speaker 1>to his family, or his children, or his friends and

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<v Speaker 1>make him less than you. Don't do that, okay? As

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<v Speaker 1>she allows you to get close enough to remove them.

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<v Speaker 1>Upon removing the last one, as you would expect, you

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<v Speaker 1>would see hidden under the band aid, another cut or wound.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you what I think, after all these layers of

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<v Speaker 1>past relationships, of working your wife or your husband through,

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<v Speaker 1>when you finally removed the bandaid, you expect to see

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<v Speaker 1>a wound. However, to your surprise, you see a heart

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<v Speaker 1>with your name on it and a message attached that

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<v Speaker 1>says I Love you. How will that make you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>This is exactly the objective God had in mind when

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<v Speaker 1>he presented your wife to you and your husband to you.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted you to discover their hidden beauty. He blessed

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<v Speaker 1>you with the ability to hear the laughter of their

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<v Speaker 1>heart and to see the smile radiating from their soul.

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<v Speaker 1>It is in these moments we feel the touch of

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<v Speaker 1>God's hands in our lives. It brings warmth into a home,

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<v Speaker 1>It deepens our relationship and spark flames of intimacy. You

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<v Speaker 1>have taken a jazz and step towards reaching and understanding

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<v Speaker 1>your wife's emotional Gee, wo there to trust again? Before

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<v Speaker 1>you can fathom the fear of trust again, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to investigate what first shattered your spouse or your ability

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<v Speaker 1>to trust to begin with. Every woman is different and

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<v Speaker 1>every man is different. Their needs are unique as their personalities.

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<v Speaker 1>Many times she or he, she or him may or

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<v Speaker 1>may not even know why they are crying or lashing out.

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<v Speaker 1>You will have to be prayerful, patient, and allow the

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<v Speaker 1>Lord to make it plain to you and teach you

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<v Speaker 1>how to bring healing into the spouse spirit. Do not

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<v Speaker 1>lie in your future relationship and marriage. Do not I

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<v Speaker 1>do not break promises. Do not tell someone what to

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<v Speaker 1>do instead of making healthy, collaborative suggestions. Don't be disrespectful

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<v Speaker 1>or worse yet, do it in the company of family

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<v Speaker 1>and relatives, friends, or in public. Do not devalue or

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<v Speaker 1>take someone for granted. Be mindful not to show a

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<v Speaker 1>lack of affection or appreciation towards your spouse or the

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<v Speaker 1>matters that concern their hearts, or to compare to another,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's your mother. Do not complain or compare

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<v Speaker 1>your spouse. Men, do not tell your wives her soup

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<v Speaker 1>does not take it's as good as your mother's.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to be I don't know. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep in a doghouse? Do you want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the roommate with the dog? Why would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's not worsdom to admire, notice, or compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Do not.

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<v Speaker 1>Over Do not admire, notursis or compliment another member of

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite sex in the presence or the absence of

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<v Speaker 1>your spouse. Don't do that. Don't be too dismissive, impatient, insensitive,

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<v Speaker 1>self absorbed, self centered, selfish, or embarrassed. There are many points,

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<v Speaker 1>but for the sake of time, we will stop there.

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<v Speaker 1>This article actually has twenty points, so I will let

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<v Speaker 1>you guys know in the future when the book becomes available.

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<v Speaker 1>In my conclusion closing comments prefdesce, Alison Jones once said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back to the singles now. We have to balance

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Amen. She said that Ishmael comes before Isaac.

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<v Speaker 1>Preface Alison Jones said, Ishmael comes before Isaac. She further

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<v Speaker 1>added that they look alike because they have the same father.

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<v Speaker 1>The difference was one was born of the spirits with

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<v Speaker 1>purpose ordained by God, and one came from a decision

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<v Speaker 1>of the flesh because of fear. Men, wait for your ruth.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait for God to present your abigaile to you. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>fall pray to the delias of this world. It Proverbs

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<v Speaker 1>after six, and women, wait for the boaz that God

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<v Speaker 1>has for you. You don't have to settle. Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>are about to dismiss. I don't see any prairie quests

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<v Speaker 1>or any questions. The second comment from blessings says, Oh, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>God has sight beyond what we see and know what's

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<v Speaker 1>best for us. Heavenly Father, we come before you this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>giving you all the honor and all the glory. Father,

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<v Speaker 1>We thank you for ministering to those that are dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with a broken heart, for healing, for letting them know

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<v Speaker 1>that there there is an awakening coming from pain that

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<v Speaker 1>they feel. Holy Spirit, Lord, cause them to know that

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<v Speaker 1>every day it's going to get easier. Let them know

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<v Speaker 1>it is healthy for them to cry, but it's more

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<v Speaker 1>healthy for them to journal, to spend time in prayer,

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<v Speaker 1>to spend time in your word, being raw about how

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<v Speaker 1>they truly feel, about how they've been felt, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>been justly, it's unjustly, whatever they've done, things that they

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<v Speaker 1>are responsible for causing the relationship. And Father, let them

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<v Speaker 1>confess these things, but let them not be condemned by it. Father.

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<v Speaker 1>I pray, Lord, that you would minister to every heart,

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<v Speaker 1>every heart. Father, I pray that you're going in the

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<v Speaker 1>core of those that are married this morning, Father, and

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<v Speaker 1>that you're moving upon their soul. Father, even those who

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<v Speaker 1>may be dealing with issues and their marriages or God. Father,

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<v Speaker 1>that you are God, by your power and by your spread,

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<v Speaker 1>is going to go in and soon out the roughness.

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<v Speaker 1>That they will begin to see each other as you

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<v Speaker 1>see them in the name of Jesus. That they will

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<v Speaker 1>be patient, that they will exhibit the fruits of the spirit,

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<v Speaker 1>which is patience and kindness. And Father, I pray for

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<v Speaker 1>the singles, that you would give them sustaining power, Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>that you will cultivate and more them in the meantime

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<v Speaker 1>of God. To wait on you, God, to wait for

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<v Speaker 1>the men, that you will present to them their abigails,

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<v Speaker 1>and they will not for a prayer to the lions

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<v Speaker 1>of this world that will sniff out their destiny. Father God,

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<v Speaker 1>that Lord, you will preserve those women that are in

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<v Speaker 1>relationships with the neighbor, that you will call them out

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<v Speaker 1>of these abusive situations and present them to the Davids

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<v Speaker 1>that You've designed for them that comes with everything fashioned

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<v Speaker 1>for their destiny. Or God even like boas that one

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<v Speaker 1>that will not take and drain from them spiritually, emotionally, psychologically, sexually,

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<v Speaker 1>or physically. Father, I pray God that everyone that is

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship that is not ordained by you, that

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<v Speaker 1>you shutter right now by the blood of Jesus. Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>we sever every soul tiede that they will be able

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<v Speaker 1>to walk away, hold God in their soul, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you begin to minister healing to them from the crown

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<v Speaker 1>of their heads to the soul of their feet. In

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus' name, we pray please continue to keep locked on.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have some upcoming events where you can physically

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<v Speaker 1>attend with some powerful workshops where we can break down

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<v Speaker 1>into sessions with what you are in need of to

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<v Speaker 1>where you are and where you need to go in

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<v Speaker 1>God and to be whole. Glory be to God. I

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<v Speaker 1>thank all of you that love on. Every week. I

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<v Speaker 1>pray God continue to touch even those who don't chat.

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<v Speaker 1>But you are dere and you're praying thank you. May

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<v Speaker 1>God continue to bless you. I see Laura said, beautiful episode,

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<v Speaker 1>real and full of wisdom. Thank you Jesus Amen, Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>I tank God for you. We just bless the Lord

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<v Speaker 1>for who he is and all that he's doing. As

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<v Speaker 1>I get ready to sign off, go back in. Recommend

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody that you know is hurting. Send them the

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<v Speaker 1>link that they can log onto the breakup and the

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<v Speaker 1>wake up the signature peace. You are the apple of God.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you are the helpful of Gods. You are the

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<v Speaker 3>apple of God's how he loves you soul.

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<v Speaker 4>He'll make your soul, Yes he lives. He'll make your

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<v Speaker 4>whole soul who.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll dry away on your tears and give you joy.

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<v Speaker 2>Hallo.

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<v Speaker 3>M hmm