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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Hi, It's twenty twenty two. Me up top, letting

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<v Speaker 1>you know that this is an encore of a pair

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<v Speaker 1>of episodes. Everyone needs and I really needed some time

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<v Speaker 1>to be with my family after my dad's brain surgery.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm back up north and I'm recording this at my

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<v Speaker 1>sister's dining room table with Jarrett nearby. And there is

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<v Speaker 1>a fresh update on how we are doing at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the episode for anyone who's been following along

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<v Speaker 1>with our word family stuff. So thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for all the love and sport. Thank you for just

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<v Speaker 1>keeping us in your big brains in your hearts. Okay, Sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh hey, it's your little step brother who tries to

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<v Speaker 1>trade you their calcified banana flavor now and later is

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<v Speaker 1>for your Mini Reese's peanut butter cups. And you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>little dude, step all the way off. That's not how

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<v Speaker 1>life works. Ali, board back for another episode of Ologies.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is coming out in October. So let's get

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<v Speaker 1>deep into something that happens usually in the dead of night.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're lucky, Sleep, you do it every day or

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<v Speaker 1>night probably, and it should be an exercise in comfort

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<v Speaker 1>and restoration and flirting with Death's hotter friendlier twin. But

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<v Speaker 1>just looking at the word sleep probably made your bewels

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<v Speaker 1>drop with dread because you know you're screwing it up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. We kind of all are so in

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<v Speaker 1>the next two episodes. That's right, Part two with your

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<v Speaker 1>Questions comes out next week. We are gonna go head

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<v Speaker 1>to head with the Sandman, but first let's get ready

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<v Speaker 1>for bed. A little business. First things first, Happy happy

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<v Speaker 1>birthday to my amazing mom Nancy Ward, who's so funny

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<v Speaker 1>and so smart and inspiring and accepts me even though

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<v Speaker 1>I swear like filth on this podcast. She also gave

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<v Speaker 1>me the best care for insomnia. It has never failed me.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't talk about it in part one of this

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<v Speaker 1>Sleep episode, so you're gonna have to wait until part

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<v Speaker 1>two next week. But it is an actual life saver.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to tell you Happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and my sisters and pop love you you a bunch.

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<v Speaker 1>in the reviews. So like a sucubus, I pluck one

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<v Speaker 1>every week to read from the bunch, And this week

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<v Speaker 1>complete nutjob scream crying and laughter about sharks in my

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<v Speaker 1>car again, So thank you, please continue Tepath to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>And thanks to everyone who left reviews that I savored

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<v Speaker 1>individually over a cup of herbal tea this week. I

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<v Speaker 1>just appreciate them so much. Okay, somnology very much a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the study of how we sleep. And I looked

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<v Speaker 1>up the etymology of it just after I wrote that

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<v Speaker 1>intro and Holly smokes you guys. Somness is the Roman

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<v Speaker 1>god of sleep and yes, the brother of death. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea when I wrote that a few minutes ago,

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<v Speaker 1>so there you go. Also, Somnos probably a remake of

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<v Speaker 1>the Greek myth of Hypnos, who was the Greek god

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<v Speaker 1>of sleep, also the half brother of Thanatos death. So

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<v Speaker 1>Hypnos lived in a dark grotto in the underworld. What

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<v Speaker 1>a bachelor, but was kind of a helper of humans.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a good dude. His dad was Darkness and

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<v Speaker 1>his mother was nix or night, and even Zeus was

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<v Speaker 1>afraid of her. Zeus was like, damn, lady, you're kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a bitch. But I respect that. And so somnology

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<v Speaker 1>is the study of the god that comes in darkness

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<v Speaker 1>to incapacitate and recharge us, and it seems to vex

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<v Speaker 1>us more and more. So, Yes, we have cars and antibiotics,

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<v Speaker 1>but when it comes to sleep, we're kind of boning ourselves. Fam.

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<v Speaker 1>So in this two parter episode, I'm determined to help

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<v Speaker 1>fix your sleep, And by your I mean are I

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<v Speaker 1>appall my own friends physicians, I appall my own fitbit

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<v Speaker 1>with my poor sleep habits, and as a result, I

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes forget which month it is, and I have eaten

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<v Speaker 1>more stickers on produce than you need to know about.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're gonna learn the difference between deep sleep, light sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>rem sleep. What aspects of sleep hygiene are important, The

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<v Speaker 1>root of insomnia how much sleep you really need, if

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<v Speaker 1>you should go somewhere to get wires taped to your

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<v Speaker 1>head while a stranger watches you, and how to help

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<v Speaker 1>the molecular janitors that live in your skull. This guest

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<v Speaker 1>has been called the sleep Whisperer and works with professional

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<v Speaker 1>athletes and normies alike to perform better and to remedy

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<v Speaker 1>their sleep issues. He has literally written the book on sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called The Sleep Solution. Why Your Sleep Is Broken

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<v Speaker 1>and How to Fix It. He's based in Virginia. He's

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<v Speaker 1>the owner of the Charlottesville Neurology and Sleep Medicine Clinic.

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<v Speaker 1>So we scheduled this interview months in advance for a

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<v Speaker 1>time he was going to be in southern California to

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<v Speaker 1>give a talk. We met up at a hotel and

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<v Speaker 1>I barraged him with so many questions that he was

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<v Speaker 1>held physically captive answering them for me for close to

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<v Speaker 1>two hours, and I was like, yes, double episode, So

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<v Speaker 1>get cozy, zip up your onesies, and get ready for

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<v Speaker 1>part one with the gently southern voiced dulcimer wisdom of

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<v Speaker 1>neurologist and somnologist doctor William Chris Winter. You are a neurologist.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're also a somnologist, correct because you study sleep?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Why sleep for you? Because I read your book, which

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<v Speaker 1>is great. Your book is, by the way, so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, this is keeping me

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<v Speaker 1>up because it's so funny. Why and you mentioned the

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<v Speaker 1>book that you like sleep when you're a good sleeper.

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<v Speaker 1>So what drew you to this field if you have

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<v Speaker 2>So what drew me to the field is just because

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<v Speaker 2>I have a problem with it, doesn't I don't love it?

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<v Speaker 2>Number one? Okay, number two. I came into the field

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<v Speaker 2>completely accidentally. I decided around third grade that I would

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<v Speaker 2>become a doctor. And I'm pretty certain that there was

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<v Speaker 2>a phenomenon going on. My parents were both the first

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<v Speaker 2>on both sides.

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<v Speaker 1>So doctor Winter says that he didn't grow up in

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<v Speaker 1>a family of academics, but that his appellation me Ma

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<v Speaker 1>and Papa supported big dreams for little Whooper Snappers.

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<v Speaker 2>We go out and visit Roommamo on Grandpa and the

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<v Speaker 2>remote reaches of West virgin If you told them that

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<v Speaker 2>you would be a doctor, they would give you, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a quarter and some candy. So I think very from

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<v Speaker 2>a very young age, I realized if I tell Papol

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm going to be a doctor, he gets really excited.

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<v Speaker 2>He calls Mamma in I get some candy and some money,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is awesome. So I think that that probably

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<v Speaker 2>had a big role in shape. So I want to

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<v Speaker 2>be a doctor. I didn't really want to be a

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<v Speaker 2>sleep doctor or neurologist, but I started doing research in

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<v Speaker 2>sleep just to get beer money and biology credit hours

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<v Speaker 2>as an undergraduate.

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<v Speaker 1>So quick question, how much does this pay? According to

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<v Speaker 1>one USA Today article I read, about one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty bucks a day is the going rate for research studies,

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<v Speaker 1>but there are accounts of folks making over three grand

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<v Speaker 1>for a nine day sleep study. But based on the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that the article was titled quote how to get

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<v Speaker 1>paid to sleep, I'm guessing that the job competition might

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<v Speaker 1>be stiff, like grueling, farting, and unconscious but stiff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, guy said here, they'll pay you to do some

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<v Speaker 2>research and you can get some cool thing for your

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<v Speaker 2>med school resume. So it was just completely accidental. But

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<v Speaker 2>the field is fun, the people within it are inviting.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a new field so anything you sort of

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<v Speaker 2>dreamt up had never really been looked at before.

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<v Speaker 1>At what point did you get to start doing research

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<v Speaker 1>on humans? And what was your end goal? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>want people to sleep better and thus be happier? Like

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<v Speaker 1>what did you want to do as a neurologist?

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, so that was my undergraduate experience. From there, I

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<v Speaker 2>went to medical school down at Emory and was introduced

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<v Speaker 2>to Don Blywise and David Raye, who were sort of

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<v Speaker 2>they run the sleep center down there. Now, when I

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<v Speaker 2>was an undergraduate, I was working at a sleep that

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<v Speaker 2>was mainly pulmonary, looked at breathing. These gentlemen were more

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<v Speaker 2>neurology oriented. So that was my first taste of neurology.

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<v Speaker 2>I really thought that, you know, the brain was really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So I would go to medical school during the day

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<v Speaker 2>and then at night I would run these studies. One

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<v Speaker 2>of them was and so this is when I first

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<v Speaker 2>started interacting with real human subjects. One was the idea

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<v Speaker 2>of if you pull all night, or and stay up

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<v Speaker 2>all night, or if you have a night where your

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<v Speaker 2>sleep is fragmented, like being on call or something of

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<v Speaker 2>that nature. How was that? No, No, No, it's d no, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure it is. I've heard all about you. You've

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<v Speaker 2>got a lot going on. Worried about you, Ali. So

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<v Speaker 2>so the question was, how is that affecting our brain's

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<v Speaker 2>blood flow in the morning. So we would bring my

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of these were my friends. There were medical

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<v Speaker 2>students who were looking for a little bit of money,

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<v Speaker 2>and I would say, hey, you should come do the

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<v Speaker 2>sleep study. So the sleep study consisted of three nights.

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<v Speaker 2>The first night you would sleep normally. The second night

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<v Speaker 2>you would not sleep at all. The third night we

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<v Speaker 2>would fragment your sleep. And the way we did that

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<v Speaker 2>made this unbelievably grating sound that right away.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that is the worst. I'm so glad

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<v Speaker 1>I looked this up and.

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<v Speaker 2>We had them bolted underneath the subject's bed. And so

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<v Speaker 2>my job was on the fragment On the sleep deprivation night,

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<v Speaker 2>I just had to make sure they were doing whatever

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<v Speaker 2>they wanted to do. They couldn't sleep on the fragmented night.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to watch them and every time they would

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<v Speaker 2>fall asleep, I would give them five you know, five minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we would start sounding the alarms so they

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<v Speaker 2>would get little five minute chunks of sleep throughout the

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<v Speaker 2>entire night. And the funny thing was, all my friends

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<v Speaker 2>would make these big arrangements for the sleep deprivation night,

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<v Speaker 2>but for the fragmented night. They're like, so I get

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<v Speaker 2>to sleep, right, I'm like, yes, you do. But as

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<v Speaker 2>soon as you fall asleep, you'll sleep for a little while.

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<v Speaker 2>Then we're gonna wake you up, but you can go

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<v Speaker 2>right back to sleep. After that. They would make arrangements

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<v Speaker 2>for that. They were a mess after those studies. One

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<v Speaker 2>guy actually woke up and walked out of the sleep

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<v Speaker 2>was trying to get into his car. He had no

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<v Speaker 2>idea what he was doing. Another person actually got up

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<v Speaker 2>and went to the bathroom hooked up with everything. It.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just they were absolutely hysterical. And what we

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<v Speaker 2>found was it was much more dangerous from a blood

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<v Speaker 2>flow perspective to have fragmented sleep than it was to

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<v Speaker 2>actually to stay up. In fact, when you stood, when

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<v Speaker 2>was really happening. It was really so I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>for a test. The next day, you feel kind of

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<v Speaker 1>Crash so real quick, as if being a walking skeleton

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<v Speaker 1>covered in raw hamburger isn't chilling enough. Just please take

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<v Speaker 1>a moment to remember that the thought sponge nested in

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<v Speaker 1>your skull is soaked in blood. So during some stages

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<v Speaker 1>of sleep the blood volume goes down, but in rem

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<v Speaker 1>it can be engorged with more blood than when you're awake. So, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're snoozing and your brain has a dream boner unless

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<v Speaker 2>But that fragmented night, and when you think about that

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<v Speaker 2>in relation to people who are on call or a

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<v Speaker 2>it's a real risk factor potentially for things like stroke.

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<v Speaker 2>So just not a healthy situation to be in. Oof.

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<v Speaker 2>I have three? Yes? How did you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did this affect you? Because it's not just new mothers?

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine think you got to get like Papa's got

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<v Speaker 2>Papa does, and Papa was this papa. I was always

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<v Speaker 2>I always felt so not helpful and somewhat inadequate during

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<v Speaker 2>the whole situation that I would always get up. Even

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<v Speaker 2>this creation I put inside of you, and I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>getting some sleep over here. So I felt really guilty

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<v Speaker 2>by that, even though I would often kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>nod off as we were talking. And the guilt really

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<v Speaker 2>started from the birth of my daughter. At one point,

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<v Speaker 2>I fell asleep during life and my wife said, did

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<v Speaker 2>you just fall asleep? I said, And this is what

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<v Speaker 2>I said. I was so sleep deprived from being a

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<v Speaker 2>medical student. I said something like, I just didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>it was going to take this long. Oh sorry, those

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<v Speaker 2>are those words that leave your mouth and you're trying

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<v Speaker 2>to grab them as they leave to shove back in

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<v Speaker 1>So oh, and I imagine also as a med student,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's no one who is more sleep

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<v Speaker 1>deprived than a medical student, like you have these insane

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<v Speaker 1>long shifts and hours and then it's like, Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't slept in thirty six hours. Fix this person so

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<v Speaker 1>they don't die.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct. So, yes, we were very sleep deprived. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>an accident that a lot of mistakes are making made

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<v Speaker 2>because of sleep deporation in hospitals. At one point, I

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<v Speaker 2>was at a computer entering in medications for a patient

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<v Speaker 2>and I got a call at on the phone right

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<v Speaker 2>next to me, and I picked it up and this

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<v Speaker 2>woman said, who is this? I said, this is doctor Winner.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>She?

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<v Speaker 2>This is phill Us in the cafeteria. Why are you

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<v Speaker 2>sending us medications through the cafeteria pathway? So I had somehow,

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<v Speaker 2>in my sleep deprived haze, gotten into the completely wrong

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<v Speaker 2>system on the computer and instead of sending dietary orders

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<v Speaker 2>to the cafeterias, putting all their medications through there, which

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<v Speaker 2>is fortunately didn't hurt anybody. But I had no idea

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<v Speaker 2>what I was doing. Just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Gone with in its like exactly, poppy seed klonopin.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, that's good for you. These are great, It's

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<v Speaker 2>really I'm sure this would sell really well. Actually, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, tell me a little bit about what is sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's like the golden question, because it does

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<v Speaker 1>seem crazy that for eight hours of the day we

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of semi die. It seems we're so vulnerable

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<v Speaker 1>to predation, we just clock out. Like what what is

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<v Speaker 1>sleep exactly?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think people really know. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 2>all kinds of theories in terms of sleep being something

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<v Speaker 2>important for energy balance. There's a metabolic sort of pathway

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<v Speaker 2>that sleeps very important for you know. We get some

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<v Speaker 2>insight into the answer that question if we look at

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<v Speaker 2>sleep deprivation models where you take something. You know, they

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<v Speaker 2>used to put these little mice on these rotating platforms

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<v Speaker 2>over water, and if they fall asleep, the platform would

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<v Speaker 2>rotate and push them into the water, which he really

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like. And so you found that after a very

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<v Speaker 2>short period of time, there's a lot of brain dysregulation

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<v Speaker 2>that starts to happen, particularly with the brain. It's regulation

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<v Speaker 2>of our cardiovascular system. Our body temperature gets really screwed up,

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<v Speaker 2>we have difficulty fighting infection, and generally organisms die fairly

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<v Speaker 2>quickly with sleep deprivation. So I don't know that we

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily know exactly what it is, but it's a very

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<v Speaker 2>important thing. For sort of re establishing balance within our

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<v Speaker 2>body throughout organ systems, and you know, every organism does it,

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<v Speaker 2>they do it differently. You know some fish that have

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<v Speaker 2>to continue to always swim, they'll sleep one half their

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<v Speaker 2>brain and then the other at other times, and really

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<v Speaker 2>fascinating things like that. But it's this very preserved process

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, kind of allows us to sort of

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<v Speaker 2>reset and go word about our day. But to answer

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<v Speaker 2>that definitively, I don't think anybody really can, which is shocking,

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<v Speaker 2>is something, like you said, so basic that we don't

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<v Speaker 2>really know why we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know is this true? I fact checked it,

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<v Speaker 1>and yes, pretty much all legit scientific papers start with

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<v Speaker 1>even though how and why we sleep is a fucking

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<v Speaker 1>mystery for real, but we do know that there are

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<v Speaker 1>different stages of sleep. So what happens in the different

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<v Speaker 1>sleep stages? I just got a fit bit, yeah, track

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<v Speaker 1>my sleep because I'm very Yeah, it's like you've made

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<v Speaker 1>two hundred steps this week. But I so the different

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<v Speaker 1>stages of sleep were kind of elusive to me. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you go through the different stages of sleep really quick?

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<v Speaker 1>And when they happen to in absolutely or the day?

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<v Speaker 2>So it's easy to think about sleep and sort of

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<v Speaker 2>in terms of three stages. There's lights sleep, deep sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>and dream sleep. And so a lot of people think

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<v Speaker 2>dream sleep and deep sleep are kind of the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not so very distinct. So we spent about half

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<v Speaker 1>Half in light sleep is normal that just blew me away.

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<v Speaker 1>Light sleep is like the shoe that you wear most days,

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<v Speaker 1>like versatile essential. Not the fanciest, but you need it.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's sort of the sleep that sort of moves

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<v Speaker 2>us through all the different stages. So we're awake and

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<v Speaker 2>we fall into light sleep, and from there we might dream,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we'll go back to light sleep, and then

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<v Speaker 2>we might have deep sleep, back to light sleep, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>wake up and go to the bathroom. So light sleep

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<v Speaker 2>is not only the sort of the foundation of our sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also the portal through which we move to

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<v Speaker 2>the different stages. About ninety minutes after we fall asleep,

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<v Speaker 2>if we're on a schedule and relatively well rested, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>have dream or rem sleep. So rem sleep, rapid eye

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<v Speaker 2>movement sleep, and dream sleep are the same thing. So

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<v Speaker 2>generally at nine minutes after you fall asleep, I have

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<v Speaker 2>your first dream. It's a very short dream, typically very fragile.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're in an uncomfortable situation and a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of anxiet in your life, you're sleeping in a bad hotel,

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<v Speaker 2>you may drop that first cycle quite a bit, and

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<v Speaker 2>then every hour to hour and a half we'll have

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<v Speaker 2>another cycle of dreaming, usually last somewhere between twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>to forty five minutes, and those get longer and longer

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<v Speaker 2>the night goes on.

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<v Speaker 1>So light sleep starts as a stage called N one

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<v Speaker 1>as you're starting to drift off, and you might have

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<v Speaker 1>like a quick, funky dream that kind of like, oh shit, yay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm falling asleep, nothing is real feeling, and then your

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<v Speaker 1>brain waves slow down and then a little deeper light

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<v Speaker 1>sleep is called END two, when your breath and your

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<v Speaker 1>heart rates slow down. Almost half of your night is

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<v Speaker 1>spent in end two, but it's not terribly restorative. Now

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<v Speaker 1>what is with this N one? End Two's what are

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<v Speaker 1>the ends? They're short for non rem sleep, So all

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<v Speaker 1>stages of sleep that aren't rem are called non rem

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<v Speaker 1>which is like if you had four kids and you

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<v Speaker 1>just named the best, most interesting one, Jeremy, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all the rest were just like non Jeremy one, non

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy two, that one's non Jeremy three. Like sure, they

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<v Speaker 1>all have their place in this family. Your life wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be the same without them, you know. But they're not

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<v Speaker 1>as interesting as Jeremy. So think of light sleep as

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<v Speaker 1>your day to day shoe. Nothing fancy, but it works.

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<v Speaker 1>Now another kind of shoe in your sleep closet. Let's say,

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<v Speaker 1>the ug of the shoes is deep sleep now also

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<v Speaker 1>called slow waves sleep or delta sleep or if for

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<v Speaker 1>being an asshole M three not rem three. This stage

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<v Speaker 1>of deep sleep happens more at the beginning of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>and during this deep sleep stage, our bodies repair and

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<v Speaker 1>they heal themselves. We release human growth hormone, which is

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<v Speaker 1>dope for free, no shady prescription necessary. And the more

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<v Speaker 1>of this deep sleep we get those first few hours

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<v Speaker 1>in bed, usually around twenty five percent of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>the more chipper and refreshed and not sleepy or groggy

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<v Speaker 1>or crawling toward a triple espresso we feel.

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<v Speaker 2>In the first three hours of our night is dominantly

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<v Speaker 2>when we have deep sleep. So if you sort of

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<v Speaker 2>track somebody through a typical night hop into bed should

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<v Speaker 2>take you about ten to fifty minutes to fall asleep,

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<v Speaker 2>you go into sort of transitional or light sleep, into

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<v Speaker 2>deep sleep. About nine minutes later, you'll have your first

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<v Speaker 2>little cycle of dreaming, back to light sleep, some more

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<v Speaker 2>deep sleep, maybe a little bit less this time, a

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<v Speaker 2>bit longer cycle of dreaming. So as the night goes on,

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<v Speaker 2>we're having bigger, bigger cycles of dreaming, smaller cycles of

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<v Speaker 2>deep sleep. So if you cut the night in half,

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<v Speaker 2>and I often ask this question to patience, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>having difficulty with your sleep, do you feel like the

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<v Speaker 2>first half your night's better or the second half, And

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<v Speaker 2>depending on their answer, the first half is predominantly deep sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>the second half is predominantly rem sleep. So you can

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<v Speaker 2>get a little bit of a sense of what might

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<v Speaker 2>be going on with somebody's sleep, and in terms of

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<v Speaker 2>the function of it, deep sleep is what makes us

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<v Speaker 2>feel rested. So if somebody's nodding off listening to your podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>or fall asleep at a stop light or in church

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<v Speaker 2>or wherever you like to fall asleep, you can you

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<v Speaker 2>know very quickly that person did not get enough deep sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>either because they didn't get enough sleep or there's something

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<v Speaker 2>inhibiting their deep sleep. And then remsleep has a lot

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<v Speaker 2>more to do with focus, concentration, mood, even pain perception.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a little bit more of a finesse sort

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<v Speaker 2>of situation, which is probably why it's second in the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Your brain really needs the deep sleep to make the

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<v Speaker 2>motor go to find the food to get through your day.

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<v Speaker 2>The second half the night it's a little bit more

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<v Speaker 2>detail oriented.

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<v Speaker 1>So if light sleep is like an everyday sneaker and

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<v Speaker 1>deep sleep is a comfortable ug, rem sleep is like

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<v Speaker 1>the shimmering dress shoe, just full of dreams, increased breathing

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<v Speaker 1>and heart rates, more blood in your brain, and our

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<v Speaker 1>eyes are just like darting around like kittens under our eyelids. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>rem sleep was discovered by a scientist only in the

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen fifties, pretty recently. He was just watching children sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's a job. Just go to the office to

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<v Speaker 1>watch baby's dream and he's like, hey, look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe there's like a rapid eye movement stage of sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're like, well, boy, howdy hot dang, there is.

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<v Speaker 1>So in this state our brain is as active as

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<v Speaker 1>when we're awake. And REM sleep, they think is supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to help with memory and concentration and also mood. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're like, what's up with Rim the band? If

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<v Speaker 1>that's confused you, you're not alone because up until about

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes ago, I wasn't sure if it was called

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<v Speaker 1>REM or Rim sleep. I had no idea, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would just never say it out loud. Michael Stipe just

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<v Speaker 1>flipped to the dictionary, added periods between the letters and

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<v Speaker 1>confused us all for decades. So the band is Rim,

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<v Speaker 1>the sleep is rem. This would not have happened if

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<v Speaker 1>Rim had stuck to their original name, which was Jars

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<v Speaker 1>of Piss. That's a true story. So the dress shoes

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<v Speaker 1>takes care of memory and mood, and it happens for

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<v Speaker 1>about twenty five percent of the night. Now, the cushy,

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<v Speaker 1>comfy ug deep sleep or N three also twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the night, repairs your bod and keeps you

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<v Speaker 1>from feeling sleepy. So yes, that light sleep is the

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<v Speaker 1>majority of the night in fifty percent, But like, what

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<v Speaker 1>does it do? And then what is happening during light sleep?

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<v Speaker 2>So light sleep is important again, like I said, was

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<v Speaker 2>it's sort of the foundation of sleep. There are a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of processes going on, not you know, it's I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to use the word filler, but it's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of sort of just the general rest of our body,

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<v Speaker 2>our bodies being inactive for a period of time. And

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<v Speaker 2>interesting about light sleep is for a lot of individuals

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<v Speaker 2>who struggle with their sleep, they will misperceived light sleep

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<v Speaker 2>as being wakefulness. And we all do that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>my wife would sit down on the couch and put

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<v Speaker 2>on Property Brothers. Got that show. It's the same episode

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<v Speaker 2>every time. It's there's no shocker here. You know, they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get thousands of dollars worth of renovation for like

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<v Speaker 2>six hundred bucks. And I don't know what places they

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<v Speaker 2>are living in, Okiddy, I love, Probably good for you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is just jealousy talking. Come out here,

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<v Speaker 2>have a look at your pool. She sits down to watch,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Property Brothers. Shall fall asleep. I'll grab the remote,

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<v Speaker 2>flip it over to the Dodgers game, and after twenty

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<v Speaker 2>minutes you'll wake up and say, why'd you do that?

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<v Speaker 2>I was watching that show. I'm like, no, you weren't.

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<v Speaker 2>You were sound asleep because I was not asleep. I

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<v Speaker 2>know everything that's going on. Then she'll flip it back

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<v Speaker 2>over to the properties. Now it's new property, brothers, new couple,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's so proud. She will not admit the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that that is not the couple you were looking at before.

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<v Speaker 2>It's at the little rancher that they're renovating. We're all

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<v Speaker 2>like the coastal, you know whatever. So yeah, so we

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<v Speaker 2>all have that perceptive. But some people, particularly they have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of anxiety, can really misperceive that fifty percent

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<v Speaker 2>of our night is being wakefulness. So these are the

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<v Speaker 2>people who often tell you, oh, gosh, you know, for

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<v Speaker 2>the last six weeks, I've not been able to sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>and you can sleep an hour or two. But when

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<v Speaker 2>you look at them, they don't look particularly impaired. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's a problem we often refer to as paradoxical insomnia.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not the problem that often they think they have.

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<v Speaker 1>So with paradoxical insomnia, you're like, yo, I am up

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<v Speaker 1>all night thinking about my props, doc, But it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out you're actually asleep. You're just in light sleep that

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<v Speaker 1>you think is way fulness. So it's a small percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of insomnia patients, but it does happen. And insomnia itself

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<v Speaker 1>is something that plagues a lot of people. Most of

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<v Speaker 1>whom don't fully understand it, and I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>care about insomnia. We all do, and there's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be more after the break. But each episode we donate

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<v Speaker 1>to a cause, and this week is going to miloma

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<v Speaker 1>dot org. The International Maloma Foundation is dedicated to improving

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<v Speaker 1>the quality of life of myloma patients while working toward

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<v Speaker 1>prevention and a cure. And my dad was diagnosed with

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<v Speaker 1>multiple maloma in twenty thirteen. My uncle passed away from

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<v Speaker 1>it as well, and the IMF has been just a lighthouse,

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<v Speaker 1>beacon of hope and research and info and support. So

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<v Speaker 1>if someone you know has maloma, which is a blood cancer,

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<v Speaker 1>you can listen to the hematology episode with doctor Brian Durry.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's also an uncut version on my website that

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<v Speaker 1>has more patient specific info. So thank you sponsors for

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<v Speaker 1>making that donation possible, and thanks to everyone at the

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<v Speaker 1>IMF for everything they do.

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<v Speaker 3>This cottage cheese, honey?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Did dogs in other countries speak different languages? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>When when we get there, well, we've got to fix

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<v Speaker 1>the car first, but there's someone coming to help.

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<v Speaker 3>Limited is regulated by the Central Bank of Ireland.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, insomnia, let's tackle it. And so when people will

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<v Speaker 1>come to you, are they usually having trouble sleeping or

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<v Speaker 1>is it mostly insomnia that you have to deal with, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the big thing that brings people to you?

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<v Speaker 2>So I think you're about to say it, it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>really fifty to fifty people who walk through our door.

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<v Speaker 2>It's one of two things. Insomnia or I can't an't

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<v Speaker 2>sleep is a huge problem. And then the flip side

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<v Speaker 2>is the individual who sleeps too much. They're nodding off

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<v Speaker 2>at work and getting in trouble. They can't stay awake

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<v Speaker 2>during their college classes. They knotted off during an Aerosmith concert.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean name the situation as I promise we've heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just told you I fell asleep during coldbirth

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<v Speaker 2>and my first my first daughter, you know, intercourse, during

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<v Speaker 2>your own wedding. Like, there's really some interesting things that

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<v Speaker 2>people fall asleep doing.

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<v Speaker 1>There are entire Reddit threads devoted to this topic. If

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<v Speaker 1>you need some tales about drowsy pilots or people waking

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<v Speaker 1>up in Halloween coffins and bathtubs. Now your all, Uncle

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<v Speaker 1>Ali has fallen asleep inner car in the driveway after

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<v Speaker 1>pulling in on multiple occasions. I've fallen asleep on the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom floor with a toothbrush in my hand somehow. I've

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<v Speaker 1>fallen asleep face first in the laundry pile more than once.

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<v Speaker 1>I once snoozed at a gothic industrial club while Skinny

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<v Speaker 1>Puppy was blasting all Well sober now patron Saint of

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<v Speaker 1>Podcasts Ologies, editor Stephen Ray Morris texted me while I

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<v Speaker 1>was writing this to tell me that he fell asleep

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<v Speaker 1>standing up once at Disneyland as an employee, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the most Stephen Ray Morris story I have ever heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's all cute and fun until you get the bill.

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<v Speaker 1>Sleep deprivation bumps up the risk of us screwing up,

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<v Speaker 1>and it has an economic wallop. You ready for this,

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<v Speaker 1>fifty billion dollars yearly in the United States just from

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<v Speaker 1>like sleepy, sleepy Oopsie daisies now is for car accidents.

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<v Speaker 1>It's estimated that six thousand people could die annually just

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<v Speaker 1>because of drowsy driving. So staying on your couch when

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<v Speaker 1>you're not up to party is literally saving lives because

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<v Speaker 1>trust me, even a skinny puppy soundtrack might not be

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<v Speaker 1>enough to keep you alert.

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<v Speaker 2>All good people are a sleeping draining. So those are

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<v Speaker 2>sort of the too much sleep or the perception of

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<v Speaker 2>not enough sleep, or the two main things that people

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<v Speaker 2>are coming to see us about.

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<v Speaker 1>And when did our sleep start really getting screwed up?

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<v Speaker 1>Like has it been in the last century, since we've

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<v Speaker 1>had lights, since we've had jobs and factories, Like when

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<v Speaker 1>when did things start getting dysregulated? Because everyone always hears

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<v Speaker 1>that study of like farmers used to wake up in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the night for three hours and then

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<v Speaker 1>they piece out like what are we how are we

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be sleeping?

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a great question I think our sleep has

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<v Speaker 2>always been screwed up. I think the farmer that you're describing, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, he's got so much on his plate. He's

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<v Speaker 2>tuberculosis everywhere, and crop, you know, light and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and money's bad and you know. So I think that

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<v Speaker 2>that they just never really thought about their sleep. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that as we've moved forward, two things have happened. One,

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<v Speaker 2>we've put a lot of barriers in front of our sleep,

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<v Speaker 2>including podcasts that they're like, gosh, I should stop now,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm going to listen to one more episode of

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<v Speaker 2>this awesome podcast Alley's put together, and then I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>to bed. You know, thanks, But y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Get that sleep. God Dad's orders.

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<v Speaker 2>So that we have so much more technology at our fingertips.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if I could have communicated with my girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>in middle school on a computer while we were both

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<v Speaker 2>in bed, and I could have watched the movie Star

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<v Speaker 2>Wars anytime I wanted to, I would not be talking

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<v Speaker 2>to you today. There's no way I could have been.

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<v Speaker 2>It just would be too much for me. So I

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<v Speaker 2>think that people are trying to deal with a lot

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<v Speaker 2>more distraction. And then also, so the twenty four hour

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<v Speaker 2>culture really sort of gets in the way of us

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<v Speaker 2>prioritizing our sleep. I think a lot of people want

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<v Speaker 2>to do the right thing, they're just incapable of doing

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<v Speaker 2>it because of all these barriers in front of us.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was a study published just last year that

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<v Speaker 1>had tracked the sleep of ninety four people in Bolivia

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<v Speaker 1>and Tanzania who are living hunter gatherer lifestyles. They wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get a sense of pre industrialization sleep habits, and

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<v Speaker 1>it turned out their average sleep was only six point

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<v Speaker 1>four hours a night. But they were all in good health,

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<v Speaker 1>so they went to sleep about three hours after sunset

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<v Speaker 1>and then they got up before dawn and they slept

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<v Speaker 1>pretty well for the night. And as for insomnia, incredibly rare,

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<v Speaker 1>so much so that they didn't even have a word

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<v Speaker 1>for it in any of their languages. So how can

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<v Speaker 1>this change your life now? The researchers think that the

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<v Speaker 1>sleep patterns have less to do with sunlight and more

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<v Speaker 1>to do with temperature, which is tightly controlled in her houses.

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<v Speaker 1>It does not match outdoor temperatures by design. One article

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<v Speaker 1>I read recommended sleeping in a room that was sixty

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<v Speaker 1>to seventy three degrees fahrenheit, which could help you get

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<v Speaker 1>more restorative sleep, it's more natural. So this is, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>just another reason to bundle up, turn the heater down

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<v Speaker 1>a scosh, maybe keep a window open. I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>a person who sleeps like shit and also turns hotel

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<v Speaker 1>room thermostats up to eighty degrees, I feel personally called out.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel attacked by myself, and I know this is

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<v Speaker 1>still I feel like this is still such a basic question.

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<v Speaker 1>But what is the big difference, like in brain waves

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, when we are awake and talking and functioning

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<v Speaker 1>and like dodging things coming at our heads. But then

627
00:32:14.440 --> 00:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>the difference between that when we were stone cold out?

628
00:32:16.960 --> 00:32:17.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

629
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<v Speaker 1>Why does that sometimes happen in the literally the blink

630
00:32:19.799 --> 00:32:20.400
<v Speaker 1>of an eye?

631
00:32:20.640 --> 00:32:22.680
<v Speaker 2>Sure, so you know it can happen in the blink

632
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:26.799
<v Speaker 2>of an eyd generally because you've developed a drive for sleep.

633
00:32:26.839 --> 00:32:31.119
<v Speaker 2>So I always kind of compare sleep and hunger. If

634
00:32:31.240 --> 00:32:33.440
<v Speaker 2>somebody says I'm hungry and I offer them, well, here,

635
00:32:33.480 --> 00:32:35.039
<v Speaker 2>I've got a sandwich, I don't want you want it,

636
00:32:35.079 --> 00:32:38.000
<v Speaker 2>and I don't want your sandwich, it'd be hard to

637
00:32:38.039 --> 00:32:40.440
<v Speaker 2>sort of argue that they're that hungry. Yeah, if you're

638
00:32:40.440 --> 00:32:42.880
<v Speaker 2>looking and notice somebody kind of looking at a trash

639
00:32:42.920 --> 00:32:46.000
<v Speaker 2>can for something to eat, it must be very driven

640
00:32:46.119 --> 00:32:48.160
<v Speaker 2>to eat. So sleep is kind of like that. We

641
00:32:48.240 --> 00:32:51.960
<v Speaker 2>can really enhance our drive to sleep. And one of

642
00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:55.079
<v Speaker 2>the things I always tell people is it sleep always wins.

643
00:32:55.160 --> 00:32:58.240
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you push yourself hard enough and get

644
00:32:58.279 --> 00:33:01.359
<v Speaker 2>yourself sleepy enough. It's not something that you really have

645
00:33:01.440 --> 00:33:03.680
<v Speaker 2>a lot of control over. And you're right. It can

646
00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:05.359
<v Speaker 2>happen in the blink of an eye when you're driving

647
00:33:05.359 --> 00:33:07.160
<v Speaker 2>down the road, which is why a lot of people

648
00:33:07.599 --> 00:33:09.599
<v Speaker 2>come to our clinic after there's been some sort of

649
00:33:09.680 --> 00:33:11.960
<v Speaker 2>car accident. I was driving back from the concert. I

650
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:14.640
<v Speaker 2>felt okay, and the next thing I know, I was

651
00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:16.599
<v Speaker 2>in a median or I was in the oncoming lane

652
00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:20.559
<v Speaker 2>of traffic. So sleep can sleep, Sleep happens. We're not

653
00:33:20.640 --> 00:33:23.880
<v Speaker 2>in danger of not sleeping. I think that for a

654
00:33:23.920 --> 00:33:26.079
<v Speaker 2>lot of when you look at sleep in terms of

655
00:33:26.079 --> 00:33:29.519
<v Speaker 2>the wavelengs like you're talking about. What's interesting is when

656
00:33:29.519 --> 00:33:32.799
<v Speaker 2>you look at somebody's brain activity when they're awake, it

657
00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:36.079
<v Speaker 2>looks very different from somebody who's in deep sleep. Deep sleep,

658
00:33:36.359 --> 00:33:38.480
<v Speaker 2>you can see this sort of the consciousness part of

659
00:33:38.519 --> 00:33:40.880
<v Speaker 2>your brain taking a back seat to the more primitive

660
00:33:40.880 --> 00:33:43.000
<v Speaker 2>parts of the brain we share like with an earthworm,

661
00:33:43.359 --> 00:33:45.720
<v Speaker 2>so we have these big slow waves, which is why

662
00:33:45.759 --> 00:33:48.440
<v Speaker 2>some people called deep sleep slow wave sleep. You know,

663
00:33:48.559 --> 00:33:51.759
<v Speaker 2>consciousness is really suspended. You know, your brain is really

664
00:33:51.799 --> 00:33:54.839
<v Speaker 2>taking care of much more primitive aspects of itself. But

665
00:33:54.880 --> 00:33:57.920
<v Speaker 2>when you look at rem sleep, it's almost impossible to

666
00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:02.359
<v Speaker 2>discern the brain activity video of somebody dreaming versus the

667
00:34:02.400 --> 00:34:05.839
<v Speaker 2>brain activity of somebody who's awake. Really, yes, which is

668
00:34:05.880 --> 00:34:07.640
<v Speaker 2>why it's really interesting. People say, you know, with rem

669
00:34:07.720 --> 00:34:10.239
<v Speaker 2>sleep or deep sleep, they could not be more different.

670
00:34:10.519 --> 00:34:12.440
<v Speaker 2>In fact, one of the only ways you can tell

671
00:34:12.480 --> 00:34:14.800
<v Speaker 2>that somebody's dreaming if you're just looking at their brain

672
00:34:15.400 --> 00:34:18.400
<v Speaker 2>is to look at their muscle tone. Because when we dream,

673
00:34:18.440 --> 00:34:21.800
<v Speaker 2>we're paralyzed. So it's obvious from looking at a videotape. Oh,

674
00:34:21.920 --> 00:34:25.559
<v Speaker 2>she's dreaming and she's awake. That's that's pretty obvious. But

675
00:34:25.639 --> 00:34:29.679
<v Speaker 2>to purely look at the brain's activity, it's very difficult

676
00:34:29.679 --> 00:34:31.920
<v Speaker 2>to discern, and not to mention there's eye movements, so

677
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:36.199
<v Speaker 2>these very unusual, bold eye movements that happen when we're

678
00:34:36.239 --> 00:34:38.360
<v Speaker 2>dreaming that we don't see when we're awake. But really

679
00:34:38.360 --> 00:34:41.320
<v Speaker 2>that muscle tone is the biggest way we differentiate somebody

680
00:34:41.559 --> 00:34:44.440
<v Speaker 2>electrographically as to whether or not they're sleeping or they're awake,

681
00:34:44.480 --> 00:34:47.239
<v Speaker 2>which is fascinating. So when you dream you're taking the

682
00:34:47.320 --> 00:34:49.559
<v Speaker 2>test naked and it was a test you didn't know

683
00:34:49.639 --> 00:34:51.199
<v Speaker 2>you were going to have, and your friends like, we're

684
00:34:51.199 --> 00:34:53.320
<v Speaker 2>going to take our test and you're enrolled in the class,

685
00:34:53.320 --> 00:34:56.119
<v Speaker 2>i'mic god, and even this is my recurring dream. You know,

686
00:34:56.199 --> 00:34:58.920
<v Speaker 2>you're sitting there taking a test or whatever. You're being

687
00:34:59.000 --> 00:35:01.400
<v Speaker 2>chased by wolves or whatever you like to dream about.

688
00:35:01.760 --> 00:35:04.480
<v Speaker 2>You actually can't move when those things are happening, nor

689
00:35:04.480 --> 00:35:06.719
<v Speaker 2>can we really regulate our body temperature, which is kind

690
00:35:06.719 --> 00:35:07.320
<v Speaker 2>of interesting too.

691
00:35:07.639 --> 00:35:10.599
<v Speaker 1>Why can't we move? And what is sleep paralysis?

692
00:35:10.840 --> 00:35:13.599
<v Speaker 2>So sleep paralysis has to do with that. So technically

693
00:35:14.079 --> 00:35:18.320
<v Speaker 2>all of us are experiencing a quote unquote sleep paralysis

694
00:35:18.360 --> 00:35:21.440
<v Speaker 2>when we dream. So what's happening is as we dream,

695
00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:24.800
<v Speaker 2>our brain is sending this signal down our spine that

696
00:35:24.960 --> 00:35:29.119
<v Speaker 2>paralyzes voluntary muscles, which is really interesting. Yeah, so you

697
00:35:29.119 --> 00:35:31.159
<v Speaker 2>were talking about creepy sleep studies a minute ago, and

698
00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:32.920
<v Speaker 2>I love that. I use the word creepy all the time.

699
00:35:33.039 --> 00:35:34.280
<v Speaker 2>Such a good word.

700
00:35:34.800 --> 00:35:38.960
<v Speaker 1>So a bemused glance from your beloved fine, but as

701
00:35:39.000 --> 00:35:43.599
<v Speaker 1>an extended occupation it's really only fitting for stocker, vampire

702
00:35:43.599 --> 00:35:47.199
<v Speaker 1>heart throbs, or someone in a lab coat with a clipboard.

703
00:35:48.440 --> 00:35:49.599
<v Speaker 2>I like watching you sleep.

704
00:35:50.119 --> 00:35:50.519
<v Speaker 1>It's so.

705
00:35:53.000 --> 00:35:57.639
<v Speaker 2>It's kind of fascinating to me. The studies they use

706
00:35:57.719 --> 00:36:00.480
<v Speaker 2>to sort of discern dreaming in the past were that

707
00:36:00.679 --> 00:36:03.920
<v Speaker 2>you come in fall asleep, and we will walk around

708
00:36:04.000 --> 00:36:06.519
<v Speaker 2>while you sleep and look at you. And if we

709
00:36:06.599 --> 00:36:09.840
<v Speaker 2>see your eyes moving quickly underneath your eyelids, and you

710
00:36:09.880 --> 00:36:11.840
<v Speaker 2>can do, like find a friend, say close your eyes

711
00:36:11.840 --> 00:36:15.199
<v Speaker 2>moveds eyeballs back and forth, you can see them moving

712
00:36:15.280 --> 00:36:17.800
<v Speaker 2>under eyelids. At that point, they would wake somebody up

713
00:36:17.880 --> 00:36:19.719
<v Speaker 2>and say what's going on, and the person would wake

714
00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:21.719
<v Speaker 2>up and say, oh my god, I was taking the

715
00:36:21.760 --> 00:36:24.239
<v Speaker 2>test naked, you know, or whatever their thing was. So

716
00:36:24.280 --> 00:36:26.559
<v Speaker 2>that's how they determined that, oh, wow, looks like when

717
00:36:26.599 --> 00:36:29.159
<v Speaker 2>these eyes are moving, your people are dreaming. But they

718
00:36:29.280 --> 00:36:32.239
<v Speaker 2>realize very quickly that every other muscle pretty much was not,

719
00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:35.840
<v Speaker 2>except for a tiny little muscle in the ear. There's

720
00:36:35.880 --> 00:36:39.199
<v Speaker 2>a tiny little muscle in the voice box. Our diaphragms

721
00:36:39.280 --> 00:36:41.719
<v Speaker 2>work so we can breathe, and then our sphincters work

722
00:36:41.760 --> 00:36:43.480
<v Speaker 2>so we don't have so much clean up the next day,

723
00:36:43.559 --> 00:36:47.280
<v Speaker 2>but outside of that, everything voluntary is completely shut down.

724
00:36:47.679 --> 00:36:50.480
<v Speaker 2>So sleep PROAUSS is what you're referring to is when

725
00:36:50.519 --> 00:36:56.559
<v Speaker 2>people experience this, they experience a recovery of consciousness before

726
00:36:56.599 --> 00:36:59.480
<v Speaker 2>that paralysis has a chance to go away. Oh so

727
00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:01.440
<v Speaker 2>what happen happens is you said you go to bed,

728
00:37:01.519 --> 00:37:03.920
<v Speaker 2>and usually it's happening during stressful times in your life,

729
00:37:03.960 --> 00:37:05.760
<v Speaker 2>and when you wake up, you hear the alarm clock

730
00:37:05.800 --> 00:37:09.039
<v Speaker 2>going off, but you're powerless to move to turn it off.

731
00:37:09.360 --> 00:37:11.840
<v Speaker 2>It can often feel like something's like on your chest,

732
00:37:11.920 --> 00:37:14.280
<v Speaker 2>like sitting on you. It can be a terrifying experience.

733
00:37:14.280 --> 00:37:17.079
<v Speaker 2>It usually only lasts about, you know, thirty seconds, a

734
00:37:17.119 --> 00:37:20.519
<v Speaker 2>minute maybe, and then it passes. But for a lot

735
00:37:20.559 --> 00:37:23.400
<v Speaker 2>of people who have those kind of fluctuating lifestyles and

736
00:37:23.400 --> 00:37:26.039
<v Speaker 2>difficult schedules, they can feel it a lot. It is

737
00:37:26.280 --> 00:37:29.039
<v Speaker 2>a classic sign of narcolepsies. If you get it a

738
00:37:29.079 --> 00:37:31.960
<v Speaker 2>lot and you're excessively sleepy, it could be a sign

739
00:37:32.039 --> 00:37:35.960
<v Speaker 2>to that. And interestingly, predominantly, like in the Southern African

740
00:37:36.000 --> 00:37:40.559
<v Speaker 2>American community, they often talk about something called the witch

741
00:37:40.679 --> 00:37:45.079
<v Speaker 2>riding you, which is awesome. It's invisible witch but I

742
00:37:45.079 --> 00:37:46.800
<v Speaker 2>didn't even know that was So if you look at

743
00:37:47.239 --> 00:37:49.079
<v Speaker 2>if you look at antiquity, and one of the cool

744
00:37:49.119 --> 00:37:53.880
<v Speaker 2>things about sleep is this awesome intersection between science and mythology.

745
00:37:53.920 --> 00:37:55.679
<v Speaker 2>If you look at sleep and there's this idea of

746
00:37:55.760 --> 00:37:57.800
<v Speaker 2>the witch riding you say, they would think that a

747
00:37:57.840 --> 00:38:00.400
<v Speaker 2>witch was literally sitting on your chest when you slept

748
00:38:00.400 --> 00:38:01.599
<v Speaker 2>at night writing you.

749
00:38:02.079 --> 00:38:05.360
<v Speaker 1>So I looked into this, and nearly every culture has

750
00:38:05.400 --> 00:38:09.960
<v Speaker 1>a name for this nocturnal perpetrator of sleep paralysis. In

751
00:38:10.079 --> 00:38:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Scandinavian culture it's a mare or a damned woman, and

752
00:38:14.880 --> 00:38:17.760
<v Speaker 1>in Fiji it's a demon. In Thailand it's a ghost,

753
00:38:18.159 --> 00:38:22.119
<v Speaker 1>In Britain it's an old hag, and in Eastern Asia

754
00:38:22.320 --> 00:38:25.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a little breath stealing mouse. Spain blames it on

755
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:29.840
<v Speaker 1>a cat. But officially the Wikipedia for this is just

756
00:38:30.079 --> 00:38:34.559
<v Speaker 1>titled casually night hag, which honestly sounds like the kind

757
00:38:34.559 --> 00:38:36.719
<v Speaker 1>of down to earth, self aware lady who'd be fun

758
00:38:36.719 --> 00:38:39.360
<v Speaker 1>to drink margs with and go to the disco. Just

759
00:38:39.360 --> 00:38:41.920
<v Speaker 1>a side note, So this next acide was written and

760
00:38:41.920 --> 00:38:44.719
<v Speaker 1>recorded in twenty eighteen, before I had read some great

761
00:38:44.800 --> 00:38:47.960
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty discourse on language and favoring the word black

762
00:38:48.199 --> 00:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>capitalized please instead of African American. And also before I

763
00:38:52.559 --> 00:38:56.039
<v Speaker 1>learned that the term Caucasian is rooted in some deep racism,

764
00:38:56.239 --> 00:38:58.719
<v Speaker 1>and now we just say white. So this next decide

765
00:38:59.039 --> 00:39:02.280
<v Speaker 1>again from twenty eighteen, I was directly quoting stats from

766
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:05.559
<v Speaker 1>a two thousand and five study before these language updates.

767
00:39:05.639 --> 00:39:08.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm leaving it in so that we can all learn this. Okay,

768
00:39:08.079 --> 00:39:12.239
<v Speaker 1>carry on twenty eighteen episode. Now, as an Italian from

769
00:39:12.280 --> 00:39:15.519
<v Speaker 1>northern California, I'd never heard of this very common Southern

770
00:39:15.639 --> 00:39:18.440
<v Speaker 1>United States colloquialism about a witch writing your back. But

771
00:39:18.519 --> 00:39:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I did do a little further research. Now, according to

772
00:39:22.440 --> 00:39:25.880
<v Speaker 1>one two thousand and five study, recurrent sleep paralysis was

773
00:39:25.960 --> 00:39:29.400
<v Speaker 1>reported by twenty three percent of African American volunteers in

774
00:39:29.400 --> 00:39:33.360
<v Speaker 1>the study, but only six percent of Caucasian volunteers, and

775
00:39:33.559 --> 00:39:36.679
<v Speaker 1>it can be linked to panic disorder. So what causes

776
00:39:36.760 --> 00:39:41.559
<v Speaker 1>panic disorder? The study states that significantly more early life

777
00:39:41.559 --> 00:39:45.639
<v Speaker 1>stressors were reported by African Americans than Caucasians, and it

778
00:39:45.679 --> 00:39:48.920
<v Speaker 1>went on to say that higher levels of psychosocial stressors,

779
00:39:49.000 --> 00:39:53.519
<v Speaker 1>including racism and a culturation, may contribute to the higher

780
00:39:53.639 --> 00:39:57.280
<v Speaker 1>rates of sleep paralysis experienced by African Americans. So just

781
00:39:57.320 --> 00:40:01.800
<v Speaker 1>another reminder that privilege is sneak, and scientists are wonderful

782
00:40:01.800 --> 00:40:04.079
<v Speaker 1>for turning over rocks and looking at this stuff because

783
00:40:04.079 --> 00:40:07.599
<v Speaker 1>the solutions might not be right under our literal noses.

784
00:40:07.920 --> 00:40:09.679
<v Speaker 2>And a couple people have told me that the way

785
00:40:09.760 --> 00:40:11.960
<v Speaker 2>you would keep the witch away is to keep a knife,

786
00:40:12.159 --> 00:40:14.320
<v Speaker 2>a fork, and a spoon under your pillow, which is

787
00:40:14.360 --> 00:40:16.760
<v Speaker 2>so cool. I love that kind of stuff. But even

788
00:40:16.840 --> 00:40:19.840
<v Speaker 2>like you know, incubus and sucubists, when you read about

789
00:40:19.880 --> 00:40:23.599
<v Speaker 2>these demons that would kind of visit people during during

790
00:40:23.599 --> 00:40:27.559
<v Speaker 2>the night, there there are you know, feelings of paralysis

791
00:40:27.679 --> 00:40:31.159
<v Speaker 2>or there's some really great Renaissance paintings of these demons

792
00:40:31.159 --> 00:40:33.880
<v Speaker 2>sitting on top of people's chests. Is one called the nightmare,

793
00:40:34.760 --> 00:40:36.639
<v Speaker 2>and that was the thought that this thing was sitting

794
00:40:36.719 --> 00:40:39.239
<v Speaker 2>on you, which is why you felt the weight. But

795
00:40:39.239 --> 00:40:41.519
<v Speaker 2>it was actually the paralysis all the muscles in between

796
00:40:41.519 --> 00:40:45.280
<v Speaker 2>your ribs making your rib cage less easy to expand

797
00:40:45.280 --> 00:40:47.360
<v Speaker 2>when you breathe, so it felt like weight on you.

798
00:40:47.400 --> 00:40:48.320
<v Speaker 2>Which is really interesting.

799
00:40:48.480 --> 00:40:49.400
<v Speaker 1>Is that what happened to you?

800
00:40:51.079 --> 00:40:53.599
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't think so. If it did,

801
00:40:53.599 --> 00:40:56.000
<v Speaker 2>it never really inspired any kind of fear. Now I've

802
00:40:56.039 --> 00:41:00.639
<v Speaker 2>certainly woken up and felt kind of incapacity. But I

803
00:41:00.679 --> 00:41:02.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know that I've ever had sleep paralysis.

804
00:41:03.119 --> 00:41:05.679
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it happened to me once, and it was horrifying.

805
00:41:05.760 --> 00:41:07.639
<v Speaker 1>It was like, Oh, I meant, when did it happened?

806
00:41:07.679 --> 00:41:10.239
<v Speaker 1>When it happened, it happened oddly. I was on vacation,

807
00:41:10.800 --> 00:41:13.760
<v Speaker 1>but I was on vacation with a boyfriend I broke

808
00:41:13.840 --> 00:41:16.280
<v Speaker 1>up with shortly thereafter, So maybe it was stressed.

809
00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:18.960
<v Speaker 2>But maybe he's on your chest in a weird way.

810
00:41:19.639 --> 00:41:19.880
<v Speaker 2>He was.

811
00:41:19.920 --> 00:41:23.480
<v Speaker 1>God, he was a ghost boyfriend. I will know I was,

812
00:41:23.559 --> 00:41:25.440
<v Speaker 1>But I remember just being like, oh, this is the

813
00:41:25.480 --> 00:41:27.199
<v Speaker 1>thing that people talk about. But it just is so

814
00:41:27.280 --> 00:41:29.639
<v Speaker 1>crazy because you feel like you're dead but alive. You

815
00:41:29.639 --> 00:41:30.239
<v Speaker 1>feel like a gud.

816
00:41:30.280 --> 00:41:33.239
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. So when we talk about sleep, one thing that's

817
00:41:33.239 --> 00:41:35.480
<v Speaker 2>fun to think about is sleep is not a light switch,

818
00:41:35.519 --> 00:41:38.000
<v Speaker 2>So we're not awake, and then the light switch goes

819
00:41:38.000 --> 00:41:40.639
<v Speaker 2>off and when we're asleep, like it's a state on off.

820
00:41:41.079 --> 00:41:44.719
<v Speaker 2>It's really sleep is a mechanism in our brain. But

821
00:41:44.760 --> 00:41:48.000
<v Speaker 2>then vigilance or wakefulness is too, so it's really too switches.

822
00:41:48.039 --> 00:41:50.239
<v Speaker 2>So when you're awake and we're sitting here talking, our

823
00:41:50.280 --> 00:41:53.159
<v Speaker 2>wake switches turned on. Our sweet sleep switch is turned off,

824
00:41:54.079 --> 00:41:56.719
<v Speaker 2>and when we sleep vice versa. Now sleep paralysis is

825
00:41:57.239 --> 00:41:59.800
<v Speaker 2>the wake and the sleep switch being turned on at

826
00:41:59.800 --> 00:42:00.480
<v Speaker 2>the same time.

827
00:42:00.840 --> 00:42:04.519
<v Speaker 1>God is are these switches kind of like instead of

828
00:42:05.440 --> 00:42:08.400
<v Speaker 1>binary switches, they are more like levers that go kind

829
00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:09.960
<v Speaker 1>of absolute down.

830
00:42:09.840 --> 00:42:13.320
<v Speaker 2>Like absolutely and they're affecting each other. So as the

831
00:42:13.440 --> 00:42:16.679
<v Speaker 2>sleep switch gets turned on and we start to accumulate

832
00:42:16.719 --> 00:42:20.280
<v Speaker 2>chemicals like a denizene that is feeding back to make

833
00:42:20.880 --> 00:42:23.199
<v Speaker 2>to make the other, it's like the I don't know, I

834
00:42:23.199 --> 00:42:25.599
<v Speaker 2>you've ever been like like a water park, like an

835
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<v Speaker 2>indoor water park often has this massive bucket in the

836
00:42:28.159 --> 00:42:32.719
<v Speaker 2>middle of it. It's constantly getting filled with water and

837
00:42:32.800 --> 00:42:35.519
<v Speaker 2>every you know, seven minutes, it just dumps it on everybody.

838
00:42:40.360 --> 00:42:42.440
<v Speaker 2>So that's kind of how sleep, you know, sleep and wakefulness.

839
00:42:42.480 --> 00:42:44.920
<v Speaker 2>As we are awake and talking, we're a cumulating chemicals

840
00:42:45.239 --> 00:42:48.400
<v Speaker 2>that are making that sleep bucket wanting to tip over

841
00:42:48.719 --> 00:42:50.760
<v Speaker 2>more and more, which is why we are a lot

842
00:42:50.840 --> 00:42:53.239
<v Speaker 2>sleepier at eleven PM than maybe eleven am.

843
00:42:53.679 --> 00:42:56.159
<v Speaker 1>And so what happens in sleep that is kind of

844
00:42:56.199 --> 00:42:59.079
<v Speaker 1>like a janitorial system. Like I've read something about how

845
00:42:59.599 --> 00:43:03.360
<v Speaker 1>with all Zheimer's and other brain diseases that your brain

846
00:43:03.440 --> 00:43:06.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of like rinses off plaques. Perhaps I don't know

847
00:43:06.440 --> 00:43:08.800
<v Speaker 1>absolutely what kind of things are we cleaning. And I'm

848
00:43:08.840 --> 00:43:11.760
<v Speaker 1>also asking you this as a way to get myself

849
00:43:11.760 --> 00:43:14.880
<v Speaker 1>to sleep, more to scare myself, because i know I've

850
00:43:14.920 --> 00:43:17.400
<v Speaker 1>got like a grimy ass brain, and I'm like, how

851
00:43:17.440 --> 00:43:18.360
<v Speaker 1>can I clean this thing?

852
00:43:20.119 --> 00:43:24.360
<v Speaker 2>It's great, so much to impact there. So yes, when

853
00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:28.639
<v Speaker 2>I was in medical school back in the late nineties,

854
00:43:29.400 --> 00:43:32.800
<v Speaker 2>I remember the lecture on the lymphatic system with an

855
00:43:32.960 --> 00:43:37.000
<v Speaker 2>l lymphatic which is the cleaning janitorus, A great word,

856
00:43:37.079 --> 00:43:41.159
<v Speaker 2>janitorial system of our body. It's getting rid of waste products,

857
00:43:41.280 --> 00:43:44.119
<v Speaker 2>kind of flushing it out. And I remember our lectures saying,

858
00:43:44.159 --> 00:43:47.679
<v Speaker 2>but interestingly, the brain doesn't have one, and then we

859
00:43:47.719 --> 00:43:49.400
<v Speaker 2>went on to the next topic. And I remember sitting

860
00:43:49.400 --> 00:43:53.119
<v Speaker 2>there thinking, wait a minute, the most important organ of

861
00:43:53.159 --> 00:43:55.920
<v Speaker 2>our brain, our body does not have it, this dantor system.

862
00:43:56.079 --> 00:43:58.639
<v Speaker 2>So it turns out that he and science was wrong.

863
00:43:59.159 --> 00:44:04.000
<v Speaker 2>This fantastic researcher in Maryland, she discovered it. And I'm

864
00:44:04.000 --> 00:44:06.320
<v Speaker 2>blanking on her name right now. Netterguard, I believe is

865
00:44:06.320 --> 00:44:06.719
<v Speaker 2>her name.

866
00:44:07.039 --> 00:44:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Danish neuroscientist doctor Mikannttergard. In twenty thirteen for anyone who

867
00:44:12.519 --> 00:44:15.360
<v Speaker 1>just wants to get a tattoo of a new science hero.

868
00:44:15.719 --> 00:44:17.840
<v Speaker 2>And she discovered it. She just said, it's hard to

869
00:44:17.840 --> 00:44:20.840
<v Speaker 2>find because the way we would prepare cadavers, you wouldn't

870
00:44:20.840 --> 00:44:23.440
<v Speaker 2>see it. So she not only discovered it, she named

871
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:29.159
<v Speaker 2>it the glimphatic system with a G and realized very

872
00:44:29.199 --> 00:44:32.119
<v Speaker 2>quickly that not only is it pumping out waste products,

873
00:44:32.119 --> 00:44:34.840
<v Speaker 2>but it's ten times more active when we sleep at

874
00:44:34.920 --> 00:44:35.880
<v Speaker 2>night than when we're awake.

875
00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:36.760
<v Speaker 1>My god.

876
00:44:36.840 --> 00:44:39.599
<v Speaker 2>So we've always known scientist is really good about knowing stuff,

877
00:44:39.599 --> 00:44:42.119
<v Speaker 2>we just don't know why. So we've always known that

878
00:44:42.199 --> 00:44:46.159
<v Speaker 2>people who didn't sleep particularly well often lent themselves to

879
00:44:46.239 --> 00:44:49.199
<v Speaker 2>developing things like dimensioned Alzheimer's disease. So now we've got

880
00:44:49.199 --> 00:44:51.760
<v Speaker 2>this really interesting theory that if you are the shift worker,

881
00:44:51.800 --> 00:44:53.880
<v Speaker 2>you're staying up late, playing video games at night, kind

882
00:44:53.880 --> 00:44:57.599
<v Speaker 2>of abusing yourself. You're not allowing your body to engage

883
00:44:57.639 --> 00:45:01.800
<v Speaker 2>this waste removal system effect. So the question becomes what

884
00:45:01.920 --> 00:45:05.280
<v Speaker 2>waste product are we removing. We are removing a product

885
00:45:05.320 --> 00:45:07.760
<v Speaker 2>called beta amyloid, which is exactly what you said, the

886
00:45:07.840 --> 00:45:12.440
<v Speaker 2>constituent of plaque in Alzheimer's disease. So if you have

887
00:45:12.599 --> 00:45:16.760
<v Speaker 2>a busy schedule, you don't value sleep. And it's interesting

888
00:45:16.760 --> 00:45:19.559
<v Speaker 2>because I'm getting the sense from you, reading about you

889
00:45:19.599 --> 00:45:21.880
<v Speaker 2>and learning more about you, is that you kind of

890
00:45:21.920 --> 00:45:24.599
<v Speaker 2>look at people and two different on a scale of

891
00:45:25.360 --> 00:45:30.159
<v Speaker 2>the horrible insomnia patient, can't sleep, tries like crazy, desperate

892
00:45:30.159 --> 00:45:32.760
<v Speaker 2>for sleep, dread's going to bed at night, and then

893
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:35.880
<v Speaker 2>you've got sort of you the alley the neurosurgeon, which

894
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:38.360
<v Speaker 2>is the person who's like, you know, if I can

895
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:40.760
<v Speaker 2>get two hours of sleep, I'm pretty good. We want

896
00:45:40.800 --> 00:45:42.320
<v Speaker 2>you to be in the middle. What we want you

897
00:45:42.400 --> 00:45:45.239
<v Speaker 2>to find as you started getting into your thirties and forties,

898
00:45:45.239 --> 00:45:49.280
<v Speaker 2>that middle ground of just because I can do it,

899
00:45:49.320 --> 00:45:51.039
<v Speaker 2>probably doesn't mean I should.

900
00:45:51.199 --> 00:45:54.360
<v Speaker 1>So one major thing you can do to ease insomnia.

901
00:45:54.719 --> 00:45:57.800
<v Speaker 1>You're ready for this, stop being afraid of it. Doctor

902
00:45:57.840 --> 00:46:01.280
<v Speaker 1>Winter says that the main cause of insomnia is anxiety

903
00:46:01.559 --> 00:46:04.840
<v Speaker 1>and fear. You can see the Theorology episode with Mary

904
00:46:04.840 --> 00:46:07.159
<v Speaker 1>Poff and Roth for a one two punch on dealing

905
00:46:07.159 --> 00:46:10.320
<v Speaker 1>with that. She's incredible. I mean, also on the same token,

906
00:46:10.400 --> 00:46:12.920
<v Speaker 1>if you think you can get away with four hours

907
00:46:12.960 --> 00:46:16.199
<v Speaker 1>of sleep, go ahead and try getting more. Let your

908
00:46:16.239 --> 00:46:19.519
<v Speaker 1>brain's clean up crew get to work. Now, what exactly

909
00:46:19.840 --> 00:46:22.880
<v Speaker 1>what other things are we cleaning out other than the plaques?

910
00:46:22.920 --> 00:46:25.159
<v Speaker 2>Like how does that affect our.

911
00:46:25.039 --> 00:46:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Memory and our motor coordination, and like our ability to

912
00:46:27.960 --> 00:46:31.000
<v Speaker 1>think quickly by having a brain.

913
00:46:31.119 --> 00:46:34.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so all those things you mentioned are true. So

914
00:46:34.920 --> 00:46:37.079
<v Speaker 2>and you can look at science in one of two ways.

915
00:46:37.119 --> 00:46:40.719
<v Speaker 2>You look at the science that either deprived or restricted sleep,

916
00:46:41.360 --> 00:46:43.440
<v Speaker 2>or you can look at sort of newer science where

917
00:46:43.480 --> 00:46:46.800
<v Speaker 2>you force people to sleep longer and even just rest longer.

918
00:46:46.840 --> 00:46:50.119
<v Speaker 2>But even within sleep medicine, my specialty is sleep and performance.

919
00:46:50.239 --> 00:46:52.280
<v Speaker 2>So I work with a lot of professional sports teams.

920
00:46:52.639 --> 00:46:55.159
<v Speaker 2>Not that I really care that much about athletes. I

921
00:46:55.480 --> 00:46:58.039
<v Speaker 2>care about them, I care about everybody. I'm not sort

922
00:46:58.039 --> 00:47:01.559
<v Speaker 2>of a rabid athletic fan. But what I like about athletes,

923
00:47:01.840 --> 00:47:04.400
<v Speaker 2>when you study it and you improve their sleep, we

924
00:47:04.440 --> 00:47:08.280
<v Speaker 2>can immediately measure how well they're doing. So I've never

925
00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:11.760
<v Speaker 2>seen the alley baseball card. You know how she doing, Oh,

926
00:47:11.920 --> 00:47:13.920
<v Speaker 2>twenty fourteen was a good year for her. She you know,

927
00:47:14.039 --> 00:47:16.320
<v Speaker 2>she batted this, she ran this, she scored this many runs,

928
00:47:16.599 --> 00:47:19.840
<v Speaker 2>you know. So we're all doing things that require performance athletes,

929
00:47:19.880 --> 00:47:22.719
<v Speaker 2>we just tend to measure it more. Right, So when

930
00:47:22.719 --> 00:47:25.920
<v Speaker 2>you actually get an individual to restrict their sleep. So

931
00:47:25.960 --> 00:47:28.840
<v Speaker 2>we don't do a lot of sleep deprivation experiments anymore

932
00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:33.199
<v Speaker 2>because they're kind of difficult and inhumane and frankly somewhat dangerous.

933
00:47:33.280 --> 00:47:36.239
<v Speaker 2>But even if you just restrict sleep, those things, to

934
00:47:36.280 --> 00:47:38.559
<v Speaker 2>me are much more meaningful. I think most people believe

935
00:47:38.559 --> 00:47:40.039
<v Speaker 2>that if you stay up all night, you don't work

936
00:47:40.039 --> 00:47:42.000
<v Speaker 2>that well the next day. But what if you got

937
00:47:42.039 --> 00:47:44.280
<v Speaker 2>four or five hours of sleep for several days in

938
00:47:44.320 --> 00:47:44.760
<v Speaker 2>a row.

939
00:47:45.079 --> 00:47:47.199
<v Speaker 1>So I use a fitbit, and this was actually me

940
00:47:47.960 --> 00:47:51.400
<v Speaker 1>all last week, averaged four hours a night for an

941
00:47:51.559 --> 00:47:56.039
<v Speaker 1>entire week. I was so foggy that I confused my itinerary.

942
00:47:56.400 --> 00:47:59.280
<v Speaker 1>I missed my first flight in ten years, and then

943
00:47:59.320 --> 00:48:02.079
<v Speaker 1>I cried in a airport bathroom out of frustration at myself,

944
00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:05.519
<v Speaker 1>like a big, weepy, cranky baby. So does lack of

945
00:48:05.599 --> 00:48:10.519
<v Speaker 1>sleep make me a weak person? Though? Well, physically yes.

946
00:48:10.519 --> 00:48:13.440
<v Speaker 2>It's been shown that you binge press drops by thirty

947
00:48:13.599 --> 00:48:16.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, twenty to thirty pounds, we make three times

948
00:48:17.000 --> 00:48:21.559
<v Speaker 2>more attention, you know, attention errors. We have a much

949
00:48:21.639 --> 00:48:26.199
<v Speaker 2>more impaired ability to read the emotions and cues of others.

950
00:48:26.760 --> 00:48:30.440
<v Speaker 2>So to do these experiments where you would hear, you know,

951
00:48:30.679 --> 00:48:33.320
<v Speaker 2>the person would say something like, that's a great idea,

952
00:48:33.800 --> 00:48:35.360
<v Speaker 2>or that's a great idea.

953
00:48:35.519 --> 00:48:38.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, Wow, this info is really helpful.

954
00:48:38.360 --> 00:48:41.280
<v Speaker 2>Our ability to kind of read cues, to emotionally attach

955
00:48:41.320 --> 00:48:44.280
<v Speaker 2>to other people becomes very impaired when we don't sleep. Now,

956
00:48:44.280 --> 00:48:46.079
<v Speaker 2>the flip side is what if you do sleep, What

957
00:48:46.119 --> 00:48:47.880
<v Speaker 2>if you do spend more time in bed? What if

958
00:48:47.880 --> 00:48:50.559
<v Speaker 2>you're forced to spend ten hours in bed no matter

959
00:48:50.599 --> 00:48:54.199
<v Speaker 2>what sleeping or resting. And it shows that people run faster,

960
00:48:54.320 --> 00:49:00.000
<v Speaker 2>they swim faster, they react to things quicker, they're accurate,

961
00:49:00.119 --> 00:49:03.800
<v Speaker 2>see in terms of aspects of their life improve they're happier,

962
00:49:04.159 --> 00:49:07.880
<v Speaker 2>they have better ideas. It's just amazing. They even lose weight.

963
00:49:08.000 --> 00:49:12.320
<v Speaker 2>I mean, so the idea that difficulties in sleep is

964
00:49:12.360 --> 00:49:15.239
<v Speaker 2>not affecting some part of your body is probably not true.

965
00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you think that depression or anxiety are related to

966
00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:21.800
<v Speaker 1>a lack of sleep? Like, I know that depression anxieties

967
00:49:22.000 --> 00:49:23.960
<v Speaker 1>are problems that a lot of people face. It seems

968
00:49:23.960 --> 00:49:26.280
<v Speaker 1>like more and more so many people are on antidepressants

969
00:49:26.280 --> 00:49:29.039
<v Speaker 1>anti anxiety medications. And also our sleep is kind of

970
00:49:29.159 --> 00:49:32.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of crappy. Side note, asking for myself is there

971
00:49:32.960 --> 00:49:35.920
<v Speaker 1>any correlation with that or is what does one cause

972
00:49:35.960 --> 00:49:36.280
<v Speaker 1>the other?

973
00:49:37.159 --> 00:49:40.559
<v Speaker 2>I think it works both ways. I think it's not

974
00:49:41.199 --> 00:49:44.320
<v Speaker 2>and most people who are struggling with depression, mood disturbance,

975
00:49:44.360 --> 00:49:48.400
<v Speaker 2>anxiety will tell you things like if I could just sleep,

976
00:49:49.320 --> 00:49:51.159
<v Speaker 2>I would feel better. And now you set up this

977
00:49:51.440 --> 00:49:55.199
<v Speaker 2>very vicious cycle of you know, you're depressed, you're anxious,

978
00:49:55.280 --> 00:49:58.199
<v Speaker 2>you're not sleeping well, and that's going to feedback into

979
00:49:58.280 --> 00:50:01.119
<v Speaker 2>making those depression anxieties worse and it makes you really

980
00:50:01.119 --> 00:50:03.079
<v Speaker 2>not sleep well. So there is a downward spiral that

981
00:50:03.119 --> 00:50:05.480
<v Speaker 2>can be set up there too. But I also think

982
00:50:05.519 --> 00:50:11.280
<v Speaker 2>that the relationship works oppositely. I think that individuals who

983
00:50:11.599 --> 00:50:17.199
<v Speaker 2>are depressed and who have difficulty with mood disturbance, their

984
00:50:17.480 --> 00:50:21.440
<v Speaker 2>their disorder is creating a lot of sleep disturbances as

985
00:50:21.480 --> 00:50:24.599
<v Speaker 2>well as the sleep disturbances helping to facilitate the disorder.

986
00:50:24.840 --> 00:50:27.760
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's very unusual to find somebody who has

987
00:50:27.840 --> 00:50:32.440
<v Speaker 2>significant insomnia who doesn't have some degree of anxiety, and

988
00:50:32.480 --> 00:50:36.119
<v Speaker 2>insomnia theory would tell you that step one in terms

989
00:50:36.159 --> 00:50:39.679
<v Speaker 2>of developing insomnia is you have a predisposition to it.

990
00:50:39.800 --> 00:50:42.280
<v Speaker 2>You're a type A, You've got a lot on your

991
00:50:42.280 --> 00:50:44.400
<v Speaker 2>plate and you know, type A is a good thing.

992
00:50:44.440 --> 00:50:46.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I want my surgeon, who's got to take

993
00:50:46.480 --> 00:50:48.639
<v Speaker 2>the tomb around of my brain, to be very type A.

994
00:50:48.719 --> 00:50:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't want the oh, well, you know, we'll get

995
00:50:51.480 --> 00:50:52.800
<v Speaker 2>to it when we get to it. You know, I'm

996
00:50:53.079 --> 00:50:54.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna follow the dead this summer and you know,

997
00:50:55.000 --> 00:50:57.280
<v Speaker 2>hockey sock flip flop, Doc Johnson. I don't want that

998
00:50:57.400 --> 00:51:01.639
<v Speaker 2>person who sleep when we got the I want, you know,

999
00:51:01.679 --> 00:51:04.880
<v Speaker 2>the really you know kind of you know, focused, hyper

1000
00:51:04.880 --> 00:51:08.480
<v Speaker 2>focused type A attention to detail person managing my finances

1001
00:51:08.480 --> 00:51:11.320
<v Speaker 2>and doing my surgeries whatnot. So that type A tendency

1002
00:51:11.320 --> 00:51:14.239
<v Speaker 2>makes the world around you successful. People have it. When

1003
00:51:14.239 --> 00:51:18.880
<v Speaker 2>they start to apply that that type A to the insomnia,

1004
00:51:18.880 --> 00:51:21.079
<v Speaker 2>it becomes a real problem. So I think that you know,

1005
00:51:21.159 --> 00:51:24.119
<v Speaker 2>individuals who are struggling with mood disturbance, I think it's

1006
00:51:24.159 --> 00:51:26.840
<v Speaker 2>important to understand and have an open mind to it

1007
00:51:26.920 --> 00:51:29.800
<v Speaker 2>working in both ways. Some people will resist, Oh, I

1008
00:51:29.840 --> 00:51:32.480
<v Speaker 2>don't have depression, doctor win or I'm not anxious. It's

1009
00:51:32.519 --> 00:51:34.400
<v Speaker 2>just my sleep is really messed up. And they may

1010
00:51:34.440 --> 00:51:37.119
<v Speaker 2>be right. But I think it's also okay to sort

1011
00:51:37.119 --> 00:51:40.480
<v Speaker 2>of open yourself up to the idea that maybe this

1012
00:51:40.519 --> 00:51:42.679
<v Speaker 2>is also playing a causet role in it too, so

1013
00:51:42.760 --> 00:51:45.119
<v Speaker 2>there's a huge connection between those two things.

1014
00:51:45.519 --> 00:51:48.599
<v Speaker 1>So lack of sleep can make you anxious and depressed.

1015
00:51:48.760 --> 00:51:52.079
<v Speaker 1>According to one study, just skimping on your sleep excites

1016
00:51:52.119 --> 00:51:55.960
<v Speaker 1>your amygdala in your insular cortex. Those are the parts

1017
00:51:55.960 --> 00:51:58.440
<v Speaker 1>of the brain that fire up your fight or flight response.

1018
00:51:58.880 --> 00:52:02.800
<v Speaker 1>But anxiety and depress can also cause insomnia. So the

1019
00:52:02.920 --> 00:52:06.960
<v Speaker 1>primary cause of just blinking awake in bed, according to

1020
00:52:07.039 --> 00:52:10.920
<v Speaker 1>doctor Winter, is anxiety. Now, there are secondary causes like

1021
00:52:11.320 --> 00:52:14.039
<v Speaker 1>pain that doesn't allow you to fall asleep, and those

1022
00:52:14.079 --> 00:52:16.760
<v Speaker 1>have to be addressed as a pain issue rather than

1023
00:52:16.800 --> 00:52:21.840
<v Speaker 1>a sleep issue. But primarily insomnia is an anxiety issue. Now,

1024
00:52:22.159 --> 00:52:25.840
<v Speaker 1>my personal issue with sleep, if we're gonna get confessional,

1025
00:52:26.360 --> 00:52:29.840
<v Speaker 1>is I learned this recently. It's called sleep avoidance or

1026
00:52:29.880 --> 00:52:33.400
<v Speaker 1>sleep procrastination. This is when you're tired and you need

1027
00:52:33.440 --> 00:52:36.519
<v Speaker 1>to sleep, but you just keep delaying it, either watching

1028
00:52:36.559 --> 00:52:41.199
<v Speaker 1>movies or scrolling or working or reading. Now, there are

1029
00:52:41.280 --> 00:52:43.960
<v Speaker 1>a few causes of this. One might be workaholism and

1030
00:52:44.039 --> 00:52:47.079
<v Speaker 1>not being able to admit that the day is done HEMP,

1031
00:52:47.719 --> 00:52:51.199
<v Speaker 1>or it could be loneliness and scrolling helps you feel

1032
00:52:51.239 --> 00:52:55.280
<v Speaker 1>connected to others. Also, I do that, or even a

1033
00:52:55.320 --> 00:52:57.480
<v Speaker 1>busy day tending to a lot of people can leave

1034
00:52:57.519 --> 00:53:01.159
<v Speaker 1>you needing alone time and staying up well passed. What

1035
00:53:01.320 --> 00:53:03.199
<v Speaker 1>is prudent is the only way for some people to

1036
00:53:03.239 --> 00:53:06.480
<v Speaker 1>get it, So hypnos is like, yo, this is why

1037
00:53:06.519 --> 00:53:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I hang out in a cave in hades. Nobody bucks me.

1038
00:53:09.679 --> 00:53:13.039
<v Speaker 1>So what are better sleep habits? The CDC has some

1039
00:53:13.079 --> 00:53:17.000
<v Speaker 1>hot tips. Centers for Disease Control, who apparently considers not

1040
00:53:17.000 --> 00:53:20.239
<v Speaker 1>sleeping enough kind of a disease, says, be consistent. Go

1041
00:53:20.280 --> 00:53:23.159
<v Speaker 1>to bed at the same time each night, including weekends,

1042
00:53:23.199 --> 00:53:25.840
<v Speaker 1>if you can make sure that your bedroom is quiet,

1043
00:53:26.159 --> 00:53:30.039
<v Speaker 1>dark and relaxing and at a comfortable temperature. We've learned

1044
00:53:30.280 --> 00:53:35.440
<v Speaker 1>colder is better. Who knew? Remove TVs, computers, smartphones from

1045
00:53:35.480 --> 00:53:38.360
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom. The CDC says to throw them into the

1046
00:53:38.400 --> 00:53:43.360
<v Speaker 1>simmering caldera of a volcano if you have one. Also,

1047
00:53:43.440 --> 00:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>avoid big meals and caffeine and booze before bedtime. We

1048
00:53:48.039 --> 00:53:50.000
<v Speaker 1>all kind of know that we're supposed to do those things.

1049
00:53:50.519 --> 00:53:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to shift the way I'm thinking about sleep

1050
00:53:53.119 --> 00:53:55.679
<v Speaker 1>to thinking of it as a free thing you can

1051
00:53:55.719 --> 00:53:59.000
<v Speaker 1>do to make your brain sharper and your skin glowier

1052
00:53:59.360 --> 00:54:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and your future sure less addled with disease. So if

1053
00:54:03.440 --> 00:54:06.360
<v Speaker 1>sleep hygiene were a thing you could buy and just

1054
00:54:06.440 --> 00:54:09.360
<v Speaker 1>not do, we would all be so pumped for it,

1055
00:54:09.679 --> 00:54:12.480
<v Speaker 1>we would Amazon prime this shit out of it. But

1056
00:54:12.559 --> 00:54:14.719
<v Speaker 1>really it's just a behavior, so we have to see

1057
00:54:14.840 --> 00:54:19.480
<v Speaker 1>value in the behavior. How much does sleep hygiene affect

1058
00:54:19.880 --> 00:54:22.079
<v Speaker 1>how much you actually sleep? Like, when you have to

1059
00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:24.960
<v Speaker 1>prescribe sleep hygiene, what do you tell people to do?

1060
00:54:25.800 --> 00:54:29.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So, what I would say about sleep hygiene is this.

1061
00:54:29.519 --> 00:54:32.360
<v Speaker 2>The media focuses a lot of attention on sleep hygiene

1062
00:54:32.440 --> 00:54:35.760
<v Speaker 2>because it's sort of a digestible, little bite sized nugget. Hey,

1063
00:54:36.119 --> 00:54:38.559
<v Speaker 2>having trouble sleeping, make sure your room is this temperature,

1064
00:54:38.559 --> 00:54:40.360
<v Speaker 2>and here's a study that shows that. Great. Moving on

1065
00:54:40.400 --> 00:54:43.159
<v Speaker 2>to the next topic or you know whatever. So sleep

1066
00:54:43.199 --> 00:54:45.519
<v Speaker 2>hygen is great. I would say that in terms of

1067
00:54:45.559 --> 00:54:50.360
<v Speaker 2>its ability to solve a problem twenty percent. So I

1068
00:54:50.400 --> 00:54:52.719
<v Speaker 2>would say of the people out there who are struggling

1069
00:54:52.760 --> 00:54:56.360
<v Speaker 2>with their sleep, that twenty percent of people, if they

1070
00:54:56.440 --> 00:54:59.679
<v Speaker 2>did something related to sleep hygiene, could make their problem,

1071
00:54:59.800 --> 00:55:02.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, much better, or solve it. And what I

1072
00:55:02.360 --> 00:55:05.599
<v Speaker 2>mean by that too, is also the idea that it's

1073
00:55:05.639 --> 00:55:07.800
<v Speaker 2>sort of like knee pain. If you're a runner, you know,

1074
00:55:07.920 --> 00:55:09.719
<v Speaker 2>my knees starting to hurt. So what you're gonna do.

1075
00:55:09.760 --> 00:55:12.920
<v Speaker 2>You'll take some ibuprofen. Maybe you'll buy a brace at CVS,

1076
00:55:13.679 --> 00:55:15.480
<v Speaker 2>You'll ice it, You'll take a couple of days off

1077
00:55:15.480 --> 00:55:17.519
<v Speaker 2>you're running. Well, you know, if you're doing all those

1078
00:55:17.559 --> 00:55:20.039
<v Speaker 2>things and still hearing this clicking sound and having this

1079
00:55:20.159 --> 00:55:23.440
<v Speaker 2>excruciating pain in your knee, eventually you're going to say,

1080
00:55:23.480 --> 00:55:26.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't know that this is within my ability to solve.

1081
00:55:26.920 --> 00:55:28.760
<v Speaker 2>You go see a specialist, they do an MRI. You've

1082
00:55:28.760 --> 00:55:30.920
<v Speaker 2>got a big piece of carlt sticking into your joint.

1083
00:55:31.920 --> 00:55:34.480
<v Speaker 2>So to me, that's sort of the sleep hygiene is.

1084
00:55:34.519 --> 00:55:38.280
<v Speaker 2>We sort of have this message out there that every

1085
00:55:38.320 --> 00:55:40.840
<v Speaker 2>one of your sleep problems is solvable if you just

1086
00:55:40.880 --> 00:55:43.159
<v Speaker 2>get the right mattress and the right pajamas, and the

1087
00:55:43.239 --> 00:55:47.800
<v Speaker 2>right noise machine and the your ear plugs and those

1088
00:55:47.840 --> 00:55:50.239
<v Speaker 2>are all fine. I just think that for about the

1089
00:55:50.320 --> 00:55:54.400
<v Speaker 2>other eighty percent of people, it's very anxiety provoking that

1090
00:55:54.440 --> 00:55:57.239
<v Speaker 2>you've invested in the five thousand dollars mattress. You've got

1091
00:55:57.239 --> 00:55:59.760
<v Speaker 2>Tom Brady's you know, special pajamas that he wears, and

1092
00:55:59.800 --> 00:56:02.079
<v Speaker 2>my god, he's a quarterback married to a model. So

1093
00:56:02.119 --> 00:56:04.360
<v Speaker 2>it's got to work without the sleep where I don't

1094
00:56:04.400 --> 00:56:06.079
<v Speaker 2>really feel like I would be able to achieve the

1095
00:56:06.119 --> 00:56:08.159
<v Speaker 2>things that I have done it, you know, and you

1096
00:56:08.199 --> 00:56:10.519
<v Speaker 2>got all this stuff going on and it's not working.

1097
00:56:10.559 --> 00:56:13.639
<v Speaker 2>I think that creates a lot of anxiety, sort of

1098
00:56:13.639 --> 00:56:16.360
<v Speaker 2>like where I'm hopeless, like nothing work. I've read twenty

1099
00:56:16.400 --> 00:56:18.039
<v Speaker 2>different books, which is why I didn't put a lot

1100
00:56:18.079 --> 00:56:21.400
<v Speaker 2>of sleep hygiene in my book, just because I thought,

1101
00:56:22.119 --> 00:56:24.360
<v Speaker 2>I think we all know these things. Now it's kind

1102
00:56:24.360 --> 00:56:26.280
<v Speaker 2>of getting to the point of common knowledge.

1103
00:56:26.639 --> 00:56:26.880
<v Speaker 1>You know.

1104
00:56:27.320 --> 00:56:30.599
<v Speaker 2>Oh what not having the TV on really loud all

1105
00:56:30.679 --> 00:56:33.119
<v Speaker 2>night long? That's not good. Okay, you know if you

1106
00:56:33.360 --> 00:56:37.599
<v Speaker 2>if you're surprised by that, where have you been so anyway,

1107
00:56:38.039 --> 00:56:40.760
<v Speaker 2>So I think sleep hygiene is important. We want to

1108
00:56:40.800 --> 00:56:42.599
<v Speaker 2>set the stage for good sleep. We want to have

1109
00:56:42.719 --> 00:56:45.920
<v Speaker 2>positive thoughts about sleep, like sleep's great. I mean, we

1110
00:56:45.960 --> 00:56:48.239
<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be dreading it or fearing it. I think it's

1111
00:56:48.280 --> 00:56:50.840
<v Speaker 2>even strange to be kind of neutral about sleep. I mean,

1112
00:56:51.239 --> 00:56:53.679
<v Speaker 2>be neutral about brushing your teeth, but sleep, oh, it's

1113
00:56:53.679 --> 00:56:55.039
<v Speaker 2>the best thing in the world to get in bed,

1114
00:56:55.079 --> 00:56:58.159
<v Speaker 2>and you know whatnot And so I think that we

1115
00:56:58.280 --> 00:57:01.119
<v Speaker 2>need to cultivate that attitude, but understand that it has

1116
00:57:01.159 --> 00:57:02.039
<v Speaker 2>its limitations.

1117
00:57:02.719 --> 00:57:05.880
<v Speaker 1>And now, how dark and quiet should your room be?

1118
00:57:05.960 --> 00:57:10.280
<v Speaker 2>Though? You know again, I think that if you're struggling

1119
00:57:10.280 --> 00:57:14.920
<v Speaker 2>with your sleep, really dark and really quiet, you know,

1120
00:57:14.960 --> 00:57:17.960
<v Speaker 2>people ask about noise machines or things like that. I mean,

1121
00:57:17.960 --> 00:57:20.840
<v Speaker 2>we're always going to sleep better in a quiet environment.

1122
00:57:20.960 --> 00:57:25.360
<v Speaker 2>So and our brains pay attentions to sound. So if

1123
00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:27.400
<v Speaker 2>somebody says, well, I really like listening to a podcast

1124
00:57:27.400 --> 00:57:30.199
<v Speaker 2>when I go to bed at night, that's fine, but

1125
00:57:30.239 --> 00:57:33.039
<v Speaker 2>maybe you could set it so after fifteen minutes it

1126
00:57:33.360 --> 00:57:37.559
<v Speaker 2>turns itself off. Dark rooms are really important my parents,

1127
00:57:37.679 --> 00:57:38.960
<v Speaker 2>I think I talk about this in the book. My

1128
00:57:39.039 --> 00:57:42.039
<v Speaker 2>parents like redid their basement. When I was growing up,

1129
00:57:42.039 --> 00:57:44.800
<v Speaker 2>we had this like unfinished basement. They finished it themselves

1130
00:57:44.840 --> 00:57:47.480
<v Speaker 2>and kind of did it, you know, outside the you

1131
00:57:47.519 --> 00:57:49.920
<v Speaker 2>know the law. I think, you know. So one of

1132
00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:53.039
<v Speaker 2>the bedrooms, the bedroom down there, has no way to

1133
00:57:53.079 --> 00:57:55.760
<v Speaker 2>get out, so it's like surrounded by earth on two

1134
00:57:55.840 --> 00:57:58.800
<v Speaker 2>sides and there's a door, but there's zero window. It

1135
00:57:58.880 --> 00:58:02.840
<v Speaker 2>is incredibly dark, incredibly quiet, and incredibly cool. And I

1136
00:58:02.880 --> 00:58:04.559
<v Speaker 2>remember going there like well, I would come in for

1137
00:58:04.599 --> 00:58:07.519
<v Speaker 2>like college breaks and falling asleep in there and waking

1138
00:58:07.639 --> 00:58:10.840
<v Speaker 2>up at noon, you know, and being like, well, what

1139
00:58:10.960 --> 00:58:14.079
<v Speaker 2>time is it, Like where have you been? You know.

1140
00:58:14.360 --> 00:58:16.599
<v Speaker 2>So even the smallest little bit of light coming in

1141
00:58:16.679 --> 00:58:20.519
<v Speaker 2>through a door or underneath a blind can really impair

1142
00:58:20.559 --> 00:58:21.079
<v Speaker 2>our sleep.

1143
00:58:21.639 --> 00:58:24.360
<v Speaker 1>So side note, we're going to get all into blue

1144
00:58:24.440 --> 00:58:27.440
<v Speaker 1>light and how it affects sleep in next week's part two.

1145
00:58:27.800 --> 00:58:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Also stick around to this episode after the credits, and

1146
00:58:30.880 --> 00:58:33.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to tell you and only a little bit

1147
00:58:33.079 --> 00:58:36.519
<v Speaker 1>gross secret about my imask. Anyway, sleeping with the lights

1148
00:58:36.559 --> 00:58:38.199
<v Speaker 1>on very confusing to your brain.

1149
00:58:38.840 --> 00:58:41.280
<v Speaker 2>So if you're a shift worker, you know, especially and

1150
00:58:41.320 --> 00:58:43.679
<v Speaker 2>you're sleeping a lot during the day, you want that

1151
00:58:43.800 --> 00:58:46.559
<v Speaker 2>room to be so dark that you cannot see your

1152
00:58:46.559 --> 00:58:47.280
<v Speaker 2>hand from your.

1153
00:58:47.119 --> 00:58:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Face, and quiet, maybe with earplugs and quiet.

1154
00:58:49.920 --> 00:58:51.480
<v Speaker 2>And if you can't do that, then you know, like

1155
00:58:51.519 --> 00:58:53.840
<v Speaker 2>you said, earplugs or a mask over your eyes is

1156
00:58:53.840 --> 00:58:54.719
<v Speaker 2>probably just as good.

1157
00:58:55.159 --> 00:58:57.679
<v Speaker 1>And in your book you mentioned it's okay to not

1158
00:58:57.719 --> 00:58:59.760
<v Speaker 1>sleep in the same room as a spouse or a partner.

1159
00:59:00.840 --> 00:59:03.920
<v Speaker 2>It is, I mean, I always I'm a doctor who

1160
00:59:03.920 --> 00:59:06.920
<v Speaker 2>practices in Virginia, so I consider that the South. And

1161
00:59:06.960 --> 00:59:09.719
<v Speaker 2>you gotta be very careful about the way you speak

1162
00:59:09.760 --> 00:59:12.239
<v Speaker 2>to people, they always give you that look like you

1163
00:59:12.320 --> 00:59:13.960
<v Speaker 2>trying to steal my wife, Like you know this guy

1164
00:59:14.000 --> 00:59:16.159
<v Speaker 2>how you says look like no, and it's you know,

1165
00:59:17.039 --> 00:59:20.960
<v Speaker 2>so I have I think sleeping with somebody is fantastic.

1166
00:59:21.480 --> 00:59:23.559
<v Speaker 2>I do find it sort of strange that we have

1167
00:59:23.679 --> 00:59:28.679
<v Speaker 2>evolved to do that. Like I, you know, I don't

1168
00:59:28.719 --> 00:59:31.400
<v Speaker 2>necessarily feel the urge to do other things, like let's

1169
00:59:31.400 --> 00:59:33.559
<v Speaker 2>sit in the same chare, honey and eat this from

1170
00:59:33.599 --> 00:59:35.599
<v Speaker 2>the same plate. You know, it's okay to be like

1171
00:59:35.719 --> 00:59:37.440
<v Speaker 2>you sit over there and eat your thing. I'll eat

1172
00:59:37.519 --> 00:59:40.280
<v Speaker 2>over here. There's a lot of things we do separately.

1173
00:59:40.559 --> 00:59:42.239
<v Speaker 2>You do it over there, I'll do my thing over here.

1174
00:59:42.239 --> 00:59:44.599
<v Speaker 2>Even in our bathrooms have two different things sometimes, you know,

1175
00:59:44.639 --> 00:59:47.159
<v Speaker 2>you you know, so I do think it's funny that

1176
00:59:47.199 --> 00:59:49.440
<v Speaker 2>we've evolved to kind of create this thing that we

1177
00:59:49.519 --> 00:59:53.000
<v Speaker 2>need to sleep in the same bed. And maybe it

1178
00:59:53.039 --> 00:59:55.639
<v Speaker 2>was evolutionary that, you know, houses were small, you were

1179
00:59:55.639 --> 00:59:58.000
<v Speaker 2>conserving heat or things of that nature like that. But

1180
00:59:58.519 --> 01:00:01.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, I think that you can love somebody intensely

1181
01:00:03.079 --> 01:00:05.960
<v Speaker 2>and not be in the same bed with them, or

1182
01:00:06.039 --> 01:00:07.599
<v Speaker 2>you know, what I always tell people is some things

1183
01:00:07.599 --> 01:00:09.800
<v Speaker 2>that's a little bit more palatable for some couples is

1184
01:00:10.199 --> 01:00:14.079
<v Speaker 2>let's pick Thursday. Thursday will be the day we watch

1185
01:00:14.119 --> 01:00:17.079
<v Speaker 2>Handmaid's Tale, but then we sleep separately so we can

1186
01:00:17.159 --> 01:00:20.519
<v Speaker 2>consider what that means in terms of our society independent

1187
01:00:20.519 --> 01:00:22.719
<v Speaker 2>of one another, and over breakfast we'll talk about the

1188
01:00:22.760 --> 01:00:25.400
<v Speaker 2>episode and how we feel about it. I was asleep before.

1189
01:00:25.840 --> 01:00:28.280
<v Speaker 2>That's how we let it happen, yeah, or whatever, So

1190
01:00:28.280 --> 01:00:30.639
<v Speaker 2>so that way there's no guilt. It's like, oh, it's

1191
01:00:30.679 --> 01:00:33.119
<v Speaker 2>Thursday night, We're going to sleep separately, and it's kind

1192
01:00:33.119 --> 01:00:34.800
<v Speaker 2>of fun to get back together on Friday night, you know,

1193
01:00:34.880 --> 01:00:37.199
<v Speaker 2>kind of thing. So when I was on call as

1194
01:00:37.239 --> 01:00:39.119
<v Speaker 2>a doctor, I would always sleep in the basement in

1195
01:00:39.159 --> 01:00:40.920
<v Speaker 2>a guest bedroom that had a window by the way,

1196
01:00:41.960 --> 01:00:44.480
<v Speaker 2>and I know my wife was secretly thrilled when I

1197
01:00:44.480 --> 01:00:46.800
<v Speaker 2>would not be there. You know, you can stretch out

1198
01:00:46.840 --> 01:00:49.920
<v Speaker 2>and somebody's ether not moaning or pagers going off and whatnot.

1199
01:00:50.079 --> 01:00:52.519
<v Speaker 2>So I think it's okay. I mean, if somebody says, look,

1200
01:00:52.519 --> 01:00:54.239
<v Speaker 2>I really like sleeping with my partner, I don't want

1201
01:00:54.280 --> 01:00:56.199
<v Speaker 2>to sleep away from him or her, that's perfectly fine.

1202
01:00:56.199 --> 01:00:58.880
<v Speaker 2>But I think it's also it's you are we are

1203
01:00:58.960 --> 01:01:02.280
<v Speaker 2>capable of loving buddy and not be in the same mattress.

1204
01:01:02.440 --> 01:01:05.559
<v Speaker 1>I think you maybe just save some marriages right there.

1205
01:01:05.840 --> 01:01:08.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we've got a sleep cation. I think my wife

1206
01:01:08.039 --> 01:01:09.920
<v Speaker 2>came with that word to it, called a sleepcation. It's

1207
01:01:10.000 --> 01:01:12.519
<v Speaker 2>kind of exotic, like when what they're up to tonight

1208
01:01:12.599 --> 01:01:14.320
<v Speaker 2>and you know, and I always tell people, you know,

1209
01:01:14.320 --> 01:01:17.000
<v Speaker 2>you can get in bed and read and maybe fool around,

1210
01:01:23.199 --> 01:01:25.320
<v Speaker 2>and then when it's time to sleep, you know, you

1211
01:01:25.440 --> 01:01:26.920
<v Speaker 2>kind of do the thing like, well, I'm going to

1212
01:01:27.039 --> 01:01:29.280
<v Speaker 2>leave now. And it doesn't mean you don't love them

1213
01:01:29.360 --> 01:01:31.119
<v Speaker 2>or want to be with them. And ohife hates me

1214
01:01:31.280 --> 01:01:34.360
<v Speaker 2>being anywhere near her at night and for some reason

1215
01:01:34.480 --> 01:01:36.440
<v Speaker 2>kind of gravitate over to her side of the bed

1216
01:01:36.519 --> 01:01:38.920
<v Speaker 2>and she's like, get away. You know, I just don't

1217
01:01:38.920 --> 01:01:40.679
<v Speaker 2>want that. And I don't mean I don't think. I

1218
01:01:40.719 --> 01:01:43.599
<v Speaker 2>don't think it means she doesn't love me. But you know,

1219
01:01:43.599 --> 01:01:46.159
<v Speaker 2>I think that people just need to sleep and do

1220
01:01:46.239 --> 01:01:48.320
<v Speaker 2>what's right for their sleep and not necessarily have some

1221
01:01:48.800 --> 01:01:51.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, guy breathing and hanging over top of you know,

1222
01:01:52.519 --> 01:01:53.679
<v Speaker 2>I think it's probably a good thing.

1223
01:01:54.119 --> 01:01:57.280
<v Speaker 1>And if you do this side note, you're not alone.

1224
01:01:57.480 --> 01:01:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I read one study that said almost fourteen percent of

1225
01:02:00.000 --> 01:02:03.679
<v Speaker 1>couples who live together sleep apart, mostly because of snoring.

1226
01:02:04.000 --> 01:02:06.480
<v Speaker 1>And I read this one tip that said sleeping on

1227
01:02:06.519 --> 01:02:09.320
<v Speaker 1>your back can cause snoring. And you can wear a

1228
01:02:09.360 --> 01:02:12.599
<v Speaker 1>T shirt with a pocket backwards and put a tennis

1229
01:02:12.599 --> 01:02:15.280
<v Speaker 1>ball in the pocket to train you not to sleep

1230
01:02:15.320 --> 01:02:18.559
<v Speaker 1>in hivas in a corpse post. Now, if it works,

1231
01:02:18.920 --> 01:02:21.920
<v Speaker 1>or if you have Wimbledon nightmares, please let me know.

1232
01:02:25.800 --> 01:02:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Now.

1233
01:02:25.960 --> 01:02:27.239
<v Speaker 1>What about naps good or bad?

1234
01:02:28.760 --> 01:02:31.119
<v Speaker 2>So my definition of so, I think a nap is

1235
01:02:31.239 --> 01:02:34.840
<v Speaker 2>good if you're an efficient sleeper. What I mean by

1236
01:02:34.880 --> 01:02:37.599
<v Speaker 2>that is if you're somebody who gets in bed, falls

1237
01:02:37.599 --> 01:02:40.559
<v Speaker 2>asleep in a time that's pleasing to you, you sleep

1238
01:02:40.639 --> 01:02:43.880
<v Speaker 2>relatively well, and then you still feel like you need sleep.

1239
01:02:43.920 --> 01:02:45.800
<v Speaker 2>On top of that, I think a nap is a

1240
01:02:45.800 --> 01:02:48.079
<v Speaker 2>great thing. You know, if you can build it into

1241
01:02:48.119 --> 01:02:50.199
<v Speaker 2>your day at a designated time and have a little

1242
01:02:50.199 --> 01:02:52.039
<v Speaker 2>place where you can do it, that's kind of special

1243
01:02:52.079 --> 01:02:53.960
<v Speaker 2>and I think that's great. I think it's a bad

1244
01:02:54.000 --> 01:02:56.320
<v Speaker 2>idea when somebody says I went to bed last night,

1245
01:02:56.639 --> 01:02:59.079
<v Speaker 2>I was really upset about a decision on the voice,

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01:02:59.480 --> 01:03:02.119
<v Speaker 2>and I can't believe they sent her home because she's

1247
01:03:02.159 --> 01:03:05.079
<v Speaker 2>so much better than that guy who's saying dock of

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01:03:05.119 --> 01:03:07.920
<v Speaker 2>the bay. For God's sakes, he got through seeing doc

1249
01:03:08.000 --> 01:03:10.880
<v Speaker 2>of the bed. I don't believe it, and she completely

1250
01:03:10.920 --> 01:03:15.440
<v Speaker 2>reworked that Christina or anyway digressing. So you're really upset

1251
01:03:15.440 --> 01:03:19.760
<v Speaker 2>about that thing, and you go to bed and it

1252
01:03:19.800 --> 01:03:21.440
<v Speaker 2>takes you three hours to fall asleep. You know, you

1253
01:03:21.440 --> 01:03:23.519
<v Speaker 2>were up all night because of that. You can't believe

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01:03:23.559 --> 01:03:26.119
<v Speaker 2>the decision. And then you take a nap the next

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01:03:26.239 --> 01:03:28.840
<v Speaker 2>day because you couldn't sleep last night. Now you had

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01:03:28.880 --> 01:03:31.519
<v Speaker 2>the opportunity to sleep, but for whatever reason, your brain

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01:03:31.559 --> 01:03:33.880
<v Speaker 2>decided he didn't want to. I think that's a dangerous

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01:03:33.920 --> 01:03:35.880
<v Speaker 2>path to go down. You see that a lot with

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01:03:35.960 --> 01:03:38.960
<v Speaker 2>retired people. There's no kids in the house anymore. I

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01:03:39.000 --> 01:03:41.000
<v Speaker 2>love old people. They can get up at three o'clock

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01:03:41.000 --> 01:03:41.880
<v Speaker 2>in the morning if they want to. They can go

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01:03:41.920 --> 01:03:43.679
<v Speaker 2>to bed at six o'clock after McNeil lair if they

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01:03:43.679 --> 01:03:45.280
<v Speaker 2>want to. They can do whatever the hell they want to.

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01:03:45.280 --> 01:03:47.679
<v Speaker 2>They've earned it, for God's sakes. But the problem is

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01:03:47.679 --> 01:03:50.119
<v Speaker 2>when they have no sort of constraints on their sleep.

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01:03:50.599 --> 01:03:52.880
<v Speaker 2>If they have a bad night, but they just sleep

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01:03:52.880 --> 01:03:55.440
<v Speaker 2>in or take a massive four hour nap, right, you know,

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01:03:55.440 --> 01:03:57.760
<v Speaker 2>at five o'clock in the afternoon, And now it's eleven o'clock,

1269
01:03:57.760 --> 01:04:00.559
<v Speaker 2>they want to go to bed, they can't, another frustrated,

1270
01:04:00.599 --> 01:04:02.679
<v Speaker 2>and so the cycle sort of begins. So I think

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01:04:02.880 --> 01:04:05.840
<v Speaker 2>napping is great. Try to keep it relatively short, twenty

1272
01:04:05.920 --> 01:04:08.360
<v Speaker 2>twenty five, thirty minutes closer to the beginning of the day,

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01:04:08.400 --> 01:04:10.840
<v Speaker 2>so we're adding on to last night, not subtracting from

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01:04:10.840 --> 01:04:14.639
<v Speaker 2>the upcoming night. And I think naps are great. I mean,

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01:04:14.639 --> 01:04:17.159
<v Speaker 2>it's such a such a wonderful thing to you know,

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01:04:17.239 --> 01:04:20.000
<v Speaker 2>kind of sleep at a time when you're not supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it's also interesting to pay attention to

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01:04:22.800 --> 01:04:25.880
<v Speaker 2>how you fall asleep when you nap. Meaning I've got

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01:04:25.920 --> 01:04:28.559
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people who it takes the four hours

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01:04:28.559 --> 01:04:30.719
<v Speaker 2>to fall asleep at night, and they feel completely dependent

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01:04:30.760 --> 01:04:33.559
<v Speaker 2>on sleeping pills. But they'll say things like, I was,

1282
01:04:33.599 --> 01:04:35.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, sitting there the other day and it's hard

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01:04:35.360 --> 01:04:37.280
<v Speaker 2>for me to you know, I come in from church,

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01:04:37.360 --> 01:04:39.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm so exhausted, I take a nap. And I always

1285
01:04:39.639 --> 01:04:41.559
<v Speaker 2>ask them, well, what what pill do you take to

1286
01:04:41.599 --> 01:04:43.360
<v Speaker 2>take your nap after church? And look at you like, oh,

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01:04:43.360 --> 01:04:45.639
<v Speaker 2>I don't take a pill, then well, why do you

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01:04:45.639 --> 01:04:47.880
<v Speaker 2>think if you're able to fall asleep after church? But

1289
01:04:47.920 --> 01:04:49.639
<v Speaker 2>you're not able to fall asleep eleven o'clock when you

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01:04:49.679 --> 01:04:51.440
<v Speaker 2>want to go to bed. And it's always interesting the

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01:04:51.480 --> 01:04:54.119
<v Speaker 2>answers they give you, you know, because we think of nap

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01:04:54.159 --> 01:04:56.719
<v Speaker 2>as being this sort of extra credit. You know, teacher

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01:04:56.760 --> 01:04:58.880
<v Speaker 2>gives you some problems, and the last two problems on

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01:04:58.920 --> 01:05:00.760
<v Speaker 2>the test to extra credit. Well, I've got some time.

1295
01:05:00.800 --> 01:05:02.960
<v Speaker 2>I'll do it, no pressure, and you to get those right,

1296
01:05:03.440 --> 01:05:05.199
<v Speaker 2>cause it's like if you get them, great, if you don't,

1297
01:05:05.239 --> 01:05:07.280
<v Speaker 2>it's not that big a deal. It's extra credit. Naps

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01:05:07.320 --> 01:05:09.400
<v Speaker 2>sort of like our sleep extra credit. You know, it's

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01:05:09.480 --> 01:05:12.880
<v Speaker 2>bonus sleep. But boy, you know, the final exam is

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01:05:12.920 --> 01:05:14.760
<v Speaker 2>our sleep at night. We got to sleep now, like

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01:05:14.800 --> 01:05:16.280
<v Speaker 2>we want to kind of get out of that place.

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01:05:16.920 --> 01:05:17.880
<v Speaker 2>So that's a good place.

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01:05:18.000 --> 01:05:21.079
<v Speaker 1>So the anxiety of sleeping doesn't let you sleep, doesn't

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01:05:21.119 --> 01:05:21.360
<v Speaker 1>let you.

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01:05:21.360 --> 01:05:23.599
<v Speaker 2>Sleep, and so we don't want to. We want nap

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01:05:23.719 --> 01:05:25.159
<v Speaker 2>to facilitate the process.

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<v Speaker 1>So to recap, naps are fine, but not if they

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01:05:29.159 --> 01:05:32.000
<v Speaker 1>mess up your bedtime. So do it earlier or just

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01:05:32.079 --> 01:05:36.239
<v Speaker 1>save that sleepiness for sweet sweet night slumber. Now, if

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01:05:36.280 --> 01:05:38.400
<v Speaker 1>sleep is an issue for you or for someone in

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01:05:38.400 --> 01:05:41.960
<v Speaker 1>your life, maybe take like a nerdy approach first and

1312
01:05:42.079 --> 01:05:45.639
<v Speaker 1>just gather some data, and so what is the best

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01:05:45.639 --> 01:05:48.760
<v Speaker 1>way to track it? Because knowledge of your sleep will

1314
01:05:48.800 --> 01:05:54.199
<v Speaker 1>probably motivate you to get better sleep. Our fitbit trackers good.

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01:05:54.199 --> 01:05:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Should you wear like a headband with electronics on it?

1316
01:05:57.000 --> 01:05:59.239
<v Speaker 1>Should you just try to keep a journal next to

1317
01:05:59.239 --> 01:06:00.880
<v Speaker 1>your bed, Like, what's the best way to figure out

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01:06:00.920 --> 01:06:01.719
<v Speaker 1>if you're getting enough?

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01:06:02.360 --> 01:06:04.960
<v Speaker 2>So all those things are good. I think the personally

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01:06:05.000 --> 01:06:07.159
<v Speaker 2>the best way to figure out you're getting enough sleep

1321
01:06:08.039 --> 01:06:11.639
<v Speaker 2>is to look up, either in my book or online,

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01:06:11.679 --> 01:06:13.920
<v Speaker 2>something called the Epworth Sleepiness Scale.

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01:06:14.239 --> 01:06:16.880
<v Speaker 1>So I was hoping that this quick test was named

1324
01:06:16.880 --> 01:06:21.079
<v Speaker 1>for like a Lord Epworth, the Duke of Knaps, who

1325
01:06:21.159 --> 01:06:25.400
<v Speaker 1>fell asleep playing croquet, But it was actually coined by

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01:06:25.679 --> 01:06:28.599
<v Speaker 1>an Australian doctor, Murray John's for the hospital that he

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01:06:28.639 --> 01:06:31.320
<v Speaker 1>works at. Okay, a little bit of a snoozebust on

1328
01:06:31.360 --> 01:06:35.840
<v Speaker 1>that backstory. Anyway, you can take it at Epworthsleepiness Scale

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01:06:36.039 --> 01:06:41.480
<v Speaker 1>dot com. I myself scored an eleven mild excessive daytime sleepiness.

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01:06:41.840 --> 01:06:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Now doctor Winter explains what this scale is.

1331
01:06:45.480 --> 01:06:48.360
<v Speaker 2>Which is a series of scenarios that you might find

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01:06:48.400 --> 01:06:50.960
<v Speaker 2>yourself in and the question is how likely would you

1333
01:06:51.039 --> 01:06:53.480
<v Speaker 2>fall asleep if you were in that situation. How likely

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01:06:53.519 --> 01:06:55.440
<v Speaker 2>would it be for you to fall asleep reading a book,

1335
01:06:55.480 --> 01:06:58.119
<v Speaker 2>watching television, passenger in a car for an hour. If

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01:06:58.159 --> 01:07:01.440
<v Speaker 2>you're answering the question all the time, always fall asleep.

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01:07:01.519 --> 01:07:03.159
<v Speaker 2>Can't read because I fall asleep as soon as I

1338
01:07:03.159 --> 01:07:05.280
<v Speaker 2>start reading. I really can't sit down in the evening

1339
01:07:05.360 --> 01:07:08.320
<v Speaker 2>or I'll fall asleep. That's probably a good indication that

1340
01:07:08.360 --> 01:07:10.480
<v Speaker 2>you're not getting enough sleep. There's something wrong with it.

1341
01:07:10.599 --> 01:07:14.400
<v Speaker 2>So I think all those modalities that you mentioned sleep

1342
01:07:14.440 --> 01:07:18.559
<v Speaker 2>diaries fitbit tracker. I'm wearing one that's made by Nokia,

1343
01:07:18.599 --> 01:07:21.079
<v Speaker 2>which I think is outstanding because it uses movement and

1344
01:07:21.159 --> 01:07:24.840
<v Speaker 2>some heart rate variability. All those things are great. You

1345
01:07:24.920 --> 01:07:27.000
<v Speaker 2>just need to understand sort of what they're built to

1346
01:07:27.079 --> 01:07:30.000
<v Speaker 2>do and what they're not built to do. But they're

1347
01:07:30.039 --> 01:07:32.360
<v Speaker 2>a great way. All of these things do such a

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01:07:32.360 --> 01:07:35.280
<v Speaker 2>good job of keeping us honest about our sleep. I mean,

1349
01:07:35.280 --> 01:07:37.119
<v Speaker 2>I would go around tell people I'd get seven hours

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01:07:37.119 --> 01:07:39.199
<v Speaker 2>sleep at night, go bed around eleven o'clock, get up

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01:07:39.199 --> 01:07:42.360
<v Speaker 2>around six, which is such a lie. Like when I

1352
01:07:42.400 --> 01:07:46.679
<v Speaker 2>started wearing these, I wore several trackers on my arm

1353
01:07:46.800 --> 01:07:49.360
<v Speaker 2>for a month to see which ones were good and

1354
01:07:49.360 --> 01:07:51.119
<v Speaker 2>not so good, And then I did a sleep study

1355
01:07:51.159 --> 01:07:54.280
<v Speaker 2>of myself, and then last night wearing all of them

1356
01:07:54.320 --> 01:07:56.639
<v Speaker 2>to see how they compare to the actual sleep study.

1357
01:07:57.079 --> 01:07:59.599
<v Speaker 2>And the thing I learned the most about that process

1358
01:07:59.800 --> 01:08:02.440
<v Speaker 2>was what a liar I was about my own sleep,

1359
01:08:02.480 --> 01:08:05.039
<v Speaker 2>you know, and not even knowing that. I'm not deceiving

1360
01:08:05.079 --> 01:08:08.199
<v Speaker 2>people intentionally. It's just that, yes, ideally I would like

1361
01:08:08.239 --> 01:08:09.840
<v Speaker 2>to go about eleven to get up at six, but

1362
01:08:10.400 --> 01:08:12.280
<v Speaker 2>my son swims, so he's got to get driven to

1363
01:08:12.320 --> 01:08:15.840
<v Speaker 2>the pool early. Or Stephen Colbert looks really funny, So

1364
01:08:15.840 --> 01:08:18.079
<v Speaker 2>I'm watching some of his monologue and by the time

1365
01:08:18.079 --> 01:08:20.560
<v Speaker 2>you get the dog put away and I get some

1366
01:08:20.600 --> 01:08:22.399
<v Speaker 2>water and kind of get things, turn the lights out

1367
01:08:22.399 --> 01:08:24.319
<v Speaker 2>from my wife's fallen asleep on the couch, check on

1368
01:08:24.359 --> 01:08:26.680
<v Speaker 2>the kids. Oh god, check one more email, and you

1369
01:08:26.720 --> 01:08:29.479
<v Speaker 2>see what's going on here. It's closer to midnight or

1370
01:08:29.479 --> 01:08:32.600
<v Speaker 2>even later sometimes. So I think those things do a

1371
01:08:32.680 --> 01:08:35.399
<v Speaker 2>very nice job of kind of keeping us honest about

1372
01:08:35.840 --> 01:08:38.680
<v Speaker 2>how much sleep are we really getting, And I think

1373
01:08:38.720 --> 01:08:41.359
<v Speaker 2>that can be a very valuable first step in terms

1374
01:08:41.399 --> 01:08:42.920
<v Speaker 2>of solving a problem. But I do think that there's

1375
01:08:42.920 --> 01:08:44.720
<v Speaker 2>a lot of questions you can know do you sleep

1376
01:08:44.800 --> 01:08:47.880
<v Speaker 2>well at home versus your girlfriend's place. Do you sleep

1377
01:08:47.920 --> 01:08:50.000
<v Speaker 2>better after a bunch of beers because you feel like

1378
01:08:50.039 --> 01:08:52.319
<v Speaker 2>you do versus when you don't drink? And I think

1379
01:08:52.560 --> 01:08:55.359
<v Speaker 2>you know, posing a question to something like a fitbit

1380
01:08:55.399 --> 01:08:59.520
<v Speaker 2>can be really interesting. I'm really on an exercise kick.

1381
01:09:00.159 --> 01:09:02.960
<v Speaker 2>Look how my sleep looks now versus a few weeks

1382
01:09:03.000 --> 01:09:05.359
<v Speaker 2>ago before I started. Oh wow, it looks a lot

1383
01:09:05.399 --> 01:09:07.560
<v Speaker 2>more efficient. Or I seem to have more deep sleep,

1384
01:09:07.640 --> 01:09:11.039
<v Speaker 2>or I fall asleep a lot faster. Generally, they work

1385
01:09:11.079 --> 01:09:14.520
<v Speaker 2>best when you're comparing data to itself, like your own

1386
01:09:14.600 --> 01:09:17.800
<v Speaker 2>data pre this sky, I'm dating post this sky, I'm

1387
01:09:17.840 --> 01:09:20.680
<v Speaker 2>dating pre this supplement, I'm taking post That's where it

1388
01:09:20.720 --> 01:09:22.359
<v Speaker 2>tends to work its best, I think.

1389
01:09:22.760 --> 01:09:26.760
<v Speaker 1>And in general, if someone saying I'm having trouble sleeping,

1390
01:09:27.279 --> 01:09:29.479
<v Speaker 1>I'm having trouble falling asleep, I'm having trouble getting the

1391
01:09:29.560 --> 01:09:32.119
<v Speaker 1>right amount of sleep, is there like a one basic

1392
01:09:32.199 --> 01:09:34.880
<v Speaker 1>piece of advice that you're like, start here and see

1393
01:09:34.920 --> 01:09:35.600
<v Speaker 1>if that helps.

1394
01:09:36.239 --> 01:09:38.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's interesting. I think if somebody says to me

1395
01:09:38.560 --> 01:09:43.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm having trouble sleeping, they've already sort of moved past

1396
01:09:43.159 --> 01:09:45.359
<v Speaker 2>the biggest barrier, which is the person who comes to

1397
01:09:45.399 --> 01:09:46.640
<v Speaker 2>me and says I can't sleep.

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01:09:47.039 --> 01:09:49.560
<v Speaker 1>Doctor Winter says that a lot of times we're getting

1399
01:09:49.600 --> 01:09:52.039
<v Speaker 1>a little more sleep than we think we are, because

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01:09:52.039 --> 01:09:54.439
<v Speaker 1>if you literally did not sleep.

1401
01:09:54.479 --> 01:09:55.680
<v Speaker 2>You would not be alive.

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01:09:56.079 --> 01:09:57.119
<v Speaker 1>Wait, what's the record?

1403
01:09:57.359 --> 01:09:59.680
<v Speaker 2>I mean, the world record is something like eleven days

1404
01:09:59.680 --> 01:10:02.520
<v Speaker 2>and even and that was a sham. The investigator said,

1405
01:10:02.560 --> 01:10:04.840
<v Speaker 2>we couldn't keep him awake. He kept having these little

1406
01:10:04.840 --> 01:10:07.319
<v Speaker 2>micro sleeps even he was standing on his feet.

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01:10:08.039 --> 01:10:11.680
<v Speaker 1>So, provided that we're not seeking the world's attention by

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01:10:11.720 --> 01:10:13.960
<v Speaker 1>not sleeping, how much should we sleep?

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01:10:14.319 --> 01:10:16.399
<v Speaker 2>A lot of people are seeking ten hours of sleep

1410
01:10:16.439 --> 01:10:18.920
<v Speaker 2>at night, but they're only capable of getting six hours

1411
01:10:18.920 --> 01:10:21.680
<v Speaker 2>and forty five minutes. So that difference of three hours

1412
01:10:21.680 --> 01:10:26.399
<v Speaker 2>and fifteen minutes I think is insomnia. It's also important

1413
01:10:26.439 --> 01:10:28.680
<v Speaker 2>to make sure that there aren't things that are happening

1414
01:10:28.720 --> 01:10:31.840
<v Speaker 2>within your body that are impairing your ability to sleep

1415
01:10:31.880 --> 01:10:34.880
<v Speaker 2>as well too. That can be something from this insomnia

1416
01:10:34.920 --> 01:10:37.319
<v Speaker 2>to restless leg syndrome to sleep at me. There's a

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01:10:37.319 --> 01:10:40.000
<v Speaker 2>lot of things that happen at night that can't impair

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01:10:40.039 --> 01:10:41.000
<v Speaker 2>our ability to sleep.

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01:10:41.600 --> 01:10:43.479
<v Speaker 1>And how necessary is a sleep study?

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01:10:43.560 --> 01:10:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Usually?

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01:10:44.079 --> 01:10:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Is it like go.

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01:10:44.560 --> 01:10:47.239
<v Speaker 2>Figure out out? I mean, I really work hard to

1423
01:10:47.359 --> 01:10:50.439
<v Speaker 2>keep people out of a sleep center. I think most

1424
01:10:51.039 --> 01:10:55.159
<v Speaker 2>you know, we learn as doctors, most of the diagnosing

1425
01:10:55.199 --> 01:10:57.680
<v Speaker 2>and treatment of problems has to do with the clinical interview.

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01:10:57.760 --> 01:10:59.560
<v Speaker 2>So that's why we spent a lot of time talking

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01:10:59.560 --> 01:11:01.920
<v Speaker 2>to our pay because we need to understand what the

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01:11:02.000 --> 01:11:06.439
<v Speaker 2>problem is. You know, the sleep study is often confirmatory,

1429
01:11:06.560 --> 01:11:08.199
<v Speaker 2>like I already think this is what's going on, so

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01:11:08.199 --> 01:11:11.039
<v Speaker 2>we'll do sleep study to confirm it. Or sadly, in

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01:11:11.119 --> 01:11:13.279
<v Speaker 2>twenty eighteen, a lot of times this study is done

1432
01:11:13.319 --> 01:11:15.079
<v Speaker 2>because that's the only way you can get insurance to

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01:11:15.119 --> 01:11:18.119
<v Speaker 2>pay for something. They won't take the expert's word for it.

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01:11:18.199 --> 01:11:21.039
<v Speaker 2>They want proof that this person has narcillabsey. They want

1435
01:11:21.079 --> 01:11:25.399
<v Speaker 2>prove this person has restless like syndrome, even though clearly

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01:11:25.479 --> 01:11:28.359
<v Speaker 2>from their story that's exactly what's going on. So not

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01:11:28.640 --> 01:11:32.079
<v Speaker 2>everybody who has a sleep problem needs a sleep study,

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01:11:32.119 --> 01:11:34.560
<v Speaker 2>And of the people who need sleep studies, many of

1439
01:11:34.640 --> 01:11:36.199
<v Speaker 2>them can be done in your own home with these

1440
01:11:36.239 --> 01:11:40.520
<v Speaker 2>little simple devices. So don't let that be a stopper

1441
01:11:40.560 --> 01:11:43.239
<v Speaker 2>in terms of getting help. But you know, when they're necessary,

1442
01:11:43.279 --> 01:11:44.640
<v Speaker 2>they can be incredibly helpful.

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01:11:45.279 --> 01:11:48.520
<v Speaker 1>So sleep studies can be a great ally in terms

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01:11:48.520 --> 01:11:51.359
<v Speaker 1>of convincing doctors that you do indeed have a serious issue.

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01:11:51.560 --> 01:11:53.800
<v Speaker 1>They can also be a little bit like mister snuffle up,

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01:11:53.840 --> 01:11:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I guess, and if insomnia is caused by anxiety in

1447
01:11:56.960 --> 01:12:00.000
<v Speaker 1>your life, taking a break and sleeping in a hotel

1448
01:12:00.079 --> 01:12:03.119
<v Speaker 1>hell room like environment can be just the vacation you

1449
01:12:03.159 --> 01:12:06.319
<v Speaker 1>need from your usual mental anguish, even if you have

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01:12:06.399 --> 01:12:09.239
<v Speaker 1>a bouquet of wires taped to your face. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to start small, you can jot down the

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<v Speaker 1>hours you sleep, of course, or you can try a

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<v Speaker 1>sleep tracker. I bought my fitbit at bed, Bath and

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<v Speaker 1>Beyond with one of those twenty percent off coupons that

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<v Speaker 1>my neighbor left near the mailboxes for a week, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a nice gaze into the underworld of my

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<v Speaker 1>sleep issues. Now. Tune in next week for Part two,

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<v Speaker 1>which features more remedies to your sleep issues. Patrons rode

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<v Speaker 1>in with over two hundred questions. We got to as

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<v Speaker 1>many as we could. We covered sleeping pills, supplements, genetic

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<v Speaker 1>factors in sleep, blue light making, good habits, stick alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>to get you drowsy, sleepwalking, sleep talking, the best positions

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<v Speaker 1>for snoozing, and of course my mom birthday girl, Nancy

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<v Speaker 1>Ward's magic cure for insomnia that I use all the

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<v Speaker 1>time when I've had too much caffeine or at seven,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have to go to sleep to get out

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<v Speaker 1>for the airport. So all of that is next week,

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<v Speaker 1>so make sure to come back the extra hour or

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<v Speaker 1>so for part two. Could add years back onto your

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<v Speaker 1>life now. Meanwhile, doctor Chris Winter is at sports sleep

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<v Speaker 1>doc on Twitter and his book is called The Sleep Solution,

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<v Speaker 1>Why Your Sleep is Broken and How to Fix It.

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<v Speaker 1>And he also has a kid's sleep book that came

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<v Speaker 1>out in twenty twenty one called The Rested Child. Why

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<v Speaker 1>You're tired, wired, or irritable child may have a sleep

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<v Speaker 1>disorder and how to help. So just fyi, that's another

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<v Speaker 1>book he's got. Now. You can follow Ologies at ologies

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<v Speaker 1>on Twitter and Instagram. I'm Ali Ward with one L

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<v Speaker 1>on Twitter and Instagram too. You can get a comfy

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<v Speaker 1>ologies T shirt to sleep in at ologismerch dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you Shannon Feltas and Bonnie Judge for so many

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<v Speaker 1>great designs that are up. You can join the Ologies

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<v Speaker 1>podcast Facebook group, which is just a haven for benevolent

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<v Speaker 1>and curious nerds on Facebook. I love each and every

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<v Speaker 1>one of you in there. Thank you. Eric Talbert for admitting.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you to editor Stephen Ray Morris for losing sleep

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<v Speaker 1>piecing this all together. Each week a Nick Thorburn of

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01:14:07.720 --> 01:14:10.640
<v Speaker 1>the band Islands wrote and performed the theme music. And

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<v Speaker 1>now at the end of each episode, I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>a secret, and this is part life hack in part you.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, so sleep masks always annoy me. They fall off,

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<v Speaker 1>the velcrow gets stuck in my buffalo hair. And so

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01:14:23.399 --> 01:14:26.439
<v Speaker 1>a few years ago I started using a sock. You

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<v Speaker 1>take a knee high sock. Might have all been worn

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<v Speaker 1>on my feet before. I just don't care. I wash

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<v Speaker 1>them anyway. Take a knee high and you pin it

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<v Speaker 1>in a big loop like a snake eating its bud.

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<v Speaker 1>Put a safety pin in it, and then you pop

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<v Speaker 1>that thing on your head and it stays all night.

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<v Speaker 1>It is weird if you begin dating someone and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>good night, I'm putting this old sock on my face now.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're crafty, you could probably artfully sew it together.

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01:14:51.000 --> 01:14:53.680
<v Speaker 1>If you don't have knee socks, invest in a pair

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01:14:53.960 --> 01:14:56.399
<v Speaker 1>wear them on your face. Bonus, if you lose one,

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01:14:56.640 --> 01:15:00.159
<v Speaker 1>you have a spare, and they're very machine washable. If

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<v Speaker 1>you do this, please take a photo for me and

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<v Speaker 1>tag it hashtag ology sock face. I promise to post one.

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<v Speaker 1>Also also Hi, It's twenty twenty two. Ali Ward again,

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<v Speaker 1>just saying thank you for bearing with these Encore episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>The last couple weeks of my life have been maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest. On Friday, if you've been following along with

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<v Speaker 1>what's been on with my family, my dad had emergency

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<v Speaker 1>brain surgery for a brain tumor. He also has some

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<v Speaker 1>long tumors and some of the things that are not great.

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<v Speaker 1>And on Friday, my dad's oncologists made the call that

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<v Speaker 1>it is time for treatment to stop, and so we're

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<v Speaker 1>just starting a hospice and which is why I'm whispering

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<v Speaker 1>at my sister's dining room table. So while you listen

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<v Speaker 1>to these Encore episodes, just know that you're just letting

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<v Speaker 1>me have some of the most the most precious time

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<v Speaker 1>of our lives. So we are spending time as a

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<v Speaker 1>family and just hanging out. And thank you for that,

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<v Speaker 1>for being so patient and supportive and all that, and

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for everyone who's been sending me sweet messages. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>go get some sleep. Okay, just go get some sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Just get some sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>You have earned it for by pacodermatology, hombiology or doo zoology, lithology, technology, meteorology, pathology, methology,

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<v Speaker 1>zeriology

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<v Speaker 2>Elithology, Sleep, yes, I sleep
