Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for a second date update. I
hope we can make a love match.
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: Going to Bristol this morning, We've got Stacy on the line,
who went on a great first date. She's getting ghosted
and wants to know why. Good morning, Stacy, Hi, good morning,
thanks for having me. Welcome to the show. So tell
us about this great first date.
Speaker 3: Well, I did have a great first date with this
guy that I met on you know, like one of
those dating apps, like one of a million out there,
and it was wonderful. We went to this really nice
restaurant for dinner and just overall the date was amazing,
perfect guy. And you know, it's crazy because we have
the same life goals, like we want to get married
and have a family, and you know, I called and
texted him a few times after the date to thank him.
But it's kind of weird because now I'm getting ghosted
and I really don't know why I So, yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 2: His name is Nate. The producer says, his name is Nate.
Speaker 1: But you in one date you found out all about
your life goals.
Speaker 2: That's a lot. You got down to business.
Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you what when something feels organic, you
just have to roll with it. And I felt like
we were just on the same trap.
Speaker 1: Okay, and you're getting ghosted? Was there a lot of alcohol?
And I'm just trying to find think of reasons why
maybe you're getting ghosted. Did you drink too much?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I think maybe I had like
one cocktail.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, Wait, so you said you found out a
lot about him. Did you like insta stalk him beforehand
and then you went into the date like knowing way
too much information?
Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I just you know when you're
when you date a lot, you kind of know, like
the questions you want to ask to get no people, Sure,
So I kind of just kind of came in already
knowing what I wanted to know this guy.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: And so you felt there was an instant connection between
the two of you.
Speaker 3: Honestly, I really did. Yeah, all right, I think it
was right there.
Speaker 1: I think we should just call him up, you guys, absolutely,
that's all right.
Speaker 2: So listen, you're gonna be listening in. At any point.
Speaker 1: If you want to talk to Nate, you can, but
we're just gonna ask him to be honest and tell
us why he's ghosting.
Speaker 2: Are you ready for the answers?
Speaker 3: Yep, let's do it.
Speaker 2: This is a tough one. She sounds like a sweetie.
I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I think there might be something to the insta stalking thing.
Speaker 2: She does sound a little crazy. She has that voice.
Speaker 6: You know what I mean.
Speaker 2: No, Jeff, i'd be judge. Hello, Hi, is Nate there?
Speaker 6: Yes, this is Nate.
Speaker 2: Hey Nate, It is Courtney, Nate, It's Walmart Jeff.
Speaker 1: Hey Nate, It's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety
five seven.
Speaker 2: How are you.
Speaker 6: I'm doing fantastic. Are you today this morning? Oh?
Speaker 2: We're good. Welcome to the show. It is a second
date update.
Speaker 1: It's a feature we do where if you go on
a first date and it's a great time and you
get ghosted, but you want answers, you call us and
we get the answers.
Speaker 2: So that's why we're calling you this morning. Nate. Ooh okay, okay,
So let me refresh your memory.
Speaker 1: Stacey called us. She said, you guys went on a
first date. You guys met online on a dating app.
She says, you're like the perfect guy. It was like
a dream date. And you have a lot of life
goals in common. But she's reached out to you a
couple of times and now you're ghosting or how was
the date for you?
Speaker 6: Well, well you just said right there. Just I mean,
it makes me a little uneasy. He's just up fun. Hey, yeah,
I remember the date, and I remember staying let me
just say that. Okay, that date was intense, Okay, intent.
Speaker 2: As in, how why.
Speaker 6: I'm telling you the first ten minutes of this thing, right, yeah,
so she.
Speaker 4: Was saying my name, she was saying my name, my
last name, right, and she kept saying it as her
last name, trying to make sure it sounded good.
Speaker 6: I'm not even like totally like I'm.
Speaker 4: On defense of my one that she wants to take
my last name or keep her own name anyway with
the whole thing, but the fact that you're coming out
here assuming my last name in the first ten minutes
we met, woa off wine, like, I mean yeah, and
then immediately she says she wants to make plans for.
Speaker 6: New Year's I mean, we just got out of I
just got out.
Speaker 4: Of a Halloween costume.
Speaker 6: Man, want to make plans for New Years?
Speaker 4: And away on Valentin i'd say so. Now we're thinking
four months after the first like ten minutes we met.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's just way too soon.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, she she she's definitely. She's just looking
to get married, have kids and doesn't matter with Hills.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a lot.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Nate, I am so angry at you
right now. Do you have any idea how long I
waited for you to text me back?
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 3: I'm shaking in anger, like this is ridiculous. I could
have already moved on with someone else and all you
had to do was text me back after our date.
What kind of gentlemen are you? Because no so decent
guy would do that. I was so wrong about you.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, I guess it's a good time to tell you, Nate.
Stacy's also listening in so surprise.
Speaker 1: I do feel though, Nathan, you should have told Stacey.
Speaker 2: You should have told you weren't interested.
Speaker 3: That would have been nice because I could have spent
the last couple of weeks chatting it up with someone
else and maybe trying to find my soulmate.
Speaker 4: True, I don't think in the I don't think any
taking someone's last name and then talking about going away
three months. Within the first ten minutes of meeting is
a healthy conversation. It tells me that you're not looking
for Nate for Nate, You're looking for someone to fill needs.
Speaker 3: You were giving off all the wrong signals because we
already started talking about, you know, future plans, trying to
see if our goal is aligned. So if that's what
you were looking for, you completely gave me the wrong
impression of yourself. And frankly, you're the one to blame
for all this.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, usually usually at this point I offer
to pay for a second date, Like.
Speaker 2: Hey, Nate, can I just say you dodged a boy here?
This sek is crazy, crazy.
Speaker 3: Don't I'm not crazy.
Speaker 2: I know what I want, all right. She knows what she
wants and she wants to go out and get it.
I got it. Stay luck to you.
Speaker 4: Then, yes, I wait, if you're looking for a soulmate,
you're swiping in the wrong direction. You can't get it
an online dating.
Speaker 2: Wait question for you?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 2: Wait? Wait?
Speaker 5: So what would be like your preferred timeline? Like if
you're looking for your soulmate? Like, what is what does
your timeline look like?
Speaker 2: Three weeks ago? You don't have a timeline when it's
your soulmate.
Speaker 3: Well no, but like listen, I already said, when something's organic,
it'll just happen. But you know what, I thought maybe
Fate would actually step in at this time, but I
guess not, And I guess Nate is not the gentleman.
Speaker 1: I thought he was. Okay, can we just Stacy, you
have no desire to go out with Nate again? Nate,
do you have any desire to go out with Stacy again? Maybe,
like you guys can slow it.
Speaker 2: Down a bit.
Speaker 4: Maybe, I mean, like I just want to get to
know people and have a good time.
Speaker 3: I'm so angry right now. And you know what, at
least I know where his head is at.
Speaker 2: Yes, at least you both know all right.
Speaker 1: Well, Stacy and Nate, we appreciate you guys being on
a second date update and being so honest and open
with us.
Speaker 3: Well, thanks for having me. Sorry that you know it
didn't work out in my favor, I guess