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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for a second date update. I

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hope we can make a love match.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Going to Bristol this morning, We've got Stacy on the line,

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who went on a great first date. She's getting ghosted

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and wants to know why. Good morning, Stacy, Hi, good morning,

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thanks for having me. Welcome to the show. So tell

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us about this great first date.

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Speaker 3: Well, I did have a great first date with this

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guy that I met on you know, like one of

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those dating apps, like one of a million out there,

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and it was wonderful. We went to this really nice

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restaurant for dinner and just overall the date was amazing,

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perfect guy. And you know, it's crazy because we have

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the same life goals, like we want to get married

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and have a family, and you know, I called and

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texted him a few times after the date to thank him.

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But it's kind of weird because now I'm getting ghosted

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and I really don't know why I So, yeah, it's weird.

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Speaker 2: His name is Nate. The producer says, his name is Nate.

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Speaker 1: But you in one date you found out all about

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your life goals.

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Speaker 2: That's a lot. You got down to business.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you what when something feels organic, you

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just have to roll with it. And I felt like

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we were just on the same trap.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and you're getting ghosted? Was there a lot of alcohol?

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And I'm just trying to find think of reasons why

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maybe you're getting ghosted. Did you drink too much?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I think maybe I had like

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one cocktail.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, Wait, so you said you found out a

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lot about him. Did you like insta stalk him beforehand

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and then you went into the date like knowing way

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too much information?

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Speaker 3: No, nothing like that. I just you know when you're

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when you date a lot, you kind of know, like

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the questions you want to ask to get no people, Sure,

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So I kind of just kind of came in already

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knowing what I wanted to know this guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: And so you felt there was an instant connection between

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the two of you.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I really did. Yeah, all right, I think it

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was right there.

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Speaker 1: I think we should just call him up, you guys, absolutely,

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that's all right.

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Speaker 2: So listen, you're gonna be listening in. At any point.

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Speaker 1: If you want to talk to Nate, you can, but

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we're just gonna ask him to be honest and tell

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us why he's ghosting.

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for the answers?

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Speaker 3: Yep, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: This is a tough one. She sounds like a sweetie.

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I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I think there might be something to the insta stalking thing.

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Speaker 2: She does sound a little crazy. She has that voice.

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: No, Jeff, i'd be judge. Hello, Hi, is Nate there?

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Speaker 6: Yes, this is Nate.

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Speaker 2: Hey Nate, It is Courtney, Nate, It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Hey Nate, It's Savannah and we're calling from Kiss ninety

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five seven.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 6: I'm doing fantastic. Are you today this morning? Oh?

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Speaker 2: We're good. Welcome to the show. It is a second

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date update.

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Speaker 1: It's a feature we do where if you go on

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a first date and it's a great time and you

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get ghosted, but you want answers, you call us and

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we get the answers.

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Speaker 2: So that's why we're calling you this morning. Nate. Ooh okay, okay,

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So let me refresh your memory.

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Speaker 1: Stacey called us. She said, you guys went on a

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first date. You guys met online on a dating app.

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She says, you're like the perfect guy. It was like

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a dream date. And you have a lot of life

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goals in common. But she's reached out to you a

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couple of times and now you're ghosting or how was

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the date for you?

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Speaker 6: Well, well you just said right there. Just I mean,

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it makes me a little uneasy. He's just up fun. Hey, yeah,

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I remember the date, and I remember staying let me

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just say that. Okay, that date was intense, Okay, intent.

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Speaker 2: As in, how why.

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Speaker 6: I'm telling you the first ten minutes of this thing, right, yeah,

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so she.

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Speaker 4: Was saying my name, she was saying my name, my

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last name, right, and she kept saying it as her

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last name, trying to make sure it sounded good.

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Speaker 6: I'm not even like totally like I'm.

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Speaker 4: On defense of my one that she wants to take

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my last name or keep her own name anyway with

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the whole thing, but the fact that you're coming out

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here assuming my last name in the first ten minutes

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we met, woa off wine, like, I mean yeah, and

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then immediately she says she wants to make plans for.

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Speaker 6: New Year's I mean, we just got out of I

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just got out.

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Speaker 4: Of a Halloween costume.

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Speaker 6: Man, want to make plans for New Years?

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Speaker 4: And away on Valentin i'd say so. Now we're thinking

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four months after the first like ten minutes we met.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's just way too soon.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, she she she's definitely. She's just looking

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to get married, have kids and doesn't matter with Hills.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Nate, I am so angry at you

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right now. Do you have any idea how long I

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waited for you to text me back?

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Speaker 2: I am.

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Speaker 3: I'm shaking in anger, like this is ridiculous. I could

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have already moved on with someone else and all you

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had to do was text me back after our date.

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What kind of gentlemen are you? Because no so decent

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guy would do that. I was so wrong about you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, I guess it's a good time to tell you, Nate.

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Stacy's also listening in so surprise.

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Speaker 1: I do feel though, Nathan, you should have told Stacey.

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Speaker 2: You should have told you weren't interested.

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Speaker 3: That would have been nice because I could have spent

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the last couple of weeks chatting it up with someone

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else and maybe trying to find my soulmate.

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Speaker 4: True, I don't think in the I don't think any

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taking someone's last name and then talking about going away

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three months. Within the first ten minutes of meeting is

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a healthy conversation. It tells me that you're not looking

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for Nate for Nate, You're looking for someone to fill needs.

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Speaker 3: You were giving off all the wrong signals because we

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already started talking about, you know, future plans, trying to

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see if our goal is aligned. So if that's what

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you were looking for, you completely gave me the wrong

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impression of yourself. And frankly, you're the one to blame

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for all this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, usually usually at this point I offer

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to pay for a second date, Like.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Nate, can I just say you dodged a boy here?

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This sek is crazy, crazy.

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Speaker 3: Don't I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 2: I know what I want, all right. She knows what she

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wants and she wants to go out and get it.

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I got it. Stay luck to you.

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Speaker 4: Then, yes, I wait, if you're looking for a soulmate,

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you're swiping in the wrong direction. You can't get it

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an online dating.

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Speaker 2: Wait question for you?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Wait? Wait?

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Speaker 5: So what would be like your preferred timeline? Like if

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you're looking for your soulmate? Like, what is what does

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your timeline look like?

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Speaker 2: Three weeks ago? You don't have a timeline when it's

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your soulmate.

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Speaker 3: Well no, but like listen, I already said, when something's organic,

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it'll just happen. But you know what, I thought maybe

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Fate would actually step in at this time, but I

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guess not, And I guess Nate is not the gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was. Okay, can we just Stacy, you

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have no desire to go out with Nate again? Nate,

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do you have any desire to go out with Stacy again? Maybe,

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like you guys can slow it.

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Speaker 2: Down a bit.

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Speaker 4: Maybe, I mean, like I just want to get to

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know people and have a good time.

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Speaker 3: I'm so angry right now. And you know what, at

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least I know where his head is at.

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Speaker 2: Yes, at least you both know all right.

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Speaker 1: Well, Stacy and Nate, we appreciate you guys being on

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a second date update and being so honest and open

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with us.

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Speaker 3: Well, thanks for having me. Sorry that you know it

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didn't work out in my favor, I guess