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<v Speaker 1>This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI

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<v Speaker 1>AM six forty the Gary and Shannon Show on demand

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit later this hour, there is a story

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<v Speaker 2>that suggests that we're waiting too long to tell our

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<v Speaker 2>kids about sex.

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<v Speaker 3>Kids need to know a lot earlier. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we'll talk about that a little bit later

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<v Speaker 2>this hour. The birds and the bees might be happening

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<v Speaker 2>too late for kids, So you can always let us

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<v Speaker 2>know on the talkback feature, what you did with your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>When did you start even the broaching the subject?

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<v Speaker 3>When did you do that? Don't you remember the Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>if I want to say my son was seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoa, that's nice and early, well, the super generic basics

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<v Speaker 2>of it, and then over the course of a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of years more and more specific. But I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was I think he was yeah, wow, because we had

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<v Speaker 2>a friend who's we had a friend who lost their baby,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was it came up at dinner time. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>probably shouldn't have, I don't know, I mean, but we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about it, and that prompted the discussion of

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<v Speaker 2>where did well, how did it get there in the

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<v Speaker 2>first place?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Really, how did the baby get there? So he

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<v Speaker 3>asked that, oh yeah, wow, very curious kids.

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<v Speaker 1>So over dinner, what what do you say to that

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<v Speaker 1>as a seven year old version.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it was five, so it was you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>had to tailor it for the lowest common denominator at

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<v Speaker 2>that point. Little did we know that she would of

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<v Speaker 2>course go on to be organic chemist. But the it

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<v Speaker 2>was just very simple of she and her husband decided

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<v Speaker 2>that they wanted to start a family, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You can do things to do that and there and it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like a wink, wink, I'll have to follow up

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<v Speaker 2>on this one after dinner. And that's when I went

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<v Speaker 2>upstairs and was selling my son much more of the

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<v Speaker 2>specific details about what goes into that. And I said, so,

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<v Speaker 2>if there's any questions, you know your friends are going

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about it, or you have questions, or you

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<v Speaker 2>hear something you can always ask, don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Chances are your friends are wrong about it. But I'll

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<v Speaker 3>tell you the truth, no, no holds barred.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's when he looked at me and he goes,

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<v Speaker 2>does this look like a hobo to you? Because he

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<v Speaker 2>was playing with legos the entire time and was trying

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<v Speaker 2>to make a homeless person out of legos.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so cute, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It didn't it didn't look anything like a hobo. He

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<v Speaker 2>needed to add the little stick with the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>the pouch on.

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<v Speaker 1>The So I miss a good hobo back when they

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<v Speaker 1>really lived off the like living off the land, but living.

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<v Speaker 2>Off the street. It's time for swamplash.

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<v Speaker 3>When I'm not kissing, I join you. The other side

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<v Speaker 3>never quits.

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<v Speaker 4>So what, I'm not going anywhere so.

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<v Speaker 5>That you rain the swat.

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<v Speaker 3>I can imagine what can be and be unburdened by

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<v Speaker 3>what has been. You know, Americans have always been going

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<v Speaker 3>at present. They're not stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>A political flunder is when a politician actually tells the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Have the people voted for you? With nas swap? Watch

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<v Speaker 3>they're all counternolled, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Pete haig Seth remains the headline coming out of Washington.

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<v Speaker 1>Does the White House want to get rid of him

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<v Speaker 1>or not?

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<v Speaker 3>It depends on who you ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Pete Haig Seth was lambasted yesterday in the media for

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<v Speaker 1>having that second signal chat on the app about the

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<v Speaker 1>hoothy plans. Apparently this one was with his lawyer, his brother,

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<v Speaker 1>and his wife. Two of those people work for the

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<v Speaker 1>Department of the Defense. This was not classified information. But

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<v Speaker 1>he had to put his hackles up once again, and

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<v Speaker 1>he had to do so at the Easter egg roll

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<v Speaker 1>at the White House. Didn't come off great, And today

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<v Speaker 1>came the boobs and the people that want him out,

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<v Speaker 1>and now the rumor has hit the Oval with the

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<v Speaker 1>story being that Trump's figuring out a way to get.

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<v Speaker 3>Rid of them.

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<v Speaker 2>He has said that he remains dedicated to Pete Eggseth.

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<v Speaker 2>The White House Press Secretary of Caroline Levett last hour

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<v Speaker 2>said as much, so we'll see where it goes now.

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<v Speaker 2>Harvard University is suing the administration in federal court, the

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<v Speaker 2>latest move in this feud between Harvard and the Trump administration.

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<v Speaker 2>They trying they are trying to block the Trump administration

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<v Speaker 2>from withholding federal funding, they said as leverage to gain

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<v Speaker 2>control of academic decision making at Harvard. The president of Harvard,

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<v Speaker 2>Alan Gerber, said in a message that the administration's actions

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<v Speaker 2>are unlawful and beyond the government's authority. Another quick just

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<v Speaker 2>an update on the Supreme Court. They were hearing arguments

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<v Speaker 2>today about whether parents of public school kids have a

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<v Speaker 2>constitutional right to opt out their kids from classroom lessons

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<v Speaker 2>if those classroom lessons rely on textbooks or storybooks that

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<v Speaker 2>feature LGBTQ themes or characters, not to take them out

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<v Speaker 2>of school, and not even to change the curriculum, but

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<v Speaker 2>just to opt their kids out of those specific lessons.

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<v Speaker 3>They heard arguments about that case. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, there are a lot of layoffs going on in

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<v Speaker 1>the federal agencies, and the Department of Transportation has come

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<v Speaker 1>up with a sav maybe so to speak, for its

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<v Speaker 1>employees that are getting the acts the You said there

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<v Speaker 1>were layoffs, right, not playoffs. Oh, this isn't hockey we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Hockey is still going on with playoffs, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Playoffs last for about six months in the hockey season.

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<v Speaker 1>Basketball as well, there you go for another two months.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get that, but okay, that for them. So

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<v Speaker 1>the Department of Transportation is offering this new career Transition

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<v Speaker 1>Learning series is what they're calling it. It's intended to

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<v Speaker 1>help guide employees through the transition from the federal sector

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<v Speaker 1>to alternate industries. It's offering tips on personal branding, managing emotions.

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<v Speaker 1>As you can imagine, this is not going over Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll tell you details. It's kind of like when your

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<v Speaker 1>girlfriend or your boyfriend breaks up with you and then

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<v Speaker 1>they give you tips on how to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty much what it sounds like, and it's pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much getting received that way.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll get into it when we come back.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So, just briefly, the Department of Transportation trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help the employees that it's acting by giving them career

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<v Speaker 1>transition learning studies elevating your personal brand. You will learn

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<v Speaker 1>how to navigate your strong emotions that you feel when

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<v Speaker 1>you get I don't know, fired, skills that will focus

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<v Speaker 1>on coping with downsizing and job loss. The overview is

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<v Speaker 1>billed as an opportunity to recognize emotional cues and to

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<v Speaker 1>incorporate strategies to manage and prevent strong reactions.

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<v Speaker 2>Because prevent the emotional outbursts is key to a productive.

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<v Speaker 1>They're basically telling all of the people that they fired,

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<v Speaker 1>calm down.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is weird because it almost seems like those people

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<v Speaker 2>to oversimplify. People who are losing their jobs in the

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<v Speaker 2>federal government right now are people who have in many

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<v Speaker 2>cases become very soft and this would be something that

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<v Speaker 2>they would like to see, is they would like somebody

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<v Speaker 2>to come alongside them and help them manage their emotions,

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<v Speaker 2>deal with the transition, etc. But one person says, it

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<v Speaker 2>feels like it's intended to tell us we're being dramatic,

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<v Speaker 2>or that we're not professional enough to go through turmoil

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<v Speaker 2>and remain detached and completely calm.

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<v Speaker 3>It feels out it's scare acle.

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<v Speaker 2>That person spoke anonymously to Politico, gave the example of

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<v Speaker 2>when the new Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy showed up in

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<v Speaker 2>the office and announced a dress code as soon as

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<v Speaker 2>he got there. When everyone knows how to dress for

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<v Speaker 3>Well, then why would he say. If there's no.

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<v Speaker 2>Indication that that's necessary, then why do you think he

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<v Speaker 2>would say something like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Hmmm?

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<v Speaker 2>He said, it's ham handed if it's not deliberately to

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<v Speaker 2>scare people. Agencies have been given directives to severely cut

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<v Speaker 2>their workforce through layoffs or reductions in force, The DOT

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<v Speaker 2>has not yet done their widespread life.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like I would imagine, I don't want to send

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<v Speaker 1>my kids to school for them to learn about sex

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<v Speaker 1>and gender options. I don't want to go work at

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<v Speaker 1>the Transportation Department and then tell me how to manage

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<v Speaker 1>my emotions. No, I'm here to do paperwork at tedious whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>monot mix the roads. I'm here to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do a job.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the kids are there to learn to read

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<v Speaker 1>and to do math, and I'm here to do my job.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's leave our emotional stability out of it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hard to save money.

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<v Speaker 2>California is a difficult place to live, just in terms

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<v Speaker 2>of the cost of living.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Garyan Trennon is Leapa from Orange County. Just getting

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<v Speaker 4>on the topic about things being cheaper somewhere else, Me

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<v Speaker 4>and my wife all three take a trip to Houston

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<v Speaker 4>to go see Christapleton over there with our hotel or

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<v Speaker 4>fly and our tickets are still cheaper than getting tickets

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<v Speaker 4>just tickets for two of us, my wife and I

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<v Speaker 4>at the Hollywood Bowl.

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<v Speaker 3>Go figure. Yeah, I did the same trip.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I didn't do it in Houston, and it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't Chris Stapleton but Nashville, Mumford and Sons.

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<v Speaker 3>Several years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>It cost as much to fly my wife and I

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<v Speaker 2>to Nashville for a few days see that concert that

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<v Speaker 2>it would be to watch that same show here in LA.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard this story countless times from friends that they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're traveling to go see concerts. And I've noticed this

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<v Speaker 1>for football for years. Back when I used to fly

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<v Speaker 1>for the forty nine Ers before working for the Chargers

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<v Speaker 1>is we would pick games to go to me and

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriends, and all of them were cheaper options than

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<v Speaker 1>going up to the Bay Area to watch a home game.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cheaper to go to Chicago or really anywhere else.

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<v Speaker 1>The flight, the ticket, the food, the hotel, everything so

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<v Speaker 1>much cheaper.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a new survey that came out conducted by Talker Research,

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<v Speaker 2>commissioned by the consumer banking app called Current, asked a

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<v Speaker 2>couple thousand Americans across different generations a survey. This survey

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<v Speaker 2>show that sixty seven percent of us feel like we're

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<v Speaker 2>lagging behind when it comes to savings targets, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>you have short term goals like you can buy a car,

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<v Speaker 2>house or something like that, or long term goals like retirement.

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<v Speaker 2>And of the sixty seven percent who feel like they're

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<v Speaker 2>lagging behind, forty seven percent have completely given up hope

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to saving, believing that they're never going

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<v Speaker 2>to see their financial milestones that they have set for themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Since January of twenty five, sixty three percent of those

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<v Speaker 2>with savings accounts have drawn withdrawn money, not a giant surprise,

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<v Speaker 2>but they said that twenty percent, about one in five,

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<v Speaker 2>have made five or more withdrawals, and not for things

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<v Speaker 2>like vacations or shopping sprees or those milestones that they

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<v Speaker 2>want to meet. They said they're using their savings to

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<v Speaker 2>cover basics and emergencies. When they're taking money out. Unexpected

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<v Speaker 2>expenses top the list. Every day necessities they wouldn't otherwise

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<v Speaker 1>Does it get into what percentage of people have savings.

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<v Speaker 2>spending money for whatever it is. But that you've got

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<v Speaker 2>And then eventually after a couple of years, you realize, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I can make a down payment, or I can get

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<v Speaker 3>But that was always their their words to me about.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, my dad was very big on the whole

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so we're going to come back. We're going

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<v Speaker 2>to talk a little bit more about the pope stuff that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're so well versed on the pope. Accouter Ma, I

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay. Also, are we doing this today by the

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<v Speaker 3>grandparents and the screen times we could? Yeah, we could

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<v Speaker 3>do that. That's very sad. That makes me very sad.

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<v Speaker 1>The headline is this, sadly half of kids time with

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<v Speaker 1>grandparents now spent on screens. Oh like some of my

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<v Speaker 3>They also didn't have screens back then. I mean you

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<v Speaker 3>had TV, but barely barely. Yeah. You had the horse

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<v Speaker 3>and buggy trips that you got to take with yours. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we did the there were no roads where you were going.

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<v Speaker 2>My my dad was Doc Brown or my grandpa was

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<v Speaker 2>Doc Brown.

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<v Speaker 3>Taking me back to the future. I paved roads.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 5>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 3>An earth day, my sister's birthday. Oh what have you called?

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<v Speaker 3>I did not call.

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<v Speaker 2>thing to have been called. My mother used to do

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<v Speaker 2>first one to call, so at approximately six 't ten

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<v Speaker 2>on your birthday, she will call you and wake you

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<v Speaker 2>out of a deep, deep slumber just to say happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that, I love I do. My mother does

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. She calls me early. In fact, when

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<v Speaker 1>to me. You got to get it in before noon

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<v Speaker 1>or else.

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<v Speaker 2>Podcaster former Fox News host Steve Hilton is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be running for governor here in California. He announces Canada

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<v Speaker 2>see Yesterday, launches it today with a big rally in

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<v Speaker 2>Huntington Beach. His basic message, California is failing and the

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<v Speaker 2>And he said, now it's sort of a unique opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna let this Shannon Sharp situation play out without

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<v Speaker 1>jumping into the muddy waters here. It seems kind of

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<v Speaker 3>So I just don't even want to give it any

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<v Speaker 1>But a woman that he had a relationship with is

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<v Speaker 1>suing for a lot of money because she's alleging bad things,

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<v Speaker 1>and he has yet to defend himself other than this

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<v Speaker 1>is not what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Apparently that's going to come this afternoon.

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<v Speaker 2>One of the things that happens when the pope dies

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<v Speaker 2>is they smash his ring.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll signet fisherman ring.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So the fisherman's ring is really among the most

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<v Speaker 1>recognizable items of papal regalia. Of course, it was named

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<v Speaker 1>after Saint Peter, who was a fisherman and the first Pope.

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<v Speaker 1>It was worn by Pope Francis to ceremonial events throughout

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<v Speaker 1>his potpourri. I don't know that came up with that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was stupid rain rain. Sure is twelve year people.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's good, you should.

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<v Speaker 3>Do something with that. Yeah, conclave too, yeah, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 3>just something to think about, time to refresh.

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<v Speaker 1>Just spitballing a couple fresh right, yeah, countless devoters kissed

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<v Speaker 1>it to votees kissed it. It sparked a controversy over hygiene,

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<v Speaker 1>because of course it did. But now, as tradition dictates,

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<v Speaker 1>this signet ring will be destroyed within the walls of

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<v Speaker 1>the Vatican following the death. There are practical routes that

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<v Speaker 1>go along with this ritual. The fisherman's ring and a

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<v Speaker 1>pendant called the bullah traditionally served as official seals for

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<v Speaker 1>official letters and documents known as papal briefs. The new

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<v Speaker 1>ones were issued to each incoming pope and to prevent

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<v Speaker 1>letters or decrees being forged posthumously, both would be smashed

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<v Speaker 1>with a hammer upon his death, and between fifteen twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one until twenty thirteen, this is exactly what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>You know why they didn't do it in twenty thirteen. No,

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<v Speaker 2>because Benedict resigned, he didn't die. They did take his ring,

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<v Speaker 2>but instead it was simply defaced by chopping a cross

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<v Speaker 2>into it with a chisel.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't actually destroy it.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's unnecessary to destroy the ring. I

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<v Speaker 1>understanding destroying the thing that you signed off letters and

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<v Speaker 1>documents with your seal so that no one can use

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<v Speaker 2>Perhaps I think the ring would be used in a

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<v Speaker 2>similar manner, though he would do this, He would.

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<v Speaker 3>Go, Oh, is that right? That's pretty cool. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's why they did that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever see yourself being one of those guys

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<v Speaker 1>that wears a chunky ring that's not your aura ring.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a ring that I keep it a jewelry

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<v Speaker 2>box that my brother in law gave to me when

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<v Speaker 2>I was a senior in high school. Oh really yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he was a jeweler and he gave me a ring

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<v Speaker 2>that it had a G on it and I had

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<v Speaker 2>a big diamond on it. Oh cool, it's very cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Big for me, Like I mean it physically, it was

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<v Speaker 2>too big for my finger it fit. How does it

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<v Speaker 2>fit now?

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<v Speaker 3>It fits on one of my thumbs? Probably? Oh really? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was is a big ring. You were fat fingered

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<v Speaker 3>as a child, No, No, I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't fat fingers, and I don't feel like my

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<v Speaker 1>So somebody went to the jewelry shop to pawn their

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<v Speaker 1>dead uncle's ring and it had a G on it,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought of you and was like, I'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Give this to Gary. Sure, I took it. I like

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<v Speaker 3>that guy had fat fingers. Whoever Uncle G was? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>fat fingered Uncle G. That's cool. I like that, so

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<v Speaker 3>I still have that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in my it's in my drawer and my little

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<v Speaker 2>I don't if i'd call it a jewelry box. I

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<v Speaker 2>have a box. That's the only piece of jewelry that's

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<v Speaker 2>in there. No, I have a tie clip in there too.

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<v Speaker 2>What Scottish terrier tie clip?

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to say, is there significance to the

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<v Speaker 3>tie clip? Friend, mine gave me a tie clip? Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>your wife didn't give you that tie clip. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>wear ties. Oh? Interesting? Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it interesting that I think exact words?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's interesting because I don't think I've seen a

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<v Speaker 2>I think the last time I wore it was when

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<v Speaker 2>I officiated a wedding. Yeah, I think I think that'd

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<v Speaker 1>To hold it back if you're eating or something like

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it does.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that was the purpose of it originally,

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<v Speaker 2>as opposed to being sort of a.

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<v Speaker 3>Just a piece of jewelry. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was rewatching Shawshank Redemption over the weekend as one does,

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<v Speaker 1>as I do, and Morgan Freeman's there, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to ruin the ending, but he's trapes him

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<v Speaker 1>through a field in a.

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<v Speaker 3>Full suit and they do friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what you did. You wore a suit everywhere

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. So that's why you needed a tie clip. Nowadays,

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<v Speaker 1>you are a suit. It's an event. You're probably not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be eat something happen. Yeah, something happened.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're wearing a suit, something happened, right, Or some

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<v Speaker 2>people wear them.

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<v Speaker 3>To go to work, people with you know jobs, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that happens. This story.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get into this here for a second, and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get into the grandpa stuff in a moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Grandpa and grandma.

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<v Speaker 2>But the birds and the bees talk might be happening

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<v Speaker 2>a little too late for many a kid's a new

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<v Speaker 2>The Poll on Children's Health said that early discussions about

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<v Speaker 2>puberty can help parents present information appropriately for their child's

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<v Speaker 2>age and prepare them for upcoming body changes, preventing unnecessary

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<v Speaker 3>My parents never did that.

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<v Speaker 2>We had the sex ed talk in school that we

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<v Speaker 2>never sat me down and said anything about any of.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in college before the topic came up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot I did not know that. I still

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<v Speaker 2>tell my mother about.

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<v Speaker 3>You're to say that you still don't know. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>you never told me this, she I mean, my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Was the person who came into my Catholic school and

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<v Speaker 1>taught the priest taught the boys, because that makes freaking sense.

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<v Speaker 1>And my mother came in and taught through through like sixth,

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<v Speaker 1>seventh and eighth grade. The girls in my in my class, did.

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<v Speaker 2>They do it once a year? I mean, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't just a one time and she was.

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<v Speaker 3>Great at it. But there was stuff she left out. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>there's stuff that's that that that you know you don't learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let us know what it is that you have

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<v Speaker 2>told your kids, or when did you even start.

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<v Speaker 3>Or how did it even come up. Everybody's got fun

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<v Speaker 3>stories about how it even came up. I will do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need to do a how to manual, but

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<v Speaker 1>just a know of the science parts of it.

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<v Speaker 2>And listen, some of it is better discovered on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say that sometimes sometimes sometimes that's and that's

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<v Speaker 2>probably one of the difficult exercises when you're doing that

442
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<v Speaker 2>is my wife and I have to figure out, well,

443
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<v Speaker 2>how much do you say because there's stuff that's gross,

444
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<v Speaker 2>and there's stuff that's funny, and then there's stuff that's exciting.

445
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<v Speaker 3>And then they're like, which ones do you sell?

446
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<v Speaker 1>Which I mean, there's there's some stuff like the rudimentary

447
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<v Speaker 1>stuff you probably want to let them know.

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<v Speaker 3>And then the others to choose your own.

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<v Speaker 2>Adventures slot be like simple stuff interesting, you know the

450
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<v Speaker 2>basics how it goes, but not like if you're on

451
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<v Speaker 2>the street looking forward, how much should you bargain for

452
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<v Speaker 2>this or for that?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that kind of stuff. You didn't teach us

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<v Speaker 3>on how to get a hooker.

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<v Speaker 2>I just figured that's one of those that's best left

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<v Speaker 2>up to the adventure of the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Just give them a lot of compliments. No one have

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<v Speaker 1>to pay implement to pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>Compliments. The compliments do not fly in Vegas. Is that

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<v Speaker 3>what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean, if you compliment a woman enough you

462
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<v Speaker 1>don't have to buy a hooker.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the worst advice. Elmer's nodding because he knows I'm right.

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<v Speaker 3>Gary and Shannon will continue in just a moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us know on the talkback feature on the iHeart

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<v Speaker 2>app what your sex talk with the kids was like.

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<v Speaker 3>And we'll do that again next hour.

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<v Speaker 5>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 5>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not a great example. That's not a great example. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's also a perfect example, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's Hey, we're talking about the economy,

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<v Speaker 2>and you mentioned this a little earlier, but I saw

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<v Speaker 2>another article about this today. Salon owners beauty professionals across

475
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<v Speaker 2>the country have said they are seeing the red flag

476
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<v Speaker 2>early warning signs about a downturn in the economy. Fewer

477
00:24:58.599 --> 00:25:01.319
<v Speaker 2>trips to the salon, trips to the song. They said,

478
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<v Speaker 2>a trip to the salon one of the one of

479
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<v Speaker 2>the first discretionary purchases to go. They don't entirely stop

480
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<v Speaker 2>getting their hair cut, for example, but they may just

481
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<v Speaker 2>go get their hair cut and not coloring style, maybe

482
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<v Speaker 2>not the highlights, or they stretch the time out between appointments.

483
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<v Speaker 2>They start doing some of their beauty maintenance at home.

484
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<v Speaker 1>I hope women don't don't stop getting those extensions, because

485
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<v Speaker 1>where will we be as a people.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have extensions, No, God.

487
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<v Speaker 1>If these were, if my hair was extensions, you should

488
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<v Speaker 1>go get your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah it's not. It's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Hair is awful, But like, uh, you know, the the

491
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<v Speaker 1>well the people, the extensions crowd can afford all of

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<v Speaker 1>the care.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably they are a different income bracket.

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<v Speaker 2>Runways a lot longer, Yeah, before they have to probably

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<v Speaker 2>before they have to pull up.

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<v Speaker 3>A quick note.

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<v Speaker 2>Kings blew that four goal lead before they hung on

498
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<v Speaker 2>to beat the Edmundton Oilers six to five last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you hear the national anthem that they did before

500
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<v Speaker 2>the Kings game yesterday?

501
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<v Speaker 3>Tell me mar.

502
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<v Speaker 2>Harmonica's Harmonica's just like Andy duframe, This is the city

503
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<v Speaker 2>of Angels, this is Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 3>Is a harmonica a Canadian thing?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I mean they have harmonica's in Canadia, yes, but

506
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<v Speaker 2>it's not a Canadian thing. And why would they use

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<v Speaker 2>the Canadian instrument to play the American national It just

508
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<v Speaker 2>sounded weird and I've never heard harmonicas do a national anthem.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's it's out of the box. You know, it's

510
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<v Speaker 1>something different. You gotta I like different. That's fun, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that really powering up the crowd before a playoff

512
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<v Speaker 2>hockey game?

513
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<v Speaker 3>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. Oh, No, hockey kinda brings its

515
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<v Speaker 1>own juice, doesn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>It does.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of the only it doesn't. It's violent enough.

518
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<v Speaker 1>There's enough testosterone on the ice. I think where you

519
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<v Speaker 1>can do a harmonica situation pre game.

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose a new study we're doing a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>studies in this segment.

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<v Speaker 3>Studying dong with these studies.

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<v Speaker 2>Found this month that American children spend forty nine percent

524
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<v Speaker 2>of their waking hours with grandparents. Now, if they're spending

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<v Speaker 2>the weekend at grandma, grandpa's house or whatever, that's that's

526
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<v Speaker 2>the terminology. They're using forty nine percent of their waking

527
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<v Speaker 2>hours with grandparents engaged with digital media. Half the time

528
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<v Speaker 2>their eyes are open with grandma and grandpa, they are

529
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<v Speaker 2>looking at screen.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, in nineteen eighty five, you knew that

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<v Speaker 1>it was a much slower pace with grandma and grandpa.

532
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<v Speaker 1>Even back then, it's just a slower afternoon. It's a

533
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<v Speaker 1>slower pace. And now the idea of a slower pace

534
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<v Speaker 1>is exponentially slower, isn't it when you are constantly stimulated

535
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<v Speaker 1>by your phone. Even a hanging out with your parents

536
00:28:10.400 --> 00:28:12.319
<v Speaker 1>is a slower pace. But hanging with your grandparents, I

537
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<v Speaker 1>mean that is glacial, and you don't realize that some

538
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<v Speaker 1>of the great moments and the great bonding and all

539
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<v Speaker 1>the good things and maybe some advice you get or

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<v Speaker 1>just a tip on how to be come in those

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<v Speaker 1>slow moments.

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<v Speaker 2>Were some of the greatest memories that I have with

543
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<v Speaker 2>my grandparents. My mom's parents lived longer than my dad's parents,

544
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<v Speaker 2>and my mom's dad, Grandpa Dickerson, would just go out

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<v Speaker 2>into the shop.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what he did.

547
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<v Speaker 2>There was constantly working on something or this engine or

548
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<v Speaker 2>that car or something constantly. And it wasn't that he

549
00:28:49.039 --> 00:28:52.759
<v Speaker 2>was a great conversationalist, but he always talked about what

550
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<v Speaker 2>he was doing, and he would always point out, Now,

551
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<v Speaker 2>the reason they called this one a crescent wrench is

552
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<v Speaker 2>because of this, and the reason and they call this

553
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<v Speaker 2>an adjustable wrench is because of this. And this is

554
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<v Speaker 2>what needlenosed pliers are. Don't get those confused with the

555
00:29:06.599 --> 00:29:10.039
<v Speaker 2>other needlenosed pliers that are long neck needlenose pliers. I

556
00:29:10.039 --> 00:29:14.279
<v Speaker 2>mean constantly talked about what was going on with whatever

557
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<v Speaker 2>he was fixing and learned. So, I mean, I don't

558
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<v Speaker 2>know how much of it stuck, but learn so much

559
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<v Speaker 2>of the basics of problem solving, mechanics, engines, all of

560
00:29:26.519 --> 00:29:30.599
<v Speaker 2>that stuff from just sitting there and just being next

561
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<v Speaker 2>to him. Not that he was going to ask me

562
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<v Speaker 2>to do it, or you do it now. I fixed this,

563
00:29:35.279 --> 00:29:38.680
<v Speaker 2>I tore apart this V six engine, you do it now.

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<v Speaker 2>None of that stuff, but just the knowledge that he

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<v Speaker 2>had that he would tell us, myself and my cousins.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just because.

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<v Speaker 1>He had the time to tell you things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't your dad, who was probably you know, working

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<v Speaker 1>and providing for a family and all the things. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's grandparents have the time to to explain needle those.

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<v Speaker 3>Fliers to you.

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<v Speaker 2>And in many cases most cases it's not like you said,

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<v Speaker 2>they're not busy with the everyday parenting issues.

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<v Speaker 3>So if I went to go see Grandma on.

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<v Speaker 2>Grandpa is because it was a special occasion, or if

576
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<v Speaker 2>they came to our house, it was because my parents

577
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<v Speaker 2>were on vacation, so they it was a more relaxed,

578
00:30:18.519 --> 00:30:22.000
<v Speaker 2>right opportunity for that kind of stuff to happen. But

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<v Speaker 2>the idea that that fifty percent basically of awaking hours

580
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<v Speaker 2>spent with grandparents are now spent on TV or playing

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<v Speaker 2>video games or scrolling through your apps. My wife has

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<v Speaker 2>said multiple times she can't wait for grandkids like it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be. She loves babies and kids, she loves it.

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<v Speaker 2>I the sadness I would feel if her grandkid wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to look at a phone rather than play with, be

586
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<v Speaker 2>with cook with, spend time with grandma heartbreak.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that would just be so it would sucks.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you would slap that phone out of that kid's

589
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<v Speaker 1>hands so quick?

590
00:31:00.480 --> 00:31:02.200
<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding the phone for me to slap it

591
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<v Speaker 3>out of his hand?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just there would be a different set of rules

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<v Speaker 1>a grandparents. And even even if are you gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>by grandpa or are you gonna go by like like.

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<v Speaker 3>Google bear big g old old g old G. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't just say O G okay o g that's cool,

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00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:23.759
<v Speaker 3>that's cool.

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00:31:24.279 --> 00:31:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Stumble onto something there, taking that note, taking that note down.

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<v Speaker 3>I want my great kids to.

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<v Speaker 1>Throw me great gangstuff O G Gary on the grandpa.

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<v Speaker 2>The study said that there's four main strategies that grandparents

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00:31:43.039 --> 00:31:46.480
<v Speaker 2>can use to manage their grandkids media consumption supervision, which

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<v Speaker 2>is simply looking over their shoulder. Kids, Where does that

604
00:31:50.119 --> 00:31:55.079
<v Speaker 2>restrictive mediation, which is to set firm rules? Okay, instructive

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<v Speaker 2>mediation hit the kids. Kids co viewing, which is watching

606
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<v Speaker 2>together only if it's a sporting event.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, my grandma and I watched a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of forty nine er football together.

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<v Speaker 3>My grandma and she would yell at the TV constantly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was the one who always kept score with

611
00:32:13.599 --> 00:32:16.640
<v Speaker 2>a pad and the game she would score the game

612
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<v Speaker 2>freaking dixick. And she didn't trust those guys. Why what

613
00:32:20.680 --> 00:32:23.839
<v Speaker 2>times they get it wrong? Why would she? Howard Cosell

614
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<v Speaker 2>was a mess, but.

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00:32:27.720 --> 00:32:29.880
<v Speaker 3>Only sporting events. I think I would watch with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Those guys were drinking in the booth.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm watching Valley or whatever the stupid show you guys

618
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<v Speaker 2>are watching.

619
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<v Speaker 3>Ranch Ransom, Can Ransom? Can you watch your freaking mouth?

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<v Speaker 2>Even if I was taking my kid grandkid to a

621
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<v Speaker 2>restaurant and they were used to having that stupid and

622
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<v Speaker 2>I hate people who do it, and I don't care

623
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<v Speaker 2>who's listening. I hate it when there's a kid on

624
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<v Speaker 2>the phone at the table.

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00:33:01.920 --> 00:33:04.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, if you oh, yeah, if you.

626
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<v Speaker 2>Are going to take your kid to the table to

627
00:33:05.960 --> 00:33:11.039
<v Speaker 2>a restaurant, teach them to behave in a restaurant without

628
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<v Speaker 2>the giant big brain pacifier that is a stupid loud phone.

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<v Speaker 3>My grandmam to engage with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Anna May taught me how to gamble before before my

631
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<v Speaker 1>dad did. And she would say, let's bet a dollar

632
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<v Speaker 1>on the football game. And she'd say who are you

633
00:33:28.680 --> 00:33:31.000
<v Speaker 1>going to take? And I'd say, and she'd say, I

634
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<v Speaker 1>want to take the forty nine ers, just a straight bet,

635
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<v Speaker 1>and I want to take the forty nine I should

636
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<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, Shan, I'll let you take the forty

637
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<v Speaker 1>nine ers. And this was the conversation we would have

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<v Speaker 1>over and over again, and we always bet a dollar.

639
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<v Speaker 1>I'd get the dollar whether the forty niners one or not.

640
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<v Speaker 1>But she was a big Joe Montana person, so she

641
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<v Speaker 1>taught you to lose, yeah and make a profit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And did you ever have to put up the dollar?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, did she put up a dollar and you put

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<v Speaker 2>up a dollar magically go oh look here's a dollar.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, you bet. She would say, Paw, get me

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<v Speaker 3>a dollar, paw, and anime. Yeah, that's how it went.

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<v Speaker 3>That's pretty great.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do our trending stories, we've got our crucial timing

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<v Speaker 2>for the sex talk with the parents, and then, of course,

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<v Speaker 3>Up with this sex top Tuesday. Gary and Shannon will

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<v Speaker 3>continue right after this. You've been listening to The Gary

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<v Speaker 3>and Shannon Show.

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