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Speaker 1: Austin Dad Station one o three point one.
Speaker 2: Guy code is.
Speaker 1: A very very very real thing and dude world, and
Speaker 1: some guys get guy code better than other guys just
Speaker 1: the way that it is.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: But we're going to share some with some of the
Speaker 1: guy code things with you in just a minute and
Speaker 1: play a clip from a great movie called The Town
Speaker 1: with Jeremy Renner and Ben Affleck. That's perfect the guy code.
Speaker 1: But before we get to that, I have to tell you, JB,
Speaker 1: your shirt is ordered. We were doing a bit where
Speaker 1: we each have to order a T shirt for another
Speaker 1: person on the show. I drew JB. And it has
Speaker 1: to be their personality. It has to fit their personality.
Speaker 1: What it says on the T shirt and the one
Speaker 1: that I got you, I'll steal align from Tricia, it says,
Speaker 1: if they made it for.
Speaker 3: You, let's make a shirt for JB.
Speaker 4: Right, all right, Yeah, I got to get on that today.
Speaker 4: I need to get I have something in mind. I
Speaker 4: got to find it for Tricia, right, So you have
Speaker 4: Tricia and Tricia has me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I ordered yours today too.
Speaker 1: And this all stemmed from Tricia and her collection of
Speaker 1: funny T shirts. Right, She's always got one on that
Speaker 1: says something about her.
Speaker 3: Yes, my roll or or only wears black, loves dogs,
Speaker 3: hates people.
Speaker 2: So anyway, the one that I ordered and you ordered for.
Speaker 3: Me, Yes, I placed the order today.
Speaker 1: I don't know when yours is going to get here.
Speaker 1: It was one of those wasn't an Amazon order. It
Speaker 1: was like a T shirt world.
Speaker 3: Is it coming from the land of China this month?
Speaker 2: Probably coming from Beijing.
Speaker 3: I'll be here Fridays.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna play this clip from the movie.
Speaker 1: This is Jeremy Renner Ben Affleck, Ben Afflex walking into
Speaker 1: a room where Jeremy Renner is watching television. He needs
Speaker 1: help from his buddy, and it's a perfect example of
Speaker 1: guide code.
Speaker 2: I need you help. I can't tell you what it is.
Speaker 2: You can never ask me about it later. And we're
Speaker 2: going to hurt some people. What's we're gonna take? Wants
Speaker 2: to know?
Speaker 3: I love that clip.
Speaker 2: Who's cob were going to take?
Speaker 4: Doesn't know any details? A woman would have asked for
Speaker 4: a million details.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and every guy out there that wanted to do
Speaker 1: the exact same thing as Jeremy.
Speaker 3: Rinner is breaking guy breaking guy code, right, you just okay,
Speaker 3: A girl would still do it. She'd say I'm in,
Speaker 3: but she'd want all the details so then she could
Speaker 3: maybe improve upon the plan and make it even better,
Speaker 3: help her friends make it even better. We'd still do it.
Speaker 3: It would take you longer, I know, but it would
Speaker 3: be perfection.
Speaker 1: Other things that you know, that's a great example, like
Speaker 1: when called upon, you just show up.
Speaker 2: You just when your buddy need you.
Speaker 1: You just you don't ask why, You just get your
Speaker 1: keys and you go and help them out.
Speaker 2: You got one JB.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't date your buddy's X.
Speaker 2: Oh I've heard that or their sister. Yes, yeah, any of.
Speaker 3: Y'all friends ever try and date y'all sisters? Y'all all
Speaker 3: have you both have sisters?
Speaker 2: No, but I messed around with my sister's friends. I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 3: I feel like that's reverse. I feel like that's okay, right,
Speaker 3: I don't know. I felt they needed to keep it
Speaker 3: a secret for the last forty years. Oh so.
Speaker 2: Maybe not. I don't know. But yeah, you don't mess around,
Speaker 2: you don't date.
Speaker 1: There was a guy that I went to high school
Speaker 1: he and through high school I think three different times.
Speaker 1: And he was a buddy three different times. Stated my
Speaker 1: ex did it three times, three different exes, three different girlfriends,
Speaker 1: all through high school. Right, he did it over and
Speaker 1: over and over. He ended up marrying one of them.
Speaker 1: Which whatever, do you care? No, they bugged me at
Speaker 1: the time, but you know what I mean, there wasn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you're sixteen, seventeen years old, you don't
Speaker 1: really know much about bro code.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but they should. It comes it comes later, right
Speaker 4: for sure. Here's another really good one. You always respect
Speaker 4: the grill master. You don't touch another man's grill or
Speaker 4: his tungs.
Speaker 1: Yes, and you know what else, when the guy's grilling
Speaker 1: broke code, you don't.
Speaker 2: Don't.
Speaker 1: Don't lend any advice while he's grilling. He knows what
Speaker 1: he's doing. Leave him alone. Just leave him alone. You never, dudes,
Speaker 1: never you're breaking bro code. If you get free beer,
Speaker 1: you don't bitch about what brand it is. Right, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not drinking a PBR. It's free drink it. It's
Speaker 1: just some you know guys. And we had I talked
Speaker 1: to my daughter about this. I told her once we
Speaker 1: were walking out of busy sidewalk, and so I, because
Speaker 1: I was brought up right, I took the position closest
Speaker 1: to traffic right and to her left, and I said
Speaker 1: to her, as we're walking along, I go, if you
Speaker 1: ever date a guy that doesn't walk to your left
Speaker 1: on the side of traffic, break up with him immediately.
Speaker 3: M you're done with very old school right he one
Speaker 3: raised right, one raised right. If you didn't do that
Speaker 3: and open a door, have to make sure they open
Speaker 3: your door. Guys. Opening doors for girls is just it's
Speaker 3: going away. Nobody's doing it anymore.
Speaker 4: I do it for my wife and daughter, and sometimes
Speaker 4: a woman will see it and comment like that, Wow,
Speaker 4: you don't see anyone do that anymore.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's good.
Speaker 4: You know what.
Speaker 3: Else doesn't happen very often, but it does every time
Speaker 3: I see my uncles who are old school cowboys. If
Speaker 3: we go to meet them for dinner or lunch or somewhere,
Speaker 3: and they're there first, when I walk up to the table,
Speaker 3: they stand up, even if it's just like in a
Speaker 3: sandwich shop, they just stand up, not all the way
Speaker 3: up maybe, but enough to like the respectful of the
Speaker 3: girls here, acknowledging I'm there. And they'll sit down.
Speaker 1: It's kind of not bro code, but it was pretty funny.
Speaker 1: One year at my parents' house for a holiday, and
Speaker 1: the rule of my house I think we've talked about
Speaker 1: this before was nobody eats until apple eats until my
Speaker 1: mom sits down and eats.
Speaker 2: Tricia didn't get the memo. I didn't.
Speaker 3: I know, No, dude, If growing up we didn't eat
Speaker 3: until my grandmother sat down, we would none of us
Speaker 3: would ever eat. She was always up, constantly doing stuff,
Speaker 3: and there were so many of us people just ate immediately,
Speaker 3: and it just wasn't a thing that we waited for
Speaker 3: my grandmother to sit down.
Speaker 2: I get it, I get it.
Speaker 4: Here's a tricky guy code thing. And I'm sure you've
Speaker 4: experienced this. I'll use the term busting chops instead of
Speaker 4: the other term. You don't bust the chops unless you
Speaker 4: know the other, dude really well, you don't. You're not
Speaker 4: the new guy hanging out and start chiming in right
Speaker 4: and cracking on them, because that's not cool. You got
Speaker 4: to be really tight exactly like if yeah, like I
Speaker 4: can make fun of Sandy's extra large head, yep, but
Speaker 4: someone if we're with some new person, and they start
Speaker 4: chiming in.
Speaker 2: You're like whoa, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 4: Then I would get offended.
Speaker 2: Hey that right, right, because there's time with somebody, right,
Speaker 2: you can't just start banging on him the moment you meet.
Speaker 1: Him, right, Trying to be funny, you know what's a
Speaker 1: tricky one in guy code is the head nod. You know, yes,
Speaker 1: it's it's really it's a tricky one because if you
Speaker 1: know them, nod up.
Speaker 2: If you don't know them, nod down.
Speaker 4: Wow, there is that's a really interesting thing. Like there's
Speaker 4: also this like if you if you get caught kind
Speaker 4: of checking out his wife or girlfriend, you immediately look
Speaker 4: to the guy and just nod, like you.
Speaker 2: Acknowledge, I got you. Good job. Pick your coverage right, because.
Speaker 4: If you just are standing like you might end up
Speaker 4: in a fight, so you need to And there's also
Speaker 4: a lot of just acknowledging a stranger like it's a
Speaker 4: I see you, I respect you, Like yeah, it's so
Speaker 4: you don't bump shoulders and get into a fight passing
Speaker 4: each other.
Speaker 2: That stuff can happen easily. Easily.
Speaker 4: I don't know if that all makes sense, but it's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: you acknowledge I acknowledge you like, just that's your territory,
Speaker 4: this is mine. We're good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like a dog gets peed on something. You
Speaker 2: pete on her.
Speaker 1: We get it. Okay, it's spot what about I mean,
Speaker 1: this is one for me. Hey, if I first meet you,
Speaker 1: I don't need a hand jive. I just need a handshake,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Just a good old fashioned classic, Yeah, classic all handshake.
Speaker 1: I don't need to slap hands and do the bump
Speaker 1: and no.
Speaker 3: Handshake.
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, you don't do the I guess how do
Speaker 4: you describe it? More of an interlocking thumb. That's more
Speaker 4: like casual handsh You don't do that when you don't
Speaker 4: know them.
Speaker 1: Right, that's the sports handshake, you know what I mean? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's after game handshake. Just a good a good hands
Speaker 1: good one is good.
Speaker 2: Right. Any others we need to get out there?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, there's there's definitely. And chicks don't do this.
Speaker 4: Guys split the check even no matter who had what.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah we do. We don't take out the calculator.
Speaker 4: Oh, I just it's such a salad and I didn't
Speaker 4: have any wine. Yeah, you know, you just split it,
Speaker 4: split it right out right down the middle. Exactly, or
Speaker 4: one chooses to pick it up, you get it next time. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and you guys handle that. That's the what what goes
Speaker 4: around comes around, you know what I mean. I mean,
Speaker 4: I don't think Jbi and I have ever been out together.
Speaker 4: We've had a lot of meals and a lot of
Speaker 4: drinks together over the years that we even split it.
Speaker 4: It was always I'll get this when you get the
Speaker 4: next one. Yeah, it's over time. It's gonna even out.
Speaker 2: Yep, it does.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's some guy codes in the restroom too.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, absolutely.
Speaker 3: Urinal issue.
Speaker 2: Do not speak. Do not speak at the urinal.
Speaker 4: That's no, no matter what, even if you know them.
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like I also heard too that you
Speaker 3: don't if you go in and there's nobody else in there,
Speaker 3: you always pick an end urinal. You don't immediately take
Speaker 3: it like in the middle urinal. Doesn't. It just makes
Speaker 3: anybody who comes in after that uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Yep. Yes.
Speaker 4: And if there is someone in there at the urinal,
Speaker 4: you choose the one furthest away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't say there's six.
Speaker 4: Of them in a row. And I and there was
Speaker 4: one guy in there using the jurnal, and I went
Speaker 4: and stood next to him. No, no, no, ye don't
Speaker 4: do that.
Speaker 2: And you also don't do the spare square. If you
Speaker 2: need it, you wait till.
Speaker 3: They leave, you know what I mean, you're in a stall. See,
Speaker 3: that's one thing that guys will do, the girls won't.
Speaker 3: Guys will walk into a bathroom and go in the
Speaker 3: stall and do the number you do in a stall
Speaker 3: and not care how many other guys are in there.
Speaker 3: Girls will sit there and hold it and do the
Speaker 3: camouflage flush so you can't hear it, and cought so
Speaker 3: you don't notice how many times they're getting toilet paper.
Speaker 3: They're very different roles in boy and girls bathrooms.
Speaker 4: Yeah, guys, there's some good there's some good guy code
Speaker 4: with like you know, being a good wingman. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 4: sometimes you got to entertain the ugly chick so your
Speaker 4: friends can.
Speaker 1: And sometimes you got like if your two dudes out
Speaker 1: and there's two girls, you gotta choose wisely too, you
Speaker 1: know what i mean, Like which one you're gonna flirt with?
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes it works out.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you establish ahead of time, like you take the
Speaker 3: one on the right, I'll take the one on the left.
Speaker 4: It's kind of just happens. It's all the stuff's unwritten.
Speaker 4: You know you don't You don't acknowledge it. You just
Speaker 4: do it right. Yeah, it's not easy being a dude.
Speaker 4: A lot of rules.
Speaker 3: Girls acknowledge everything. It's our job is to acknowledge all
Speaker 3: the things.
Speaker 2: So like when you guys sneak off and go to
Speaker 2: the bathroom, what are you talking about?
Speaker 3: All the all the people out there, something rude, A
Speaker 3: guys said, some stupid outfit or ugly outfit that girl
Speaker 3: has on. She looked like a whore. That girl talks
Speaker 3: too loud, that guy's weird. All the things where we
Speaker 3: make it back to the table.
Speaker 2: Sometimes, guys, and this is not easy to do.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta tell him that the girl you're with
Speaker 1: is crazy. And that's a that's a bro code really
Speaker 1: good friend thing, Like if she's nuts, you gotta tell him, dude,
Speaker 1: she's nuts.
Speaker 2: You gotta get away from her.
Speaker 3: Heally, I feel like you would never do that. I
Speaker 3: feel like that would be somehow breaking guy code.
Speaker 2: No, that's good friend.
Speaker 4: Really Well, there's there's two answers to that situation.
Speaker 2: You say.
Speaker 4: You think one and you say one. You could say
Speaker 4: she's nuts or you can think she must be good
Speaker 4: in bed because otherwise it is not worth it.
Speaker 1: That's true. I've thought about that about some people I know.
Speaker 1: He must be no exactly who I'm thinking. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: must do things he had never even heard of them
Speaker 1: or read about before, right right?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's the only reason. It's the only reason.
Speaker 2: There you go.
Speaker 1: That's your bro code friends JB and Sandy just here
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