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<v Speaker 1>This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI

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<v Speaker 1>A M six forty, the Gary and Shannon Show on

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<v Speaker 2>We were talking earlier about about in laws and whether

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<v Speaker 2>or not you get along with your in laws.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, guys, my brother in law is a piece of work.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just like Gary. He's insecure. He's a no at all.

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<v Speaker 3>He's got an ego, can't stand to be told when

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<v Speaker 3>he's wrong. He's just a complete lame.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye, what did you do today?

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<v Speaker 5>A complete lame?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember his voice. He doesn't like us, but yet

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<v Speaker 1>contributes often, consistent, consistently. It is time for swamp watch.

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<v Speaker 5>Politician, which means I'm a cheat and a liar. And

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<v Speaker 5>when I'm not kissing babies, I'm stealing that lollipops. Here

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<v Speaker 5>we got.

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<v Speaker 6>The real problem is that our leaders are done.

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<v Speaker 4>The other side never quits, so.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going anywhere.

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<v Speaker 6>So now you train the.

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<v Speaker 5>Swat, I can imagine what can and be unburdened by

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<v Speaker 5>what has been. You know, Americans have always been going

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<v Speaker 5>at president. They're not stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>A political plunder is when a politician actually tells the truth.

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<v Speaker 5>Why have the people voting for you were not swamp Watch.

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<v Speaker 5>They're all counterad.

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<v Speaker 2>There is mounting pressure here and abroad to have some

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<v Speaker 2>sort of a decision from President Trump about what he's

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<v Speaker 2>going to do with Iran, and as of just a

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<v Speaker 2>short time ago, Caroline Levitt, the White House Press Secretary,

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<v Speaker 2>read a statement from the President.

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<v Speaker 7>I have a message directly from the President, and I quote,

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<v Speaker 7>based on the fact that there's a substantial chance of

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<v Speaker 7>negotiations that may or may not take place with Iran

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<v Speaker 7>in the near future. I will make my decision whether

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<v Speaker 7>or not to go within the next next two weeks.

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<v Speaker 5>There you go, within two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>We've seen that window before, the window of ultimatum, of

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<v Speaker 2>ultimate ultimatum to use the president's own term, So we

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what the plan is. He did have yet

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<v Speaker 2>another meeting with the National Security Council in terms of

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<v Speaker 2>the briefing of what's going on, and it's only getting

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<v Speaker 2>hotter between Iran and Israel. Israel struck a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>Iran's nuclear facilities again, and Iran struck in Israeli hospital,

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<v Speaker 2>among other things, and hurt about two hundred plus people

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<v Speaker 2>in the in Beersheba is where that hospital was, in

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<v Speaker 2>the southern part of Israel.

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<v Speaker 1>It's written up saying the president hasn't made up his mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe the president has made up his mind. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think. I think this is a president that

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<v Speaker 1>would have a very hard time resisting sending in the

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<v Speaker 1>B two with that massive bomb that only we have

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<v Speaker 1>to bust up that nuclear bunker in Iran.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he may have made this decision a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 2>There's something going on between he and Tulca Gabbard right

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<v Speaker 2>now as well. She's the Director of National Intelligence and

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<v Speaker 2>testified before Congress just a short time ago that according

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<v Speaker 2>to the intelligence community, Iran doesn't have a nuclear capability

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<v Speaker 2>and that the Ayatola has not given them the green

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<v Speaker 8>IC continues to assess that Iran is not building a

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<v Speaker 8>nuclear weapon and Supreme Leader Kameni has not authorized the

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<v Speaker 8>nuclear weapons program that he suspended in two thousand and three.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, but she's a Russia for lack of a better term.

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<v Speaker 1>She likes Russia, she has ties to Russia. It's well documented.

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<v Speaker 1>Russia doesn't want the United States to get involved with

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<v Speaker 1>Iran directly like this.

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<v Speaker 5>But so she's you're saying she's lying.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, she's spinning it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's certainly spinning it to create some sort of feeling

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<v Speaker 1>that Iran doesn't have what everybody fears.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, but this brings up an issue that came up

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<v Speaker 2>during the first Trump administration, and who's he then getting

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<v Speaker 2>his intelligence from? If she's the driver of se Gabbard,

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<v Speaker 2>if she's in charge of seventeen intelligence agencies and is

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<v Speaker 2>the mouthpiece for them to the president, who's he getting

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<v Speaker 2>his information from?

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<v Speaker 5>Because he says he doesn't care what she says.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course he doesn't. He believes that they are going

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<v Speaker 1>there is a gift to Putin. She's there to keep

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<v Speaker 1>things nice and copasetic with Putin and Trump. She's there

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<v Speaker 1>to be a mouthpiece for Russia. There's just there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way that she is true to her title.

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<v Speaker 2>But if this, if this plays out this way, if

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<v Speaker 2>this continues to go down the road of her saying

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<v Speaker 2>that there is no nuclear program in Iran and him

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<v Speaker 2>saying there is she's not going to last in that job.

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<v Speaker 1>If there was no program in Iran, then everyone is

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<v Speaker 1>just off their ass. All the intelligence that we have

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<v Speaker 1>not named Tulsi Gabbard is wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Get out of here. I mean not you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, but I think she's nutcase. Do you have another

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<v Speaker 1>ic coffee today or something I did? I did, I

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<v Speaker 1>made it at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see the ongoing speaking of the fracturing of

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<v Speaker 2>political parties going after I'm asking, I'm asked, Sorry, Tucker Carlson,

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<v Speaker 2>going after Ted Cruz and vice versa.

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<v Speaker 1>I missed it thinking about your allegation and the Prime

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<v Speaker 1>Minister of Israel's allegation that.

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<v Speaker 6>Killing terrorists is a good thing. Killing people are trying

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<v Speaker 6>to murder Americans is a good thing because if you're

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<v Speaker 6>America first, you want to protect Americans. So taking out

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<v Speaker 6>killing O'samovan Laden was a fantastic.

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<v Speaker 5>But you don't believe that they're trying to murder Trump?

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<v Speaker 5>Or yes, yes, but why aren't you calling for military

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<v Speaker 5>action against Tehran right now?

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<v Speaker 6>Because they're not very effective in terms of hit men.

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<v Speaker 6>Their hitmen are not very effective.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think this was one of the most contentious

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<v Speaker 1>interviews I've seen between two Republicans in name or at

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<v Speaker 1>least the voting registration in a very long time.

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<v Speaker 2>Tucker Carlson also asked Ted Cruz do you know how

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<v Speaker 2>many people live in Iran? And Ted Cruz is like,

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea, And then Tucker Carlson, very smugly

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<v Speaker 2>and calmly ninety two million.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's a gotcha moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, because he says, you want to do away with

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<v Speaker 2>the Iranian country, but don't have an idea of how

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<v Speaker 2>many people could potentially be killed with it, And Ted.

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<v Speaker 5>Cruse like, now, I'm not trying to kill the country.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to get rid of the awful politicians and

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<v Speaker 2>leaders that have turned that country into an absolute toilet bowl.

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<v Speaker 5>It was, it was very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Where is Tucker Carlson these days on Trump and everything

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<v Speaker 1>that's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't paid attention.

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<v Speaker 5>They do not agree?

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<v Speaker 4>They do, that's for sure? Is that because he is like, why.

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<v Speaker 5>Listen the whole thing about Telsea Gabberby.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it an America first type thing?

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<v Speaker 5>Or well?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like if the President campaigned on keeping us out

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<v Speaker 2>of getting out of and keeping us out of foreign wars,

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<v Speaker 2>this would go against that promise right?

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<v Speaker 4>Is he a Russia apologist?

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<v Speaker 1>He has been very cozy with Vladimir poop Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>he and Tulsi are all in bed with Putin. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about Tulsi, but Tucker has definitely been a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more of a soft shoe with Vladimir Putin

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<v Speaker 1>than others have.

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<v Speaker 5>A soft shoe soft shoes. Yeah, he's a good buffer shoes,

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<v Speaker 5>a good buffer.

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<v Speaker 4>What does that even mean? Soft shoe?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm wearing soft shoes right now, are you? Yeah? Those

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<v Speaker 5>aren't just rubber.

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<v Speaker 4>You really phoned it in for a Thursday. Are you

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<v Speaker 4>dealing with something?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm wearing a belt? All right?

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<v Speaker 4>What are we doing? How to say no at work?

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<v Speaker 4>There was an article on the Wall Street No that

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<v Speaker 4>was good.

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<v Speaker 9>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 9>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 2>According to Multiple Sports, the Dodgers are expected to announce

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<v Speaker 2>today some sort of a sweeping initiative to assist migrant

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<v Speaker 2>communities impacted by the recent federal immigration enforcements that have

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<v Speaker 2>been taking place. In fact, there are camera TV cameras

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<v Speaker 2>that are placed outside Dodger Stadium covering this story that

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<v Speaker 2>have apparently also captured some ice agents or homeland security

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<v Speaker 2>investigators in the parking lot at Dodger Stadium.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a reason why office space has such a

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<v Speaker 1>cult following, and it's because, if you've seen the Major

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<v Speaker 1>Emotion Picture, the character, the lead character in it, just

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<v Speaker 1>decides he doesn't want.

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<v Speaker 4>To do stuff at work anymore. He's he's a guy,

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<v Speaker 4>he's a droll.

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<v Speaker 1>He works for a data company, and it's all very

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<v Speaker 1>you know, exactly what you would expect from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>inputs data nine to five kind of thing. He's got

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<v Speaker 1>three different bosses, they ask for the same thing. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of redundancy, and he's like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not going to do it anymore. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you're watching the movie, you feel almost like a weightlifted

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<v Speaker 1>from your own shoulders. It's like, ah, that's refreshing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there was an article in the Wall Street Journal that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of told you.

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<v Speaker 4>How to do that, how to say no at work,

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<v Speaker 4>Just no, no, I'm not going to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's go back to why it's hard to say no.

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<v Speaker 2>A lot of people are concerned that if you say no,

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<v Speaker 2>you might damage the relationship with whoever's asking you to

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<v Speaker 2>do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, in a lot of jobs, if you say no,

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<v Speaker 1>there will be people behind you that will say yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they will get the job in the paycheck

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<v Speaker 1>and your sol I come from a school of thought

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<v Speaker 1>of you allow it to everything. No, you say yes

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<v Speaker 1>to everything. Oh, especially in radio. Oh can you work

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas morning? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 4>I can.

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<v Speaker 1>You said yes to everything to get on the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you work weak ans, yes, I can. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>work nights? Yes I can? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's how you Can you work for free?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes I can. I mean we all did that.

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<v Speaker 5>While you're here. Could you take the garbage out?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, sure I can. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll be the best garbage taker out or you've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what you have to do in some jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>But I guess there comes a time when things become

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit unnecessary, like company dinners, unnecessary meetings, saying

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<v Speaker 1>yes to being available when you're on vacation or at home,

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. I guess when you're not, when you're

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<v Speaker 1>not twenty two trying to make it in radio, it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to say no once in a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Every once in a while there is a I said that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's a perception that if you say no,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to ruin a relationship that you have with

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<v Speaker 2>your coworker or supervisor, whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>But the work that was done by this columnist.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking to a bunch of different people, employment coaches, workplace advisors,

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<v Speaker 4>Get a no.

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<v Speaker 1>Eventually, she started watching that Why don't you just say

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I'd rather say no right away then I'd

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Such a good movie?

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<v Speaker 2>They said, choose your words when you do refuse something,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't feels weak just coming out of your mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>As opposed to I don't do more than I or

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<v Speaker 5>Do something like that. I'll have to work it out.

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<v Speaker 1>When have you been asked to do something that you've

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<v Speaker 5>Is because I smiled immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, It's been a long time since I've been asked

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I know what it is, but.

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<v Speaker 5>I always do it. That's the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>There's other people that work here exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And if I do something, I want to be able

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<v Speaker 1>You're also, your character is not one that shies away

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<v Speaker 1>want to do it or I think it's pointless. In

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<v Speaker 1>some case, it's a part of your fiber. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a weakness. So with that said, do you think you

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<v Speaker 5>I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't bite off more than I could.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a story about a woman who runs a

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<v Speaker 1>legal brothel, and this was in Newsweek. The headline is,

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<v Speaker 1>I run a legal brothel. Here's what it's taught me

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<v Speaker 1>about people's fantasies. Okay, now I saw this this morning

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, well, that might be fun to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, it probably won't be It'll probably

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<v Speaker 4>But then I aired on the side of I'm very curious.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very curious, speaking of which, we're taking your talkbacks

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<v Speaker 2>on your relationships within laws, good bad, awful.

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<v Speaker 10>Hearing shadows of course, I king, Yes, my ex mother

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<v Speaker 10>in law was a nightmare after the fact. She was

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<v Speaker 10>a nice person when I worked with her. She sets

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<v Speaker 10>me up with a blind aid with her daughter. Fast

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<v Speaker 10>forward a couple of years. We had a relationship, a

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<v Speaker 10>horrible marriage, and a divorce. Oh because of my ex

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<v Speaker 10>mother in law getting involved.

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<v Speaker 5>Ever again, so nasty. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>There was an article in Newsweek about a woman who

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<v Speaker 4>It's just kind of proof that.

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<v Speaker 1>The spectrum of what people are into fantasy, sexually, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>is a large spectrum. As I mentioned, here is how

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<v Speaker 1>it begins. He arrived merely with a toolbox, a jumpsuit

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<v Speaker 1>and an urgent look on his face. He nodded blightly

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<v Speaker 1>to the receptionists, checked in with the same quiet formality

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<v Speaker 1>someone might use at a dentist's office, and then went

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<v Speaker 1>upstairs in the brothel. For the next hour, he repaired

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<v Speaker 1>the sink, adjusted the shower head, ran tests on the toilet.

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<v Speaker 1>He had his own set of tools. The sex worker

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<v Speaker 1>he had booked played along, letting him go about his

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<v Speaker 1>performative plumbing uninterrupted. When time was up, he changed out

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<v Speaker 1>of the jumpsuit back into his normal clothes, thanked her

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<v Speaker 1>for a wonderful evening, and walked out the door with

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<v Speaker 1>the calm satisfaction of a man who had just fulfilled

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<v Speaker 1>a deep need. Okay, what that's what he's into? How

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<v Speaker 1>is that considered sexual? Because for him, for him, it

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<v Speaker 1>is for him doing plumbing tasks gets him to that location,

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<v Speaker 1>gets him there. We don't know if that's what happened, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't know if there was that action

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<v Speaker 1>we do with him, but it certainly seems like doing

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<v Speaker 1>that in front of a woman gave him the satisfaction

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<v Speaker 1>that he was seeking.

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<v Speaker 4>She says.

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<v Speaker 1>To some this may sound bizarre or laughable, maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>playing sad, but she said, as the manager of a

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<v Speaker 1>legal brothel, this was just another Tuesday. Over the past

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<v Speaker 1>nine years that she has worked there, she says she's

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<v Speaker 1>seen about every expression of sexuality you can imagine and

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<v Speaker 1>some you cannot imagine. She said, from classic role plays

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<v Speaker 1>surrounding one's age or pets, to the strangely specific like

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<v Speaker 1>this one is like men being aroused by women playing

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<v Speaker 1>with toy cars or eating pizza. So matchbox cars are

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<v Speaker 1>a thing Okay, I have a brother. He loves max

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<v Speaker 1>Car matchbox cars. Sure, I'll still get him one from

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<v Speaker 1>here and again when I see him at the grocery store.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think as much as he loves matchbox car

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<v Speaker 1>and listen.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what he's in do with his girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't think it entails her playing with a

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<v Speaker 4>matchbox car.

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<v Speaker 5>No. This woman also says.

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<v Speaker 4>Oddly, he's also a plumber, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe there is some connection there.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, there's one guy who couldn't get aroused unless the

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<v Speaker 2>woman he had booked red car manuals to him out loud.

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<v Speaker 4>Same dude that we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>My brother loves car manuals or loves reybuilding transmissions and

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<v Speaker 1>the like.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy who paid for an hour simply to sit

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<v Speaker 2>quietly while the woman played with her hair and watched cartoons.

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<v Speaker 4>My brother also loves cartoons.

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<v Speaker 5>Is this dude?

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<v Speaker 1>I need to make a phone call. I don't you

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<v Speaker 1>know what he should live his life? If this is

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<v Speaker 1>based on him, that's cool, Like whatever, be happy.

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<v Speaker 2>In some times, she says that she's seen people break

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<v Speaker 2>down crying halfway through.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a problem if you're crying during any sort of

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<v Speaker 1>sexual experience. I think that's definitely something to work on

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<v Speaker 1>with a trained professional.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, that's maybe why they're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean like a trained head, like a

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<v Speaker 1>neuro profession to start somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I guess one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Said that they booked time just to be insulted, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what helped them release control. She says, in each

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<v Speaker 1>of these cases, the brothel she works then it works in,

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<v Speaker 1>is not a place of debauchery. It's a stage where

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<v Speaker 1>people try on versions of themselves that the outside world

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<v Speaker 1>simply will not allow.

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<v Speaker 4>Hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it would be a problem. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you went home to your wife tonight and you said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I want to do tonight, like cry

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<v Speaker 1>right in the middle. No, no, no, that's not a that's

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<v Speaker 1>not negotiable.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you said, like, will you play.

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<v Speaker 1>With some Matchbox cars and watch Scooby Doo, she'd be

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<v Speaker 1>fine with that. She'd be like, Oh, that's what you're right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not.

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<v Speaker 4>A big ask.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't have to go to a brothel and pay

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<v Speaker 5>That maybe, yeah, but there would be some follow up.

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<v Speaker 4>There'd be some questions, yeah, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Like where Are you gonna get that matchbox cars the

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<v Speaker 2>Vaughn's Okay, yeah, because I'm not taking it out of

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<v Speaker 1>Nor don't make it weird me. Okay, Hold on a second.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the one who's painting this pretty interesting picture of

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<v Speaker 4>I know I'm gonna have to catch up with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Make a call, see how things are going up there.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you're in laws? Are they great? Are they awful?

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<v Speaker 2>Do they do they fit the stereotype? We'll talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it when we come back.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you love a story of a frivolous lawsuit?

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<v Speaker 5>Much depends?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it written on yellow legal pad by a prisoner?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, those are my face.

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<v Speaker 1>Woman in North Carolina is suing her former workplace overclaims

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<v Speaker 1>that a supervisor intimidated her with.

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<v Speaker 4>A chucky doll.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this is he left the chucky doll in the

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<v Speaker 1>She's suing Trust Bank, saying she suffers from a fear

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<v Speaker 1>of dolls, a phobia, and that she was traumatized into

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<v Speaker 1>treatment because of this. She claims the supervisor left the

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<v Speaker 1>chucky doll on her desk. That doll is very creepy. However,

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<v Speaker 1>if I came to work and there was a Chucky

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go, Chucky. You and me will burn the whole

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<v Speaker 1>place down right or die. Let's go. Like Chuckie and

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<v Speaker 1>I would be BFFs instantly around here.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't you think.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you think you'd welcome that kind of friend friendship here?

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<v Speaker 1>Does you see what happens to shake things up?

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<v Speaker 4>Shake things up?

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<v Speaker 5>Why not? Why not?

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<v Speaker 1>That's what that doll did. That family was living its life,

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<v Speaker 1>nice little family. Chucky was like, this is boring, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>shake things up.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you have the strength to stab those people

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<v Speaker 2>all those times?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? He had sizeable arms.

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<v Speaker 1>Chunky for you know, Chucky was a little chunky, little

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<v Speaker 2>SpaceX rocket being tested in Texas exploded. The company said

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<v Speaker 5>Just about eleven o'clock last night.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it was on the test stand at Starbase, the

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<v Speaker 2>was hurt, no hazards to nearby communities.

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<v Speaker 5>They said.

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<v Speaker 2>It asked people to try not to approach the site

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<v Speaker 2>mark the latest in a string of incidents this year

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<v Speaker 2>that involved the massive rockets. A short time after the

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<v Speaker 2>complete destruction of that rocket, Elon Musk took to Twitter

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<v Speaker 2>and said, just to scratch, do we have horror stories?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we have nice stories, but people like Merlass, not

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<v Speaker 1>all of them.

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<v Speaker 10>So here's the best part about my in laws.

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<v Speaker 1>They're both dead and I have no more problems with them.

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<v Speaker 4>What good Lord, I put them the creepy as.

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<v Speaker 11>Well.

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<v Speaker 8>I've been married twice and actually my first husband's mom

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<v Speaker 8>embraced my second husband more like her son than she

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<v Speaker 8>did her own son. So we had a very blended,

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<v Speaker 8>splendid family.

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<v Speaker 2>My parents were effusive with their praise of our choice

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<v Speaker 2>of choices of spouses, choices of spouses, and they would

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<v Speaker 2>often say to my sisters and I that they would

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<v Speaker 2>rather if we ever broke up, we ever got a divorce,

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<v Speaker 2>they would take my wife over me, or they would

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<v Speaker 2>take my sister's husbands over them.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's a they'd being nice.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, But I mean, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Did your mom think about your first fiance?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Probably not impressed.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember anything she said? No, they were very timeful.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a feeling you had.

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<v Speaker 2>My brother in law was really the only one who

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<v Speaker 2>said anything afterwards.

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<v Speaker 5>What did he say, like, I knew it wasn't going

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<v Speaker 5>to work out?

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<v Speaker 4>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he was the only Roger. No, he was the

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<v Speaker 2>only one that said anything. Huh.

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<v Speaker 4>Not even your friends, No, No, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Kept it to themselves if they felt that.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he show his math on that or just a

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<v Speaker 4>feeling he had?

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<v Speaker 1>He just said it was a feeling, which was great, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because it worked out well. And then they meet your

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<v Speaker 1>wife at the time, your girlfriend, and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thank god.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, he clearly has learned his He's learned from his

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<v Speaker 2>mistakes and Shannon.

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<v Speaker 11>In my first marriage, my mother in law and father

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<v Speaker 11>in law were amazing. I just loved them to death.

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<v Speaker 11>And the second marriage, my father in law was awesome.

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<v Speaker 11>My mother in law was a nightmare. They she had

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<v Speaker 11>a weird relationship with her son or he with her.

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<v Speaker 11>And then my older brother married someone that I didn't

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<v Speaker 11>like the first time I met her and I never

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<v Speaker 11>did they weren't even dating and I never did like her.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think it's like? What is the most

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<v Speaker 4>challenging in law relationship? Is it.

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<v Speaker 1>A mother getting along with her son's choice of a

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<v Speaker 1>wife or or is it a husband getting along with

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<v Speaker 1>his wife's mother. What would be the most challenging in

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<v Speaker 1>law relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. Those two just kind of spring to mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because like I said earlier, it's just that's the

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<v Speaker 2>kind of that's the old adage, the old trope.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 5>Relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>There is Garius Shon, This is Andrew.

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<v Speaker 9>I cannot stand in laws.

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<v Speaker 10>I can't stand their traditions. It's annoying.

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<v Speaker 9>I hate making small.

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<v Speaker 10>Talk, caring about their side of the family.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, it's just it's the worst thing ever, you see.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that because you grow up with your family's traditions,

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<v Speaker 1>your family's way of doing holidays and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>the way that your family handles really everything, and then

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<v Speaker 1>if you're you know, you're around the other family, it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like it's different.

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<v Speaker 4>It's different, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And some people look at difference as bad, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and so just different. They look at it as bad. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like doing it this way. I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>doing it that way when it's just a different way

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<v Speaker 1>of doing it. But I can see that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>when I started spending holidays with my husband's family. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, why are all these people happy? Nobody's drunk, nobody,

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<v Speaker 1>where's the liquor? You had?

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<v Speaker 4>No nobodies at each other's throats. They're getting along, they're eating,

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<v Speaker 4>there's no complaints about the food. The hell's wrong with

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<v Speaker 4>these people?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us what your in law a horror stories are

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<v Speaker 2>or the great stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>No one's thrown a turkey down the stairs.

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<v Speaker 5>Nobody leaves it on the dryer anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a famous story about my grandmother throwing a turkey

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<v Speaker 1>down the stairs.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of anger. Oh yeah, oh wow. All right, leave

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<v Speaker 2>got to get the whole story out of turkey stories

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