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<v Speaker 1>Hey folks, it's doctor Scott and I'm doctor Shiloh.

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<v Speaker 2>So recently I was a guest on the Strictly Stalking

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<v Speaker 2>podcast where I talked about the early days of responding

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<v Speaker 2>to stalking cases from my first responder perspective, something we

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<v Speaker 2>really haven't shared much about before.

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<v Speaker 1>Jake and Jamie over at Strictly Stalking were so generous

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<v Speaker 1>that they ended up running our eroto Mania episode on

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<v Speaker 1>their feed, and of course we wanted to return the

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<v Speaker 1>favor by highlighting one of their earlier episodes that features

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<v Speaker 1>a firsthand, non celebrity case of erotomania.

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<v Speaker 2>Because yes, this absolutely does not just happen to famous people.

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<v Speaker 2>And in this episode, they interview Kristin Pratt, who was

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<v Speaker 2>stalked by a former high school classmate convinced he was

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<v Speaker 2>destined to be with her. After bombarding her with bizarre

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<v Speaker 2>and increasingly disturbing YouTube videos, he even started showing up

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<v Speaker 2>on her college campus and at her workplace to harass her.

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<v Speaker 1>Strictly Stalking has an incredible catalog of stories like this,

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<v Speaker 1>so definitely go give them a follow. We're sure we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be collaborating with them again soon.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk face to face I've been sent on a mission

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<v Speaker 4>to make Kristen Pratt feel warm and fuzzy.

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<v Speaker 5>Email me today. It's up to you now save your

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<v Speaker 5>own life. You don't want me for a life, Kristen Pratt.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a very very earn the wives decision.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I was like, I'm gonna die. This guy is

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<v Speaker 3>going to kill me. The police don't care. They are

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<v Speaker 3>obviously not here for me. UCS please. They're doing the

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<v Speaker 3>best they can, but who knows what they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>able to do outside of uc SUD it happened. So

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<v Speaker 3>I need to protect myself because I'm gonna die. This

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<v Speaker 3>guy's gonna kill me, and I need whatever looked into

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<v Speaker 3>this case to know exactly who did it where to

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<v Speaker 3>find that evidence. And so I had a full heroic

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<v Speaker 3>computer where I saved all the screenshots of all.

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<v Speaker 6>The messages, all the videos I met from you.

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<v Speaker 3>I named it police look here, Oh well cap, so

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<v Speaker 3>that there was no doubt in anybody's mind and they

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<v Speaker 3>had a place to start because I just I was

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of counting down the days and tho it happened,

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<v Speaker 3>and I lived my life as normal. But I just

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to make sure that when I when, because there

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<v Speaker 3>was a when for me at that time. When I

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<v Speaker 3>did encounter Patrick but it didn't go my way, then

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<v Speaker 3>I had some kind of evidence that it was happening.

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<v Speaker 7>Kristen Pratt aka KP travels the world searching for innovative

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<v Speaker 7>ways to better communicate with others and manage challenging situations.

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<v Speaker 8>In college, she was contacted by a former high school

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<v Speaker 8>classmate through Facebook who began harassing her online.

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<v Speaker 7>So she was so for years before getting an injunction

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<v Speaker 7>and putting him behind bars.

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<v Speaker 8>Now, she works with law enforcement and victims' rights advocates

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<v Speaker 8>to fight for change on how the judicial system handles stocking.

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<v Speaker 7>And its victims. I'm Jamie Beebe and.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm Jacob Tulam.

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<v Speaker 7>On today's episode of Strictly Stalking, We sit Down with KP.

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<v Speaker 8>Her story has been featured on Good Morning America, Nightline,

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<v Speaker 8>Inside Edition, in Crime Watch Daily.

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<v Speaker 3>I had what was called a dueling moment where you

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<v Speaker 3>take college classes and high school classes at the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>and the college classes replaced your high school classes that

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<v Speaker 3>you get credit for both. And when I was in

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<v Speaker 3>the classes, that's where my stalker met me. We maybe talked,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know two sentences the whole time, and it

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<v Speaker 3>was a semester, so three months I barely talked in

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<v Speaker 3>And then when I went to college, he found me

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<v Speaker 3>on Facebook. This is about probably that two thousand and seven,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I was in college two thousand and six

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<v Speaker 3>to two thousand and sevens I think it's only are

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<v Speaker 3>part of that year, my freshman year, and I got

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<v Speaker 3>a message from Patrick, really nice message, like it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>anything out of the ordinary, and so I responded to it.

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<v Speaker 3>And after about two or three messages, they started getting

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<v Speaker 3>really weird, like really weird things that you would never

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<v Speaker 3>hear a normal person say, Like he would say, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>the Lizard King, and just like these weird things about

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<v Speaker 3>sitting on a bench and watching women walk by. And

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<v Speaker 3>he would write these paragraphs or essays, and then some

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<v Speaker 3>of the messages would be maybe a sentence lung, and

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<v Speaker 3>they would be coming in so rapidly, minute after a

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<v Speaker 3>minute after minute, I mean the timestamp on some of

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<v Speaker 3>these messages they were within the same minute. It was

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<v Speaker 3>crazy how quickly he was just sending me these messages.

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<v Speaker 3>Then within like I would say, less than a week,

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<v Speaker 3>he would he started sending me massive amounts of Facebook messages,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was really isolated to Facebook at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he got my phone number and started calling

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<v Speaker 3>me on my phone, and so it happened pretty rapidly.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it takes up scene. Once he started going

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<v Speaker 3>it was quick, and I thought if I could ignore

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<v Speaker 3>it for long enough, he would go away.

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<v Speaker 6>But he didn't go away, and so I.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember, I think it was like October of two thousand

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<v Speaker 3>and seven. So I gave him a long time to stop.

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<v Speaker 3>I told him, please stop contacting me. Don't ever contact

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<v Speaker 3>me again. This is not okay, and he didn't. He

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of added fuel to those fire. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>later on, we found out in the trial, the evaluation's

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<v Speaker 3>mental evaluations he had to go through that he had

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<v Speaker 3>what was called a Latto mania, which basically meant that

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<v Speaker 3>it didn't matter what I told him. Actually, if I

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<v Speaker 3>told the stop, it was in his mind me putting

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<v Speaker 3>an obstacle in his way so he could prove his glove.

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<v Speaker 3>And so it really didn't matter whether I said anything

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<v Speaker 3>or didn't say anything. He was trying to prove his glove.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought he had to, and that I was That's

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<v Speaker 3>what I wanted.

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<v Speaker 8>After he started sending these messages. He started escalating and

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<v Speaker 8>showing up physically near you.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, So he would hitchhike to my campus in Florida.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to the University of Central Florida, so nice

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<v Speaker 3>in Orlando, Florida, and he would hitchhike to Orlando. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>he brought his bike, sometimes he did it. But he

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<v Speaker 3>would just walk around the campus at UCS. And I

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<v Speaker 3>had seen him plenty of times with fem all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I saw him, usually I would just leave.

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<v Speaker 3>I would just leave the campus and get to my

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<v Speaker 3>car and go home. But I did after a while

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<v Speaker 3>decided that maybe I should go see the UCS police,

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<v Speaker 3>And so I went to the UCS police and they

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<v Speaker 3>filed well, they filed a trust passing were I guess,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to say I guess it was, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was it was UCS States. So it wasn't like

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<v Speaker 3>a trust passing Christmas and where he's like, hey, just

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<v Speaker 3>don't come on to UCS property. The problem is is

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<v Speaker 3>that they didn't really do anything. Like I love UCS

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<v Speaker 3>and I loved their police department. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>talk bad about them. I don't think they knew what

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<v Speaker 3>to do in this situation, and so I think what

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<v Speaker 3>happened was because of the last of situations like this,

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<v Speaker 3>because I was being cyber stocks at this point and

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<v Speaker 3>there was stocking involved. It was mostly cyber stocking, though,

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<v Speaker 3>so even though he was coming to campus, he couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>directly get to me, and so I think in that way,

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<v Speaker 3>it was difficult for UCS police to understand or fully

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<v Speaker 3>grasp the situation. So they did this trust acting more,

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<v Speaker 3>but they hadn't contacted Patrick. I gave them the phone number,

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<v Speaker 3>but there wasn't really anything they could do if he

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<v Speaker 3>didn't answer the phone. He didn't answer the phone. It

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't like they could serve in the papers, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I had to trespassing word. But I still saw him

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<v Speaker 3>on campus, and when I called the UCF leaf. UCF

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<v Speaker 3>is so big, it's such a huge campus that by

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<v Speaker 3>the time the UCS lease came, he was gone. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>well I was gone because I didn't want to stay

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<v Speaker 3>around and hang out with my stalkerd As being around,

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<v Speaker 3>and so it was it was a very difficult situation.

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<v Speaker 3>They did eventually call Patrick and leave a message on

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<v Speaker 3>his machine, but it didn't help. He was still coming around.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't think it was going to help anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>He called me while I was a working at a

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<v Speaker 3>pizza across the street from UCS. Is not there anymore,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's somewhere else. It's called lazy News TUSA, so

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<v Speaker 3>called your landoe people. You know where that's at, says

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<v Speaker 3>working at laziness And I got about well, I would

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<v Speaker 3>say forty two phone calls from Patrick. Well, one was

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<v Speaker 3>for my mom, but forty one of them were from

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<v Speaker 3>Patrick in about a four to five hour shift.

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<v Speaker 6>I called the police that night.

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<v Speaker 3>I had all these messages of him, like breathing. It

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<v Speaker 3>was really weird. I had recognized his number, obviously, because

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<v Speaker 3>he called me a few times before that, and I

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<v Speaker 3>picked up and really realized it was Patrick, so I

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<v Speaker 3>recognized the number. But when the police came to my house,

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<v Speaker 3>I said, about four o'clock in the morning. Four o'clock

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<v Speaker 3>in the morning, maybe five somewhere around there. So it

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<v Speaker 3>was really early in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>I could understand where a police.

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<v Speaker 3>Officer would not want to maybe not intentionally want to

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<v Speaker 3>be helpful, but I think it was just I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>anybody coming off with any shift or that early in

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<v Speaker 3>the morning might not be at their best and so

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<v Speaker 3>she basically brushed off. She said, is there anything? Does

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<v Speaker 3>he know where you live? Is there any way he

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<v Speaker 3>can get to you physically? And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't know where I live, but he's been coming

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<v Speaker 3>to campus. I go to that campus. He's been walking around.

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<v Speaker 3>Eventually he's gonna run into me. I'm going to run

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<v Speaker 3>into him. I already have like this is a problem.

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<v Speaker 3>But what she knew about the laws of stalking and

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<v Speaker 3>what I didn't know about the laws of stocking created

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<v Speaker 3>this barrier of what was perceived to be able to

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<v Speaker 3>be done.

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<v Speaker 8>How quickly did you tell your family once you started

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<v Speaker 8>getting these messages.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't really tell my parents right away. I told

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<v Speaker 3>my roommate and I told the people that were closest

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<v Speaker 3>to me, which I thought was a strategic move because

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<v Speaker 3>if anything happened, or if he did find out where

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<v Speaker 3>I lived and came into the house, and at least

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<v Speaker 3>my roommates knew what was going on people I work with.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I told my parents about October of

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<v Speaker 3>two thousand and seven, when I finally said no to Patrick,

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<v Speaker 3>like stopped contact dad, And I think that's when I

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<v Speaker 3>told them, And I remember my dad being like, why

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<v Speaker 3>history wait this? Well, I think really it was just

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>it with shame but feel and a lot of it

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<v Speaker 3>was just my very independent nature in general. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>I had it under people. I thought I could handle

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<v Speaker 3>it myself. And I think that happens often. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>you don't realize it's happening, and I think in a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of stocking cases, it does ramp up pretty quickly,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're almost in like this denial, like, Okay, you

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<v Speaker 3>let them in that first time, you were friendly enough

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<v Speaker 3>to see that way with them, the first time you

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<v Speaker 3>can let something slide, and then after a while you

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<v Speaker 3>realize that, wow, I flied a lot of stuff slide

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<v Speaker 3>by now. And I think when you look back at it,

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<v Speaker 3>you realize the breast of what has happened to you,

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<v Speaker 6>In your life.

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<v Speaker 3>And so you have that fear that something's going to

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, so it was more of a safety.

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<v Speaker 3>sure they stayed safe. I don't know if he you know,

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<v Speaker 3>much about stalking, so to me, it's like, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 3>if you stoking me, you just stop other people as well.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I was like, I don't want them to

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<v Speaker 3>him become their friend and then they get stucked or

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<v Speaker 3>what was worse for me was just him hurting us

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<v Speaker 3>in some way, And so I told them pretty early.

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<v Speaker 3>It started with my roommate and then branched out from

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<v Speaker 3>there with friends, but also a lot of my friends

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<v Speaker 3>ended up finding out through Facebook because after a while

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<v Speaker 3>he started making YouTube videos and he sent he went

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<v Speaker 3>down my Facebook list of friends and sent every one

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<v Speaker 3>of them ah to D links to my videos and

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<v Speaker 3>then they like, oh yeah, this guy Patrick, these videos

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<v Speaker 3>are really disturbing. You need to watch these what is

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<v Speaker 3>going on? So it was kind of forced to tell

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of my friends before I was ready to

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<v Speaker 3>tell anybody about what was going on, because they were

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<v Speaker 3>finding it out from Patrick himself and seeing very warped

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<v Speaker 3>and twisted YouTube videos and what were.

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<v Speaker 7>The videos, like, what was he saying? What was he doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my goodness, A lot of them were different. One

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<v Speaker 3>he was naked, he was lying on the bed, with

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<v Speaker 3>a pillow over his private and it was just him

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<v Speaker 3>lying on the bed naked, and he wasn't saying anything.

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<v Speaker 3>But YouTube kind of has like these little little blurbs,

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<v Speaker 3>or they used to, I don't know if they still

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<v Speaker 3>do anymore. He would write out these full sentences of like,

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<v Speaker 3>if you know Kristin Pratt, let her know that I'm here,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going anywhere. Look me in the eye. And

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<v Speaker 3>then some of the blurgers would say my boyfriend's name

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<v Speaker 3>at the time and talk about him being a coward

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<v Speaker 3>or being whatever. And then some of them just like

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<v Speaker 3>those that was just one video, and then one of

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<v Speaker 3>them would be at UCF campus and he'd be sitting

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<v Speaker 3>in front of a wall and I was like, that

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<v Speaker 3>is UCP. I know that, I know that campus, and

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<v Speaker 3>she'sd be yelling about communicating with him. And just look

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<v Speaker 3>me in the eye. He always said that, just look

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<v Speaker 3>me in the eye. We need to talk face to face.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been sent on a mission to make Kristin Pratt

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<v Speaker 4>feel warm and fuzzy.

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<v Speaker 5>Email me today. It's up to you now save your

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<v Speaker 5>own life. You don't want me for a life, Kristen Pratt.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a very, very earned my wives decision.

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<v Speaker 3>And then one of them not to get to graphics.

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<v Speaker 3>But one of them he was touching himself in the

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<v Speaker 3>video over his pants. Felt thankfully I didn't have to

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<v Speaker 3>see too much, but that was one of them while

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<v Speaker 3>he repeatedly said my name. That was probably one of

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<v Speaker 3>the more disturbing ones I had ever watched. And then

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<v Speaker 3>this really weird one. Now, this has been going on

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<v Speaker 3>for some time, so my friends all knew about it.

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<v Speaker 3>They were keeping tabs on it. They were all subscribed

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<v Speaker 3>to this video channel.

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<v Speaker 6>And we are at my.

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<v Speaker 3>Friend's house for a Super Bowl party and we're sitting

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<v Speaker 3>on the couch and somebody goes, oh my god, Patrick's

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<v Speaker 3>posted a new video. So there's like four people on

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<v Speaker 3>the couch and four people behind the couch.

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<v Speaker 6>Watching this video, and its computer is, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Speeders on my lap.

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<v Speaker 6>And Patrick goes in the video and you and you

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<v Speaker 6>and you.

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<v Speaker 3>And you, like he was talking to all of us,

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<v Speaker 3>like separately, plaining to each persus. I mean, obviously there's

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<v Speaker 3>no way for him to have known that's going to happen,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was such a coincidence, and that's probably freaked

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<v Speaker 3>me out more than most things in the entire world

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<v Speaker 3>have ever freaked to be out? I was just like,

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<v Speaker 3>we all just looked at each other and we were like,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, we're done for the day. Just close this

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<v Speaker 6>It was just very weird, But at.

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<v Speaker 3>The same time, it was a blessing in disguise because

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<v Speaker 3>I was able to pretty much pinpoint where he was

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<v Speaker 3>at within a few days because he was posting them

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<v Speaker 3>so frequently, I was able to kind of have that

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<v Speaker 3>flag crumbs trail. So if he was at the laundromat

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<v Speaker 3>across the street from US, yes, I saw that, and

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<v Speaker 3>I knew he was probably in the area. If I

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<v Speaker 3>saw him and it looked like he was at US,

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<v Speaker 3>which is University's Florida, which is where he was supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to have gone, then I was like, all right, then

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<v Speaker 3>for the past few days, he's there. If I thought

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<v Speaker 3>it was a house, then I knew he lived in

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<v Speaker 3>lust or Loose, I guess in Florida, So I knew

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<v Speaker 3>he was pretty much about two hours away. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was able to kind of gauge where he was by

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<v Speaker 3>watching these videos. So as crappy as it was to

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<v Speaker 3>have to emotionally go through watching these crazy videos where

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<v Speaker 3>he's addressing me in such a way it helped me

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<v Speaker 3>kind of keep tabs on where it was at so

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<v Speaker 3>would I could stay safe.

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<v Speaker 8>So basically he was stockpiling all his evidence or your

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<v Speaker 8>evidence that you needed to present this.

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<v Speaker 3>I wapped all of the YouTube videos. I screenshotted all

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<v Speaker 3>the messages because he sent me messages on YouTube, on Twitter,

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<v Speaker 3>on Facebook, the screenshotting all of those, saving all of

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<v Speaker 3>the YouTube videos, and I just kept those on hand.

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<v Speaker 3>After the police woman came to my house the first

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<v Speaker 3>time after the PEACEIA, that was when I really knew

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<v Speaker 3>that I was kind of on my own as far

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<v Speaker 3>as legal concerns fors and so I I mean that

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<v Speaker 3>early I think that was, oh wow, that was before

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<v Speaker 3>October twenty seven. So I had already started kind of

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<v Speaker 3>stockpiling that because I was like, I'm going to die.

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<v Speaker 3>This guy is going to kill me. The police don't care.

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<v Speaker 3>They are obviously not here for me. UCS police, They're

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<v Speaker 3>doing the best they can, but who knows what they're

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<v Speaker 3>going to be able to do outside of uc after

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<v Speaker 3>it happened. So I need to protect myself because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to die. This guy's going to kill me. And

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, whoever looked into this case to know exactly

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<v Speaker 3>who did it, where to find that evidence. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I had a full narrowment computer where I saved all

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<v Speaker 3>the screenshots of all the messages, all the videos. I

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<v Speaker 3>worked from the YouTube I named it police Look Here Caps,

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<v Speaker 3>so that there was no doubt in anybody's mind and

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<v Speaker 3>they had a place to start because I just I

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<v Speaker 3>was just kind of counting down the day until it happened,

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<v Speaker 3>and I lived my life as normal, but I just

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<v Speaker 3>was a when for me at that time, when I

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<v Speaker 3>did encounter Patrick, if it didn't go my way, then

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<v Speaker 3>I had some kind of evidence that it was happening.

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<v Speaker 8>When did you find out how severe his mental condition was?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 8>When did you start getting those records after you took

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<v Speaker 8>the evidence to the police.

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<v Speaker 3>So I already had a pretty good grasp on his

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<v Speaker 3>mental capacity after he started sending those really weird messages, because.

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<v Speaker 6>They were really weird, not to get.

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<v Speaker 3>Disgusting, but in one of the messages, he said, I

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<v Speaker 3>am the spawn of Satan and I want to give

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<v Speaker 3>you your Satan's firms. That's not something I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>that's anything that someone in their right mind would say

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<v Speaker 3>to someone they don't really know very well. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so I was pretty well aware of not the not

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<v Speaker 3>the full story what was going on, but I had

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty decent grasp, especially after feting to some Mexics.

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<v Speaker 3>But Youtue itself was those videos. I mean, he's screaming

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<v Speaker 3>at some at the camera. He's screaming at the camera,

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<v Speaker 3>and there's just no way that anybody in their full,

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<v Speaker 3>one hundred percent mentally stable minds would. I feel, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that. I mean, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>say there's no way, but I feel like there is

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<v Speaker 3>no way that somebody who is full mentally capable would

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<v Speaker 3>do something like that to somebody, and then to have

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<v Speaker 3>a complete disregard of all of the evidence that he's

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<v Speaker 3>basically giving me if I needed to go to court,

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<v Speaker 3>he just didn't care. It wasn't he was he was

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<v Speaker 3>in his own world. He was in his own world.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Scary because if you're willing to act that way on

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<v Speaker 3>messages and on video and have a complete disregard for

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<v Speaker 3>your own well being, you're definitely not going to have

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<v Speaker 3>any regard for my well being. And so that's for me,

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<v Speaker 3>the real fear of setting was like, I just knew

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<v Speaker 3>that you are just going crazy over it, and then

423
00:26:04.319 --> 00:26:08.000
<v Speaker 3>you get that, say what do you do to that thing?

424
00:26:08.200 --> 00:26:10.079
<v Speaker 3>What do you do to that person? What do you

425
00:26:10.200 --> 00:26:11.960
<v Speaker 3>do to that whatever it is that you want? You

426
00:26:12.079 --> 00:26:16.680
<v Speaker 3>want it so bad that you're just nuts over I

427
00:26:18.920 --> 00:26:22.279
<v Speaker 3>that's scary. Like I didn't want to be that thing

428
00:26:22.960 --> 00:26:26.440
<v Speaker 3>when he got that thing, because I just didn't know

429
00:26:26.440 --> 00:26:27.319
<v Speaker 3>what he was going to do.

430
00:26:27.720 --> 00:26:29.680
<v Speaker 7>What were you thinking at this point? How was your

431
00:26:29.759 --> 00:26:30.599
<v Speaker 7>life changing?

432
00:26:31.279 --> 00:26:36.319
<v Speaker 3>My class work suffered pretty dramatically. I didn't. This is

433
00:26:36.359 --> 00:26:40.480
<v Speaker 3>how I felt about Stocking as a whole, from what

434
00:26:40.640 --> 00:26:45.839
<v Speaker 3>I was proceeding from other people in their reaction to Stocking.

435
00:26:45.920 --> 00:26:48.720
<v Speaker 3>Not my friends, but the people who legally could help me.

436
00:26:50.839 --> 00:26:59.079
<v Speaker 3>I felt like I had no help, and so I

437
00:26:59.119 --> 00:27:05.119
<v Speaker 3>would I would rather tell my professors that I was sick,

438
00:27:05.880 --> 00:27:09.839
<v Speaker 3>or I had to go to the doctor, or my

439
00:27:09.960 --> 00:27:12.960
<v Speaker 3>grandparents die or whatever it was, that I could tell

440
00:27:13.000 --> 00:27:18.240
<v Speaker 3>them to not have to go to classes. Because I

441
00:27:18.440 --> 00:27:23.319
<v Speaker 3>had a huge nightmare the night before. I could couldn't

442
00:27:23.359 --> 00:27:26.119
<v Speaker 3>sleep for the rest of the night because Patrick had

443
00:27:26.200 --> 00:27:28.880
<v Speaker 3>chopped up my boyfriend at the time. In my nightmare,

444
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:30.720
<v Speaker 3>and I had to put him back together like some

445
00:27:30.880 --> 00:27:35.200
<v Speaker 3>weird puzzle. And then how do you go to class

446
00:27:35.200 --> 00:27:37.200
<v Speaker 3>at seven am? After that? You know, I didn't get

447
00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:41.200
<v Speaker 3>any sleep, So my classwork suffered as far as the

448
00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:48.119
<v Speaker 3>attendance was concerned. So that was a big problem. My

449
00:27:51.240 --> 00:27:57.680
<v Speaker 3>emotional well being suffered because I wasn't able to really

450
00:27:58.559 --> 00:28:01.119
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't able to get to sleep, obviously, and I

451
00:28:01.240 --> 00:28:05.799
<v Speaker 3>just wasn't. I felt alone, so I was always looking

452
00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:09.039
<v Speaker 3>over my shoulder, always trying to run away if there

453
00:28:09.079 --> 00:28:13.000
<v Speaker 3>was ever a time I felt in danger. I remember

454
00:28:13.039 --> 00:28:16.759
<v Speaker 3>I was driving to UCS and I saw Patches on

455
00:28:16.799 --> 00:28:20.240
<v Speaker 3>the corner of UCF across the street, so I would

456
00:28:20.240 --> 00:28:24.160
<v Speaker 3>have been going into the traffic light to cross over,

457
00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:27.160
<v Speaker 3>and so I was in the I was in a

458
00:28:27.240 --> 00:28:29.759
<v Speaker 3>right hand lane, but not so laying to turn right.

459
00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:33.279
<v Speaker 3>And I saw him because I saw him in a

460
00:28:33.319 --> 00:28:36.559
<v Speaker 3>crowd of a thousand people. But he always wore either

461
00:28:36.599 --> 00:28:40.519
<v Speaker 3>a green shirt, black hands, black backpack or black shirt,

462
00:28:40.559 --> 00:28:43.640
<v Speaker 3>black hands, black backpack, and they were always the same shirts,

463
00:28:43.799 --> 00:28:48.160
<v Speaker 3>shirts or pants and the same backpack. And so I

464
00:28:48.160 --> 00:28:50.279
<v Speaker 3>saw him across the street and I just got right

465
00:28:50.279 --> 00:28:52.119
<v Speaker 3>into the right turm lane and didn't go to class

466
00:28:52.119 --> 00:28:54.359
<v Speaker 3>a day. I turned right and left, and that was.

467
00:28:54.359 --> 00:28:55.119
<v Speaker 6>Just how it was.

468
00:28:58.119 --> 00:29:01.480
<v Speaker 3>Well, as a trial, I learned that his parents hadn't

469
00:29:01.559 --> 00:29:05.119
<v Speaker 3>really known any of this was going on until quite

470
00:29:05.119 --> 00:29:10.599
<v Speaker 3>some time after it started. When he finally got arrested.

471
00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:13.640
<v Speaker 3>He was arrested for wooding and prowing, which we can

472
00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:17.640
<v Speaker 3>go into a little later, but they posted his bail

473
00:29:17.880 --> 00:29:20.759
<v Speaker 3>and that that's what that's when I realized. I don't

474
00:29:20.759 --> 00:29:23.480
<v Speaker 3>think they knew what he was doing, because they were

475
00:29:23.559 --> 00:29:26.920
<v Speaker 3>volked to bail as soon as but basically two days later,

476
00:29:27.359 --> 00:29:30.559
<v Speaker 3>so I think they realized that he was doing something

477
00:29:30.599 --> 00:29:33.279
<v Speaker 3>really bad and that he needed to be there. But

478
00:29:33.319 --> 00:29:37.200
<v Speaker 3>then in the trial, I remember then talking about his

479
00:29:37.279 --> 00:29:38.400
<v Speaker 3>mom talking about.

480
00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:41.839
<v Speaker 6>What he was like when he was a kid, and he.

481
00:29:42.000 --> 00:29:47.920
<v Speaker 3>Wasn't one hundred percent healthy as far as mental mental

482
00:29:47.960 --> 00:29:52.720
<v Speaker 3>capacities go, because he I think I remember he chased

483
00:29:52.759 --> 00:29:56.440
<v Speaker 3>his brother around the house with in life. That was

484
00:29:56.480 --> 00:30:02.480
<v Speaker 3>one of the stories. He's also really, really heavily into drugs,

485
00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:06.160
<v Speaker 3>and so I think they knew about that as well,

486
00:30:06.640 --> 00:30:09.359
<v Speaker 3>because they took him in a few times while he

487
00:30:09.559 --> 00:30:11.559
<v Speaker 3>while all of this was going down, I.

488
00:30:11.480 --> 00:30:13.680
<v Speaker 8>Was gonna say, walk us through the trial if you can.

489
00:30:14.359 --> 00:30:20.400
<v Speaker 3>It was ridiculous, to put it lightly. Our first attempt

490
00:30:20.480 --> 00:30:23.400
<v Speaker 3>at a trial, I was on the stand giving my

491
00:30:23.519 --> 00:30:29.480
<v Speaker 3>testimony about all the craziness that happened, and he stood

492
00:30:29.519 --> 00:30:31.880
<v Speaker 3>up in the middle of my testimony and said, I

493
00:30:31.960 --> 00:30:37.440
<v Speaker 3>want my plea bargain now. And I mean, everybody's basically

494
00:30:37.480 --> 00:30:39.920
<v Speaker 3>flabbergast because that's not how it works. Like, you don't

495
00:30:39.960 --> 00:30:41.839
<v Speaker 3>just stand up in the middle of a trial while

496
00:30:41.839 --> 00:30:45.960
<v Speaker 3>somebody's giving a testimony and say that. And so the

497
00:30:46.160 --> 00:30:51.319
<v Speaker 3>judge asked the council they wanted to speak with their clients,

498
00:30:52.039 --> 00:30:54.240
<v Speaker 3>and then when they came back out, the judge talked

499
00:30:54.240 --> 00:30:57.839
<v Speaker 3>to him and realized he wasn't competent to stand trial.

500
00:30:58.640 --> 00:31:01.359
<v Speaker 3>So for like a year or I would get these

501
00:31:01.680 --> 00:31:05.000
<v Speaker 3>letters every month saying he was confident us to stay

502
00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:07.119
<v Speaker 3>a trial, and then I would call to make sure

503
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:09.200
<v Speaker 3>we were going to trial, and I would say, Nope,

504
00:31:09.440 --> 00:31:13.039
<v Speaker 3>not going to trial yet. O great. So for like

505
00:31:13.079 --> 00:31:15.559
<v Speaker 3>a year I I dealt with that, and then we

506
00:31:15.640 --> 00:31:19.480
<v Speaker 3>finally did go to trial. He was facing forty.

507
00:31:19.160 --> 00:31:21.920
<v Speaker 6>One years in prison through.

508
00:31:21.839 --> 00:31:27.079
<v Speaker 3>Violation of injunction and death threats. With death threats and

509
00:31:27.359 --> 00:31:32.519
<v Speaker 3>regular violation of injunctions and the judge leave him two

510
00:31:32.680 --> 00:31:35.519
<v Speaker 3>years with time served. So the whole time that we

511
00:31:35.519 --> 00:31:38.039
<v Speaker 3>were supposed to go to trial, he was serving time

512
00:31:38.519 --> 00:31:45.440
<v Speaker 3>quote unquote, and so he basically got out, like I

513
00:31:45.480 --> 00:31:48.880
<v Speaker 3>don't know, a year, maybe less than a year after

514
00:31:48.920 --> 00:31:51.319
<v Speaker 3>our trials, and he was supposed to have an ankle

515
00:31:51.359 --> 00:31:54.960
<v Speaker 3>bracelet on for fifteen years. They called me about a

516
00:31:55.039 --> 00:31:58.039
<v Speaker 3>year after our trial and they said, hey, so we're

517
00:31:58.039 --> 00:32:00.759
<v Speaker 3>thinking about taking his ankle monitor. What do you think.

518
00:32:00.799 --> 00:32:04.640
<v Speaker 6>I was like, uh no, I think that's a terrible idea.

519
00:32:04.440 --> 00:32:06.680
<v Speaker 3>And I think you need to like readjust what you're

520
00:32:06.720 --> 00:32:12.079
<v Speaker 3>thinking right now. So they they heard me and kept

521
00:32:12.079 --> 00:32:15.000
<v Speaker 3>it on for a little bit longer, but it's off now.

522
00:32:15.039 --> 00:32:20.279
<v Speaker 3>I think even at my trial, I don't see the urgency.

523
00:32:20.400 --> 00:32:23.319
<v Speaker 3>I still have never seen the urgency when it came

524
00:32:23.440 --> 00:32:30.759
<v Speaker 3>to what was going on with my stokers and he

525
00:32:30.759 --> 00:32:34.920
<v Speaker 3>he came to my job, I got an injunction. When

526
00:32:34.960 --> 00:32:38.559
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to amend the injunction, they sent me some

527
00:32:38.640 --> 00:32:40.440
<v Speaker 3>place and then they were like, oh, go to this

528
00:32:40.559 --> 00:32:42.599
<v Speaker 3>other place, and then that place is like, oh, go

529
00:32:42.680 --> 00:32:44.880
<v Speaker 3>to that place, and then that place is like, no,

530
00:32:45.000 --> 00:32:46.599
<v Speaker 3>go to this place. And it was the first place

531
00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:48.599
<v Speaker 3>I went to in the first place, I was like,

532
00:32:48.839 --> 00:32:52.279
<v Speaker 3>this is ridiculous. Nobody cares, and I felt like I

533
00:32:52.319 --> 00:32:54.839
<v Speaker 3>had just been shouting into a void like I'm going

534
00:32:54.880 --> 00:32:58.519
<v Speaker 3>to die. Does anybody understand that somebody is out there

535
00:32:58.960 --> 00:33:02.960
<v Speaker 3>will probably kill me? I mean, I had to serve

536
00:33:03.039 --> 00:33:05.200
<v Speaker 3>my mom and I had to serve up give him

537
00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:08.240
<v Speaker 3>ourselves to get him to go to the court for

538
00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:17.359
<v Speaker 3>the permanent injunction until my mom contacted Patrick and set

539
00:33:17.400 --> 00:33:21.559
<v Speaker 3>up a time to meet him at a bus station

540
00:33:21.960 --> 00:33:26.160
<v Speaker 3>with me. And when she told me this, I was like,

541
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:28.240
<v Speaker 3>this is a terrible idea. I don't even know if

542
00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:32.640
<v Speaker 3>this is legal. And so we went with a police officer,

543
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:37.160
<v Speaker 3>my mom, me and the police officers to the Greyhound station.

544
00:33:37.519 --> 00:33:42.200
<v Speaker 3>He arrived, they served him in the papers. Then they

545
00:33:42.200 --> 00:33:44.480
<v Speaker 3>thought he was acting really weird, so they took him

546
00:33:44.480 --> 00:33:47.440
<v Speaker 3>aside and they kind of like talked to him, searched

547
00:33:47.440 --> 00:33:50.759
<v Speaker 3>his backpack. I think they found drugs in his bags,

548
00:33:50.839 --> 00:33:52.759
<v Speaker 3>but they didn't arrest him. I think they were just like,

549
00:33:52.799 --> 00:33:57.960
<v Speaker 3>we're going to throw these out. And so he showed

550
00:33:58.039 --> 00:34:03.759
<v Speaker 3>up to the injunction hearing. The judge was like, yeah,

551
00:34:03.880 --> 00:34:05.920
<v Speaker 3>did you say that you were the spot of Satan

552
00:34:05.960 --> 00:34:08.239
<v Speaker 3>and you wanted to give miss Pratt. You're a Satan's firm,

553
00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:11.199
<v Speaker 3>and he was like, yeah, bro, this kidding. Other Drudge

554
00:34:11.280 --> 00:34:14.239
<v Speaker 3>was like, uh no, no, you weren't. But we're going

555
00:34:14.320 --> 00:34:16.679
<v Speaker 3>to give her a tenure injunction. So they gave me

556
00:34:16.679 --> 00:34:21.760
<v Speaker 3>the tenure injunction. But even after that, he kept coming

557
00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:27.039
<v Speaker 3>back to my works and we had him on video,

558
00:34:28.000 --> 00:34:30.800
<v Speaker 3>and so we called the cops. They came. By the

559
00:34:30.800 --> 00:34:32.800
<v Speaker 3>time they got there, he was gone, but we had

560
00:34:32.880 --> 00:34:34.519
<v Speaker 3>him on videos. They were able to see it on

561
00:34:34.519 --> 00:34:38.519
<v Speaker 3>the security camera, and so they were able to put

562
00:34:38.920 --> 00:34:42.760
<v Speaker 3>warrant tending to the Drudge for the judge to see

563
00:34:43.000 --> 00:34:48.760
<v Speaker 3>as a violation against injunctions. Now, in between these this

564
00:34:48.920 --> 00:34:54.519
<v Speaker 3>time of injunction and the catching him at the camera,

565
00:34:55.199 --> 00:34:58.280
<v Speaker 3>he had been sending me messages still. He had been

566
00:34:58.320 --> 00:35:01.000
<v Speaker 3>making YouTube videos still, And so I went back to

567
00:35:01.039 --> 00:35:03.599
<v Speaker 3>the courthouse, like I said, to get that amended, and

568
00:35:03.639 --> 00:35:05.960
<v Speaker 3>they gave me the run around, like I told you before.

569
00:35:06.920 --> 00:35:09.960
<v Speaker 3>And so finally once I got him on camera, like

570
00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:14.480
<v Speaker 3>I said, the police decided they would put the warrant

571
00:35:14.519 --> 00:35:17.760
<v Speaker 3>in dependance. But I didn't understand that. I don't know

572
00:35:17.800 --> 00:35:20.920
<v Speaker 3>anything about the legal systems, So to me, I thought, oh,

573
00:35:21.079 --> 00:35:23.480
<v Speaker 3>it's in for a warrant, Like if he comes next

574
00:35:23.800 --> 00:35:26.960
<v Speaker 3>to me again, he's getting arrested because it's a warrant.

575
00:35:27.199 --> 00:35:32.000
<v Speaker 3>Like this is a big deal. Well maybe not so much,

576
00:35:32.079 --> 00:35:36.199
<v Speaker 3>because he came back to Lando made a video talking

577
00:35:36.199 --> 00:35:37.760
<v Speaker 3>about how he was going to be at this coffee

578
00:35:37.760 --> 00:35:41.800
<v Speaker 3>shop right across the street from the ECS, And he

579
00:35:41.920 --> 00:35:46.280
<v Speaker 3>was at that coffee shop and my boyfriend at the

580
00:35:46.280 --> 00:35:48.679
<v Speaker 3>time kind of stocks the soccer and he watched him

581
00:35:49.000 --> 00:35:52.119
<v Speaker 3>while I was working. Then I got the word. I

582
00:35:52.159 --> 00:35:55.119
<v Speaker 3>met the police at the Apple BEA's in the same

583
00:35:55.159 --> 00:35:58.639
<v Speaker 3>parking lot, and the police looked me up. They couldn't

584
00:35:58.639 --> 00:36:06.119
<v Speaker 3>find my injunction. Now, luckily I had this conjunction everywhere

585
00:36:06.280 --> 00:36:11.320
<v Speaker 3>my boyfriend at the time car, my boyfriend's house, his

586
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:14.920
<v Speaker 3>parent's house, my best friend's house, my works, my other

587
00:36:14.960 --> 00:36:17.440
<v Speaker 3>best friend's house, my house, my far my best friend's

588
00:36:17.519 --> 00:36:19.960
<v Speaker 3>are like it was everywhere I would ever be. I

589
00:36:20.039 --> 00:36:22.119
<v Speaker 3>had a copy of this injunction, so I whipped it out.

590
00:36:22.480 --> 00:36:25.760
<v Speaker 6>She thought looked me up because oh yeah, here we go.

591
00:36:26.239 --> 00:36:30.119
<v Speaker 3>Weren't attending. I can't arrest him. So I went home

592
00:36:30.800 --> 00:36:33.960
<v Speaker 3>after the house because there was nothing we could do.

593
00:36:35.000 --> 00:36:38.079
<v Speaker 3>So it was like all these little things that probably

594
00:36:38.119 --> 00:36:40.800
<v Speaker 3>could have been handled differently, probably could have been handled better,

595
00:36:41.480 --> 00:36:45.639
<v Speaker 3>and yet I was just like pushing and pushing and

596
00:36:45.679 --> 00:36:48.840
<v Speaker 3>pushing for something good to happen. So these were all

597
00:36:48.880 --> 00:36:52.119
<v Speaker 3>of the things that I was like, I'm doing all

598
00:36:52.159 --> 00:36:56.480
<v Speaker 3>of this, and so that's what I mean. It would

599
00:36:56.719 --> 00:36:58.880
<v Speaker 3>be terrible for someone to have to get that far

600
00:36:59.639 --> 00:37:01.719
<v Speaker 3>and to have to do exactly what I did this

601
00:37:01.800 --> 00:37:05.519
<v Speaker 3>whole time. But that's basically what I would teach somebody

602
00:37:05.559 --> 00:37:09.679
<v Speaker 3>to do. Get those get that proof first, and foremost,

603
00:37:09.719 --> 00:37:13.559
<v Speaker 3>get that group. Also, be well versed in your own

604
00:37:13.880 --> 00:37:18.239
<v Speaker 3>scape laws on stalking and cyberstocking. If you are well versed,

605
00:37:18.360 --> 00:37:21.159
<v Speaker 3>you cannot expect a police officer to know every law.

606
00:37:21.199 --> 00:37:22.760
<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, sure that should be their jobs, but

607
00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:24.760
<v Speaker 3>there are a million laws. Like, there's so many laws,

608
00:37:25.679 --> 00:37:28.280
<v Speaker 3>so you need to know what's good for you. And

609
00:37:28.320 --> 00:37:29.880
<v Speaker 3>if you feel like you're being stocks, you need to

610
00:37:30.000 --> 00:37:31.800
<v Speaker 3>know those laws. So when you call that cup and

611
00:37:31.880 --> 00:37:34.079
<v Speaker 3>she comes to your house, if she comes to your house,

612
00:37:35.360 --> 00:37:39.519
<v Speaker 3>they cannot not know because you're telling them. You're saying, listen,

613
00:37:39.599 --> 00:37:41.119
<v Speaker 3>these are the laws in our states.

614
00:37:43.440 --> 00:37:45.199
<v Speaker 8>And how did you get into advocacy?

615
00:37:45.519 --> 00:37:48.840
<v Speaker 3>While the trial was going on, Good Morning America had

616
00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:52.719
<v Speaker 3>contacted me to cover my story because the local news

617
00:37:52.760 --> 00:37:56.480
<v Speaker 3>outlet had picked it up, and so Good Morning America

618
00:37:56.519 --> 00:37:59.320
<v Speaker 3>has been following my story since we started a trial,

619
00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:02.719
<v Speaker 3>and then once the trial ended, like sad day, they

620
00:38:02.719 --> 00:38:06.000
<v Speaker 3>flew me out to talk on Good Morning America, and

621
00:38:06.079 --> 00:38:09.199
<v Speaker 3>so it kind of just snowballs from there on Good

622
00:38:09.199 --> 00:38:12.760
<v Speaker 3>Morning America, Inside Edition like you said, Nightline Like you Said,

623
00:38:12.840 --> 00:38:15.559
<v Speaker 3>and all these other programs, and then I guess people

624
00:38:15.719 --> 00:38:18.639
<v Speaker 3>saw that I was on these programs, we decided to

625
00:38:18.679 --> 00:38:23.880
<v Speaker 3>contact me, and I took the opportunity to go, and

626
00:38:24.199 --> 00:38:26.000
<v Speaker 3>like I took them up on their opportunity because I

627
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:27.760
<v Speaker 3>felt like it was a really important thing to do.

628
00:38:28.360 --> 00:38:31.280
<v Speaker 3>And so I ended up pulling and going to these

629
00:38:31.320 --> 00:38:35.039
<v Speaker 3>trainings and start start talking at these trainings and then

630
00:38:35.440 --> 00:38:39.199
<v Speaker 3>it just, you know, snowballs from there. Once people heard

631
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<v Speaker 3>I was willing to talk about it, it became something

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<v Speaker 3>that people wanted to hear, which was really nice. And

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<v Speaker 3>I even had unfortunately to hear this, but I had

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<v Speaker 3>someone tell me that I was one of the only

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<v Speaker 3>people who would talk about my experience. It feels good

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<v Speaker 3>to do it. I love doing it. It becomes this

637
00:38:58.960 --> 00:39:03.599
<v Speaker 3>like it's like a slight high. But also I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm taking control of a of a situation that

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<v Speaker 3>I felt it had no control over. And so it's

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<v Speaker 3>really nice to do these talks and work with people

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<v Speaker 3>because inevitably there's always one person in each group that

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<v Speaker 3>has either known somebody who's stopped or want stopped, and

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<v Speaker 3>they want to talk about it. And it feels so

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<v Speaker 3>good to be able to help someone anyone. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I've had people call me to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>me about being stopped that's happened, and I do it

647
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<v Speaker 3>because it's it's awesome it's and it's not awesome that

648
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<v Speaker 3>it's the situation, but it's awesome to be to be

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<v Speaker 3>a resource for anyone. And having listening, having listened to

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<v Speaker 3>your previous shows, I know that I'm not the only one,

651
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<v Speaker 3>which makes it even better knowing that I can somehow

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<v Speaker 3>contribute to the big, possibly big movement of victim protection

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<v Speaker 3>for people who are stocked and cyber stocked.

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<v Speaker 7>How do you live your life differently now that you've

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<v Speaker 7>been stocked.

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<v Speaker 3>I do a lot of things in my daily life

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<v Speaker 3>that that I don't think everybody else does. I am

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<v Speaker 3>constantly making sure that there's nobody around me.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't really like when people around me when I.

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<v Speaker 3>Park really close to a like if I go to Target,

661
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<v Speaker 3>I park my car as supposed as possible to the

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<v Speaker 3>doors so that there's less distance between the doors and

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<v Speaker 3>the car, and I think a lot of people for

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's weird, but it's understandable because I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want any like, especially if I'm going out by myself.

666
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<v Speaker 3>I don't want any any more chance of me something

667
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<v Speaker 3>happening to me because I don't know where Patrick is. Also,

668
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<v Speaker 3>I go a lot of places with my fiance because

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<v Speaker 3>it makes sense for us to be together, but for

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<v Speaker 3>safety wise, he is the person who would be most

671
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<v Speaker 3>likely to be able to protect me, and so I

672
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<v Speaker 3>go a lot of places with him. There's very rarely

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<v Speaker 3>places I go by myself unless I have to. So

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<v Speaker 3>that's weird for me too because I used to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, I've always been very independent since to

676
00:41:30.719 --> 00:41:33.360
<v Speaker 3>always have somebody go with me someplace and just make

677
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<v Speaker 3>sure that I have a buddy, like a buddy system.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been fun, but not add a character for me

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<v Speaker 3>compared to the rest of my life before It's all happened.

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<v Speaker 3>If you think you're being stopped. I always say trust

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<v Speaker 3>your gut, because you're probably not going to feel like

682
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<v Speaker 3>you're being stop if you're actually not stopped. If you

683
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<v Speaker 3>are being stopped, then you definitely want to start setting

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<v Speaker 3>up some system that will collect proof for you. So

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<v Speaker 3>if you think somebody's just coming to your house and

686
00:42:14.280 --> 00:42:18.000
<v Speaker 3>standing outside, maybe get a security camera or ring doorbell,

687
00:42:19.239 --> 00:42:22.440
<v Speaker 3>just to make sure that those things are being recorded.

688
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<v Speaker 3>And if they're sending you messages or if they're calling you,

689
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<v Speaker 3>there are a voice message a voice recording apps on

690
00:42:31.159 --> 00:42:34.159
<v Speaker 3>your phone that will or most phones, but you can

691
00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:38.800
<v Speaker 3>also get apps just download them to record voice phone calls.

692
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<v Speaker 3>So if you feel like somebody's gonna call you and

693
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<v Speaker 3>they're calling you too much, or you're getting any text uses,

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<v Speaker 3>there are apps and ways to save that information. I

695
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<v Speaker 3>have even used my computer photo boost Sevemax and have

696
00:42:54.480 --> 00:42:59.559
<v Speaker 3>recorded phone calls via speaker on photo photo booths. So

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<v Speaker 3>there's ways to make it happen. But first and foremost,

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<v Speaker 3>you need to collect all of the proof you can,

699
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<v Speaker 3>not saying that you have to wait until you have

700
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<v Speaker 3>a massive amount of truth, but you have to have

701
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<v Speaker 3>one or two things even to show a police officer

702
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<v Speaker 3>if you have to call the police. And then when

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<v Speaker 3>you before you call the police again, if you feel

704
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<v Speaker 3>like you're reading stuff, you need to know your laws

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<v Speaker 3>in your state.

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<v Speaker 8>KP, thank you so much. We really appreciate your comments

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<v Speaker 8>and your time and this again you you bring.

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<v Speaker 7>Up some.

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<v Speaker 8>You know, really just remarkable points and things that everyone

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<v Speaker 8>needs to know and learn. And you're now going out

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<v Speaker 8>there and helping people, you know, connect so they can

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<v Speaker 8>avoid going through a lot of things. You had to

713
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<v Speaker 8>go through a lot of the legal tangling and wrangling

714
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<v Speaker 8>and things like that with law enforcement. What if someone

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<v Speaker 8>wants to connect with you, how can they do that?

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<v Speaker 3>So my wes say it's me KP and KP felt

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<v Speaker 3>ka y C E E dot com. You can go

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<v Speaker 3>on there, there's a contact sheet with my email address,

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<v Speaker 3>or you can just send me an email through the website.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm always available that way, and you can find me

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<v Speaker 3>on social media at kristin Malikan so you can figure

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<v Speaker 3>out how to sell it is kr I S C

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<v Speaker 3>E N M I l I C k I N S.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm also available on Facebook as Kristen Pratt, so

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<v Speaker 3>I'm available everywhere. I have a Twitter at KP super

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<v Speaker 3>eavy K a Y P E E. S. And so

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<v Speaker 3>you can google my name, which is awesome, or you

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<v Speaker 3>can find me on any one of those senis and

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<v Speaker 3>on my website. I also am building right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Resources for people to find their.

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<v Speaker 3>Lags in their stage for cyberstock and stockings a little

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<v Speaker 3>ways away. I only have Labama right now, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>working on it, so hopefully that'll help you in the

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<v Speaker 3>main time. But they can always contact me and every

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<v Speaker 3>one of those sentis k B.

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you so much for joining us today.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for having me such a pleasure.

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<v Speaker 7>You're welcome. If anyone out there is in need of

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<v Speaker 7>help or is the victim of stalking, please reach out.

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<v Speaker 7>You can find a list of resources on our instagram

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<v Speaker 7>at Strictly Stalking Pod.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm Jacob Tula.

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<v Speaker 7>And I'm Jamie Babe. Thank you for joining us on

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<v Speaker 7>today's episode of Strictly Stalking
