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<v Speaker 1>This is Gary and Shannon, and you're listening to KFI

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<v Speaker 1>AM six forty, the Gary and Shannon Show on demand

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<v Speaker 1>on the iHeartRadio app.

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<v Speaker 2>Dodgers have the best record in Major League Baseball right now.

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<v Speaker 2>They won their two games, so I guess it's a

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<v Speaker 2>short series sweep against the Cubs.

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<v Speaker 3>In the Tokyo Series.

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<v Speaker 2>The Dodgers come home to LA and don't play again

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<v Speaker 2>until they do a couple of tune ups against the Angels.

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<v Speaker 3>They'll I think Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>Sunday they'll play a Dodger Stadium against the Angels in

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<v Speaker 2>the Freeway Series. Still spring training, but the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>Major League Baseball Opening Day is going to be Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>Confuse, So we're playing games that count in Japan, coming

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<v Speaker 1>back to play games that don't count.

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<v Speaker 2>Why listen if you're going to play a game that

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<v Speaker 2>far away.

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<v Speaker 3>I understand they want to do it earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure I have a problem with the idea

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<v Speaker 2>of playing games in other countries. It's just the travel

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<v Speaker 2>is a mess.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a couple of questions to follow up on

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<v Speaker 1>the initial questions, yes, and your subsequent reasoning I get

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<v Speaker 1>playing games in Japan. I don't know if I like

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<v Speaker 1>opening day being in a foreign country for American baseball.

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<v Speaker 3>I love, I love the globe.

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<v Speaker 1>I love international travel, I love spreading, I love how.

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<v Speaker 3>Big it is. A big globe. It's great, big globe.

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<v Speaker 1>But like and I love spreading the game, and I

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<v Speaker 1>love I love the idea of Shohetani and Yamamoto and

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<v Speaker 1>in Japan and the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I love all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But then to come back, But then to come back

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<v Speaker 1>and play games that don't count, I don't really understand.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to start the season there and play

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<v Speaker 1>the game's account and then come back and continue playing

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<v Speaker 1>games account, then that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>Are they playing games that.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't count to give them kind of a week to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of recalibrate their bodies. These are people in the

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<v Speaker 1>best condition of their lives. They're fine. Japan's on a heart.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no jet lag when you come back.

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<v Speaker 2>There's also that's the reason they couldn't do it during

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<v Speaker 2>the season is that the amount of travel it would take.

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<v Speaker 2>You'd have to play West Coast teams to go to Japan,

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<v Speaker 2>so which that's fine, but then you take them out

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<v Speaker 2>for a couple of days beforehand and a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>days after that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys, sack up, you know, pitch the whole game, come

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<v Speaker 1>back and you jump into the game's account.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like a seventy five year old man.

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<v Speaker 2>All I am a designated hitter, right, bunch of queers?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah no, no, no, no, yeah you said it, you

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<v Speaker 1>said squeers.

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<v Speaker 4>I did not mean that anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you're seventy five, I don't know. I think

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<v Speaker 3>we're suspended. Now again, it's time for swamp watch. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a politician, which means I'm a cheat. When I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>kissing babies, I'm stealing their lollipop.

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<v Speaker 5>Here we go, the other side, never quit, so.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not going anywhere. So that now you drain the swamp,

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<v Speaker 3>I can imagine what can be and be unburdened by

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<v Speaker 3>what has been. You know, Americans have always been gun stupid.

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<v Speaker 6>A political plunder is when a politician actually tells the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Why have the people voted for you?

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<v Speaker 7>With not watch just a.

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<v Speaker 2>Quick political thing. We were talking about Tim Walls being

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<v Speaker 2>too masculine for Republicans.

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<v Speaker 5>Everyone to say, Gary and Shannon, I was just hearing

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<v Speaker 5>the news that it's been no not that one.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to play this one, Gary Shannon. No, not

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<v Speaker 3>that one. I'll get to it later.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody said that, what what they say?

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<v Speaker 3>Where did it go?

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<v Speaker 4>You comparaphrase?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Here it is? Sorry, but I think.

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<v Speaker 8>Tim Walls is more masculine than Gary. I mean Tim

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<v Speaker 8>Walls he ran for vice president, was a football player

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<v Speaker 8>or football coach. And Gary he's a wanta be t

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<v Speaker 8>ball baseball player in Chico State graduate.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, come on, good one.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I waited so long for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize for dragging everybody through that.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think he's mad about.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Someone's dad did not love him.

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<v Speaker 4>That's unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 2>President Zelenski spoke with President Trump, and according to Trump,

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<v Speaker 2>it was a very good phone called best phone call,

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<v Speaker 2>during which they discussed the preliminary agreement that President Putin

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<v Speaker 2>talked with Trump about just yesterday. Trump wrote on truth

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<v Speaker 2>Social much of the discussion was based on the call

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<v Speaker 2>made yesterday with Putin in order to align both Russia

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<v Speaker 2>and Ukraine in terms of their requests and needs.

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<v Speaker 3>One of the things it was agreed to.

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<v Speaker 2>In the we think was agreed to in the Trump

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<v Speaker 2>Putin phone call was that there would be no attacks

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<v Speaker 2>on the power grid, among other things. And then about

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<v Speaker 2>ninety minutes after the phone call, Russia conducted an air

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<v Speaker 2>strike on the energy infrastructure of a city of about

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<v Speaker 2>one hundred thousand people in the next re Dunetsk region

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<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of some watchers are calling it an

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<v Speaker 1>fu like Russia says, Okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Wink wink, nod. Not all right, Well, do what they want.

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<v Speaker 3>They're gonna do what they want.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the same thing that you get in

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call with Kim Jong un or or even

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<v Speaker 1>even Benjamin Nett Yahoo that people are gonna these leaders

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<v Speaker 1>when they reach a certain level of power and ego

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<v Speaker 1>and want in terms of territory, they are gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the hell they want to do. Ceasefires be damned,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's no there's no recourse for them. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there are people who say Trump does the same exact thing.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll say one thing, but he's a yes but or

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<v Speaker 1>to whatever you're saying on the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's gonna do what he wants. It's the same guy.

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<v Speaker 2>The difference being that there are checks and balance is

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<v Speaker 2>in our form of government that don't exist in other places.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but Trump doesn't like those, and he's something his

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<v Speaker 1>nose at that, and look no further than all the

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<v Speaker 1>executive orders, he's over the whole checks and says he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be putin, to make no mistake about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he laughs when he's like, well you got

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<v Speaker 1>rid of them, you know, it's like he I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could do that, you know exactly. It's like, yeah, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's awful what Putin does, how he poisons his enemies,

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't say anything against him there politically or

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<v Speaker 1>you'll die.

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<v Speaker 3>And isn't that awful?

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, but there is a school of thought where

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<v Speaker 1>there are guys who have that same DNA that say, God,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to be out of a place like that,

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<v Speaker 1>where I could just do whatever I wanted to And

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<v Speaker 1>if if you don't agree with me, or you try

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<v Speaker 1>to thwart whatever my agenda is, I kill you.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's okay, it's acceptable.

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<v Speaker 2>Trump's Special Envoy Steve Whitcoff, who's been tasked with handling

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<v Speaker 2>this issue of Russia and Ukraine, he said that a

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<v Speaker 2>full cease fire can be achieved, he believes within a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of weeks. He also said that there is likely

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<v Speaker 2>going to be an official meeting between Trump and Putin.

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<v Speaker 2>We know that Secretary of State Marco Rubio, along with

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<v Speaker 2>Nationals Advisor Mike Waltz, will be headed back to Saudi

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<v Speaker 2>Arabia on Sunday. I believe uh and that it's not

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<v Speaker 2>clear if the Ukrainians will be there as well, but

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<v Speaker 2>that there is a potential for this to be a

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<v Speaker 2>three way talk. That in Saudi Arabia with Rubio and

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<v Speaker 2>Waltz there, that they could have Ukrainian and Russian negotiators

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<v Speaker 2>in the room at the same time, which would be

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<v Speaker 2>a major step towards some sort of a ceasefire deal.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see, all right, coming up next, Have you noticed

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<v Speaker 1>that you are not taking any leftovers home from the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a doggyback story over good. You can tell

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<v Speaker 5>the story. Nope, Nope, tell the story. No, it's too late,

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<v Speaker 5>it's not too late. I got a doggie bag and

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<v Speaker 5>asked for my dying dog, could I have some steak?

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<v Speaker 5>And the guy's like yeah, and then you gave me

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<v Speaker 5>French fries.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well it was your wife that asked, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you changed it already.

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<v Speaker 2>I told it so fast, and you realized that I'd

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<v Speaker 2>screwed it up, but the dog enjoyed the French fright,

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<v Speaker 2>Sure did.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, when's the last time you left the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>with leftovers?

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<v Speaker 3>It definitely depends on the kind of restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, yeah, you're not going to take home leftover sushi.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna take them sushi. I'm not gonna take

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<v Speaker 3>home thy food.

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<v Speaker 7>You're not.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, probably not reheated tay food like pad tie specifically.

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<v Speaker 3>But Mexican food all the time. Really, See, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>take home Mexican food.

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<v Speaker 2>Because there are spices that they perfect that I could

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<v Speaker 2>never do in my house. Like what dish I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>thinking of, like a good I don't know, perhaps a

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<v Speaker 2>molay of some kind, anything, because.

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<v Speaker 4>I see you leaving any molay on the table.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's also that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that may be the issue. Is that I

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<v Speaker 2>overeat when I'm at a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. You don't over eat. You just

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<v Speaker 3>don't leave food on the plate. You've seen me, you

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<v Speaker 3>don't waste. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gary and Shannon will continue Hot doggie Bag Talk when

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<v Speaker 2>we come back.

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<v Speaker 7>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 7>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 2>A bunch of stories that were following big deal weather

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<v Speaker 2>wise across the country. A kitchen sink storm system clobbering

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<v Speaker 2>the Midwest. They save from the Central Plains up to

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<v Speaker 2>the Great Lake. Strong tornado is possible around Chicago. They're saying,

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<v Speaker 2>blizzard conditions have been blasting Nebraska and Kansas. Farther south,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got Oklahoma and Texas facing a day of critical

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<v Speaker 2>wildfire danger. The low pressure system that's generating all of

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<v Speaker 2>this right now is centered over Kansas, and it's bringing

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<v Speaker 2>moisture north up from the Gulf of Mexico. Tesla has

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<v Speaker 2>been removed from the Vancouver International Auto Show. The decision

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<v Speaker 2>was announced just yesterday afternoon by Eric Nickel, the exis

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<v Speaker 2>secutive director of the event, takes place at the Vancouver

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<v Speaker 2>Convention Center. In a statement, he explained that Tesla was

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<v Speaker 2>given multiple chances to voluntarily withdrawal from the show. He

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<v Speaker 2>said the Vancouver Auto Shows primary concern is the safety

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<v Speaker 2>of the attendees, the exhibitors, and staff. Speaking of which,

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<v Speaker 2>somebody posted on the Internet the home address of every

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<v Speaker 2>Tesla owner in the country. Wow, as well as every

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<v Speaker 2>Tesla showroom, every charging station and the known homes and

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<v Speaker 2>residences of Department of Government Efficiency employees. Even Director Cash

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<v Speaker 2>Patel FBI Director Cash Patel with the symbol of a

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<v Speaker 2>Molotov cocktail as the cursor, and then said something as

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<v Speaker 2>idiotic as oh, we're not saying you do anything with

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<v Speaker 1>There is a shift in the way we're leaving restaurants.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of half eaten meals are being left right

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<v Speaker 1>the ease of ordering takeout and a return to sharing

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<v Speaker 1>food after the pandemic made doing so taboo. So if

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<v Speaker 1>we're at a meal and you don't finish your veal parmesan,

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>I had forgotten about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was an orphan, So food and security issues, no

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously the food and secure where's my next meal

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't right there.

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<v Speaker 1>The seriousness with which I say those things is shocking.

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<v Speaker 3>Later truly ridiculous. I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that's more to do with the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that I like to taste different things, lots of different things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard for me to commit to an entree, just

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<v Speaker 1>like the one thing the average American leaves fifty three

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<v Speaker 1>foods fifty three pounds of food. That's quite a sting

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<v Speaker 1>on the plate every year. Fifty three pounds. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>huge amount of food. They say, three hundred and twenty

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<v Speaker 1>Fifty three pounds of food eating out is a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more than three hundred and twenty nine if you live

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<v Speaker 2>Couple different reasons why they give different different restaurant tours

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<v Speaker 2>suggest that, for one thing, Generation Z grows up with

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<v Speaker 2>the ability to order whatever they want, whenever they want

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<v Speaker 2>from their phones, So why bring home extra food? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>those people are also less it's true, but those people

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<v Speaker 2>to eat because they can get it brought to them. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>my wife and I thankfully share the opinion that some

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<v Speaker 2>food that you're going to eat from a restaurant, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it is, it could be. It could be in and out,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be spago like what it's best eaten there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>when I was in Arizona in January, guy had ordered

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<v Speaker 2>a steak from a steakhouse across the way from the hotel,

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<v Speaker 2>but had it delivered to the hotel, and the next

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<v Speaker 2>night went and had that same steak at that steakhouse,

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<v Speaker 2>sitting in a chair at the bar and said it

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<v Speaker 2>was a hundred times better right there in the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>I think steak travels.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing is that people they get in this

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<v Speaker 2>it's less likely you're gonna want to haul a couple

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<v Speaker 1>Remember my parents going out to dinner though when we

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<v Speaker 1>were kids, they always came back with leftovers.

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<v Speaker 9>It's the best midnight snack listen. And I know that

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<v Speaker 9>there are people Keana that's perfect. There are people who

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<v Speaker 9>just don't do leftovers. I think Moe is one of

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<v Speaker 9>also something about specific foods. When leftover allowed to marinate

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<v Speaker 1>My husband has this term for leftovers that he has

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<v Speaker 1>used since and I used to think he was being funny,

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<v Speaker 1>like are you joking?

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<v Speaker 4>As I said, joke?

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<v Speaker 3>He calls it. Didn't like it the first time?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it pre eaten foods?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, He'll say things like, well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like pre eating foods, And I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you like leftovers, pre eaten foods like and he

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<v Speaker 1>says it every time he refers to him, but.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not even been eaten. That's the whole point is

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<v Speaker 1>No, But I mean it's like it's like if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make dinner and then the next night he'll have

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<v Speaker 1>that same dinner where I'll be like, I want something different,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll be like, well, you don't like pre eating food.

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<v Speaker 3>He ate that already leftovers? It's leftovers.

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<v Speaker 2>Are there specific foods that you would definitely take home?

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<v Speaker 2>Like pasta? Definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll never finish a whole plate to pasta in the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's great. Reheated pasta is always great reheated' you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like any sort of pizza, same pieces pizza in pasta

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But I also don't over order.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm in a restaurant, I'll order like an appetizer

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<v Speaker 1>for an entree, or I'll share an entree because I could.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the reasons I don't like bringing stuff home

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<v Speaker 2>I also try to avoid restaurants where the whole key

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<v Speaker 2>is the larger portions.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, those kinds of restaurants. Just don't It's like the

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<v Speaker 6>Go on.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need that in bed, and you don't need

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<v Speaker 1>that on your plate.

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<v Speaker 3>All right? Coming up for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is also what you watch on Wednesday, So do not

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<v Speaker 2>forget to let us know what you have been watching.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll do that. Coming up at twelve thirty. Leave us

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<v Speaker 2>a talk back on the iHeart app. Just hit that

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<v Speaker 7>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 7>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom is now laughing. I'm hoping she's lasting at

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<v Speaker 3>With us.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He just wrote more please missus, Oliver Twine.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for you as a solid mom, solid mom. A

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<v Speaker 3>couple of stories that we are following.

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<v Speaker 2>Number one was we saw President Trump speak with President

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<v Speaker 2>do Zallenski of Ukraine for about an hour today as

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<v Speaker 2>they try to make progress towards some sort of a

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<v Speaker 2>peace deal. Couple of judicial losses for the Trump administration.

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<v Speaker 2>In one, a judge ruled that the attempt to unilaterally

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<v Speaker 2>dismantled us AID may have violated the Constitution. In fact,

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<v Speaker 2>said he likely violated the constitution. So Doge and Elon

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<v Speaker 2>Musk were ordered to submit a written agreement within a

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<v Speaker 3>Can go back to its former building.

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<v Speaker 2>The second judicial loss came when a federal judge blocked

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<v Speaker 2>a preliminary injunction that halts that policy from from taking effect.

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<v Speaker 3>I love this topic.

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<v Speaker 1>It is old school parenting ideas that this uh, this article,

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<v Speaker 1>opines is just what today's kids need and helping us

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<v Speaker 1>sort through it all is justin worship.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, touchdown? Just sports is not sports. Absolutely gave up

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<v Speaker 3>on your San Francisco.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, became a RAMS fan, and that is when.

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<v Speaker 3>We stopped being sorry for my children. No, no, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not my children. Okay, first five, it's not for the children.

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<v Speaker 3>Teach your children to have some amount of credibility.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, not just credibility, but loyalty, indignity,

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<v Speaker 1>and integrity.

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<v Speaker 6>Did it sounds like somebody's a little upset about the

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<v Speaker 6>DeVante Adams signing.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not tell your faith. I am not tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>You think Matt Stafford's gonna you think there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, all right, I do because they're so great.

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<v Speaker 3>Are so great. There it is, and now I know

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<v Speaker 3>why she likes doing it. This is my first opportunity

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<v Speaker 6>And it feels like I feel electricity in my base

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<v Speaker 6>or it's just.

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<v Speaker 3>Old school parenting. Oh my god, I'm like sweating and

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<v Speaker 3>vibrating with joy. I'm not lying. This is oh my god.

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<v Speaker 6>I now understand the power that you feel on a

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<v Speaker 6>daily basis. What's incredible because I just said something in

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<v Speaker 1>It's not something you said, it's the fact that you

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<v Speaker 6>While she talks his forts into flipping the bird, she's

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<v Speaker 3>Here, team and set along the ride.

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<v Speaker 2>I live for the biggest ri that I will take

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<v Speaker 2>the training care basically to.

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<v Speaker 1>The Enos season stayed like five and seven at the

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<v Speaker 1>time you decided to be a ram My son was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really like the RAM And then that's where you

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<v Speaker 1>tell them that they're wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>You not say no to your say no to your

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, kid wants to be a Dolphins fan when

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<v Speaker 1>they're five because they like Dolphins.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't let them live their life as a Dolphins.

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<v Speaker 6>Anybody wants to be a Dolphins fan. I think Shannon's

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody knows a kid that wanted to be a Dolphins

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<v Speaker 3>Issues. That's maybe like a girlfriend you have surgery in

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<v Speaker 3>nineteen eighty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Because one is upset. She's running down the hall saying,

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<v Speaker 1>stay on topic.

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<v Speaker 3>No, she's not issue. Yes, oh she is my best

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<v Speaker 3>number one. She's like, this is uninteresting.

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<v Speaker 4>I understand.

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<v Speaker 6>Just so we're clear, I just said a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>Jesus is going off.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I want to bring this back to the topic.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think giving your kids, well, you have to

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<v Speaker 3>let them throw a tantrum. Gary, let a fan. You

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<v Speaker 3>don't have to change your You don't have to change

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<v Speaker 3>your strife. You don't want to. The dynamic where the

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<v Speaker 3>two of you gang up on me made my decision.

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't born and raised in Modesto to root for

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<v Speaker 1>the Rams.

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<v Speaker 6>That's true, that's very true. But my kids were born

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<v Speaker 3>Get what the children who cares.

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<v Speaker 6>Listen, It's okay. They're like, nobody likes the rams like

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<v Speaker 6>a truss me. Anybody who goes to a game knows

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like, you just have.

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<v Speaker 6>This like trap that brings the team in so that

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<v Speaker 6>you could watch your team beat the crap out of

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<v Speaker 6>the local.

435
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<v Speaker 3>Team that you like. You hold up shop and I

436
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<v Speaker 3>are ten years apart, almost to the minute.

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<v Speaker 6>His birthday is also January. You don't think it's fun

438
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<v Speaker 6>that parlor Tricky does where he remembers every play ever.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fun. That's cool. It sounds like John Gruden. That's delightful,

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<v Speaker 3>just without the racist. Give your kids space. Give your space.

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<v Speaker 1>Unlike you two are giving you at the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>every baseball season.

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<v Speaker 3>You get a little jones in for football. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>I apologize that you took the brunt of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Today.

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<v Speaker 2>She had she had about a quiet month, so she

447
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<v Speaker 2>just saw abusive girlfriend just immediately.

448
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<v Speaker 3>I love you so much. You don't you don't care

449
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<v Speaker 3>when I'm talking. You're not talking. When I'm talking, you're

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<v Speaker 3>not talking. We'll get it back on track. I swear.

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<v Speaker 7>You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI

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<v Speaker 7>AM six forty.

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<v Speaker 1>Live everywhere on the iHeartRadio app. And that's all I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to say this segment.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess we're carrying over. Did you get anger? No,

456
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<v Speaker 6>she didn't get in trouble. She's just trying not to get.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to ruin it because I really want

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<v Speaker 1>him to get to this topic about the old school

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<v Speaker 1>parenting manage.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well we did the giving your kids space thing

461
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<v Speaker 2>and the tanker let them cover that team.

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<v Speaker 6>What I want to say about so what this was

463
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<v Speaker 6>is that this guy put on Reddit, like what are

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<v Speaker 6>some things that you experienced in your childhood that you

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<v Speaker 6>think would be good for kids today but is not

466
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<v Speaker 6>part of the you know, modern parenting style. And the

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<v Speaker 6>first one is giving your kids space, but it's not

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<v Speaker 6>the space that I think. It means that it's not

469
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<v Speaker 6>a safe space. It means that allowing them to fail

470
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<v Speaker 6>that like failure is the best teacher out there, and

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<v Speaker 6>I would agree with that. But the second one is

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<v Speaker 6>also let them be alone, which means you're not always

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<v Speaker 6>around them trying to like entertain them or engage them,

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<v Speaker 6>stimulate them, like just let them be, and it goes

475
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<v Speaker 6>into all these benefits of like emotional development.

476
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<v Speaker 3>When your kid gets to be bored.

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<v Speaker 6>It's everything that everybody who grew up in the eighties

478
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<v Speaker 6>feels like. The kids today don't have right because they

479
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<v Speaker 6>have these computers and TVs and everything all in their

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<v Speaker 6>pocket all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>The chores thing is also pretty important.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I've run into this a couple of times, probably

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<v Speaker 2>more often lately, where kids don't have chores, they just

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<v Speaker 2>have money.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's just the way it goes.

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<v Speaker 2>I just have money and available to them anytime they want,

487
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<v Speaker 2>and mom or Dad can venmo them or PayPal or

488
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<v Speaker 2>app whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Do your kids have chores?

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<v Speaker 2>They had very specific requirements. Yes, there are things that

491
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<v Speaker 2>they were responsible.

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<v Speaker 6>I failed at this. We started off with chores, but

493
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<v Speaker 6>I could not get them. I couldn't get them on board.

494
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<v Speaker 6>And I hate like throwing my wife under the bus

495
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<v Speaker 6>a little bit, but she's not big on consequences, like

496
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<v Speaker 6>that's our parenting fight that we have within our relationship,

497
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<v Speaker 6>and I very much am and so she's just like, well,

498
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<v Speaker 6>they try.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything is about effort, doesn't matter the result, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like the playoffs, You're right, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Totally won that one. That's great. I have not won

502
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<v Speaker 6>this entire two segments at all. You're right, you nailed

503
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<v Speaker 6>the shit got me so good.

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<v Speaker 3>You got me on my heels.

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<v Speaker 1>It very easy to manipulate if you tell me I won,

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<v Speaker 1>Even if I know I'm being manipulated, it still feels good.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh good, I like that. That's great. That's even more

508
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<v Speaker 3>fun for me to have later. I also think it's

509
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<v Speaker 3>her birthday if you give her a card.

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<v Speaker 6>My Shannon fair Fair and toolbox is getting so big

511
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<v Speaker 6>right I'm flirting so many skills right now. The other

512
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<v Speaker 6>one that I like in here is allowing them to

513
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<v Speaker 6>experience conflict. This was something that came up with my

514
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<v Speaker 6>kids is that my wife and I have had like

515
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<v Speaker 6>one really big fight and we had it in front

516
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<v Speaker 6>of our oldest son and he kind of started to

517
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<v Speaker 6>get upset.

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<v Speaker 3>My wife kind of like looked like, okay, let's be careful.

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<v Speaker 4>What were you fighting about.

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<v Speaker 6>We were actually fighting about her, But she she would treat

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<v Speaker 6>me like a sitcom dad, even though I was the

522
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<v Speaker 6>guy who was home with the kids. It was when

523
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<v Speaker 6>I was working here at the radio station on handle show,

524
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<v Speaker 6>so I was home with them after school. I was

525
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<v Speaker 6>cooking meals and all that stuff, and she came home

526
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<v Speaker 6>one day and she was like, well, you know, he

527
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<v Speaker 6>thinks that you don't care whenever he has an ailment

528
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<v Speaker 6>and tried to explain to me how to properly.

529
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<v Speaker 3>Care for a child. Does he thinks my son?

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<v Speaker 6>Was saying this to my wife after I had gone

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<v Speaker 6>to bed at like seven o'clock because I was getting

532
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<v Speaker 6>up at two am, and I just was like, you

533
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<v Speaker 6>don't like last you guys made fun of me before,

534
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<v Speaker 6>like I literally broke down breastfeeding.

535
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<v Speaker 3>To her, like I had to talk about the biology.

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<v Speaker 6>And again, I don't like this because my wife is

537
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<v Speaker 6>great and I literally could not live without her. And

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<v Speaker 6>I hate it when sometimes I talk making jokes like

539
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<v Speaker 6>she comes.

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<v Speaker 3>Across that you adore her. Don't are you doing the

541
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<v Speaker 3>thing I was doing? No, I'm serious, I'm serious. I

542
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<v Speaker 3>don't worry about that. No, I know I couldn't.

543
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<v Speaker 6>Like I literally gave up the career I wanted since

544
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<v Speaker 6>I was in first grades. I could be around this

545
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<v Speaker 6>woman and these children more. But so anyway, we got

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<v Speaker 6>into this big fight about it because I'm like, I'm

547
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<v Speaker 6>not an uninvolved dad.

548
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<v Speaker 3>I'm not an ignorant. Dad, I'm very engaged. I'm very aware.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, you can't come into the situation acting like

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<v Speaker 6>you have all of the information when you have none.

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<v Speaker 6>And that was kind of what I was sternly saying

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<v Speaker 6>back to her because I was offended. And so I

553
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<v Speaker 6>broke it down from them and I said, listen, I go.

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<v Speaker 6>You and your brother fight all the time. You don't

555
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<v Speaker 6>see your mom and I getting upset, right, I go.

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<v Speaker 6>And this is where I really nailed as a father.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, I go, Well, the four of us are

558
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<v Speaker 6>all living in this house together in close proximity. I go,

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<v Speaker 6>Prisoners try to stab each other just from being close

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<v Speaker 6>to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very similar. But I have to make their own knives.

562
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<v Speaker 3>We have them in the drawer. He's like, I got

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<v Speaker 3>my ship right here. But it was something that I

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<v Speaker 3>noticed about even my parents.

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<v Speaker 6>My parents would have lots of conversations, disagreements, arguments in

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<v Speaker 6>front of me, and it kind of teaches you how

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<v Speaker 6>to be in a relationship. I think, otherwise you don't.

568
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<v Speaker 6>There's no way to model that if you hide it

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<v Speaker 6>from them. There's one of these later on that I

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<v Speaker 6>think is interesting. It's a side with the teacher. Yeah,

571
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<v Speaker 6>sometimes the teacher is right about your kid being incorrigible

572
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<v Speaker 6>or acting out in class. But just as important as

573
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<v Speaker 6>that is, like hey, missus Terwilliger has the opportunity to

574
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<v Speaker 6>call you out on your ass. There are times when

575
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<v Speaker 6>you have to defend the kid against the teacher. Have

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<v Speaker 6>done I have done that less than what I would

577
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<v Speaker 6>expect it as a parent. I've I have fought advocated

578
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<v Speaker 6>for my kid against more teachers. There's been teachers that

579
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<v Speaker 6>I have relationships with that I know, and they've like,

580
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<v Speaker 6>like they've set a picture of Jack when he was

581
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<v Speaker 6>in first grade that he just decided he wasn't going

582
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<v Speaker 6>to listen and he did a duck and cover drill

583
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<v Speaker 6>under the desk, like just lay down, and the teacher

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<v Speaker 6>texts me, she goes, this is what he's doing right now,

585
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<v Speaker 6>and I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a whole topic like siding with the teacher

587
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<v Speaker 1>or your kid and the ramifications of both of those.

588
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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's a case by case basis. I would

589
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<v Speaker 1>assume the.

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<v Speaker 2>Context of a lawyer, Right, you are your kids, you

591
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<v Speaker 2>got your kid's advocate. But in the event that your

592
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<v Speaker 2>kid is accused of doing something that they didn't do.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to have that heart to heart, honest conversation

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<v Speaker 2>with hey, listen, I'll go to bat for you, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll use all the resources that are available to me

596
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<v Speaker 2>to defend you. But you better go all the way

597
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<v Speaker 2>down and tell me the absolute God's honest track about this,

598
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<v Speaker 2>because if there's any moment that I find out that

599
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<v Speaker 2>you're lying about it, or you're fudging the details, or

600
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<v Speaker 2>you're passing off responsibility, I'm out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then you're on your own, and you don't

602
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<v Speaker 3>want that.

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<v Speaker 6>Both of my kids have had that conversation with me

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<v Speaker 6>where I've said, I go, listen, I go if I

605
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<v Speaker 6>will fight for you, and I am involved in these schools,

606
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<v Speaker 6>so the parker I will go in there.

607
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<v Speaker 3>I will I will parker it up.

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<v Speaker 1>And but like what if, like you know, I'm just

609
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<v Speaker 1>thinking of something where there's gray area, you know, not

610
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<v Speaker 1>like plagiarism or cheating on a test or something, but

611
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<v Speaker 1>you know your kid's not showing effort or whatever. Will

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<v Speaker 1>and your kids like I am doing everything I can.

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<v Speaker 3>How do you navigate that?

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<v Speaker 6>I had that where the what was happening was he

615
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<v Speaker 6>was struggling in math. The teacher was not really supporting.

616
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<v Speaker 6>It also happened to be during the pandemic. He was

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<v Speaker 6>failing math, and I said, I go, okay, on Friday,

618
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<v Speaker 6>that's your day that you go check in, because this

619
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<v Speaker 6>was the time where they didn't have school on Friday,

620
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<v Speaker 6>but the teachers had like office hours like it was

621
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<v Speaker 6>a college, and you would go and check in from

622
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<v Speaker 6>what you would learn to make sure you were getting.

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<v Speaker 6>And I said, you go to her every Friday and

624
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<v Speaker 6>say this is what I think I'm understanding.

625
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<v Speaker 3>Am I right?

626
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<v Speaker 6>Every Friday? You go talk to her. He's like okay,

627
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<v Speaker 6>And then he was still failing. And I went back

628
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<v Speaker 6>and I talked to her, and he didn't go every Friday,

629
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<v Speaker 6>and so I had to tell him, I'm like, listen,

630
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<v Speaker 6>she was definitely in the wrong. Like something else came

631
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<v Speaker 6>up where he was upset about trying to make up

632
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<v Speaker 6>the work and he was emotional, and he was twelve,

633
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<v Speaker 6>And this was back when he got to go back

634
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<v Speaker 6>into the classroom and he was approaching her to talk

635
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<v Speaker 6>to her, and a twelve year old was emotional in

636
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<v Speaker 6>front of her and she and he started crying and

637
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<v Speaker 6>she laughed in his face. That was something that I

638
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<v Speaker 6>got The admin involved, not because I was worried about

639
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<v Speaker 6>my kid, but I was like, you can't let this

640
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<v Speaker 6>lady do somebody else, because somebody else is to start

641
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<v Speaker 6>beating and getting pitchforks and torches and want' fired because

642
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<v Speaker 6>they're going to care more about this.

643
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<v Speaker 3>Right. But I said you you.

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<v Speaker 6>Took my ability to help you away when you didn't

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<v Speaker 6>You're just gonna have to deal with the result and

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<v Speaker 6>the consequence. All right, So next week we'll talk more

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<v Speaker 6>about it, all right. I will get that together, Thank

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<v Speaker 6>your kids. Maybe we'll do the second segment about the

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<v Speaker 6>NFC West just in general.

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<v Speaker 4>That's fine, Okay, I'm done, No, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you googling?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm responding to Debora Mark. She sent me a new

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<v Speaker 3>So poor boy. I'm so glad. I asked as always

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<v Speaker 3>a joy when you were here. I'm sorry, just like

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