Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Psychic Teachers.
Speaker 2: I'm your host, Dev Bowen, and I'm Samantha Fay, and.
Speaker 1: We're so excited that you were with us with one
Speaker 1: of our all time favorite episodes. We're talking about your
Speaker 1: questions and so we hope it's safe for you to do. So.
Speaker 1: Sit back with a cup of tea and let's get started.
Speaker 2: Samantha, Okay, I don't think we have as many sign
Speaker 2: stories this month, so we're gonna have to read through
Speaker 2: these and see if we can gleam a theme. Remember
Speaker 2: last month we were saying there's like always a theme.
Speaker 1: I know it. We'll see what happens with these this month.
Speaker 2: Okay. Our first one says I wanted to share with
Speaker 2: you both a dream I had a few months ago
Speaker 2: in which Samantha appeared. I was walking through the streets
Speaker 2: of what looked like a medieval town, similar to the
Speaker 2: ones that appeared in old fashioned fairy tale books. There
Speaker 2: were a lot of people in the streets. As they
Speaker 2: kept walking, I spotted Samantha standing in near proximity to
Speaker 2: me and smiling at me. I was very surprised, and
Speaker 2: I said to myself, oh MG, am I going to
Speaker 2: get a reading from Samantha Fay. Samantha Cavern stood next
Speaker 2: to me and said, Viviana, your mom is telling me
Speaker 2: that there is a song you really like. Can you
Speaker 2: tell me which one it is. I hesitated to answer
Speaker 2: and thought to myself, Gosh, I like a lot of songs.
Speaker 2: What if I tell Samantha the wrong woman. Then this
Speaker 2: Mexican song from the late fifties that both my mom
Speaker 2: and my grandmother used to play a lot when I
Speaker 2: was young came into my head. A few seconds later,
Speaker 2: the song started playing for everyone in the place where
Speaker 2: we were. The name of the song is Bonita, which
Speaker 2: means pretty in Spanish. Samantha, you looked at me with
Speaker 2: a big smile and said, yes, that's the song. We
Speaker 2: continued walking along the little streets of the town, and
Speaker 2: then I asked Samittha if my mom was okay wherever
Speaker 2: she was. You then stopped walking and looked at me
Speaker 2: and said, yes, she's doing great. I then woke up
Speaker 2: with tears in my eyes. My mom passed away seven
Speaker 2: years ago, very suddenly, from an aggressive form of leukemia.
Speaker 2: My sister and I both had a very difficult relationship
Speaker 2: with her because she was a very difficult and complex
Speaker 2: person to be around, and she could be at times
Speaker 2: very fluctuating in her mood. I really struggled with the
Speaker 2: grieving process as I felt angry and sad for many years.
Speaker 2: This dream brought me so much peace and gratitude that
Speaker 2: I can honestly say I am in a completely different
Speaker 2: place regarding her passing now, and I believe this dream
Speaker 2: was very important in assisting me with this shift. I
Speaker 2: want to say thank you ladies for the amazing job
Speaker 2: you guys do sharing knowledge to all the people that
Speaker 2: listened to your podcast. And I want to end by
Speaker 2: saying to Smytha, I love your books. I have both
Speaker 2: an audible and I'm currently listening to The Awake Dreamer
Speaker 2: for the second time. May you both continue to be
Speaker 2: blessing successful in your endeavors.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: Wow, that is such a very cool dream experience. And
Speaker 2: you know, uh huh, I'm not gonna call it a
Speaker 2: dream experience. That is such a cool soul travel experience
Speaker 2: because I don't know a lot. A lot stands out
Speaker 2: to me. First of all, I was just talking over
Speaker 2: the holidays to my kids about like my idea of heaven,
Speaker 2: and I do describe it like an old fashioned fairy tale,
Speaker 2: like little cottages and like a medieval town. You and
Speaker 2: I have talked about that, deb, haven't we We have? Yeah,
Speaker 2: So I just think that's interesting that she saw that.
Speaker 2: I think it's interesting that I said to her in
Speaker 2: the dream, you know about the favorite songs, Like if
Speaker 2: I were actually doing a reading, can you imagine, deab
Speaker 2: if I was like, I have your mom here and
Speaker 2: she's telling me your favorite song, can you tell me
Speaker 2: what that is?
Speaker 1: I think that's the way it works.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's the way it works, but I
Speaker 2: love that in this experience she came up with, you know, bonita,
Speaker 2: which means pretty. I think that's like such a beautiful
Speaker 2: message from her mom that she's beautiful, that our listener
Speaker 2: is beautiful, and that all all is working out beautifully.
Speaker 2: And finally, the fact that she had a difficult relationship
Speaker 2: with her mother, and I'm the one she saw in
Speaker 2: the dream who had a difficult relationship with my mom,
Speaker 2: and not you, Deb, who had a great relationship with
Speaker 2: your mom. Like, isn't that interesting?
Speaker 1: Well? It is. And I want to add a couple
Speaker 1: of thanks to your comments and the comments that she
Speaker 1: made in her story to us. One is exactly I
Speaker 1: was going to say. Exactly what you said is you
Speaker 1: know she has the capability to do this on her own.
Speaker 1: She really didn't need you. She knew the name of
Speaker 1: the song, she knew the message, and what her subconscious
Speaker 1: did I think was invited you in as kind of
Speaker 1: a safety net for her to explore what she really
Speaker 1: already knew. The other thing that I would say about
Speaker 1: this is so many folks send us emails about grief
Speaker 1: and what that means in their lives in a variety
Speaker 1: of ways. And one thing that I really want folks
Speaker 1: to hear is that there's no right or wrong way
Speaker 1: to grieve. There are no rules about grieving. There's no
Speaker 1: time limit on grief and grieving someone that you should
Speaker 1: be grieving and I use that word in quotes, and
Speaker 1: that you wish things had been different about but yet
Speaker 1: the relationship was for whatever reason, tumultuous or whatever. There's
Speaker 1: no guilt involved in that. Don't do that to yourselves.
Speaker 1: It is simply what it is. And now you have
Speaker 1: an opportunity when the person is gone, to examine you
Speaker 1: feel about them and what you would really like for
Speaker 1: them to know about how you feel now and all
Speaker 1: of those things are perfectly okay and acceptable.
Speaker 2: Well that's so beautifully said Dev. You're absolutely right. And
Speaker 2: to listeners who have reached out to us and said, gosh,
Speaker 2: you always are reading emails from people who have dream
Speaker 2: visitations or signs from their loved ones. You know, my parent,
Speaker 2: my brother, my pet has been gone for this along,
Speaker 2: haven't heard anything. Please take comfort. This listener has been
Speaker 2: dealing with this complicated degree for seven years. True story
Speaker 2: finally had this great dream experience from her mom.
Speaker 1: And think about Grandy Jean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I saw partying deb The party is not over.
Speaker 2: She's not popping in to see you yet.
Speaker 1: I know, but it hurts my heart. I just assumed
Speaker 1: she would show up and she has not. She's talked
Speaker 1: to other people at sending me messages, lots of them
Speaker 1: you all know about, but nada, you know. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I get I get that feeling.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: Hey, let me move us on.
Speaker 2: This.
Speaker 1: Next person says, I really enjoy to row an oracle
Speaker 1: decks and only read for myself. When I draw cards.
Speaker 1: I only lay out three to four to row cards
Speaker 1: and a single oracle cards. I never do a specific spread.
Speaker 1: I just draw and see what comes up. I'm resistant
Speaker 1: to doing a specific spread, as I want to know
Speaker 1: how the cards know where to position themselves when I
Speaker 1: draw them. Do I think about it spread while I'm shuffling.
Speaker 1: In addition to my question, I'm curious to know how
Speaker 1: all of this works together and how I should do it.
Speaker 1: A lot of your questions are questions that we address
Speaker 1: in my Unlocking the Mysteries of to Row course that
Speaker 1: I teach periodically. I just finished one, so I'm not
Speaker 1: sure when there's another one coming. You know, there is
Speaker 1: many ways to lay out cards, as there are people
Speaker 1: who lay them out, and I don't know that there
Speaker 1: are specific rules. There are some traditional guidelines, and just
Speaker 1: doing random layouts of three or four cards it's certainly
Speaker 1: one way you can do that. There's a vast difference
Speaker 1: between Toro cards and oracle cards that have very different
Speaker 1: intents and very different connections to energy. So I would
Speaker 1: simply say to you, if this feels like it's working
Speaker 1: for you, and you're getting the information that you think
Speaker 1: you are seeking answered, then do what you're doing.
Speaker 2: There's something about this question that reminds me of how
Speaker 2: I used to be before I really understood intuition and
Speaker 2: Basically that was me trying to understand and overthink it.
Speaker 2: And I feel like a part of what she needs
Speaker 2: to do is surrender and trust that the cards know
Speaker 2: where to position themselves when you draw them. That that's
Speaker 2: the magic and mystery of Touro.
Speaker 1: It is the magic and mystery of Too. And for
Speaker 1: folks who have taken my classes, they have heard me
Speaker 1: say one hundred times, it isn't about me. It isn't
Speaker 1: about me as the reader. I need to get me
Speaker 1: and my ego out of the way and trust to Row.
Speaker 1: And there's if there's one thing in the world I trust,
Speaker 1: it is the energy of to Roe to know and
Speaker 1: do and say what needs to be shared exactly.
Speaker 2: Deb Is it pouring where you are? No, it is
Speaker 2: p pouring rain. I'm looking out the window. It is
Speaker 2: pouring rain, and I've got my little cup of Holy
Speaker 2: beaesel tea. I feel like we really are virtually around
Speaker 2: a kitchen table.
Speaker 1: Well, I have a cup of coffee, so here we are.
Speaker 2: Okay, Our next one says, last week, on my day off,
Speaker 2: I had a few appointments and some running around to
Speaker 2: do in the valley, the urban area where I live.
Speaker 2: We live in a very rural area, and I usually
Speaker 2: try to avoid the valley as I'm not a fan
Speaker 2: of the hustle and bustle. I'd finished with my appointments
Speaker 2: and was on the road home when I had the
Speaker 2: urge to make one more stop at a local goodwill store.
Speaker 2: This isn't normal for me. I'm not a shopper and
Speaker 2: I usually just want to get back home. I walked
Speaker 2: into the store not quite sure what I was looking
Speaker 2: for or where to start looking. I just knew I
Speaker 2: needed to stop. I wandered over to the home goods section.
Speaker 2: As I was browsing the first shelf, a thought popped
Speaker 2: into my mind, maybe I'll find a crystal or a rock.
Speaker 2: And as I made my way to the next shelf
Speaker 2: of trinkets, home goods and gadgets, there it was the
Speaker 2: most beautiful raw amethyst cluster. I knew that I was
Speaker 2: meant to find that amethyst, but I am unsure of why.
Speaker 2: Is it a sign from my guides? Was I drawn
Speaker 2: to find it because I needed it? Any insights you
Speaker 2: have would be so appreciated. Also, being that my beautiful
Speaker 2: amethyst came from a thrift fine, should I be concerned
Speaker 2: about cleaning it okay, all great questions.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: We also had a question come in. I'm not sure
Speaker 2: if it's in today's list of questions or not, but
Speaker 2: someone was asking, how do you find your personal crystal?
Speaker 2: How do you know what crystal should be like your
Speaker 2: meditation crystal or your working crystal. This is one of
Speaker 2: those ways when you feel that pull because here she
Speaker 2: is out shopping, she just wants to go home. She
Speaker 2: gets a thought to just stop at the local good
Speaker 2: will store. Then she gets another thought, maybe she'll find
Speaker 2: a crystal. That's all sympatico, that's all intuition, working and connecting.
Speaker 2: So that crystal probably needed to be rescued, and she
Speaker 2: needed the aspects of that amethyst cluster, so it's a
Speaker 2: win win on both sides. A raw amethyst cluster is
Speaker 2: fantastic for providing group harmony in the home and having
Speaker 2: everyone work together. It's a wonderful stone for connecting with
Speaker 2: your higher self, with your guides, with your intuition, with
Speaker 2: your sense of what is your faith now? What do
Speaker 2: you believe? Now? Where are you on your spiritual journey now?
Speaker 2: Amethyst is one of the best crystals for meditation, but
Speaker 2: so many other things I mean, it's called the all Healer,
Speaker 2: so it really does so many things. So there's a
Speaker 2: lot of fun things you can research and start to
Speaker 2: learn about your amethyst. But when it's in a cluster formation,
Speaker 2: it's even better because it's like all these little amethysts
Speaker 2: working together for each other and for you. So I
Speaker 2: would say that this is a sign, possibly from your guides,
Speaker 2: but I think it's also a sign from your higher
Speaker 2: self that you really are learning to trust yourself, to
Speaker 2: trust the innercompass within you, to trust your inner innate wisdom.
Speaker 2: And look what you can find when you listen to
Speaker 2: that still small voice within You can find a new
Speaker 2: crystal friend. So I think this is the sign really
Speaker 2: that it was telling you to listen to yourself. Now,
Speaker 2: whether you get a crystal from a thrift store or
Speaker 2: a brand new crystal store, it doesn't matter that crystal
Speaker 2: is old and it's been other places before it came
Speaker 2: to you, So you should always cleanse it physically and
Speaker 2: emotionally and spiritually. So you can check out some of
Speaker 2: our archive shows on cleaning crystals, but in general I
Speaker 2: would clean it emmet. This is pretty hearty, so you
Speaker 2: can definitely clean it under running water you can run
Speaker 2: it through some smudge. You can soak it in a
Speaker 2: bowl of rice and then you know, toss out the rice.
Speaker 2: You can do all sorts of wonderful things. You can
Speaker 2: use a crystal singing bowl to clean it. But yes,
Speaker 2: I would definitely physically clean it and then energetically clean
Speaker 2: it and then see how your relationship unfolds from there.
Speaker 1: Do you remember that broken piece of amethyst geode that
Speaker 1: any gave me years ago? Yeah? I love that stone
Speaker 1: and it lives on a table in my living room
Speaker 1: for exactly the reasons you've just mentioned. It's about healing,
Speaker 1: and it's about connection, and it's that amazing gift of
Speaker 1: connecting to our higher self, and just I love that.
Speaker 1: I love that particular rock a lot.
Speaker 2: Amethyst does a lot, but it has a very gentle energy.
Speaker 1: Yes, it does, it really does.
Speaker 2: It almost reminds me of rose quartz.
Speaker 1: Yes, although I think the healing content is different from amethyst.
Speaker 1: Between amethyst and rose quartz.
Speaker 2: Oh no, totally, I do. I agree with that. But
Speaker 2: I mean, you know how rose quarts kind of like
Speaker 2: it's like having almost like a spiritual hug. Yeah, your
Speaker 2: heart chakra. I feel like amethyst is like a spiritual
Speaker 2: hug for your third eye and crown chakra.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, we get a lot of questions from
Speaker 1: folks about, oh, I need a stune for protection and this,
Speaker 1: that and the other. And so when I tell people
Speaker 1: that on my deck is this rose quartz the size
Speaker 1: of a football, they say, ooh, I didn't know the
Speaker 1: rose quarts does protection. Well, that piece of rose quartz
Speaker 1: is on my port to generate and radiate love both
Speaker 1: inside and outside my house. So think about the various
Speaker 1: ways that stones work. And the laundry list of amethysts,
Speaker 1: for example, is long and all those wonderful things. But
Speaker 1: it's also important to really connect with it. One of
Speaker 1: the things that I think you and I would both
Speaker 1: recommend to this listener is visit after she cleans it.
Speaker 1: She spends some time just sitting with it, just holding it.
Speaker 1: Not necessarily to expect some kind of heat radiating in
Speaker 1: your body or all that stuff, although it may happen,
Speaker 1: but to just ask it to work with you, ask
Speaker 1: it to be a part of your life. Now that
Speaker 1: it's living with you, welcome it into your home.
Speaker 2: You have to give your crystals attention. Yep, you really
Speaker 2: really do. Michael came over to pick me up for
Speaker 2: dinner the other night, and I had all my crystals
Speaker 2: on my living room carpet and he walks it and
Speaker 2: he goes, oh, are you babysitting today? It looks like
Speaker 2: Show and Tell over here. And I was like, no,
Speaker 2: I was just, you know, having a moment with my crystals.
Speaker 2: But don't you just kind of get your little bull
Speaker 2: crystal sometimes and you're like, oh, who should I meditate
Speaker 2: with now? Who should I use in a grid now?
Speaker 2: Or who hasn't been front and center in a while.
Speaker 1: I do that a lot, absolutely, and I do that.
Speaker 1: I'll go through a period of time where it's the
Speaker 1: world is coming to an end if I don't clean
Speaker 1: every stone in this house at the same time. So
Speaker 1: I know that's going to be an all day event, right,
Speaker 1: And that's okay because as I handle each one, as
Speaker 1: I cleanse it, as I put it down to dry,
Speaker 1: if it's one that has been in water, I spend
Speaker 1: some time with it, with every single stone and say
Speaker 1: thank you. And then at the end of all of that,
Speaker 1: I will think, Okay, who needs who do I need
Speaker 1: in this point in time? And I don't have necessarily
Speaker 1: a preconceived notion of the answer of that. It's just
Speaker 1: a matter of trusting and I'll pull I don't know,
Speaker 1: spirit quarts, for example, and it's in my hand, and
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, you're going to come over here and
Speaker 1: sit on the table next to my meditation chair, and
Speaker 1: we're going to be together for a while, and I
Speaker 1: just trust when that happens.
Speaker 2: That's what I see. And that's like the other question.
Speaker 2: You just have to trust in this process.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, absolutely, Okay, let's move on. Okay, I will want
Speaker 1: to keep this short. So my question is, what is
Speaker 1: your opinion on alcohol? And I don't just mean us
Speaker 1: drinking it in regards to vibration, but I mean if
Speaker 1: someone in my case, me has a problem with alcohol,
Speaker 1: binge drinking, or alcoholism, what would you say about your
Speaker 1: soul contract? And I don't just mean us drinking it
Speaker 1: in regards to vibration, but I mean, if someone in
Speaker 1: my case, me has a problem with alcohol, binge drinking,
Speaker 1: or alcoholism, what would you say about your soul contract?
Speaker 1: Do you think that drinking alcohol can throw us off
Speaker 1: our contract? I just recently realized that if I keep
Speaker 1: going the way I've been going, I'll end up losing
Speaker 1: my husband or definitely causing issues that may not be reversible.
Speaker 1: Ever since I decided I don't want alcohol in my life,
Speaker 1: I felt so peaceful, like a weight lifting off my shoulders. Well,
Speaker 1: this is a good and really hard question. I know
Speaker 1: that Samantha and I both can't say enough about how
Speaker 1: important support is as someone is going through a withdrawal
Speaker 1: in their life from any kind of addictions. And so
Speaker 1: I'm a firm believer in alcoholics Anonymous, I know you
Speaker 1: are to Samantha. I'm also in favor of the ancillary
Speaker 1: organizations for your family members Alateine is it? What's the
Speaker 1: one for Alan? Alan On? For spouses and families. So
Speaker 1: I would urge you to get support from folks who
Speaker 1: are who have been through what you're going through. I
Speaker 1: think that for folks who don't have a problem with alcohol,
Speaker 1: I don't know that drinking is a problem in terms
Speaker 1: of metaphysics, but I will say this, I won't read
Speaker 1: for people who are drinking, and I never drink. If
Speaker 1: I'm doing any kind of metaphysical work, I just don't.
Speaker 1: I feel like I need all of the channels as
Speaker 1: clear as I can possibly get them. I know some
Speaker 1: years ago, back when I was doing those Halloween readings
Speaker 1: at a museum in town with Granny Jean. I've developed
Speaker 1: a nice relationship with lots of people who came to
Speaker 1: see me year after year, and one was a lovely
Speaker 1: young woman who then contacted me and asked me if
Speaker 1: I would read for her bachelorette party. And I'm not
Speaker 1: much on doing readings for parties in any case, but
Speaker 1: for her, I said, I will be happy to do that.
Speaker 1: If I come to the party and there's nothing on
Speaker 1: the table but soft drinks and m and ms and peanuts,
Speaker 1: and you'd all have not had a drop to drink
Speaker 1: until after I leave. She said, I promise that will
Speaker 1: be exactly what you will see, and they did. It
Speaker 1: was a nice, nice group of young women, and I
Speaker 1: had a lovely time, and they had a lovely time,
Speaker 1: and the readings were great, and there was no alcohol involved.
Speaker 1: And what they did after I left was entirely up
Speaker 1: to them. But we both were very committed to the
Speaker 1: idea that we were not going to have anything interfering
Speaker 1: with the channels of communication with spirit. And that's one
Speaker 1: of the things that alcohol does for me, at least,
Speaker 1: I would not.
Speaker 2: Oh, I completely agree. I just rewatched a documentary because
Speaker 2: I was getting ready to send it to students in
Speaker 2: my class. It's called Everyday Man or every Man colon Mediums.
Speaker 2: It's on Prime I think it's on YouTube as well,
Speaker 2: and it really really features Gordon Smith, who you know
Speaker 2: I just love and adore. And there's a seed where
Speaker 2: he and his adult son are going over like his
Speaker 2: schedule of readings, and he's smoking away and he's drinking
Speaker 2: coffee and he's worked all day. He's a barber and
Speaker 2: he's getting ready to do readings all night and the
Speaker 2: sun's the sun said something like do you want a
Speaker 2: beer or Dad? And he was like, no, no, not
Speaker 2: that before reading. And I'm thinking, okay, but caffeine and
Speaker 2: nicotine is good, but not not a beer.
Speaker 1: But I understand that because you know I used to smoke. Remember, Yes,
Speaker 1: I get that.
Speaker 2: No, I know. I just thought it was really funny.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I agree with everything you said. Deb I
Speaker 2: do not think that you should partake in alcohol or
Speaker 2: other mind altering substances before, during, before, or during any
Speaker 2: type of meditation or readings, whether you're giving the reading
Speaker 2: or receiving the reading. But in terms of the bigger
Speaker 2: part of her question and her struggle with alcoholism. I
Speaker 2: do think it is part of our soul plan when
Speaker 2: we have this type of struggle to go through. You know,
Speaker 2: each of us in our soul plan have chosen certain
Speaker 2: difficult circumstances that we have to face and deal with,
Speaker 2: and so this just might be your biggest one. I
Speaker 2: think it's I really do think addiction has got to
Speaker 2: be the biggest challenge that any soul can learn to
Speaker 2: deal with. I know, you know, for my dad, he
Speaker 2: entered AA in nineteen eighty six and he died what
Speaker 2: two years ago, three years ago. I tried not to
Speaker 2: think about it, and that was always his proudest accomplishment
Speaker 2: out of all the other wonderful things he accomplished, because
Speaker 2: it was so hard one, you know, and it wasn't like, ooh,
Speaker 2: I did that, what's next? It was every day. I
Speaker 2: really feel like every day it was a choice for him,
Speaker 2: and going to those beings every day was the choice
Speaker 2: he made. So you were right to have You've got it.
Speaker 2: You know. She has to find all of the support
Speaker 2: that that she can, and AA is a wonderful way
Speaker 2: to do it. And therapy is another wonderful way to
Speaker 2: do it. But I also think prayer is a way
Speaker 2: to do it as well, you know, because you've got
Speaker 2: to you've got to get to that rock bottom in
Speaker 2: order to really realize that giving giving this up is
Speaker 2: worth more than what you could lose, because you know,
Speaker 2: she says, I could lose my husband, I could cause
Speaker 2: issues that are irreversible. To come to that moment is
Speaker 2: amazing and huge and a miracle in and of itself.
Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, I would just like to ask anyone listening to
Speaker 2: this right now, wherever you are, whether you're listening to
Speaker 2: this a year from now or you know, six months
Speaker 2: from now, or right when it airs, just say a
Speaker 2: prayer to this listener. You don't have to know her name.
Speaker 2: All you have to do is say, please send love,
Speaker 2: blessings and support to this listener and anyone dealing with
Speaker 2: addiction issues. I really think that goes a lot.
Speaker 1: I do too. Thank you for offering that.
Speaker 2: Great Okay, our next one says, I wanted to tell
Speaker 2: you a story about my precious dog named Hawthorne. I
Speaker 2: had the privilege of adopting hawthee four years before he
Speaker 2: crossed to the other side. The moment I saw Hawthorne.
Speaker 2: It was love at first sight, and I always knew
Speaker 2: he was a magical soul. He loved mac and cheese.
Speaker 2: I love the idea of a dog scrambling got back
Speaker 2: in cheese. She says, this will be relevant. And he
Speaker 2: had beautiful, enormous moon eyes. People used to stop being
Speaker 2: on the street to tell me that my dog was
Speaker 2: staring directly into their souls. After helping Hawthorne pass, my
Speaker 2: friend and I came back to my house and had
Speaker 2: some leftover pizza. I like my pizza cold, but my
Speaker 2: friend likes her as warm, so I asked her if
Speaker 2: she wanted me to heat hers in the microwave, at
Speaker 2: which point she started to lament that she wished she
Speaker 2: could heat leftovers in her microwave, but hers was still broken,
Speaker 2: so I microwaved hers life. We sat on my couch crying,
Speaker 2: eating pizza, and talking about our Hathey. I told my
Speaker 2: friend I knew i'd get a sign from him, and
Speaker 2: I couldn't wait to see what it would be. During
Speaker 2: our conversation, my friend mentioned that she had bought frozen
Speaker 2: mac and cheese at the store the other day, something
Speaker 2: she never buys because again her microwave is broken, but
Speaker 2: something made her buy it, thinking maybe she could bring
Speaker 2: it to work and heat it up there. But now
Speaker 2: it was making her think of Hawthorn. I'm not kidding
Speaker 2: what I say. He loved mac and cheese. At that point,
Speaker 2: I said out loud, Hawthorne, did you hear that Dee
Speaker 2: has mac and cheese at home? If you fix her microwave,
Speaker 2: she will make it for you, and I will take
Speaker 2: this as my sign from you. Now, this was a
Speaker 2: total joke. The microwave had not worked for a year,
Speaker 2: despite my friend trying to run it and fix it
Speaker 2: every once in a while. So we laughed and said
Speaker 2: that if anyone could fix the microwave, it would be Hawthorn,
Speaker 2: and then we let it go. Later that night, my
Speaker 2: friend went home and facetimed me with a plate of
Speaker 2: her heated mac and cheese that she had made in
Speaker 2: her microwave, which was now somehow working. She ate some
Speaker 2: and of course left a plate out for Hawthorne under
Speaker 2: his picture in her house. It's January now and the
Speaker 2: microwave is still working. She uses it every day and
Speaker 2: thanks hawthy for every use. I've even gone over to
Speaker 2: try it myself. I have no doubt that Hawthorne fixed
Speaker 2: her microwave. He has sent me many more signs that
Speaker 2: are just as remarkable, but this one was his first
Speaker 2: and was so undeniably him.
Speaker 1: Wow, I love that.
Speaker 2: I know I do too.
Speaker 1: I love this, I do you know, Samantha. Remember there's
Speaker 1: a microwave in the house I live in, but I've
Speaker 1: never used it. I don't know how to use a microwave.
Speaker 1: Don't want to know how to use a microwave. It's
Speaker 1: a whole other thing.
Speaker 2: However, it's a whole thing people that Amazon and Walmart.
Speaker 2: Don't get her started on any of those.
Speaker 1: No, let's not go there. So in any case, but
Speaker 1: when I had my Merlin, he loved to ride in
Speaker 1: my camper with me. He loved it and his there
Speaker 1: was a I had a speaker, I mean, like an
Speaker 1: old fashioned and I don't they don't even make these anymore,
Speaker 1: like a stereo speaker that I was wedged between the
Speaker 1: two front seats, and I used it as a speaker
Speaker 1: when I was driving, and when I was camping, I
Speaker 1: turned it over and used it as a table. But
Speaker 1: Merlin's place was to perch on that speaker, and he
Speaker 1: would sit there with one with his left front paw
Speaker 1: on my shoulder and we'd go down the road and
Speaker 1: if this truck started doing something funky, I would say, Okay, Merlin,
Speaker 1: help me fix her. We can't afford to get her fixed,
Speaker 1: and he would pat my shoulder and the truck would
Speaker 1: stop making whatever funky noise it was. So so I
Speaker 1: do think that Merlin and miss p which was my
Speaker 1: camper's name, and I had this amazing bond. And the
Speaker 1: other piece of this that I loved so much is
Speaker 1: I understand the cheese thing. My Merlin would do anything
Speaker 1: I ask him to do for a piece of any
Speaker 1: kind of cheese, but cream cheese particularly. This cat would
Speaker 1: leap from the floor to my shoulder, shake hands, roll over,
Speaker 1: play dead, do all sorts of things anytime I ask
Speaker 1: him to do anything, as long as there was a
Speaker 1: piece of cheese at the end of the game. So
Speaker 1: I love that connection that she still has with her
Speaker 1: wonderful hawthorn. And I don't think that ever that connection
Speaker 1: ever completely goes away. I think they're kind of busy
Speaker 1: at helping other people on the other side as they
Speaker 1: helped us on this side. But I think that connection
Speaker 1: is always there with that very special four legged person.
Speaker 2: Well, before we go to brig, I have a little
Speaker 2: sad story to share. So you know, we're getting ready
Speaker 2: to move and my daughters are coming home soon to help,
Speaker 2: you know, with the final process and to say goodbye.
Speaker 2: And guess what they've requestedb would.
Speaker 1: You dig up the dead pets?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: I knew you were going to say that.
Speaker 2: Yep, I don't know how I'm going to do that.
Speaker 2: I planted little trees by them, so yeah, I'm going
Speaker 2: to have to bring them with us, and they and they,
Speaker 2: but one of them got really weepy and said, Lily's
Speaker 2: home is with us, so she has to come.
Speaker 1: Are they in boxes? Yes?
Speaker 2: Oh that's helpful, Yes, very hopeful. Okay, but I also
Speaker 2: wanted to share with everyone. When deb and I were
Speaker 2: recording last week, do you remember you heard the dog barking? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I played it back. It's not on the recording, so
Speaker 2: it was not a neighbor.
Speaker 1: There was clearly a dog barking on that recording from
Speaker 1: your house. Yeah, and it was the kind of bark
Speaker 1: that Lily used to do, or maybe even more Charlie.
Speaker 1: When you know Charlie would stand at the door and
Speaker 1: holler and whine and maybe sure, yeah, I may have
Speaker 1: been Charlie. No, okay's right, I'm not happy.
Speaker 2: Note let's take a quick break and we will be
Speaker 2: right back.
Speaker 1: Hi, folks, I have to tell you about this exciting
Speaker 1: new course I've got coming up in Ma. The course
Speaker 1: invites you to explore where you are on your metaphysical
Speaker 1: journey and how all of those various concepts come together
Speaker 1: and work together in some kind of consistent, systematic order.
Speaker 1: So it's a three session course entitled The Path to Yourself,
Speaker 1: Finding the Beginnings and making sense of it all. It
Speaker 1: invites you to figure out how to walk your path
Speaker 1: calmly and to be organized about it, and to be
Speaker 1: able to understand how all these different ideas raiki and
Speaker 1: crystals and past lives and sole purpose and energy and
Speaker 1: sacred geometry and all that stuff aren't just separate entities,
Speaker 1: but all have a connection and a systematic way of
Speaker 1: approaching them. So I hope you'll join me for that course.
Speaker 1: The details are on my website Deboen dot com. By
Speaker 1: zoom Afternoon section and Evening section available three intensive weeks
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Speaker 2: Sounds exciting and dev and I are getting ready to
Speaker 2: celebrate our anniversary. How many years will it be in.
Speaker 1: March fifteen, Samantha.
Speaker 2: Fifteen years of doing Psychic Teachers, And if we could
Speaker 2: have an imaginary drum world because I'm not very good
Speaker 2: with adding sound effects. Yet, we are going to have
Speaker 2: Joel on the show. I'm so excited because he was
Speaker 2: with us from the very beginning and so longtime listeners
Speaker 2: know that Joel used to pop on from time to
Speaker 2: time and share his love of crystals with us, and
Speaker 2: he's coming back on the show. So if you have
Speaker 2: a crystal question that you want him to address, just
Speaker 2: post it on our Facebook page or you can email
Speaker 2: us Psychic Teachers at gmail dot com. And as a reminder,
Speaker 2: in April, I will be in Charlotte, North Carolina at
Speaker 2: George Norri's Meet and Creep. I'm going to be on
Speaker 2: stage talking to him and I'm nervous, so to see
Speaker 2: any Psychic Teacher listeners in the audience would be a
Speaker 2: super great comfort. You can find out more about that
Speaker 2: at my website Samanthafay dot com. Anything else we should mention.
Speaker 1: I think not other than folks do go see Samantha
Speaker 1: and don't miss our anniversary show fifteen years. We have
Speaker 1: lots to talk.
Speaker 2: About, so yes, we do. It'll be exciting, okay.
Speaker 1: Our next one says, I was listening to psychic teachers
Speaker 1: while running some errands one weekend while my daughter was
Speaker 1: with her father. He and I have a yo yo relationship,
Speaker 1: up and down all the time. I'm convinced we have
Speaker 1: a karmic connection, and he is in my life on
Speaker 1: purpose and for a specific life lesson. Believe me, that
Speaker 1: man has taught me quite a lot about myself through
Speaker 1: our ups and downs. On the day I was already
Speaker 1: feeling down from a negative interaction with him after dropping
Speaker 1: off our daughter. One of your episodes in particular caught
Speaker 1: my interest. It was just discussing cord cutting, and by
Speaker 1: the end I was hooked on this topic and bought
Speaker 1: myself some black kai and I to perform cord cutting
Speaker 1: with my daughter's father. I love him and am thankful
Speaker 1: for all that he has taught me, but I was
Speaker 1: more than ready to release all the negativity between us
Speaker 1: so I can focus on the things that served me instead.
Speaker 1: I performed the chord cutting. It was incredibly cathartic. I
Speaker 1: felt so much lighter and was thankful for the perfect
Speaker 1: timing of that episode. But now I have a question.
Speaker 1: I pulled one to row card daily, and less than
Speaker 1: a week after the cord cutting, I pulled the two
Speaker 1: of cups three times in a week. First it was
Speaker 1: two days in a row, and then I got suspicious
Speaker 1: I was doing something wrong, so I shuffled extra well
Speaker 1: every day. I shuffled a little longer than I used to,
Speaker 1: and three days later I pulled the two of cups again.
Speaker 1: This is a card that usually refers to romantic relationships.
Speaker 1: I just cut the cord between me and my so
Speaker 1: I know it's not about that, and I definitely don't
Speaker 1: want a new relationship. Yet I couldn't figure out what
Speaker 1: it meant was under to understand, so I turned to research.
Speaker 1: I haven't found too many sources of information not related
Speaker 1: to romantic relationships, so I'm curious. Is it possible this
Speaker 1: card could be telling me to work on loving myself
Speaker 1: more and doing more inner work. I love it when
Speaker 1: people answer their own questions.
Speaker 2: Make start so easy.
Speaker 1: Well, absolutely, there you go, that's it we're doing. No,
Speaker 1: let me give some detail. I don't mean to be facetious.
Speaker 1: That's one of the things that happens inter row very
Speaker 1: often is that the card that face value means X,
Speaker 1: and therefore that's what the card means. That is so
Speaker 1: not the case with the two of Cups. The cups
Speaker 1: is about emotion. It is indeed about emotions, and it's
Speaker 1: about finding the inner parts of ourselves and loving all
Speaker 1: of who we are. Each of us is way more
Speaker 1: than just a particular adjective, So think in terms of
Speaker 1: finding a deeper relationship with oneself, and that's exactly what
Speaker 1: that card means. Two is the number of duality. So
Speaker 1: it's about looking at those various aspects of ourselves, the
Speaker 1: good and not so good, and the parts of us
Speaker 1: that we show to the world and the parts of
Speaker 1: us that we do not show to the world. For example,
Speaker 1: when I do a numerology reading, I talk about your
Speaker 1: heart number, that number that's connected to who you are internally,
Speaker 1: and your personality number, which is connected to who you
Speaker 1: are out into the world. So all of us have
Speaker 1: these various aspects of ourselves, and the two of Cups
Speaker 1: invites us to spend time getting to know ourselves better
Speaker 1: and being more deeply connected to ourselves in lots of
Speaker 1: different ways. So yes, your sentence at the end is
Speaker 1: the bottom line answer to the question that you have asked.
Speaker 1: I also invite you to take a look at eden
Speaker 1: Gray's book from the early seventies. It's old and it
Speaker 1: is still one of the classics in to row work.
Speaker 1: It's called The Complete Guide to Touro by Eden Gray's
Speaker 1: from the early nineteen seventies, and it's the book I
Speaker 1: used to teach from, so it's got lots of really
Speaker 1: good information. I also want to point out something about
Speaker 1: cord cutting the way. Let me see if I can
Speaker 1: find the sentence that she wrote here. I performed the
Speaker 1: chord cutting. It was incredibly cathartic, and that's wonderful. But
Speaker 1: you were just ready to release the negativity between you. Well,
Speaker 1: there's more than that. So when we really do a
Speaker 1: deep cord cutting, we cut the chord. It's not just
Speaker 1: about one aspect of a relationship. It's about the whole thing.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes cord cutting has to be done more
Speaker 1: than once. I think, Samantha, do you have a take
Speaker 1: on that as well as the truth conversation?
Speaker 2: Yes, and I kind of agree and disagree with you respectfully.
Speaker 2: I think that you can cut the negative aspects of
Speaker 2: a chord, because when you create life with someone, there's
Speaker 2: always going to be a.
Speaker 1: Chord there, exactly. No, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 2: So I don't think she should cut the whole chord.
Speaker 2: I think we have different types of chords with people
Speaker 2: in our lives, and some are loving and some are
Speaker 2: not so loving. And I think she cut the not
Speaker 2: so loving one. And I think that the two of
Speaker 2: Cops is telling her that even though she's cut these
Speaker 2: negative connotations with her yo yo relationship with this this gentleman,
Speaker 2: there's still love there, and not romantic love, but just
Speaker 2: love of their child and love of the union that
Speaker 2: created this beautiful person into the world. And so I
Speaker 2: agree with you that that card keeps showing up because
Speaker 2: it's saying like, yeah, now it's time to work on
Speaker 2: healing and loving yourself and doing inner work, but also
Speaker 2: in reframing the way you love this person. It's not
Speaker 2: a romantic love, but you're always going to be connected
Speaker 2: and love this person in a different way.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you know what I mean? Like I do.
Speaker 2: There's just different like Okay. So the other week, we
Speaker 2: took Michael's son to this concert that he loves this
Speaker 2: music and he and Michael were having so much fun
Speaker 2: and I just I took a picture of them and
Speaker 2: that moment of like, Oh, this is great, we're here
Speaker 2: together and we love this music. And I asked Michael
Speaker 2: for his ex wife's phone number so I could share
Speaker 2: the photo with her because I really would like us
Speaker 2: to be friends. I think she's a wonderful person. I
Speaker 2: think she's a fantastic mom, and I would like to
Speaker 2: be able to share that type of stuff going forward.
Speaker 2: And so I did, and she was super kind and
Speaker 2: receptive to it. And I told my kids and they
Speaker 2: were like, Mom, you're so weird. That's so inappropriate. Why
Speaker 2: does she want a picture of her ex husband hanging
Speaker 2: out with And I was like, but that's what love
Speaker 2: is like. Would you have a family and you have children,
Speaker 2: even if the marriage doesn't work out, there's still there's
Speaker 2: still love there. It's just a different type of love,
Speaker 2: and it's it's an inclusive love that can expand to
Speaker 2: include new people as well. And I think that's what
Speaker 2: the Cups is about. These two people coming together are
Speaker 2: representing all the love, past, present and future within those
Speaker 2: two people.
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, and in a perfect world,
Speaker 1: Oh your exes would not live in Texas, but they
Speaker 1: would all be friends with each other. And I think
Speaker 1: that's certainly a gul to strive for. But I also
Speaker 1: think that one of the ways we get there, and
Speaker 1: then I'll put pounding on this, one of the ways
Speaker 1: we get there in that relationship with other people, and
Speaker 1: the duality of how that might morphin evolve is to
Speaker 1: find that balance within ourselves. Remember that's one of the
Speaker 1: hallmark teachings of teruro is how to find balance in
Speaker 1: our lives. And if you look at those two intertwining
Speaker 1: figures there in the two of cups, you see that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so true. Are you calling me a Pollyanna again?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: I thought so. Darn it nicely, though you did do
Speaker 2: it very nicely. I appreciate that. Our Dixwood says, I've
Speaker 2: begun to work more with connecting with my guides, doing
Speaker 2: some mediumship work, and find my energy gets zapped. Afterwards,
Speaker 2: I find it get refueled by reconnecting with what makes
Speaker 2: me happy. It refuels my spiritual tank. Why does this occur? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: I can tell you why this occurs because I've experienced too.
Speaker 2: So it's so lovely to be able to do a meditation,
Speaker 2: to do mediumship work to connect with your guides. It
Speaker 2: feels amazing, but afterwards it can tank your energy. And
Speaker 2: I think that's because we exist in this world at
Speaker 2: a certain regulatory vibration field. Everything is energy. We're always
Speaker 2: vibrating all of the time. But when we are meditating
Speaker 2: to connect with our guides and loved ones on the
Speaker 2: other side, which is what's involved in mediumship work, we
Speaker 2: have to lived and raise our vibrations so much higher
Speaker 2: than our energy is used to. So it's like, you know,
Speaker 2: you might enjoy every day jogging around your neighborhood and
Speaker 2: you feel great and it refuels you because that makes
Speaker 2: you happy. But after you do a marathon, it feels great.
Speaker 2: You know, you trained, you did it, you ran the marathon,
Speaker 2: but afterwards you're zapt of all energy because it's not
Speaker 2: something you're used to. So the more you do work
Speaker 2: to connect with your guides, the more mediumship work you do,
Speaker 2: the more use you're going to get to living and
Speaker 2: existing at that high vibratory field. But it's going to
Speaker 2: take some time, so your energy is going to be
Speaker 2: a little bit sapped afterwards, and that's okay. You just
Speaker 2: have to recognize that and plan for it. Make sure
Speaker 2: a lot of people will eat a heavy meal after
Speaker 2: they do some medium shipwork, or they'll do some grounding,
Speaker 2: or they'll just kind of put their hands in the earth,
Speaker 2: you know, do some gardening or pull some weeds, anything
Speaker 2: that kind of refills your energy and grounds you. So
Speaker 2: I would just say keep doing it. It's it's a
Speaker 2: good thing. It's not a bad thing that your energy
Speaker 2: is zapped afterwards. And you'll notice as you strengthen that
Speaker 2: intuitive muscle, like any muscle in our body, it gets
Speaker 2: easier and easier with time.
Speaker 1: I don't think I have anything to add to that.
Speaker 2: Good That means we agree on that one, Okay.
Speaker 1: Our next one is fairly long, and it says my
Speaker 1: dad as late stages of Parkinson's, which also targets his
Speaker 1: brain and nervous system. He is an amazing person, always
Speaker 1: doing everything for others, and even now tries to apologize
Speaker 1: for being sick. Our hearts are breaking. I feel I
Speaker 1: am able to somewhat be a source of light in
Speaker 1: this dire situation from listening to you both, and have
Speaker 1: used some of your practical tips shared in earlier episodes
Speaker 1: for example, bringing magazines, taking care of his physical needs
Speaker 1: as much as humanly possible. He has beautiful images of
Speaker 1: Mother Mary, Jesus and Saint Francis around him, which offer
Speaker 1: comfort as he's very religious. But I'd love to know
Speaker 1: if there's more I can do spiritually. Here are my questions.
Speaker 1: I'm hoping you can provide guidance and ideas on what
Speaker 1: can be done spiritually for loved ones and palliative and
Speaker 1: hospice care. I usually pray and ask for my dad
Speaker 1: to be surrounded by feelings of love, kindness, and happy energy.
Speaker 1: I also ask for guidance to be able to clearly
Speaker 1: see what I can do to help the situation. I
Speaker 1: feel this has helped with his physical needs somewhat. When
Speaker 1: I enter, I visit his room full of loving energy
Speaker 1: and happiness. After I leave, it's like getting hit by
Speaker 1: a truck of emotions. My dreams are relentless, night after night.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to help Dad, but he remains unable to
Speaker 1: speak clearly in his weak I am learning reiki, but
Speaker 1: worry my training classes will be too late to be helpful.
Speaker 1: I would like to call upon loved ones who have
Speaker 1: pasked to be present and offer comfort if they are able,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to invite in anything unpleasant. Accidentally,
Speaker 1: I also feel called to make a crystal grid on
Speaker 1: a happy picture of dad, but I don't inadvertently want
Speaker 1: to make things worse. I love your thoughts on this,
Speaker 1: and if you could please share any ideas or spiritual
Speaker 1: tips that might be useful during this difficult time, it
Speaker 1: would be very much appreciated. First of all, let me
Speaker 1: say I know I speak for Samantha two when we
Speaker 1: say how very sorry that you and your family are
Speaker 1: going through this and that your dad is living this.
Speaker 1: I know I have friends whose father's story is very
Speaker 1: similar to what you're describing here, and it is indeed
Speaker 1: a very difficult time. I know that I would say
Speaker 1: that you are doing so much so right. That is
Speaker 1: so helpful to him, and I hope to yourself, because
Speaker 1: part of being supportive and caring for someone with a
Speaker 1: long term illness like this is that you also have
Speaker 1: to take for your care of yourself. My grandma used
Speaker 1: to say you can't give from an empty well, and
Speaker 1: she was absolutely right. You have to take time to
Speaker 1: replenish and take care of your energy. Your comment about
Speaker 1: feeling like you've been hit by a truck. I get that,
Speaker 1: and so what you have to do then go home
Speaker 1: and take care of yourself, absent salts, bats and meditation
Speaker 1: and get massages for yourself, do things that take care
Speaker 1: of you so that you're in a place to be
Speaker 1: able to take care of him. And it sounds like
Speaker 1: perhaps some of the rest of your family as well.
Speaker 1: The energy that you take into that room when you
Speaker 1: visit him is absolutely lovely and wonderful. Keep doing what
Speaker 1: you're doing, Keep doing what you're doing. So month, I'll
Speaker 1: have to speak to the reiki thing other than for
Speaker 1: me to say that your presence itself, your love itself,
Speaker 1: is as healing as any reiki you can ever do.
Speaker 1: And that's my opinion. In terms of making a crystal grid,
Speaker 1: you can't do it wrong. Do what you want, do
Speaker 1: what feels right to you. There's nothing wrong about it.
Speaker 1: You're certainly not going to invite in or allow any negativity.
Speaker 1: If you're calling on Mary and Jesus and the saints
Speaker 1: and certainly angels, I would assume it's probably in that
Speaker 1: list as well. For you, whatever it is, doing it right.
Speaker 1: When my mother lived in a nursing home and She
Speaker 1: didn't want much to hear about my beliefs and my
Speaker 1: view of the world. So I knew that if I
Speaker 1: took crystals or something to her, that she wasn't going
Speaker 1: to be much into that. So I had a small
Speaker 1: piece of clear quartz, and that one side of it
Speaker 1: had an indentation in it, like the perfect place to
Speaker 1: put your finger your thumb. So I took it to
Speaker 1: her and I said, Mama, this is a worry stone.
Speaker 1: Why don't you keep it by your bed so it
Speaker 1: gives you something to fidget with if you're feeling anxious.
Speaker 1: She accepted it with that language, and it was still
Speaker 1: in her little bedside table when she died, and I
Speaker 1: brought it home, and now I had it back. Another
Speaker 1: friend and I who he's a musician, and so is
Speaker 1: a friend of ours who was in hospice care as
Speaker 1: he was dying. We went and sang to him. I
Speaker 1: did something the only time I played a guitar in
Speaker 1: any close to public in many years, And I sat
Speaker 1: next to my friend's bed and held my friend's other
Speaker 1: friend's guitar and sang to him. And we could see
Speaker 1: in the way his body shifted that he could hear
Speaker 1: us and that that was comforting and helpful to him,
Speaker 1: and that he was enjoying us being there. So what
Speaker 1: I'm really telling you is that your presence, your intentions,
Speaker 1: the energy that you're feeling is exactly what needs to
Speaker 1: be there for him and for you, and that your
Speaker 1: father's time to be here and then his time to
Speaker 1: transition will be as it's meant to be. And uncomfortable
Speaker 1: and as painful as that is, I think it's very true.
Speaker 1: And I think that you will certainly be able to
Speaker 1: look back on this time and say you did all
Speaker 1: the right things. And I certainly believe you have.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do too. It's never easy. There's no easy
Speaker 2: answer to this. There's no easy way to go through this.
Speaker 2: There's not a crystal that's going to make it better.
Speaker 2: There's not a reiky hand position that's going to heal it.
Speaker 2: It's a difficult thing. But I think you are doing
Speaker 2: all of the right things. And just to echo what
Speaker 2: deb said, there's no wrong way to do any of this.
Speaker 2: You're not going to invite anything negative in because you're
Speaker 2: doing it from a pure place of total and unconditional love.
Speaker 2: And keep in mind that whenever we are dealing with
Speaker 2: something like Alzheimer's or Parkinson's. What we've been shown in
Speaker 2: the readings we've done is that you have one foot
Speaker 2: on this side and one foot on that side. So
Speaker 2: anytime you can spend with your father, even if he's
Speaker 2: not cognizant of it, his soul is. So what I
Speaker 2: used to do a lot when I would visit my
Speaker 2: dad is I would just talk to him incessantly, and
Speaker 2: I would just tell him all the wonderful things he did,
Speaker 2: all the wonderful attributes of you know, what made him
Speaker 2: such a good man and father, and I would go
Speaker 2: over and over and over all my favorite memories. I'm
Speaker 2: sure it was more for me, but I know he
Speaker 2: felt it too, even though at that time he didn't
Speaker 2: really know who I was. But it was very, very
Speaker 2: comforting to me, and I think it was to him
Speaker 2: as well. When I opened up to my mediumship, you know,
Speaker 2: my dad was, you know, interested, but kind of like, huh.
Speaker 2: He didn't really know what to make of it, and
Speaker 2: no one in his family ever really came through except
Speaker 2: his mom, and he was very happy to hear from
Speaker 2: her once he got into the throes of Alzheimer's. Though
Speaker 2: his father showed up his childhood dog showed up, and
Speaker 2: you know, Dad, in some of his lucid moments, would
Speaker 2: be like okay. And then I knew he was named
Speaker 2: after his uncle Tom, but I didn't. My dad didn't
Speaker 2: talk about his family a lot, so I didn't know.
Speaker 2: Was that his mom's brother. Was that his dad's brother.
Speaker 2: I didn't know. And I remember when we had to
Speaker 2: make the decision to put him into the memory care facility,
Speaker 2: it was just it was just, you know, obviously very
Speaker 2: very difficult. But I saw this man in an Air
Speaker 2: Force uniform and he kept saying I got him, I
Speaker 2: got him. And I told my mom and she was like, oh,
Speaker 2: that's his uncle Tom, and I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: didn't know he was. She was like, why do you
Speaker 2: think dad went into the Air Force, Like, you know,
Speaker 2: he loved his uncle Tom. I had no idea. So
Speaker 2: that was very validating for me. And then I'm sure
Speaker 2: you guys heard me tell the stories of how, in
Speaker 2: rare lucid moments, my dad talked about having dreams where
Speaker 2: his dad and his childhood dog would show up in
Speaker 2: his room in that memory care unit and try to
Speaker 2: get him to go up the stairs, which I think
Speaker 2: was euphemism for through the light. So just know that
Speaker 2: I've seen firsthand that all of their loved ones are
Speaker 2: around them, not just when they pass. I'm talking in
Speaker 2: the months and the years leading up. They're not alone
Speaker 2: through this illness ever ever. I've seen it, I've witnessed it.
Speaker 2: I've felt it time and time and time again. So
Speaker 2: your dad is in good hands here, and he's in
Speaker 2: good hands there. He's got loved ones all over, including you,
Speaker 2: And so you're doing the right thing, and we will
Speaker 2: continue to keep you in our prayers. It's a hard one,
Speaker 2: isn't it.
Speaker 1: It is it is you will certainly be in our prayers. Absolutely.
Speaker 2: Let's move on to crystals. Okay, this one says I
Speaker 2: was wondering if either of you have had any experience
Speaker 2: with moldivite and have any recommendations for working with it. Yes,
Speaker 2: I think you've come to the right place. Moldivite is
Speaker 2: a tech tite. It's a type of glass formed from
Speaker 2: meteorite impacts, and it's believed that it was created around
Speaker 2: the fifteen million years ago when a meteor struck the
Speaker 2: Earth and what is now the Czech Republic. The impact
Speaker 2: caused high pressure heat, fusing the Earth's surface materials with
Speaker 2: this extra t restural debris, which solidified into the unique
Speaker 2: glass that we now know as moldivite. The Celts are
Speaker 2: believed to have used moldivite in amulets and jewelry. Because
Speaker 2: of its beautiful green color and its mystical allure, it's
Speaker 2: often called a stone of transformation. It helps accelerate personal
Speaker 2: growth and spiritual evolution, allowing you to move through significant
Speaker 2: life changes, and many people who work with moltivite report
Speaker 2: rapid shifts and consciousness, self awareness, and personal development. It
Speaker 2: helps facilitate connections with higher realms, enhances clairvoyance, psychic abilities,
Speaker 2: and communication with spirit guides. In meditation, it helps open
Speaker 2: up pathways for deeper spiritual experiences. Many report having increased
Speaker 2: synchronicities and signs from the universe, as well as more
Speaker 2: powerful manifestations when setting intentions because it's said to help
Speaker 2: amplify those intentions and desires. But because of its extremely
Speaker 2: high vibrational energy, it can be overwhelming for some people,
Speaker 2: especially people who aren't used to working with high vibing stones,
Speaker 2: so you might experience some physical sensations like dizziness or headaches.
Speaker 2: Because it's associated with rapid transformation. It can trigger deep
Speaker 2: emotional healing or allow unresolved trauma to the surface. And
Speaker 2: of course, you know, while this is a part of
Speaker 2: the healing process, it might be overwhelming if you're not
Speaker 2: prepared for it. So you might want to consider using
Speaker 2: moltivite in small doses or for sure, definitely strongly ground
Speaker 2: yourself before and after you work with moldivite, especially if
Speaker 2: you're using it for meditation. Some people find that they
Speaker 2: experience like energetic imbalances or feelings of being kind of
Speaker 2: unanchored or unmoored after a prolonged use of moltivte without
Speaker 2: using grounding techniques. So again, start with short sessions or
Speaker 2: wearing it for brief periods and see how it affects you.
Speaker 2: But it is a powerful stone, for.
Speaker 1: Sure, you know. Samantha, many years ago, and I mean
Speaker 1: like more than twenty years ago, I was looking for
Speaker 1: a pendulum, and I was in a store and Boulder,
Speaker 1: and I was testing out a bunch of pendulums. And
Speaker 1: when I put a pendulum, the pendulum itself was made
Speaker 1: of rutilated quartz. The handle of the pendulum was moldivit
Speaker 1: and everything changed The energy and the connection that I
Speaker 1: had with that pendulum was then and is still to day,
Speaker 1: absolutely amazing. And I know it's partly, of course, the
Speaker 1: quartz itself and the work that the rutlated courtz does,
Speaker 1: but there's also all that wonderful energy and connection that
Speaker 1: I have with the pendulum handle of moldivit itself. I
Speaker 1: never had any negative reactions to working with the stone,
Speaker 1: but it's not something that I wore around my neck
Speaker 1: or kept on my body. Were close, so I don't
Speaker 1: know if that would have been different. But I am
Speaker 1: very grateful for the work that Moldidite does and that
Speaker 1: it was willing to do some of that work with me.
Speaker 2: I did. I found remember that crystal story you and
Speaker 2: I liked in South Carolina.
Speaker 1: I do, which is being remodeled by the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's changing, for sure, But back then they used
Speaker 2: to a lot of the workers would work with the
Speaker 2: stones themselves and put them into their own jewelry molds
Speaker 2: and wiring. And this lovely young man had taken this
Speaker 2: beautiful piece of mold device and had wired it to
Speaker 2: it in a necklace formation in such a way that
Speaker 2: no matter where I wear it, it looks like he
Speaker 2: formed it so that the wire looks like a person
Speaker 2: hugging the moldivite. And I just loved that so much,
Speaker 2: so I bought the stone, and it took me a
Speaker 2: while to be able to wear it all day. Now
Speaker 2: I can't. I've never had a reaction like that to
Speaker 2: a crystal except Herkimer diamond. I remember the first time
Speaker 2: Herkimer diamond made me feel a little unmoored as well.
Speaker 2: But as I started really working with energetic vibrations and
Speaker 2: practicing daily grounding techniques, now I can wear my moultivite
Speaker 2: all day long, but it can take some time. It's
Speaker 2: a powerful.
Speaker 1: Stone, yeah, it is. It absolutely is. Well.
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