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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to Psychic Teachers.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm your host, Dev Bowen, and I'm Samantha Fay, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We're so excited that you were with us with one

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<v Speaker 1>of our all time favorite episodes. We're talking about your

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<v Speaker 1>questions and so we hope it's safe for you to do. So.

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<v Speaker 1>Sit back with a cup of tea and let's get started.

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<v Speaker 2>Samantha, Okay, I don't think we have as many sign

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<v Speaker 2>stories this month, so we're gonna have to read through

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<v Speaker 2>these and see if we can gleam a theme. Remember

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<v Speaker 2>last month we were saying there's like always a theme.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it. We'll see what happens with these this month.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Our first one says I wanted to share with

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<v Speaker 2>you both a dream I had a few months ago

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<v Speaker 2>in which Samantha appeared. I was walking through the streets

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<v Speaker 2>of what looked like a medieval town, similar to the

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<v Speaker 2>ones that appeared in old fashioned fairy tale books. There

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<v Speaker 2>were a lot of people in the streets. As they

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<v Speaker 2>kept walking, I spotted Samantha standing in near proximity to

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<v Speaker 2>me and smiling at me. I was very surprised, and

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<v Speaker 2>I said to myself, oh MG, am I going to

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<v Speaker 2>get a reading from Samantha Fay. Samantha Cavern stood next

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<v Speaker 2>to me and said, Viviana, your mom is telling me

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<v Speaker 2>that there is a song you really like. Can you

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<v Speaker 2>tell me which one it is. I hesitated to answer

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<v Speaker 2>and thought to myself, Gosh, I like a lot of songs.

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<v Speaker 2>What if I tell Samantha the wrong woman. Then this

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<v Speaker 2>Mexican song from the late fifties that both my mom

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<v Speaker 2>and my grandmother used to play a lot when I

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<v Speaker 2>was young came into my head. A few seconds later,

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<v Speaker 2>the song started playing for everyone in the place where

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<v Speaker 2>we were. The name of the song is Bonita, which

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<v Speaker 2>means pretty in Spanish. Samantha, you looked at me with

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<v Speaker 2>a big smile and said, yes, that's the song. We

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<v Speaker 2>continued walking along the little streets of the town, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I asked Samittha if my mom was okay wherever

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<v Speaker 2>she was. You then stopped walking and looked at me

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<v Speaker 2>and said, yes, she's doing great. I then woke up

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<v Speaker 2>with tears in my eyes. My mom passed away seven

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<v Speaker 2>years ago, very suddenly, from an aggressive form of leukemia.

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<v Speaker 2>My sister and I both had a very difficult relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with her because she was a very difficult and complex

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<v Speaker 2>person to be around, and she could be at times

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<v Speaker 2>very fluctuating in her mood. I really struggled with the

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<v Speaker 2>grieving process as I felt angry and sad for many years.

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<v Speaker 2>This dream brought me so much peace and gratitude that

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<v Speaker 2>I can honestly say I am in a completely different

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<v Speaker 2>place regarding her passing now, and I believe this dream

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<v Speaker 2>was very important in assisting me with this shift. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to say thank you ladies for the amazing job

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<v Speaker 2>you guys do sharing knowledge to all the people that

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<v Speaker 2>listened to your podcast. And I want to end by

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<v Speaker 2>saying to Smytha, I love your books. I have both

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<v Speaker 2>an audible and I'm currently listening to The Awake Dreamer

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<v Speaker 2>for the second time. May you both continue to be

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<v Speaker 2>blessing successful in your endeavors.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that is such a very cool dream experience. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, uh huh, I'm not gonna call it a

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<v Speaker 2>dream experience. That is such a cool soul travel experience

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't know a lot. A lot stands out

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<v Speaker 2>to me. First of all, I was just talking over

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<v Speaker 2>the holidays to my kids about like my idea of heaven,

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<v Speaker 2>and I do describe it like an old fashioned fairy tale,

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<v Speaker 2>like little cottages and like a medieval town. You and

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<v Speaker 2>I have talked about that, deb, haven't we We have? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So I just think that's interesting that she saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's interesting that I said to her in

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<v Speaker 2>the dream, you know about the favorite songs, Like if

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<v Speaker 2>I were actually doing a reading, can you imagine, deab

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<v Speaker 2>if I was like, I have your mom here and

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<v Speaker 2>she's telling me your favorite song, can you tell me

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<v Speaker 2>what that is?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the way it works.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's the way it works, but I

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<v Speaker 2>love that in this experience she came up with, you know, bonita,

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<v Speaker 2>which means pretty. I think that's like such a beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>message from her mom that she's beautiful, that our listener

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<v Speaker 2>is beautiful, and that all all is working out beautifully.

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<v Speaker 2>And finally, the fact that she had a difficult relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with her mother, and I'm the one she saw in

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<v Speaker 2>the dream who had a difficult relationship with my mom,

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<v Speaker 2>and not you, Deb, who had a great relationship with

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<v Speaker 2>your mom. Like, isn't that interesting?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? It is. And I want to add a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of thanks to your comments and the comments that she

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<v Speaker 1>made in her story to us. One is exactly I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to say. Exactly what you said is you

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<v Speaker 1>know she has the capability to do this on her own.

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<v Speaker 1>She really didn't need you. She knew the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the song, she knew the message, and what her subconscious

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<v Speaker 1>did I think was invited you in as kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a safety net for her to explore what she really

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<v Speaker 1>already knew. The other thing that I would say about

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<v Speaker 1>this is so many folks send us emails about grief

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<v Speaker 1>and what that means in their lives in a variety

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<v Speaker 1>of ways. And one thing that I really want folks

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<v Speaker 1>to hear is that there's no right or wrong way

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<v Speaker 1>to grieve. There are no rules about grieving. There's no

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<v Speaker 1>time limit on grief and grieving someone that you should

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<v Speaker 1>be grieving and I use that word in quotes, and

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<v Speaker 1>that you wish things had been different about but yet

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship was for whatever reason, tumultuous or whatever. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no guilt involved in that. Don't do that to yourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>It is simply what it is. And now you have

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity when the person is gone, to examine you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about them and what you would really like for

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<v Speaker 1>them to know about how you feel now and all

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<v Speaker 1>of those things are perfectly okay and acceptable.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's so beautifully said Dev. You're absolutely right. And

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<v Speaker 2>to listeners who have reached out to us and said, gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>you always are reading emails from people who have dream

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<v Speaker 2>visitations or signs from their loved ones. You know, my parent,

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<v Speaker 2>my brother, my pet has been gone for this along,

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<v Speaker 2>haven't heard anything. Please take comfort. This listener has been

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with this complicated degree for seven years. True story

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<v Speaker 2>finally had this great dream experience from her mom.

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<v Speaker 1>And think about Grandy Jean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I saw partying deb The party is not over.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not popping in to see you yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but it hurts my heart. I just assumed

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<v Speaker 1>she would show up and she has not. She's talked

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<v Speaker 1>to other people at sending me messages, lots of them

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<v Speaker 1>you all know about, but nada, you know. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get I get that feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, let me move us on.

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<v Speaker 2>This.

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<v Speaker 1>Next person says, I really enjoy to row an oracle

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<v Speaker 1>decks and only read for myself. When I draw cards.

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<v Speaker 1>I only lay out three to four to row cards

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<v Speaker 1>and a single oracle cards. I never do a specific spread.

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<v Speaker 1>I just draw and see what comes up. I'm resistant

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<v Speaker 1>to doing a specific spread, as I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>how the cards know where to position themselves when I

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<v Speaker 1>draw them. Do I think about it spread while I'm shuffling.

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<v Speaker 1>In addition to my question, I'm curious to know how

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<v Speaker 1>all of this works together and how I should do it.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of your questions are questions that we address

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<v Speaker 1>in my Unlocking the Mysteries of to Row course that

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<v Speaker 1>I teach periodically. I just finished one, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure when there's another one coming. You know, there is

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<v Speaker 1>many ways to lay out cards, as there are people

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<v Speaker 1>who lay them out, and I don't know that there

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<v Speaker 1>are specific rules. There are some traditional guidelines, and just

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<v Speaker 1>doing random layouts of three or four cards it's certainly

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<v Speaker 1>one way you can do that. There's a vast difference

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<v Speaker 1>between Toro cards and oracle cards that have very different

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<v Speaker 1>intents and very different connections to energy. So I would

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<v Speaker 1>simply say to you, if this feels like it's working

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and you're getting the information that you think

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<v Speaker 1>you are seeking answered, then do what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 2>There's something about this question that reminds me of how

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be before I really understood intuition and

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<v Speaker 2>Basically that was me trying to understand and overthink it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like a part of what she needs

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<v Speaker 2>to do is surrender and trust that the cards know

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<v Speaker 2>where to position themselves when you draw them. That that's

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<v Speaker 2>the magic and mystery of Touro.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the magic and mystery of Too. And for

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<v Speaker 1>folks who have taken my classes, they have heard me

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<v Speaker 1>say one hundred times, it isn't about me. It isn't

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<v Speaker 1>about me as the reader. I need to get me

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<v Speaker 1>and my ego out of the way and trust to Row.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's if there's one thing in the world I trust,

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<v Speaker 1>it is the energy of to Roe to know and

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<v Speaker 1>do and say what needs to be shared exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Deb Is it pouring where you are? No, it is

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<v Speaker 2>p pouring rain. I'm looking out the window. It is

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<v Speaker 2>pouring rain, and I've got my little cup of Holy

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<v Speaker 2>beaesel tea. I feel like we really are virtually around

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<v Speaker 2>a kitchen table.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I have a cup of coffee, so here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Our next one says, last week, on my day off,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a few appointments and some running around to

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<v Speaker 2>do in the valley, the urban area where I live.

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<v Speaker 2>We live in a very rural area, and I usually

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<v Speaker 2>try to avoid the valley as I'm not a fan

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<v Speaker 2>of the hustle and bustle. I'd finished with my appointments

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<v Speaker 2>and was on the road home when I had the

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<v Speaker 2>urge to make one more stop at a local goodwill store.

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<v Speaker 2>This isn't normal for me. I'm not a shopper and

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<v Speaker 2>I usually just want to get back home. I walked

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<v Speaker 2>into the store not quite sure what I was looking

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<v Speaker 2>for or where to start looking. I just knew I

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<v Speaker 2>needed to stop. I wandered over to the home goods section.

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<v Speaker 2>As I was browsing the first shelf, a thought popped

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<v Speaker 2>into my mind, maybe I'll find a crystal or a rock.

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<v Speaker 2>And as I made my way to the next shelf

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<v Speaker 2>of trinkets, home goods and gadgets, there it was the

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<v Speaker 2>most beautiful raw amethyst cluster. I knew that I was

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<v Speaker 2>meant to find that amethyst, but I am unsure of why.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a sign from my guides? Was I drawn

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<v Speaker 2>to find it because I needed it? Any insights you

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<v Speaker 2>have would be so appreciated. Also, being that my beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>amethyst came from a thrift fine, should I be concerned

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<v Speaker 2>about cleaning it okay, all great questions.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>We also had a question come in. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 2>if it's in today's list of questions or not, but

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<v Speaker 2>someone was asking, how do you find your personal crystal?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you know what crystal should be like your

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<v Speaker 2>meditation crystal or your working crystal. This is one of

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<v Speaker 2>those ways when you feel that pull because here she

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<v Speaker 2>is out shopping, she just wants to go home. She

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<v Speaker 2>gets a thought to just stop at the local good

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<v Speaker 2>will store. Then she gets another thought, maybe she'll find

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<v Speaker 2>a crystal. That's all sympatico, that's all intuition, working and connecting.

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<v Speaker 2>So that crystal probably needed to be rescued, and she

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<v Speaker 2>needed the aspects of that amethyst cluster, so it's a

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<v Speaker 2>win win on both sides. A raw amethyst cluster is

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<v Speaker 2>fantastic for providing group harmony in the home and having

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<v Speaker 2>everyone work together. It's a wonderful stone for connecting with

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<v Speaker 2>your higher self, with your guides, with your intuition, with

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<v Speaker 2>Amethyst is one of the best crystals for meditation, but

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<v Speaker 2>so many other things I mean, it's called the all Healer,

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<v Speaker 2>lot of fun things you can research and start to

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<v Speaker 2>learn about your amethyst. But when it's in a cluster formation,

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<v Speaker 2>it's even better because it's like all these little amethysts

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<v Speaker 2>working together for each other and for you. So I

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<v Speaker 2>would say that this is a sign, possibly from your guides,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it's also a sign from your higher

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<v Speaker 2>self that you really are learning to trust yourself, to

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<v Speaker 2>And look what you can find when you listen to

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<v Speaker 2>that it was telling you to listen to yourself. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>whether you get a crystal from a thrift store or

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<v Speaker 2>a brand new crystal store, it doesn't matter that crystal

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<v Speaker 2>to you, So you should always cleanse it physically and

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<v Speaker 2>emotionally and spiritually. So you can check out some of

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<v Speaker 2>our archive shows on cleaning crystals, but in general I

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<v Speaker 2>You can do all sorts of wonderful things. You can

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<v Speaker 2>use a crystal singing bowl to clean it. But yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I would definitely physically clean it and then energetically clean

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<v Speaker 2>it and then see how your relationship unfolds from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember that broken piece of amethyst geode that

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<v Speaker 1>any gave me years ago? Yeah? I love that stone

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<v Speaker 1>and it lives on a table in my living room

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<v Speaker 1>for exactly the reasons you've just mentioned. It's about healing,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's about connection, and it's that amazing gift of

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<v Speaker 1>connecting to our higher self, and just I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that particular rock a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Amethyst does a lot, but it has a very gentle energy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it does, it really does.

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<v Speaker 2>It almost reminds me of rose quartz.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, although I think the healing content is different from amethyst.

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<v Speaker 1>Between amethyst and rose quartz.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, totally, I do. I agree with that. But

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know how rose quarts kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>it's like having almost like a spiritual hug. Yeah, your

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, we get a lot of questions from

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<v Speaker 1>folks about, oh, I need a stune for protection and this,

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<v Speaker 1>that and the other. And so when I tell people

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<v Speaker 1>that on my deck is this rose quartz the size

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<v Speaker 1>of a football, they say, ooh, I didn't know the

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<v Speaker 1>rose quarts does protection. Well, that piece of rose quartz

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<v Speaker 1>is on my port to generate and radiate love both

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<v Speaker 1>inside and outside my house. So think about the various

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<v Speaker 1>ways that stones work. And the laundry list of amethysts,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, is long and all those wonderful things. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's also important to really connect with it. One of

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<v Speaker 1>the things that I think you and I would both

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<v Speaker 1>recommend to this listener is visit after she cleans it.

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<v Speaker 1>She spends some time just sitting with it, just holding it.

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<v Speaker 1>Not necessarily to expect some kind of heat radiating in

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<v Speaker 1>your body or all that stuff, although it may happen,

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<v Speaker 1>but to just ask it to work with you, ask

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<v Speaker 1>it to be a part of your life. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>it's living with you, welcome it into your home.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to give your crystals attention. Yep, you really

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<v Speaker 2>really do. Michael came over to pick me up for

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<v Speaker 2>dinner the other night, and I had all my crystals

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<v Speaker 2>on my living room carpet and he walks it and

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<v Speaker 2>he goes, oh, are you babysitting today? It looks like

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<v Speaker 2>Show and Tell over here. And I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just, you know, having a moment with my crystals.

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<v Speaker 2>But don't you just kind of get your little bull

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<v Speaker 2>crystal sometimes and you're like, oh, who should I meditate

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<v Speaker 2>with now? Who should I use in a grid now?

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<v Speaker 2>Or who hasn't been front and center in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I do that a lot, absolutely, and I do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go through a period of time where it's the

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<v Speaker 1>world is coming to an end if I don't clean

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<v Speaker 1>every stone in this house at the same time. So

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's going to be an all day event, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's okay because as I handle each one, as

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<v Speaker 1>I cleanse it, as I put it down to dry,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's one that has been in water, I spend

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<v Speaker 1>some time with it, with every single stone and say

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. And then at the end of all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>I will think, Okay, who needs who do I need

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<v Speaker 1>in this point in time? And I don't have necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>a preconceived notion of the answer of that. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>a matter of trusting and I'll pull I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>spirit quarts, for example, and it's in my hand, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, Okay, you're going to come over here and

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<v Speaker 1>sit on the table next to my meditation chair, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to be together for a while, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just trust when that happens.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I see. And that's like the other question.

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<v Speaker 2>You just have to trust in this process.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, absolutely, Okay, let's move on. Okay, I will want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep this short. So my question is, what is

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<v Speaker 1>your opinion on alcohol? And I don't just mean us

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<v Speaker 1>drinking it in regards to vibration, but I mean if

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<v Speaker 1>someone in my case, me has a problem with alcohol,

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<v Speaker 1>binge drinking, or alcoholism, what would you say about your

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<v Speaker 1>soul contract? And I don't just mean us drinking it

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to vibration, but I mean, if someone in

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<v Speaker 1>my case, me has a problem with alcohol, binge drinking,

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<v Speaker 1>or alcoholism, what would you say about your soul contract?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that drinking alcohol can throw us off

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<v Speaker 1>our contract? I just recently realized that if I keep

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<v Speaker 1>going the way I've been going, I'll end up losing

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<v Speaker 1>my husband or definitely causing issues that may not be reversible.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever since I decided I don't want alcohol in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so peaceful, like a weight lifting off my shoulders. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a good and really hard question. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that Samantha and I both can't say enough about how

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<v Speaker 1>important support is as someone is going through a withdrawal

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<v Speaker 1>in their life from any kind of addictions. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a firm believer in alcoholics Anonymous, I know you

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<v Speaker 1>are to Samantha. I'm also in favor of the ancillary

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<v Speaker 1>organizations for your family members Alateine is it? What's the

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<v Speaker 1>one for Alan? Alan On? For spouses and families. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would urge you to get support from folks who

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<v Speaker 1>are who have been through what you're going through. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that for folks who don't have a problem with alcohol,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that drinking is a problem in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of metaphysics, but I will say this, I won't read

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<v Speaker 1>for people who are drinking, and I never drink. If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing any kind of metaphysical work, I just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I need all of the channels as

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<v Speaker 1>clear as I can possibly get them. I know some

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, back when I was doing those Halloween readings

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<v Speaker 1>at a museum in town with Granny Jean. I've developed

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<v Speaker 1>a nice relationship with lots of people who came to

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<v Speaker 1>see me year after year, and one was a lovely

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<v Speaker 1>young woman who then contacted me and asked me if

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<v Speaker 1>I would read for her bachelorette party. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>much on doing readings for parties in any case, but

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<v Speaker 1>for her, I said, I will be happy to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>If I come to the party and there's nothing on

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<v Speaker 1>the table but soft drinks and m and ms and peanuts,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'd all have not had a drop to drink

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<v Speaker 1>until after I leave. She said, I promise that will

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<v Speaker 1>be exactly what you will see, and they did. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a nice, nice group of young women, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had a lovely time, and they had a lovely time,

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<v Speaker 1>and the readings were great, and there was no alcohol involved.

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<v Speaker 1>And what they did after I left was entirely up

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<v Speaker 1>to them. But we both were very committed to the

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<v Speaker 1>idea that we were not going to have anything interfering

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<v Speaker 1>with the channels of communication with spirit. And that's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that alcohol does for me, at least,

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<v Speaker 1>I would not.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I completely agree. I just rewatched a documentary because

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<v Speaker 2>I was getting ready to send it to students in

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<v Speaker 2>my class. It's called Everyday Man or every Man colon Mediums.

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<v Speaker 2>It's on Prime I think it's on YouTube as well,

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<v Speaker 2>and it really really features Gordon Smith, who you know

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<v Speaker 2>I just love and adore. And there's a seed where

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<v Speaker 2>he and his adult son are going over like his

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<v Speaker 2>schedule of readings, and he's smoking away and he's drinking

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<v Speaker 2>coffee and he's worked all day. He's a barber and

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<v Speaker 2>he's getting ready to do readings all night and the

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<v Speaker 2>sun's the sun said something like do you want a

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<v Speaker 2>beer or Dad? And he was like, no, no, not

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<v Speaker 2>that before reading. And I'm thinking, okay, but caffeine and

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<v Speaker 2>nicotine is good, but not not a beer.

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<v Speaker 1>But I understand that because you know I used to smoke. Remember, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know. I just thought it was really funny.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I agree with everything you said. Deb I

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<v Speaker 2>do not think that you should partake in alcohol or

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<v Speaker 2>other mind altering substances before, during, before, or during any

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<v Speaker 2>type of meditation or readings, whether you're giving the reading

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<v Speaker 2>or receiving the reading. But in terms of the bigger

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<v Speaker 2>part of her question and her struggle with alcoholism. I

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<v Speaker 2>do think it is part of our soul plan when

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<v Speaker 2>we have this type of struggle to go through. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>each of us in our soul plan have chosen certain

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<v Speaker 2>difficult circumstances that we have to face and deal with,

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<v Speaker 2>and so this just might be your biggest one. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's I really do think addiction has got to

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<v Speaker 2>be the biggest challenge that any soul can learn to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with. I know, you know, for my dad, he

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<v Speaker 2>two years ago, three years ago. I tried not to

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<v Speaker 2>think about it, and that was always his proudest accomplishment

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<v Speaker 2>out of all the other wonderful things he accomplished, because

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<v Speaker 2>it was so hard one, you know, and it wasn't like, ooh,

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<v Speaker 2>I did that, what's next? It was every day. I

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<v Speaker 2>really feel like every day it was a choice for him,

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<v Speaker 2>and going to those beings every day was the choice

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<v Speaker 2>he made. So you were right to have You've got it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. She has to find all of the support

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<v Speaker 2>that that she can, and AA is a wonderful way

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<v Speaker 2>to do it. And therapy is another wonderful way to

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<v Speaker 2>do it. But I also think prayer is a way

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<v Speaker 2>to do it as well, you know, because you've got

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<v Speaker 2>to you've got to get to that rock bottom in

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<v Speaker 2>order to really realize that giving giving this up is

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<v Speaker 2>worth more than what you could lose, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>she says, I could lose my husband, I could cause

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<v Speaker 2>issues that are irreversible. To come to that moment is

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I would just like to ask anyone listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this right now, wherever you are, whether you're listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this a year from now or you know, six months

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<v Speaker 2>from now, or right when it airs, just say a

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<v Speaker 2>prayer to this listener. You don't have to know her name.

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<v Speaker 2>All you have to do is say, please send love,

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<v Speaker 2>blessings and support to this listener and anyone dealing with

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<v Speaker 2>addiction issues. I really think that goes a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I do too. Thank you for offering that.

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<v Speaker 2>Great Okay, our next one says, I wanted to tell

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<v Speaker 2>you a story about my precious dog named Hawthorne. I

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<v Speaker 2>had the privilege of adopting hawthee four years before he

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<v Speaker 2>crossed to the other side. The moment I saw Hawthorne.

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<v Speaker 2>It was love at first sight, and I always knew

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<v Speaker 2>he was a magical soul. He loved mac and cheese.

435
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<v Speaker 2>I love the idea of a dog scrambling got back

436
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<v Speaker 2>in cheese. She says, this will be relevant. And he

437
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<v Speaker 2>had beautiful, enormous moon eyes. People used to stop being

438
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<v Speaker 2>on the street to tell me that my dog was

439
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<v Speaker 2>staring directly into their souls. After helping Hawthorne pass, my

440
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<v Speaker 2>friend and I came back to my house and had

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<v Speaker 2>some leftover pizza. I like my pizza cold, but my

442
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<v Speaker 2>friend likes her as warm, so I asked her if

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted me to heat hers in the microwave, at

444
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<v Speaker 2>which point she started to lament that she wished she

445
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<v Speaker 2>could heat leftovers in her microwave, but hers was still broken,

446
00:24:56.319 --> 00:24:59.000
<v Speaker 2>so I microwaved hers life. We sat on my couch crying,

447
00:24:59.079 --> 00:25:02.440
<v Speaker 2>eating pizza, and talking about our Hathey. I told my

448
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<v Speaker 2>friend I knew i'd get a sign from him, and

449
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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't wait to see what it would be. During

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<v Speaker 2>our conversation, my friend mentioned that she had bought frozen

451
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<v Speaker 2>mac and cheese at the store the other day, something

452
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<v Speaker 2>she never buys because again her microwave is broken, but

453
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<v Speaker 2>something made her buy it, thinking maybe she could bring

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<v Speaker 2>it to work and heat it up there. But now

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<v Speaker 2>it was making her think of Hawthorn. I'm not kidding

456
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<v Speaker 2>what I say. He loved mac and cheese. At that point,

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<v Speaker 2>I said out loud, Hawthorne, did you hear that Dee

458
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<v Speaker 2>has mac and cheese at home? If you fix her microwave,

459
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<v Speaker 2>she will make it for you, and I will take

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<v Speaker 2>this as my sign from you. Now, this was a

461
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<v Speaker 2>total joke. The microwave had not worked for a year,

462
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<v Speaker 2>despite my friend trying to run it and fix it

463
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<v Speaker 2>every once in a while. So we laughed and said

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<v Speaker 2>that if anyone could fix the microwave, it would be Hawthorn,

465
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<v Speaker 2>and then we let it go. Later that night, my

466
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<v Speaker 2>friend went home and facetimed me with a plate of

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<v Speaker 2>her heated mac and cheese that she had made in

468
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<v Speaker 2>her microwave, which was now somehow working. She ate some

469
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<v Speaker 2>and of course left a plate out for Hawthorne under

470
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<v Speaker 2>his picture in her house. It's January now and the

471
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<v Speaker 2>microwave is still working. She uses it every day and

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<v Speaker 2>thanks hawthy for every use. I've even gone over to

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<v Speaker 2>try it myself. I have no doubt that Hawthorne fixed

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<v Speaker 2>her microwave. He has sent me many more signs that

475
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<v Speaker 2>are just as remarkable, but this one was his first

476
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<v Speaker 2>and was so undeniably him.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I love that.

478
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<v Speaker 2>I know I do too.

479
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<v Speaker 1>I love this, I do you know, Samantha. Remember there's

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<v Speaker 1>a microwave in the house I live in, but I've

481
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<v Speaker 1>never used it. I don't know how to use a microwave.

482
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<v Speaker 1>Don't want to know how to use a microwave. It's

483
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<v Speaker 1>a whole other thing.

484
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<v Speaker 2>However, it's a whole thing people that Amazon and Walmart.

485
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<v Speaker 2>Don't get her started on any of those.

486
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<v Speaker 1>No, let's not go there. So in any case, but

487
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<v Speaker 1>when I had my Merlin, he loved to ride in

488
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<v Speaker 1>my camper with me. He loved it and his there

489
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<v Speaker 1>was a I had a speaker, I mean, like an

490
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<v Speaker 1>old fashioned and I don't they don't even make these anymore,

491
00:27:09.000 --> 00:27:12.920
<v Speaker 1>like a stereo speaker that I was wedged between the

492
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<v Speaker 1>two front seats, and I used it as a speaker

493
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<v Speaker 1>when I was driving, and when I was camping, I

494
00:27:18.720 --> 00:27:20.680
<v Speaker 1>turned it over and used it as a table. But

495
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<v Speaker 1>Merlin's place was to perch on that speaker, and he

496
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<v Speaker 1>would sit there with one with his left front paw

497
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<v Speaker 1>on my shoulder and we'd go down the road and

498
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<v Speaker 1>if this truck started doing something funky, I would say, Okay, Merlin,

499
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<v Speaker 1>help me fix her. We can't afford to get her fixed,

500
00:27:38.720 --> 00:27:41.599
<v Speaker 1>and he would pat my shoulder and the truck would

501
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<v Speaker 1>stop making whatever funky noise it was. So so I

502
00:27:44.559 --> 00:27:47.279
<v Speaker 1>do think that Merlin and miss p which was my

503
00:27:47.400 --> 00:27:52.519
<v Speaker 1>camper's name, and I had this amazing bond. And the

504
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<v Speaker 1>other piece of this that I loved so much is

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<v Speaker 1>I understand the cheese thing. My Merlin would do anything

506
00:28:01.079 --> 00:28:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I ask him to do for a piece of any

507
00:28:04.599 --> 00:28:09.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of cheese, but cream cheese particularly. This cat would

508
00:28:09.519 --> 00:28:12.279
<v Speaker 1>leap from the floor to my shoulder, shake hands, roll over,

509
00:28:12.359 --> 00:28:15.839
<v Speaker 1>play dead, do all sorts of things anytime I ask

510
00:28:15.960 --> 00:28:18.039
<v Speaker 1>him to do anything, as long as there was a

511
00:28:18.079 --> 00:28:20.839
<v Speaker 1>piece of cheese at the end of the game. So

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<v Speaker 1>I love that connection that she still has with her

513
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<v Speaker 1>wonderful hawthorn. And I don't think that ever that connection

514
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<v Speaker 1>ever completely goes away. I think they're kind of busy

515
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<v Speaker 1>at helping other people on the other side as they

516
00:28:35.519 --> 00:28:38.279
<v Speaker 1>helped us on this side. But I think that connection

517
00:28:38.440 --> 00:28:41.599
<v Speaker 1>is always there with that very special four legged person.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, before we go to brig, I have a little

519
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<v Speaker 2>sad story to share. So you know, we're getting ready

520
00:28:47.079 --> 00:28:49.839
<v Speaker 2>to move and my daughters are coming home soon to help,

521
00:28:50.000 --> 00:28:52.200
<v Speaker 2>you know, with the final process and to say goodbye.

522
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<v Speaker 2>And guess what they've requestedb would.

523
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<v Speaker 1>You dig up the dead pets?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

525
00:28:57.839 --> 00:28:59.079
<v Speaker 1>I knew you were going to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, I don't know how I'm going to do that.

527
00:29:02.000 --> 00:29:04.400
<v Speaker 2>I planted little trees by them, so yeah, I'm going

528
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<v Speaker 2>to have to bring them with us, and they and they,

529
00:29:06.799 --> 00:29:09.799
<v Speaker 2>but one of them got really weepy and said, Lily's

530
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<v Speaker 2>home is with us, so she has to come.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they in boxes? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's helpful, Yes, very hopeful. Okay, but I also

533
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<v Speaker 2>wanted to share with everyone. When deb and I were

534
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<v Speaker 2>recording last week, do you remember you heard the dog barking? Yeah,

535
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<v Speaker 2>I played it back. It's not on the recording, so

536
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<v Speaker 2>it was not a neighbor.

537
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<v Speaker 1>There was clearly a dog barking on that recording from

538
00:29:35.960 --> 00:29:38.880
<v Speaker 1>your house. Yeah, and it was the kind of bark

539
00:29:38.920 --> 00:29:42.079
<v Speaker 1>that Lily used to do, or maybe even more Charlie.

540
00:29:42.200 --> 00:29:44.039
<v Speaker 1>When you know Charlie would stand at the door and

541
00:29:44.039 --> 00:29:47.039
<v Speaker 1>holler and whine and maybe sure, yeah, I may have

542
00:29:47.079 --> 00:29:51.519
<v Speaker 1>been Charlie. No, okay's right, I'm not happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Note let's take a quick break and we will be

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<v Speaker 2>right back.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, folks, I have to tell you about this exciting

546
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<v Speaker 1>new course I've got coming up in Ma. The course

547
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<v Speaker 1>invites you to explore where you are on your metaphysical

548
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<v Speaker 1>journey and how all of those various concepts come together

549
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<v Speaker 1>and work together in some kind of consistent, systematic order.

550
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<v Speaker 1>So it's a three session course entitled The Path to Yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>Finding the Beginnings and making sense of it all. It

552
00:30:27.799 --> 00:30:31.079
<v Speaker 1>invites you to figure out how to walk your path

553
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<v Speaker 1>calmly and to be organized about it, and to be

554
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<v Speaker 1>able to understand how all these different ideas raiki and

555
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<v Speaker 1>crystals and past lives and sole purpose and energy and

556
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<v Speaker 1>sacred geometry and all that stuff aren't just separate entities,

557
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<v Speaker 1>but all have a connection and a systematic way of

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<v Speaker 1>approaching them. So I hope you'll join me for that course.

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<v Speaker 1>The details are on my website Deboen dot com. By

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<v Speaker 1>zoom Afternoon section and Evening section available three intensive weeks

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<v Speaker 1>of material. I hope you'll join me.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds exciting and dev and I are getting ready to

563
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<v Speaker 2>celebrate our anniversary. How many years will it be in.

564
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<v Speaker 1>March fifteen, Samantha.

565
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<v Speaker 2>Fifteen years of doing Psychic Teachers, And if we could

566
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<v Speaker 2>have an imaginary drum world because I'm not very good

567
00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:29.400
<v Speaker 2>with adding sound effects. Yet, we are going to have

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<v Speaker 2>Joel on the show. I'm so excited because he was

569
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<v Speaker 2>with us from the very beginning and so longtime listeners

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<v Speaker 2>know that Joel used to pop on from time to

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<v Speaker 2>time and share his love of crystals with us, and

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<v Speaker 2>he's coming back on the show. So if you have

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<v Speaker 2>a crystal question that you want him to address, just

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<v Speaker 2>post it on our Facebook page or you can email

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<v Speaker 2>us Psychic Teachers at gmail dot com. And as a reminder,

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<v Speaker 2>in April, I will be in Charlotte, North Carolina at

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<v Speaker 2>George Norri's Meet and Creep. I'm going to be on

578
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<v Speaker 2>stage talking to him and I'm nervous, so to see

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<v Speaker 2>any Psychic Teacher listeners in the audience would be a

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<v Speaker 2>super great comfort. You can find out more about that

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<v Speaker 2>at my website Samanthafay dot com. Anything else we should mention.

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<v Speaker 1>I think not other than folks do go see Samantha

583
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<v Speaker 1>and don't miss our anniversary show fifteen years. We have

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<v Speaker 1>lots to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>About, so yes, we do. It'll be exciting, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Our next one says, I was listening to psychic teachers

587
00:32:28.599 --> 00:32:31.720
<v Speaker 1>while running some errands one weekend while my daughter was

588
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<v Speaker 1>with her father. He and I have a yo yo relationship,

589
00:32:35.960 --> 00:32:38.799
<v Speaker 1>up and down all the time. I'm convinced we have

590
00:32:38.839 --> 00:32:41.680
<v Speaker 1>a karmic connection, and he is in my life on

591
00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:45.599
<v Speaker 1>purpose and for a specific life lesson. Believe me, that

592
00:32:45.720 --> 00:32:48.160
<v Speaker 1>man has taught me quite a lot about myself through

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00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>our ups and downs. On the day I was already

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<v Speaker 1>feeling down from a negative interaction with him after dropping

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<v Speaker 1>off our daughter. One of your episodes in particular caught

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<v Speaker 1>my interest. It was just discussing cord cutting, and by

597
00:33:02.119 --> 00:33:05.000
<v Speaker 1>the end I was hooked on this topic and bought

598
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<v Speaker 1>myself some black kai and I to perform cord cutting

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00:33:08.200 --> 00:33:11.480
<v Speaker 1>with my daughter's father. I love him and am thankful

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<v Speaker 1>for all that he has taught me, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>more than ready to release all the negativity between us

602
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<v Speaker 1>so I can focus on the things that served me instead.

603
00:33:21.000 --> 00:33:25.079
<v Speaker 1>I performed the chord cutting. It was incredibly cathartic. I

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00:33:25.079 --> 00:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>felt so much lighter and was thankful for the perfect

605
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<v Speaker 1>timing of that episode. But now I have a question.

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<v Speaker 1>I pulled one to row card daily, and less than

607
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<v Speaker 1>a week after the cord cutting, I pulled the two

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<v Speaker 1>of cups three times in a week. First it was

609
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<v Speaker 1>two days in a row, and then I got suspicious

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing something wrong, so I shuffled extra well

611
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<v Speaker 1>every day. I shuffled a little longer than I used to,

612
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<v Speaker 1>and three days later I pulled the two of cups again.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a card that usually refers to romantic relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>I just cut the cord between me and my so

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's not about that, and I definitely don't

616
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<v Speaker 1>want a new relationship. Yet I couldn't figure out what

617
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<v Speaker 1>it meant was under to understand, so I turned to research.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't found too many sources of information not related

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<v Speaker 1>to romantic relationships, so I'm curious. Is it possible this

620
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<v Speaker 1>card could be telling me to work on loving myself

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<v Speaker 1>more and doing more inner work. I love it when

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<v Speaker 1>people answer their own questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Make start so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, absolutely, there you go, that's it we're doing. No,

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<v Speaker 1>let me give some detail. I don't mean to be facetious.

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<v Speaker 1>That's one of the things that happens inter row very

627
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<v Speaker 1>often is that the card that face value means X,

628
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<v Speaker 1>and therefore that's what the card means. That is so

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<v Speaker 1>not the case with the two of Cups. The cups

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<v Speaker 1>is about emotion. It is indeed about emotions, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>about finding the inner parts of ourselves and loving all

632
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<v Speaker 1>of who we are. Each of us is way more

633
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<v Speaker 1>than just a particular adjective, So think in terms of

634
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<v Speaker 1>finding a deeper relationship with oneself, and that's exactly what

635
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<v Speaker 1>that card means. Two is the number of duality. So

636
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<v Speaker 1>it's about looking at those various aspects of ourselves, the

637
00:35:23.440 --> 00:35:26.360
<v Speaker 1>good and not so good, and the parts of us

638
00:35:26.400 --> 00:35:28.039
<v Speaker 1>that we show to the world and the parts of

639
00:35:28.119 --> 00:35:31.199
<v Speaker 1>us that we do not show to the world. For example,

640
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<v Speaker 1>when I do a numerology reading, I talk about your

641
00:35:34.599 --> 00:35:37.719
<v Speaker 1>heart number, that number that's connected to who you are internally,

642
00:35:38.320 --> 00:35:41.360
<v Speaker 1>and your personality number, which is connected to who you

643
00:35:41.400 --> 00:35:44.679
<v Speaker 1>are out into the world. So all of us have

644
00:35:44.880 --> 00:35:49.039
<v Speaker 1>these various aspects of ourselves, and the two of Cups

645
00:35:49.039 --> 00:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>invites us to spend time getting to know ourselves better

646
00:35:55.000 --> 00:35:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and being more deeply connected to ourselves in lots of

647
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<v Speaker 1>different ways. So yes, your sentence at the end is

648
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<v Speaker 1>the bottom line answer to the question that you have asked.

649
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<v Speaker 1>I also invite you to take a look at eden

650
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<v Speaker 1>Gray's book from the early seventies. It's old and it

651
00:36:16.400 --> 00:36:20.239
<v Speaker 1>is still one of the classics in to row work.

652
00:36:20.280 --> 00:36:24.440
<v Speaker 1>It's called The Complete Guide to Touro by Eden Gray's

653
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<v Speaker 1>from the early nineteen seventies, and it's the book I

654
00:36:27.199 --> 00:36:29.320
<v Speaker 1>used to teach from, so it's got lots of really

655
00:36:29.320 --> 00:36:32.159
<v Speaker 1>good information. I also want to point out something about

656
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<v Speaker 1>cord cutting the way. Let me see if I can

657
00:36:34.519 --> 00:36:37.280
<v Speaker 1>find the sentence that she wrote here. I performed the

658
00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:44.079
<v Speaker 1>chord cutting. It was incredibly cathartic, and that's wonderful. But

659
00:36:44.119 --> 00:36:48.400
<v Speaker 1>you were just ready to release the negativity between you. Well,

660
00:36:49.159 --> 00:36:52.039
<v Speaker 1>there's more than that. So when we really do a

661
00:36:52.079 --> 00:36:55.280
<v Speaker 1>deep cord cutting, we cut the chord. It's not just

662
00:36:55.320 --> 00:36:58.480
<v Speaker 1>about one aspect of a relationship. It's about the whole thing.

663
00:36:58.760 --> 00:37:02.039
<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes cord cutting has to be done more

664
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<v Speaker 1>than once. I think, Samantha, do you have a take

665
00:37:04.559 --> 00:37:07.079
<v Speaker 1>on that as well as the truth conversation?

666
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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and I kind of agree and disagree with you respectfully.

667
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<v Speaker 2>I think that you can cut the negative aspects of

668
00:37:16.480 --> 00:37:22.480
<v Speaker 2>a chord, because when you create life with someone, there's

669
00:37:22.559 --> 00:37:23.440
<v Speaker 2>always going to be a.

670
00:37:23.440 --> 00:37:26.440
<v Speaker 1>Chord there, exactly. No, I agree, I agree.

671
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<v Speaker 2>So I don't think she should cut the whole chord.

672
00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:33.760
<v Speaker 2>I think we have different types of chords with people

673
00:37:34.400 --> 00:37:36.280
<v Speaker 2>in our lives, and some are loving and some are

674
00:37:36.280 --> 00:37:38.800
<v Speaker 2>not so loving. And I think she cut the not

675
00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:42.000
<v Speaker 2>so loving one. And I think that the two of

676
00:37:42.079 --> 00:37:45.199
<v Speaker 2>Cops is telling her that even though she's cut these

677
00:37:45.239 --> 00:37:51.239
<v Speaker 2>negative connotations with her yo yo relationship with this this gentleman,

678
00:37:52.400 --> 00:37:55.440
<v Speaker 2>there's still love there, and not romantic love, but just

679
00:37:55.559 --> 00:37:59.679
<v Speaker 2>love of their child and love of the union that

680
00:37:59.800 --> 00:38:03.920
<v Speaker 2>created this beautiful person into the world. And so I

681
00:38:03.960 --> 00:38:07.960
<v Speaker 2>agree with you that that card keeps showing up because

682
00:38:08.000 --> 00:38:10.360
<v Speaker 2>it's saying like, yeah, now it's time to work on

683
00:38:10.880 --> 00:38:13.920
<v Speaker 2>healing and loving yourself and doing inner work, but also

684
00:38:14.280 --> 00:38:18.760
<v Speaker 2>in reframing the way you love this person. It's not

685
00:38:18.840 --> 00:38:21.800
<v Speaker 2>a romantic love, but you're always going to be connected

686
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:24.559
<v Speaker 2>and love this person in a different way.

687
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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you know what I mean? Like I do.

688
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<v Speaker 2>There's just different like Okay. So the other week, we

689
00:38:34.280 --> 00:38:37.599
<v Speaker 2>took Michael's son to this concert that he loves this

690
00:38:37.719 --> 00:38:40.679
<v Speaker 2>music and he and Michael were having so much fun

691
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:42.559
<v Speaker 2>and I just I took a picture of them and

692
00:38:42.639 --> 00:38:44.960
<v Speaker 2>that moment of like, Oh, this is great, we're here

693
00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:47.920
<v Speaker 2>together and we love this music. And I asked Michael

694
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<v Speaker 2>for his ex wife's phone number so I could share

695
00:38:50.840 --> 00:38:53.679
<v Speaker 2>the photo with her because I really would like us

696
00:38:53.679 --> 00:38:55.960
<v Speaker 2>to be friends. I think she's a wonderful person. I

697
00:38:55.960 --> 00:38:58.679
<v Speaker 2>think she's a fantastic mom, and I would like to

698
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<v Speaker 2>be able to share that type of stuff going forward.

699
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:04.599
<v Speaker 2>And so I did, and she was super kind and

700
00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:07.480
<v Speaker 2>receptive to it. And I told my kids and they

701
00:39:07.480 --> 00:39:11.119
<v Speaker 2>were like, Mom, you're so weird. That's so inappropriate. Why

702
00:39:11.159 --> 00:39:13.320
<v Speaker 2>does she want a picture of her ex husband hanging

703
00:39:13.360 --> 00:39:16.000
<v Speaker 2>out with And I was like, but that's what love

704
00:39:16.119 --> 00:39:19.079
<v Speaker 2>is like. Would you have a family and you have children,

705
00:39:19.639 --> 00:39:23.119
<v Speaker 2>even if the marriage doesn't work out, there's still there's

706
00:39:23.159 --> 00:39:25.280
<v Speaker 2>still love there. It's just a different type of love,

707
00:39:25.320 --> 00:39:28.400
<v Speaker 2>and it's it's an inclusive love that can expand to

708
00:39:28.559 --> 00:39:31.920
<v Speaker 2>include new people as well. And I think that's what

709
00:39:32.000 --> 00:39:35.079
<v Speaker 2>the Cups is about. These two people coming together are

710
00:39:35.159 --> 00:39:39.639
<v Speaker 2>representing all the love, past, present and future within those

711
00:39:39.639 --> 00:39:40.199
<v Speaker 2>two people.

712
00:39:40.920 --> 00:39:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I see what you're saying, and in a perfect world,

713
00:39:45.440 --> 00:39:48.519
<v Speaker 1>Oh your exes would not live in Texas, but they

714
00:39:48.519 --> 00:39:53.159
<v Speaker 1>would all be friends with each other. And I think

715
00:39:53.159 --> 00:39:56.079
<v Speaker 1>that's certainly a gul to strive for. But I also

716
00:39:56.159 --> 00:39:58.320
<v Speaker 1>think that one of the ways we get there, and

717
00:39:58.360 --> 00:40:01.280
<v Speaker 1>then I'll put pounding on this, one of the ways

718
00:40:01.280 --> 00:40:05.519
<v Speaker 1>we get there in that relationship with other people, and

719
00:40:05.559 --> 00:40:09.039
<v Speaker 1>the duality of how that might morphin evolve is to

720
00:40:09.079 --> 00:40:13.719
<v Speaker 1>find that balance within ourselves. Remember that's one of the

721
00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:17.400
<v Speaker 1>hallmark teachings of teruro is how to find balance in

722
00:40:17.440 --> 00:40:19.960
<v Speaker 1>our lives. And if you look at those two intertwining

723
00:40:20.039 --> 00:40:22.360
<v Speaker 1>figures there in the two of cups, you see that.

724
00:40:23.599 --> 00:40:26.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's so true. Are you calling me a Pollyanna again?

725
00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:28.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

726
00:40:28.800 --> 00:40:35.679
<v Speaker 2>I thought so. Darn it nicely, though you did do

727
00:40:35.760 --> 00:40:39.840
<v Speaker 2>it very nicely. I appreciate that. Our Dixwood says, I've

728
00:40:39.880 --> 00:40:43.079
<v Speaker 2>begun to work more with connecting with my guides, doing

729
00:40:43.119 --> 00:40:47.400
<v Speaker 2>some mediumship work, and find my energy gets zapped. Afterwards,

730
00:40:47.840 --> 00:40:51.360
<v Speaker 2>I find it get refueled by reconnecting with what makes

731
00:40:51.400 --> 00:40:57.719
<v Speaker 2>me happy. It refuels my spiritual tank. Why does this occur? Yeah, okay,

732
00:40:57.760 --> 00:41:00.440
<v Speaker 2>I can tell you why this occurs because I've experienced too.

733
00:41:00.679 --> 00:41:03.960
<v Speaker 2>So it's so lovely to be able to do a meditation,

734
00:41:04.599 --> 00:41:07.800
<v Speaker 2>to do mediumship work to connect with your guides. It

735
00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:14.079
<v Speaker 2>feels amazing, but afterwards it can tank your energy. And

736
00:41:14.159 --> 00:41:18.039
<v Speaker 2>I think that's because we exist in this world at

737
00:41:18.039 --> 00:41:23.079
<v Speaker 2>a certain regulatory vibration field. Everything is energy. We're always

738
00:41:23.119 --> 00:41:26.360
<v Speaker 2>vibrating all of the time. But when we are meditating

739
00:41:26.400 --> 00:41:29.159
<v Speaker 2>to connect with our guides and loved ones on the

740
00:41:29.159 --> 00:41:32.159
<v Speaker 2>other side, which is what's involved in mediumship work, we

741
00:41:32.280 --> 00:41:35.880
<v Speaker 2>have to lived and raise our vibrations so much higher

742
00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:40.280
<v Speaker 2>than our energy is used to. So it's like, you know,

743
00:41:40.320 --> 00:41:43.719
<v Speaker 2>you might enjoy every day jogging around your neighborhood and

744
00:41:43.760 --> 00:41:46.079
<v Speaker 2>you feel great and it refuels you because that makes

745
00:41:46.119 --> 00:41:50.480
<v Speaker 2>you happy. But after you do a marathon, it feels great.

746
00:41:50.719 --> 00:41:52.840
<v Speaker 2>You know, you trained, you did it, you ran the marathon,

747
00:41:53.199 --> 00:41:56.599
<v Speaker 2>but afterwards you're zapt of all energy because it's not

748
00:41:56.719 --> 00:42:00.320
<v Speaker 2>something you're used to. So the more you do work

749
00:42:00.360 --> 00:42:03.320
<v Speaker 2>to connect with your guides, the more mediumship work you do,

750
00:42:03.960 --> 00:42:07.519
<v Speaker 2>the more use you're going to get to living and

751
00:42:07.599 --> 00:42:10.719
<v Speaker 2>existing at that high vibratory field. But it's going to

752
00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:12.960
<v Speaker 2>take some time, so your energy is going to be

753
00:42:12.960 --> 00:42:16.159
<v Speaker 2>a little bit sapped afterwards, and that's okay. You just

754
00:42:16.239 --> 00:42:20.440
<v Speaker 2>have to recognize that and plan for it. Make sure

755
00:42:20.480 --> 00:42:23.199
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people will eat a heavy meal after

756
00:42:23.239 --> 00:42:26.559
<v Speaker 2>they do some medium shipwork, or they'll do some grounding,

757
00:42:27.079 --> 00:42:29.400
<v Speaker 2>or they'll just kind of put their hands in the earth,

758
00:42:29.440 --> 00:42:32.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, do some gardening or pull some weeds, anything

759
00:42:32.039 --> 00:42:35.920
<v Speaker 2>that kind of refills your energy and grounds you. So

760
00:42:36.239 --> 00:42:38.519
<v Speaker 2>I would just say keep doing it. It's it's a

761
00:42:38.559 --> 00:42:41.639
<v Speaker 2>good thing. It's not a bad thing that your energy

762
00:42:41.679 --> 00:42:45.000
<v Speaker 2>is zapped afterwards. And you'll notice as you strengthen that

763
00:42:45.079 --> 00:42:48.519
<v Speaker 2>intuitive muscle, like any muscle in our body, it gets

764
00:42:48.519 --> 00:42:49.960
<v Speaker 2>easier and easier with time.

765
00:42:50.400 --> 00:42:52.039
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I have anything to add to that.

766
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:56.280
<v Speaker 2>Good That means we agree on that one, Okay.

767
00:42:56.360 --> 00:42:59.559
<v Speaker 1>Our next one is fairly long, and it says my

768
00:42:59.679 --> 00:43:04.039
<v Speaker 1>dad as late stages of Parkinson's, which also targets his

769
00:43:04.199 --> 00:43:08.079
<v Speaker 1>brain and nervous system. He is an amazing person, always

770
00:43:08.119 --> 00:43:11.960
<v Speaker 1>doing everything for others, and even now tries to apologize

771
00:43:12.000 --> 00:43:16.159
<v Speaker 1>for being sick. Our hearts are breaking. I feel I

772
00:43:16.239 --> 00:43:18.719
<v Speaker 1>am able to somewhat be a source of light in

773
00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:22.440
<v Speaker 1>this dire situation from listening to you both, and have

774
00:43:22.639 --> 00:43:26.239
<v Speaker 1>used some of your practical tips shared in earlier episodes

775
00:43:26.280 --> 00:43:30.920
<v Speaker 1>for example, bringing magazines, taking care of his physical needs

776
00:43:30.960 --> 00:43:34.639
<v Speaker 1>as much as humanly possible. He has beautiful images of

777
00:43:34.719 --> 00:43:39.320
<v Speaker 1>Mother Mary, Jesus and Saint Francis around him, which offer

778
00:43:39.400 --> 00:43:42.519
<v Speaker 1>comfort as he's very religious. But I'd love to know

779
00:43:42.559 --> 00:43:45.800
<v Speaker 1>if there's more I can do spiritually. Here are my questions.

780
00:43:46.239 --> 00:43:49.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm hoping you can provide guidance and ideas on what

781
00:43:49.280 --> 00:43:52.280
<v Speaker 1>can be done spiritually for loved ones and palliative and

782
00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:55.800
<v Speaker 1>hospice care. I usually pray and ask for my dad

783
00:43:56.079 --> 00:43:59.960
<v Speaker 1>to be surrounded by feelings of love, kindness, and happy energy.

784
00:44:00.599 --> 00:44:03.119
<v Speaker 1>I also ask for guidance to be able to clearly

785
00:44:03.199 --> 00:44:06.519
<v Speaker 1>see what I can do to help the situation. I

786
00:44:06.559 --> 00:44:10.039
<v Speaker 1>feel this has helped with his physical needs somewhat. When

787
00:44:10.039 --> 00:44:12.719
<v Speaker 1>I enter, I visit his room full of loving energy

788
00:44:12.760 --> 00:44:16.400
<v Speaker 1>and happiness. After I leave, it's like getting hit by

789
00:44:16.400 --> 00:44:20.639
<v Speaker 1>a truck of emotions. My dreams are relentless, night after night.

790
00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to help Dad, but he remains unable to

791
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:27.000
<v Speaker 1>speak clearly in his weak I am learning reiki, but

792
00:44:27.079 --> 00:44:30.400
<v Speaker 1>worry my training classes will be too late to be helpful.

793
00:44:31.000 --> 00:44:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I would like to call upon loved ones who have

794
00:44:33.039 --> 00:44:36.920
<v Speaker 1>pasked to be present and offer comfort if they are able,

795
00:44:37.199 --> 00:44:40.639
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to invite in anything unpleasant. Accidentally,

796
00:44:41.039 --> 00:44:44.239
<v Speaker 1>I also feel called to make a crystal grid on

797
00:44:44.320 --> 00:44:47.599
<v Speaker 1>a happy picture of dad, but I don't inadvertently want

798
00:44:47.639 --> 00:44:51.360
<v Speaker 1>to make things worse. I love your thoughts on this,

799
00:44:51.480 --> 00:44:54.079
<v Speaker 1>and if you could please share any ideas or spiritual

800
00:44:54.119 --> 00:44:57.719
<v Speaker 1>tips that might be useful during this difficult time, it

801
00:44:57.760 --> 00:45:01.239
<v Speaker 1>would be very much appreciated. First of all, let me

802
00:45:01.280 --> 00:45:03.880
<v Speaker 1>say I know I speak for Samantha two when we

803
00:45:03.960 --> 00:45:06.639
<v Speaker 1>say how very sorry that you and your family are

804
00:45:06.679 --> 00:45:09.519
<v Speaker 1>going through this and that your dad is living this.

805
00:45:10.760 --> 00:45:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I know I have friends whose father's story is very

806
00:45:14.960 --> 00:45:18.119
<v Speaker 1>similar to what you're describing here, and it is indeed

807
00:45:18.239 --> 00:45:22.159
<v Speaker 1>a very difficult time. I know that I would say

808
00:45:22.599 --> 00:45:27.199
<v Speaker 1>that you are doing so much so right. That is

809
00:45:27.239 --> 00:45:31.599
<v Speaker 1>so helpful to him, and I hope to yourself, because

810
00:45:32.880 --> 00:45:37.880
<v Speaker 1>part of being supportive and caring for someone with a

811
00:45:37.960 --> 00:45:41.440
<v Speaker 1>long term illness like this is that you also have

812
00:45:41.519 --> 00:45:44.920
<v Speaker 1>to take for your care of yourself. My grandma used

813
00:45:44.920 --> 00:45:47.719
<v Speaker 1>to say you can't give from an empty well, and

814
00:45:47.760 --> 00:45:50.800
<v Speaker 1>she was absolutely right. You have to take time to

815
00:45:50.880 --> 00:45:54.159
<v Speaker 1>replenish and take care of your energy. Your comment about

816
00:45:54.159 --> 00:45:57.239
<v Speaker 1>feeling like you've been hit by a truck. I get that,

817
00:45:57.480 --> 00:46:00.400
<v Speaker 1>and so what you have to do then go home

818
00:46:00.400 --> 00:46:05.239
<v Speaker 1>and take care of yourself, absent salts, bats and meditation

819
00:46:05.559 --> 00:46:08.639
<v Speaker 1>and get massages for yourself, do things that take care

820
00:46:08.679 --> 00:46:11.800
<v Speaker 1>of you so that you're in a place to be

821
00:46:11.960 --> 00:46:14.840
<v Speaker 1>able to take care of him. And it sounds like

822
00:46:14.880 --> 00:46:17.719
<v Speaker 1>perhaps some of the rest of your family as well.

823
00:46:17.920 --> 00:46:19.880
<v Speaker 1>The energy that you take into that room when you

824
00:46:19.960 --> 00:46:24.920
<v Speaker 1>visit him is absolutely lovely and wonderful. Keep doing what

825
00:46:24.960 --> 00:46:27.519
<v Speaker 1>you're doing, Keep doing what you're doing. So month, I'll

826
00:46:27.519 --> 00:46:29.440
<v Speaker 1>have to speak to the reiki thing other than for

827
00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:33.800
<v Speaker 1>me to say that your presence itself, your love itself,

828
00:46:34.440 --> 00:46:36.480
<v Speaker 1>is as healing as any reiki you can ever do.

829
00:46:36.760 --> 00:46:40.599
<v Speaker 1>And that's my opinion. In terms of making a crystal grid,

830
00:46:40.800 --> 00:46:42.880
<v Speaker 1>you can't do it wrong. Do what you want, do

831
00:46:42.960 --> 00:46:46.039
<v Speaker 1>what feels right to you. There's nothing wrong about it.

832
00:46:46.360 --> 00:46:50.519
<v Speaker 1>You're certainly not going to invite in or allow any negativity.

833
00:46:50.920 --> 00:46:54.039
<v Speaker 1>If you're calling on Mary and Jesus and the saints

834
00:46:54.079 --> 00:46:57.199
<v Speaker 1>and certainly angels, I would assume it's probably in that

835
00:46:57.239 --> 00:47:00.760
<v Speaker 1>list as well. For you, whatever it is, doing it right.

836
00:47:01.360 --> 00:47:04.559
<v Speaker 1>When my mother lived in a nursing home and She

837
00:47:04.639 --> 00:47:07.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't want much to hear about my beliefs and my

838
00:47:08.440 --> 00:47:11.760
<v Speaker 1>view of the world. So I knew that if I

839
00:47:11.800 --> 00:47:14.639
<v Speaker 1>took crystals or something to her, that she wasn't going

840
00:47:14.679 --> 00:47:17.760
<v Speaker 1>to be much into that. So I had a small

841
00:47:18.280 --> 00:47:21.199
<v Speaker 1>piece of clear quartz, and that one side of it

842
00:47:22.320 --> 00:47:25.400
<v Speaker 1>had an indentation in it, like the perfect place to

843
00:47:25.400 --> 00:47:27.840
<v Speaker 1>put your finger your thumb. So I took it to

844
00:47:27.880 --> 00:47:30.519
<v Speaker 1>her and I said, Mama, this is a worry stone.

845
00:47:30.840 --> 00:47:32.400
<v Speaker 1>Why don't you keep it by your bed so it

846
00:47:32.440 --> 00:47:35.519
<v Speaker 1>gives you something to fidget with if you're feeling anxious.

847
00:47:36.880 --> 00:47:40.880
<v Speaker 1>She accepted it with that language, and it was still

848
00:47:40.920 --> 00:47:44.360
<v Speaker 1>in her little bedside table when she died, and I

849
00:47:44.360 --> 00:47:47.079
<v Speaker 1>brought it home, and now I had it back. Another

850
00:47:47.199 --> 00:47:51.639
<v Speaker 1>friend and I who he's a musician, and so is

851
00:47:51.679 --> 00:47:55.760
<v Speaker 1>a friend of ours who was in hospice care as

852
00:47:55.840 --> 00:48:00.199
<v Speaker 1>he was dying. We went and sang to him. I

853
00:48:00.239 --> 00:48:03.440
<v Speaker 1>did something the only time I played a guitar in

854
00:48:03.480 --> 00:48:06.599
<v Speaker 1>any close to public in many years, And I sat

855
00:48:06.639 --> 00:48:09.639
<v Speaker 1>next to my friend's bed and held my friend's other

856
00:48:09.679 --> 00:48:14.360
<v Speaker 1>friend's guitar and sang to him. And we could see

857
00:48:15.159 --> 00:48:17.800
<v Speaker 1>in the way his body shifted that he could hear

858
00:48:17.880 --> 00:48:20.960
<v Speaker 1>us and that that was comforting and helpful to him,

859
00:48:21.159 --> 00:48:24.360
<v Speaker 1>and that he was enjoying us being there. So what

860
00:48:24.440 --> 00:48:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm really telling you is that your presence, your intentions,

861
00:48:30.440 --> 00:48:34.679
<v Speaker 1>the energy that you're feeling is exactly what needs to

862
00:48:34.719 --> 00:48:39.599
<v Speaker 1>be there for him and for you, and that your

863
00:48:39.639 --> 00:48:44.320
<v Speaker 1>father's time to be here and then his time to

864
00:48:44.400 --> 00:48:49.199
<v Speaker 1>transition will be as it's meant to be. And uncomfortable

865
00:48:49.320 --> 00:48:53.920
<v Speaker 1>and as painful as that is, I think it's very true.

866
00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:57.440
<v Speaker 1>And I think that you will certainly be able to

867
00:48:57.480 --> 00:49:01.400
<v Speaker 1>look back on this time and say you did all

868
00:49:01.400 --> 00:49:03.559
<v Speaker 1>the right things. And I certainly believe you have.

869
00:49:04.480 --> 00:49:08.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I do too. It's never easy. There's no easy

870
00:49:08.440 --> 00:49:12.039
<v Speaker 2>answer to this. There's no easy way to go through this.

871
00:49:12.199 --> 00:49:14.519
<v Speaker 2>There's not a crystal that's going to make it better.

872
00:49:14.800 --> 00:49:18.880
<v Speaker 2>There's not a reiky hand position that's going to heal it.

873
00:49:18.880 --> 00:49:21.400
<v Speaker 2>It's a difficult thing. But I think you are doing

874
00:49:21.440 --> 00:49:24.880
<v Speaker 2>all of the right things. And just to echo what

875
00:49:24.920 --> 00:49:28.360
<v Speaker 2>deb said, there's no wrong way to do any of this.

876
00:49:28.719 --> 00:49:31.679
<v Speaker 2>You're not going to invite anything negative in because you're

877
00:49:31.679 --> 00:49:35.639
<v Speaker 2>doing it from a pure place of total and unconditional love.

878
00:49:36.199 --> 00:49:39.280
<v Speaker 2>And keep in mind that whenever we are dealing with

879
00:49:39.320 --> 00:49:43.519
<v Speaker 2>something like Alzheimer's or Parkinson's. What we've been shown in

880
00:49:43.639 --> 00:49:46.519
<v Speaker 2>the readings we've done is that you have one foot

881
00:49:46.639 --> 00:49:49.719
<v Speaker 2>on this side and one foot on that side. So

882
00:49:49.880 --> 00:49:52.800
<v Speaker 2>anytime you can spend with your father, even if he's

883
00:49:52.840 --> 00:49:56.360
<v Speaker 2>not cognizant of it, his soul is. So what I

884
00:49:56.440 --> 00:49:58.000
<v Speaker 2>used to do a lot when I would visit my

885
00:49:58.079 --> 00:50:01.320
<v Speaker 2>dad is I would just talk to him incessantly, and

886
00:50:01.360 --> 00:50:04.320
<v Speaker 2>I would just tell him all the wonderful things he did,

887
00:50:04.400 --> 00:50:07.360
<v Speaker 2>all the wonderful attributes of you know, what made him

888
00:50:07.360 --> 00:50:09.840
<v Speaker 2>such a good man and father, and I would go

889
00:50:09.920 --> 00:50:13.440
<v Speaker 2>over and over and over all my favorite memories. I'm

890
00:50:13.480 --> 00:50:15.760
<v Speaker 2>sure it was more for me, but I know he

891
00:50:15.840 --> 00:50:17.880
<v Speaker 2>felt it too, even though at that time he didn't

892
00:50:17.920 --> 00:50:20.159
<v Speaker 2>really know who I was. But it was very, very

893
00:50:20.159 --> 00:50:22.440
<v Speaker 2>comforting to me, and I think it was to him

894
00:50:22.480 --> 00:50:26.519
<v Speaker 2>as well. When I opened up to my mediumship, you know,

895
00:50:26.599 --> 00:50:31.159
<v Speaker 2>my dad was, you know, interested, but kind of like, huh.

896
00:50:31.199 --> 00:50:33.920
<v Speaker 2>He didn't really know what to make of it, and

897
00:50:34.079 --> 00:50:36.639
<v Speaker 2>no one in his family ever really came through except

898
00:50:36.639 --> 00:50:39.480
<v Speaker 2>his mom, and he was very happy to hear from

899
00:50:39.480 --> 00:50:43.159
<v Speaker 2>her once he got into the throes of Alzheimer's. Though

900
00:50:43.920 --> 00:50:47.840
<v Speaker 2>his father showed up his childhood dog showed up, and

901
00:50:48.480 --> 00:50:50.639
<v Speaker 2>you know, Dad, in some of his lucid moments, would

902
00:50:50.679 --> 00:50:54.000
<v Speaker 2>be like okay. And then I knew he was named

903
00:50:54.000 --> 00:50:56.760
<v Speaker 2>after his uncle Tom, but I didn't. My dad didn't

904
00:50:56.760 --> 00:50:58.840
<v Speaker 2>talk about his family a lot, so I didn't know.

905
00:50:59.159 --> 00:51:01.760
<v Speaker 2>Was that his mom's brother. Was that his dad's brother.

906
00:51:01.840 --> 00:51:04.920
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know. And I remember when we had to

907
00:51:04.920 --> 00:51:08.800
<v Speaker 2>make the decision to put him into the memory care facility,

908
00:51:08.960 --> 00:51:11.320
<v Speaker 2>it was just it was just, you know, obviously very

909
00:51:11.360 --> 00:51:14.360
<v Speaker 2>very difficult. But I saw this man in an Air

910
00:51:14.360 --> 00:51:16.719
<v Speaker 2>Force uniform and he kept saying I got him, I

911
00:51:16.719 --> 00:51:19.519
<v Speaker 2>got him. And I told my mom and she was like, oh,

912
00:51:19.559 --> 00:51:21.760
<v Speaker 2>that's his uncle Tom, and I was like, oh, I

913
00:51:21.760 --> 00:51:23.400
<v Speaker 2>didn't know he was. She was like, why do you

914
00:51:23.400 --> 00:51:25.440
<v Speaker 2>think dad went into the Air Force, Like, you know,

915
00:51:25.599 --> 00:51:27.960
<v Speaker 2>he loved his uncle Tom. I had no idea. So

916
00:51:28.000 --> 00:51:31.679
<v Speaker 2>that was very validating for me. And then I'm sure

917
00:51:31.719 --> 00:51:33.800
<v Speaker 2>you guys heard me tell the stories of how, in

918
00:51:34.320 --> 00:51:38.239
<v Speaker 2>rare lucid moments, my dad talked about having dreams where

919
00:51:38.280 --> 00:51:41.559
<v Speaker 2>his dad and his childhood dog would show up in

920
00:51:41.639 --> 00:51:44.880
<v Speaker 2>his room in that memory care unit and try to

921
00:51:44.920 --> 00:51:47.280
<v Speaker 2>get him to go up the stairs, which I think

922
00:51:47.400 --> 00:51:50.519
<v Speaker 2>was euphemism for through the light. So just know that

923
00:51:51.360 --> 00:51:55.320
<v Speaker 2>I've seen firsthand that all of their loved ones are

924
00:51:55.360 --> 00:51:58.480
<v Speaker 2>around them, not just when they pass. I'm talking in

925
00:51:58.519 --> 00:52:01.519
<v Speaker 2>the months and the years leading up. They're not alone

926
00:52:01.519 --> 00:52:05.599
<v Speaker 2>through this illness ever ever. I've seen it, I've witnessed it.

927
00:52:05.639 --> 00:52:08.960
<v Speaker 2>I've felt it time and time and time again. So

928
00:52:09.000 --> 00:52:12.159
<v Speaker 2>your dad is in good hands here, and he's in

929
00:52:12.199 --> 00:52:16.239
<v Speaker 2>good hands there. He's got loved ones all over, including you,

930
00:52:16.880 --> 00:52:19.440
<v Speaker 2>And so you're doing the right thing, and we will

931
00:52:19.440 --> 00:52:22.719
<v Speaker 2>continue to keep you in our prayers. It's a hard one,

932
00:52:22.800 --> 00:52:23.519
<v Speaker 2>isn't it.

933
00:52:23.519 --> 00:52:27.960
<v Speaker 1>It is it is you will certainly be in our prayers. Absolutely.

934
00:52:28.440 --> 00:52:31.360
<v Speaker 2>Let's move on to crystals. Okay, this one says I

935
00:52:31.400 --> 00:52:34.199
<v Speaker 2>was wondering if either of you have had any experience

936
00:52:34.239 --> 00:52:39.000
<v Speaker 2>with moldivite and have any recommendations for working with it. Yes,

937
00:52:39.159 --> 00:52:42.239
<v Speaker 2>I think you've come to the right place. Moldivite is

938
00:52:42.360 --> 00:52:45.079
<v Speaker 2>a tech tite. It's a type of glass formed from

939
00:52:45.119 --> 00:52:48.920
<v Speaker 2>meteorite impacts, and it's believed that it was created around

940
00:52:48.960 --> 00:52:52.800
<v Speaker 2>the fifteen million years ago when a meteor struck the

941
00:52:52.840 --> 00:52:55.320
<v Speaker 2>Earth and what is now the Czech Republic. The impact

942
00:52:55.360 --> 00:52:59.039
<v Speaker 2>caused high pressure heat, fusing the Earth's surface materials with

943
00:52:59.280 --> 00:53:03.119
<v Speaker 2>this extra t restural debris, which solidified into the unique

944
00:53:03.119 --> 00:53:06.440
<v Speaker 2>glass that we now know as moldivite. The Celts are

945
00:53:06.440 --> 00:53:09.679
<v Speaker 2>believed to have used moldivite in amulets and jewelry. Because

946
00:53:09.719 --> 00:53:13.800
<v Speaker 2>of its beautiful green color and its mystical allure, it's

947
00:53:13.840 --> 00:53:18.000
<v Speaker 2>often called a stone of transformation. It helps accelerate personal

948
00:53:18.039 --> 00:53:21.519
<v Speaker 2>growth and spiritual evolution, allowing you to move through significant

949
00:53:21.559 --> 00:53:25.039
<v Speaker 2>life changes, and many people who work with moltivite report

950
00:53:25.199 --> 00:53:29.679
<v Speaker 2>rapid shifts and consciousness, self awareness, and personal development. It

951
00:53:29.719 --> 00:53:34.639
<v Speaker 2>helps facilitate connections with higher realms, enhances clairvoyance, psychic abilities,

952
00:53:35.079 --> 00:53:39.000
<v Speaker 2>and communication with spirit guides. In meditation, it helps open

953
00:53:39.079 --> 00:53:44.280
<v Speaker 2>up pathways for deeper spiritual experiences. Many report having increased

954
00:53:44.280 --> 00:53:47.719
<v Speaker 2>synchronicities and signs from the universe, as well as more

955
00:53:47.760 --> 00:53:52.000
<v Speaker 2>powerful manifestations when setting intentions because it's said to help

956
00:53:52.039 --> 00:53:56.239
<v Speaker 2>amplify those intentions and desires. But because of its extremely

957
00:53:56.320 --> 00:53:59.960
<v Speaker 2>high vibrational energy, it can be overwhelming for some people,

958
00:54:00.519 --> 00:54:04.119
<v Speaker 2>especially people who aren't used to working with high vibing stones,

959
00:54:04.519 --> 00:54:08.880
<v Speaker 2>so you might experience some physical sensations like dizziness or headaches.

960
00:54:09.880 --> 00:54:13.760
<v Speaker 2>Because it's associated with rapid transformation. It can trigger deep

961
00:54:13.880 --> 00:54:18.920
<v Speaker 2>emotional healing or allow unresolved trauma to the surface. And

962
00:54:19.000 --> 00:54:21.079
<v Speaker 2>of course, you know, while this is a part of

963
00:54:21.119 --> 00:54:23.920
<v Speaker 2>the healing process, it might be overwhelming if you're not

964
00:54:24.119 --> 00:54:27.320
<v Speaker 2>prepared for it. So you might want to consider using

965
00:54:27.400 --> 00:54:32.679
<v Speaker 2>moltivite in small doses or for sure, definitely strongly ground

966
00:54:32.719 --> 00:54:37.159
<v Speaker 2>yourself before and after you work with moldivite, especially if

967
00:54:37.199 --> 00:54:40.000
<v Speaker 2>you're using it for meditation. Some people find that they

968
00:54:40.039 --> 00:54:44.639
<v Speaker 2>experience like energetic imbalances or feelings of being kind of

969
00:54:44.719 --> 00:54:49.559
<v Speaker 2>unanchored or unmoored after a prolonged use of moltivte without

970
00:54:49.679 --> 00:54:53.880
<v Speaker 2>using grounding techniques. So again, start with short sessions or

971
00:54:53.920 --> 00:54:56.800
<v Speaker 2>wearing it for brief periods and see how it affects you.

972
00:54:57.599 --> 00:54:59.719
<v Speaker 2>But it is a powerful stone, for.

973
00:54:59.599 --> 00:55:02.599
<v Speaker 1>Sure, you know. Samantha, many years ago, and I mean

974
00:55:02.679 --> 00:55:05.960
<v Speaker 1>like more than twenty years ago, I was looking for

975
00:55:06.000 --> 00:55:08.480
<v Speaker 1>a pendulum, and I was in a store and Boulder,

976
00:55:09.559 --> 00:55:14.239
<v Speaker 1>and I was testing out a bunch of pendulums. And

977
00:55:14.360 --> 00:55:18.159
<v Speaker 1>when I put a pendulum, the pendulum itself was made

978
00:55:18.159 --> 00:55:22.000
<v Speaker 1>of rutilated quartz. The handle of the pendulum was moldivit

979
00:55:22.599 --> 00:55:26.760
<v Speaker 1>and everything changed The energy and the connection that I

980
00:55:26.800 --> 00:55:30.480
<v Speaker 1>had with that pendulum was then and is still to day,

981
00:55:31.000 --> 00:55:34.679
<v Speaker 1>absolutely amazing. And I know it's partly, of course, the

982
00:55:35.239 --> 00:55:37.599
<v Speaker 1>quartz itself and the work that the rutlated courtz does,

983
00:55:38.079 --> 00:55:43.039
<v Speaker 1>but there's also all that wonderful energy and connection that

984
00:55:43.119 --> 00:55:47.079
<v Speaker 1>I have with the pendulum handle of moldivit itself. I

985
00:55:47.159 --> 00:55:51.440
<v Speaker 1>never had any negative reactions to working with the stone,

986
00:55:51.559 --> 00:55:54.000
<v Speaker 1>but it's not something that I wore around my neck

987
00:55:54.079 --> 00:55:56.199
<v Speaker 1>or kept on my body. Were close, so I don't

988
00:55:56.199 --> 00:55:58.599
<v Speaker 1>know if that would have been different. But I am

989
00:55:58.719 --> 00:56:02.079
<v Speaker 1>very grateful for the work that Moldidite does and that

990
00:56:02.119 --> 00:56:03.840
<v Speaker 1>it was willing to do some of that work with me.

991
00:56:05.119 --> 00:56:07.679
<v Speaker 2>I did. I found remember that crystal story you and

992
00:56:07.719 --> 00:56:09.639
<v Speaker 2>I liked in South Carolina.

993
00:56:09.559 --> 00:56:11.559
<v Speaker 1>I do, which is being remodeled by the way.

994
00:56:12.119 --> 00:56:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's changing, for sure, But back then they used

995
00:56:17.480 --> 00:56:20.559
<v Speaker 2>to a lot of the workers would work with the

996
00:56:20.599 --> 00:56:23.679
<v Speaker 2>stones themselves and put them into their own jewelry molds

997
00:56:24.000 --> 00:56:27.000
<v Speaker 2>and wiring. And this lovely young man had taken this

998
00:56:27.039 --> 00:56:29.840
<v Speaker 2>beautiful piece of mold device and had wired it to

999
00:56:29.960 --> 00:56:32.360
<v Speaker 2>it in a necklace formation in such a way that

1000
00:56:32.480 --> 00:56:35.800
<v Speaker 2>no matter where I wear it, it looks like he

1001
00:56:35.880 --> 00:56:37.880
<v Speaker 2>formed it so that the wire looks like a person

1002
00:56:38.000 --> 00:56:42.159
<v Speaker 2>hugging the moldivite. And I just loved that so much,

1003
00:56:42.440 --> 00:56:45.280
<v Speaker 2>so I bought the stone, and it took me a

1004
00:56:45.320 --> 00:56:47.719
<v Speaker 2>while to be able to wear it all day. Now

1005
00:56:47.760 --> 00:56:50.920
<v Speaker 2>I can't. I've never had a reaction like that to

1006
00:56:51.119 --> 00:56:54.079
<v Speaker 2>a crystal except Herkimer diamond. I remember the first time

1007
00:56:54.480 --> 00:56:57.519
<v Speaker 2>Herkimer diamond made me feel a little unmoored as well.

1008
00:56:57.920 --> 00:57:01.719
<v Speaker 2>But as I started really working with energetic vibrations and

1009
00:57:02.079 --> 00:57:06.559
<v Speaker 2>practicing daily grounding techniques, now I can wear my moultivite

1010
00:57:06.559 --> 00:57:09.199
<v Speaker 2>all day long, but it can take some time. It's

1011
00:57:09.239 --> 00:57:10.159
<v Speaker 2>a powerful.

1012
00:57:09.760 --> 00:57:14.039
<v Speaker 1>Stone, yeah, it is. It absolutely is. Well.

1013
00:57:14.079 --> 00:57:16.519
<v Speaker 2>We hope that you guys have enjoyed these questions and

1014
00:57:16.559 --> 00:57:18.840
<v Speaker 2>stories as much of as much as deb and I

1015
00:57:18.840 --> 00:57:21.800
<v Speaker 2>have enjoyed bringing them to you, and we hope that

1016
00:57:21.840 --> 00:57:25.320
<v Speaker 2>you do take a moment today or tonight or tomorrow

1017
00:57:25.440 --> 00:57:28.519
<v Speaker 2>to just send up some prayers and blessings to all

1018
00:57:28.519 --> 00:57:31.679
<v Speaker 2>of the listeners who are dealing with some you know,

1019
00:57:31.719 --> 00:57:36.239
<v Speaker 2>big stuff grief and courting and really healing and doing

1020
00:57:36.320 --> 00:57:39.000
<v Speaker 2>and doing the real true work of what it is

1021
00:57:39.039 --> 00:57:42.039
<v Speaker 2>to be a spiritual person in this world today and

1022
00:57:42.360 --> 00:57:45.280
<v Speaker 2>we'd like to just extend that blessing and loving energy

1023
00:57:45.280 --> 00:57:49.000
<v Speaker 2>to all of you listening, praying, and intending that all

1024
00:57:49.039 --> 00:57:51.880
<v Speaker 2>of us have a beautiful, blest rest of our month,

1025
00:57:52.239 --> 00:57:57.360
<v Speaker 2>filled with signs synchronicity, but also the knowledge that we

1026
00:57:57.400 --> 00:58:01.920
<v Speaker 2>are all unconditionally loved and held in supported, not only

1027
00:58:01.920 --> 00:58:05.840
<v Speaker 2>from each other and the interconnectedness that weaves us all together,

1028
00:58:06.239 --> 00:58:08.559
<v Speaker 2>but also from all of our loved ones, guides and

1029
00:58:08.639 --> 00:58:11.679
<v Speaker 2>angels on the other side. We're all in this together.

1030
00:58:12.159 --> 00:58:15.280
<v Speaker 2>Have a great week. Everyone, be the light for yourself

1031
00:58:15.320 --> 00:58:15.840
<v Speaker 2>and others.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care everyone.

1033
00:58:23.599 --> 00:58:27.239
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for listening to Psychic Teachers, your podcast for seekers,

1034
00:58:27.360 --> 00:58:30.960
<v Speaker 2>light workers, mystics, and magical thinkers. If you like the show,

1035
00:58:30.960 --> 00:58:33.199
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1036
00:58:33.239 --> 00:58:36.320
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<v Speaker 2>our Facebook page Psychic Teachers, or our websites Samantha Fay

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00:58:40.360 --> 00:58:43.679
<v Speaker 2>dot com and Debbowen dot com. Thanks for listening and

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<v Speaker 2>have a great week.