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Speaker 1: The Second Date Update on kJ three. Nolan, welcome to

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the second add update there. First of all, welcome to

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Oklahoma City. How long have you been here?

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Speaker 2: Thanks, I've only lived here for about six months. Been

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a pretty pretty new transition for me.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, you're on the dating scene, right.

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Speaker 2: I really haven't had a chance to date too much

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since I moved here. But I did finally meet someone

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that I was excited about on one of the apps,

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and uh, yeah, we went out and we had a

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fun date. She even said, yeah, we should do this again.

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I'm like, yeah, all right, So finally in my head,

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this is this is gonna work out, you know, six months.

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I guess it's not too long, but yeah, it's about time.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: But now, actually I can't get it to answer me

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back at all. I'm being ghosted. It feels like I

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don't know. I've listened to the Second Date Update all

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the time. It kind of seems to be a thing

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here because it's a comment for for the Oklahoma women.

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Speaker 3: That's true, that's true, And if you listen all the time,

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you know we're gonna get her on the phone, and

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most likely you're not getting a second day.

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Speaker 1: But at Lastia find out maybe a little more about

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the way the Oklahoma women think. I have hope.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we still get to hear what's happening.

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Speaker 1: Okay, cool, all right, all right, we'll talk to her

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coming up.

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Speaker 3: Second date update kJ one, O three, TJ and a

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man in the morning. Haley's ready for the second date

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update and okay, So Nolan told us, you know, he's

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kind of new to the area.

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Speaker 1: He finally met someone. It was you, Haley, you were

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the one. He was like, Wow, what a dame. This

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is someone I can date.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and then he's like, well, is this how Oklahoma

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women are?

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Speaker 1: Because one day and you're just kind of ignoring him.

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Speaker 4: When we first started talking, he told me he was

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a lawyer, and I thought, cool, I've never dated a

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lawyer before.

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Speaker 5: And then we went on.

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Speaker 4: The date and I started asking him about it naturally, and.

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Speaker 5: Things just didn't really add up, Like when I asked

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what kind of law he practiced, he couldn't really explain it.

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At one point he was like, I mostly do court stuff,

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which really is then an answer just and then I

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asked if he spends most time, like most of his

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work time in court or writing briefs or whatever, and

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he kind of changed the subject, so I don't know.

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Speaker 4: After the date, I googled him and I couldn't find

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a law firm LinkedIn, like, absolutely nothing, not even on

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his social media that showed that he was a.

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Speaker 5: Lawyer of any kind.

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Speaker 4: So my verdict is he made the whole thing up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Nolan here, let's just ask him, Nolan, are you

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I mean, are you a lawyer?

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Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, you know the problem is you're probably not

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going to find too much about any of the professional

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stuff because, like I said, I just moved here, so

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I haven't really gotten all that stuff established quite yet.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but I couldn't find anything about you from anywhere

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at all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you know, I'm not I'm not a hot

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at the big time famous attorney or anything like that.

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So I mean I'm not going to pop up the

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top of the Google searches, I know, but.

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Speaker 4: Attorneys usually exist somewhere on the internet, right, I mean.

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Speaker 1: We can just like where do you work? Where are

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you aware?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Where are you now?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just kind of like between firms right now.

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I'm trying to find something a little more established, but

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I'm sort of freelancing, so I'm just I'm kind of

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in the vapor right now.

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Speaker 4: Why didn't you answer basic questions about your job?

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Speaker 2: Then? Well? I did? I did. I told you I

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worked mostly in like, you know, civil litigation, contract type things.

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Speaker 4: That's exactly what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: Though, What what? What is what you're talking about?

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Speaker 5: You just sound like someone who watched this thesion of

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like suits or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So are you saying, Haley that you object

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to going out again because you don't think Nolan is

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a real lay Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I get an objection, nice, very nice, nice touch.

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Speaker 5: I do object.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So answer me this cross examined. Why would I

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lie about being a lawyer?

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Speaker 1: There you go, that's a great don't I don't know.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm asking.

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Speaker 2: If I was going to invent some career and try

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to impress you, I'd say I was. I say it

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was a rock star or a tech millionaire, or an

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app developer or something.

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Speaker 5: Your brain surgeon. Really maybe, but nothing about your story

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made me feel confident that you were telling me the truth.

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Speaker 4: That That's just where I'm coming from.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know what else to tell you. I mean,

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I can I can find my diploma, but I can

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send it to you. Good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're not going to let you improve it?

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Speaker 4: I am good?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I swear I'm a lawyer. I mean,

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like I said, I just moved here getting established. Apparently

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I'm just terrible at talking about my own job. All right, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, Haley, thanks for coming on on second date update.

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Speaker 5: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I believe you. If that counts for anything,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: But Nolan, you're you are like you have a diploma,

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you have a degree past the.

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Speaker 2: Bar, You're I've got a degree, I've got an Esquire

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after my name.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on the second date up date.

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We appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, thank you so much. And you know, if

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there's any more Oklahoma women who work.

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Speaker 1: Ghost sounds good.

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Speaker 5: Thanks John.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Courtney kind of believes him. Courtney says he should

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have just said I have a law degree, I'm looking

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for legal work. There we go, instead of pretending he

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already had it. I think she's telling him how to

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lie about.

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Speaker 6: But you know, at least it's the closer to the truth.

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Speaker 3: He did offer to show him shows his degree, so

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I feel like that's major. Lawrence says, trust your gut.

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Her has told her something wasn't right. You gotta go

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with it.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. kJ went on three E. TJ and Amanda

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in the morning. Okay, Emily, what did you want to

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say about this?

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Speaker 6: Life is too short? There are too many people in

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this world who are lovely. If people are acting black

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when nothing's on the line, you have to get out

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of there. Okay, Okay, what is this? This isn't like

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one of those things you only know three people like.

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We have the Internet. You can find any person on

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the face of the planet if you really wanted to.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, this gud being a lawyer, we can't find

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m Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Ryan says, I'd give him one chance to explain. Maybe

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he just passed the bar somewhere else and hasn't gotten licensed.

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Speaker 1: Here in Oklahoma. That's a real thing, okay.

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Speaker 3: And then Melissa says, who lies about being a lawyer?

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It's it's a random career to.

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Speaker 1: Make out something else. Maybe it's harder to can't lie

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by being a doctor. You might be put to the

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test on that, So lawyers easier.

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Speaker 3: Kayla says, maybe he saying lawyer sounded better than staying unemployed.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Jason says, not every attorney has a huge online presence.

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Speaker 5: That is very true.

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Speaker 1: That way, if he's new.

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Speaker 3: And okay, see, I wouldn't automatically assume he's lying.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'll give him the benefit of the doubt just because

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if he is a lawyer, I don't want to get

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Speaker 1: Sued, right, right, we need to be safe here a right,