Speaker 1: The Second Date Update on kJ three. Nolan, welcome to
the second add update there. First of all, welcome to
Oklahoma City. How long have you been here?
Speaker 2: Thanks, I've only lived here for about six months. Been
a pretty pretty new transition for me.
Speaker 1: Obviously, you're on the dating scene, right.
Speaker 2: I really haven't had a chance to date too much
since I moved here. But I did finally meet someone
that I was excited about on one of the apps,
and uh, yeah, we went out and we had a
fun date. She even said, yeah, we should do this again.
I'm like, yeah, all right, So finally in my head,
this is this is gonna work out, you know, six months.
I guess it's not too long, but yeah, it's about time.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: But now, actually I can't get it to answer me
back at all. I'm being ghosted. It feels like I
don't know. I've listened to the Second Date Update all
the time. It kind of seems to be a thing
here because it's a comment for for the Oklahoma women.
Speaker 3: That's true, that's true, And if you listen all the time,
you know we're gonna get her on the phone, and
most likely you're not getting a second day.
Speaker 1: But at Lastia find out maybe a little more about
the way the Oklahoma women think. I have hope.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we still get to hear what's happening.
Speaker 1: Okay, cool, all right, all right, we'll talk to her
coming up.
Speaker 3: Second date update kJ one, O three, TJ and a
man in the morning. Haley's ready for the second date
update and okay, So Nolan told us, you know, he's
kind of new to the area.
Speaker 1: He finally met someone. It was you, Haley, you were
the one. He was like, Wow, what a dame. This
is someone I can date.
Speaker 3: Yes, and then he's like, well, is this how Oklahoma
women are?
Speaker 1: Because one day and you're just kind of ignoring him.
Speaker 4: When we first started talking, he told me he was
a lawyer, and I thought, cool, I've never dated a
lawyer before.
Speaker 5: And then we went on.
Speaker 4: The date and I started asking him about it naturally, and.
Speaker 5: Things just didn't really add up, Like when I asked
what kind of law he practiced, he couldn't really explain it.
At one point he was like, I mostly do court stuff,
which really is then an answer just and then I
asked if he spends most time, like most of his
work time in court or writing briefs or whatever, and
he kind of changed the subject, so I don't know.
Speaker 4: After the date, I googled him and I couldn't find
a law firm LinkedIn, like, absolutely nothing, not even on
his social media that showed that he was a.
Speaker 5: Lawyer of any kind.
Speaker 4: So my verdict is he made the whole thing up.
Speaker 3: Okay, Nolan here, let's just ask him, Nolan, are you
I mean, are you a lawyer?
Speaker 2: Well? Yeah, you know the problem is you're probably not
going to find too much about any of the professional
stuff because, like I said, I just moved here, so
I haven't really gotten all that stuff established quite yet.
Speaker 4: Okay, but I couldn't find anything about you from anywhere
at all.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you know, I'm not I'm not a hot
at the big time famous attorney or anything like that.
So I mean I'm not going to pop up the
top of the Google searches, I know, but.
Speaker 4: Attorneys usually exist somewhere on the internet, right, I mean.
Speaker 1: We can just like where do you work? Where are
you aware?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Where are you now?
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just kind of like between firms right now.
I'm trying to find something a little more established, but
I'm sort of freelancing, so I'm just I'm kind of
in the vapor right now.
Speaker 4: Why didn't you answer basic questions about your job?
Speaker 2: Then? Well? I did? I did. I told you I
worked mostly in like, you know, civil litigation, contract type things.
Speaker 4: That's exactly what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2: Though, What what? What is what you're talking about?
Speaker 5: You just sound like someone who watched this thesion of
like suits or whatever.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So are you saying, Haley that you object
to going out again because you don't think Nolan is
a real lay Yeah?
Speaker 2: I get an objection, nice, very nice, nice touch.
Speaker 5: I do object.
Speaker 2: Okay, So answer me this cross examined. Why would I
lie about being a lawyer?
Speaker 1: There you go, that's a great don't I don't know.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm asking.
Speaker 2: If I was going to invent some career and try
to impress you, I'd say I was. I say it
was a rock star or a tech millionaire, or an
app developer or something.
Speaker 5: Your brain surgeon. Really maybe, but nothing about your story
made me feel confident that you were telling me the truth.
Speaker 4: That That's just where I'm coming from.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know what else to tell you. I mean,
I can I can find my diploma, but I can
send it to you. Good.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're not going to let you improve it?
Speaker 4: I am good?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I swear I'm a lawyer. I mean,
like I said, I just moved here getting established. Apparently
I'm just terrible at talking about my own job. All right, all.
Speaker 1: Right, well, Haley, thanks for coming on on second date update.
Speaker 5: Thanks for having me.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I believe you. If that counts for anything,
I don't know.
Speaker 2: All right, well, I appreciate that.
Speaker 3: But Nolan, you're you are like you have a diploma,
you have a degree past the.
Speaker 2: Bar, You're I've got a degree, I've got an Esquire
after my name.
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on the second date up date.
We appreciate it.
Speaker 2: Hey, guys, thank you so much. And you know, if
there's any more Oklahoma women who work.
Speaker 1: Ghost sounds good.
Speaker 5: Thanks John.
Speaker 3: Okay, Courtney kind of believes him. Courtney says he should
have just said I have a law degree, I'm looking
for legal work. There we go, instead of pretending he
already had it. I think she's telling him how to
lie about.
Speaker 6: But you know, at least it's the closer to the truth.
Speaker 3: He did offer to show him shows his degree, so
I feel like that's major. Lawrence says, trust your gut.
Her has told her something wasn't right. You gotta go
with it.
Speaker 1: Thanks guys. kJ went on three E. TJ and Amanda
in the morning. Okay, Emily, what did you want to
say about this?
Speaker 6: Life is too short? There are too many people in
this world who are lovely. If people are acting black
when nothing's on the line, you have to get out
of there. Okay, Okay, what is this? This isn't like
one of those things you only know three people like.
We have the Internet. You can find any person on
the face of the planet if you really wanted to.
Speaker 4: That's true.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, this gud being a lawyer, we can't find
m Yeah exactly.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: Ryan says, I'd give him one chance to explain. Maybe
he just passed the bar somewhere else and hasn't gotten licensed.
Speaker 1: Here in Oklahoma. That's a real thing, okay.
Speaker 3: And then Melissa says, who lies about being a lawyer?
It's it's a random career to.
Speaker 1: Make out something else. Maybe it's harder to can't lie
by being a doctor. You might be put to the
test on that, So lawyers easier.
Speaker 3: Kayla says, maybe he saying lawyer sounded better than staying unemployed.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 3: Oh, Jason says, not every attorney has a huge online presence.
Speaker 5: That is very true.
Speaker 1: That way, if he's new.
Speaker 3: And okay, see, I wouldn't automatically assume he's lying.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 3: I'll give him the benefit of the doubt just because
if he is a lawyer, I don't want to get
Speaker 1: Sued, right, right, we need to be safe here a right,