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Speaker 1: I made us pace Sunny Sun on Ihad a Visions night.

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What's up, everybody, Welcome to our Friday show, Friday Edition,

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Friday Edition. We got Kaylin sweating us outside, he said.

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I thought he said he doesn't need to do anything

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till five. Yeah, it's four seventeen. Yeah, we've got plenty

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of time already. Did our Patreon. Yeah, we're sitting pretty,

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We're sitting pready. Don't have to don't have to turn

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off any of the equipment. That's right. We'll peak behind

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the curtains like we have like closing duties. It's like

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we're waitresses. Do our side work. Turn everything off, clean

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it up, turn off the lights, turn off the yeah,

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turn off the air. Okay. I just feel like so

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much much time. Things kept happening in my life, like

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big life things were happening, and I was like, where

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the fuck is Lynette for me to help all this?

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I know, So here's some news we can use. So

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Xander finally got his he got all his UC applications in,

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and I want to know, today's the deadline yet? Did

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your kids study? Sunny is doing it, and he's gonna

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do it in January, I guess, or something because he

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doesn't have he's a little bit shy of credits. Oh

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just here at this time. And then Natalia is doing

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the same thing or something. She wants to go abroad.

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She wants to do this thing, this studying a broad

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thing that she also she doesn't she doesn't want to

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go to a UC center. And then when she comes back,

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she's gonna she's gonna apply that's what she wants to do.

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Oh okay, yeah, so is it the is it part

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of UC Santa Barbara study abroad her? Is it? Like

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she look, she's going to some meeting about it this week. Okay. Yeah.

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Because her friends that did the same thing she's doing,

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one of them went, yeah, she's doing it, like that's

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where she is. She's doing the same she's in Spain.

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But she did the community college just like Natalia. Oh okay,

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so there's some program. So I thought this whole time though,

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that she was wanting to tag like do that, That's

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what I thought. But she's now like interested in this

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and she's going to go this week. So yeah, these kids, man,

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they know what they have their own path. Yeah, And

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like as controlling as I want to be, it's like, yeah,

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what they're going to do. They're gonna do what they're

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gonna do. But Xander, I want to report that I

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never read any of his essays and he never offered

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to read them to me. And it's probably for the best, yeah,

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because I trust that he You know what, this woman

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Mollie that's helped the kid, Oh, he's got somebody helping him.

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We paid for an essay coach and she helped Elbe.

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And remember I did not hear okay, So the first,

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the first go around with Elbe, I helped her with

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the I grounded her to make her stay home and

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finish the essays, and I literally sat on her bed

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and helped her. I didn't write it for her, but

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I helped her shape, flash it out, flush it out,

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and even like a couple of times I was like, well,

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you could say it like this, and she'd be like, mom,

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I'd never use that word. And I was like, sure,

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like write it, put it only in your own words.

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So she did that and then she did not get

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into any colleges. So when she it came time to

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do it again the next year, I was like, I'm

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going to be hands like, obviously I don't have a

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good I don't know what they want. I'm trying to

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make you be like more creative. And Elbie's like the

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essay coach that I talked to, the one she talked

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to at Pierce College told her, I just want you

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to answer the question. Be a good writer, but answer

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the question right. Don't try to be a storyteller. Yeah, okay,

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I'm making it into a whole moth event. You know,

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hooky opening line. I give him a button at the end,

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make him laugh, and you know, she's like, no, they

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don't want that. So with Xander, I was like, you

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know what, I helped him with his original ideas. I

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didn't help him with the ideas, but I was like,

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you could talk about this topic or maybe this, and

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he in the end he did different than what I said,

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but he brought them to Melissa. He brainstormed, he gave

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her the topic. She helped him shape it. He's and

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you know what, every meeting he had with her, he

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only had one meeting like over zoom and then he

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sent her the stuff. She sent back notes. She's really fast,

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day he'd have the notes. Wow. And then she was

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until she was like, okay, you're good to go. Oh

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that's good. That's nice. So then I was like, okay,

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but you understand. So he was doing that play right

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right up until the week before Thanksgiving. I was like,

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when the fuck are you going to do the college stuff?

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The U sees the deadline is today today, we're recording

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December first, So he was like, I'm going to do it.

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I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it.

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And I'm like, there's more to it than just the essays.

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There's like all the activities, all awards, and you have

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to word. It's like making a resume right right. But

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you know what, he got it all done. I'm super

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proud of him. And then we sat yesterday and he

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figured out what major for what school? Oh nice? Yeah,

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so u c LA not the I think he'd get

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in there first try, but they don't even you can't

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apply for a communication major there. Really, yeah, they just

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don't because it's I guess it's so impacted that they

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only allow it for transfer students or you have to

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go get in there majoring in something else and then

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apply to the program. Oh. So he wasn't thrilled about that.

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So he's not super excited because he put down English

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major with an eye on switching. But I don't know

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if that's where he would want to be anyway. So

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how many places did he? So he applied to, you see,

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Santa Cruz, which he wasn't going to because remember remember

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this whole thing two years ago where Lbie where we

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made Lbi go on a tour of it because it's

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the only one she got into. Yeah, and then she

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was like, I'm not going to school on a hiking trail, right,

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And she was crying and going, I don't like tree trees. Yes,

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there's too many trees. She would hate Oregon. Yeah, yes,

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they're very very earthy, crunchy. In Santa Cruz. There thing

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is the banana slugs. You know. She's just like, none

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of this is for me. If I could go to

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school in a pacsun in a mall, I would do that,

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right right. So, but you know, so Xander was ready

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to kind of poo poo Santa Cruz. He didn't have

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it checked. And I was like, you know, you're not

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elbe like and he's like, well, I'm not really like

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either in nature either, and I was like, yeah, but

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you are a quirkier kid than Albe and you like

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quirkier kids, and it could be your vibe. We don't know,

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it's not your vibe right anyway, So we started looking

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at the majors and they have a music major that

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you don't have to audition into. Oh and it has

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like music theory and like and he was like, this

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is really cool. He goes, do you think I would

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be stupid though, to major in music? And I was like, no,

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who cares? Yeah, it doesn't really matter what you major in,

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right right, Yeah, even if you majored in the music business,

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it doesn't mean you're going to get a job in

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the music right right, Like it's all who you know. Yeah, yeah,

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it's all who you connect with. Yeah, none of it.

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None of it matters. Like do whatever is going to

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make you happy? But I don't because it was that

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or there was media studies, and he was just more

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jazzed about the music idea, right yeah, And so he anyway,

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so he applied to Irvine, Santa Cruz, Berkeley, UCLA, and

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Santa Barbara. Wow, those are good. We'll see those are

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good if he gets into anywhere. Oh oh wow, I

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have good feeling fingers crossed on that he doesn't want

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to go too far from home. He would rather stay

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in California. Yeah, so he was naming a couple of

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other colleges that he'd heard. So, at his school, they

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do a lot of like they do a lot of

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programming where hey, this representative from this school either it's

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a zoom or I don't know, we're going to talk

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about this school. So one day he came home and

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he was like, so, Sarah Lawrence is like a really

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cool school and they have this interesting curriculum. And I

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was like, yeah, okay, well see I mean you hear.

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Oh some of the private schools give you a lot

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of merit money, right, you know. And I looked up

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Sarah Lawrence and it's like ninety thousand dollars a year tuition.

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What wow. I was like, okay, let's just say that.

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Sarah Lawrence is like, we must have Xander at our school,

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Like we cannot survive without Xander. We will give him

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forty thousand dollars off right, still too expensive? Like right, yeah,

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it's still extend And so qud in New York back

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and forth. Wow, I know, I know. Well, I mean,

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my my girlfriend Suzanne her daughter's you know, been going

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it's so expensive. And she just came home for Thanksgiving

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only for like four days and you know, plane tickets

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just it's just ridiculous. It's very expensive. And then like

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if she has to go there and had her help

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her set up and she's got to pay and then

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the hotels out there. Yeah, I mean that's a lot.

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if Sadie goes to Pierce, that'll be fine because that'll

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be free. But if she goes to like Season, that's

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still a tuition though she'll be living at home. It's

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a lot of money. Yeah, And I was like, you

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know what, I don't think so this fast Fastpa FASPA. Yeah,

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the problem is with FAFSA and all of you guys

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who have kids applying for college know what I'm talking about.

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It's really difficult to be middle class. Yeah, So if

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you have money in the bank, if you like, live

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in a house, if you have you're probably not fall

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rich and we don't we don't have it like that.

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But when you have money in the bank, when you

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have investments, when you have like even though that's our

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fam that's our money, that's like our retirement. But they

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they're like, no, you don't know. You have to be

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like pretty poor to get good financial aids. So could

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the kids apply for a million scholarships? Yes, but here's

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the problem. A lot of these scholarships are like two

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thousand here, you know, one thousand dollars here, So they're

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going to spend all their time doing that for like

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a few thousand dollars ain't gonna make me able to

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afford Sarah Lawrence. Right, So, like I said, I was

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just like, I don't know, Xander, like, let's look into

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a school that would be more desperate for a kid

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like you. It would give you like a free ride

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or something. So we're still thinking about that, do yet? Yeah? Okay,

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all right, Well it sounds like he's gotten everything you pressed.

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Feel good that he's got that off his chest. Get

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that done and added the way, it was such a relief.

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Yeah to like you submit. I was not that he'll

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get into not that that's the be all end all,

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but you know a UC would be would would be great. Close, yes, sir,

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but like when so Sunny can't he's going to like

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apply in another in next semester. Yeah, okay, so he's

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going to do like one extra smount. He says that

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after this semester that he'll have or after he will

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have enough credits by the next time it comes around

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for him to apply, Okay, which is in like January.

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I think so if he applies in January, so that

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doesn't still count for this year. I don't know, dude, Okay,

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I don't know. I really like I try and asked

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these guys all these questions and stuff, and like they're like,

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we got it, I got it, I got it, I

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got it. Whatever. I'm like, all right, all right, So yeah,

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so you might just do an extra semester. Yeah, yeah,

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that'll save you money. Yeah in the long run, if

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he only goes to University of Oregon for a semester

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and a half, right, or he'll go for two years.

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Yeah either way, say yeah. Yeah, And he's doing good.

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They're both doing good. So I mean, you know, he

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just went to the Laker game last night with his dad.

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Oh wow. Yeah, yeah, he hung out with Jay Moore.

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Oh really, yeah, he said he was like he's hilarious. Yeah,

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he had a nice time, And I don't you know

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the kids, I don't even know what they're doing with

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their dad this this holiday season, but I know we

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talked about it on last show. But yeah, I'm going

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to figure it out. But you know, they're nice communicate

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with you and say like, hey, I'm going to take

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them go on a trip with them for Christmas. No,

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no communication, right, yeah, but they would tell you if

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they have like, oh yeah, they would tell with him, yeah, yeah,

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they would tell me. Yeah. And I asked Sunny yesterday

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because he spent football Sunday with his dad and took

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Phil with him over there, so you got to see him.

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And then I asked him today on the way. I said,

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is there any plans? And he said, oh, I forgot

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to ask him, Like okay, but I think that if

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there were plans, I'm sure the kids would know about it.

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it out, you know, they're adults. Now. One thing I

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what they want exactly. That's kind of nice. Yeah it is.

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product and plan purchased. Yeah, so was it Saturday night?

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I went to a concert. I went to go see

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Yachtli Crue. Oh yeah, yeah, so I was super excited

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about it. Went with my mom crew. I don't know

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why I call it my mom crew, but it's because

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it was my sort of og mom friends. Yeah. I

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got Cecily and my friend Sharon and uh so and

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where was it? It was at that Peacock Theater where

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the hell downtown? Oh, in downtown by like the Novo

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do you know those? It's down by the like Staples. Okay,

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I don't know, by the Crypto Arena I get. I

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don't know. It's all it's downtown down slass and cut

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off your slascin. Yeah yeah, get off at uh yeah,

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it's Olympic, you're down it's La Live though. Okay, have

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you been down there? Yeah? Oh yeah, like you're in

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Times Square. It's really cool. Yeah yeah, I haven't been

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there in a while, but yeah, yeah, it's really cool.

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It feels like you're like Vegas or Times Square the

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way they have it built. There's all these restaurants. It's

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like really nice. There's an ice skating rink. Oh that's right. Yes, yes,

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I was down there for Pearl Jam. Yeah. When I

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saw Pearl Jam, yeah, so, like I said, I was

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really excited about it. Big that place. But yeah, it's

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a huge theater. And the last time I saw Yachtlee

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Crue was with Robin at the Canyon Club and it

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was so fun. We had the best, best best time.

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I was like, I can't wait to see them again.

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You know. They put on like such a great show,

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all those all these hits that yeah like, oh my god,

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I love this song right right, and then a few

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that you don't love you know, I love that song

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really yeah, bos Gags and yeah, yeah I don't like

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Steely Dan, So I don't like any like Steely Dance, right,

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but you know Holland Oates, Uh, you know Brandy or

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a Fine I'm in right anyway, Okay, so I insist

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that we get there for there's two opening bands. One

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of them is Save Farris. Do you remember saying oh, yes,

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oh yeah, they're like a poor Man's no doubt. Yes,

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that's right. They're OC band SKA punk. They came up

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like with Garbage when Garbage was coming up, and yeah,

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I've seen Save Ferris before. Yeah, so I'm like, I've

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heard of Save Ferris. That sounds cool, right, I know

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there's one other band opening Even though you're like Save Ferrist,

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I don't know what that has to do with the

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vibe of yacht rock. This was just wondering. I was

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thinking that they should have had some like nostalgia band

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like Player, somebody that sings one of that has some

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hits from the seventies. Would have been a cool like

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opening band. But okay not. My My friend is like

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like we could just like have snacks at my house

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and like leave later and like get there, Like what

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time do you want to get there? Like eight thirty?

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I'm like eighteen thirty. No, we got to get there

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at seven third. I'd rather get there at seven. I'm like,

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you know, ready to be an anxious driver. I'm driving

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because I'm the designated driver. Right, Okay, So we get there.

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We're early, We're very early, but we have great seats.

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Here's the problem when you become a little bit older.

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The better the seats, the closer you are to all

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the speakers. Oh yeah, oh my god, the further you

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are from the bathroom. I mean, I feel like I

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am legitimately like just cruise shipping, you know what I mean,

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Like I should just have all my entertainment on a

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cruise ship, you know, bring me the shows, whatever you

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think is best for me. Yes, in the main room

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as a comedian, and here's a magician, and here here's

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a band. They will play songs, you know. Yes, I mean,

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eat dinner at like five o'clock. Apparently going to a

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concert is not for me anymore because the opening band

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comes out, it is so fucking loud right away. I'm like,

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oh no, I'm in trouble because it's We're in a big,

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big theater and it's indoors, so maybe they have to

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keep it down a little bit at the Hollywood Bowl.

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Right at the Hollywood Bowl, You're always like you could

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make it a little louder because and also, yeah, you're outside,

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it's not when you're inside. It's so intense, like you

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could feel it in your chest. Oh my god, thought.

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I was like I was having the most old person

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anxious thoughts. It was terrible. I was like, oh my god,

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I feel this. The base is like making my heart.

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Could this give me like an arrhythmia? Like, oh my god,

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I'm not kidding you. That's I kept that as an

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inside thought. I didn't want to alarm anybody, but I

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almost wanted to be I was almost going to google it,

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like it could this be like damaging? Could I have

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like a heart problem? From like it was so because

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the speakers are like a huge line of speakers and

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they're all kind of like in front of us, right

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because we're like in the seventh row. Wow. Okay, So

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the first band is up, and I'm like, if this

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is any indication for how this show is good? But

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then I'm thinking, you know what, this first band they

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fancy themselves like a rock band, right, So I'm like,

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maybe like Yachtlee Crew will be a little quieter. Ye'll

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be like, yeah, playing seventies songs right right right right?

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Oh god. So then when I took someone, I took

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Sunny to see uh late, who was it? Oh Katie Perry.

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Stunny and Attack to see Katy Perry when they were

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like eight, and that they this the opening act was

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so loud sound. He's like, I could feel the music

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in my penis so yeah, classic, yeah, classic. So then

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Save faris so then they they finish right first fully.

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Then Save Ferris comes out. It's even louder, you mean

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the first that there was another band, the first band

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that was called the Rains r a yn e s.

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They were fine, good songs, but I was like, I'm

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gonna be smite. Ears are going to be so tired.

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It's like fifteen minutes then Save Ferris comes out. You

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needed to bring earplugs. This woman who's the lead singer

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of Save Ferris told everybody that she's fifty because she

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said in nineteen seventy seven she was two. So we

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all did the math and we're like, okay, so you're fifty,

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and she was wearing it was just kind of sad,

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what I mean, Look, she looked fifty. Yeah, and she

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kept trying to be like super sexy because you know,

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she just thinks she's Gwen Stefani. That's the whole vibe. Yeah.

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So she kept putting her foot up on like the

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speaker so like, and then she would try to make

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jokes like yeah, like I had to I got wax today,

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like they got all up in there. Otherwise you would

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have been seeing like seventies bush so gross. People are

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senior citizens in here. We're here to see like yacht

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rock right like this I was. I wasn't offended. I

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was just like, know your audience and even e know

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where we are. Anybody read the room right, do not

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need this volume. There are old people and you could

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see people are uncomfortable, and my friends were my well, okay,

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so my friend Cecily is the one who provided the

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tickets because her husband got in for her for her birthday.

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Uh huh. You know when you can't really be like,

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oh my god, this is horrible, right right, yeah, yeah,

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you got to be like this brand. This is so hard.

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Grands time, thank you, thanks what. I'm having a great time. Meanwhile,

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I'm looking at my friend who's next to me. We've

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balled up toilet paper. One friend in the bathroom to

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get us toilet paper. We have toilet paper stuffing in

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your ears. I don't I think it made it better.

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But then yochtlee Cru finally comes out, right two hours,

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We've been there for seven thirty. They come out at

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nine thirty. I'm sure my other friends were cursing me, like,

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why did you want to get here at seven? I

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mean we got there at like seven fifteen. So now

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we've been there two hours. We're old, right, it's yeah,

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Finally Yachtlee Cru comes out even louder, No, so louder.

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Nobody needs to hear Lido at ninety decibels. Right, my

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friend Laura's apple phone, apple watch, Yes, started lighting up,

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going too loud. It's too loud. He shows it to me.

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It's like this, this level of noise, it's like, over

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ninety decibels can cause hearing. Are you serious if you

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if you subject your ears to this for even ten

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minutes a day, you will have hearing damn it. Oh

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my guess already has hearing aids. Yeah, yeah, she took

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she took them off. Obviously. I was like, oh my god,

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good for you. I wish I had that ability. I

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can hear everything. When something so loud you feel like

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you're being assaulted, yes, yeah, and took all the fun

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out of it. I couldn't. I was like, oh my god,

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I can't. I can't listen to this for so long

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and then it was just like a countdown to when

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is this going to be? Oh? Now really enjoy any

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of the songs getting up to like dance in their seats, Yeah,

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just like just sitting. It's an asshole because Cecily would

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be like, you're not going to stand up, and I'm like,

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I can hear it here. Why would I want to

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stand up? I can hear like it's gonna be even rarer.

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We've been here for three hours, like right. It ended

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up just not being a good time, and I felt

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so bad because you know, I love to complain. Luckily,

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none of my friends listened to my podcasts. Both friends. Yeah,

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of course, still be a surprise. Yes, somebody like Laura

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always Julie's on because they're really good friends. Sometimes her

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name comes up. Other than that they're not listen. But

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I'm just saying it was so sweet of her to

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invite us. Then that's why I feel good because I

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didn't want to be like, oh my god, this is awful.

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Can we get out of here early, like beat the traffic.

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Apparently the lead singer also, we found this out afterward,

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wasn't the normal lead singer. I knew something seemed off.

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Cecily was like, I don't know, the lead singer wasn't

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that good. Then we did a little deep dive and

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found out that the regular lead singer is out with

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like vocal issues. Oh okay, probably from screaming. He's got

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vocal fry. Yeah. I like when I went and saw

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Warrant like last month or whatever, but it was outdoors,

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but still we were like, you know, they got us

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nice seats that we were sitting in the front, but

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the speakers were right there. It was really loud, really loud.

464
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And but again we're outside, Like I can't imagine being

465
00:28:06,839 --> 00:28:11,279
in closed like that. That's crazy. What is that? Okay?

466
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,240
Is it because I'm old, Like is my hearing more sensitive?

467
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,559
Or is that just like hard to listen to at

468
00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:21,480
any age? I don't. I think because we're getting old.

469
00:28:21,799 --> 00:28:24,400
I think it's okay. I can take it. I can

470
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,759
I do. I don't know. I know sometimes even when

471
00:28:27,759 --> 00:28:29,519
I went to the movies for the like, I went

472
00:28:29,559 --> 00:28:31,920
to the movies. Did I tell you I saw that?

473
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:33,519
I think I told you. Yeah. I went to the

474
00:28:33,559 --> 00:28:39,079
movies and saw that crazy movie with Jennifer Lawrence. She

475
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,720
had like posts, oh right, right, But the movie theater

476
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,720
was so loud. I was like, was it always this loud?

477
00:28:44,759 --> 00:28:47,960
I mean it's like a talkie. Yeah. Yeah, But like

478
00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:50,759
when you're watching the you know, the previews and stuff

479
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:55,240
like this summer coming, you know, like March thirteen, it's

480
00:28:55,319 --> 00:29:00,359
just loud. It's like, oh right, I can hear just fine. Well,

481
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,160
I didn't have to be so loud. I don't know,

482
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,400
I don't I don't get it, but yeah, you should

483
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,440
have probably brought your ear plugs. I just didn't think

484
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,440
you didn't think of it. I was like, we're seeing

485
00:29:10,519 --> 00:29:13,640
Yachtley Crew and probably some other soft rock bands. I know.

486
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,279
I just was like, not necessary. I didn't even think

487
00:29:17,319 --> 00:29:20,160
of it, right right, I know. I was just like,

488
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,640
am I going to not be able to enjoy concerts anymore?

489
00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:24,599
I should? I should? I just just hang it out

490
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,920
for me. I think it depends on the on the

491
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,359
on the stadium or wherever they're playing. I remember when

492
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,599
I took my niece, my nephews, Nicholas and Anthony to

493
00:29:35,359 --> 00:29:38,160
their first concert. I took them to their first concert,

494
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,359
which was the Weenie Roast and it was so social

495
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,799
Distortion was the first band, was it? So? Yeah? Yeah,

496
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,680
And they and my brother gave them like these earbuds

497
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,240
to put in their ears. They were like thirteen fourteen,

498
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:54,480
and I gave it to them and they were like, really,

499
00:29:54,519 --> 00:29:56,359
Auntie Lyne, we got to put these in and but

500
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,720
it was so loud. But it was at you know,

501
00:29:58,799 --> 00:30:01,799
it was at the Amphitheater in Irvine, which is out there,

502
00:30:01,839 --> 00:30:04,160
but still it was really loud. So I made them

503
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,000
have it in there. And we were just talking about

504
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,839
it recently that they had to wear those ear things.

505
00:30:10,119 --> 00:30:12,279
But now they're in their thirties and they're losing their

506
00:30:12,319 --> 00:30:15,200
hearing from listening to loud music in their car, right yeah,

507
00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:18,000
oh yeah, I think John's losing his hearing a little bit.

508
00:30:18,079 --> 00:30:20,799
And he went to tons of concerts, like he went

509
00:30:20,839 --> 00:30:23,440
to loud shows all the time. Oh yeah, a big

510
00:30:23,519 --> 00:30:26,400
music guy. All of us that we grew up together,

511
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,319
Like Glenn had this four fifty five camaro with you know,

512
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:34,519
his pioneer stereo whatever, and it was so loud all

513
00:30:34,599 --> 00:30:37,720
the time. Now they're all wearing hearing aids everybody, all

514
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,960
the guys, like all my friends, they're all hearing aids.

515
00:30:41,519 --> 00:30:46,160
I'm next. I went to a concert. It was years ago,

516
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,359
and I went with our friend listener of the show,

517
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:53,359
Tory Weber and Robin And remember when we went to

518
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:58,279
see Styx lover Boy and Ario speedlived. Yes, best night

519
00:30:58,319 --> 00:31:00,640
in my life. It was in Burbe or something like

520
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:05,359
it's in Irvine, was in Irvive or whatever outdoors. The

521
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,000
volume was perfect, really, I think I remember thinking, I

522
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:11,839
wish it was even like a tiny bit louder, a

523
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,119
tiny bit. Yeah, so it it can't be that. It's

524
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,640
always like that. Don't anybody say the Yachtli Crew like

525
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,359
it's not necessary. The songs you're singing don't need to

526
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,279
like man Eater does not have to be at ninety day,

527
00:31:25,319 --> 00:31:28,519
you know, yes, right, it's not like it's some kind

528
00:31:28,559 --> 00:31:32,880
of crapy you're playing just hit other cover songs, right right,

529
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,559
It doesn't know No, I mean it's yacht rock. By

530
00:31:36,599 --> 00:31:39,480
the way, you're on a yacht, You're not you know,

531
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,359
in a stadium's full. Yes, you're you're cruising through the lakes.

532
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:47,640
There's another complaint on the ocean about it. It was

533
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:52,200
a holiday show, so they did holiday songs. Nothing is

534
00:31:52,319 --> 00:31:56,880
more unnecessary than playing Christmas songs. Listen, we're gonna hear

535
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,559
Christmas songs. Nobody needs to do a cover of Police

536
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:06,119
Navidad now, oh now, jingle bell rock, No, thank you, No,

537
00:32:06,359 --> 00:32:08,680
you don't need to do that. I don't even like

538
00:32:08,759 --> 00:32:11,559
Santa Claus is coming to Town nosy nine. I know

539
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,039
you don't need like a cover of it. Unless it

540
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,319
was like if there was a Christmas song that was

541
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,519
a hit in like the seventies or eighties, that that

542
00:32:19,759 --> 00:32:24,519
was then maybe right if it was super of the vibe,

543
00:32:24,759 --> 00:32:29,359
but that's not. They sang those songs, yes, oh god

544
00:32:29,519 --> 00:32:32,119
they did. Not only did they sing those songs, they

545
00:32:32,119 --> 00:32:34,519
did like eight of the songs out of the show

546
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:38,960
were Christmas songs. No, yes, oh, I would have yes, No,

547
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,480
all annoyed. Even that one I did. We were complaining

548
00:32:43,519 --> 00:32:46,720
about because my friend who bought the tickets was like,

549
00:32:47,119 --> 00:32:52,240
this was not necessary, Like one, we're two because it's there,

550
00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:56,000
Christmas like not happen for Consette. That seems kind of

551
00:32:56,079 --> 00:33:04,319
lazy too. Did they have a horn section. Yes, yeah, yeah, yes.

552
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,960
By the way, did you ever go see the Bruce

553
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,839
Springsteen movie. No, I'm waiting for it to come out

554
00:33:10,359 --> 00:33:12,680
at this point, it's got to be on TV. I

555
00:33:12,759 --> 00:33:14,920
mean to start streaming. Yes, it's got to be on

556
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:19,920
TV soon. Yeah, I'm hoping. Okay, So tell me some

557
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,240
things you watch so you know, like I was down

558
00:33:22,279 --> 00:33:26,000
for the count, I really I'm trying to think of

559
00:33:26,079 --> 00:33:29,480
So I watched Game Night, that movie with Jason Bateman.

560
00:33:31,839 --> 00:33:37,440
It's an older movie. Okay, it was okay. I don't

561
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,640
know why why I couldn't keep my eyes open. I couldn't.

562
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,200
Like my head hurt so much, But I watched some

563
00:33:43,279 --> 00:33:47,000
of that. I went back and started also finishing, like

564
00:33:47,079 --> 00:33:52,039
I'm on season six of vander Pump Rules. Oh yeah,

565
00:33:52,119 --> 00:33:54,160
you're still watching that. Yeah. I watched a lot of

566
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,400
Bravo con panels and stuff. Did you see any of

567
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,440
that on Peacock No? Oh yeah, there was this one

568
00:34:01,559 --> 00:34:04,519
panel like with Jeff Lewis and Andy and you could

569
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,559
tell that Andy Cullen was getting irritated with Jeff Lewis

570
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,280
and and then vander Pump brought got brought up. Anyway,

571
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:15,760
So I started watching that. I'm trying to think, like,

572
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,840
there's just there wasn't any I finished the Murdoch murders.

573
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,079
That was good. I kind of petered out though a

574
00:34:22,079 --> 00:34:24,880
little at that. Yeah, they kind of like made it

575
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,320
seem like Buster was like the innocent kid in the

576
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:31,639
in the family that got which I see once, but

577
00:34:31,679 --> 00:34:33,840
he's also kind of a dirt bag, Like I don't

578
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,119
think he was mister innocent, Like he had that whole

579
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:39,840
thing with the with the kid that he beat up

580
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,400
or whatever. Like, I don't know, I just wasn't it

581
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,760
wasn't that great. Yeah, I didn't. It did kind of

582
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:50,239
peter out so I finished that. I'm trying to think.

583
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:53,239
I watched like a lot of old date lines because

584
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:54,719
that's the only thing I could do to keep my

585
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,239
eyes shut and I could just listen. Now I know

586
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:03,719
why you listen to datelines and then hmm, I'm just

587
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,000
trying to think, like there's just there hasn't really been anything.

588
00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:10,119
I'm looking forward to the documentary of p Diddy coming

589
00:35:10,159 --> 00:35:13,599
out tomorrow. Oh is that tomorrow? Yeah, well it'll be

590
00:35:13,639 --> 00:35:16,280
out by now that people listen to this, But yeah,

591
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:20,760
that that fifty cent did he produced it right? And

592
00:35:21,079 --> 00:35:25,000
he's not a fan. No, he hates him, right, yeah,

593
00:35:25,039 --> 00:35:28,719
And he was on Good Morning America this morning. But

594
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:33,199
I saw somebody talk about it on YouTube and basically,

595
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,679
like he has he has footage of like when they

596
00:35:37,199 --> 00:35:39,559
came to arrest him, and like he's got he's got

597
00:35:39,599 --> 00:35:42,039
all this footage of when they came to arrest him

598
00:35:42,039 --> 00:35:45,239
in his hotel, behind the scenes they had. He has

599
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,480
footage of that, his footage of him on the phone

600
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,800
with his lawyers. I don't know how he got all

601
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:54,159
of that. I think that something about p did. He

602
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,000
was shopping at his own documentary to Netflix, and I

603
00:35:58,039 --> 00:36:00,840
think Netflix passed. But then I don't know how it

604
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,440
got in the hands of fifty cent. I don't know.

605
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,079
But that's coming out tomorrows. I'm looking forward to that.

606
00:36:06,679 --> 00:36:08,920
Do you watch the did we talk about the Eddie

607
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:13,239
Murphy documentary? No? Did you watch it? I did, and

608
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,480
I didn't really like it because it's basically like a

609
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:19,840
puff piece about Eddie Murphy. Well hearda wasn't that good?

610
00:36:20,199 --> 00:36:24,320
That's why Eddie Murphy's great and he was an amazing

611
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:26,880
stand up and he was super funny on SNL. But like,

612
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,320
if you produce your own documentary. It's just it was

613
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,880
almost like watching him take a Lifetime Achievement award. The

614
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,320
whole thing was just about how grad he is, how

615
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:40,360
grady is, how much he's changed comedy, and how he's

616
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,239
one of the greatest comedians of all time. And it's like, okay,

617
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,480
but you also had some fucked up stuff and you're like,

618
00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:48,760
hey you yeah, when you got one of the Spice

619
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,360
girls pregnant and then tried to say that it wasn't

620
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,880
your baby, he did that whole yeah, and then she

621
00:36:55,079 --> 00:36:58,719
had to like sue for you know, she had to

622
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,079
have a paternity test. He was like, no, I didn't

623
00:37:01,079 --> 00:37:04,880
get not my kids. Wow. Yeah. And he also had

624
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:09,360
his own like picking up hooker cheating, but he acted like,

625
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,840
oh my gosh, my newest wife is like we've been

626
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:17,039
together a long time, some model chick. Yeah, like we're

627
00:37:17,039 --> 00:37:18,960
so in love. He tried to come off as like

628
00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:25,280
very spiritual. I was like, real, right right, yeah, yeah,

629
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:30,880
all right, well I won't watch that. Yeah. I listened

630
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,840
to this. I was telling you before we started recording,

631
00:37:35,119 --> 00:37:43,119
because I can't. It's a wondering podcast. Uh sorry. I

632
00:37:43,159 --> 00:37:47,519
got a weird like text that was about Xander's therapy appointment,

633
00:37:47,679 --> 00:37:50,119
which is on zoom from our house, and it was

634
00:37:50,119 --> 00:37:54,920
telling me, beautiful, traffic is very heavy. But anyway, that

635
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,679
has nothing to do with him. Okay, it's called It's

636
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,280
about the Memphis Three, which were those three boys. There

637
00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:06,800
were there were these guys that got arrested because they

638
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:12,280
accused them of being like Satan worshippers, these three little boys. Right. Yeah,

639
00:38:13,079 --> 00:38:17,239
there's an HBO doc kind of see Arkansas where it was.

640
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:19,480
It was somewhere a little scary and there was during

641
00:38:19,519 --> 00:38:25,400
Satanic panic and they were falsely accused and they indicted.

642
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,239
They put them all in jail. Really and they all

643
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:32,199
spent like twenty years in jail. Wow. And because there

644
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:36,320
is that HBO doc about it too, So the hboat

645
00:38:36,519 --> 00:38:40,599
if you listen to this, the podcast is good. I

646
00:38:40,599 --> 00:38:43,679
think it's called the Memphis Three and it tells But

647
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:48,639
did you know that the HBO was making a documentary

648
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,119
during the time that the kids were like on trial.

649
00:38:52,679 --> 00:38:56,000
Oh really, So they were doing a documentary about this

650
00:38:56,159 --> 00:38:58,239
crime that happened in this town and the whole like

651
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:03,159
bringing these boys to trial, and the documentary makers were

652
00:39:03,199 --> 00:39:08,800
finding out like some fucked up stuff that they were like, oh,

653
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:12,519
what do we do with this information? This podcast too,

654
00:39:12,599 --> 00:39:15,599
they're like what do how do we handle this? Because

655
00:39:15,679 --> 00:39:19,000
now we're getting information that these kids might be innocent

656
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,159
because of these facts, but like do we include it

657
00:39:22,159 --> 00:39:25,360
in the documentary? Do we bring it to Yeah? It

658
00:39:25,519 --> 00:39:28,119
kind of reminded me a little bit of how the Jinks.

659
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,960
Oh yeah, when they were making that documentary and then

660
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,679
he freaking kind of submitted it on this during the

661
00:39:34,679 --> 00:39:37,840
documentary and they and they had found I can't remember

662
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,320
on the Jinks they also found some information, yet they

663
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:46,079
weren't sure to the Jinks. Yes, yes, so that's ooh

664
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:50,039
that sounds good. Yeah I did Did they ever catch that?

665
00:39:50,119 --> 00:39:55,480
And him really did it? No? But they have a

666
00:39:55,679 --> 00:39:58,920
they pretty much have a very good idea, which you

667
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,960
find out when you listen to to the podcast. Okay, yeah,

668
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:07,880
I think it's it's the latest season of American Scandal, Okay,

669
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:14,719
which is well on Wondering. Yes, okay, I'm trying to

670
00:40:15,039 --> 00:40:17,440
find it. To me, I didn't hit. I didn't follow

671
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,960
it because I just you know, I was not doing anything,

672
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:21,519
so I just listened to it all in a row.

673
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,760
Oh that's on. Yeah, let me see if I can. Oh,

674
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:31,480
it's American Scandal. You know what, Oh my god, I

675
00:40:31,519 --> 00:40:35,840
thought of you. So it's season sixty nine of American Scandal.

676
00:40:36,039 --> 00:40:42,320
Is the West Memphis three Okay, okay, then you're gonna laugh.

677
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:47,920
I also listened to all I've listened to a bunch

678
00:40:48,119 --> 00:40:52,440
of old episodes of Locked Up Abroad. I love that show.

679
00:40:52,559 --> 00:40:55,079
And I've listened to the whole thing on the podcast.

680
00:40:55,119 --> 00:40:57,639
Because there's only like twenty episodes, I've listened to them

681
00:40:57,639 --> 00:41:01,079
all like four times. Yeah. Again, it's like brand new.

682
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,480
I know you should go back and listen. That's really

683
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,039
I'm going to. And you know what else is that

684
00:41:06,119 --> 00:41:08,440
I tell I think we talked about it when John

685
00:41:08,559 --> 00:41:12,000
was here, your husband John Taylor from Duran Durant. Huh.

686
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:19,079
That show Marianna what's her name, she's a journalist, Marianna something.

687
00:41:19,639 --> 00:41:22,440
But it's on Discovery Channel. It's on Hulu and you

688
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:27,039
can and it's called oh god, see this is bad.

689
00:41:27,559 --> 00:41:32,119
I don't know. It's called under She goes basically into

690
00:41:32,159 --> 00:41:37,599
the underworld. Yes, yes, And there's so many episodes, like

691
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,679
you know, she does like the you know, everything from

692
00:41:40,679 --> 00:41:46,119
like you know, hunting tigers and poaching tigers to guns,

693
00:41:46,159 --> 00:41:49,159
you know, uh, the world of like you know, illegal

694
00:41:49,199 --> 00:41:51,960
gun trade. It's a podcast or a show. It's it's

695
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,159
a show show, right, Yeah, No, it's it's on it's

696
00:41:56,159 --> 00:42:00,000
on Discovery Discovery. No, it's a Discovery channel, but it's

697
00:42:00,079 --> 00:42:07,119
on Hulukay. Yeah, Marianne something Discovery Channel, Underworld, under Something Undercover.

698
00:42:07,679 --> 00:42:10,719
It's so good. It's kind of it reminds me then

699
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,920
a little family of locked up abroad kind of thing.

700
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,920
It's I mean, it's it's the way it's done. It's

701
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,639
really gritty, and you know, she's like interviews. She goes

702
00:42:18,639 --> 00:42:21,320
out there and interviews these like drug lore like day

703
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,840
she goes into the most dangerous territories, just her and

704
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,079
her fucking camera guy, and there's a lot of sticky

705
00:42:28,119 --> 00:42:33,440
situation like it's I'm scared for her watching it. It's

706
00:42:33,519 --> 00:42:36,719
really good. There's and she's like four or five seasons

707
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:40,360
of it. You just pick you know, like people going

708
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,159
to get like you know uh bb like like uh

709
00:42:44,599 --> 00:42:47,320
body surgery and stuff. And then like the doctors that

710
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:51,559
are like you know in different countries that charge people

711
00:42:51,679 --> 00:42:54,400
less for doing these like BBL surgeries, you know the

712
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,719
Brazilian butt lists right right, and you know, shit goes

713
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,320
wrong there like all kinds of stories really good, right, yeah,

714
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:06,960
all right, yeah out yeah, all right. Listen, guys, don't

715
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,039
forget about helping me raise some money for Yes, I'm

716
00:43:10,039 --> 00:43:14,119
gonna go check that ou out Lyle Crocodile, and we're

717
00:43:14,119 --> 00:43:16,000
gonna give them. We already have a lot of you

718
00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:19,519
guys have given me money, so we're gonna be able

719
00:43:19,559 --> 00:43:22,920
to I think right and looking at it, probably be

720
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,239
able to get them like a couple of thousand dollars.

721
00:43:25,599 --> 00:43:29,360
Our community is amazing, I know we have the best audience. Yeah,

722
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,920
and I'm gonna give it to her on December thirteenth,

723
00:43:32,079 --> 00:43:35,199
which is when I see her for the Kid's Music Show.

724
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,719
Thank you guys all for that. And let's say hello

725
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,159
to our friends. We got Christa get this drop and

726
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,960
Stephanie's a stinker wrinker, Sandra, it's not easy being green, Jennifer,

727
00:43:46,199 --> 00:43:49,639
get out of it. Aaron, she's a dirty Sanchez or

728
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,079
is Leslie is still coughing that antabatics have not kicked in.

729
00:43:54,639 --> 00:43:58,400
Alicia'scalante for the City of El Monte. Kelly Brandt, she's

730
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:03,199
your aunt. Rebecca lub Cut is so hot. Gabby and Missy,

731
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:08,280
there's such a mess. Katerina, check your molar. Valerie hits

732
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:10,440
it out of the park, Polly, we love your pancakes,

733
00:44:10,519 --> 00:44:14,920
Rita's Bassiette is rocking, Elizabeth Williamson's kids, Nikki call your Girl,

734
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:21,480
and Dick is frolicking. And I skipped one of these

735
00:44:21,519 --> 00:44:25,119
to say, Oh, Basic Becky, their all get your Christmas

736
00:44:25,119 --> 00:44:29,159
gifts out. Yes, go to Basic Becky on Facebook or

737
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,400
just basic Becky dot com and you can get like

738
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,440
a fun T shirt or a mouse pad or something

739
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,159
in order now so you can get it in time

740
00:44:35,199 --> 00:44:38,960
for a Christmas gift. Also, why not go to Womanfrida

741
00:44:39,079 --> 00:44:42,000
if you're in Palm Springs or Palm Desert. Yeh, why

742
00:44:42,039 --> 00:44:48,239
wouldn't you? I see no reason. Also, Adams Got a

743
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,760
Car dot com. If you want to get a car,

744
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,360
get in there by the end of the year. That's

745
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,400
a good idea. Yeah, the good prices go down. Yeah

746
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,280
the year. It's great to touch you at twenty twenty five,

747
00:45:00,159 --> 00:45:02,559
in twenty twenty six. Yeah, but Adam will give you

748
00:45:02,599 --> 00:45:04,320
all the advice you need. Go to Adam's Got a

749
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:08,400
Car and thank you guys, and we love you guys. Yeah,

750
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:13,119
you're a parent now, don't f it up. It's good

751
00:45:15,519 --> 00:45:16,239
let angle