WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.200 --> 00:00:03.200 Well, well, well, welcome back, bestie. It's your mother. I'm 2 00:00:03.240 --> 00:00:05.400 so excited to be here with you guys this week. 3 00:00:05.440 --> 00:00:08.279 Our guest today is absolutely amazing. I hope you enjoyed 4 00:00:08.320 --> 00:00:13.279 this conversation as much as I did. She's a comedian, model, actress. 5 00:00:13.400 --> 00:00:17.120 She does it all, Charlotte McKinney. Please enjoy. So I 6 00:00:17.199 --> 00:00:18.199 want to talk to you about this. I was at 7 00:00:18.199 --> 00:00:20.320 a coffee shop this morning and I overheard these two 8 00:00:20.399 --> 00:00:25.600 bros talking about girls online with followings. They're like, they're like, yo, 9 00:00:25.679 --> 00:00:27.679 this girl has like four hundred thousand followers. I don't 10 00:00:27.679 --> 00:00:30.399 think I could date someone like that, Like she seems 11 00:00:30.440 --> 00:00:32.840 too high maintenance. And I was like, it was so 12 00:00:32.920 --> 00:00:36.799 interesting to like just listen to how guys like think 13 00:00:36.840 --> 00:00:42.119 about and process a following. And have you ever have 14 00:00:42.200 --> 00:00:44.200 you ever had a guy like not want to date 15 00:00:44.240 --> 00:00:45.719 you because you're following it so big? 16 00:00:46.799 --> 00:00:48.560 Yeah, Like someone told me the other guy they were like, 17 00:00:48.600 --> 00:00:50.000 I was going to hit you up, but I didn't 18 00:00:50.000 --> 00:00:52.520 even think you would like see it, but I see everything. 19 00:00:53.039 --> 00:00:54.960 That's the thing. People are like, no, you're not like 20 00:00:55.359 --> 00:00:56.000 I would hit. 21 00:00:55.880 --> 00:00:58.000 You up, But I was like, why didn't you? Yeah, 22 00:00:58.119 --> 00:01:05.079 we're also bored I'm also bored, like we're looking like hello, 23 00:01:05.159 --> 00:01:07.840 is anyone there? Yeah, Like the dms have definitely like 24 00:01:07.920 --> 00:01:10.879 cranked a little down, like now that I post this comedy, 25 00:01:10.920 --> 00:01:14.920 like no one really yeah yeah yeah, like she's going 26 00:01:14.959 --> 00:01:19.599 through it. She's going to having an episode psychic psycho 27 00:01:19.959 --> 00:01:20.640 will leave her. 28 00:01:20.920 --> 00:01:21.319 Yeah. 29 00:01:21.959 --> 00:01:23.959 But it's funny you say that because I think I 30 00:01:24.000 --> 00:01:26.480 don't think like I think it's so stupid to be like, oh, yeah, 31 00:01:26.480 --> 00:01:28.719 she's a following. It's like, no, I'm more lonely. 32 00:01:28.439 --> 00:01:30.599 Than than you would ever imagined. 33 00:01:30.719 --> 00:01:31.200 Totally. 34 00:01:31.280 --> 00:01:34.120 Yeah, that's it's such a funny misconception. I almost wanted 35 00:01:34.120 --> 00:01:36.719 to like step in and be like no, d. 36 00:01:36.840 --> 00:01:40.760 M us slide in the DM for sure. 37 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:43.200 Slide slide, slippery slide baby, even if the girl has 38 00:01:43.239 --> 00:01:43.879 like millions of. 39 00:01:43.879 --> 00:01:48.239 Followers, just like, dude, shoot shoot your shot. Yeah, I say, like, 40 00:01:48.680 --> 00:01:50.000 take a chance. So this is the thing. 41 00:01:50.040 --> 00:01:51.680 I really thought it was interesting to be like fly 42 00:01:51.760 --> 00:01:54.680 on the wall listening to guys be like she's going 43 00:01:54.760 --> 00:01:57.400 to be too high maintenance, it's going to be unmanageable, 44 00:01:57.599 --> 00:01:59.400 she's going to be an energy sack. And I really 45 00:01:59.480 --> 00:02:01.799 wanted to like get in there and be like no, no, no, no, no, 46 00:02:01.879 --> 00:02:02.760 Like trust. 47 00:02:02.519 --> 00:02:04.040 Me, did you say anything? No? 48 00:02:04.079 --> 00:02:06.040 Because this it was in Venice Beach and this woman 49 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:08.599 came in with no pants on and started she had 50 00:02:08.639 --> 00:02:11.800 a mask like she had like that. 51 00:02:11.759 --> 00:02:15.080 Sounds like an average coffee shop in Venice, Like you know, 52 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:17.719 she had like a Marty Gras mask on and beads 53 00:02:17.800 --> 00:02:20.800 and then no pants and like a thong and then 54 00:02:20.800 --> 00:02:23.599 she was like yelling about a screenplay where Lebron James 55 00:02:23.639 --> 00:02:24.680 finally retires. 56 00:02:24.680 --> 00:02:27.639 And I was like, you know what I missed moment? Yeah, yeah, 57 00:02:27.960 --> 00:02:30.719 that's like this lady has the floor. Now that's hysterical. 58 00:02:30.800 --> 00:02:32.439 But no, it is true because I think there's like 59 00:02:32.479 --> 00:02:35.680 this because even like when I've talked to my ex 60 00:02:35.719 --> 00:02:38.639 boyfriend's friends are like obsessed with you. They're like she's 61 00:02:38.639 --> 00:02:39.759 the hottest person alive. 62 00:02:39.960 --> 00:02:41.759 Like I don't feel that way. Well, but it's like 63 00:02:41.759 --> 00:02:43.800 if they slid in my damns, I'd be so flattered, 64 00:02:43.919 --> 00:02:47.400 right Like I you said, like I think they need 65 00:02:47.400 --> 00:02:50.000 to do it more. I think people see numbers or 66 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:53.479 think that like they're gonna get lost, But I say, 67 00:02:53.560 --> 00:02:56.080 I say you have to do it. I mean, no idea. 68 00:02:56.199 --> 00:02:58.400 How bored someone with a million followers is. 69 00:02:58.439 --> 00:03:03.800 Extremely no I need I need the convoy. But I mean, 70 00:03:03.840 --> 00:03:08.120 I'm sure there are girls that are maybe like younger 71 00:03:08.120 --> 00:03:11.240 hot or like Instagram girls are like a little more right. 72 00:03:11.719 --> 00:03:17.599 I do see their point because I know influencers who influencers. 73 00:03:17.080 --> 00:03:19.520 Who are always influencing, Like they're getting ready in my 74 00:03:19.520 --> 00:03:21.039 hotel room and I'm on the street. 75 00:03:21.199 --> 00:03:23.919 Now I'm in. When you're like a real real and like, 76 00:03:24.080 --> 00:03:26.560 I don't post my personal life not too much, so 77 00:03:26.719 --> 00:03:30.840 like I have like such a like normal like when 78 00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:33.039 I have like relationship, I'm not like sharing it or 79 00:03:33.080 --> 00:03:37.280 like posting them so, but some girls post every little thing. 80 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:40.000 Everything, and that I couldn't deal with. Yeah, I never 81 00:03:40.039 --> 00:03:42.039 really posted. I mean I had my ex on the 82 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:43.919 podcast once, but I never really posted. You had him 83 00:03:43.960 --> 00:03:46.159 on the pod, which is once, okay, and because I 84 00:03:46.199 --> 00:03:47.439 was living in Palm Beach and I. 85 00:03:47.400 --> 00:03:50.199 Was like I needed a guest. You're like, I'm running on. 86 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:53.039 I was like, he's in my house, so I'm going 87 00:03:53.080 --> 00:03:53.639 to have him on. 88 00:03:54.000 --> 00:03:55.520 But other than that, I didn't post him. 89 00:03:55.520 --> 00:03:57.800 I think it is really important, especially like when you 90 00:03:57.840 --> 00:04:01.080 are kind of a public semi public, you're to keep 91 00:04:01.159 --> 00:04:04.560 that part of the relationship like, yeah, keep it sacred. 92 00:04:04.639 --> 00:04:07.080 When it's in one piece, do you know what I mean? 93 00:04:07.280 --> 00:04:09.400 When you're still with the person, it's like keep it private, 94 00:04:09.479 --> 00:04:10.520 keep it sacred, because like. 95 00:04:10.439 --> 00:04:13.120 The more eyes on it kind of wishing it. People 96 00:04:13.120 --> 00:04:16.360 will pray on your downfall exactly. And I think, what's 97 00:04:16.399 --> 00:04:18.519 your audience, like a male or female? 98 00:04:18.720 --> 00:04:22.079 It's actually like a seventy thirty split male female. 99 00:04:22.160 --> 00:04:25.680 Oh I'm so jealous. Yeah, mine's all just like random 100 00:04:25.839 --> 00:04:28.560 like men in Middle America. So they don't want to 101 00:04:28.600 --> 00:04:32.600 see a guy like right, right right, They want to 102 00:04:32.680 --> 00:04:35.079 la And I've always I guess for me, I've always 103 00:04:35.079 --> 00:04:38.480 wanted to like have this like look like, you know, 104 00:04:38.879 --> 00:04:41.199 not approachable. But I'm not like with some guy like 105 00:04:41.240 --> 00:04:44.079 I've always had to kind of look single. And yeah, 106 00:04:44.160 --> 00:04:46.480 it kind of affected my last relationship because I think 107 00:04:46.519 --> 00:04:48.680 the guy like got but hurt after seven years. I 108 00:04:48.720 --> 00:04:52.399 never posted him. Yeah, but you're like the shady dude. 109 00:04:52.560 --> 00:04:55.000 You're like shady dude, like Shay want to get post 110 00:04:55.079 --> 00:04:56.399 And I'm like, nah. 111 00:04:56.079 --> 00:04:58.279 Yeah, that's the God to put a man in the 112 00:04:58.319 --> 00:05:00.560 position of a woman who just wants to be posted 113 00:05:00.959 --> 00:05:05.240 on the Internet. That is it is women in men's field. 114 00:05:05.360 --> 00:05:06.519 It's kind of nice. 115 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:09.600 Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're like, No, I lose income if 116 00:05:09.600 --> 00:05:10.759 people know I'm in a relationship. 117 00:05:10.800 --> 00:05:13.240 Yeah, Like I lose followers if I post, even if 118 00:05:13.240 --> 00:05:15.839 I post like my guy friends, like, no one wants 119 00:05:15.879 --> 00:05:16.360 to see me. 120 00:05:16.560 --> 00:05:18.879 Or with a man, No, because they all think you're dating. 121 00:05:19.040 --> 00:05:20.959 Yeah, they're all like I need them to have the 122 00:05:21.000 --> 00:05:24.560 illusion delusion that you were like gonna get married. Yeah, 123 00:05:24.560 --> 00:05:28.480 you're their internet wife exactly. Yeah, so I can't. I 124 00:05:28.519 --> 00:05:30.560 can't do that. You can't do that, But there is 125 00:05:30.600 --> 00:05:32.720 something free, Like I thought about it recently, there is 126 00:05:32.759 --> 00:05:36.439 something freeing of like if I did ever do like 127 00:05:36.560 --> 00:05:38.639 it seems kind of fun to post a man. 128 00:05:38.839 --> 00:05:40.839 Yeah, but like you know, like show like when you're 129 00:05:40.920 --> 00:05:44.160 like little something when you find your person. 130 00:05:44.079 --> 00:05:46.000 Yeah, and you're like like all like. 131 00:05:46.360 --> 00:05:48.279 And you know, like here's the reality. If you're with 132 00:05:48.279 --> 00:05:50.279 someone for seven years and you never posted them. 133 00:05:50.120 --> 00:05:53.920 Once, there may be a person there was clearly something 134 00:05:54.439 --> 00:05:56.920 something was a little yeah, something was a little off. 135 00:05:57.279 --> 00:06:00.800 But I'm sure when you find your person, yeah, after 136 00:06:00.839 --> 00:06:03.480 like two years after they sit in jail in fucking 137 00:06:03.560 --> 00:06:04.519 time out exactly. 138 00:06:04.639 --> 00:06:08.199 Yeah, yeah, until I know they don't have Also too, 139 00:06:08.279 --> 00:06:11.399 like once when I did put my X on my story, 140 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:13.439 that's when I found out he was having an affair 141 00:06:13.519 --> 00:06:16.720 because I never shared them. So sometimes you need to 142 00:06:16.759 --> 00:06:20.879 be sharing them so right, you can get the feedback. 143 00:06:20.360 --> 00:06:22.439 Right, so you can find out who their other girlfriends 144 00:06:22.480 --> 00:06:24.240 are exactly. And that's instant. 145 00:06:24.279 --> 00:06:26.560 That's probably why it lasted so long. The other girlfriends 146 00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:27.879 didn't know, they didn't not gather. 147 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:30.639 Yeah, so that's something that I thought was very shady 148 00:06:30.639 --> 00:06:32.680 about the relationship I just got out of. He never 149 00:06:32.720 --> 00:06:35.160 posted me once, and I didn't post him because I 150 00:06:35.240 --> 00:06:37.319 was protecting him and like people, you don't want people 151 00:06:37.360 --> 00:06:38.000 to know who you are. 152 00:06:38.079 --> 00:06:39.639 Yeah, you're like your audience like. 153 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:42.040 Yeah yeah, yeah, I'm like you don't want it. But 154 00:06:42.120 --> 00:06:44.439 for the reverse, he never posted me, and I was like, 155 00:06:44.680 --> 00:06:47.439 I'm like, you're hot, cool fucking yeah, Like I'm like 156 00:06:47.519 --> 00:06:48.040 the one. 157 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:48.720 You need to be posted. 158 00:06:49.079 --> 00:06:50.959 I was like, this is crazy, But. 159 00:06:50.920 --> 00:06:53.639 Have you talked about this yet? Can we get into. 160 00:06:53.439 --> 00:06:56.600 Like yeah, we canna, Yeah we can talk about it. Yeah, 161 00:06:56.680 --> 00:06:58.879 it's I mean, listen, I think. 162 00:07:00.800 --> 00:07:02.319 It's how are you feeling right now? 163 00:07:02.360 --> 00:07:06.240 This is very very optimistic, Like I'm very excited to 164 00:07:06.279 --> 00:07:07.920 go to New York and have a summer and like 165 00:07:07.959 --> 00:07:10.759 do the things I'm also very sad, like, yeah, I've 166 00:07:10.800 --> 00:07:13.240 never been in a relationship before where I was like, 167 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:14.879 this person's going to be my husband and then they 168 00:07:14.879 --> 00:07:16.399 weren't my husband, you know what I mean. 169 00:07:16.560 --> 00:07:19.879 My last one was my actual husband. Yeah, you actually 170 00:07:19.959 --> 00:07:20.160 had that. 171 00:07:20.800 --> 00:07:24.199 It was like I did so much. Yeah, we all forget, 172 00:07:24.319 --> 00:07:27.079 we all forget about the person. Yeah, but you gotta 173 00:07:27.079 --> 00:07:29.480 get it out of the way, you know. Yeah. No, 174 00:07:29.560 --> 00:07:32.160 but I obviously like moved my life to Palm Beach 175 00:07:32.199 --> 00:07:34.920 for this person, and like, listen, we can talk about 176 00:07:34.920 --> 00:07:36.480 it six ways towards the weekend, whether or not he 177 00:07:36.519 --> 00:07:38.279 thinks he was cheating because he's like, I never was 178 00:07:38.319 --> 00:07:40.120 physical with this person. It was just, you know, it 179 00:07:40.160 --> 00:07:43.480 was an inappropriate relationship. But I just think that's worse. 180 00:07:43.600 --> 00:07:46.199 My accent got kind of physical, but it was mostly 181 00:07:46.279 --> 00:07:49.160 an emotional relationship for a really long time, and I think, 182 00:07:49.439 --> 00:07:52.240 to me, that hurt worse. I'm like, go fucking bang 183 00:07:52.319 --> 00:07:54.560 someone out and then like never talk to them again. 184 00:07:55.160 --> 00:07:59.040 But like these like weird like ongoing Yeah. 185 00:07:59.079 --> 00:08:01.279 So the way he just describes it was like this 186 00:08:01.360 --> 00:08:03.839 is my best friend. Okay, He's like, this is my 187 00:08:03.879 --> 00:08:06.360 best friend. They just don't have boundaries. He calls her baby. 188 00:08:06.439 --> 00:08:08.240 He says, I'm glad you're thinking about me before you 189 00:08:08.240 --> 00:08:08.839 go to bed at night. 190 00:08:08.879 --> 00:08:11.560 She sends him having to go so that anyway, so 191 00:08:11.600 --> 00:08:14.519 that's his best friend. Yeah, and I you know, so anyway, 192 00:08:14.519 --> 00:08:16.040 that's his best friend. I'm like, do you send this 193 00:08:16.160 --> 00:08:16.839 to your male friends? 194 00:08:16.839 --> 00:08:19.000 Like, do you know are you and your male friends 195 00:08:19.040 --> 00:08:20.000 exchanging nudes too? 196 00:08:20.040 --> 00:08:26.120 Because then yeah, like yeah, anyway, but whatever the reality is, whether. 197 00:08:25.959 --> 00:08:27.600 Or not it was physical, it's none of my business. 198 00:08:27.680 --> 00:08:30.120 At this point. It was like such a wild betrayal 199 00:08:30.160 --> 00:08:32.039 of trust. I had never felt that before. 200 00:08:32.200 --> 00:08:35.399 It's so weird. It's the weirdest feeling. It's like it's 201 00:08:35.960 --> 00:08:38.120 it's worse because I found out that he was like 202 00:08:38.200 --> 00:08:41.600 telling her my business and mine yeah, yeah stuff. And 203 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:44.480 I was like I had felt so like violent in 204 00:08:44.519 --> 00:08:47.000 a way I've never like I've been Yes, I've been 205 00:08:47.080 --> 00:08:49.320 violating my whole life. Yeah, this was like a different 206 00:08:49.559 --> 00:08:50.840 it's a different feeling. 207 00:08:51.159 --> 00:08:54.320 It just is such a betrayal. And it's like for me, 208 00:08:54.600 --> 00:08:57.399 I'm living with this person, right. I moved my whole 209 00:08:57.399 --> 00:08:59.480 life across the country and put my career on hold. 210 00:08:59.480 --> 00:09:01.679 I did all these things to like create a home 211 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:04.399 with him and then to know that the entirety of 212 00:09:04.399 --> 00:09:06.759 our relationship this was going on behind my back, was 213 00:09:06.879 --> 00:09:11.720 just devastating. And you know, I think at this point, 214 00:09:11.919 --> 00:09:17.399 I'm just like we were incompatible and for many reasons, 215 00:09:17.679 --> 00:09:19.399 but I was not seeing them because I was so 216 00:09:19.480 --> 00:09:19.879 in love. 217 00:09:19.960 --> 00:09:22.679 Like of course when I get in love, I'm like, yeah, yeah, 218 00:09:23.159 --> 00:09:25.000 you look me on it. And I think for you, like, 219 00:09:25.799 --> 00:09:28.840 first of all, congrats, you're killing it and like to 220 00:09:29.039 --> 00:09:33.440 go to Florida and like leave, like with stand up, 221 00:09:33.480 --> 00:09:36.000 you have to be so in it and here and 222 00:09:36.039 --> 00:09:40.240 like to give to do that, like it's a big step. Yeah, 223 00:09:40.639 --> 00:09:43.159 you know, like you're not really hitting clubs every night 224 00:09:43.200 --> 00:09:44.240 in Palm Bea. I have a girl. 225 00:09:44.279 --> 00:09:46.279 I haven't worked, that's the other thing. So then when 226 00:09:46.279 --> 00:09:48.480 I was moving to New York, you know, usually I 227 00:09:48.480 --> 00:09:51.159 can show income because I'm usually working, but now I 228 00:09:51.200 --> 00:09:52.360 have to get a place on my own in a 229 00:09:52.399 --> 00:09:54.320 city that's the hardest city in the country to get 230 00:09:54.480 --> 00:09:58.879 a place in. And I've made literally I'm not exaggerating, 231 00:09:58.919 --> 00:10:00.000 like ten thousand dollars. 232 00:10:00.240 --> 00:10:02.240 Yeah, and they're like you can't afford you know what 233 00:10:02.279 --> 00:10:04.679 I mean. They're like, yeah, it's. 234 00:10:04.519 --> 00:10:08.399 Been such a disorienting experience, but I think ultimately and 235 00:10:08.559 --> 00:10:11.799 like it's divinery direction and like that's how you. 236 00:10:11.720 --> 00:10:12.960 Have to look at it. I think this is a 237 00:10:13.000 --> 00:10:15.559 really exciting chapter. Yeah, you going to New York is 238 00:10:15.840 --> 00:10:18.799 very exciting, and I think that's gonna really. 239 00:10:18.600 --> 00:10:21.840 Like yeah, and you're going to come hang out. 240 00:10:22.039 --> 00:10:23.960 Yes, I really I hate New York. 241 00:10:24.120 --> 00:10:26.360 Okay, good, but it's a good start. That's I used 242 00:10:26.399 --> 00:10:27.080 to be with it too. 243 00:10:27.279 --> 00:10:29.600 Fucking hate it, but like I was up for something 244 00:10:29.720 --> 00:10:32.279 that's out there, and and I was like, honestly, if 245 00:10:32.279 --> 00:10:34.440 like i'm working in a mouth, like if I'm doing stuff, 246 00:10:34.440 --> 00:10:37.080 I'm fine. It's just like when I'm not working out 247 00:10:37.080 --> 00:10:40.360 there and I'm just like spending money to just live, I. 248 00:10:40.279 --> 00:10:41.919 Don't like like fourteen dollars per air. 249 00:10:42.039 --> 00:10:43.799 Yeah, but i'd loved like we should do like a 250 00:10:43.799 --> 00:10:47.120 little like mon Talk weekend or like you know, have 251 00:10:47.320 --> 00:10:49.279 like I'm excited for. I think this is going to 252 00:10:49.360 --> 00:10:51.320 be a really it's gonna be fun. 253 00:10:51.440 --> 00:10:53.720 And if you still want them, you know, his friends 254 00:10:53.840 --> 00:10:56.120 are waiting, they're. 255 00:10:55.840 --> 00:11:01.600 Round Now I'm like, fuck his friend, but like but 256 00:11:02.200 --> 00:11:05.000 like yeah, yeah, fuck his friends or fucking friends. 257 00:11:05.000 --> 00:11:08.320 I really don't care which way you go with that. No, 258 00:11:08.399 --> 00:11:11.600 they're wonderful people. I can't speak to their of course, honestly, 259 00:11:11.600 --> 00:11:14.960 you can have him, honestly take him off my bucking 260 00:11:15.039 --> 00:11:17.159 as we do a mood talk weekend. 261 00:11:17.159 --> 00:11:18.480 He's just in til I'm like, I don't know, I 262 00:11:18.519 --> 00:11:22.679 don't know. You're like bold guys. 263 00:11:23.120 --> 00:11:25.960 The one friend that I sent you is so hot. 264 00:11:26.879 --> 00:11:29.480 Did you send me pictures of them? Yes? You did? 265 00:11:30.559 --> 00:11:32.519 Yes, let me show you again. 266 00:11:33.080 --> 00:11:35.399 I think I I think I told you like my 267 00:11:35.600 --> 00:11:39.000 type is so like weird, where they like if they 268 00:11:39.039 --> 00:11:42.320 like look normal. I'm like, okay, yeah, so you don't 269 00:11:42.360 --> 00:11:48.320 like this guy. You didn't show me this picture. What's 270 00:11:48.360 --> 00:11:55.080 his ethnicity? Jewish? Okay, he looks like Spanish. He might 271 00:11:55.120 --> 00:11:59.279 be something else, as I have to go to friend 272 00:12:00.039 --> 00:12:03.600 all right up, Like, what are running a background check on? 273 00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:04.600 Running out of check? 274 00:12:04.879 --> 00:12:06.679 We're running a background check on you? 275 00:12:06.759 --> 00:12:09.000 Yeah, I don't know. I'm so weird. I'm also like 276 00:12:09.240 --> 00:12:14.440 very big on like humor and personality, so funny. 277 00:12:14.559 --> 00:12:17.039 His friends are also funny. It's very unfortunate how funny 278 00:12:17.039 --> 00:12:18.679 they are. I was like really excited to spend the 279 00:12:18.679 --> 00:12:20.960 rest of our life together with all those friends because 280 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:21.679 they're all very. 281 00:12:21.519 --> 00:12:24.639 Funny, you know, what's tough is when they have a 282 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:26.879 great friend group. Yeah, and then you have to break 283 00:12:26.919 --> 00:12:29.200 up with the friend group. I know, I hate that. 284 00:12:29.519 --> 00:12:31.879 Yeah, it's really tough. It's funny. One of his friends 285 00:12:31.919 --> 00:12:34.279 like joined my Patreon yesterday and I had to like 286 00:12:34.320 --> 00:12:35.759 block him because I was like, I know, you're just 287 00:12:35.799 --> 00:12:36.799 in your fucking snooping. 288 00:12:36.879 --> 00:12:38.600 Yeah, but you just want to hear the d Yeah, 289 00:12:38.639 --> 00:12:40.960 I know, you just want to see that's funny. You 290 00:12:40.960 --> 00:12:42.120 can tell who who? 291 00:12:42.279 --> 00:12:44.320 Well, he did it with his first and last name, 292 00:12:44.639 --> 00:12:48.480 yea is playing his fuck email. I was like, well, 293 00:12:48.559 --> 00:12:49.399 I okay, you're. 294 00:12:49.960 --> 00:12:51.240 It was probably your acts. 295 00:12:52.360 --> 00:12:54.320 I mean, probably maybe wanting information. 296 00:12:54.480 --> 00:12:55.159 But I don't know. 297 00:12:55.240 --> 00:12:57.159 I think he's like kind of in a dark place 298 00:12:57.240 --> 00:12:59.279 right now. I don't know that he's like seeking he 299 00:12:59.320 --> 00:13:00.840 should should. 300 00:13:00.960 --> 00:13:03.639 I want them all in a dark place. Every guy 301 00:13:03.759 --> 00:13:05.799 needs to just be in a dark place at all time. 302 00:13:05.879 --> 00:13:07.399 Men in a dark place. 303 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:09.440 Yeah, it might drop them all in a fucking wild 304 00:13:09.879 --> 00:13:12.200 literally in a manhole in New York City. 305 00:13:12.320 --> 00:13:14.840 I'll find the manholes, you fly out, We'll start pushing 306 00:13:14.879 --> 00:13:18.080 guys on, and we'll just spoil them like fucking lobsters. Truly, 307 00:13:18.159 --> 00:13:19.600 like that woman, did you hear that woman fell into 308 00:13:19.600 --> 00:13:21.000 me and hole and died in New York City. 309 00:13:21.440 --> 00:13:24.919 Sent yeah, like a week ago, horrible death. I didn't 310 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:26.840 know this kind of I know that like that was 311 00:13:26.879 --> 00:13:29.080 even a thing. A death could be this bad? So 312 00:13:29.120 --> 00:13:30.240 you know when those where is it? 313 00:13:30.279 --> 00:13:37.279 Can I go? Yeah? Literally? Can we get? No? 314 00:13:37.399 --> 00:13:39.759 Listen to how horrible this is? So the cover was off. 315 00:13:39.799 --> 00:13:41.879 I don't know what's down there or why it's hot. 316 00:13:42.240 --> 00:13:44.879 But she why is it hot? I don't know what's 317 00:13:44.879 --> 00:13:45.320 down there. 318 00:13:45.440 --> 00:13:48.399 Mike's doing the research, I think, but basically the cap 319 00:13:48.519 --> 00:13:51.639 is off right, and then she gets out of her car, 320 00:13:52.120 --> 00:13:57.000 falls in and then just screams until she dies because 321 00:13:57.000 --> 00:13:59.600 she's getting like boiled or something like that. I was like, 322 00:13:59.639 --> 00:14:02.879 that's a I wouldn't want to like get boiled. No, 323 00:14:03.279 --> 00:14:05.399 And I thought it was just between drowning and firing. 324 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:08.840 Boiling is a combination of the two that sounds horrid. 325 00:14:09.320 --> 00:14:11.080 I'm not why are the sewers so hot? 326 00:14:11.320 --> 00:14:12.279 That's what I'm wondering. 327 00:14:12.639 --> 00:14:16.159 Isn't the walk around? Are you? Did you find it? 328 00:14:16.240 --> 00:14:19.759 I mean, it doesn't say that she was ship boiled 329 00:14:19.799 --> 00:14:23.480 ten feet and suffered fatal scald burns and inhalation injuries 330 00:14:23.480 --> 00:14:27.519 and blunt force trauma. Yeah, aka boiling aka ship boiled. 331 00:14:29.039 --> 00:14:34.840 I'm gonna call it a poostew yahtew our sponsor this week, 332 00:14:34.879 --> 00:14:35.960 you guys, it's Berber. 333 00:14:36.000 --> 00:14:36.879 It's always Berber. 334 00:14:36.919 --> 00:14:41.279 It's our one and only Berber uh. 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No, but I'm excited for this chapter for you. 357 00:15:30.279 --> 00:15:34.120 I think at the time, you think it's the worst, 358 00:15:34.159 --> 00:15:35.799 even like looking back, I was like, this is the 359 00:15:35.840 --> 00:15:37.879 worst thing. But the amount of people I met and 360 00:15:38.000 --> 00:15:42.639 the way getting out of that relationship put me back 361 00:15:42.679 --> 00:15:45.440 into stand up so intensely and like threw me back. 362 00:15:45.480 --> 00:15:49.360 Like I look back and you think that's where your 363 00:15:49.360 --> 00:15:52.519 life's going, and you picture this road and then you're 364 00:15:52.559 --> 00:15:55.720 like no, and your person want to do that to you? Yeah, 365 00:15:55.799 --> 00:15:58.480 you know, yeah truly, Like when you really think of it, 366 00:15:58.519 --> 00:16:01.080 if that was your dude, he would have never who 367 00:16:01.159 --> 00:16:02.840 had been like fuck off? Yeah, I don't. 368 00:16:02.960 --> 00:16:04.480 Like, I just don't need to be with someone who 369 00:16:04.480 --> 00:16:06.399 makes me feel unsafe. You know. I had like a 370 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:08.879 very unsafe and chaotic upbringing, and I just don't need 371 00:16:08.919 --> 00:16:09.759 that energy anymore. 372 00:16:09.799 --> 00:16:13.240 You really don't. You've you've put your time in you 373 00:16:13.320 --> 00:16:16.440 need somebody, Yeah, you don't need that. And I think 374 00:16:16.440 --> 00:16:19.279 too when people try and like work through it, it's 375 00:16:19.320 --> 00:16:21.480 always just going to be in the back of your head. Yeah, 376 00:16:21.600 --> 00:16:23.240 always going to kind of come back to that. You're 377 00:16:23.240 --> 00:16:25.080 not going to trust him. You're going to become the 378 00:16:25.120 --> 00:16:27.200 girl who like is constantly looking through his phone. 379 00:16:27.240 --> 00:16:29.159 It's just not fun. And that's what I was like, 380 00:16:29.200 --> 00:16:30.799 you know, even when we went to therapy and we're like, 381 00:16:30.799 --> 00:16:32.120 what do we need to like make this work? And 382 00:16:32.120 --> 00:16:33.519 I had to make a list, and I was like, 383 00:16:34.000 --> 00:16:35.799 this is going to be a horrible life for both 384 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:36.279 of us. 385 00:16:36.320 --> 00:16:37.440 Fine, it's not only. 386 00:16:37.240 --> 00:16:39.200 Bad for you, it's bad for me too, Like I 387 00:16:39.240 --> 00:16:40.960 don't want to look through your phone. 388 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:42.480 I never have before. I don't want it to be 389 00:16:42.519 --> 00:16:44.440 my hobby. Like, no, it's not fun. 390 00:16:44.559 --> 00:16:48.000 Yeah, my life has more purpose than being insecure exactly so, 391 00:16:48.320 --> 00:16:50.840 and you'll get great material out of it. 392 00:16:50.960 --> 00:16:54.600 You'll it's fortunately unfortunately, but unfortunately, I don't know. I 393 00:16:54.639 --> 00:16:56.840 think it's a blessing. In disguison, you were saying he 394 00:16:56.919 --> 00:16:59.879 was younger. Yeah, he's how much younger? Ten years? Okay? 395 00:17:00.080 --> 00:17:09.119 Well yeah, also like cool but also also also yeah, 396 00:17:09.680 --> 00:17:11.839 but I see I've never done younger. I know. 397 00:17:11.880 --> 00:17:13.160 Also that was the thing when I was trying to 398 00:17:13.200 --> 00:17:14.599 hook you up with his friends. You're like, this might 399 00:17:14.640 --> 00:17:16.480 be too young, and I was like they're great. 400 00:17:17.559 --> 00:17:19.720 But you know what, I've noticed that I eat those words. 401 00:17:21.279 --> 00:17:24.480