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<v Speaker 1>Now you know, folks, today, it seems like that all

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<v Speaker 1>the values that create a healthy society have been turned

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<v Speaker 1>upside down. You agree with this. It seems like everything's

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<v Speaker 1>being shaken. Our economy and the foundations of our economy

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<v Speaker 1>are being shaken. The way we've done government in America

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<v Speaker 1>for hundreds of years is being shaken. Our freedom, our

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<v Speaker 1>freedom of speech and conscience and religion being shaken. Marriages

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<v Speaker 1>are being shaken, Families are being shaken, so many things.

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<v Speaker 1>Education is being shaken. The foundations of our moral and

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<v Speaker 1>ethical values are being shaken. Now we're living in a

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<v Speaker 1>time of great upheaval, when there's a lot of shakiness

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<v Speaker 1>going on. But I'm not here to talk about doom

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<v Speaker 1>and gloom because this book is not about doom and gloom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about the answer. It's about the answer to those

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<v Speaker 1>and God says, no matter how bad the world gets,

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<v Speaker 1>in a rapidly changing world, and even in a decaying culture,

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<v Speaker 1>God says, I want you to survive, and not only that, thrive,

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<v Speaker 1>and not only that, I want you to succeed. What

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<v Speaker 1>should you do when your life is upended, when your

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<v Speaker 1>world is shaken up by a death, a divorce, a failure,

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<v Speaker 1>a bankruptcy, and a hundred other things that could up

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<v Speaker 1>in your life. How can you thrive in this culture?

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<v Speaker 1>First suggestion when your life is thrown into chaos, when

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<v Speaker 1>your world is shaken up. Number one, don't be surprised

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<v Speaker 1>by adversity. Now here's what the Bible says in one

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<v Speaker 1>Peter four twelve. Dear friends, don't be shocked or surprised

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<v Speaker 1>when you suffer painful tests and trials, as if something

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<v Speaker 1>strange is happening to you. He said, you know, shakeups

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<v Speaker 1>are a normal part of life in a broken world.

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<v Speaker 1>We do not live in heaven. In heaven, everything's perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's done great, there are no tears, no sorrows, no suffering.

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<v Speaker 1>But on earth everything is broken because of sin. Every

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is broken, every body is broken. We don't have

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<v Speaker 1>healthy minds, the weather's broken, the economy is broken, and

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<v Speaker 1>so we shouldn't expect things to be perfect here on earth.

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<v Speaker 1>And when something bad happens in your life, instead of

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<v Speaker 1>going why me, you might want to say why not me?

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<v Speaker 1>I live here on earth and this is not heaven

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<v Speaker 1>that's coming later, and so there are going to be sufferings.

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<v Speaker 1>There are going to be trials, and don't be surprised

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<v Speaker 1>by it. Jesus said it like this, John sixteen thirty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus said, in this world you might experience difficulties. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what he said. In this world you what

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<v Speaker 1>circle that will? Now if Jesus said it, you can

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<v Speaker 1>count on it. You will have problems in life. You

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<v Speaker 1>are going to face adversity. You are going to have

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<v Speaker 1>times where your world is tossed upside down and everything

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<v Speaker 1>is shaken and bacon and flying, and you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>which way is up. In this world, you will experience difficulties.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus promised that, but he said, take heart, I have

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<v Speaker 1>conquered the world. He said, I've told you this so

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<v Speaker 1>that in trusting me, you will be unshakeable and deeply

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<v Speaker 1>at peace. Jesus warned us that adversity is going to

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of life. Don't let it blow you away.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't be surprised, don't be shocked. But you need to

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<v Speaker 1>be unshakable. I'm telling you so you won't cave in.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know what the typical response is when you

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<v Speaker 1>go through a crisis. The typical union human response when

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<v Speaker 1>I or you go through a crisis is this. The

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<v Speaker 1>first thing we do is try to figure out who's

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<v Speaker 1>to blame. That's the last thing you need to work on,

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<v Speaker 1>whose fault is it. As long as you're fixing the blame,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't fix the problem. To blame is to be blame.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you spell blame. And so when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you blame other people, you're not You're just perpetuating the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not solving anything. Politicians love to blame each other.

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<v Speaker 1>These groups and that groups blame each other. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what blame is not blame is blame. And instead instead

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<v Speaker 1>of asking whose fault it is, you need to be

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<v Speaker 1>asking what should I do now? Just so you'll know,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you there are four sources of the

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<v Speaker 1>problems in your life. The first source of the shakeups

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<v Speaker 1>in your life is your own nature, your old nature,

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<v Speaker 1>which is your own biggest problem. You might want to

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<v Speaker 1>write next to that. Roman seven. Roman seven is the

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<v Speaker 1>classic chapter explains how you are the biggest problem to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I won't go into that. The second source of

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<v Speaker 1>the problems in your life is the world, the world

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<v Speaker 1>and the world. Your nature is within you. The world

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<v Speaker 1>is around you, and it wants to pull you down

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<v Speaker 1>and The primary way the world tries to pull you

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<v Speaker 1>down is through ridicule and through withholding approval. We are

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<v Speaker 1>desperate for the approval of other people, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>will lower our standards, and we'll change our convictions, and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll give in and give up simply because we want

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to like us. You don't need the world's approval

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<v Speaker 1>to be happy. You're as happy as you choose to be.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't need the world's approval. But the world causes

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of problems in your life too. The third

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<v Speaker 1>source of problems is, of course Satan. The devil is

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<v Speaker 1>real evil incarnate, and the moment you wake up in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, he's plotting to discourage you, to defeat you,

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<v Speaker 1>to create doubts, depression, discouragement, distractions, all these different things.

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<v Speaker 1>When you get up in the morning, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>meet the devil head on, it just means you're headed

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<v Speaker 1>the same direction because he's been planning to take you down.

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<v Speaker 1>He hates you. God has a good plan for your life.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a bad plan for your life. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>my old nature, the world, the flesh and me, and

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<v Speaker 1>the devil, they all work on me. But the one

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you about this weekend. Is

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<v Speaker 1>the fourth source of problems in your life, and it's God. God. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>some of the problems and pressures and difficulties you have

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<v Speaker 1>in life actually come from God. God will sometimes shake

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<v Speaker 1>up your life for very good reasons. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I want to cover this in detail, because this is

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<v Speaker 1>the one that's unexpected, and I want you to look

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<v Speaker 1>at that now. It really doesn't matter where your problems

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<v Speaker 1>came from. They could be caused by the devil, they

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<v Speaker 1>could be caused by the world, They could be caused

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<v Speaker 1>by you. They could be brought on in your life

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<v Speaker 1>by God. It doesn't really matter. God will use every

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<v Speaker 1>one of them for your good if you will trust him.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, even the bad thing in my life, even

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<v Speaker 1>my own sins. Yes, even God can use those for

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<v Speaker 1>good in your life. He can turn crucifixions into resurrections.

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<v Speaker 1>He can bring good out of bad. Anybody and bring

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<v Speaker 1>good out of good. But God can change even bad

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<v Speaker 1>things into good if you will trust him. So, regardless

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<v Speaker 1>of the source of your shaking. What's got you all

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<v Speaker 1>shaken up? I lost my job, I can't get married.

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<v Speaker 1>I want this and it hasn't happened. I have this

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<v Speaker 1>dream and I'm hitting the barrier. Regardless of whatever is

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<v Speaker 1>shaking you up, God wants to use it for good,

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<v Speaker 1>So the source isn't nearly as important as your response.

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<v Speaker 1>Now here's the second step based on that. Anytime the

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<v Speaker 1>world your world is shaken up. Number two, look for

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<v Speaker 1>ways that God might use it for good. Look for ways.

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<v Speaker 1>I look for ways that God might use it in

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<v Speaker 1>my life for good, because He wants to use everything,

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<v Speaker 1>even the bad things in your life. He wants to

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<v Speaker 1>bring good out of even those And if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to succeed and thrive rather than just survive in a

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<v Speaker 1>hostile culture, you need to look for ways that God

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<v Speaker 1>takes the things that shake you up and can use

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<v Speaker 1>them for good. Jeremiah twenty nine to eleven says this.

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<v Speaker 1>God says, the plans I have for you are plans

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<v Speaker 1>for good and not to harm you. Their plans to

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<v Speaker 1>give you hope and a future. The devil has bad

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<v Speaker 1>plans for your life, and therefore bad and for destruction.

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<v Speaker 1>God has plans. His plans are always good, there to

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<v Speaker 1>give you hope and there to give you a future.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes God shakes things up. I'm talking about in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes shakes things up in my life to inspect me,

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<v Speaker 1>to inspect me. And what I mean by that is

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<v Speaker 1>God will bring a problem in my life that reveals

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<v Speaker 1>a motivation that's out a whack, or a character or

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<v Speaker 1>a thought or an emotion or a motive. He examines

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<v Speaker 1>and he checks it out, and he does it all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. You've got a fear, you've got a wrong motivation,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got a value, you got a misperception, there's some

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<v Speaker 1>lie that you're believing. God uses problems to inspect you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, God already knows what's going on in you.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't need any problem to tell him what. He

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<v Speaker 1>knows you better than you do. When God allows a

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<v Speaker 1>problem in your life is because He wants you to

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<v Speaker 1>know what's out of whack. And sometimes when things are

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<v Speaker 1>just flying off the wall and you're in a crisis

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<v Speaker 1>and you know yours just your whole world is shaken,

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<v Speaker 1>God is saying, I want you to see what I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to work on in your life. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to inspect this in your life. Jeremiah seventeen ten says this,

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<v Speaker 1>The Lord searches our hearts and examines our deepest motives.

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<v Speaker 1>So he can give to each person his right reward

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<v Speaker 1>according to how he has lived. Now, notice God examines

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<v Speaker 1>your motives. Listen to this. Why is always more important

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<v Speaker 1>than what in life. What you do in life is

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<v Speaker 1>not nearly as important to God. That's why you do it,

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<v Speaker 1>Not what you do, but why you do. There are

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things you can do in life. God say,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine, go ahead and do that. I made you.

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<v Speaker 1>You could do that or that or that or that.

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<v Speaker 1>That'd you all be fine with me? I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to know why are you doing it? God looks at

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<v Speaker 1>the heart, He looks at the motivation. You see. What

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<v Speaker 1>matters in your maturity spiritually is not how high you

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<v Speaker 1>jump when you feel God in a worship concert. The

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<v Speaker 1>test is how straight you walk when you don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>God during the rest of the week. And I have

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<v Speaker 1>no emotion, I'm in the desert, I'm in a dry period,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the wilderness. Will you trust me? Will you

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<v Speaker 1>obey me? You see what God is saying is that

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<v Speaker 1>the problems that come into your life, they're a measuring tool,

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<v Speaker 1>and your reactions to difficulty actually measure your faith and

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of stuff. Your reactions to difficulty. Measure your faith,

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<v Speaker 1>measure your commitment, measure your mature. They measure your integrity.

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<v Speaker 1>What does this problem reveal about me? When your whole

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<v Speaker 1>life is being shaken and everything you're on shaky ground,

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<v Speaker 1>the foundation is unstable, what does this problem reveal about me?

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another reason. Sometimes God shakes things up in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>not to inspect you, but to correct you. God wants

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<v Speaker 1>to correct me. And here's a very important verse Hebrews

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<v Speaker 1>Chapter twelve, verses eight to twelve, eight to eleven. God

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<v Speaker 1>corrects all of his children, and if he doesn't correct you,

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<v Speaker 1>then you don't really belong to him. WHOA So if

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<v Speaker 1>you can sin and get away with it, you should

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<v Speaker 1>doubt am I really in God's family? God corrects his children,

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<v Speaker 1>and if he doesn't correct you, then you don't really

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<v Speaker 1>belong to him. God corrects us for our own good,

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<v Speaker 1>because He wants us to be holy as he is. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's never fun to be corrected. How many of you

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<v Speaker 1>agree with that part of the Bible? It's never fun

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<v Speaker 1>to be corrected. In fact, at the time it's always painful.

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<v Speaker 1>But if we learn to obey by being corrected, we

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<v Speaker 1>will do right and live at peace. He Ultimately it's

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<v Speaker 1>for your good so you can live at peace. Job

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<v Speaker 1>chapter five, verse seventeen. Consider yourself fortunate when God all

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<v Speaker 1>Your problems change your plans? What is God doing? He's

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<v Speaker 1>When your life's going good, you got it on cruise control.

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<v Speaker 1>and God gets our attention many times, and he changes

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<v Speaker 1>the direction. One of the values of pressure and problems

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<v Speaker 1>I'll compartmentalize it and that'll be just fine. But it

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<v Speaker 1>Then you're just very well, it's not a problem. I

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<v Speaker 1>this relationship all this time. No, it's still a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>And God will use difficulty to correct you, inspect you,

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<v Speaker 1>and redirect you if he needs to. We would rarely

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<v Speaker 1>youll illnesses if they didn't hurt. So God uses problems

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<v Speaker 1>to prod us and to poke us, and to push

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<v Speaker 1>us and to prompt us, and he uses things to

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<v Speaker 1>direct us. Write this down. Question where is this problem

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<v Speaker 1>leading me? You want to ask yourself. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>get the most out of your problems. Where is this

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<v Speaker 1>problem leading me? Sometimes God shakes things up to protect us.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know that? Sometimes pain protects you from something

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<v Speaker 1>worse that you're going through a problem, But it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>preventing you from a bigger problem. It's keeping you from

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<v Speaker 1>greater harm. You might have wanted a certain job at

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<v Speaker 1>a certain business and it didn't happen, and God was

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<v Speaker 1>there that was going to mess you up, and he

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<v Speaker 1>kept you out of that situation. Sometimes a problem is

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<v Speaker 1>a blessing in disguise. Honestly, there will be times you

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<v Speaker 1>have problems when you did the right thing, not the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong thing. Not every problem is because you did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>thing job thirty six, Verse sixteen. God led you away

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<v Speaker 1>realize it. God has led you away from danger, giving

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<v Speaker 1>you freedom. Problems are the preparation for success, and it

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<v Speaker 1>really comes down to a matter of faith. Will you

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<v Speaker 1>trust God? There are people in this world who intend

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<v Speaker 1>to harm you. Not everybody's nice in this world. There

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<v Speaker 1>are evil people, There are mean people. There are people

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<v Speaker 1>who don't like you because you're a Christian, or because

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<v Speaker 1>because you won't go with the flow and won't party

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<v Speaker 1>with the crowd, and they think you're too good, or

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<v Speaker 1>on and they want to bring you down. They mean

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<v Speaker 1>it for bad, but God means it for good. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes God removes a harmful person in your life and

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<v Speaker 1>it breaks your heart. Don't run after him, some of you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all you need to hear. You just need to

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<v Speaker 1>hear your pastors say that sometimes there's a harmful person

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<v Speaker 1>in your life, but you're you're addicted to them, and

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<v Speaker 1>God will remove them from your life. Don't run after them.

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<v Speaker 1>God has shake things, taking things up to protect you.

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<v Speaker 1>So ask this question, how could this problem protect me?

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<v Speaker 1>How could this problem be protecting me? What's being prevented?

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<v Speaker 1>What could be worse in my life? Then? What's than

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<v Speaker 1>this problem? Well, there are a lot of things that

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<v Speaker 1>could be worse, all right. Number five. The fifth way

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<v Speaker 1>that God shakes things up in your life, and the

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<v Speaker 1>not to correct me or inspect me or direct me.

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<v Speaker 1>But God uses things and problems to perfect me, to

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<v Speaker 1>make you more like Jesus Christ, to grow your character,

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<v Speaker 1>to grow you up. Pain is the high cost of growth.

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<v Speaker 1>is the cost of growing up. You can't grow up

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<v Speaker 1>on easy street. And see, we want the product without

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<v Speaker 1>the process. It is a cliche, but it is true.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no gain without pain. There is no maturity

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<v Speaker 1>without growing pains. And the very thing that discourages you

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<v Speaker 1>One Peter five ten. The Bible says this, after you

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<v Speaker 1>have suffered a little, while the God of all grace,

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<v Speaker 1>will himself perfect you. Circle that will perfect you and

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<v Speaker 1>He's interested in growing your character. The easy part comes

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<v Speaker 1>for eternity. You're in school right now. You're in school,

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<v Speaker 1>and in school, God says, there are eternal rewards coming,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to perfect you. So knowing that God

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<v Speaker 1>can even use the bad things in my life to

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<v Speaker 1>even perfect me, what should be my response? Romans Chapter

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<v Speaker 1>five tells us we can rejoice. We can rejoice. We

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<v Speaker 1>we know it's perspective that they're good for us. We

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<v Speaker 1>They help us learn to be patient, and patience develops

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<v Speaker 1>strength of character, boom in us, and helps us trust

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<v Speaker 1>realize that I can use it five different ways. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can inspect you, and I can correct you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can direct you, and I can protect you, and

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<v Speaker 1>for what I don't understand. When there's a problem in

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<v Speaker 1>get it. I don't see the perfection. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>the inspection. I don't see the correction. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>the protection. I don't see the perfection. This problem does

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<v Speaker 1>not make sense. Then I trust God for what I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand, knowing that he has my best interest in heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Proverbs three five and six. Trust the Lord with all

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord in everything you do, and he will give you.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the word circle that success. I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be a success in life. God wants you to be

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<v Speaker 1>a success in life as your pastor, as your spiritual coach.

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<v Speaker 1>It is my goal, my job, my role to help

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<v Speaker 1>not just survive when times are tough, not just survive

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<v Speaker 1>actually get promoted and have greater influence and be used

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<v Speaker 1>self evaluation. Why don't you ask these questions to God

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<v Speaker 1>in your mind? Here's the first one to say, are

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<v Speaker 1>you using these problems to inspect me? You know the

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<v Speaker 1>about my life? Is there a weakness? Is there a

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<v Speaker 1>misplaced priority in my life? Is there someplace I've compromised

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<v Speaker 1>And then say, Lord, are you using this problem to

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<v Speaker 1>What do you want me to know? Lord? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>using this problem not just inspect the correct or you

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<v Speaker 1>use this problem to direct me? If so, what's the direction?

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<v Speaker 1>Where where do you want me headed? Lord? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>using this problem to protect me? Did that thing not

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<v Speaker 1>a bigger fiasco, a bigger difficulty, and you protected me.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so Lord that I was just going to

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for protecting me. And God, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to protect me. And when there's something that I want

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<v Speaker 1>are you using this problem to perfect me? You see,

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<v Speaker 1>God's at work in your life even when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to pray this prayer very say, Dear God,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to trust you with all my hearts. Just

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<v Speaker 1>stay it in your mind. I trust you with all

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, not my Intellectum, I'm not going to depend

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<v Speaker 1>on my own understanding. God. I want to honor you

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<v Speaker 1>in everything I do. Work, home, anywhere else. And if

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<v Speaker 1>I trust you and I don't depend on my own understanding,

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<v Speaker 1>and I honor you and everything I do, You've promised

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<v Speaker 1>to give me success, and I'm going to believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ, I want to trust you with all of

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<v Speaker 1>my life as best I know how, and I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>it today. In your name, I pray Ameno
