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Speaker 3: I'm Cole Connor and I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where
Speaker 3: we talk, shop, ask questions.
Speaker 4: Tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators as
Speaker 4: well as consumers of adult content.
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Speaker 2: We certainly do.
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Speaker 4: on our guests.
Speaker 2: And on the LGBTQ community.
Speaker 1: So strap on and strap in.
Speaker 2: And here we go. Hey, hi there, what's going on? Oh?
Speaker 1: You know this and that?
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Speaker 1: Welcome everyone. I'm Adam Ramsey, I'm Cold Connor. We are
Speaker 1: here everyone on our season three finale.
Speaker 3: Yay, can you believe it?
Speaker 1: It's so exciting.
Speaker 2: Twenty three episodes.
Speaker 1: Twenty three episodes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think this also marks our sixtieth I
Speaker 3: think we're rounding out three seasons with exactly sixty episodes.
Speaker 1: Oh I planned plenty. All right, Okay, well I got that,
Speaker 1: all right.
Speaker 4: So well first, first thing, First, I have a surprise.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, we haven't done shirtless in a while,
Speaker 4: So I brought a couple of these coyote jocks harnesses.
Speaker 4: This is my shameless attempt at getting coyote jocks to
Speaker 4: sponsor US.
Speaker 1: Yes season, Hello, coyote.
Speaker 4: We want red or white and larger extra large. I
Speaker 4: wear an extra.
Speaker 2: Large because, oh my goodness, it's actually maroon.
Speaker 3: I guess all right, well see here you choose, so
Speaker 3: you brought them.
Speaker 2: I'll do white.
Speaker 1: You're gonna do white, all right, Let's see the.
Speaker 4: Excel boom, Yeah, might be upside down.
Speaker 1: Cool, we're gonna do that again, so strappy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's it should be like up above your.
Speaker 1: Tips above like this. Oh yeah, that's good.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Did you get the larger that excel?
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I just put one on because
Speaker 1: that's how I roll. Yeah, come on, kyote.
Speaker 3: I think I used to have this colored jockstrap of theirs,
Speaker 3: and I really liked.
Speaker 2: You can have that. You can have you can have
Speaker 2: both of the larges because I think it'll fit you.
Speaker 1: Cool. Oh thank you. Yay, Happy Honica to me.
Speaker 3: Happy holidays everybody, Happy Honica, Merry Christmas.
Speaker 1: I hope you guys have some fun things planned.
Speaker 3: I know that I have. For example, this Saturday, my
Speaker 3: third axis.
Speaker 2: It's Saturday.
Speaker 3: It's this Saturday, the twenty first. It's the twenty first,
Speaker 3: so it's like, you know, for whoever is in town
Speaker 3: for the holidays, come on through.
Speaker 1: We are.
Speaker 3: We're doing a winter theme. It's for the Winter Solstice.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be you know, like long John's beanies, onesies,
Speaker 3: plaid flannel, things that are cozy that you feel comfortable
Speaker 3: taking off when you want to touch the skin of.
Speaker 1: Another human being. Yes, love that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hot, it gets hot in those places. But
Speaker 3: it is, you know, December. I mean, although it's December
Speaker 3: and Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: We'll do that.
Speaker 3: We'll have some you know, fans, and you know, there
Speaker 3: will be a dark room upstairs because you want to
Speaker 3: get cozy at these parties aplace. No, we can't have
Speaker 3: a fire. But I'm still deciding decore wise, how I'm
Speaker 3: going to incorporate the hearth theme. There will be mistletoe,
Speaker 3: there will be some lighting. Mostly there will be good
Speaker 3: music and hot boys. That's kind of really all I'm
Speaker 3: going for. I worked so hard at the last axis
Speaker 3: that I was like, do people even care about the decor?
Speaker 3: We just we just want to dance and make out.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Usually it's like Christmas decor is like you can go
Speaker 4: to Costco and get a bunch of.
Speaker 3: I don't want to go to Christmas theme. I want
Speaker 3: to go more winter themes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Snowflake, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you have any plans for the holidays.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go spend some time as my family and.
Speaker 4: Jacksonville Flow Jacksonville, Florida, where I have no history, Like
Speaker 4: my dad moved there. My dad and his wife moved
Speaker 4: there to be closer to my dad's my stepsister in law. Okay,
Speaker 4: I guess, and because they have kids and you know so,
Speaker 4: and those are my dad's grandkids. Because he's not really
Speaker 4: getting any for me anytime soon.
Speaker 1: Right, right, so try as you might.
Speaker 4: So like, yeah, I'll just go briefly there and then
Speaker 4: I'll be back here for New Years. I'll probably go
Speaker 4: the day after access Okay.
Speaker 3: Cool, Yeah, that's great. I'm hoping everybody, like you know
Speaker 3: that people are here.
Speaker 1: Because yeah, because because I knew there was come to
Speaker 1: l A.
Speaker 3: I knew there was a risk that like you know,
Speaker 3: people would be traveling, but also like there are going
Speaker 3: to be people here who want to dance, and it's
Speaker 3: on a Saturday. I will say I've learned something new
Speaker 3: about being in this field. This is the first time
Speaker 3: I've ever experienced like a wave of competitors like there's
Speaker 3: a party happening the night before in the same location
Speaker 3: that is like a party.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: We don't have a lot of warehouse spaces in LA
Speaker 3: so it just feels very like, Wow, I wish it
Speaker 3: wasn't the same weekend.
Speaker 2: Those two people can have the same good idea.
Speaker 3: Yes, if you want to come out on a Saturday night,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm doing where I'll be happy Holidays
Speaker 3: to all. There's enough for all of us at this table.
Speaker 3: And it's made me think a little bit about competition
Speaker 3: in general. I know you've experienced a little bit of
Speaker 3: it in our field, in our industry.
Speaker 1: Have you been feeling it lately? Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I don't know if it's competition.
Speaker 4: I'm kind of like I have some other focuses right
Speaker 4: now too, which is great for me.
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about any of them? Secret?
Speaker 2: No, it's a secret like that. I mean, it's a
Speaker 2: creative thing.
Speaker 4: And hopefully after the break I'll have some more updates
Speaker 4: on it. But I'm still very much in the creating process.
Speaker 1: Amazing.
Speaker 4: I want to leave my mark on this world in
Speaker 4: a different way, like in a I don't know, I
Speaker 4: guess I can't really talk about it.
Speaker 3: Well, no, it's okay, but it sounds like you're saying
Speaker 3: you want to do more than just.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean I kind of want to tell
Speaker 4: my story and about like things I've done and gone
Speaker 4: through and things that have happened, and to make sense
Speaker 4: out of it and give it purpose, make it mean something.
Speaker 4: So that's kind of where I am right now.
Speaker 2: And it's like.
Speaker 4: It's weird because I'm like in a good place now
Speaker 4: and like maybe like two weeks ago, I was like
Speaker 4: like like I hit like a wall and I just needed.
Speaker 1: Do you mean personally or within this endeavor?
Speaker 4: Like no, I'm glad I had this endeavor to pull
Speaker 4: me to focus on to get.
Speaker 2: Me out of it, because I.
Speaker 4: Was like, you know, when you channel your energy into
Speaker 4: something creative, it just is kind of like transformative. So
Speaker 4: it can really like hone your focus to do everything better. Ye.
Speaker 3: Yes, So I feel like a lot of people have
Speaker 3: been feeling something similar sort of around the election, sort
Speaker 3: of around this season.
Speaker 2: I guess depression gets higher.
Speaker 3: I am feeling that. I'm definitely feeling a version of that.
Speaker 3: I'm having a weird day, but I'm doing a much
Speaker 3: better now than I was a few weeks ago, because
Speaker 3: I also was in like a place where I don't think. Okay,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna start with this. First of all, I'm moving in.
Speaker 1: A few weeks. Did I tell you about this? Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm moving closer to you, and I.
Speaker 3: Want to take advantage of that, Cole Connor, just because
Speaker 3: I really feel, like, you know, I lived in Koreatown
Speaker 3: since the before the pandemic, which is when I last
Speaker 3: lived by myself. I've been living with either roommates or
Speaker 3: like you know, a.
Speaker 1: Brief moment with a party. Do you know what I think.
Speaker 3: I just did it because I was able to save
Speaker 3: some money, and you know, I liked the places that
Speaker 3: I was living. But it only dawned on me in
Speaker 3: the last couple months that as a result, I have
Speaker 3: like not been taking the best care of my mental health.
Speaker 3: I work in night life twice a week at least,
Speaker 3: and I come home.
Speaker 4: To come in and like all quiet, like not decompressed.
Speaker 4: You can't just like turn on the TV and.
Speaker 3: Well, I can turn on the TV in my bedroom,
Speaker 3: but it's like at super low volume with subtitles, and
Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, quietly brushing my teeth. I mean, yeah, hello, forties.
Speaker 4: I just like it, especially if I'm watching something with
Speaker 4: like accents. Yeah, and you know, like it just makes
Speaker 4: it easy or like they just have a different dialect.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah say things differently.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I mean, like I watched that movie Queer last
Speaker 3: night in the theater. I could barely understand what half
Speaker 3: the people were saying the whole time. So maybe that's
Speaker 3: just our lives now, but anyway, point being, it has
Speaker 3: become soul sucking to come home and have to be
Speaker 3: have to edit myself over the last five years with
Speaker 3: various people I've lived with, and I remember what it
Speaker 3: was like living alone before the pandemic, and I was
Speaker 3: so so much freer and I need to bring that back.
Speaker 3: And I feel like that is giving me the same
Speaker 3: kind of inspiration and looking forward to the future as
Speaker 3: your project is that you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Oh you needo his cats.
Speaker 3: I mean, I would eventually there will be a cat
Speaker 3: because the cat I live with will not be coming
Speaker 3: with me unfortunately. Well she's not mine, she's my roommates,
Speaker 3: even though we're super homies.
Speaker 2: And then there's so many.
Speaker 3: Cats I've been thinking, I mean, I just end up
Speaker 3: living with them. I haven't had one of my own
Speaker 3: since I was a child, to.
Speaker 2: Get a main coon like Boris and have a little
Speaker 2: main coon friend.
Speaker 3: He's just so big, I know, he's like he just looks.
Speaker 3: He's like a big puppy with claws. How is Boris?
Speaker 3: By the way, He's just like the best thing ever. Really,
Speaker 3: He's like he's so sweet. He doesn't have a main
Speaker 3: bone in his body. He's just like, do you guys
Speaker 3: cuddle cool with everything? Yeah, he sleeps in between my legs.
Speaker 2: Oh. He like he's gotten a lot more snugly that
Speaker 2: he's like four.
Speaker 3: Yes, so that's what happens now. And now he's like
Speaker 3: a little annoying.
Speaker 1: Oh is he like needy?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Is he just needy?
Speaker 2: Is that he's well, I mean he knows where his
Speaker 2: treats are.
Speaker 4: He goes and walks over to the cabinet like stares
Speaker 4: at it and then looks at me and then like.
Speaker 1: H He's like, hey, you idiot, hey idiot, and like.
Speaker 4: Wants made to play with his fucking feather on a stick,
Speaker 4: like I gotta do that for like five minutes.
Speaker 2: He never gets bored of it. All right, we can't
Speaker 2: talk about cats anymore.
Speaker 1: What I love cats? I'm gonna not live with a
Speaker 1: cat for a little while. That's what it's gonna be.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be. Yeah, I like it. I like it.
Speaker 1: Thanks coyote jocks.
Speaker 3: But anyway, like I was saying, the idea of creating
Speaker 3: a home from scratch and living there on my own
Speaker 3: is giving me the sort of inspiration that I feel
Speaker 3: like what you were saying, you're new endeavor, it's bringing
Speaker 3: to you. And maybe it's gonna like make us not
Speaker 3: rely on some bad habits because I've relied on some
Speaker 3: bad habits this last year.
Speaker 2: You can get some bad habits living alone too.
Speaker 1: Yes, of a different variety.
Speaker 3: But I'm actually going into this, this new living situation
Speaker 3: very much with intention to start some new habits.
Speaker 1: I want to like schedule my days more. I might. Yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you, let's do it. Twenty twenty.
Speaker 3: This is our project twenty twenty five, Ye bitches. Yeah,
Speaker 3: we're gonna like enter a new era. And I want
Speaker 3: to like be like cool what you're doing everything, Like
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna like I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be like I'm gonna bike over to watch you
Speaker 3: do all of it. And I also want to film more. Really,
Speaker 3: that's really really.
Speaker 2: Hard when you live with someone totally.
Speaker 4: It's like, I mean the last time I lived with
Speaker 4: someone when I was filming a lot. Yeah, it was
Speaker 4: just like I felt bad, Like I was like, I
Speaker 4: hope he's not there when it's when it's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Were you still living with your roommate when you
Speaker 1: started filming?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I moved in with another roommate, a
Speaker 4: friend of mine that I still a friend. Were like,
Speaker 4: we're friends for a long time before, and we only
Speaker 4: lived together for like nine months in that place, but man,
Speaker 4: I had like I filmed some group stuff there and
Speaker 4: like we had this big place. It was beautiful, like
Speaker 4: a staircase. We had like the handoff guys fucking up
Speaker 4: the staircase.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a bumped Ndergreens. That was a fun nine months.
Speaker 4: And then I lived alone and then everything started to
Speaker 4: go wrong.
Speaker 1: Right, Yes, I had a weird run after that.
Speaker 3: It was like right right after I moved in that
Speaker 3: you had that I had, so I didn't realize it
Speaker 3: was so soon.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't really get to enjoy that first place.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, I enjoy the place that I'm
Speaker 4: living in now, and.
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna stay.
Speaker 4: I was thinking about moving and like trying to find
Speaker 4: a cheaper place, but I was like, what am I
Speaker 4: really going to find? Yeah, like something five hundred dollars cheaper.
Speaker 1: Right, you know? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah? And what am I gonna spend on moving?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: And I gotta start thinking about my my spending and
Speaker 4: my coin.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 4: Yes, I've been very laxadaisical and frivolous, right, and I
Speaker 4: just can't.
Speaker 2: I like, I don't want to be like that anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 2: So fruitful is my Oh?
Speaker 1: Is that your word for twenty twenty five? I like that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, I thought about it. I know you're going
Speaker 2: to ask it.
Speaker 3: I know I've been thinking about what mine is going
Speaker 3: to be. I don't know some of our our diehard
Speaker 3: listeners might remember. I like having a word of the
Speaker 3: year or a word going into the new year, and
Speaker 3: I haven't really found mine yet. I always think of
Speaker 3: one and then I forget it because I know I've
Speaker 3: had like focus in the past. I think maybe clarity.
Speaker 1: Is the one going forward. Yeah, I've just been.
Speaker 3: Not treating myself well, Like I'm just all over the place.
Speaker 3: There are times when I think I've bit off more
Speaker 3: than I can chew. There are times when I feel
Speaker 3: like I have a handle on it on it all.
Speaker 3: There was a moment this fall where I felt like
Speaker 3: I did not have a handle on it. Not necessarily
Speaker 3: night live stuff, but the at home stuff. I felt
Speaker 3: like I was just kind of like, for lack of
Speaker 3: a better term, stone the whole time.
Speaker 4: Well, I think, yeah, I mean I went to the
Speaker 4: ex BIZ nomination party the night before the Gay Vienne
Speaker 4: or AVN nomination party. Yeah here both in La like
Speaker 4: one night after the other, and like some I shot
Speaker 4: some things with some people from Vegas and like went
Speaker 4: out drinking and like having people over at my place
Speaker 4: late night after like both nights. It just kind of
Speaker 4: like wrecked me, Yes, and that's what put me in
Speaker 4: this like bad slump of a place like that all weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It was like a Wednesday night and a Thursday night
Speaker 4: on those nomination parties and then like it just lasted
Speaker 4: through Sunday. Yeah, and then I was like Monday came
Speaker 4: and I was like, yeah, let's just fucking work.
Speaker 3: And yes, right, so again, twenty twenty five is around
Speaker 3: the corner. See I used to do that when in
Speaker 3: my twenties when I lived alone, I would have like
Speaker 3: the after party always and it was so much fun.
Speaker 3: And now I'm looking forward to like my place being
Speaker 3: like the safe haven that when I get home I
Speaker 3: can like shower till three in the morning and just
Speaker 3: like put on the Golden Girls or or play the piano,
Speaker 3: which I'm moving my piano back in with me.
Speaker 4: Well, come back to that subject, but like I want
Speaker 4: to talk about I want. I did a studio scene
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks ago for say uncle, or two
Speaker 4: studio scenes to say Uncle, and I was shooting two scenes.
Speaker 2: It was two three ways. I was playing a doctor.
Speaker 3: Finally, finally, my dad's finally episode show the Scope.
Speaker 4: Dad can be proud that I played a doctor in porn.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure he's been waiting for this.
Speaker 2: Waiting for it.
Speaker 4: Yes, And this was the shittiest studio I've ever shot in.
Speaker 1: Where was it?
Speaker 4: Like it was in Chatsworth okay of course, and I
Speaker 4: was like, wow, this is this is the talent room
Speaker 4: like with Ship and Trash I shot there recently. And
Speaker 4: then there was like the little doctor's office set that
Speaker 4: like every time we were like injuring the door. He
Speaker 4: was like, oh, I can't shoot because I just see
Speaker 4: the warehouse with ship like all. So we had to
Speaker 4: like kind of slide and like open the door and
Speaker 4: like slide and very without opening it too.
Speaker 3: It's that two story office building right where there's just
Speaker 3: crap everywhere.
Speaker 4: Each scene only took like it was me and Caden
Speaker 4: I always. So there was one name Kasden and one
Speaker 4: name Caden or yeah was lovely yeah, and he lives
Speaker 4: in New York yeah, and Kasden Hunter yes. And that
Speaker 4: was the first scene in two hours done for the
Speaker 4: one scene for the one scene, and then second scene
Speaker 4: also took like an hour and a half with Harrison,
Speaker 4: but Kasden was out and Harrison.
Speaker 2: Todd was in, Oh okay, I've shot with.
Speaker 4: Him before and like the say uncle Halloween, Oh right,
Speaker 4: fucking scene got it that very very funny, and then
Speaker 4: we got out of there so early we were like expecting.
Speaker 4: It was like my call time was noon.
Speaker 2: Which is great. I love on noon call time, Yeah,
Speaker 2: and I was.
Speaker 4: We were out by four, so they were like, should
Speaker 4: we get FA? We were like yeah, So we went
Speaker 4: and got FA.
Speaker 1: The three of us in Chatsworth.
Speaker 4: In Chatsworth and we were like, and then we're there
Speaker 4: and I'm like, should we see Wicked? And so Cayden
Speaker 4: couldn't go because his sister happened to be in town
Speaker 4: and they were gonna they had plans. Harrison Todd and
Speaker 4: I went and went and saw Wicked.
Speaker 1: And loved it. Loved it.
Speaker 3: I loved it. It's just like it's just what I needed. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's like I loved it. I had some notes, but
Speaker 3: I did love it, and I want to see it again.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go see it. We see Wicked.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Yes, we have some time and when
Speaker 3: we're over going to see wickeds Sorry guys, Yeah, I
Speaker 3: love I.
Speaker 1: Loved it, but I did have some issues. Yeah. Cool.
Speaker 1: I want to just tell me what I feel like.
Speaker 1: It's so grand the grand. I like, it's very grande.
Speaker 3: I think the best way I could distill what I
Speaker 3: thought about it was it just felt so self important.
Speaker 3: And that's the thing is like, out of respect for
Speaker 3: the material and respect for the audience, they really created
Speaker 3: something magnificently grand for lack of a better term, I think,
Speaker 3: but it's very self aware of how amazing what an
Speaker 3: important job it has.
Speaker 2: But it is iconic. I guess I think it is.
Speaker 4: I think it's right too, when you're working on something
Speaker 4: of that level. Yeah, you have to be I know,
Speaker 4: this is huge, it is, it's a huge.
Speaker 1: I have you seen the stage show? I have? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like there wasn't I didn't.
Speaker 2: Walk out of the stage show the way I walked
Speaker 2: out of the movie.
Speaker 1: Oh really, No, like moved by mean oh I did.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: The first time I saw Wicked, I was just a
Speaker 3: puddle of tears and was like I loved it so much.
Speaker 3: But I feel like Cynthia Rivo as good as job
Speaker 3: as she did. I just feel like she just takes
Speaker 3: herself so seriously and there was not like there was
Speaker 3: not like a hint of irreverence in her work as Alphaba,
Speaker 3: whereas the previous times I've seen at Alphabet she was
Speaker 3: a rebel kind of like, yeah, she was hurt by.
Speaker 2: The taking yourself seriously as a rebel.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think I think.
Speaker 2: I feel like, very fucking serious.
Speaker 1: I think not.
Speaker 3: I think she does like because obviously nobody likes being bullied,
Speaker 3: but she also like kind of I feel like there
Speaker 3: was like a part of her that was like, fuck.
Speaker 1: These fucking blonde pitches. I know Cynthia Rivo didn't that
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 4: I know what you're talking about, and I do know
Speaker 4: I'd be like when she walks into that party, if
Speaker 4: I was watching it, it's something like a drag queen
Speaker 4: walk in, Like I'm like, everybody would be like, oh
Speaker 4: fierce fuck, oh my god, this bad.
Speaker 3: And that was That was another thing that I just
Speaker 3: felt like, I felt like a stage to screen adaptation
Speaker 3: could benefit from a little bit of nuance and subtlety
Speaker 3: and the fact that they just kind of kept it
Speaker 3: the way it was on the stage, but like with
Speaker 3: just longer scenes that like everyone who wasn't to lead
Speaker 3: was just a two dimensional monster, like the boat like
Speaker 3: Bowen Yang they made. They made the faggot that cunty
Speaker 3: and awful to the outcast. Why like, couldn't there have
Speaker 3: been like some kind of like when she walked into
Speaker 3: that room and and you know, everybody was like, look,
Speaker 3: how disgusting, Like everybody was like that. Couldn't they have
Speaker 3: made like half of them just ignore her, which would
Speaker 3: have been in my opinion, even even more or of
Speaker 3: a message of mob mentality that sometimes when like someone
Speaker 3: is being oppressed, half of us turn our heads and
Speaker 3: don't you know what I mean. But the fact that
Speaker 3: they were it was just like everyone who wasn't Jonathan
Speaker 3: Bailey or Ariana Grande was like, look at her?
Speaker 4: How just gud But I yeah, I think they have
Speaker 4: to show the contrast and have the change for Glinda.
Speaker 1: Listen, love and love and make that.
Speaker 2: I get it written to everybody.
Speaker 3: I get it, loved it. Arian Grande did a great job.
Speaker 3: She was the comic heart of the movie. But I
Speaker 3: just I don't know. I just wanted it to not
Speaker 3: beat me over the head quite so strongly, and it
Speaker 3: could have been twenty minutes shorter.
Speaker 4: I love it, but I loved it. I love a
Speaker 4: good snack on the face.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: I like a subtlety, a big big Let it be green,
Speaker 3: let it be large, Let.
Speaker 2: It be wicked. And that's our wicked review.
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Speaker 3: to share with you in regards to something we had
Speaker 3: brought up in a past episode.
Speaker 1: Do you remember telling me a story about what you
Speaker 1: did in the hot tub a few months ago?
Speaker 2: What I did in the hot tub?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you went to black Speech and then you stopped
Speaker 3: by some hot daddy's house. Yeah, and you had a
Speaker 3: moment in a hot tub that involved, you know, pleasuring
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well, it's funny because I don't remember that hot tub.
Speaker 3: I wasn't there, No, but I did go to another
Speaker 3: hot tub with my current main squeeze, and we had
Speaker 3: a moment and I have never felt so dumb in
Speaker 3: my entire life. And it reminded me of the conversation
Speaker 3: we had because because you were worried.
Speaker 4: About the com in the hot tub, you were like,
Speaker 4: am I allowed to come in the hot tub?
Speaker 1: Well it's not that.
Speaker 2: I mean obviously, am.
Speaker 4: I going to upset the owner of the hot here
Speaker 4: if I come in the hot tub?
Speaker 3: Well, because well, let me just ask you a simple question.
Speaker 3: What happens to come in hot water? It turns into
Speaker 3: like a gel.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that it clearly it makes sense now
Speaker 1: that I've seen it. No, this is the thing.
Speaker 3: We both came in the hot tub, and I remember
Speaker 3: kind of like trying to catch it so but like
Speaker 3: he was just like, oh my god, yeah, like let's
Speaker 3: just like wipe it off. And I was like, no,
Speaker 3: I want to be careful because I don't want it
Speaker 3: to like make the hot tub all foam in it.
Speaker 3: And he goes. He goes, He was like, why would
Speaker 3: the hot tub be foamy? And I was like, well,
Speaker 3: you know, when you like pee in a hot tub,
Speaker 3: it gets foamy. And he goes, but come is not pee,
Speaker 3: And my mind just went I was like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: you're totally right. Come is not pee.
Speaker 1: Come is clearly like an almost like an egg white
Speaker 1: substance that our title Come is not pee, everybody. I
Speaker 1: don't know why.
Speaker 3: In my head I processed it as like, even when
Speaker 3: you told that story on that episode, I was like,
Speaker 3: you can't come in the hot tub. It's when they
Speaker 3: get all phoamy and weird. But that makes zero sense.
Speaker 2: It gets all sticky and like it.
Speaker 1: Like coagulates into egg white basically.
Speaker 3: So that was my story about feeling really dumb while
Speaker 3: having just ejaculated in a hot tub.
Speaker 1: With my boyfriend.
Speaker 3: I means, you know, I've tricked everyone thinking I'm smart,
Speaker 3: but sometimes it's just not there everybody. So yeah, so
Speaker 3: try coming in a hot tub, y'all and see what
Speaker 3: happens and write to our emails and tell us about it.
Speaker 3: In the meantime, I have a question about your content sites.
Speaker 3: How often do you do sales or like promotions?
Speaker 2: So I did.
Speaker 4: I did like a Halloween sale for new and expired subscribers.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that got a good amount of people.
Speaker 4: I did a Black Friday's sale for three days for
Speaker 4: sixty percent off for only new subscribers. Okay, I don't
Speaker 4: want people to let it expire and just wait for
Speaker 4: the next sale. I like people to stay on auto
Speaker 4: renew they get cheaper early release pay per views for that.
Speaker 1: Like and make so you do pay per views on
Speaker 1: your site.
Speaker 4: Still yeah, just early release, but so like it shows up,
Speaker 4: it shows up a month after on the wall.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how it's Emil does it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just I mean, that's just how I have it.
Speaker 4: I mean, I have a content manager that likes and
Speaker 4: stuff for me. Nobody's in my chat except me.
Speaker 1: Good.
Speaker 4: That's not happening any ever ever again, Yeah, some person
Speaker 4: in the Philippines that trying to get money out of
Speaker 4: your subscribers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, more, it's not happening. Cute, it's not cute. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I did a sale recently and it really worked. I
Speaker 3: gained like one hundred and thirty subscribers or something, which
Speaker 3: was very nice.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I generally think I'm sure there's an exception
Speaker 4: to this rule. I generally think that gay men are
Speaker 4: trash at supporting their creators.
Speaker 2: That they like h monetarily.
Speaker 4: They can do it with comments all day, but we
Speaker 4: really need as money for some reason, gay or straight
Speaker 4: men have no problem throwing tons of money at there
Speaker 4: women creators that do only fans for a few months
Speaker 4: and can buy an island, And like I, there just
Speaker 4: is this disconnect between like guys, if you don't pay
Speaker 4: for your content and you get free porn all the time,
Speaker 4: it goes away, like we won't do it anymore. Yeah,
Speaker 4: like we'll find something ouse, which we've seen happen to
Speaker 4: a lot of like if this like, shut me up.
Speaker 4: If this airs and my fucking only fans numbers go
Speaker 4: way up.
Speaker 2: Prove you prove, proved me wrong. Yeah, you know wrong,
Speaker 2: and I'll shut the fuck up.
Speaker 3: But this is This has been another thing that's been
Speaker 3: on my mind a lot lately, especially because I have
Speaker 3: my hands in a lot of pots right now.
Speaker 2: I have the.
Speaker 3: Podcast, I have like several parties. We just posted something
Speaker 3: today with doctors. All is my little my first shockwave
Speaker 3: treatment marketing little campaign. But first of all, I feel
Speaker 3: like I need to pare down to maybe one Instagram.
Speaker 3: I think my multiple Instagram thing is not really working.
Speaker 3: But the other thing is if your shadow band Instagram,
Speaker 3: my reach has really I feel like it's really diminished.
Speaker 3: There are times when I'm like, either nobody gives a
Speaker 3: shit about my stuff anymore.
Speaker 4: Or is just not getting to people, Yeah, because it's
Speaker 4: like if you're not recommendable, then who sees it?
Speaker 1: So what what do we do?
Speaker 4: Like, Yeah, there's just not I mean, create a new account.
Speaker 4: And I hope they don't realize that it's I don't know, wow,
Speaker 4: because they I have two violations. First time I opened
Speaker 4: it that day, it was like, we've removed some content
Speaker 4: of yours. They pulled up some story that was expired
Speaker 4: from like three weeks or month before that wasn't even there,
Speaker 4: yeah for anybody to see. So they're going back in
Speaker 4: time and my stories and first and also nothing wrong
Speaker 4: with the fucking story. Yeah, and I appealed it and
Speaker 4: they don't give a shit. It's all AI, it's all like,
Speaker 4: it's all just computers. And I'm sure because it has
Speaker 4: to be happening on a giant scale with everybody, because
Speaker 4: these computers are finding something wrong with everything.
Speaker 3: So well, the thing is there's no way of really
Speaker 3: knowing because some people say that they have people monitoring
Speaker 3: it in like maybe parts of the world that are
Speaker 3: a little more homophobic.
Speaker 4: And but so it's it's all. But still I think
Speaker 4: they just are so backed back up, backed up.
Speaker 2: Look, I can't talk now.
Speaker 4: They're so backed up that by the time a team
Speaker 4: actually looks at it, a team I like write of
Speaker 4: what like there's someone with that job that just looks
Speaker 4: at fucking pictures and videos and finds out that there's
Speaker 4: like that and agrees with the AI that yeah, I
Speaker 4: don't know, there's something wrong with it, because they're obviously
Speaker 4: just like like whatever idiot has that job, Like that's
Speaker 4: a dumb that's a dumb job.
Speaker 2: That's a dumb job for a dumb person, like whatever is.
Speaker 4: They're just like, oh, I'm gonna keep my I just
Speaker 4: want my check to clear, and like just deny every appeal.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, especially if they're homophobic, Yeah, because that's what
Speaker 3: ends up happening. Like Mario had his Instagram taken down
Speaker 3: for like two weeks recently and it like hurt his revenue.
Speaker 3: I spoke today with a fellow performer who's been on
Speaker 3: this podcast before, who was saying that something happened recently
Speaker 3: where like something got taken down and hurt his Instagram,
Speaker 3: and he received a message from somebody who very clearly
Speaker 3: was like it was a retaliation for something. Was like,
Speaker 3: hey see, like two can play at that game. Like
Speaker 3: it was somebody that he had called out for something
Speaker 3: regarding the Israel Palestine conflict, and this person reached back
Speaker 3: out and was like, how does it feel to have
Speaker 3: your content taken down or something like It's just like
Speaker 3: people can be really vindictive and so yeah, but it's
Speaker 3: just like we live in this era where we rely
Speaker 3: so heavily on social media, and it's made me really
Speaker 3: resentful of social media, Like I don't want to do
Speaker 3: it anymore, but I have to because I need to
Speaker 3: survive the No, it's not so I'm I'm thinking about
Speaker 3: how I'm going to move forward.
Speaker 2: Thanks Facebook.
Speaker 1: Yeah meta.
Speaker 4: That Also, like people are worried about what is going
Speaker 4: to happen in the porn industry once Trump goes into office.
Speaker 1: So this happens every year. What is the fear that
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 4: Like Republicans like don't want to like right now in Texas,
Speaker 4: like you have to have to watch porn, You have
Speaker 4: to have a VPN, like you have to go on
Speaker 4: and that like where it thinks you're someone somewhere else.
Speaker 3: Oh can you yeah, can you explain to me and
Speaker 3: our listeners with a VPN.
Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds right. I've heard that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like something that you can I mean, I've
Speaker 4: never had one. Someone doesn't explain this to me, but
Speaker 4: it's like it's like a think that you that your
Speaker 4: device is in a different place.
Speaker 1: Like in a different state. Yeah, so that you could
Speaker 1: post or watch.
Speaker 2: That you can watch.
Speaker 1: Wow, really it's that bad?
Speaker 3: So likekes, Yeah, so I Republicans are just as big
Speaker 3: perverts as we are.
Speaker 2: We are.
Speaker 4: They're very shamed about it. They're very shameful about it.
Speaker 4: It's like closeted. It's like closeted gay Republicans. They're like
Speaker 4: it's not gonna change, Like just because they're gay doesn't
Speaker 4: mean they won't do everything in their power to fuck
Speaker 4: gay people over.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess we'll find out, you know, tune
Speaker 3: in y'all for season four. Will keep watch on what's
Speaker 3: happening with the adult industry as our president's elect takes office.
Speaker 4: Someone was telling me an agent, it might just turn
Speaker 4: out that, like it'll be harder to find Freeport and
Speaker 4: the SS well maybe be able to like figure out
Speaker 4: legally what they have to do to make content and
Speaker 4: put it out there for consumption and like something like
Speaker 4: only fans, so it could the pendulum can swing back.
Speaker 1: In the studio studio favor. I see interesting.
Speaker 4: Because that's also those are that's business and America like capitalism,
Speaker 4: yes so, but they also like your own business, like
Speaker 4: being your own boss.
Speaker 3: I mean corporations are you know well, I mean like
Speaker 3: that's the thing. It's like basically small business, big business.
Speaker 2: Studios. Man, they are going broke, man, they're just but they.
Speaker 3: But this is what's so interesting about this industry is
Speaker 3: like we've been saying that for the past ten years.
Speaker 3: Every year, every year they have to keep figuring out
Speaker 3: ways around the new trends in order to survive.
Speaker 4: I mean, the last thing I was offered from, like
Speaker 4: Raging Stallion was a content house where it was not not.
Speaker 2: I've heard about, not a that I would get for
Speaker 2: a scene, sure, but.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know where I'm going to go, and we're
Speaker 4: going to share the content and put it up on
Speaker 4: their site.
Speaker 3: And for me, I could see them that that is
Speaker 3: something where they're doing like what they see to be
Speaker 3: this year's cost effective pivot in order to benefit the
Speaker 3: studio as well as involve as many models as they can.
Speaker 3: That doesn't mean they're going to keep it that way,
Speaker 3: because if they see that it's not working and that
Speaker 3: it's not really helping them and that they're losing models,
Speaker 3: they will pivot another direction.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, if they go broke, they go broke.
Speaker 4: But I don't see how it works because the models
Speaker 4: that are making a lot of money on OnlyFans don't
Speaker 4: really want to do a cheap scene for a studio. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and the people that need studio work need more than what.
Speaker 2: The studios are offering.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I don't get how it works for anybody
Speaker 4: for the studio to pivot to make collaboration content with
Speaker 4: your performers.
Speaker 1: Yes, they'll figure it out. Bullshit, they'll figure it out,
Speaker 1: because I haven't.
Speaker 3: I haven't heard any performer be like, oh yeah anything
Speaker 3: and I love it. No, not really, but it's great
Speaker 3: content to watch as a consumer, and I still consume porn.
Speaker 1: So thank you for that.
Speaker 3: Nominations, Oh my gosh, Yes, to close this out, because
Speaker 3: I know we've been rambling. We just like I just
Speaker 3: miss Cole and we don't get a chest catch up,
Speaker 3: and that's what this is. You're getting a catch up finale,
Speaker 3: But we've been nominated for gav Ens. You guys. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I got to.
Speaker 1: I got to wait, are they not doing fan favorite anymore?
Speaker 2: I think there's come later?
Speaker 1: Those come later later? Okay.
Speaker 4: These were announced on the same night as the and
Speaker 4: then I think I think there's like a month where
Speaker 4: you can where people can vote, right, and if it
Speaker 4: doesn't happen until like.
Speaker 3: Christmas, yeah, because they they're doing them later this year, right,
Speaker 3: because remember what we went. It was like January fifth
Speaker 3: or somethings, but now it's like twenty fifth.
Speaker 4: It's like, oh okay, it's on a Monday, you know.
Speaker 2: On Monday. And then and then the Avian Expos starts.
Speaker 3: I didn't go last year, so I want to go
Speaker 3: this year. I feel like it'd be nice to show up.
Speaker 3: Are you going to go?
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, what are your nominations?
Speaker 4: Tell us just I have two nominations in Best Fetish Scene.
Speaker 2: Really yeah.
Speaker 4: There's also that it's confusing because Falcon went out to
Speaker 4: Europe and put another boy, a twink named Cole Connor
Speaker 4: in one of their movies What and he is nominated
Speaker 4: for Best Actor and like Best Duo. So that's not
Speaker 4: me with those nominations. No, nobody knows.
Speaker 2: That because I saw nothing to differentiate from it from
Speaker 2: us from each other.
Speaker 1: It must have been a mistake.
Speaker 2: It's not a mistake.
Speaker 1: Do you think it was shade.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's shade. I think nobody fucking thought
Speaker 4: about it and nobody thought that it would matter.
Speaker 2: And it was just like, but this is like.
Speaker 1: Are there.
Speaker 4: Pr did a post with me on it saying like
Speaker 4: best Actor, bestduo of best fetishtine, Like two of those
Speaker 4: are not my nominations.
Speaker 1: Maybe they were supposed to be, and they just like, listen.
Speaker 2: Now, is this not the scene? Like the scene is
Speaker 2: not I'm.
Speaker 1: Not I'm saying it is from It's from.
Speaker 2: It's from a movie called heart On and I'm not
Speaker 2: in that movie.
Speaker 1: But there is someone named Connor in that movie.
Speaker 4: And so he is a British guy that's part of
Speaker 4: a couple Calem and Cole and they do everything together.
Speaker 4: So like they don't and he's Caleum's in the movie too,
Speaker 4: he's not. It's a duo with Kle. This sounds like
Speaker 4: so they're like, so you would never hear Cole Connor
Speaker 4: when referring to him. You would hear Caleb and Cole.
Speaker 2: Right, so, but now that he's in a movie with
Speaker 2: a studio that I was very fucking exclusive in and
Speaker 2: the studio did nothing to differentiate the name.
Speaker 3: To me, it sounds like this was a mistake that
Speaker 3: no one really knew.
Speaker 2: Idiots made yeah Falcon.
Speaker 3: Anyway back to me, I got two nominations, one also
Speaker 3: for Best Best Fetish Scene for Himorro's scene called bratt Taming,
Speaker 3: and the other for Best Supporting Actor and a Featurette
Speaker 3: for the same scene. So I'm very excited. It's nice
Speaker 3: to be nominated again. Like sometimes, you know, you you forget.
Speaker 3: I haven't been the busiest this year, but it's like,
Speaker 3: it's nice. It's nice to be remembered. Thank you, Gavian
Speaker 3: see you there. I don't think heimor RoHS has ever
Speaker 3: won a gave in in the history of the Gavians,
Speaker 3: so we'll see. I just don't think they're on their
Speaker 3: radar at past being nominated for stuff, if you know
Speaker 3: what I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I won't get it.
Speaker 4: But it's the third time I've been nominated for it.
Speaker 4: The X is okay, oh CongressI Performer of the that's nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's that's That was nice. That was nice
Speaker 2: because I.
Speaker 4: Felt very out of place at that straight ass fucking party, like, yeah,
Speaker 4: it was like Michael Boston was there. I just saw
Speaker 4: like a couple gay people. But then when they announced it,
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, good, now I have something to talk.
Speaker 1: To people, the right people about your nomination.
Speaker 2: None of them know who the fuck I am.
Speaker 1: Well, congratulations on your nomination.
Speaker 3: Thanks and let's uh, thank you, and let's make twenty
Speaker 3: twenty five a great.
Speaker 2: Year, a fruitful year, a fruitful.
Speaker 1: Year with lots of clarity. I love you very much.
Speaker 1: I love you too. Thank you guys all so much
Speaker 1: for listening all year.
Speaker 3: I love you and we've been love you, Coyote, jockson,
Speaker 3: we love you, pop Star, Thank you pop Star, Thanks
Speaker 3: pop Jock. See you in twenty twenty five. If you
Speaker 3: guys have any questions for us, you can email us.
Speaker 3: Look at our websites. We have look at our both
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Speaker 3: getting official now. Yes, So thank you guys so much
Speaker 3: for a great year. Thank you Tony, thank you you
Speaker 3: b and Go and thank you Cole Connor.
Speaker 2: Thank you out of Ramsey.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this has been sorry for asking. Season three.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: We love you guys, Happy New Year, Happy New Year. Bye,
Speaker 2: this has been sorry for asking.
Speaker 3: Be sure to like, comment and subscribe, and until next time,
Speaker 3: stay sexy.