WEBVTT 1 00:00:04.200 --> 00:00:06.799 You're listening to Sorry for Asking. 2 00:00:06.839 --> 00:00:07.799 Sorry for Asking. 3 00:00:07.960 --> 00:00:11.359 I'm Cole Connor and I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where 4 00:00:11.400 --> 00:00:13.800 we talk, shop, ask questions. 5 00:00:13.400 --> 00:00:16.839 Tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators as 6 00:00:16.879 --> 00:00:18.839 well as consumers of adult content. 7 00:00:18.960 --> 00:00:20.079 We love watching too. 8 00:00:20.199 --> 00:00:21.079 We certainly do. 9 00:00:21.640 --> 00:00:25.039 We also discuss the impact adult films have had on us, 10 00:00:25.120 --> 00:00:26.920 on our guests. 11 00:00:26.359 --> 00:00:28.839 And on the LGBTQ community. 12 00:00:29.480 --> 00:00:31.600 So strap on and strap in. 13 00:00:31.960 --> 00:00:45.520 And here we go. Hey, hi there, what's going on? Oh? 14 00:00:45.719 --> 00:00:46.880 You know this and that? 15 00:00:47.320 --> 00:00:49.000 Welcome to Sorry for Asking. 16 00:00:49.240 --> 00:00:52.000 Welcome everyone. I'm Adam Ramsey, I'm Cold Connor. We are 17 00:00:52.079 --> 00:00:55.439 here everyone on our season three finale. 18 00:00:55.840 --> 00:00:58.719 Yay, can you believe it? 19 00:00:58.719 --> 00:00:59.560 It's so exciting. 20 00:01:00.240 --> 00:01:02.039 Twenty three episodes. 21 00:01:02.359 --> 00:01:03.359 Twenty three episodes. 22 00:01:03.439 --> 00:01:08.560 Yeah, and I think this also marks our sixtieth I 23 00:01:08.599 --> 00:01:12.959 think we're rounding out three seasons with exactly sixty episodes. 24 00:01:13.680 --> 00:01:17.040 Oh I planned plenty. All right, Okay, well I got that, 25 00:01:17.040 --> 00:01:17.519 all right. 26 00:01:17.560 --> 00:01:20.519 So well first, first thing, First, I have a surprise. 27 00:01:20.599 --> 00:01:23.200 Oh my gosh, we haven't done shirtless in a while, 28 00:01:24.280 --> 00:01:27.959 So I brought a couple of these coyote jocks harnesses. 29 00:01:28.040 --> 00:01:30.760 This is my shameless attempt at getting coyote jocks to 30 00:01:30.840 --> 00:01:31.760 sponsor US. 31 00:01:32.159 --> 00:01:34.200 Yes season, Hello, coyote. 32 00:01:34.519 --> 00:01:37.319 We want red or white and larger extra large. I 33 00:01:37.359 --> 00:01:38.359 wear an extra. 34 00:01:38.120 --> 00:01:41.000 Large because, oh my goodness, it's actually maroon. 35 00:01:41.040 --> 00:01:46.359 I guess all right, well see here you choose, so 36 00:01:46.480 --> 00:01:47.239 you brought them. 37 00:01:47.640 --> 00:01:48.319 I'll do white. 38 00:01:48.400 --> 00:01:50.319 You're gonna do white, all right, Let's see the. 39 00:01:50.319 --> 00:01:55.280 Excel boom, Yeah, might be upside down. 40 00:01:56.439 --> 00:02:01.719 Cool, we're gonna do that again, so strappy. 41 00:02:01.879 --> 00:02:03.719 Yeah, there's it should be like up above your. 42 00:02:03.599 --> 00:02:06.319 Tips above like this. Oh yeah, that's good. 43 00:02:06.359 --> 00:02:08.199 Yeah. Did you get the larger that excel? 44 00:02:08.680 --> 00:02:11.000 I don't even know. I just put one on because 45 00:02:11.000 --> 00:02:14.680 that's how I roll. Yeah, come on, kyote. 46 00:02:14.800 --> 00:02:17.639 I think I used to have this colored jockstrap of theirs, 47 00:02:17.639 --> 00:02:18.360 and I really liked. 48 00:02:18.800 --> 00:02:20.759 You can have that. You can have you can have 49 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:23.240 both of the larges because I think it'll fit you. 50 00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:27.280 Cool. Oh thank you. Yay, Happy Honica to me. 51 00:02:27.439 --> 00:02:30.439 Happy holidays everybody, Happy Honica, Merry Christmas. 52 00:02:30.599 --> 00:02:33.159 I hope you guys have some fun things planned. 53 00:02:33.759 --> 00:02:36.240 I know that I have. For example, this Saturday, my 54 00:02:36.560 --> 00:02:37.680 third axis. 55 00:02:38.240 --> 00:02:39.039 It's Saturday. 56 00:02:39.120 --> 00:02:42.560 It's this Saturday, the twenty first. It's the twenty first, 57 00:02:42.680 --> 00:02:44.280 so it's like, you know, for whoever is in town 58 00:02:44.360 --> 00:02:46.039 for the holidays, come on through. 59 00:02:46.240 --> 00:02:46.479 We are. 60 00:02:46.599 --> 00:02:49.199 We're doing a winter theme. It's for the Winter Solstice. 61 00:02:49.479 --> 00:02:52.919 It's gonna be you know, like long John's beanies, onesies, 62 00:02:53.520 --> 00:02:57.319 plaid flannel, things that are cozy that you feel comfortable 63 00:02:57.360 --> 00:03:00.240 taking off when you want to touch the skin of. 64 00:03:00.199 --> 00:03:03.400 Another human being. Yes, love that. 65 00:03:03.520 --> 00:03:05.800 Yeah, it's hot, it gets hot in those places. But 66 00:03:05.840 --> 00:03:08.000 it is, you know, December. I mean, although it's December 67 00:03:08.039 --> 00:03:09.639 and Los Angeles. 68 00:03:09.919 --> 00:03:10.439 We'll do that. 69 00:03:10.560 --> 00:03:12.719 We'll have some you know, fans, and you know, there 70 00:03:12.719 --> 00:03:16.159 will be a dark room upstairs because you want to 71 00:03:16.199 --> 00:03:21.000 get cozy at these parties aplace. No, we can't have 72 00:03:21.039 --> 00:03:23.879 a fire. But I'm still deciding decore wise, how I'm 73 00:03:23.879 --> 00:03:26.919 going to incorporate the hearth theme. There will be mistletoe, 74 00:03:26.960 --> 00:03:29.560 there will be some lighting. Mostly there will be good 75 00:03:29.639 --> 00:03:31.960 music and hot boys. That's kind of really all I'm 76 00:03:31.960 --> 00:03:34.319 going for. I worked so hard at the last axis 77 00:03:34.360 --> 00:03:36.840 that I was like, do people even care about the decor? 78 00:03:37.840 --> 00:03:39.879 We just we just want to dance and make out. 79 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:40.759 Yeah. 80 00:03:40.960 --> 00:03:44.400 Usually it's like Christmas decor is like you can go 81 00:03:44.560 --> 00:03:46.560 to Costco and get a bunch of. 82 00:03:47.159 --> 00:03:49.879 I don't want to go to Christmas theme. I want 83 00:03:49.879 --> 00:03:51.560 to go more winter themes. 84 00:03:51.879 --> 00:03:54.800 Yeah, Snowflake, Yeah. 85 00:03:54.319 --> 00:03:55.840 Do you have any plans for the holidays. 86 00:03:55.960 --> 00:03:58.960 I'm gonna go spend some time as my family and. 87 00:03:59.120 --> 00:04:03.800 Jacksonville Flow Jacksonville, Florida, where I have no history, Like 88 00:04:04.120 --> 00:04:06.919 my dad moved there. My dad and his wife moved 89 00:04:06.960 --> 00:04:11.840 there to be closer to my dad's my stepsister in law. Okay, 90 00:04:11.879 --> 00:04:16.160 I guess, and because they have kids and you know so, 91 00:04:17.639 --> 00:04:20.079 and those are my dad's grandkids. Because he's not really 92 00:04:20.079 --> 00:04:22.199 getting any for me anytime soon. 93 00:04:22.439 --> 00:04:24.560 Right, right, so try as you might. 94 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:27.839 So like, yeah, I'll just go briefly there and then 95 00:04:27.839 --> 00:04:30.279 I'll be back here for New Years. I'll probably go 96 00:04:30.519 --> 00:04:33.600 the day after access Okay. 97 00:04:32.959 --> 00:04:35.600 Cool, Yeah, that's great. I'm hoping everybody, like you know 98 00:04:35.959 --> 00:04:36.879 that people are here. 99 00:04:36.879 --> 00:04:38.720 Because yeah, because because I knew there was come to 100 00:04:38.920 --> 00:04:39.079 l A. 101 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:41.240 I knew there was a risk that like you know, 102 00:04:41.240 --> 00:04:43.319 people would be traveling, but also like there are going 103 00:04:43.399 --> 00:04:45.399 to be people here who want to dance, and it's 104 00:04:45.439 --> 00:04:48.199 on a Saturday. I will say I've learned something new 105 00:04:48.240 --> 00:04:50.480 about being in this field. This is the first time 106 00:04:50.519 --> 00:04:54.800 I've ever experienced like a wave of competitors like there's 107 00:04:54.839 --> 00:04:57.199 a party happening the night before in the same location 108 00:04:57.399 --> 00:04:59.079 that is like a party. 109 00:04:59.439 --> 00:05:00.680 Yeah. 110 00:05:00.720 --> 00:05:02.560 We don't have a lot of warehouse spaces in LA 111 00:05:02.759 --> 00:05:05.199 so it just feels very like, Wow, I wish it 112 00:05:05.279 --> 00:05:06.560 wasn't the same weekend. 113 00:05:06.680 --> 00:05:08.639 Those two people can have the same good idea. 114 00:05:09.040 --> 00:05:11.160 Yes, if you want to come out on a Saturday night, 115 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:14.199 you know what I'm doing where I'll be happy Holidays 116 00:05:14.240 --> 00:05:18.319 to all. There's enough for all of us at this table. 117 00:05:19.279 --> 00:05:21.480 And it's made me think a little bit about competition 118 00:05:21.800 --> 00:05:24.240 in general. I know you've experienced a little bit of 119 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:26.519 it in our field, in our industry. 120 00:05:26.800 --> 00:05:29.040 Have you been feeling it lately? Oh? 121 00:05:29.600 --> 00:05:31.920 Yeah, I mean I don't know if it's competition. 122 00:05:32.079 --> 00:05:35.319 I'm kind of like I have some other focuses right 123 00:05:35.360 --> 00:05:37.600 now too, which is great for me. 124 00:05:37.600 --> 00:05:40.199 Do you want to talk about any of them? Secret? 125 00:05:40.560 --> 00:05:43.800 No, it's a secret like that. I mean, it's a 126 00:05:43.839 --> 00:05:44.560 creative thing. 127 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:49.120 And hopefully after the break I'll have some more updates 128 00:05:49.120 --> 00:05:53.560 on it. But I'm still very much in the creating process. 129 00:05:53.680 --> 00:05:54.079 Amazing. 130 00:05:54.279 --> 00:05:57.519 I want to leave my mark on this world in 131 00:05:57.560 --> 00:06:00.920 a different way, like in a I don't know, I 132 00:06:00.959 --> 00:06:02.560 guess I can't really talk about it. 133 00:06:02.879 --> 00:06:04.680 Well, no, it's okay, but it sounds like you're saying 134 00:06:04.680 --> 00:06:07.600 you want to do more than just. 135 00:06:09.000 --> 00:06:09.240 Yeah. 136 00:06:10.000 --> 00:06:13.560 I mean, I mean I kind of want to tell 137 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:19.000 my story and about like things I've done and gone 138 00:06:19.000 --> 00:06:23.079 through and things that have happened, and to make sense 139 00:06:23.120 --> 00:06:26.360 out of it and give it purpose, make it mean something. 140 00:06:27.000 --> 00:06:30.319 So that's kind of where I am right now. 141 00:06:30.360 --> 00:06:30.959 And it's like. 142 00:06:31.319 --> 00:06:33.800 It's weird because I'm like in a good place now 143 00:06:33.839 --> 00:06:36.319 and like maybe like two weeks ago, I was like 144 00:06:36.319 --> 00:06:41.000 like like I hit like a wall and I just needed. 145 00:06:40.839 --> 00:06:43.279 Do you mean personally or within this endeavor? 146 00:06:43.639 --> 00:06:46.879 Like no, I'm glad I had this endeavor to pull 147 00:06:46.920 --> 00:06:49.720 me to focus on to get. 148 00:06:49.480 --> 00:06:52.199 Me out of it, because I. 149 00:06:51.319 --> 00:06:53.879 Was like, you know, when you channel your energy into 150 00:06:53.920 --> 00:06:56.759 something creative, it just is kind of like transformative. So 151 00:06:56.800 --> 00:07:03.360 it can really like hone your focus to do everything better. Ye. 152 00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:06.600 Yes, So I feel like a lot of people have 153 00:07:06.680 --> 00:07:10.480 been feeling something similar sort of around the election, sort 154 00:07:10.480 --> 00:07:11.480 of around this season. 155 00:07:11.839 --> 00:07:13.199 I guess depression gets higher. 156 00:07:14.800 --> 00:07:18.959 I am feeling that. I'm definitely feeling a version of that. 157 00:07:19.079 --> 00:07:21.560 I'm having a weird day, but I'm doing a much 158 00:07:21.600 --> 00:07:23.800 better now than I was a few weeks ago, because 159 00:07:23.800 --> 00:07:27.800 I also was in like a place where I don't think. Okay, 160 00:07:27.879 --> 00:07:31.120 I'm gonna start with this. First of all, I'm moving in. 161 00:07:31.079 --> 00:07:32.759 A few weeks. Did I tell you about this? Yes, 162 00:07:33.800 --> 00:07:35.560 I'm moving closer to you, and I. 163 00:07:35.519 --> 00:07:38.480 Want to take advantage of that, Cole Connor, just because 164 00:07:38.519 --> 00:07:40.680 I really feel, like, you know, I lived in Koreatown 165 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:44.199 since the before the pandemic, which is when I last 166 00:07:44.279 --> 00:07:48.120 lived by myself. I've been living with either roommates or 167 00:07:48.160 --> 00:07:49.240 like you know, a. 168 00:07:49.160 --> 00:07:52.199 Brief moment with a party. Do you know what I think. 169 00:07:52.199 --> 00:07:54.800 I just did it because I was able to save 170 00:07:54.879 --> 00:07:57.160 some money, and you know, I liked the places that 171 00:07:57.199 --> 00:08:00.120 I was living. But it only dawned on me in 172 00:08:00.160 --> 00:08:02.959 the last couple months that as a result, I have 173 00:08:03.120 --> 00:08:05.439 like not been taking the best care of my mental health. 174 00:08:06.360 --> 00:08:08.639 I work in night life twice a week at least, 175 00:08:09.800 --> 00:08:10.839 and I come home. 176 00:08:10.680 --> 00:08:13.879 To come in and like all quiet, like not decompressed. 177 00:08:13.959 --> 00:08:15.519 You can't just like turn on the TV and. 178 00:08:15.720 --> 00:08:17.560 Well, I can turn on the TV in my bedroom, 179 00:08:17.560 --> 00:08:19.920 but it's like at super low volume with subtitles, and 180 00:08:19.959 --> 00:08:26.040 I'm like, you know, quietly brushing my teeth. I mean, yeah, hello, forties. 181 00:08:27.079 --> 00:08:29.720 I just like it, especially if I'm watching something with 182 00:08:29.800 --> 00:08:33.200 like accents. Yeah, and you know, like it just makes 183 00:08:33.200 --> 00:08:35.759 it easy or like they just have a different dialect. 184 00:08:36.159 --> 00:08:38.320 Yeah, oh yeah say things differently. 185 00:08:38.559 --> 00:08:38.879 Yeah. 186 00:08:38.919 --> 00:08:42.360 So I mean, like I watched that movie Queer last 187 00:08:42.440 --> 00:08:44.240 night in the theater. I could barely understand what half 188 00:08:44.279 --> 00:08:46.039 the people were saying the whole time. So maybe that's 189 00:08:46.080 --> 00:08:48.919 just our lives now, but anyway, point being, it has 190 00:08:49.000 --> 00:08:51.840 become soul sucking to come home and have to be 191 00:08:52.039 --> 00:08:54.480 have to edit myself over the last five years with 192 00:08:54.559 --> 00:08:57.600 various people I've lived with, and I remember what it 193 00:08:57.639 --> 00:08:59.879 was like living alone before the pandemic, and I was 194 00:09:00.120 --> 00:09:04.919 so so much freer and I need to bring that back. 195 00:09:04.960 --> 00:09:07.320 And I feel like that is giving me the same 196 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:11.120 kind of inspiration and looking forward to the future as 197 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:13.440 your project is that you're talking about. 198 00:09:13.200 --> 00:09:14.159 Oh you needo his cats. 199 00:09:14.879 --> 00:09:17.080 I mean, I would eventually there will be a cat 200 00:09:17.159 --> 00:09:18.799 because the cat I live with will not be coming 201 00:09:18.840 --> 00:09:21.399 with me unfortunately. Well she's not mine, she's my roommates, 202 00:09:21.759 --> 00:09:23.279 even though we're super homies. 203 00:09:23.279 --> 00:09:25.240 And then there's so many. 204 00:09:25.000 --> 00:09:26.759 Cats I've been thinking, I mean, I just end up 205 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:29.399 living with them. I haven't had one of my own 206 00:09:29.519 --> 00:09:30.679 since I was a child, to. 207 00:09:30.759 --> 00:09:32.919 Get a main coon like Boris and have a little 208 00:09:33.080 --> 00:09:33.840 main coon friend. 209 00:09:35.080 --> 00:09:39.120 He's just so big, I know, he's like he just looks. 210 00:09:39.159 --> 00:09:44.320 He's like a big puppy with claws. How is Boris? 211 00:09:44.360 --> 00:09:47.120 By the way, He's just like the best thing ever. Really, 212 00:09:47.159 --> 00:09:49.600 He's like he's so sweet. He doesn't have a main 213 00:09:49.679 --> 00:09:51.799 bone in his body. He's just like, do you guys 214 00:09:51.840 --> 00:09:54.799 cuddle cool with everything? Yeah, he sleeps in between my legs. 215 00:09:54.960 --> 00:09:58.679 Oh. He like he's gotten a lot more snugly that 216 00:09:58.759 --> 00:09:59.519 he's like four. 217 00:09:59.679 --> 00:10:01.879 Yes, so that's what happens now. And now he's like 218 00:10:02.840 --> 00:10:03.679 a little annoying. 219 00:10:04.200 --> 00:10:05.159 Oh is he like needy? 220 00:10:05.799 --> 00:10:05.879 No? 221 00:10:06.240 --> 00:10:06.919 Is he just needy? 222 00:10:07.000 --> 00:10:09.039 Is that he's well, I mean he knows where his 223 00:10:09.080 --> 00:10:09.600 treats are. 224 00:10:09.639 --> 00:10:12.120 He goes and walks over to the cabinet like stares 225 00:10:12.159 --> 00:10:13.919 at it and then looks at me and then like. 226 00:10:14.200 --> 00:10:17.120 H He's like, hey, you idiot, hey idiot, and like. 227 00:10:17.080 --> 00:10:19.720 Wants made to play with his fucking feather on a stick, 228 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:23.799 like I gotta do that for like five minutes. 229 00:10:24.080 --> 00:10:26.559 He never gets bored of it. All right, we can't 230 00:10:26.600 --> 00:10:28.039 talk about cats anymore. 231 00:10:28.240 --> 00:10:31.799 What I love cats? I'm gonna not live with a 232 00:10:31.840 --> 00:10:33.679 cat for a little while. That's what it's gonna be. 233 00:10:34.240 --> 00:10:36.519 It's gonna be. Yeah, I like it. I like it. 234 00:10:36.600 --> 00:10:38.200 Thanks coyote jocks. 235 00:10:38.200 --> 00:10:41.200 But anyway, like I was saying, the idea of creating 236 00:10:41.240 --> 00:10:43.320 a home from scratch and living there on my own 237 00:10:43.639 --> 00:10:46.759 is giving me the sort of inspiration that I feel 238 00:10:46.759 --> 00:10:50.200 like what you were saying, you're new endeavor, it's bringing 239 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:53.440 to you. And maybe it's gonna like make us not 240 00:10:53.879 --> 00:10:57.879 rely on some bad habits because I've relied on some 241 00:10:57.960 --> 00:10:59.279 bad habits this last year. 242 00:10:59.399 --> 00:11:01.879 You can get some bad habits living alone too. 243 00:11:02.679 --> 00:11:04.120 Yes, of a different variety. 244 00:11:04.120 --> 00:11:07.120 But I'm actually going into this, this new living situation 245 00:11:07.519 --> 00:11:10.639 very much with intention to start some new habits. 246 00:11:10.639 --> 00:11:14.080 I want to like schedule my days more. I might. Yeah, 247 00:11:14.120 --> 00:11:17.120 thank you, let's do it. Twenty twenty. 248 00:11:17.440 --> 00:11:22.159 This is our project twenty twenty five, Ye bitches. Yeah, 249 00:11:22.240 --> 00:11:25.080 we're gonna like enter a new era. And I want 250 00:11:25.080 --> 00:11:28.159 to like be like cool what you're doing everything, Like 251 00:11:28.240 --> 00:11:31.480 I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna like I'm 252 00:11:31.480 --> 00:11:34.159 gonna be like I'm gonna bike over to watch you 253 00:11:34.200 --> 00:11:39.080 do all of it. And I also want to film more. Really, 254 00:11:39.279 --> 00:11:40.919 that's really really. 255 00:11:40.720 --> 00:11:43.559 Hard when you live with someone totally. 256 00:11:43.799 --> 00:11:46.720 It's like, I mean the last time I lived with 257 00:11:46.759 --> 00:11:50.480 someone when I was filming a lot. Yeah, it was 258 00:11:50.600 --> 00:11:54.039 just like I felt bad, Like I was like, I 259 00:11:54.080 --> 00:11:56.399 hope he's not there when it's when it's gonna happen. 260 00:11:56.720 --> 00:11:58.720 Yeah. Were you still living with your roommate when you 261 00:11:58.720 --> 00:11:59.360 started filming? 262 00:11:59.679 --> 00:12:04.240 Yeah, and then I moved in with another roommate, a 263 00:12:04.240 --> 00:12:07.679 friend of mine that I still a friend. Were like, 264 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:10.440 we're friends for a long time before, and we only 265 00:12:10.480 --> 00:12:13.960 lived together for like nine months in that place, but man, 266 00:12:14.039 --> 00:12:16.440 I had like I filmed some group stuff there and 267 00:12:16.639 --> 00:12:19.720 like we had this big place. It was beautiful, like 268 00:12:19.759 --> 00:12:22.799 a staircase. We had like the handoff guys fucking up 269 00:12:22.840 --> 00:12:23.600 the staircase. 270 00:12:24.679 --> 00:12:27.279 Yeah, a bumped Ndergreens. That was a fun nine months. 271 00:12:28.000 --> 00:12:33.039 And then I lived alone and then everything started to 272 00:12:33.080 --> 00:12:33.799 go wrong. 273 00:12:35.279 --> 00:12:38.159 Right, Yes, I had a weird run after that. 274 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:41.360 It was like right right after I moved in that 275 00:12:41.399 --> 00:12:46.240 you had that I had, so I didn't realize it 276 00:12:46.279 --> 00:12:46.799 was so soon. 277 00:12:47.000 --> 00:12:47.440 Yeah. 278 00:12:47.559 --> 00:12:49.799 Yeah, I didn't really get to enjoy that first place. 279 00:12:50.559 --> 00:12:52.720 That's why I'm like, I enjoy the place that I'm 280 00:12:52.799 --> 00:12:55.360 living in now, and. 281 00:12:55.000 --> 00:12:56.039 I think I'm gonna stay. 282 00:12:56.399 --> 00:12:58.279 I was thinking about moving and like trying to find 283 00:12:58.320 --> 00:13:00.720 a cheaper place, but I was like, what am I 284 00:13:00.759 --> 00:13:04.840 really going to find? Yeah, like something five hundred dollars cheaper. 285 00:13:05.000 --> 00:13:06.440 Right, you know? Yeah? Yeah? 286 00:13:06.480 --> 00:13:08.039 Yeah? And what am I gonna spend on moving? 287 00:13:08.960 --> 00:13:09.360 Yeah? 288 00:13:09.399 --> 00:13:13.679 And I gotta start thinking about my my spending and 289 00:13:13.759 --> 00:13:14.279 my coin. 290 00:13:14.799 --> 00:13:15.000 Yes. 291 00:13:16.080 --> 00:13:20.080 Yes, I've been very laxadaisical and frivolous, right, and I 292 00:13:20.159 --> 00:13:20.559 just can't. 293 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:22.200 I like, I don't want to be like that anymore. 294 00:13:22.799 --> 00:13:23.840 Yeah, I hear you. 295 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:26.519 So fruitful is my Oh? 296 00:13:26.600 --> 00:13:29.120 Is that your word for twenty twenty five? I like that? 297 00:13:29.279 --> 00:13:31.480 Yeah, Yeah, I thought about it. I know you're going 298 00:13:31.519 --> 00:13:31.919 to ask it. 299 00:13:32.399 --> 00:13:34.120 I know I've been thinking about what mine is going 300 00:13:34.159 --> 00:13:36.159 to be. I don't know some of our our diehard 301 00:13:36.159 --> 00:13:38.279 listeners might remember. I like having a word of the 302 00:13:38.399 --> 00:13:40.799 year or a word going into the new year, and 303 00:13:41.519 --> 00:13:44.080 I haven't really found mine yet. I always think of 304 00:13:44.080 --> 00:13:45.919 one and then I forget it because I know I've 305 00:13:45.919 --> 00:13:49.200 had like focus in the past. I think maybe clarity. 306 00:13:48.799 --> 00:13:51.840 Is the one going forward. Yeah, I've just been. 307 00:13:53.559 --> 00:13:56.480 Not treating myself well, Like I'm just all over the place. 308 00:13:57.159 --> 00:13:58.519 There are times when I think I've bit off more 309 00:13:58.519 --> 00:14:00.679 than I can chew. There are times when I feel 310 00:14:00.679 --> 00:14:02.399 like I have a handle on it on it all. 311 00:14:02.679 --> 00:14:05.320 There was a moment this fall where I felt like 312 00:14:05.399 --> 00:14:07.960 I did not have a handle on it. Not necessarily 313 00:14:08.039 --> 00:14:09.960 night live stuff, but the at home stuff. I felt 314 00:14:09.960 --> 00:14:11.759 like I was just kind of like, for lack of 315 00:14:11.840 --> 00:14:13.519 a better term, stone the whole time. 316 00:14:14.559 --> 00:14:17.840 Well, I think, yeah, I mean I went to the 317 00:14:17.879 --> 00:14:22.080 ex BIZ nomination party the night before the Gay Vienne 318 00:14:23.120 --> 00:14:27.000 or AVN nomination party. Yeah here both in La like 319 00:14:27.000 --> 00:14:30.080 one night after the other, and like some I shot 320 00:14:30.080 --> 00:14:32.840 some things with some people from Vegas and like went 321 00:14:32.879 --> 00:14:37.000 out drinking and like having people over at my place 322 00:14:37.120 --> 00:14:39.440 late night after like both nights. It just kind of 323 00:14:39.480 --> 00:14:41.960 like wrecked me, Yes, and that's what put me in 324 00:14:42.039 --> 00:14:46.600 this like bad slump of a place like that all weekend. 325 00:14:46.799 --> 00:14:47.000 Yeah. 326 00:14:47.039 --> 00:14:48.919 It was like a Wednesday night and a Thursday night 327 00:14:49.279 --> 00:14:52.399 on those nomination parties and then like it just lasted 328 00:14:52.519 --> 00:14:57.240 through Sunday. Yeah, and then I was like Monday came 329 00:14:57.279 --> 00:15:01.639 and I was like, yeah, let's just fucking work. 330 00:15:01.399 --> 00:15:05.600 And yes, right, so again, twenty twenty five is around 331 00:15:05.639 --> 00:15:07.799 the corner. See I used to do that when in 332 00:15:07.840 --> 00:15:10.039 my twenties when I lived alone, I would have like 333 00:15:10.120 --> 00:15:12.279 the after party always and it was so much fun. 334 00:15:12.639 --> 00:15:15.559 And now I'm looking forward to like my place being 335 00:15:15.639 --> 00:15:19.159 like the safe haven that when I get home I 336 00:15:19.200 --> 00:15:21.759 can like shower till three in the morning and just 337 00:15:21.840 --> 00:15:24.639 like put on the Golden Girls or or play the piano, 338 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:26.480 which I'm moving my piano back in with me. 339 00:15:28.039 --> 00:15:29.919 Well, come back to that subject, but like I want 340 00:15:29.960 --> 00:15:32.000 to talk about I want. I did a studio scene 341 00:15:32.320 --> 00:15:35.720 a couple of weeks ago for say uncle, or two 342 00:15:35.759 --> 00:15:39.720 studio scenes to say Uncle, and I was shooting two scenes. 343 00:15:39.759 --> 00:15:43.919 It was two three ways. I was playing a doctor. 344 00:15:44.639 --> 00:15:48.960 Finally, finally, my dad's finally episode show the Scope. 345 00:15:49.120 --> 00:15:53.279 Dad can be proud that I played a doctor in porn. 346 00:15:54.919 --> 00:15:57.480 And I'm sure he's been waiting for this. 347 00:15:57.720 --> 00:15:58.320 Waiting for it. 348 00:15:58.399 --> 00:16:03.639 Yes, And this was the shittiest studio I've ever shot in. 349 00:16:03.960 --> 00:16:04.519 Where was it? 350 00:16:04.600 --> 00:16:09.240 Like it was in Chatsworth okay of course, and I 351 00:16:09.320 --> 00:16:12.399 was like, wow, this is this is the talent room 352 00:16:12.600 --> 00:16:17.960 like with Ship and Trash I shot there recently. And 353 00:16:18.000 --> 00:16:20.799 then there was like the little doctor's office set that 354 00:16:21.600 --> 00:16:24.559 like every time we were like injuring the door. He 355 00:16:24.679 --> 00:16:26.960 was like, oh, I can't shoot because I just see 356 00:16:26.960 --> 00:16:31.240 the warehouse with ship like all. So we had to 357 00:16:31.240 --> 00:16:33.919 like kind of slide and like open the door and 358 00:16:34.039 --> 00:16:36.480 like slide and very without opening it too. 359 00:16:36.679 --> 00:16:39.799 It's that two story office building right where there's just 360 00:16:39.840 --> 00:16:40.559 crap everywhere. 361 00:16:41.240 --> 00:16:44.759 Each scene only took like it was me and Caden 362 00:16:45.320 --> 00:16:47.399 I always. So there was one name Kasden and one 363 00:16:47.440 --> 00:16:53.519 name Caden or yeah was lovely yeah, and he lives 364 00:16:53.559 --> 00:16:59.279 in New York yeah, and Kasden Hunter yes. And that 365 00:16:59.399 --> 00:17:02.559 was the first scene in two hours done for the 366 00:17:02.559 --> 00:17:04.839 one scene for the one scene, and then second scene 367 00:17:04.839 --> 00:17:07.599 also took like an hour and a half with Harrison, 368 00:17:07.640 --> 00:17:10.079 but Kasden was out and Harrison. 369 00:17:09.759 --> 00:17:12.599 Todd was in, Oh okay, I've shot with. 370 00:17:12.599 --> 00:17:16.839 Him before and like the say uncle Halloween, Oh right, 371 00:17:17.359 --> 00:17:23.680 fucking scene got it that very very funny, and then 372 00:17:23.720 --> 00:17:25.920 we got out of there so early we were like expecting. 373 00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:28.480 It was like my call time was noon. 374 00:17:28.960 --> 00:17:31.480 Which is great. I love on noon call time, Yeah, 375 00:17:31.519 --> 00:17:32.400 and I was. 376 00:17:32.440 --> 00:17:34.880 We were out by four, so they were like, should 377 00:17:34.920 --> 00:17:37.160 we get FA? We were like yeah, So we went 378 00:17:37.200 --> 00:17:37.680 and got FA. 379 00:17:37.799 --> 00:17:39.359 The three of us in Chatsworth. 380 00:17:39.480 --> 00:17:42.599 In Chatsworth and we were like, and then we're there 381 00:17:42.640 --> 00:17:47.720 and I'm like, should we see Wicked? And so Cayden 382 00:17:47.839 --> 00:17:50.759 couldn't go because his sister happened to be in town 383 00:17:50.799 --> 00:17:53.119 and they were gonna they had plans. Harrison Todd and 384 00:17:53.160 --> 00:17:55.279 I went and went and saw Wicked. 385 00:17:55.559 --> 00:17:56.759 And loved it. Loved it. 386 00:17:56.920 --> 00:18:00.359 I loved it. It's just like it's just what I needed. Yeah, 387 00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:04.119 it's like I loved it. I had some notes, but 388 00:18:04.200 --> 00:18:05.960 I did love it, and I want to see it again. 389 00:18:06.119 --> 00:18:08.359 Yeah, let's go see it. We see Wicked. 390 00:18:08.880 --> 00:18:11.759 Oh my god, Yes, we have some time and when 391 00:18:11.759 --> 00:18:14.359 we're over going to see wickeds Sorry guys, Yeah, I 392 00:18:14.400 --> 00:18:14.799 love I. 393 00:18:14.759 --> 00:18:18.400 Loved it, but I did have some issues. Yeah. Cool. 394 00:18:19.160 --> 00:18:22.319 I want to just tell me what I feel like. 395 00:18:22.680 --> 00:18:27.759 It's so grand the grand. I like, it's very grande. 396 00:18:28.240 --> 00:18:30.880 I think the best way I could distill what I 397 00:18:30.920 --> 00:18:35.319 thought about it was it just felt so self important. 398 00:18:35.759 --> 00:18:37.640 And that's the thing is like, out of respect for 399 00:18:37.680 --> 00:18:41.359 the material and respect for the audience, they really created 400 00:18:41.400 --> 00:18:45.400 something magnificently grand for lack of a better term, I think, 401 00:18:45.960 --> 00:18:49.680