WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:05.400 Stuck at home, bored and alone. You'd think I could 2 00:00:05.480 --> 00:00:07.320 have some fun. 3 00:00:07.160 --> 00:00:09.640 On my own, but not bored. 4 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:18.600 I boed if with Cecily and Stephanie. What's up? Everybody? 5 00:00:18.679 --> 00:00:23.480 Welcome to bored a f You know what, We're not bored. 6 00:00:24.480 --> 00:00:27.480 I'm a little bored. You are pretty bored. 7 00:00:27.879 --> 00:00:34.719 Well, I'm not. It's today to die a little bit bored. 8 00:00:34.960 --> 00:00:36.280 I'm just tired. I think I'm tired. 9 00:00:36.320 --> 00:00:39.520 I can't tell the difference between being tired and bored anymore? 10 00:00:39.520 --> 00:00:43.560 Does anyone else have that? Who here? Who here? Raise 11 00:00:43.600 --> 00:00:46.119 your hand? Show up hands? Who here? Is tired? 12 00:00:46.520 --> 00:00:49.920 Well? I just never want to do anything, so I 13 00:00:49.960 --> 00:00:51.560 can't tell if that's really tired. 14 00:00:51.679 --> 00:00:56.399 Sometimes you know, I have a headache? You do right now? No? 15 00:00:56.679 --> 00:01:00.280 Right now? I feel fine? Do you ever wake up? Okay? 16 00:01:00.320 --> 00:01:03.359 You don't drink coffee because your heart? Right? I can't? Yeah, 17 00:01:03.399 --> 00:01:06.599 I can't anymore? Now are you not allowed? Or is 18 00:01:06.640 --> 00:01:07.519 it allowed? 19 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:10.640 I mean they're not like they're they never disallow anything, 20 00:01:10.680 --> 00:01:12.439 like even if you, like, if you have lung cancer, 21 00:01:12.480 --> 00:01:15.120 you'd be like you really shouldn't smoke, But they can't stop. 22 00:01:14.760 --> 00:01:17.079 You, right, But I mean do they say, like, hey, 23 00:01:17.159 --> 00:01:19.879 that's really not good with your what's going on with 24 00:01:19.920 --> 00:01:20.319 your heart? 25 00:01:20.719 --> 00:01:22.359 And also they yes say that. 26 00:01:22.439 --> 00:01:24.760 And also I can feel it if I have caffeine, 27 00:01:25.079 --> 00:01:27.560 like if they mess up my order, which they often 28 00:01:27.640 --> 00:01:30.079 do at coffee places because they do not give a 29 00:01:30.079 --> 00:01:32.799 fuck if you say decaf, I can feel it in 30 00:01:32.799 --> 00:01:37.319 my heart like immediately, like it like beats really fat. 31 00:01:37.319 --> 00:01:41.799 It's terrible. So it's kind of not even worth it. Yeah. Yeah, 32 00:01:42.719 --> 00:01:46.519 so I just take crack. I mean that's a quicker. Yeah. 33 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:49.519 Well yeah it's and it's bigger, it's more fun. Crack 34 00:01:49.640 --> 00:01:52.280 is way more affordable, is the thing, than just it's 35 00:01:52.280 --> 00:01:56.840 not whack. I think caffeine is whack. Yeah, no, crack is. 36 00:01:57.079 --> 00:02:00.359 You're joking, but it probably is more affordable than like Starbucks. 37 00:02:00.719 --> 00:02:06.400 Oh my god, it probably is at this point. That's hilarious. Now, 38 00:02:06.439 --> 00:02:09.759 what was your question about caffeine. Oh, I was just 39 00:02:09.800 --> 00:02:12.280 going to say, sometimes if I when I have not 40 00:02:12.360 --> 00:02:15.280 been sleeping well and I really really like my one 41 00:02:15.319 --> 00:02:18.280 cup of coffee in the morning. Yeah, this is not 42 00:02:18.319 --> 00:02:23.439 really that interesting to anybody but me, but sometimes I 43 00:02:23.560 --> 00:02:25.240 have like a few SIPs of it and then I'm 44 00:02:25.280 --> 00:02:30.599 just like, oh I can't, I'm too like lack of sleep. 45 00:02:30.759 --> 00:02:33.639 I'm too tired to drink caffeine, you know what I mean. 46 00:02:33.800 --> 00:02:36.240 And then, and the reason I say that is because 47 00:02:36.240 --> 00:02:37.759 I'm sitting here with like a half a cup of 48 00:02:37.759 --> 00:02:40.479 coffee in front of me that I just didn't drink 49 00:02:40.479 --> 00:02:40.919 this morning. 50 00:02:41.919 --> 00:02:44.599 I remember during my CAZy La days, you know, we'd 51 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:45.840 have to be there at five ams. 52 00:02:45.879 --> 00:02:48.039 You're at like four thirty. I was so close to 53 00:02:48.080 --> 00:02:50.360 the station that I would just not shower, which they 54 00:02:50.360 --> 00:02:52.919 did not appreciate. My boss would be like, we're doing 55 00:02:52.960 --> 00:02:59.000 photos with you know whoever, like Clinton Blat, you know who, 56 00:02:59.000 --> 00:03:01.919 whatever country start we got whoever. 57 00:03:01.960 --> 00:03:03.759 I can't even think of the names because who because 58 00:03:03.800 --> 00:03:06.000 I don't care. We got George Strait coming in and 59 00:03:06.039 --> 00:03:08.800 you didn't. You're wearing your pajamas. It's not appropriate and 60 00:03:08.840 --> 00:03:10.520 we need you to like put on something. 61 00:03:11.199 --> 00:03:14.120 Wow. I would come in sweats, yeah. And they weren't wrong. 62 00:03:14.560 --> 00:03:16.560 I was doing like a professional job. We had like 63 00:03:16.680 --> 00:03:19.759 radio listeners that would stop by. We had good guests 64 00:03:19.800 --> 00:03:22.719 every day, you know. But I was very into coffee then, 65 00:03:22.719 --> 00:03:24.680 and they had the grossest coffee in the little kitchen. 66 00:03:24.680 --> 00:03:26.599 You'd think they'd have something fancy, but they didn't. It 67 00:03:26.639 --> 00:03:29.479 was just like Buzz would make this like black coffee 68 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:31.199 every day and I would add just a bunch of 69 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:35.159 French vanilla creamer roast creamer from the fridge that was 70 00:03:35.199 --> 00:03:35.919 probably like. 71 00:03:36.080 --> 00:03:37.960 Whatever, and we'd eat it and we'd eat it. 72 00:03:38.000 --> 00:03:41.360 We'd drink in our little like dixie cup like plastic cups. 73 00:03:41.360 --> 00:03:44.000 Like it was just not super refreshing, but we needed 74 00:03:44.000 --> 00:03:45.719 that boost because it was five. 75 00:03:45.560 --> 00:03:47.400 In the morning and we were literally going on air. 76 00:03:47.919 --> 00:03:51.680 And one day before they hired Peter, they were trying 77 00:03:51.719 --> 00:03:54.319 out different people and they had a guy that was 78 00:03:54.360 --> 00:03:55.840 on the station for a very long time, this guy 79 00:03:55.879 --> 00:03:58.439 named Sean. He was a really nice guy. Okay, that 80 00:03:58.680 --> 00:04:00.960 Sean on and he was filling in for a week 81 00:04:00.960 --> 00:04:03.199 as like our lead guy. This is going somewhere, I promise. 82 00:04:03.599 --> 00:04:04.560 And I was. 83 00:04:04.520 --> 00:04:07.520 Actually interested in the fact that so did he know 84 00:04:07.599 --> 00:04:09.080 that was this like his big dream? 85 00:04:09.159 --> 00:04:10.759 And he's like, oh, I'm getting he. 86 00:04:10.800 --> 00:04:13.520 Was already on the station. He did afternoons. Oh, I 87 00:04:13.560 --> 00:04:16.240 think he wants new mornings because you make more money 88 00:04:16.279 --> 00:04:18.800 in mornings. But I don't think he was really you know, 89 00:04:18.839 --> 00:04:21.040 he was fine. He was he was a popular guy 90 00:04:21.120 --> 00:04:23.560 on the station. He had a bunch of other gigs. 91 00:04:23.800 --> 00:04:25.519 He didn't really need it. He was just kind of 92 00:04:25.519 --> 00:04:26.040 filling it. 93 00:04:26.160 --> 00:04:30.759 Okay until they found something, so he was trying to 94 00:04:30.759 --> 00:04:33.920 lose weight. We sometimes kind of went at it. We 95 00:04:34.040 --> 00:04:36.000 liked each other just fine. I still like my hope 96 00:04:36.000 --> 00:04:37.920 he's well. But sometimes i'd get mad because he would 97 00:04:38.000 --> 00:04:40.439 like he would do like a Jim Carrey like he'd 98 00:04:40.480 --> 00:04:43.319 be like, alrighty then, but like he wasn't kidding, you know, 99 00:04:43.360 --> 00:04:45.879 and I'd be like, please do that. I can't be 100 00:04:45.959 --> 00:04:48.560 on a show where someone's doing that. And he'd be like, oh, 101 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:50.720 and he thought I was being a snob, which I 102 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:52.399 guess I was, But would you want to be on 103 00:04:52.399 --> 00:04:54.480 a air with someone that was saying alrighty then no 104 00:04:55.120 --> 00:04:56.399 in a Jim Carrey voice. 105 00:04:56.600 --> 00:04:56.680 No. 106 00:04:57.040 --> 00:04:59.519 So he was on a diet and he was like, oh, 107 00:04:59.600 --> 00:05:02.160 no call for me, and Buzz and I were like, 108 00:05:02.240 --> 00:05:03.519 why no coffee for you? 109 00:05:03.879 --> 00:05:07.920 That? Yeah? Yeah, that was my first I was. 110 00:05:07.839 --> 00:05:09.879 Like, wait, I don't even know where this story is going, 111 00:05:09.920 --> 00:05:10.879 but it's already annoying. 112 00:05:10.959 --> 00:05:12.639 I was like, well, what do you mean it's fattening. 113 00:05:12.639 --> 00:05:15.480 We're like, no, it's not. It's actually the opposite. Buzz 114 00:05:15.560 --> 00:05:17.600 is like it's a diuretic. You'll lose weight with it, 115 00:05:17.680 --> 00:05:20.360 You'll peel a lot, you'll be less bloated. You just 116 00:05:20.360 --> 00:05:22.000 don't put a lot of sugar, but you can use 117 00:05:22.000 --> 00:05:25.279 the non dairy sugar free creamer that Cecily uses. Look 118 00:05:25.279 --> 00:05:26.879 at she's like ninety eight pounds. 119 00:05:26.959 --> 00:05:29.879 I think she's fat. He's like no, He's like, you're 120 00:05:29.959 --> 00:05:32.720 telling me that coffee doesn't make you gain weight. And 121 00:05:32.720 --> 00:05:34.240 we're like, what's wrong with you? 122 00:05:34.279 --> 00:05:36.879 Have children? So then he just he was like ah, 123 00:05:36.920 --> 00:05:38.480 he like ran off. He goes cover for me, and 124 00:05:38.480 --> 00:05:39.839 he went and got a cup of coffee. 125 00:05:40.160 --> 00:05:42.360 Oh my god. And that was the first he'd heard 126 00:05:42.399 --> 00:05:42.639 of that. 127 00:05:43.480 --> 00:05:46.279 Yeah, apparently, I mean, I know, I hope I didn't 128 00:05:46.279 --> 00:05:48.839 cause like we didn't cause heart issues. I mean, listen, 129 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:51.639 there's plenty of reasons not to drink a lot of caffeine, 130 00:05:51.680 --> 00:05:54.839 but yeah, but gaining weight isn't one of them. M 131 00:05:56.079 --> 00:05:58.040 And just be like, yeah, I don't do coke because 132 00:05:58.079 --> 00:05:59.920 I really want to stay skinny. And it's like, oh, 133 00:06:00.120 --> 00:06:01.160 do I have news for you. 134 00:06:02.680 --> 00:06:03.879 I mean, I don't know if I should be the 135 00:06:03.879 --> 00:06:08.120 one to tell you this, but uh yeah, I mean. 136 00:06:08.480 --> 00:06:13.040 And that man is Robert Downey Jr. Why do I 137 00:06:13.279 --> 00:06:16.480 tell him that that wasn't right. 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I don't 190 00:08:49.080 --> 00:08:51.240 have it exactly up, but I have it pretty memorized. 191 00:08:51.320 --> 00:08:51.679 Sure. 192 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:54.320 I mean, Threads really is bringing it. It's also the 193 00:08:54.360 --> 00:08:56.559 worst place in the world and just terrible and just 194 00:08:56.639 --> 00:08:59.639 the dumbest people, but also some of the funniest and 195 00:08:59.679 --> 00:09:02.600 smart as people, and they kind of make me laugh. 196 00:09:02.759 --> 00:09:03.440 I don't know why. 197 00:09:03.879 --> 00:09:06.720 So there's this thing, this algorithm on Threads that I'm 198 00:09:06.720 --> 00:09:08.960 in and I did not choose this. I never looked 199 00:09:08.960 --> 00:09:11.039 anything like this up, I swear to God. But sometimes 200 00:09:11.080 --> 00:09:13.240 if you just open one thing, you know forever, that's it. 201 00:09:13.279 --> 00:09:14.120 Even if you change your. 202 00:09:14.080 --> 00:09:17.559 Algorithm, you can. I told you on Threads you can write, 203 00:09:17.639 --> 00:09:20.840 dear al go please bring me. That's the prompt. Then 204 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:22.919 you say the things you want to see. The first 205 00:09:22.960 --> 00:09:24.240 time I did it, it totally worked. 206 00:09:24.240 --> 00:09:24.759 It was awesome. 207 00:09:24.799 --> 00:09:27.480 I was like, please bring me all things NASA Space 208 00:09:27.919 --> 00:09:30.279 black Holes. I want to learn about the unit. You know, 209 00:09:30.440 --> 00:09:32.480 I wrote it and I got all that stuff. This 210 00:09:32.679 --> 00:09:34.320 last time I did it. It didn't bring me any 211 00:09:34.320 --> 00:09:37.840 of that stuff. It brought me anti Semitism than I 212 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:38.960 could ever imagine. 213 00:09:39.799 --> 00:09:43.440 Like, when you say anti Semitism, what are you referring to? 214 00:09:43.720 --> 00:09:47.519 Oh, I'd rather not say just horrible, just people just 215 00:09:47.600 --> 00:09:51.440 being vile, just genuinely not don't just not caring for 216 00:09:51.480 --> 00:09:55.840 the Jews, Okay, using all kinds of slurs and just terrible, 217 00:09:55.919 --> 00:09:59.840 terrible shit. So beyond that, I'm also in some sort 218 00:09:59.879 --> 00:10:02.279 of dating algorithm and I have no idea why so. 219 00:10:02.399 --> 00:10:05.360 I well, probably because I covered it once on board. 220 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:10.639 But people are posting text messages between people that they'd 221 00:10:10.679 --> 00:10:14.240 met on bumble or hinge. They're calling them like dating fails. 222 00:10:14.480 --> 00:10:17.080 First of all, if any of it's real, it's disgusting. 223 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:20.840 It's disgusting that people would screenshot real people and then 224 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:22.240 post them on threads and be like, what do you 225 00:10:22.279 --> 00:10:25.919 guys think? I think that that's very rude. It's really 226 00:10:25.919 --> 00:10:27.279 not making the world a better place. 227 00:10:27.639 --> 00:10:28.639 Well, what are well? 228 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:29.039 Is? 229 00:10:29.120 --> 00:10:31.279 So are any of the people people that should be 230 00:10:31.320 --> 00:10:31.840 called out. 231 00:10:32.600 --> 00:10:35.120 I mean, here's one, okay, here's one that really stood 232 00:10:35.120 --> 00:10:37.240 out to me, and it was really adching this this 233 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:39.480 woman posts and I don't have it in front of 234 00:10:39.519 --> 00:10:41.279 me because I lost it. I don't know how to 235 00:10:41.320 --> 00:10:45.279 find it. But basically she was like, oh my god, 236 00:10:45.320 --> 00:10:46.919 you guys are all going to agree with me. I 237 00:10:46.960 --> 00:10:49.039 shut this shit down fast. So then it's a bunch 238 00:10:49.120 --> 00:10:49.919 of screenshots. 239 00:10:49.919 --> 00:10:51.960 You know, on hint you can see if it's bumble 240 00:10:52.039 --> 00:10:53.799 or hinge, you can see the colors, you know what 241 00:10:53.840 --> 00:10:58.960 it is, right right, And so she was like, hey, 242 00:10:59.559 --> 00:11:01.120 this guy I wrote to her and he was like, well, 243 00:11:01.120 --> 00:11:03.960 I can't wait to meet you. You know, what should 244 00:11:04.000 --> 00:11:06.759 we do for our first date? And she didn't write back. 245 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:09.559 She said something kind of random back, and he was like, 246 00:11:09.759 --> 00:11:12.279 what about a hike? You know, maybe we could go 247 00:11:12.320 --> 00:11:14.440 for hike. Now, personally, as a dater, I. 248 00:11:14.399 --> 00:11:15.919 Don't like a hike first date. 249 00:11:15.960 --> 00:11:19.080 That was that became very popular during COVID, the beginning 250 00:11:19.120 --> 00:11:22.159 of COVID, and even then I was like super grossed 251 00:11:22.159 --> 00:11:24.000 out by the idea. I'm like, I'm not going to 252 00:11:24.120 --> 00:11:25.240 climb a hill with you? 253 00:11:25.480 --> 00:11:25.759 Mmm? 254 00:11:27.240 --> 00:11:29.679 No, Like, but you know, you just kind of weed 255 00:11:29.720 --> 00:11:32.080 those people out because that's that's just not a ceesy person. 256 00:11:32.120 --> 00:11:33.919 Probably they were like, remember the dude. 257 00:11:34.159 --> 00:11:36.559 I'm not naming names, but there was a guy was 258 00:11:36.600 --> 00:11:38.799 like he was like an out of work actor that 259 00:11:38.840 --> 00:11:41.240 lived in Echo Park and his idea was that I 260 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:43.639 uber over to him and we like feed the ducks. 261 00:11:43.960 --> 00:11:46.320 Yes, And I was like that isn't and he goes, oh, no, 262 00:11:46.399 --> 00:11:46.879 I'm sorry. 263 00:11:46.960 --> 00:11:48.879 I really left out the best parties, like we could 264 00:11:48.879 --> 00:11:51.000 feed the ducks and like maybe work on some comedy 265 00:11:51.039 --> 00:11:54.600 sketches yes. And I hadn't even told him I did comedy. 266 00:11:54.639 --> 00:11:56.600 I didn't tell him anything about me. And I was like, well, 267 00:11:56.960 --> 00:11:59.440 how would you know that I would do comedy sketches? 268 00:11:59.600 --> 00:12:00.519 And he's like, it's not. 269 00:12:00.440 --> 00:12:02.360 Hard to figure out who somebody is by their first 270 00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:04.679 name and any information I can just like image search 271 00:12:05.080 --> 00:12:07.559 and who you are. I was like, yeah, I'm not 272 00:12:07.639 --> 00:12:07.879 going to. 273 00:12:08.120 --> 00:12:10.120 Uber to Echo Park and feed the dum Thank you 274 00:12:10.200 --> 00:12:12.799 so much, though, thank you, awesome offer. 275 00:12:13.759 --> 00:12:14.120 Thank you. 276 00:12:14.559 --> 00:12:17.759 So this guy, this other guy on the threads uh huh, 277 00:12:17.759 --> 00:12:19.399 this is so crazy. So he's like, let's go for 278 00:12:19.440 --> 00:12:21.919 a hike and she's like, yeah, I'm not really this 279 00:12:21.960 --> 00:12:23.879 is a little, you know, not exact, but she's like, 280 00:12:23.919 --> 00:12:25.840 I'm not really in the business of going for hikes 281 00:12:25.840 --> 00:12:26.919 with men that I don't know. 282 00:12:27.639 --> 00:12:28.360 Right right. 283 00:12:28.799 --> 00:12:30.919 And I thought that was a weird response because you're 284 00:12:30.960 --> 00:12:32.879 going to be doing anything with a man you don't know, 285 00:12:32.960 --> 00:12:35.960 you're on a first date on a dating app, like 286 00:12:36.919 --> 00:12:39.039 you're going to go to a drink with it whatever. 287 00:12:39.279 --> 00:12:40.960 So he was like, oh, okay, I get it. 288 00:12:41.279 --> 00:12:43.320 And then he's like, but to be fair, the canyon 289 00:12:43.360 --> 00:12:45.759 that I was suggesting that whatever the canyon was, let's 290 00:12:45.759 --> 00:12:47.720 say it was running and it wasn't. But he's like, 291 00:12:47.799 --> 00:12:51.200 there's tons of people around. So then she's like, you, sir, 292 00:12:51.559 --> 00:12:53.200 do not. And she's one of those people that would 293 00:12:53.240 --> 00:12:56.440 definitely see welp, say welp, or methinks I believe you 294 00:12:56.559 --> 00:12:58.759 may have said me thinks, which you know that I 295 00:12:58.799 --> 00:13:01.320 don't like me thinks. 296 00:13:01.399 --> 00:13:04.039 The sir protest, you know what I mean. She's one 297 00:13:04.120 --> 00:13:05.240 of those yes. 298 00:13:05.159 --> 00:13:07.519 And she's like, well, me thinks you're not listening me 299 00:13:07.639 --> 00:13:10.600 thinks that you are not hearing me when I say 300 00:13:10.679 --> 00:13:12.080 I guess you just don't know what it's like to 301 00:13:12.120 --> 00:13:16.159 be a woman. And she was being ridiculous, like he honestly, 302 00:13:16.440 --> 00:13:18.399 I didn't like the idea of going for a hike. 303 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:20.480 But I also I'm like, yeah, I mean, I don't 304 00:13:20.519 --> 00:13:22.720 think he's just going to kill you at Runyon, can't 305 00:13:22.759 --> 00:13:26.240 you know at Fryman Canyon, right, there's tons of people. 306 00:13:26.399 --> 00:13:28.480 In fact, there's more people around than that. 307 00:13:28.600 --> 00:13:30.840 Like, like, if you went for a drink and he 308 00:13:30.879 --> 00:13:34.240 walked you to your car, that's more dangerous than going 309 00:13:34.240 --> 00:13:37.240 for a public hike. Yeah, And she went back and 310 00:13:37.240 --> 00:13:39.200 forth with him for a long time, and then a 311 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:41.639 lot of people agree with me. A lot of people 312 00:13:41.639 --> 00:13:44.519 on the I remember how many responses there were. But 313 00:13:44.559 --> 00:13:46.440 a lot of people are like, you're kind of wrong 314 00:13:46.480 --> 00:13:50.120 on this one. You need to chill out, like seriously, 315 00:13:50.159 --> 00:13:51.759 need to chill out. Like you can go after the 316 00:13:51.799 --> 00:13:54.919 people that deserve to be gone after, for sure, but 317 00:13:55.000 --> 00:13:58.080 like this isn't it. And then oh, the guy did 318 00:13:58.159 --> 00:13:59.960 say after a while, he's like, Okay, you're being too 319 00:14:00.120 --> 00:14:02.159 serious about all this. I don't think this is great. 320 00:14:02.200 --> 00:14:04.480 And she's like, well, me thinks I'm gonna unmatch. 321 00:14:04.919 --> 00:14:10.399 Oh my god, okay, I have one on threads hold 322 00:14:10.399 --> 00:14:15.399 on great though. Yes, God, this person writes hey gurlies, 323 00:14:16.240 --> 00:14:16.720 Oh my god. 324 00:14:16.759 --> 00:14:19.559 Oh yes, I don't like that. 325 00:14:19.720 --> 00:14:24.200 Hey, gurlies a genuine question and then smiley face, but 326 00:14:24.399 --> 00:14:28.039 with like one drop on the forehead, so it's not 327 00:14:28.080 --> 00:14:31.440 really laughing. I guess how would you react of a 328 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:34.519 guy on the first date admitted he can be abusive 329 00:14:34.559 --> 00:14:38.080 at times, and then on the second date said he 330 00:14:38.120 --> 00:14:42.159 doesn't want to make you his quote punching bag. Would 331 00:14:42.159 --> 00:14:45.159 you see that as honesty, self awareness or red flag 332 00:14:45.440 --> 00:14:47.080 curious to know your thoughts? 333 00:14:48.159 --> 00:14:49.799 Oh my god, this reminds me of that show that 334 00:14:50.000 --> 00:14:52.159 we were just talking about last week, the worst ex 335 00:14:52.200 --> 00:14:53.000 ever whatever? 336 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:55.360 Uh huh, I don't know. 337 00:14:55.440 --> 00:14:58.399 It's like he stole my laptop and he pawned it 338 00:14:58.679 --> 00:15:01.320 and he punched a wall, and I'm like, I think there's. 339 00:15:01.120 --> 00:15:04.679 A red flock. Yes, I mean the guy is like, yeah, 340 00:15:04.720 --> 00:15:06.600 I can be abusive sometimes, you guys, do you think 341 00:15:06.600 --> 00:15:09.039 that's a red fly or is that just like a sweetie? 342 00:15:09.120 --> 00:15:12.799 Is he a sweetie? Yeah? Well, somebody wrote, which this 343 00:15:12.840 --> 00:15:16.279 person just wants attention, right, they just want their thing 344 00:15:16.279 --> 00:15:19.600 to blow up? I would say that because somebody wrote, 345 00:15:19.759 --> 00:15:23.600 how can this be a question? Quit rage baiting? Jesus? Yes, 346 00:15:23.639 --> 00:15:24.679 there's so many of those two. 347 00:15:25.120 --> 00:15:28.639 Yeah, and then what are other people, and so everyone nobody, 348 00:15:28.679 --> 00:15:31.440 nobody's following. This person wrote, that's just his way of 349 00:15:31.480 --> 00:15:34.960 seeing if you'll volunteer to be his punching bag the 350 00:15:34.960 --> 00:15:37.519 first time he hits his partner. After this, he'll say 351 00:15:37.559 --> 00:15:39.360 I told you what I was like, I guess you're 352 00:15:39.399 --> 00:15:40.279 gonna leave me now? 353 00:15:41.039 --> 00:15:42.840 Why did you have to push me into hitting you? 354 00:15:43.799 --> 00:15:47.240 And everybody's like, second date? What do you mean? Second date? 355 00:15:48.200 --> 00:15:48.960 My god? 356 00:15:50.440 --> 00:15:53.159 Yes, And everybody is just like, why on earth was 357 00:15:53.200 --> 00:15:57.120 there a second date? After he said he's abusive? Oh 358 00:15:57.159 --> 00:15:59.360 my god, and so, oh my. 359 00:15:59.320 --> 00:16:01.000 God, this person says. 360 00:16:01.480 --> 00:16:05.039 This person who's promoting their podcast, by the way, says 361 00:16:05.159 --> 00:16:07.759 a lot of assholes in the comments. Assuming you can 362 00:16:07.799 --> 00:16:10.360 safely turn down a man like that, do better and 363 00:16:10.440 --> 00:16:15.440 learn to support women. It's like, okay, we people are like, 364 00:16:15.559 --> 00:16:18.120 why would you go on a second date? Not why 365 00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:19.639 wouldn't you divorce your husband? 366 00:16:20.279 --> 00:16:23.840 Right right? Right? You haven't gone out with him again? 367 00:16:23.960 --> 00:16:26.399 Like what of course you can safely turn him down? 368 00:16:27.879 --> 00:16:29.720 This one makes me laugh. I just went to dating 369 00:16:29.799 --> 00:16:32.879 threads and so there's now I'm going to find everything. 370 00:16:32.919 --> 00:16:35.679 But this this this person wrote, well it happened. At 371 00:16:35.759 --> 00:16:38.679 least they didn't say, well, it happened my married neighbor 372 00:16:38.720 --> 00:16:42.399 appeared on Tinder claims ethical non monogamy. We've talked about 373 00:16:42.440 --> 00:16:45.480 that right now, Yes, yes, And it's it drives me 374 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:48.000 crazy because it's very common. You'll be looking at thinking 375 00:16:48.200 --> 00:16:49.480 he's kind of cute because there's not a lot, and 376 00:16:49.480 --> 00:16:52.639 you're like, okay, that's not so bad, nothing terribly okay, vegan, 377 00:16:52.840 --> 00:16:54.080 I don't know he likes animals. 378 00:16:54.200 --> 00:16:55.279 I'm going to get through each thing. 379 00:16:55.320 --> 00:16:57.720 And at the very bottom it just says my wife 380 00:16:57.799 --> 00:16:59.360 Barbara will love you like it's crazy. 381 00:16:59.399 --> 00:17:02.039 It'll just be like it says E N M. 382 00:17:02.720 --> 00:17:05.000 And then it makes you feel bad that you're not 383 00:17:05.079 --> 00:17:08.079 into it. It'll say ethical non you know, open and 384 00:17:08.160 --> 00:17:11.880 ethical non monogamy. Hope that's not a problem for you. 385 00:17:11.960 --> 00:17:15.839 Hope you're not vanilla, like fuck you. Yeah, yeah, I'm 386 00:17:15.880 --> 00:17:17.319 extra vanilla. 387 00:17:16.839 --> 00:17:18.880 Because and then they put it at the bottom they 388 00:17:18.960 --> 00:17:21.200 like squeeze. It's like, oh, I'm an aries. 389 00:17:21.240 --> 00:17:22.720 I don't I already don't want to hear about that, 390 00:17:22.720 --> 00:17:24.200 but I mean, I like scuba diving. 391 00:17:24.960 --> 00:17:28.880 I am married. I hope you're cool with some kink. Dude, 392 00:17:29.039 --> 00:17:30.160 say that at the very. 393 00:17:30.000 --> 00:17:32.559 Top, that should be your name it honestly should just 394 00:17:32.599 --> 00:17:34.039 be in parentheses next to your name. 395 00:17:34.279 --> 00:17:35.480 It's ridiculous and that's funny. 396 00:17:35.519 --> 00:17:38.440 This woman said, I did not swipe right, I did 397 00:17:38.519 --> 00:17:40.880 take a screenshot. 398 00:17:41.640 --> 00:17:48.119 You should make your profile just kink shamer. And when 399 00:17:48.119 --> 00:17:51.759 that person goes interesting, hey I'm into non monogamy, and 400 00:17:51.759 --> 00:17:53.920 then you go like, yeah, I'm not by and then 401 00:17:53.960 --> 00:17:55.799