1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,799 Speaker 1: Alrighty you guys ready, we're going to Southington for second 2 00:00:02,839 --> 00:00:06,839 date update. Maggie's on the line. Hey Maggie, Hi, Hey, 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:09,080 welcome to the show. Welcome to second date Update. I 4 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:10,880 hope we can help you out. Obviously, you went on 5 00:00:10,919 --> 00:00:12,599 a great first date. Tell us about it. 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went on a great first date. We 7 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,640 did meet on Tinder, which can always be kind of dangerous, 8 00:00:19,679 --> 00:00:21,760 but he took me out to dinner. We had a 9 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:24,160 really good time. We had like so much in common, 10 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,760 and there was a lot of flirting. So I am 11 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,399 I know, hence why I was shocked that I got ghosted. 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,799 Speaker 3: Did you reach out to him after the date at all? 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,719 Speaker 2: So? Yeah, I texted him a couple of times, and 14 00:00:38,759 --> 00:00:42,479 then I called and left him a message like thanking 15 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,359 him and suggested that we go out together again. And 16 00:00:45,439 --> 00:00:47,359 it's just been over a week and he never responded. 17 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,679 Speaker 3: Hmm okay, and there was obvious flirting. 18 00:00:50,719 --> 00:00:53,079 Speaker 2: You're telling me, oh yeah, good time. 19 00:00:53,439 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 4: Hi. 20 00:00:54,079 --> 00:00:57,159 Speaker 5: Are there any parking lot activities after the date? If 21 00:00:57,159 --> 00:00:57,679 you know what I mean? 22 00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: What wouldn't you like to know? 23 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:00,719 Speaker 4: Oh? 24 00:01:00,759 --> 00:01:03,759 Speaker 5: Okay, So I guess that's a yes, Jeff. 25 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,599 Speaker 2: There was a little bit of parking lot activity. 26 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: All right, all right, see there was Okay, Well then 27 00:01:11,519 --> 00:01:14,159 I misread that one, Maggie. 28 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,159 Speaker 3: I have no idea if you have a little parking 29 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:16,680 lot love. 30 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe it was too much for him, But 31 00:01:18,879 --> 00:01:20,519 I think what we're gonna do is call up Cole 32 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,519 and we're gonna ask him to be honest and tell 33 00:01:22,599 --> 00:01:24,280 us about the data. Are you ready to find out 34 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,560 why you're getting ghosted? 35 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,359 Speaker 2: I am ready. Let's do it. 36 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 3: She says. 37 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: It was only a moderate amount of like heavy petting. 38 00:01:33,359 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 6: In the I mean, aren't you supposed to leave him 39 00:01:36,239 --> 00:01:36,599 want more? 40 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,239 Speaker 3: I feel like moderate is a lot moderate. 41 00:01:40,599 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: The moderate amount is a lot like moderate. Exactly. Hi 42 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:46,319 is Cole there? 43 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,319 Speaker 3: Hey Cole, it's Courtney. 44 00:01:49,599 --> 00:01:50,519 Speaker 5: It's Walmart Jeff. 45 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:51,879 Speaker 6: Hey, Cole, it's Savannah. 46 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. You're on 47 00:01:53,799 --> 00:01:54,280 the radio. 48 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, you run something called. 49 00:01:59,280 --> 00:01:59,959 Speaker 3: Second Date up. 50 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,719 Speaker 1: If somebody goes on a first date and they get 51 00:02:02,719 --> 00:02:04,840 ghosted after that, they call us and we try to 52 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:05,480 get answers. 53 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: So you're on second Date update this morning. 54 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,319 Speaker 4: All right, well, good morning, good good morning. 55 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 3: He all right, let me refresh your memory, Cole. 56 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,319 Speaker 1: Maggie called us, said you guys met on tinder went 57 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,599 out for a great date. I guess you guys had 58 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,800 a lot in common. You went to a restaurant. She 59 00:02:20,879 --> 00:02:22,800 said there was a lot of flirting. 60 00:02:22,599 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 5: Some heavy petting in the parking lot too. 61 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: She said it was a moderate amount of things happening 62 00:02:28,319 --> 00:02:30,240 in the parking lot, and to me, moderate is a lot. 63 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 6: But whatever, I'll talk about that later. 64 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:36,439 Speaker 1: So, Cole, you're ghosting her. She's reached out to you 65 00:02:36,479 --> 00:02:38,520 for a second date. Do you want to tell us 66 00:02:38,599 --> 00:02:40,120 was it? Was it too much action for you in 67 00:02:40,159 --> 00:02:43,000 the parking lot or why are you ghosting her? 68 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? It was kind of weird, to be honest, Okay, 69 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,439 Right when we got to the restaurant, I I put 70 00:02:51,439 --> 00:02:54,800 her person on the ground and she flipped out. It 71 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:55,479 was kind of weird. 72 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So you mean, like, so when she 73 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:03,479 walks into the restaurant on you hold her purse, did 74 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,240 you pull out the chair or something or what? 75 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 3: I don't get it. 76 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I don't want to put the person 77 00:03:08,879 --> 00:03:10,560 on the table, so I put the purse on the ground. 78 00:03:10,599 --> 00:03:13,039 And when I put on the ground, it was it 79 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,560 was like mayhem. I mean, she was she was rude 80 00:03:15,599 --> 00:03:18,280 and she she snapped at me just because I guess 81 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,400 I put the purse on the ground. I was just 82 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,639 trying to, uh, just trying, I guess, trying to be 83 00:03:23,759 --> 00:03:26,639 a gentleman. But she has the waitress to bring another 84 00:03:26,719 --> 00:03:28,840 chair over, which I was kind of confused about. But 85 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:30,800 the chair was for the purse. 86 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 7: Oh wait, okay, col let me ask you a question. 87 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,400 You might not know the answer to this, but was 88 00:03:36,479 --> 00:03:38,759 this a designer purse by any chance? 89 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,039 Speaker 4: I mean it had a big, a big C on it, 90 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,360 so maybe I guess. 91 00:03:44,439 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, so can we bring her away? 92 00:03:47,159 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 3: Can I just ask quick before we bring Yeah? 93 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:53,479 Speaker 1: I think Savannah does Cole, is this the only reason 94 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:54,240 you're ghosting hers? 95 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 3: Because she freaked out because you put her purse on 96 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,039 the floor? You didn't? 97 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, definitely was it was a little It 98 00:04:01,879 --> 00:04:03,520 was a little design to be honest, all right? 99 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,639 Speaker 1: Before we bring her on, Savannah, do you want to 100 00:04:05,639 --> 00:04:08,240 tell them what you think the possible why she freaked 101 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:08,639 out or not? 102 00:04:08,719 --> 00:04:08,919 Speaker 6: Yeah? 103 00:04:08,919 --> 00:04:10,599 Speaker 7: So I think what happened was when you have a 104 00:04:10,639 --> 00:04:13,039 designer bag, you have to treat them with love and 105 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,079 with care because they're very expensive, and so when you 106 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:18,720 put a two thousand dollars person on the floor. 107 00:04:19,079 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 6: It's very you know, disrespectful. 108 00:04:20,639 --> 00:04:22,519 Speaker 7: To the person that you know worked hard and made 109 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,360 the money to afford that person. 110 00:04:24,399 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, but I mean, in Cole's defense, I can't tell 111 00:04:26,759 --> 00:04:30,839 a TJ Max purse, you know, from a channel purse 112 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:31,680 or whatever it's called. 113 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,319 Speaker 6: Okay, first of all, it's it's Chanel. 114 00:04:33,399 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 7: But then additionally there's some people like Courtney who think 115 00:04:35,879 --> 00:04:38,040 it's bad luck to put a person on the floor. 116 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,879 Speaker 1: Gotch, I don't have a designer bag. I just don't 117 00:04:39,879 --> 00:04:41,360 put it on the Can we bring her in and 118 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:42,800 see if that Maggie, are you there? 119 00:04:43,759 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 2: I am here. Thank you Savannah for defending my honor. 120 00:04:47,399 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 6: Is it a designer for guys? What I'm here for? 121 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: Is it a designer bag? 122 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 2: It is a Chanel bag. I'm sorry, I remember that 123 00:04:54,959 --> 00:04:57,879 I snapped. I just I did work hard to afford that. 124 00:04:57,959 --> 00:05:01,120 So I really was like triggered by going on the ground. 125 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:03,600 But I will not do it again. 126 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:04,439 Speaker 1: Might I? 127 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 7: Might I make a suggestion? Oh boy, no, it's it's 128 00:05:07,319 --> 00:05:08,399 actually really good suggestion. 129 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 6: So I have this thing. I bought it on Amazon. 130 00:05:10,519 --> 00:05:11,480 It's like a purse holder. 131 00:05:11,519 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 7: It's like a hook, so you put it to the 132 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,120 top of the table and then you can actually hang 133 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,560 your bag on it. This way you don't have to 134 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,160 ask for a share, and it doesn't have to go 135 00:05:18,199 --> 00:05:19,920 on the floor, and I keep it in my nice bags. 136 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 6: So this way we don't have this Issuhow. 137 00:05:23,399 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: Actually that's a great suggestion, right. 138 00:05:25,959 --> 00:05:28,319 Speaker 3: You know, Maggie, Savannah will send you the link for that. 139 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:29,639 Speaker 5: But so are you? 140 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: Are you officially apologizing to Cole for snapping at him? 141 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 2: Yes, I am sorry for snapping at you. 142 00:05:36,879 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 4: I'm sorry for not knowing. But you know, next time, Yeah, 143 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,079 next time I see the big sea on it, I 144 00:05:42,079 --> 00:05:43,240 know not to put it on the ground. 145 00:05:43,439 --> 00:05:44,439 Speaker 3: Does that mean there's. 146 00:05:44,439 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 2: Go see we both learned. 147 00:05:46,079 --> 00:05:49,079 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, since he says next time, here's what I'm 148 00:05:49,079 --> 00:05:50,759 gonna do. I'm gonna offer to pick up the tab 149 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:52,959 for the second date if you both agree to go. 150 00:05:53,079 --> 00:05:55,519 Maybe don't bring a designer handbag with you for the 151 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:56,360 second date, And. 152 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 6: So we'll just get the purse hook and see how 153 00:05:58,600 --> 00:05:59,079 it goes. 154 00:05:59,399 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 3: You guys want to a second date and we'll pick 155 00:06:01,079 --> 00:06:01,560 up the tab. 156 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 2: I would love to. 157 00:06:03,439 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do it.