WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.240 --> 00:00:01.800 H h. 2 00:00:15.080 --> 00:00:15.800 So I saw. 3 00:00:17.239 --> 00:00:19.320 This TikTok that I wanted to share with you. I 4 00:00:19.440 --> 00:00:22.280 like sharing tiktoks during the podcast. I think they're fun 5 00:00:22.280 --> 00:00:25.879 to to talk about, like all the things that you 6 00:00:25.920 --> 00:00:29.160 know go along with them. And this one is from 7 00:00:29.199 --> 00:00:35.200 a prostitute or sex worker, if you if you will, 8 00:00:36.719 --> 00:00:41.079 and so I'm gonna bring her up and then we 9 00:00:41.119 --> 00:00:46.719 will talk about what she's sharing. And she's sharing about 10 00:00:47.000 --> 00:00:51.119 all the money she's been been making as a sex work. 11 00:00:51.200 --> 00:00:53.159 She'll she'll explain it here coming on. 12 00:00:54.759 --> 00:00:56.439 This is how much I make in a week as 13 00:00:56.439 --> 00:00:59.640 a Miami strippers slash as worker. The last night was Wednesday. 14 00:00:59.719 --> 00:01:02.679 I were my normal shift from like nine pm until 15 00:01:02.719 --> 00:01:06.599 five am, and I made one thousand, four hundred and 16 00:01:06.799 --> 00:01:10.000 three dollars cash, and then a guy s held me 17 00:01:10.040 --> 00:01:12.319 three hundred and fifty dollars for some lap dances too, 18 00:01:12.439 --> 00:01:16.840 So totally I made one thousand, seven hundred and fifty. 19 00:01:16.480 --> 00:01:17.719 Three dollars last night. 20 00:01:18.439 --> 00:01:21.719 Seventeen hundred dollars from nine pm to five am. One 21 00:01:21.799 --> 00:01:25.359 night of work. Wow, that's one night. Mah, we're not 22 00:01:25.439 --> 00:01:28.719 even through the video, like we're not. So that's one night. 23 00:01:29.920 --> 00:01:31.680 Last time I went into work and one of my 24 00:01:31.719 --> 00:01:35.319 regulars from New York came and I made four thousand, 25 00:01:35.599 --> 00:01:38.959 seven hundred and eight dollars. I'm kind of an idiot 26 00:01:39.000 --> 00:01:41.480 and forgot that I was filming this video, So this 27 00:01:41.599 --> 00:01:44.359 is all of my money from the past two days 28 00:01:45.200 --> 00:01:48.239 instead of just last night. But yeah, he paid in 29 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:50.280 all fifties, which is really annoying. But I have a 30 00:01:50.319 --> 00:01:51.040 million visit. 31 00:01:51.519 --> 00:01:53.239 Yeah, he's getting paid in fifties. 32 00:01:53.640 --> 00:01:56.519 Really annoying when you make almost five thousand dollars. 33 00:01:56.719 --> 00:01:58.799 All right, selling your snatch. 34 00:01:58.560 --> 00:02:01.359 Could have been ones, bitch, shut up, could have been pennies. 35 00:02:02.239 --> 00:02:05.120 That's your grief? Right, what a bad day? 36 00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:07.359 How are you functioning today? 37 00:02:07.480 --> 00:02:11.120 All these fifties? I just can't handle It's too much? 38 00:02:11.280 --> 00:02:13.319 Is that one hundred and fifties? I think? So? 39 00:02:13.439 --> 00:02:13.639 Yeah? 40 00:02:13.719 --> 00:02:19.520 Sounds about right? I mean, okay, so are we keeping track? 41 00:02:19.560 --> 00:02:22.080 So that was one thousand, seven hundred and now we're 42 00:02:22.080 --> 00:02:25.280 at forty seven hundred, So you just we're only on 43 00:02:25.400 --> 00:02:27.400 We've only done like three days, right. 44 00:02:27.680 --> 00:02:32.159 Billion fifties from Okay? So last night was Friday. I 45 00:02:32.159 --> 00:02:34.400 worked my normal shift. It was a fight night, which 46 00:02:34.719 --> 00:02:36.479 is normally really bad at my club, but I actually 47 00:02:36.520 --> 00:02:39.680 made some money tonight. I have one thousand, nine hundred 48 00:02:39.840 --> 00:02:42.159 and twenty three dollars here in cash, and then I 49 00:02:42.199 --> 00:02:45.039 also have another two thousand dollars that my customer sent 50 00:02:45.080 --> 00:02:47.520 me on Venmo last night, So I made in total 51 00:02:47.879 --> 00:02:50.360 three thousand, nine hundred and twenty three dollars last night. 52 00:02:50.439 --> 00:02:51.560 So pretty good night. 53 00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:55.360 So yeah, she's like a seven grand and a week's 54 00:02:55.400 --> 00:02:56.919 worth of wude. 55 00:02:56.680 --> 00:02:59.800 She's got more than seven grand. She's she's damn near. 56 00:03:00.360 --> 00:03:05.560 Yeah, still a lot of money. And she's this is Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, 57 00:03:05.680 --> 00:03:08.360 four nights. We're not even into like Saturday. Right at 58 00:03:08.360 --> 00:03:11.360 the weekend shift. And I don't know if you caught it, 59 00:03:11.400 --> 00:03:14.000 but in true form, she was already like, oh I forgot. 60 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.120 I was filming this video as we missed today and 61 00:03:16.159 --> 00:03:17.840 then so here it is. 62 00:03:18.319 --> 00:03:19.439 Now this is where it gets good. 63 00:03:19.879 --> 00:03:22.319 Okay, it is now Wednesday, and I'm realizing it's. 64 00:03:22.199 --> 00:03:25.080 We went Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday. 65 00:03:25.240 --> 00:03:26.960 You completely forgot. 66 00:03:27.800 --> 00:03:30.680 Didn't up take you guys on my Saturday and my Sunday. 67 00:03:30.759 --> 00:03:33.560 So this is my money from Saturday, and then this 68 00:03:33.719 --> 00:03:35.159 is my money from Sunday. 69 00:03:35.879 --> 00:03:38.520 Yeah, so she's now she's counting it on the video. 70 00:03:38.560 --> 00:03:38.960 You couldn't. 71 00:03:39.280 --> 00:03:42.479 I guess that is exciting. Sure to watch people watch 72 00:03:42.520 --> 00:03:43.479 account over twenties. 73 00:03:43.599 --> 00:03:46.840 Son of my Saturday money. I made three thousand, one 74 00:03:46.919 --> 00:03:52.360 hundred and twenty six dollars. Okay. And then Sunday a 75 00:03:52.439 --> 00:03:55.159 regular mine went out to Kiki on the River. We 76 00:03:55.240 --> 00:03:57.280 had some fun, We went to live, we went to eleven, 77 00:03:57.360 --> 00:04:00.919 We did the whole like Sunday itinerary, which you do 78 00:04:00.960 --> 00:04:02.960 in Miami. He's not from here, so he was just 79 00:04:03.000 --> 00:04:05.280 excited to go out. But like, I've already done all 80 00:04:05.280 --> 00:04:07.039 these things, so whatever, and. 81 00:04:07.000 --> 00:04:11.120 He just gave me five thousand even, So wow, five 82 00:04:11.159 --> 00:04:17.079 thousand dollars. Here you go. That's that's a lot of money. 83 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:20.240 She's young too, by the way, she looks maybe twenty three, 84 00:04:20.319 --> 00:04:25.240 twenty five. Maybe maybe she looks pretty young. So we're 85 00:04:25.240 --> 00:04:28.160 easy at like fifteen grand easy and a week's worth 86 00:04:28.199 --> 00:04:29.959 of yeah, and a week's worth of working. 87 00:04:30.240 --> 00:04:33.079 Yeah, yeah, very good. 88 00:04:33.079 --> 00:04:33.399 Sunday. 89 00:04:33.439 --> 00:04:35.680 I was super hungover Monday, which is why you're getting 90 00:04:35.680 --> 00:04:38.480 this update on Wednesday. So that brings me what. 91 00:04:38.480 --> 00:04:40.480 Happened to Tuesday. That's her day off. 92 00:04:40.519 --> 00:04:42.680 It's a day of rest, little for five nights of 93 00:04:42.680 --> 00:04:45.240 work at the strip club to eighteen five hundred and 94 00:04:45.279 --> 00:04:48.079 ten dollars. This was a very good week, not my 95 00:04:48.160 --> 00:04:50.839 best week, but I'm very satisfied with how it went. 96 00:04:51.560 --> 00:04:53.879 This is actually my second best month of all time 97 00:04:53.959 --> 00:04:56.720 so far, and I'm trying to hit a pr this month. 98 00:04:56.759 --> 00:04:59.240 So I need to make a little less than fourteen 99 00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:02.839 thousand dollars over the next six shifts and yeah. 100 00:05:02.720 --> 00:05:04.240 We'll see if I can do it shifts, by the 101 00:05:04.240 --> 00:05:06.040 way she said shifts shift. 102 00:05:06.759 --> 00:05:10.120 The goal is fourteen thousand more dollars in November. I 103 00:05:10.240 --> 00:05:13.920 leave for Thanksgiving next Tuesday, while on Tuesday the Tuesday 104 00:05:13.959 --> 00:05:16.319 coming up, So we'll see if I hit it. I'll 105 00:05:16.360 --> 00:05:20.360 keep you guys updated. Also, I always see comments of 106 00:05:20.399 --> 00:05:22.959 people saying like how do you get people to pay 107 00:05:23.000 --> 00:05:24.519 you to go out to dinner or to like go 108 00:05:24.600 --> 00:05:27.000 to brunch or whatever. Just tell them like, my time 109 00:05:27.079 --> 00:05:29.160 is money, and if you want me to skip going 110 00:05:29.160 --> 00:05:32.079 into the strip club, then I need you to commentate 111 00:05:32.079 --> 00:05:33.600 me like what I would have made at the club. 112 00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:35.120 And you can lie to them. 113 00:05:35.279 --> 00:05:37.160 Just lie to them and be like, oh, on a Sunday, 114 00:05:37.160 --> 00:05:39.399 I normally make like I don't know, five six thousand, 115 00:05:40.519 --> 00:05:41.839 and then they'll be like, okay, I'll just give you 116 00:05:41.879 --> 00:05:43.839 five thousand, even if you wouldn't even if on a 117 00:05:43.839 --> 00:05:45.560 Sunday you'd make like a thousand bucks, just tell them 118 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:47.160 five grand, like shoot for the stars. 119 00:05:47.680 --> 00:05:51.040 It's not that hard or Okay, So let's just say 120 00:05:51.120 --> 00:05:53.519 because she said sixteen thousand for the week, and she 121 00:05:53.639 --> 00:05:56.240 said that that was a good that was her second 122 00:05:56.240 --> 00:05:59.639 best month. Yeah. Yeah, So let's let's just say her 123 00:05:59.680 --> 00:06:03.560 average just ten thousand a week, right, and let's just 124 00:06:03.600 --> 00:06:05.920 assume she doesn't work every week. Let's just say she 125 00:06:05.959 --> 00:06:11.199 works forty weeks, right, that that's four hundred thousand dollars. Yes, 126 00:06:12.160 --> 00:06:15.759 that's a lot of cash for shaking your ass or 127 00:06:15.759 --> 00:06:19.079 giving them to snatch exactly exactly or doing what God 128 00:06:19.160 --> 00:06:21.120 knows what, exactly. 129 00:06:20.560 --> 00:06:25.000 Whatever they want. Guys can't do that. Guys can't do that. 130 00:06:25.040 --> 00:06:28.839 Oh yeah they can. Yeah, maybe you're channing tatums up there. No, no, no, 131 00:06:29.040 --> 00:06:32.079 and I trolls like us candy. Yeah, yeah, no, we could. 132 00:06:34.079 --> 00:06:34.480 I guess. 133 00:06:34.920 --> 00:06:37.319 Okay, you're probably right. I'm thinking of it in the 134 00:06:37.360 --> 00:06:40.959 wrong pool though. Yes, we instead of like literally cad 135 00:06:41.040 --> 00:06:43.879 uptons of the world, right, which is what we're hoping for, 136 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:50.040 we have got to visit retirement home no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 137 00:06:50.240 --> 00:06:51.879 you get the Mama June's of the world. 138 00:06:51.959 --> 00:06:54.879 No, okay, you're thinking in the wrong class. 139 00:06:55.079 --> 00:07:00.680 Okay. Men are men, right, whether they like vaginas or 140 00:07:00.680 --> 00:07:06.120 whether they like dick. Right, So you gotta find somebody 141 00:07:06.160 --> 00:07:09.240 on the mail side and the homosexual world, got it 142 00:07:10.120 --> 00:07:15.480 that has that kind of money And yes, then okay, because. 143 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:17.720 To be an escort, you do not have to be a. 144 00:07:17.800 --> 00:07:25.279 Ten right now, you would You gotta be somewhat attractive. Though. Listen, 145 00:07:25.319 --> 00:07:28.040 if you Paul, if you like dial up one eight 146 00:07:28.120 --> 00:07:31.439 hundred rentahore right, and they're like, all right, cool, we'll 147 00:07:31.439 --> 00:07:34.040 send Sherry over, She'll be there in like twenty minutes, right, 148 00:07:34.480 --> 00:07:39.240 And then Sherry pulls up and she's looking like, Mama June, 149 00:07:39.560 --> 00:07:40.800 You're not going to be disappointed. 150 00:07:40.839 --> 00:07:42.000 You're not gonna be like what the fuck is this? 151 00:07:42.199 --> 00:07:46.120 Now? If I called and I said I need a 152 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:49.319 bb right, then no, I wouldn't be disap That's what 153 00:07:49.319 --> 00:07:49.680 I'm saying. 154 00:07:49.920 --> 00:07:54.199 I look for yeah, yeah, yeah. 155 00:07:53.000 --> 00:08:00.480 And men have weird Not everybody wants the perceived student 156 00:08:00.519 --> 00:08:03.519 council president girl right right, right, the cheerleader right, Not 157 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:08.079 everybody wants that, right because that costs more money, absolutely, 158 00:08:08.680 --> 00:08:14.040 and I think that that runs across the homosexual side too, maybe, 159 00:08:14.079 --> 00:08:16.639 so they don't want Now everybody wants Channing Tatum. They 160 00:08:16.639 --> 00:08:20.839 can't afford Channing table, right, So you get Gorman instead, right, 161 00:08:21.959 --> 00:08:26.360 you get DJ Qualls right right right? And my second 162 00:08:26.399 --> 00:08:29.199 thought on that is you grow out of that eventually, 163 00:08:29.240 --> 00:08:32.120 don't you. I could see where it could be a 164 00:08:32.399 --> 00:08:34.919 you know you, somebody could get trapped in that lifestyle, 165 00:08:35.000 --> 00:08:36.960 especially making that much money. 166 00:08:37.559 --> 00:08:40.720 But yeah, you grow out of it eventually, don't you. 167 00:08:40.840 --> 00:08:43.639 So let's okay, so psychologically and this is gonna We're 168 00:08:43.639 --> 00:08:46.840 gonna jump into another genre for a second. Yeah, the 169 00:08:46.879 --> 00:08:50.039 story about the man who blew himself up in a 170 00:08:50.080 --> 00:08:52.559 cyber truck in Las Vegas, that went down a rabbit hole, 171 00:08:52.600 --> 00:08:54.679 all these things, but you know what it ultimately was. 172 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:58.000 The toll on the amount of people he killed weight 173 00:08:58.080 --> 00:09:02.600 on him every day every night since then, and it 174 00:09:02.679 --> 00:09:05.879 finally broke him and he killed himself and tried to 175 00:09:05.919 --> 00:09:06.720 kill some other people. 176 00:09:06.720 --> 00:09:09.600 It looks like in the process that's it. 177 00:09:10.200 --> 00:09:14.559 Anytime you do things that involve other individuals, it can 178 00:09:14.600 --> 00:09:17.960 weigh on you. And this type of thing weighs on 179 00:09:18.000 --> 00:09:22.000 you for one reason or another. You start questioning your 180 00:09:22.000 --> 00:09:25.960 self worth, you start questioning the people around. Maybe you 181 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:29.279 get into a situation or you mingle with some people 182 00:09:29.279 --> 00:09:32.200 that put you in bad situations. That shit tax is 183 00:09:32.240 --> 00:09:35.200 on you. Trauma is a real thing. It has many 184 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:39.879 different levels and layers. Trauma isn't just being abused as 185 00:09:39.919 --> 00:09:43.519 a kid. And so I think the trauma you go 186 00:09:43.639 --> 00:09:47.840 through weighs on you and you feel like you can't 187 00:09:47.840 --> 00:09:51.399 give it up because that much money, and you feel like, 188 00:09:51.519 --> 00:09:53.720 what am I gonna do? I don't know how to 189 00:09:53.759 --> 00:09:55.600 cut harr yet. I don't know how to be a 190 00:09:55.960 --> 00:09:59.360 releasing agent in an apartment complex. You don't know yet, 191 00:10:00.679 --> 00:10:02.960 and so you have to take that leap or you're 192 00:10:03.159 --> 00:10:08.200 forced to. Right. I've dated a few ex strippers, and 193 00:10:08.559 --> 00:10:10.279 that's kind of why I bring that up. I'm like, 194 00:10:10.879 --> 00:10:14.960 I think they just kind of either aged out or 195 00:10:15.000 --> 00:10:17.440 got tired of that lifestyle. I don't know. I never 196 00:10:17.519 --> 00:10:20.559 asked them why I got out of it. You know, well, 197 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:23.000 stripper I would put different to me. I'm I'm putting 198 00:10:23.039 --> 00:10:25.840 stripper and in this example because that's what she is, 199 00:10:26.080 --> 00:10:29.200 a stripper and an escort, right right, Yeah, as far 200 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:30.919 as I know, I don't know any escorts, but I 201 00:10:30.919 --> 00:10:33.600 would think, and I'm just being honest, even with this job, 202 00:10:33.679 --> 00:10:35.639 like I'm just getting tired of getting up at three am. 203 00:10:35.919 --> 00:10:36.440 That is true. 204 00:10:36.480 --> 00:10:38.799 Everything weighs on you after a while, you know. That's 205 00:10:38.799 --> 00:10:40.960 why we have retirement. I would like a little bit 206 00:10:40.960 --> 00:10:45.120 of normalcy, right, Unfortunately, Yeah, And I don't know when 207 00:10:45.120 --> 00:10:47.879 that's going to happen, but I can get the idea of, like, 208 00:10:47.960 --> 00:10:50.840 you're just tired of going out and working till five am, right, 209 00:10:50.879 --> 00:10:54.320 I'm tired of getting pounded regularly, right, or like, yeah, 210 00:10:54.320 --> 00:10:56.879 I'm going to nursing school, Like I get that that 211 00:10:56.919 --> 00:11:00.279 would get old. Yeah, people that work, even like people 212 00:11:00.320 --> 00:11:03.840 that work the overnight shift, that weighs on you. 213 00:11:04.399 --> 00:11:06.279 Yeah, you want just a little bit of normalcy. 214 00:11:06.360 --> 00:11:08.519 So I don't know why this industry would be any 215 00:11:09.080 --> 00:11:12.600 less susceptible to that mindset. Absolutely right, But damn that's 216 00:11:12.639 --> 00:11:14.440 some good money, but you just you know, walk away 217 00:11:14.480 --> 00:11:18.279 from I mean, if you're smart with it, but if 218 00:11:18.279 --> 00:11:21.320 you're just spending it like crazy. Twenty three year olds 219 00:11:21.320 --> 00:11:23.360 aren't exactly known for being real good with her no 220 00:11:23.720 --> 00:11:26.519 no no no, going out and shopping and hitting the 221 00:11:26.559 --> 00:11:28.000 clurb and this and that and the other. 222 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:30.440 If she's living like other twenty three year olds and 223 00:11:30.480 --> 00:11:34.879 piling that money away, she'll easily be a multimillionaire. 224 00:11:34.200 --> 00:11:37.840 In ten years. Maybe she is in Miami though Miami 225 00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:41.639 is very expensive. Fuck Florida in general is just very expensive. 226 00:11:41.639 --> 00:11:44.840 Everywhere is expense. You get caught up in the lifestyle, right, right, right, 227 00:11:44.919 --> 00:11:48.200 So I could see how you know that could last 228 00:11:48.519 --> 00:11:50.200 She made what sixteen grand in a week? 229 00:11:50.480 --> 00:11:52.279 That may just only last her a week. 230 00:11:52.559 --> 00:11:56.399 Yeah, but I'm fascinated by people that do this industry 231 00:11:56.480 --> 00:12:02.279 and like try to make get into something right and listen, 232 00:12:02.320 --> 00:12:04.879 I'm not shunning that career. Like do what you want. Man, 233 00:12:05.559 --> 00:12:08.720 I don't care, I don't care, but you can't go. 234 00:12:08.879 --> 00:12:13.000 It isn't dangerous right when it comes to you don't 235 00:12:13.000 --> 00:12:15.840 know who you're with so far as like the John's 236 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:19.200 in this case, you don't know what they're capable of. Yeah, 237 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:23.679 of course there's the practicing safe sex. You know, the 238 00:12:23.919 --> 00:12:26.639 drugs that get involved to the that's the obvious, right, 239 00:12:26.639 --> 00:12:29.360 The obvious is the sex part and the danger that 240 00:12:29.360 --> 00:12:32.000 comes along with that. To me, it is the part 241 00:12:32.039 --> 00:12:34.000 you're not aware of. You're when you get in a 242 00:12:34.039 --> 00:12:38.840 car with a stranger. That is dangerous, absolutely, even at 243 00:12:38.840 --> 00:12:42.440 like on a dating level. Yes, I have read countless 244 00:12:42.440 --> 00:12:45.080 stories of where, you know, guy hooks up with this 245 00:12:45.120 --> 00:12:48.000 girl he met on tender or whatever insert dating app 246 00:12:48.039 --> 00:12:51.519 here and ends up getting robbed, you know, because they 247 00:12:51.519 --> 00:12:55.679 were just using it to find unsuspecting people. And that 248 00:12:55.679 --> 00:13:01.879 that sucks. But that's not It's not just limited to 249 00:13:01.960 --> 00:13:05.200 the Internet and the online dating world. You can meet 250 00:13:05.240 --> 00:13:08.440 anybody real live met I'm at a grocery store. Yeah, 251 00:13:08.480 --> 00:13:09.960 you know, you take them out and the next thing 252 00:13:10.000 --> 00:13:13.840 you know, you're getting fucking robbed outside the lobies. Yeah, 253 00:13:13.960 --> 00:13:15.679 or you go to their house and you don't because 254 00:13:15.679 --> 00:13:17.639 you're you're like, oh, we've been on a few dates. 255 00:13:17.799 --> 00:13:18.120 Right. 256 00:13:18.240 --> 00:13:22.240 I'm just saying, like in general, that stuff's dangerous absolutely. 257 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:24.960 And you that's the part that I think about is like, 258 00:13:25.200 --> 00:13:27.919 just even if we talk about all the time, you 259 00:13:27.960 --> 00:13:31.399 don't know somebody, right, even if you think you do, 260 00:13:31.919 --> 00:13:36.639 You're right, lifelong friends, family, That's why this is all. 261 00:13:36.720 --> 00:13:38.799 That's why I don't like people at my house, right, 262 00:13:38.919 --> 00:13:39.840 I don't know who you know? 263 00:13:40.159 --> 00:13:40.320 Right? 264 00:13:42.480 --> 00:13:42.600 Uh. 265 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:44.720 I have a thing where I don't like pictures of 266 00:13:44.759 --> 00:13:47.440 my girls posted online. They ain't nothing wrong with that 267 00:13:47.480 --> 00:13:49.000 because I don't know who you know, I don't know 268 00:13:49.039 --> 00:13:52.120 who your friends is, right right, right right, And you know, 269 00:13:52.279 --> 00:13:54.080 kids don't have to be naked for some creeper to 270 00:13:54.120 --> 00:13:56.279 fucking beat off to them, you know. 271 00:13:56.360 --> 00:13:58.080 Yes, as sickening as that is. 272 00:13:58.399 --> 00:14:01.159 And that when I went on babyk last year, Yeah, 273 00:14:01.200 --> 00:14:03.759 when we went to Florida last year, I had my 274 00:14:03.799 --> 00:14:08.399 youngest boy come to the house and watch the house right, 275 00:14:08.519 --> 00:14:10.679 feed the dogs for me while I was out or whatever. 276 00:14:11.200 --> 00:14:13.159 And that was one of my things. You know, listen, 277 00:14:13.240 --> 00:14:14.960 your girlfriend come over and hang out. I got no 278 00:14:15.000 --> 00:14:18.159 problem with that. Even then, I'm a little literally little leery. 279 00:14:18.279 --> 00:14:21.440 But you know I said, your other friends not so much, Yeah, 280 00:14:21.480 --> 00:14:23.159 because I don't know who they are. I blame it 281 00:14:23.200 --> 00:14:25.039 on my dad too, because he was the same way. 282 00:14:25.320 --> 00:14:27.320 You know, I don't know what your friends are capable of, 283 00:14:27.360 --> 00:14:30.360 and I don't need him in her case and my joint, Yeah, 284 00:14:30.519 --> 00:14:32.440 trying to steal my shit, you know what I mean. 285 00:14:32.879 --> 00:14:34.639 And always at that point in time in my life, 286 00:14:34.679 --> 00:14:37.440 I was like, Dad, you're crazy, man. But looking back, 287 00:14:37.799 --> 00:14:42.879 I'm like, you know that was on something the we 288 00:14:43.000 --> 00:14:44.840 know and I think I've sure this shared the story 289 00:14:44.840 --> 00:14:47.720 with you off air. Maybe is that there's somebody here 290 00:14:47.799 --> 00:14:52.039 that his wife brought somebody over the house so she 291 00:14:52.080 --> 00:14:54.720 could change before they went out or something, and then 292 00:14:54.720 --> 00:14:56.759 that friend told someone else and they came and robbed 293 00:14:56.759 --> 00:15:01.559 the house. Yeah that's not Yeah, And I'm getting ready 294 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:05.360 to have kids that are gonna have friends that come over. Right, 295 00:15:08.600 --> 00:15:12.000 you gotta put them through a twenty two point betting process. No, 296 00:15:12.200 --> 00:15:15.399 you just got to become vulnerable, absolutely right. Yeah, and 297 00:15:15.720 --> 00:15:19.759 it's their house too, and take a chance. Yeah. Yeah, 298 00:15:19.919 --> 00:15:25.200 you know. I got that autographed Trey Gman beer. All right, 299 00:15:25.799 --> 00:15:28.759 it's in my It's in my cabinet on display or whatever. 300 00:15:29.320 --> 00:15:33.320 And I told my boy, I was like, listen, plenty 301 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:36.600 in there drinking the fridge, right botle liquor wreck here, 302 00:15:37.360 --> 00:15:40.320 have at it. Stay away from that goddamn can in the. 303 00:15:40.279 --> 00:15:41.039 Case right there. 304 00:15:41.879 --> 00:15:43.960 I don't need your friends be like we're out of booze. 305 00:15:43.960 --> 00:15:46.759 But we got this one can here. Let's I've seen 306 00:15:46.840 --> 00:15:49.480 enough movies. I know what's up. Yeah, not that that 307 00:15:49.600 --> 00:15:53.000 can's worth anything. It might be. I don't know. I 308 00:15:53.000 --> 00:15:55.000 don't know, and I have to go and look. I 309 00:15:56.279 --> 00:16:00.720 just I hope I can instill in my kids respect 310 00:16:01.039 --> 00:16:03.799 like I'm trying to do that now, So you're gonna 311 00:16:03.799 --> 00:16:05.480 have a partygram people are fine, right. 312 00:16:07.000 --> 00:16:09.200 Shut it down before the whole school shows up. 313 00:16:10.840 --> 00:16:13.120 Well, I don't know what happened, Dad. I mean, I tried, 314 00:16:14.360 --> 00:16:16.440 and I just got out of control. I tried to 315 00:16:16.440 --> 00:16:19.159 have boundaries, like I want my kids in my room. 316 00:16:19.320 --> 00:16:21.840 It's like, it's not a big deal. Okay, I'm the 317 00:16:21.879 --> 00:16:24.360 same way. I've always been that way. Why can't the 318 00:16:24.399 --> 00:16:25.759 kids come in here? Because I got stuff in this 319 00:16:25.840 --> 00:16:27.320 room that the kids don't need to be messing with. 320 00:16:27.919 --> 00:16:30.519 I eat guns and seas, you know what I mean. 321 00:16:31.320 --> 00:16:33.960 My wife when she goes out of town, she leaves 322 00:16:33.960 --> 00:16:36.519 notes for the girls and then I put them in 323 00:16:36.559 --> 00:16:40.799 their bedrooms at night, right, And they were taking a 324 00:16:40.799 --> 00:16:44.240 shower in our shower and I came in and they 325 00:16:44.240 --> 00:16:45.679 were going through her drawer. Oh. 326 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:47.759 I was like, what are you doing? Who're the scene? 327 00:16:47.759 --> 00:16:48.440 Where the notes are? 328 00:16:48.480 --> 00:16:50.320 For that? Mam leise, I'm like, don't be going through 329 00:16:50.320 --> 00:16:54.399 a door. Later, my wife kid lost tooth. My wife 330 00:16:55.240 --> 00:16:58.639 put them like some stuff in a drawer and I'm like, hey, 331 00:16:59.759 --> 00:17:02.919 that's good idea. Why because your kids are going through 332 00:17:02.960 --> 00:17:05.839 the drawers, She says, why'd you let them. I'm like, 333 00:17:05.880 --> 00:17:09.440 why did I let them? I'm not the one who 334 00:17:09.440 --> 00:17:11.240 has the rule that they can be in here, right, 335 00:17:12.799 --> 00:17:15.880 it's on you, lady. Yeah, like this was your call. 336 00:17:17.240 --> 00:17:21.640 I'm against it, damn sticky fingers. But the point is 337 00:17:21.720 --> 00:17:23.359 that you don't know. When you're not around and you're 338 00:17:23.359 --> 00:17:25.640 not looking, you do not deal with the exactly because 339 00:17:25.680 --> 00:17:28.480 why we did the same ship when my parents were gone, 340 00:17:28.960 --> 00:17:31.640 you know, they go get groceries for the afternoon or whatever. 341 00:17:31.759 --> 00:17:33.680 I mean, my brother would be in their rifle into 342 00:17:34.119 --> 00:17:37.680 to the point to where you know, they put locks 343 00:17:37.720 --> 00:17:39.960 on their bedroom's door, on their bedroom doors, you know, 344 00:17:40.400 --> 00:17:42.799 and would take the key obviously like lock your like 345 00:17:43.240 --> 00:17:48.440 locked bedroom door. Yes, a locked door in the house 346 00:17:48.480 --> 00:17:50.759 with the key with the key, and we couldn't get 347 00:17:50.759 --> 00:17:51.079 in there. 348 00:17:51.200 --> 00:17:54.119 And then we learned how to start jimmy and locks, right. 349 00:17:54.160 --> 00:17:57.359 So it didn't really it helped a little bit, but 350 00:17:57.480 --> 00:18:01.279 we stayed wild. To me, yeah, yeah, I'm all for boundaries, 351 00:18:01.319 --> 00:18:05.160 but to put a lock in my own home. Now, 352 00:18:05.200 --> 00:18:08.279 I've lived in houses with people like roommates, and I've 353 00:18:08.319 --> 00:18:12.119 had locked doors then, but these were people that they 354 00:18:12.119 --> 00:18:15.039 had no obligation to me, right, right, right, and these 355 00:18:15.039 --> 00:18:17.079 are your kids. You'd think they would know. 356 00:18:17.160 --> 00:18:20.640 Better, you would hope, and it's just as likely. 357 00:18:20.759 --> 00:18:25.000 But to me, you're like, what message of my trust right, 358 00:18:25.119 --> 00:18:27.400 like I'm showing I don't trust, is. 359 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:28.880 None at all whatsoever? 360 00:18:30.880 --> 00:18:35.920 So it's like, I I know it was that way 361 00:18:35.960 --> 00:18:39.119 when we were living in Alabama, and I want to 362 00:18:39.160 --> 00:18:40.880 say it was that way when we were living here 363 00:18:40.960 --> 00:18:44.400 as well, But to be honest with you, I eventually 364 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:47.319 stopped going into their rooms, you know, And so I 365 00:18:47.680 --> 00:18:50.359 don't I don't know. And then I moved out, So 366 00:18:50.440 --> 00:18:51.839 I don't know. If they kept that same thing with 367 00:18:51.880 --> 00:18:54.359 my little brother, yeah whatever, but I know me and 368 00:18:54.400 --> 00:18:55.759 my older brother had to deal with it. 369 00:18:56.200 --> 00:18:56.519 I do. 370 00:18:56.880 --> 00:18:59.240 The only time I remember going to my parents' room 371 00:18:59.559 --> 00:19:04.279 was during Christmas because they they kept the Christmas gifts. 372 00:19:04.359 --> 00:19:08.240 You go in there, sneak and try Christmas. Yeah, And 373 00:19:09.400 --> 00:19:11.279 I think when they found out I was doing that, 374 00:19:12.160 --> 00:19:15.480 my dad started lining leaning his guns up against the toys, 375 00:19:16.319 --> 00:19:18.160 and then I was, you know, I was scared of gun, 376 00:19:18.240 --> 00:19:20.440 so I was like, I'm a. 377 00:19:20.480 --> 00:19:23.319 Little draw If I touch it, it may fall over and 378 00:19:23.359 --> 00:19:26.599 go off. Yes, yeah, nobody wants that. 379 00:19:26.839 --> 00:19:34.119 Yeah, Yeah, Christmas is ruined and I know my kids 380 00:19:34.119 --> 00:19:35.920 are about that age, they'll start going to look for 381 00:19:36.000 --> 00:19:38.240 Christmas presents. But I think you have to have like 382 00:19:38.240 --> 00:19:39.799 an a little bit of ownership. Like if they go 383 00:19:39.839 --> 00:19:42.720 looking for me and ruin Christmas, that's on them. I 384 00:19:42.720 --> 00:19:45.519 am not going to create a stress for me. There's 385 00:19:45.559 --> 00:19:48.640 no reason I can't. As you pointed out, with the lock, 386 00:19:49.160 --> 00:19:54.119 they'll find a way, So why engage. We never dug 387 00:19:54.200 --> 00:19:57.440 in their rooms for Christmas presents. We always wait until 388 00:19:57.440 --> 00:20:02.160 they were wrapped and would try to carefully and skillfully 389 00:20:02.359 --> 00:20:07.559 unwrapped the presents. Yeah, right, and uh it worked sometimes, 390 00:20:07.960 --> 00:20:11.759 but sometime they always knew that. I don't know what happened, 391 00:20:11.759 --> 00:20:14.480 but they always fucking knew. Maybe maybe the tape didn't 392 00:20:14.480 --> 00:20:16.759 stick and a fucking flap came up, whatever, I don't know, 393 00:20:16.839 --> 00:20:19.880 but there were times it's like they fucking knew we'd 394 00:20:19.880 --> 00:20:22.519 been in there digging around. Yeah, and they there was 395 00:20:22.559 --> 00:20:25.519 one Christmas where they took everything. We're taking everything back, 396 00:20:26.039 --> 00:20:27.880 We're taking it back to the store. Y'all can't stay 397 00:20:27.880 --> 00:20:30.200 out of the goddamn gifts. Were taking them all back 398 00:20:30.240 --> 00:20:33.440 to the store. No, don't do that, And they did, 399 00:20:33.839 --> 00:20:37.400 they did. They did put it in their trunk. 400 00:20:38.319 --> 00:20:38.480 Oh. 401 00:20:38.559 --> 00:20:41.319