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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Sunny Sun on ahead a Visions night.

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Speaker 1: What's happening? Everybody?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to for crying out loud, Happy Friday, Happy Friday.

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Speaker 1: Line is parenting away like this. It's Friday, and Sunny's

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still at the airport actually seeing Gabby. She's just still. Yeah.

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I ran into them.

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Speaker 2: They were they were trying to help them sneak them

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onto the plane on another flight. It's going to be

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a stowaway, yeah, yeah, but they got caught and arrested,

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so they're in They're in a burbank security jail at

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the airport. But anyway, Yeah, it's still Monday, and Sunny

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is now I don't know if I said it on

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the other show, but he's got a late flight.

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Speaker 1: Is he on the plane by now?

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Speaker 2: He's on the plane and he's going to get to

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San Francisco and then the next flight's not until nine

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twenty now.

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Speaker 1: So he's gonna get in at like four.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, k So, yeah, then he has to

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do or something. Then he has to wear it wait

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till nine to twenty, and then he's not gonna get

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home until like eleven thirty twelve, where he was supposed

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to get home at like six thirty.

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Speaker 1: Right, and then would he from the airport? Would he

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just take an uber? Yeah, he takes an uber.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, after this show, I'm gonna see if there's

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any other He just he didn't check any bags, So

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I'm gonna see if there's Southwest or Alaska. See if

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they have any flights earlier. Oh huh, we'll see.

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Speaker 1: Then will you have to eat the money or can

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you just call them and cancel? Since I will, they will.

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Speaker 2: They've they've done this many times because every time he

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comes home, practically, there's always some issues with their flight

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and I always get credit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they it was their fault they left late. Okay. Yeah,

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so for the next time, even if you fly a

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different airline, they'll still credit you. They have.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he basically missed his second flight. You know,

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well they did book them on a later flight. But

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I've done it before where I said that's not going

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to work. I had to get him home earlier, and

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then they credit if they're delayed, they will credit Okay, Yeah,

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as far as I've done so far.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Well you've got the time, You've got a

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little bit of time while he's on the plane, and

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you can't really see that much about him do much. Yeah,

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you got to make sure he gets in on whatever,

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right right? Yeah, you so much time he needs, yes, between,

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So like, let's make the most of them.

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Speaker 2: We'll make the most of it by talking about murder.

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Hell yeah, we could talk about that show first.

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Speaker 1: You want to talk about that show first? Yeah? Okay, okay,

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So you told me to watch Death Death, Death in

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Apartment six oh three.

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Speaker 2: Yet Ellen, it's on Hulu. It's the Ellen Greenberg story. Now,

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I've heard about this story on some podcasts not that

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long ago, where somebody was talking about this.

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Speaker 1: I think it was an Nancy Grace.

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Speaker 2: Somebody was talking about this mysterious death that happened on

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a six floor apartment in Philadelphia during like a nor'easter

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snowstorm and the woman was found dead in the kitchen

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with So we're going to talk about this, so we're

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gonna have spoilers, right, So.

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Speaker 1: I guess except that it's it's unsolved, it's not so right,

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I don't know how much we can spoil it be

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what we think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so there was, yeah, death found she was found

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by her husband that could not get into the apartment

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because the apartment was latched from the inside, so he said,

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so he said, with the chain like they have in

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the hotel rooms.

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Speaker 1: No way to know if that's true, though, because then

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he broke down the door to get in.

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Speaker 2: Right, But see, he claims, And there was no witness,

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even though I think in the very first police report

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there was a witness. Somebody said that the them. The

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concierge downstairs came upstairs with him and witnessed it, and

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the concierge said, oh, no, I did not because I'm

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not allowed to leave my post so I couldn't go upstairs.

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Speaker 1: And then they had security footage showing that the security

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guard was correct right and the husband was making up

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both story. Yes, so Zoey says that he had to

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kick the door. So from the from the very beginning,

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I started watching this and then I texted Lynnette and

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I was like, well, the husband did it, and she

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was like, well, yeah, I had you watched it, Like well,

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I don't really need to, I mean it seems real obvious. Yeah,

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what did they say if you see if you see, oh,

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don't look for a zebra. Oh isn't that what it is, Yeah,

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I don't know, or if you's whatever it is, why

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are you like Ocham's razor.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the most obvious is the answer. So so so this.

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Speaker 1: Guy was a full on liar. It's and I mean

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so basically. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he goes into the apartment, calls nine one one,

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and you hear the nine one one call, and there

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is so.

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Speaker 1: Talk about this nine one Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I said to Stephanie, I go, there is so much

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meat on that bone or that nine one one called

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to pick apart.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, I wish we could play it.

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They said. They say, too, you gotta go hear this

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because they say they're like, oh, you know, he was

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real upset. No, I heard now he was not.

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Speaker 2: He was like, well, first of all, he's texting her.

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You see all the texts like hey, open the door.

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What the fuck? Like pretty aggressive, not like are you okay?

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You know, he thought she was blow drying her hair,

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or she was or she was in the shower or something.

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But no, so he kept texting like open the door,

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open the door. You this, you better open the door.

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This better be good? Like why are you not answering

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the door?

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Speaker 1: Which, by the way, I feel like the texts were

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absolutely real. Yeah, it's whatened, which is what happened afterwards, right,

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And I think that she did have him locked out

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of the apartment.

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Speaker 2: Yes that yeah, that could be true. So he hit

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he broke it first, he broke down the door and

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then killed her. And then was like, oh my gosh,

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I was just worried. She had the door was locked

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from the inside. She wasn't responding yes.

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Speaker 1: So on the nine one one call, he's like, uh,

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setting up his alibi.

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Speaker 2: So I was down in the lobby gym. By the way,

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it doesn't look like he really works out. Oh is

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that a shape? Anyway, I was working out in the

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middle of a nor'easter and uh, I'm going I come

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back upstairs and I'm locked out. So I had to

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bust the door down. And now my wife looks like

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she killed herself.

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Speaker 1: She's laying on like with.

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Speaker 2: Her her body is like half up, half slumped in

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the kitchen, blood all around all around her, her bloody

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scenes tuddy like twenty stab back to her back to

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her head.

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Speaker 1: Neck right, and then she stabbed up. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So he's like, looks like she killed herself, and she's like,

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is she breathing, you need to do CPR. And he's like, oh, okay,

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I guess, Like all right, she's got a zipper jacket

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on and she's like, well, unzip the jacket.

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Speaker 1: And then he goes, okay, oh god, wait, there's a knife.

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Speaker 2: Sticking out of her neck, out of her chest. No,

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there's a knife sticking out of her heart. He said,

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oh yeah, which to me, when you're stabbing her, you

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want to get the heart right like that, you know,

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like yeah, why would he say there's a knife sticking

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out of her heart?

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Speaker 1: That means like one of us, Like it's so obvious

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that he murdered her. Okay. So the weird thing about

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the documentary is that we got to figure out who's

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in cahoots why people are trying to cover it up.

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Because the police come and he's like, guys, let me

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just tell you what happened. I mean, this is horrible, right,

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to just kill herself, like you know, hella stab wounds

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on her and the police are like, man, yeah, that's

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that's sad, okay, right, suicide it is. And then they

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just have the crime scene clean professionally.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they give the lady that owns the apartment buildings

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is the number, here's the number of the crime scene.

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Get it cleaned up so that you can show the

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apartment again and rent it out. Yeah, so yeah, she

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has she has a crime scene team coming like this,

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all evidence gone gone, no evidence. And then like the

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next day, the husband or no, he's not even the husband.

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The fiance comes with his uncle who's a high powered

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lawyer in Philadelphia who's very well connected.

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Speaker 1: He's like a Mark Geragos.

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Speaker 2: He is a Mark Garrigos, and he's very well connected

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with I think politicians, and uh, the police and comes

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and what are they take out of the apartment Her

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purse and they take her lap, her phone and her laptops,

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all her electronics. Dude, you're not her next of kid,

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you're just her fiance. Why would they let her? Why

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was he allowed to even do that? So then who knows,

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like what's been wiped?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: I listened to this guy that did a pot that

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is doing a podcast about it. He was a guest

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on somebody else's podcast. His name, I'll post it. His

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name is some I don't know. His name is something

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something fish. His last name is fish.

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Speaker 1: I think. His first name is Josh.

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Speaker 2: He's he's been doing a podcast about this crime. He's

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friends with the parents of Ellen Greenberg, and they gave

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him her laptops and her phone to do a data dump.

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see any mean text messages. That they did not They

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talk to each other very kindly. They were not fighting

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her alleged suicide.

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Speaker 1: But she's acting, in my opinion, like somebody who's the

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victim of domestic violence. Thank you. They were saying. It

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just seemed like her light had kind of dimmed. She

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just wasn't as talkative. She was really keeping to herself.

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of anxiety. She also wanted to go move back home

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with her parents. Now, this guy, Josh said, she also

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called another friend and said, hey, how about I come

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stay with you for a little bit. And she's like, oh,

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you want to come you mean live at my place?

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Speaker 2: She said that, and she got on medication for anti anxiety.

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She never mentioned to the therapist anything bad about him.

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Speaker 1: But because she was probably scared shitless of him. Right,

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he's a monster.

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Speaker 2: So still in the documentary, they said that she had

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a lot of like like she had. They said in

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the documentary she had in certain spots of her body,

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a couple spots of bruises in different stages of healing

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or whatever, right, like one on her forehead or whatever.

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This guy that does this did this podcast, said he

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counted he saw the autopsy fifty six bruises all over

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her body. Yeah, and when they did they they opened

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up her neck.

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Speaker 1: The bone in her neck.

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Speaker 2: Looks like it was like basically she was strangled, which

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now shows why she didn't have any defensive wounds. It

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looks to him what he thinks is that she they

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got enough fight and they could have happened. It could

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have happened in the bathroom because if you notice, she's

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clutching the towel of a bathroom towel, not a kitchen towel.

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a fruit salad.

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Speaker 1: But if you look at.

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Speaker 2: Her body, she's clutching a white bath towel, not a

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kitchen towel, and it looked like he could have strangled

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her in the bathroom and then pulled her into the

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kitchen and then just started stabbing at her somewhere like superficial,

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like not too deep stabbed, but she was stabbed over

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twenty times and again parts of her body, like how

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are you gonna First of all, women don't really typically

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kill themselves by stabbing, and then not yeah, typically noble, right,

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and then not even like on your back, like there's

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all these stab wounds to the back mid back of

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her like the net midnck, lower neck, like everybody's at

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home now trying to like see if they could stab

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the back of your neck, Like it's there's no way.

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So so he stabbed her a bunch of times. It

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made it because I think he killed her. And then

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he was like, how am I going to make this look?

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Like there's no he can't say that she took medication

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because they'll do a tox toxicology test and they're not

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it's not gonna show up. So how else is he

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gonna say she killed herself? Right?

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Speaker 1: Unless he like the fact that he didn't even try

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that that he was like, oh shit, I'm fucked right,

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Like I just stabbed her to death. Now I'm gonna

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have to be like it was suicide. Yeah, right, he was.

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The acting was so bad in the nine one one call, Yes, like,

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oh my god, I think my wife has killed herself.

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Like I was like, what that's this? And they're like, yeah,

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he sounded really upset. Yeah, he did not sound upset

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at all. Now was talking almost in a normal tone

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of voice, I know, like he was doing a cold reading. Yeah,

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some thing.

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Speaker 2: He kind of sounded a little annoyed too, like I

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got an unzip her jacket. Oh I guess there's a

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and you how do you not see the knife sticking

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out of her chest?

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Speaker 1: Like come on, yeah, it's ridiculous. So then they they

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ruled it a suicide, and then a lot of people

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were like this is crazy. How can you have ruled

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this as suicide? He was the only one who could

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have done it. He was He lied and said that

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oh no, the security brought escorted me up to the

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thing and you know, saw me have to break the

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door or whatever was there. No, that didn't happen. The

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security guard was like, why do you got to try

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to lie on? Right?

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Speaker 2: I know, I know because there was the security video

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in the in the in the lobby, but no video

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in the hallways at that time, and you know, so yeah,

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so they just took his word for it.

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Speaker 1: And and then but first they they said it was

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a suicide.

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Speaker 2: Then two days later she's getting her buried in her

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she's at her funeral, and they announced it was this homicide, right.

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Speaker 1: I think because the family was like, what the hell? Right,

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So then they're like, oh, yeah, okay, no, it was

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a it was a homicide, right. But then I think

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the guy's uh uncle got cover up. Ye, it was

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a cover up. And then they're like, oh wait, wait wait,

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never mind, No, it was definitely a suicide, right, And

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then it stayed.

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Speaker 2: That way for years, years, and the poor parents unbelievable.

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I mean, this is their only child, her, They're never

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going to have grandchildren. They are still fighting to this day.

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This guy is just out and about married, remarried with kids,

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living his life. However, you know that his wife is

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fucked not I feel bad for her because she has

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nothing to do with this or whatever, but you know

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she's going to like drop off the kids and everybody's

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talking about the new Hulu doc about her husband, Like

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could you imagine how embarrassing that must be, Like, oh

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my god, that's got to suck. But you know, I

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don't understand how there's no arrest. I hope that maybe

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this Hulu documentary brings enough flight to the case that they.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I don't understand, speaking of like the new wife,

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how do you meet a guy? Okay, I don't know

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where you are, a bar tender. Wherever you meet a

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guy go on a date. You're like, oh my god,

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he's super cute and charming. You know, doesn't really work out,

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but still, you know, yeah, you know, it makes me

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laugh whatever. And then you're you're like, oh, but he

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was married before. Oh my gosh, it was horrible. His

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wife tragically died. She killed herself by stabbing herself like

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fifty times, right, aren't your friends like wait? Wait what what? Wait?

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What happened to her? So this guy, Yeah, she was

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really messed up in the head. She just like stabbed herself.

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I mean she was really mentally like unstable, right, but

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also too, how does know how does that work? Like

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he tells you, yeah, so this is what happened. I

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don't know. You're going to google You're gonna google me

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and you'll find out, So let me just tell you

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what happened. And you're like, oh man, you poor thing cool?

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You know that is I mean we talk about people

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missing red flags, right, that is just red flag is

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like when your boyfriend's like late all the time, Like

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what how do you overcome his ex wife stabbed herself

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to death that many times? Right? I know?

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, you're right like what her friends might say,

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like come on now, Sheila, you gotta like go look like,

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did you do the deep dive?

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Speaker 1: I did? I listened to a podcast. Have you not

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listened to any podcast about it? Because it's been suspicious case.

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It's not like just this Hulu documentary came out.

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Speaker 2: It's like I said, I heard about it like a

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couple like a year ago that people were somebody was

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writing a book about it. You know, because when you

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hear you don't see the documentary and you hear about

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it on paper, it does sound suspicious. She's on the

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sixth floor. The guy had to break the door down,

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you know, like but.

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Speaker 1: So suspicious only to hit for him, right, because there's

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no other person that was around, right, the doors locked

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from the inside, he says, I broke it down yeah,

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there's no proof that, like, there's nothing right, but he

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was in. There have videotape, So yeah, and you don't.

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The only explanation that he's trying to put forth, which

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he started from this moment that he found her, he

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was like, he why if you're the guy, here's here's

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the whole problem, here's why he's one hundred percent guilty. Yeah,

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you're the guy. You go in. Why wouldn't you say, oh,

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my god, somebody must have broken into the apartment and

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like murdered my girlfriend. Why would you go like, oh,

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she killed herself of course, right, Why would you say

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that now unless you're like, oh, there's videotape and they're

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going to see they're going to be able to tell

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that nobody broke in the apartment. That's the only explanation

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that I can give them.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and exactly. And if the door was locked

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on the inside, because.

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Speaker 1: That's he broke the door. He did. He broke mad

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because she wasn't wouldn't let him in because he was

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really angry at her. And remember in the beginning, there

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was that neighbor that said he did hear our doing

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that day? Yeah, outside, Yeah, he's probably yelling at her

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through the door. He like stormed out. Then he comes

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back and he's like he's gotten madder and matter and matter.

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As he's out, he comes in and then he's like,

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you fucking bitch, like open the door. Because it was

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crazy the way he was talking to her over the text. Yeah,

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you're gonna you are this best better bid whatever? You

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better open this right now? We're are You're doing right right?

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I know? Why else would she have him locked out? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was afraid of him. I kids can't believe.

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Speaker 1: I think we solved it. Yeah, we did. I wish

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you would get arrest, you know, we all. What else

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Speaker 1: Yeah, n So a couple of things. Well, I also

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wanted to talk about Wayward. We talked about a little

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bit about last week, but I hadn't seen it yet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I didn't finish it until I finished it.

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Oh you did, and you finished it, so I won't

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we won't.

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Speaker 1: Do spoilers on this one, because this is like a

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serious this is like eight episodes or something, right, But

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I will tell you that when it ended, I was like, wait, what,

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thank you? I was gonna say, can we talk about

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the ending? Because I was totally confused. I feel like

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we shouldn't talk about it specifically. But you ever watch

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something you spend all this time, you're totally invested, and

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then the ending happens and you're like, wait what? And

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I had to google what happened at the end. Yes,

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and then it was explained to me what happened. We

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explain to me. I wonder if people already watch it

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and feeling the same way. So if you don't want

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to be spoiled, maybe just do though, and I don't

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feel like, really, hinch is the way we do? Like

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I watched it all in like one session. Now you

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did sort of like Dana Mora, Escape a Dana you

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love Dana Moura. Wasn't it great? I? And I know

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I said this last week too when we were when

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you guys were like, oh my god, you got to

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watch Escape at Dana Mora and I was like, I

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think it's Australian. And then I post I postponed doing it.

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Uh huh. And then I was like, you know what,

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even though it's Australian hon Air, it's not in Austria. Try.

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And then I was like, wait, why did I think

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this was Australian. It's regular now. I know. Reminded me

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of like Mayor of Easttown. Okay, yeah, it had that

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like gritty, pretty vibe. But it was so freaking good,

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so good.

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Speaker 2: I love it. I loved it so much. I've watched

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it twice. I told you last week. I think it's

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the acting was phenomenal. It's a true story. Yeah, and

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it's just it it's just the way it's filmed, the

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way you know, just the husband of Patricia Arquette now

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he is like it's just so good.

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Speaker 1: And then you look up it's like a documentary. Yes, yeah,

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doesn't it. Yeah. The acting is so so louistic.

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Speaker 2: Right, And then I look up the real people and

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it's like, wow that the husband looked like the actor.

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I know, you know, they kind of looked alike, you know.

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And the story, I just it's such a good show

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or docues.

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Speaker 1: Arcat's character is such an interesting character, really, right, very flawed, yes,

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like probably, I mean she's based on a real person. Obviously,

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real people out there like that. Yeah, just constantly cheating

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on her husband. She's so mean, I know, mean to

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her husband.

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Speaker 2: They're at the Chinese restaurant, like, yeah, I mean, she

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was going to kill him, right, at one point, she

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was gonna they were at the Chinese restaurant and she

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was hadn't met she had something crushed up.

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Speaker 1: She was going to kill her husband. Was going to

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put him to sleep or put him to sleep so

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that she he would be asleep so that she could

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take off, Yeah, with these guys to Mexico. Yeah, she

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really thought she was going to Mexico with these guys,

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with those guys, Oh my god. And then it was

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so good because what's his name? Benicio? Yeah, El Toro

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is like I love that they wait until a little

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bit in and I won't I won't spoil it, even

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though it's been out for a really long time. But

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how they give you the backstory of the guys. But

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way later, right you're watching it and you don't you're

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kind of feeling bad for them, but then you see

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you see their crime Tori, and you're like, oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, this guy is really bad news. Yeah, he is bad.

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00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,160
Yeah yeah, and then they're just on the run. It's

470
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,960
like they like almost made it. But I know they

471
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:52,640
almost made I was rooting for them too, and it's

472
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,400
like his real.

473
00:24:53,279 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: Name is Mike Sweat.

474
00:24:54,880 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 2: Oh yeah yeah yeah. Oh I cry I get away.

475
00:25:00,559 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: I literally cry. I did too.

476
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: And he was like running at the end and like

477
00:25:06,039 --> 00:25:10,240
I shot him, like, uh, like he's still in jail,

478
00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,000
still in jail, we're getting out.

479
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: He's in for life. I was like, he didn't do it.

480
00:25:16,079 --> 00:25:18,400
How come they didn't, like if they knew this in

481
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,640
the documentary, how come nobody's like tried to get him

482
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:22,440
a new trial.

483
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,079
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. Well he but also

484
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,279
look at what he did to get out of that jail.

485
00:25:28,319 --> 00:25:31,599
It took him so long and it was so planned out.

486
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,440
I mean, what a bummer, What a bummer? I know,

487
00:25:35,799 --> 00:25:38,200
I know, you get that far and he gets so

488
00:25:38,839 --> 00:25:42,000
right and like, come on, he's almost at the Canadian border,

489
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,160
I know, like almost there.

490
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: I loved when he left a Benicio yes behind yeah,

491
00:25:48,519 --> 00:25:50,440
because you know when they're like why'd you leave me room?

492
00:25:50,519 --> 00:25:52,960
And he goes that fuck is like slowing me down.

493
00:25:53,039 --> 00:25:56,039
Speaker 2: He's slowing him down. He's getting drunk and stuff on

494
00:25:56,079 --> 00:25:57,559
the run. Yeah.

495
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: Imagine though, like that's your partner. Yeah yeah, and you

496
00:26:02,279 --> 00:26:04,319
know you kind of need a partner in this kind

497
00:26:04,319 --> 00:26:06,680
of thing. Me and you, Stephanie. And then the yeah,

498
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,680
the person's like not listening to you. He's like, dude,

499
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,839
do not get drunk. We're staying at somebody's farmhouse and

500
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,480
we do not get drunk. And he's like, fuck you,

501
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:18,359
I'm getting drunk.

502
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: It'd be like me and you on the run, like like,

503
00:26:21,799 --> 00:26:23,480
let it stop drinking.

504
00:26:23,799 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: Is you're the sober one, you're gonna slow us down, Like.

505
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,519
Speaker 2: Come on, I got whiskey in here, Like, come on,

506
00:26:29,599 --> 00:26:31,599
we're on the run, let's celebrate we got out.

507
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: Then you'd be like, Stephanie, you can drive faster than

508
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:39,279
fifty miles on the freeway. We're making a getaway. I'm like, next,

509
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,599
we're kind of close to the sidewall. Though I don't

510
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:41,920
like that.

511
00:26:42,599 --> 00:26:45,599
Speaker 2: I like go like trying to press your foot to

512
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,079
the neck to the gas.

513
00:26:47,599 --> 00:26:50,319
Speaker 1: You're like, I can't drive because I've been shot. I

514
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,599
gotta drive faster, broke if I can't know my anxiety

515
00:26:54,759 --> 00:26:57,359
stop and it's late at night, I can't see the

516
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,559
road too good? Where am I in a park?

517
00:27:00,559 --> 00:27:04,519
Speaker 2: When we get to the border, do they have parking there?

518
00:27:05,279 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: We should have planned out for parking. Yes, know where

519
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:08,279
the parking?

520
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,319
Speaker 2: Like what don't we just drive to the border and

521
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,920
then just what hop over the fence and leave the car?

522
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,559
Speaker 1: Like how does that work? Oh my god, that would

523
00:27:17,599 --> 00:27:20,160
be a disaster. I don't know how they did it. Also,

524
00:27:20,279 --> 00:27:23,839
even when they were early in the escape, Oh my god,

525
00:27:24,079 --> 00:27:26,599
didn't you get claustrophobic? Do you remember the scene where

526
00:27:26,599 --> 00:27:30,480
he climbs into that pipe? Ellieah does get a little klaustrophobic.

527
00:27:30,599 --> 00:27:34,000
He's like, has to go through a pipe, Like, oh hell,

528
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,720
I'd be like, I'm gonna make the best of prison.

529
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 2: Go back, abort, abort, abort. Yeah, it did get clusterphobic.

530
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,160
There was a lot of The second time I watched,

531
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,079
I realized there was so many scenes of him like

532
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,480
sawing and like working and down. It was a little much.

533
00:27:49,519 --> 00:27:52,119
I was like, yeah, okay, but but just the rest

534
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,759
of the story is just so good. Guys should all

535
00:27:54,799 --> 00:27:58,200
watch Escape to Dan Moore at Dana Mora. Yeah, it's

536
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,640
called and it's on Netflix.

537
00:27:59,759 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 1: And then okay, okay, So then the Wayward so watch that.

538
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:11,119
Here was my takeaway. Yeah, May Martin had a great

539
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:17,400
actor actor actress. Yea, they are not. Here's the interesting thing.

540
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,039
And so now that we talked about this last week

541
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,680
and I did look into it, May Martin is non binary, okay,

542
00:28:25,319 --> 00:28:29,480
but their character is trans man, so it's a little

543
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,640
bit confusing. They wanted to have a trans man representation,

544
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:38,559
but they themselves are not. They don't identify okay as male, okay,

545
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,160
but they have had top surgery, so they're non bin

546
00:28:42,359 --> 00:28:46,640
you know, right, Okay, masculine non binary, got it? Okay?

547
00:28:47,119 --> 00:28:51,079
Acting not amazing, right. There's this one scene kind of

548
00:28:51,119 --> 00:28:57,359
early on where the character I forgot their name. Let's

549
00:28:57,359 --> 00:29:00,960
call them mic. Yeah, okay, Mike's like, uh, I forgot

550
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,519
what their name is. Do you remember.

551
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:09,319
Speaker 2: His name in the show? Was it was Matt or something?

552
00:29:09,759 --> 00:29:10,880
I think it was Matty.

553
00:29:11,279 --> 00:29:14,119
Speaker 1: So Matt is in the house with the fiance and

554
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:19,480
the dog was outside. And then now we both have dogs.

555
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,319
If your dog was like you couldn't find your dog

556
00:29:22,359 --> 00:29:24,440
and there outside, would you be? This is this was

557
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:32,799
my impression of Matt, Yes, looking for the dog dog Toast, Yes, toast, Yeah, Toast?

558
00:29:33,519 --> 00:29:40,519
Where are you? Toast? Right. I was like, really what toast? Yes, like, yeah,

559
00:29:40,799 --> 00:29:43,759
come on, tell like I would freak out. Yeah, for

560
00:29:43,839 --> 00:29:46,200
at least your voice would go a little bit loud

561
00:29:46,279 --> 00:29:47,960
or you're looking for I was like, there was a

562
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,960
lot of kind of stilted.

563
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 2: There was like it did seem like Okay, this must

564
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,559
have been their first big role in a Netflix show, right,

565
00:29:56,839 --> 00:30:00,400
you know, so you know it's their show that they

566
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:00,799
wrote it.

567
00:30:01,039 --> 00:30:05,599
Speaker 1: I saw that. Yes, I saw that. Yeah, and you

568
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,960
know take you're going with You're like toast right, toast?

569
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,480
Wouldn't you be like, let's do it one more time? Yeah?

570
00:30:12,599 --> 00:30:15,519
And just like but I think my friend told me

571
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:20,160
that she thinks that May directed themselves.

572
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,519
Speaker 2: That's what I was going to ask. Did May direct it?

573
00:30:23,039 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if they directed the whole thing, but

574
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,880
I heard that they directed themselves in that scene. Okay, okay,

575
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,880
and that explains it. So you're like, I think that

576
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,559
was pretty good.

577
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 2: I think, right, Yeah, where did they get the idea

578
00:30:38,519 --> 00:30:43,359
for that story? That's a crazy story. It is a

579
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:48,240
crazy wrote they wrote it right, so right, but was

580
00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:48,880
it based on.

581
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: A book derivative of like a lot of different I mean,

582
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,400
there's been a lot of stuff about those kinds of yeah,

583
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:59,400
that's true, places where they go to like recanclitate kids.

584
00:31:00,079 --> 00:31:06,039
I just didn't get the ending at all. Well, the

585
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:11,079
ending was was supposed to leave room for a second season. Okay,

586
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:15,240
oh okay, so they left it open ended, got it? Okay,

587
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,000
so May goes back. Yes, but I guess it was

588
00:31:20,039 --> 00:31:24,960
supposed to be like our imagination that they leave and

589
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:27,000
they show them and they don't. They didn't leave.

590
00:31:27,079 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 2: So Matt goes back to his wife, Yeah, got it?

591
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:36,480
And baby spoiler Yeah all right, but.

592
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,519
Speaker 1: Seriously, I watched the whole thing and then I'm like,

593
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,480
I don't understand what happened. Yeah, I mean we're not

594
00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:43,960
even doing it, just a deeper meaning of it. And

595
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,119
it's like I don't like that because I feel like

596
00:31:46,799 --> 00:31:50,519
I'm smart enough, Like if if I really don't get

597
00:31:50,559 --> 00:31:54,640
it right, I'm not saying that I'm the smartest, don't

598
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,720
I know, not, Like if I don't get it, nobody

599
00:31:56,759 --> 00:31:58,759
will get it. I'm sure tons of people were like, oh,

600
00:31:58,759 --> 00:32:01,000
I totally get it right when you have to read

601
00:32:01,119 --> 00:32:05,839
the deeper meaning like the symbolism and right, like oh right, yeah,

602
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,319
it was just like a fun thing that I was

603
00:32:07,359 --> 00:32:11,880
also playing threes on my phone, right, yeah, yeah, yeah subtitles. Yes.

604
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: Did you ever see like Behind Her Eyes? It's on Netflix.

605
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,359
I got duped into that show once, not that long ago,

606
00:32:20,799 --> 00:32:23,920
and I it seemed like it was I don't know,

607
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,240
probably eight episodes and it was I think based on

608
00:32:28,319 --> 00:32:30,799
a book. I think it was one of those good,

609
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:36,160
like you know, Netflix juicy kind of shows, and I'm

610
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,440
like watching it, and then the second to last episode

611
00:32:39,559 --> 00:32:42,880
it turned into something supernatural, and I was like, wait

612
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,039
a minute, what the fuck, Like what this woman is

613
00:32:47,079 --> 00:32:52,480
like supposedly like has these crazy, you know dreams where

614
00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:55,319
they're what do you call the dreams where you're awake

615
00:32:55,359 --> 00:32:58,559
but your dream paralysis? And then but then she's like

616
00:32:58,599 --> 00:33:00,160
you want to know, like how does she know that

617
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,480
they had that her husband had that conversation with her

618
00:33:02,519 --> 00:33:05,319
husbands cheating on her? Anyway, it's going, it's going, it's going,

619
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,160
like second to last episode, all of a sudden, the

620
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:12,720
lights come like circulating above her body, out of mind,

621
00:33:12,799 --> 00:33:16,079
and it's it's called something that is really like some

622
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,960
court of like orbital, I don't know whatever, some stupid

623
00:33:20,039 --> 00:33:22,359
but it was like supernatural, and I was like, that's

624
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,720
how you're explaining the ending like she was reading everybody's mind, like, no,

625
00:33:25,839 --> 00:33:28,640
that's not true, that doesn't happen. I was like, what

626
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,480
the fuck I wasted all this time on this stupid show.

627
00:33:31,759 --> 00:33:34,319
Speaker 1: I hate that so much. I hated it. How many

628
00:33:34,359 --> 00:33:37,599
books are like that these days too, the thrillers. Yeah,

629
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,759
and then it's like I want something that's based, grounded

630
00:33:40,799 --> 00:33:43,960
in real reality, right, so with a I don't mind

631
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,279
a twist, but make it it, make it real believable, like,

632
00:33:48,039 --> 00:33:50,680
but no, you get to the twist and it's like again,

633
00:33:50,799 --> 00:33:53,599
like you said something supernatural and you're like, well, come

634
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,799
on time, Yes, I hate that, like say it up front,

635
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,920
or be supernatural to the whole thing. Like Stephen King, Yeah,

636
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,000
fine is the best, Yes, like the king of that.

637
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,359
Yeah of course, right, he's the king of that.

638
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,679
Speaker 2: But even like in the description under Netflix, it's like

639
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:13,519
suspenseful drama, thriller, right, didn't put in supernatural too? Yeah,

640
00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:16,000
so that like I know what's going to happen or

641
00:34:16,039 --> 00:34:17,880
something like give me a And I went and read

642
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,480
it and everybody said the same thing. They were like

643
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,840
what the fuck? Like I was pissed, Like I was.

644
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: Really believing the story for a while and then all

645
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,199
of a sudden, like this shit happened, Like, okay, come on,

646
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,559
I love Reddit for that. I know I love And

647
00:34:30,599 --> 00:34:34,159
I'll read something on Reddite where they're like, oh, I

648
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,760
just watched the scene and I ran to Reddit, and

649
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,280
I'm like, I can totally relate. It happens all the

650
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,639
time when I'm watching Love is Blind, the latest season,

651
00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:45,639
which is just a mess. It is hot mess. Is

652
00:34:45,679 --> 00:34:48,679
it good? It's so good. It's so like, I don't

653
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:51,400
want I'm not rooting for any of these people. Really,

654
00:34:51,519 --> 00:34:56,360
they're just they freaking got some crazies. Okay, but it's

655
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,039
like when you see a scene and then you're like,

656
00:34:58,119 --> 00:34:59,639
oh my god, I gotta go see what my friend's

657
00:34:59,639 --> 00:35:03,639
on Reddit think, right, Yes, that's what reddits for. Yeah?

658
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Speaker 1: Okay, so I want to talk about something, well, I

702
00:37:31,599 --> 00:37:35,559
want to admit something about how crazy my brain is. Okay,

703
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,039
I already know I'm crazy, everybody, so like, relax, I'm

704
00:37:40,039 --> 00:37:42,480
a I'm a brand of crazy. That's like, I know,

705
00:37:42,519 --> 00:37:44,159
if you're just listening to me talk, you're going to

706
00:37:44,199 --> 00:37:48,400
be like, oh my god, she's so anxious, she's compulsive. No, yeah,

707
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,280
and I'll tell you about it. Yeah, I'm an addict

708
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:56,719
and so I was thinking, I just everybody is on

709
00:37:57,159 --> 00:38:00,480
like the ozempic right, Yeah, buddy and their brother and

710
00:38:00,519 --> 00:38:03,760
their mother. It's so true. It's so funny.

711
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 2: Like somebody was saying to me the other day, like

712
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:10,039
basically like, if you have enough money, there's no reason

713
00:38:10,039 --> 00:38:11,280
for you to be overweight.

714
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:16,039
Speaker 1: And this is the weird the thing that we were

715
00:38:16,159 --> 00:38:20,920
kind of going in a direction to body positivity and

716
00:38:21,119 --> 00:38:24,400
different shapes and sizes being okay, and now that there

717
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:29,840
is ozimbic and other weight loss drugs like this, it's

718
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,679
a weird thing. It's like taking over my brain where

719
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,400
it's like I feel like I have no excuse to

720
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:40,039
be like, okay, let me go back. I've always been

721
00:38:40,199 --> 00:38:44,079
obviously dealing with like not always, but when I was younger,

722
00:38:44,159 --> 00:38:48,119
I definitely was boliemic. I was obsessed with my weight.

723
00:38:48,199 --> 00:38:52,159
I'm a compulsive person, and many years ago when I

724
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,760
first when I got over bolimia in my early twenties,

725
00:38:56,199 --> 00:38:59,039
I went to a twelve step program. I got really

726
00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:01,400
locked in. I was like, I'm not going to do

727
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,719
that behavior anymore. And then I got really perfect my eating,

728
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:10,119
super clean eating, and then I started losing weight, and

729
00:39:10,119 --> 00:39:12,840
then I got kind of obsessed in that way, like

730
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:19,639
very perfectionist, watching every calorie, thinking about everything that I

731
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,639
put in my body, and not in a fun, fucking

732
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,400
ye kind of way. No sweets, no white flower like

733
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:32,559
all this. And then somehow I did kind of stop

734
00:39:32,639 --> 00:39:35,079
doing that. But you know how I probably did it.

735
00:39:35,159 --> 00:39:38,119
I probably started like drinking more. Like I think my

736
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,280
brain shifts from like, yeah things one saying to another.

737
00:39:42,599 --> 00:39:47,039
So the eating thing and the weight has gotten like

738
00:39:47,079 --> 00:39:49,320
a lot better over the years. And I've been like

739
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,960
I've always fluctuated a bit. I've never been like obese.

740
00:39:53,039 --> 00:39:56,800
I've never been well. I have been super skinny. And

741
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,159
the time that I was super skinny was because I

742
00:40:00,159 --> 00:40:06,159
went on zoloft for depression after I had LB and

743
00:40:06,199 --> 00:40:09,559
I think I got super skinny. Oh, I got very skinny.

744
00:40:09,599 --> 00:40:12,559
For my wedding. I got too skinny, and people were

745
00:40:12,599 --> 00:40:16,440
like concerned about me. Yeah, because I got compulsive. Then

746
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,960
I got married, Then I got pregnant. I gained a

747
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:22,159
bunch of weight when I was pregnant. Then later after

748
00:40:22,199 --> 00:40:24,400
I had LBY, I went on a high dose of

749
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,760
zoloft because they were experimenting with the dose, and I

750
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:32,800
stopped eating. And I didn't think I did. I just

751
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,679
wasn't hungry. Yeah, one of the side effects of zola

752
00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:39,599
and be losing weight. I can also be gaining weight,

753
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,960
but for reason I just didn't. I was forgetting to eat.

754
00:40:45,199 --> 00:40:48,880
I just wasn't hungry. I had no appetite. So I

755
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,800
got super skinny, and I was worried about myself. So

756
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,639
I went to the doctor, and the doctor did tests

757
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,920
and everything came out normal. And then I read this

758
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,400
one of the side of of zoloft could be weight loss.

759
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:06,320
So I dropped my dose in half and I fully

760
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:13,280
went back to like eating normally. That's fine. Yeah, Okay. Interestingly, though,

761
00:41:14,199 --> 00:41:16,920
like I've, like I said, I've always kind of fluctuated

762
00:41:17,039 --> 00:41:20,440
when COVID happened and I was not working out, and

763
00:41:20,519 --> 00:41:23,039
I've always been back and forth on the like sometimes

764
00:41:23,039 --> 00:41:25,599
I won't eat sugar for years at a time, yeah,

765
00:41:25,599 --> 00:41:28,920
and then my weight stays real stable. But over COVID,

766
00:41:29,199 --> 00:41:31,719
I gained a lot of weight and I felt uncomfortable,

767
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:35,840
you know. Then I lost some But then the sugar

768
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:40,599
thing has been a thing, And now so many people

769
00:41:40,599 --> 00:41:42,880
I know are on ozempic and they're like, oh, yeah,

770
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,519
like it's really easy to not eat sugar when you're

771
00:41:45,639 --> 00:41:50,960
on ozempic or on some glue tags, right, all these things. Yea,

772
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,280
then I just started getting really obsessed with the idea

773
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,639
of like, well maybe I should do it. Okay, so

774
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,800
I went to dinner, yeah, the other night with it.

775
00:42:01,199 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 2: Let me just say, you don't you do not you

776
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:07,280
look healthy to me. You do not look like you

777
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:08,400
need to lose any weight.

778
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: But well, this is the thing that's so crazy, right,

779
00:42:12,199 --> 00:42:16,360
is like if like I weighed myself at the gym

780
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:19,280
today and I weigh one hundred and thirty nine pounds,

781
00:42:19,639 --> 00:42:21,760
which if you're listening to this, you're going to be like,

782
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:27,880
you're ridiculous. Yeah, that's crazy. Right now, My like a

783
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,679
comfortable weight for me is like one twenty five yeah thin, yeah,

784
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,719
you know. So like okay, so I need to lose

785
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:39,800
like ten pounds, right, So why is my brain like

786
00:42:41,079 --> 00:42:43,360
it's a it's a compulsive thing. This is why I

787
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,760
can't drink, you know. And the thing is it's like

788
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:50,000
the sweets. This is what gets me like heavier. It's

789
00:42:50,119 --> 00:42:52,880
just like when I eat sweets, I can't stop, and

790
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,079
I always think, you know what, this will be different,

791
00:42:56,119 --> 00:42:58,559
like I could moderate now. It's the same way I

792
00:42:58,599 --> 00:43:02,079
think about alcohol, right, Yeah, Okay, today I'm not going

793
00:43:02,159 --> 00:43:04,440
to have any alcohol, like and then okay, you know what,

794
00:43:04,559 --> 00:43:06,840
I'll just have one glass of wine. Yeah, and then

795
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,559
before you know it, I'm drunk, right, And that's how

796
00:43:09,559 --> 00:43:12,480
I am with sugar, like, and but for some reason,

797
00:43:12,559 --> 00:43:16,400
my brain like today I'm like three days no sugar,

798
00:43:16,559 --> 00:43:18,760
and I'm like and you know what, And I've been

799
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:22,000
going to the gym. So now I'm like really hungry

800
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,880
because I had some cereal for breakfast, I had like

801
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:28,760
a lean cuisine for lunch. I worked out though this morning,

802
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:31,239
and now I'm like I'm super starving. And then my

803
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,840
brain goes, well, if I was on like weight loss medication,

804
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,840
like I wouldn't even think I'm hungry because everybody's on

805
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:40,440
it because that's what everybody is full of. You can

806
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,719
get some of you don't even have to have a prescription.

807
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,239
And I'm like, it's like a freaking monster brain going.

808
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,800
You could just you could be skinny the way you

809
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,880
could be really skinny, Like if you did this in

810
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,119
like a month, you could lose ten pounds.

811
00:43:54,199 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and now our phones are listening to us, so

812
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:58,079
now you're going to get a ton.

813
00:43:58,039 --> 00:44:01,639
Speaker 1: Oh it all rane my face right now, you would laugh.

814
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,320
It's just all because the other day. So this is

815
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:10,239
the thing. So I have a friend who was legitimately

816
00:44:11,119 --> 00:44:18,360
needed to lose weight and she found literally like I

817
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:22,119
like a woman who's a nurse. I guess who got

818
00:44:22,159 --> 00:44:25,679
her this medication. It's like, this woman could have just

819
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,960
gone to the doctor for you, and we're all like

820
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:32,159
nice Jewish value women. Yeah, for some reason, it's this

821
00:44:32,199 --> 00:44:34,360
friend of mine who always has a hookup to everything.

822
00:44:35,039 --> 00:44:37,760
So she was like, I got a woman who's been

823
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,920
giving me this medication and she gives you the needles

824
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,840
and she shows and she's like, it's amazing, you don't

825
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:48,280
think about food. So this is what my brain does.

826
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,519
My brain goes, I know I don't need to lose

827
00:44:50,599 --> 00:44:52,679
I know I'm not obese obviously, and I know I

828
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,000
don't really need to lose a lot of weight. But

829
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,079
wouldn't it be great to like not crave sweets? You

830
00:44:59,199 --> 00:45:01,800
get rid of the food noise? Right? But the truth

831
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,719
of these medications, because you know, I did a bunch

832
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,559
of research and it's like, well it will come back

833
00:45:08,639 --> 00:45:11,400
though when you stop, you still stop. So even if

834
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,199
I was to let's say I was to go I'd

835
00:45:13,199 --> 00:45:17,039
have to do it like forever, right, yeah, really eliminate

836
00:45:17,079 --> 00:45:19,719
the well I have. Yeah.

837
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 2: So I have some friends that legitimately needed it, especially

838
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,920
with back problems and stuff, and you know, they went

839
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:27,320
on it.

840
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: And then I have one friend that went on it

841
00:45:30,079 --> 00:45:30,719
and did.

842
00:45:30,599 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 2: Lose like ten pounds, and then she was like, Okay,

843
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:39,400
I think I'm okay because she was craving like a lot,

844
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,719
like she was always wanting to eat a certain time

845
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,639
a day and she was craving a lot, you know food.

846
00:45:45,039 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 1: She only needed to lose ten pounds.

847
00:45:46,559 --> 00:45:48,679
Speaker 2: But she only needed really to lose ten pounds and

848
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,760
she could have maybe lost more, but she was like

849
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,199
okay after that, So then she felt like, Okay, now

850
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,679
I feel maybe I'm okay. So she stopped taking it.

851
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,719
She still is like, I don't have an app really

852
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,519
an ap petite still and she's been off of it for

853
00:46:02,639 --> 00:46:06,159
a while and she really isn't a weak No, she's

854
00:46:06,199 --> 00:46:09,280
been off of it for like a couple months, and

855
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,800
she's she's now, I feel.

856
00:46:11,639 --> 00:46:13,760
Speaker 1: Like you're talking me into it. I'm not. I'm just

857
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:14,639
telling you what I know.

858
00:46:15,039 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 2: I'm just yeah, I mean, I can see why you

859
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,679
would want to like do it for the craving of

860
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,239
the isn't it for like alcohol, craving toos they say,

861
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:22,719
or something.

862
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,199
Speaker 1: It's supposed to like listen, this is the thing is

863
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,320
it's supposed to be like pretty great, Like it's supposed

864
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,679
to stop the food noise. It's supposed to be good

865
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:35,400
for people that need to quit other things. Make even

866
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:39,440
maybe smoking, I could maybe I'm maybe I'm adding that,

867
00:46:39,559 --> 00:46:42,239
but I feel I think it is smoking or alcohol something.

868
00:46:42,639 --> 00:46:45,559
I think they do give it to people. Yeah, so

869
00:46:45,599 --> 00:46:48,199
I'm like, well, what's the harm now? I need to

870
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,800
look into it, I know, right, yeah, but then the

871
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:54,519
harm I guess, I don't know. The harm is a

872
00:46:54,559 --> 00:46:56,800
few stuff to stand to it or talk me out

873
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,960
of it, right because I could. Okay, oh here's the

874
00:47:00,079 --> 00:47:03,840
thing I was gonna say, So this drug, so I

875
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,440
went down a freaking rabbit hole. Yeah, okay, good, you

876
00:47:07,519 --> 00:47:09,920
do it. On the research that the friend recommended to

877
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:14,440
me starts it's not oh, zembic, it's not. There's three kinds.

878
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:19,360
There's the manjaro is from the medication that starts with

879
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:26,159
a T like taraza something. Okay. Then there's then there's

880
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:32,760
the uh, the other kind njaros, which okay, Sema glue, tides,

881
00:47:34,119 --> 00:47:37,360
raza whatever. Let's just call it Trapeze. And then there's

882
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,760
this one that the friend of mine can get. It's

883
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,719
a new one that's on the market. Okay, that's supposed

884
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,960
to work even better. Okay, I'm going to tell you

885
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,920
the name of it because I have it in front

886
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:53,599
of me. Hold on. It is called Redda True Dye

887
00:47:53,639 --> 00:47:58,440
Redda Redda True Tide. Okay. So r E t A

888
00:47:58,559 --> 00:48:02,000
t r U t I d Okay, Okay, it's new

889
00:48:02,639 --> 00:48:08,039
and it works supposedly even faster. Right now, that's the

890
00:48:08,039 --> 00:48:10,679
one that I could get really easily for kind of cheap,

891
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,280
and the woman gives you the needles and shows you

892
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,840
how to do it or whatever. But I looked into

893
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:19,599
this one. Here's my biggest fear of these medications. I'm like,

894
00:48:20,039 --> 00:48:23,679
I don't want to feel nervous. I remember taking trying

895
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:25,880
to take Dexa trim in high school and just wanting

896
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,039
to like jump off a building.

897
00:48:27,119 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

898
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: I don't like feeling edgy, nervous, anxious. Do they make

899
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,360
you feel that way? Well, this one. One of the

900
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:38,480
reported side effects is it can make you feel anxious

901
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,119
and it can give you like heart pop up stuff

902
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,199
that shit so right. So I was like, okay, but

903
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,360
then I was comparing side effects for different ones, and

904
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:50,840
the one that does that the least is the Manjaro. Okay,

905
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,800
it's one of the more expensive ones though. Okay. So

906
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,239
I'm like, okay, do I want to bet Are you.

907
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,280
Speaker 2: Supposed to go see a doctor though, to make sure

908
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,880
that you're okay to take these things like get a

909
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,039
test and stuff or no?

910
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,159
Speaker 1: The thing is doctor knock around going to be like, yeah,

911
00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:10,119
I could see why you would want weight loss medication. Oh,

912
00:49:10,199 --> 00:49:12,199
I bet you, doctor knock around, I'll give it to you.

913
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,159
I bet you. I need to make an appointment. Anybody

914
00:49:17,159 --> 00:49:19,519
out there is like, why not just get into therapy,

915
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,599
but it doesn't do a therapy talk. Therapy doesn't really

916
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:28,639
change the feeling like hungry all the time, feeling like

917
00:49:28,679 --> 00:49:32,000
I want sweets. Right, although, Okay, now I know I'm

918
00:49:32,039 --> 00:49:35,280
being crazy. Here's my plan, and you tell me if

919
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:39,199
this sounds correct. When I am really being good about

920
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,920
no sugar, which is the same as not drinking, I

921
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,599
don't have drinking cravings anymore. I quit. If I quit

922
00:49:45,679 --> 00:49:48,960
sugar and really try to stay quit and I go

923
00:49:49,039 --> 00:49:52,480
to the gym, I will probably lose some weight on

924
00:49:52,519 --> 00:49:56,480
my own, okay, because I'm not eating ten brownies in

925
00:49:56,519 --> 00:50:00,599
a sitting. So I should probably try that first. Yeah,

926
00:50:00,639 --> 00:50:03,719
and if I just cannot do without sweets and I

927
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,039
just keep going back, then maybe look into it.

928
00:50:06,079 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: Then yeah, I definitely try that first, of course. But

929
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,960
I don't blame you for wanting to look into it either.

930
00:50:14,119 --> 00:50:17,159
Speaker 1: Because when you see everybody around the people that are

931
00:50:17,199 --> 00:50:20,360
I know, everybody me that are just like want to

932
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lose like ten pounds, fifteen pounds, and they're like doing

933
00:50:23,639 --> 00:50:27,840
it and going it's great, right, Why I feel why

934
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:28,800
do you feel it? I know?

935
00:50:29,199 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 2: I mean again, I have girlfriends that are, like a

936
00:50:32,119 --> 00:50:34,559
year ago, we're saying like, no way, I'm never going

937
00:50:34,639 --> 00:50:36,079
to do that, I'm just gonna go to the gym,

938
00:50:36,119 --> 00:50:38,199
go to the gym whatever, and blah blah blah. Well

939
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,960
here we are a year later and everybody around them

940
00:50:41,039 --> 00:50:43,360
is on it. They went to their doctor and their

941
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,840
doctor was like, yeah, I could give it to if

942
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:48,360
you want, you know, and they legitimately, you know, are

943
00:50:48,519 --> 00:50:52,119
overweight and you know for issues like back, like I said,

944
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,280
knee problems. So they got prescribed and now they're on it.

945
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,119
Speaker 1: See. I feel like I would be being sneaky though

946
00:50:59,199 --> 00:51:01,480
and trying to get it it. You know, do I

947
00:51:01,519 --> 00:51:04,440
want to I don't know, you know what I mean

948
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:07,480
when you're not like I'm not My BMI is not

949
00:51:07,639 --> 00:51:11,760
high enough to like actually get it by like listen,

950
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,679
I went on the websites and I put in my

951
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,679
true weight and they were like, no, oh, that you're

952
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:21,599
not you don't really qualify. Yeah, but I could just

953
00:51:21,679 --> 00:51:23,119
All I would have to do is say I'm a

954
00:51:23,159 --> 00:51:25,519
little bit heavier, and then they would be like great,

955
00:51:26,119 --> 00:51:27,119
I can tried that too.

956
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, I think doctor knock around if

957
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,920
you talk to him about it, tell him your situation.

958
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,760
I bet he would get like a low dose or

959
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:40,480
something like that. You know, I'm not trying to.

960
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: Talk you in or out, but like, yeah, no, I

961
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,000
guess I could ask him about it.

962
00:51:45,079 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 2: I think you're overthinking it too, Like you're you're very

963
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,199
like aware, Yeah, you're very aware though of the you know,

964
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:54,159
the way your brain thinks and the addiction side of you.

965
00:51:54,519 --> 00:51:58,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also you know, I am nearing sixty years old,

966
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,239
which is you know, it's harder to lose weight you're

967
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,760
older and post menopause, and right right now, I start

968
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,760
feeling sorry for myself, like, well, how am I going

969
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,440
to ever? Listen, I go off sugar for three days

970
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:15,280
and I'm like, why am I not finn yet? Right? Yeah?

971
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,920
I must have really slow metabolism. That's why I can't lose, right,

972
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,519
I mean, And it's like, well, no, it's because three

973
00:52:21,599 --> 00:52:23,719
days ago you were eating an entire bag of yogurt

974
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:28,960
covered pretzels. Yeah, and ice cream. Yeah, well ice cream

975
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:32,320
gives me a stomach ache. But I think try to

976
00:52:32,559 --> 00:52:34,760
just keep trying. You're doing it on your own, but

977
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,480
make an appointment, see the doctor and see what he says. Okay,

978
00:52:38,519 --> 00:52:42,000
you're so sane. I wanted to just see what people

979
00:52:42,119 --> 00:52:44,360
if people, Yeah, let's see what they say. Should do it?

980
00:52:44,519 --> 00:52:44,599
Speaker 2: Ye.

981
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,760
Speaker 1: People are going to be like, yeah, you can just

982
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,599
not eat sugar. I don't know what do you seeking? Wow,

983
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:55,280
We's save my help up to you. Yeah. Listen, we

984
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:58,320
did all of our shout outs last week, but we

985
00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:01,079
have the ones that are every week. Adam's got a car,

986
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:05,280
get a car through Adam. He solves problems, is what

987
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,159
he does. He'll figure out the financing for you and

988
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:11,280
tell you where the deals are. He'll do your negotiating.

989
00:53:11,639 --> 00:53:14,559
Adam's got a car. Tell us about Mike.

990
00:53:15,119 --> 00:53:17,519
Speaker 2: Mike. If you need a plumber and you're in the

991
00:53:17,639 --> 00:53:21,639
Maricopa County area in Arizona, give Mike a ringy ding.

992
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,519
Go to drain Surgeons a z like Arizona dot com

993
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and he'll all his informations there. If you mentioned fcl

994
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well he'll give you a big discount. And if you're

995
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:34,920
not in the area and you have plumbing questions, just

996
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:35,880
go there and give him a call.

997
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:40,559
Speaker 1: He'll talk you through it. So check him out. And yeah,

998
00:53:40,639 --> 00:53:42,400
and let's say hi to our Let's say hi to

999
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,159
our beeat Dick frolicking, Nick, you call your girl, Elizabeth.

1000
00:53:46,159 --> 00:53:50,119
Williamson's got a lot of kids, and Rita's we're selling

1001
00:53:50,159 --> 00:53:53,440
them out. Polly, we love your pancakes. Valerie hit sat

1002
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,320
out of the park, kat Areena, check your molar. Gabby

1003
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,079
and Missy well, they're helping Sonny because he's still on

1004
00:53:59,119 --> 00:54:01,199
the ground as we speak. He hasn't taken off.

1005
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 2: So I sent them a in La So I dispatched

1006
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,280
Gabby and Missy to go over there and smuggle him

1007
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off the plane.

1008
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Speaker 1: Nice Ishan voshpe Rebecca newber and she'd go get Sunny

1009
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,760
if she would, because she's so sweet. Yeah, Kelly Brandt,

1010
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:21,559
she she would definitely get an army. Yeah yeah. Alicia

1011
00:54:21,679 --> 00:54:24,039
Escalante from the city. She'd be like, I'm sorry, I'm

1012
00:54:24,159 --> 00:54:27,880
I'm two in it far away. Leslie is still coughing,

1013
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,360
so she'd be like, I COVID. Yah, Aaron is a

1014
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:33,599
dirty Sanchez, Jennifer, get up, Sandra, it's not easy being green.

1015
00:54:33,639 --> 00:54:36,519
And Stephanie, you're a stinker wrinker. We love you guy,

1016
00:54:36,599 --> 00:54:44,119
your parent now, don't f it up. Letting