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Speaker 3: Welcome to positive Bitch Court. Today, I'm going to be
Speaker 3: stating my case on why I believe we should actually
Speaker 3: be more judgmental, we should actually make more judgment calls.
Speaker 2: I know, I know everyone and.
Speaker 3: Their father in this industry loves to just tell us,
Speaker 3: don't judge judgments of a very low vibration. Judgment is
Speaker 3: so ego you need an ego. Death, judgment is separation.
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. We did
Speaker 3: not incarnate as individuals to not express ourselves individually. We
Speaker 3: have an ego for a reason, for a reason. Why
Speaker 3: on God's green earth would the divine give us an
Speaker 3: ability to critically think? If we were not meant to
Speaker 3: critically think? Why would the divine allow us to make
Speaker 3: judgment calls? If we are not meant to make judgment calls.
Speaker 3: We are not a drop in the ocean. We are
Speaker 3: the whole entire ocean in a drop. We incarnated, okay,
Speaker 3: as individuals, okay, on purpose. We came here with our
Speaker 3: own perception, our own intuition, our own moral compass, our
Speaker 3: own lived truth, to make our own reality. If the
Speaker 3: divine really wanted us to be a big mish mash
Speaker 3: patty wash, give a dog a bone. Okay, If that's
Speaker 3: what the divine wanted, we would not have incarnated in
Speaker 3: a way that looks so separate. Now we know the
Speaker 3: love one, we know energetically we're all connected, but we
Speaker 3: incarnated to look separate for good reason. There is purpose
Speaker 3: in everything. The whole entire point of your incarnation of
Speaker 3: this lifetime is to explore your own consciousness, build your
Speaker 3: own opinions, choose your own standards, and develop your own Well,
Speaker 3: this is what's right for me, and this is what's
Speaker 3: not right for me. So when I hear a spiritual
Speaker 3: quote unquote guru, say, don't judge what I hear is,
Speaker 3: don't think for yourself, don't call out distortion, don't trust
Speaker 3: your discernment. Hmm, just merge with the collective. Do what
Speaker 3: I say, and shut up. Actually I won't, I won't.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep talking.
Speaker 3: This just brings me back to Aubrey Marcus saying that
Speaker 3: radical monogamy is some sort of highest vibrational relationship dynamic,
Speaker 3: when really it's just a poly relationship. You can't double
Speaker 3: speak and lie to my face.
Speaker 2: You can't literally change the.
Speaker 3: Definition of a word and tell me it's actually better
Speaker 3: for me when that is distortion. If you want to
Speaker 3: be in a poly relationship, I don't care. Do what
Speaker 3: you want, but do not double speak, Do not change
Speaker 3: the definition of words and then tell very vulnerable people
Speaker 3: that that is actually something that's higher in vibration for them.
Speaker 2: I think this.
Speaker 3: Whole no judgment thing has become a way to brainwash
Speaker 3: people out of their own boundaries, out of their own standards,
Speaker 3: out of their own perception. I think it leads us
Speaker 3: away from discernment, and right now, as we are merging
Speaker 3: into this new Earth, we need discernment more than ever.
Speaker 3: There are counterfeits, there are demonic entities running rampant in
Speaker 3: this realm.
Speaker 2: You need to stay discerned.
Speaker 3: I really think this whole no judgment thing is a
Speaker 3: way for people to swallow anything, to accept anything, to
Speaker 3: normalize anything. How about we stop normalizing everything. How about
Speaker 3: we learn to lean on our own understanding, with the
Speaker 3: divine always by our side, but not just being told
Speaker 3: what we should think, what we should believe.
Speaker 2: What we should do.
Speaker 3: Judgment is not the enemy, and discernment is a survival skill.
Speaker 3: It is spiritual intelligence. It's how we stay safe, sovereign,
Speaker 3: and sane. When I say judgment, I'm not talking about
Speaker 3: sitting on a high horse. I'm not talking about hating
Speaker 3: people or deciding who is worthy of love this or that.
Speaker 3: When I say judgment, I mean discernment. I mean making
Speaker 3: choices that are right or wrong for you. I mean
Speaker 3: saying that this is not something I want to be
Speaker 3: a part of. I mean saying looking at a mirrored
Speaker 3: reflection and saying, you know what, that is distortion. I
Speaker 3: mean setting boundaries. I mean saying no. I'm talking about
Speaker 3: judgment in its highest form, using it to understand what
Speaker 3: works for.
Speaker 2: Us and what does not.
Speaker 3: Judgment in the way I'm talking about is simply the
Speaker 3: moment your soul says, I recognize this pattern. I see
Speaker 3: this distortion, and I know that taking part of in
Speaker 3: it does not honor me. I'm gonna choose something different.
Speaker 2: Again.
Speaker 3: This does not mean we're hating on people, we're telling
Speaker 3: other people how they must live, we're putting them in
Speaker 3: a cage. No, it means we look at circumstance and
Speaker 3: we make judgment calls we use our spiritual intelligence to
Speaker 3: understand what is of the light and what is not.
Speaker 3: I told you I had a very intense meditation where
Speaker 3: I was connecting with the Blessed Mother and she said,
Speaker 3: this is not just a rinky danky school on planet Earth.
Speaker 3: This is a battlefield and it is a realm of
Speaker 3: polarity where there's high vibrational entities and low ones, and
Speaker 3: you gotta stay discerned. Before we get into today's episode, Hello,
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Speaker 3: let's get into it. First, we have to address Deepak Chopra.
Speaker 2: Ooh oohoo.
Speaker 3: This is the perfect example of why discernment matters. Recently,
Speaker 3: unsealed documents from the House Oversight Committee has revealed a
Speaker 3: series of emails between Deepak Chopra and Jeffrey Epstein between
Speaker 3: twenty sixteen and twenty nineteen.
Speaker 2: If you don't know.
Speaker 3: Who Deepak Chopra is, he is maybe one of the
Speaker 3: most influential voices in wellness, in mindset and in meditation.
Speaker 3: I have read his books, I have listened to him speak.
Speaker 2: He is a huge authoritarian.
Speaker 3: Voice in this wellness space. And we now find out
Speaker 3: that he has appeared at least a dozen times in
Speaker 3: Epstein's calendar that he was emailing Epstein back and forth.
Speaker 3: This is why you cannot be worshiping people outside of yourself.
Speaker 2: You don't know who they are.
Speaker 3: The only thing that you should have such reverence for
Speaker 3: is an incended master, like Jesus, like Mary Magdalen, like
Speaker 3: the Blessed Mother, like the Divine.
Speaker 2: That's it. No mere mortal, not even me.
Speaker 3: You can use me as a mirror to help you
Speaker 3: understand yourself.
Speaker 2: But you are your own guru.
Speaker 3: You came here to understand your incarnation through your own lens.
Speaker 2: I'm just a reflection of that.
Speaker 3: I'm just one of those teachers along the way to
Speaker 3: help you understand yourself, just like teachers have done for me.
Speaker 2: But you are your greatest gouru.
Speaker 3: I recently went to a wellness event and I said
Speaker 3: to myself, you know I am not going.
Speaker 2: The tickets were three thousand dollars for three days.
Speaker 3: And I was touring a condo and while I was
Speaker 3: on the balcony, the man where a man, I should say,
Speaker 3: was on the balcony next to me, and we start
Speaker 3: talking and he says, oh, do you live here? And
Speaker 3: I said no, I'm just touring this condo, and he
Speaker 3: said he was in town staying at this place for
Speaker 3: an event, a wellness event that he was going to,
Speaker 3: and I said, oh my god, I was going to
Speaker 3: go there, but it's not really my cup of tea.
Speaker 3: He ends up touring the condo building with me and
Speaker 3: we end up talking and having a great conversation. We're
Speaker 3: in the same industry, it makes sense. The next day,
Speaker 3: I'm out to lunch with one of my friends and
Speaker 3: we were going to go to the farmer's market, but
Speaker 3: then we ended up checking out this new coffee shop,
Speaker 3: and then we wanted to get lunch. We go to
Speaker 3: the bathroom because there's a wait time, and while we're
Speaker 3: in in the bathroom, I start talking to this girl.
Speaker 3: She happens to be part of this wellness event too,
Speaker 3: and she said, oh my gosh, if you just go
Speaker 3: to the hotel and you test drive one of the cars,
Speaker 3: which was down the street, you get a free ticket.
Speaker 3: And I'd said, oh my gosh, the only way I
Speaker 3: would ever go to this event is if I got
Speaker 3: a free ticket. Obviously, the universe wants me there. So
Speaker 3: me and my friend we had a wait time for
Speaker 3: our lunch. So we said, you know what, let's go
Speaker 3: test out this car. We'll get a free ticket, and
Speaker 3: we'll go the last day it's opened, which was on
Speaker 3: a Sunday.
Speaker 2: We test out the car, we get a free ticket.
Speaker 3: He drives us to our lunch reservation, and the next
Speaker 3: day I go and while I'm there, I'm looking around
Speaker 3: and I'm really enjoying it.
Speaker 2: I love meeting people in this space.
Speaker 3: If you came up to me and recognized me, I
Speaker 3: was so happy to meet you. I truly love meeting
Speaker 3: positive bitches in person. It's such an amazing experience and
Speaker 3: I so enjoyed that. But while I was looking around,
Speaker 3: I also saw so much distortion in the people that
Speaker 3: were there. People who were supposed to be in wellness
Speaker 3: and wholeness and leading with love their heart center, who
Speaker 3: were preying on feminine energies. I had multiple men come
Speaker 3: up to me that didn't actually care about wellness or
Speaker 3: psychology or the human body or biohacking.
Speaker 2: They were just hitting on me.
Speaker 3: And I was thinking to myself, you know, I've heard
Speaker 3: so much at this event. I'm constantly hearing men leaders
Speaker 3: in this wellness industry and female leaders to not have judgment.
Speaker 3: And it's really funny because that sort of dynamic where
Speaker 3: there's someone who maybe is a masculine energy or someone
Speaker 3: who's a leader telling you that you shouldn't judge, is
Speaker 3: the exact dynamic someone who wants to have more power
Speaker 3: over you would.
Speaker 2: Want to set up. Hmmm.
Speaker 3: The world loves to place people, these spiritual leaders, these
Speaker 3: masculine energies who maybe have a lot of money or
Speaker 3: have a bunch of businesses. They love to place those
Speaker 3: people on pedestals and call the masters, gurus, ascended ones,
Speaker 3: light leaders, and then we discover that they're actually hitting
Speaker 3: just on everyone. Then we discover they're in Epstein's emails. Hmm.
Speaker 3: I then go meet a man who works at this
Speaker 3: wellness hotel and we start talking about potential for me
Speaker 3: to work with this hotel and possibly doing a seminar
Speaker 3: because I do want to start getting into in person events.
Speaker 3: And he tells me that Deep Pactropra recently did an
Speaker 3: event and he sold out the Hilton and it was
Speaker 3: great and they had all these people and they're going
Speaker 3: to do it again. And I'm thinking that's interesting because
Speaker 3: I literally just heard this morning how he was emailing
Speaker 3: Epstein and I could tell while I was talking with
Speaker 3: this man who works at this wellness hotel, he just
Speaker 3: didn't understand what I was or what I do.
Speaker 2: He didn't know I had.
Speaker 3: A following, he didn't understand that I had a published book.
Speaker 3: I was explaining to him, I'm like a spiritual teacher
Speaker 3: and it's sort of like shamanism. And he was like,
Speaker 3: you know, that's a little too forward. It might not
Speaker 3: be just yet that we can do something with that.
Speaker 3: And I'm thinking, how, oh, okay, so you'll allow someone
Speaker 3: who is Epstein's friend, who's emailing him, who's been to
Speaker 3: his island. But I'm too forward feeling and thinking that's interesting,
Speaker 3: that's distortion. Be so for real, you're not actually wanting
Speaker 3: to go where there's wholeness and healing and light. You're
Speaker 3: just trying to do what is a money grab. It's
Speaker 3: so important that we realize, even in these wellness and
Speaker 3: mindfulness communities, there.
Speaker 2: Is still distortion.
Speaker 3: There are still energies that are not of the highest good,
Speaker 3: and no one and nothing is safer than you trusting
Speaker 3: your own intuition.
Speaker 2: This is why discernment is essential.
Speaker 3: Now I'm so turned off to that place I don't
Speaker 3: want to really work with them anymore because I understand
Speaker 3: who and what they're going for and that doesn't align
Speaker 3: with me. We need to be able to make judgment
Speaker 3: calls to understand how to carve our path.
Speaker 2: We need to be able.
Speaker 3: To understand and see with clear eyes, clear vision, clear hearing,
Speaker 3: to understand where we want to go and where we
Speaker 3: do not want to be a part of. You came
Speaker 3: into this incarnation to carve your own path. How can
Speaker 3: you do that if you're being blinded by other thought
Speaker 3: leaders and forgetting that you yourself are a thought leader.
Speaker 3: I channeled this morning, you are getting a new guide,
Speaker 3: a new teacher. When the student is ready, the teacher
Speaker 3: will appear. Who is your new teacher? It is your
Speaker 3: heart center. You have to be so tuned into your
Speaker 3: own heart that you're able to feel with clarity, that
Speaker 3: you're able to navigate with clarity. Using our head and
Speaker 3: trying to make the best judgment call just with logic isn't.
Speaker 2: Even going to work in the new Earth.
Speaker 3: No, So when I say judgment again, I'm talking about
Speaker 3: judgment in its highest form, not to hate on other people,
Speaker 3: not from just our logical thinking brain, from our heart space.
Speaker 3: Judging through the heart is discernment, It's spiritual intelligence, and
Speaker 3: it is needed because so many of these people that
Speaker 3: you've looked up to, that you've learned so much from,
Speaker 3: are also filled with distortion. Why because they're mere mortals.
Speaker 3: I'm filled with distortion. I always say I will say
Speaker 3: one thing one week, and then the next week, I'm like, Uh,
Speaker 3: turns out I'm a hypocrite. Why because I'm also a human.
Speaker 3: I'm also learning. We are in this together. We are
Speaker 3: in the trenches together, in this battle field that is
Speaker 3: planet Earth. Okay, we need more intuitive leaders, not more
Speaker 3: leaders who are so obsessed with circumstance, with money, with fame.
Speaker 3: Just oh gosh, I'm so happy that in this New Earth,
Speaker 3: all of these leaders crashing down and we're having a
Speaker 3: new wave of people that lead from the heart. I
Speaker 3: recently had a lunch with someone who really understands the
Speaker 3: wellness industry, and it was just so nice to have
Speaker 3: lunch with a woman who gets it and gets me
Speaker 3: and sees me clearly. And she said, you know, we
Speaker 3: really need intuitive guides like you in hotels and spas
Speaker 3: to really help guests actually connect to themselves when they're
Speaker 3: taking a break.
Speaker 2: Maybe they need to meditate.
Speaker 3: More, or journal more, or do breath work, or maybe
Speaker 3: they just want to talk to an intuitive channel. And
Speaker 3: she said, you know, you would be perfect for that,
Speaker 3: And as soon as she said it, I just felt
Speaker 3: in my soul, Yes, that's exactly what we need.
Speaker 2: I'll never forget.
Speaker 3: For my college graduation, I did a retreat where I
Speaker 3: met my first shaman and it changed my life. And
Speaker 3: I still connect with that shaman all the time now
Speaker 3: to help me when I need help.
Speaker 2: And I wish I knew about that sooner. I wish
Speaker 2: that was more mainstream. We don't need.
Speaker 3: More of this sterile polish guru. Don't judge fake Instagram followers.
Speaker 2: Oh god, it's so gross, this marketed pr stunts of
Speaker 2: the runt.
Speaker 3: No, what we need, honestly is more authenticity, more discernment,
Speaker 3: more intuition, more pattern recognition, more psychic clarity, and energetic literacy.
Speaker 2: We need people who.
Speaker 3: Can actually help us navigate the mind, body, spirit, not
Speaker 3: just people who know how to sell out a Hilton.
Speaker 2: What a thought, what a concept.
Speaker 3: I didn't use my castor oil pack for about a
Speaker 3: week and a half.
Speaker 2: I just felt like I needed.
Speaker 3: A break and I realized so much anger came up
Speaker 3: for me. Castor oil on your liver at least that's
Speaker 3: what my pack does, and the liver is known for
Speaker 3: storing your anger. And I think I needed to get
Speaker 3: more in touch with my anger to have more understanding
Speaker 3: around my own life and incarnation. I got really angry
Speaker 3: this week. And you guys know, I'm a lover girl.
Speaker 3: I get a little emotional emo girl, but I really
Speaker 3: am not an angry soul.
Speaker 2: I get sad, I get anxious, but not angry. Last week, girl,
Speaker 2: I was angry. I had a man.
Speaker 3: He kept touching me and I kept being like, dude,
Speaker 3: stop touching me, Like, stop touching me. I went to
Speaker 3: a rodeo. There was a guy sitting next to me.
Speaker 3: I kept moving to my right and he kept moving closer,
Speaker 3: and I was like what the f Like, why does
Speaker 3: this keep happening? And then at this wellness event, this
Speaker 3: man came up to me, came so close to my
Speaker 3: personal space. I was super comfortable. I kept backing away
Speaker 3: and I am thinking to myself, why does this keep
Speaker 3: happening where people keep infiltrating my personal space? Now my
Speaker 3: coding for my body according to my face because I
Speaker 3: have a high brow. I learn discernment through distance. I
Speaker 3: don't like people getting too close to me. I don't
Speaker 3: like someone infiltrating my space. I even when I date people,
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, bye, I'll see you later, unless I
Speaker 3: really really love them. Most of them I have to
Speaker 3: disconnect from. I need my solitude, I need my alone time.
Speaker 3: It's why my business works best. Also on Zoom, I
Speaker 3: have discernment. I have knowing through distance. So if you
Speaker 3: have a high brow on your face, it means you
Speaker 3: like to learn discernment through distance. If you have a
Speaker 3: lot of eyelid showing, it means that you don't want
Speaker 3: to hear the whole entire story necessarily, you don't want
Speaker 3: every single little detail. You just want the bottom line.
Speaker 3: If you have less eyelid showing, it means that you
Speaker 3: do want to know everything. You want the full picture.
Speaker 3: I have a wider face, which is a face that
Speaker 3: shows authority, whereas a skinny face is more representing, like
Speaker 3: a deer in headlights. It's so interesting how our physical
Speaker 3: vessel can tell us so much about ourselves, and it's
Speaker 3: something maybe to think about with you, but for me,
Speaker 3: I have that highbrow. I like discernment through distance. I
Speaker 3: don't want anyone too close to me.
Speaker 2: I have been dating this guy, and the fact.
Speaker 3: I allowed him in my space and I allowed him
Speaker 3: to watch me take off my makeup was huge. That
Speaker 3: men I actually liked him. That's how I know. That's
Speaker 3: how I know. Also, I like to see how people
Speaker 3: show up when I'm not physically near them. If you
Speaker 3: don't get to hug me, kiss me, how do you
Speaker 3: show up? Are you still texting me first every morning?
Speaker 2: Are you calling me? Or you facetiming me? How? What
Speaker 2: do you do? How do you operate? I want to see.
Speaker 2: So if you're like me, you'll understand that.
Speaker 3: If I were to just let any man touch me,
Speaker 3: if I were to allow just any man in my
Speaker 3: physical space or even woman, and I don't judge it,
Speaker 3: that is not me being honorable to myself.
Speaker 2: That is not me standing up for myself. That is
Speaker 2: not me.
Speaker 3: Looking and feeling into my own vessel, which is what
Speaker 3: I came here to do. In that moment where the
Speaker 3: guy kept coming closer and I literally had to tell him,
Speaker 3: you gotta get your hands off of me. I don't
Speaker 3: want you touching me. That was a judgment call I
Speaker 3: had to make I didn't judge for my head. I
Speaker 3: judge from my heart. This doesn't feel good to me.
Speaker 3: I need to speak up for myself. It's not respectful
Speaker 3: to do that to someone when they don't like it.
Speaker 3: It didn't feel safe and it wasn't welcomed in my field.
Speaker 3: And it's not me being me and me even being judgmental.
Speaker 3: It's me having discernment and speaking up for myself. My
Speaker 3: body is not available for anyone to just touch or infiltrate, penetrate,
Speaker 3: or be too close to and it is up to
Speaker 3: us to express our boundaries. Now that might be different
Speaker 3: than me, and maybe they don't know that. I don't
Speaker 3: like someone so close to me. So if I have
Speaker 3: to say something, that's fine. But if I have to
Speaker 3: repeat myself, that tells me even more this person doesn't
Speaker 3: get it. Me and my friend were talking about this
Speaker 3: and she said, you know, one thing we can say
Speaker 3: is do you notice how I've been backing away from you?
Speaker 3: Do you notice how I keep creating physical space from you?
Speaker 3: Do you notice how I am uncomfortable?
Speaker 2: Because her whole theory is that she doesn't think men
Speaker 2: even know, And I said, that's.
Speaker 3: Probably true because men don't really understand the female experience.
Speaker 2: How could they. They're not a female.
Speaker 3: They're not a female right now in this incarnation, So
Speaker 3: maybe they don't understand what it is to be a female.
Speaker 3: Maybe they don't understand what it is to be me.
Speaker 3: And I don't blame them for that because they're not
Speaker 3: me and I don't understand everything about them. So I
Speaker 3: don't mind if I have to say something, but if
Speaker 3: I have to repeat myself, I need to understand who
Speaker 3: you are. And even when I saw this guy's instagram,
Speaker 3: who I met, who kept touching me, I saw, damn
Speaker 3: not all that glitters is gold. Once again, I could
Speaker 3: see the narcissistic entity in him just on his instagram.
Speaker 3: I could see how he is really not who he
Speaker 3: thinks he is, and I can see through it. And
Speaker 3: if I don't make that judgment call, I don't use discernment,
Speaker 3: who's gonna get left over?
Speaker 2: Oh right me?
Speaker 3: Part of your spiritual journey and gift is discernment. That
Speaker 3: is a gift that is from God. You have to
Speaker 3: stay discerned, judging through your heart, making judgment calls through
Speaker 3: your heart so you can protect yourself, not out of
Speaker 3: fear but out of self love and devotion.
Speaker 2: This is discernment.
Speaker 3: This is naming what is happening in front of you,
Speaker 3: instead of gaslighting yourself. Who does that help to allow
Speaker 3: other people to cross your boundaries? Who does that help
Speaker 3: to tell yourself it's not that bad, it's not that bad.
Speaker 3: I'm so uncomfortable, but it's not that bad. It only allows.
Speaker 2: A perpetrator to perpetrate. It only allows a bad person
Speaker 2: to do bad things. You must stay in.
Speaker 3: That judgment from love and devotion and honor. You must
Speaker 3: stay in that discernment to be able to navigate, to
Speaker 3: see clearly, to understand, to understand. If everything is good
Speaker 3: and nothing is good, how are we supposed to know anything?
Speaker 2: How are we supposed to know anything?
Speaker 3: It also doesn't make sense when one of the energetic
Speaker 3: laws of this realm is polarity, which means embedded in
Speaker 3: this realm is light and dark. You're telling me we're
Speaker 3: not supposed to understand light versus dark. You're telling me
Speaker 3: we're supposed to ignore light versus dark. That doesn't make
Speaker 3: any sense. We have to stay discerned so we can
Speaker 3: see clearly. That is why I ask God every single day,
Speaker 3: God give me eyes to see, ears to hear, in
Speaker 3: a heartful of discernment, so I can know clearly, clearly.
Speaker 2: I realize.
Speaker 3: I am angry at people cross seeing my boundaries. I
Speaker 3: am angry at people who are sloppy with their power.
Speaker 3: I'm angry at leaders who take advantage of it. I'm
Speaker 3: angry at these people who cannot keep their shit together
Speaker 3: and who are bleeding on other people. I'm angry at
Speaker 3: people taking advantage of vulnerable souls. I'm angry at people
Speaker 3: saying they're one thing when really they're something else. I'm
Speaker 3: angry at these narcissistic men trying to act like they're not,
Speaker 3: like they really have it altogether, when they don't and
Speaker 3: they're insecure and they're lonely. I am angry, and I'm
Speaker 3: tired of it, and I'm sorry to say this, but
Speaker 3: I gotta be honest. I'm angry that us as women
Speaker 3: are not doing anything about it. I'm angry that we're falling,
Speaker 3: even at myself sometimes. And shame doesn't help, obviously, so whatever,
Speaker 3: chuck it in the bucket. But I am angry that
Speaker 3: I haven't said anything sooner. And I you know, I
Speaker 3: was upset that I didn't stand up for myself at
Speaker 3: first in ways that could have been more powerful. And
Speaker 3: I was angry at myself for just not walking away.
Speaker 3: I think because when I was out, I'm just gonna
Speaker 3: call this well, can I call this man? What was
Speaker 3: about him? Anything about him that was interesting? Not really,
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna call it weekend man.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: When I met weekend man, I would take breaks, like
Speaker 3: I would go to the bathroom. I would go back
Speaker 3: checking out my friends. I would go have a conversation
Speaker 3: with one of my girlfriends. I kept leaving the conversation
Speaker 3: because I really didn't want to be there. But then
Speaker 3: I would kept going back because he kept pulling me over,
Speaker 3: calling me over. And you know, I should have ended
Speaker 3: it sooner, or maybe not should have, but maybe I
Speaker 3: can say, you know, I learned from that situation, and
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be hyper critical of myself, but
Speaker 3: I am going to judge the situation. I am gonna
Speaker 3: look at it because I need to look at it
Speaker 3: to learn. I kept putting myself in an uncomfortable position.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to strip myself of my power. I
Speaker 3: allowed myself to be near him. I kept going back.
Speaker 3: That is true, and nothing really happened, but I felt
Speaker 3: like my boundaries were And next time, I'm gonna be
Speaker 3: harsher and I'm going to be more clear, and I'm
Speaker 3: going to ask, do you notice that I keep moving
Speaker 3: away from you? Do you notice that I'm visibly uncomfortable?
Speaker 3: Or are you so engrossed within yourself, so obsessed with
Speaker 3: yourself that you can't see me at all? And I
Speaker 3: think that's really what makes me so mad. You're so
Speaker 3: obsessed with your own experience, with what you want, what
Speaker 3: you're liking, because you're looking at me, that you're not
Speaker 3: even conscientious of how I'm feeling.
Speaker 2: And if you're trying to.
Speaker 3: Get to know me, you want to maybe take me
Speaker 3: out on a date, you should be trying to learn me.
Speaker 3: Nothing illegal happened between me and weekend man. Nothing illegal
Speaker 3: happened at the wellness event. But I felt the distortion.
Speaker 3: I felt the distortion in my fields. I felt weirdness,
Speaker 3: I felt misalignment, I felt uncomfortable energy, uncomfortable, parasitic judgment
Speaker 3: in these moments looks like I see this, I feel this,
Speaker 3: and I'm not going to pretend like everything is fine
Speaker 3: when I don't feel like it's fine. I had a
Speaker 3: dream once that there was this woman on stage, and
Speaker 3: I might butcher this a little bit because I don't
Speaker 3: remember it exactly, but she was talking and there were
Speaker 3: so many people in the crowd, and someone turned around
Speaker 3: at me and they had huge black eyes, scary negative
Speaker 3: entity type of eyes. And then I looked at the
Speaker 3: woman on stage, and then she had the eyes, and
Speaker 3: I realized he was hypnotizing everyone in the space, and
Speaker 3: I ran out. The devil knows to go to the
Speaker 3: top of the food chain because it's the easiest way
Speaker 3: to infiltrate millions of people. The devil knows to go
Speaker 3: to the most powerful person, the CEO, the priest, the
Speaker 3: top of the top, because he knows that if he
Speaker 3: can infiltrate that powerful leader, it will have a trickle
Speaker 3: down effect on everybody else. The devil knows how to
Speaker 3: get more bang for his buck. We need to have judgment,
Speaker 3: to understand where there's darkness, where there is distortion, not
Speaker 3: to just go.
Speaker 2: Along with it.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, think about every cult leader. What do
Speaker 3: they want? They want no one judging them. They want compliance.
Speaker 2: I feel that a lot of these people.
Speaker 3: Just want our compliance. They want to be seen as Ooh,
Speaker 3: I'm so mystical, and I'm this goobu and I'm amazing.
Speaker 3: Now you're not You're a person, You're a human. You're
Speaker 3: no better than me. They're no better than you. If
Speaker 3: we want to be a positive bitch, a babe in
Speaker 3: true connection with herself, himself, human self, we deserve to
Speaker 3: be sovereign. We deserve to judge what we will accept,
Speaker 3: what we will walk away from, and what we will
Speaker 3: call out as distortion. We are not here to be
Speaker 3: polite at the expense of our own power, our own heart.
Speaker 3: There is nothing spiritual about tolerating behavior that makes your
Speaker 3: skin crawl. There is nothing high vibrational about letting someone
Speaker 3: cross your boundaries. There is nothing loving about silence when
Speaker 3: someone is being predatory, manipulative, or sloppy. Okay, And that's
Speaker 3: why we need to be able to make judgment calls.
Speaker 3: If you refuse to judge what you see, you're refusing
Speaker 3: to protect yourself. There are souls that are predatory towards children.
Speaker 3: Should we not judge that? Should we act like everything's fine?
Speaker 3: Should we ignore that?
Speaker 2: Of course not.
Speaker 3: We are meant to use critical thinking, our frontal lobe discernment,
Speaker 3: judgment through the heart center, to know what is right
Speaker 3: and what is wrong, to see polarity, the light and
Speaker 3: the dark.
Speaker 2: It's there, whether you want to acknowledge it or not.
Speaker 2: It's there.
Speaker 3: You want to put those blinders on, you want to
Speaker 3: listen to these people who tell you, no judgment, go off.
Speaker 3: It's your incarnation, that's that's up to you. I want
Speaker 3: to invite you, though, to see, to not just look,
Speaker 3: but to see what's in front of you, because praying
Speaker 3: on children is.
Speaker 2: Not a lifestyle. It's not a spectrum of some sort.
Speaker 2: It's not love. It's predatory behavior. It's wrong.
Speaker 3: And you can quote me on that Balenciaga's campaign, remember
Speaker 3: that wrong. I will never buy anything from Balenciaga.
Speaker 2: Mark my words.
Speaker 3: Some things should not be normalized because they're wrong, because
Speaker 3: they're distorted, they're inverted, they're filled with darkness. Some things
Speaker 3: you should judge. Some things require the full force of
Speaker 3: your intuition. That's saying no, this is dangerous, this is sick,
Speaker 3: this is not okay. Judgment is clarity, it's protection, it
Speaker 3: is sovereignty. Anyone who tries to erase your individuality, your
Speaker 3: critical thinking, your ability to freethink, whether.
Speaker 2: It's the church or a predator. I don't care.
Speaker 3: Maybe sometimes these things are very close. Something's wrong, something's wrong.
Speaker 3: Remember part of the reason I called this podcast that
Speaker 3: bitch is positive. Sometimes you need to be a bitch.
Speaker 3: And that doesn't mean just being connected to yourself. That's
Speaker 3: the biggest part of it. But it also means saying no,
Speaker 3: this is wrong, and it means using judgment. I want
Speaker 3: to bring this home for you. Okay, how do we
Speaker 3: use discernment judgment in actual life?
Speaker 2: You recognize your.
Speaker 3: Own voice, your heart speaking to you. Notice your bodily wisdom.
Speaker 3: What feels like a yes? What feels like a no?
Speaker 3: What situations people teachings leave you feeling smaller, confused, drained,
Speaker 3: just icky.
Speaker 2: That's no, that's a no. You need to listen to that.
Speaker 3: Stop waiting for some externalized queue to tell you what
Speaker 3: direction to go into. So many of us have been
Speaker 3: trained to ask to go to the bathroom, to ask
Speaker 3: if we can do this or that that. We have
Speaker 3: been trained to listen to something outside of ourselves to tell.
Speaker 2: Us what to do.
Speaker 3: Your queue comes from inside of the house. It's through
Speaker 3: your heart center. You have to create your standards, decide
Speaker 3: what you are available and what you're not available for.
Speaker 3: We command wanted to call me at ten thirty pm.
Speaker 2: I'm not answering.
Speaker 3: The coolest thing about your reality is you get to
Speaker 3: provoke access to you whenever you want. Decide what you
Speaker 3: are and are not available for, and love, friendships, work, spirituality.
Speaker 3: Write it down if you have to. This is what
Speaker 3: I will allow people to do in my life. This
Speaker 3: is how I allow people to speak to me. This
Speaker 3: is how I expect to be treated. This is a
Speaker 3: non negotiable for me.
Speaker 2: People love to.
Speaker 3: Come up to me and tell me their whole entire
Speaker 3: life story for at least thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: I'm no longer available to that.
Speaker 3: Instead of me just standing there, sitting there uncomfortable, and
Speaker 3: then being late to my next appointment, I now say,
Speaker 3: I am so honored to have this connection with you,
Speaker 3: but I truly do have to go. Maybe we need
Speaker 3: some certain liners. Do you notice that you're get really
Speaker 3: close to me and I keep backing up. Let's bring
Speaker 3: awareness to the situation. We're not gonna hate them off
Speaker 3: the back because maybe they don't know, Maybe they don't
Speaker 3: know how we operate, they don't know what it is
Speaker 3: to be a woman. But we're at least gonna say something.
Speaker 3: We need to bring awareness to first how we're feeling,
Speaker 3: and then we need.
Speaker 2: To verbalize it.
Speaker 3: Use your discernment, inspect, feel, decide when something or someone
Speaker 3: feels off. Don't gaslight yourself. Don't wait for some three
Speaker 3: D confirmation. Ask what am I seeing here? What am
Speaker 3: I feeling? What does my intuition know?
Speaker 2: What do I want to say?
Speaker 3: Then decide from that place, not from fear of being judgmental.
Speaker 3: Set healthy boundaries with people, content, teachers, energy, and follow
Speaker 3: accounts that make you feel like shit. Stop going to
Speaker 3: classes that energetically drain you or make you feel slimy.
Speaker 2: Listen to those voices when.
Speaker 3: You don't want to be touched, when you don't think
Speaker 3: something's funny, when something doesn't feel right. Do not default
Speaker 3: to what everyone's trying to tell you, which is everything's okay.
Speaker 3: Accept everything no, because that itself is distortion. Some things
Speaker 3: need to be loved, some things need to be healed,
Speaker 3: and some things need to be walked away from and
Speaker 3: called out. Radical acceptance does not mean you hand your
Speaker 3: power to people who are actively harming you or others,
Speaker 3: because those who want more power are going to take
Speaker 3: your power away by telling you to not judge. Okay,
Speaker 3: as a babe and true connection with herself, we see clearly,
Speaker 3: we name what we see, and we choose and decide accordingly.
Speaker 3: This is your spiritual practice and this is actually your
Speaker 3: protection spell. So my hot take is judge more. Not
Speaker 3: from a place of hatred, not from a place of
Speaker 3: ego superiority, not from a place of I know better
Speaker 3: than you and you suck. It's from a place of
Speaker 3: self respect and energetic intelligence. You incarnated here to have opinions.
Speaker 3: You incarnated to have discernment. You incarnated to see through
Speaker 3: your own perception. Incarnate need to have a spine of
Speaker 3: voice and a moral compass.
Speaker 2: You came here to be you.
Speaker 3: Not to dissolve in a blob of just a random collective.
Speaker 3: If someone doesn't like that, okay, not your problem. If
Speaker 3: someone doesn't like what I'm saying again, that's also not
Speaker 3: my problem. This is my podcast, my voice, this is
Speaker 3: my lived experience and intuition. You can click off if
Speaker 3: you would like to. But if you are feeling called
Speaker 3: to step more into your power, get my books, show
Speaker 3: up as her, and learn not how.
Speaker 2: To be me, but how to be more you.
Speaker 3: Get the Shadow Alchemy course not to learn how to
Speaker 3: be me, but to learn how to be you. The
Speaker 3: whole entire point here is to get back into yourself,
Speaker 3: not someone else, not anybody else. That's why even celebrity
Speaker 3: culture really distorted, really distorted. You came here to be you,
Speaker 3: to see through your eyes, to hear through your ears.
Speaker 3: The path is always to choose yourself and to listen
Speaker 3: to yourself. If this podcast episode resonated with you, please
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Speaker 3: and I'm intending to do that this year. I love
Speaker 3: seeing your comments in the section where comments are to
Speaker 3: be had, even if I don't respond to them. I
Speaker 3: love just reading them and knowing that you're there and
Speaker 3: you're in this with me, and you're feeling the things
Speaker 3: that I'm feeling.
Speaker 2: Because the Lord, we need.
Speaker 3: Each other to get through this. Like I said, we're
Speaker 3: in the trenches together. The Sparkle and me as always
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