WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.280 --> 00:00:10.400 Andenogy cancel, I'm so high ecstasyag cancelge. 2 00:00:14.160 --> 00:00:21.480 Not sorry, andogy. 3 00:00:19.359 --> 00:00:22.359 Welcome to positive Bitch Court. Today, I'm going to be 4 00:00:22.399 --> 00:00:26.039 stating my case on why I believe we should actually 5 00:00:26.079 --> 00:00:30.960 be more judgmental, we should actually make more judgment calls. 6 00:00:31.359 --> 00:00:33.880 I know, I know everyone and. 7 00:00:33.840 --> 00:00:37.320 Their father in this industry loves to just tell us, 8 00:00:38.359 --> 00:00:46.200 don't judge judgments of a very low vibration. Judgment is 9 00:00:46.359 --> 00:00:49.560 so ego you need an ego. Death, judgment is separation. 10 00:00:49.719 --> 00:00:53.399 Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. We did 11 00:00:53.479 --> 00:01:00.439 not incarnate as individuals to not express ourselves individually. We 12 00:01:00.560 --> 00:01:06.079 have an ego for a reason, for a reason. Why 13 00:01:06.359 --> 00:01:09.719 on God's green earth would the divine give us an 14 00:01:09.799 --> 00:01:13.040 ability to critically think? If we were not meant to 15 00:01:13.120 --> 00:01:17.439 critically think? Why would the divine allow us to make 16 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:22.480 judgment calls? If we are not meant to make judgment calls. 17 00:01:22.680 --> 00:01:24.359 We are not a drop in the ocean. We are 18 00:01:24.359 --> 00:01:29.159 the whole entire ocean in a drop. We incarnated, okay, 19 00:01:29.480 --> 00:01:35.319 as individuals, okay, on purpose. We came here with our 20 00:01:35.319 --> 00:01:40.439 own perception, our own intuition, our own moral compass, our 21 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:45.760 own lived truth, to make our own reality. If the 22 00:01:45.799 --> 00:01:48.680 divine really wanted us to be a big mish mash 23 00:01:48.719 --> 00:01:52.239 patty wash, give a dog a bone. Okay, If that's 24 00:01:52.239 --> 00:01:56.439 what the divine wanted, we would not have incarnated in 25 00:01:56.480 --> 00:01:59.359 a way that looks so separate. Now we know the 26 00:01:59.400 --> 00:02:02.719 love one, we know energetically we're all connected, but we 27 00:02:02.959 --> 00:02:07.439 incarnated to look separate for good reason. There is purpose 28 00:02:07.840 --> 00:02:12.919 in everything. The whole entire point of your incarnation of 29 00:02:12.960 --> 00:02:18.199 this lifetime is to explore your own consciousness, build your 30 00:02:18.240 --> 00:02:22.840 own opinions, choose your own standards, and develop your own Well, 31 00:02:22.879 --> 00:02:25.400 this is what's right for me, and this is what's 32 00:02:25.479 --> 00:02:29.479 not right for me. So when I hear a spiritual 33 00:02:29.639 --> 00:02:35.599 quote unquote guru, say, don't judge what I hear is, 34 00:02:36.879 --> 00:02:41.360 don't think for yourself, don't call out distortion, don't trust 35 00:02:41.360 --> 00:02:46.439 your discernment. Hmm, just merge with the collective. Do what 36 00:02:46.520 --> 00:02:52.639 I say, and shut up. Actually I won't, I won't. 37 00:02:52.719 --> 00:02:54.000 I'm gonna keep talking. 38 00:02:54.280 --> 00:02:58.159 This just brings me back to Aubrey Marcus saying that 39 00:02:58.439 --> 00:03:04.879 radical monogamy is some sort of highest vibrational relationship dynamic, 40 00:03:04.919 --> 00:03:09.159 when really it's just a poly relationship. You can't double 41 00:03:09.240 --> 00:03:10.919 speak and lie to my face. 42 00:03:11.280 --> 00:03:13.199 You can't literally change the. 43 00:03:13.159 --> 00:03:16.199 Definition of a word and tell me it's actually better 44 00:03:16.280 --> 00:03:22.120 for me when that is distortion. If you want to 45 00:03:22.159 --> 00:03:24.319 be in a poly relationship, I don't care. Do what 46 00:03:24.360 --> 00:03:26.479 you want, but do not double speak, Do not change 47 00:03:26.520 --> 00:03:29.439 the definition of words and then tell very vulnerable people 48 00:03:29.759 --> 00:03:33.360 that that is actually something that's higher in vibration for them. 49 00:03:34.000 --> 00:03:34.680 I think this. 50 00:03:34.599 --> 00:03:37.719 Whole no judgment thing has become a way to brainwash 51 00:03:37.800 --> 00:03:41.280 people out of their own boundaries, out of their own standards, 52 00:03:41.560 --> 00:03:44.199 out of their own perception. I think it leads us 53 00:03:44.240 --> 00:03:47.680 away from discernment, and right now, as we are merging 54 00:03:47.719 --> 00:03:51.759 into this new Earth, we need discernment more than ever. 55 00:03:52.520 --> 00:03:57.319 There are counterfeits, there are demonic entities running rampant in 56 00:03:57.360 --> 00:03:58.080 this realm. 57 00:03:58.240 --> 00:03:59.879 You need to stay discerned. 58 00:04:00.800 --> 00:04:03.319 I really think this whole no judgment thing is a 59 00:04:03.319 --> 00:04:06.039 way for people to swallow anything, to accept anything, to 60 00:04:06.120 --> 00:04:11.280 normalize anything. How about we stop normalizing everything. How about 61 00:04:11.319 --> 00:04:14.800 we learn to lean on our own understanding, with the 62 00:04:14.840 --> 00:04:18.399 divine always by our side, but not just being told 63 00:04:18.519 --> 00:04:20.160 what we should think, what we should believe. 64 00:04:19.879 --> 00:04:20.560 What we should do. 65 00:04:22.240 --> 00:04:27.199 Judgment is not the enemy, and discernment is a survival skill. 66 00:04:27.279 --> 00:04:31.439 It is spiritual intelligence. It's how we stay safe, sovereign, 67 00:04:31.560 --> 00:04:35.120 and sane. When I say judgment, I'm not talking about 68 00:04:35.160 --> 00:04:38.399 sitting on a high horse. I'm not talking about hating 69 00:04:38.439 --> 00:04:41.639 people or deciding who is worthy of love this or that. 70 00:04:41.680 --> 00:04:45.439 When I say judgment, I mean discernment. I mean making 71 00:04:45.519 --> 00:04:48.680 choices that are right or wrong for you. I mean 72 00:04:48.800 --> 00:04:50.920 saying that this is not something I want to be 73 00:04:51.000 --> 00:04:54.160 a part of. I mean saying looking at a mirrored 74 00:04:54.199 --> 00:04:57.319 reflection and saying, you know what, that is distortion. I 75 00:04:57.480 --> 00:05:02.079 mean setting boundaries. I mean saying no. I'm talking about 76 00:05:02.279 --> 00:05:07.680 judgment in its highest form, using it to understand what 77 00:05:08.079 --> 00:05:08.639 works for. 78 00:05:08.639 --> 00:05:09.600 Us and what does not. 79 00:05:10.120 --> 00:05:13.160 Judgment in the way I'm talking about is simply the 80 00:05:13.240 --> 00:05:16.240 moment your soul says, I recognize this pattern. I see 81 00:05:16.240 --> 00:05:19.319 this distortion, and I know that taking part of in 82 00:05:19.360 --> 00:05:23.079 it does not honor me. I'm gonna choose something different. 83 00:05:23.399 --> 00:05:23.720 Again. 84 00:05:23.759 --> 00:05:25.959 This does not mean we're hating on people, we're telling 85 00:05:25.959 --> 00:05:28.199 other people how they must live, we're putting them in 86 00:05:28.240 --> 00:05:33.040 a cage. No, it means we look at circumstance and 87 00:05:33.120 --> 00:05:36.639 we make judgment calls we use our spiritual intelligence to 88 00:05:36.920 --> 00:05:40.079 understand what is of the light and what is not. 89 00:05:40.680 --> 00:05:44.879 I told you I had a very intense meditation where 90 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:47.160 I was connecting with the Blessed Mother and she said, 91 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:51.480 this is not just a rinky danky school on planet Earth. 92 00:05:51.519 --> 00:05:54.279 This is a battlefield and it is a realm of 93 00:05:54.319 --> 00:05:57.600 polarity where there's high vibrational entities and low ones, and 94 00:05:57.639 --> 00:06:02.360 you gotta stay discerned. Before we get into today's episode, Hello, 95 00:06:02.480 --> 00:06:03.079 how are you? 96 00:06:03.720 --> 00:06:05.000 What's up? Positive bitches? 97 00:06:05.199 --> 00:06:09.399 Truly, how are you doing today? On That Bitch's Positive Podcast. 98 00:06:09.480 --> 00:06:11.759 Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, Baby, We're gonna cry, 99 00:06:12.040 --> 00:06:14.279 but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered 100 00:06:14.319 --> 00:06:16.720 positive bitch self that is Babe and true connection with 101 00:06:16.800 --> 00:06:20.800 herself himself human self. On this podcast, we unbecome who 102 00:06:20.800 --> 00:06:23.079 we are not so we can fully step into exactly 103 00:06:23.120 --> 00:06:25.319 who he came here to be. If you've not yet 104 00:06:25.360 --> 00:06:27.319 gotten your copy of Show Up as Her, this is 105 00:06:27.360 --> 00:06:30.439 my book where I give you ten laws on positive Bitchology. 106 00:06:30.759 --> 00:06:33.279 That is my own curriculum to help you get back 107 00:06:33.279 --> 00:06:37.160 home to yourself and magnetize whatever it is you want. 108 00:06:37.639 --> 00:06:41.639 I really encourage you to take my shadow Alchemy course 109 00:06:42.160 --> 00:06:45.439 right now in this season, before we get into this 110 00:06:45.519 --> 00:06:48.560 new year, really allow yourself to shed all of that 111 00:06:48.639 --> 00:06:51.879 older programming so you can step into your highest timeline. 112 00:06:52.399 --> 00:06:55.839 I am offering ten minute recorded readings DM me on 113 00:06:55.920 --> 00:06:59.000 Instagram the word reading, and I'm going to be having 114 00:06:59.079 --> 00:07:03.160 a special Black Friday sale coming up next week for 115 00:07:03.639 --> 00:07:06.439 Black Friday on some of my packages. 116 00:07:06.759 --> 00:07:09.120 If you're interested in working on one on one. 117 00:07:09.000 --> 00:07:11.680 With me, shoot me a DM saying one on one 118 00:07:12.160 --> 00:07:17.000 and ask me about this special Black Friday sale. Okay, 119 00:07:17.959 --> 00:07:21.639 let's get into it. First, we have to address Deepak Chopra. 120 00:07:22.319 --> 00:07:23.759 Ooh oohoo. 121 00:07:24.439 --> 00:07:29.199 This is the perfect example of why discernment matters. Recently, 122 00:07:29.639 --> 00:07:34.560 unsealed documents from the House Oversight Committee has revealed a 123 00:07:34.639 --> 00:07:39.480 series of emails between Deepak Chopra and Jeffrey Epstein between 124 00:07:39.480 --> 00:07:41.360 twenty sixteen and twenty nineteen. 125 00:07:41.720 --> 00:07:42.519 If you don't know. 126 00:07:42.399 --> 00:07:46.199 Who Deepak Chopra is, he is maybe one of the 127 00:07:46.240 --> 00:07:51.560 most influential voices in wellness, in mindset and in meditation. 128 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:55.560 I have read his books, I have listened to him speak. 129 00:07:55.920 --> 00:08:00.199 He is a huge authoritarian. 130 00:07:59.279 --> 00:08:03.959 Voice in this wellness space. And we now find out 131 00:08:04.079 --> 00:08:07.920 that he has appeared at least a dozen times in 132 00:08:07.959 --> 00:08:14.199 Epstein's calendar that he was emailing Epstein back and forth. 133 00:08:15.879 --> 00:08:20.759 This is why you cannot be worshiping people outside of yourself. 134 00:08:21.160 --> 00:08:23.199 You don't know who they are. 135 00:08:24.199 --> 00:08:29.240 The only thing that you should have such reverence for 136 00:08:30.079 --> 00:08:33.799 is an incended master, like Jesus, like Mary Magdalen, like 137 00:08:33.799 --> 00:08:35.639 the Blessed Mother, like the Divine. 138 00:08:36.279 --> 00:08:38.639 That's it. No mere mortal, not even me. 139 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:41.559 You can use me as a mirror to help you 140 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:43.240 understand yourself. 141 00:08:43.200 --> 00:08:44.840 But you are your own guru. 142 00:08:44.960 --> 00:08:48.840 You came here to understand your incarnation through your own lens. 143 00:08:50.200 --> 00:08:51.759 I'm just a reflection of that. 144 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:54.919 I'm just one of those teachers along the way to 145 00:08:54.960 --> 00:08:57.720 help you understand yourself, just like teachers have done for me. 146 00:08:58.559 --> 00:09:00.960 But you are your greatest gouru. 147 00:09:02.360 --> 00:09:05.919 I recently went to a wellness event and I said 148 00:09:05.960 --> 00:09:07.840 to myself, you know I am not going. 149 00:09:08.120 --> 00:09:10.879 The tickets were three thousand dollars for three days. 150 00:09:11.399 --> 00:09:15.320 And I was touring a condo and while I was 151 00:09:15.360 --> 00:09:19.440 on the balcony, the man where a man, I should say, 152 00:09:20.240 --> 00:09:22.120 was on the balcony next to me, and we start 153 00:09:22.159 --> 00:09:24.320 talking and he says, oh, do you live here? And 154 00:09:24.360 --> 00:09:27.039 I said no, I'm just touring this condo, and he 155 00:09:27.080 --> 00:09:31.279 said he was in town staying at this place for 156 00:09:31.679 --> 00:09:34.240 an event, a wellness event that he was going to, 157 00:09:34.399 --> 00:09:35.879 and I said, oh my god, I was going to 158 00:09:35.960 --> 00:09:37.639 go there, but it's not really my cup of tea. 159 00:09:38.080 --> 00:09:41.000 He ends up touring the condo building with me and 160 00:09:41.039 --> 00:09:44.279 we end up talking and having a great conversation. We're 161 00:09:44.320 --> 00:09:47.679 in the same industry, it makes sense. The next day, 162 00:09:47.759 --> 00:09:49.759 I'm out to lunch with one of my friends and 163 00:09:50.080 --> 00:09:52.080 we were going to go to the farmer's market, but 164 00:09:52.120 --> 00:09:54.639 then we ended up checking out this new coffee shop, 165 00:09:54.679 --> 00:09:56.559 and then we wanted to get lunch. We go to 166 00:09:56.600 --> 00:09:59.879 the bathroom because there's a wait time, and while we're 167 00:09:59.879 --> 00:10:01.919 in in the bathroom, I start talking to this girl. 168 00:10:02.200 --> 00:10:04.600 She happens to be part of this wellness event too, 169 00:10:05.120 --> 00:10:07.519 and she said, oh my gosh, if you just go 170 00:10:07.720 --> 00:10:11.039 to the hotel and you test drive one of the cars, 171 00:10:11.039 --> 00:10:13.919 which was down the street, you get a free ticket. 172 00:10:14.440 --> 00:10:17.159 And I'd said, oh my gosh, the only way I 173 00:10:17.159 --> 00:10:19.120 would ever go to this event is if I got 174 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:22.320 a free ticket. Obviously, the universe wants me there. So 175 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:24.200 me and my friend we had a wait time for 176 00:10:24.279 --> 00:10:26.639 our lunch. So we said, you know what, let's go 177 00:10:26.720 --> 00:10:28.799 test out this car. We'll get a free ticket, and 178 00:10:28.879 --> 00:10:30.799 we'll go the last day it's opened, which was on 179 00:10:30.840 --> 00:10:31.360 a Sunday. 180 00:10:32.320 --> 00:10:34.440 We test out the car, we get a free ticket. 181 00:10:34.559 --> 00:10:39.039 He drives us to our lunch reservation, and the next 182 00:10:39.120 --> 00:10:43.919 day I go and while I'm there, I'm looking around 183 00:10:43.960 --> 00:10:45.159 and I'm really enjoying it. 184 00:10:45.200 --> 00:10:46.840 I love meeting people in this space. 185 00:10:47.000 --> 00:10:49.559 If you came up to me and recognized me, I 186 00:10:49.759 --> 00:10:53.000 was so happy to meet you. I truly love meeting 187 00:10:53.480 --> 00:10:58.679 positive bitches in person. It's such an amazing experience and 188 00:10:58.919 --> 00:11:01.440 I so enjoyed that. But while I was looking around, 189 00:11:02.000 --> 00:11:05.720 I also saw so much distortion in the people that 190 00:11:05.799 --> 00:11:08.519 were there. People who were supposed to be in wellness 191 00:11:08.559 --> 00:11:12.240 and wholeness and leading with love their heart center, who 192 00:11:12.279 --> 00:11:16.360 were preying on feminine energies. I had multiple men come 193 00:11:16.440 --> 00:11:21.080 up to me that didn't actually care about wellness or 194 00:11:21.679 --> 00:11:24.879 psychology or the human body or biohacking. 195 00:11:25.519 --> 00:11:26.960 They were just hitting on me. 196 00:11:27.679 --> 00:11:31.720 And I was thinking to myself, you know, I've heard 197 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:35.720 so much at this event. I'm constantly hearing men leaders 198 00:11:35.879 --> 00:11:40.399 in this wellness industry and female leaders to not have judgment. 199 00:11:40.519 --> 00:11:46.200 And it's really funny because that sort of dynamic where 200 00:11:46.240 --> 00:11:50.159 there's someone who maybe is a masculine energy or someone 201 00:11:50.200 --> 00:11:53.600 who's a leader telling you that you shouldn't judge, is 202 00:11:53.679 --> 00:11:57.080 the exact dynamic someone who wants to have more power 203 00:11:57.200 --> 00:11:58.879 over you would. 204 00:11:58.639 --> 00:12:00.879 Want to set up. Hmmm. 205 00:12:01.960 --> 00:12:07.279 The world loves to place people, these spiritual leaders, these 206 00:12:08.039 --> 00:12:11.360 masculine energies who maybe have a lot of money or 207 00:12:11.399 --> 00:12:13.879 have a bunch of businesses. They love to place those 208 00:12:13.879 --> 00:12:17.799 people on pedestals and call the masters, gurus, ascended ones, 209 00:12:18.039 --> 00:12:21.840 light leaders, and then we discover that they're actually hitting 210 00:12:22.000 --> 00:12:26.679 just on everyone. Then we discover they're in Epstein's emails. Hmm. 211 00:12:27.279 --> 00:12:30.159 I then go meet a man who works at this 212 00:12:30.279 --> 00:12:33.720 wellness hotel and we start talking about potential for me 213 00:12:33.799 --> 00:12:38.759 to work with this hotel and possibly doing a seminar 214 00:12:38.840 --> 00:12:42.559 because I do want to start getting into in person events. 215 00:12:42.960 --> 00:12:47.960 And he tells me that Deep Pactropra recently did an 216 00:12:47.960 --> 00:12:51.159 event and he sold out the Hilton and it was 217 00:12:51.320 --> 00:12:53.320 great and they had all these people and they're going 218 00:12:53.360 --> 00:12:56.759 to do it again. And I'm thinking that's interesting because 219 00:12:56.799 --> 00:12:59.519 I literally just heard this morning how he was emailing 220 00:12:59.559 --> 00:13:02.919 Epstein and I could tell while I was talking with 221 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:06.039 this man who works at this wellness hotel, he just 222 00:13:06.080 --> 00:13:08.519 didn't understand what I was or what I do. 223 00:13:09.000 --> 00:13:09.759 He didn't know I had. 224 00:13:09.679 --> 00:13:12.279 A following, he didn't understand that I had a published book. 225 00:13:13.080 --> 00:13:15.799 I was explaining to him, I'm like a spiritual teacher 226 00:13:16.559 --> 00:13:19.440 and it's sort of like shamanism. And he was like, 227 00:13:19.480 --> 00:13:21.440 you know, that's a little too forward. It might not 228 00:13:21.559 --> 00:13:23.799 be just yet that we can do something with that. 229 00:13:24.600 --> 00:13:28.440 And I'm thinking, how, oh, okay, so you'll allow someone 230 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:33.360 who is Epstein's friend, who's emailing him, who's been to 231 00:13:33.399 --> 00:13:38.440 his island. But I'm too forward feeling and thinking that's interesting, 232 00:13:38.559 --> 00:13:42.759 that's distortion. Be so for real, you're not actually wanting 233 00:13:42.799 --> 00:13:45.480 to go where there's wholeness and healing and light. You're 234 00:13:45.639 --> 00:13:50.120 just trying to do what is a money grab. It's 235 00:13:50.159 --> 00:13:53.399 so important that we realize, even in these wellness and 236 00:13:53.480 --> 00:13:55.120 mindfulness communities, there. 237 00:13:55.080 --> 00:13:55.960 Is still distortion. 238 00:13:56.559 --> 00:13:59.799 There are still energies that are not of the highest good, 239 00:14:00.320 --> 00:14:03.039 and no one and nothing is safer than you trusting 240 00:14:03.080 --> 00:14:04.600 your own intuition. 241 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:07.200 This is why discernment is essential. 242 00:14:07.279 --> 00:14:09.480 Now I'm so turned off to that place I don't 243 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:12.600 want to really work with them anymore because I understand 244 00:14:12.679 --> 00:14:15.039 who and what they're going for and that doesn't align 245 00:14:15.240 --> 00:14:18.799 with me. We need to be able to make judgment 246 00:14:18.840 --> 00:14:21.000 calls to understand how to carve our path. 247 00:14:21.399 --> 00:14:22.919 We need to be able. 248 00:14:22.639 --> 00:14:26.799 To understand and see with clear eyes, clear vision, clear hearing, 249 00:14:27.200 --> 00:14:29.440 to understand where we want to go and where we 250 00:14:29.559 --> 00:14:32.840 do not want to be a part of. You came 251 00:14:32.879 --> 00:14:36.120 into this incarnation to carve your own path. How can 252 00:14:36.159 --> 00:14:38.759 you do that if you're being blinded by other thought 253 00:14:38.840 --> 00:14:43.039 leaders and forgetting that you yourself are a thought leader. 254 00:14:43.559 --> 00:14:46.279 I channeled this morning, you are getting a new guide, 255 00:14:46.320 --> 00:14:49.320 a new teacher. When the student is ready, the teacher 256 00:14:49.360 --> 00:14:52.320 will appear. Who is your new teacher? It is your 257 00:14:52.440 --> 00:14:55.960 heart center. You have to be so tuned into your 258 00:14:56.039 --> 00:15:00.639 own heart that you're able to feel with clarity, that 259 00:15:00.759 --> 00:15:05.480 you're able to navigate with clarity. Using our head and 260 00:15:05.519 --> 00:15:09.440 trying to make the best judgment call just with logic isn't. 261 00:15:09.240 --> 00:15:10.720 Even going to work in the new Earth. 262 00:15:10.919 --> 00:15:14.200 No, So when I say judgment again, I'm talking about 263 00:15:14.279 --> 00:15:17.639 judgment in its highest form, not to hate on other people, 264 00:15:18.080 --> 00:15:21.799 not from just our logical thinking brain, from our heart space. 265 00:15:22.159 --> 00:15:26.679 Judging through the heart is discernment, It's spiritual intelligence, and 266 00:15:26.879 --> 00:15:29.960 it is needed because so many of these people that 267 00:15:30.000 --> 00:15:32.320 you've looked up to, that you've learned so much from, 268 00:15:32.720 --> 00:15:37.159 are also filled with distortion. Why because they're mere mortals. 269 00:15:37.360 --> 00:15:41.440 I'm filled with distortion. I always say I will say 270 00:15:41.480 --> 00:15:43.440 one thing one week, and then the next week, I'm like, Uh, 271 00:15:43.600 --> 00:15:47.039 turns out I'm a hypocrite. Why because I'm also a human. 272 00:15:47.440 --> 00:15:51.440 I'm also learning. We are in this together. We are 273 00:15:51.480 --> 00:15:55.879 in the trenches together, in this battle field that is 274 00:15:56.000 --> 00:16:03.440 planet Earth. Okay, we need more intuitive leaders, not more 275 00:16:03.559 --> 00:16:10.559 leaders who are so obsessed with circumstance, with money, with fame. 276 00:16:10.840 --> 00:16:13.679 Just oh gosh, I'm so happy that in this New Earth, 277 00:16:14.120 --> 00:16:17.720 all of these leaders crashing down and we're having a 278 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:20.440 new wave of people that lead from the heart. I 279 00:16:20.519 --> 00:16:24.399 recently had a lunch with someone who really understands the 280 00:16:24.399 --> 00:16:28.200 wellness industry, and it was just so nice to have 281 00:16:28.279 --> 00:16:30.879 lunch with a woman who gets it and gets me 282 00:16:31.080 --> 00:16:33.960 and sees me clearly. And she said, you know, we 283 00:16:34.000 --> 00:16:37.440 really need intuitive guides like you in hotels and spas 284 00:16:37.519 --> 00:16:40.919 to really help guests actually connect to themselves when they're 285 00:16:40.919 --> 00:16:41.759 taking a break. 286 00:16:42.120 --> 00:16:43.960 Maybe they need to meditate. 287 00:16:43.519 --> 00:16:46.200 More, or journal more, or do breath work, or maybe 288 00:16:46.240 --> 00:16:48.759 they just want to talk to an intuitive channel. And 289 00:16:48.799 --> 00:16:50.840 she said, you know, you would be perfect for that, 290 00:16:51.600 --> 00:16:53.759 And as soon as she said it, I just felt 291 00:16:53.799 --> 00:16:56.039 in my soul, Yes, that's exactly what we need. 292 00:16:56.480 --> 00:16:57.360 I'll never forget. 293 00:16:57.480 --> 00:17:00.159 For my college graduation, I did a retreat where I 294 00:17:00.200 --> 00:17:02.559 met my first shaman and it changed my life. And 295 00:17:02.600 --> 00:17:05.400 I still connect with that shaman all the time now 296 00:17:05.440 --> 00:17:06.799 to help me when I need help. 297 00:17:07.400 --> 00:17:10.359 And I wish I knew about that sooner. I wish 298 00:17:10.440 --> 00:17:13.799 that was more mainstream. We don't need. 299 00:17:14.200 --> 00:17:20.279 More of this sterile polish guru. Don't judge fake Instagram followers. 300 00:17:20.480 --> 00:17:26.519 Oh god, it's so gross, this marketed pr stunts of 301 00:17:26.559 --> 00:17:27.079 the runt. 302 00:17:27.279 --> 00:17:33.559 No, what we need, honestly is more authenticity, more discernment, 303 00:17:33.599 --> 00:17:38.079 more intuition, more pattern recognition, more psychic clarity, and energetic literacy. 304 00:17:38.759 --> 00:17:39.680 We need people who. 305 00:17:39.640 --> 00:17:44.039 Can actually help us navigate the mind, body, spirit, not 306 00:17:44.119 --> 00:17:46.039 just people who know how to sell out a Hilton. 307 00:17:47.440 --> 00:17:49.200 What a thought, what a concept. 308 00:17:49.440 --> 00:17:52.880 I didn't use my castor oil pack for about a 309 00:17:52.920 --> 00:17:53.599 week and a half. 310 00:17:53.640 --> 00:17:54.960 I just felt like I needed. 311 00:17:54.680 --> 00:17:58.319 A break and I realized so much anger came up 312 00:17:58.319 --> 00:18:01.640 for me. Castor oil on your liver at least that's 313 00:18:01.680 --> 00:18:03.839 what my pack does, and the liver is known for 314 00:18:04.000 --> 00:18:07.160 storing your anger. And I think I needed to get 315 00:18:07.200 --> 00:18:11.599 more in touch with my anger to have more understanding 316 00:18:11.680 --> 00:18:16.960 around my own life and incarnation. I got really angry 317 00:18:17.000 --> 00:18:19.880 this week. And you guys know, I'm a lover girl. 318 00:18:19.960 --> 00:18:24.400 I get a little emotional emo girl, but I really 319 00:18:24.480 --> 00:18:25.799 am not an angry soul. 320 00:18:26.480 --> 00:18:31.920 I get sad, I get anxious, but not angry. Last week, girl, 321 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:37.880 I was angry. I had a man. 322 00:18:38.039 --> 00:18:43.079 He kept touching me and I kept being like, dude, 323 00:18:43.240 --> 00:18:46.079 stop touching me, Like, stop touching me. I went to 324 00:18:46.160 --> 00:18:47.880 a rodeo. There was a guy sitting next to me. 325 00:18:48.079 --> 00:18:50.960 I kept moving to my right and he kept moving closer, 326 00:18:51.480 --> 00:18:53.680 and I was like what the f Like, why does 327 00:18:53.720 --> 00:18:56.400 this keep happening? And then at this wellness event, this 328 00:18:56.440 --> 00:18:58.480 man came up to me, came so close to my 329 00:18:58.519 --> 00:19:02.039 personal space. I was super comfortable. I kept backing away 330 00:19:02.079 --> 00:19:05.119 and I am thinking to myself, why does this keep 331 00:19:05.160 --> 00:19:10.160 happening where people keep infiltrating my personal space? Now my 332 00:19:10.559 --> 00:19:13.640 coding for my body according to my face because I 333 00:19:13.640 --> 00:19:17.440 have a high brow. I learn discernment through distance. I 334 00:19:17.440 --> 00:19:20.599 don't like people getting too close to me. I don't 335 00:19:20.680 --> 00:19:24.960 like someone infiltrating my space. I even when I date people, 336 00:19:24.960 --> 00:19:27.880 I'm like, okay, bye, I'll see you later, unless I 337 00:19:27.920 --> 00:19:30.039 really really love them. Most of them I have to 338 00:19:30.079 --> 00:19:33.640 disconnect from. I need my solitude, I need my alone time. 339 00:19:34.200 --> 00:19:37.640 It's why my business works best. Also on Zoom, I 340 00:19:37.680 --> 00:19:41.079 have discernment. I have knowing through distance. So if you 341 00:19:41.200 --> 00:19:44.680 have a high brow on your face, it means you 342 00:19:44.880 --> 00:19:48.440 like to learn discernment through distance. If you have a 343 00:19:48.480 --> 00:19:51.759 lot of eyelid showing, it means that you don't want 344 00:19:51.759 --> 00:19:54.160 to hear the whole entire story necessarily, you don't want 345 00:19:54.160 --> 00:19:56.599 every single little detail. You just want the bottom line. 346 00:19:56.920 --> 00:19:59.680 If you have less eyelid showing, it means that you 347 00:19:59.720 --> 00:20:03.480 do want to know everything. You want the full picture. 348 00:20:04.160 --> 00:20:06.559 I have a wider face, which is a face that 349 00:20:06.599 --> 00:20:10.519 shows authority, whereas a skinny face is more representing, like 350 00:20:10.559 --> 00:20:14.640 a deer in headlights. It's so interesting how our physical 351 00:20:14.759 --> 00:20:17.480 vessel can tell us so much about ourselves, and it's 352 00:20:17.480 --> 00:20:20.359 something maybe to think about with you, but for me, 353 00:20:20.640 --> 00:20:23.799 I have that highbrow. I like discernment through distance. I 354 00:20:23.799 --> 00:20:25.279 don't want anyone too close to me. 355 00:20:26.240 --> 00:20:29.799 I have been dating this guy, and the fact. 356 00:20:29.559 --> 00:20:31.920 I allowed him in my space and I allowed him 357 00:20:31.960 --> 00:20:34.559 to watch me take off my makeup was huge. That 358 00:20:34.599 --> 00:20:37.599 men I actually liked him. That's how I know. That's 359 00:20:37.640 --> 00:20:41.079 how I know. Also, I like to see how people 360 00:20:41.200 --> 00:20:43.319 show up when I'm not physically near them. If you 361 00:20:43.319 --> 00:20:45.400 don't get to hug me, kiss me, how do you 362 00:20:45.440 --> 00:20:47.640 show up? Are you still texting me first every morning? 363 00:20:47.680 --> 00:20:49.680 Are you calling me? Or you facetiming me? How? What 364 00:20:49.759 --> 00:20:53.000 do you do? How do you operate? I want to see. 365 00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:54.960 So if you're like me, you'll understand that. 366 00:20:56.200 --> 00:20:59.480 If I were to just let any man touch me, 367 00:20:59.480 --> 00:21:01.440 if I were to allow just any man in my 368 00:21:01.480 --> 00:21:04.960 physical space or even woman, and I don't judge it, 369 00:21:05.759 --> 00:21:08.640 that is not me being honorable to myself. 370 00:21:08.720 --> 00:21:10.960 That is not me standing up for myself. That is 371 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:11.480 not me. 372 00:21:12.960 --> 00:21:17.000 Looking and feeling into my own vessel, which is what 373 00:21:17.119 --> 00:21:20.400 I came here to do. In that moment where the 374 00:21:20.400 --> 00:21:23.240 guy kept coming closer and I literally had to tell him, 375 00:21:23.240 --> 00:21:25.079 you gotta get your hands off of me. I don't 376 00:21:25.079 --> 00:21:29.279 want you touching me. That was a judgment call I 377 00:21:29.319 --> 00:21:30.960 had to make I didn't judge for my head. I 378 00:21:31.000 --> 00:21:33.119 judge from my heart. This doesn't feel good to me. 379 00:21:33.240 --> 00:21:36.440 I need to speak up for myself. It's not respectful 380 00:21:36.480 --> 00:21:38.640 to do that to someone when they don't like it. 381 00:21:38.640 --> 00:21:41.279 It didn't feel safe and it wasn't welcomed in my field. 382 00:21:41.720 --> 00:21:45.839 And it's not me being me and me even being judgmental. 383 00:21:45.920 --> 00:21:49.880 It's me having discernment and speaking up for myself. My 384 00:21:50.119 --> 00:21:54.640 body is not available for anyone to just touch or infiltrate, penetrate, 385 00:21:54.880 --> 00:21:57.240 or be too close to and it is up to 386 00:21:57.400 --> 00:22:01.160 us to express our boundaries. Now that might be different 387 00:22:01.279 --> 00:22:03.319 than me, and maybe they don't know that. I don't 388 00:22:03.359 --> 00:22:04.880 like someone so close to me. So if I have 389 00:22:04.960 --> 00:22:07.160 to say something, that's fine. But if I have to 390 00:22:07.200 --> 00:22:11.160 repeat myself, that tells me even more this person doesn't 391 00:22:11.400 --> 00:22:14.480 get it. Me and my friend were talking about this 392 00:22:14.680 --> 00:22:17.640 and she said, you know, one thing we can say 393 00:22:17.799 --> 00:22:21.079 is do you notice how I've been backing away from you? 394 00:22:21.640 --> 00:22:24.640 Do you notice how I keep creating physical space from you? 395 00:22:25.160 --> 00:22:28.000 Do you notice how I am uncomfortable? 396 00:22:28.480 --> 00:22:31.680 Because her whole theory is that she doesn't think men 397 00:22:31.759 --> 00:22:33.599 even know, And I said, that's. 398 00:22:33.440 --> 00:22:39.960 Probably true because men don't really understand the female experience. 399 00:22:40.000 --> 00:22:42.119 How could they. They're not a female. 400 00:22:42.160 --> 00:22:44.400 They're not a female right now in this incarnation, So 401 00:22:44.440 --> 00:22:47.319