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<v Speaker 1>Stuck at home, bored and alone. You'd think I could

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<v Speaker 1>have some fun on my own, but not all. I

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<v Speaker 1>AF with Cecily and Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up, everybody, Welcome to board AF just regular, just

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<v Speaker 2>chilling like villain's like Bob.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Matt Dylan or Bob Dylan. I go with Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Dylan only because I feel that he's more chill than

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<v Speaker 1>Bob Dylan. Bob Dylan is not super chill.

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<v Speaker 2>I I feel, I feel that that's you probably are

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<v Speaker 2>onto something there, h.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think he's not the chillest I think he's.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's funnier than people give him credit for.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a funny funny. He is a very funny man.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I really, I told you my my Bob

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<v Speaker 2>Dylan story, h.

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<v Speaker 1>I have. You've probably forgotten it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like not super exciting, but what I do think

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<v Speaker 2>is interesting about it. So when I first moved to

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<v Speaker 2>Los Angeles, remember I told you that I was living Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I moved in with this girl that had been living

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<v Speaker 2>in She was my best friend when I lived in Spokane, Washington.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I moved to Springfield, mass And like, I missed

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<v Speaker 2>her so much.

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<v Speaker 1>So so much.

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<v Speaker 2>And uh, you know, we were planning like as soon

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<v Speaker 2>as we graduate high school, like I'm going to move

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<v Speaker 2>to LA and she's going to be in LA and

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to live together.

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<v Speaker 1>That's our big plan. So moved to La.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I didn't know anybody. We were supposed to say,

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<v Speaker 2>at my friend's aunt's house. But her aunt, it turns out,

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<v Speaker 2>was a bit of an alcoholic maybe maybe drug addict.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they were kind of coming back to me

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<v Speaker 1>now is coming back to me a little.

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<v Speaker 2>And so immediately we were almost like displaced, like she

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<v Speaker 2>would take the phone with her. And remember this around

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<v Speaker 2>the time that I got almost got involved in the

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<v Speaker 2>cult in the Nomeo Coler Yeah Orange ko Okay. So

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<v Speaker 2>right at that time though literally had been was staying

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<v Speaker 2>at this at my friend's ant's house. We heard somehow

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<v Speaker 2>that they were filming a music video at that big

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<v Speaker 2>church on Franklin and Highland, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, the big church people park they're going to the

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<v Speaker 1>Hollywood Bowl, and they really up those prices at that church.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for parking, it's like fifty bucks, yes, yeah, totally okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So that church was having a music video. So I

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<v Speaker 2>don't remember, like I guess somebody had seen it in

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<v Speaker 2>the paper.

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<v Speaker 1>So me and my two and.

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<v Speaker 2>The girl and the girl that I brought with me

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<v Speaker 2>Heidi who was seventeen, who I brought with me from Springfield,

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<v Speaker 2>mass and the girl that we were staying at our

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<v Speaker 2>aunt's house. The three of us got dressed up full

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<v Speaker 2>eighties because it was the eighties, big hair, whatever, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're like, we're going to show up and be in

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<v Speaker 2>this music video.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was Bob Dylan and Dave Dave Edwards Dave

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<v Speaker 1>Edwards from Your Rhythmics, Okay, doing a song called when

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<v Speaker 1>the Night Comes Falling from this guy? Is this is

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<v Speaker 1>this story coming back to you? Noe? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Weirdly, So they did this collab back before they even

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<v Speaker 2>called them collabs. I think they just did a song

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<v Speaker 2>together and they were making the video and it was

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<v Speaker 2>at this church and it was supposed to look like

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a concert, so we were like concert goers.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just remember being.

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<v Speaker 2>Like sort of like, Okay, you're going to go stand

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<v Speaker 2>in front of the stage and then you're gonna here's

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<v Speaker 2>the part where you're gonna cheer wildly, you know. And

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<v Speaker 2>there was this one scene where the girl there's like

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<v Speaker 2>a hot girl in the video Allah like Courtney.

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<v Speaker 1>Cox, you know, the guest star.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and she comes down like like one of

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<v Speaker 2>them is supposed to spot her in the crowd, and

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<v Speaker 2>then she comes like the crowd kind of parts for her,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's this There were all these places where I

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<v Speaker 2>I was making myself like I would try to be

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<v Speaker 2>wherever somebody was going to walk by me. I was

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<v Speaker 2>hell bent on being in this motherfucking video. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be on camera, and I am, but.

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<v Speaker 1>For like the split like a split second, you can

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<v Speaker 1>totally see me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I remember I must have talked about this on

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<v Speaker 2>either on our show or for crying out loud, because

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<v Speaker 2>I found the video and frozen to where I was.

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<v Speaker 1>You can still see this video online. But anyway, that

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<v Speaker 1>is not even the exciting part of the story. We

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<v Speaker 1>had to do this over and over and over and

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<v Speaker 1>and over and over all day. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I had only lived in La for you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>two days. So when I parked my car, I was like, gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>There's just so much parking available. Well, because I parked

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<v Speaker 2>in a towway zone. Okay, so this is a big

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<v Speaker 2>spoiler alert. I just parked my car. I'm like, gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>there's just like sidewalk for days.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just part Yeah. You can park where it's red,

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<v Speaker 1>where it's white, where it's pink.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I didn't park in the red. I don't believe

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<v Speaker 2>I parked in a red spot. But I parked somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>that was like a no parking zone without reading a side.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't read signs because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was I don't know why they didn't have a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of no parking signs in Springfield. I guess anyway, I

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<v Speaker 2>parked the car. We're there all day. We're there for

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<v Speaker 2>like twelve hours. I come out at the end, my

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<v Speaker 2>car is gone, and I'm like, okay, where I must

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<v Speaker 2>have mistaken where I parked. But we went back and forth,

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<v Speaker 2>we looked all around. I was like, no, this is

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<v Speaker 2>where I parked. So I literally call the police because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, my car was stolen, and I go to

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<v Speaker 2>say I was like, oh my god, my car and

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<v Speaker 2>all of my shit is in the car. All of

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<v Speaker 2>my life because I lived, all my stuff was stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Stuff was in the hatchback of my Masa GLC. My

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<v Speaker 2>travelers checks were in the car, balked in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, oh my god, I mean, my life

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<v Speaker 2>is flashing before my eye. I call the police. I'm crying.

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<v Speaker 2>The police person goes, what does the sign say.

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<v Speaker 1>Like where we were parked?

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<v Speaker 2>And I look and I read it and it's like

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<v Speaker 2>a tow way zone or what different. They're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>your car was towed. And I'm like, pork pops.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. They're like, you hear the siren, you hear you

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<v Speaker 1>see oj Goby and they're like, hold on a second,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be back. He just goes by in his Bronco

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<v Speaker 1>and he's like, I got to take care of this

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<v Speaker 1>called real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>So the sign, yes, exactly exactly. So we're standing there,

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<v Speaker 2>me and my me and my friends, and I guess

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't quite remember it exactly this way, but

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<v Speaker 2>Bob Dylan pulls over in a limo because my friend

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<v Speaker 2>was super into him and like, you know, remembers every

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<v Speaker 2>part of this, and he was like, hey, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you guys? Okay? Okay, yes, my god, Hey he's good.

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<v Speaker 1>How you go? I was like, okay, did you get

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<v Speaker 1>your cut? Limo?

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<v Speaker 2>In a limo rolls down the window and for like

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<v Speaker 2>gray poupon style you know, was just like and I guess,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess we were just I was very shell shocked.

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<v Speaker 2>So Heidi says that I was very preoccupied with like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, the car is gone. And of course

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<v Speaker 2>Heidi was younger and didn't give a fuck as much.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was also Bob Dylan is rolling his window down.

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<v Speaker 2>Like she was way more excited about that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, what, No, we're fine. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I feel just embarrassed to ask him for a

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<v Speaker 2>ride to like the towyard.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you a ride to the toe, please. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>write a song about it on the way. Yes, not

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<v Speaker 1>as amazing. So I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I've said in the past that like the movie Funny,

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<v Speaker 2>people like there's a big part about me. I just

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen the biopic about him, but I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 2>that there's a big part about me in it.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it was you. I knew it was you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a hole. He's like, you just did my video

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're like not even looking at him. Whoever's

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<v Speaker 1>playing you? Right, you were played by Aubrey Plaza again,

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<v Speaker 1>and then then your friend, and then the friend weirdly

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<v Speaker 1>is played by me. I never told you that that

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the biopic A Complete Unknown and I

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<v Speaker 1>play your friends. So I was like, I know a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about the story. Let me, let me just

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<v Speaker 1>method act this. And I never wanted to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, what if she doesn't like the

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<v Speaker 1>way I played her friend? It's a old thing. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a whole thing. Also, I have a similar story.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yes, it's very embarrassing. I'm definitely not the

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<v Speaker 1>hero of the story I'm about to tell you, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and very rarely am. But in this case, I was

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<v Speaker 1>dating a guy who lived with me. You didn't, you

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<v Speaker 1>never met him. But I was dating this guy who

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<v Speaker 1>we lived together and I have yeah, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>We were together like three years and lived together for

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<v Speaker 1>like a year and a half, and I have a

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<v Speaker 1>parking space and he didn't. Oh and it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of not know that you lived together for a full

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<v Speaker 1>year and a half. Oh yeah, yeah, at least hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to hear a noise. That's me plugging in

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<v Speaker 1>my top that I didn't plug in all night. I

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<v Speaker 1>just told the it's going to be worth it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be worth it. Me out for a second, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell the audience while you're busy for a

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<v Speaker 1>second that I last time we were talking about a biopic,

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<v Speaker 1>I called it a biopic.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I also did that, I think when I

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<v Speaker 2>was talking to Lynnette. And it's one of those things

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<v Speaker 2>that you will stand up for me, because it's one

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<v Speaker 2>of those things that I guess I just hadn't noticed

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<v Speaker 2>people saying that word out loud, and I just read

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<v Speaker 2>it a lot, and I got so much shit for

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<v Speaker 2>calling it a biopic instead of a biopic. And and

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<v Speaker 2>then I was speaking to somebody else. I was interviewing

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<v Speaker 2>somebody for Drunkish, and that person referred to a biopick

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<v Speaker 2>as a biopic, and I did not correct them, but

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<v Speaker 2>I felt so strangely like better about myself because this

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<v Speaker 2>was a very smart person, like college educated.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's an easy mistake, and I think there's

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<v Speaker 1>probably an argument that it could be both because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a word, like what our I'm not even joking

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<v Speaker 1>about that, like what are letters? Who decides? I say,

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<v Speaker 1>biopica's like a biography picture right, a biopic? It's a biopic, whatevers.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't I'm not done on that hill.

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<v Speaker 2>I say it's like myopic, you know, like you're you're

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<v Speaker 2>short sighted.

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<v Speaker 1>I just make a whole yeah, okay, damn it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're living with this guy. So I'm living with

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<v Speaker 1>him and he doesn't have a parking space and I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And it kind of was sucky because I never really

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<v Speaker 1>he did have a pickup truck, which sucks to have

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<v Speaker 1>giant pickup truck. Giant. Why did think that? I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I never knew. And I fucking hated that truck. I

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<v Speaker 1>in his own head. We would we would argue a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we went on a trip together. That was the trick.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to take me home to meet his family,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he's like, I'm getting the tickets and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>a hotel, he was planning all that. But he's not

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you want planning things like it's not that

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<v Speaker 1>fun because you're like, do you have the tickets? He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, like you're halfway to the airport. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>he's not the guy. And then we'd argue because then

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be the bossy type a because somebody asked.

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<v Speaker 2>To you don't have the tickets, so meaning like I

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<v Speaker 2>forgot the tickets, or like I forgot to buy the tickets.

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<v Speaker 1>Period, different different versions of that early seriously, and nothing

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<v Speaker 1>was ever really he had great intentions and a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice it's a really nice person that just like was

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<v Speaker 1>like absent minded professor guy, you know. So he would

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes and also so it sucked to park this giant car.

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<v Speaker 1>So one day he came home or he was leaving,

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<v Speaker 1>I was home and he left to go and then

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<v Speaker 1>he came back really quick, and I'm like, what's up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was checking my email exactly when this happened.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, my car has gone. My car's been stolen.

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<v Speaker 1>So he'd left it somewhere on our street overnight and

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<v Speaker 1>then it wasn't there when he went to go get

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<v Speaker 1>it in the morning. He's like, my car was stolen.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my god. Okay, well, what do we do.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to call the police. He's like okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So he starts to call the police. And as he's

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<v Speaker 1>calling the police, I went ahead and checked my email

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<v Speaker 1>because I was already doing that. So as I checked

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<v Speaker 1>my email.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, okay, but I also might have like an

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<v Speaker 2>offer on my contract.

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<v Speaker 1>What's worse than that? It's the worse. So Monroe I

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<v Speaker 1>had sent off to have his his breed analysis done,

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<v Speaker 1>uh huh, and the results came in and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just so excited to get because he was a rescue

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<v Speaker 1>mutt and I'm like, course, oh my god. And so

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<v Speaker 1>he's on the phone with the police and I'm like John,

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<v Speaker 1>his name was also John, so John John. But I

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<v Speaker 1>like knew enough to maybe not keep saying John because

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<v Speaker 1>he was on with the cops, right, so same, he

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<v Speaker 1>went through the same thing. The cops were like, you

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<v Speaker 1>look at the sign, Yeah, okay, it was it was Toad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it finally came to me. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet it was just Toad. So we had to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out through the cops which toe company was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a thing. So then he's pretty upset because he

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<v Speaker 1>was We were both pretty broke at the time, and

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<v Speaker 1>he definitely didn't have enough for the three hundred. It

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<v Speaker 1>had been there overnight too. Oh yeah, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>quite like two full days.

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<v Speaker 2>You might as well buy your car at that point,

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<v Speaker 2>the way they charge you for.

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<v Speaker 1>That, yes, each day, And so I knew I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to have to drive him to the toe place.

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<v Speaker 1>I like nobody was happy obviously about this, but neither

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<v Speaker 1>of us were great problem solvers, especially not me, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just was sort of like, god, get I think

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<v Speaker 1>I made him get another friend do it because I

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<v Speaker 1>was so agitated by the whole like like, why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you look at the fucking sign kind of thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also still really want to tell him these results,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kept I go, can I please just can

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<v Speaker 1>I just open this and he's like, I guess, so

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<v Speaker 1>I opened it. I look, can I tell you? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I just tell you what it is? And he goes

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<v Speaker 1>like not right now. Now I have to find a

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<v Speaker 1>friend to go get me. I mean, it was terrible

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<v Speaker 1>on all accounts, but especially my end. But the results

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<v Speaker 1>here's the best part. The results were so stupid and false.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so I was really riled up about. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they sent us the wrong results. He's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to deal with that later. I cannot deal

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<v Speaker 1>with that right now. I have to figure out where

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<v Speaker 1>my car is my truck, like my thirty thousand dollars truck,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I was like okay. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>like but but but real quick, like they're saying he's

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<v Speaker 1>a poodle and he's like Cecily. And it was an

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<v Speaker 1>it was like an obvious fight, which I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong on. I do get that because I was.

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<v Speaker 1>And finally finally we got I think maybe I did

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<v Speaker 1>drive him. I don't remember that, you know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>great with the stol on detail. But we got it.

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<v Speaker 1>We got the car back. It was we were mad

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<v Speaker 1>at each other for a while, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>can I read you the whole thing. He's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, and I was like, yeah, they're saying he's

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<v Speaker 1>half poodle, half Pomeranian. I should write a letter, right

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<v Speaker 1>because he's not. And he didn't really see never really

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<v Speaker 1>got as invested as to what Monroe's breed was. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think it also was just really bad timing.

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<v Speaker 2>I highly relate though to the like wanting we I've

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<v Speaker 2>done two different reads.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to do a new one. I did Wisdom panel. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did Wisdom and Embark okay, which was better because

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<v Speaker 1>Wisdom was terrible, but this was twenty thirteen. I think

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<v Speaker 1>they were kind of equal.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was always very sus because you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>always felt it was ridiculous because they they wanted you

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<v Speaker 2>to send a picture.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't send a picture. I didn't do it. That's bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, some of what they said Penelope was was

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<v Speaker 2>definitely not true.

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<v Speaker 1>But they did.

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<v Speaker 2>They did say that she was definitely part pit. They

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<v Speaker 2>said she was part pit, part American bulldog. But Penelope

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<v Speaker 2>is a long hair dog. She's not super Yeah, she's pretty,

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<v Speaker 2>she's long hair. And they never could tell us why

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<v Speaker 2>not one of the breeds, even in like the one

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<v Speaker 2>percent you know, they give you like the yeah major

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<v Speaker 2>and then they met every dog right now, they go

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<v Speaker 2>one percent, this, this, this, you know chihuahua.

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<v Speaker 1>None of her all had long hair though, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was always like, that's so weird. When did you do it, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that's the issue. I think they got better.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. I'd only had her.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we've had her nine years going on ten years, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so I probably did it like a year into it,

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<v Speaker 2>tears into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you did it well around the same because

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<v Speaker 1>I did it, and yeah, it was twenty thirteen. I've

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<v Speaker 1>had him since twenty ten, which is crazy. I've had

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<v Speaker 1>her twenty sixteen. Okay. I mean it was definitely wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And I sent a letter. I did send an email,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what the fuck. Then they asked

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<v Speaker 1>for a picture again. I go, I'm not sending you

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<v Speaker 1>a picture. And not only that, I'm making my Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making all my stuff private so you can't find him.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that. Because my dad had a big

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<v Speaker 1>thing about that. He's like, you're just throwing one hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>You're giving them one hundred dollars and they have a

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<v Speaker 1>dart board and then they're throwing the dart and they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>your dog is a rottweiler, and like, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong, so I said. They're like, yeah, that happened

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and they had all this jargon bullshit, and

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<v Speaker 1>they're talking to the wrong bitch because like, I know

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<v Speaker 1>all that shit. I'm interested in that, and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>just say. So they're like, yeah, let's read, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>redo it. I go, do you want me to send

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<v Speaker 1>a DNA sample and they're like, no, we still have

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, you still have a vial of it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept it just in case. So then they

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<v Speaker 1>re ran it and I think they found a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of him, so they're like, we do you see It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We do now see a little basket hound, which you

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<v Speaker 1>can see he has kind of long ears and his

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<v Speaker 1>legs go out like a basset, so he's definitely got

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<v Speaker 1>hound in them, which they did not see the first time. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so the first time around, you got no hound dog,

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<v Speaker 1>which he clearly is. But now you see a little

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<v Speaker 1>basket in there. Now that popped up in the DNA. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't use them again. I'd like to try embark sport.

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<v Speaker 1>It's too late. I really do want to. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that they have come a long way. If anyone is

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<v Speaker 1>listening knows, But yeah, they're just looking at the pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like obsessed for many years with because there's

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<v Speaker 2>no there are no dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen a dog that looks like Penelope. Same.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, now I do sometimes I just I see

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<v Speaker 2>the pity in her, the Staffordshire Terrier in her. So

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<v Speaker 2>I recognize that more when I see somebody else as

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<v Speaker 2>a dog that's that's staff.

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<v Speaker 1>I see like a little Schnauzer or maybe Visla because

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<v Speaker 1>they have long hair. They have wire haired Vislas, so

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<v Speaker 1>that could be a little bit Penelope or a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of.

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<v Speaker 2>A total pitface though Stafford. But the long hair part, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, yeah, I don't know. But I just remember there

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<v Speaker 1>was this dog.

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<v Speaker 2>I found a picture of this dog online, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I was really obsessed with trying to find like the owner, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, like what kind of dog do you have?

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<v Speaker 1>I have the same, I don't like. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>compare pictures, but they would never I couldn't figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I googled like beagle dogs and like put together because

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<v Speaker 1>the Monroe looks like both. So then I found exactly

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<v Speaker 1>that dog. But then it looks like that's like stock

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<v Speaker 1>footage for anybody who googles anything. Mm hmm. It turned

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<v Speaker 1>out that it was like because I tried to do

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing, like what's the instinct account mean? While

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<v Speaker 1>John's like in jail now he's gotten in a fight

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<v Speaker 1>with the toe guy and he's in prison and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>can we can you please just make my bail Like

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta hold on, I gotta email them again. I

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<v Speaker 1>have to find out. The timing just was really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>It just my bad. But I feel like your story

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<v Speaker 1>is a little bit worse because Bob Dylan was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what kind of dog? I was like, I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>have a dog, Like, but you will, you will. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a truth teller, I'm a super a suit saar That's

420
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<v Speaker 1>what I was trying to And then you're like, he

421
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<v Speaker 1>has a song called Stephanie I'm a suit sayer. I'm like, well,

422
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<v Speaker 1>I can't. This is a just a pimple and they

423
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<v Speaker 1>didn't even really have a lot of pits back then.

424
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<v Speaker 1>Well he hasn't. The harmonic it's like a sixteen minute

425
00:19:50.519 --> 00:19:57.599
<v Speaker 1>harmonica solo, You're gonna have to pay more in homeowners insurance.

426
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't I live in an apartment, Like

427
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<v Speaker 1>I'm Bob Dylan. I mean, listen, do we all it?

428
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<v Speaker 1>Moral of the story is do we always make the

429
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<v Speaker 1>best decisions? No? No, I guess is the moral? Like,

430
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<v Speaker 1>let's do a sliding doors here. Let's say you were like,

431
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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I'm gonna find the car. The car

432
00:20:19.599 --> 00:20:21.920
<v Speaker 1>will come back to me as it should when it's time.

433
00:20:22.359 --> 00:20:24.519
<v Speaker 1>Bob Dylan's right here, so let's get let's go do

434
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<v Speaker 1>some coke. Right? I think was he a coke guy?

435
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<v Speaker 1>What year was this? I could tell you it would

436
00:20:31.519 --> 00:20:34.759
<v Speaker 1>have been nineteen eighty six. He had gone through a

437
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<v Speaker 1>religious period. Remember, he became he is a Jewish Man,

438
00:20:37.960 --> 00:20:42.079
<v Speaker 1>Robert Zimmerman, and he became born again Christian at some

439
00:20:42.200 --> 00:20:44.599
<v Speaker 1>point in the eighties, and he recorded a few albums

440
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<v Speaker 1>as such. I know this because my friend, a very

441
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<v Speaker 1>good friend of mine, is a Bob Dylan aficionado, like

442
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<v Speaker 1>he lives for him. So he gave me the whole timeline. Okay,

443
00:20:53.599 --> 00:20:55.519
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, he was born again and he had a

444
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<v Speaker 1>lot of weird stuff going on there. So I feel

445
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<v Speaker 1>like that would have been that time. I think maybe

446
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<v Speaker 1>he probably would have taken you to church. But if

447
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<v Speaker 1>you'd gone to church with Bob Dylan instead of being.

448
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<v Speaker 2>Mad, maybe that's why he wanted to do the video

449
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<v Speaker 2>at church.

450
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, seriously, though, I mean I'm not sure exactly the

451
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<v Speaker 1>time period. Someone might know that, but let's just say

452
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<v Speaker 1>I had not fiddle faddled around with my John getting

453
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<v Speaker 1>his car back. I mean, I don't know what the

454
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<v Speaker 1>difference would have been, though, Like I just would have

455
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<v Speaker 1>been more attentive. We would have broken up either way,

456
00:21:29.039 --> 00:21:31.680
<v Speaker 1>so that sliding door wouldn't have changed us. That's not

457
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<v Speaker 1>what broke you guys up. No, we were together a

458
00:21:35.000 --> 00:21:36.799
<v Speaker 1>good year and a half after that, but he was

459
00:21:37.119 --> 00:21:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like proud of that mole. I mean, it

460
00:21:38.960 --> 00:21:42.839
<v Speaker 1>wasn't my best like I could have. I had another

461
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<v Speaker 1>one like that that I did tell you about on

462
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<v Speaker 1>the show, which was a really bad one. I was

463
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<v Speaker 1>kind of living with a different guy, kind of just

464
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<v Speaker 1>for the summer. I was in between places. So for

465
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<v Speaker 1>like three months I lived with someone who I very

466
00:21:56.200 --> 00:21:58.960
<v Speaker 1>much loved, okay, very much one to be with, and

467
00:21:59.319 --> 00:22:03.079
<v Speaker 1>we gotten at tiff, which we didn't often do, and

468
00:22:03.119 --> 00:22:05.160
<v Speaker 1>he was I don't remember what it was, but his

469
00:22:05.319 --> 00:22:08.640
<v Speaker 1>grandmother died, remember the story. And then he had to leave.

470
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<v Speaker 1>I had to go. I had to temp or something.

471
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<v Speaker 1>I had to be at my temp job at eight

472
00:22:11.720 --> 00:22:14.759
<v Speaker 1>or some shit, and you're having a thing. And then

473
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<v Speaker 1>he wanted me to take him to the airport, like

474
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<v Speaker 1>not do my temp job, and I was like, didn't

475
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<v Speaker 1>want to, didn't do it, And I so regret that.

476
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<v Speaker 1>I so regret not taking my boyfriend whose grandmother just

477
00:22:25.839 --> 00:22:28.680
<v Speaker 1>died to the airport when he needed me to. I

478
00:22:28.720 --> 00:22:30.480
<v Speaker 1>was like worried about myself, and I was like, I

479
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<v Speaker 1>have to get to my temp job and I don't

480
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<v Speaker 1>want to go to lax and let me. I'll just

481
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<v Speaker 1>pay for your cab, you know, or whatever. It was

482
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<v Speaker 1>so stupid. I was kind of mad at him, and

483
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<v Speaker 1>I I that could have been a different sighting door,

484
00:22:40.759 --> 00:22:42.559
<v Speaker 1>because I think that was the moment where he was like,

485
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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be with this person. Really. Well.

486
00:22:45.359 --> 00:22:47.720
<v Speaker 1>We stayed together a little bit after, but not much.

487
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<v Speaker 1>We broke up, like a few months later. He went

488
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<v Speaker 1>off to do a shoot a movie and I stayed

489
00:22:53.599 --> 00:22:56.240
<v Speaker 1>at his place, and I, you know, nobody was acting

490
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<v Speaker 1>on their best behavior, to be honest.

491
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<v Speaker 2>Was that But was that like a one a one

492
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<v Speaker 2>off or do you feel like you were just in

493
00:23:03.119 --> 00:23:05.880
<v Speaker 2>a phase of your life where you just were more selfish?

494
00:23:06.160 --> 00:23:08.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe a little bit of both. I was.

495
00:23:09.359 --> 00:23:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I remember I was mad because he cheated on me.

496
00:23:13.279 --> 00:23:17.839
<v Speaker 1>You left some really important I did forget about that,

497
00:23:18.200 --> 00:23:21.079
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I was pretty pissed about it.

498
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<v Speaker 3>And also yeah, I mean still also but also it's

499
00:23:26.279 --> 00:23:31.839
<v Speaker 3>just what I'm gonna sound like an asshole, Okay, I know, yeah, right,

500
00:23:31.920 --> 00:23:32.880
<v Speaker 3>it's his grandma.

501
00:23:33.119 --> 00:23:36.119
<v Speaker 1>It's not like his mom died. But let me push back,

502
00:23:36.160 --> 00:23:38.680
<v Speaker 1>even on my own thing is that I loved her too.

503
00:23:38.759 --> 00:23:41.559
<v Speaker 1>I'd met her, We'd spent time in the state he

504
00:23:41.599 --> 00:23:44.599
<v Speaker 1>was from together. I really I really cared about her

505
00:23:44.640 --> 00:23:47.160
<v Speaker 1>as well. So like even that, I mean, she was

506
00:23:47.279 --> 00:23:50.759
<v Speaker 1>she was, she was exquisite. And it doesn't matter you're together.

507
00:23:50.839 --> 00:23:53.920
<v Speaker 1>Of course you take of course, you take your boyfriend well,

508
00:23:53.920 --> 00:23:55.519
<v Speaker 1>but also temp jobs.

509
00:23:55.559 --> 00:23:58.640
<v Speaker 2>It's really easy, as we have experienced, if you don't

510
00:23:58.680 --> 00:24:00.960
<v Speaker 2>show up for your temp jobs, do get real mad.

511
00:24:01.480 --> 00:24:03.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I was really mad about this other thing,

512
00:24:03.440 --> 00:24:06.640
<v Speaker 1>but I do, I will say so whether whatever it is, like,

513
00:24:06.799 --> 00:24:08.519
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was in the wrong on that one.

514
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<v Speaker 2>But it's dausible that you broke up more because he

515
00:24:11.799 --> 00:24:12.359
<v Speaker 2>was a cheater.

516
00:24:13.599 --> 00:24:17.319
<v Speaker 1>He broke up. We were in a weird situation. It's

517
00:24:17.400 --> 00:24:20.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of strange to talk about because like he I

518
00:24:20.640 --> 00:24:22.759
<v Speaker 1>think we've talked about it, but he like kind of

519
00:24:22.839 --> 00:24:24.920
<v Speaker 1>cheated a little, and he wasn't committing and he was

520
00:24:24.960 --> 00:24:27.599
<v Speaker 1>only really into me when I would say, Okay, I'm

521
00:24:27.599 --> 00:24:29.720
<v Speaker 1>going to move on, right it come back, and like

522
00:24:30.240 --> 00:24:34.279
<v Speaker 1>it was a really really confusing situation, and then I

523
00:24:34.319 --> 00:24:37.359
<v Speaker 1>started dating someone else pretty seriously, and then then we

524
00:24:37.480 --> 00:24:40.359
<v Speaker 1>all just were like, remember we kind of opened it up,

525
00:24:40.440 --> 00:24:42.960
<v Speaker 1>and so I was dating two people pretty seriously openly

526
00:24:44.119 --> 00:24:46.640
<v Speaker 1>and that and then everybody was also kind of dating

527
00:24:46.640 --> 00:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>other people after that. Like it it got, it got,

528
00:24:49.359 --> 00:24:52.920
<v Speaker 1>it got challenging, certainly not. I don't have the And was.

529
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<v Speaker 2>This during the time that you would that you didn't

530
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<v Speaker 2>take him to the airport?

531
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<v Speaker 1>Trying to remember, so that would been that would have

532
00:25:01.759 --> 00:25:04.480
<v Speaker 1>been the summer of two thousands, So no, this was

533
00:25:04.720 --> 00:25:09.200
<v Speaker 1>after the fact, So I think this was after I'm

534
00:25:09.200 --> 00:25:11.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to think the timeline. I think this would have

535
00:25:11.680 --> 00:25:14.799
<v Speaker 1>been after we sort of got back together because something

536
00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:17.839
<v Speaker 1>really bad happened with one of the guys and we

537
00:25:17.960 --> 00:25:20.039
<v Speaker 1>broke up. Broke up, so it was I was all

538
00:25:20.200 --> 00:25:23.759
<v Speaker 1>the same guy. It was all Guy A, and Guy

539
00:25:23.799 --> 00:25:26.440
<v Speaker 1>A didn't really want that. Now now Guy A is like,

540
00:25:26.599 --> 00:25:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I liked it when you were just you know, when

541
00:25:28.960 --> 00:25:31.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have as much pressure. So now the other

542
00:25:31.880 --> 00:25:35.000
<v Speaker 1>guys out, Now I'm in. Now I'm staying with him

543
00:25:35.039 --> 00:25:37.880
<v Speaker 1>for three months, which he didn't want. I could feel

544
00:25:37.920 --> 00:25:39.839
<v Speaker 1>all that he wasn't being great to me, he wasn't

545
00:25:39.839 --> 00:25:43.559
<v Speaker 1>being very nice. I think a little hard on yourself maybe,

546
00:25:43.640 --> 00:25:45.599
<v Speaker 1>but I do wonder sometimes, like, yeah, what would have

547
00:25:45.640 --> 00:25:48.480
<v Speaker 1>happened if I had just been a little nothing. He

548
00:25:48.599 --> 00:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>still would have cheated, and he still would have been

549
00:25:50.440 --> 00:25:54.440
<v Speaker 1>avoidant because he chosen someone else. He ended up getting married.

550
00:25:54.519 --> 00:25:56.559
<v Speaker 1>It's so funny. It's like I always say, I can't

551
00:25:56.559 --> 00:25:59.519
<v Speaker 1>all be avoidant, like they just didn't choose me, when

552
00:25:59.559 --> 00:26:02.559
<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes you can like the ones that are avoidant.

553
00:26:02.559 --> 00:26:04.559
<v Speaker 2>Though it sounds like which I sounds like you did

554
00:26:04.640 --> 00:26:08.440
<v Speaker 2>to me because right, because they're because they are the

555
00:26:08.519 --> 00:26:10.279
<v Speaker 2>kind of people that don't commit very easily.

556
00:26:10.480 --> 00:26:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Because I am avoidant. Remember we talked about that. I

557
00:26:12.920 --> 00:26:15.519
<v Speaker 1>have the issues too, So I choose on purpose, so

558
00:26:15.519 --> 00:26:17.880
<v Speaker 1>I get to act out a different role. Right, I'm

559
00:26:17.880 --> 00:26:19.920
<v Speaker 1>the one like, oh my god, no, no, no, no, wait

560
00:26:19.960 --> 00:26:23.920
<v Speaker 1>what No, it's not moving in. Yeah, that's right.

561
00:26:25.160 --> 00:26:28.440
<v Speaker 2>I feel that too. I'm the one that's like, oh god,

562
00:26:29.160 --> 00:26:31.720
<v Speaker 2>I can't this guy likes me too much.

563
00:26:32.319 --> 00:26:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh God.

564
00:26:33.119 --> 00:26:35.200
<v Speaker 2>But then I want the guy that doesn't like me

565
00:26:35.279 --> 00:26:37.440
<v Speaker 2>that much, and then I can be like, I don't

566
00:26:37.519 --> 00:26:39.400
<v Speaker 2>understand why he's to me.

567
00:26:39.759 --> 00:26:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, why am I not the one who's chosen

568
00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:45.599
<v Speaker 1>when I know exactly why? Because I don't want to be. Yeah,

569
00:26:45.680 --> 00:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>if I did, then I would have ended up with

570
00:26:47.519 --> 00:26:51.119
<v Speaker 1>some schlub no offense back in Texas. Wasn't that hard

571
00:26:51.119 --> 00:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>to snag a husband in your twenties?

572
00:26:53.400 --> 00:26:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Tell you that I just couldn't. I know, I couldn't

573
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<v Speaker 2>like the ones that liked.

574
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<v Speaker 1>Me, I know. I mean this is why I'm still

575
00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:02.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm still fucked up. I mean, I'm learning more about it,

576
00:27:02.519 --> 00:27:07.920
<v Speaker 1>like I'm in there. I'm I'm That's how I'm saying it,

577
00:27:08.000 --> 00:27:11.200
<v Speaker 1>like as though I'm I'm hiding my fate, like I'm embarrassed.

578
00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm in thorough But I'm learning that a lot of

579
00:27:14.039 --> 00:27:16.759
<v Speaker 1>it comes not from anxious or all that stuff, all

580
00:27:16.799 --> 00:27:20.119
<v Speaker 1>the attachment stuff. It doesn't necessarily mean something happened in

581
00:27:20.160 --> 00:27:24.359
<v Speaker 1>your childhood. It just means that you're you get bored easily.

582
00:27:24.519 --> 00:27:26.319
<v Speaker 1>I have I probably have a little bit of a

583
00:27:26.799 --> 00:27:33.480
<v Speaker 1>it's an addiction to not chaos, but to like excitement,

584
00:27:34.400 --> 00:27:37.400
<v Speaker 1>And that's more exciting to me to you know, be

585
00:27:37.559 --> 00:27:40.319
<v Speaker 1>with someone who's inconsistent, because then I'm chasing a hit.

586
00:27:42.359 --> 00:27:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean they say that sometimes you're just born that way.

587
00:27:45.839 --> 00:27:46.720
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's maybe.

588
00:27:46.680 --> 00:27:49.160
<v Speaker 2>How does anybody ever get together in a way that's

589
00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:49.720
<v Speaker 2>like equal?

590
00:27:50.279 --> 00:27:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Such a good question? I mean you and John did.

591
00:27:51.960 --> 00:27:54.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it has to just it all has to spark,

592
00:27:54.759 --> 00:27:57.640
<v Speaker 1>like at the right time, early enough that you're you're

593
00:27:57.640 --> 00:28:01.039
<v Speaker 1>not carrying too much baggage and and like you said,

594
00:28:01.039 --> 00:28:03.279
<v Speaker 1>you need a secure person that can just be like,

595
00:28:03.319 --> 00:28:07.240
<v Speaker 1>oh wait, you're good. And that's I feel like that's

596
00:28:07.240 --> 00:28:08.000
<v Speaker 1>something you had.

597
00:28:08.920 --> 00:28:12.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, But I feel like I was tricked because I

598
00:28:12.839 --> 00:28:14.519
<v Speaker 2>feel like I was having to work too hard for

599
00:28:14.599 --> 00:28:15.519
<v Speaker 2>John at the beginning.

600
00:28:15.559 --> 00:28:16.599
<v Speaker 1>But that's just because.

601
00:28:16.359 --> 00:28:19.799
<v Speaker 2>He's not actually well, you know what, John is a

602
00:28:19.880 --> 00:28:24.079
<v Speaker 2>little bit of a avoid, isn't He's a little m

603
00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:28.359
<v Speaker 2>a little bit and he hadn't been in like many

604
00:28:28.440 --> 00:28:30.920
<v Speaker 2>relationships before me he had, but he was like not

605
00:28:31.039 --> 00:28:34.160
<v Speaker 2>that into it, and I was worried that I would be.

606
00:28:34.440 --> 00:28:36.680
<v Speaker 2>I just was always worried he didn't like me enough,

607
00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:40.079
<v Speaker 2>which allowed me, It freed me up to be like

608
00:28:40.279 --> 00:28:43.119
<v Speaker 2>one hundred percent sure of him all the time, like

609
00:28:43.319 --> 00:28:46.559
<v Speaker 2>not totally be my guy, I am madly in love

610
00:28:46.680 --> 00:28:49.720
<v Speaker 2>because he didn't seem like he was well, So.

611
00:28:49.640 --> 00:28:51.839
<v Speaker 1>The spark happened exactly at the right time. It all

612
00:28:51.920 --> 00:28:53.559
<v Speaker 1>kind of came together at the right time. And then

613
00:28:53.680 --> 00:28:56.759
<v Speaker 1>through whatever your trials and tribulations, like you stuck by

614
00:28:56.799 --> 00:29:00.640
<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, and you became healthier and healthier, both

615
00:29:00.680 --> 00:29:03.160
<v Speaker 1>of you, you know, and like, yeah we were we

616
00:29:03.200 --> 00:29:06.960
<v Speaker 1>talked everything out and then yeah, but I definitely like

617
00:29:07.119 --> 00:29:10.960
<v Speaker 1>think I freaked out at some point when I realized,

618
00:29:11.039 --> 00:29:12.880
<v Speaker 1>oh no, he really is madly in love with me.

619
00:29:13.480 --> 00:29:16.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I could, Yes, I totally. I used to be

620
00:29:16.839 --> 00:29:18.480
<v Speaker 1>able to be Okay, I was in the Remember, I

621
00:29:18.519 --> 00:29:20.599
<v Speaker 1>was in very a lot of long term relationships, and

622
00:29:20.640 --> 00:29:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I would just sort of settle in. I'd love them

623
00:29:23.440 --> 00:29:25.240
<v Speaker 1>and I would love having a boyfriend and all that,

624
00:29:25.279 --> 00:29:29.079
<v Speaker 1>but I was never that excited. I was never like like,

625
00:29:29.160 --> 00:29:31.319
<v Speaker 1>this is my purse. I just never I don't know,

626
00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:34.039
<v Speaker 1>it's like I can't have that unless there's like always

627
00:29:34.079 --> 00:29:36.319
<v Speaker 1>a bit of a challenge. And then when they would

628
00:29:36.480 --> 00:29:39.839
<v Speaker 1>eventually sense that, well, after six years of me not

629
00:29:39.880 --> 00:29:43.079
<v Speaker 1>even wanted to give them a key to my apartment, yes, yeah,

630
00:29:43.160 --> 00:29:45.640
<v Speaker 1>And then they would go, well, what is this? How

631
00:29:45.680 --> 00:29:48.319
<v Speaker 1>do you feel? Right? And then you would say I

632
00:29:48.720 --> 00:29:51.279
<v Speaker 1>mean I love you, Yeah, exactly, I love you. I

633
00:29:51.319 --> 00:29:53.039
<v Speaker 1>love this, and they're like, but I only see you

634
00:29:53.079 --> 00:29:55.680
<v Speaker 1>twice a week, and like I want to travel more

635
00:29:55.720 --> 00:29:58.079
<v Speaker 1>and I want to go though, ye, well this week

636
00:29:58.160 --> 00:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>is good for me. It's a little much for me,

637
00:30:00.519 --> 00:30:02.279
<v Speaker 1>to be honest. I mean, my thing was like I

638
00:30:02.319 --> 00:30:05.319
<v Speaker 1>really would be cool with that duplex thing, or you

639
00:30:05.599 --> 00:30:07.880
<v Speaker 1>just like, yeah, I guess I've always been a little

640
00:30:07.960 --> 00:30:11.559
<v Speaker 1>like that and just didn't realize it or something something.

641
00:30:11.720 --> 00:30:14.920
<v Speaker 2>But then okay, but then when the guy was being

642
00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:17.839
<v Speaker 2>like that, let me ask you this. When the guy

643
00:30:18.000 --> 00:30:20.119
<v Speaker 2>was the one who was like, yeah, twice a week

644
00:30:20.279 --> 00:30:22.160
<v Speaker 2>is like a lot for me, you know, and I

645
00:30:22.160 --> 00:30:25.559
<v Speaker 2>could think of somebody who was pretty like avoided that

646
00:30:25.640 --> 00:30:29.640
<v Speaker 2>we both experienced. Did you feel a pining did you

647
00:30:29.759 --> 00:30:31.519
<v Speaker 2>feel like, oh my god, why doesn't he want to

648
00:30:31.519 --> 00:30:35.599
<v Speaker 2>see me every day with Pug or yeah, with anybody,

649
00:30:35.640 --> 00:30:37.839
<v Speaker 2>with anybody that you well, if it was Pug, no,

650
00:30:38.039 --> 00:30:40.720
<v Speaker 2>like it was perfect. Oh, it was absolutely perfect.

651
00:30:40.720 --> 00:30:42.920
<v Speaker 1>I saw him once or twice a week, sometimes three,

652
00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:46.400
<v Speaker 1>but sometimes one, and I never really felt the pining

653
00:30:46.480 --> 00:30:48.839
<v Speaker 1>was just enough where I'd be like, oh my god,

654
00:30:48.880 --> 00:30:50.519
<v Speaker 1>am I going to hear from him? Like what concerts

655
00:30:50.519 --> 00:30:51.920
<v Speaker 1>are he gonna invite me to? Or is he not?

656
00:30:52.200 --> 00:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, I got that dopamine hit. He always did.

657
00:30:55.720 --> 00:30:58.400
<v Speaker 1>I saw him a lot actually, so you never.

658
00:30:58.279 --> 00:31:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Had any like sense of pining or wanting more from him.

659
00:31:01.759 --> 00:31:03.640
<v Speaker 1>No, I think I did. I mean I definitely had

660
00:31:03.680 --> 00:31:07.279
<v Speaker 1>some anxiety around him, you know, being really hot and

661
00:31:07.319 --> 00:31:10.759
<v Speaker 1>cold as a person. So I definitely had that anxiety.

662
00:31:10.799 --> 00:31:12.960
<v Speaker 1>But I think we saw each other the right amount.

663
00:31:13.079 --> 00:31:15.880
<v Speaker 2>So if he'd been less hot and cold but also

664
00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:18.240
<v Speaker 2>didn't need to see that much you would it would

665
00:31:18.240 --> 00:31:18.920
<v Speaker 2>have been fine.

666
00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I think so. I think. So we're so interesting. So

667
00:31:24.519 --> 00:31:31.319
<v Speaker 1>what precipitated him the breakup with Hug? Which one with Pug? Oh?

668
00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:33.519
<v Speaker 1>He did. He just said he'd never love me. Remember,

669
00:31:33.759 --> 00:31:35.920
<v Speaker 1>he took me to a show or something. We went

670
00:31:35.920 --> 00:31:38.160
<v Speaker 1>out and then he walked me home to my apartment

671
00:31:38.880 --> 00:31:40.160
<v Speaker 1>into the and he was like, I just want to

672
00:31:40.200 --> 00:31:43.759
<v Speaker 1>talk to you real quick, and then he was pretty high,

673
00:31:43.960 --> 00:31:46.799
<v Speaker 1>and then he's just like, I'm sorry, I feel really bad.

674
00:31:46.799 --> 00:31:48.519
<v Speaker 1>He was actually pretty nice about it. He was like,

675
00:31:48.559 --> 00:31:50.839
<v Speaker 1>I just don't think I'm gonna ever really get there.

676
00:31:51.200 --> 00:31:53.440
<v Speaker 1>And it was a very calm. It was actually one

677
00:31:53.440 --> 00:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>of my best breakups. I like handled it. I didn't

678
00:31:56.920 --> 00:31:59.079
<v Speaker 1>freak out, I didn't bag, I didn't do anything. And

679
00:31:59.119 --> 00:32:02.319
<v Speaker 1>then he said almost he goes, I'd gotten you theater

680
00:32:02.400 --> 00:32:04.319
<v Speaker 1>tickets for your birthday? Would you still want to go?

681
00:32:04.480 --> 00:32:06.640
<v Speaker 1>And I mean that was already ten times more than

682
00:32:06.680 --> 00:32:10.119
<v Speaker 1>most guys. So I was like, yes, that was fine,

683
00:32:10.119 --> 00:32:13.559
<v Speaker 1>and we went and did he try to kiss you?

684
00:32:14.440 --> 00:32:17.799
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, you mean goodbye after he broke up with me.

685
00:32:17.880 --> 00:32:19.839
<v Speaker 2>No, I mean like when he when he took you

686
00:32:19.880 --> 00:32:21.079
<v Speaker 2>to something for your birthday?

687
00:32:21.160 --> 00:32:25.839
<v Speaker 1>Oh no no. And he never like we never made out.

688
00:32:26.119 --> 00:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>There was no we didn't like kiss at concerts or

689
00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:32.680
<v Speaker 1>dinner or anything. He wasn't very PDA. I don't know

690
00:32:32.680 --> 00:32:35.680
<v Speaker 1>if you remember that, but he was. It was very compartmentalized. Yes,

691
00:32:35.759 --> 00:32:38.119
<v Speaker 1>you were doing this thing and now you're doing this thing,

692
00:32:38.160 --> 00:32:40.319
<v Speaker 1>and now you're back and maybe I'll do this. But

693
00:32:40.440 --> 00:32:44.559
<v Speaker 1>it was actually a very kind he, you know, he said,

694
00:32:44.640 --> 00:32:47.160
<v Speaker 1>he said it relatively kindly, and I handled it well

695
00:32:47.200 --> 00:32:49.920
<v Speaker 1>and oh fine, and you.

696
00:32:49.880 --> 00:32:53.240
<v Speaker 2>Didn't you didn't feel like why why won't he like?

697
00:32:53.359 --> 00:32:56.599
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I fell apart after he let Oh my god, Laura,

698
00:32:56.720 --> 00:32:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, we should get Laura on the show. My

699
00:32:59.240 --> 00:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>friend Laura's wish. Sure she'd be like, oh, you weren't

700
00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:04.000
<v Speaker 1>that fine, But I was in front of him. I

701
00:33:04.119 --> 00:33:08.920
<v Speaker 1>was fine. Oh I've melted down, of course. Yeah, I

702
00:33:09.039 --> 00:33:12.920
<v Speaker 1>was so upset. And she listened for hours, you know,

703
00:33:12.960 --> 00:33:15.240
<v Speaker 1>and tried to be nice about like, I don't think

704
00:33:15.279 --> 00:33:19.359
<v Speaker 1>that's the guy though, you know, like I just don't

705
00:33:19.400 --> 00:33:19.880
<v Speaker 1>see it.

706
00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:22.720
<v Speaker 2>I just don't see what anytime I see a picture

707
00:33:22.720 --> 00:33:24.799
<v Speaker 2>of him, and I saw one because I was looking

708
00:33:24.880 --> 00:33:27.279
<v Speaker 2>up and we can talk about this briefly. We talked

709
00:33:27.279 --> 00:33:31.559
<v Speaker 2>about it on Cringe, so that's up today too. But

710
00:33:32.480 --> 00:33:34.640
<v Speaker 2>I was looking up a picture of John Reap, who

711
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:39.960
<v Speaker 2>is a comedian. We discussed this and who was charged.

712
00:33:40.160 --> 00:33:45.000
<v Speaker 2>He's in jail. Maybe he has several counts of child

713
00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:48.680
<v Speaker 2>sexual exploitation. And anyway, I was looking at some pictures

714
00:33:48.720 --> 00:33:51.559
<v Speaker 2>of him because I was looking at last comic standing.

715
00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:56.319
<v Speaker 2>And my point is every time I see Hug Penson,

716
00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:57.640
<v Speaker 2>it's like a jump scare.

717
00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:02.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, ewe, you don't know, you don't but

718
00:34:02.920 --> 00:34:03.359
<v Speaker 1>I do.

719
00:34:03.839 --> 00:34:06.079
<v Speaker 2>And I had had a recent one where it's just

720
00:34:06.079 --> 00:34:08.000
<v Speaker 2>like a literal jumps where I'm just like.

721
00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:12.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh, oh, well, it's odd different and yeah, yeah.

722
00:34:12.679 --> 00:34:15.320
<v Speaker 2>I just was like, I can't believe I ever that

723
00:34:15.440 --> 00:34:19.599
<v Speaker 2>was a full on for me, full on avoidant. And

724
00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:23.880
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I will I will make that avoidant, man, mine,

725
00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:26.480
<v Speaker 2>I will fix the thing. I will be I will

726
00:34:26.480 --> 00:34:30.039
<v Speaker 2>feel free to go to love hard because this guy

727
00:34:30.159 --> 00:34:32.639
<v Speaker 2>is never going to be even nice to me.

728
00:34:33.079 --> 00:34:35.559
<v Speaker 1>I so was get that and I and I definitely

729
00:34:35.559 --> 00:34:37.639
<v Speaker 1>experienced that as well. I guess my thing was just

730
00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>sort of I knew, I kind of kind of knew

731
00:34:40.039 --> 00:34:41.519
<v Speaker 1>what I was signing up for in an a right

732
00:34:41.639 --> 00:34:45.280
<v Speaker 1>way because but because mine went on for a while,

733
00:34:45.480 --> 00:34:48.360
<v Speaker 1>I think I thought I was being sort of chosen, yes,

734
00:34:48.719 --> 00:34:50.920
<v Speaker 1>like in this weird way, even though one hundred percent,

735
00:34:50.960 --> 00:34:52.920
<v Speaker 1>if I could go back with like I go go

736
00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:56.440
<v Speaker 1>back and watch myself and watch the whole thing play out,

737
00:34:56.480 --> 00:34:59.119
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, oh, sweetie of god, no, that's not

738
00:34:59.280 --> 00:35:02.639
<v Speaker 1>how that goes like, that's not that, ain't it right?

739
00:35:03.280 --> 00:35:05.119
<v Speaker 1>You know? No, that guy should when you go to

740
00:35:05.159 --> 00:35:07.199
<v Speaker 1>the improv the next day after you slept over, he

741
00:35:07.199 --> 00:35:11.280
<v Speaker 1>should talk to you. Yeah, maybe or make eye contact. Yeah.

742
00:35:11.280 --> 00:35:13.360
<v Speaker 1>I remember he wouldn't walk me to the car after

743
00:35:13.519 --> 00:35:15.840
<v Speaker 1>we'd gone. I'd been you know, like we've been hooking

744
00:35:15.920 --> 00:35:17.360
<v Speaker 1>up for a long time and night, I mean like

745
00:35:17.599 --> 00:35:19.199
<v Speaker 1>a couple times a week. He wouldn't walk me to

746
00:35:19.239 --> 00:35:22.199
<v Speaker 1>the improv, I mean to the to my car at

747
00:35:22.239 --> 00:35:25.320
<v Speaker 1>one in the morning. And then and I think it

748
00:35:25.400 --> 00:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>was before he got jumped. Remember he got jumped in

749
00:35:28.039 --> 00:35:32.400
<v Speaker 1>that Fred Seagull parking lot. Yes, So I'm not sure

750
00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:34.079
<v Speaker 1>if it was before or after that, because if it

751
00:35:34.199 --> 00:35:39.639
<v Speaker 1>had set, yeah, maybe it just wasn't a very good set.

752
00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:42.920
<v Speaker 1>He was went out to smoke weed with like two

753
00:35:42.960 --> 00:35:46.960
<v Speaker 1>other people and not no, not Hug Penson. He didn't

754
00:35:46.960 --> 00:35:49.199
<v Speaker 1>go smoke weed. You must be confusing him with a

755
00:35:49.239 --> 00:35:52.440
<v Speaker 1>different Well, he was with Zoe and I want to say,

756
00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:55.800
<v Speaker 1>like Aukerman or something. Yeah, yes, and they went and

757
00:35:55.840 --> 00:35:59.119
<v Speaker 1>they got like they got pot Oh my god.

758
00:35:59.800 --> 00:35:59.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

759
00:36:00.519 --> 00:36:03.039
<v Speaker 1>So imagine if it was before he would like if

760
00:36:03.039 --> 00:36:06.239
<v Speaker 1>it was beforehand, and then he still wouldn't walk me out. Well,

761
00:36:06.639 --> 00:36:08.880
<v Speaker 1>it was after, So either way, it's an interesting story

762
00:36:08.880 --> 00:36:11.760
<v Speaker 1>because if it was before, if he'd already been jumped

763
00:36:11.760 --> 00:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>and would not walk me to the car, that's horrible. Yeah.

764
00:36:15.960 --> 00:36:19.199
<v Speaker 1>I think Abby was there and Obvi's like I'll walk her.

765
00:36:19.599 --> 00:36:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Because I remember saying like, can you walk me? He's like,

766
00:36:21.480 --> 00:36:24.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll walk you. I mean, it was so sad. But

767
00:36:24.440 --> 00:36:26.639
<v Speaker 1>if it was before, I mean, that's just cruel. But

768
00:36:26.679 --> 00:36:31.360
<v Speaker 1>if it was after, that's just karma. I mean that

769
00:36:31.519 --> 00:36:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I really I think. Uh. In conclusion, Yeah, it worn't great,

770
00:36:37.559 --> 00:36:40.519
<v Speaker 1>and we I think we both like people like that,

771
00:36:41.320 --> 00:36:45.679
<v Speaker 1>get people like us that, you know, to be way

772
00:36:45.679 --> 00:36:50.920
<v Speaker 1>too kind and stick around way too long. Yes, and

773
00:36:50.960 --> 00:36:54.159
<v Speaker 1>then they they settle when they settle, because I think

774
00:36:54.159 --> 00:36:57.480
<v Speaker 1>they don't ever settle. He has a longtime girlfriend, I think,

775
00:36:57.559 --> 00:36:59.079
<v Speaker 1>but I think that they just had to get keep

776
00:36:59.119 --> 00:37:02.440
<v Speaker 1>getting a little younger, you know, like whatever. He's in

777
00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>his six mid sixties. Yeah, so then they've got to

778
00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:08.159
<v Speaker 1>be probably I don't know, forty, they've got to be

779
00:37:08.159 --> 00:37:10.320
<v Speaker 1>at least they couldn't be close in age or whatever.

780
00:37:10.440 --> 00:37:12.760
<v Speaker 1>That's not going to work out. So I don't know.

781
00:37:12.880 --> 00:37:14.840
<v Speaker 1>I do hope he's happy if I saw him, I'd

782
00:37:14.880 --> 00:37:17.440
<v Speaker 1>be happy to see him. That's the truth. I have

783
00:37:17.440 --> 00:37:19.800
<v Speaker 1>no hard feelings for that guy. That's the truth, Ruth.

784
00:37:20.119 --> 00:37:22.000
<v Speaker 1>There's been so much worse, you know what I mean,

785
00:37:22.119 --> 00:37:24.800
<v Speaker 1>Like that guy is just he's just bumbling along.

786
00:37:25.679 --> 00:37:29.079
<v Speaker 2>You don't know, Yeah, I mean, you know it's listen,

787
00:37:29.559 --> 00:37:33.719
<v Speaker 2>if I think about it in a more how should

788
00:37:33.760 --> 00:37:38.280
<v Speaker 2>I say empathetic more from his perspective?

789
00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:39.880
<v Speaker 3>You know?

790
00:37:40.079 --> 00:37:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Of course I was so mad. I mean I was

791
00:37:42.559 --> 00:37:43.679
<v Speaker 1>raging mad.

792
00:37:43.480 --> 00:37:45.599
<v Speaker 2>At the fact that, but really what I was mad

793
00:37:45.639 --> 00:37:48.599
<v Speaker 2>at was that he wasn't going to love me either. Yeah,

794
00:37:48.639 --> 00:37:50.840
<v Speaker 2>and also that he decided to leave a message on

795
00:37:50.880 --> 00:37:51.639
<v Speaker 2>my voicemail.

796
00:37:53.320 --> 00:37:56.599
<v Speaker 1>Well that's kind of shitty. Well it just like it means.

797
00:37:56.800 --> 00:38:00.280
<v Speaker 2>But also if he wasn't into me, like what is

798
00:38:00.320 --> 00:38:02.800
<v Speaker 2>the point really? If I think about it, of like,

799
00:38:02.880 --> 00:38:04.840
<v Speaker 2>what are we supposed to go to lunch? And then

800
00:38:04.880 --> 00:38:07.960
<v Speaker 2>you have to make a big pronouncement that like we're done,

801
00:38:08.239 --> 00:38:08.920
<v Speaker 2>Like I think I.

802
00:38:08.880 --> 00:38:11.280
<v Speaker 1>Think a person phone call. I think a phone call

803
00:38:11.559 --> 00:38:13.599
<v Speaker 1>like where he gets reaches me on the phone and

804
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:16.599
<v Speaker 1>tells me you're actually madder and like your response matters and

805
00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>he has to hear it. I think is fair? Yeah,

806
00:38:20.159 --> 00:38:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I think. I think though, when.

807
00:38:21.800 --> 00:38:24.880
<v Speaker 2>I when I look at relationships and like other people's

808
00:38:24.920 --> 00:38:29.679
<v Speaker 2>relationships and see both sides, he wasn't going to I

809
00:38:30.159 --> 00:38:33.079
<v Speaker 2>chose somebody who wasn't going to love me or right,

810
00:38:33.119 --> 00:38:35.000
<v Speaker 2>and who didn't who.

811
00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:37.760
<v Speaker 1>Was very distant. Chose that, chose somebody who was never

812
00:38:37.800 --> 00:38:38.480
<v Speaker 1>even nice to me.

813
00:38:38.880 --> 00:38:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Then I got really mad at the consequence of that choice,

814
00:38:43.840 --> 00:38:46.719
<v Speaker 2>which was that he wasn't really that into me, and

815
00:38:46.760 --> 00:38:49.280
<v Speaker 2>then told me in a voicemail, which is not It

816
00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:53.719
<v Speaker 2>kind of tracks that like, hey, similar to you, I'm

817
00:38:53.840 --> 00:38:56.400
<v Speaker 2>just not going to ever be able to meet your like,

818
00:38:56.400 --> 00:38:58.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to really love you. It's not this

819
00:38:58.480 --> 00:39:01.280
<v Speaker 2>isn't really going to go anywhere. And sorry I'm leaving

820
00:39:01.280 --> 00:39:04.199
<v Speaker 2>this on your voicemail, but I would just be too

821
00:39:04.239 --> 00:39:06.039
<v Speaker 2>worried that I would like try to make out with

822
00:39:06.079 --> 00:39:08.039
<v Speaker 2>you or something if we were in person, because you're

823
00:39:08.039 --> 00:39:09.760
<v Speaker 2>so pretty something like that.

824
00:39:10.039 --> 00:39:12.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh god, that's a better That was a better breakup

825
00:39:12.880 --> 00:39:15.119
<v Speaker 1>than I got, now, you know. Then Then at the time, though,

826
00:39:15.159 --> 00:39:18.239
<v Speaker 1>I was so mad about it, because I was like, oh, really,

827
00:39:18.480 --> 00:39:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you would just be too overwhelmed with lust to be

828
00:39:22.039 --> 00:39:25.320
<v Speaker 1>able to hold hold to your like, I'm not into

829
00:39:25.360 --> 00:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>you like, what the fuck? That feels fake as fuck?

830
00:39:28.880 --> 00:39:30.280
<v Speaker 1>And I was very mad.

831
00:39:30.440 --> 00:39:33.119
<v Speaker 2>And then you know, and then he did the same thing,

832
00:39:33.159 --> 00:39:35.719
<v Speaker 2>which was he was like, hey, like a little very

833
00:39:35.760 --> 00:39:37.360
<v Speaker 2>short time later, he's like, hey, you want to go

834
00:39:37.400 --> 00:39:38.400
<v Speaker 2>to like a show.

835
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<v Speaker 1>But not dating. And he got me like a birthday

836
00:39:42.039 --> 00:39:44.519
<v Speaker 1>present that was Oh my god. It was like a

837
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<v Speaker 1>It was like a ceed little it's like a little

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<v Speaker 1>knife that you open. He gave me that too, got

839
00:39:51.599 --> 00:39:55.599
<v Speaker 1>that too. He got like a fucking bulk. Oh my god,

840
00:39:55.639 --> 00:39:58.199
<v Speaker 1>I got exactly, I got a whole little package of them.

841
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<v Speaker 1>Oh like, well I didn't get a package. I think

842
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<v Speaker 1>I got one.

843
00:40:02.599 --> 00:40:04.639
<v Speaker 2>He was like, hey, I'm going to give this to Cecily,

844
00:40:04.679 --> 00:40:05.760
<v Speaker 2>but I'm gonna hold one back.

845
00:40:06.480 --> 00:40:11.199
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's hilarious. What do you call those things? Remember? Exactly?

846
00:40:11.199 --> 00:40:12.679
<v Speaker 1>I still I kept it for a long time while

847
00:40:12.719 --> 00:40:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I still had CDs. And it looked like one of

848
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<v Speaker 1>those things yellow. It was yellow, and it looked it

849
00:40:18.119 --> 00:40:20.039
<v Speaker 1>was designed to look like one of those things that

850
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<v Speaker 1>you put in the middle of a forty five to

851
00:40:22.519 --> 00:40:27.199
<v Speaker 1>play it on your stare, to play it on your turntable. Correct, Yeah,

852
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<v Speaker 1>so I got I got one of those. We all

853
00:40:29.199 --> 00:40:33.000
<v Speaker 1>all did anybody anybody with the last name Silverman got it? Yeah,

854
00:40:33.000 --> 00:40:34.440
<v Speaker 1>he got it, and I got taken.

855
00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:37.480
<v Speaker 2>I got taken to a concert by I always. I've

856
00:40:37.480 --> 00:40:39.599
<v Speaker 2>told you this many times and then I can never remember.

857
00:40:39.599 --> 00:40:43.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh semi sonic, the ones that close in time.

858
00:40:44.480 --> 00:40:47.159
<v Speaker 1>God, you don't have to go home, but you can.

859
00:40:47.360 --> 00:40:50.079
<v Speaker 1>I saw a lot of bands that I was not into.

860
00:40:50.239 --> 00:40:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I saw Jesus and Mary Chain with him.

861
00:40:52.480 --> 00:40:54.440
<v Speaker 2>He would I would just go, of course, because I

862
00:40:54.480 --> 00:40:56.239
<v Speaker 2>was like, you'd invite me to a show and I'd

863
00:40:56.280 --> 00:40:59.360
<v Speaker 2>be like cool, and then I wouldn't. We did not

864
00:40:59.519 --> 00:41:02.559
<v Speaker 2>have the same taste in music. But I do remember

865
00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:05.119
<v Speaker 2>that I got that as a gift, and I was like,

866
00:41:05.239 --> 00:41:06.920
<v Speaker 2>is he going to try to make out with me?

867
00:41:07.000 --> 00:41:09.679
<v Speaker 1>Which is why I asked you? And know he sure didn't.

868
00:41:10.440 --> 00:41:13.199
<v Speaker 1>He was. He's very compartmentalist. He was able to and

869
00:41:13.400 --> 00:41:15.039
<v Speaker 1>I kind of like that because you know, I'm I'm

870
00:41:15.039 --> 00:41:16.920
<v Speaker 1>a big fan of like staying friends with people, and

871
00:41:16.960 --> 00:41:19.559
<v Speaker 1>I don't like there to be muddy waters. So I

872
00:41:19.599 --> 00:41:22.119
<v Speaker 1>was ye with that. I didn't really want to make

873
00:41:22.159 --> 00:41:24.119
<v Speaker 1>out that much anyway, you know what I mean. I

874
00:41:24.119 --> 00:41:25.519
<v Speaker 1>was like, this is the nice part is going to

875
00:41:25.559 --> 00:41:28.159
<v Speaker 1>the concert. I would just rather talk to me if

876
00:41:28.159 --> 00:41:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you see me out somewhere.

877
00:41:29.599 --> 00:41:32.559
<v Speaker 2>But I felt confused and then would get drunk and

878
00:41:32.599 --> 00:41:35.440
<v Speaker 2>start to fights with him because he would always be around.

879
00:41:35.840 --> 00:41:38.360
<v Speaker 2>So then he would show up at other people's like

880
00:41:38.440 --> 00:41:39.840
<v Speaker 2>at things that he knew I was going.

881
00:41:39.800 --> 00:41:41.880
<v Speaker 1>To be at, and I was just like, what are

882
00:41:41.920 --> 00:41:46.159
<v Speaker 1>you doing? Why are you here? And I would be

883
00:41:46.280 --> 00:41:51.960
<v Speaker 1>drunk and mad. I mean, anyway, I think drinking. You

884
00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:55.400
<v Speaker 1>talked about him for a long time over many episodes,

885
00:41:55.440 --> 00:41:58.079
<v Speaker 1>and we have. In fact, even in the five years

886
00:41:58.079 --> 00:41:59.920
<v Speaker 1>that we've been doing the show, I've changed my I'm like,

887
00:42:00.079 --> 00:42:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I love the guy. I think it could be cool,

888
00:42:02.719 --> 00:42:04.079
<v Speaker 1>but I think we should have him. How do we

889
00:42:04.119 --> 00:42:06.840
<v Speaker 1>get him on the show? How do we probably still

890
00:42:06.840 --> 00:42:10.760
<v Speaker 1>have his number? I might, I might still have his number.

891
00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:12.960
<v Speaker 1>He like, I don't know. I don't think he'd do it, though,

892
00:42:13.000 --> 00:42:14.880
<v Speaker 1>because how do I say, like, we have talked about

893
00:42:14.920 --> 00:42:17.960
<v Speaker 1>you at length, not always in the most positive Like

894
00:42:18.000 --> 00:42:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I have to tell him that, like how do we

895
00:42:21.440 --> 00:42:26.000
<v Speaker 1>do that without like really but really okay? And I

896
00:42:26.079 --> 00:42:27.960
<v Speaker 1>know that this has like been a this has been

897
00:42:28.000 --> 00:42:32.119
<v Speaker 1>a an epiphany episode for me, But really, if I

898
00:42:32.159 --> 00:42:34.599
<v Speaker 1>think about it, with all the shitty things that I

899
00:42:34.639 --> 00:42:35.400
<v Speaker 1>say about him.

900
00:42:35.719 --> 00:42:39.000
<v Speaker 2>It's really not his fault, Like he was just living

901
00:42:39.039 --> 00:42:42.360
<v Speaker 2>his life and like he's a he's got to he's avoided.

902
00:42:42.760 --> 00:42:46.159
<v Speaker 2>Like if I think about Okay, was he ever? Was

903
00:42:46.199 --> 00:42:48.960
<v Speaker 2>he a mean to me? Not really he did. He

904
00:42:49.039 --> 00:42:50.880
<v Speaker 2>did try to shame me, and we both have our

905
00:42:50.920 --> 00:42:52.679
<v Speaker 2>own story and now we can't remember.

906
00:42:52.440 --> 00:42:54.119
<v Speaker 1>Who was who's one of us?

907
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:57.079
<v Speaker 2>One of us got shamed about disliking Kathy Griffin, and

908
00:42:57.119 --> 00:42:59.599
<v Speaker 2>one of us got shamed about the show Friends.

909
00:42:59.760 --> 00:43:01.960
<v Speaker 1>You're this was Friends, and mine was Kathy Griffin. I

910
00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:03.320
<v Speaker 1>just said I just didn't think she was a very

911
00:43:03.360 --> 00:43:07.599
<v Speaker 1>good actress. And he's like, nobody asked for your opinion,

912
00:43:07.840 --> 00:43:11.280
<v Speaker 1>con solicited. I mean, I guess, how do we have

913
00:43:11.400 --> 00:43:13.559
<v Speaker 1>him on as a guest? How do we do this?

914
00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:16.599
<v Speaker 1>Like I think we owe him an apology? Is what

915
00:43:17.480 --> 00:43:19.760
<v Speaker 1>what we're learning? I could say. Listen, for five years

916
00:43:19.760 --> 00:43:23.119
<v Speaker 1>we talked about like how because remember how we almost

917
00:43:23.199 --> 00:43:27.599
<v Speaker 1>named the show after him yep, the Punk Penson experience,

918
00:43:27.679 --> 00:43:29.559
<v Speaker 1>except that we were just going to use his actual name.

919
00:43:30.519 --> 00:43:32.239
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, we're not going to give

920
00:43:32.239 --> 00:43:35.199
<v Speaker 1>that fuck or the satisfaction of us naming our entire

921
00:43:35.280 --> 00:43:39.119
<v Speaker 1>podcast after him, because you know there have been also

922
00:43:39.239 --> 00:43:44.440
<v Speaker 1>like episodes where you saw him like that when he

923
00:43:44.480 --> 00:43:47.800
<v Speaker 1>saw him at the poker thing recently. It's like, we'd

924
00:43:47.840 --> 00:43:50.800
<v Speaker 1>have to take that down if we if we asked

925
00:43:50.840 --> 00:43:52.239
<v Speaker 1>him to be a guest on the show, and you

926
00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:53.400
<v Speaker 1>guys let us know.

927
00:43:53.440 --> 00:43:56.360
<v Speaker 2>No, because he's so self centered, he'd never go back

928
00:43:56.400 --> 00:43:57.519
<v Speaker 2>and listen to old episodes.

929
00:43:57.960 --> 00:44:00.639
<v Speaker 1>But somebody will tell him. We have people to tell

930
00:44:00.639 --> 00:44:04.559
<v Speaker 1>people things. So you guys, guys, if you want to

931
00:44:04.639 --> 00:44:08.800
<v Speaker 1>have a fun experience, you can't fuck with us. Don't

932
00:44:08.960 --> 00:44:11.400
<v Speaker 1>do the same thing. Yeah, we're trying to do a thing.

933
00:44:11.440 --> 00:44:14.840
<v Speaker 1>We're trying to heal. Don't fuck with our healing. I'm serious.

934
00:44:15.159 --> 00:44:16.440
<v Speaker 1>I think we should have him on the show. I

935
00:44:16.519 --> 00:44:19.280
<v Speaker 1>swear to God. And we'll just say hey, through the years,

936
00:44:19.280 --> 00:44:21.280
<v Speaker 1>we've we've kind of gone through a rollercoaster of our

937
00:44:21.320 --> 00:44:24.079
<v Speaker 1>feelings about you. We did mock some of the highness.

938
00:44:24.400 --> 00:44:26.559
<v Speaker 1>Now he's not so cool that he'd be cool with it.

939
00:44:26.599 --> 00:44:28.559
<v Speaker 1>Though he's not as laid back as you know, Oh

940
00:44:28.599 --> 00:44:33.199
<v Speaker 1>he's not. He'd be very much. We've seen stuff. We've

941
00:44:33.280 --> 00:44:36.360
<v Speaker 1>seen YouTube videos where he like stormed out of podcasts

942
00:44:36.360 --> 00:44:40.239
<v Speaker 1>because he decided everybody was stupid. He was a Haitian

943
00:44:40.280 --> 00:44:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and shouldn't have to put up with people. And they

944
00:44:42.400 --> 00:44:45.079
<v Speaker 1>were like, wait, are you joking? And he was not joking.

945
00:44:45.400 --> 00:44:47.800
<v Speaker 1>He gets these like spikes. I defended him, remember, because

946
00:44:47.800 --> 00:44:49.239
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I know he has back pain, and

947
00:44:49.280 --> 00:44:51.119
<v Speaker 1>I do think he gets like spikes of back pain

948
00:44:51.159 --> 00:44:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and that makes him like lash out. That's what I

949
00:44:53.480 --> 00:44:55.360
<v Speaker 1>want to believe. I don't want him to have that.

950
00:44:55.440 --> 00:44:57.199
<v Speaker 1>But how do we get him on the show and

951
00:44:57.239 --> 00:44:59.400
<v Speaker 1>erase everything we've talked. We'd have to go through like

952
00:44:59.559 --> 00:45:02.559
<v Speaker 1>we're not doing that. I refuse, I refuse. Then we

953
00:45:02.599 --> 00:45:03.559
<v Speaker 1>don't have him on the show.

954
00:45:03.840 --> 00:45:05.840
<v Speaker 2>Either we either don't have him on the show, or

955
00:45:05.920 --> 00:45:07.679
<v Speaker 2>we have him on the show and we stand by

956
00:45:07.719 --> 00:45:08.280
<v Speaker 2>what we've said.

957
00:45:08.320 --> 00:45:12.079
<v Speaker 1>We say, hey, listen, we've been rough. We just don't

958
00:45:12.119 --> 00:45:16.280
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959
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<v Speaker 1>before we go, we should say hi to our friends

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<v Speaker 2>And also our friend Randy may Ames gives her shout

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<v Speaker 2>to the charity of your choice. One thing that Cecily

1007
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<v Speaker 2>and I both love is our doggies, and we talked

1008
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<v Speaker 2>about our doggies. And look, ASPCA does a lot of

1009
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<v Speaker 2>stuff for animals, and if you have even an extra

1010
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<v Speaker 2>like five ten bucks, why not just send them a

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1012
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1013
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<v Speaker 2>of your choice. What just be more like Randy may

1014
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<v Speaker 2>Ames and be a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she's just the best person that we're all in

1016
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<v Speaker 1>love with. Yeah, all right, you guys, well we love you,

1017
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<v Speaker 1>We thank you. Not sorry today? I feel like we

1018
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<v Speaker 1>really made some are we sorry? No, we're not sorry today?

1019
00:48:22.239 --> 00:48:25.599
<v Speaker 1>No sorry, no, no, well no wait, I am a

1020
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<v Speaker 1>little sorry. I made some mistakes. I should have driven

1021
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<v Speaker 1>that guy to the airport.

1022
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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well you're sorry for that, but you're not sorry

1023
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<v Speaker 2>for the show.

1024
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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, all right, bye bye