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<v Speaker 1>The Second Date Update on KJ103.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Ryan and OKC. Welcome to the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Ryan. Hey, guys. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>We got to get you another date with Nicole because

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<v Speaker 4>you thought, you know what? This is definitely the one

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<v Speaker 4>that has some potential.

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<v Speaker 3>I really thought so. I'm a little confused. We've been

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<v Speaker 3>texting for a while and we talked on the phone

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<v Speaker 3>like a couple of times, had like great just like funny,

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<v Speaker 3>fun conversations. And then we finally had dinner and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, we just like, we had like great chemistry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, and then we just, like, talked for a

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<v Speaker 3>long time. It was, like, one of those dinners where

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<v Speaker 3>we were, like, done, and the server was coming around

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<v Speaker 3>being like, can I get you guys anything else? Kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like, can I.

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<v Speaker 2>Push you along?

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<v Speaker 3>Can I put.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys at the table?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not like she was trying to escape, you know? Like,

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<v Speaker 3>we were having a good time. Nice. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Sounds all positive so far.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. And then, you know, when we were leaving, I

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<v Speaker 3>said I'd call her, and I did. And she hasn't answered.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I've texted her. She's not texting me back.

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<v Speaker 3>So either, like, I completely misread this or, like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know if something happened. I didn't pick up on it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know how this works. We're going to get

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<v Speaker 4>Nicole on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get an answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Awesome, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Nicole.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, hi, hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, it was on mute.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Been on mute for the communication after this date as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, apparently he's been on mute getting back to.

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan because he hasn't heard from you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I don't know. He's one of those people where

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<v Speaker 1>like every little smell bothers him, you know?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like, okay, so we're sitting down and he's like, Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your perfume. I mean, it smells good, but it's just really.

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<v Speaker 3>Really strong.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of giving me a headache. And I was like, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like he comes out of the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like that air freshener they're using in there. impressioner

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<v Speaker 1>is like making my sinuses go crazy. Like it's going

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<v Speaker 1>to mess me up for two days. And then like

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<v Speaker 1>the server who's cleaning the table next to us, he goes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>that cleaner smells like great chemicals. And like, he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy his food.

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<v Speaker 2>And- Smells are an issue for some people. Actually, smells

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<v Speaker 2>are an issue.

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<v Speaker 4>Some smells for me, like perfumes and stuff, will give

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<v Speaker 4>me a headache, make me kind of sick.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I've got sinus infections. I've got a big nose.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's just like, hey, man, like the world has smells,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like lots of them.

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<v Speaker 4>And like..

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently, like everyone is trying to personally attack Ryan. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It was a lot for me.

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<v Speaker 4>Ryan, come on into this conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, that's a real thing. Like I do

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<v Speaker 3>have a sensitivity to fragrances.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, and I'm not saying that you don't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're, like, making fun of me right now

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<v Speaker 3>for it. Well, I'm not making fun of you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm making fun of the fact that, like, I had

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<v Speaker 1>to hear about every single smell.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I see what you're saying. Maybe we don't have

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about it so much. Because you say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>the smell is... But, I mean, it is happening. It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of getting a headache from this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, it gives me a headache. Like, my

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<v Speaker 3>eyes will burn. My nose will, like... get all irritated. Like,

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<v Speaker 3>what do you want me to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe just don't announce it like every 45 seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. I mean, but your perfume like really was giving

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<v Speaker 3>me a headache. I'm sorry, but like, if you want

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<v Speaker 3>me to have a headache on our next date, wear

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<v Speaker 3>that perfume.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>That is kind of what I'm talking about right there.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an actual medical condition. Like if I had cancer

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<v Speaker 3>or something, you wouldn't make fun of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my God, Ryan, you don't have cancer. Your medical

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<v Speaker 1>condition is that you don't like my beautiful perfume.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm just saying like you wouldn't tell somebody with

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<v Speaker 3>another different medical condition just to get over it. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just saying it's a real medical condition.

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<v Speaker 4>So Nicole, is it that, is the red flag that

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<v Speaker 4>he's sensitive to the smells and you like your perfume?

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<v Speaker 2>It's him talking about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, Very simple. Like, I don't want to spend a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship where my Bath and Body Works candles can send

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan to the ER. That's what's going on.

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<v Speaker 2>You are trying to make it fun.

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<v Speaker 3>A little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but that's a big deal. Candles are important

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<v Speaker 2>and if we can't use them, that's a problem. I

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<v Speaker 2>get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you have to stop talking about it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing against you personally. It's just like, There are other

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<v Speaker 1>things I want to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. If he stops talking about it, how about another date?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't want to inhibit him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>He needs to find another girl with these sensitivities and

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<v Speaker 4>they can just stay in a room.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's a lot of, and then not making fun.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of people from the COVID era. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's true. This is a real thing. I get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Still can't smell things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Well, no, that's actually the opposite.

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<v Speaker 4>Nevermind.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Bye.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Nicole, we're not getting another date here. Thanks for coming

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<v Speaker 2>on the second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. Well, good luck. Good luck, Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye. Bye. I'm done with you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan, no.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I said, if I'm around a scent that bothers

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<v Speaker 4>my nose long enough, I literally will get a sinus infection.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not know that was a thing for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I mean, I'm not asking the world to stop

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<v Speaker 3>having smells. I know how it is. Fragrances actually give

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<v Speaker 3>me a headache. My eyes burn. I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 3>just sticks with me for hours. I can't get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sad for you. Sounds awful. Really does sound awful.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, well, Ryan, thanks for coming on the Second

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<v Speaker 2>Date Update, buddy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thanks for trying, guys. Appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure.