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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to Reality TV Caringe Podcast. I am

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one of your hosts, Delia, and I'm here with my

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real tight homegirl and my daughter in law the Exquisite Beatre.

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Speaker 2: That's me.

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Speaker 1: We are here to talk sister wives hood. Yes, we

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are still in season nine, and I'm sorry, I'm just

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gonna say it. It feels like the longest season we've had

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to review. It's quite long, except for that one season

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a couple of seasons ago that was thirty episodes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, he's nineteen or something.

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Speaker 1: I need more to happen. I need us to get

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to the catfish. We're gonna get to the catfish and

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then we're gonna it's gonna be a tell all.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna be the end.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be a new season.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, so we're here to talk about that. Before we

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get into it, I need to remind you of our disclaimer.

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Please hide your wife and hide your kids. This is

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an irreverent podcast where we say offensive things, stupid things,

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funny things. And last week I wore a Jesus T shirt.

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I didn't even think about this, Honestly, guys, I bet

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some of you noticed too. I wore a shroud of

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turin don't laugh Jesus T shirt and.

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Speaker 2: I talked about blow Jaws.

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Speaker 1: I talked about sixty nine y while I was wearing

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a T shirt with Jesus's face.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Let me just apologize publicly bad so inappropriate. I actually

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was like shit, should I take that down? Anyway? I apologize.

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Speaker 2: I'm not always thinking it was funny though.

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Speaker 1: And like I said, we're offensive. Yeah, So if yours

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get out of here, you might want to find yourself

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another dumpster. But if you're ready to go surfing in

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California with Cody Brown and girls, then welcome to this dumpster.

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Speaker 2: And if you like what we do over here, please

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it's at or reacting to Little Women of La, Little

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Bitty of La. Yeah, we're reacting to Couple's Therapy and

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multiple different versions of Couplesampy and a bunch of other

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stuff over there. It's a party.

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Speaker 1: It is a party. Come and join us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now, if you are watching on YouTube. Please to not

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forget to like and comment and share and subscribe. And

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also it's time to party and hype your girls up.

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Please give us a hype please because it really helps

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they think or something. So thank you in it's thank you.

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Before we get into this recap, I do have to

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ask you, Beatrice, whether you have a takeaway.

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Speaker 2: My only takeaway is like, why are we watching Cody

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pretend to be a good dad for literally forty five

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minutes and I constantly talk about like, no, actually, I'm

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really close with my daughters. Actually I really love all

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of my kids. Actually I'm a really good dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like are you though? Beatrice is also the one

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who designs our thumbnails, so you can tell how she

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feels about Cody in this episode. Yeah, what do I have?

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It was so boring. I got nothing, sorry, Maddie that

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you weren't let into the Church of Latter day Saints

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and Jesus Christ and stuff. A bunch of saints and

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Jesus Christ and a salamander and I think there was

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a pacaderm in America. Sorry about it.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: So that's my takeaway. So without further ado, let's get

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into our recap of season nine, episode seven, and.

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Speaker 2: More girls than Cody can handle question Mark. Hmm, okay, whatever,

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So we start the episode with Cody. This is like

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a recap of last week basically, but Cody's telling five

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of his girls Isabelle, Aurora, Brianna, Savannah, and Gwen Savanna.

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Speaker 1: Savannah is so cute.

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Speaker 2: She's such a little baby. She reminds me so much

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of my little sister at that age, like almost to

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a teen, and she's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: She's such a punky, I know.

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Speaker 2: But he tells all five of them, Hey, I'm gonna

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take you guys to a beach trip. It's gonna be

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a daddy daughter like weekend or whatever. It's for Isabelle's

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twelfth birthday. And of course all of the girls are

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super excited. And it's funny because Cody brings up like

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part of the reason why he wants to do this

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is because the anthropology students a couple weeks ago pointed

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out the fact that he's not as close with his

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daughters as he is with his sons. So this is

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totally a response to that which I think you had

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theorized about last week. Yes, and so you are right

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because you're fake psychic and yeah, Cody just wants to

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prove that he's close with his daughters, and Robin also

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told him that if he like maintains the relationship with

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them at this age, then he will have an easier

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time to maintain it when they're older in like high

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school and college.

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Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, And at some point in the episode we

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have Cody sank I forget who said it. I'm tired,

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so keep up with me, but like somebody said, what

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the archaeologist said, yeah, was really shocking to Cody. Yeah,

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And you could kind of see it in the moment

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when they were at dinner or whatever and they bring

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it up. He shocked. He's concerned at his image because

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of course he's a narcissist, and so since they've been

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there so two months or whatever, it is like he's

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just been worrying about it and how he can restore

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his public image as a father. And that is the

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entire reason that we are having this episode. But it

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was interesting that one of the wives admitted that he

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was really taken aback by that comment.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and I forget who it was to. I want

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to say it was like maybe Robin, maybe Robin, because

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Robin's also pretty heavy in this episode, and she's very

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much like defending Cody and saying, like, no, he's actually

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a really good dad. He loves all of his kids,

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there's no question about it. And so it seems like

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maybe both of them are concerned about how Cody is

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being perceived in the public eye. And it's really crazy

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to see it from that light, because I'm sure back

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then when this aired, people are like, oh, it's wholesome,

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he's taking his daughters out to the beach, But no,

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it's totally because Cody's worried that everybody thinks that he's

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a bad dad. And so then when he's getting ready

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for the trip, of course you know he's running late,

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and it's chaotic because nobody in this family, especially the adults,

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can pack anything in a timely manner or be organized

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in any way, shape or form, even when it's only

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five kids going on a trip, like it's not that

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big of a deal, but like they leave late, and

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of course the wives are quote micromanaging Cody on like

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what he should be doing and how much he should

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be packing, and make sure you do this, and make

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sure you do that, and Cody's getting annoyed, and Cody

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makes several comments throughout this episode as like digs to

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his wives, mainly the OG three, where he's just like, Yeah,

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this trip's gonna be like so much easier than bringing

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my bitch wives on because nobody's gonna be complaining to me,

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nobody's gonna be getting jealous, nobody's gonna be inserting their

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relationship politics. Because I know my daughters love me, so

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it'll be easy. It'll be good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he kept making that comparison.

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Speaker 2: I kind of hated that, yeah, because I'm wondering if,

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like Christine and Janelle and Mary watched that after the fact,

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm quite sure the hell. It felt like it

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was very pointed toward Christine, and it was like multiple, multiple.

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Speaker 2: Times he made these comments. It was kind of ridiculous.

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And so then Cody and the girls leave and they're

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driving to Newport Beach in California. It's only like five

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hours away, but halfway through they stop at some diner

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and they have breakfast for whatever. I don't care. Then

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they get to the actual beach and they're grocery shopping

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for food for the next couple days because they rented

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like a little beach house and of course, Cody buys

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too much stuff, and the girls comment about it because

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it's ridiculous. And they get to the beach house and

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everybody's on sign they're picking their room.

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Speaker 1: So I see that you hated this episode.

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Speaker 2: I didn't hate it. It's just like, oh well.

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Speaker 1: There was one segment where they're talking to the girls

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who go to California on the couch and Savannah's just

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like this, sorry about that. I lost my wig. Anyway,

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Savannah's like fuck, and I took a picture and I

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sent it to you, and I'm like, this is me

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watching this episode. But have you ever seen that video

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clip of that girl who's in a podcast and she

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tips her head back and her wig falls off.

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Speaker 2: But your life does not.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, bruh, we gonna keep

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this And she just looks at the interviewer and she's like, bruh,

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bra oh my god, I gotta find it, and said

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it's so hilarious. Anyway, Savannah is all of us.

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Speaker 2: Toats because it's just I mean, I think the girls

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they're young at this point, so they're like trying to

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lean into the fun part of it. But I'm sure

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they look back on this trip I would as a

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young adult, and I'd be like, man, that was dumb,

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because it just it's very obvious that Cody's just trying

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to like be like, yeah, I'm the fun dad. And

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Cody keeps making these comments about how the wives like

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don't trust him or they're worried about how he's gonna do,

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and he's like, I'm gonna be fine. It's gonna be

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so easy, and it's really not that big of a deal,

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like it's just him bringing them.

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Speaker 1: It isn't, but it's easy to do when you only

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have four days. And it kind of shines a light

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on how much of an emotional load the other wives

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actually take on, because when they do go to the

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grocery store, Cody's just buying whatever. He has no list,

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he doesn't know how to shop, which the girls call

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him out for. You can really see how much the

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wives actually do to keep the family together when Cody

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has his kids on his own, because remember the last

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time Cody had his kids on his own, the ladies

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went to San Francisco right and truly almost died while

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he burned steaks on the grill.

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Speaker 2: And Isabelle cut up her foot on that trip too.

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fair to be worried about Cody, and I don't know,

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it's just funny to me that he acts like he

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does so much for the family when in reality, the

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women are really just running the entire shit, Like they're

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doing all of the parenting and all of the cooking

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and all of the cleaning. Like what is Cody doing

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getting his pencil wet?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and collecting checks right, taking their money.

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Speaker 2: And like having to grin and bear time with Mary

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or Christine for example, like oh god, it's so terrible

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for you for the man. And this is where Cody

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at the grocery store, like had made a comment too.

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He had said something like I don't have to deal

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with my whyfe in the relationship politics because all of

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my daughters know that I love them. And I thought

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that was really poignant because he's again like digging at

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Christine and the other wives of just like, well, you

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don't know that I love you because I do obviously,

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even though I never touch you and I never kiss you,

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Speaker 1: Hang out with you, and I'm favoring Robin overtly exactly.

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Speaker 2: And then meanwhile, we bought back on over to the

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wives and the cul de sac, and we have Maddie

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coming over to talk to just Mary and Robin for

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some reason about the fact that the LDS Church won't

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let her in because she won't denounce her family or

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disassociate herself from the family, and because her family is

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so public, so they won't accept her to the church.

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They won't baptize her. They said that she can still go,

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but she can't be baptized, and they were like, we

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hope it will make you bitter, we hope, we hope

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you'll reconsider in the future when your family is not

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Speaker 1: I just don't understand how these Christian religions. And we

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can debate whether Mormonism is Christian, which Michelty just had

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a whole reel about that apparently, but essentially your religion

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is supposed to be centered upon Jesus Christ, who at

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the time of this cross affection was crucified with a

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thief who was not baptized, we would presume, who was

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probably a sinner and did some bad things. But Jesus

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turned to him and said, on this day in paradise,

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I will see you. I will see you in paradise

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there's nothing you gotta do in order to get into

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the Kingdom. And yet with churches like Catholicism, Catholics and

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also Mormonism, you've got to go through this board of

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white men in order to be admitted into their religion.

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It's really distasteful, yep, and really gross. And you get

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a sense that Maddie understands, like, oh wow, Like, if

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you're going to be that way, then why would I

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ever want to be a part of your religion. I

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wouldn't ever.

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to join the Mormon Church, and I won't join any

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church for that matter, because she says her belief system

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really only fits with the Mormon Church, it doesn't fit

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with anything else. But she's just not going to be

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a part of something like that if they're going to

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make her jump through all of these hoops and make

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her denounce her family, like, she's just not going to

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do that. And I'm really glad that she is standing

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on that principle. And she's very clear to say, like

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I don't agree with polygamy, like I don't endorse it,

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I don't want it for my life. You know, I

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love my family and that's their choice and stuff, but like,

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I don't have to support it to be with my

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family or whatever. So I just think this whole segment

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was kind of stupid because we knew that the Mormon

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Church was going to deny her anyway.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm sure at the time people did not know that.

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Speaker 2: I wonder what Mormons thought about.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a really bad look for the.

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Speaker 2: Church totally, But I wonder what they thought about watching this.

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I'm sure some who are probably heavy in the church

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are like, well, yeah, of course, and like except you

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because your family's a bunch of poligamists. But I just

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think that that's so stupid. And Maddy even brings up

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Jesus in this too. She's like, Jesus wouldn't say that, No,

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it wouldn't deny me from believing in him or going

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to worship him in church.

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Speaker 1: Like not at all. What the hell is Antichrist? It's

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total now I should be wearing my shroud of shit.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, Mary and Mary and Robin are both surprised

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by this, and Robin even says like, I'm super sorry

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that this happened to you, Maddie. And then Janelle on

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the couch is like, I'm shocked that the Mormon Church

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wouldn't allow her. So it seems like it took everybody

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by surprise to me. I'm watching this, I'm like, well, duh,

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because the Mormon Church is very anti polygamy, so like

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it doesn't surprise me. But it's like, I just wonder

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what regular smegular Mormons think when they watch this, Like.

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Speaker 1: Hm, hmm, do you think this is cool?

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Speaker 2: Because I don't, But whatever, Who am I just a

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bitch and a wa So then we go back to

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the beach with Cody and the girls and he takes

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them to a little theme park and he didn't take

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into account that Savannah and Gwen wouldn't really want to

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ride all of the crazy rides, and so he kind

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of does feel a little bad for them. He feels

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bad that they might feel left out. But then he

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continues to go on the rides with Aurora, Brienna, and Isabelle,

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and you know, it's like a fun little day at

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the theme park. It seems cute or whatever.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 2: We bop on over to the wives on the couch

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and Robin says something like, you know, I was hoping

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that this trip Cody would have like a lot of

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hard to heart talks with the girls and like one

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on one time with them, but it seems like they're

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just partying and having fun.

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Speaker 1: Kids don't want to have one on one serious talks

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with their parents. They want to have fun. That's the

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language of your children, and you want to meet them

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where they are in order to connect, especially.

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Speaker 2: At this age. It's not like they're older adults that

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are like starting to think about their life and think

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about big things. Like they're literally twelve.

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Speaker 1: And so sabadas like seven exist, So of.

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Speaker 2: Course they want to do fun things and eat pizza

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and mac and cheese with their dad at the beach.

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Like it's not that deep, So I don't know, whatever,

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they have fun at the beach house, and I think

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Christine and Robin talk about their kids, like Robin talks

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about Aurora and she's so amazing and outspoken, it's just

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an adventurer, and how Brianna is like quiet but like

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she's really funny. And then Christine talks about Gwen.

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Speaker 1: Gwen's awesome. Actually I know she's a truth teller.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 1: In the moment, she will tell the truth.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 2: But Christine on the couch is like, well, she's got

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her good and bad days. So if you catch on

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a good day, she's great. But you catch her on

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a bad day, oh, leave her alone. I'm like, wow, okay, whatever, Christine.

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And then we go back on home to the cul

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de Sac where we have a little segment with Mary

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and Janelle, and Mary's in her haunted house and her

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hair looks great.

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Speaker 1: It stopped. It's such a bad hair season for Mary,

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this season of her life with like the blonde, highlighted,

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fried layered but longer.

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Speaker 2: It looks significantly less fried than it does in present day.

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Speaker 1: I get and this one at.

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Speaker 2: Least has a little, it flows a little.

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Speaker 1: It does not. It is so bad. It's so bad

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for collaring, It's so bad for absolutely everything. Mary, get

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your shit together, honey.

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Speaker 2: She looks kind of like she's getting spray dands. Yes,

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oh indeed, I'm just like, what are we doing? We're

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in Vegas, Like, just go sit down in the sun

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for a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Actually, don't you want to be different? Don't you want

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to be that person who's not like everybody else? I

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would be like as pale as possible in Vegas. Yeah,

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I'd be so screening all day for real though.

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Speaker 2: But Mary's in her little office and she says, you know,

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for months ago, Janelle came to be four.

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Speaker 1: Years ago, four score and seven years ago, she came.

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Speaker 2: To me and asked if I would be interested in

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going in the therapy. And I think, you know, she's

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waited long enough that she deserves an answer. And so

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then she walks on over very quickly to Janelle's house.

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Speaker 1: Well, because she's lost a lot of weight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she definitely has.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's changing. I wonder why. Hu seems like she's motivated,

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Yeah by something.

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Speaker 2: Motivated by a little banana.

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Speaker 1: So inspire, Yeah, something, what could it be?

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Speaker 2: She barges on over into Janelle's house and did you

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notice she kind of slammed the door. Yeah, I'm like,

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what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Just kick the door open like the kool aid man?

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Speaker 2: Seriously. So she barges in, and Janelle's in the kitchen

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and Mary sits down at her little kitchen bar. Mary's like,

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you want to sit down or something like jeez, chill out,

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and so Jenne's like, no, it's final stand. And she

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now kind of knows what this is about. And she's

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like a little nervous, she's got her walls up, and

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Mary's like, well, I've been thinking, I've been praying, and

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I've gotten a lot of encouragement from our god unkole

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Lob that you know, I should move forward with therapy

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with you. And then Janelle is like taken aback by this.

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She's shocked and actually cries, which we don't really see Janelle.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to remember any other time I've seen

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Janelle cry. Yeah, she definitely keeps it very garrison, but

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Garah's trying to not show us when she's crying. Yep,

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Like she hardly ever cries. She doesn't really show a

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lot of emotion in general, Like maybe she'll smile or

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laugh or whatever, but there's a lot that she keeps behind.

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And she even says like it takes a lot for

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me to cry, like the only time I ever really

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cries when I'm truly shocked about something. And so with

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Mary saying that she agreed to go to therapy with her,

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Janelle is shocked. She's overcome with emotion, and she's like, well,

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that's great, and then they actually end up hugging, and

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when Mary hugs her, she starts crying and they're looking

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forward to therapy together, which I can't remember how many

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sessions they actually went to. I don't think it's a lot,

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and I think nothing is resolved.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I think Mary shows up with her walls up, unwilling

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to admit to anything, and Janelle probably senses that, and

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they don't go anywhere with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking too, because I don't think

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there's much that comes out of this, and I think

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this is when everything starts to fall apart and then

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the catfish comes out, and so maybe their therapy gets

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put on the back burner.

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Speaker 1: Right because we have to deal with that. I did

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think that it was poignant when Janelle or Mary said

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that we have spent half our lives together. And you

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can really see based on their emotions, even though it's

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on camera, even though I'm sure this scene was set

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up beforehand, you can see the emotion in these women,

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like these ancient wounds that they have given each other

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that are in them. Did you see that real that

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I sent you like two days ago?

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Speaker 2: Which one?

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Speaker 1: So it's this two guys in a therapy podcast setting.

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It's called secondhand therapy or something like that, and the

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guy was talking about speaking to his therapist, and he

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says at some point, his therapist says, well, we should

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acknowledge that you have definitely buried a lot of your trauma,

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but we also need to acknowledge that you buried your

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trauma alive. And when he was talking about it, I'm like, damn, yeah,

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like all of those things that you bury, and we're

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seeing Mary and Janelle and all of the things that

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they had to bury just in order to coexist in

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this weird family structure, all of those things were buried alive,

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and so they're still alive and now here we are,

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what twenty years later. Yeah, and because they're willing to

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move a little bit, they're both crying because it's a lie.

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It is, it's a libe in them. Totally very poignant,

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I thought.

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Speaker 2: And I think when Mary had said that about you know,

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we've spent half of our lives together, she was like,

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we should make it mean something like after all this time,

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we really should just work on it. And I think

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that that's really great. It's kind of sad to me though,

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it's like we're watching this like they don't even talk

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and they don't have a relationship, Like even after all

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of this time. It's kind of a bummer that, like,

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even after all of the divorces, like we can't just

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like come together. And I don't know whose fault that

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is really, because Janelle is also a bit of an

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avoidant person, but Mary is just as bad. And Mary

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now is just like doing her own thing.

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Speaker 1: I guess with I think Mary just got to the

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point where she's like, I don't need any of you

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all anymore, and she does not care. And I do

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think a lot of us get to that point after

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trying year after year after year, in whatever kind of

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relationship it is, You're just like, Okay, well then fuck

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it right, I'm gonna move on. I'm gonna live my life.

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And that's where she is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I guess that that's fair. I think that's

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is he leaf blown. I swear you're gonna go yell

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at him.

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Speaker 1: I have to maybe yell at him, like what is

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he doing?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: Now? He was literally out there, was sitting on the couch,

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falling asleep in his recliner with his stupid laptop pretending

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to work anyway, What were we saying, I'm just pitch ass.

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Speaker 1: Oh well it wasn't my husband. He's in his recliner.

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It's my neighbors. So I didn't mean it. He's not

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a pitch ass. I'm sorry. Yeah, doesn't he know my podcast?

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Doesn't he know my famous on the internet?

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Speaker 2: So where were we anyway? So marynge No, they're working

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on a relationship, but not really.

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Speaker 1: Here goes.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. And so then we end the episode

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with Cody and the girls at the beach. They go

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to the beach, they go to a different beach, Huntington Beach,

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to go boogie boarding with the sharks, and then they

472
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go back to their little bungalow. And this is where

473
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we hear a little bit more from Cody about how

474
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he's got a million kids and if he didn't think

475
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that all of his kids were great people, he wouldn't

476
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keep having kids. So he's just gonna keep progreating because

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he likes his kids.

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Speaker 1: As long as Robin wants to.

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Speaker 2: And that's he brought up Robin. He's like, we're limited

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to what Robin wants to do. But she doesn't like

481
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when we talk about her reproduction, so I'll just leave

482
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it at that, which is just a precursor to like

483
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,680
the next episode or two, when she announces to the

484
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family that she's pregnant again. So it's just kind of silly.

485
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I mean, I I was watching this and I was thinking,

486
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you know, maybe there was a time where Cody did

487
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genuinely love all of his children, but just you know,

488
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,119
now that they're adults and that they can speak for themselves,

489
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and that they pushed back on him, like especially during

490
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:03,160
COVID and stuff, and pushed back on his continued favoritism

491
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,079
of Robin. He doesn't actually love them because love for

492
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,960
him is conditional, it's not unconditional, and so I think

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at this time, you know, maybe there was a part

494
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,079
of him that was coming out of like, yeah, I

495
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love all my kids. I think they're all great, But

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that's because they were young, right, and they couldn't push

497
00:25:20,279 --> 00:25:21,480
back as much well.

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Speaker 1: And the family was still together and it was working,

499
00:25:24,519 --> 00:25:27,519
and he was still in charge of the money. And

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now Robin's the legal wife and so everything's coming together.

501
00:25:31,559 --> 00:25:34,839
So yeah, it's great until the kids get older, until

502
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,440
your wives leave you, until people start calling you on

503
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,680
your bullshit like this podcast. Yeah, exactly.

504
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Speaker 2: And then at one point at the end of this episode,

505
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Cody was talking about how, you know, he was looking

506
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for things that were wrong in his relationships with his kids,

507
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mainly because the anthropologists pointed that out, and you know,

508
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,039
the wives have been pointing out the fact that he

509
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,720
has a disparity between some of his relationships with his kids.

510
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But you know, on this trip, he found all of

511
00:26:04,559 --> 00:26:07,200
the things that were actually right. And he's like, you know,

512
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like this wasn't a bonding trip because I'm already bonded

513
00:26:11,519 --> 00:26:13,680
with my girls, like I already have a great relationship

514
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,799
with them, And I'm like, really, do you know, because

515
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,000
Isabelle has a lot of father wounds, like even to

516
00:26:20,079 --> 00:26:22,279
this day, yes, and even in this trip, you can

517
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,319
kind of tell like the focus wasn't necessarily on her,

518
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:28,319
like we had like a little birthday celebration with her

519
00:26:28,759 --> 00:26:31,759
at the very end, but like he was chumming it

520
00:26:31,839 --> 00:26:35,079
up with Aurora and Brianna a lot more, and he

521
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,400
was like more affectionate with Savannah, like isabel was just

522
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:41,200
kind of in the background, and I was going, yeah,

523
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,440
and I kind of felt for her. And maybe it's

524
00:26:43,519 --> 00:26:46,839
because they're Christine's kids, I think. So, Like we've talked

525
00:26:46,839 --> 00:26:49,640
about before many times on the pod that you know,

526
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,200
maybe Cody had like his relationships with his kids or

527
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,759
a reflection of his relationships with that particular wife. And

528
00:26:56,799 --> 00:27:01,319
so of course Christine's kids are left behind, and you know,

529
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:05,240
and Robin's kids are favored, and Janelle's kids have more affection.

530
00:27:05,839 --> 00:27:07,559
Like it's just sad.

531
00:27:08,079 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: It is sad. And when they were at their various

532
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,640
activities in California, you could just see when they were

533
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,839
walking around, all the girls trying to hold onto his

534
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,720
shirt or puld his hand or just be close to him.

535
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,119
It really felt to me like they are starving, well,

536
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,480
not Aurora, not Brianna, the other girls are starving for

537
00:27:24,519 --> 00:27:25,440
attention from him.

538
00:27:25,799 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that kind of got to me. And honestly,

539
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:31,960
like when Aurora and Brianna kept saying dad over and

540
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,640
over again in reference to Cody, like that was kind

541
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,000
of bothering me a little bit. Like as just a daughter,

542
00:27:38,079 --> 00:27:41,160
I'm just like, he's not your dad.

543
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: The that right, right.

544
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,839
Speaker 2: You know, I know it's so petty, but it's just

545
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,759
like I wonder what the younger girls were thinking at

546
00:27:48,759 --> 00:27:51,480
the time. And maybe it's different for them because they

547
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,279
grew up in polygamy and so they're used to sharing

548
00:27:54,319 --> 00:27:56,960
their dad with all of their siblings and stuff, and

549
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,839
so it's not that big of a deal. But you

550
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:04,759
can just tell that Cody really does favor Robin and

551
00:28:04,839 --> 00:28:07,240
Robin's kids. H I think so, yeah, more than any

552
00:28:07,279 --> 00:28:09,000
of the other ones, Like, no matter what he says,

553
00:28:09,519 --> 00:28:11,079
you know, I think there was a time where he

554
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:15,039
loved all of his kids before Robin. And that's it.

555
00:28:15,559 --> 00:28:17,240
And so let me get to the preview for the

556
00:28:17,279 --> 00:28:21,200
next episode. We have Robin talking to Christine about signing

557
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,440
the adoption paperwork because we are going to be moving

558
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,640
forward with that, and I think we do see the

559
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,079
adoption very soon where they go all go to court

560
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,839
and it's like this big old thing, and Christine talks

561
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:35,079
about how polygamists don't typically win adoption cases or any

562
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:39,960
cases for that matter, because they're polygamists and nobody likes polygamists.

563
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And then we have Mary talking about her health issues.

564
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She lost thirty pounds in like a six week period

565
00:28:46,319 --> 00:28:49,440
or four week period or something, and you know, she's

566
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,440
really worried, so she goes to the doctor and the

567
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,240
doctor totally scares her about cancer. I remember that episode.

568
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: So why does she get like a bad PAP smear

569
00:28:58,559 --> 00:28:58,960
or something.

570
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,279
Speaker 2: Thanks, So, does she have the HPV or something like

571
00:29:03,319 --> 00:29:04,920
that maybe, but.

572
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:09,119
Speaker 1: She would she have gotten that little Cody? Okay, but

573
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,640
where would he have weren't they each other's first Oh no,

574
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:12,440
he went to college.

575
00:29:12,519 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, he had that.

576
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: Case inappropriate speculation. Sorry, So I remember I thought it

577
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,480
was the ech pylori, isn't it the h pylori?

578
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 2: Cody was doing a lot of soaking in college.

579
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 1: So well, I know that Mary ends up having the

580
00:29:30,519 --> 00:29:33,799
each pylori, which is some bacteria in your stomach or

581
00:29:33,839 --> 00:29:36,400
something like that. But really what's happening is she's not

582
00:29:36,519 --> 00:29:39,160
eating because she's planning to meet up with Sam and

583
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,400
she doesn't want to be bigger, she wants to be smaller,

584
00:29:41,519 --> 00:29:42,400
so she's diety.

585
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Speaker 2: She's dieting, but she's worried that everybody's going to catch

586
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:46,480
on to the fact.

587
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: So it's cancer. It could be cancer.

588
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 2: So he's gonna go to the dock roo and be like,

589
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:52,119
can you please say it's cancer?

590
00:29:52,799 --> 00:29:53,799
Speaker 1: We can't rule it out.

591
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 2: And it's so messed up because she's got a family

592
00:29:56,599 --> 00:29:59,640
history of cancer, so like you're going to the cancer Yeah, yeah,

593
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,279
You're go to the doctor, and you're like getting all

594
00:30:02,279 --> 00:30:03,039
this fear mongery.

595
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Speaker 1: Listen, I don't mean to make fun no, anything like that.

596
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,319
But it's just that we know what's going on right now.

597
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,880
That's the thing with Mary and the thing. I feel

598
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,039
like that's the reason. It's because she wants to lose

599
00:30:14,079 --> 00:30:16,839
weight for her mia is totally yeah for her.

600
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 2: Lesbian yeah, yes. And then Robin is stressed out. I

601
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,680
guess like the way they edit it in the preview

602
00:30:23,799 --> 00:30:26,240
is like Robin's stressed out about Mary's health issues. But

603
00:30:26,319 --> 00:30:29,200
really I think it's Robin being stressed out about telling

604
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,480
the family that she's pregnant again because Cody and her

605
00:30:31,519 --> 00:30:35,559
are fucking a lot. They're hunching a lot, and I

606
00:30:35,599 --> 00:30:39,359
think Mary has an announcement and Robin also has an announcement.

607
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,319
I know Robin's gonna say she's pregnant, but I can't remember.

608
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: What Mary And now I could have cancer.

609
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 2: I'm worried. I went to the doctor and they did

610
00:30:48,759 --> 00:30:49,640
a sea tea scan.

611
00:30:50,599 --> 00:30:54,559
Speaker 1: I have the I'm just gonna be saying that for

612
00:30:54,599 --> 00:30:55,359
the rest of the see this.

613
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 2: The people are gonna think you're serious. People thought we

614
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,640
were serious when we can't making fun of the anthropologists

615
00:31:03,079 --> 00:31:05,599
and we kept calling them archaeologists. We got some comments

616
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:13,599
being like unctually it's anthropologists. We know, we know they're archaeologists,

617
00:31:14,119 --> 00:31:18,839
ding dongs. So people are gonna think you're miseducated because

618
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,559
you're saying age priory, but that's what it is, right.

619
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Speaker 1: We'll see whatever in the upcoming episodes. I'm sorry if

620
00:31:26,839 --> 00:31:29,039
I'm wrong. I'm often wrong. I apologize.

621
00:31:29,759 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: And we're in a dumpster, y'all.

622
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,079
Speaker 1: So is there anything else that we need to say

623
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:35,400
to these beautiful rock homes before we get a boat

624
00:31:35,559 --> 00:31:36,400
of the heel.

625
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,559
Speaker 2: Beautres Well, if you love our podcast, please do us

626
00:31:39,559 --> 00:31:41,559
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627
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628
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629
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630
00:31:49,599 --> 00:31:50,440
thank you in advance.

631
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,319
Speaker 1: We will be back later this week to talk Welcome

632
00:31:53,359 --> 00:31:56,720
to Plathfill. Potentially is the finale I think it is.

633
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,039
I don't know that it's the finale. I think it is,

634
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,920
but it might be the but we're going to be

635
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,519
covering us come back for that. Until then, please do

636
00:32:04,559 --> 00:32:06,640
not forget that we've nothing but love for you and

637
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peace and