WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.439 --> 00:00:06.440 Deborah, with her thirty years of being an entrepreneur and 2 00:00:06.519 --> 00:00:09.919 creating over seven companies, knows exactly what it means to 3 00:00:10.039 --> 00:00:13.160 accept the mission. When you make that decision, when you 4 00:00:13.199 --> 00:00:16.359 accept the mission to become a solopreneur, to take yourself 5 00:00:16.399 --> 00:00:19.039 and your talents to market, then you embrace a life 6 00:00:19.079 --> 00:00:23.120 of not only unlimited possibilities, but also the unknown. It's 7 00:00:23.160 --> 00:00:26.280 an elixir of fear and bravery that only someone who's 8 00:00:26.359 --> 00:00:30.480 taken the leap really understands. On our show, deb digs 9 00:00:30.559 --> 00:00:33.359 deep with her guests to highlight what you the listener 10 00:00:33.399 --> 00:00:36.600 wants to know, the stories, the whys, and the hows 11 00:00:36.759 --> 00:00:40.000 to navigate the journey to success. Get ready to hear 12 00:00:40.039 --> 00:00:43.039 from some of the most incredible mission takers from Generation 13 00:00:43.280 --> 00:00:46.560 Z to boomers. So sit up, perk up, and get 14 00:00:46.600 --> 00:00:49.320 ready to be blown away. Now Here is your host, 15 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:50.560 Deborah Drummond. 16 00:00:53.320 --> 00:00:58.240 Hello, and welcome back, Mission Taker. The cool thing about 17 00:00:58.280 --> 00:01:02.280 this show is that audience and the people that speak 18 00:01:02.320 --> 00:01:05.840 on the show, we're same same. I know, I know 19 00:01:05.920 --> 00:01:08.519 a lot of you, and I'm so appreciative. I say 20 00:01:08.560 --> 00:01:10.879 it every single time. And you know, good thing that 21 00:01:11.480 --> 00:01:14.439 doctor Rob here doesn't have a podcast. Maybe he doesn't 22 00:01:14.439 --> 00:01:17.200 know he does. Yes, the thing, Rob, You're just gonna 23 00:01:17.239 --> 00:01:21.200 have to you know you just because I claim to 24 00:01:21.239 --> 00:01:26.719 have the best podcast audience because they're super interactive. They 25 00:01:26.719 --> 00:01:28.959 don't just take it in and information, but they passed. 26 00:01:29.400 --> 00:01:32.799 We look at our international our international you know, and 27 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:34.920 it's great. We look at our international numbers and our 28 00:01:34.959 --> 00:01:38.040 analytics all the time because that's how our brain works. Hmm. 29 00:01:38.719 --> 00:01:41.400 That might be. That might have been a drop people, 30 00:01:41.400 --> 00:01:43.599 It might have been a mic drop. But doctor Robb 31 00:01:43.599 --> 00:01:45.560 as you can see, has a beautiful green shirt on 32 00:01:45.599 --> 00:01:48.519 for those that are watching, if you're listening, driving, keep 33 00:01:48.560 --> 00:01:51.840 doing what you're doing and talking about Ireland and we 34 00:01:51.959 --> 00:01:55.159 are just, shall we say, rocking the beautiful shores of 35 00:01:55.200 --> 00:01:57.920 Ireland these days with listeners and watchers. So thank you 36 00:01:57.959 --> 00:02:01.760 so much for that. Now. I always tell you what's 37 00:02:01.760 --> 00:02:04.079 going to happen for you today? What kind of audience 38 00:02:04.159 --> 00:02:06.599 you are today? You know what you were a very 39 00:02:06.719 --> 00:02:10.759 optimized audience. You go for the go. That's who you 40 00:02:10.800 --> 00:02:13.120 are today. And so you are going to welcome and 41 00:02:13.800 --> 00:02:17.439 listen and so much about how you can raise the 42 00:02:17.479 --> 00:02:19.680 bar on that. We have doctor Rob Kelly with us 43 00:02:19.680 --> 00:02:22.560 today and he loves to play in the world of 44 00:02:22.560 --> 00:02:26.280 neuroscience and he is a positivity coach. Now, if you 45 00:02:26.319 --> 00:02:28.520 go to his website, which we encourage you to do after, 46 00:02:28.639 --> 00:02:30.319 you're going to be able to read and hear some 47 00:02:30.400 --> 00:02:34.080 of his story, and it is it takes your breath away. 48 00:02:34.199 --> 00:02:36.560 It really takes your breath away. The story I was 49 00:02:36.599 --> 00:02:39.199 listening to this morning. And obviously Rob, you can share 50 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:41.960 or choose to share on how you got into this venture. 51 00:02:42.000 --> 00:02:44.800 But just when you had that moment about how you 52 00:02:44.879 --> 00:02:46.840 realize when you were at that store and you were 53 00:02:46.879 --> 00:02:51.199 making that purchase, you realize that you had relief prior 54 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:55.120 to actually obtaining the object that you wanted and realized 55 00:02:55.120 --> 00:02:58.599 that you had a neuronal connection with the result of 56 00:02:58.639 --> 00:03:00.919 what you thought that purchase would do for you. I 57 00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:04.280 thought that was incredible. But without any further Ado, let's 58 00:03:04.319 --> 00:03:06.280 listen to who we're going to listen to today. So 59 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:09.639 mister Rob Kelly, welcome to the Mission Accepted Show, where 60 00:03:09.879 --> 00:03:12.120 you know what people take missions, and I think the 61 00:03:12.120 --> 00:03:14.319 big part about that is that they actually stay on them. 62 00:03:15.360 --> 00:03:18.159 Alari, Thanks Den, Hey guys, great to see you. It's 63 00:03:18.159 --> 00:03:21.039 doctor Rob Kelly. I'm over in San Anatomio, Texas. But 64 00:03:21.120 --> 00:03:23.800 as you can tell by the accents. I'm actually from Chicago. 65 00:03:24.240 --> 00:03:24.919 I was joking. 66 00:03:25.080 --> 00:03:28.080 I'm actually from Manchester to England, and I've been in 67 00:03:28.120 --> 00:03:30.240 Texas for around nineteen years. 68 00:03:30.280 --> 00:03:32.360 And we love what we do because we do what 69 00:03:32.439 --> 00:03:34.680 we love very good. 70 00:03:34.719 --> 00:03:37.000 Now there's a story there. I mean, you know, as 71 00:03:37.039 --> 00:03:40.039 someone who loves and adors, you know a lot of 72 00:03:40.039 --> 00:03:42.520 countries for a lot of reason. But I lean in 73 00:03:42.560 --> 00:03:44.840 the way of Europe. How did you end off in 74 00:03:44.919 --> 00:03:47.199 Texas and how did you end up doing what you're doing. 75 00:03:47.280 --> 00:03:49.159 Let's start a little bit with telling people what it 76 00:03:49.240 --> 00:03:53.039 is that you do. Because neuroscience has so many playgrounds. 77 00:03:53.280 --> 00:03:55.719 It has so many playgrounds, let's talk about yours. 78 00:03:56.479 --> 00:03:56.759 Well. 79 00:03:56.800 --> 00:04:04.199 We cover depression, child of trauma, ATSD, alcoholism, addiction, motivation, 80 00:04:04.560 --> 00:04:06.520 and we're doing early testing. 81 00:04:06.120 --> 00:04:08.879 On Alzheimer's and onset dementia right now. 82 00:04:09.280 --> 00:04:17.079 Five offices around the world here, San Antonio, Ganas, Manchester, England, Spain, Switzerland, 83 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:19.399 and London is where our offices are. 84 00:04:20.319 --> 00:04:23.079 I'm lucky enough to own four businesses today. 85 00:04:23.319 --> 00:04:26.560 And five percent of our deal today is alcoholism and 86 00:04:26.639 --> 00:04:30.800 addiction and the ninety five is rerouting brains for success. 87 00:04:30.879 --> 00:04:31.560 That's what we do. 88 00:04:33.279 --> 00:04:35.519 Well, maybe we want to share with our audience a 89 00:04:35.560 --> 00:04:39.120 little bit on what that looks like. You know what 90 00:04:39.160 --> 00:04:42.800 that looks like. Is it supplementation, is it mindset? Is 91 00:04:42.800 --> 00:04:46.560 it coaching? Is it training? And what are people coming 92 00:04:46.600 --> 00:04:49.279 to you for? I mean that ninety five percent are 93 00:04:49.279 --> 00:04:53.040 coming for successes that in relationships? Is that in their business? 94 00:04:53.160 --> 00:04:57.279 Like, that's divast We're working with a lot of entrepreneurs 95 00:04:57.399 --> 00:04:57.759 right now. 96 00:04:58.480 --> 00:05:01.120 I mainly work with a listen bridges these days because 97 00:05:01.120 --> 00:05:03.920 I only work four hours a day and my staff 98 00:05:04.560 --> 00:05:08.000 cover the rest, which is great. But yeah, I mean 99 00:05:08.199 --> 00:05:11.600 it's anything from the housewife who's lost their identity to 100 00:05:11.680 --> 00:05:14.439 the entrepreneurial with Texas million dollars a year but once 101 00:05:14.480 --> 00:05:15.600 it's ten million. 102 00:05:15.399 --> 00:05:16.079 Dollars a year. 103 00:05:16.720 --> 00:05:19.759 So we have a ninety eight percent success rates in 104 00:05:19.879 --> 00:05:22.199 everything that we do with nine and a half thousand 105 00:05:22.319 --> 00:05:23.519 patients so far. 106 00:05:24.079 --> 00:05:25.920 So we kind of guarantee our work. 107 00:05:26.079 --> 00:05:29.360 So we'll take it from A to Z or hey, 108 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:31.079 we'll give you your money back kind of thing. 109 00:05:31.480 --> 00:05:32.959 So very serious of what we do. 110 00:05:33.519 --> 00:05:38.920 We're all about neural science, brain spotting, ninety breathwork therapy, NLP. 111 00:05:39.720 --> 00:05:45.000 Subliminal messaging is how we get the brain to redivert 112 00:05:45.279 --> 00:05:47.959 and repattern because everything's done a pattern with the brain. 113 00:05:48.040 --> 00:05:49.120 If you can break that. 114 00:05:49.120 --> 00:05:52.720 Self sauchargeant pattern, then we're off to a good start. 115 00:05:52.879 --> 00:05:56.720 So there's oxygen involved, there's food involved. 116 00:05:56.079 --> 00:05:59.120 There's mindset itself shifting patterns. 117 00:05:59.240 --> 00:06:02.360 Routines make sure that you get to where you want 118 00:06:02.399 --> 00:06:06.279 to be because literally, if you know how the mine works, guys, 119 00:06:06.560 --> 00:06:08.759 you realize you can do anything that you want to do. 120 00:06:08.879 --> 00:06:10.600 The only person that's stopping you is you. 121 00:06:10.959 --> 00:06:14.399 Unfortunately, most people walk around about forty five to fifty 122 00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:17.680 five percent of their capability and capacity in the world. 123 00:06:17.959 --> 00:06:19.879 I don't care if you're a movie star. I've met 124 00:06:19.920 --> 00:06:23.759 movie stars that are hanging around forty five to sixty 125 00:06:23.759 --> 00:06:27.240 percent of the capabilities. With guys, we need to live 126 00:06:27.279 --> 00:06:30.279 one hundred percent. You haven't got along on this earth. 127 00:06:30.680 --> 00:06:33.720 I'm sixty three now, so by right I have thirteen 128 00:06:33.920 --> 00:06:35.439 or twelve summer times left. 129 00:06:35.839 --> 00:06:37.319 We don't have time, so it's running now. 130 00:06:37.399 --> 00:06:39.480 So we take people from there to there in the 131 00:06:39.519 --> 00:06:43.199 shortest possible time so you can go out and enjoy 132 00:06:43.240 --> 00:06:46.000 your life. Because when I say to somebody I'm happy 133 00:06:46.120 --> 00:06:48.920 every day, the first thing they say that, well, that's impossible. 134 00:06:49.439 --> 00:06:52.680 Well it is with that mindset. I come from the streets, man, 135 00:06:52.759 --> 00:06:55.199 I was brought up on a project. I got off 136 00:06:55.199 --> 00:06:57.920 a dry bed this morning. My wife made me tea 137 00:06:57.959 --> 00:07:01.240 and toast. Are you kidding me? I don't have bad days. 138 00:07:01.360 --> 00:07:03.480 I have better days an others. Because I'm human. I 139 00:07:03.480 --> 00:07:06.360 don't have bad days. And with that mindset, thing start 140 00:07:06.439 --> 00:07:09.759 to happen, and great stuff is drawn to you because 141 00:07:09.839 --> 00:07:11.759 everything when you need on what is all around us. 142 00:07:11.879 --> 00:07:12.839 We just can't see it. 143 00:07:15.240 --> 00:07:19.399 I can hear the how so I can hear people say. 144 00:07:19.399 --> 00:07:20.959 So we talked a little bit of breath work. You 145 00:07:20.959 --> 00:07:23.639 talked about oxygen. Maybe talk about that. I know that 146 00:07:23.680 --> 00:07:28.839 there is Is it a ninety minute breath work? Maybe 147 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:30.839 give us some more details with someone's like, okay, great, 148 00:07:31.120 --> 00:07:33.279 am I doing some of those things already, as there's 149 00:07:33.319 --> 00:07:36.040 a way that things need to be done in sequenced Like. 150 00:07:38.560 --> 00:07:42.000 Let me talk about that ninety breath It's a neuroscience 151 00:07:42.040 --> 00:07:47.120 software that changes the brain with subliminal messages and vibration 152 00:07:47.279 --> 00:07:50.680 and sam binger out four twenty five megahoods and it 153 00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:54.160 takes you to a different level of vibration A while 154 00:07:54.319 --> 00:07:58.800 me as nine dimension nine directions subliminal messing is coming 155 00:07:58.839 --> 00:08:02.120 to you and sneaking into the subconscious brain, so you 156 00:08:02.160 --> 00:08:04.199 can't hear the subliminal messages. 157 00:08:04.720 --> 00:08:06.399 And that's where the magic is in. 158 00:08:06.560 --> 00:08:10.279 Everything that we do is the subliminal messaging. And if 159 00:08:10.319 --> 00:08:12.639 I told you to do something, you're probably going to go. 160 00:08:12.680 --> 00:08:13.720 Now, I'm not going to do that. 161 00:08:14.240 --> 00:08:17.800 But we can plant words and sentences in the subconscious 162 00:08:17.839 --> 00:08:19.720 that later comes to the conscious and. 163 00:08:19.680 --> 00:08:23.120 You will do so. For instance, a guy loves steak. 164 00:08:23.199 --> 00:08:26.040 He comes to the office every day he's working with us, 165 00:08:26.079 --> 00:08:29.319 and I planted the word fish in his mind when 166 00:08:29.319 --> 00:08:31.360 you were going out for a steak dena with a 167 00:08:31.360 --> 00:08:33.639 few of his friends. But a rob fish down. Put 168 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:35.240 it on an enveload and I give it to his wife, 169 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:38.360 handing that after he orders, well he orders fish, of 170 00:08:38.399 --> 00:08:40.960 course he does. So there handing the envelope and you 171 00:08:41.120 --> 00:08:43.559 take it out and there's the fish. That's a simple 172 00:08:43.639 --> 00:08:49.240 way of putting it. Absolutely mind blowing is what that is. 173 00:08:49.279 --> 00:08:54.679 And of course NLP neural linguistic programming. We're against subliminal 174 00:08:54.919 --> 00:08:58.120 direct language to teach you not only how to talk 175 00:08:58.159 --> 00:09:01.240 to yourself, but also talk to you brain, and then 176 00:09:01.279 --> 00:09:05.200 the brain talk to the behavioral science of what you 177 00:09:05.240 --> 00:09:06.360 do on a daily basis. 178 00:09:06.960 --> 00:09:08.720 So you have to come in every single day for 179 00:09:08.759 --> 00:09:09.159 an hour. 180 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:12.440 It's a ninety day program so that we can fully 181 00:09:12.519 --> 00:09:15.519 reground and we will go to any less to make 182 00:09:15.559 --> 00:09:19.600 sure that you come in first. All go, hey, God, 183 00:09:19.639 --> 00:09:22.000 this is what I need. I need my business building up, 184 00:09:22.039 --> 00:09:22.799 I need to get back. 185 00:09:22.720 --> 00:09:24.399 To my wife, I need to get my children. 186 00:09:24.960 --> 00:09:27.480 I'm an adage and depressed, and we say, okay, here's 187 00:09:27.519 --> 00:09:30.240 the plan we're going to say from here. So if 188 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:33.679 you're depressed, most people go to the doctors and get 189 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:37.799 undepressed medication, which is a false serotonin. So if you 190 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:42.519 look in the Medical USA dictionary, depression is defined as 191 00:09:42.559 --> 00:09:45.399 lack of serotonin. So rather going to the doctor and 192 00:09:45.440 --> 00:09:48.960 asking for false ceretonium, why aren't we asking the question 193 00:09:49.080 --> 00:09:51.600 in this country is why is my serotonin go in 194 00:09:51.639 --> 00:09:54.559 the first place. So then we're look at your food, 195 00:09:54.960 --> 00:09:57.399 we look at your training. You diet the oxygen, so 196 00:09:57.519 --> 00:10:01.480 the presence of oxygen equals the lack of disease. So 197 00:10:01.600 --> 00:10:04.759 every disease is the human body created in the hypoxic 198 00:10:04.840 --> 00:10:07.919 area of the body where there's no oxygen. So it's 199 00:10:07.919 --> 00:10:11.879 stuff like this that we present and change and find 200 00:10:11.960 --> 00:10:15.240 your identity and find your niche in life, and convince 201 00:10:15.360 --> 00:10:19.039 you that you're unstoppable, because. 202 00:10:18.679 --> 00:10:20.080 That's that's all it is is. 203 00:10:20.120 --> 00:10:22.639 If you knew how powerful you were, if we could 204 00:10:22.679 --> 00:10:25.320 swap places that tell us our places all the time, 205 00:10:25.360 --> 00:10:28.080 and we could swap places for five minutes, or your 206 00:10:28.120 --> 00:10:30.480 problems will be over because you don't see what I 207 00:10:30.639 --> 00:10:32.080 see and their lives the. 208 00:10:32.039 --> 00:10:34.240 Problem of the chapel trauma. 209 00:10:34.519 --> 00:10:38.799 Right, very cool, So ninety days an hour every day, 210 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:40.840 and do people need to be there in person or 211 00:10:41.000 --> 00:10:41.679 can they do this? 212 00:10:42.919 --> 00:10:47.320 Yeah, it's ninety five percent is telehealth so rightever you 213 00:10:47.360 --> 00:10:49.960 around the world. We use zoom because it's a very 214 00:10:50.080 --> 00:10:55.279 good hippo guaranteed. You know, we have lots of service 215 00:10:55.320 --> 00:10:59.639 as well, extrameal guarantees anonymity. So yeah, finally five percent 216 00:10:59.679 --> 00:11:03.559 coming office, So yeah, you can do anywhere you want. 217 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:04.799 Guys, you really. 218 00:11:04.519 --> 00:11:07.759 Can tell us a little bit of backstory. How did 219 00:11:07.799 --> 00:11:09.000 this come to you or how. 220 00:11:08.840 --> 00:11:09.679 Did you get it? 221 00:11:11.279 --> 00:11:15.120 Well, I'm an alcoholic, I was an alcoholic. I don't 222 00:11:15.120 --> 00:11:17.440 define or describe myself as an alcoholic today. 223 00:11:17.480 --> 00:11:17.919 I don't like. 224 00:11:17.919 --> 00:11:20.720 Labels, but took my first drink at the age of 225 00:11:20.799 --> 00:11:23.840 nine in Liverpool. Most people know Liverpool from the Beatles 226 00:11:24.639 --> 00:11:28.799 on stage, Anti and musical family, and that one day 227 00:11:28.840 --> 00:11:31.799 I set off a motion for twenty years. 228 00:11:31.679 --> 00:11:35.240 Later when everything would go wrong. But the traits, you know, 229 00:11:35.399 --> 00:11:37.200 So we discovered. 230 00:11:36.720 --> 00:11:38.879 Everything I talked about stage has been trials, has been 231 00:11:38.919 --> 00:11:42.559 researched by us. We're not just googling stuff here, guys. 232 00:11:43.080 --> 00:11:47.600 We spent millions on research. So everything that's happened or 233 00:11:47.639 --> 00:11:49.720 the childhood trauma, everything I took in. 234 00:11:49.799 --> 00:11:51.799 I was a shy kid, I was a bully kid. 235 00:11:52.960 --> 00:11:55.720 I scraped through to colleague because it's a friend of 236 00:11:55.799 --> 00:11:59.279 a friend that I knew kind of thing. And then 237 00:11:59.720 --> 00:12:02.600 had to children and lost them all, lost my girls 238 00:12:02.679 --> 00:12:06.120 aged one and three when the authorities suffered them off 239 00:12:06.240 --> 00:12:09.440 me and thirty years on I was still strange. 240 00:12:09.759 --> 00:12:12.360 But from there so and then I became homeless. 241 00:12:12.879 --> 00:12:16.519 I mean I literally lost everything, millions of dollars, houses, cars, 242 00:12:16.600 --> 00:12:20.600 medical license, everything in my life was taken away from me. 243 00:12:20.639 --> 00:12:22.320 And I was homeless for the first time in my 244 00:12:22.440 --> 00:12:26.000 life around I want to say twenty six, twenty five, 245 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:29.360 twenty six, twenty seven, around that period, and I remember 246 00:12:29.360 --> 00:12:32.200 the first night on the streets I was sat in 247 00:12:32.240 --> 00:12:34.759 this bus stop in the middle of Manchester. It was 248 00:12:34.799 --> 00:12:37.639 pouring down with brain it was freezing cold, and I 249 00:12:37.679 --> 00:12:40.279 sat down and I looked around the scary place, and 250 00:12:40.360 --> 00:12:42.799 I thought, what the hell just happened? 251 00:12:43.720 --> 00:12:45.759 And there started about fourteen months off. 252 00:12:46.559 --> 00:12:50.480 I died twice on the streets and attempted five other suicides. 253 00:12:51.240 --> 00:12:56.039 At the beginning and a strong you know, boxing, karate, bodybuilder. 254 00:12:56.600 --> 00:12:58.440 And then as the months went on the streets to 255 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:00.840 drop wake and dropped wait and drop way, and I 256 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:02.879 had my nose broken, my teeth knocked out. 257 00:13:03.000 --> 00:13:05.960 You know. I was fighting daily for my life most 258 00:13:06.000 --> 00:13:06.480 of the time. 259 00:13:09.480 --> 00:13:15.360 Wow. And then you woke up, Then you realized, and 260 00:13:16.399 --> 00:13:18.600 how did this come into your world? 261 00:13:18.840 --> 00:13:20.559 There's two stories I'm going to tell and I would 262 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:24.000 never tell. He's for fifty and twenty years. I'm on 263 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:24.840 the streets one night. 264 00:13:24.919 --> 00:13:27.440 It's really dark, and where the factories are and the 265 00:13:28.200 --> 00:13:32.080 office blocks, no human being inside, no houses. It's pointing 266 00:13:32.080 --> 00:13:33.639 down and right, and I dropped down to my hands 267 00:13:33.639 --> 00:13:36.399 and knees and I started to cry like a baby. 268 00:13:37.360 --> 00:13:40.159 I wasn't crying because my children had gone, my wife's gone, 269 00:13:40.159 --> 00:13:43.399 money's gone. For the first time in my life, I 270 00:13:43.440 --> 00:13:47.440 was crying for my achy belly because. 271 00:13:47.240 --> 00:13:48.600 I realized I can stop drinking. 272 00:13:49.720 --> 00:13:53.360 I walked up to the sky as an atheist, and 273 00:13:53.399 --> 00:13:55.039 I said, if there's a God up there, I can't 274 00:13:55.039 --> 00:13:58.039 give this on my own anymore. The guy walked round 275 00:13:58.080 --> 00:14:00.559 the coll of thirty forty seconds later with a bipe 276 00:14:00.600 --> 00:14:03.320 in his hand. He he missed his last person from 277 00:14:03.320 --> 00:14:06.240 Bible stories, so he'd been walking an hour. He took 278 00:14:06.279 --> 00:14:08.799 a shortcut he never he's never taken before because he's 279 00:14:08.840 --> 00:14:12.320 never walked home. He came across May and he said, 280 00:14:12.360 --> 00:14:14.679 you need help. He took me back to the house. 281 00:14:14.799 --> 00:14:17.080 I shaved for the first time in a year. I 282 00:14:17.200 --> 00:14:20.000 had proper food. And he went on to explain, you 283 00:14:20.000 --> 00:14:21.639 can come here from you can stay for as long 284 00:14:21.639 --> 00:14:23.000 as you're like Rob, but you've got to come to 285 00:14:23.080 --> 00:14:26.360 these AA meetings because I've been recovering. If you don't come, 286 00:14:26.399 --> 00:14:28.759 it's not going to work. I hated them meetings, but 287 00:14:28.799 --> 00:14:33.399 I went halfway around the meeting. Halfway through is this 288 00:14:33.440 --> 00:14:36.799 guy said, manage John, and I'll recovered alcoholic and a 289 00:14:36.879 --> 00:14:37.559 lot of Berrik. 290 00:14:37.600 --> 00:14:40.320 And said, what do you just say? It stands recovered. 291 00:14:40.360 --> 00:14:42.879 You can't recover from this. I must have begin so, 292 00:14:43.000 --> 00:14:46.720 but he talked. He talked directly to me, although he 293 00:14:46.759 --> 00:14:47.559 wasn't speaking to me. 294 00:14:47.639 --> 00:14:49.600 So after the meeting went home and I said, hey, 295 00:14:50.159 --> 00:14:52.399 John Manning, is robbing you sponsored me? And he said no, 296 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:55.200 but what I will do is I'll be a spiritual 297 00:14:55.240 --> 00:14:59.120 advisor for twelve weeks. And I thought, well, weird, but okay. 298 00:14:59.759 --> 00:15:01.840 So I went around to that man's house every Wednesday 299 00:15:01.840 --> 00:15:04.320 for twelve weeks. I left Derek's at six, I walked 300 00:15:04.320 --> 00:15:06.919 there for an hour. I had to go to his 301 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:11.159 second floor apartment exactly one minutes to seven, and at 302 00:15:11.200 --> 00:15:14.120 eight o'clock one minute too. He'd walk me out halfway 303 00:15:14.120 --> 00:15:16.919 through conversation. And I did that for twelve weeks. On 304 00:15:16.960 --> 00:15:18.840 the last day, he told me that my life would change, 305 00:15:18.879 --> 00:15:21.919 I'd be taken to a different country and that I 306 00:15:21.960 --> 00:15:25.360 have to guarantee people can recover from addiction and alcoholism. 307 00:15:25.679 --> 00:15:27.879 But he said, my life's going to change for tomorrow. 308 00:15:28.320 --> 00:15:30.399 And I said, John, thank you for everything you've done 309 00:15:30.480 --> 00:15:33.200 for me. But I'm in this guy's house called Derek. 310 00:15:33.240 --> 00:15:36.200 I'm in the basement on the block mattress nobody knows 311 00:15:36.200 --> 00:15:40.120 on then job down. The next day therek comes home 312 00:15:40.159 --> 00:15:41.879 halfway through the day, and are you doing home? 313 00:15:42.159 --> 00:15:44.919 I'm tiring up. You're doing the dishes and stuff, he said. 314 00:15:44.960 --> 00:15:47.159 The guy that switched the floor of the factory's just 315 00:15:47.279 --> 00:15:48.799 resigned you on a part time job. 316 00:15:49.600 --> 00:15:51.320 I wasn't taking a job and I said. 317 00:15:51.159 --> 00:15:53.519 Yeah, of course yeah. So later he turned into a 318 00:15:53.519 --> 00:15:56.240 full time job. So after two weeks got my first 319 00:15:56.240 --> 00:15:58.559 pay packet. So I went to the guys stations. 320 00:15:58.679 --> 00:16:00.559 I brought you on Little Time, Teddy Bear. 321 00:16:00.639 --> 00:16:02.799 So I look a look forward and a card, and 322 00:16:02.840 --> 00:16:05.039 I wrote on the card, thank you John for introducing 323 00:16:05.039 --> 00:16:05.559 me to God. 324 00:16:05.639 --> 00:16:07.000 Because he capital aged. 325 00:16:07.320 --> 00:16:09.320 Took the compulser to it away and I went back 326 00:16:09.320 --> 00:16:11.679 to John's deb I'm so excited to see this guy, 327 00:16:12.000 --> 00:16:13.679 so tell him that I've been working people and my 328 00:16:13.720 --> 00:16:14.480 life's changing. 329 00:16:14.759 --> 00:16:15.799 And when I got. 330 00:16:15.559 --> 00:16:18.440 There, I was banging on the door and knocking the door, 331 00:16:18.480 --> 00:16:20.080 and the woman on the right hand side of the 332 00:16:20.120 --> 00:16:21.960 apartments came out, Can I help you? 333 00:16:22.279 --> 00:16:24.240 I said, Yeah, where's John. It's still living. He looks 334 00:16:24.279 --> 00:16:26.799 like he's empty, he said, John. Who? I said, John 335 00:16:26.840 --> 00:16:29.120 and a neighbor. So I wanted been there two months. 336 00:16:29.120 --> 00:16:31.120 I've never seen him. I'm sorry. So I went around 337 00:16:31.159 --> 00:16:34.080 to the left bang on his door a little bit 338 00:16:34.120 --> 00:16:36.720 too loud. Big guy came, so, what do you want? 339 00:16:37.279 --> 00:16:39.360 So where's John relocated? To please? 340 00:16:39.399 --> 00:16:42.600 And he said John who? I said, the guy need 341 00:16:42.639 --> 00:16:44.799 started you was wrong with him? The guy he went 342 00:16:44.840 --> 00:16:47.279 on to tell me that that apartment is derelict and 343 00:16:47.320 --> 00:16:49.039 it used to have all tape all over it and 344 00:16:49.080 --> 00:16:50.720 if you went in the front door, you'd fall two 345 00:16:50.840 --> 00:16:52.120 or three flights and kill zone. 346 00:16:52.559 --> 00:16:54.519 So I'm thinking this man is insane. 347 00:16:54.799 --> 00:16:56.480 So I goes back to the meeting where I met 348 00:16:56.559 --> 00:16:59.799 Jo on the next day, wondering if anybody would recognize me, 349 00:17:00.519 --> 00:17:03.200 And as I walked in the chair went oh, my god, Robert, 350 00:17:03.240 --> 00:17:06.160 great to see you, and I said, thank God for that. 351 00:17:06.279 --> 00:17:09.160 I think I'm going insane. Just John still come there. 352 00:17:09.200 --> 00:17:12.039 What time does it get in? And he said John who? 353 00:17:12.240 --> 00:17:14.480 I said, John, I was over at the COPMA scene, 354 00:17:14.799 --> 00:17:17.319 you know, asking him about sponsoring me. And he said, 355 00:17:17.359 --> 00:17:19.400 Rob we thought you were praying because you were talking 356 00:17:19.440 --> 00:17:24.240 to yourself. So we've never found that man. Ninety eight 357 00:17:24.240 --> 00:17:28.440 percent of my work is what he told me. And 358 00:17:28.599 --> 00:17:32.960 when I got wealthy, I hired the best detective agency, 359 00:17:33.240 --> 00:17:36.200 certainly the most expensive, to track John down and nobody 360 00:17:36.240 --> 00:17:41.400 could find him. So a few months later, a year 361 00:17:41.480 --> 00:17:44.039 or two later, I invited to come over here to. 362 00:17:44.039 --> 00:17:47.440 Dallas, Texas for two weeks to speak, and so I did. 363 00:17:47.480 --> 00:17:50.279 And when I stepped up the planet b at W, 364 00:17:50.400 --> 00:17:52.000 I knew I was never going to go home again. 365 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:53.480 And that's how it started. 366 00:17:55.960 --> 00:18:00.559 Well, I'm sure there's pin droppings everywhere, including my that's 367 00:18:00.559 --> 00:18:04.279 a very powerful story. I mean, obviously you lived it 368 00:18:04.440 --> 00:18:09.720 so well. I've yet to hear that kind of entry, 369 00:18:09.759 --> 00:18:13.440 but I've had that kind of experience, and I can 370 00:18:13.640 --> 00:18:18.720 appreciate you sharing that. I think it's not only a 371 00:18:18.720 --> 00:18:22.359 powerful story, but it's a vulnerable story. Right, It's a 372 00:18:22.400 --> 00:18:26.119 very vulnerable story because someone might say that that's not science, 373 00:18:26.160 --> 00:18:27.519 but I would say that's purity. 374 00:18:27.839 --> 00:18:33.599 I think that's pure science. Interis definitely John. 375 00:18:33.680 --> 00:18:35.160 Is there anything else that you want to share with 376 00:18:35.240 --> 00:18:37.039 us about what you do or why you do it? 377 00:18:38.200 --> 00:18:41.119 I do it every day for a couple of reasons. 378 00:18:41.640 --> 00:18:44.440 I want to be somebody's there all the time. So 379 00:18:44.839 --> 00:18:46.480 there's a way out of this. Doesn't matter what you 380 00:18:46.599 --> 00:18:50.119 going through psycho wise depression and PTSD, there's one hundred 381 00:18:50.119 --> 00:18:51.519 percent guaranteed way out of it. 382 00:18:51.599 --> 00:18:54.799 And then more so we come out of addiction or depression. 383 00:18:54.839 --> 00:18:56.720 You know, you know, we've got to stop building a 384 00:18:56.799 --> 00:18:59.000 life that's pets it and anything else in the world. 385 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:01.640 And the other reason why I do it today is 386 00:19:01.720 --> 00:19:02.359 I knew. 387 00:19:02.319 --> 00:19:05.240 I believe in God. I don't go to church, don't 388 00:19:05.240 --> 00:19:08.559 read the Bible, and nothing like that. But four years ago, 389 00:19:08.640 --> 00:19:11.319 my eldest daughter that was three years old, the last 390 00:19:11.319 --> 00:19:13.200 thing she said to me was Daddy, Daddy, please stop 391 00:19:13.240 --> 00:19:16.359 drinking when the authorities were taking him off because HI 392 00:19:16.440 --> 00:19:18.640 goad him for two days in a stupor not being 393 00:19:18.720 --> 00:19:22.039 changed or fed for two days. I got a message 394 00:19:22.079 --> 00:19:24.359 four years ago, a message here and it was my daughter. 395 00:19:24.839 --> 00:19:25.480 We call her. 396 00:19:25.400 --> 00:19:28.599 Charlie, and she said, Dad, need to call me guard. 397 00:19:29.519 --> 00:19:33.839 I mean that alone was crazy. So I've got somebody 398 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:34.359 to show you. 399 00:19:34.880 --> 00:19:36.640 So we went there. I was on a plane before 400 00:19:36.680 --> 00:19:37.039 and as we. 401 00:19:37.000 --> 00:19:38.799