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<v Speaker 1>A little late, but better than not at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, that's what I'm saying, baby listen. We put an

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<v Speaker 2>extra work the last couple of weeks having guests on.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually we did it. Honestly, it was probably easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was easier.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, you guys came up with the questions for them,

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<v Speaker 3>we asked him, and now we're going to act like

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<v Speaker 3>it was very hard.

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<v Speaker 1>Work.

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<v Speaker 2>Was a little work coordinating with our significant others to

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<v Speaker 2>come into the studio look forward with us.

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<v Speaker 1>But welcome to that. I'm still fun podcasts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, thanks for being here. I will say that Andrew

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of bummed that you didn't ask one of

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<v Speaker 2>the questions that was asked.

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<v Speaker 1>What was it?

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<v Speaker 2>It was, how do you feel about Jenny talking about

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<v Speaker 2>your sex life on air or on the podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the reason I didn't ask that because I had

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<v Speaker 3>already asked a version of.

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<v Speaker 2>That, I know, but he was he wanted that specific question, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>specific because he said that he wanted to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to answer and say that people should talk more about

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<v Speaker 2>sex because he's a feminist, he's pro female orgasm. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So he wanted to make sure that that answer got

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<v Speaker 2>in there, and that's how he feels about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's that's all he had to say. I'm klably

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<v Speaker 1>clear that up.

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<v Speaker 3>We did get an email, which was surprising to me

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<v Speaker 3>about our guest and they said, longtime listener, love you both.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the episodes with Jake and Andrew. I was wondering,

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<v Speaker 3>has any other from like Katie w B has any

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<v Speaker 3>other people wanted to be guest stars. They said, I

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<v Speaker 3>know if you have in past podcast they were thinking

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<v Speaker 3>morning show people cult Max. Have you know about having

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<v Speaker 3>them come on at some point looking forward to the

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<v Speaker 3>next podcast, I do think we talked about having Cult on.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe we'll do him. I did want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Take a week off from guests and maybe see if

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<v Speaker 3>Cole wants to do it, like next week or the

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<v Speaker 3>week after. I because someone else had messaged you saying

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<v Speaker 3>we should have coult On. Yeah they did, and when

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<v Speaker 3>I showed him, he was like totally down for it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I did have Cult on my Heartbroken podcast a

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<v Speaker 3>long time ago. He has a great story, but I

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<v Speaker 3>think he'd be fun. He's can I just tell you so?

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<v Speaker 3>Cole does not like talking about sexual stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so he.

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<v Speaker 3>And I have been working on and I don't mind

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<v Speaker 3>sharing it here because we're like launching it tomorrow basically

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<v Speaker 3>YouTube like videos, right, and we're kind of trying to

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<v Speaker 3>find our flow because it's kind of like a podcast

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<v Speaker 3>is different than doing a morning show. A podcast is

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<v Speaker 3>different than do our afternoon show. So we came in

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<v Speaker 3>here and I think I was like, I'm so used

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<v Speaker 3>to doing a podcast with you and we can be

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<v Speaker 3>really sexual. It felt so unnatural. The first episode we

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<v Speaker 3>did was fine. The second one I worked in a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of things and he does not feel comfortable with that.

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<v Speaker 3>And so at the end of the episode, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>everything felt off about that. That is not us and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what, we're deleting that? So he'sa A yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and deleting it, scrapping it. That's not our that's not

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<v Speaker 3>our thing. And that's fine. But it's funny how I

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<v Speaker 3>feel so comfortable with you. But it's not because Colton

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<v Speaker 3>makes me uncomfortable. I think that he just is someone.

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<v Speaker 3>He he said before, like which this is probably sharing

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<v Speaker 3>too much of his personal information, Like he won't watch

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<v Speaker 3>like adult videos, oh since like having kids and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>He just said he can't. He's not someone who can compartmentalize.

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<v Speaker 3>He like feels like those women don't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>there and like it makes him uncomfortable, and so that's

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<v Speaker 3>his least favorite ord is the P word.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, he hates it.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, Okay, I'm trying to think back, which

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<v Speaker 2>was so long ago now as to like when I

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<v Speaker 2>joined the show, I feel like I've always been very

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<v Speaker 2>sex positive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that was and.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I joined the show during my party girl era,

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<v Speaker 2>so like my life was sex like, yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>very much. So I feel like I've always been decently open. However,

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<v Speaker 2>with you, it was always easy. With Steve, it was

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<v Speaker 2>funny because Steve's just fucking naive.

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<v Speaker 1>And weird and whatever naive.

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<v Speaker 2>But with Dave, it took me a long time to

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<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable sharing certain things with Dave and vice versa

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<v Speaker 2>with him, Like, and I think there's still plenty of

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<v Speaker 2>things on him and I don't share it too with

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think like if he's if he just doesn't like

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<v Speaker 2>talking about it, then that's like the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe it's I think.

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<v Speaker 2>The future he'll feel more comfortable to me.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I think it's okay, Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 3>so many things are sexual, and like, it's not that

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<v Speaker 3>we can't make jokes about like how long it's been

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<v Speaker 3>since our mom's gotten any or I'm sure we could

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<v Speaker 3>make jokes here and there, but it wouldn't be a

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<v Speaker 3>top Like it wouldn't be a direct topic like some

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<v Speaker 3>of us and I don't think it ever will be.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm okay with that. It's like whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and of course I also feel like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just saying when I started on the show,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like lots of those kind of stories, and

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<v Speaker 2>my life is so different now. Yeah, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>sex happens once every six months, so it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew would die if that's how it was.

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<v Speaker 2>But no, no, but I do think that like as

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<v Speaker 2>I've gotten older too, I also have chilled out a

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<v Speaker 2>ton on sharing so many of the stories.

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<v Speaker 3>We I agree there were like I remember early on

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<v Speaker 3>in radio I shared like the sound my partner made orgasming,

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<v Speaker 3>and even briefly after that it started making me like

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<v Speaker 3>a little cringey uncomfortable, to the point where I went

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<v Speaker 3>into the system and deleted it so that Steve or

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<v Speaker 3>Dave could never find it again to ever play it.

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<v Speaker 3>Again because I was like, h and I'll have those

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<v Speaker 3>moments I've actually thought about before the Morning Show YouTube. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've like had to like kind of in my

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<v Speaker 3>mind think about, oh my gosh, is there anything on

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<v Speaker 3>there I should delete? Because twelve years ago, thirteen years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>very different time. And like when you first come on

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<v Speaker 3>to a new show, you're willing to do just about

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<v Speaker 3>anything because you want to like please people. You'll go

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<v Speaker 3>go on you're like, Eh, maybe I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I was like, oh God, are there any

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<v Speaker 3>of those on there? I should look into that and

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<v Speaker 3>delete them.

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<v Speaker 1>If there are.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the stuff you did on YouTube, but

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<v Speaker 2>I granted I wasn't a part of the show till

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<v Speaker 2>like a handful of years in when you were on it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel like they were all just over exaggerated

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<v Speaker 2>dramatic things like you on your period.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are my favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>Every twenty eight Days are just my favorite series we did.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of them were just when I had gone

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<v Speaker 3>back to look at all they were stupid parody bits

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<v Speaker 3>or pranks or not pranks, like like a payoff for

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<v Speaker 3>or disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it wasn't something I'm like, oh, I'll get canceled

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<v Speaker 3>over that necessarily. Who knows, maybe there's one that exists somewhere,

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<v Speaker 3>though I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the only thing I can really think of

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<v Speaker 2>because I just I don't know. I just feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I've never done too many things that would be super

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<v Speaker 2>out there. But we did roast Dave one year, or

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<v Speaker 2>like the Thanksgiving roast of Dave or something. It was

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<v Speaker 2>intern John was back in town and we all did

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<v Speaker 2>a roast of him. And the only thing I can

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<v Speaker 2>think of is I did make a Trump joke because

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<v Speaker 2>it was twenty sixteen. I think it was like an

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<v Speaker 2>election year and I made a Trump joke and something

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<v Speaker 2>with like a wall, yeah, And I don't remember exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what it is, but like that, it wasn't offensive one

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<v Speaker 2>way or another. It was just like kind of making

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<v Speaker 2>a joke of the situation whatever it was at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But I would never ever make a joke about like

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<v Speaker 2>a president or anything like that anymore. Like I know,

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<v Speaker 2>you just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no room for any form of joke because you.

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<v Speaker 2>Will be attacked no matter what you say. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>Going back just very quickly to the email, I was

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<v Speaker 3>actually surprised that she sent in saying she wanted more guests,

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<v Speaker 3>because not that Andrew and Jake didn't do a great job,

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<v Speaker 3>but typically, well, I think since it's our partners, I

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<v Speaker 3>if I listen to other people's podcasts, I usually don't

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<v Speaker 3>like when they have guests on, except I haven't actually

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<v Speaker 3>enjoyed when their partners have been on, so I can

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<v Speaker 3>see where that would be fun. And someone else was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys, because Steve was on the morning show this

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<v Speaker 3>past week. Yeah, someone was like, you should have Steve

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<v Speaker 3>back in again. I'm like, maybe you never know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh Steve.

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<v Speaker 2>That man came in on Friday morning, just sweaty, but

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<v Speaker 2>I also was sweaty because I was running around doing

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<v Speaker 2>a million things that morning. But I gave him the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest hug. And then of course I texted Fallon a

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<v Speaker 2>picture of him and your response because he was using

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<v Speaker 2>Fallon's headphone exact how perfect to not even know but

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, you want that sweaty ass where

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<v Speaker 1>my headphones? Disgusting, And then.

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<v Speaker 2>He goes, I'm gonna need to use your computer, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, what do you mean like, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>thinking like back in the day, Steve would just like

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<v Speaker 2>had this blackmail thing about him, absolutely, like where he

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<v Speaker 2>claimed he had like a folder on all of us,

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<v Speaker 2>and I still think he does, Yeah, he probably does.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, what do you mean you need to

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<v Speaker 2>use my computer? I got a call with like someone

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<v Speaker 2>in Sweden at nine and I forgot my computer because

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<v Speaker 2>I was takings Olivia here. And then I, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Christy asked me if you and the next thing I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot my bag in my computer and I go,

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<v Speaker 2>that's all that I know, And so I wanted me

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<v Speaker 2>to use my computer. But the entire time I was

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<v Speaker 2>thinking that he was fucking around with stuff on my computer.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably literally was I'm like waiting to find something somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>in my folders that's like, hey, you bitch, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm surprised I didn't get an email from you just

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<v Speaker 3>calling me a C word or something. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 3>the hell, Jenny, I'm like on the company email. We

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<v Speaker 3>do have a couple of other emails, but maybe this

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<v Speaker 3>one's kind of more so for me. Uh, this one says, Hey, ladies,

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<v Speaker 3>you asked what you should call your question section of

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<v Speaker 3>the podcast. I think you should name it. I'm still wondering. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like it would fit. But they do have a

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<v Speaker 3>question for you, Jenny. As a wanderer traveler by nature,

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<v Speaker 3>do you get claustrophobic in the city. I am also

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<v Speaker 3>a wanderer, but I live in the country. But I imagine

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<v Speaker 3>I would get very claustrophobic being in such crowd areas

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<v Speaker 3>when nature is my true happy place. Always wondering, Anna, No, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Love the city, but I also don't. Like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to think of what she's saying. So, say you're walking

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<v Speaker 3>Because there'd be so many people around you, and like

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, I don't feel that way. If there's a

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<v Speaker 2>because then that makes me feel like I'm in a

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<v Speaker 2>tourist trap. So I avoid situations like that quite often.

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<v Speaker 2>But I love the feeling of like just walking around

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<v Speaker 2>a big city. At Morning Show boot Camp when we

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<v Speaker 2>won a couple of years ago. I got up one

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<v Speaker 2>around the area and I just love everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she masturbated on the bean.

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<v Speaker 2>I would have, but there were people that are being

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<v Speaker 2>and also on the bean. It's really hard to like

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<v Speaker 2>get onto the bean, yeah, like get close to it,

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<v Speaker 2>but you could.

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<v Speaker 1>Rub yourself against it. I wouldn't suggest it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how you probably get like some kind of uti

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<v Speaker 1>Is that thank that?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I don't know staph infection, but I wonder if

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<v Speaker 2>anyone's ever done that, like as.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, this would be so funny to.

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<v Speaker 3>Grind on the bean, yeah, or just masturbate by it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>you know that someone definitely jerked around it. Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>saying like I would be more surprised if a woman

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<v Speaker 3>has rubbed it out, though harder to hide that. No,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not harder to hide it. It's just I feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more of a longer a guy who's on drugs

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, probably, But no, I didn't do that. I actually

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<v Speaker 2>just explored the city and I liked it, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel quite Did.

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<v Speaker 3>You masturbate in the bed next to me? When I

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<v Speaker 3>was I would never do any I think there can

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<v Speaker 3>you imagine?

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<v Speaker 2>I think the only time I've done that where I

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<v Speaker 2>probably shouldn't have was in my childhood bed when like

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<v Speaker 2>I was home visiting sometime.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was weird because it's like I didn't do

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<v Speaker 2>that growing up when I lived at home, and so

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<v Speaker 2>like to do it when I was like visiting home,

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<v Speaker 2>it just fell fucking weird. Yeah, and you know, my

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<v Speaker 2>mom's like in a room like down the hall whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think that's the only time I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I've done something like that where I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, I could have. I could have probably skipped today. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>I asked Jake if he has ever masturbated in bed

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<v Speaker 3>next to me while I've been sleeping. He's like no,

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was like thinking I wouldn't only because

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<v Speaker 3>I would be afraid he would wake up and he

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't be judgmental. But I still think I would be embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>And some people would be like, oh, if you're horny,

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<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't you just wake him up?

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<v Speaker 1>Because sometimes I don't need a full sash.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but yes, have you ever masturbated next to Andrew

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<v Speaker 3>while he's been sleeping.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope, I've never done that. I thought that I had

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<v Speaker 2>woke up one morning and he was doing it, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I was kind of just like letting him do

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<v Speaker 2>his thing, because honestly, I didn't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like if I would have acknowledged that I

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<v Speaker 2>was awake, he would have been like, come on in,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'd have been like, no, you can shut that door.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all you, baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But I asked him.

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<v Speaker 2>Later and he's like, no, I was not, like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what you were and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It felt like there was like movements in the ocean

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<v Speaker 1>been under.

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<v Speaker 3>The blanket, and he's like, no, glad we could clear

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<v Speaker 3>that up. Did you guys have sex over Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 3>in the camper van?

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<v Speaker 2>We did, and I think it's why I'm sore now

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<v Speaker 2>because we don't have a high roof band, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>very it's the low roof. You're already like bending over

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<v Speaker 2>to stand up in it period, but then standing no,

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<v Speaker 2>but then to add in the sex aspect of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I was getting a little frisky on top,

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<v Speaker 2>whipped my head up and just banged it up against

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<v Speaker 2>the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, God.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, and what a way to throw off the motion

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<v Speaker 2>in the ocean. You know what I'm saying, Baby, I

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<v Speaker 2>had a groove. We were in sync and I was

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<v Speaker 2>like bam, and like I don't know how you and

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<v Speaker 2>Jake are when something weird happens are inside.

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<v Speaker 1>We are immature and knowledge We just like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't just like sit there and like continue on. It's like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>that must have heard. I was like, yeah, it did,

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<v Speaker 2>you know? And then we'd get back into it. But yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 2>that was that was the fun shenanigans in the van. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of times we don't have a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>sex in the van because it's just not the most

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<v Speaker 2>convenient situation. It's got to know the aftermath and all

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff. What about you, you guys get down dirty on

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<v Speaker 2>V Day?

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<v Speaker 1>We did actually on V Day? Yeah, nice. Look. I

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<v Speaker 1>looked at him. I was like, do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it on the couch or do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it in the bed? And he tried the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>So we did that.

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<v Speaker 3>We watched all of Love Is Blind this weekend, all

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<v Speaker 3>six episodes.

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<v Speaker 1>We binged it.

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<v Speaker 3>We stayed up late on Saturday night because it was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I want to finish it. I do

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<v Speaker 3>think six episodes in the pods is not necessary.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what did it used to be?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it less? I feel like it's been. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was because I was on Reddit this morning,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think some people were saying that they expanded

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<v Speaker 2>it because they wanted us to get to know the

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<v Speaker 2>relationships better before we saw the And then they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>but we didn't get to know the relationships better. They

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't produce it in a way to get to

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<v Speaker 2>know the relationships better. They just like featured more people.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know. But regardless, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Thought a lot of interesting stuff too, because they said

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<v Speaker 3>they had more people than ever, but it seemed like

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<v Speaker 3>they focused on less couples than ever. Yep, And I

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<v Speaker 3>did think it was really weird, and I'm like, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>they were just couples they weren't shown. I thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was bizarre. They didn't feature like a single munk person.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't there was barely any diversity, which people already

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<v Speaker 3>think that about Minnesota and so and then a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the guys do have a similar look vibe when

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<v Speaker 3>you like, when you lay them all out next to

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<v Speaker 3>each other, and so I was a little disappointed in

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<v Speaker 3>that aspect, because I like people already look at Minneapolis

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<v Speaker 3>in a certain way. You couldn't find any other diversity

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<v Speaker 3>to put in there. We have a large Somali population

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<v Speaker 3>as well, so I don't know, I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 3>But also maybe they didn't apply or maybe a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of the time. I learned this from season one. There

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<v Speaker 3>are couples that get engaged and get married and go

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<v Speaker 3>the full way, but they're not like apparently featured featured

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<v Speaker 3>ors like is interesting enough. The guy who owns a

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<v Speaker 3>like Trubadour wine bar, I keep seeing him post about it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've only seen him in the background of one clip,

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<v Speaker 3>which and I think I look like he got engaged.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I think I have heard that before too, But

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<v Speaker 2>I also have heard like the horror stories of some

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<v Speaker 2>couples did get featured, but then like, oh something bad,

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<v Speaker 2>but bad things have happened and so they were like

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<v Speaker 2>completely cut out once the editing actually took place and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So gotcha. Yes, I've heard multiple different kinds of stories,

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<v Speaker 2>and I do have connections with like a couple people

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<v Speaker 2>that were on the cast this year or this season,

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like I want to reach out once

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<v Speaker 2>everything's said and done. I just they're under such strict NDAs.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know you probably know this since you had

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<v Speaker 2>Ben on the show right last week, But it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be so respectful of not getting them

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<v Speaker 2>in trouble, but it's like I want to ask so

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<v Speaker 2>many questions too.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, well, you know what's one question I did

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<v Speaker 3>not think to ask that. Someone did ask Ben if

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<v Speaker 3>they get to wear whatever they want, and he said, no,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to lay out your outfits and they'll tell

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<v Speaker 3>you which ones you can and care were Obviously, if

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<v Speaker 3>it has logo on it, you can't work kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought that was interesting. I'd ever thought about that.

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<v Speaker 3>But do you have any predictions or anything yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it just sucks because I'm on the side of

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok that has some spoilers and some thoughts and some

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<v Speaker 2>rumors and whatever. So the only thing I'll say is

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<v Speaker 2>that I am rooting for like some of the couples

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<v Speaker 2>more than the others. But I feel like the only

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<v Speaker 2>one I have faith with at this point is Joey

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<v Speaker 2>and Monica maybe being the ones that make it dull?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they the first ones that got engaged.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Joey has got the long hair and then Monica's

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<v Speaker 2>like a little bit taller, dark hair, and they seem

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<v Speaker 2>like very sweet Minnesota, nice human beings. Joey's thick ass

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<v Speaker 2>Minnesota as it is the wild.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was interesting they like didn't kiss. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't think when they saw each other and stuff, I

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<v Speaker 3>think they were the only couple that didn't. They seemed

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<v Speaker 3>almost like sister or rather laughing, playful. So for a moment,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you know what, that not everyone is

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<v Speaker 3>comfortable immediately doing that, because and I had to remind

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<v Speaker 3>myself of that, because I was like, I couldn't tell,

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<v Speaker 3>like was she not into him right for a moment,

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<v Speaker 3>because why wouldn't they kiss? But I do You're right,

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<v Speaker 3>they seem like the most wholesome couple.

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<v Speaker 2>Andrew pointed out that we've never obviously been in this

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<v Speaker 2>that we would react, But we really have no idea

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<v Speaker 2>how we would react if we went on a show,

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<v Speaker 2>got engaged and all of a sudden, you're just like

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<v Speaker 2>forced to have this physical connection within seconds. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily know how you're going to react. And some people

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<v Speaker 2>might just like not feel in that moment that it's

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<v Speaker 2>That is what happens a lot of times. But we

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<v Speaker 2>were kind of like, oh, we're being so judging of

427
00:18:54.319 --> 00:18:56.799
<v Speaker 2>all these people who clearly don't have a connection. But like, also,

428
00:18:57.279 --> 00:18:59.799
<v Speaker 2>how can you imagine talking to someone for a week

429
00:18:59.880 --> 00:19:01.519
<v Speaker 2>or or whatever it is and then all of a

430
00:19:01.519 --> 00:19:03.759
<v Speaker 2>sudden you're supposed to just like want to bone them

431
00:19:03.759 --> 00:19:04.480
<v Speaker 2>within seconds.

432
00:19:04.519 --> 00:19:06.799
<v Speaker 3>Well, so that is one thing I I did ask.

433
00:19:06.839 --> 00:19:09.519
<v Speaker 3>I was like, how long are you actually talking to him?

434
00:19:09.799 --> 00:19:14.359
<v Speaker 3>And he Ben said he it's like around twenty eight hours, okay,

435
00:19:14.680 --> 00:19:17.079
<v Speaker 3>which I was like, if you break that down and

436
00:19:17.119 --> 00:19:19.279
<v Speaker 3>you're doing two to three hour dates at a time

437
00:19:19.319 --> 00:19:22.359
<v Speaker 3>with someone, twenty eight hours, I mean that gives you

438
00:19:22.400 --> 00:19:24.079
<v Speaker 3>a lot of time to actually, yeah, I get to

439
00:19:24.119 --> 00:19:24.480
<v Speaker 3>know them.

440
00:19:24.799 --> 00:19:26.720
<v Speaker 2>And I also think that you have to keep that

441
00:19:26.799 --> 00:19:29.599
<v Speaker 2>in mind when you start making judgments of all these people,

442
00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:32.960
<v Speaker 2>because we're getting like the best juiciest dramatic clips that

443
00:19:33.000 --> 00:19:35.440
<v Speaker 2>they can find a lot of times, and like some

444
00:19:35.559 --> 00:19:38.880
<v Speaker 2>characteristic building clips. So I feel like, you know, there's

445
00:19:38.880 --> 00:19:41.640
<v Speaker 2>certain people that I don't really think I like that

446
00:19:41.720 --> 00:19:43.720
<v Speaker 2>much on this season that were featured a lot. But

447
00:19:43.799 --> 00:19:47.200
<v Speaker 2>then I think about it, and it's like, somebody could

448
00:19:47.240 --> 00:19:49.640
<v Speaker 2>take stuff I say on our show or on this

449
00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:52.720
<v Speaker 2>podcast and clip it down to you know, ministerial things,

450
00:19:52.920 --> 00:19:55.000
<v Speaker 2>and I would sound like an awful person too.

451
00:19:55.759 --> 00:19:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

452
00:19:56.039 --> 00:20:01.839
<v Speaker 3>I was disappointed in the guy who opened up about

453
00:20:02.000 --> 00:20:06.559
<v Speaker 3>hurting his back and taking the medication and abusing medication

454
00:20:08.079 --> 00:20:11.519
<v Speaker 3>and crying, and the woman was crying and so receptive,

455
00:20:11.640 --> 00:20:13.200
<v Speaker 3>and then she was like, I think, was like, oh,

456
00:20:13.200 --> 00:20:16.119
<v Speaker 3>we're in like this vulnerable sharing moment, and when she

457
00:20:16.240 --> 00:20:20.720
<v Speaker 3>shared hers, I get you can't predict how your reaction

458
00:20:20.880 --> 00:20:23.680
<v Speaker 3>is going to be to things, but I do think

459
00:20:23.720 --> 00:20:25.279
<v Speaker 3>in a moment like that, even if you're like I

460
00:20:25.279 --> 00:20:28.759
<v Speaker 3>don't necessarily see myself with this person, to see how

461
00:20:28.839 --> 00:20:32.200
<v Speaker 3>receptive and kind and loving she was to his stuff,

462
00:20:32.640 --> 00:20:35.440
<v Speaker 3>to not show her the same courtesy even if he

463
00:20:35.519 --> 00:20:36.359
<v Speaker 3>was faking.

464
00:20:36.039 --> 00:20:37.519
<v Speaker 1>It, Yep, I agree.

465
00:20:37.680 --> 00:20:41.319
<v Speaker 3>I was really disappointed in that, and they weren't a match,

466
00:20:41.319 --> 00:20:45.680
<v Speaker 3>and that's fine, they knew it, But I think the

467
00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:51.799
<v Speaker 3>producers specifically showed him sharing the full story two times,

468
00:20:53.519 --> 00:20:59.680
<v Speaker 3>purposely because you don't typically sit through and let people

469
00:20:59.720 --> 00:21:03.759
<v Speaker 3>see someone share the same story fully through two times

470
00:21:04.519 --> 00:21:07.200
<v Speaker 3>I feel like, I don't know.

471
00:21:08.559 --> 00:21:10.680
<v Speaker 2>They know. I mean, there's an agenda of course with

472
00:21:10.839 --> 00:21:13.000
<v Speaker 2>like everything that you're seeing, because it's going to play

473
00:21:13.039 --> 00:21:15.880
<v Speaker 2>into whatever we see the rest of the season. But

474
00:21:16.240 --> 00:21:18.640
<v Speaker 2>I do agree, I don't know. I feel like certain

475
00:21:18.640 --> 00:21:20.960
<v Speaker 2>people have connections. I think certain people are on the

476
00:21:21.000 --> 00:21:23.640
<v Speaker 2>show because of the fame of it, and oh yeah,

477
00:21:24.079 --> 00:21:24.440
<v Speaker 2>oh yeah.

478
00:21:24.440 --> 00:21:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I would say it's fifty.

479
00:21:27.440 --> 00:21:29.319
<v Speaker 2>I would say even higher for the people that are

480
00:21:29.319 --> 00:21:32.960
<v Speaker 2>on it for the fame, but I don't know. In

481
00:21:33.000 --> 00:21:35.319
<v Speaker 2>the end, the funniest thing that came out of the

482
00:21:35.480 --> 00:21:39.480
<v Speaker 2>entire first drop of episodes was when Virginia right that

483
00:21:39.519 --> 00:21:41.880
<v Speaker 2>I think that's her name, met Devin, the two that

484
00:21:41.960 --> 00:21:44.880
<v Speaker 2>end up being together with the ibuprofen story, Oh okay,

485
00:21:44.880 --> 00:21:48.319
<v Speaker 2>and then the other girl when they met and Virginia's

486
00:21:48.400 --> 00:21:50.519
<v Speaker 2>only compliment to him was you have nice eyes, and

487
00:21:50.559 --> 00:21:53.160
<v Speaker 2>he said I don't normally get that, and she goes, well,

488
00:21:53.200 --> 00:21:55.960
<v Speaker 2>the shape of them, and it's like, you don't find

489
00:21:55.960 --> 00:21:58.880
<v Speaker 2>this man attractive whatsoever. If the only compliment you can

490
00:21:58.960 --> 00:22:01.359
<v Speaker 2>muster up is I like the shape.

491
00:22:01.039 --> 00:22:01.759
<v Speaker 1>Of your eyes.

492
00:22:02.440 --> 00:22:07.559
<v Speaker 2>Why we like, gosh, it's it's a brutal, it's so weird.

493
00:22:07.839 --> 00:22:10.200
<v Speaker 2>How we want to see their meeting, but at the

494
00:22:10.240 --> 00:22:12.119
<v Speaker 2>same time, it's so cringe you want to turn it off.

495
00:22:12.160 --> 00:22:14.799
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's all I hate it so much, but yeah,

496
00:22:15.039 --> 00:22:18.920
<v Speaker 2>I want to see it because everyone's you can see people.

497
00:22:19.359 --> 00:22:22.519
<v Speaker 1>It's impossible for them to hide how they feel. I

498
00:22:22.559 --> 00:22:23.680
<v Speaker 1>know it's impossible.

499
00:22:23.799 --> 00:22:26.119
<v Speaker 2>Think about opening a shitty present you got from like

500
00:22:26.200 --> 00:22:29.079
<v Speaker 2>your mom. It's impossible, and you're like, what is this crap?

501
00:22:29.119 --> 00:22:31.839
<v Speaker 2>Imagine having to do that on TV. I'm someone you

502
00:22:31.920 --> 00:22:35.279
<v Speaker 2>love and you're like, uh no, you know, I don't know,

503
00:22:35.519 --> 00:22:39.640
<v Speaker 2>but I mean I am very hyped. And Andrew got

504
00:22:39.680 --> 00:22:41.759
<v Speaker 2>into it this season and now he wants to go

505
00:22:41.799 --> 00:22:43.640
<v Speaker 2>back and watch all the other seasons because he like,

506
00:22:43.680 --> 00:22:45.640
<v Speaker 2>hasn't watched a lot of them, and I only watched

507
00:22:45.759 --> 00:22:47.880
<v Speaker 2>I haven't watched every single one either, but I've watched

508
00:22:47.880 --> 00:22:50.279
<v Speaker 2>the last couple. There are one or two others that

509
00:22:50.359 --> 00:22:52.200
<v Speaker 2>have been boring, but the rest have been pretty good.

510
00:22:52.440 --> 00:22:54.000
<v Speaker 2>A lot of people are saying this is boring, and

511
00:22:54.039 --> 00:22:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I think it's because they're spending so much

512
00:22:56.200 --> 00:22:58.599
<v Speaker 2>time on the fucking pods. Everyone knows it gets way

513
00:22:58.640 --> 00:23:01.400
<v Speaker 2>better when the alcohol gets in. They see the people

514
00:23:01.440 --> 00:23:05.000
<v Speaker 2>they passed up their scandal, like are you talking to her.

515
00:23:05.160 --> 00:23:06.599
<v Speaker 1>That's when it gets good.

516
00:23:06.720 --> 00:23:09.799
<v Speaker 3>Like sorry, the whole I've said it before, the wholesome

517
00:23:09.839 --> 00:23:12.480
<v Speaker 3>couples that are just like actually happy.

518
00:23:12.440 --> 00:23:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I FA's forward through their chunks because it's not entertaining.

519
00:23:14.720 --> 00:23:17.279
<v Speaker 3>I want to it's it's messed up, but I want

520
00:23:17.559 --> 00:23:18.480
<v Speaker 3>to see the drama.

521
00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:20.519
<v Speaker 2>You do want to see the drama. I just get

522
00:23:20.519 --> 00:23:22.160
<v Speaker 2>really sad, and I don't know if this has ever happened,

523
00:23:22.200 --> 00:23:24.039
<v Speaker 2>because I don't think it has, but I haven't watched

524
00:23:24.039 --> 00:23:26.240
<v Speaker 2>all the seasons. I just really hope that at least

525
00:23:26.279 --> 00:23:29.119
<v Speaker 2>one couple gets married, because then I just usually at

526
00:23:29.200 --> 00:23:30.680
<v Speaker 2>least one, I was going to say, I feel like

527
00:23:30.759 --> 00:23:32.319
<v Speaker 2>it always has been at least one. But there was

528
00:23:32.359 --> 00:23:34.839
<v Speaker 2>one season, I think two or three ago, where only

529
00:23:34.880 --> 00:23:36.559
<v Speaker 2>one of the couples got married, and I think only

530
00:23:36.640 --> 00:23:38.799
<v Speaker 2>three made it to that point, and I was like, oh,

531
00:23:38.799 --> 00:23:40.680
<v Speaker 2>it was a rough one. Yeah, that was like a

532
00:23:40.839 --> 00:23:43.880
<v Speaker 2>really rough season. I feel like, but I'm curious to

533
00:23:43.920 --> 00:23:45.599
<v Speaker 2>see what will come of all of the people on

534
00:23:45.640 --> 00:23:48.359
<v Speaker 2>the show. Who's going to become like the next influencer,

535
00:23:48.880 --> 00:23:50.559
<v Speaker 2>who was going to gain a following. I've creeped on

536
00:23:50.599 --> 00:23:52.559
<v Speaker 2>a lot of the people who were like featured a

537
00:23:52.599 --> 00:23:55.680
<v Speaker 2>lot on this season so far, and you know, some

538
00:23:55.720 --> 00:23:57.720
<v Speaker 2>of them have a little bit of a following already.

539
00:23:57.759 --> 00:24:00.640
<v Speaker 2>But what was interesting to me was the girls who

540
00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:03.079
<v Speaker 2>have like a higher following. They don't seem to be

541
00:24:03.200 --> 00:24:05.640
<v Speaker 2>like the Instagram people, Like they have hot pictures of themselves,

542
00:24:05.680 --> 00:24:07.960
<v Speaker 2>but they don't post a lot. Yeah, Like so I

543
00:24:07.960 --> 00:24:10.279
<v Speaker 2>thought that was interesting where it's like they're not really

544
00:24:10.319 --> 00:24:11.920
<v Speaker 2>like super big on social media.

545
00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:12.880
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't seem.

546
00:24:12.799 --> 00:24:16.799
<v Speaker 3>I've never followed a single person from the show Love

547
00:24:16.880 --> 00:24:20.000
<v Speaker 3>Is Blind ever, I don't think.

548
00:24:19.880 --> 00:24:22.519
<v Speaker 2>I have either. I follow some Bachelor and Bachelorette people.

549
00:24:22.839 --> 00:24:26.319
<v Speaker 2>I do do that, but that's probably about it for

550
00:24:26.440 --> 00:24:27.200
<v Speaker 2>reality TV.

551
00:24:27.519 --> 00:24:28.480
<v Speaker 1>The only.

552
00:24:29.920 --> 00:24:33.480
<v Speaker 3>Bachelor Bachelorette person I follow isn't from that. I follow

553
00:24:33.519 --> 00:24:37.000
<v Speaker 3>Becca Tilly, yeah, and it's I've never seen her on that.

554
00:24:37.319 --> 00:24:40.359
<v Speaker 3>I follow her because she does a podcast that I like,

555
00:24:41.160 --> 00:24:44.519
<v Speaker 3>and I discover the podcast because of her co host, Tanya,

556
00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:49.000
<v Speaker 3>because she's Ryan Seacrest's co host. Yep. And I think

557
00:24:49.000 --> 00:24:51.440
<v Speaker 3>I just have more interest in like radio people of course,

558
00:24:51.720 --> 00:24:54.559
<v Speaker 3>but and there's like a higher profile one because she

559
00:24:54.640 --> 00:24:57.559
<v Speaker 3>has Becca and stuff, so they'll when they talk about

560
00:24:58.599 --> 00:25:01.480
<v Speaker 3>bachelor bachelorette people, which isn't that often, but they'll have

561
00:25:01.599 --> 00:25:05.000
<v Speaker 3>them on his guests sometimes. I never let I do

562
00:25:05.039 --> 00:25:07.039
<v Speaker 3>not care. I don't listen at all. It's like such

563
00:25:07.079 --> 00:25:07.920
<v Speaker 3>a tune out for me.

564
00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:09.759
<v Speaker 2>It's funny though, because I bet you I have the

565
00:25:09.799 --> 00:25:14.519
<v Speaker 2>audience listens because of so that they are probably like Bachelor, Bachelorette. Absolutely,

566
00:25:14.839 --> 00:25:18.000
<v Speaker 2>but yeah, I would imagine it would be the same

567
00:25:18.039 --> 00:25:21.079
<v Speaker 2>for me if like somebody had a real housewife on

568
00:25:21.119 --> 00:25:22.960
<v Speaker 2>their podcast, I'd be like, nah, I don't care.

569
00:25:23.200 --> 00:25:23.680
<v Speaker 1>No, I know.

570
00:25:23.839 --> 00:25:28.359
<v Speaker 3>This week we have on Thursday, we have Carolyn from

571
00:25:28.400 --> 00:25:31.319
<v Speaker 3>The Traders, and I think she was on like another

572
00:25:31.480 --> 00:25:34.119
<v Speaker 3>reality show because usually anyone that's well, she had to

573
00:25:34.160 --> 00:25:37.039
<v Speaker 3>have been, yeah, anyone who comes to Traders. They were

574
00:25:37.039 --> 00:25:40.000
<v Speaker 3>on a previous reality show. But she's from Minnesota and

575
00:25:40.039 --> 00:25:42.799
<v Speaker 3>people are very excited that she's going to be on

576
00:25:42.920 --> 00:25:45.000
<v Speaker 3>and I'm new to her. But I did start watching

577
00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:48.680
<v Speaker 3>The Traders this season. Doing the TV show man, you have,

578
00:25:48.920 --> 00:25:51.680
<v Speaker 3>like they talk about TV so much. I've really had

579
00:25:51.680 --> 00:25:54.519
<v Speaker 3>to up my game with watching stuff so I'm not

580
00:25:54.559 --> 00:25:56.680
<v Speaker 3>just sitting there like uh huh eh, I don't know

581
00:25:56.680 --> 00:25:58.880
<v Speaker 3>who that is, you know, Like I'm like, oh my god,

582
00:25:58.920 --> 00:25:59.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm watching so much more TV.

583
00:26:00.680 --> 00:26:02.720
<v Speaker 2>That's how I kind of feel lately too, because I

584
00:26:02.880 --> 00:26:06.680
<v Speaker 2>had interviewed Craig Conover on Bravo yep, And actually I'd

585
00:26:06.720 --> 00:26:08.680
<v Speaker 2>been kind of waiting to give some of these details

586
00:26:08.720 --> 00:26:10.960
<v Speaker 2>that maybe will be interesting to anyone listening, because I

587
00:26:10.960 --> 00:26:13.880
<v Speaker 2>know a lot of people watch Bravo stuff. But one

588
00:26:13.920 --> 00:26:16.240
<v Speaker 2>thing that I learned in my interview, because Craig kind

589
00:26:16.240 --> 00:26:19.000
<v Speaker 2>of just like talks off the cuff, like with I

590
00:26:19.039 --> 00:26:20.640
<v Speaker 2>know it was probably a little different with the TV

591
00:26:20.680 --> 00:26:23.000
<v Speaker 2>because you guys had him on the Jason Show too, right, Yeah,

592
00:26:23.039 --> 00:26:24.720
<v Speaker 2>But with this interview was just in front of a

593
00:26:24.720 --> 00:26:26.519
<v Speaker 2>crowd of like one hundred people at the home and

594
00:26:26.519 --> 00:26:29.440
<v Speaker 2>remodeling show, and he kind of just rambled about things.

595
00:26:29.519 --> 00:26:32.079
<v Speaker 2>And one thing he brought up is he can't watch

596
00:26:32.119 --> 00:26:34.599
<v Speaker 2>reality TV because he knows how it works, so he

597
00:26:34.720 --> 00:26:36.720
<v Speaker 2>knows how it's produced, he knows how it's done, and

598
00:26:36.799 --> 00:26:39.200
<v Speaker 2>so he specifically said that At one point, him and

599
00:26:39.240 --> 00:26:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Shep who's one of the main people who's been on

600
00:26:41.039 --> 00:26:44.000
<v Speaker 2>that show, Southern Charm, they were like out hunting or

601
00:26:44.039 --> 00:26:46.119
<v Speaker 2>something and production was like, you need to ask him

602
00:26:46.119 --> 00:26:49.200
<v Speaker 2>this question, and it was like about his feelings or something,

603
00:26:49.279 --> 00:26:51.480
<v Speaker 2>and like their dues and they don't ask questions like that.

604
00:26:51.839 --> 00:26:53.799
<v Speaker 2>So he goes, all right, SHEP you ready to work?

605
00:26:53.960 --> 00:26:56.160
<v Speaker 2>And SHEP goes yep, and he goes, so have you

606
00:26:56.240 --> 00:26:58.079
<v Speaker 2>ever been in love before? And then SHEP just like

607
00:26:58.119 --> 00:27:00.920
<v Speaker 2>went off and actually like open up. But that was

608
00:27:01.000 --> 00:27:03.759
<v Speaker 2>interesting to hear that they kind of set them up. Yeah,

609
00:27:03.799 --> 00:27:06.200
<v Speaker 2>they don't necessarily tell both of them, but then like

610
00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:08.519
<v Speaker 2>Craig to give them the heads up, like, hey, I'm

611
00:27:08.559 --> 00:27:12.799
<v Speaker 2>asking you this because production asked me to ask you, like, hey,

612
00:27:12.839 --> 00:27:15.000
<v Speaker 2>are you ready to work? I thought that that was interesting.

613
00:27:15.519 --> 00:27:16.960
<v Speaker 2>And you know that a lot of the stuff on

614
00:27:17.000 --> 00:27:18.920
<v Speaker 2>real TV has to be set up because they're not

615
00:27:19.000 --> 00:27:21.519
<v Speaker 2>being filmed twenty four hours a day exactly, so they

616
00:27:21.599 --> 00:27:23.400
<v Speaker 2>have to be like, hey, you guys need to have

617
00:27:23.400 --> 00:27:26.119
<v Speaker 2>this conversation because we're filming for the next hour, you know.

618
00:27:26.759 --> 00:27:30.559
<v Speaker 2>So I thought that was a fun little insight into reality. Yeah,

619
00:27:30.559 --> 00:27:31.720
<v Speaker 2>the reality TV world.

620
00:27:31.799 --> 00:27:34.599
<v Speaker 3>He was saying, they do. There's a lot different like

621
00:27:34.839 --> 00:27:36.759
<v Speaker 3>behind the scenes. He was saying that they do. There's

622
00:27:36.799 --> 00:27:38.839
<v Speaker 3>a lot different than a lot of reality shows how

623
00:27:38.880 --> 00:27:40.799
<v Speaker 3>they set things up. And I don't know how a

624
00:27:40.799 --> 00:27:42.039
<v Speaker 3>lot of them run. So I didn't know what he

625
00:27:42.119 --> 00:27:48.079
<v Speaker 3>meant by that, but also, yeah, I don't do I

626
00:27:48.119 --> 00:27:49.119
<v Speaker 3>just don't do a ton of reality.

627
00:27:49.119 --> 00:27:50.599
<v Speaker 1>I still watch the Kardashians.

628
00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:53.799
<v Speaker 3>I just started watching their new season last night on Hulu,

629
00:27:54.640 --> 00:27:56.759
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, but I don't do a ton of reality.

630
00:27:56.759 --> 00:27:58.839
<v Speaker 3>Although everyone says, if you're going to do a Housewives,

631
00:27:58.880 --> 00:28:01.000
<v Speaker 3>you should do the Salt Lake City one, and they're

632
00:28:01.039 --> 00:28:03.039
<v Speaker 3>only like four seasons, so part of me has thought

633
00:28:03.079 --> 00:28:04.559
<v Speaker 3>about going and watching that.

634
00:28:05.319 --> 00:28:08.200
<v Speaker 2>There is just so much too much there. There's so

635
00:28:08.319 --> 00:28:10.200
<v Speaker 2>much because I was like, oh, I don't really watch

636
00:28:10.240 --> 00:28:13.079
<v Speaker 2>any Bravo shows, but below decks Bravo, I think, right,

637
00:28:13.200 --> 00:28:15.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to watch that. See I get

638
00:28:15.160 --> 00:28:17.400
<v Speaker 2>cooked on that on airplanes? That was like the first

639
00:28:17.400 --> 00:28:19.319
<v Speaker 2>time I ever watched it, and so anytime I go

640
00:28:19.359 --> 00:28:21.400
<v Speaker 2>on an airplane, that's what I'll watch. But it's like

641
00:28:21.480 --> 00:28:23.200
<v Speaker 2>the only time I watch it is if.

642
00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:23.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm on an airplane.

643
00:28:24.680 --> 00:28:27.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But have I missed anything in your

644
00:28:27.240 --> 00:28:29.039
<v Speaker 2>life lately? By the way, I don't know what we're

645
00:28:29.079 --> 00:28:29.839
<v Speaker 2>at with time.

646
00:28:29.720 --> 00:28:32.559
<v Speaker 3>But we're almost of the time. I can share one thing

647
00:28:32.680 --> 00:28:36.480
<v Speaker 3>because I do like I I haven't really told me.

648
00:28:36.640 --> 00:28:39.400
<v Speaker 3>I just did it yesterday, but I went in I

649
00:28:39.400 --> 00:28:40.839
<v Speaker 3>had to do I think I talked about had my

650
00:28:40.880 --> 00:28:44.000
<v Speaker 3>first mammogram and then they found something on like my

651
00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:48.200
<v Speaker 3>left breast, which they said was pretty normal to get

652
00:28:48.200 --> 00:28:49.799
<v Speaker 3>like a callback because you have to do your baseline.

653
00:28:49.799 --> 00:28:51.279
<v Speaker 3>They don't know what your boobs look like and your

654
00:28:51.319 --> 00:28:52.079
<v Speaker 3>tissue and all this.

655
00:28:52.559 --> 00:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>So I got a call back.

656
00:28:53.440 --> 00:28:56.200
<v Speaker 3>I had to go back yesterday and they were like,

657
00:28:56.200 --> 00:28:58.240
<v Speaker 3>we're going to do another set of photos and then

658
00:28:58.240 --> 00:29:00.599
<v Speaker 3>we'll do an ultrasound. And so when I went in

659
00:29:00.640 --> 00:29:04.480
<v Speaker 3>for the photos, she was like, just so you know,

660
00:29:04.519 --> 00:29:05.400
<v Speaker 3>this is not abnormal.

661
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:06.720
<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, yeah, they told me that.

662
00:29:06.920 --> 00:29:08.799
<v Speaker 3>And she's like, we're gonna do photos and then i'll

663
00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:11.599
<v Speaker 3>show the radiologist and if she, you know, thinks it's

664
00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:13.319
<v Speaker 3>all fine, you can go home. If not, then we'll

665
00:29:13.319 --> 00:29:15.640
<v Speaker 3>do like an ultrasound. I was like, okay, which I

666
00:29:15.680 --> 00:29:17.319
<v Speaker 3>was already signed up for the ultrasound, but I guess

667
00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:19.480
<v Speaker 3>that's you know, might as well have it signed you know,

668
00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:21.400
<v Speaker 3>signed up for that appointment or whatever.

669
00:29:21.640 --> 00:29:22.519
<v Speaker 1>So I did the photos.

670
00:29:22.559 --> 00:29:23.759
<v Speaker 3>I have to go to the waiting room and then

671
00:29:23.880 --> 00:29:26.359
<v Speaker 3>the ultrasound tech comes to get me. And I hadn't

672
00:29:26.400 --> 00:29:29.039
<v Speaker 3>been nervous about it at all. I wasn't I wasn't stressed.

673
00:29:29.039 --> 00:29:31.119
<v Speaker 3>I didn't stay up. But then when they were like, okay,

674
00:29:31.200 --> 00:29:33.559
<v Speaker 3>let's go to the ultrasound now, then I started getting

675
00:29:33.559 --> 00:29:36.839
<v Speaker 3>like a little bit like oh, they just said if

676
00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:39.319
<v Speaker 3>they didn't see anything, then they wouldn't need to do this.

677
00:29:39.880 --> 00:29:43.759
<v Speaker 3>So they brought me back and did an ultrasound, and

678
00:29:43.799 --> 00:29:45.920
<v Speaker 3>then she was like okay, I'm gonna go get the

679
00:29:45.960 --> 00:29:48.119
<v Speaker 3>radiologists to come in, and so you know, I'm like

680
00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:50.440
<v Speaker 3>looking at the screen and I definitely see something on

681
00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:50.960
<v Speaker 3>the screen.

682
00:29:51.000 --> 00:29:52.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, well, what the hell is it? And

683
00:29:53.319 --> 00:29:55.319
<v Speaker 1>she came in and she looked at it.

684
00:29:55.319 --> 00:29:57.119
<v Speaker 3>She was very quick and she's like, okay, it's a

685
00:29:57.160 --> 00:29:59.680
<v Speaker 3>benign cyst. So I do have a benign cyst. And

686
00:29:59.720 --> 00:30:02.319
<v Speaker 3>there like we don't do anything with it. It just stays

687
00:30:02.400 --> 00:30:04.880
<v Speaker 3>or whatever. So it was like very quick. I thought

688
00:30:04.880 --> 00:30:07.519
<v Speaker 3>it was great that they can just tell you quickly

689
00:30:07.640 --> 00:30:10.200
<v Speaker 3>like that. Yeah, but I am happy that I went

690
00:30:10.279 --> 00:30:12.000
<v Speaker 3>in out. She's like, you know, come back in a

691
00:30:12.079 --> 00:30:14.880
<v Speaker 3>year and we'll do it again. So it's just important

692
00:30:14.880 --> 00:30:17.640
<v Speaker 3>to do it as just another reminder to set up

693
00:30:17.640 --> 00:30:21.279
<v Speaker 3>the mammogram. I think they say it's not covered by

694
00:30:21.359 --> 00:30:25.279
<v Speaker 3>insurance if you're under forty I don't want to speak

695
00:30:25.319 --> 00:30:26.359
<v Speaker 3>on everyone's insurance.

696
00:30:26.359 --> 00:30:27.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what yours is, but.

697
00:30:28.839 --> 00:30:31.000
<v Speaker 2>I think I don't know because I had to have

698
00:30:31.039 --> 00:30:33.440
<v Speaker 2>stuff like that done when I was twenty three years old,

699
00:30:33.480 --> 00:30:36.279
<v Speaker 2>and I'm pretty sure I had some insurance help with it.

700
00:30:36.559 --> 00:30:39.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe it's somewhat covered, but a lot of people

701
00:30:39.200 --> 00:30:42.079
<v Speaker 3>were saying I wanted to get this done proactively in

702
00:30:42.119 --> 00:30:45.240
<v Speaker 3>my insurance, So I'm sure it's based on your insurance. Yeah,

703
00:30:45.279 --> 00:30:50.759
<v Speaker 3>but I I thought, God, why wouldn't they cover that, Like,

704
00:30:50.920 --> 00:30:54.000
<v Speaker 3>why wouldn't they let because women are getting breast cancer

705
00:30:54.079 --> 00:30:57.000
<v Speaker 3>younger and younger, So I thought it was bizarre. And

706
00:30:57.039 --> 00:30:59.519
<v Speaker 3>then someone else got frustrated because they said, when you

707
00:30:59.559 --> 00:31:02.319
<v Speaker 3>get the call back a lot of the time, insurance

708
00:31:02.319 --> 00:31:05.200
<v Speaker 3>won't cover the other things. So I called with my

709
00:31:05.359 --> 00:31:08.119
<v Speaker 3>insurance and I called like their financial thing, and they

710
00:31:08.119 --> 00:31:09.920
<v Speaker 3>were like, it should cover it. If not, it'll be

711
00:31:09.960 --> 00:31:13.240
<v Speaker 3>this percentage. And someone messaged me that works for like insurance,

712
00:31:13.240 --> 00:31:15.400
<v Speaker 3>and they were annoyed with this narrative that it never

713
00:31:15.480 --> 00:31:17.440
<v Speaker 3>covers the follow ups, and I'm like, she's like, that's

714
00:31:17.440 --> 00:31:19.960
<v Speaker 3>some insurance. I'm like right, But people were messaging me

715
00:31:20.440 --> 00:31:23.960
<v Speaker 3>to make me aware that it's not necessarily covered, which

716
00:31:24.000 --> 00:31:27.119
<v Speaker 3>is also crazy. The handful of insurance that doesn't cover

717
00:31:27.279 --> 00:31:30.599
<v Speaker 3>a necessary follow up to see if you have breast cancer.

718
00:31:31.000 --> 00:31:32.079
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck?

719
00:31:33.319 --> 00:31:35.039
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't want to make this about me, but

720
00:31:35.119 --> 00:31:38.440
<v Speaker 2>I went through this last week because not with breast

721
00:31:38.519 --> 00:31:42.160
<v Speaker 2>but if you remember, I had I have swollen lymph

722
00:31:42.160 --> 00:31:45.119
<v Speaker 2>notes in my neck and I had the ultrasound done

723
00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:47.599
<v Speaker 2>last December, this past December, and then I had to

724
00:31:47.640 --> 00:31:49.400
<v Speaker 2>go in and do a biopsy and it was like

725
00:31:49.400 --> 00:31:51.720
<v Speaker 2>a whole surgical thing, like I was in a surgical room.

726
00:31:51.960 --> 00:31:54.200
<v Speaker 2>They had to put some numbing shit in my neck.

727
00:31:54.279 --> 00:31:54.680
<v Speaker 1>Whatever.

728
00:31:55.400 --> 00:31:59.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I got the bill last week and it was

729
00:31:59.559 --> 00:32:01.400
<v Speaker 2>not a single dime was covered of it.

730
00:32:01.680 --> 00:32:04.119
<v Speaker 1>I had called before.

731
00:32:05.559 --> 00:32:08.319
<v Speaker 2>I had done the ultrasound appointment, which my doctor said,

732
00:32:08.319 --> 00:32:10.200
<v Speaker 2>I'll set you up with someone in network. So I

733
00:32:10.279 --> 00:32:13.319
<v Speaker 2>called the head of the ultrasound appointment saying, hey, I

734
00:32:13.400 --> 00:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>want to make sure that this is covered. They're like, yeah,

735
00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:16.839
<v Speaker 2>but you're not at your deductible, so you will be

736
00:32:16.839 --> 00:32:18.759
<v Speaker 2>paying for some of it whatever. And I understood that

737
00:32:18.759 --> 00:32:20.200
<v Speaker 2>that's how the deductible works.

738
00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:20.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

739
00:32:20.480 --> 00:32:23.160
<v Speaker 2>So then comes back, the ultrasound comes back that I

740
00:32:23.160 --> 00:32:26.000
<v Speaker 2>should get a biopsy done and so my doctor sets

741
00:32:26.000 --> 00:32:29.039
<v Speaker 2>me up, same hospital, same area of the hospital, everything

742
00:32:29.079 --> 00:32:31.400
<v Speaker 2>that I just went to for the ultrasound, get that bill,

743
00:32:31.519 --> 00:32:34.519
<v Speaker 2>and then a single dollar was covered. So I had

744
00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:37.680
<v Speaker 2>a full mental breakdown when I opened that letter because

745
00:32:37.720 --> 00:32:40.880
<v Speaker 2>I am so exhausted of calling.

746
00:32:41.400 --> 00:32:42.359
<v Speaker 1>And very much of this.

747
00:32:42.640 --> 00:32:44.640
<v Speaker 2>And I do not know if this is illegal or not,

748
00:32:44.759 --> 00:32:48.079
<v Speaker 2>but when I call, I record on my computer every

749
00:32:48.119 --> 00:32:51.039
<v Speaker 2>single thing someone says. Now for the last couple of years,

750
00:32:51.079 --> 00:32:53.319
<v Speaker 2>I will turn on the mic on my word doc

751
00:32:53.359 --> 00:32:55.359
<v Speaker 2>and I will record what they're saying so I can

752
00:32:55.480 --> 00:32:58.640
<v Speaker 2>verify this is exactly what they said to me. This

753
00:32:58.720 --> 00:33:01.799
<v Speaker 2>is like this should be cover And so I had

754
00:33:01.839 --> 00:33:04.440
<v Speaker 2>a whole mental breakdown, called my insurance the next day.

755
00:33:05.200 --> 00:33:08.319
<v Speaker 2>It actually ended up being a mistake on the hospital's

756
00:33:08.359 --> 00:33:11.000
<v Speaker 2>behalf because they had to get prior authorization for that

757
00:33:11.079 --> 00:33:14.119
<v Speaker 2>surgery and they didn't and so then the insurance didn't

758
00:33:14.119 --> 00:33:16.400
<v Speaker 2>cover it because of something that they didn't do.

759
00:33:16.480 --> 00:33:16.599
<v Speaker 3>Right.

760
00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:18.799
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so now it's a process and I'm hoping that

761
00:33:18.839 --> 00:33:20.440
<v Speaker 2>it'll all get cleared up, but they said it's going

762
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:24.640
<v Speaker 2>to take a couple months now. But yes, to your point,

763
00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:27.519
<v Speaker 2>it is just important to check even if there's a

764
00:33:27.599 --> 00:33:30.160
<v Speaker 2>narrative out there that certain things are covered or not covered.

765
00:33:30.240 --> 00:33:33.559
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like, just check no matter what, if

766
00:33:33.559 --> 00:33:36.640
<v Speaker 2>you're doing anything big, just get it checked, because it

767
00:33:36.720 --> 00:33:39.400
<v Speaker 2>is it's heartbreaking to get that bill and see that

768
00:33:39.519 --> 00:33:41.039
<v Speaker 2>you owe a ton of money out and not know

769
00:33:41.079 --> 00:33:41.680
<v Speaker 2>what you're gonna do.

770
00:33:41.880 --> 00:33:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just crazy.

771
00:33:44.759 --> 00:33:46.839
<v Speaker 3>I've watched it go through this multiple times between like

772
00:33:47.119 --> 00:33:50.799
<v Speaker 3>wrist surgeries, when you were getting on your meditation was covered, right,

773
00:33:51.319 --> 00:33:52.240
<v Speaker 3>They're going through.

774
00:33:52.119 --> 00:33:55.759
<v Speaker 2>Like mental self. I was told I was covered and

775
00:33:55.880 --> 00:33:59.319
<v Speaker 2>it wasn't. And I've been fighting with them for like

776
00:34:00.119 --> 00:34:02.640
<v Speaker 2>seven months now about that and I keep getting the

777
00:34:02.640 --> 00:34:03.119
<v Speaker 2>same answer.

778
00:34:03.200 --> 00:34:05.680
<v Speaker 1>So there's that. But yeah, and one time it was

779
00:34:05.759 --> 00:34:06.319
<v Speaker 1>my fuck up.

780
00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:09.159
<v Speaker 2>I didn't realize that I had changed insurances from the

781
00:34:09.199 --> 00:34:11.360
<v Speaker 2>previous year and I kept going to the same doctor.

782
00:34:11.480 --> 00:34:13.239
<v Speaker 2>But it was also happened to be the same year

783
00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:15.000
<v Speaker 2>I had to get my birth control and plan out

784
00:34:15.039 --> 00:34:17.000
<v Speaker 2>and a new horman and I did all this extra

785
00:34:17.039 --> 00:34:19.079
<v Speaker 2>stuff because I knew I met my deductible because I

786
00:34:19.079 --> 00:34:21.280
<v Speaker 2>had my rest surgery, and then none of that was covered.

787
00:34:21.800 --> 00:34:23.920
<v Speaker 2>So that one was my fault. But I learned my

788
00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:27.320
<v Speaker 2>lesson and I've done it right ever since then. And yeah,

789
00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:29.519
<v Speaker 2>I just keep feeling like I get bid in the ass.

790
00:34:29.519 --> 00:34:31.039
<v Speaker 2>And I know there's a lot of people out there

791
00:34:31.039 --> 00:34:33.719
<v Speaker 2>because anytime, like when you've gotten your messages, when you

792
00:34:33.719 --> 00:34:37.440
<v Speaker 2>post about health insurance anything, so many messages come in.

793
00:34:37.440 --> 00:34:40.880
<v Speaker 1>So many it's exhausting, it is. But I'm happy you're good,

794
00:34:40.880 --> 00:34:42.360
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, me to good and thank you.

795
00:34:42.519 --> 00:34:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Go get checked and make sure you're looking up for

796
00:34:44.800 --> 00:34:46.519
<v Speaker 2>your boobies exactly important.

797
00:34:46.840 --> 00:34:49.840
<v Speaker 1>They are all right. Thanks for listening, Have a great week.
