Speaker 1: A little late, but better than not at all.
Speaker 2: Right, that's what I'm saying, baby listen. We put an
Speaker 2: extra work the last couple of weeks having guests on.
Speaker 2: Actually we did it. Honestly, it was probably easy.
Speaker 1: It was easier.
Speaker 3: Literally, you guys came up with the questions for them,
Speaker 3: we asked him, and now we're going to act like
Speaker 3: it was very hard.
Speaker 1: Work.
Speaker 2: Was a little work coordinating with our significant others to
Speaker 2: come into the studio look forward with us.
Speaker 1: But welcome to that. I'm still fun podcasts.
Speaker 2: Yes, thanks for being here. I will say that Andrew
Speaker 2: was kind of bummed that you didn't ask one of
Speaker 2: the questions that was asked.
Speaker 1: What was it?
Speaker 2: It was, how do you feel about Jenny talking about
Speaker 2: your sex life on air or on the podcast?
Speaker 3: Well, the reason I didn't ask that because I had
Speaker 3: already asked a version of.
Speaker 2: That, I know, but he was he wanted that specific question, like, okay,
Speaker 2: specific because he said that he wanted to be able
Speaker 2: to answer and say that people should talk more about
Speaker 2: sex because he's a feminist, he's pro female orgasm. Okay,
Speaker 2: So he wanted to make sure that that answer got
Speaker 2: in there, and that's how he feels about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's all he had to say. I'm klably
Speaker 1: clear that up.
Speaker 3: We did get an email, which was surprising to me
Speaker 3: about our guest and they said, longtime listener, love you both.
Speaker 3: I love the episodes with Jake and Andrew. I was wondering,
Speaker 3: has any other from like Katie w B has any
Speaker 3: other people wanted to be guest stars. They said, I
Speaker 3: know if you have in past podcast they were thinking
Speaker 3: morning show people cult Max. Have you know about having
Speaker 3: them come on at some point looking forward to the
Speaker 3: next podcast, I do think we talked about having Cult on.
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll do him. I did want to.
Speaker 3: Take a week off from guests and maybe see if
Speaker 3: Cole wants to do it, like next week or the
Speaker 3: week after. I because someone else had messaged you saying
Speaker 3: we should have coult On. Yeah they did, and when
Speaker 3: I showed him, he was like totally down for it.
Speaker 3: And I did have Cult on my Heartbroken podcast a
Speaker 3: long time ago. He has a great story, but I
Speaker 3: think he'd be fun. He's can I just tell you so?
Speaker 3: Cole does not like talking about sexual stuff.
Speaker 2: Okay, so he.
Speaker 3: And I have been working on and I don't mind
Speaker 3: sharing it here because we're like launching it tomorrow basically
Speaker 3: YouTube like videos, right, and we're kind of trying to
Speaker 3: find our flow because it's kind of like a podcast
Speaker 3: is different than doing a morning show. A podcast is
Speaker 3: different than do our afternoon show. So we came in
Speaker 3: here and I think I was like, I'm so used
Speaker 3: to doing a podcast with you and we can be
Speaker 3: really sexual. It felt so unnatural. The first episode we
Speaker 3: did was fine. The second one I worked in a
Speaker 3: couple of things and he does not feel comfortable with that.
Speaker 3: And so at the end of the episode, I'm like,
Speaker 3: everything felt off about that. That is not us and
Speaker 3: I'm like, what, we're deleting that? So he'sa A yeah,
Speaker 3: and deleting it, scrapping it. That's not our that's not
Speaker 3: our thing. And that's fine. But it's funny how I
Speaker 3: feel so comfortable with you. But it's not because Colton
Speaker 3: makes me uncomfortable. I think that he just is someone.
Speaker 3: He he said before, like which this is probably sharing
Speaker 3: too much of his personal information, Like he won't watch
Speaker 3: like adult videos, oh since like having kids and stuff.
Speaker 3: He just said he can't. He's not someone who can compartmentalize.
Speaker 3: He like feels like those women don't want to be
Speaker 3: there and like it makes him uncomfortable, and so that's
Speaker 3: his least favorite ord is the P word.
Speaker 2: Really, he hates it.
Speaker 1: Interesting.
Speaker 2: I feel like, Okay, I'm trying to think back, which
Speaker 2: was so long ago now as to like when I
Speaker 2: joined the show, I feel like I've always been very
Speaker 2: sex positive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that was and.
Speaker 2: You know, I joined the show during my party girl era,
Speaker 2: so like my life was sex like, yeah, it was
Speaker 2: very much. So I feel like I've always been decently open. However,
Speaker 2: with you, it was always easy. With Steve, it was
Speaker 2: funny because Steve's just fucking naive.
Speaker 1: And weird and whatever naive.
Speaker 2: But with Dave, it took me a long time to
Speaker 2: feel comfortable sharing certain things with Dave and vice versa
Speaker 2: with him, Like, and I think there's still plenty of
Speaker 2: things on him and I don't share it too with
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 1: You're right, But I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think like if he's if he just doesn't like
Speaker 2: talking about it, then that's like the end of it.
Speaker 1: But maybe it's I think.
Speaker 2: The future he'll feel more comfortable to me.
Speaker 3: But I think I think it's okay, Yeah, I think
Speaker 3: so many things are sexual, and like, it's not that
Speaker 3: we can't make jokes about like how long it's been
Speaker 3: since our mom's gotten any or I'm sure we could
Speaker 3: make jokes here and there, but it wouldn't be a
Speaker 3: top Like it wouldn't be a direct topic like some
Speaker 3: of us and I don't think it ever will be.
Speaker 3: And I'm okay with that. It's like whatever.
Speaker 2: Well, and of course I also feel like, I mean,
Speaker 2: I was just saying when I started on the show,
Speaker 2: it was like lots of those kind of stories, and
Speaker 2: my life is so different now. Yeah, you know, like
Speaker 2: sex happens once every six months, so it's like, you know,
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 1: Andrew would die if that's how it was.
Speaker 2: But no, no, but I do think that like as
Speaker 2: I've gotten older too, I also have chilled out a
Speaker 2: ton on sharing so many of the stories.
Speaker 3: We I agree there were like I remember early on
Speaker 3: in radio I shared like the sound my partner made orgasming,
Speaker 3: and even briefly after that it started making me like
Speaker 3: a little cringey uncomfortable, to the point where I went
Speaker 3: into the system and deleted it so that Steve or
Speaker 3: Dave could never find it again to ever play it.
Speaker 3: Again because I was like, h and I'll have those
Speaker 3: moments I've actually thought about before the Morning Show YouTube. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I've like had to like kind of in my
Speaker 3: mind think about, oh my gosh, is there anything on
Speaker 3: there I should delete? Because twelve years ago, thirteen years ago,
Speaker 3: very different time. And like when you first come on
Speaker 3: to a new show, you're willing to do just about
Speaker 3: anything because you want to like please people. You'll go
Speaker 3: down paths of storylines or share stories that as you
Speaker 3: go on you're like, Eh, maybe I don't want to.
Speaker 3: And so I was like, oh God, are there any
Speaker 3: of those on there? I should look into that and
Speaker 3: delete them.
Speaker 1: If there are.
Speaker 2: I feel like the stuff you did on YouTube, but
Speaker 2: I granted I wasn't a part of the show till
Speaker 2: like a handful of years in when you were on it,
Speaker 2: but I feel like they were all just over exaggerated
Speaker 2: dramatic things like you on your period.
Speaker 1: Those are my favorite.
Speaker 3: Every twenty eight Days are just my favorite series we did.
Speaker 3: A lot of them were just when I had gone
Speaker 3: back to look at all they were stupid parody bits
Speaker 3: or pranks or not pranks, like like a payoff for
Speaker 3: losing a bet and you had to do something dangerous
Speaker 3: or disgusting.
Speaker 1: It wasn't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't something I'm like, oh, I'll get canceled
Speaker 3: over that necessarily. Who knows, maybe there's one that exists somewhere,
Speaker 3: though I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think the only thing I can really think of
Speaker 2: because I just I don't know. I just feel like
Speaker 2: I've never done too many things that would be super
Speaker 2: out there. But we did roast Dave one year, or
Speaker 2: like the Thanksgiving roast of Dave or something. It was
Speaker 2: intern John was back in town and we all did
Speaker 2: a roast of him. And the only thing I can
Speaker 2: think of is I did make a Trump joke because
Speaker 2: it was twenty sixteen. I think it was like an
Speaker 2: election year and I made a Trump joke and something
Speaker 2: with like a wall, yeah, And I don't remember exactly
Speaker 2: what it is, but like that, it wasn't offensive one
Speaker 2: way or another. It was just like kind of making
Speaker 2: a joke of the situation whatever it was at the time.
Speaker 2: But I would never ever make a joke about like
Speaker 2: a president or anything like that anymore. Like I know,
Speaker 2: you just don't.
Speaker 1: There's no room for any form of joke because you.
Speaker 2: Will be attacked no matter what you say. Absolutely.
Speaker 3: Going back just very quickly to the email, I was
Speaker 3: actually surprised that she sent in saying she wanted more guests,
Speaker 3: because not that Andrew and Jake didn't do a great job,
Speaker 3: but typically, well, I think since it's our partners, I
Speaker 3: if I listen to other people's podcasts, I usually don't
Speaker 3: like when they have guests on, except I haven't actually
Speaker 3: enjoyed when their partners have been on, so I can
Speaker 3: see where that would be fun. And someone else was like, oh,
Speaker 3: you guys, because Steve was on the morning show this
Speaker 3: past week. Yeah, someone was like, you should have Steve
Speaker 3: back in again. I'm like, maybe you never know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Steve.
Speaker 2: That man came in on Friday morning, just sweaty, but
Speaker 2: I also was sweaty because I was running around doing
Speaker 2: a million things that morning. But I gave him the
Speaker 2: biggest hug. And then of course I texted Fallon a
Speaker 2: picture of him and your response because he was using
Speaker 2: Fallon's headphone exact how perfect to not even know but
Speaker 2: know he was probably sweating.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you want that sweaty ass where
Speaker 1: my headphones? Disgusting, And then.
Speaker 2: He goes, I'm gonna need to use your computer, and
Speaker 2: I was like, what do you mean like, and I'm
Speaker 2: thinking like back in the day, Steve would just like
Speaker 2: had this blackmail thing about him, absolutely, like where he
Speaker 2: claimed he had like a folder on all of us,
Speaker 2: and I still think he does, Yeah, he probably does.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, what do you mean you need to
Speaker 2: use my computer? I got a call with like someone
Speaker 2: in Sweden at nine and I forgot my computer because
Speaker 2: I was takings Olivia here. And then I, you know,
Speaker 2: Christy asked me if you and the next thing I know,
Speaker 2: I forgot my bag in my computer and I go,
Speaker 2: that's all that I know, And so I wanted me
Speaker 2: to use my computer. But the entire time I was
Speaker 2: thinking that he was fucking around with stuff on my computer.
Speaker 2: Probably literally was I'm like waiting to find something somewhere
Speaker 2: in my folders that's like, hey, you bitch, you know,
Speaker 2: like something like that.
Speaker 3: I'm surprised I didn't get an email from you just
Speaker 3: calling me a C word or something. I'm like, what
Speaker 3: the hell, Jenny, I'm like on the company email. We
Speaker 3: do have a couple of other emails, but maybe this
Speaker 3: one's kind of more so for me. Uh, this one says, Hey, ladies,
Speaker 3: you asked what you should call your question section of
Speaker 3: the podcast. I think you should name it. I'm still wondering. Okay,
Speaker 3: it's like it would fit. But they do have a
Speaker 3: question for you, Jenny. As a wanderer traveler by nature,
Speaker 3: do you get claustrophobic in the city. I am also
Speaker 3: a wanderer, but I live in the country. But I imagine
Speaker 3: I would get very claustrophobic being in such crowd areas
Speaker 3: when nature is my true happy place. Always wondering, Anna, No, I.
Speaker 2: Love the city, but I also don't. Like I'm trying
Speaker 2: to think of what she's saying. So, say you're walking
Speaker 2: around in Chicago, and.
Speaker 3: Because there'd be so many people around you, and like
Speaker 3: the buildings still close into you, you don't have like
Speaker 3: a field of trees or anything to go into.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I don't feel that way. If there's a
Speaker 2: lot of people around me anywhere, I don't love that
Speaker 2: because then that makes me feel like I'm in a
Speaker 2: tourist trap. So I avoid situations like that quite often.
Speaker 2: But I love the feeling of like just walking around
Speaker 2: a big city. At Morning Show boot Camp when we
Speaker 2: won a couple of years ago. I got up one
Speaker 2: morning and went for a run and just like explored
Speaker 2: around the area and I just love everything.
Speaker 1: I mean, she masturbated on the bean.
Speaker 2: I would have, but there were people that are being
Speaker 2: and also on the bean. It's really hard to like
Speaker 2: get onto the bean, yeah, like get close to it,
Speaker 2: but you could.
Speaker 1: Rub yourself against it. I wouldn't suggest it.
Speaker 3: That's how you probably get like some kind of uti
Speaker 3: staph infection.
Speaker 1: Is that thank that?
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know staph infection, but I wonder if
Speaker 2: anyone's ever done that, like as.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, this would be so funny to.
Speaker 3: Grind on the bean, yeah, or just masturbate by it. Oh,
Speaker 3: you know that someone definitely jerked around it. Well, I'm
Speaker 3: saying like I would be more surprised if a woman
Speaker 3: has rubbed it out, though harder to hide that. No,
Speaker 3: it's not harder to hide it. It's just I feel like.
Speaker 1: It's more of a longer a guy who's on drugs
Speaker 1: kind of vibe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably, But no, I didn't do that. I actually
Speaker 2: just explored the city and I liked it, and so yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't feel quite Did.
Speaker 3: You masturbate in the bed next to me? When I
Speaker 3: was I would never do any I think there can
Speaker 3: you imagine?
Speaker 2: I think the only time I've done that where I
Speaker 2: probably shouldn't have was in my childhood bed when like
Speaker 2: I was home visiting sometime.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 2: But it was weird because it's like I didn't do
Speaker 2: that growing up when I lived at home, and so
Speaker 2: like to do it when I was like visiting home,
Speaker 2: it just fell fucking weird. Yeah, and you know, my
Speaker 2: mom's like in a room like down the hall whatever.
Speaker 2: So I think that's the only time I feel like
Speaker 2: I've done something like that where I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I could have. I could have probably skipped today. Maybe.
Speaker 3: I asked Jake if he has ever masturbated in bed
Speaker 3: next to me while I've been sleeping. He's like no,
Speaker 3: And then I was like thinking I wouldn't only because
Speaker 3: I would be afraid he would wake up and he
Speaker 3: wouldn't be judgmental. But I still think I would be embarrassed.
Speaker 3: And some people would be like, oh, if you're horny,
Speaker 3: why wouldn't you just wake him up?
Speaker 1: Because sometimes I don't need a full sash.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yes, have you ever masturbated next to Andrew
Speaker 3: while he's been sleeping.
Speaker 2: Nope, I've never done that. I thought that I had
Speaker 2: woke up one morning and he was doing it, and
Speaker 2: so I was kind of just like letting him do
Speaker 2: his thing, because honestly, I didn't want to get involved.
Speaker 2: I felt like if I would have acknowledged that I
Speaker 2: was awake, he would have been like, come on in,
Speaker 2: and I'd have been like, no, you can shut that door.
Speaker 1: It's all you, baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: But I asked him.
Speaker 2: Later and he's like, no, I was not, like, I
Speaker 2: don't know what you were and I was like, I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: It felt like there was like movements in the ocean
Speaker 1: been under.
Speaker 3: The blanket, and he's like, no, glad we could clear
Speaker 3: that up. Did you guys have sex over Valentine's Day
Speaker 3: in the camper van?
Speaker 2: We did, and I think it's why I'm sore now
Speaker 2: because we don't have a high roof band, so it's
Speaker 2: very it's the low roof. You're already like bending over
Speaker 2: to stand up in it period, but then standing no,
Speaker 2: but then to add in the sex aspect of it.
Speaker 2: You know, I was getting a little frisky on top,
Speaker 2: whipped my head up and just banged it up against
Speaker 2: the ceiling.
Speaker 1: I was like, God.
Speaker 2: Damn, and what a way to throw off the motion
Speaker 2: in the ocean. You know what I'm saying, Baby, I
Speaker 2: had a groove. We were in sync and I was
Speaker 2: like bam, and like I don't know how you and
Speaker 2: Jake are when something weird happens are inside.
Speaker 1: We are immature and knowledge We just like you.
Speaker 2: Don't just like sit there and like continue on. It's like, man,
Speaker 2: that must have heard. I was like, yeah, it did,
Speaker 2: you know? And then we'd get back into it. But yeah, no,
Speaker 2: that was that was the fun shenanigans in the van. Honestly,
Speaker 2: a lot of times we don't have a lot of
Speaker 2: sex in the van because it's just not the most
Speaker 2: convenient situation. It's got to know the aftermath and all
Speaker 2: that stuff. What about you, you guys get down dirty on
Speaker 2: V Day?
Speaker 1: We did actually on V Day? Yeah, nice. Look. I
Speaker 1: looked at him. I was like, do you want to
Speaker 1: do it on the couch or do you want to
Speaker 1: do it in the bed? And he tried the couch.
Speaker 1: So we did that.
Speaker 3: We watched all of Love Is Blind this weekend, all
Speaker 3: six episodes.
Speaker 1: We binged it.
Speaker 3: We stayed up late on Saturday night because it was like,
Speaker 3: I was like, I want to finish it. I do
Speaker 3: think six episodes in the pods is not necessary.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what did it used to be?
Speaker 1: Was it less? I feel like it's been. I think
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 2: I think it was because I was on Reddit this morning,
Speaker 2: and I think some people were saying that they expanded
Speaker 2: it because they wanted us to get to know the
Speaker 2: relationships better before we saw the And then they're like,
Speaker 2: but we didn't get to know the relationships better. They
Speaker 2: they didn't produce it in a way to get to
Speaker 2: know the relationships better. They just like featured more people.
Speaker 2: I don't really know. But regardless, I.
Speaker 3: Thought a lot of interesting stuff too, because they said
Speaker 3: they had more people than ever, but it seemed like
Speaker 3: they focused on less couples than ever. Yep, And I
Speaker 3: did think it was really weird, and I'm like, maybe
Speaker 3: they were just couples they weren't shown. I thought it
Speaker 3: was bizarre. They didn't feature like a single munk person.
Speaker 3: I didn't there was barely any diversity, which people already
Speaker 3: think that about Minnesota and so and then a lot
Speaker 3: of the guys do have a similar look vibe when
Speaker 3: you like, when you lay them all out next to
Speaker 3: each other, and so I was a little disappointed in
Speaker 3: that aspect, because I like people already look at Minneapolis
Speaker 3: in a certain way. You couldn't find any other diversity
Speaker 3: to put in there. We have a large Somali population
Speaker 3: as well, so I don't know, I thought it was.
Speaker 3: But also maybe they didn't apply or maybe a lot
Speaker 3: of the time. I learned this from season one. There
Speaker 3: are couples that get engaged and get married and go
Speaker 3: the full way, but they're not like apparently featured featured
Speaker 3: ors like is interesting enough. The guy who owns a
Speaker 3: like Trubadour wine bar, I keep seeing him post about it.
Speaker 3: I've only seen him in the background of one clip,
Speaker 3: which and I think I look like he got engaged.
Speaker 2: Maybe I think I have heard that before too, But
Speaker 2: I also have heard like the horror stories of some
Speaker 2: couples did get featured, but then like, oh something bad,
Speaker 2: but bad things have happened and so they were like
Speaker 2: completely cut out once the editing actually took place and stuff.
Speaker 2: So gotcha. Yes, I've heard multiple different kinds of stories,
Speaker 2: and I do have connections with like a couple people
Speaker 2: that were on the cast this year or this season,
Speaker 2: So I feel like I want to reach out once
Speaker 2: everything's said and done. I just they're under such strict NDAs.
Speaker 2: And I know you probably know this since you had
Speaker 2: Ben on the show right last week, But it's like,
Speaker 2: I want to be so respectful of not getting them
Speaker 2: in trouble, but it's like I want to ask so
Speaker 2: many questions too.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well, you know what's one question I did
Speaker 3: not think to ask that. Someone did ask Ben if
Speaker 3: they get to wear whatever they want, and he said, no,
Speaker 3: you have to lay out your outfits and they'll tell
Speaker 3: you which ones you can and care were Obviously, if
Speaker 3: it has logo on it, you can't work kind of thing.
Speaker 3: I thought that was interesting. I'd ever thought about that.
Speaker 3: But do you have any predictions or anything yet?
Speaker 2: Well, it just sucks because I'm on the side of
Speaker 2: TikTok that has some spoilers and some thoughts and some
Speaker 2: rumors and whatever. So the only thing I'll say is
Speaker 2: that I am rooting for like some of the couples
Speaker 2: more than the others. But I feel like the only
Speaker 2: one I have faith with at this point is Joey
Speaker 2: and Monica maybe being the ones that make it dull?
Speaker 1: Are they the first ones that got engaged.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Joey has got the long hair and then Monica's
Speaker 2: like a little bit taller, dark hair, and they seem
Speaker 2: like very sweet Minnesota, nice human beings. Joey's thick ass
Speaker 2: Minnesota as it is the wild.
Speaker 3: I thought it was interesting they like didn't kiss. I
Speaker 3: didn't think when they saw each other and stuff, I
Speaker 3: think they were the only couple that didn't. They seemed
Speaker 3: almost like sister or rather laughing, playful. So for a moment,
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, that not everyone is
Speaker 3: comfortable immediately doing that, because and I had to remind
Speaker 3: myself of that, because I was like, I couldn't tell,
Speaker 3: like was she not into him right for a moment,
Speaker 3: because why wouldn't they kiss? But I do You're right,
Speaker 3: they seem like the most wholesome couple.
Speaker 2: Andrew pointed out that we've never obviously been in this
Speaker 2: position before, and so we're just judging how we think
Speaker 2: that we would react, But we really have no idea
Speaker 2: how we would react if we went on a show,
Speaker 2: got engaged and all of a sudden, you're just like
Speaker 2: forced to have this physical connection within seconds. You don't
Speaker 2: necessarily know how you're going to react. And some people
Speaker 2: might just like not feel in that moment that it's
Speaker 2: appropriate almost and some people aren't physically attracted to them.
Speaker 2: That is what happens a lot of times. But we
Speaker 2: were kind of like, oh, we're being so judging of
Speaker 2: all these people who clearly don't have a connection. But like, also,
Speaker 2: how can you imagine talking to someone for a week
Speaker 2: or or whatever it is and then all of a
Speaker 2: sudden you're supposed to just like want to bone them
Speaker 2: within seconds.
Speaker 3: Well, so that is one thing I I did ask.
Speaker 3: I was like, how long are you actually talking to him?
Speaker 3: And he Ben said he it's like around twenty eight hours, okay,
Speaker 3: which I was like, if you break that down and
Speaker 3: you're doing two to three hour dates at a time
Speaker 3: with someone, twenty eight hours, I mean that gives you
Speaker 3: a lot of time to actually, yeah, I get to
Speaker 3: know them.
Speaker 2: And I also think that you have to keep that
Speaker 2: in mind when you start making judgments of all these people,
Speaker 2: because we're getting like the best juiciest dramatic clips that
Speaker 2: they can find a lot of times, and like some
Speaker 2: characteristic building clips. So I feel like, you know, there's
Speaker 2: certain people that I don't really think I like that
Speaker 2: much on this season that were featured a lot. But
Speaker 2: then I think about it, and it's like, somebody could
Speaker 2: take stuff I say on our show or on this
Speaker 2: podcast and clip it down to you know, ministerial things,
Speaker 2: and I would sound like an awful person too.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was disappointed in the guy who opened up about
Speaker 3: hurting his back and taking the medication and abusing medication
Speaker 3: and crying, and the woman was crying and so receptive,
Speaker 3: and then she was like, I think, was like, oh,
Speaker 3: we're in like this vulnerable sharing moment, and when she
Speaker 3: shared hers, I get you can't predict how your reaction
Speaker 3: is going to be to things, but I do think
Speaker 3: in a moment like that, even if you're like I
Speaker 3: don't necessarily see myself with this person, to see how
Speaker 3: receptive and kind and loving she was to his stuff,
Speaker 3: to not show her the same courtesy even if he
Speaker 3: was faking.
Speaker 1: It, Yep, I agree.
Speaker 3: I was really disappointed in that, and they weren't a match,
Speaker 3: and that's fine, they knew it, But I think the
Speaker 3: producers specifically showed him sharing the full story two times,
Speaker 3: purposely because you don't typically sit through and let people
Speaker 3: see someone share the same story fully through two times
Speaker 3: I feel like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: They know. I mean, there's an agenda of course with
Speaker 2: like everything that you're seeing, because it's going to play
Speaker 2: into whatever we see the rest of the season. But
Speaker 2: I do agree, I don't know. I feel like certain
Speaker 2: people have connections. I think certain people are on the
Speaker 2: show because of the fame of it, and oh yeah,
Speaker 2: oh yeah.
Speaker 1: I would say it's fifty.
Speaker 2: I would say even higher for the people that are
Speaker 2: on it for the fame, but I don't know. In
Speaker 2: the end, the funniest thing that came out of the
Speaker 2: entire first drop of episodes was when Virginia right that
Speaker 2: I think that's her name, met Devin, the two that
Speaker 2: end up being together with the ibuprofen story, Oh okay,
Speaker 2: and then the other girl when they met and Virginia's
Speaker 2: only compliment to him was you have nice eyes, and
Speaker 2: he said I don't normally get that, and she goes, well,
Speaker 2: the shape of them, and it's like, you don't find
Speaker 2: this man attractive whatsoever. If the only compliment you can
Speaker 2: muster up is I like the shape.
Speaker 1: Of your eyes.
Speaker 2: Why we like, gosh, it's it's a brutal, it's so weird.
Speaker 2: How we want to see their meeting, but at the
Speaker 2: same time, it's so cringe you want to turn it off.
Speaker 2: Sometimes it's all I hate it so much, but yeah,
Speaker 2: I want to see it because everyone's you can see people.
Speaker 1: It's impossible for them to hide how they feel. I
Speaker 1: know it's impossible.
Speaker 2: Think about opening a shitty present you got from like
Speaker 2: your mom. It's impossible, and you're like, what is this crap?
Speaker 2: Imagine having to do that on TV. I'm someone you
Speaker 2: love and you're like, uh no, you know, I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I mean I am very hyped. And Andrew got
Speaker 2: into it this season and now he wants to go
Speaker 2: back and watch all the other seasons because he like,
Speaker 2: hasn't watched a lot of them, and I only watched
Speaker 2: I haven't watched every single one either, but I've watched
Speaker 2: the last couple. There are one or two others that
Speaker 2: have been boring, but the rest have been pretty good.
Speaker 2: A lot of people are saying this is boring, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, I think it's because they're spending so much
Speaker 2: time on the fucking pods. Everyone knows it gets way
Speaker 2: better when the alcohol gets in. They see the people
Speaker 2: they passed up their scandal, like are you talking to her.
Speaker 1: That's when it gets good.
Speaker 3: Like sorry, the whole I've said it before, the wholesome
Speaker 3: couples that are just like actually happy.
Speaker 1: I FA's forward through their chunks because it's not entertaining.
Speaker 3: I want to it's it's messed up, but I want
Speaker 3: to see the drama.
Speaker 2: You do want to see the drama. I just get
Speaker 2: really sad, and I don't know if this has ever happened,
Speaker 2: because I don't think it has, but I haven't watched
Speaker 2: all the seasons. I just really hope that at least
Speaker 2: one couple gets married, because then I just usually at
Speaker 2: least one, I was going to say, I feel like
Speaker 2: it always has been at least one. But there was
Speaker 2: one season, I think two or three ago, where only
Speaker 2: one of the couples got married, and I think only
Speaker 2: three made it to that point, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: it was a rough one. Yeah, that was like a
Speaker 2: really rough season. I feel like, but I'm curious to
Speaker 2: see what will come of all of the people on
Speaker 2: the show. Who's going to become like the next influencer,
Speaker 2: who was going to gain a following. I've creeped on
Speaker 2: a lot of the people who were like featured a
Speaker 2: lot on this season so far, and you know, some
Speaker 2: of them have a little bit of a following already.
Speaker 2: But what was interesting to me was the girls who
Speaker 2: have like a higher following. They don't seem to be
Speaker 2: like the Instagram people, Like they have hot pictures of themselves,
Speaker 2: but they don't post a lot. Yeah, Like so I
Speaker 2: thought that was interesting where it's like they're not really
Speaker 2: like super big on social media.
Speaker 1: It doesn't seem.
Speaker 3: I've never followed a single person from the show Love
Speaker 3: Is Blind ever, I don't think.
Speaker 2: I have either. I follow some Bachelor and Bachelorette people.
Speaker 2: I do do that, but that's probably about it for
Speaker 2: reality TV.
Speaker 1: The only.
Speaker 3: Bachelor Bachelorette person I follow isn't from that. I follow
Speaker 3: Becca Tilly, yeah, and it's I've never seen her on that.
Speaker 3: I follow her because she does a podcast that I like,
Speaker 3: and I discover the podcast because of her co host, Tanya,
Speaker 3: because she's Ryan Seacrest's co host. Yep. And I think
Speaker 3: I just have more interest in like radio people of course,
Speaker 3: but and there's like a higher profile one because she
Speaker 3: has Becca and stuff, so they'll when they talk about
Speaker 3: bachelor bachelorette people, which isn't that often, but they'll have
Speaker 3: them on his guests sometimes. I never let I do
Speaker 3: not care. I don't listen at all. It's like such
Speaker 3: a tune out for me.
Speaker 2: It's funny though, because I bet you I have the
Speaker 2: audience listens because of so that they are probably like Bachelor, Bachelorette. Absolutely,
Speaker 2: but yeah, I would imagine it would be the same
Speaker 2: for me if like somebody had a real housewife on
Speaker 2: their podcast, I'd be like, nah, I don't care.
Speaker 1: No, I know.
Speaker 3: This week we have on Thursday, we have Carolyn from
Speaker 3: The Traders, and I think she was on like another
Speaker 3: reality show because usually anyone that's well, she had to
Speaker 3: have been, yeah, anyone who comes to Traders. They were
Speaker 3: on a previous reality show. But she's from Minnesota and
Speaker 3: people are very excited that she's going to be on
Speaker 3: and I'm new to her. But I did start watching
Speaker 3: The Traders this season. Doing the TV show man, you have,
Speaker 3: like they talk about TV so much. I've really had
Speaker 3: to up my game with watching stuff so I'm not
Speaker 3: just sitting there like uh huh eh, I don't know
Speaker 3: who that is, you know, Like I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: I'm watching so much more TV.
Speaker 2: That's how I kind of feel lately too, because I
Speaker 2: had interviewed Craig Conover on Bravo yep, And actually I'd
Speaker 2: been kind of waiting to give some of these details
Speaker 2: that maybe will be interesting to anyone listening, because I
Speaker 2: know a lot of people watch Bravo stuff. But one
Speaker 2: thing that I learned in my interview, because Craig kind
Speaker 2: of just like talks off the cuff, like with I
Speaker 2: know it was probably a little different with the TV
Speaker 2: because you guys had him on the Jason Show too, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: But with this interview was just in front of a
Speaker 2: crowd of like one hundred people at the home and
Speaker 2: remodeling show, and he kind of just rambled about things.
Speaker 2: And one thing he brought up is he can't watch
Speaker 2: reality TV because he knows how it works, so he
Speaker 2: knows how it's produced, he knows how it's done, and
Speaker 2: so he specifically said that At one point, him and
Speaker 2: Shep who's one of the main people who's been on
Speaker 2: that show, Southern Charm, they were like out hunting or
Speaker 2: something and production was like, you need to ask him
Speaker 2: this question, and it was like about his feelings or something,
Speaker 2: and like their dues and they don't ask questions like that.
Speaker 2: So he goes, all right, SHEP you ready to work?
Speaker 2: And SHEP goes yep, and he goes, so have you
Speaker 2: ever been in love before? And then SHEP just like
Speaker 2: went off and actually like open up. But that was
Speaker 2: interesting to hear that they kind of set them up. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they don't necessarily tell both of them, but then like
Speaker 2: Craig to give them the heads up, like, hey, I'm
Speaker 2: asking you this because production asked me to ask you, like, hey,
Speaker 2: are you ready to work? I thought that that was interesting.
Speaker 2: And you know that a lot of the stuff on
Speaker 2: real TV has to be set up because they're not
Speaker 2: being filmed twenty four hours a day exactly, so they
Speaker 2: have to be like, hey, you guys need to have
Speaker 2: this conversation because we're filming for the next hour, you know.
Speaker 2: So I thought that was a fun little insight into reality. Yeah,
Speaker 2: the reality TV world.
Speaker 3: He was saying, they do. There's a lot different like
Speaker 3: behind the scenes. He was saying that they do. There's
Speaker 3: a lot different than a lot of reality shows how
Speaker 3: they set things up. And I don't know how a
Speaker 3: lot of them run. So I didn't know what he
Speaker 3: meant by that, but also, yeah, I don't do I
Speaker 3: just don't do a ton of reality.
Speaker 1: I still watch the Kardashians.
Speaker 3: I just started watching their new season last night on Hulu,
Speaker 3: And yeah, but I don't do a ton of reality.
Speaker 3: Although everyone says, if you're going to do a Housewives,
Speaker 3: you should do the Salt Lake City one, and they're
Speaker 3: only like four seasons, so part of me has thought
Speaker 3: about going and watching that.
Speaker 2: There is just so much too much there. There's so
Speaker 2: much because I was like, oh, I don't really watch
Speaker 2: any Bravo shows, but below decks Bravo, I think, right,
Speaker 2: I don't know how to watch that. See I get
Speaker 2: cooked on that on airplanes? That was like the first
Speaker 2: time I ever watched it, and so anytime I go
Speaker 2: on an airplane, that's what I'll watch. But it's like
Speaker 2: the only time I watch it is if.
Speaker 1: I'm on an airplane.
Speaker 2: I don't know. But have I missed anything in your
Speaker 2: life lately? By the way, I don't know what we're
Speaker 2: at with time.
Speaker 3: But we're almost of the time. I can share one thing
Speaker 3: because I do like I I haven't really told me.
Speaker 3: I just did it yesterday, but I went in I
Speaker 3: had to do I think I talked about had my
Speaker 3: first mammogram and then they found something on like my
Speaker 3: left breast, which they said was pretty normal to get
Speaker 3: like a callback because you have to do your baseline.
Speaker 3: They don't know what your boobs look like and your
Speaker 3: tissue and all this.
Speaker 1: So I got a call back.
Speaker 3: I had to go back yesterday and they were like,
Speaker 3: we're going to do another set of photos and then
Speaker 3: we'll do an ultrasound. And so when I went in
Speaker 3: for the photos, she was like, just so you know,
Speaker 3: this is not abnormal.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, yeah, they told me that.
Speaker 3: And she's like, we're gonna do photos and then i'll
Speaker 3: show the radiologist and if she, you know, thinks it's
Speaker 3: all fine, you can go home. If not, then we'll
Speaker 3: do like an ultrasound. I was like, okay, which I
Speaker 3: was already signed up for the ultrasound, but I guess
Speaker 3: that's you know, might as well have it signed you know,
Speaker 3: signed up for that appointment or whatever.
Speaker 1: So I did the photos.
Speaker 3: I have to go to the waiting room and then
Speaker 3: the ultrasound tech comes to get me. And I hadn't
Speaker 3: been nervous about it at all. I wasn't I wasn't stressed.
Speaker 3: I didn't stay up. But then when they were like, okay,
Speaker 3: let's go to the ultrasound now, then I started getting
Speaker 3: like a little bit like oh, they just said if
Speaker 3: they didn't see anything, then they wouldn't need to do this.
Speaker 3: So they brought me back and did an ultrasound, and
Speaker 3: then she was like okay, I'm gonna go get the
Speaker 3: radiologists to come in, and so you know, I'm like
Speaker 3: looking at the screen and I definitely see something on
Speaker 3: the screen.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, what the hell is it? And
Speaker 1: she came in and she looked at it.
Speaker 3: She was very quick and she's like, okay, it's a
Speaker 3: benign cyst. So I do have a benign cyst. And
Speaker 3: there like we don't do anything with it. It just stays
Speaker 3: or whatever. So it was like very quick. I thought
Speaker 3: it was great that they can just tell you quickly
Speaker 3: like that. Yeah, but I am happy that I went
Speaker 3: in out. She's like, you know, come back in a
Speaker 3: year and we'll do it again. So it's just important
Speaker 3: to do it as just another reminder to set up
Speaker 3: the mammogram. I think they say it's not covered by
Speaker 3: insurance if you're under forty I don't want to speak
Speaker 3: on everyone's insurance.
Speaker 1: I don't know what yours is, but.
Speaker 2: I think I don't know because I had to have
Speaker 2: stuff like that done when I was twenty three years old,
Speaker 2: and I'm pretty sure I had some insurance help with it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe it's somewhat covered, but a lot of people
Speaker 3: were saying I wanted to get this done proactively in
Speaker 3: my insurance, So I'm sure it's based on your insurance. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but I I thought, God, why wouldn't they cover that, Like,
Speaker 3: why wouldn't they let because women are getting breast cancer
Speaker 3: younger and younger, So I thought it was bizarre. And
Speaker 3: then someone else got frustrated because they said, when you
Speaker 3: get the call back a lot of the time, insurance
Speaker 3: won't cover the other things. So I called with my
Speaker 3: insurance and I called like their financial thing, and they
Speaker 3: were like, it should cover it. If not, it'll be
Speaker 3: this percentage. And someone messaged me that works for like insurance,
Speaker 3: and they were annoyed with this narrative that it never
Speaker 3: covers the follow ups, and I'm like, she's like, that's
Speaker 3: some insurance. I'm like right, But people were messaging me
Speaker 3: to make me aware that it's not necessarily covered, which
Speaker 3: is also crazy. The handful of insurance that doesn't cover
Speaker 3: a necessary follow up to see if you have breast cancer.
Speaker 1: What the fuck?
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't want to make this about me, but
Speaker 2: I went through this last week because not with breast
Speaker 2: but if you remember, I had I have swollen lymph
Speaker 2: notes in my neck and I had the ultrasound done
Speaker 2: last December, this past December, and then I had to
Speaker 2: go in and do a biopsy and it was like
Speaker 2: a whole surgical thing, like I was in a surgical room.
Speaker 2: They had to put some numbing shit in my neck.
Speaker 1: Whatever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got the bill last week and it was
Speaker 2: not a single dime was covered of it.
Speaker 1: I had called before.
Speaker 2: I had done the ultrasound appointment, which my doctor said,
Speaker 2: I'll set you up with someone in network. So I
Speaker 2: called the head of the ultrasound appointment saying, hey, I
Speaker 2: want to make sure that this is covered. They're like, yeah,
Speaker 2: but you're not at your deductible, so you will be
Speaker 2: paying for some of it whatever. And I understood that
Speaker 2: that's how the deductible works.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So then comes back, the ultrasound comes back that I
Speaker 2: should get a biopsy done and so my doctor sets
Speaker 2: me up, same hospital, same area of the hospital, everything
Speaker 2: that I just went to for the ultrasound, get that bill,
Speaker 2: and then a single dollar was covered. So I had
Speaker 2: a full mental breakdown when I opened that letter because
Speaker 2: I am so exhausted of calling.
Speaker 1: And very much of this.
Speaker 2: And I do not know if this is illegal or not,
Speaker 2: but when I call, I record on my computer every
Speaker 2: single thing someone says. Now for the last couple of years,
Speaker 2: I will turn on the mic on my word doc
Speaker 2: and I will record what they're saying so I can
Speaker 2: verify this is exactly what they said to me. This
Speaker 2: is like this should be cover And so I had
Speaker 2: a whole mental breakdown, called my insurance the next day.
Speaker 2: It actually ended up being a mistake on the hospital's
Speaker 2: behalf because they had to get prior authorization for that
Speaker 2: surgery and they didn't and so then the insurance didn't
Speaker 2: cover it because of something that they didn't do.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: Okay, so now it's a process and I'm hoping that
Speaker 2: it'll all get cleared up, but they said it's going
Speaker 2: to take a couple months now. But yes, to your point,
Speaker 2: it is just important to check even if there's a
Speaker 2: narrative out there that certain things are covered or not covered.
Speaker 2: I just feel like, just check no matter what, if
Speaker 2: you're doing anything big, just get it checked, because it
Speaker 2: is it's heartbreaking to get that bill and see that
Speaker 2: you owe a ton of money out and not know
Speaker 2: what you're gonna do.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just crazy.
Speaker 3: I've watched it go through this multiple times between like
Speaker 3: wrist surgeries, when you were getting on your meditation was covered, right,
Speaker 3: They're going through.
Speaker 2: Like mental self. I was told I was covered and
Speaker 2: it wasn't. And I've been fighting with them for like
Speaker 2: seven months now about that and I keep getting the
Speaker 2: same answer.
Speaker 1: So there's that. But yeah, and one time it was
Speaker 1: my fuck up.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize that I had changed insurances from the
Speaker 2: previous year and I kept going to the same doctor.
Speaker 2: But it was also happened to be the same year
Speaker 2: I had to get my birth control and plan out
Speaker 2: and a new horman and I did all this extra
Speaker 2: stuff because I knew I met my deductible because I
Speaker 2: had my rest surgery, and then none of that was covered.
Speaker 2: So that one was my fault. But I learned my
Speaker 2: lesson and I've done it right ever since then. And yeah,
Speaker 2: I just keep feeling like I get bid in the ass.
Speaker 2: And I know there's a lot of people out there
Speaker 2: because anytime, like when you've gotten your messages, when you
Speaker 2: post about health insurance anything, so many messages come in.
Speaker 1: So many it's exhausting, it is. But I'm happy you're good,
Speaker 1: and yeah, me to good and thank you.
Speaker 2: Go get checked and make sure you're looking up for
Speaker 2: your boobies exactly important.
Speaker 1: They are all right. Thanks for listening, Have a great week.