Speaker 1: Cancel the high cancelge It's not sorry.
Speaker 2: Andy, what's the positive bitches? How are we doing today?
Speaker 2: If you are hearing this episode, then you are meant
Speaker 2: to be here, So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast.
Speaker 2: Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry,
Speaker 2: but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered
Speaker 2: positive bitch self. That is Babe in true connection with herself.
Speaker 2: On this podcast, we unbecome who we are not so
Speaker 2: we can fully step into exactly who we came here
Speaker 2: to be. Today, you will be meeting the dark divine
Speaker 2: feminine goddess within. Of course, society has tried to demonize
Speaker 2: the dark feminine energy, but the dark feminine energy is
Speaker 2: not demonic or negative or bad. The dark divine feminine
Speaker 2: energy is what allows you to focus on yourself. It's
Speaker 2: what allows you to protect your own energy. It's very
Speaker 2: interesting how people define and frame the divine feminine energy.
Speaker 2: They either see the divine feminine as something that's so weak,
Speaker 2: or they see it as this demonic thing that must
Speaker 2: be destroyed. But none of these things are actually accurate.
Speaker 2: While the divine feminine energy can be soft and sensitive,
Speaker 2: The divine feminine energy is a creator and destroyer of
Speaker 2: all cycles. Creator and destroyer, and today we're going to
Speaker 2: understand the destroyer, the dark feminine energy part of our self.
Speaker 2: And by the way, regardless if you are a female
Speaker 2: a male, it does not matter. Every single human being
Speaker 2: on this planet has both divine feminine and divine masculine
Speaker 2: energy within them, and we all need to understand how
Speaker 2: to cultivate these energies in a way that is healed
Speaker 2: and allows us to embody these energies so that we
Speaker 2: can live effortlessly and get what it is we truly
Speaker 2: desire in our heart center. I know a lot of
Speaker 2: people say they think they were born in the wrong generation.
Speaker 2: B Babe. I know I was born in the right
Speaker 2: generation because I can fully embody the dark divine feminine
Speaker 2: within and I will not be burned at the steak.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, yes, yes, yes, I know I was born
Speaker 2: in the right generation because I can tell someone to
Speaker 2: f off, and I will not be burned at the steak.
Speaker 2: I know that I can use my voice. I can
Speaker 2: lead women on this planet and men. Let's throw everyone
Speaker 2: in there, and I will not be burned at the steak. Okay,
Speaker 2: So this is the perfect time on the planet to
Speaker 2: understand accurately the divine feminine energy and the dark divine
Speaker 2: feminine energy. And it's a perfect time to embody her
Speaker 2: because prior we were not so lucky. We were not allowed.
Speaker 2: We had to be seen and not heard. We were
Speaker 2: not allowed to use our voice to practice medicine, frequency
Speaker 2: herbal healing. No, we were not allowed. We were not
Speaker 2: allowed to create community and to speak about this and
Speaker 2: to understand ourselves and our true power. But you know what,
Speaker 2: in today's age, oh yes we can and wait will.
Speaker 2: One way to embody dark divine feminine energy is to
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Speaker 2: of course be in the show notes and we are
Speaker 2: going to be talking about the dark divine feminine energy today.
Speaker 2: But if you want to learn about the feminine energy,
Speaker 2: the wounded feminine energy, the masculine energy, then be sure
Speaker 2: to get your copy of Show Up as Her. I
Speaker 2: give you a whole entire chart of the breakdown of
Speaker 2: feminine and masculine energy. I also give you so many
Speaker 2: tools to heal these energies within you. And if you
Speaker 2: want a digital workbook that goes along amazing with this
Speaker 2: podcast and with my book, you can get the Healing
Speaker 2: your Divine Feminine Energy Workbook, which will be in the
Speaker 2: show notes that is digital. You can fill out the
Speaker 2: prompts right on your computer or tablet. Not only will
Speaker 2: this podcast help you, but in addition, having the book
Speaker 2: in the workbook, that's going to do wonders instead of
Speaker 2: you wondering, Okay, I want to embody certain traits, But
Speaker 2: how do I do it? The workbook gives you ten
Speaker 2: steps to allow you to plug into your feminine energy
Speaker 2: with ease. Let's start off with show up as her.
Speaker 2: We're gonna go to page one point fifty two if
Speaker 2: you want to follow along. Let's give ourselves a little
Speaker 2: reintroduction to the dark divine feminine energy, shall we. We've
Speaker 2: talked about the divine fem and the wounded divine fem,
Speaker 2: but there is one more side. Ooh, get your popcorn ready.
Speaker 2: The dark divine feminine just hands. Both the light divine
Speaker 2: feminine and the dark divine feminine energies are healthy to
Speaker 2: engage with. The dark feminine energy is a part of
Speaker 2: the feminine we rarely talk about. People often mistake this
Speaker 2: energy for something bad, but it couldn't be further from
Speaker 2: the truth. The dark divine feminine is all about the
Speaker 2: traits that women have been told that we're not allowed
Speaker 2: to have, like rage, sternness. When they call you a bitch,
Speaker 2: it's probably because you're embodying your dark divine feminine energy.
Speaker 2: And that's why I name this podcast that bitch is positive.
Speaker 2: Let's reclaim that word to me. It's a positive word.
Speaker 2: I love her, and I'll be a bitch what I want.
Speaker 2: It also covers changing, embracing our sexuality, and choosing our
Speaker 2: own path. The light divine feminine highlights us as a creator,
Speaker 2: and the dark divine feminine highlights us as the destroyer.
Speaker 2: Not a destroyer in a negative way, but a destroyer
Speaker 2: of all cycles that no longer serve us and men
Speaker 2: and women and humans and habits. Stepping into your dark
Speaker 2: feminine is saying, I'm allowing myself to feel whatever I
Speaker 2: need to feel. I can trust my emotions are telling
Speaker 2: me what I need to know, and I am setting
Speaker 2: a boundary here. You tap into your dark divine feminine
Speaker 2: energy when you end cycles that are no longer serving you.
Speaker 2: You tap into your dark divine feminine energy when you
Speaker 2: feel lower vibrational emotions that you've been told are not
Speaker 2: okay to feel. You tap into her when you express yourself,
Speaker 2: speak up for yourself and allow your voice to be heard.
Speaker 2: Being the good quiet girl is being in your wound
Speaker 2: feminine energy. That is fake. That is fake. Just because
Speaker 2: you learn to be the good girl does not mean
Speaker 2: that's who you actually are. It's who you've learned to
Speaker 2: become in order to keep yourself under illusionary veils of safety.
Speaker 2: Join the art of alchemy, Join the shadow alchemy courses
Speaker 2: if you really want to get into it. There's nothing
Speaker 2: good about that he Being in your dark divine feminine
Speaker 2: energy means expressing your sensuality with no shame, loving yourself,
Speaker 2: doing what's best for yourself, and not allowing others to
Speaker 2: take advantage of you. Embodying your dark divine feminine energy
Speaker 2: in a nutshell means being unapologetically you. These energies are
Speaker 2: not written in stone. We can tap into the light,
Speaker 2: and then the dark, and then into the wounded and
Speaker 2: come back around. You are a multifaceted, dynamic being. Do
Speaker 2: not limit yourself. When you need to set a boundary,
Speaker 2: call in the dark and set of boundary, knowing it's
Speaker 2: okay to do so. When you are enjoying the creative
Speaker 2: process of life, call in the light and express yourself.
Speaker 2: When you're hurting, call on either the light or the
Speaker 2: dark to help bring the wounded out of hiding to
Speaker 2: be transformed. Dark divine feminine energy is not demonic. It
Speaker 2: is not evil, It is not bad. It is the
Speaker 2: destroyer of what is no longer serving you. The cycles
Speaker 2: that habits, the relationships, the patterns. Sometimes embodying your dark
Speaker 2: divine feminine energy is simply saying, I'm just gonna allow
Speaker 2: myself to feel. I'm gonna allow myself to speak up
Speaker 2: for myself. I'm going to allow myself to wear what
Speaker 2: I want, say what I want because it's my truth.
Speaker 2: And the dark divine feminine energy is not about hurting others.
Speaker 2: That is not what this is about. Because we understand
Speaker 2: the law of karma, what you do is what you're
Speaker 2: gonna receive. The dark divine feminine energy is understanding that
Speaker 2: this feminine energy is also a protector because she removes
Speaker 2: either that thing or yourself from the situation that is
Speaker 2: hurting you. I would like to say one itsy bitty
Speaker 2: thing before we really get into it, if I may
Speaker 2: do so myself. You cannot pick a man or a
Speaker 2: woman who's going to weaken your lineage. Your ancestors were
Speaker 2: not burnt at the stake, so you can date Brad
Speaker 2: who chooses alcohol and his friends over you. You cannot
Speaker 2: pick a human being to spend the rest of your
Speaker 2: life with and procreate with who's going to weaken your lineage.
Speaker 2: They were not brutalized they were not taken advantage of.
Speaker 2: They were not, like I said, burnt at the stake.
Speaker 2: So you can pick someone who's going to give you
Speaker 2: negative karma, who's going to lower your vibration, and who
Speaker 2: is going to weaken your lineage?
Speaker 1: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: The nonchalant man, he's going to weaken your lineage. The
Speaker 2: man who cannot communicate, he's going to weaken your lineage.
Speaker 2: The man who does not understand your divinity that is
Speaker 2: within you is going to weaken your lineage. You do
Speaker 2: not pick him, You remove him from your life. That's
Speaker 2: embodying your dark, divine feminine energy, that's showing your ancestors.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to allow you to have died in vain.
Speaker 2: If you look at the political system and the reaction
Speaker 2: of the masses to the political system, I think it's
Speaker 2: a good metric for where we are energetically on the planet.
Speaker 2: If you look at the poles of society, the far
Speaker 2: far left in the far far right, you see that
Speaker 2: they're both in their wounded energies. The far far far
Speaker 2: far left is really in their wounded feminine very much
Speaker 2: men hating, and then you go to the far far
Speaker 2: right and it's very much wounded egoic masculine energy of
Speaker 2: patriarchal ideas. And this is not the people who are
Speaker 2: on the right or on the left. It's all right,
Speaker 2: the all left, the very far poles. And I had
Speaker 2: a positive bit reach out to me and say that
Speaker 2: her ex used to listen to something called the Red
Speaker 2: Pill Hub. I don't know what that is, but basically,
Speaker 2: it's a podcast that glorifies male infidelity towards women, and
Speaker 2: they state that women need to be okay with that
Speaker 2: because it's the male nature. My ex ended up cheating
Speaker 2: in lying to me, and I've come to realize that
Speaker 2: the men that listen to the Red Pill Hub are
Speaker 2: insecure and have trouble with keeping themselves in relationships. Okay,
Speaker 2: that is what I mean by the far far right
Speaker 2: and the far far left are both just mirroring one
Speaker 2: another in their wounded energies. And that is not what
Speaker 2: I came here to do on this planet. Promoting infidelity.
Speaker 2: That is disgusting. It's my nature to want to eat
Speaker 2: seven bags of oreos. Should I do that? I don't
Speaker 2: think so. I don't think so. Just because something might
Speaker 2: feel natural to you does not mean that you should
Speaker 2: just give into that urge. Does that make any sense?
Speaker 2: Absolutely not. Sometimes it's in our nature to punch someone
Speaker 2: in the face because we think they're rude. Is that
Speaker 2: what we should do? No, No, that's not what we
Speaker 2: should do. That argument is so weak. Just because you
Speaker 2: feel an inclination or urge to do something does not
Speaker 2: mean that you should do it. Oh what a concept?
Speaker 2: I mean what That is the weakest argument I've ever
Speaker 2: heard in my life. A man's nature is to protect
Speaker 2: and provide for a feminine energy. That's what's in a
Speaker 2: male's nature. When you walk into a room. If you're thinking,
Speaker 2: I have to puff myself up or put someone else
Speaker 2: down in order for me to feel good, you're not confident.
Speaker 2: You're actually weak. And it's the same thing with whatever
Speaker 2: this hub is. If you had to put women down,
Speaker 2: if you have to puff yourself up in order to
Speaker 2: make yourself feel better, that is not real confidence. That
Speaker 2: is not being a strong man. That is not mask
Speaker 2: and energy. That's a wounded energy. You're so focused on
Speaker 2: what are they doing, how are they perceiving me? That's
Speaker 2: not strong. You are weak. We need strong men, We
Speaker 2: love strong men. But strong men do not practice infidelity.
Speaker 2: They do not have to puff themselves up, and they
Speaker 2: do not think that they have to put a woman
Speaker 2: into her place, So let's start there. In a healthy relationship,
Speaker 2: a masculine energy will naturally take the lead, and a
Speaker 2: feminine energy will be able to trust that masculine energy
Speaker 2: because he proves himself. He needs to prove himself as strong,
Speaker 2: as intelligent, and as capable, and once he does that,
Speaker 2: the divine feminine energy can put down the shield a
Speaker 2: little bit and allow him to take the lead. But
Speaker 2: you do not let any human being or any masculine
Speaker 2: energy just take the lead because he's a masculine energy.
Speaker 2: A strong masculine energy sees the softness in a woman
Speaker 2: and wants to provide for her, wants to protect her.
Speaker 2: He does not think he has to put her down
Speaker 2: because he's secretly insecure. And this brings me to Lilith.
Speaker 2: Lilith is a beautiful example of the dark divine feminine energy,
Speaker 2: this energy that acts from I mean and to take
Speaker 2: no bs. But I'm not going to do any harm.
Speaker 2: I don't act from rage or anger or insecurity. No,
Speaker 2: I do not do that. I act from love because
Speaker 2: I am love, and I understand that some people won't
Speaker 2: be able to perceive my value. Some people won't be
Speaker 2: able to perceive my worth. That doesn't mean I attack
Speaker 2: them where I will become rageful. It means I understand
Speaker 2: their limited perception and I'm gonna remove myself from them
Speaker 2: and place them outside of my life. I'm going to
Speaker 2: act in a way that's in divine alignment. And that
Speaker 2: doesn't mean I'm just a nice girl. It means I
Speaker 2: stand up for myself. I speak up for myself. I
Speaker 2: create boundaries where there needs to be boundaries. Who is
Speaker 2: Lilith and where does she come from? Lilith became a
Speaker 2: prominent figure in Jewish folklore, and she has been also
Speaker 2: in ancient civilizations. I'm talking about Mesopotamia. She has been
Speaker 2: known for a long time time. She was referred to
Speaker 2: as Lila to which was seen as this lower vibrational entity.
Speaker 2: But the first time we see her as Lilith is
Speaker 2: in Jewish folklore. Lilith, according to this folklore, was Adam's
Speaker 2: first wife. Ooh, did you know that that Eve was
Speaker 2: not Adam's first wife? It was actually Lilith. According to
Speaker 2: this tale, Lilith was created at the same time as Adam.
Speaker 2: From the same earth, making her his equal. This differs
Speaker 2: from Eve, who was later created from Adam's rib. Lilith
Speaker 2: and Adam's relationship quickly became contentious because Lilith refused to
Speaker 2: be subservient to Adam. She argued that because they were
Speaker 2: created from the same material, she should not be forced
Speaker 2: to lie beneath him. This is when they were being intimate.
Speaker 2: She literally did not want to get on the bottom,
Speaker 2: and he wanted her to because he wanted her to
Speaker 2: submit to him. Lilith, unwilling to compromise, invoked the name
Speaker 2: of God, which you were not supposed to do, and
Speaker 2: fled the garden of Eden, choosing exile over submission. She
Speaker 2: chose herself. She said, this is not what I want,
Speaker 2: created a boundary and she got out of there. She's
Speaker 2: settled by the Red Sea, a place associated with demons
Speaker 2: and Jewish folklore and was said to consort with other
Speaker 2: demonic beings, giving birth to a host of demonic offspring.
Speaker 2: Of course, a woman stands up for herself and she's
Speaker 2: seen as a demon.
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do?
Speaker 1: H So then God.
Speaker 2: Apparently sent three angels to her, and they said, look,
Speaker 2: you gotta go back. Okay, you gotta go back to
Speaker 2: the garden of Eden. And they said if she didn't,
Speaker 2: they would kill a hundred of her offspring every single day.
Speaker 2: But Lili said, I cannot do that. I cannot go
Speaker 2: back where I was being treated not as an equal
Speaker 2: and not positively, and being told they had to submit
Speaker 2: where I didn't want to. So she refused and she
Speaker 2: accepted the punishment. Lilith, over time has now been perceived
Speaker 2: as really the first feminist because instead of being told
Speaker 2: what to do, she did what she wanted. I have
Speaker 2: a lot of issues with the feminist movement because I
Speaker 2: think that any movement, it gets to a point that
Speaker 2: people in power then take it over and then start
Speaker 2: inserting their narratives rather than what it was supposed to be.
Speaker 2: So I don't consider myself a feminist. I consider myself
Speaker 2: a divinist doing whatever is in accordance with your divine
Speaker 2: plan and soul. I don't want anyone telling me what
Speaker 2: I can and cannot do. And I don't believe in
Speaker 2: movements at large because they just get into this nature
Speaker 2: of a gang mentality, and I don't I don't partake,
Speaker 2: I don't subscribe. I subscribe to God. With that being said,
Speaker 2: Lilith came to civilize the wild's untamed aspects of the
Speaker 2: divine feminine energy, very power and feared by these more
Speaker 2: patriarchal societies that were around back then, she was seeing
Speaker 2: as this seductress who tempted men and disrupted family harmonies.
Speaker 2: And they really they depicted her back then. Not so
Speaker 2: much anymore, but they depicted her as this demon because
Speaker 2: she did not just fall in line. They then said, well,
Speaker 2: if something bad happens to my family, it's Lilith. She's
Speaker 2: this demon in the night that's attacking my family. Do
Speaker 2: I believe that? No, I believe things happen and people
Speaker 2: want someone to blame. Lilith is a symbol of feminine independence, empowerment,
Speaker 2: and resistance to oppression. I really see Lilith as this
Speaker 2: beautiful energy that wants to remind us that we came
Speaker 2: here for a divine plan. We have a voice, we
Speaker 2: have our own ideas, and we must follow that. If
Speaker 2: your divine plan and ideas is to be a stay
Speaker 2: at home mom.
Speaker 1: Go do that.
Speaker 2: That is Lilith being expressed in you. If your divine
Speaker 2: plan is to create your own business and be CEO.
Speaker 2: Do that. That is Lilith being expressed in you following
Speaker 2: what it is you want to do, whatever it is
Speaker 2: that is you embodying this Lilith energy. What's interesting is
Speaker 2: Lilith is oftentimes depicted as a snake, and there's a
Speaker 2: theory that floats around that says Lilith was the snake
Speaker 2: that went to Eve and said eat the apple because
Speaker 2: you need to be awakened to what's actually going on.
Speaker 2: You have this energy that revolted and said I want
Speaker 2: to do what I want to do, and I now
Speaker 2: understand by leaving the Garden of Eden who I really
Speaker 2: am and my power. And now she's trying to warn Eve, hey,
Speaker 2: you gotta eat this apple so you realize the truth.
Speaker 2: I just think that's an interesting theory. I want us
Speaker 2: to embody Lilith, but I want us to do that
Speaker 2: in tandem with embodying the energy of Mary Magdalen. I
Speaker 2: think of Mary Magdalen, who was believed to possibly be
Speaker 2: Jesus's girlfriend, his one of his first disciples, the closest
Speaker 2: person to Jesus. I think of this energy that's all love,
Speaker 2: and Mary Magdalene was known to humble herself before others
Speaker 2: and wash their feet frequently. When I think of Mary Magdalen,
Speaker 2: I really just think of divine love, the highest form
Speaker 2: of it, servitude, service to others, leading with the heart center.
Speaker 2: I like to marry the light, divine feminine this Mary
Speaker 2: Magdalen energy with Lilith. I'm gonna do no harm. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna lead with love. I'm gonna lead with divinity. But
Speaker 2: I'm also gonna take no bs. I will have standards,
Speaker 2: i will have a say, and I'm gonna do what
Speaker 2: I want. I'm gonna do it in alignment, but I'm
Speaker 2: gonna do what I want. So when we're talking about
Speaker 2: how to embody Lilith, keep Mary Magdalene close to your heart,
Speaker 2: keep her in mind, because when we're acting from setting
Speaker 2: a boundary, we don't have to do it in a
Speaker 2: way of I'm going to take you down. We want
Speaker 2: to do it in the way of I'm doing this
Speaker 2: to protect myself, but also so I can live in
Speaker 2: alignment with my highest good. How can you connect to
Speaker 2: Lilith and your divine feminine energy challenge the norm? For me,
Speaker 2: this was saying no to really getting engaged in going
Speaker 2: down that path and instead saying I want to deepen
Speaker 2: my spiritual awakening. I want to deepen my connection with
Speaker 2: the divine. I want to find out who I truly am.
Speaker 2: Instead of me following the norm and doing what everyone
Speaker 2: else is doing around me in their mid twenties, I
Speaker 2: said no to it, and I chose my lilith path
Speaker 2: of I have to do what's in accordance with my
Speaker 2: divine plan and for what's going to be my highest
Speaker 2: good for me and for the whole entire planet, because
Speaker 2: I have a mission to accomplish. And this was a
Speaker 2: battle for me because there's a part of me that
Speaker 2: was thinking, Oh, I could just get married, have a
Speaker 2: family and do that. But I actually want more. And
Speaker 2: that's going to require me to build my own business.
Speaker 2: That's going to require me to step out and be independent.
Speaker 2: That's going to require me to like go of codependency.
Speaker 2: And in doing that, I'm embodying this lilith energy. I'm
Speaker 2: taking bold steps to assert my independence and carve out
Speaker 2: my path on this planet. What do you want to
Speaker 2: do while you're on this planet? Because you have to
Speaker 2: go for it. You have to walk so bravely onto
Speaker 2: your path and people are going to say things to you,
Speaker 2: but guess what. God didn't give them the vision that
Speaker 2: God gave to you. God didn't place the desire in
Speaker 2: their heart. God placed this desire in your heart, and
Speaker 2: God wants you to tap into your lilith energy. Be bold,
Speaker 2: be courageous, be strong, and be willing to take the
Speaker 2: path less traveled. Whatever your desire in your heart is,
Speaker 2: go for it. It's not about I'm being told to do
Speaker 2: this or everyone else around me is doing this, so
Speaker 2: I should be doing it. No, take the path that
Speaker 2: your soul wants to take. Deleting the dating apps. I've
Speaker 2: been talking about this on Instagram, and so many responses
Speaker 2: that I've received is please talk more about this because
Speaker 2: I just did this and I don't really know what
Speaker 2: steps to take. The steps are, delete the dating apps
Speaker 2: number two, surrender number three. Focus on what it is
Speaker 2: you want to create on this planet. If it's the book,
Speaker 2: if it's the TikTok account, if it's the business, if
Speaker 2: it's a side hustle, if it's the art, if it's
Speaker 2: molding your body, whatever it is. Focus on what you
Speaker 2: really want to do while you're here. This journey is
Speaker 2: oh so short, and you're only ever going to be
Speaker 2: incarnated as the specific person you are right now. Once
Speaker 2: get to know who it is you are, maybe you're thinking, CC,
Speaker 2: I actually do just want to be a mom, and
Speaker 2: I do just want to have a family, and I
Speaker 2: don't want a business. I'm not the CEO girly. Okay, Well,
Speaker 2: guess what if you want that, you're going to have it.
Speaker 2: And this might be the only season you have where
Speaker 2: you don't have the responsibility of a husband and a family.
Speaker 2: So tap into that lilith energy and give to yourself.
Speaker 2: This brings me to the second way we can tap
Speaker 2: into lilith energy, which is self care and self love.
Speaker 2: You may never have a season in your life again
Speaker 2: where you can just feed yourself with your own energy,
Speaker 2: because you're gonna have Bobby and Billy and Susie and
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to take care of them and your
Speaker 2: husband and all that jazz. Feed yourself with your energy.
Speaker 2: Do the face mask, the hair mask, get your nails done.
Speaker 2: Feed yourself with your own energy. Read a book, take
Speaker 2: a course, learn a language, learn a an instrument. Take
Speaker 2: one of my courses. Heal why all you have the
Speaker 2: time to heal? Take the Shadow Alchemy course. Heal those
Speaker 2: lower vibrational emotions so you can attract your husband and
Speaker 2: not with the narcissists of the world. Take the Art
Speaker 2: of Alchemy course, learn how to be a master transmutter.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you'll become the best mother, the best
Speaker 2: wife you've ever seen on this planet just by doing that.
Speaker 2: The feminine wants to nurture so badly. Any time I
Speaker 2: get into a relationship, I so badly just want to
Speaker 2: nurture like I feel it, I feel it happening, and
Speaker 2: so my focus so easily goes on to the other person.
Speaker 2: And that's to feminine strength. But when we don't have
Speaker 2: our own foundation and stability, that is a weakness really quickly.
Speaker 2: So take this season, whether it's I do want a family,
Speaker 2: but I don't have one right now, to nurture yourself,
Speaker 2: to take care of yourself, to learn yourself, learn what
Speaker 2: you like and what you don't like. Self love is selfless.
Speaker 2: When you are able to embody your best self. Now
Speaker 2: everyone around you also is going to be inspired to
Speaker 2: embody their best self instead of them dragging you down
Speaker 2: to their vibration. You're now stronger for feeding yourself with
Speaker 2: your own energy, and you're gonna raise them up to
Speaker 2: your level. They'll be so ins inspired that really they're
Speaker 2: actually just going to raise themselves up to your level
Speaker 2: because you're subconsciously and energetically teaching them how to fulfill
Speaker 2: their own cup. You're energetically teaching them how to feed
Speaker 2: themselves with their own energy. When do people make changes,
Speaker 2: it's when they're inspired to do so you're going to
Speaker 2: be inspiring everyone around you. You're going to be a
Speaker 2: natural energetic influencer. Lilith heard what she really desired and needed,
Speaker 2: and she did it. What do you need? Do you
Speaker 2: need more rest? Do you need more self care? Do
Speaker 2: you need more self love? If love was personified in
Speaker 2: front of you, what would love tell you to do.
Speaker 2: I've been taking a lot more days to rest instead
Speaker 2: of going out on dates and going out. I know
Speaker 2: what do I need right now? I need rest, I
Speaker 2: need to rejuvenate. I need to restore, I need to rebalance.
Speaker 2: Give yourself what you need because one day you might
Speaker 2: be oh so busy that you won't have the same
Speaker 2: ability to give yourself the time you have right now.
Speaker 2: It's always imperative to feed yourself with your energy, but please,
Speaker 2: while you have the extra time to do it, take
Speaker 2: advantage of it. Another way to embrace the lilith within,
Speaker 2: this dark, divine feminine within, is to embrace your sensuality
Speaker 2: and express it. For so many eons and centuries and
Speaker 2: da da da da da da, we have not been
Speaker 2: allowed to express ourselves as women. We haven't been. We
Speaker 2: had to cover up, We had to deny our natural
Speaker 2: intuitive gifts or else burnt at the stake. We had
Speaker 2: to shove down our voices. We weren't allowed to speak
Speaker 2: or be heard. You are created in a time where
Speaker 2: you can speak your truth, where you can dress how
Speaker 2: you want, where you can express yourself, so freaking express yourself,
Speaker 2: where the alpha that makes you confident, get the nail
Speaker 2: color that you love. There's now black nail theory. Remember
Speaker 2: red nail theory where it said you'll attract more people.
Speaker 2: Black nail theory is that it will make you feel
Speaker 2: more confident. I'm trying it out. I still feel the
Speaker 2: same amount of confidence, but you know it is giving
Speaker 2: me an edgy little twist. Perhaps I don't really know
Speaker 2: if it is, but I like it. It's nice. I
Speaker 2: did do chrome because I needed a little sparkle. Express
Speaker 2: yourself through the way you do your hair, express yourself
Speaker 2: through how you do your makeup. Find a wardrobe that
Speaker 2: feels resonant with you. Take this time to get to
Speaker 2: know you, to learn you, and express it. When Lilith
Speaker 2: knew that she did not want to be there anymore,
Speaker 2: she spoke the name of God, she expressed herself, and
Speaker 2: she left, which brings me to my next point. Create boundaries.
Speaker 2: If you need a script to create boundaries, in my
Speaker 2: Divine Feminine Healing Workbook, I give you a literal script.
Speaker 1: Use it. Use it.
Speaker 2: I created it for you to use. Use it to
Speaker 2: place yourself back on the pedestal. Remove yourself from people
Speaker 2: who do not respect you, from people who do not
Speaker 2: see your work. Just because someone does not see your
Speaker 2: worth does not mean you don't have any and it
Speaker 2: does not mean it's an invitation to prove yourself worthy
Speaker 2: to them. It means you should remove them from your reality.
Speaker 2: You will feel better and they don't deserve to be
Speaker 2: in your reality. Another way to create boundaries, and the
Speaker 2: most important, is energetic boundaries. Not allowing just anyone to
Speaker 2: enter your temple your body. Think about sex, what does
Speaker 2: that stand for? Sacred energetic exchange? That is what it
Speaker 2: stands for. Every time you're intimate with another person, you
Speaker 2: are exchanging energy. Do you want to take on their
Speaker 2: demons and their lower vibrational emotions and thoughts about you?
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I don't think so. Why would
Speaker 2: you do that so you can block your blessings and
Speaker 2: take on their karma? No, thank you, I have enough
Speaker 2: kara I have to deal with. I really don't want
Speaker 2: to take on another person's. You need to have energetic
Speaker 2: boundaries with these people. Lilith, when she knew that Adam
Speaker 2: wasn't going to respect her in the bedroom, apparently, she
Speaker 2: removed herself. Be Lilith and remove yourself. Remove yourself. Do
Speaker 2: not let anyone pressure you to do anything too soon
Speaker 2: that you're not ready for. Do not just give your precious, golden,
Speaker 2: beautiful energy to Brad because you think you should in
Speaker 2: order to get him to commit to you. He won't.
Speaker 2: He will just take your energy and you'll hate him
Speaker 2: for it. Do not give your energy to just anyone,
Speaker 2: not your body, not your time, not your presence, not
Speaker 2: your energy, not your words, not your knowledge. No, you
Speaker 2: do not give your beautiful energy to the swine of
Speaker 2: the world. Okay, because they don't know what to do
Speaker 2: with your energy. The swine don't know what to do
Speaker 2: with pearls. The swine humans don't know what to do
Speaker 2: with your energy. So protect it, keep it in a treasure.
Speaker 2: You are the treasure. Another way to connect to Lilith,
Speaker 2: and really the divine feminine energy at large, is to
Speaker 2: create an altar in your room. I have an altar
Speaker 2: in my room. Every single day I go to it.
Speaker 2: I honor the divinity within me. I thank God for
Speaker 2: all the grace He's given me, and I take a
Speaker 2: moment to call on the divine feminine energies that I
Speaker 2: like to work with, Lilith, Mary Magdalene, the Blessed Mother,
Speaker 2: and I will just have a moment and thank them
Speaker 2: for all the work they're doing in my life and
Speaker 2: all the support they have for me. And I make
Speaker 2: it a point, especially now as I've gotten older, to
Speaker 2: give respect to my women ancestors, the hardship they must
Speaker 2: have gone through, and the trials and tribulations they must
Speaker 2: have gone through, and I just thank them for getting
Speaker 2: me here today, because whether we want to admit it
Speaker 2: or not, this is a much easier society to live
Speaker 2: within than picking plants and using herbal medicine and then
Speaker 2: being burned at the stake for it, so I honor them.
Speaker 2: Lilith is about that divine feminine energy, honoring the self,
Speaker 2: honoring our body, and honoring our lineage. And that's why
Speaker 2: it's so important that we don't disrespect our lineage by
Speaker 2: picking a weak human being to incarnate with. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Another way you can connect with Lilith is simply ask
Speaker 2: your inner Lilith, your inner feminine energy. And I mentioned
Speaker 2: this before, but just ask what do I need? And
Speaker 2: as I said before, a big answer for me lately
Speaker 2: has been more rest and more water. Honor this refocus
Speaker 2: on you, not what does Brad need? What does Brad want?
Speaker 2: What do I need? What do I want? And I
Speaker 2: promised you, when you do this, you attract better people
Speaker 2: into your life. When I started to focus more so
Speaker 2: on what do I need? What do I want? And
Speaker 2: I filled myself up with that, I attracted friends who
Speaker 2: knew how to do it for themselves too. I attracted
Speaker 2: even men who knew how to do it for themselves too,
Speaker 2: so I didn't have to have this codependent nature with
Speaker 2: them where they were relying on me to feed them
Speaker 2: with my energy. They could feed themselves and then we
Speaker 2: can come together and have fun. These are all beautiful
Speaker 2: ways to connect to Lilith, and don't forget to also
Speaker 2: connect with Mary Magdalene. If you feel like you need
Speaker 2: to balance your Lilith because you're in this state of
Speaker 2: rage all the time, feel those emotions, let them out.
Speaker 2: Take the Art of alchemy course, because that will help
Speaker 2: you balance out your Lilith. You don't want to be
Speaker 2: in a lower vibrational Lilith where you're angry all the
Speaker 2: time or you're just hating men. That's not a good
Speaker 2: place to be a healthy Lilith. Is I honor my divinity.
Speaker 2: I set boundaries. I know who I am. I also
Speaker 2: know who you are, and I'll place you accordingly. I'm
Speaker 2: not going to overplay my role in your life, and
Speaker 2: I'm gonna understand that if you're a clown, you should
Speaker 2: be over there on the circus, not in my life.
Speaker 2: I love you so much. I hope this episode resonated
Speaker 2: with you. If you enjoyed it, please leave a positive
Speaker 2: review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Don't forget to get
Speaker 2: your copy of Show Up as Her and the Divine
Speaker 2: Feminine Healing Workbook. As always a sparkling me honors. That's
Speaker 2: sparkling you and I'll see you in the next one.
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