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<v Speaker 1>Cancel the high cancelge It's not sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Andy, what's the positive bitches? How are we doing today?

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<v Speaker 2>If you are hearing this episode, then you are meant

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<v Speaker 2>to be here, So keep listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, baby Girl, we're gonna cry,

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<v Speaker 2>but we will always walk away feeling our most empowered

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<v Speaker 2>positive bitch self. That is Babe in true connection with herself.

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<v Speaker 2>On this podcast, we unbecome who we are not so

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<v Speaker 2>we can fully step into exactly who we came here

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<v Speaker 2>to be. Today, you will be meeting the dark divine

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<v Speaker 2>feminine goddess within. Of course, society has tried to demonize

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<v Speaker 2>the dark feminine energy, but the dark feminine energy is

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<v Speaker 2>not demonic or negative or bad. The dark divine feminine

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<v Speaker 2>energy is what allows you to focus on yourself. It's

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<v Speaker 2>what allows you to protect your own energy. It's very

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<v Speaker 2>interesting how people define and frame the divine feminine energy.

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<v Speaker 2>They either see the divine feminine as something that's so weak,

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<v Speaker 2>or they see it as this demonic thing that must

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<v Speaker 2>be destroyed. But none of these things are actually accurate.

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<v Speaker 2>While the divine feminine energy can be soft and sensitive,

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<v Speaker 2>The divine feminine energy is a creator and destroyer of

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<v Speaker 2>all cycles. Creator and destroyer, and today we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>understand the destroyer, the dark feminine energy part of our self.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, regardless if you are a female

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<v Speaker 2>a male, it does not matter. Every single human being

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<v Speaker 2>on this planet has both divine feminine and divine masculine

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<v Speaker 2>energy within them, and we all need to understand how

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<v Speaker 2>to cultivate these energies in a way that is healed

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<v Speaker 2>and allows us to embody these energies so that we

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<v Speaker 2>can live effortlessly and get what it is we truly

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<v Speaker 2>desire in our heart center. I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people say they think they were born in the wrong generation.

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<v Speaker 2>B Babe. I know I was born in the right

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<v Speaker 2>generation because I can fully embody the dark divine feminine

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<v Speaker 2>within and I will not be burned at the steak.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, yes, yes, yes, I know I was born

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<v Speaker 2>in the right generation because I can tell someone to

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<v Speaker 2>f off, and I will not be burned at the steak.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that I can use my voice. I can

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<v Speaker 2>lead women on this planet and men. Let's throw everyone

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<v Speaker 2>in there, and I will not be burned at the steak. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the perfect time on the planet to

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<v Speaker 2>understand accurately the divine feminine energy and the dark divine

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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy. And it's a perfect time to embody her

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<v Speaker 2>because prior we were not so lucky. We were not allowed.

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<v Speaker 2>We had to be seen and not heard. We were

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<v Speaker 2>not allowed to use our voice to practice medicine, frequency

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<v Speaker 2>herbal healing. No, we were not allowed. We were not

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to create community and to speak about this and

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<v Speaker 2>to understand ourselves and our true power. But you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>in today's age, oh yes we can and wait will.

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<v Speaker 2>One way to embody dark divine feminine energy is to

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<v Speaker 2>have boundaries not only with the people who are in

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<v Speaker 2>your life, but what you put into your body when

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<v Speaker 2>out on this opportunity to embody your dark divine feminine energy. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>going to be talking about the dark divine feminine energy today.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want to learn about the feminine energy,

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<v Speaker 2>the wounded feminine energy, the masculine energy, then be sure

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<v Speaker 2>to get your copy of Show Up as Her. I

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<v Speaker 2>give you a whole entire chart of the breakdown of

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<v Speaker 2>feminine and masculine energy. I also give you so many

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<v Speaker 2>tools to heal these energies within you. And if you

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<v Speaker 2>want a digital workbook that goes along amazing with this

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<v Speaker 2>podcast and with my book, you can get the Healing

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<v Speaker 2>your Divine Feminine Energy Workbook, which will be in the

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<v Speaker 2>show notes that is digital. You can fill out the

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<v Speaker 2>prompts right on your computer or tablet. Not only will

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast help you, but in addition, having the book

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<v Speaker 2>in the workbook, that's going to do wonders instead of

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<v Speaker 2>you wondering, Okay, I want to embody certain traits, But

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<v Speaker 2>how do I do it? The workbook gives you ten

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<v Speaker 2>steps to allow you to plug into your feminine energy

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<v Speaker 2>with ease. Let's start off with show up as her.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna go to page one point fifty two if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to follow along. Let's give ourselves a little

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<v Speaker 2>reintroduction to the dark divine feminine energy, shall we. We've

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<v Speaker 2>talked about the divine fem and the wounded divine fem,

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<v Speaker 2>but there is one more side. Ooh, get your popcorn ready.

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<v Speaker 2>The dark divine feminine just hands. Both the light divine

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<v Speaker 2>feminine and the dark divine feminine energies are healthy to

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<v Speaker 2>engage with. The dark feminine energy is a part of

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<v Speaker 2>the feminine we rarely talk about. People often mistake this

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<v Speaker 2>energy for something bad, but it couldn't be further from

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<v Speaker 2>the truth. The dark divine feminine is all about the

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<v Speaker 2>traits that women have been told that we're not allowed

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<v Speaker 2>to have, like rage, sternness. When they call you a bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>it's probably because you're embodying your dark divine feminine energy.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why I name this podcast that bitch is positive.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's reclaim that word to me. It's a positive word.

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<v Speaker 2>I love her, and I'll be a bitch what I want.

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<v Speaker 2>It also covers changing, embracing our sexuality, and choosing our

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<v Speaker 2>own path. The light divine feminine highlights us as a creator,

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<v Speaker 2>and the dark divine feminine highlights us as the destroyer.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a destroyer in a negative way, but a destroyer

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<v Speaker 2>of all cycles that no longer serve us and men

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<v Speaker 2>and women and humans and habits. Stepping into your dark

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<v Speaker 2>feminine is saying, I'm allowing myself to feel whatever I

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<v Speaker 2>need to feel. I can trust my emotions are telling

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<v Speaker 2>me what I need to know, and I am setting

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<v Speaker 2>a boundary here. You tap into your dark divine feminine

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<v Speaker 2>energy when you end cycles that are no longer serving you.

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<v Speaker 2>You tap into your dark divine feminine energy when you

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<v Speaker 2>feel lower vibrational emotions that you've been told are not

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<v Speaker 2>okay to feel. You tap into her when you express yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>speak up for yourself and allow your voice to be heard.

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<v Speaker 2>Being the good quiet girl is being in your wound

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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy. That is fake. That is fake. Just because

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<v Speaker 2>you learn to be the good girl does not mean

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<v Speaker 2>that's who you actually are. It's who you've learned to

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<v Speaker 2>become in order to keep yourself under illusionary veils of safety.

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<v Speaker 2>Join the art of alchemy, Join the shadow alchemy courses

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<v Speaker 2>if you really want to get into it. There's nothing

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<v Speaker 2>good about that he Being in your dark divine feminine

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<v Speaker 2>energy means expressing your sensuality with no shame, loving yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>doing what's best for yourself, and not allowing others to

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<v Speaker 2>take advantage of you. Embodying your dark divine feminine energy

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<v Speaker 2>in a nutshell means being unapologetically you. These energies are

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<v Speaker 2>not written in stone. We can tap into the light,

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<v Speaker 2>and then the dark, and then into the wounded and

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<v Speaker 2>come back around. You are a multifaceted, dynamic being. Do

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<v Speaker 2>not limit yourself. When you need to set a boundary,

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<v Speaker 2>call in the dark and set of boundary, knowing it's

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<v Speaker 2>okay to do so. When you are enjoying the creative

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<v Speaker 2>process of life, call in the light and express yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>When you're hurting, call on either the light or the

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<v Speaker 2>dark to help bring the wounded out of hiding to

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<v Speaker 2>be transformed. Dark divine feminine energy is not demonic. It

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<v Speaker 2>is not evil, It is not bad. It is the

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<v Speaker 2>destroyer of what is no longer serving you. The cycles

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<v Speaker 2>that habits, the relationships, the patterns. Sometimes embodying your dark

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine energy is simply saying, I'm just gonna allow

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<v Speaker 2>myself to feel. I'm gonna allow myself to speak up

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<v Speaker 2>for myself. I'm going to allow myself to wear what

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<v Speaker 2>I want, say what I want because it's my truth.

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<v Speaker 2>And the dark divine feminine energy is not about hurting others.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not what this is about. Because we understand

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<v Speaker 2>the law of karma, what you do is what you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna receive. The dark divine feminine energy is understanding that

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<v Speaker 2>this feminine energy is also a protector because she removes

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<v Speaker 2>either that thing or yourself from the situation that is

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<v Speaker 2>hurting you. I would like to say one itsy bitty

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<v Speaker 2>thing before we really get into it, if I may

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<v Speaker 2>do so myself. You cannot pick a man or a

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<v Speaker 2>woman who's going to weaken your lineage. Your ancestors were

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<v Speaker 2>not burnt at the stake, so you can date Brad

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<v Speaker 2>who chooses alcohol and his friends over you. You cannot

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<v Speaker 2>pick a human being to spend the rest of your

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<v Speaker 2>life with and procreate with who's going to weaken your lineage.

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<v Speaker 2>They were not brutalized they were not taken advantage of.

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<v Speaker 2>They were not, like I said, burnt at the stake.

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<v Speaker 2>So you can pick someone who's going to give you

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<v Speaker 2>negative karma, who's going to lower your vibration, and who

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<v Speaker 2>is going to weaken your lineage?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>The nonchalant man, he's going to weaken your lineage. The

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<v Speaker 2>man who cannot communicate, he's going to weaken your lineage.

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<v Speaker 2>The man who does not understand your divinity that is

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<v Speaker 2>within you is going to weaken your lineage. You do

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<v Speaker 2>not pick him, You remove him from your life. That's

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<v Speaker 2>embodying your dark, divine feminine energy, that's showing your ancestors.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to allow you to have died in vain.

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<v Speaker 2>If you look at the political system and the reaction

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<v Speaker 2>of the masses to the political system, I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>a good metric for where we are energetically on the planet.

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<v Speaker 2>If you look at the poles of society, the far

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<v Speaker 2>far left in the far far right, you see that

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<v Speaker 2>they're both in their wounded energies. The far far far

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<v Speaker 2>far left is really in their wounded feminine very much

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<v Speaker 2>men hating, and then you go to the far far

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<v Speaker 2>right and it's very much wounded egoic masculine energy of

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<v Speaker 2>patriarchal ideas. And this is not the people who are

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<v Speaker 2>on the right or on the left. It's all right,

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<v Speaker 2>the all left, the very far poles. And I had

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<v Speaker 2>a positive bit reach out to me and say that

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<v Speaker 2>Pill Hub. I don't know what that is, but basically,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a podcast that glorifies male infidelity towards women, and

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<v Speaker 2>they state that women need to be okay with that

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<v Speaker 2>because it's the male nature. My ex ended up cheating

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<v Speaker 2>in lying to me, and I've come to realize that

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<v Speaker 2>the men that listen to the Red Pill Hub are

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<v Speaker 2>insecure and have trouble with keeping themselves in relationships. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that is what I mean by the far far right

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<v Speaker 2>and the far far left are both just mirroring one

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<v Speaker 2>another in their wounded energies. And that is not what

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<v Speaker 2>I came here to do on this planet. Promoting infidelity.

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<v Speaker 2>That is disgusting. It's my nature to want to eat

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<v Speaker 2>seven bags of oreos. Should I do that? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think so. I don't think so. Just because something might

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<v Speaker 2>feel natural to you does not mean that you should

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<v Speaker 2>just give into that urge. Does that make any sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely not. Sometimes it's in our nature to punch someone

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<v Speaker 2>in the face because we think they're rude. Is that

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<v Speaker 2>what we should do? No, No, that's not what we

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<v Speaker 2>should do. That argument is so weak. Just because you

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<v Speaker 2>mean that you should do it. Oh what a concept?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean what That is the weakest argument I've ever

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<v Speaker 2>heard in my life. A man's nature is to protect

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<v Speaker 2>and provide for a feminine energy. That's what's in a

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<v Speaker 2>male's nature. When you walk into a room. If you're thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to puff myself up or put someone else

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<v Speaker 2>down in order for me to feel good, you're not confident.

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<v Speaker 2>You're actually weak. And it's the same thing with whatever

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<v Speaker 2>this hub is. If you had to put women down,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have to puff yourself up in order to

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<v Speaker 2>make yourself feel better, that is not real confidence. That

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<v Speaker 2>is not being a strong man. That is not mask

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<v Speaker 2>and energy. That's a wounded energy. You're so focused on

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<v Speaker 2>what are they doing, how are they perceiving me? That's

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<v Speaker 2>not strong. You are weak. We need strong men, We

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<v Speaker 2>love strong men. But strong men do not practice infidelity.

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<v Speaker 2>They do not have to puff themselves up, and they

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<v Speaker 2>do not think that they have to put a woman

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<v Speaker 2>into her place, So let's start there. In a healthy relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>a masculine energy will naturally take the lead, and a

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<v Speaker 2>feminine energy will be able to trust that masculine energy

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<v Speaker 2>because he proves himself. He needs to prove himself as strong,

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<v Speaker 2>as intelligent, and as capable, and once he does that,

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<v Speaker 2>the divine feminine energy can put down the shield a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit and allow him to take the lead. But

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<v Speaker 2>you do not let any human being or any masculine

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<v Speaker 2>energy just take the lead because he's a masculine energy.

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<v Speaker 2>A strong masculine energy sees the softness in a woman

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<v Speaker 2>and wants to provide for her, wants to protect her.

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<v Speaker 2>He does not think he has to put her down

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<v Speaker 2>because he's secretly insecure. And this brings me to Lilith.

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<v Speaker 2>Lilith is a beautiful example of the dark divine feminine energy,

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<v Speaker 2>this energy that acts from I mean and to take

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<v Speaker 2>no bs. But I'm not going to do any harm.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't act from rage or anger or insecurity. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I do not do that. I act from love because

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<v Speaker 2>I am love, and I understand that some people won't

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<v Speaker 2>be able to perceive my value. Some people won't be

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<v Speaker 2>able to perceive my worth. That doesn't mean I attack

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<v Speaker 2>them where I will become rageful. It means I understand

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<v Speaker 2>their limited perception and I'm gonna remove myself from them

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<v Speaker 2>and place them outside of my life. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>act in a way that's in divine alignment. And that

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean I'm just a nice girl. It means I

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<v Speaker 2>stand up for myself. I speak up for myself. I

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<v Speaker 2>create boundaries where there needs to be boundaries. Who is

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<v Speaker 2>Lilith and where does she come from? Lilith became a

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<v Speaker 2>prominent figure in Jewish folklore, and she has been also

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<v Speaker 2>in ancient civilizations. I'm talking about Mesopotamia. She has been

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<v Speaker 2>known for a long time time. She was referred to

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<v Speaker 2>as Lila to which was seen as this lower vibrational entity.

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<v Speaker 2>But the first time we see her as Lilith is

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<v Speaker 2>in Jewish folklore. Lilith, according to this folklore, was Adam's

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<v Speaker 2>first wife. Ooh, did you know that that Eve was

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<v Speaker 2>not Adam's first wife? It was actually Lilith. According to

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<v Speaker 2>this tale, Lilith was created at the same time as Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>From the same earth, making her his equal. This differs

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<v Speaker 2>from Eve, who was later created from Adam's rib. Lilith

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<v Speaker 2>and Adam's relationship quickly became contentious because Lilith refused to

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<v Speaker 2>be subservient to Adam. She argued that because they were

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<v Speaker 2>created from the same material, she should not be forced

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<v Speaker 2>to lie beneath him. This is when they were being intimate.

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<v Speaker 2>She literally did not want to get on the bottom,

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<v Speaker 2>and he wanted her to because he wanted her to

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<v Speaker 2>submit to him. Lilith, unwilling to compromise, invoked the name

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<v Speaker 2>of God, which you were not supposed to do, and

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<v Speaker 2>fled the garden of Eden, choosing exile over submission. She

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<v Speaker 2>chose herself. She said, this is not what I want,

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<v Speaker 2>created a boundary and she got out of there. She's

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<v Speaker 2>settled by the Red Sea, a place associated with demons

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<v Speaker 2>and Jewish folklore and was said to consort with other

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<v Speaker 2>demonic beings, giving birth to a host of demonic offspring.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, a woman stands up for herself and she's

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<v Speaker 2>seen as a demon.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 1>H So then God.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently sent three angels to her, and they said, look,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta go back. Okay, you gotta go back to

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<v Speaker 2>the garden of Eden. And they said if she didn't,

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<v Speaker 2>they would kill a hundred of her offspring every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>But Lili said, I cannot do that. I cannot go

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<v Speaker 2>back where I was being treated not as an equal

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<v Speaker 2>and not positively, and being told they had to submit

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<v Speaker 2>where I didn't want to. So she refused and she

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<v Speaker 2>accepted the punishment. Lilith, over time has now been perceived

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<v Speaker 2>as really the first feminist because instead of being told

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<v Speaker 2>what to do, she did what she wanted. I have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of issues with the feminist movement because I

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<v Speaker 2>think that any movement, it gets to a point that

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<v Speaker 2>people in power then take it over and then start

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<v Speaker 2>inserting their narratives rather than what it was supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't consider myself a feminist. I consider myself

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<v Speaker 2>a divinist doing whatever is in accordance with your divine

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<v Speaker 2>plan and soul. I don't want anyone telling me what

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<v Speaker 2>I can and cannot do. And I don't believe in

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<v Speaker 2>movements at large because they just get into this nature

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<v Speaker 2>of a gang mentality, and I don't I don't partake,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't subscribe. I subscribe to God. With that being said,

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<v Speaker 2>Lilith came to civilize the wild's untamed aspects of the

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<v Speaker 2>divine feminine energy, very power and feared by these more

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<v Speaker 2>patriarchal societies that were around back then, she was seeing

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<v Speaker 2>as this seductress who tempted men and disrupted family harmonies.

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<v Speaker 2>And they really they depicted her back then. Not so

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<v Speaker 2>much anymore, but they depicted her as this demon because

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<v Speaker 2>she did not just fall in line. They then said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>if something bad happens to my family, it's Lilith. She's

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<v Speaker 2>this demon in the night that's attacking my family. Do

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<v Speaker 2>I believe that? No, I believe things happen and people

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<v Speaker 2>want someone to blame. Lilith is a symbol of feminine independence, empowerment,

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<v Speaker 2>and resistance to oppression. I really see Lilith as this

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful energy that wants to remind us that we came

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<v Speaker 2>here for a divine plan. We have a voice, we

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<v Speaker 2>have our own ideas, and we must follow that. If

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<v Speaker 2>your divine plan and ideas is to be a stay

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<v Speaker 2>at home mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Go do that.

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<v Speaker 2>That is Lilith being expressed in you. If your divine

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<v Speaker 2>plan is to create your own business and be CEO.

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<v Speaker 2>Do that. That is Lilith being expressed in you following

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<v Speaker 2>what it is you want to do, whatever it is

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<v Speaker 2>that is you embodying this Lilith energy. What's interesting is

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<v Speaker 2>Lilith is oftentimes depicted as a snake, and there's a

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<v Speaker 2>theory that floats around that says Lilith was the snake

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<v Speaker 2>that went to Eve and said eat the apple because

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<v Speaker 2>you need to be awakened to what's actually going on.

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<v Speaker 2>You have this energy that revolted and said I want

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<v Speaker 2>to do what I want to do, and I now

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<v Speaker 2>understand by leaving the Garden of Eden who I really

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<v Speaker 2>am and my power. And now she's trying to warn Eve, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta eat this apple so you realize the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think that's an interesting theory. I want us

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<v Speaker 2>to embody Lilith, but I want us to do that

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<v Speaker 2>in tandem with embodying the energy of Mary Magdalen. I

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<v Speaker 2>think of Mary Magdalen, who was believed to possibly be

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus's girlfriend, his one of his first disciples, the closest

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<v Speaker 2>person to Jesus. I think of this energy that's all love,

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<v Speaker 2>and Mary Magdalene was known to humble herself before others

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<v Speaker 2>and wash their feet frequently. When I think of Mary Magdalen,

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<v Speaker 2>I really just think of divine love, the highest form

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<v Speaker 2>of it, servitude, service to others, leading with the heart center.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to marry the light, divine feminine this Mary

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<v Speaker 2>Magdalen energy with Lilith. I'm gonna do no harm. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna lead with love. I'm gonna lead with divinity. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm also gonna take no bs. I will have standards,

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<v Speaker 2>i will have a say, and I'm gonna do what

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<v Speaker 2>I want. I'm gonna do it in alignment, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna do what I want. So when we're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>how to embody Lilith, keep Mary Magdalene close to your heart,

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<v Speaker 2>keep her in mind, because when we're acting from setting

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<v Speaker 2>a boundary, we don't have to do it in a

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<v Speaker 2>way of I'm going to take you down. We want

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<v Speaker 2>to do it in the way of I'm doing this

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<v Speaker 2>to protect myself, but also so I can live in

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<v Speaker 2>alignment with my highest good. How can you connect to

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<v Speaker 2>Lilith and your divine feminine energy challenge the norm? For me,

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<v Speaker 2>this was saying no to really getting engaged in going

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<v Speaker 2>down that path and instead saying I want to deepen

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<v Speaker 2>my spiritual awakening. I want to deepen my connection with

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<v Speaker 2>the divine. I want to find out who I truly am.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of me following the norm and doing what everyone

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<v Speaker 2>else is doing around me in their mid twenties, I

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<v Speaker 2>said no to it, and I chose my lilith path

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<v Speaker 2>of I have to do what's in accordance with my

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<v Speaker 2>divine plan and for what's going to be my highest

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<v Speaker 2>good for me and for the whole entire planet, because

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<v Speaker 2>I have a mission to accomplish. And this was a

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<v Speaker 2>battle for me because there's a part of me that

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<v Speaker 2>was thinking, Oh, I could just get married, have a

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<v Speaker 2>family and do that. But I actually want more. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's going to require me to build my own business.

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<v Speaker 2>That's going to require me to step out and be independent.

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<v Speaker 2>That's going to require me to like go of codependency.

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<v Speaker 2>And in doing that, I'm embodying this lilith energy. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>taking bold steps to assert my independence and carve out

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<v Speaker 2>my path on this planet. What do you want to

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<v Speaker 2>do while you're on this planet? Because you have to

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<v Speaker 2>go for it. You have to walk so bravely onto

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<v Speaker 2>your path and people are going to say things to you,

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<v Speaker 2>but guess what. God didn't give them the vision that

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<v Speaker 2>God gave to you. God didn't place the desire in

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<v Speaker 2>their heart. God placed this desire in your heart, and

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<v Speaker 2>God wants you to tap into your lilith energy. Be bold,

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<v Speaker 2>be courageous, be strong, and be willing to take the

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<v Speaker 2>path less traveled. Whatever your desire in your heart is,

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<v Speaker 2>go for it. It's not about I'm being told to do

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<v Speaker 2>this or everyone else around me is doing this, so

418
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<v Speaker 2>I should be doing it. No, take the path that

419
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<v Speaker 2>your soul wants to take. Deleting the dating apps. I've

420
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<v Speaker 2>been talking about this on Instagram, and so many responses

421
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<v Speaker 2>that I've received is please talk more about this because

422
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<v Speaker 2>I just did this and I don't really know what

423
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<v Speaker 2>steps to take. The steps are, delete the dating apps

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<v Speaker 2>number two, surrender number three. Focus on what it is

425
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<v Speaker 2>you want to create on this planet. If it's the book,

426
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<v Speaker 2>if it's the TikTok account, if it's the business, if

427
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<v Speaker 2>it's a side hustle, if it's the art, if it's

428
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<v Speaker 2>molding your body, whatever it is. Focus on what you

429
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<v Speaker 2>really want to do while you're here. This journey is

430
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<v Speaker 2>oh so short, and you're only ever going to be

431
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<v Speaker 2>incarnated as the specific person you are right now. Once

432
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<v Speaker 2>get to know who it is you are, maybe you're thinking, CC,

433
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<v Speaker 2>I actually do just want to be a mom, and

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<v Speaker 2>I do just want to have a family, and I

435
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<v Speaker 2>don't want a business. I'm not the CEO girly. Okay, Well,

436
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<v Speaker 2>guess what if you want that, you're going to have it.

437
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<v Speaker 2>And this might be the only season you have where

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have the responsibility of a husband and a family.

439
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<v Speaker 2>So tap into that lilith energy and give to yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>This brings me to the second way we can tap

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<v Speaker 2>into lilith energy, which is self care and self love.

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<v Speaker 2>You may never have a season in your life again

443
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<v Speaker 2>where you can just feed yourself with your own energy,

444
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<v Speaker 2>because you're gonna have Bobby and Billy and Susie and

445
00:26:29.039 --> 00:26:30.359
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna have to take care of them and your

446
00:26:30.400 --> 00:26:33.559
<v Speaker 2>husband and all that jazz. Feed yourself with your energy.

447
00:26:33.720 --> 00:26:36.839
<v Speaker 2>Do the face mask, the hair mask, get your nails done.

448
00:26:37.519 --> 00:26:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Feed yourself with your own energy. Read a book, take

449
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<v Speaker 2>a course, learn a language, learn a an instrument. Take

450
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<v Speaker 2>one of my courses. Heal why all you have the

451
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<v Speaker 2>time to heal? Take the Shadow Alchemy course. Heal those

452
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<v Speaker 2>lower vibrational emotions so you can attract your husband and

453
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<v Speaker 2>not with the narcissists of the world. Take the Art

454
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<v Speaker 2>of Alchemy course, learn how to be a master transmutter.

455
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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you'll become the best mother, the best

456
00:27:04.039 --> 00:27:06.680
<v Speaker 2>wife you've ever seen on this planet just by doing that.

457
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<v Speaker 2>The feminine wants to nurture so badly. Any time I

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<v Speaker 2>get into a relationship, I so badly just want to

459
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<v Speaker 2>nurture like I feel it, I feel it happening, and

460
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<v Speaker 2>so my focus so easily goes on to the other person.

461
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<v Speaker 2>And that's to feminine strength. But when we don't have

462
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<v Speaker 2>our own foundation and stability, that is a weakness really quickly.

463
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<v Speaker 2>So take this season, whether it's I do want a family,

464
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<v Speaker 2>but I don't have one right now, to nurture yourself,

465
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<v Speaker 2>to take care of yourself, to learn yourself, learn what

466
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<v Speaker 2>you like and what you don't like. Self love is selfless.

467
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<v Speaker 2>When you are able to embody your best self. Now

468
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<v Speaker 2>everyone around you also is going to be inspired to

469
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<v Speaker 2>embody their best self instead of them dragging you down

470
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<v Speaker 2>to their vibration. You're now stronger for feeding yourself with

471
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<v Speaker 2>your own energy, and you're gonna raise them up to

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<v Speaker 2>your level. They'll be so ins inspired that really they're

473
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<v Speaker 2>actually just going to raise themselves up to your level

474
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<v Speaker 2>because you're subconsciously and energetically teaching them how to fulfill

475
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<v Speaker 2>their own cup. You're energetically teaching them how to feed

476
00:28:11.720 --> 00:28:14.960
<v Speaker 2>themselves with their own energy. When do people make changes,

477
00:28:15.000 --> 00:28:17.079
<v Speaker 2>it's when they're inspired to do so you're going to

478
00:28:17.119 --> 00:28:19.480
<v Speaker 2>be inspiring everyone around you. You're going to be a

479
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<v Speaker 2>natural energetic influencer. Lilith heard what she really desired and needed,

480
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<v Speaker 2>and she did it. What do you need? Do you

481
00:28:28.920 --> 00:28:31.160
<v Speaker 2>need more rest? Do you need more self care? Do

482
00:28:31.160 --> 00:28:34.799
<v Speaker 2>you need more self love? If love was personified in

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<v Speaker 2>front of you, what would love tell you to do.

484
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<v Speaker 2>I've been taking a lot more days to rest instead

485
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<v Speaker 2>of going out on dates and going out. I know

486
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<v Speaker 2>what do I need right now? I need rest, I

487
00:28:47.200 --> 00:28:50.599
<v Speaker 2>need to rejuvenate. I need to restore, I need to rebalance.

488
00:28:51.119 --> 00:28:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Give yourself what you need because one day you might

489
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<v Speaker 2>be oh so busy that you won't have the same

490
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<v Speaker 2>ability to give yourself the time you have right now.

491
00:29:00.960 --> 00:29:04.400
<v Speaker 2>It's always imperative to feed yourself with your energy, but please,

492
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<v Speaker 2>while you have the extra time to do it, take

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<v Speaker 2>advantage of it. Another way to embrace the lilith within,

494
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<v Speaker 2>this dark, divine feminine within, is to embrace your sensuality

495
00:29:15.200 --> 00:29:20.599
<v Speaker 2>and express it. For so many eons and centuries and

496
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<v Speaker 2>da da da da da da, we have not been

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<v Speaker 2>allowed to express ourselves as women. We haven't been. We

498
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<v Speaker 2>had to cover up, We had to deny our natural

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<v Speaker 2>intuitive gifts or else burnt at the stake. We had

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<v Speaker 2>to shove down our voices. We weren't allowed to speak

501
00:29:36.920 --> 00:29:40.480
<v Speaker 2>or be heard. You are created in a time where

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<v Speaker 2>you can speak your truth, where you can dress how

503
00:29:43.319 --> 00:29:49.240
<v Speaker 2>you want, where you can express yourself, so freaking express yourself,

504
00:29:49.920 --> 00:29:52.359
<v Speaker 2>where the alpha that makes you confident, get the nail

505
00:29:52.400 --> 00:29:55.839
<v Speaker 2>color that you love. There's now black nail theory. Remember

506
00:29:55.920 --> 00:29:59.039
<v Speaker 2>red nail theory where it said you'll attract more people.

507
00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:01.519
<v Speaker 2>Black nail theory is that it will make you feel

508
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<v Speaker 2>more confident. I'm trying it out. I still feel the

509
00:30:04.440 --> 00:30:07.759
<v Speaker 2>same amount of confidence, but you know it is giving

510
00:30:07.799 --> 00:30:11.359
<v Speaker 2>me an edgy little twist. Perhaps I don't really know

511
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<v Speaker 2>if it is, but I like it. It's nice. I

512
00:30:13.640 --> 00:30:17.519
<v Speaker 2>did do chrome because I needed a little sparkle. Express

513
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<v Speaker 2>yourself through the way you do your hair, express yourself

514
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<v Speaker 2>through how you do your makeup. Find a wardrobe that

515
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<v Speaker 2>feels resonant with you. Take this time to get to

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<v Speaker 2>know you, to learn you, and express it. When Lilith

517
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<v Speaker 2>knew that she did not want to be there anymore,

518
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<v Speaker 2>she spoke the name of God, she expressed herself, and

519
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<v Speaker 2>she left, which brings me to my next point. Create boundaries.

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<v Speaker 2>If you need a script to create boundaries, in my

521
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<v Speaker 2>Divine Feminine Healing Workbook, I give you a literal script.

522
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<v Speaker 1>Use it. Use it.

523
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<v Speaker 2>I created it for you to use. Use it to

524
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<v Speaker 2>place yourself back on the pedestal. Remove yourself from people

525
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<v Speaker 2>who do not respect you, from people who do not

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<v Speaker 2>see your work. Just because someone does not see your

527
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<v Speaker 2>worth does not mean you don't have any and it

528
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<v Speaker 2>does not mean it's an invitation to prove yourself worthy

529
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<v Speaker 2>to them. It means you should remove them from your reality.

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<v Speaker 2>You will feel better and they don't deserve to be

531
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<v Speaker 2>in your reality. Another way to create boundaries, and the

532
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<v Speaker 2>most important, is energetic boundaries. Not allowing just anyone to

533
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<v Speaker 2>enter your temple your body. Think about sex, what does

534
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<v Speaker 2>that stand for? Sacred energetic exchange? That is what it

535
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<v Speaker 2>stands for. Every time you're intimate with another person, you

536
00:31:32.920 --> 00:31:35.319
<v Speaker 2>are exchanging energy. Do you want to take on their

537
00:31:35.319 --> 00:31:37.920
<v Speaker 2>demons and their lower vibrational emotions and thoughts about you?

538
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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so. I don't think so. Why would

539
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<v Speaker 2>you do that so you can block your blessings and

540
00:31:45.559 --> 00:31:47.680
<v Speaker 2>take on their karma? No, thank you, I have enough

541
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<v Speaker 2>kara I have to deal with. I really don't want

542
00:31:49.279 --> 00:31:51.680
<v Speaker 2>to take on another person's. You need to have energetic

543
00:31:51.680 --> 00:31:55.119
<v Speaker 2>boundaries with these people. Lilith, when she knew that Adam

544
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<v Speaker 2>wasn't going to respect her in the bedroom, apparently, she

545
00:31:58.079 --> 00:32:03.319
<v Speaker 2>removed herself. Be Lilith and remove yourself. Remove yourself. Do

546
00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:06.200
<v Speaker 2>not let anyone pressure you to do anything too soon

547
00:32:06.440 --> 00:32:09.720
<v Speaker 2>that you're not ready for. Do not just give your precious, golden,

548
00:32:09.799 --> 00:32:13.599
<v Speaker 2>beautiful energy to Brad because you think you should in

549
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<v Speaker 2>order to get him to commit to you. He won't.

550
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<v Speaker 2>He will just take your energy and you'll hate him

551
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<v Speaker 2>for it. Do not give your energy to just anyone,

552
00:32:23.079 --> 00:32:25.039
<v Speaker 2>not your body, not your time, not your presence, not

553
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<v Speaker 2>your energy, not your words, not your knowledge. No, you

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<v Speaker 2>do not give your beautiful energy to the swine of

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<v Speaker 2>the world. Okay, because they don't know what to do

556
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<v Speaker 2>with your energy. The swine don't know what to do

557
00:32:37.039 --> 00:32:40.519
<v Speaker 2>with pearls. The swine humans don't know what to do

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<v Speaker 2>with your energy. So protect it, keep it in a treasure.

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<v Speaker 2>You are the treasure. Another way to connect to Lilith,

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<v Speaker 2>and really the divine feminine energy at large, is to

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<v Speaker 2>create an altar in your room. I have an altar

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<v Speaker 2>in my room. Every single day I go to it.

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<v Speaker 2>I honor the divinity within me. I thank God for

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<v Speaker 2>all the grace He's given me, and I take a

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<v Speaker 2>moment to call on the divine feminine energies that I

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<v Speaker 2>like to work with, Lilith, Mary Magdalene, the Blessed Mother,

567
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<v Speaker 2>and I will just have a moment and thank them

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<v Speaker 2>for all the work they're doing in my life and

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<v Speaker 2>all the support they have for me. And I make

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<v Speaker 2>it a point, especially now as I've gotten older, to

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<v Speaker 2>give respect to my women ancestors, the hardship they must

572
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<v Speaker 2>have gone through, and the trials and tribulations they must

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<v Speaker 2>have gone through, and I just thank them for getting

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<v Speaker 2>me here today, because whether we want to admit it

575
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<v Speaker 2>or not, this is a much easier society to live

576
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<v Speaker 2>within than picking plants and using herbal medicine and then

577
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<v Speaker 2>being burned at the stake for it, so I honor them.

578
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<v Speaker 2>Lilith is about that divine feminine energy, honoring the self,

579
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<v Speaker 2>honoring our body, and honoring our lineage. And that's why

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00:33:55.839 --> 00:33:58.440
<v Speaker 2>it's so important that we don't disrespect our lineage by

581
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<v Speaker 2>picking a weak human being to incarnate with. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Another way you can connect with Lilith is simply ask

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<v Speaker 2>your inner Lilith, your inner feminine energy. And I mentioned

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<v Speaker 2>this before, but just ask what do I need? And

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<v Speaker 2>as I said before, a big answer for me lately

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<v Speaker 2>has been more rest and more water. Honor this refocus

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<v Speaker 2>on you, not what does Brad need? What does Brad want?

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<v Speaker 2>What do I need? What do I want? And I

589
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<v Speaker 2>promised you, when you do this, you attract better people

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<v Speaker 2>into your life. When I started to focus more so

591
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<v Speaker 2>on what do I need? What do I want? And

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<v Speaker 2>I filled myself up with that, I attracted friends who

593
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<v Speaker 2>knew how to do it for themselves too. I attracted

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<v Speaker 2>even men who knew how to do it for themselves too,

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<v Speaker 2>so I didn't have to have this codependent nature with

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<v Speaker 2>them where they were relying on me to feed them

597
00:34:47.880 --> 00:34:50.119
<v Speaker 2>with my energy. They could feed themselves and then we

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<v Speaker 2>can come together and have fun. These are all beautiful

599
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<v Speaker 2>ways to connect to Lilith, and don't forget to also

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<v Speaker 2>connect with Mary Magdalene. If you feel like you need

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<v Speaker 2>to balance your Lilith because you're in this state of

602
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<v Speaker 2>rage all the time, feel those emotions, let them out.

603
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<v Speaker 2>Take the Art of alchemy course, because that will help

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<v Speaker 2>you balance out your Lilith. You don't want to be

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<v Speaker 2>in a lower vibrational Lilith where you're angry all the

606
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<v Speaker 2>time or you're just hating men. That's not a good

607
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<v Speaker 2>place to be a healthy Lilith. Is I honor my divinity.

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<v Speaker 2>I set boundaries. I know who I am. I also

609
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<v Speaker 2>know who you are, and I'll place you accordingly. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to overplay my role in your life, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna understand that if you're a clown, you should

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<v Speaker 2>be over there on the circus, not in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you so much. I hope this episode resonated

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<v Speaker 2>with you. If you enjoyed it, please leave a positive

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<v Speaker 2>review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Don't forget to get

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<v Speaker 2>your copy of Show Up as Her and the Divine

617
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<v Speaker 2>Feminine Healing Workbook. As always a sparkling me honors. That's

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<v Speaker 2>sparkling you and I'll see you in the next one.

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<v Speaker 1>Can go to cancels

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<v Speaker 2>Bey, can't stas met, can't sells me.