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<v Speaker 1>It's the Minnesota. Goodbye Bailey and Jenny here vaannt will

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<v Speaker 1>be joining us in a little bit. This says, hi, friends,

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<v Speaker 1>please don't say my name. I have not written to

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<v Speaker 1>you before, so I am nervous even writing this email.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Bailey went on a trip to London by

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<v Speaker 1>herself on the show this morning, and that gave me

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<v Speaker 1>an idea. I am off of work for two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>My spouse cannot take time off of work, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>on prep for a bodybuilding show, so he cannot eat

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<v Speaker 1>anything but meal prep. My fourteen year old son would

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<v Speaker 1>prefer to do anything except go somewhere with his mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I heard Bailey and I wanted to ask for

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<v Speaker 1>your advice, slash opinions. Please, First, is it selfish for

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<v Speaker 1>me to go on a trip by myself and leave

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<v Speaker 1>my husband and son home alone? And second, where would

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<v Speaker 1>you go if you could take a few days and

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<v Speaker 1>go somewhere by yourself?

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<v Speaker 2>And why? Thanks for your help. Okay, this is hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like for me to answer as not being

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<v Speaker 1>a parent, But even though I'm not a parent, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's selfish for you to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>trip by yourself. No, I think if your husband, which

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming he is very capable of taking care of

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<v Speaker 1>your guys son on his own, and you can do

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<v Speaker 1>that and you can have some time and you probably

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<v Speaker 1>need some time away by yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways, I feel like you could rebrand it and call

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<v Speaker 3>it boys Weekend and so that they could have, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>time together to do all, you know, the boys stuff

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<v Speaker 3>that they want to do. And then you'll be like,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys are going to have fun on boys Weekend

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm gonna leave versus I'm going on a vacation

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<v Speaker 3>alone and I'm leaving you.

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<v Speaker 4>Both to deal with whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but if you reframe it, I think you could

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<v Speaker 3>totally get away with it. In terms of like where

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<v Speaker 3>to go obviously, like if you only have a handful

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<v Speaker 3>of days, it kind of depends on how much of

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<v Speaker 3>that time do you want to be spending like driving

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<v Speaker 3>or flying to wherever you're going, like the travel itself,

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<v Speaker 3>So if you want to go somewhere like close by,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Fallin was just in Door County and that

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<v Speaker 3>seemed lovely, so you could go to Door County. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>always for going to like Chicago, but I like city

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<v Speaker 3>kind of stuff and things to do. In a city,

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<v Speaker 3>and obviously that city's bigger than ours, so there's.

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<v Speaker 4>Got to be way more to do there. I don't know, Jenny,

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<v Speaker 4>where do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I think those are both really good options if you're

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<v Speaker 1>willing to do like a longer drive by yourself, than yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could do like Door County up by I believe

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<v Speaker 1>it's called the Apostle Islands Metaline Island. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>been the upper part of Wisconsin as well. That's another option.

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago's great. I love getting up early when like no

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<v Speaker 1>one's awake and exploring a city by myself and having

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<v Speaker 1>no itinerary, like I just get out and walk. So

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<v Speaker 1>I did that the last time I went to Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was probably my favorite part of this trip

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<v Speaker 1>to Chicago, even though I was there with people. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, if you're a big city person

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<v Speaker 1>New York City, you could never go wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 3>I've always wanted to go to This is random left

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<v Speaker 3>field Mackinaw Island, which is in Michigan. I've never been,

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<v Speaker 3>but I was like really into the movie Somewhere in

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<v Speaker 3>Time when I was in high school, and it's all

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<v Speaker 3>set in Mackinaw island and it's just like beautiful. There's

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<v Speaker 3>no cars or anything, and you just walk around and

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<v Speaker 3>take bikes everywhere, and it's like picturesque, kind of storybook place.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have been looking at doing a trip there

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<v Speaker 1>in the last couple of years. It is a kind

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<v Speaker 1>of tedious sort of trip if you're going by yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>because you it's you can fly, but usually you have

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<v Speaker 1>to like connect or the flight oh curly expensive. So

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<v Speaker 1>to drive from the Twin Cities, I'm pretty sure it's

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<v Speaker 1>like an eight hour drive and then you have to

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<v Speaker 1>leave your car you get on a ferry to get

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<v Speaker 1>over to the island. So it just depends on like

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<v Speaker 1>if you're willing to do a drive like shit by

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<v Speaker 1>yourself or not. But yes, I've thought about that too,

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<v Speaker 1>and also if it's coming up soon, summertime I think

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<v Speaker 1>kind of maybe I know. I only say that because

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<v Speaker 1>I like, all last summer there were like me and

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<v Speaker 1>some girlfriends were trying to plan some stuff, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like the planner, So I kept looking at going there

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<v Speaker 1>there and back. It was just like not a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of work.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure about other like weekend kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Like me and my mom always said that we want

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<v Speaker 3>to go like on a weekend trip to like Graceland

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<v Speaker 3>because we're really into Elvis, and so I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>anywhere in Tennessee, like a major city in Tennessee would

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<v Speaker 3>be a nice like weekend kind of trip would be

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<v Speaker 3>a fun kind of vibe. I'm just trying to think

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<v Speaker 3>like places that you could get a lot of stuff

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<v Speaker 3>done in like a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love San Diego too, and I almost did

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<v Speaker 1>a trip there by myself for my birthday one year,

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<v Speaker 1>but my girlfriend ended up coming last minute. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to go just by myself and explore, and

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<v Speaker 1>once again, I didn't really have like any kind of

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<v Speaker 1>itinerary for it. So yeah, that's kind of what we

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<v Speaker 1>did in the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Have something planned for like the night, yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 3>like have the day be like whatever you want. You like,

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<v Speaker 3>walk by a museum, great, go into the museum. You

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<v Speaker 3>walk by a park, great, go into the park, and

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<v Speaker 3>then have plans at nighttime.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, let's get on.

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<v Speaker 1>We have quite a few emails, so I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get to a bunch of these, so this one's that's

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. I was listening to the segment of Monsters

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<v Speaker 1>the Pot about the amount of money that people spend

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<v Speaker 1>on their kids' birthday parties. I have two young children myself,

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<v Speaker 1>and I used to think similarly, and I agree if

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<v Speaker 1>your goal is for photos on social media, you are

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for the wrong reason. However, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there is anything wrong with making the day actra spec

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<v Speaker 1>for your children, because, even though they won't remember it,

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<v Speaker 1>all those little moments when their brain is developing a

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<v Speaker 1>feeling extra love, extra attention, and your engagement with the

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<v Speaker 1>child is so crucial for brain development and for them

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<v Speaker 1>to understand love.

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<v Speaker 2>So while you may not need to hire.

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<v Speaker 1>A full Disney princess cast, it's okay to have people

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<v Speaker 1>over and have some extra decorations and get people really

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<v Speaker 1>excited with some additional things along those lines. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>my children are older and have friends, it's also okay

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<v Speaker 1>not to go overboard and expect to pay for ten

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<v Speaker 1>kids to go to a trampoline park or mini golf.

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<v Speaker 1>In we had our son's kindergarten class over for his birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>I ordered a couple pizzas, and I played music and

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<v Speaker 1>gave the kids all glow sticks for a dance party.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole thing costs less than one hundred dollars and

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<v Speaker 1>he had a blast nice job on the show this

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<v Speaker 1>week without daddy bear yag. They say, and that comes

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<v Speaker 1>from Rebecca Vant. What do you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 5>I have two things to ask one, don't you and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just playing Devil's advocate. Wouldn't you want to spend

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<v Speaker 5>that money when you're child is old enough to remember

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<v Speaker 5>those things? That was I think the point. I think

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<v Speaker 5>I made that original point when I said it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like I think that a kid who's one or two

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<v Speaker 5>or three won't remember, Like, sure, they're developing feelings, but

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<v Speaker 5>they could experience those feelings of love without you having

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<v Speaker 5>to spend an arm and a leg. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, as a let's just say, what nine or

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<v Speaker 5>ten year old who gets this grandiose birthday party where

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<v Speaker 5>all the Disney princesses are there in bouncy houses and

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<v Speaker 5>funnel cake machines and stuff, I think that's a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit more memorable. Yeah, I mean, well, it is more

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<v Speaker 5>memorable to feel like love, especially that's like a not

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<v Speaker 5>an age where you're developing feelings, but it's a tender age.

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<v Speaker 5>Second point, and I showed Bailey I found some screenshots

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<v Speaker 5>of that birthday party. There was what did I show you?

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<v Speaker 5>It was a whole ice cream truck. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 5>there was like a two tiered cake.

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<v Speaker 4>Not even two, it was like four tiered cake. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's why I just think it's nuts.

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<v Speaker 5>Jenny.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll show it to you.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's just why I think it's like to do

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<v Speaker 5>all of this for a kid that's not even gonna

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<v Speaker 5>remember any of this.

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<v Speaker 2>That's pretty extra.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's pretty exteresting.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, Rebecca, you make some good points. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that you're changing Vaughnt's mind, So we'll move

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<v Speaker 1>on to the next one. Let's see this says, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't say my name. First off, love hearing vont on

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<v Speaker 1>the pod, and Jenny, I promise I'm not obsessed with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a little, but I feel like sometimes we are

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<v Speaker 1>the same person. Wisconsin turned Minnesota Girly is similar anxiety journeys, love, traveling,

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<v Speaker 1>national park, et cetera. But also, I will tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that you are such a great radio personality.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, this I feel so self serving as I'm reading this.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the first time I'm reading that's not loud.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, you are such a great radio personality, and although

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<v Speaker 1>I love Dave, it's great to hear your voice more

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<v Speaker 1>when he's gone.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry Dave.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, Jenny, I thought it was very cool, for lack

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<v Speaker 1>of a better word, for you to share that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't drink that much anymore, as I also have found

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<v Speaker 1>myself to be selectively sober, as I call it. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to also drink a lot in college as Ahm

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<v Speaker 1>Bailey UWRF student, and then of course I would with

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<v Speaker 1>friends after a hard day at work, weekends, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>Over the last year, I I only have had maybe

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<v Speaker 1>less than five drinks at very special occasions like a

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<v Speaker 1>best friend's wedding or something. I have found myself feeling

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<v Speaker 1>so much better too, and I love that you talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it on the podcast. I think it was on

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Still Fun. But also, can we both agree that

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<v Speaker 1>Spotted Cow is the best? Yes, Spotted Cow super good.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a beer, it's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a Wisconsin beer that like, it's literally illegal for

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<v Speaker 1>them to distribute it in Minnesota, so you can't get

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<v Speaker 1>into Minnesota, but have I bought beer and Hudson and

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<v Speaker 1>brought it on slap It's super good. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people think it's overrated. I disagree. I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very good beer.

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<v Speaker 4>One of my top five fears.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes on today.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I've been playing pickaball for the last five years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've played in a tournament and a few fun

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<v Speaker 1>leagues as well as drop in rec play and oh

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<v Speaker 1>the men, Sorry men, not to generalize, but I've had

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<v Speaker 2>Then it's it just, well, you didn't get weird.

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<v Speaker 1>the tips, but I yeah, okay. Lastly, you talked about

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<v Speaker 1>and then realized kids were looking at me and was like,

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<v Speaker 1>earlier that day. Because we also had a boy in

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, thanks all three of you for doing a great

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<v Speaker 1>job and Bailey, I truly believe on being yourself and

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<v Speaker 1>love the nerd references, but the Star Wars one made

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<v Speaker 2>But she does like your.

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<v Speaker 1>Nerd references, so keep I would say, keep doing them. Thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>and we are not saying this person's name, so thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>For your email.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello peeps, another one, Please don't say my name? Can

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about the annoyances in life?

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<v Speaker 2>First? Is multi factor authentication?

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<v Speaker 4>First?

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<v Speaker 2>Is multi factor and authentication? I say, yes, I know

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<v Speaker 2>it's for security. Blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>My gosh, I already have a complex password that I

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<v Speaker 1>have to switch every ninety days. Then on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're adding in the freaking multi factor authentication. It sucks period.

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<v Speaker 1>We all agree. I agree?

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<v Speaker 2>And also mine changed recently.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how your guys has worked with Outlook,

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<v Speaker 1>but I used to get a code texted to me

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<v Speaker 1>for the second one. Now I have to do put

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<v Speaker 1>a code is sent to me where I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>send it log in. Then I have to put it

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<v Speaker 1>in my phone and it has to do a face recognation.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah, like I have to put in my past always.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, see, mine just changed probably six months ago for that,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe even longer.

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<v Speaker 2>But like Fallin and Dave don't have that.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh it's a no.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate to factor authentication, but I keep it like

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<v Speaker 3>activated obviously for safety, but like I literally just got

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<v Speaker 3>a new phone yesterday and had to reinstall all of

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<v Speaker 3>my apps and re log in and doing that is exhausting,

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<v Speaker 3>truly exhausting. Happened to, like remember all your passwords and

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<v Speaker 3>do two factor authentication. My mom keeps texting me. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't get into anything. I hate this right, Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>Mam Mornda two yeah, Mam Rana got a new phone too,

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<v Speaker 1>And then her second annoyance is when there is a

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<v Speaker 2>Two times.

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<v Speaker 1>That happened to me on a Friday, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to drive speed limit home.

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<v Speaker 2>Not fun at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not flying home, but I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit faster than the speed limit. I swear

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<v Speaker 1>it took me an extra ten minutes to get home.

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<v Speaker 1>Unnamed person, you might be going a little bit over

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<v Speaker 1>a few on the speed limit if it took you

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes longer to get home all the time, but thank.

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<v Speaker 2>You for your email.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see This one comes from Mikayla. As I was

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<v Speaker 1>listening to What Like the Rain, a question came to mind.

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<v Speaker 1>When Dave retires, are you slash can you play the

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<v Speaker 1>songs Dave did? That's all all right, Mikayla. Yes, we

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<v Speaker 1>will definitely be able to still play those songs. Dave

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<v Speaker 1>will probably not retire before the three of us do, though,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't think we'll have to worry about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so it'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm looking at retirement already like I'm really playing.

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<v Speaker 4>Benefits.

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<v Speaker 1>Next email says, good morning, Jenny, Von and Bailey. The

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<v Speaker 1>other day, when you guys were talking about how Vont

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<v Speaker 1>sounds different when he talks to a black person, well,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad also did this, but he is a white guy.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, if he is talking with one of his

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell have you been up to?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen that mother effer's rabbit in my garden?

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<v Speaker 1>And if he talks with one of his white neighbors,

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<v Speaker 1>he'll say something like, hi, Phil, how are you today?

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<v Speaker 1>And every time he did this we called him out

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<v Speaker 1>on it. He was the most talking, talkative person you

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<v Speaker 1>would have met, just his I don't know what they

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<v Speaker 1>you would have met, just his language changes between the two.

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<v Speaker 4>It's called code switch switching. That's what it's called.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's funny because we off air, we joked about

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<v Speaker 5>the Key and Peel skit where where fake Obama is

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<v Speaker 5>like dapping people. He's shaking like the white people in

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<v Speaker 5>the skits hands and DAPs up the black people. And

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<v Speaker 5>then you said, this was it actually happened, Jenny, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like actual Obama.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a video of it with.

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<v Speaker 1>Like basketball players or something, and so he is like

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<v Speaker 1>dabbing up the black people and then the white people.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, huh, good dame, good game, good game.

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<v Speaker 3>For you.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that that comes from Nicole. All right, up next,

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<v Speaker 1>huge fan here, you can say my name. Okay, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on this says please make sure Dave reads this one.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to hold off on that one for

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, let's see. Hey guys, First, I love

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<v Speaker 1>this team, Bailey. I wanted you on the show since

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<v Speaker 1>you were filling in. I love you, vont OMG. I

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<v Speaker 1>love you so much. He is such a she's reading

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<v Speaker 2>He is such a.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby and I love his insights to the show. Love you,

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<v Speaker 1>vaunt O g Jenny, Thank you for being you, Dave

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<v Speaker 1>and Team. I love this show so much. It's my

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<v Speaker 1>motivation in the morning. Just wanted to thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>being the first thing I put on in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>and what brings me so much comfort to start my day.

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<v Speaker 2>Love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely would love a sticker PS. The new Tesla

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<v Speaker 1>monster truck is douchebag seeking attention.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, there's un parked down my street. I live in

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<v Speaker 1>This guy has a bright purple Tesla douchemobile. I am

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<v Speaker 1>actually embarrassed for him and for me being his neighbor.

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<v Speaker 1>Help that comes from jazz hilarious.

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<v Speaker 5>People like they turn us on before they turn on

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<v Speaker 5>a light.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if it's nuts. This show used to be my

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<v Speaker 4>alarm clock.

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<v Speaker 3>Really yeah, and then my alarm clock stopped working, so

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't go to radio anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just the my phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Do that with Alexos. Alexis could be like, hey, hey, Alexa,

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<v Speaker 5>wake me up with KATIEWB.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah what ever time? Yeah, that's nuts. Literally, my entire childhood.

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<v Speaker 4>I woke up to katiewb.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. Okay, I'm sorry, I'm just like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to read ahead to some of these emails because we

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<v Speaker 1>have so many. You're doing great, Okay, we probably just

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<v Speaker 1>have time for one more and we'll get to the

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<v Speaker 1>rest tomorrow. Hey, besties, don't say my name. I was

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<v Speaker 1>catching up on some old Minnesota Goodbye episodes that Found

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<v Speaker 1>and Jenny were on when Dave was on vacation again. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Found said she hated her phrase that Jake says to

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<v Speaker 1>her quite frequently when she's going to be home alone,

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<v Speaker 1>flicking your bean. Jenny said, Andrew says this too, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a fan of the phrase either.

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<v Speaker 2>This gave me great joy to know.

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<v Speaker 1>That I am not alone in a world where my

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<v Speaker 1>partner thinks that the second I am alone in the house,

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<v Speaker 1>I am flicking the bean all over the place. I

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<v Speaker 1>am accused pretty much daily because I like to take

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<v Speaker 1>a long shower.

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<v Speaker 2>I am just taking a shower. Promise you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that is showering and something that you

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<v Speaker 1>hurry up doing. I take my sweet ass time. I

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<v Speaker 1>It's so annoying. Also, in my defense, if I was

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<v Speaker 1>diddling the bean, it's done in ten seconds. There's no

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. Well, girls know how to get.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, not ten seconds, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean sometimes you probably can. Honestly, if it's been

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<v Speaker 1>ten seconds, but you typically, no, not quite that quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, Bailey, have you unfortunately been accused of this rubbish?

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<v Speaker 4>Ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Asks No, I don't really have anyone to accuse me

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<v Speaker 3>of it, so no, no one's ever Like Malee, what

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<v Speaker 3>are you doing when you're home by yourself? The answer

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<v Speaker 3>is probably snuggling my cat, Yeah, petting my cat, listening

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<v Speaker 3>to music that I want to listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>And she also asked, moot, do you do this to Alyssa?

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<v Speaker 5>No, but I feel like, literally the past week my

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<v Speaker 5>family has been here. I we've been late to whatever

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<v Speaker 5>function we're going to every day, Alyssa and I, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm worried that my family thinks that we're late because

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<v Speaker 5>we're fucking and we're not. Alyssa just tries on thirteen

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<v Speaker 5>outfits before she finds one piece of one that she

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<v Speaker 5>wants to wear.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah to be young and fucking all the time. Wait

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<v Speaker 2>till you guys have lived together long enough you remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well we're not.

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<v Speaker 4>That's saying. It's not even that. She's just changing it.

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<v Speaker 2>No I know, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And she finishes her email saying, thank you Jenny and

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<v Speaker 1>Found for sharing your stories with us. I am not alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Have an amazing day. Sorry, this should have been for

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<v Speaker 1>Naughty Tuesday all.

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<v Speaker 4>The time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh all right, and that's how we're riding a podcast today.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for all your emails.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel free to send us more at Ryan's show at

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<v Speaker 1>KDWB dot com
