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<v Speaker 2>Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada

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<v Speaker 3>que vous êtes effrayé de la conflit. Vous êtes effrayé

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<v Speaker 3>de la douleur qu'elle va mettre sur la relation. Vous

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<v Speaker 3>êtes juste effrayé. Maintenant, se poser pour vous-même est étonnant.

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<v Speaker 3>Mais les confrontations sont parfois nécessaires. Dans les relations amoureuses,

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<v Speaker 3>c'est mieux de le dire en termes de... Discusser. However,

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<v Speaker 3>there's a big difference between being aggressive and assertive. Being

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<v Speaker 3>assertive is very positive, it's very constructive. Aggression, well, that

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<v Speaker 3>usually fosters further conflict. So you have to be careful

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<v Speaker 3>about your words and the timing of your words. An

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<v Speaker 3>assertive person will simply just hold their own in a conversation,

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<v Speaker 3>stay firm. sur ses ou ses croyances, sans être accusé, démenti, hostile.

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<v Speaker 3>C'est juste une question de se mettre sur le terrain

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<v Speaker 3>et de tenir ses croyances, ce qui, dans notre société,

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<v Speaker 3>devient de plus en plus difficile, puisque il y a

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<v Speaker 3>une partie significative de notre société qui croit que si

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<v Speaker 3>vous avez une croyance différente, que vous devriez être menacé, tenté, accosté, blessé, exclué.

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<v Speaker 3>Nous avons beaucoup de choses qui se passent dans notre

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<v Speaker 3>société aujourd'hui. Les gens sont en fait physiques et abusifs.

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<v Speaker 3>Je lis ces situations sur un quotidien. Il y a

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<v Speaker 3>des gens au Congrès qui disent que si vous rencontrez

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<v Speaker 3>une personne qui a une autre croyance, You should accumulate

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<v Speaker 3>a crowd around them, push them back, and tell them

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<v Speaker 3>they're not wanted here or anywhere else. Congresswoman actually said that.

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<v Speaker 3>Paraphrasing a tiny smidge, but that's basically the concept. Imagine

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<v Speaker 3>an elected official telling citizens to basically intimidate and accost

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<v Speaker 3>other citizens because they have a different opinion. So when

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<v Speaker 3>you see it at the level of our Congress and

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<v Speaker 3>in our colleges and in restaurants and on the street,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yesterday a guy was in his car and

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<v Speaker 3>a woman was behind him honking her brains out so

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<v Speaker 3>he thought there must be a problem. Maybe she was

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<v Speaker 3>trying to alert him to some problem with his car.

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<v Speaker 3>So he gets out of his car, grateful at this

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<v Speaker 3>point that somebody's trying to help him out, She starts

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<v Speaker 3>screaming at him about who he voted for for president

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<v Speaker 3>because he had a bumper sticker. He just said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I did. She took her car and rammed the back

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<v Speaker 3>of his car and took off. They found her. She's

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<v Speaker 3>on all sorts of charges.

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<v Speaker 2>Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada Mais

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<v Speaker 3>puisque nous avons tellement de cela dans notre société aujourd'hui,

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<v Speaker 3>c'est un peu difficile de enseigner aux enfants où est

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<v Speaker 3>la ligne. Et la ligne est que vous devriez rester

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<v Speaker 3>mis sur vos pensées et que vous ne devriez pas

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<v Speaker 3>attaquer ou menacer quelqu'un sur les leurs. C'est la ligne. So,

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<v Speaker 3>when you're in a loving relationship, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>feel bullied, coerced or manipulated. Because you're just going to

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<v Speaker 3>get resentful and hostile and then there's going to be

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<v Speaker 3>no love, no affection, no sex, no nothing. And what

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<v Speaker 3>you have to do is lovingly say, my position is because.

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<v Speaker 3>My position is blank and these are my reasons. whether

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<v Speaker 3>it's visiting a relative or what kind of vacation or

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<v Speaker 3>what have you. And then you take the time to

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<v Speaker 3>listen to them out and you say, I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>there's a middle ground, so let's negotiate. This time we

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<v Speaker 3>can do this, next time we can do that. How

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<v Speaker 3>does that sit with you? So this is all being assertive.

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<v Speaker 3>Aggressive is calling them names and threatening them. Being assertive

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<v Speaker 3>is saying, this is Ce que je suis capable de faire,

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<v Speaker 3>c'est ce que je ne suis pas capable de faire,

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<v Speaker 3>et ce sont mes raisons. Si vous pouvez, d'une certaine manière,

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<v Speaker 3>réparer la situation, pour que je n'ai pas besoin de

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<v Speaker 3>ces raisons, je suis ouverte. C'est ce que c'est d'être assertif. D'accord?

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<v Speaker 3>Je veux juste que vous pensez à ça de cette façon.

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<v Speaker 3>Et si vous vous trouvez avec quelqu'un avec un chapeau

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<v Speaker 3>qui dit qu'ils ont voté pour quelqu'un que vous n'avez

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<v Speaker 3>pas voté pour, or bumper sticker on a car that

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<v Speaker 3>indicates they voted for somebody you didn't vote for, please

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<v Speaker 3>leave them alone, like you would like to be left alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

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<v Speaker 3>My number, 1-800-375-2872. Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada

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<v Speaker 4>Et sur l'appli SiriusXM.

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