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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Oh pace sunny sound. I had a vision night, so wet.

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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. What's happening? Heeps?

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We love you. We thank you guys for turning in

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to our show every week.

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Speaker 3: Yes we I mean it's it's therapy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Are you okay? I'm with there, Stephanie. Yes, what

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just happened?

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Speaker 3: I just was gonna put headphones on, but then it

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was too loud in the headphones. So then it was

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like I had a startle, like, oh, it's really loud.

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And then I was like I do I have a

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whole thing with Kaylin and do I go? Hey, could

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you turn it? And then I was like, oh, I'll

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just not wear them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I like to wear headphones because then it helps

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me here if I'm being too loud. Oh my god,

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I have so much to tell you. Yeah, I can't wait, okay, Elbie.

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So the biggest news is that LB got dropped off

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at college. So when we last spoke and we had

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LB on the show, she had we had taken all

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her stuff there, but she wasn't living there yet, right,

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So that was Monday. We recorded with her a one

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week ago. Then Thursday morning, John took her to school

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and dropped her off. And you didn't go no, because

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here's why. I was the one who took her to

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the move in. And I told John, like, it's probably

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we don't both need to be there. The moven was

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supposed to be at I can't even remember that it was.

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Oh it was her move in time was two thirty.

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We need to leave our house to take to pick

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the kids up from the twins up from school. That's

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Ray thirty. So one of us was going to have

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to this. Hou was going to have to go down.

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We were going to pack up the car and then

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take two cars, and then I would stay with Alb

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and help her like unpack all her stuff, and John

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would swing back home. He doesn't want to sit there

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and like unpack everything in core, pull out nick knacks

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and decide what draw her underwear is going to go in,

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you know, right, But I don't mind that.

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Speaker 1: I'm the mom.

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Speaker 3: So when we started packing up all her stuff, we

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realized it's easily fits in one car. So then I

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was like, well, maybe why don't you just not go

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for this part of the trip. I'll do the moot.

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The move in with all her bags and there's people

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to help you. I was like, and then when she

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goes for good, you take her and then you can

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meet the roommates and you know, and leave her there.

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Speaker 1: It's good. It's a good plan.

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Speaker 4: It's eighteen minutes away, that's the thing. It's like, it's

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not if it was at a friend's house exactly. It's

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not like moving her across the country.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I don't. I don't see why. And

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so anyway, that's how we decided it. So then on

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Thursday morning, I mean I had stuff to do. I

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was like recording a podcast and stuff. And then John

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was like, okay, so you ready to go? And I

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was like, wait, I'm not going and he was like,

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oh you're not. I was like, no, this is like

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you get to you're taking her. Yeah, this is your thing.

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Yeah and he said uh oh okay, like he wasn't.

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He was happy. But I think I was like, if

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I go, you're gonna end up kind of taking a

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back seat and just you knowing her place. I was like,

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I want you guys to bond. Go oh. And then

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also he took her. It was cute, like he took

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her to school, and then he also took her to

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Trader Joe's. There's a Trader Joe's right there in Westwood

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and got her a bunch of groceries for her apartment

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and like, you know, so I stay had a really

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good time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's nice.

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Speaker 3: And then I felt I felt really emotional that day

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just because like, oh, she's officially now not living at home, right,

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cry a little bit. I was like, oh, like it's

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for real, like right. But then she was texting me

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and she's like, I forgot some stuff and I was like, okay,

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when do you want me to come by? And I

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was literally okay. So that was she got dropped off

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on a Thursday. By Friday, she was like, hey, I

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forgot It's so cute. She forgot her purple blanket, which

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is her oh blanky that she's slept with since she

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was Oh, I love that. My brother gave her this

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purple blanket from like Creighton Barrel, I think, or Pottery

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a baby blanket and it was purple and she's slept

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with it every single night. She's brought it to camp

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with her like she forgot it. So she's like, I

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need purple blanket. Oh, and she's like, I forgot purple blanket.

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I need a frying pan, I forgot I need some silverware,

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and I forgot my jewelry.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So I was like done and done, done.

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Speaker 3: I don't want me to come by.

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Speaker 1: Get the batmobile fired up here I come. I mean, yeah, Core,

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Speaker 3: I was like hell yeah, so this weekend, like, do

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you want me to come by? And she was like yeah,

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that'd be great. So I grabbed my friend Cecily, not

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my podcast partner, but my mom friend, Cecily. I was like, hey,

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do you want to go to Westwood with me? And

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she was like hell yeah. So we went down there,

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went and ate lunch at CPK, and then I walked.

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she brought us up and it was so funny. She

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looked like such a tired college student. You know. So

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the one of the looks there's the kids are the

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college kids are serving? Looks?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Is these wearing oversized like jorts you've seen.

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Speaker 1: This are they that they're shorts. They're they're almost.

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Speaker 3: Like gauchos because they wear I'm so long, but they're

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like jean shorts, but they're really long, really and they

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look like dad shorts.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think, yeah, I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: So she looked like such a college student. She was

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wearing these oversized like long hort with like a big

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oversized like call it like sweatshirt, Yeah, like an Oregon

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sweatshirt or some some big green oversized sweatshirt. And she

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looked so tired.

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Speaker 1: And already already tired and just hanging out.

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Speaker 3: And she brought us up into the apartment and there

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were like kids lounging in the kitchen, and then her

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roommate was there, and like, you know.

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Speaker 1: It's just like a yeah, prhole college experience and you

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get to go through that now, you know, I know,

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in a roundabout way, like you know, you get to

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beat go over there sometimes to visit and experience it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The funny thing was is like, you know, I didn't

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have time to miss her. She'd just been dropped off,

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so it was like it was nice. I gave her

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a hug, but I wasn't like so what are we doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, it's only been.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a regular mamm a cool mom. Hi, girls

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who wants to go shopping? Let's go buy some candy now.

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I was just like all right, yeah bye, yeah soon.

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Speaker 1: Why do you do you know if they've been, if

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they went to any parties or because don't they have?

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Like yes, you know, first weekend, everybody moves in parties.

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Speaker 3: So there was there was some block party in what.

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I haven't talked to her yet, so I don't know

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if she ended up going to this thing, but she

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was so excited. She first of all, rush starts tomorrow,

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so she's rushing sort gosh, wow, yeah, which is so

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out of my Yeah, I know me experience. I don't care.

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I don't like sororities.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't get it right, I don't think it's cool.

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Speaker 1: What am I gonna like yet? Now? She I can't

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see in a sorority?

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Speaker 3: What I guess like of Elbe is like I don't

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want to say she's a follower, but she's definitely not

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off like Elby is like what's everybody else doing? Then

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, everybody's rushing, so she's going to do.

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Speaker 3: She's like, well, all my roommates are doing it, so

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like I don't want to be the not doing it one. Yeah,

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so she said, I'm going to do it. I'm going

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to check it out. I'm going to see if it's

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for me. If it's not for me, I won't do it.

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And if I love it. A lot of her friends

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have rush sororities. I don't know. I told her. I

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was like, it's also expensive, and I don't know that

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I want to pay for that.

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Speaker 1: Oh interesting, it's like thousands of dollars. It is. I

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didn't an idea about sororities.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. I just didn't want to be

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like absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Not right her life. Yeah, check it out.

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Speaker 3: That starts Today's Monday that we're recording. That starts tomorrow

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morning at eight am. She has a few days of that.

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Then classes start on the twenty sixth. But yesterday there

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was supposedly a block party in Westwood. I know she's

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gone to like a little party at like another apartartment building.

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They had people over to their apartment. This this seems

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Speaker 1: Life, it does, I know, right, Yeah, I want to

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be a college student, I totally. I was talking to

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Natalia yesterday and she's like, I gotta go. I have

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people over watching a football game. I was like, well,

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how many people? And she's like, I don't know, like eight,

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or four, yeah, four roommates.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, we got a packed house. Like okay,

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but yeah, she's living the life. You know, she's she's

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been doing a lot of studying, which I'm happy about.

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class something communications, so she went back and forth with it,

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but she got added on. But yeah, she's now. Then

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I see like Thursday night, she's on State Street, you know,

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like just like this the college town area where all

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the kids were, all the restaurants and bars and uh

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having a good time. She has a fake ID, right,

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I believe.

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, we talked about Elbie's fake the first time

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she was on the show. She told us about her fake.

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And then there's a backup to the face. Yeah, in

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case they lose, in case the fake is taken away. Yeah,

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we told our whole story. I don't know if Elbe's

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used hers yet. That's where her anxiety still resides and

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stuff like that. I think she's so scared of like

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being humiliated and.

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Speaker 1: At the door and getting turned away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, whereas you and I were way more.

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Speaker 1: I memorized the shit out of that thing. Yes, what

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year were you born? Nineteen fifty nine? You know, yeah,

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it was all we had. You know, we didn't have

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uh you know, I mean at the time, my friends

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didn't go to school, they didn't go to college, right,

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so we all just went to work. So everybody's going

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to work. And now you're like nineteen twenty years old

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and you go to work all week and then like

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at night you want to go do something. Oh, yes,

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so we all got fake id's.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, And that was our lifestyle. We didn't have

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an apartment next to a rephle coach full of weed.

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That was our social life, right, Like you went to

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the Red Onion or you stayed home, Yes, the Red Onion.

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that was a little bit later, but yeahm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So yeah, the kids are they're seemed like they

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Speaker 3: She's very happy. I keep like it's little things. She's

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just she's so back to being her super optimistic self.

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Like I sent her a text, I was like, how

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was reunion with purple Blanket? And she just wrote back

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like all caps like amazing, Like everything is amazing. Everything

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is like best night ever, most fun I've ever had.

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Everything is you know, super superlatives, super superlatives. You know,

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everything is so great, Mom, I'm having so much fun.

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I'm so happy here. It's hard to be sad that

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your kid moved out when they're there still in their

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best life, right, and when she's worked so hard and

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been looking forward to this for so long. I'm just

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really happy for her.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we all are. Oh my god, she I mean,

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she's We've been there through her trials and tribulations.

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Speaker 3: How do you feel like about Natalia? Do you feel

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do you miss her?

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Speaker 1: I do miss her? Yeah, I miss her being around

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the house. I miss you know, hanging out and going

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to get something to eat, her dragging me to her plots,

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classes or whatever. Yeah, I do miss her. But we're

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going to drive up tomorrow on Tuesday to go visit her.

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Speaker 3: You and Sonny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so Sunny can so Sonny can say bye

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to her now.

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Speaker 3: So Sonny gets Adam picks him up on the twenty sixth, right.

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Speaker 1: Yes, no plans are changed. Oh so, uh, I guess

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the original plan, which was set like six months ago,

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was that he was going to be driving Sonny to Oregon.

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Speaker 3: Well, the original original plan was that you were going

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to drive him to Oregon with Wendy.

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Speaker 1: Oh that yeah, and then when we were starting, right,

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and then he decided that he wanted to do it,

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so he was going to drive him up. And uh.

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Then about a couple of days ago, I find out

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that they're not going to drive up. Sonny comes home

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and tells me, now we're gonna we're gonna fly up

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and I'm like, wait, what, So I'm packing all your stuff.

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I was planning on just putting it all in little

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you know, those vacuum bags or whatever, and put putting

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it in the back of a car since you're driving there.

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And he says no, Now, Dad's working on Friday night,

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and uh, it's got a show or something on Friday,

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So he was going to drive out Thursday. The plan

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was them to drive out Thursday and then check into

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his dorm on Friday. And then yeah, and then I

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was going to fly in, uh sometime on Saturday after

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his dad leaves and help him, like you know, it started.

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Speaker 3: To have like a bonding trip. But wasn't Adam also

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going to get him a car to make the trip?

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Speaker 1: And then oh yeah that changed? Yeah, no, no more car.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So he wasn't going to have a car, so

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Adam was going to drive him in Adam's car, yes, okay,

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So then that changed, and then they were going to fly.

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But so now they're not flying.

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Speaker 1: Now they're not flying, and I'm why not? Because he's

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got got to He's got a gig booked for that

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Friday night. So now you know, it's it's unclear. I

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try to, yeah, communicate, but I don't get a lot

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of information.

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Speaker 3: So how's he getting to school? How's he getting there?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 1: Well, now it's on me to fly him out. Oh yeah,

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so now I'm flying with Sunny on Friday.

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Speaker 3: You had to make a last minute.

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Speaker 1: Right, I had to make a last minute booking. Well. Well,

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also I bought you know, I bought dishes and silverware

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and stuff like that for his place because he needs it.

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I had to go return it over the weekend because

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I'm not gonna, you know, ship that out, so now

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I'm gonna just get it when I get there. So, yeah,

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I had to do a lot of changing of plans

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and returning a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 3: So is he gonna just are you gonna fly him

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out there with like a lot of bags.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna to pack up a bunch of suitcases.

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It's mostly with sunny. It's mostly clothes and you know,

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all things that once we get there, I can go

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to Target. We can go to Target together and get

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the stuff, the other stuff that he needs, the heavy stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just it's but I had to return. Yeah,

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there was a lot because it's an apartment, but he

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has and he doesn't he has his own room. Yes,

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he has his own apartment, but there's but there's several

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roommates in the apartment. Yeah there Well there's no he's

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got his own standalone, like uh, studio apartment, but it's

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in a building with everybody has the same type of apartment.

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Speaker 1: They're all they're all students.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And the apartments are furnished.

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Speaker 1: Semi furnished. There's no like, yeah, there's.

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Speaker 3: A desk I'm sure it's the same as Elbe's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little like vinyl couch.

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Speaker 3: But you have to get like a lamp. You have

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to get a desk lamp.

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Speaker 1: You have to get potensils, dishes, things like that. Yeah,

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and we'll see once we get there too, Like.

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Speaker 3: Is there a fridge in there or do you have

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to buy a mini fridge?

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Speaker 1: I think he has a little mini fridge. And maybe

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there's a microwave like down the hall or on his floor,

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you know, along with a printer on his floor they have.

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So it's kind of you know, we'll see when we

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get there. I just had to. I just returned everything

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because I figured once we fly out, I will have

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the weekend to go and get all that stuff with

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him that is needed. Okay, So now yeah, like so

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where are you One week before he was going to leave.

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Everything changed, So plans changed? Now crying out?

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Speaker 3: That's a lot?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is? Uh yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is he is he upset?

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Speaker 1: Oh? I think it? Yeah, I don't know, I mean,

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I he Sonny doesn't listen. If it was an Italia,

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her dad would have taken a hammer to that head.

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You know, she would have let everybody know Sonny is

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not like that. He doesn't say anything, and I think

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people take him for granted because he doesn't say anything,

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and people think, oh, it doesn't bother him, right, So

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you know, if you look at it this way, look,

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if you maybe asked, you know, his father, did it

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bother you when you were a kid, Did you say

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anything to your dad about things that your dad your

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parents did. Were you vocal and said it bothered you? No,

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but it does, but it grows up. You grow up

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and it affected you. Well, I feel like maybe that

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could be what's going on with Sonny that I don't know,

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you know, because he doesn't say anything, right, But I

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have to Yeah, I have to have a feeling like

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it does you know, feel like things of being things changing,

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you know, I don't know. At the last minute, kind

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of feels like maybe it's not important. Just I don't know.

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So I do want to say too much, but I

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get it. Yeah, but you know it. But your time

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with me and Sunny, I.

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Speaker 3: Was gonna say, it's what you you kind of I

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wanted you did. That was the plan to begin with. Yeah,

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you would have driven with him though, yes, Yeah, And

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it made it fun. It made it like a whole

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thing like, yeah, and brought all this stuff like if

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you'd had more time, but it's probably too late now

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to drive out there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Now it's just we just I booked the tickets.

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We're just gonna fly. Yeah. Uh oh. But now so

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the at the what I didn't I forgot to say

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is that now he's gonna his dad's gonna fly out

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Sunday night. I don't know if he's spending the night

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Sunday night, but he's gonna fly from his other gig

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to check out Sonny's place and hang out with him

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on Sunday. So after I leave, Okay, Yeah, well.

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so I have yes, I feel like I'm more. Oh,

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back to school night Okay, So I had to go

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to two nights of back to school Night mm hmmm

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because I was and make the announcement about, like, you know,

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anyway about donating money for our big annual fund. And

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it was fine, and I.

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Speaker 5: Like, I've told you the the incoming the the co

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presidents of the Parent Association basically are both so nice.

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Speaker 3: I really really love them both, and it's it's easy.

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But it was just kind of funny because you feel

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like a bit of like a representative, like you're, you know,

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like a customer representative.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like customer service, you know.

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Speaker 3: Like people kept coming up to me and like asking

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me questions and I'm like, I don't fucking know, I'm

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just a parent here too. But the funny thing is

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that there was like this one girl who was with

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her dad. It was not really for the kids, so

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there were hardly any kids there. There was like one

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mom that I was talking to for a while and

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she kept talking about her kid and saying the kid's name,

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and you know, I don't remember meeting the kid. The

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only kid that I interacted with was this girl that

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was with her dad, and she was like, seems super sweet,

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and I was just like, oh, like, what what year

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are you And she said she was a junior. And

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I was like, oh, do you know my kids? I'm

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Sadie and Xander's mom. Do you know them? And she

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was like, oh yeah, like yeah, I have Xander in

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this class, in this class, and I have Sadie in

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this class, in this class, and I was like, oh cool,

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and and that was it. That was the extent of it.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: Next day, both Stadie and Xander are like, Mom, who

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were you interacting with at back to school night? Who

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are you talking to? Like We've had so many people

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come up to us and be like, oh my god,

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your mom was asking me all these questions. And I

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was like, no, I was not.

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Speaker 1: Got you hate that I got to get called out

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his mom.

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is a false accusation. I was like,

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I'm going to bring some witnesses forward to tell you

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like that is not true. I was like, I talked

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to one girl, one girl, and I go and she

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was perfectly nice and I didn't I didn't go like,

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I didn't make a scene about it. He knew you.

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And I was like, in this girl's name, you know,

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I said her name. I was like, Tabitha, that's the

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only girl I talked to. And she's like, mom, so

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and so said that you asked them like, oh do

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you know, Like I don't know, a bunch of questions

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and it was the the mom that I was talking to.

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For a while. They claimed that I met her kid

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and was giving them the third I was like, listen,

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first of all, you know, I'm sober. I was like,

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I haven't had a drink in fild. I know my

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memory is not great, but like zintite Kaylin. I was like,

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but this was last night. I did that. That did

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not happen. These are lies, all lies there making shit

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up about me. Keep my name out your mouth. Then

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the kids were being so They're like, okay, Mom, we

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believe you. But I was like, okay, I know, but

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I promise you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they were drunk. Maybe I was like, I promised you.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that. I said, I wouldn't. I just wouldn't.

470
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,599
I know my kids well enough to know that I'm

471
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:00,880
not going to sit there and have calm conversations with

472
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:05,000
like high school students, especially about my like one kid,

473
00:25:05,039 --> 00:25:07,000
and it was natural and that she was like hanging

474
00:25:07,039 --> 00:25:09,880
out by my table where I was like selling school

475
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,440
merchant like. It wasn't like I went and was seeking

476
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,640
people out. I was like, first of all, there were

477
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,720
hardly any kids there. I do not remember. If you

478
00:25:17,839 --> 00:25:20,119
tell me I go. I know that I chatted with

479
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,680
that mom for a while because I remember her saying

480
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,079
the name of that kid being her kid. I did

481
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,240
not meet that kid. The second is a liar. Who

482
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,160
do I I'm sending some emails?

483
00:25:31,319 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 1: Why do we got to get tattle tailed on? I

484
00:25:34,039 --> 00:25:36,920
know by these kids? Like I had the kind of

485
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,119
a similar thing, like we were on a girl Scout

486
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:48,480
retreat and Natalia's friend and Anna Belle, let's call her. Okay,

487
00:25:49,279 --> 00:25:51,680
She's like, and I've seen Annabelle at my house many

488
00:25:51,759 --> 00:25:54,480
many times, like she's one of my daughter's best friends

489
00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:57,240
at the time. And I go, hey, Mama, I would

490
00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,799
say that to her, and then natell you go, mom,

491
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,480
why are you calling my friends mamas? They think it's weird.

492
00:26:03,559 --> 00:26:07,480
I'm like, oh, shut up, I remember that. I remember that.

493
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 3: I remember that because like I've done it.

494
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:13,039
Speaker 1: Too, yes, and it's like, okay, so what so I called? Okay,

495
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,119
then I won't talk about I won't talk to Annabell.

496
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,279
I'll give her this stink eye how about that? But

497
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:19,640
I just won't say a word to her.

498
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 3: You know.

499
00:26:20,519 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: I went and got her cold. I went and got

500
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:26,319
her summer pajamas because it was a it was everybody

501
00:26:26,319 --> 00:26:30,079
brought like warm pajamas because it was supposed to be

502
00:26:30,279 --> 00:26:32,200
cold and it turned out to be a heat wave

503
00:26:32,319 --> 00:26:36,160
inside the gabin. Everybody was dying. I went to Target

504
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,279
and buughy like summer pjs. So tell Annabel, I'll take

505
00:26:39,319 --> 00:26:41,720
my summer pjs back. Tell her to return them.

506
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:45,079
Speaker 3: Yeah, but what I think happened is that it's not

507
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,759
that Annabel complained about it. I think Natalia and who knows,

508
00:26:49,799 --> 00:26:51,599
maybe she was like, oh my god, it was so cute.

509
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,559
Your mom called me mama or anything. You know, I

510
00:26:53,599 --> 00:26:56,039
love your mom. And then our kids take.

511
00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:00,839
Speaker 1: That as something like embarrassing that we did act made

512
00:27:00,839 --> 00:27:04,720
an ass out of ourselves or something. I know, it's enough,

513
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,680
So okay. So that so you told your kids like

514
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,480
and by either way, I'm sure your kids know you

515
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:13,519
to know.

516
00:27:13,799 --> 00:27:17,799
Speaker 3: Uh, you know it's upsetting. Is it because they know

517
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,920
me that they believe that so easily?

518
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 5: You know?

519
00:27:21,599 --> 00:27:24,079
Speaker 3: I was like, you, guys, I wouldn't do that. They're like, well,

520
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,119
maybe you were bored and you were just talking, and

521
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,400
I'm like, well, yeah, I was bored. I wasn't making

522
00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:32,920
random conversation with people that that I don't know that

523
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,359
are kids, right, you know, I was just I go,

524
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,359
I promise you. I was like minding my business eating

525
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,480
a cookie because I'm back on the sugar and there

526
00:27:40,519 --> 00:27:42,240
was like a lot of cookies there and I was

527
00:27:42,279 --> 00:27:45,079
trying not I was focused more on the cookies than

528
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:49,960
on anything else I did. I did introduce myself to

529
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,759
a couple of their teachers that i'd heard about, and

530
00:27:55,279 --> 00:27:57,519
I walked up and I was like, Hi. I was like,

531
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,000
I'm Sadie and Xander's mom. I knew that both these

532
00:28:00,079 --> 00:28:02,559
teachers who were talking to each other, both of them

533
00:28:02,599 --> 00:28:05,200
have my kids in their class. And I was like

534
00:28:05,559 --> 00:28:09,160
and then the kids were mortified about that. I was like, guys,

535
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,480
I talked to them for like two seconds. And by

536
00:28:11,519 --> 00:28:14,440
the way, that's what I get to do. It's back

537
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,599
to fucking school night. Yes, of course we're there to

538
00:28:17,799 --> 00:28:21,559
meet the teacher, to meet your teachers. Like that's completely appropriate.

539
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you want us to do? Not say anything? Wait?

540
00:28:25,559 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 3: I wasn't like, hey, are you unhinged?

541
00:28:27,279 --> 00:28:30,599
Speaker 1: Can I like, you know, picking up on you married?

542
00:28:30,759 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: Like what?

543
00:28:31,279 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 1: No?

544
00:28:31,799 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: I was like, I just said hello to them. I

545
00:28:34,279 --> 00:28:37,640
didn't even you know, I didn't tell them even anything

546
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,440
about you. I was just like, yeah, I think I

547
00:28:41,559 --> 00:28:43,839
said to one of them, I've heard good things. The

548
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:45,599
other one I haven't heard good things, so I didn't

549
00:28:45,599 --> 00:28:48,359
say that to him. Okay, I wasn't gonna lie like,

550
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,799
my kids love you, and I wasn't going to be

551
00:28:51,839 --> 00:28:55,759
like my kids say you're super bland and that you

552
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,920
talking to monotone and don't offer help. You know, that

553
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,400
would have been an inappropriate Did I do that?

554
00:29:01,599 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: No?

555
00:29:02,039 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 3: Right, I was like, so nice to meet you guys. Yeah,

556
00:29:07,839 --> 00:29:10,480
I'm like, wow, maybe I should just like not be

557
00:29:10,559 --> 00:29:13,200
involved in school at all. But then I told you

558
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,960
my kids are the kind of kids that want me

559
00:29:15,039 --> 00:29:17,279
to do stuff with them. So it's like, which is it?

560
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, exactly right? So that was that was the Uh?

561
00:29:23,039 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 3: That was it two nights in a row? And yeah,

562
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,559
why was it two nights in a row? Because the

563
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,519
first night was for parents of ninth and tenth graders

564
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:33,920
and the second night was for parents of eleventh and

565
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,160
twelfth graders slightly different program. You know, you're gonna have

566
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,640
certain classes, so not all the teachers had to show

567
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,519
up for both nights, but it was I had to

568
00:29:42,559 --> 00:29:45,599
give the same speech to both sets of parents. Got

569
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,880
it because I'm the co chair of the fundraising committee.

570
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: And how was that? Did it? Did you just did

571
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:52,440
it come out. I don't know, do you have a

572
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:53,039
good turnout?

573
00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. I have such imposter syndrome, Lynette, Like

574
00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:01,640
these people they're like, hey, well, first of all, I said.

575
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:04,000
One of the things that I said was like, hey,

576
00:30:04,079 --> 00:30:07,720
you know you this is a tuition free school. It's

577
00:30:07,759 --> 00:30:10,279
just a public school, and we're so lucky to go

578
00:30:10,319 --> 00:30:13,000
here because it feels like we're at a small private school.

579
00:30:13,359 --> 00:30:16,039
And I said, by the way, I just looked up

580
00:30:16,079 --> 00:30:19,039
which was true, the tuition to go to Oakwood. You

581
00:30:19,079 --> 00:30:20,079
know the Oakwood School.

582
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: So isn't that where Kaylin.

583
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:22,599
Speaker 3: Like I went there?

584
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:23,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, I went there.

585
00:30:24,039 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so do you know that school? That's the

586
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:29,880
worst listening.

587
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: Do you know the tuition?

588
00:30:31,559 --> 00:30:32,599
Speaker 3: I do know the tuition.

589
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a lot. I know that.

590
00:30:34,799 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 3: It was probably a lot back then, and it's a lot.

591
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,960
It's more now. It costs fifty three thousand dollars a

592
00:30:41,039 --> 00:30:42,400
year to go to that school.

593
00:30:42,559 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 6: I think it was thirty or thirty two when I

594
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:45,319
went there.

595
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, like that. It's like going to one of the universities. Now.

596
00:30:48,839 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like an expensive university. Yeah huh. And it's

597
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:56,039
a it's a very small school. They have small class sizes.

598
00:30:56,119 --> 00:30:58,519
They have lots of like fun bells and whistles, but

599
00:30:58,559 --> 00:31:01,039
not that many because there's not kids. You're not going

600
00:31:01,119 --> 00:31:03,759
to have like amazing sports teams. You're gonna have.

601
00:31:03,839 --> 00:31:07,240
Speaker 6: Like our volleyball team do pretty good. We're in Division

602
00:31:07,279 --> 00:31:08,119
four champions.

603
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,079
Speaker 1: Oh really? Oh wow? Okay?

604
00:31:11,119 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: It was a small school, right kids in the class?

605
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,039
Speaker 1: What grades did you go there? All of them? Oh wow?

606
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: Okay, so if you have seventy five kids per class,

607
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,759
then that is three hundred kids in the school total.

608
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,440
That is a very small school. It is very similar

609
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,799
to the school that my kids go to. Okay about

610
00:31:32,839 --> 00:31:36,000
the size. We also have a lot of cool bells

611
00:31:36,039 --> 00:31:39,839
and whistles, like we have this insane amazing music program.

612
00:31:40,039 --> 00:31:44,559
We have an incredible theater program. The the in the

613
00:31:44,559 --> 00:31:48,279
theater teacher was on Broadway like years ago.

614
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,279
Speaker 1: But do they produce in the podcast producers like k exactly?

615
00:31:52,519 --> 00:31:53,880
Is there alumni of that?

616
00:31:54,279 --> 00:31:56,759
Speaker 3: So I said, I was like, hey, do you know

617
00:31:56,799 --> 00:31:58,440
how much of costs I go? Our school is very

618
00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,960
similar to Oakwood? And do you know how much of

619
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:01,680
costs to go to oak Wood while you're in Luck?

620
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,440
Because I just googled it and it's fifty three thousand

621
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,559
dollars a year and you know how much our school

622
00:32:06,599 --> 00:32:09,039
is free? And I go and I guarantee you if

623
00:32:09,039 --> 00:32:11,079
your kids go to Oakwood, they still hit you up

624
00:32:11,079 --> 00:32:13,480
for money. They're not just like, oh, well you're paying

625
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,200
so much intuition, don't worry about any extras. No, I'm

626
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,640
sure they have fundraisers. I asked, oh yeah, So anyway,

627
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,680
the co president was like, we got to be really

628
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,720
careful not to like, you know, make people feel bad.

629
00:32:26,119 --> 00:32:28,000
And I'm like, I'm making people feel good.

630
00:32:28,119 --> 00:32:28,559
Speaker 1: Damn it.

631
00:32:29,039 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 3: This inspiring. This is like motivation right right, It's like

632
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,200
I'm not trying to I was like, look, people are

633
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,119
going to give money or they're not, of course, right.

634
00:32:38,599 --> 00:32:41,640
I think the principle of our school liked it, and

635
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,440
he was like, we are kind of like oak Wood.

636
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:44,400
We're a lot like oak Wood.

637
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,119
Speaker 1: I was like, it's a good angle. Yeah, that was good.

638
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:53,559
Speaker 3: I liked my angle. The parent president was a little

639
00:32:53,559 --> 00:32:56,000
bit more like, oh, we got to be careful and

640
00:32:56,039 --> 00:32:57,640
make everyone feel good and tell them.

641
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:02,359
Speaker 1: That everybody's so worried about everything. Yeah, yeah, what is

642
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,599
she What was she worried about? Like, be careful about what?

643
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:07,799
I don't know.

644
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 3: I think she didn't want me to make anybody feel

645
00:33:10,039 --> 00:33:13,119
bad who couldn't donate money. But I was like, listen,

646
00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:17,440
I've I've donated money years at my kids' school, and

647
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,240
I've not donated money when we were in lean years

648
00:33:20,319 --> 00:33:22,400
And like, you're gonna do what you're gonna do. You're

649
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,200
either gonna give money or you're not right. But like,

650
00:33:25,359 --> 00:33:28,559
my job is just to make people realize that, like

651
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,039
they're in a really good situation. So if they can

652
00:33:31,079 --> 00:33:33,599
give anything like it does it wouldn't matter what school

653
00:33:33,599 --> 00:33:36,119
you're at, you're gonna be asked for money. And we

654
00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:40,880
our school only has one fundraiser like that, and then

655
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:45,960
we have one big fall festival we call it where

656
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,559
there's like booths and you know, but it's not like

657
00:33:48,599 --> 00:33:49,319
you have to go.

658
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not like Kaylin's school where every parent has

659
00:33:53,079 --> 00:33:57,039
to sign up or my school. That's how it was. Yeah,

660
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,720
Like at my school, everybody had to all the parents

661
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,400
had to sign up for a slot for the big

662
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:07,400
Hollywood Halloween fundraiser every year. Right.

663
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well at my kid's old school, at the elementary school,

664
00:34:11,519 --> 00:34:15,719
you had to do a certain amount of community hours,

665
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:20,880
like as a parent, like you had to volunteer per family.

666
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,119
I think it was like forty hours or fifty hours,

667
00:34:24,519 --> 00:34:26,360
and if you had more than one kid, it was

668
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,280
like double.

669
00:34:27,039 --> 00:34:27,639
Speaker 1: That, right.

670
00:34:28,159 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they kind of policed it a little bit,

671
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,039
like they would send a thing and say, you haven't

672
00:34:33,079 --> 00:34:37,239
like done any hours. Yeah, it's same with my school. Yeah,

673
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,840
it's like I don't have a dui, like I'm not.

674
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,159
It's not picking up trash on the side of the

675
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:42,760
road like.

676
00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 1: It does feel a little community service like yeah, yeah

677
00:34:46,800 --> 00:34:50,559
that you have to you're you know, uh, it just

678
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,760
is like, but you're right if the school is free.

679
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,920
And our kids went to a public school which was free,

680
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,079
and it did feel I don't know if I want

681
00:35:01,119 --> 00:35:03,679
to say go as far as a private school, but

682
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,480
it did have you know, had some good programs. It

683
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:11,880
had good teachers and provided a lot of services for

684
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,880
like my kids with the IEP and things like that. Yeah,

685
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,320
so you know, I was I didn't mind, you know,

686
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,719
donating time and money because it did kind of feel

687
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,960
like that kind of type of school that.

688
00:35:25,519 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you kind of have to, you know, especially

689
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:32,039
these days, there just isn't the money isn't there for

690
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,079
the teachers. We have a lot of teachers that listen

691
00:35:35,159 --> 00:35:36,960
to us like that. A lot of these teachers have

692
00:35:37,039 --> 00:35:39,239
to buy a lot of their own supplies. You know,

693
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,679
they're having to do these Amazon wish lists just to

694
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,079
get just to be able to provide for the kids,

695
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,719
you know, nice stuff, and a lot of kids really

696
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,800
can't afford the extras, and a lot of kids are

697
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,559
there's a lot of like socioeconomic differences, you know, especially

698
00:35:55,599 --> 00:35:59,840
in Los Angeles, got kids from all different neighborhoods and

699
00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:04,079
you know, levels of being able to donate money. My

700
00:36:04,159 --> 00:36:06,840
speech is more for the people that can do have

701
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,320
the money and it's not a big deal. It's like, look,

702
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,199
we really do need it, yes, so if you can

703
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:16,320
afford it, please please donate some money because the you know,

704
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we have a room full of musical instruments.

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Speaker 1: For the kids.

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Speaker 3: You know, there's not a lot of stuff at our

707
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school that you have to buy yourself, right and these days,

708
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lunch is free for everybody. I think they even have

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breakfast for kids.

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Speaker 5: You know that.

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Speaker 3: It's like a kind of a new thing.

712
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Speaker 1: Yes, I've heard about that.

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Speaker 3: I feel like since COVID.

714
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Speaker 1: Uh huh, yeah, I think it has been You don't have.

715
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Speaker 3: To prove that you're poor and can't afford lunch. It's

716
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just like it's provided whether you can afford it or not.

717
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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, my school was doing that, I think when

718
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everybody started coming back from COVID. Yeah.

719
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Speaker 3: I think that's really good and it's really important. And

720
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I don't know where that money comes from. I guess

721
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,960
the state. But a lot of kid's a lot of

722
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kids if you're on the free or reduced lunch program

723
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and then you have to prove it or have a

724
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card or you know. I mean, it's embarrassing for a

725
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lot of kids.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that.

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783
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I like them, except they're progressive and you know, so

784
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,159
when you look down, they're like the reading glasses, but

785
00:40:31,199 --> 00:40:35,039
when you look straight ahead and you can drive with them, right, Okay,

786
00:40:35,119 --> 00:40:39,639
So now I feel like everything is blurry blurry, even

787
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,440
I just got them. So I'm reading the read I'm

788
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:45,679
looking down. Everything seems blurry. I don't know what's happening.

789
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,760
But I am going to the eye doctor today too.

790
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:49,400
Oh okay, yeah.

791
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 3: Well I have a lot of trouble so minor progressive

792
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:53,440
as well.

793
00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: But they say you got to wear them to get

794
00:40:57,079 --> 00:40:57,519
used to them.

795
00:40:57,559 --> 00:40:59,119
Speaker 3: It took me a while to get used to mind,

796
00:40:59,159 --> 00:41:02,719
all right, But I don't think things were super blurry,

797
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:06,119
but I definitely have like weird like with my peripheral vision,

798
00:41:06,199 --> 00:41:08,320
Like if i'd look around fast, I was like, I can't.

799
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,719
I feel like I can't see it really, But my

800
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,880
reading was fine. So I was wearing these same frames

801
00:41:15,119 --> 00:41:17,159
a few weeks ago. Remember when you were like, why

802
00:41:17,159 --> 00:41:19,639
do you have to I was having to change into

803
00:41:19,679 --> 00:41:23,760
my other glasses to see, but then recently I got

804
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,119
I ordered the same frame but in a progressive So

805
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:29,400
now yeah, MN are fine, So I.

806
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,320
Speaker 1: Gotta get used to them, I guess, I guess so.

807
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 3: But also sometimes it feels like I can't see, like

808
00:41:37,679 --> 00:41:40,719
it still feels blurry. Yeah, that's what I'm sometimes, But

809
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,800
then other times it's fine. Are you having that?

810
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:48,599
Speaker 1: I guess I think yes, so I can see. Uh,

811
00:41:49,119 --> 00:41:52,920
I am far sighted, so I needed to see up

812
00:41:53,039 --> 00:41:56,559
up close. Right, So right now I'm holding the paper

813
00:41:56,599 --> 00:41:59,440
in front my arm's length in front of my face.

814
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,599
Everything is blurry. But if I take it off, I

815
00:42:01,599 --> 00:42:03,320
can I can see it better.

816
00:42:04,199 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 3: But then now you don't have you're not near sighted,

817
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,400
like you can see far away without glasses. Yeah, m hm,

818
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,079
Well then why do you have progressives?

819
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,760
Speaker 1: So because so I don't have to keep Yes, the

820
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,119
top is regular, so the top is no prescription and

821
00:42:20,159 --> 00:42:23,159
the bottom is reading glasses. Yes, but if you so

822
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,320
you're reading glasses are the wrong strength, then I think.

823
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:27,199
So that's why I'm going.

824
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 3: When you go to the eye doctor, give them your

825
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,519
glasses and they'll check the prescription and they'll tell you

826
00:42:31,559 --> 00:42:32,599
if it's the wrong prescription.

827
00:42:33,039 --> 00:42:35,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I just got them at like one point

828
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:38,599
two five. I'm just at a I just got readers.

829
00:42:39,079 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you might need a stronger prescription, yeah for the reading.

830
00:42:42,199 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: Yes. Oh anyway, yeah, I feel you.

831
00:42:46,159 --> 00:42:48,559
Speaker 3: I was having to do the you know, so before

832
00:42:48,639 --> 00:42:51,760
my eye surgery, Like right now, I could wear contacts

833
00:42:52,559 --> 00:42:54,360
and I just need to go back to the eye

834
00:42:54,400 --> 00:43:01,360
doctor and get a contact prescription. But yeah, so it's

835
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,280
the most annoying. Eyes are so annoying.

836
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: They are because you know, as you get older. I'm

837
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,320
sure a lot of people have this problem. I had

838
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,440
perfect vision my whole life. Now, you know, I think

839
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,840
when I was in my forties, I have to you

840
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,440
know that I'm on the computer on the phone, So

841
00:43:21,519 --> 00:43:23,800
now you need the readers. But then the readers are

842
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,760
on your head, then they're down, then they're up, then

843
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,239
they're down. Then you can't find them. Like it's just

844
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,840
a pain in the ass. So I thought I would

845
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,840
just have I would like glasses where I can see

846
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,400
fine far away, but then I can look down and

847
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:43,320
have them. So anyway, that's what I'm that's my goal, right,

848
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:44,840
And yeah, I.

849
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 3: Have a I'm pretty sure that just the reading prescription

850
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,760
is off. Yeah, so they and then you can send

851
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:52,880
your glasses back and have them fix the prescription.

852
00:43:53,159 --> 00:43:55,639
Speaker 1: Okay, good, you can change it right right.

853
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,519
Speaker 3: Where did you get the original prescription or did you

854
00:43:58,559 --> 00:44:01,039
just decide I think five will be good.

855
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,559
Speaker 1: Well, when I went to the eye doctor, I don't know,

856
00:44:04,599 --> 00:44:06,400
I think it was about two or three years ago,

857
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:09,519
and he was saying he just said, like, look, all

858
00:44:09,599 --> 00:44:11,880
you need are readers. You don't need anything, just go

859
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,960
get and he said one point two five. And then

860
00:44:15,039 --> 00:44:17,360
I went and yeah, it worked.

861
00:44:18,119 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 3: So you just ordered those, right, I see the one

862
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,840
point two five is probably not strong enough if that

863
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,400
was a couple of years ago. As we get older,

864
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:28,559
shit go sideways fast.

865
00:44:28,679 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: Yes.

866
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:33,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like once you hit fifty, you're just

867
00:44:33,199 --> 00:44:35,840
walking off a cliff. Like everything starts to go wrong.

868
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,840
Like I think I've had all my implants in my

869
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,880
fifties on my teeth. My teeth are falling out. You know.

870
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,639
Speaker 1: I have a friend of mine, he a guy friend

871
00:44:44,679 --> 00:44:47,480
of mine. He's got ear uh hearing.

872
00:44:47,159 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 3: Aids Oh, that's the rage right now. Yeah, we're finding

873
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,199
out a lot of people's hearing. So a long time ago,

874
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,039
you didn't get hearing aids until you were like oh right,

875
00:44:58,119 --> 00:44:59,480
until you were like going deaf.

876
00:44:59,639 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: Yes, well, and they were like that big clunky battery

877
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,119
you know, right, look like you're wearing like a D

878
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:12,159
battery on the side here ear Yeah, yeah, just big, heavy, clunky.

879
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:14,639
So now well, so.

880
00:45:14,679 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 3: People are getting them much younger because we're finding out

881
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,400
I went to ear doctor school. I don't know if

882
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:25,480
i'd mentioned that. We're finding out that the earlier when

883
00:45:25,519 --> 00:45:28,440
you're hearing, when you start to experience hearing loss, the

884
00:45:28,599 --> 00:45:32,320
earlier you correct it, it's much better for your brain.

885
00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:37,280
You get better results. Also, they're finding out that cognitively,

886
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:41,960
you start losing cognitive function because apparently now just talking

887
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,000
on my ass right now from stuff I've heard, but

888
00:45:44,119 --> 00:45:47,039
one of my good friends is a speech pathologist. So

889
00:45:47,679 --> 00:45:50,760
they're finding out that you sort of get used to

890
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,320
not hearing as well, and you stop following along with conversations,

891
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,960
and it starts to affect your cognitive ability because your

892
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,480
brain just kind of you're like, well, I don't care here,

893
00:46:00,519 --> 00:46:03,920
staying here, so you're not engaging the same way with

894
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:08,480
your surroundings. So if you correct it earlier, your brain

895
00:46:08,599 --> 00:46:12,440
stays engaged and makes anyway, I'm not having that yet.

896
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,280
But I do know a lot of people like in

897
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,480
their fifties, oh, getting hearing aids.

898
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:21,639
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, A couple my one guy friend and

899
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,760
someone else. I know. She's about five years older than me.

900
00:46:25,840 --> 00:46:29,360
But yeah, and they are making them so teeny tiny

901
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,320
that you can even see. Yeah, I don't really have that.

902
00:46:33,639 --> 00:46:39,360
I don't, I do. I guess sometimes there's uh, you know,

903
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:44,679
there's those quiet talkers, you know, and especially like when

904
00:46:44,679 --> 00:46:50,360
you're at I was at a bait at uh somebody's uh, well,

905
00:46:50,559 --> 00:46:55,519
Olga's grandchild's first birthday over the weekend, and I'm talking

906
00:46:55,559 --> 00:46:57,920
to one of the like other moms that I haven't

907
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,719
seen a long time, and she's a quiet talker as

908
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:04,760
it is. But there now we're inside of a restaurant

909
00:47:05,079 --> 00:47:09,800
type place. Dishes are clanking, and then there's music playing,

910
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,440
and then at some point they tuned the music up,

911
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,679
so now on top of it, it's just like I'm

912
00:47:15,679 --> 00:47:19,679
waving the sos flat because I don't understand anything she's saying,

913
00:47:20,079 --> 00:47:22,480
and she's going yeah, and she's talking and she's laughing

914
00:47:22,519 --> 00:47:25,320
across the table and I'm like, ahh huh. And that's

915
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,400
when I was thinking, do I need a hearing aid

916
00:47:27,519 --> 00:47:30,199
at this point? Can like if this was sunny sitting

917
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,000
across from her, U would she would he hear everything

918
00:47:34,079 --> 00:47:37,199
she's saying? Or am I just losing my hearing?

919
00:47:37,559 --> 00:47:41,079
Speaker 3: Or I don't know. It just was just Klan because

920
00:47:41,079 --> 00:47:42,039
he's younger than we are.

921
00:47:42,199 --> 00:47:47,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my.

922
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,159
Speaker 3: God, perfect?

923
00:47:49,159 --> 00:47:49,639
Speaker 1: Perfect?

924
00:47:50,199 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 3: Kaylen. If you're in like a restaurant, okay, and there's

925
00:47:54,199 --> 00:47:57,519
background music playing and there's somebody trying to have a

926
00:47:57,559 --> 00:48:01,159
conversation with you and there's dishes clanking, are you still

927
00:48:01,159 --> 00:48:02,360
going to be able to hear the person?

928
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, there you go.

929
00:48:06,519 --> 00:48:09,400
Speaker 3: Well listen. I don't think it means that we're losing

930
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,880
our hearing. I think it's a natural. I'm way more

931
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:18,039
sensitive to noise and have trouble deciphering than I used

932
00:48:18,079 --> 00:48:19,559
to be, But I don't think my hearing.

933
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: Yes, how about your TV?

934
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 3: Like, do I have to play it louder?

935
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 6: No?

936
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 1: Do you have to have the subtitles?

937
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Speaker 3: Oh? I don't, but I know so many people that do, and.

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Speaker 1: I can't live without the subtitles.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. See, I find it distracting. I know so many

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people love to have the subtitles, but I find that

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I will just be reading it.

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Speaker 1: I right, I do end up just reading it. But

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I mean for the most part, unless it's like Dateline,

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because date Line is always like a beat off, so

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you can't follow along with it. But my kids hate

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it when it's on. They have to take change it

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back to normal. But I love it because there's scenes

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and stuff like you will hear you could barely hear,

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like somebody talking in the other room, but it shows

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up on the dialogue and it's like, I wouldn't have

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never heard that if I didn't see it in the

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subtitles right on the screen, so you get you here.

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And then also it tells you, like what songs playing

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by what band?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I do like that. Yeah, that's cool.

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I like it with the subtitles.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I definitely. What I like to do is

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just watch something with John and then constantly go like,

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what did he just say? Wait, he's going where where?

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I say, he's going right? And then John goes, I

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don't know, let's run it back, and then we have

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to rewind like ten seconds, and then you go not

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far back enough. I was late to tell you that

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I didn't hear the thing, and then we spend like

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twenty minutes trying to figure out where we missed the

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dialogue until I'm just like, just fucking just play it and.

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Speaker 1: Cares went you far back? Right? Yeah? Just play it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I could try the subtitles again.

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Speaker 1: But if it distracts you, it distracts you. But I

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love it. I love it because it does it will

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tell you things that you wouldn't. I mean, I don't

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think I would have heard. But also, my TV is

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pretty old at this point, so the it's also doing

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that thing like on Netflix or whatever when you're because

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it's it's for HD or or you know, the high depth,

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and my TV's kind of it's pretty old, so everything

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is like blurry until it takes this beat to correct itself. Okay,

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same is that? What's going on with your TV?

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Speaker 3: You do have the same exact problem.

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Speaker 1: I hate it? Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes sometimes it lasts for a while.

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Speaker 1: It does last why or like, is this just.

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Speaker 3: How it's going to be permanently? And then all of

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a sudden you're like, oh, it went back to it.

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Speaker 1: Being and then it goes back to normal, goes sharp. Yeah,

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what is that? I think our TVs are older? Does

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that happen to your TVs? Kalen?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: All right off, Kaylan?

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Speaker 3: I what if Kaylan doesn't even know what he's answering to.

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He's like fully engrossed in reading something and he's like, no,

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he just knows to show gun. Oh my gosh. Well

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this has been super fun and I want to save.

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I have another little story for you that I'm going

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to save for Friday. By the way, if you want

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to listen to our Patreon this week, Lynette answered to

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some things that accusations online having to do some stuff.

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I think you'll find it interesting. Yeah, hashtag per s Kate. Anyway,

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let's say hi to our people. We got Sandras not

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he's being green and Jennifer get up and Aaron is

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a dirty sanchiz. I hate that we have to say that,

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but Aaron forces us true loves it. Sarah's Stefano, Stephanie's

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a stinker wrinker. Leslie with still with the coughing with

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COVID even though it's just a cold. As I told

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you guys, and then everybody shut on me for saying that.

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So just kidding. If Leslie's coughing, it's very it's very serious.

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Alicia Escalante cityml Monte, Kelly Brandt, she will.

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Speaker 1: Take you in her mini van and abduct you. I

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don't know.

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Speaker 3: Ass Gabby and Missy those two. Katerina, seriously check your

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molar because I just got my crown and I don't

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want that to happen to you. Okay, it was expensive

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at a PSA Valerie. Bubba Fenwick sitting it out of

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the park, Polly, we love your pancakes, Athena. We love

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your dancing. Rita is rocking everybody's kids, Uh, including Elizabeth

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Williamson's in her Basonette. Leslie's just a coast to coast

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accostan people, Nikki, call your girl. Katie's rolling honey, Kelly

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Lotti Dot Dick is frolicking around. We have a new,

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna throw in just one more and that's

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So Kasa Teresa dot org. Thanks everybody, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Kaylin Calen, thank you everybody. You're a parent now, don't

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f it up. It's matting.