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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons. Throwing some ice

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mix in some vodka.

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Speaker 2: A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Speaker 1: It's Billified the Bill Moran Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thanks for getting your pot on. Thanks for telling a friend.

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That's how we spread the word about the pirate chip.

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Laura's here, She's ready, ready tonight.

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Speaker 3: I hope to guest cancels.

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Speaker 1: I talked to this person, but I was worried that

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she may be too clinical. I don't know, I don't

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know how. I don't know how she would be. She

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is soft spoken.

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Speaker 4: The word vulva at any point, well, well you.

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Speaker 1: Can try to get her.

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Speaker 3: To say vulva. This is going to be a huge letdown.

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The passion good pop simply be.

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Speaker 1: I reached out to a bunch of swingers on Instagram,

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but I had to follow all of them to message.

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Speaker 4: Should have had your lady friend reach out to a

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bunch of swingers.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, right, because that's what she wants on her

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I understand, but.

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Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta take on podcast.

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Speaker 1: Wrote a book. She thinks you would love her book.

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It kind of gives you how to get into this

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and what is okay and what's not okay. And she

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says she's good for your reverend stuff. So we'll find

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out a copy of she'll be we'll try to talk

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her into that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, she'll be on in about a half hour, so

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we can.

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Speaker 6: Tell her about the book I gave you for your birthday.

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Speaker 1: The other that's right, it's right over here. Uh. I

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got all the nude photos in it.

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Speaker 6: That's right, man, we'll be talking about some nude photos today.

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Speaker 5: Why did you take some over the weekend.

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Speaker 4: No, we're able to secure the request I had from you,

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like a week and a half ago.

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Speaker 1: What was that?

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Speaker 6: Requests kind of asked for one of the people who

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had sent me or showed me something to sund it.

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Speaker 1: But they said they showed you. They never said it.

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Speaker 6: I did not want it, but I love photos.

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Speaker 3: But if you get it, we can do things with it.

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Speaker 4: We can make it dance and we can make.

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Speaker 3: It sitting at the beach. Oh, you can make it sing,

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make it ai, no wonder. I don't want to send

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you a picture. Ship Joe, send you a picture is

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going to share to everybody guys, look at one of

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the one thousand.

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Speaker 6: Do that would not not when I'm in a relationship

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with him.

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Speaker 4: Side by side with the other one.

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Speaker 5: But if it ended, if it.

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Speaker 6: Ends, well, no, he's it's not gonna end. But you

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know the other excess.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, they got you, I hear you.

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Speaker 6: I got him right here.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a pretty exciting opening weekend for

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of the NFL.

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Speaker 5: Great.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there were some pretty good games. You know.

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I thought the Tampa Bay Atlanta game was actually more

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entertaining than I thought it was going to be.

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Speaker 4: Pittsburgh game was exciting.

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Speaker 1: The Jacks Pittsburgh game was very exciting. Are not the

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worst TVs?

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Speaker 3: Just aren't they good?

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure because the Jelphins are pretty bad. The

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Dolphins look terrible. They lost to the Colts, right, they lost.

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Speaker 4: To Daniel Jones in the coult.

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Speaker 3: That's my buddies team DJ. You know the guy that

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you met. Yeah, he was beside himself yesterday. He's like,

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how do you come out this lame on the week

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opening day? But it happens.

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Speaker 4: We were debating whether or not he was gonna get fired.

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Today it's week one.

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Speaker 3: I watched next week they come out and score forty

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points right next week?

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Speaker 1: Uh and Newton, New England. Did the Raiders win that game?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because they couldn't cover Brock Powers or Kobe Myers

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at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeahs wants to be traded. You guys should look into

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the up in Kansas City. I know you did.

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Speaker 4: He was good and uh, he keeps catching seven hundred

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balls in a game. He doesn't need to be traded.

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He's all right.

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Speaker 1: That Buffalo game was nuts. I mean, what the fuck happened?

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Speaker 3: I went to bed.

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Speaker 1: So so here's the thing is, Like I saw the interception.

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Speaker 4: Derek Henry Randa Syracuse.

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Speaker 1: I lost, Yeah, and I saw I'm like one time,

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I go, I go in, I go, I'm gonna start

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getting ready for bed. Now I don't know what I've

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signed up for on my phone, but I'm getting every score.

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Every time somebody scores and the games live, I get

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an update on that score of the game.

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Speaker 3: So no, because I was getting that.

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm flossing my teeth and I slicked down

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and I see and I go, oh my god, they're

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they could score and be within like a field goal.

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And so I get in bed and I put on

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the Peacock app on my phone and I watched the

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rest of the game and I'm like, oh my god,

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I missed the fumble. I missed the Derrek Henry fumble.

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That was kind of the turning point. And man, I mean,

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do not have any quit in you?

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Speaker 3: You were down? Was there five minutes left in the game?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 3: Four and they're down fifteen? God, there's a stat there

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I saw today.

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Speaker 4: I mean, no team has ever lost having rushing two

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hundred and thirty five yards.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, forty thirty five rushing yards. Teams were two hundred

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seventy seven and oh yeah, so now to seventy seven

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and one that that's unbelievable. And you gotta go. It

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was Josh in the end, Josh, I mean the whole

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team is Josh.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a worry. That's a that's a real worry.

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Speaker 3: Although she found that team they win two games. Don't

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tell me the defense is good.

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Speaker 1: No, I said, the defense actually did okay at times.

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Speaker 4: But you're your defensive line did okay, Yeah, but you're you're.

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Speaker 1: What Oliver did a right and Bosta did okay. I thought,

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But then you see what was the play where all

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of a sudden Lamar Jackson runs scrambles, he's back twenty

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yards and then gets a fifteen yards fast the line

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of scrims for.

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Speaker 4: A first down.

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Speaker 1: I go, what the fuck just happened? Like they were

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going insane, and then in the end it was Yeah.

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Speaker 3: If I'm harball, it's fourth and three.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm going for it.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't stop Josh Allen in the fourth quarter. Why

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would you punt the ball and give it back to him?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: They won't got to get a field goal. If they

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need a touchdown, I get it. Yeah, field goal. I

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need three yards and I know them was cramping up.

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Call time out. You had three timeouts? Yeah, call time out.

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You got Henry, you got Jackson. They don't know who's

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gonna run the ball, No, they don't. You could run

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Jackson as a decoy. You could run Henry's a decoy

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and the other guy could run it. There's no way

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I'm putting that ball back to Josh. Yeah now that, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: I mean, Derek Henry did so good yesterday except for

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always does he kills the monster. He is such an

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elite player.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a He's a freaking monster. But I have

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to ask this, and I don't know if anybody else

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saw it. Text coming into five A five two oh

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six eighty eight sixty six saying that a lot of

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the Bill's fans were thrown shit in the end zone

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when Baltimore scored, and I thought I saw something on TV.

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And then when the players were the Baltimore players after

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they scored, what there was some interaction between a fan

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and Lamar and.

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Speaker 3: Get the guy in the head. He hit Hopkins on

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the head and that's when he went to hit Lamar

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and Lamar jack. Now the guy's been a suspended from

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every stadium in the NFL. Can I go to a

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game him? Was he trying to tap him? Because going

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to try to slap him on the hell helmet it

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hurts it echoes and yeah it does. You can't be

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touching players like that. So I was gonna say he's

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a drunk fuck and help themselves. They look like some

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of those ship we got.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then Josh Allen after the game said this, I.

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Speaker 7: Learned his lesson tonight, because when you come into Highmark

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Stadium and you disrespect the Bills fan, you leave in

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a fucking body bag. A man gotta have a code

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in the moment I saw that greasy little hood rats

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in the third quarter, I saw blood fucking red, and

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I knew I'd get my revenge.

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Speaker 6: AI scary because it all sounds exactly what Joe texted me.

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He sent me that link and he goes, AI is scary.

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Speaker 1: AI is scary, man. It sounds like I mean, it

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sounds exactly similar to Josh Allen. I mean, if you

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listen to it, you know, he definitely didn't say that,

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but I'm thinking the fans in general, you can't fucking

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do that. No, and people well, and I was actually

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bothered when I thought I saw something on the field

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and then I saw the text coming into the text line,

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and I'm like, I guess it did happen because they

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weren't showing.

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Speaker 5: That ship on TV as much.

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Speaker 3: They seen the move the way celebration didn't really show

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it because they had the camera in front of the guy. Yeah,

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so the other angle shows it really well, but the

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camera they showed on TV last night wasn't showing it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Here's the question I posted to Bill's fans at worked today. Though,

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A did Matt Prater put Tyler Bass out of a job?

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And B would Tyler Bass have made that kick because

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he's had a history of missing winning kicks.

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Speaker 3: I would take Praider anyways. Yeah, I take him over

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a Bass all. Yeah, I can go to forty five

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Kerry Anderson. I think was forty six when he retired.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't a long kick though.

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Speaker 1: Wasn't fifty something? Yeah, I thought there was thirty something

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and then but he the NFL. But he did hit

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a fifty five I thought earlier the game or something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he had a long one earlier. He has also

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got the record for the longest until yesterday. Did a

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Jacksonville guy really hit a seventy?

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Speaker 4: That was in pre season?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, somebody told me happened yesterday? I didn't hear.

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Speaker 6: Was that game?

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Speaker 3: Was that game delayed for a little lightning?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I didn't watch an hour and a half or

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two hours? How bad did jackson think? Okay, Carolina got crushed.

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They're bad? Are they Saints? Bad? Saints aren't going to

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be that bad if they play like they did yesterday.

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I mean Atlanta is going to be a solid team. Yeah, Arizona,

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I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: I think the Saints are awful.

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Speaker 3: They're going to be the worst. It's going to be

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between them and Carolina.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in the most teams, the Dolphins could sneak in,

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so they could. They could, That's definitely true.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It was an exciting opening weekend, that's all I know.

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And then I saw the fan interaction to Buffalo. I

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didn't see any other ship going on in any other stadium,

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and I go, Buffalo, come on, come.

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Speaker 3: On, it happens at every stadium. Yeah, I guess, but

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that's you know, guys tailgating all day, and it's all day,

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you got it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I have people that got their summer loot

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was sold out at eleven thirty.

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Speaker 1: I saw that on.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't think they allowed them to open before stadium.

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Speaker 6: The stadium lots don't open until like four hours before

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the other lots.

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Speaker 3: Private lights.

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Speaker 1: Oh so the private lots, Oh, that's where you're going

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and getting it on buddy the Kevin was going to

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Buffalo yesterday and what did you see? Somebody hit a bear?

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Speaker 4: We hit a bear on the through way. I'm looking

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at him like, that's not a deer. It was a

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dark brown and I'm like, I think it's a bear.

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Speaker 6: Did the bear survive.

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Speaker 4: Bear was laying there motionless.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's wow.

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Speaker 3: So just like the Chicago Bears. Yeah, okay, and.

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Speaker 4: Somebody else said it at the rink, and like I

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kind of thought it was a.

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Speaker 3: Bear hit a bear like Pembroke.

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Speaker 1: Wow, look at this, Dallas looked pretty good.

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Speaker 5: I have to say, pretty good, you know, pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't wink wins though, no one. That's all that matters

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because we can get this here, right, So but I

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do forget lockdown.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: I have him going eleven and six, win a division, okay,

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I win a championship game in losing, Okay, and I'd

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be happy, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, yea, believe it or not.

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Speaker 4: No, since Thursday with that kind of language, See, we'll see.

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Speaker 1: Somebody by the name of Richard Shaft. Dick Shaft sent

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a gift for Laura. Now I did open it because

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I I and I didn't look at it. Once I

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saw the note. He wanted to make sure it was

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an anthrax for Laura.

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Speaker 6: But Dick Shaft, I did see the name, and I

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was like, oh, Dick Shaft, Yeah, that was the first thing.

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Speaker 3: Laura. Yeah, of course you did.

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Speaker 1: She noticed it immediately.

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Speaker 3: It's come from Newark. You got that's Waterloo, Waterloo, and

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you got a lot of three one.

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Speaker 6: Five fourteen ninety nine foot road. Let's say from the

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road this is for Laura. I'm ready to do everything

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her man won't.

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Speaker 3: Whoa I knew a deck pack.

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Speaker 9: Wow.

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Speaker 6: I've had a lot of people send dick pics.

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Speaker 1: But oh, what is it?

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Speaker 6: I think he's gonna lock me up? Hold on, hold on,

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let's see.

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Speaker 5: What does it say?

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Speaker 1: See?

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Speaker 6: This is why I get turned on. So he's like,

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I want to devour her, to taste every inch of

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her skin, to lose myself in the intoxicating scent of

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her lust.

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Speaker 4: That sounds like a serial killer to me.

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Speaker 5: Ye good, before you go, My goodness, what is this?

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Speaker 4: That's how's auto biography started?

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Speaker 3: Can I just see this guy?

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Speaker 5: You gotta lock it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jackson, Jackson, you're really gonna wear nothing? Why not?

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Speaker 3: Okay? You know what that is?

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Speaker 1: That's like a dog collar so the person can pull yep,

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and there we go.

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Speaker 4: Look at that.

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Speaker 1: Look at that? How you do that?

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Speaker 3: But she didn't.

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Speaker 4: Well, well here's why.

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Speaker 1: A second I'm looking at it, I could see what

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it was.

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Speaker 4: I could see that you just pulled the.

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Speaker 3: Stuff. There's the key to Yeah, like she wasn't already

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turned on and coming into the really literally just put

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it on.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, I'm gonna be smells

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like Gil's neck.

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Speaker 3: You start hearing gaging, don't mind, somebody.

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Speaker 1: Chaft I love, we have to uh, somebody's gonna have

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to reach over during the conversation with the sex therapist.

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Speaker 6: And really hard turned on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah the wait, didn't we.

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Speaker 1: Say that the choking was something that you like love,

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get it right, okay, and this is uh, now here's

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here's something that can happen without feeling like you're putting

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your hands on and possibly killing me.

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Speaker 6: You just pull the trick is you put your hands

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on the side of the neck and you put the

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pressure on the side of the neck and then you're

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like not gonna.

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Speaker 3: Over here, or you get it too, just before they

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suffocate and then let go then keep going. I can't

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believe it hasn't happened yet the last time with the

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X like they're rough.

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Speaker 5: No, not from being choked, no, but from other things.

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Speaker 6: Almost like one time like like got passed out from gagging.

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Speaker 4: From gagging like hutchins over here, yeah, like from deep throating.

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Speaker 5: Oh, gotcha and you almost.

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Speaker 6: Which I sort of like, what if?

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Speaker 3: But you can lock down? What if you locked down

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on it, like you know, only a couple of years

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she's been with I can think to do that. Definitely

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not the funniest guy in the show.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, almost passed out. Did you have to beg

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to stop or no?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 6: I didn't necessarily want.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I was myself.

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Speaker 6: I was like, just choke me like yeah, wow.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I like it apparently, And now you're gonna wear

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your dog calls.

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Speaker 1: You have to. I guarantee that comes out at home,

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the dog chain.

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Speaker 6: We'll see if you use that.

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Speaker 4: If not, when Joe's not around them, come out and

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purple Barney and dog collar.

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Speaker 6: I told Ma, I was like, I am bringing wine

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in a vibrator.

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Speaker 1: I saw the wine. Where's the vibrator control ones?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I should do.

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Speaker 6: I should hook this up to like panty uh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, vibrators, panny ones. Do you that's the way to go?

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Speaker 8: Do you?

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Speaker 4: You do have a vibrator.

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Speaker 11: With me.

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Speaker 1: In the car box?

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Speaker 6: You always have her fingers with you. You don't always

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need a vibrator.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 5: That's true. To bring him everywhere you go, Laura.

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Speaker 1: Smells like potato and sausage.

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Speaker 8: Down.

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Speaker 1: What the potato and sausage soup?

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Speaker 4: There's a little cream in there?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well we will, uh will take a moment

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and we'll get the This therapist on her name is Laura.

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She's written a book and her name is Laura hay

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Lauren Hayes, excuse me. And she has a book called

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for Better or Even Better, Seven Lessons on Love and

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Life from a non Monogamoist. Yeah, so she works with

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non snogamy. But also it's the Swinging Lifestyle Coach dot com.

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It's her website, and uh, we'll see. She said she

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actually right now currently is in Salt Lake City, Utah,

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and said you would be amazed at the alternative lifestyle here. Well,

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because I said, back, and then I remember years ago

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and since he's retired now, we've had Mormons on and

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they started and he started asking them and probing on

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questions about sex and stuff and one and they were saying, no,

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we don't we wait blah blah blah.

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Speaker 5: And then it came out they were having anal Have.

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Speaker 6: You heard about soaking?

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Speaker 10: What?

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Speaker 11: No?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait, anybody hang on before you

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say what soaking is anybody else?

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Speaker 5: No soaking?

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Speaker 3: Somebody peas on you.

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Speaker 1: But no, it just sound like that, right, that's not

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what You.

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Speaker 4: Take the alcohol and put it up the key, right?

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Speaker 5: Whoa, whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 4: You never heard about that? Well, I make you really

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drunk quick, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I hope. I would rather taste it a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You taste, I don't need you taste salad bottle. What

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is soaking?

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Speaker 6: So soaking is when Mormons do it. It's when a

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man puts his dick in a vagina and they just

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lie there. There's no movement.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you just soaking it.

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Speaker 6: And they just soak. But here's the thing. They and

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I'm not even fucking kidding with this, they pay people

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to shake the bed.

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Speaker 4: When she farts at the spa.

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Speaker 3: So you got a part time gym.

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Speaker 1: So that's why he's not here.

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Speaker 6: No, I have confirmed this.

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Speaker 1: How did you find this out?

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Speaker 6: I have a friend who's dating a Mormon guy, okay,

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and he like told us all about it.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, it's a real thing.

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Speaker 6: He's like, my religion is so fucked up that people

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truly don't think that's having sex. Yeah, it's college kids

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who do that. And then they they're people who get

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paid to shake the bed.

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Speaker 3: Well, you would have to have so that so that

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means you're not having sex. I mean that Dick is

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still in the Jewish chairs. Oh and I'm assuming they

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are fully covered if they're Mormons. When someone's shaking the bed,

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it's not like someone's watching, well soak.

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Speaker 6: I mean, there's got to be.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying underneath like blankets or something.

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Speaker 6: I guess I didn't ask that.

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Speaker 4: It's a fucking weird thing, Like I'm going how long

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the weather is?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Kevin, are you going out Friday night?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm thinking of soak.

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Speaker 1: And I need a bed shaker.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're not busy, you know, come over twenty bucks

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for beer, a couple of pizzas and some wings. Is

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Michael J.

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Speaker 4: Fox extra?

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck you?

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Speaker 6: That's horrible.

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Speaker 3: It is horrible. That is absolutely hard. It's great, Doug's

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not the funniest show's Kevin.

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Speaker 1: Oh bt B wood Fire Pizza, real map from.

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Speaker 3: But I just got to say hello, time for an advertisement.

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Speaker 4: You can soak in the in the in the back room,

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and you can soak in the back Round'll take the

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table for it.

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Speaker 1: You could soak with these uh, soak your your meatball

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grinder right into the sauce. Delicious.

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Speaker 3: That is unbelievable. That's kind of man. She makes great

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meat both. Oh my, the meatballs are great.

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Speaker 1: They're big, big meatballs. They're baseball sized.

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Speaker 3: And is it garlic bread? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then nice what kind of cheese is on there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I eat it so fast.

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Speaker 1: He took a ship.

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Speaker 3: I could eat it.

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Speaker 4: Picking it up, I had to go fork a knife.

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You took the chance with a white shirt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he.

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Speaker 6: Doesn't know what you're giving him.

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Speaker 10: No.

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Speaker 1: No, I opened it up and could see it just

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like when I cut it in half and I picked

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it up, and I go, I'm going to save the

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other half.

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Speaker 3: All of us blindfold and get stuff shoved their mouth.

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Speaker 1: It's just you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I think that's Tony. You got the fried green

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tomato slider so good.

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Speaker 6: I told Nat. I was like, I don't know if

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I've ever had them. It tastes like a BLT, like

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a lightly fried BLT.

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Speaker 8: So good.

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Speaker 6: And there's crispy bacon. So that's my thing.

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Speaker 3: Matt.

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Speaker 1: What's the soup that you were mentioning that people are just.

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Speaker 3: Raving about Tuscan sausage and potato. Yeah, that is a

478
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chicken palm soup. This for the fall to really, which

479
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is phenomenal. Good weekend with the NFL. We little little

480
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light last night for the Bills games Sunday night Sunday

481
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had he wants to come out.

482
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Speaker 1: It's hard because a little lighter than usual. But the

483
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but the other stuff was great. How was Thursday?

484
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Speaker 11: For?

485
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Speaker 3: It was jam?

486
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, Dallas kicking it off opening night is always great.

487
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,640
I thought for sure. I was really thinking Dallas was

488
00:21:54,759 --> 00:21:57,759
going to win the game. Yeah, uh.

489
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Speaker 5: Uh, they look good.

490
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:01,599
Speaker 3: You gotta have.

491
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 1: I mean, look, it's one game, like it's so early

492
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:05,960
in the season.

493
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 3: Victories here. Okay, she'll participation in one move the Giants.

494
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, well and they probably will for sure. Yeah, all right,

495
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,400
we'll take a moment and we will. Uh it's it's

496
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your segment next. I have a nice song for you too,

497
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a nice old country song just for you.

498
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510
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511
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Speaker 8: So my grandma told.

512
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Speaker 1: Me once or twice a song for you, dallly.

513
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Speaker 3: Is that all right?

514
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Speaker 12: Begain started fast with you. There's something new might help

515
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to do.

516
00:23:46,799 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 4: Home.

517
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Speaker 6: You ladies understood.

518
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Speaker 12: You mad need to lend help and help.

519
00:24:09,279 --> 00:24:11,559
Speaker 1: Nineteen seventies country was so different.

520
00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 2: I have no idea what that This is a legit song,

521
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:22,200
I would think, so, yeah, yeah, it was a hidden

522
00:24:23,039 --> 00:24:23,519
Oh my god.

523
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,799
Speaker 1: The Academy Country Music gave so many.

524
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Speaker 6: Awards to this Record of the Year obviously most likely

525
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,319
a Video of the Year, contundent Record of the.

526
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,759
Speaker 1: Year, possibly Video of the Year.

527
00:24:32,799 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 4: I don't know. I had videos in the seventies.

528
00:24:35,759 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 6: They could use your mind.

529
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: All right, Well, there you go. We've been talking about

530
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,880
swinging for a while we talked about swinging the last

531
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,359
time we were all together, and I said I would

532
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:50,640
find somebody who could talk intelligently about swinging. So I

533
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,319
had to. I searched a bunch of places in this

534
00:24:55,000 --> 00:25:00,839
one lovely intelligent person response I did myself there responded

535
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:01,200
back to.

536
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,039
Speaker 3: Me, and her name is Lauren Hayes.

537
00:25:03,559 --> 00:25:07,039
Speaker 1: She is a swinging lifestyle coach and she is the

538
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:11,680
author of for Better or Even Better, Seven Lessons on

539
00:25:11,839 --> 00:25:16,119
Love and Life from a non Monogamist. So are you

540
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,880
ready to bring her on? Do you want to start

541
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,039
with us some questions? First of all, thank you for

542
00:25:21,319 --> 00:25:22,359
taking the time to talk.

543
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 5: To us, Lauren.

544
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.

545
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:24,799
Speaker 8: Yeah, my pleasure.

546
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: So we talked a little bit before we came on

547
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,960
the podcast with her and introduced I had to introduce Laura.

548
00:25:32,079 --> 00:25:34,319
Laura has said that she is so excited she stopped

549
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,599
before she came to the podcast tonight, got Wine picked

550
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,839
up wine and claims that she has a vibrator somewhere

551
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:41,359
in her person.

552
00:25:45,559 --> 00:25:45,799
Speaker 3: Joke.

553
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 6: I made the joke that I was gonna have to

554
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,400
bring a vibrator here, but then I said I actually

555
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:56,319
didn't because you have your fingers everywhere. But I did bring.

556
00:25:56,519 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 8: I'm glad I would inspire such things.

557
00:26:00,559 --> 00:26:04,519
Speaker 1: Now, Laura is very interested. We and I had talked

558
00:26:04,559 --> 00:26:04,880
to Lauren.

559
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,039
Speaker 6: Go ahead, I feel like before we get to any

560
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,319
questions I have, we need to let Lauren explain what

561
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,079
she actually does.

562
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,839
Speaker 1: Okay, that sounds like. That sounds pretty good. Actually, because

563
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,920
it's a lifestyle swing well, apparently she is.

564
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 5: She's been, so this has been. I mean, come on,

565
00:26:21,599 --> 00:26:22,759
this is her super Bowl, right.

566
00:26:22,839 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 3: We talked about that bill.

567
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,559
Speaker 6: Years in the making of meeting on the podcast.

568
00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 5: So yeah, what what does a lifesty lifestyle swinging coach do?

569
00:26:33,319 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 8: Yeah? So at the heart of it, I am a

570
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:41,200
relationship coach, and sorry, are you getting some weird feedback

571
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,519
from my thing? I feel like I'm getting weird feedback.

572
00:26:43,559 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not going to get you.

573
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 8: I am a relationship coach. And the one thing I

574
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,880
do want to distinguish right away is because the name

575
00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:56,039
of my business is swinging lifestyle coach, there's this idea

576
00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:00,319
that I'm coaching people into being swingers or into ethical

577
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,799
non monogamy. Ethical non monogamy is a term I'm going

578
00:27:03,839 --> 00:27:06,799
to use a lot in our conversation, and I am

579
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,000
going to use a n M a lot for that,

580
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,200
just so we all know what we're talking about. Also

581
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:17,000
known as CNM, consensual monogamy or just open marriage. Lots

582
00:27:17,039 --> 00:27:21,759
of terms anyway. Yeah, So really I work with couples

583
00:27:21,839 --> 00:27:26,880
that are either interested, curious, or some people that are

584
00:27:27,039 --> 00:27:32,119
actually in the lifestyle in swinging and just having some issues.

585
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: Have you been Were you a swinger or are you

586
00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:38,200
a swinger? I am you are?

587
00:27:38,599 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 3: So how how does that like?

588
00:27:40,319 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 1: To me? That was always a tough thing. Like I

589
00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,079
can see the intrigue in doing it, but how do

590
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:49,960
you I don't know, like home, you come home and

591
00:27:50,039 --> 00:27:54,519
go like, how do you share that with the other

592
00:27:54,559 --> 00:27:55,799
person without feeling jealous?

593
00:27:56,039 --> 00:27:56,559
Speaker 5: Is my point?

594
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 8: Share what you're interested in it? This is even before

595
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:01,680
you're interested.

596
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,039
Speaker 1: Is that you mean, yeah, before you're interested. I always

597
00:28:04,039 --> 00:28:06,400
feel like somebody's more into it in the couple than

598
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,160
the other person.

599
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:11,039
Speaker 8: Would that be fair to say, Well, there's always going

600
00:28:11,079 --> 00:28:13,279
to be someone who brings it up every once in

601
00:28:13,279 --> 00:28:15,559
a while. Someone There's actually a common way that people

602
00:28:15,759 --> 00:28:20,559
will start exploring is through their own bedroom talk. So

603
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,240
they'll have a lot of talk about people watching them

604
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:28,079
or other things, and one day they kind of turn

605
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,519
to each other and they go, do we really want

606
00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:32,640
to do that in real life? And then you know,

607
00:28:32,759 --> 00:28:34,799
so it's kind of a joint venture if you will.

608
00:28:35,759 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 5: Then is watching the Gateway good guy?

609
00:28:42,359 --> 00:28:46,839
Speaker 8: Maybe? I mean not necessarily, but it's definitely a first

610
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,119
step that people can do and go to a club

611
00:28:49,359 --> 00:28:52,519
and not be participating. And that's one thing I want

612
00:28:52,519 --> 00:28:54,599
to talk about for sure, is all the different levels

613
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,039
that you can and don't have to participate.

614
00:28:58,359 --> 00:29:02,519
Speaker 6: And Laura watching to start to no, I want to

615
00:29:02,599 --> 00:29:05,640
know actually how you started into this because were you

616
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,359
a marriage counselor or.

617
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:14,519
Speaker 8: I was so like our friend Bill here, I had

618
00:29:14,559 --> 00:29:19,799
a late career transition, okay, And during COVID, I asked

619
00:29:19,839 --> 00:29:22,359
myself that question somebody did in COVID of what I

620
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,640
really want to be when I grow up and personal development,

621
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:31,000
personal growth spirituality has always been a big part of

622
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,079
my life, and so I just pivoted and made that

623
00:29:34,359 --> 00:29:38,039
my career and did coaching. At that time. We had

624
00:29:38,079 --> 00:29:41,880
already been swinging for when I started my program, I

625
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:47,119
think two years, and so that was my inspiration. Also

626
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,039
is I wanted to help people in the process that

627
00:29:50,319 --> 00:29:52,759
my husband and I sort of stumbled through and most

628
00:29:52,799 --> 00:29:56,039
people do stumble through just kind of figuring it out

629
00:29:56,079 --> 00:29:58,079
one thing at a time. But that's what I what

630
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,640
I do is I help people do it so they

631
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,839
don't like they're stumbling.

632
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 6: Okay, so I'm going to reference one of the things

633
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,160
that I feel like when I started to have like curiosity,

634
00:30:09,279 --> 00:30:13,000
I was still married but not necessarily happily, and I

635
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,160
read Esther Perel's books. Is she someone who sort of

636
00:30:17,359 --> 00:30:20,279
influenced you and realized I think.

637
00:30:20,279 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 3: Who's Esther Perrell?

638
00:30:22,799 --> 00:30:25,039
Speaker 1: By the way, the name that's like an old lady name.

639
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,799
Speaker 6: She is an old lady and she's fucking amazing, and

640
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:32,119
she was brilliant and opened my mind, like cheating isn't

641
00:30:32,119 --> 00:30:36,480
black and white, and you know, there's what works for

642
00:30:36,599 --> 00:30:39,640
one couple may not be for another couple and everything.

643
00:30:39,839 --> 00:30:42,359
So I'm just wondering if that's sort.

644
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 8: Of Yeah, she's very mainstream. She's one of the bigger

645
00:30:47,039 --> 00:30:50,839
names in the relationship world. And just so people know

646
00:30:51,119 --> 00:30:54,599
she's very mainstream. She's not, you know, like I am

647
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,240
a swinging lifele coach. She doesn't identify in that way.

648
00:30:58,119 --> 00:31:00,839
She just says a lot of things that if you know,

649
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:06,039
you know, and she's read a lot of or written

650
00:31:06,079 --> 00:31:06,920
a lot of great books.

651
00:31:07,079 --> 00:31:10,319
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, how did you get into I mean, who's I?

652
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,039
Speaker 1: I guess I'll start with that. Whose idea and your

653
00:31:13,079 --> 00:31:15,519
relationship was it to explore swinging?

654
00:31:16,599 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 8: Yeah, so this is kind of a two part story.

655
00:31:21,359 --> 00:31:24,440
At one point some friends of ours who are polyamorous

656
00:31:24,519 --> 00:31:29,039
approached me asking if we were polyamorous because they had

657
00:31:29,119 --> 00:31:32,279
interested in getting to know us better. We were not

658
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,799
at the time, and we are still not polyamorous, by

659
00:31:35,839 --> 00:31:37,480
the way. That's one thing I'm going to define a

660
00:31:37,519 --> 00:31:42,240
few things while we go through this, because its own world,

661
00:31:42,319 --> 00:31:43,519
its own language.

662
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:43,839
Speaker 5: And so.

663
00:31:45,799 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 8: Under the umbrella of ethical nominogamy, there's polyamory, which people

664
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,240
are having multiple committed emotional relationships on the other end

665
00:31:54,359 --> 00:31:56,880
of sort of swinging, which is more sex and friendship,

666
00:31:57,559 --> 00:31:59,559
and then you have everything in between.

667
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 3: Because everybody.

668
00:32:02,319 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: Because that it sounds like, so there you're in a

669
00:32:05,039 --> 00:32:07,400
committed relationship with more than one person.

670
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:13,319
Speaker 8: Yeah, so that's polyamory, and polyamory actually gets more media's

671
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:13,880
too much.

672
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:18,119
Speaker 1: I don't want that, I don't need that. Disappointed at me.

673
00:32:20,839 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 8: A lot of people are starting to equate ethical non

674
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,160
monogamy with polyamory just because polyamory is sort of out

675
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,039
in the ethers a little bit more, but in fact

676
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:32,759
not the same thing at all, as Laura is starting

677
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:35,279
to say, and well, not that they're not the same

678
00:32:35,359 --> 00:32:38,240
thing at all, they actually require a lot of the

679
00:32:38,359 --> 00:32:42,880
same skills and relationship skills to be participating in either way.

680
00:32:43,279 --> 00:32:46,079
And there's also a lot of crossover in both directions.

681
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,640
And so once you get into this E and M world,

682
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,839
there are different communities. And then also everybody is like

683
00:32:52,319 --> 00:32:55,559
defining what works for them. You know, if you're doing

684
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,640
this as a couple, you do what works for you.

685
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,440
So a lot of people don't even like to be

686
00:32:59,599 --> 00:33:01,119
put in to one of these boxes.

687
00:33:01,279 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I understand that that's like something I

688
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,240
have no interest in. I hardly have enough time to

689
00:33:07,319 --> 00:33:10,240
give to my boyfriend and children.

690
00:33:10,319 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: And this is like, in other words, hang on a second.

691
00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:16,880
Polyamory would be like, let's say you have three girlfriends. No,

692
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,799
I'm with you, and I'm with I'm with Laura and Lauren,

693
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,000
and sometimes I get your names mixed up. But uh so,

694
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,440
like I go out to dinner with you on Tuesday

695
00:33:25,519 --> 00:33:27,640
and her on Thursday, but I sleep with you Friday,

696
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:28,599
and maybe you Sunday.

697
00:33:29,559 --> 00:33:31,559
Speaker 5: Is that Yeah, I mean it could be.

698
00:33:33,559 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, where everybody comes together and it's like a snow

699
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,240
globe of humanity in there.

700
00:33:40,839 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 8: Really exactly, I will say there are aspects and we

701
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,200
can get into this later in the and M community

702
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,079
that are slightly utopian, but we will get into that

703
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:59,920
later because that's okay. But here to go back to

704
00:34:00,119 --> 00:34:02,519
my story. So, we had people approach us if we

705
00:34:02,599 --> 00:34:06,039
were polyamorous. No, we weren't, but I was super curious

706
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,519
when he asked me, and I said, you know, that's fascinating,

707
00:34:09,559 --> 00:34:12,800
so tell me all about it. So that was probably

708
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,719
about six years before my husband then did bring it

709
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,039
up again. So we both asked a lot of questions.

710
00:34:20,079 --> 00:34:22,360
It was very fascinating, but we did not have interest

711
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,199
in doing that at the time. Then about six seven

712
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,639
years later, he brought it up. Brought when I say

713
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,159
it up? He said, I feel like there's just something

714
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:33,239
more And I was like, well, I what does that

715
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,800
even mean? Like you want a girlfriend? And he's I don't,

716
00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:37,840
I don't know what it means. I don't want a girlfriend,

717
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,360
but I feel like there's something more. And that started

718
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,199
our exploration into what ended up being swinging.

719
00:34:44,679 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 1: Yeah.

720
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,679
Speaker 6: So did you start with like, I see, I'm very

721
00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,239
interested in the voyeur as a mass back like people

722
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:56,920
watching yeah, watch like yeah watching people like with my boyfriend,

723
00:34:57,039 --> 00:34:59,400
but he has absolutely no interests.

724
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:04,559
Speaker 1: So hang on, is her relationship doomed?

725
00:35:06,079 --> 00:35:06,119
Speaker 11: No?

726
00:35:06,559 --> 00:35:12,599
Speaker 6: Oh, and it's the best relationship I've ever been in.

727
00:35:13,039 --> 00:35:20,519
So that there was somebody in between my ex and

728
00:35:21,079 --> 00:35:24,599
my boyfriend that is not not a good person, but

729
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,440
like he was very like, oh, let's try this, let's see,

730
00:35:28,519 --> 00:35:31,760
you know, and so like I got really excited, and

731
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:36,880
like sexuality peaked and interest peaked, and then that ended.

732
00:35:37,039 --> 00:35:40,119
And now I'm with someone who's like, I won't send photos,

733
00:35:40,159 --> 00:35:41,519
I won't do anything like that.

734
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: Is there a way to encourage Let's let's say honestly, like,

735
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,480
if she came to you for counseling, could you coach

736
00:35:49,599 --> 00:35:52,480
up her boyfriend to say, hey.

737
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,679
Speaker 5: Just snap a photo. You don't have to look at it,

738
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,760
just snap and send.

739
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 6: No, Okay, So that actually there's no way you think somebody's.

740
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 8: Back to the exact thing I said when we opened up,

741
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,079
I said I'm a relationship coach, because otherwise people think

742
00:36:07,119 --> 00:36:08,840
I'm coaching them into.

743
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,039
Speaker 1: Oh I got you, I got you. Yeah, but I mean,

744
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:15,159
but he wants She wants that stuff, and he's not

745
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:16,800
given it to her. So how do we get him

746
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,039
to give her what she wants? That's the question.

747
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 8: We all want lots of things, and it's great that

748
00:36:23,119 --> 00:36:26,719
she's asking love it, and he might say no for

749
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:28,960
the rest of their lives, and that's all something she's

750
00:36:29,039 --> 00:36:29,880
going to have to accept.

751
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,559
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, look at that.

752
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 1: Yeah you can't for I mean, I know I will say,

753
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:39,079
all kidding aside all jokes. You cannot assert on someone.

754
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 5: You just can't.

755
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:45,199
Speaker 3: There's no no. I think it'll destroy it.

756
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,599
Speaker 1: And that's why I always wonder with this, and that's

757
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,159
my curiosity was more how do you balance it and

758
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:54,360
make it work? And it sounds like some people that

759
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,360
I've read say their relationship is way better after swinging

760
00:36:58,519 --> 00:37:02,960
because they're better at communicating and stuff, and that's weird.

761
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,519
But I would be like, you know, if I'm all

762
00:37:05,519 --> 00:37:07,920
of a sudden, we are The grocery chain around here

763
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,400
is called Wegmans. So if I'm in Wegmans and I

764
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:12,679
look up and there's I'm going to change the name

765
00:37:12,679 --> 00:37:14,960
because I almost said it, there's Tom down the aisle,

766
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,440
and I know Tom just tapped my wife two nights ago.

767
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:20,440
I don't know how to do I walk by high five.

768
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,159
I don't even know what I say to this guy.

769
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:23,280
Speaker 3: And that's me.

770
00:37:23,599 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: That's a me problem, really, right, Yeah, I mean I

771
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:29,599
would say it is. I mean, I know I couldn't

772
00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:29,920
handle it.

773
00:37:30,039 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 8: They're coming at it from someone who's uninvolved. So if

774
00:37:34,199 --> 00:37:36,599
he did actually go out with your wife, you probably

775
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:40,360
know him. You've probably had conversations with him, and or

776
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,880
you know of him through your wife and you are

777
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,840
one hundred percent okay with it, and he knows about you,

778
00:37:46,079 --> 00:37:49,639
so yes, you're gonna approach each other and have a hey,

779
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:54,119
how's it going conversation? And if you wanted to high

780
00:37:54,159 --> 00:37:56,719
five him, that probably would have happened before the time.

781
00:37:57,159 --> 00:37:58,599
Speaker 1: Well it's fair too.

782
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 6: What I say is it's like, how do I know

783
00:38:04,519 --> 00:38:07,199
what I like and what I don't like? Because I

784
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,719
haven't pushed my own boundaries enough and I've talked about that,

785
00:38:11,159 --> 00:38:14,320
but it may be something that I would actually if

786
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,599
I dip my toes in a little more. I'm so

787
00:38:17,119 --> 00:38:19,480
apprehensive to it, and I'm like, no, this isn't for me,

788
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:22,960
But there's such a curiosity and I definitely know it's

789
00:38:23,039 --> 00:38:26,639
more the voyeurism that like sex and public places, and

790
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,360
that has been around for a while.

791
00:38:28,519 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: Are you familiar with the saying curiosity kills the cat kill? Yes?

792
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,199
I think that if you're curious, are there ways how

793
00:38:39,199 --> 00:38:43,480
would you? Well, since it's called coaching, how would you

794
00:38:43,559 --> 00:38:46,119
coach someone who is curious like that if they have.

795
00:38:46,159 --> 00:38:49,039
Speaker 6: A partner, let's say, yeah, if both partners are interested

796
00:38:49,119 --> 00:38:49,280
in it.

797
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:53,559
Speaker 8: Yeah, Well, I will actually plug something that's on my website.

798
00:38:53,599 --> 00:38:56,480
I have a free guide that addresses this exact question,

799
00:38:56,559 --> 00:38:58,280
because this is probably one of the questions I get

800
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,199
the most, which is how do I bring this up

801
00:39:00,199 --> 00:39:02,920
with my partner? So the guide is called Popping the

802
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,199
E and M Question. People can go to my website.

803
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,760
It's free to download, and it just gives a lot

804
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:12,119
of pointers of how to ask someone, which is, by

805
00:39:12,199 --> 00:39:15,280
the way, not hey, this is exactly what I want

806
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,199
to do, yes or no? So because like what you

807
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,599
just said is exactly right. Even if you think you

808
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,679
have an idea of what you want to do, most

809
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:26,920
people don't really know what they want to do, and

810
00:39:27,079 --> 00:39:30,119
so it's not about bringing up a proposition. It's about

811
00:39:30,159 --> 00:39:35,119
bringing up a possibility, an exploration and you know, if

812
00:39:35,159 --> 00:39:39,480
that is appealing to someone, then then they'll go. That's

813
00:39:39,519 --> 00:39:40,840
the other thing. I get a lot. How do I

814
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,119
convince my partner? How do I convince someone? And I'm like,

815
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,760
there is no convincing. It's not the business I'm in,

816
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:50,639
that's not the business anybody's in. But it can be

817
00:39:50,679 --> 00:39:54,199
a you can start a conversation and I know people

818
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,320
that talked about it for years before ever doing anything.

819
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,960
And I know people who talk about it and four

820
00:40:01,039 --> 00:40:02,559
weeks later the club.

821
00:40:02,639 --> 00:40:08,039
Speaker 4: So you know, that's amazing, amazing, Oh my god, that's

822
00:40:08,159 --> 00:40:10,480
that's faster than getting your passport.

823
00:40:13,039 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 8: But let's talk about club actually, because this would be

824
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,760
a great step for you and your boyfriend if he

825
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,039
was interested in. The reason a swinger club is a

826
00:40:20,119 --> 00:40:25,039
great place is because I think the number one concern

827
00:40:25,599 --> 00:40:29,440
that people here around swingers or swinger club is that

828
00:40:29,519 --> 00:40:33,719
there's some level of expectation or participation that you have

829
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:36,599
to do if you're going to go to a swingar club.

830
00:40:36,679 --> 00:40:40,159
And nothing could be more far from the truth. So

831
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,039
it's like any other club. I call it front of

832
00:40:42,039 --> 00:40:44,519
the house, back of the house. Usually I have not

833
00:40:44,639 --> 00:40:46,679
been to every club, but this is generally how it goes.

834
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:51,840
So you go in there's a bar dancing, probably more

835
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,840
scantily clad people than your usual but I don't even

836
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,280
know if I would say that. And then usually play

837
00:40:58,519 --> 00:41:01,679
play equal sex hows in the back of the house.

838
00:41:02,159 --> 00:41:05,960
And so then if you were feeling it, you would

839
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:08,679
go back with your partner and that is where you

840
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,800
could just watch or just play the two of you

841
00:41:13,039 --> 00:41:15,760
and have people watch you if that's also what you wanted,

842
00:41:16,079 --> 00:41:19,639
and that just would happen sort of naturally. Do you

843
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,039
want to get your vibrator out yet?

844
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 6: I'm talking on that. I'm talking on the netlast because

845
00:41:25,639 --> 00:41:29,199
I'm so I'm going to Toronto in a couple of

846
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:33,280
weeks and there is a club there that owass and

847
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,519
I'm very I have a friend who actually went and

848
00:41:36,639 --> 00:41:39,559
experienced it with her husband and she had a very

849
00:41:39,639 --> 00:41:43,159
good time. And I'm like, oh, I really want to go,

850
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:49,079
but okay, but he has no interest. But I do

851
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,119
have another girlfriend who I think she wants to go,

852
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,840
but her boyfriend would absolutely not even allow her to.

853
00:41:56,519 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 1: Like, but you can't control, see, that's the stuff is

854
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:02,360
like then I think they always leads to regret, yeah, right,

855
00:42:02,599 --> 00:42:06,599
or you start to I don't know you're mad at

856
00:42:06,639 --> 00:42:06,960
the person.

857
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,559
Speaker 6: I feel like Joe would trust me if I wanted

858
00:42:09,599 --> 00:42:12,679
to go alone, to not actually hook up with anyone,

859
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,800
but just to watch, and he'd be like, go have fun,

860
00:42:16,039 --> 00:42:17,320
like you'll still come home to me.

861
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know.

862
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,519
Speaker 4: Would Joe be okay with you hooking up with a

863
00:42:21,599 --> 00:42:22,920
girl and not a guy.

864
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,119
Speaker 6: I have no interest in. I think women are beautiful.

865
00:42:28,119 --> 00:42:29,920
I'd rather go to a female strip club than a

866
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,159
male strip club, but I have no interest in.

867
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:33,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

868
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, Well from what I hear, you're not even interested

869
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,760
in hooking up. You're just wanting to watch or be watched.

870
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:39,079
Speaker 1: Yeah.

871
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 3: More so, how does the conversation go?

872
00:42:42,079 --> 00:42:45,039
Speaker 1: Because I have to say this, it had to be

873
00:42:45,159 --> 00:42:49,400
kind of flattering to you, Lauren, that this neighbor comes

874
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:55,880
along and goes, hey, uh a lot to get to

875
00:42:56,039 --> 00:42:59,239
know you. I mean that if nothing else, Like I've

876
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,599
had gay men hit on me and I go, I'm flattered.

877
00:43:02,119 --> 00:43:03,480
You got a lot of choices in life.

878
00:43:03,679 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 4: You know you want my hairy hal and now he's

879
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:07,639
got a beard. Well you know what I'm saying.

880
00:43:08,679 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: No, But my point is I think it's flattering. But

881
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:16,000
the conversation is, well, you gotta have some I'll say

882
00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:19,039
the word confidence, and I always believe this, Like people go, well,

883
00:43:19,079 --> 00:43:22,239
I have a lack of confidence, and I'll say back

884
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,719
to them, sometimes you're pretty confident in the fact that

885
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,000
you have lack of confidence.

886
00:43:27,159 --> 00:43:29,039
Speaker 5: So you do have confidence, it's just not in the

887
00:43:29,159 --> 00:43:29,679
right spot.

888
00:43:30,119 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 3: So how do we get that? But that does take some.

889
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,559
Speaker 1: Because there is a chance of rejection or someone being

890
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:39,880
like offended or whatever.

891
00:43:41,039 --> 00:43:44,679
Speaker 8: Ye to do that, absolutely, So first of all, I

892
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:48,079
was extremely flattered. And when I went home and told

893
00:43:48,199 --> 00:43:50,159
my husband because I had gone out with this guy

894
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,000
for coffee. When I went home and told my husband,

895
00:43:52,639 --> 00:43:56,800
he was also intrigued. I don't know what the word is,

896
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,880
but yeah, we're both like turned on.

897
00:44:00,039 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 6: People find my way.

898
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: They had sex immediately after this conversation.

899
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:09,199
Speaker 8: Yeah, we did. Like a week our sex life was

900
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:13,440
just like notched up, just from the energy of somebody else.

901
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,159
Speaker 1: You know what this is like when those shitty books

902
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:22,599
came out, what was this shitty book, Fifty Shades of Gray.

903
00:44:22,639 --> 00:44:27,559
I'm sorry they were terribly written. My max wife, right,

904
00:44:27,679 --> 00:44:31,199
but every guy who's ex ex wife, every guy's wife

905
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,000
read them or boy seemed to have that week of

906
00:44:34,199 --> 00:44:36,440
notched up sex because it was all, well.

907
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 6: He's very controlling and I love being dominated, so it

908
00:44:39,559 --> 00:44:41,079
was you know a lot of things like that.

909
00:44:41,639 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 1: We are learning so much tonight, you guys, are you

910
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:46,719
know I don't remember the domination anybody else?

911
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 8: Yes, those books which I have not read, by the way,

912
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:56,880
But that is bordering on the kink community or more kink.

913
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,519
Now there is a big overlap between the a swinging

914
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:05,480
community or in m community and king but they are.

915
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 4: Not the same.

916
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,159
Speaker 1: Just to be clear, much better, let me ask you

917
00:45:09,599 --> 00:45:11,800
this and and this is going to be dominant. I

918
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,039
hope I'm not sounding too stupid to everybody in the room.

919
00:45:14,119 --> 00:45:19,119
But it's the term ethical non monogamy. Can we get

920
00:45:19,199 --> 00:45:24,519
rid of ethical because because it's almost it's to say

921
00:45:24,559 --> 00:45:28,320
that nom moinogamy is is not ethical? And whose decision

922
00:45:28,599 --> 00:45:31,480
is is it that it isn't or isn't ethical? Do

923
00:45:31,519 --> 00:45:32,360
you understand what I'm saying.

924
00:45:33,039 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 8: I understand what you're saying. In the community, we do

925
00:45:35,159 --> 00:45:37,360
we do drop it. We just call it non monogamy

926
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:41,639
because we already have a term for unethical non monogamy,

927
00:45:41,679 --> 00:45:45,679
which is cheating and affairs. So yeah, so for us,

928
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,320
it is an assumed word. But when i'm.

929
00:45:52,599 --> 00:45:55,159
Speaker 3: So you you swing you don't.

930
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 1: You're not in the polyamorous, which would be dating somebody else,

931
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,880
and you're not are you? You're not in an open marriage.

932
00:46:04,199 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 8: I mean some people would call us open. Yeah, okay,

933
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,639
So I mean open is kind of just another generic chart.

934
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,639
Speaker 1: Well, I'm picturing myself laying in my boxers on the

935
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:15,679
couch watching Monday night football and that hair comes my wife,

936
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,679
hair curled, all make up up. All right, I'll see

937
00:46:18,679 --> 00:46:18,960
you later.

938
00:46:19,119 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 3: John's picked me up in a half hour. And I

939
00:46:21,079 --> 00:46:22,239
would that would weird.

940
00:46:22,039 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 5: Me out a little bit.

941
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 8: I don't know, Yeah, that would weird you out if

942
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:26,519
you weren't.

943
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 5: In the lifestyle. See, this is the thing, is like,

944
00:46:29,639 --> 00:46:30,679
I don't think I could do that.

945
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,599
Speaker 8: Yeah, this is a very conscious choice that you make

946
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:34,559
going into this.

947
00:46:35,159 --> 00:46:37,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's got to be a conscious choice.

948
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 3: What do you think so far?

949
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 8: Are you?

950
00:46:38,599 --> 00:46:40,760
Speaker 6: I'm just I'm listening. I'm taking it all in.

951
00:46:41,199 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean not the first time she said that today?

952
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that. I mean, do you have any like,

953
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:53,199
is there anything that scares you about it?

954
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 8: No?

955
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 6: I mean that's the thing is, I'm not scared. I think, like,

956
00:46:57,679 --> 00:47:02,559
as I've talked about like divorce, dating, coming to age,

957
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,519
like you know, turning forty. I'm confident in what my

958
00:47:06,639 --> 00:47:10,360
curiosity is and I'm not ashamed of it like I

959
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,760
think most people are. I think I think so many

960
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:18,559
people are curious as to something outside of their marriage relationship,

961
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:22,039
but nobody talks about it. And I just talk about it.

962
00:47:22,199 --> 00:47:23,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, but I won't.

963
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 6: I won't do anything without.

964
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 1: Yes, which I think it's a relationship. Coach Lauren would

965
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:32,840
say that that's probably the healthiest thing you can do.

966
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,119
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, is that?

967
00:47:34,559 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 1: But even the other it seems weird, but it's just

968
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,719
people having sex. So in other words, I'm going to

969
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:42,920
be sound a little crass here.

970
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 8: It's a fuck buddy, it's friends with benefits is a.

971
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:57,119
Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, you're right, whatever you want benefits, you're right, okay.

972
00:47:57,840 --> 00:47:59,800
Speaker 8: And okay. So that's one thing I actually do want

973
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:04,400
to distinguished because that's another stereotype, is that this is

974
00:48:04,519 --> 00:48:06,800
all about sex and only sex, and we're walking in

975
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,840
and just fucking people, and you know, it is not

976
00:48:11,159 --> 00:48:13,239
what it is. So it is, like I said, it's

977
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:16,079
any other club. You people are talking and mingling and

978
00:48:16,199 --> 00:48:22,920
meeting and you know, I want to use your very words,

979
00:48:23,159 --> 00:48:25,719
either for you against you. I don't know which built

980
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:28,599
But you said that you are curious about people and

981
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:34,400
that people love connection. Yes, yes, people love connection, and

982
00:48:34,519 --> 00:48:37,199
that is why in the lifestyle, and I said, things

983
00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:40,119
start to get a little utopian because this is a

984
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:47,440
community which is so open minded, open just sexually uh

985
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:52,039
body positive, sex positive. It's like a really fun crowd.

986
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:56,280
So a lot of people participate. When I say participate

987
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,440
in the lifestyle, they're not having sex with other people.

988
00:49:00,039 --> 00:49:03,559
A lot of them they just like the scene because

989
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:08,920
it is non judgmental fun. Would you it's safe?

990
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 3: Yeah?

991
00:49:09,519 --> 00:49:12,679
Speaker 1: Would you start like almost, let's say, making out with

992
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,519
somebody and then move on, not move on to somebody else,

993
00:49:15,559 --> 00:49:17,599
but go back to your partner, And I don't know,

994
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,079
it sounds like I'm not sure if you would.

995
00:49:21,119 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 3: I'm asking.

996
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 8: Like, if you're at a club and you create a

997
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:33,599
connection connection and you decide to make out and that's

998
00:49:33,679 --> 00:49:38,079
within the boundaries of your own relationship, then yes, you

999
00:49:38,159 --> 00:49:40,119
might make out with somebody else.

1000
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:43,519
Speaker 1: Would you, and then would you be open telling us

1001
00:49:43,599 --> 00:49:46,199
what the boundaries are kind of in your relationship as

1002
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,079
an example or no?

1003
00:49:47,559 --> 00:49:49,119
Speaker 5: You know, I don't I don't want to try.

1004
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: Too much, but no, sure, okay.

1005
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,639
Speaker 8: And this is the thing. So like, boundaries and agreements

1006
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:58,800
are very important, and also they change constantly, so people

1007
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,800
create generally a lot of them in the beginning because

1008
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:04,079
these are our safety nets to go into something that

1009
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,679
is something that we don't know about, and then they

1010
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,079
change immediately. So I would say, you know, my husband

1011
00:50:11,079 --> 00:50:13,480
and I have been this for seven years, so we

1012
00:50:13,559 --> 00:50:16,000
don't have a lot, but we don't do We've gone

1013
00:50:16,119 --> 00:50:19,840
in different stages currently. We don't do a lot of

1014
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,800
dating separately because swingers can date together and swingers can

1015
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,280
date separately. It's kind of two models, and we don't

1016
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,000
do a ton of that right now. We have in

1017
00:50:29,079 --> 00:50:32,320
the past. It all depends on sort of where you

1018
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,039
are in your relationship too, so or where life is.

1019
00:50:35,119 --> 00:50:38,000
If life gets stressful in other areas, people will kind

1020
00:50:38,039 --> 00:50:40,679
of back off and maybe do less in the lifestyle

1021
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:46,079
or whatever. But but so our other agreements and boundaries

1022
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:50,159
are I mean, we just we go out together, so

1023
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,280
we know what's happening with each other at all times,

1024
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:57,480
so it's a little easier. But we we make out

1025
00:50:57,519 --> 00:51:00,800
with other people, we generate, you know, if we're making

1026
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,760
a great connection. Sex is generally on the table, but

1027
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,480
we check with each other first and make sure everybody's

1028
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,920
there's a four way match, freeway match or whatever.

1029
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,679
Speaker 1: So okay, so these things do get Do you have

1030
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:17,960
a couple, a regular couple that you swing with on

1031
00:51:18,079 --> 00:51:21,119
a let's say, I don't know Friday night, you call

1032
00:51:21,159 --> 00:51:22,880
them up, Hey, what are you guys doing tonight?

1033
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:27,639
Speaker 8: And then no, we have very good friends in the lifestyle.

1034
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:32,320
And when I said that swinging is about sex and friendship,

1035
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,800
I think that's the thing that surprises people is that

1036
00:51:35,559 --> 00:51:38,079
people come for the sex and they stay for the friendship.

1037
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,239
And so a lot of people are afraid of making

1038
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:44,320
friends in the beginning because they're like, I don't know

1039
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:48,400
how that works, mixing sex and friendship. And it works, Lauren,

1040
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,559
I'm going to tell you it works, and people just.

1041
00:51:52,039 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 1: Lauren, you need to make that a T shirt.

1042
00:51:55,079 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: Come for the sex, stay.

1043
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 5: For the friendship. I think that right there, right there

1044
00:51:59,679 --> 00:52:00,400
does at all.

1045
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: Because I would think that if you did have friends

1046
00:52:03,519 --> 00:52:06,320
like that, that if something happened then you had kids

1047
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,000
and all of a sudden you were in a pinch,

1048
00:52:08,079 --> 00:52:10,199
you could call them up and say, can I drop

1049
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,280
off billy for a little while.

1050
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,159
Speaker 5: Just hide your toys, it's coming over.

1051
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:16,039
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1052
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,519
Speaker 1: I think that's interesting that that would be that way.

1053
00:52:19,599 --> 00:52:22,440
And do other couples have other couples ever gotten jealous

1054
00:52:22,519 --> 00:52:24,119
or have you gotten jealous of a couple going on?

1055
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:25,559
They're off with those people tonight?

1056
00:52:26,079 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 4: What about us?

1057
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 8: Well, okay, let's just talk about jealousy in general, because

1058
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,239
that's probably one of the biggest questions that also comes up,

1059
00:52:33,639 --> 00:52:36,559
which is, of course we feel jealous in different situations,

1060
00:52:36,599 --> 00:52:39,400
whether it's jealousy about our partner or fomo or like

1061
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,920
you know, there's many flavors of jealousy. And does it

1062
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,840
come up for us. Hell, yes, And so everyone thinks

1063
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,119
that we have this like superpower that we're not jealous.

1064
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,199
It's just that we have a different relationship with jealousy,

1065
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:56,519
I would say, than most people. And we just accept it, like, oh,

1066
00:52:57,199 --> 00:52:59,000
you know, I'm feeling jealous about that, and we may

1067
00:52:59,119 --> 00:53:01,119
or may not talk to partner about it. If we

1068
00:53:01,199 --> 00:53:03,840
are feeling particularly jealous, it might be a great conversation

1069
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:06,599
to have with our partner. And sometimes we're just like,

1070
00:53:06,639 --> 00:53:08,639
oh my god, I was you know, I drank too

1071
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:09,960
much that night. I was silly.

1072
00:53:10,079 --> 00:53:10,320
Speaker 4: I'm not.

1073
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,519
Speaker 8: You know, that's nothing. We don't need to talk about that.

1074
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:20,119
So it's really like a relationship with jealousy itself, is

1075
00:53:20,199 --> 00:53:20,800
what I would say.

1076
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 6: Jealousy can be hot though. Yeah, yeah, in my opinion, yeah,

1077
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:27,239
I like that.

1078
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 8: I like that angle.

1079
00:53:28,599 --> 00:53:32,599
Speaker 6: I get very turned on if my boyfriend gets hit on,

1080
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,719
you know, And I'm like, oh, yeah, you know, like

1081
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:38,519
you said with your ex hus were with your husband.

1082
00:53:38,679 --> 00:53:41,599
But yeah, I'm going to ask a very superficial question.

1083
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:43,599
Speaker 8: Sure I am.

1084
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 6: So, you know, I think the club would be the

1085
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:50,960
scene that I would want to go into. My worry

1086
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,400
is and I'm going to say this is that I'm

1087
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,480
going to walk in and it's going to be.

1088
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,599
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I say that.

1089
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:05,599
Speaker 6: I just want to say the smell, like Jesus no,

1090
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,599
that's why she just told them. I know it's not

1091
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:11,480
it's body positive, but I'm afraid that, like, is there

1092
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,360
going to be a smell or is there.

1093
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:15,039
Speaker 8: Smell like sex in the club.

1094
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 6: Like that's when I'm like, you know, I fetch.

1095
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,159
Speaker 5: People in the corner with ballags in their mouth and.

1096
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, now.

1097
00:54:24,159 --> 00:54:25,679
Speaker 8: You're getting into the kink world again.

1098
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,519
Speaker 6: That's not Yeah, yeah, I guess I'm thinking, yeah, no,

1099
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,760
I'm getting you know, and maybe maybe that's why, like

1100
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,880
I don't know, that's why maybe I have just kept

1101
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:39,519
it a fantasy because it's like so hot to think about, Like,

1102
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:45,400
but what if just you know, your expectations are a

1103
00:54:45,519 --> 00:54:48,519
lot higher, then it's a big letdown.

1104
00:54:49,079 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 8: It's like, yeah, I mean that is a thing. A

1105
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,159
lot of people will have those conversations because they're like,

1106
00:54:54,199 --> 00:54:57,039
we have all these fantasies, and lots of people will

1107
00:54:57,119 --> 00:54:59,440
also decide to keep it as fantasy because they just

1108
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,519
don't want to take the steps, or you know, they

1109
00:55:01,679 --> 00:55:03,800
ultimately decide they don't want to do that. But it

1110
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,719
is very much how these ideas start. So and to

1111
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:12,360
answer your question, like I said, uh, swinger clubs are

1112
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,400
not created equal. They're everywhere. I don't know the one

1113
00:55:15,519 --> 00:55:18,559
in particular that you're going to. I've been to some

1114
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:22,119
really nice swinger clubs. I've been to some less nice

1115
00:55:22,119 --> 00:55:26,039
swinger clubs, and none of them, I will say, have

1116
00:55:26,159 --> 00:55:30,760
smelled like sex the minute you enter the door. Now

1117
00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:32,800
when you get to the backroom, Like I'm just talking

1118
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:35,119
about what's up?

1119
00:55:36,119 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 4: Let me say, what's going to happen if Laura goes

1120
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,119
and it's a giant disappointment Joe.

1121
00:55:40,119 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 6: Just like you. Then I'll just go home and have

1122
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:48,360
sex with him, like I know, no lose proposition.

1123
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 8: Whether she likes her, she doesn't like that she goes

1124
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:53,119
home and has sex with her boyfriend. And that's actually

1125
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:57,280
a really great point about swinging in general. Is we

1126
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,159
all sort of like joke but not joke that like,

1127
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,480
no matter what happens in an evening, we go home

1128
00:56:02,559 --> 00:56:05,360
with our favorite people. So this is fun.

1129
00:56:05,599 --> 00:56:10,119
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll ask this again, probably superficial a little bit,

1130
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:12,599
but do you think that because I'm thinking, like, the

1131
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:18,199
first time you swing with somebody awkward? Was it awkward?

1132
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 11: Yes?

1133
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1134
00:56:20,079 --> 00:56:22,280
Speaker 8: There's a couple of things you sign up for in

1135
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,920
this world. One is rejection. We started to hit on

1136
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:28,440
rejection earlier. Two is awkward. You will probably have some

1137
00:56:28,559 --> 00:56:31,960
situations that feel awkward, but you know, a big deal

1138
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:33,639
you you work here with you.

1139
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:38,400
Speaker 1: And then the other is, as you get more comfortable

1140
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:41,039
with this or maybe you get more comfortable with another

1141
00:56:41,199 --> 00:56:45,280
person in particular, does that make your overall sex life better?

1142
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,840
Are you more open to trying different things satisfying and

1143
00:56:49,039 --> 00:56:52,360
really in it for the personal pleasure? Of the experience

1144
00:56:52,519 --> 00:56:55,519
than worrying about am I satisfying this person?

1145
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,519
Speaker 3: Do they really you know? What are they really here for?

1146
00:56:58,840 --> 00:56:58,960
Is it?

1147
00:56:59,119 --> 00:57:01,280
Speaker 1: It's almost sounds freeing when you're talking.

1148
00:57:03,039 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 8: It is freeing. I would I am like everybody does

1149
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,599
anything for personal pleasure. By the way, we wouldn't be

1150
00:57:09,679 --> 00:57:11,760
doing it if it wasn't for personal pressure. What you're

1151
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,239
insinuating is you're putting your own pleasure ahead of your partners,

1152
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:19,079
which I would say is not true, or if you are,

1153
00:57:19,559 --> 00:57:24,480
that might be a dynamic that you're looking at. And yes,

1154
00:57:24,639 --> 00:57:27,599
it is very freeing. So that when I said, people

1155
00:57:28,039 --> 00:57:31,639
become attracted to the community because you can be self

1156
00:57:31,719 --> 00:57:35,840
expressed sexual. You can get turned on and you know,

1157
00:57:36,199 --> 00:57:38,199
go home and have the wildest sex of your life

1158
00:57:38,239 --> 00:57:39,280
and there's no judgment.

1159
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 3: Now.

1160
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,559
Speaker 8: So the other thing that does come up for people

1161
00:57:43,159 --> 00:57:46,880
is shame. So we live in a culture that has

1162
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:50,320
been telling us. And I loved her little spiel earlier

1163
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,920
when she was like, this is my fantasy and after

1164
00:57:53,039 --> 00:57:55,320
our a divorce and all these things, this is I'm

1165
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:59,360
owning it. Yes, I wish more people did, and I

1166
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,480
wish we talked about it more, and I wish more

1167
00:58:01,519 --> 00:58:04,960
people were able to. I mean, what is the saddest

1168
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,119
thing to me is people don't even talk to their

1169
00:58:07,159 --> 00:58:08,880
partners about their fantasies.

1170
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 6: Oh, I sure do.

1171
00:58:13,079 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: And so, but when it comes to shame, like, I'd

1172
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:18,880
be afraid, Like, you know, all of a sudden, I

1173
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,400
go in and I look over and I see a

1174
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:24,199
guy who's got a baby's arm for a penis, and

1175
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,559
I'm standing there with my Irish self. I would I

1176
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:31,199
would be so humiliated. I don't think I could get

1177
00:58:31,239 --> 00:58:33,519
it up. I'm not kidding. I would be like, oh god,

1178
00:58:34,719 --> 00:58:38,559
And I know that sounds like childish, juvenile. I mean,

1179
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,199
it's my fifteen year old self coming out, but I'm

1180
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:42,079
just being honest.

1181
00:58:43,039 --> 00:58:45,679
Speaker 8: Well, bodies come in many sizes.

1182
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but they're I'd be afraid, like, you know, just

1183
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:51,519
because he's slum doesn't mean he's good.

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00:58:52,119 --> 00:58:52,519
Speaker 1: That's true.

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00:58:52,639 --> 00:58:57,599
Speaker 8: Well, yeah, exactly. And also, this is another fear that

1186
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,559
does come up. It's like, well, what if my partner

1187
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,360
likes sex with so and so more than me? And

1188
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,280
I'm like, well, isn't that kind of a good thing

1189
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:06,760
to know? Like don't you want to up your own

1190
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,239
sex life if you know, going out with this one

1191
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:12,440
other person? One time is better having sex with you

1192
00:59:12,559 --> 00:59:16,079
at home. So these are the conversations that get sparked

1193
00:59:16,159 --> 00:59:19,880
and can be very healthy and very healthy for a relationship.

1194
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,880
So not just about the sex, but about all these

1195
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:26,760
things that we're talking about that might have felt difficult

1196
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:29,920
to talk about before, and when you have difficult conversations

1197
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:33,480
with your partner, that actually has you feel closer. And

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00:59:33,559 --> 00:59:36,079
that's the name of my book, for Better or even Better,

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00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:40,039
because there is not anyone who practices non monogamy in

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00:59:40,119 --> 00:59:44,719
a healthy way and doesn't say that it improves their relationship.

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00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 1: Swinging lifestyle coach dot com is that where you can

1202
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:48,880
buy the book.

1203
00:59:50,239 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 8: Yeah, I have links for everything on all the guides

1204
00:59:53,199 --> 00:59:54,320
the book. Everything is there.

1205
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:54,599
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1206
00:59:55,079 --> 00:59:57,599
Speaker 5: And eventually the T shirt that said came for the sex,

1207
00:59:57,639 --> 00:59:58,559
stayed for the friendship.

1208
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:01,320
Speaker 8: I I'm getting on that.

1209
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:03,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really should be.

1210
01:00:03,159 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 5: A thing in your swag shop.

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01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:05,599
Speaker 4: I kind of like it.

1212
01:00:06,079 --> 01:00:12,079
Speaker 5: Well, Lauren, I thank you for your time. Any other questions, I.

1213
01:00:12,159 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 6: Mean many, but what we've got a process?

1214
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: I feel like, what do you mean process?

1215
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:16,880
Speaker 8: What?

1216
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,840
Speaker 6: No, I'm just I'm very intrigued. All we all know that,

1217
01:00:21,159 --> 01:00:25,480
And yeah, I just I think that it's nice that

1218
01:00:25,760 --> 01:00:30,440
there are resources that you can look to, like Lauren,

1219
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,159
if you really want to push it again. I don't

1220
01:00:32,199 --> 01:00:33,840
know if it is just a fantasy for me, but

1221
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:37,119
if I really really wanted to explore I probably would

1222
01:00:37,199 --> 01:00:39,159
try to talk to someone about how would I bring

1223
01:00:39,239 --> 01:00:39,559
it up to?

1224
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:41,599
Speaker 1: What is who does it?

1225
01:00:41,719 --> 01:00:45,519
Speaker 5: Who is more curious or who usually starts this dynamic?

1226
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 6: Men or women?

1227
01:00:46,519 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, a in a relationship. Why do I get the

1228
01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,079
feeld it might be women because I was thinking it

1229
01:00:51,199 --> 01:00:53,599
was dudes. I really did think, oh, yeah, it's dudes

1230
01:00:53,679 --> 01:00:57,559
going hey. But I'm starting to think no, it's not.

1231
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,119
It's women, and it's for lightly different reasons than we

1232
01:01:01,159 --> 01:01:02,840
would even think as guys.

1233
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,199
Speaker 8: Well, I don't know the stats, but I would say

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01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:11,880
in my simple world, it's about half half okay that

1235
01:01:12,039 --> 01:01:14,239
are bringing up It's pretty equal. But I think that

1236
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,280
stat already is surprising to people because I think most

1237
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,679
people do think it's guys bringing it up.

1238
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:20,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think so too.

1239
01:01:21,519 --> 01:01:24,239
Speaker 1: All right, Well, check out Swinging lifestyle coach dot com.

1240
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,079
I think that there's a future zoom session and.

1241
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna go follow her on Instagram right now.

1242
01:01:31,199 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 5: Follow her on Instagram. Good stuff on there.

1243
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,599
Speaker 8: Yeah, I do free consults so wonderful. Go to my

1244
01:01:36,679 --> 01:01:37,519
website sign up.

1245
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 5: All right, well for what you ask for.

1246
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 3: Getting a lot of free consent.

1247
01:01:45,079 --> 01:01:48,199
Speaker 5: Thank you for coming on, and please go buy the book.

1248
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,760
And if you're curious, I think this is a great

1249
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,320
place to start, a great resource.

1250
01:01:52,679 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 3: Thank you, Lauren.

1251
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:55,519
Speaker 8: Yeah, thanks for having me on.

1252
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:56,239
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1253
01:01:56,519 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: All right, by bye there she goes, Sorry, We'll take

1254
01:01:59,519 --> 01:02:03,000
a moment. I have, uh, you know that website that

1255
01:02:03,079 --> 01:02:06,400
you love so much? Which one are we banging the same?

1256
01:02:06,519 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 3: Dude?

1257
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 5: Oh, somebody sent me some stuff about somebody on there.

1258
01:02:09,559 --> 01:02:10,639
Speaker 4: Not somebody we know, but.

1259
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,480
Speaker 1: Maybe hang on a second. I forget who's in the room.

1260
01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,679
The guy who knows a lot of you know a

1261
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,000
lot of people. You know a lot of people. Yeah,

1262
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:20,519
so I don't know if you're familiar with it's somebody

1263
01:02:20,559 --> 01:02:23,280
on the west side happens to be a chiropractor.

1264
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:24,559
Speaker 4: Oh I saw that.

1265
01:02:26,079 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 6: I saw well, hold on, I saw it when it

1266
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,079
was quickly posted and then it was like that it

1267
01:02:30,239 --> 01:02:30,599
was gone.

1268
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1269
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: Well, someone's screen captured it and sent it and we'll

1270
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,920
get into it right after this. Have you been to

1271
01:02:36,000 --> 01:02:38,039
Leo's Bakery and Deli in East Rochester recently?

1272
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 3: Oh, you got to get there.

1273
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 1: They're open every day, so it's very convenient. It'll satisfy

1274
01:02:42,519 --> 01:02:44,400
your sweet tooth, your sandwich cravings.

1275
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:45,199
Speaker 3: Get the Cubano.

1276
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: Tell them Billified said to have the Cubano sandwich, fresh

1277
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:53,400
baked bread, hand crafted pastries, deli favorites, and desserts like

1278
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,719
Canoli's that'll make your rethink your self control. It's all

1279
01:02:57,000 --> 01:03:01,440
waiting for you. So what's the best thing about leo Everything?

1280
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:04,800
Check them out a Deskbats drive in East Rochester. Because

1281
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,639
every day is a good day for Leo's. Because the

1282
01:03:07,679 --> 01:03:12,039
best thing about Leo's is everything. Connorson Ferris handles workers' comp,

1283
01:03:12,159 --> 01:03:16,679
social security, disability and personal injury cases. Listen, I get it.

1284
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:20,440
Workers' comp claims can be a real pain, but Connors

1285
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:23,880
and Ferris are here to fight for you and get

1286
01:03:24,039 --> 01:03:27,480
you the compensation you deserve. Whether you threw out your

1287
01:03:27,559 --> 01:03:29,480
back on the job, slipped when you should a grip,

1288
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:33,880
or your boss thinks overtime means free labor. Spoiler, it doesn't.

1289
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,159
They've got your back at Connors and Ferris, with offices

1290
01:03:37,199 --> 01:03:40,599
in New York City, Syracuse, Rochester, and Buffalo. They're the

1291
01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:45,559
go to team for getting the compensation you deserve. No gimmicks,

1292
01:03:45,639 --> 01:03:50,599
no nonsense, just real results. Call connorson Ferris two six'

1293
01:03:50,679 --> 01:03:54,320
to two. Comp that's two six' two Comp for Connors.

1294
01:03:54,599 --> 01:04:11,119
And ferris that's what you're saying when you give the

1295
01:04:11,239 --> 01:04:12,280
fuck baby.

1296
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:15,519
Speaker 3: More than meets.

1297
01:04:15,599 --> 01:04:19,039
Speaker 13: The EYE that i can put the big wng wor

1298
01:04:21,079 --> 01:04:25,880
you got something goo know down AND don't i can.

1299
01:04:26,039 --> 01:04:39,159
Speaker 14: DO intead i guess you, an Mister but i'm dying,

1300
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:41,199
To see so show it.

1301
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:41,719
Speaker 8: To me.

1302
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,360
Speaker 3: Whip whip your dick.

1303
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:53,639
Speaker 1: OUT baby i just have to SEE what. I want

1304
01:04:53,639 --> 01:04:56,000
a lawyer what he. Went home this Is called whip

1305
01:04:56,079 --> 01:05:00,119
your Dick. Out man nineteen seventy song By Ro to

1306
01:05:00,239 --> 01:05:03,239
hardcot wrote A car.

1307
01:05:03,239 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 6: Hardcut Wrote a hardcot clip your whip your.

1308
01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: Dick, up.

1309
01:05:13,679 --> 01:05:17,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, mm hmmm oh, MY god i.

1310
01:05:17,119 --> 01:05:20,039
Speaker 5: Love, it yeah there. You go there's. Some stuff so

1311
01:05:20,159 --> 01:05:22,360
somebody sent me all this stuff On the.

1312
01:05:24,039 --> 01:05:28,239
Speaker 1: Are we dating the? Same guy rochester? Dot com and

1313
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:33,840
apparently somebody somebody WROTE, and i OF course. I can't

1314
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:35,800
i don't, have ACCESS so i can't go look at this.

1315
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:39,440
Stuff MYSELF but i thought it sounded like maybe A.

1316
01:05:39,559 --> 01:05:44,280
Bitter x but she lists that this guy is a

1317
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:48,719
chiropractor and that anybody else.

1318
01:05:50,679 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 3: Have sex with. The chiropractor let me SEE if i

1319
01:05:53,599 --> 01:05:53,760
have it.

1320
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:55,199
Speaker 4: RIGHT here i would love to know if your new

1321
01:05:55,239 --> 01:05:57,000
lady friend that's checks you out on THERE yet.

1322
01:05:58,599 --> 01:05:58,639
Speaker 10: I.

1323
01:05:58,960 --> 01:06:00,440
Speaker 6: SAW it i forget?

1324
01:06:00,519 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 3: What day?

1325
01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:03,360
Speaker 1: You know that's an INTERESTING question i should, have, asked

1326
01:06:03,360 --> 01:06:06,119
Actually because i've never been. On, there, yeah okay so

1327
01:06:06,360 --> 01:06:10,039
they show the guy and it's Chiropractor In. North childly

1328
01:06:11,079 --> 01:06:13,079
has he had sex with you during?

1329
01:06:13,159 --> 01:06:13,960
Speaker 3: An appointment to?

1330
01:06:15,039 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 9: Come on?

1331
01:06:15,960 --> 01:06:16,159
Speaker 7: Come?

1332
01:06:16,199 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 3: ON yeah, I know i. Don't KNOW sometimes i agree.

1333
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,280
With you it's somebody's. Just bitter.

1334
01:06:22,639 --> 01:06:26,079
Speaker 1: This Is what. I'm wondering so that WAS what. I

1335
01:06:26,199 --> 01:06:30,199
thought and can you pass? This down matt knows a lot.

1336
01:06:30,199 --> 01:06:31,960
Of people just take a look at the just. TO

1337
01:06:32,039 --> 01:06:35,239
see i don't it doesn't say the. Guy's name did it?

1338
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:35,679
Go dark?

1339
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 8: You?

1340
01:06:36,119 --> 01:06:38,480
Speaker 1: Lost, oh here come back to Me and i'll SEE

1341
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:39,840
if i can. GET it i just want to See

1342
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,119
if matt would know, the person because.

1343
01:06:43,599 --> 01:06:44,159
Speaker 3: What day was?

1344
01:06:44,199 --> 01:06:45,719
Speaker 6: It posted is It?

1345
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:49,039
Speaker 1: LIKE saturday i guess somebody showed me send it, to

1346
01:06:49,119 --> 01:06:49,679
ME so i don't.

1347
01:06:49,679 --> 01:06:50,719
Speaker 4: Even know she's really?

1348
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 3: A blonde?

1349
01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:56,239
Speaker 5: That guy do you know him?

1350
01:06:56,239 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 11: At?

1351
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,119
Speaker 5: All okay, ALL right i.

1352
01:06:58,559 --> 01:07:01,639
Speaker 1: Wasn't sure just he looks part for like a hooligan's

1353
01:07:01,719 --> 01:07:01,880
kind Of.

1354
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:04,119
Speaker 3: Got YEAH so, i mean so this girl, is, going

1355
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:06,119
oh did he have a sex? With you durney? Appointment,

1356
01:07:06,119 --> 01:07:07,880
too yeah you dirty, little horror and he did it

1357
01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:10,800
with you and probably did with. Somebody else take, your dirty.

1358
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:14,920
Skinky asshole that may be the best thing.

1359
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:15,039
Speaker 8: To.

1360
01:07:15,119 --> 01:07:18,239
Speaker 1: Say uh but then there's a whole bunch Of stuff laura,

1361
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:19,079
after that did you?

1362
01:07:19,159 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 6: Find, Him no i'm trying to, search THROUGH but i know.

1363
01:07:23,119 --> 01:07:25,239
Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a bunch of shit that this. THEY

1364
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:29,280
wrote i followed all one hundred and sixty seven comments

1365
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:31,599
before it, was REMOVED and i can tell you at

1366
01:07:31,679 --> 01:07:34,400
least three women came forward about having relations with him

1367
01:07:34,480 --> 01:07:35,280
at his practice.

1368
01:07:35,320 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 5: During, appointments now is he like a?

1369
01:07:37,519 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: Smooth?

1370
01:07:38,079 --> 01:07:42,079
Speaker 6: TALKER no i think it's. A, fantasy again you.

1371
01:07:42,119 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 1: Think it's a Fantasy because i've Had he's.

1372
01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:49,159
Speaker 4: Sometimes the adjustments they get into it's almost like a

1373
01:07:49,239 --> 01:07:51,239
massage where they get into the spot and she gets

1374
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:53,480
a little turned on and maybe she just turns over, and,

1375
01:07:53,559 --> 01:07:54,480
says HEY but i go what?

1376
01:07:54,599 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 6: You DOING can i see a picture of?

1377
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 1: Him? Again yeah how does? It that that's the PART

1378
01:07:58,320 --> 01:08:01,559
that i don't understand how it happened is like what

1379
01:08:01,679 --> 01:08:02,800
do you you KNOW what? I, mean like.

1380
01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:06,000
Speaker 6: Get a, little flirty, but again chiropractor equipments are, normally

1381
01:08:06,079 --> 01:08:07,599
short so you must be.

1382
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:08,599
Speaker 3: Very, quick.

1383
01:08:10,159 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 4: Yes but the louder that you then when you get that, good, relief,

1384
01:08:15,079 --> 01:08:17,520
yeah pops a disc Gets.

1385
01:08:17,359 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 3: Your there's not a Lot of chiro directors Listed In

1386
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:20,800
north childie didn't list his.

1387
01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: Name, Or no i'm not seeing. His name it, just,

1388
01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,680
says yeah they don't have at least not in The thing.

1389
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:28,640
I'm seeing but let me go back through the COMMENTS

1390
01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:30,760
because I have i should have pre, read THESE and,

1391
01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:32,720
i haven't so this will be The, FIRST yeah.

1392
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 6: I didn't, I again I think i was like Scrolling

1393
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:39,960
on facebook that day and it, popped up BUT then

1394
01:08:40,039 --> 01:08:41,520
i went back and looked at.

1395
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 3: It and it.

1396
01:08:42,039 --> 01:08:45,199
Speaker 1: Was, gone, well now so people are writing on There

1397
01:08:45,319 --> 01:08:47,960
like i'm wondering that to the other people are sex.

1398
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:49,600
WITH them i don't think it should be swept under.

1399
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:54,800
The rug somebody else, writes, agree well what he didn't,

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01:08:54,920 --> 01:09:00,640
Rape you That's What i'm this scares the shit out

1401
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:03,840
of me because all of, a sudden now you can be,

1402
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,880
posted well not only can you, be posted but you

1403
01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:11,079
could have your entire reputation in. Business destroyed and let's

1404
01:09:11,079 --> 01:09:14,000
say you did make a, decision one, You know friday

1405
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:18,680
afternoon before, happy hour and you tapped uh, Bad.

1406
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 6: BACK betty, i mean maybe you shouldn't be fucking in. Your, workplace, okay.

1407
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,560
Speaker 3: Okay okay you're a chiropractor and some guy wants to,

1408
01:09:26,640 --> 01:09:28,479
fuck you and that's. Not okay.

1409
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:30,800
Speaker 1: She was making.

1410
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:32,479
Speaker 3: A joke, I mean i know you never worked in,

1411
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,359
frontier field but some.

1412
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:40,079
Speaker 1: People have somebody said he also had a prison a,

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01:09:40,159 --> 01:09:43,119
business PRIOR and i believe lost his license to something

1414
01:09:43,159 --> 01:09:45,520
and had to start a new one with a, new

1415
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,560
name et cetera a long. Time ago see this is like.

1416
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 4: The ship.

1417
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,399
Speaker 1: It's, repetition well it's a pattern if the guy's got

1418
01:09:53,479 --> 01:09:55,600
a pattern. Of BEHAVIOR but i want to know what

1419
01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,800
chiropractic IS because i see one, out There and i'm

1420
01:10:00,159 --> 01:10:03,159
us if he doesn't. Fuck me if you found out

1421
01:10:03,199 --> 01:10:05,479
your chiropractor was banging your best friend.

1422
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,159
Speaker 3: And never wanted to, touch, yours you.

1423
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 6: It's insulting my chiropractor is like seventy five, years Old so.

1424
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:13,800
Speaker 4: I'm glad so if you walk into the chiropractor's office

1425
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:16,239
and it smells. Like, sex yeah is that a bad

1426
01:10:16,319 --> 01:10:17,159
thing that ruined?

1427
01:10:17,199 --> 01:10:17,239
Speaker 11: The?

1428
01:10:17,279 --> 01:10:22,520
Speaker 1: Fantasy yeah probably ruined call back to your. Sex, CLASS

1429
01:10:22,560 --> 01:10:25,880
yeah i Just, don't yeah but what Is the i'm

1430
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,079
not SURE that i like, this SITE and i don't

1431
01:10:28,119 --> 01:10:30,760
know that it's very helpful. For people it Sounds like.

1432
01:10:31,159 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 6: I've talked i've SAID that i think it can be

1433
01:10:34,079 --> 01:10:37,520
helpful if you're being honest on it or like just

1434
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,880
really looking for feedback. Or cautious I'VE said i have

1435
01:10:41,079 --> 01:10:43,640
commented on a. Few things i've seen a few People

1436
01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:45,960
who i'd gone on dates with posted and people, are,

1437
01:10:46,119 --> 01:10:48,439
like hey does anyone know about? This guy and there

1438
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,199
was one GUY that i wrote like he tried to.

1439
01:10:51,279 --> 01:10:55,159
Assault me and then, you know there was another, guy

1440
01:10:55,199 --> 01:10:56,720
WHO like i went on a few, dates WITH and i,

1441
01:10:56,840 --> 01:10:57,119
was like she.

1442
01:10:57,359 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: Stop once in, a while but for the three or four, like, you.

1443
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 6: Well and. That's true so you got to use your,

1444
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:10,520
own judgment, like.

1445
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:13,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, because sometimes like, you know the real Housewives, of,

1446
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,560
webster yeah turn into fourteen year old girls that are

1447
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,840
just gonna gossip and ship on. Each other.

1448
01:11:21,399 --> 01:11:23,159
Speaker 6: But then there's like a lot of times people, post

1449
01:11:23,199 --> 01:11:26,079
anonymous so it's like you can't see who, it is

1450
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:30,239
and then people will. REPLY anonymous i do think that

1451
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:36,479
it is a. Good website, but people just, like anywhere

1452
01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,840
people try to just fuck other, people over.

1453
01:11:40,079 --> 01:11:40,399
Speaker 1: You know.

1454
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,039
Speaker 3: That's how the guys Want, to YEAH like i.

1455
01:11:44,399 --> 01:11:48,520
Speaker 1: Imagine it are you? A member like imagine? A member

1456
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:50,239
but do you have to be with.

1457
01:11:50,359 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 6: What happened with.

1458
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:53,199
Speaker 1: He's also?

1459
01:11:53,279 --> 01:11:57,039
Speaker 6: A client think about what Happened to Greg when greg

1460
01:11:57,079 --> 01:12:01,880
got posted on mad he was so super people people

1461
01:12:02,039 --> 01:12:05,800
could do something just out, of spite and that's.

1462
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 3: NOT fair i feel like that's what.

1463
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 6: IT is i do think that there is a lot

1464
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:12,399
of people who. DO that i also think there are

1465
01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,920
a lot of dumb fucking women out there who date

1466
01:12:16,039 --> 01:12:18,560
pieces of ship that are sleeping with five.

1467
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:22,840
Speaker 4: Other. Women, girl yeah and.

1468
01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:27,920
Speaker 6: They fall for the lies and then maybe they, realize.

1469
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:33,359
Speaker 5: It, What okay but what's on the guys one or guys?

1470
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 6: Like that, probably me do they?

1471
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:37,439
Speaker 3: GET mass i feel like it's a lot of times

1472
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:39,560
it's like they're pissed off AT the x or whatever

1473
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:44,560
and they'll poster like, yeah, everybody, yeah yeah it's. It's

1474
01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:47,960
stupid they stay away because you know that's what, they're

1475
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:51,039
writing and, you Know and i'm thinking that it's probably

1476
01:12:51,119 --> 01:12:54,520
like some bitter thirty five year old younger guy that's

1477
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:55,399
that's a little.

1478
01:12:55,399 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 1: Pissed, off.

1479
01:12:57,359 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 5: Well whether, OR not i. Don't know you've been on there.

1480
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:03,279
Speaker 4: In, my thirties.

1481
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:06,520
Speaker 3: Affliction shut have you ever seen a.

1482
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:07,960
Speaker 5: Dude who you recognize from?

1483
01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:08,039
Speaker 8: The?

1484
01:13:08,119 --> 01:13:08,319
Speaker 1: Site?

1485
01:13:08,399 --> 01:13:11,039
Speaker 5: Walking well the guys don't they?

1486
01:13:11,119 --> 01:13:12,479
Speaker 3: Post? Women oh they.

1487
01:13:12,520 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 1: Post women i'm sorry it's always anonymous because they have. No, balls,

1488
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:16,920
yeah dude you ever see women that have been posted?

1489
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:17,239
Speaker 5: Walking in?

1490
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:17,520
Speaker 11: Have?

1491
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:20,159
Speaker 3: Not, OKAY yeah i have never known anybody it's been.

1492
01:13:20,199 --> 01:13:22,880
Speaker 6: Posted, Either well i've known so many people who have.

1493
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,199
Speaker 3: Been posted they don't post. A lot, it's one maybe

1494
01:13:25,199 --> 01:13:25,520
a couple.

1495
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:30,279
Speaker 6: Of, Weeks maybe, OH god i had to scroll to

1496
01:13:30,439 --> 01:13:33,319
find two. Days, ago really people are posted.

1497
01:13:34,039 --> 01:13:35,279
Speaker 3: Guys all the times?

1498
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:35,640
Speaker 10: In?

1499
01:13:36,279 --> 01:13:39,560
Speaker 1: Hour now is this mostly women who, are like, let's

1500
01:13:39,560 --> 01:13:42,760
say i'll call, it, recycling right they've been married and

1501
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,439
now they're back in the dating game and they feel

1502
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:46,520
like they're going to, get hurt and so they're they're

1503
01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:46,880
looking to.

1504
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:51,039
Speaker 6: BE hurt i feel like it's definitely more the thirty

1505
01:13:51,119 --> 01:13:54,840
to fifty year. Old, women yeah it's not the twenty

1506
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:57,439
year olds who. Are posting you know they're still going

1507
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:01,560
out and meeting On, At Easterton alex, and right it's

1508
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:03,720
not it's definitely they're.

1509
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:09,560
Speaker 1: No NO but i hear there's a lot of, Websites.

1510
01:14:09,239 --> 01:14:13,520
Speaker 6: Like i'm not going to show this man, on camera

1511
01:14:14,279 --> 01:14:17,840
but this was posted twenty two. Hours ago he's definitely an.

1512
01:14:18,119 --> 01:14:19,000
Older guy.

1513
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:21,279
Speaker 3: What does.

1514
01:14:21,399 --> 01:14:24,399
Speaker 1: It say there's poor chop like he just looks like

1515
01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:27,359
he had a couple. Of beers Looks Like. Jim, kelly

1516
01:14:27,479 --> 01:14:29,640
yeah the, bills won the bills.

1517
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 6: Came back in one it says his name and then

1518
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:35,119
it says any tea or. Red flags nobody, has replied

1519
01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:38,880
but then plenty of dot com and the.

1520
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,479
Speaker 3: Red, flags yes you're posting this period is a red flag.

1521
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:42,359
Speaker 1: For us you're the red.

1522
01:14:42,399 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 3: Flag exactly.

1523
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:48,239
Speaker 6: I'll see the most recent was one, hour ago one,

1524
01:14:48,319 --> 01:14:48,760
hour ago.

1525
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:51,199
Speaker 1: One hour it's A, fucking monday.

1526
01:14:52,359 --> 01:14:54,600
Speaker 3: And it's a guy he hasn't Called for.

1527
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:57,520
Speaker 6: Saturday yet it's a guy standing at. A, corner yeah,

1528
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:01,760
you know side profile picture and it says tea on

1529
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:08,319
him and there's seventeen comments. About, him really how many

1530
01:15:08,359 --> 01:15:09,159
baby mamas does?

1531
01:15:09,199 --> 01:15:09,640
Speaker 1: He, got.

1532
01:15:12,159 --> 01:15:13,600
Speaker 6: Okay straight bum things.

1533
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:16,279
Speaker 1: Like that it's a lot of, Stupid, shit, yeah okay

1534
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:18,840
but you can learn something if. YOU'RE curious i guess

1535
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:22,880
about The person i'm NOT gonna I, Researched joe sure

1536
01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:23,279
as hell.

1537
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:27,159
Speaker 3: You, did yeah why tried to look him up?

1538
01:15:27,159 --> 01:15:28,239
Speaker 6: On there yeah he wasn't.

1539
01:15:28,319 --> 01:15:33,079
Speaker 4: On there why don't you can't you just? Trust? SOMEBODY well.

1540
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 1: I, don't know by, the way as a fifty something

1541
01:15:39,119 --> 01:15:42,439
year old. White guy SO and i realized That as i'm,

1542
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,600
saying it because When he matt just said you, CAN'T

1543
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,800
today I think matt's way more CORRECT than. I AM

1544
01:15:48,159 --> 01:15:50,399
so i, Don't KNOW but i don't know what it's like.

1545
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:52,600
For women it's got to be a little scary to

1546
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:54,000
meet somebody Dating app.

1547
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 9: I'll say two.

1548
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:57,800
Speaker 6: Personal experiences there was one GUY who i went on a.

1549
01:15:57,920 --> 01:15:58,239
Speaker 4: Date with.

1550
01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 6: He worked At fat ex. Or whatever we went to

1551
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:05,359
b side. Right here this is the guy who ended

1552
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:09,079
up putting his like first time hands around, my neck

1553
01:16:09,159 --> 01:16:12,520
said like. Your mind then practically Was like i'm coming

1554
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,680
over to, your house tried to pick me up and

1555
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:16,319
carry me out to.

1556
01:16:16,359 --> 01:16:16,640
Speaker 8: MY car.

1557
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,319
Speaker 6: I called he, asked me does anyone know who you

1558
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:23,439
where you are? RIGHT now I called RENEE like.

1559
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:24,199
Speaker 11: I was.

1560
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:29,079
Speaker 6: It WAS like i met him for, one drink but.

1561
01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:31,159
Speaker 3: Half.

1562
01:16:31,199 --> 01:16:33,800
Speaker 1: Turned on he stood up in.

1563
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:36,399
Speaker 6: THE restaurant i, was like this is. MY girlfriend i, was,

1564
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:39,600
Like dude i'm meeting you for. One drink it. Was

1565
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:44,680
Terrified so i'm so he. GOT posted i, was like

1566
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:45,880
he got posted.

1567
01:16:47,159 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 4: To get the package.

1568
01:16:48,159 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 6: On time he, got posted and his ex wife commented

1569
01:16:54,279 --> 01:16:57,479
about how like physically abusive. He was and then that

1570
01:16:57,720 --> 01:17:00,239
is one PERSON who i COMMENTED and I was i

1571
01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:03,279
went on one date. With him he made me feel.

1572
01:17:03,359 --> 01:17:05,079
Incredibly unsafe where did you?

1573
01:17:05,159 --> 01:17:05,319
Speaker 3: Meet?

1574
01:17:05,359 --> 01:17:06,399
Speaker 5: Him what what site did you meet?

1575
01:17:06,439 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: Him on do?

1576
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:08,880
Speaker 3: You know i'm assuming it was a?

1577
01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: Dating, sign yeah it was Probably. Like tinder so you're

1578
01:17:12,800 --> 01:17:14,960
still in the bar when he, grabbed you, oh yeah

1579
01:17:16,039 --> 01:17:18,199
and no one and no one could really, see it

1580
01:17:18,279 --> 01:17:18,880
right because he's got.

1581
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,359
Speaker 6: To know like we were sitting up against, b, sides

1582
01:17:21,399 --> 01:17:23,439
small sitting up against the back of, the wall and

1583
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,000
he like put his hand right around my neck, and

1584
01:17:26,239 --> 01:17:27,439
ask does anyone know where?

1585
01:17:27,479 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 2: You are?

1586
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:30,199
Speaker 3: Right now he's fucking punch him in. A.

1587
01:17:30,319 --> 01:17:32,680
Speaker 6: DECK no i got up and Just.

1588
01:17:33,279 --> 01:17:34,520
Speaker 3: Laughed wow.

1589
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:37,119
Speaker 6: And then another.

1590
01:17:38,399 --> 01:17:38,880
Speaker 4: Ran him.

1591
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 3: Another friend that's like really.

1592
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:45,319
Speaker 5: Fucking, SCARED yeah i.

1593
01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,920
Speaker 6: WAS terrified i was telling everybody, about IT.

1594
01:17:49,560 --> 01:17:52,079
Speaker 1: And i got to tell. You this if a woman

1595
01:17:52,159 --> 01:17:52,439
got in.

1596
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:55,079
Speaker 5: The car, and said does anybody know where you are?

1597
01:17:55,199 --> 01:17:57,159
RIGHT now i don't KNOW what i.

1598
01:17:57,159 --> 01:17:59,119
Speaker 1: WOULD do i don't KNOW what i, would do because

1599
01:17:59,119 --> 01:18:01,760
AT first i would, start laughing this, Is anything you're getting,

1600
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:03,880
murdered literally AND then I think i'm getting.

1601
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:06,720
Speaker 6: Fucking murdering, AFTER that i started sharing my Location.

1602
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,239
Speaker 1: With, renee okay so she KNEW where.

1603
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:12,720
Speaker 5: I was but what was the? Second guy I'LL.

1604
01:18:12,600 --> 01:18:14,920
Speaker 6: Say i had a friend who went on a date

1605
01:18:16,119 --> 01:18:18,399
with a notorious guy who had been posted on this

1606
01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:21,359
page saying he sleeps, with everyone he sleeps. With everyone

1607
01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:22,640
she went on a few dates.

1608
01:18:22,680 --> 01:18:23,560
Speaker 3: WITH him i.

1609
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:27,279
Speaker 6: Met him he, was, like no that was, my past blah,

1610
01:18:27,279 --> 01:18:29,720
blah blah slept with. My friend never talked to.

1611
01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 3: Her again wait wait wait wait wait wait wait what

1612
01:18:33,279 --> 01:18:36,119
maybe she sucked. In bed he's not. His fault wait

1613
01:18:36,239 --> 01:18:37,399
he sex four times in.

1614
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:38,640
Speaker 6: ONE night i don't think.

1615
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 3: She, sucked okay, wait wait hang on. A second you

1616
01:18:43,119 --> 01:18:43,560
went out with?

1617
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,680
Speaker 6: This, guy no she did, A, friend yeah and so

1618
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,920
the first night she gave. It, up no they had

1619
01:18:49,000 --> 01:18:51,439
gone on a couple. Of, dates yeah then she finally

1620
01:18:51,640 --> 01:18:55,039
she slept. With him he slept together. Numerous times in,

1621
01:18:55,079 --> 01:18:57,920
one night he hung out with her like the next

1622
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:00,479
day until. Noon left ever spoke.

1623
01:19:00,560 --> 01:19:01,079
Speaker 3: To her good.

1624
01:19:03,039 --> 01:19:05,119
Speaker 4: It happens maybe she started talking.

1625
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,720
Speaker 3: True colors, came out or like he, sobered up or

1626
01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:11,920
she really sucked in bed and he, was like maybe

1627
01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:13,960
next time. He better it was awkward the, First time second,

1628
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,680
time nope maybe third. Time nope i'm gonna ever one.

1629
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:18,479
MORE shot i just think.

1630
01:19:18,399 --> 01:19:20,840
Speaker 6: He's a piece, Of shit like everybody had posted on.

1631
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 4: That three votes to one says we're Right, IN.

1632
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:26,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I why.

1633
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:28,279
Speaker 1: I guess i guess there is some good to, the

1634
01:19:28,359 --> 01:19:33,000
cycle especially. Your story that's fucking scary man. Having somebody

1635
01:19:33,319 --> 01:19:35,479
this is WHY if i ever had a daughter in

1636
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:37,359
that and she came home and said, That story oh,

1637
01:19:37,399 --> 01:19:37,880
come on you.

1638
01:19:38,039 --> 01:19:40,880
Speaker 3: Go on you gotta, kill him? Wouldn't? YOU yeah i

1639
01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:42,359
mean you'd want to find this guy.

1640
01:19:42,279 --> 01:19:43,640
Speaker 4: And go what the fuck is wrong?

1641
01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:46,920
Speaker 3: WITH you i would, find him. Promise You, oh god

1642
01:19:48,079 --> 01:19:48,520
that said.

1643
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:51,960
Speaker 1: So coldly he sounds Like That liam neeson without.

1644
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 5: THE accent i have a very specific set.

1645
01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:55,840
Speaker 1: Of skills.

1646
01:19:57,680 --> 01:19:59,199
Speaker 3: So, all right well the.

1647
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 1: CHIRAP though i hate seeing that guy's business get ruined

1648
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:04,960
over something if it was sort of.

1649
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:08,159
Speaker 3: A beautiful something that. Was mutual it's, not, Like hey

1650
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:11,000
i'm gonna massage you and all of, A sudden i'm

1651
01:20:11,039 --> 01:20:14,079
sticking my dick and you know you essentially, Had sucks

1652
01:20:14,319 --> 01:20:15,199
so now you're gonna blast this.

1653
01:20:15,239 --> 01:20:17,399
Speaker 1: Guy's business see this IS how i always wonder how,

1654
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:21,159
it goes because, one like there's got to be a

1655
01:20:21,359 --> 01:20:24,560
vibe that you're feeling you're picking. Up on or does

1656
01:20:24,600 --> 01:20:27,000
she reach back and sort of GRAB your i, don't

1657
01:20:27,039 --> 01:20:28,239
know maybe he wasn't good.

1658
01:20:28,279 --> 01:20:30,800
Speaker 3: In bed yeah it, could be or maybe it didn't happen.

1659
01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:32,920
At all she's just. Saying it that's that's the part that.

1660
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:37,279
Speaker 6: She's crazy if three people spoke up AND said i

1661
01:20:37,399 --> 01:20:37,800
HAVE been.

1662
01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:42,279
Speaker 13: I have, A.

1663
01:20:42,399 --> 01:20:45,000
Speaker 3: Crazy crazyx, TRUST me i have A crazy x that

1664
01:20:45,039 --> 01:20:47,520
would lie through her teeth and her friends would, believe

1665
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:48,319
her believe me it.

1666
01:20:48,359 --> 01:20:51,800
Speaker 1: Can, happen well see that brings me to the THING

1667
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:55,760
like i. Always go When the cosby, SHIT started i didn't. Believe,

1668
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,640
IT yeah i didn't think that was real. At all

1669
01:20:57,960 --> 01:21:01,359
then we once we get around twenty, FIVE thirty i.

1670
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:05,119
Speaker 3: Start, to, go yeah maybe yeah it's one or, Two

1671
01:21:05,279 --> 01:21:08,960
three i'm not so sure, EVEN ten, i, GO well, i,

1672
01:21:09,039 --> 01:21:09,560
MEAN well i.

1673
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:13,119
Speaker 1: Don't know i'm just, saying like if you know almost, different.

1674
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:15,760
Speaker 3: Times, quick fix, you know a. Little payment and the other,

1675
01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:17,800
THING is i think sometimes with guys it's.

1676
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:19,680
Speaker 1: A challenge like if all of a sudden somebody wrote

1677
01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:22,199
that about a woman she sleeps, with everybody you don't

1678
01:21:22,199 --> 01:21:23,640
want to be, around her, and oh by, the way

1679
01:21:23,720 --> 01:21:25,439
she's got an Odor and I'M gonna i want to

1680
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:27,079
find out it.

1681
01:21:27,079 --> 01:21:30,159
Speaker 3: Sounds like it SOUNDS like i can score you kind

1682
01:21:30,159 --> 01:21:32,520
of a heart, up night, you know on. A, weekend, yes.

1683
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:33,399
Speaker 1: Yes it's been.

1684
01:21:33,479 --> 01:21:35,720
Speaker 4: A while WHAT am i gonna go?

1685
01:21:36,319 --> 01:21:39,840
Speaker 1: After one, All, right well we'll take.

1686
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:40,479
Speaker 5: A moment do we have?

1687
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 3: A game time?

1688
01:21:41,119 --> 01:21:41,159
Speaker 8: We?

1689
01:21:41,279 --> 01:21:43,359
Speaker 5: Do oh should we?

1690
01:21:43,399 --> 01:21:44,319
Speaker 3: Do it or do you want to just?

1691
01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 1: Bail out everybody looks like they're a little oh. Gassed

1692
01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:51,640
out you're drinking wine and, having fun and you got

1693
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:53,840
all turned on and then. TURNED off i got. TURNED on,

1694
01:21:54,199 --> 01:21:56,039
I know i know you got. TURNED on i was

1695
01:21:56,119 --> 01:21:57,399
watching your face, is like.

1696
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:03,119
Speaker 6: And then you had about, LIKE yeah I just i'm

1697
01:22:03,159 --> 01:22:06,359
such a big, energy PERSON so i feel THAT if

1698
01:22:06,399 --> 01:22:09,119
i went to, A club i would have to have energy.

1699
01:22:09,279 --> 01:22:11,399
With someone and that's NORMALLY how i would talk TO

1700
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:13,520
someone i don't Know who i'm always going to be.

1701
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:17,199
Attracted to it could be someone completely different looking than

1702
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:20,520
who my fantasy. Would be BUT if i have good energy,

1703
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:24,199
with them, THEN yeah i want. To explore but THAT'S

1704
01:22:24,239 --> 01:22:25,800
why i can't. Trust, myself.

1705
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 3: Okay, all right like throwing yourself right under the, bus

1706
01:22:31,079 --> 01:22:33,800
there trust myself. To go my GIRLFRIEND and i are Going.

1707
01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:37,119
To toronto we're thinking, about Going and Joe knows i'll

1708
01:22:37,159 --> 01:22:40,399
go home, to him does? He does he knows you'll

1709
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:42,720
go home to, Think so but you just, said differently,

1710
01:22:43,359 --> 01:22:45,880
you know might catch some energy and catch a dick.

1711
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:46,239
Speaker 1: IN you i.

1712
01:22:46,279 --> 01:22:46,560
Speaker 3: Don't know.

1713
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:52,880
Speaker 1: You know how much energy? Your, penises oh it's got.

1714
01:22:52,920 --> 01:22:55,439
A lot especially in one of. Those clubs it's like

1715
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:57,239
A fucking it's like.

1716
01:22:57,319 --> 01:22:58,199
Speaker 9: A magnet it, just.

1717
01:23:00,079 --> 01:23:03,279
Speaker 5: Heats, seeking, moisture missile it will. Find it talking about

1718
01:23:03,279 --> 01:23:04,119
getting soaked.

1719
01:23:05,880 --> 01:23:10,239
Speaker 1: That that's a pretty that's. A. Pretty uh i'm gonna

1720
01:23:10,279 --> 01:23:12,920
say you kind of know who?

1721
01:23:13,000 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 3: You, are, yeah yeah you KNOW what.

1722
01:23:16,520 --> 01:23:18,680
Speaker 1: I mean i mean that's a statement that that's saying, something,

1723
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:21,079
LIKE yeah i don't trust myself to. Go THERE Carl

1724
01:23:21,279 --> 01:23:23,439
x Potato and. Sausage, Soon yeah it's like it's like

1725
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:25,439
ME when i walk into a beer as. Ale somewhere

1726
01:23:26,079 --> 01:23:28,960
anything could. HAPPEN here i walk into, a bar anything.

1727
01:23:29,000 --> 01:23:31,800
Could happen just. WATCH out i could be HERE like.

1728
01:23:32,039 --> 01:23:36,439
Speaker 5: I think. I, THINK friday i started drinking at two

1729
01:23:36,560 --> 01:23:42,079
thirty and met. Some, people yeah just just.

1730
01:23:42,159 --> 01:23:42,640
Speaker 3: Like college.

1731
01:23:43,039 --> 01:23:46,520
Speaker 1: Two THIRTY then i was over in. Another bar those people.

1732
01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:50,119
WERE leaving, i LEFT and i get, A, Call, Hey

1733
01:23:50,199 --> 01:23:52,199
dad i'm gonna go to my. Buddy's house his mom's picking.

1734
01:23:52,199 --> 01:23:53,439
Me UP and i, went great.

1735
01:23:55,119 --> 01:23:55,359
Speaker 10: Right to.

1736
01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:58,720
Speaker 1: A bar i went to. The bar those, buddies leave

1737
01:23:59,039 --> 01:24:01,319
two OTHER people i know. Walk in i'm there to. Eleven,

1738
01:24:01,399 --> 01:24:03,720
THIRTY sure i drank from two thirty to. Eleven, thirty

1739
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:07,079
oh thanks for the. PHONE call i couldn't find MY

1740
01:24:07,159 --> 01:24:11,039
phone i. Had home but that's. Like ME so i

1741
01:24:11,279 --> 01:24:14,159
guess for, a club that's it's good to. Know man

1742
01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:17,000
self recognition is all all the rage.

1743
01:24:17,079 --> 01:24:18,640
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1744
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1797
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1798
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:10,560
Speaker 3: Thank you NOT that i don't know any of the

1799
01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:11,680
songs you know got?

1800
01:27:11,720 --> 01:27:12,359
Speaker 8: ME good.

1801
01:27:14,199 --> 01:27:14,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1802
01:27:17,159 --> 01:27:28,319
Speaker 9: Nor need.

1803
01:27:28,399 --> 01:27:31,079
Speaker 3: You, KNOW yeah, i know.

1804
01:27:33,479 --> 01:27:38,520
Speaker 6: Lady, extra perfect.

1805
01:27:38,239 --> 01:27:45,079
Speaker 3: Them be scattered ALL around, i, COULD man i am

1806
01:27:45,159 --> 01:27:47,399
so curious, about you, the club.

1807
01:27:47,800 --> 01:27:51,640
Speaker 1: Just this, I'm like i'm so intrigued by your curiosity

1808
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:54,039
about this and HOW you're, i mean you are really

1809
01:27:54,439 --> 01:27:56,880
having the devil and angel on, your shoulder fucking argue

1810
01:27:57,520 --> 01:27:59,920
whether you, do it you don't, do it your boyfriends.

1811
01:28:00,119 --> 01:28:01,079
Do it he's not, Into It.

1812
01:28:01,199 --> 01:28:04,359
Speaker 6: Like YOU'RE like i won't do it unless he WOULD go.

1813
01:28:06,000 --> 01:28:06,039
Speaker 8: I.

1814
01:28:06,239 --> 01:28:08,279
Speaker 3: Know, that yeah but would you resent him?

1815
01:28:08,359 --> 01:28:11,199
Speaker 1: For, That, okay no.

1816
01:28:13,560 --> 01:28:13,920
Speaker 6: That's why.

1817
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:15,840
Speaker 1: There's, porn okay.

1818
01:28:17,159 --> 01:28:20,399
Speaker 3: How much swinger porn is in your? Search history?

1819
01:28:21,640 --> 01:28:23,680
Speaker 1: How much? How much what do?

1820
01:28:23,720 --> 01:28:24,039
Speaker 4: You mean not?

1821
01:28:24,119 --> 01:28:24,840
Speaker 3: A lot i don't like to.

1822
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:27,760
Speaker 4: Watch porn she prefers the pizza Delivery.

1823
01:28:27,800 --> 01:28:30,000
Speaker 3: GUY mark.

1824
01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:32,680
Speaker 9: I am more like a.

1825
01:28:34,279 --> 01:28:36,000
Speaker 6: Pull from. Past, MEMORIES oh i.

1826
01:28:36,079 --> 01:28:37,279
Speaker 1: Got, You, YEAH no i like.

1827
01:28:37,359 --> 01:28:39,720
Speaker 5: That, too yeah, spank bank that's what.

1828
01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:40,920
Speaker 6: It's called THAT'S why i.

1829
01:28:41,039 --> 01:28:44,359
Speaker 3: Like, pictures, yeah oh go back the jack rack.

1830
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:45,399
Speaker 4: For, girls yeah it's a.

1831
01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,720
Speaker 1: Jack, rack okay, got it the spank bank of the.

1832
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:53,560
Jack rack, All right kevin's got a. Game tonight see.

1833
01:28:53,359 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 3: How, We're Doing.

1834
01:28:55,439 --> 01:28:56,880
Speaker 1: Lady antebellum.

1835
01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:11,640
Speaker 3: Week this week.

1836
01:29:13,159 --> 01:29:18,560
Speaker 6: Beginning Get wake this is the FIRST time.

1837
01:29:20,039 --> 01:29:21,199
Speaker 3: I believe that's got it to.

1838
01:29:22,399 --> 01:29:26,039
Speaker 10: Wake wake up, this sleep to get.

1839
01:29:30,399 --> 01:29:30,520
Speaker 3: Up.

1840
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:31,159
Speaker 1: This sleep.

1841
01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:36,760
Speaker 10: We got enough one VOTE and i ward why this

1842
01:29:36,840 --> 01:29:40,600
is the First that i'm just looking joking. BOUT it

1843
01:29:40,680 --> 01:29:43,359
i was just againting, come come we got the best

1844
01:29:43,399 --> 01:29:46,319
and well the bull. NIGHT'S wait i get up the

1845
01:29:46,399 --> 01:29:49,159
back to where At night i'll give my togger they

1846
01:29:49,199 --> 01:29:50,000
give it, some, day yo?

1847
01:29:50,119 --> 01:30:08,560
Speaker 4: Double figure what you ARE g i don't need to

1848
01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:14,720
be anything mother enter prison. GUARDS sign i don't need.

1849
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:18,960
Speaker 3: To be anything another then. APECIAL sign.

1850
01:30:20,239 --> 01:30:23,640
Speaker 1: I don't have to be anyone of the build a

1851
01:30:23,720 --> 01:30:27,880
bird Of new. Sodan WINE but I where i'm going.

1852
01:30:29,520 --> 01:30:30,359
Speaker 9: So aware of.

1853
01:30:47,279 --> 01:30:51,800
Speaker 7: The wind, is moving the guy you're, standing.

1854
01:30:51,520 --> 01:30:54,560
Speaker 3: Still life of.

1855
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:57,600
Speaker 1: Pages Waiting.

1856
01:30:59,159 --> 01:31:04,159
Speaker 3: It's kevin gill's best right. Here ahead it's all.

1857
01:31:04,319 --> 01:31:05,640
Speaker 9: Love dreams.

1858
01:31:07,000 --> 01:31:07,319
Speaker 8: Let this.

1859
01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:10,720
Speaker 3: Be coming it's harder than.

1860
01:31:11,359 --> 01:31:13,960
Speaker 4: It seems Feels like.

1861
01:31:15,760 --> 01:31:17,439
Speaker 9: I'm looking for.

1862
01:31:19,479 --> 01:31:30,680
Speaker 8: Rum to be.

1863
01:31:43,600 --> 01:31:52,640
Speaker 4: Timonas issues been open For, mana helena one of The

1864
01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:53,239
Last david.

1865
01:31:53,439 --> 01:31:58,359
Speaker 3: Robards issues.

1866
01:32:05,279 --> 01:32:07,000
Speaker 5: SO like i know all, these SONGS and i don't know,

1867
01:32:07,079 --> 01:32:08,479
these SONGS and i can't come up with.

1868
01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:10,439
Speaker 3: The SONGS so i just don't couldn't tell.

1869
01:32:10,439 --> 01:32:12,399
Speaker 5: YOUR name i can tell you the words yes and

1870
01:32:12,479 --> 01:32:13,520
years on most of these.

1871
01:32:16,039 --> 01:32:20,600
Speaker 11: Brought yourself up that so lean, your head feel that,

1872
01:32:22,239 --> 01:32:28,159
look down try, your best suck out.

1873
01:32:28,720 --> 01:32:34,279
Speaker 1: You can don't you put about to tell themselves your.

1874
01:32:34,439 --> 01:32:35,159
Speaker 9: Wrong way.

1875
01:32:37,399 --> 01:32:38,359
Speaker 3: It just did so.

1876
01:33:01,239 --> 01:33:05,319
Speaker 4: Like, a STONE and i feel.

1877
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:08,359
Speaker 9: Into.

1878
01:33:08,640 --> 01:33:16,399
Speaker 3: Your arms these days, WE'VE done i wish we know

1879
01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:19,359
will blow.

1880
01:33:22,239 --> 01:33:22,520
Speaker 8: With this.

1881
01:33:22,920 --> 01:33:24,079
Speaker 4: New suck.

1882
01:33:38,760 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 1: I'm having drup while trying.

1883
01:33:41,039 --> 01:33:47,239
Speaker 4: TO sleep I just I think i scored one on

1884
01:33:47,359 --> 01:33:50,680
this how as a chance in the movie question to

1885
01:33:50,720 --> 01:33:51,600
get something.

1886
01:33:51,359 --> 01:33:59,800
Speaker 3: This time Ticks By july dry raspbur got Jobs IN

1887
01:34:02,880 --> 01:34:03,399
here i go.

1888
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:11,159
Speaker 4: And the movie question It's a matt special Long introm.

1889
01:34:12,720 --> 01:34:15,359
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let the. Hook place sometimes first song had

1890
01:34:15,399 --> 01:34:16,000
the hook in it all.

1891
01:34:16,399 --> 01:34:18,359
Speaker 4: THE time i gave you the hook one of them.

1892
01:34:21,039 --> 01:34:22,279
Speaker 1: Two or. Three times.

1893
01:34:26,319 --> 01:34:41,159
Speaker 4: No idea, first word the first song or.

1894
01:34:41,239 --> 01:34:41,880
Speaker 9: The book.

1895
01:34:44,760 --> 01:34:59,439
Speaker 6: That's what the movie has this song.

1896
01:34:59,560 --> 01:35:00,640
Speaker 3: In it very very.

1897
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:01,479
Speaker 4: Good movie.

1898
01:35:11,840 --> 01:35:13,239
Speaker 3: Right to go back to. The top are we still

1899
01:35:13,279 --> 01:35:15,119
working for? The top, let's go let's here.

1900
01:35:15,119 --> 01:35:16,479
Speaker 4: We go give us a. Quick head.

1901
01:35:18,359 --> 01:35:20,119
Speaker 3: So It's bone Thugs. And harmony it's first in. A

1902
01:35:20,159 --> 01:35:22,880
month it's either ninety five or, ninety SIX but i

1903
01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:23,239
think it's.

1904
01:35:23,319 --> 01:35:26,399
Speaker 6: Ninety, FIVE god i love That song crossroads.

1905
01:35:26,239 --> 01:35:29,640
Speaker 3: This, grand granted that's the Only one i'm.

1906
01:35:29,640 --> 01:35:32,239
Speaker 1: Gonna get that might be enough to. Win tonight that

1907
01:35:32,560 --> 01:35:33,399
might be enough.

1908
01:35:33,479 --> 01:35:34,720
Speaker 6: To, win okay hold on what?

1909
01:35:35,039 --> 01:35:37,159
Speaker 4: It Is bone Thugs, in harmony first of the month

1910
01:35:37,439 --> 01:35:38,119
from nineteen.

1911
01:35:38,239 --> 01:35:39,600
Speaker 3: Ninety, five Wow.

1912
01:35:40,239 --> 01:35:44,800
Speaker 1: Nice PAUL when i Think, nice paul YOU got i

1913
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:46,039
got you gotta give it to him.

1914
01:35:46,079 --> 01:35:47,079
Speaker 5: For that, MY god.

1915
01:35:49,079 --> 01:35:51,279
Speaker 1: I cannot remember who, this IS and i have it.

1916
01:35:51,319 --> 01:35:54,560
WRONG you i Wrote Down stone Temple pilots Gavin.

1917
01:35:54,640 --> 01:35:57,119
Speaker 6: TO gray i think, it's him anything other than.

1918
01:35:57,039 --> 01:36:00,279
Speaker 4: ME to i wrote two thousand and two It Is,

1919
01:36:00,359 --> 01:36:03,880
GAVIN degrauz i don't want to be from two thousand.

1920
01:36:03,920 --> 01:36:13,800
Speaker 3: And, four, oh okay Is This? Richard marks it is.

1921
01:36:13,920 --> 01:36:15,920
Speaker 1: NOT written i was wondering the, same THING and i

1922
01:36:16,000 --> 01:36:18,600
did not write them down. ON purpose i wrote it

1923
01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:21,560
is the Song called reason nineteen ninety eight Is not

1924
01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:22,640
reason from nineteen.

1925
01:36:22,680 --> 01:36:24,399
Speaker 5: Ninety, eight, OKAY well i don't know.

1926
01:36:24,520 --> 01:36:27,079
Speaker 1: So far I'm now chicago nineteen.

1927
01:36:27,119 --> 01:36:29,560
Speaker 3: Eighty EIGHT now i said Eighty seven It's a.

1928
01:36:29,600 --> 01:36:30,720
Speaker 1: Place In this World FROM.

1929
01:36:30,800 --> 01:36:31,119
Speaker 4: Michael.

1930
01:36:31,359 --> 01:36:33,880
Speaker 1: W smith oh. My god that was a Friend Of

1931
01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:36,439
beth donaghue's from nineteen.

1932
01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:38,479
Speaker 3: Ninety, one, YEAH yeah i guess he. Did it he

1933
01:36:38,479 --> 01:36:39,000
Had A kevin.

1934
01:36:39,039 --> 01:36:42,079
Speaker 1: Gillens special yeah, All right i've got nothing, So LONG

1935
01:36:42,279 --> 01:36:46,840
so i Wrote My boogie shoes nineteen, Eighty Two hoogy shoes.

1936
01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:49,520
Speaker 6: Nineteen, eighty, Two Too, booky shoes eighty.

1937
01:36:49,560 --> 01:36:52,880
Speaker 4: Eight Shoes it's casey In The Sunshine Bands boogie shoes

1938
01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:53,560
from nineteen.

1939
01:36:53,720 --> 01:36:57,680
Speaker 3: Seventy, FIVE damn i had. Seventy. EIGHT first i that wouldn't.

1940
01:36:57,680 --> 01:36:58,880
HELPED anyways i got five.

1941
01:36:59,000 --> 01:37:03,359
Speaker 1: Points five take, Some Time.

1942
01:37:03,800 --> 01:37:05,880
Speaker 3: OH laura i.

1943
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:08,399
Speaker 6: Wrote simple plan Takes A little time two thousand, and.

1944
01:37:08,479 --> 01:37:10,640
Speaker 3: Eight, THOUSAND six i wrote nineteen.

1945
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:14,239
Speaker 1: Ninety One It's jimmy Worlds the middle from two thousand.

1946
01:37:14,279 --> 01:37:14,319
Speaker 10: And.

1947
01:37:14,520 --> 01:37:15,760
Speaker 3: One fuck.

1948
01:37:17,000 --> 01:37:18,840
Speaker 6: I'm sort of on the, same LINE.

1949
01:37:21,439 --> 01:37:23,039
Speaker 3: Like i should know this ONE and i don't know

1950
01:37:23,840 --> 01:37:25,920
you shall know, this one, BUT yes i know. THE

1951
01:37:26,000 --> 01:37:28,560
song i just can't tell your Name artist wait for you,

1952
01:37:29,680 --> 01:37:32,279
yeah eleven two.

1953
01:37:32,319 --> 01:37:34,880
Speaker 6: Thousand eight WHY do i want To, Say lumineers but It's,

1954
01:37:34,920 --> 01:37:36,399
not LUMINEERS it's.

1955
01:37:36,319 --> 01:37:41,479
Speaker 1: I will Wait from Mumford and son twenty. Twenty one,

1956
01:37:42,000 --> 01:37:43,119
OH god i.

1957
01:37:43,199 --> 01:37:45,439
Speaker 5: Think This is i'm gonna have the lowest, score ever.

1958
01:37:46,960 --> 01:37:48,039
Speaker 1: But this was only twenty.

1959
01:37:48,159 --> 01:37:50,720
Speaker 3: One one might be a type doesn't say there's.

1960
01:37:50,760 --> 01:37:50,800
Speaker 8: No.

1961
01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:54,079
Speaker 6: Way, no yeah that's Not because Mumford and sons was broken.

1962
01:37:53,920 --> 01:37:55,279
Speaker 9: Up then but it's.

1963
01:37:55,359 --> 01:37:58,640
Speaker 4: NOT either i Don't. THINK mumford.

1964
01:37:59,600 --> 01:38:01,039
Speaker 6: I just head friends go and see Them.

1965
01:38:01,079 --> 01:38:02,239
Speaker 4: At gorge i'm.

1966
01:38:02,319 --> 01:38:03,199
Speaker 6: So jealous.

1967
01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:14,399
Speaker 1: Technicality check on my own, no filter it is. Not

1968
01:38:14,520 --> 01:38:16,640
filter it's not on my own two thousand. And one

1969
01:38:16,760 --> 01:38:17,640
it is not two thousand.

1970
01:38:17,640 --> 01:38:20,520
Speaker 6: And, ONE Tommy I will wait was released in. TWENTY

1971
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:21,359
twelve i was.

1972
01:38:21,560 --> 01:38:25,960
Speaker 3: VERY close i had flipped. My apologies? WHAT'S right i got?

1973
01:38:26,039 --> 01:38:26,720
Ninety eight no song.

1974
01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:33,199
Speaker 1: Or artists this Is green day's brainstell. Ninety, six yeah oh, So,

1975
01:38:33,359 --> 01:38:35,880
LOT god i can't, All right so this is Van

1976
01:38:35,960 --> 01:38:36,720
ham this Is.

1977
01:38:36,880 --> 01:38:38,960
Speaker 3: Van, Hamm, right yeah you?

1978
01:38:39,199 --> 01:38:41,000
Speaker 6: Fucking won yeah you.

1979
01:38:41,159 --> 01:38:43,239
Speaker 3: Won DECK oh i got. FIVE points i got ten

1980
01:38:43,279 --> 01:38:44,000
POINTS to i have.

1981
01:38:44,119 --> 01:38:49,520
Speaker 1: Fifteen points TWISTERS what i wrote it is twister over

1982
01:38:49,640 --> 01:38:55,640
here nineteen. Ninety six there's the cow circle takes.

1983
01:38:55,680 --> 01:39:02,000
Speaker 3: The square you have enough to overcount. Twenty five you had.

1984
01:39:01,960 --> 01:39:04,439
Speaker 4: Boogie shoes so you're on the. Board there you might

1985
01:39:04,520 --> 01:39:04,760
have won.

1986
01:39:04,840 --> 01:39:05,960
Speaker 3: By five put a banner?

1987
01:39:06,039 --> 01:39:08,560
Speaker 1: Up five how MANY do i get for?

1988
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:12,640
Speaker 4: The title you get twenty for the category for.

1989
01:39:12,760 --> 01:39:17,840
Speaker 3: The, movie, then yeah he's got? Thirty, Five, right no twenty? Five,

1990
01:39:18,479 --> 01:39:20,640
tied okay something up?

1991
01:39:20,680 --> 01:39:23,239
Speaker 1: Top, two no the only thing UP top i got was.

1992
01:39:23,399 --> 01:39:26,479
Speaker 3: Booty shoes THAT'S all i got to get twenty for, the, Movie,

1993
01:39:26,600 --> 01:39:27,880
right no you get ten for the.

1994
01:39:27,920 --> 01:39:29,680
Speaker 9: Movie, ten yeah but you got.

1995
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:32,279
Speaker 1: THE year i got the year and the and, the

1996
01:39:33,079 --> 01:39:34,199
band but not the name of.

1997
01:39:34,279 --> 01:39:35,000
Speaker 5: The song SO.

1998
01:39:36,680 --> 01:39:37,279
Speaker 3: So i only got.

1999
01:39:37,319 --> 01:39:39,000
Speaker 1: Twenty point do we have.

2000
01:39:39,000 --> 01:39:39,239
Speaker 8: To go to.

2001
01:39:39,279 --> 01:39:41,800
Speaker 1: On, tiebreakers well we. Do not you're out here, Taking that.

2002
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:44,319
Speaker 3: We'll take.

2003
01:39:44,359 --> 01:39:44,840
Speaker 6: THE time i.

2004
01:39:45,079 --> 01:39:47,279
Speaker 1: Like that matt knew that, first one like right, right

2005
01:39:47,399 --> 01:39:48,079
now that's my.

2006
01:39:50,199 --> 01:39:50,359
Speaker 3: Were?

2007
01:39:50,399 --> 01:39:52,760
Speaker 4: You You matt pitchers had ever put songs in there,

2008
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:54,279
for HIM so i made sure to get some bone

2009
01:39:54,399 --> 01:39:54,720
dugs in.

2010
01:39:54,800 --> 01:39:57,439
Speaker 1: For him, All right but what where DID? You dj DID?

2011
01:39:57,479 --> 01:39:58,159
You Dj like?

2012
01:39:58,279 --> 01:40:01,119
Speaker 3: CENTERS stuff i. WAS that i Was At Tiki. Bobs

2013
01:40:01,439 --> 01:40:07,159
tremors that was a big. Same things diamonds have. A,

2014
01:40:07,319 --> 01:40:12,479
nightclub wow that's all like different nights of. The, week

2015
01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:14,760
yeah you, all throughout, you know throughout.

2016
01:40:14,800 --> 01:40:17,279
Speaker 4: The nineties was it weird going back INTO bt b

2017
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:18,640
knowing you were in there when.

2018
01:40:18,520 --> 01:40:20,960
Speaker 3: It was Captain At? FULL circle I mean i did every.

2019
01:40:21,079 --> 01:40:22,960
JOB there i was, A manager i was a, BAR

2020
01:40:23,119 --> 01:40:25,880
manager i WAS, A dj i was a security Guy At,

2021
01:40:25,960 --> 01:40:28,439
captain ZADICK and i cooked in. The, kitchen wow that

2022
01:40:28,560 --> 01:40:30,239
was my full. TIME job i was there from nine

2023
01:40:30,239 --> 01:40:31,800
am to, two Am like Wednesday.

2024
01:40:31,840 --> 01:40:32,000
Speaker 1: Through.

2025
01:40:32,119 --> 01:40:35,399
Speaker 3: Saturday god during the Other days i'd be there during the.

2026
01:40:35,479 --> 01:40:35,600
Speaker 8: Day.

2027
01:40:36,760 --> 01:40:42,960
Speaker 1: Dinner, wow yeah well now it's doing much Better than captain's.

2028
01:40:42,960 --> 01:40:45,319
Speaker 3: Attic did what did great guys were, JUST yeah I

2029
01:40:45,399 --> 01:40:45,760
know i.

2030
01:40:45,840 --> 01:40:47,760
Speaker 4: THINK that i think there's MY. Wedding.

2031
01:40:47,840 --> 01:40:49,600
Speaker 3: Dj yeah it was a restaurant and it turned into

2032
01:40:49,600 --> 01:40:51,279
a club. At night and it was interesting because they

2033
01:40:51,319 --> 01:40:53,600
do bands on Weekends and thursday nights and then the

2034
01:40:53,720 --> 01:40:56,359
big club Night was. Wednesday night we'd have four hundred

2035
01:40:56,399 --> 01:40:57,680
people in The place. Wednesday.

2036
01:40:57,760 --> 01:40:59,880
Speaker 1: Night yeah where?

2037
01:41:00,720 --> 01:41:01,520
Speaker 6: Is, now yeah.

2038
01:41:01,720 --> 01:41:05,239
Speaker 3: LADIES nightly i had a DANCE. Floor dj but, with.

2039
01:41:05,239 --> 01:41:09,039
Speaker 5: Everything they used to do a comedy and we.

2040
01:41:09,239 --> 01:41:11,079
Speaker 3: Did it we started it And then. Tommy did THAT'S

2041
01:41:11,079 --> 01:41:11,600
where i, Met Them.

2042
01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:14,399
Speaker 5: Captain. Sad yeah they Were doing monday nights after, The

2043
01:41:14,560 --> 01:41:15,399
nights monday.

2044
01:41:15,239 --> 01:41:19,039
Speaker 1: Nights after ye and it was after football after you.

2045
01:41:19,159 --> 01:41:22,000
Speaker 3: KNOW what, i mean like after the. Football, season yeah okay.

2046
01:41:22,399 --> 01:41:25,159
After season back then people went Out for. Monday football

2047
01:41:25,159 --> 01:41:26,079
it would be Packed. Every.

2048
01:41:26,119 --> 01:41:29,439
Speaker 4: MONDAY yeah i think THAT'S Where I Matt. Ray TORRES

2049
01:41:31,279 --> 01:41:33,000
yeah dj back In.

2050
01:41:33,039 --> 01:41:33,079
Speaker 11: The.

2051
01:41:33,159 --> 01:41:39,319
Speaker 1: Daylians, YEAH wow i didn't know that you were hustling. Back,

2052
01:41:39,399 --> 01:41:40,000
THEN yeah i.

2053
01:41:40,119 --> 01:41:40,520
Speaker 4: WAS it i.

2054
01:41:40,640 --> 01:41:43,600
Speaker 3: Was it most of the Clubs in roster good at.

2055
01:41:43,640 --> 01:41:44,520
Speaker 5: That, time yeah.

2056
01:41:46,680 --> 01:41:53,119
Speaker 3: THE day i bet it was. For that, all right

2057
01:41:53,239 --> 01:41:54,960
we'll close it Out For.

2058
01:41:55,039 --> 01:41:57,239
Speaker 1: Matt reese get out TO be tv, with fire pizza

2059
01:41:57,239 --> 01:41:59,119
and grill on the Mall At, grease range especially now

2060
01:41:59,239 --> 01:42:01,840
that football's back over fifty, ten specials.

2061
01:42:02,800 --> 01:42:05,279
Speaker 6: Get those that was that a false?

2062
01:42:05,319 --> 01:42:09,000
Speaker 1: Special slider you were so, Right right but do the

2063
01:42:09,039 --> 01:42:11,520
brunch and stick around for the one. O'clock game bill's jets. This,

2064
01:42:11,640 --> 01:42:15,600
week yeah it should be a pretty good One. For laura,

2065
01:42:15,680 --> 01:42:18,920
Who uh they're gonna be, All right you're, Gonna survive.

2066
01:42:19,239 --> 01:42:22,319
Speaker 3: You're gonna get. A vibrator i.

2067
01:42:22,359 --> 01:42:24,399
Speaker 1: Can't believe you're wearing the. Choke chase.

2068
01:42:26,520 --> 01:42:28,920
Speaker 3: So where is that choke? Chain bin that's what we want.

2069
01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:34,600
TO know i, Don't KNOW mark i got is different than.

2070
01:42:35,479 --> 01:42:39,119
Speaker 1: Be Right we're kevin who saw bear hit On.

2071
01:42:39,239 --> 01:42:41,159
Speaker 3: The Throughway I'm. Bill moran we'll see.

2072
01:42:41,239 --> 01:42:42,520
Speaker 1: You tomorrow