Speaker 1: I'm back with something for you to think about today.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about awareness.
Speaker 1: Listen, you must be aware going out.
Speaker 2: I'm talking to you with all seriousness.
Speaker 3: The world is so full of broken people.
Speaker 1: I mean, people who have so many unresolved issues inside
Speaker 1: of them. They're holding on to hurt and pain and
Speaker 1: all they know is to be angry and to project.
Speaker 1: So you go out there minding your own business, and
Speaker 1: people are snapping and doing the unthinkable. I mean, people
Speaker 1: are doing so much foolishness. It's horrible. It is horrible.
Speaker 1: So you better put on the armor of God. You
Speaker 1: better put on the full armor and keep it on.
Speaker 1: Stay protected, stay prayed up, because we are living in
Speaker 1: a world full of broken people who are on the verge.
Speaker 2: They're just waiting, They're just waiting for a moment to snap.
Speaker 1: They're waiting for a reason to go off. And I
Speaker 1: think it's horrible. It is absolutely horrible. But unfortunately that's
Speaker 1: the way of the world we're in today. It's not
Speaker 1: the world, it's the people in the world. And I'm
Speaker 1: telling you it is no good. It is dangerous. I
Speaker 1: remember a time I would travel, travel, travel, travel, travel,
Speaker 1: But now I'm like, eh, people are crazy. I'm the
Speaker 1: type of person who don't back down. I don't take
Speaker 1: anybody's crap. I'm not afraid of no one. I don't
Speaker 1: care who it is. That's just who I am. That's
Speaker 1: my mama in me and my daddy. But there's a
Speaker 1: whole lot of people who are crazier than me, and
Speaker 1: I know it. There are people who they will do
Speaker 1: things for no apparent reason, only because they are hurt
Speaker 1: and full of pain. See, I don't live my life
Speaker 1: that way projecting. I'm just the type of person who
Speaker 1: don't take people's crap.
Speaker 2: I don't have to, and I won't.
Speaker 1: That's way different from people who are so broken and
Speaker 1: on the verge of snapping. I mean, they just want
Speaker 1: a person do one little thing, one inkling of a thing,
Speaker 1: so they could go off. They think that is a
Speaker 1: reason for them to go off. Somebody cut in front
Speaker 1: of them, maybe they didn't see.
Speaker 2: You, maybe you were in their blind spot. Things happen.
Speaker 1: But because people are so broken and so full of unresolved.
Speaker 2: Hurt and pain, they cannot see beyond their anger, beyond.
Speaker 1: Their rage, and all they do is act or react.
Speaker 1: That is a very.
Speaker 3: Very unfortunate way for people to be.
Speaker 1: But that is the mindset of many, many individuals in
Speaker 1: this world.
Speaker 3: That's why you hear people.
Speaker 1: Minding their own business and somebody's come out stabbing or
Speaker 1: shooting or whatever it may be.
Speaker 3: Because people are so broken.
Speaker 1: And what they do is they sit around and they
Speaker 1: allow these negative thoughts.
Speaker 3: To be, you know, to grow. They give power.
Speaker 1: To those negative thoughts and they allow themselves to succumb
Speaker 1: to those things. See, because everything starts with a thought. Everything,
Speaker 1: everything starts with a thought. Even if a person pull
Speaker 1: out a knife and starts slicing, they thought about it.
Speaker 1: That's why they got the knight with him or had
Speaker 1: the knight with him, because they thought about doing what
Speaker 1: they went on to do.
Speaker 2: Same with shooters, they plant it.
Speaker 1: So just like people have time to think about what
Speaker 1: they're going to do, that time that they take, they
Speaker 1: could think about.
Speaker 2: Not doing it. But see, the thing is when people
Speaker 2: are so.
Speaker 1: Invested in their negative thoughts, when they're so influenced by
Speaker 1: their negative thoughts, they have passed that point of no return.
Speaker 3: That's why in.
Speaker 1: My book I talk about how people get no contact
Speaker 1: orders or whatever they may be called. Wherever you are,
Speaker 1: you know, saying you cannot be but a certain amount
Speaker 1: of feet from me. That paper don't mean nothing to
Speaker 1: a person who have a made up mind. Stop thinking
Speaker 1: that piece of paper is going to keep a person
Speaker 1: from doing whatever it is they want to do. If
Speaker 1: you have to go to the point of getting a
Speaker 1: no contact order, whatever they may be called, that person
Speaker 1: is not going to pay that any attention. When they
Speaker 1: have gotten to a point of no return. They're definitely
Speaker 1: not paying that any attention.
Speaker 2: At all.
Speaker 3: They're really not. That's why I tell you, and I've told.
Speaker 1: You, you got to leave bad relationships before they get
Speaker 1: to that point.
Speaker 3: Because when you get to a.
Speaker 1: Point of leaving an abusive relationship, you may not be
Speaker 1: able to leave.
Speaker 3: When you get to that point where you're ready to go,
Speaker 3: you may not be able to leave.
Speaker 1: So you need to go at the very first sign
Speaker 1: of abuse while you're dating.
Speaker 3: Or while you are you know, in the early.
Speaker 1: Phases of dating, you don't wait until things get bad
Speaker 1: to try to leave.
Speaker 2: You leave beforehand.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people that's walking around you right now,
Speaker 1: they're just waiting give me a reason. They are just
Speaker 1: waiting to fly off the hand, off the handle. They
Speaker 1: don't think about the repercussions. They just act we're living
Speaker 1: in scary times.
Speaker 2: We truly are.
Speaker 1: You don't know what's gonna happen from one second to
Speaker 1: the next.
Speaker 2: You just don't know. People are not safe anywhere.
Speaker 1: There was just a shooting at a va, n Georgia,
Speaker 1: and there was a shooting on an.
Speaker 2: Air force base somewhere. People.
Speaker 1: I mean, it is awful. It is awful because you
Speaker 1: don't know who's around you. You don't know the mindsets
Speaker 1: of people around you. That's why it's important to be
Speaker 1: kind to people. Stop having all these attitudes. You go
Speaker 1: to work, your.
Speaker 2: Face is so bent up and out of shape, just
Speaker 2: you look ugly.
Speaker 1: Just frowning for no reason because you're so used to frowning.
Speaker 1: You go to work with all these foes in your
Speaker 1: face from founding, and you have attitudes.
Speaker 2: If you don't want that job, get you another one.
Speaker 1: There's no need to go to work with attitudes because
Speaker 1: see somebody in the worst mindset than you are, and
Speaker 1: you have that attitude with the wrong person that may
Speaker 1: be the last strong. So stop going to work with attitudes.
Speaker 1: The customers didn't do it, so they don't deserve that attitude.
Speaker 1: And I know many people can relate. Listen, I'm a
Speaker 1: person who, let me tell you straight up, I could easily,
Speaker 1: I mean easily have an attitude look mean, you know,
Speaker 1: mean mugging people.
Speaker 2: I could easily do that easily.
Speaker 1: But thank god, I'm not that type of person. I
Speaker 1: don't care how hard my day have been. I don't
Speaker 1: put that on the next person. On the next person
Speaker 1: to come in and see me, I don't put it
Speaker 1: on that person. I treat them just like they were
Speaker 1: my first individual for the day.
Speaker 2: I don't do that.
Speaker 3: And a lot of people work on my nerves.
Speaker 1: They get on my nerves because when you try to
Speaker 1: tell people certain things you know as far as how
Speaker 1: you can help them. Some people you can't tell anything
Speaker 1: because they already know everything. That's irritating when you're coming
Speaker 1: for help and nobody can give you advice or information, suggestions, recommendations.
Speaker 1: That's irritating. Don't come if you already know everything, don't come.
Speaker 1: You know that sort of thing. So people can get
Speaker 1: on your last nerves. But how people affect you is
Speaker 1: on you. It depends on the mindset that you have.
Speaker 3: So what I'm trying to tell you, what.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to convey is you don't know the mindset
Speaker 1: people are in and know it is not your job
Speaker 1: to try to figure it out. But you should be
Speaker 1: mindful and aware of your attitude, your behavior, because you
Speaker 1: can't blame.
Speaker 2: The next person for how you behave, how you act.
Speaker 3: You just can't.
Speaker 2: They can't blame you, you can't blame them.
Speaker 1: But the bottom line is when you leave your home,
Speaker 1: you should leave your home.
Speaker 2: With a positive attitude.
Speaker 1: And you shouldn't allow other people to make you get
Speaker 1: out of character.
Speaker 2: You just shouldn't.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't stoop to the low levels of some people because,
Speaker 1: like I said, you're around broken people who have unresolved
Speaker 1: inner issues, and they will project those issues.
Speaker 2: And some people will take you out.
Speaker 1: You could say anything and they will take you out
Speaker 1: or attempt to take you out, because that's how broken
Speaker 1: they are.
Speaker 2: So you have to be mindful.
Speaker 1: Of you, be aware of you and your behavior, your
Speaker 1: attitude because you don't know.
Speaker 2: You just don't know. And besides, you should treat people
Speaker 2: with kindness.
Speaker 1: Anyways, I used to say, when I see people frowning
Speaker 1: up and carrying on, why in the world and you
Speaker 1: look in so many why are you looking so mean?
Speaker 1: But I don't even say that anymore because people crazy.
Speaker 1: That may be the last straw for somebody. Won't you
Speaker 1: wait while I'm looking at me and go off on me?
Speaker 1: So I leave people alone. And it is so hard
Speaker 1: for me because I love messing with people, not in
Speaker 1: a negative way, but I'm a jokester. I love having
Speaker 1: fun and laughing. I meet no strangers because I like
Speaker 1: talking to everybody. I don't care who you are, what
Speaker 1: you look like, none of that.
Speaker 2: But I also know that nowadays you just can't be.
Speaker 1: Like that with everybody because some people serious all the
Speaker 1: time and they are waiting for you to say anything
Speaker 1: out of pocket. Because people they're just not thinking things
Speaker 1: through to the consequences. Because you can go somewhere people
Speaker 1: acting crazy over food over a food order.
Speaker 2: Now you know that's ridiculous. That's ridiculous.
Speaker 1: And believe me, I've seen people of all racists just
Speaker 1: acting ignorant over a food order.
Speaker 2: My God, is just food.
Speaker 1: Go home and cook. If it's that serious, cook your
Speaker 1: own food. If it's that serious, it's not worth going
Speaker 1: to jail or to your graves. It's just food. Same
Speaker 1: thing with this road rage stuff. It's not worth it.
Speaker 1: If somebody cut off, cut you off, or cut.
Speaker 2: In front of you. How you know that.
Speaker 3: They didn't see you? There could have been an accident.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've done it unintentionally, and thank god.
Speaker 3: The people were receptive.
Speaker 1: To I'm sorry and didn't start shooting me, shooting at
Speaker 1: me or anything like that.
Speaker 3: You know, because people, I'm telling.
Speaker 1: You, we are walking amongst.
Speaker 2: People who are ticking time.
Speaker 1: Bombs, just waiting for that last straw. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be that last straw. I don't want you to
Speaker 1: be that last straw. So just be mindful. And I
Speaker 1: also understand even if you are mindful and aware and
Speaker 1: you're being curious courteous, that even anger people who are
Speaker 1: already angry.
Speaker 2: But do your part, do your part.
Speaker 1: Leave them attitudes at home, because I've gotten attitudes from people,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Lord, give me strength, Lord give me strength, because.
Speaker 3: You don't know.
Speaker 1: Who your customer will be, and you with that attitude
Speaker 1: is the last straw. My next book that's coming out
Speaker 1: is a about how the inner you affect you in
Speaker 1: different places, and it's true what's inside of you is
Speaker 1: coming out one way or another, sooner or later. There
Speaker 1: is a YouTube couple who recently broke up.
Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
Speaker 3: What's in you.
Speaker 1: It's coming out, period. I don't care how much you
Speaker 1: love your boo boo or how much your booboo say
Speaker 1: he or she loves you. What's inside is coming out.
Speaker 1: I don't care how much you want them, how much
Speaker 1: they say they want you.
Speaker 3: What's inside it is coming out.
Speaker 1: And that's the way it is with all these millions
Speaker 1: of people in the world. You can fake and pretend
Speaker 1: for only so long before you show who you really are.
Speaker 1: People walking around as if they are okay, knowing they're
Speaker 1: not okay, there is ridiculous. There's no benefit in it.
Speaker 1: If you're not okay, you're not okay. You can never
Speaker 1: be okay by faking and pretending that you are are okay.
Speaker 2: Fix you.
Speaker 1: Invest in you so you can become a better person.
Speaker 1: Many people in the world go through life the very
Speaker 1: same way, the same old mindset, still full of hurt
Speaker 1: and anger, still mad overpast.
Speaker 2: Experiences. See, if you don't control.
Speaker 1: Your negative thoughts and feelings, they will control you and
Speaker 1: they will.
Speaker 3: Eventually consume you.
Speaker 1: People must, people must get a grip because people are
Speaker 1: out of control, just act like savages and.
Speaker 4: Maniacs, insane, insane.
Speaker 3: It's crazy.
Speaker 2: You can't go out just on an outing to have a.
Speaker 1: Good time without someone coming in disrupting the place of business,
Speaker 1: acting crazy, all because of their unresolved issues inside of them,
Speaker 1: year in, year out, carrying the same old rotten, stinking baggage,
Speaker 1: garbage rots in a day before a day is out,
Speaker 1: the trash can is smelling.
Speaker 3: So metaphorically speaking, think.
Speaker 1: About that is all the unresolved people carrying around just
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 2: Full of sewage that they are allowing.
Speaker 1: To dictate and effect the rest of their lives. Instead
Speaker 1: of people choosing to become better, they are choosing to
Speaker 1: lean right into all that negativity, just lean into it
Speaker 1: full throttle, carrying that anger and all of that hatred
Speaker 1: and all of that negativity everywhere they go.
Speaker 2: Such self failure.
Speaker 3: Self neglect.
Speaker 1: Because I've told you many times, every day we live
Speaker 1: is another day that we can be better. It's another
Speaker 1: chance that people don't take. So you just have to
Speaker 1: be careful. You have to be careful. You really have
Speaker 1: to be careful because people are walking time bombs. They're
Speaker 1: walking time bombs. There are people around us every day
Speaker 1: who's contemplating mass murder or contemplating suicide or some form
Speaker 1: of homicide. Every day you look at you look at
Speaker 1: them right in their faces, and you don't even know
Speaker 1: what they're thinking.
Speaker 2: And another thing.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you, when you're out, start being aware,
Speaker 1: be cognizant of your surroundings. I don't know about you.
Speaker 1: I don't like people behind being especially sitting behind me,
Speaker 1: So I always try to put my back to the
Speaker 1: wall or where I can face people, because you don't
Speaker 1: know what somebody gonna do. I'm not paranoid, but I'm
Speaker 1: not stupid either. You don't know what people are gonna do.
Speaker 1: If I see you coming, I can defend myself, but
Speaker 1: I can't if I have my back to you and
Speaker 1: not paying attention.
Speaker 2: I've seen videos where people.
Speaker 1: Are sitting around and other people are coming into the establishment.
Speaker 1: Everybody in there on their phone.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's true.
Speaker 1: People are gone. People are so self asorbed. They're so
Speaker 1: self asorbed, and they also so caught up in this technology.
Speaker 1: It's wild, truly, truly, truly it is. People are not
Speaker 1: unplugging all day long. They're on their emails, they're on
Speaker 1: their their platforms, they're on social media's platforms. I mean
Speaker 1: every day, all day. People don't unplug. That's not good.
Speaker 1: You believe in things that's not true. You're going along
Speaker 1: with things that are wrong.
Speaker 2: Because people really invest more and others.
Speaker 3: Following others, trying.
Speaker 1: To pry into the life of others, you know, to
Speaker 1: find out this and that about other people, but they
Speaker 1: don't invest the time into self, into becoming the best
Speaker 1: you that you can be. Most people are not doing that,
Speaker 1: and that's self failure. That's a disservice to self and
Speaker 1: millions of people, millions are not trying to improve. And
Speaker 1: that's why we continue to see all of the unfortunate
Speaker 1: things in this world. Because people are so so broken.
Speaker 1: They would rather serve the devil, who they've made their god,
Speaker 1: than the creator of the world and his son Jesus.
Speaker 2: They would rather do all of.
Speaker 1: The Satanic rituals and throw up all the Satanic signs
Speaker 1: to show that they are in allegiance with the devil,
Speaker 1: the dark side. They would rather do all of that,
Speaker 1: you know, and have their minds affected and their souls
Speaker 1: lost than to become better people. Because every day, every day,
Speaker 1: we have an opportunity, we have a new chance to
Speaker 1: be better but most people never.
Speaker 3: Take it.
Speaker 1: And just continue in life the same way, projecting their
Speaker 1: pain on others, doing foolishness, faking and pretending. I've recently heard,
Speaker 1: very recently that another one of the Duggarts children has been.
Speaker 2: Charged with.
Speaker 1: Sexual molestation or whatever, whichever it is. I'm not exactly
Speaker 1: one hundred percent sure, but I know it's something in
Speaker 1: that area. And the conversation I had was those children
Speaker 1: obviously went through something when they were those adults now
Speaker 1: they're adults, went through something when they were children, and
Speaker 1: that's the case for most people. But you always have
Speaker 1: a choice to change. Just because you were molested, rape,
Speaker 1: or whatever. As a child, you don't have to grow up.
Speaker 2: And be a perpetrator. You could change.
Speaker 1: You didn't have to let that control the rest of
Speaker 1: your life or dictate the rest of your life.
Speaker 3: As an adult.
Speaker 1: That's on the adult because you always have the opportunity
Speaker 1: to change. Just because you was a victim, you didn't
Speaker 1: have to be a lifetime victim and too victimize others.
Speaker 1: That's a cop out and an excuse. And anybody don't
Speaker 1: like what I said, let's have a conversation about it,
Speaker 1: and I guarantee you when we finished.
Speaker 3: Your mind will be.
Speaker 1: Changed because it don't matter what you went through, who
Speaker 1: did it, how horrific, and for how long.
Speaker 2: You always can choose change for the better. You can
Speaker 2: always choose change.
Speaker 1: You may not receive what you needed as a child,
Speaker 1: you may never learn to cope as a child, but
Speaker 1: you can always change if you choose change. People don't
Speaker 1: because they begin to like who they've become with all
Speaker 1: the faking and pretending, the sneaking, and the tipping and dipping,
Speaker 1: and you know, they think they're safe because they haven't
Speaker 1: got caught. Keep doing wrong, you will get caught. Keep
Speaker 1: messing with fire, you will get burned. You can never
Speaker 1: become better by remaining the same. And it's a shame.
Speaker 1: It's a shame, a sh a shame that any children
Speaker 1: have gone through that. But to do it to other
Speaker 1: children as an adult, or to other people as an adult.
Speaker 2: No excuse, no excuse, none, because you had many years
Speaker 2: to change many but no. People don't choose change.
Speaker 1: Instead, they choose to walk around and project project all
Speaker 1: of their unresolved on other people.
Speaker 2: And that is who we are living amongst.
Speaker 1: From the highest to the lower, is the richest to
Speaker 1: the poorest, all right, I'm done.
Speaker 3: I'm leaving it right there.
Speaker 2: I said. All I want to say, just be careful out.
Speaker 1: There, be safe, be vigilant because we're living around millions
Speaker 1: of impostors, people who are faking and pretending, and many
Speaker 1: are just waiting on the last straw. Much love to you, you,
Speaker 1: and you please share this episode. And you know I
Speaker 1: end all episodes the same, and I hope and I
Speaker 1: pray you do it, keep going it