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<v Speaker 1>I'm back with something for you to think about today.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about awareness.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, you must be aware going out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking to you with all seriousness.

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<v Speaker 3>The world is so full of broken people.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, people who have so many unresolved issues inside

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<v Speaker 1>of them. They're holding on to hurt and pain and

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<v Speaker 1>all they know is to be angry and to project.

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<v Speaker 1>So you go out there minding your own business, and

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<v Speaker 1>people are snapping and doing the unthinkable. I mean, people

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<v Speaker 1>are doing so much foolishness. It's horrible. It is horrible.

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<v Speaker 1>So you better put on the armor of God. You

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<v Speaker 1>better put on the full armor and keep it on.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay protected, stay prayed up, because we are living in

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<v Speaker 1>a world full of broken people who are on the verge.

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<v Speaker 2>They're just waiting, They're just waiting for a moment to snap.

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<v Speaker 1>They're waiting for a reason to go off. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's horrible. It is absolutely horrible. But unfortunately that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way of the world we're in today. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the world, it's the people in the world. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you it is no good. It is dangerous. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember a time I would travel, travel, travel, travel, travel,

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<v Speaker 1>But now I'm like, eh, people are crazy. I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>type of person who don't back down. I don't take

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<v Speaker 1>anybody's crap. I'm not afraid of no one. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care who it is. That's just who I am. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my mama in me and my daddy. But there's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of people who are crazier than me, and

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<v Speaker 1>I know it. There are people who they will do

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<v Speaker 1>things for no apparent reason, only because they are hurt

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<v Speaker 1>and full of pain. See, I don't live my life

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<v Speaker 1>that way projecting. I'm just the type of person who

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<v Speaker 1>don't take people's crap.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to, and I won't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's way different from people who are so broken and

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<v Speaker 1>on the verge of snapping. I mean, they just want

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<v Speaker 1>a person do one little thing, one inkling of a thing,

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<v Speaker 1>so they could go off. They think that is a

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<v Speaker 1>reason for them to go off. Somebody cut in front

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<v Speaker 1>of them, maybe they didn't see.

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<v Speaker 2>You, maybe you were in their blind spot. Things happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But because people are so broken and so full of unresolved.

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<v Speaker 2>Hurt and pain, they cannot see beyond their anger, beyond.

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<v Speaker 1>Their rage, and all they do is act or react.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a very.

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<v Speaker 3>Very unfortunate way for people to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But that is the mindset of many, many individuals in

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<v Speaker 1>this world.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why you hear people.

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<v Speaker 1>Minding their own business and somebody's come out stabbing or

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<v Speaker 1>shooting or whatever it may be.

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<v Speaker 3>Because people are so broken.

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<v Speaker 1>And what they do is they sit around and they

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<v Speaker 1>allow these negative thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>To be, you know, to grow. They give power.

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<v Speaker 1>To those negative thoughts and they allow themselves to succumb

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<v Speaker 1>to those things. See, because everything starts with a thought. Everything,

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<v Speaker 1>everything starts with a thought. Even if a person pull

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<v Speaker 1>out a knife and starts slicing, they thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why they got the knight with him or had

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<v Speaker 1>the knight with him, because they thought about doing what

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<v Speaker 1>they went on to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Same with shooters, they plant it.

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<v Speaker 1>So just like people have time to think about what

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<v Speaker 1>they're going to do, that time that they take, they

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<v Speaker 1>could think about.

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<v Speaker 2>Not doing it. But see, the thing is when people

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<v Speaker 2>are so.

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<v Speaker 1>Invested in their negative thoughts, when they're so influenced by

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<v Speaker 1>their negative thoughts, they have passed that point of no return.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why in.

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<v Speaker 1>My book I talk about how people get no contact

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<v Speaker 1>orders or whatever they may be called. Wherever you are,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, saying you cannot be but a certain amount

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<v Speaker 1>of feet from me. That paper don't mean nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>a person who have a made up mind. Stop thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that piece of paper is going to keep a person

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<v Speaker 1>from doing whatever it is they want to do. If

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go to the point of getting a

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<v Speaker 1>no contact order, whatever they may be called, that person

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<v Speaker 1>is not going to pay that any attention. When they

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten to a point of no return. They're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>not paying that any attention.

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<v Speaker 2>At all.

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<v Speaker 3>They're really not. That's why I tell you, and I've told.

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<v Speaker 1>You, you got to leave bad relationships before they get

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<v Speaker 1>to that point.

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<v Speaker 3>Because when you get to a.

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<v Speaker 1>Point of leaving an abusive relationship, you may not be

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<v Speaker 1>able to leave.

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<v Speaker 3>When you get to that point where you're ready to go,

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<v Speaker 3>you may not be able to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>So you need to go at the very first sign

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<v Speaker 1>of abuse while you're dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Or while you are you know, in the early.

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<v Speaker 1>Phases of dating, you don't wait until things get bad

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<v Speaker 1>to try to leave.

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<v Speaker 2>You leave beforehand.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of people that's walking around you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just waiting give me a reason. They are just

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<v Speaker 1>waiting to fly off the hand, off the handle. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't think about the repercussions. They just act we're living

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<v Speaker 1>in scary times.

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<v Speaker 2>We truly are.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know what's gonna happen from one second to

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<v Speaker 1>the next.

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't know. People are not safe anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>There was just a shooting at a va, n Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a shooting on an.

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<v Speaker 2>Air force base somewhere. People.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is awful. It is awful because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who's around you. You don't know the mindsets

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<v Speaker 1>of people around you. That's why it's important to be

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<v Speaker 1>kind to people. Stop having all these attitudes. You go

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<v Speaker 1>to work, your.

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<v Speaker 2>Face is so bent up and out of shape, just

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<v Speaker 2>you look ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>Just frowning for no reason because you're so used to frowning.

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<v Speaker 1>You go to work with all these foes in your

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<v Speaker 1>face from founding, and you have attitudes.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't want that job, get you another one.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no need to go to work with attitudes because

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<v Speaker 1>see somebody in the worst mindset than you are, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have that attitude with the wrong person that may

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<v Speaker 1>be the last strong. So stop going to work with attitudes.

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<v Speaker 1>The customers didn't do it, so they don't deserve that attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know many people can relate. Listen, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>person who, let me tell you straight up, I could easily,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean easily have an attitude look mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>mean mugging people.

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<v Speaker 2>I could easily do that easily.

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<v Speaker 1>But thank god, I'm not that type of person. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care how hard my day have been. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>put that on the next person. On the next person

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<v Speaker 1>to come in and see me, I don't put it

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<v Speaker 1>on that person. I treat them just like they were

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<v Speaker 1>my first individual for the day.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>And a lot of people work on my nerves.

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<v Speaker 1>They get on my nerves because when you try to

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<v Speaker 1>tell people certain things you know as far as how

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<v Speaker 1>you can help them. Some people you can't tell anything

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<v Speaker 1>because they already know everything. That's irritating when you're coming

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<v Speaker 1>for help and nobody can give you advice or information, suggestions, recommendations.

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<v Speaker 1>That's irritating. Don't come if you already know everything, don't come.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that sort of thing. So people can get

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<v Speaker 1>on your last nerves. But how people affect you is

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<v Speaker 1>on you. It depends on the mindset that you have.

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<v Speaker 3>So what I'm trying to tell you, what.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to convey is you don't know the mindset

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<v Speaker 1>people are in and know it is not your job

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<v Speaker 1>to try to figure it out. But you should be

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<v Speaker 1>mindful and aware of your attitude, your behavior, because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't blame.

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<v Speaker 2>The next person for how you behave, how you act.

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<v Speaker 3>You just can't.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't blame you, you can't blame them.

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<v Speaker 1>But the bottom line is when you leave your home,

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<v Speaker 1>you should leave your home.

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<v Speaker 2>With a positive attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>And you shouldn't allow other people to make you get

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<v Speaker 1>out of character.

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<v Speaker 2>You just shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't stoop to the low levels of some people because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, you're around broken people who have unresolved

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<v Speaker 1>inner issues, and they will project those issues.

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<v Speaker 2>And some people will take you out.

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<v Speaker 1>You could say anything and they will take you out

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<v Speaker 1>or attempt to take you out, because that's how broken

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<v Speaker 2>So you have to be mindful.

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<v Speaker 1>Of you, be aware of you and your behavior, your

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<v Speaker 1>attitude because you don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't know. And besides, you should treat people

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<v Speaker 2>with kindness.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyways, I used to say, when I see people frowning

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<v Speaker 1>up and carrying on, why in the world and you

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<v Speaker 1>look in so many why are you looking so mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't even say that anymore because people crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>That may be the last straw for somebody. Won't you

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<v Speaker 1>wait while I'm looking at me and go off on me?

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<v Speaker 1>So I leave people alone. And it is so hard

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<v Speaker 1>for me because I love messing with people, not in

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<v Speaker 1>a negative way, but I'm a jokester. I love having

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<v Speaker 1>fun and laughing. I meet no strangers because I like

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<v Speaker 1>talking to everybody. I don't care who you are, what

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<v Speaker 1>you look like, none of that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also know that nowadays you just can't be.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that with everybody because some people serious all the

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<v Speaker 1>time and they are waiting for you to say anything

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<v Speaker 1>out of pocket. Because people they're just not thinking things

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<v Speaker 1>through to the consequences. Because you can go somewhere people

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<v Speaker 1>acting crazy over food over a food order.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you know that's ridiculous. That's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>And believe me, I've seen people of all racists just

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<v Speaker 1>acting ignorant over a food order.

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<v Speaker 2>My God, is just food.

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<v Speaker 1>Go home and cook. If it's that serious, cook your

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<v Speaker 1>own food. If it's that serious, it's not worth going

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<v Speaker 1>to jail or to your graves. It's just food. Same

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<v Speaker 1>thing with this road rage stuff. It's not worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>If somebody cut off, cut you off, or cut.

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<v Speaker 2>In front of you. How you know that.

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<v Speaker 3>They didn't see you? There could have been an accident.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've done it unintentionally, and thank god.

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<v Speaker 3>The people were receptive.

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<v Speaker 1>To I'm sorry and didn't start shooting me, shooting at

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<v Speaker 1>me or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, because people, I'm telling.

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<v Speaker 1>You, we are walking amongst.

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<v Speaker 2>People who are ticking time.

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<v Speaker 1>Bombs, just waiting for that last straw. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be that last straw. I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>be that last straw. So just be mindful. And I

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<v Speaker 1>also understand even if you are mindful and aware and

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<v Speaker 1>you're being curious courteous, that even anger people who are

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<v Speaker 2>But do your part, do your part.

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<v Speaker 1>Leave them attitudes at home, because I've gotten attitudes from people,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, Lord, give me strength, Lord give me strength, because.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Who your customer will be, and you with that attitude

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<v Speaker 1>is a about how the inner you affect you in

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<v Speaker 1>different places, and it's true what's inside of you is

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<v Speaker 3>What's in you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's coming out, period. I don't care how much you

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care how much you want them, how much

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<v Speaker 3>What's inside it is coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the way it is with all these millions

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<v Speaker 1>for only so long before you show who you really are.

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<v Speaker 1>People walking around as if they are okay, knowing they're

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not okay, you're not okay. You can never

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<v Speaker 1>be okay by faking and pretending that you are are okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Fix you.

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<v Speaker 1>Invest in you so you can become a better person.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people in the world go through life the very

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<v Speaker 1>same way, the same old mindset, still full of hurt

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<v Speaker 2>Experiences. See, if you don't control.

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<v Speaker 1>Your negative thoughts and feelings, they will control you and

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<v Speaker 3>Eventually consume you.

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<v Speaker 1>People must, people must get a grip because people are

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<v Speaker 4>Maniacs, insane, insane.

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<v Speaker 3>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't go out just on an outing to have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Good time without someone coming in disrupting the place of business,

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<v Speaker 1>acting crazy, all because of their unresolved issues inside of them,

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<v Speaker 1>year in, year out, carrying the same old rotten, stinking baggage,

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<v Speaker 1>About that is all the unresolved people carrying around just

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<v Speaker 2>Full of sewage that they are allowing.

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<v Speaker 1>To dictate and effect the rest of their lives. Instead

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<v Speaker 1>of people choosing to become better, they are choosing to

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<v Speaker 1>lean right into all that negativity, just lean into it

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<v Speaker 1>full throttle, carrying that anger and all of that hatred

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<v Speaker 1>and all of that negativity everywhere they go.

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<v Speaker 2>Such self failure.

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<v Speaker 3>Self neglect.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I've told you many times, every day we live

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<v Speaker 1>chance that people don't take. So you just have to

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<v Speaker 1>be careful. You have to be careful. You really have

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<v Speaker 1>to be careful because people are walking time bombs. They're

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<v Speaker 1>walking time bombs. There are people around us every day

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<v Speaker 1>who's contemplating mass murder or contemplating suicide or some form

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<v Speaker 1>of homicide. Every day you look at you look at

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<v Speaker 1>them right in their faces, and you don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell you, when you're out, start being aware,

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<v Speaker 1>be cognizant of your surroundings. I don't know about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like people behind being especially sitting behind me,

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<v Speaker 1>So I always try to put my back to the

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<v Speaker 1>know what somebody gonna do. I'm not paranoid, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not stupid either. You don't know what people are gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>If I see you coming, I can defend myself, but

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen videos where people.

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<v Speaker 1>Are sitting around and other people are coming into the establishment.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody in there on their phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>People are gone. People are so self asorbed. They're so

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<v Speaker 1>self asorbed, and they also so caught up in this technology.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wild, truly, truly, truly it is. People are not

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<v Speaker 1>unplugging all day long. They're on their emails, they're on

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<v Speaker 1>their their platforms, they're on social media's platforms. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>every day, all day. People don't unplug. That's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>You believe in things that's not true. You're going along

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<v Speaker 2>Because people really invest more and others.

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<v Speaker 3>Following others, trying.

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<v Speaker 1>To pry into the life of others, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>find out this and that about other people, but they

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<v Speaker 1>don't invest the time into self, into becoming the best

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<v Speaker 1>you that you can be. Most people are not doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's self failure. That's a disservice to self and

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<v Speaker 1>millions of people, millions are not trying to improve. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we continue to see all of the unfortunate

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<v Speaker 1>things in this world. Because people are so so broken.

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<v Speaker 1>They would rather serve the devil, who they've made their god,

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<v Speaker 1>than the creator of the world and his son Jesus.

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<v Speaker 2>They would rather do all of.

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<v Speaker 1>The Satanic rituals and throw up all the Satanic signs

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<v Speaker 1>to show that they are in allegiance with the devil,

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<v Speaker 1>the dark side. They would rather do all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and have their minds affected and their souls

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<v Speaker 1>lost than to become better people. Because every day, every day,

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<v Speaker 1>we have an opportunity, we have a new chance to

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<v Speaker 1>be better but most people never.

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<v Speaker 3>Take it.

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<v Speaker 1>And just continue in life the same way, projecting their

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<v Speaker 1>pain on others, doing foolishness, faking and pretending. I've recently heard,

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<v Speaker 1>very recently that another one of the Duggarts children has been.

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<v Speaker 1>Sexual molestation or whatever, whichever it is. I'm not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred percent sure, but I know it's something in

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<v Speaker 1>that area. And the conversation I had was those children

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<v Speaker 1>obviously went through something when they were those adults now

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<v Speaker 1>they're adults, went through something when they were children, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the case for most people. But you always have

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<v Speaker 1>a choice to change. Just because you were molested, rape,

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. As a child, you don't have to grow up.

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<v Speaker 2>And be a perpetrator. You could change.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't have to let that control the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>As an adult.

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<v Speaker 1>That's on the adult because you always have the opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to change. Just because you was a victim, you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be a lifetime victim and too victimize others.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a cop out and an excuse. And anybody don't

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<v Speaker 1>like what I said, let's have a conversation about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guarantee you when we finished.

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<v Speaker 3>Your mind will be.

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<v Speaker 1>Changed because it don't matter what you went through, who

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<v Speaker 1>did it, how horrific, and for how long.

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<v Speaker 2>You always can choose change for the better. You can

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<v Speaker 2>always choose change.

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<v Speaker 1>You may not receive what you needed as a child,

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<v Speaker 1>you may never learn to cope as a child, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can always change if you choose change. People don't

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<v Speaker 1>because they begin to like who they've become with all

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<v Speaker 1>the faking and pretending, the sneaking, and the tipping and dipping,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, they think they're safe because they haven't

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<v Speaker 1>got caught. Keep doing wrong, you will get caught. Keep

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<v Speaker 1>messing with fire, you will get burned. You can never

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<v Speaker 1>become better by remaining the same. And it's a shame.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a shame, a sh a shame that any children

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<v Speaker 1>have gone through that. But to do it to other

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<v Speaker 1>children as an adult, or to other people as an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>No excuse, no excuse, none, because you had many years

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<v Speaker 2>to change many but no. People don't choose change.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead, they choose to walk around and project project all

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<v Speaker 1>of their unresolved on other people.

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<v Speaker 2>And that is who we are living amongst.

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<v Speaker 1>From the highest to the lower, is the richest to

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<v Speaker 1>the poorest, all right, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm leaving it right there.

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<v Speaker 2>I said. All I want to say, just be careful out.

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<v Speaker 1>There, be safe, be vigilant because we're living around millions

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<v Speaker 1>of impostors, people who are faking and pretending, and many

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<v Speaker 1>are just waiting on the last straw. Much love to you, you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you please share this episode. And you know I

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<v Speaker 1>end all episodes the same, and I hope and I

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<v Speaker 1>pray you do it, keep going it