WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:07.120 I made a decision, I'll pay Sunny Sun yet on 2 00:00:07.719 --> 00:00:09.359 I had a vision. 3 00:00:10.839 --> 00:00:11.160 Nice. 4 00:00:15.679 --> 00:00:16.800 What's up everybody? 5 00:00:17.120 --> 00:00:19.480 Welcome to a brand new year. For crying out loud, 6 00:00:19.760 --> 00:00:23.440 we missed you, guys. It's a brand new twenty twenty six. 7 00:00:24.039 --> 00:00:27.359 I hope you guys are all feeling well. I missed you, Stephanie. 8 00:00:27.480 --> 00:00:29.239 We haven't been in the studio for two weeks. 9 00:00:30.199 --> 00:00:31.399 Two whole weeks. 10 00:00:31.760 --> 00:00:33.240 That's a long time for us. 11 00:00:33.719 --> 00:00:33.960 Listen. 12 00:00:34.039 --> 00:00:37.280 We've been doing this show fifteen years now. 13 00:00:37.600 --> 00:00:42.840 Yeah, and we rarely ever miss a week or an episode. 14 00:00:42.880 --> 00:00:46.159 We really don't, and we we're only going to miss 15 00:00:46.200 --> 00:00:50.719 one week. So we pre recorded two shows with LB right, 16 00:00:51.159 --> 00:00:53.520 which is why you didn't get a Patreon that week. 17 00:00:53.679 --> 00:00:57.200 That was like a bridge too far. Yeah, but this 18 00:00:57.280 --> 00:01:01.200 was our first like vacation. And then one week into it, 19 00:01:01.840 --> 00:01:05.959 you messaged me and you're like, okay, so we end. No, girl, 20 00:01:06.040 --> 00:01:08.560 we have another week off, and You're like, what, it's 21 00:01:08.560 --> 00:01:09.760 already been like a month. 22 00:01:09.920 --> 00:01:12.719 It seemed like it was forever because I was in 23 00:01:12.799 --> 00:01:15.480 Chicago still and I was coming home the night before 24 00:01:16.040 --> 00:01:20.040 when we usually record on a Monday, and I was like, what, 25 00:01:20.040 --> 00:01:22.959 what was What's going on for tomorrow? And Stephanie's like, girl, 26 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:27.159 we have another week off. I was like, oh, that's Rallelujah. 27 00:01:27.239 --> 00:01:30.280 I know yeah, because I was coming home late the 28 00:01:30.359 --> 00:01:33.840 night before from Chicago, I would have been. 29 00:01:33.840 --> 00:01:38.439 Yeah, right, yeah. It's it feels like so much has happened. 30 00:01:38.519 --> 00:01:40.400 It feels like it's been a year. 31 00:01:40.959 --> 00:01:43.079 It has. It feels like a lot of life. Yeah. 32 00:01:43.840 --> 00:01:52.959 I trip, Yeah, I've not taken any trips, but the 33 00:01:53.079 --> 00:01:54.040 kids have been home. 34 00:01:56.519 --> 00:01:58.159 And I have a gift for you that you're going 35 00:01:58.200 --> 00:01:58.640 to open. 36 00:01:59.159 --> 00:02:01.239 Then I'm going to open on the error. Yes. 37 00:02:01.879 --> 00:02:04.159 Should we talk about that? Want me to set that up? 38 00:02:05.159 --> 00:02:05.480 Yes? 39 00:02:06.040 --> 00:02:12.400 So okay, there's this guy that we found years ago. 40 00:02:12.919 --> 00:02:17.039 His name is Robert Phelps and you can look at 41 00:02:17.080 --> 00:02:23.120 him on his Instagram. His his instagram is Robert pH 42 00:02:23.319 --> 00:02:29.120 e l P. Robert Phelp Phelps p h e l P. 43 00:02:29.520 --> 00:02:35.360 S Art Robert Phelps Art on Instagram. And he is 44 00:02:35.360 --> 00:02:42.840 this phenomenal gifted artist that paints mostly animals, people's pets. 45 00:02:43.360 --> 00:02:47.159 And somebody had him pay Molly for us years ago 46 00:02:47.759 --> 00:02:49.919 and we loved it so much, which I still have 47 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:53.639 that's up in our house. And then I had him 48 00:02:53.680 --> 00:02:58.159 paid whenever somebody in the family's little doggie passed away, 49 00:02:58.520 --> 00:03:02.240 I would have him paint a little art, you know, 50 00:03:02.680 --> 00:03:05.879 for their dog, and it was really I liked it. 51 00:03:05.879 --> 00:03:08.039 It was a nice gift to give to people. And 52 00:03:08.080 --> 00:03:11.400 then he also painted Phil out of Nowhere, like somebody 53 00:03:11.439 --> 00:03:14.719 had him do Phil, and he just sort of captures 54 00:03:14.759 --> 00:03:19.360 your your animal's soul. It's really hard to explain unless 55 00:03:19.400 --> 00:03:21.680 you know your dog. Like you can look at the 56 00:03:21.719 --> 00:03:24.439 painting and go, oh, it's beautiful, but when you really 57 00:03:24.520 --> 00:03:28.639 know your pet, you see he really has this gift 58 00:03:28.719 --> 00:03:31.199 of capturing their soul, like their eyes. 59 00:03:31.639 --> 00:03:33.319 You see it in his paintings. 60 00:03:33.759 --> 00:03:36.840 So when people passed away, I was like, I really 61 00:03:36.919 --> 00:03:39.039 want him to paint a picture of people for you, 62 00:03:40.360 --> 00:03:42.240 because we never give each other gifts and we don't 63 00:03:42.240 --> 00:03:44.599 need to, but this was kind of important. 64 00:03:45.000 --> 00:03:47.199 I really wanted it was so sweet of you, and 65 00:03:47.240 --> 00:03:49.879 I'm so excited and so should I? 66 00:03:50.400 --> 00:03:50.800 Yeah? 67 00:03:50.840 --> 00:03:54.319 Should I open it? So? He so, So. 68 00:03:54.240 --> 00:03:55.439 I have it here wrapped. 69 00:03:55.800 --> 00:03:58.319 Okay, I'm gonna videotape it and we'll put it on 70 00:03:58.360 --> 00:04:02.120 our Facebook page, yeah, or Instagram. 71 00:04:02.199 --> 00:04:05.400 So he sent me a card. Dear Stephanie. It was 72 00:04:05.439 --> 00:04:08.680 an absolute joy painting such a beautiful girl. I hope 73 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:11.800 this painting helps keep her shining with you always warm 74 00:04:11.840 --> 00:04:12.759 regards Robert. 75 00:04:13.240 --> 00:04:16.920 Oh okay, and by the way, this has been sitting 76 00:04:16.920 --> 00:04:17.839 in my house for a week. 77 00:04:18.319 --> 00:04:28.399 Okay. Oh, I like that he sent like wrapping paper, Ellie. 78 00:04:28.560 --> 00:04:33.360 Oh now it's oh now okay, story Bobe. 79 00:04:37.240 --> 00:04:37.639 Okay. 80 00:04:40.360 --> 00:04:43.000 So Stephanie sent me a couple of pictures of people 81 00:04:43.079 --> 00:04:44.519 that I sent along time. 82 00:04:47.560 --> 00:05:02.240 Oh oh, oh my gosh. 83 00:04:59.319 --> 00:05:05.680 Look at me. And I asked for Oh my god, 84 00:05:07.519 --> 00:05:12.160 so exact is it? But not but not like not 85 00:05:12.319 --> 00:05:14.839 like paint just painting the picture right, you're so. 86 00:05:15.079 --> 00:05:18.000 Right, like he capt spirit, He captures it. 87 00:05:18.360 --> 00:05:20.199 Should I bring do you want to bring it closer? 88 00:05:20.800 --> 00:05:22.879 Okay? So we'll take I'll take better pictures and we'll 89 00:05:22.920 --> 00:05:23.319 post it. 90 00:05:23.399 --> 00:05:27.959 Okay. And I asked for her tags because the picture 91 00:05:28.439 --> 00:05:31.160 had really old tags and it wasn't the weren't the 92 00:05:31.639 --> 00:05:34.279 her tag that she usually wears. So I asked if 93 00:05:34.600 --> 00:05:37.040 it could be. So he had to go off of me, 94 00:05:37.240 --> 00:05:40.399 just explaining like a pit like the tags, yes, and 95 00:05:40.439 --> 00:05:43.959 how you wanted it and did he yes, it's perfect. 96 00:05:44.639 --> 00:05:46.920 Ah, oh, I love it. 97 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:50.560 So you see what I mean, how he captures their 98 00:05:50.600 --> 00:05:53.759 soul like it just you can like just like stare 99 00:05:53.800 --> 00:05:54.160 at it. 100 00:05:54.360 --> 00:05:56.040 I'm going to put it in my office. I'm going 101 00:05:56.120 --> 00:05:58.160 to put it where I do my podcast. Oh nice, 102 00:05:58.439 --> 00:06:01.639 look at it all the time. Oh, thank you so much. 103 00:06:01.639 --> 00:06:03.639 I would car and hug you, but it would break 104 00:06:03.720 --> 00:06:07.680 up our show. Yeah, no, it's okay, thank you. Yeah, 105 00:06:07.839 --> 00:06:08.759 Merry Christmas. 106 00:06:10.160 --> 00:06:13.920 So I love it so much. 107 00:06:14.240 --> 00:06:15.120 I'm glad you're doing. 108 00:06:15.519 --> 00:06:18.120 Thank you. Robert, yeah listening. 109 00:06:18.120 --> 00:06:21.519 Yes, go check him out. Robert Phelps art. 110 00:06:21.839 --> 00:06:23.399 Oh my gosh. You know who else I want to 111 00:06:23.439 --> 00:06:26.399 think is a my GLP lady. 112 00:06:27.160 --> 00:06:29.120 Ah, how's that going. 113 00:06:29.240 --> 00:06:30.879 I just want to say that I've kind of come 114 00:06:30.959 --> 00:06:34.759 full circle on the you know, I was really anxious 115 00:06:34.759 --> 00:06:38.920 about it and then and then I got some heat 116 00:06:39.040 --> 00:06:40.920 a little bit when I was like, yeah, I've been 117 00:06:40.920 --> 00:06:45.319 taking the GOLP and it's good. Oh. Then I was 118 00:06:45.360 --> 00:06:47.959 feeling a little bit like I'd taken too much. I 119 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:51.639 do have to get used to it because when I 120 00:06:51.680 --> 00:06:53.680 first was on it, as I said, I couldn't I 121 00:06:53.800 --> 00:06:57.920 was like, I can't eat at all. But then I 122 00:06:57.920 --> 00:07:00.160 I went down in the dose and I was basically 123 00:07:00.240 --> 00:07:04.000 microdosing one MILLI you start at two point five, but 124 00:07:04.040 --> 00:07:11.160 then I was doing one. But anyway, long story short, 125 00:07:09.399 --> 00:07:14.519 I've adjusted out and now I'm at like almost two 126 00:07:14.560 --> 00:07:16.879 and a half, almost at what most people start with. 127 00:07:17.439 --> 00:07:20.120 And it's pretty great. And I'm going to tell you 128 00:07:20.160 --> 00:07:24.959 why it's the I can understand why I've heard that 129 00:07:25.040 --> 00:07:28.879 people like Oprah have gotten sober using it, like even 130 00:07:28.920 --> 00:07:31.319 though they just took it to lose weight. It does 131 00:07:31.399 --> 00:07:36.160 something to the sort of compulsive feeling that you want 132 00:07:36.160 --> 00:07:38.839 to just overeat and that you can't get full. And 133 00:07:38.959 --> 00:07:41.319 it's like it's not just a physical thing. It doesn't 134 00:07:41.399 --> 00:07:44.160 just make you feel It does also make you feel 135 00:07:44.199 --> 00:07:48.279 full quicker. It just changes a little bit of something 136 00:07:48.319 --> 00:07:50.680 in the way your brain works so that you don't 137 00:07:50.759 --> 00:07:55.319 feel like, oh my god, I can't get satisfied right right. 138 00:07:55.680 --> 00:07:59.120 It really does work in a way that I haven't 139 00:07:59.160 --> 00:08:02.800 felt like, I'm so much less compulsive about sugar, so. 140 00:08:02.920 --> 00:08:05.079 Like the sugar cratings are completely gone. 141 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:07.319 Well I'm not going to say they're completely gone, that 142 00:08:07.360 --> 00:08:10.920 would not be true, okay, but like I originally lost 143 00:08:10.920 --> 00:08:16.040 some weight, but also you know how like, well you 144 00:08:16.439 --> 00:08:18.720 probably don't have this, this is like a me thing. 145 00:08:19.040 --> 00:08:22.800 But in the past, always whenever I've lost weight, even 146 00:08:22.800 --> 00:08:24.240 if I didn't have a lot of weight to lose. 147 00:08:24.360 --> 00:08:25.959 But if I had some weight to lose and then 148 00:08:25.959 --> 00:08:30.120 I lost some weight, a compulsive feeling would kick in. 149 00:08:30.199 --> 00:08:32.399 It's very all or nothing. My brain is very all 150 00:08:32.480 --> 00:08:36.080 or nothing. So it felt very much like, well, if 151 00:08:36.080 --> 00:08:38.200 I lost some weight, then now I could be. 152 00:08:38.159 --> 00:08:41.519 Really skinny, right, you know, Yeah, I'm going to keep going. 153 00:08:41.559 --> 00:08:44.440 And it's not if you're thinking like, oh, that's just anorexic. 154 00:08:44.559 --> 00:08:48.240 It's not that. It's more like I have to be 155 00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:51.159 working towards something. I've got to achieve this. I'm already 156 00:08:51.200 --> 00:08:53.840 I'm having control, so now I want to stay in control, 157 00:08:53.919 --> 00:08:58.120 and but I'm not having that this time. I'm like, Okay, 158 00:08:58.159 --> 00:09:01.360 I lost some weight. I fit back into my like cool, 159 00:09:02.039 --> 00:09:05.240 Like I'd like to keep the feeling going of not 160 00:09:05.559 --> 00:09:09.600 feeling like thinking about food all the time. It really 161 00:09:09.679 --> 00:09:12.399 does do the thing that they say reduces the food noise. 162 00:09:12.960 --> 00:09:18.720 And our girl, my girl Karen, who I is in 163 00:09:18.759 --> 00:09:22.600 our Facebook group, has been helping a lot of our 164 00:09:22.720 --> 00:09:25.919 fcol people wow. And she said that she will do 165 00:09:26.639 --> 00:09:29.600 fifteen percent off. She's not an advertiser on our show. 166 00:09:29.759 --> 00:09:32.720 I just a bunch of people were saying like, can 167 00:09:32.799 --> 00:09:37.120 I use your girl? Because some of the things that 168 00:09:37.279 --> 00:09:40.559 even things we advertise, which are great and I have 169 00:09:40.600 --> 00:09:43.879 a friend who's using one of our advertisers, but it 170 00:09:44.000 --> 00:09:46.639 is a little bit more pricey because you have to 171 00:09:46.759 --> 00:09:49.879 sometimes pay for months up front. You know, they get 172 00:09:49.919 --> 00:09:52.200 you in with an introductory price, but then you're going 173 00:09:52.279 --> 00:09:54.919 to pay more. Listen, you get for that, you do 174 00:09:55.000 --> 00:09:58.120 get ongoing care from doctors. But if you don't feel 175 00:09:58.120 --> 00:10:00.399 like you need that, yeah, and you just want the 176 00:10:00.440 --> 00:10:03.960 medication right, good instructions, and she sends you everything you need, 177 00:10:05.159 --> 00:10:08.159 it's it. Yeah, so you're just staying at that at 178 00:10:08.159 --> 00:10:11.240 that dose, you're not you feel like you don't need to. 179 00:10:11.519 --> 00:10:16.440 I've gotten a couple more vials of it, and but 180 00:10:16.559 --> 00:10:18.639 I have been well, no, I did go up. So 181 00:10:18.720 --> 00:10:21.440 I had originally gone from two to one, and then 182 00:10:21.519 --> 00:10:23.960 I've slowly climbed back up and now I'm back at 183 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:27.159 like a little over two. Okay, But and it's doing 184 00:10:27.200 --> 00:10:29.840 the thing that it was doing before. Listen, some people 185 00:10:29.840 --> 00:10:32.919 are on like fifteen, Wow, you can go way up. 186 00:10:33.000 --> 00:10:35.519 She's but it's not like I'm It's not like you 187 00:10:35.519 --> 00:10:37.440 know Heroin right, you need a lot? 188 00:10:37.720 --> 00:10:40.279 Yeah, yeah, you. 189 00:10:40.240 --> 00:10:41.840 Guys know what I mean. Like you know when you're 190 00:10:41.840 --> 00:10:44.080 doing like, yeah, heroin and you're. 191 00:10:44.360 --> 00:10:45.159 Feel like you need more. 192 00:10:45.840 --> 00:10:49.960 Yeah, yeah, I got to shoot him a lot more. 193 00:10:50.159 --> 00:10:53.159 Do I get the same high? God? Darn it? Well 194 00:10:53.159 --> 00:10:53.840 that's great. 195 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:56.360 I like that that you now feeling like you can 196 00:10:56.360 --> 00:10:58.519 fit into your jeans and feeling better. 197 00:10:58.600 --> 00:11:01.759 And yeah, it doesn't stop from wearing hugely baggy sweats 198 00:11:01.759 --> 00:11:05.120 every day, of course not. But I can see why 199 00:11:05.960 --> 00:11:09.000 people like it for other compulsive things. I know people 200 00:11:09.000 --> 00:11:12.039 who have used it to help quit smoking, for like 201 00:11:12.279 --> 00:11:13.120 it can help. 202 00:11:14.440 --> 00:11:15.559 Yeah, I know. 203 00:11:16.159 --> 00:11:18.759 No, I'm not suggesting that you go to GLP. I'm 204 00:11:18.759 --> 00:11:21.200 just saying it's it's a cool side effect. 205 00:11:21.320 --> 00:11:22.960 Yes, no, I've heard about that. 206 00:11:23.679 --> 00:11:25.840 And I amn't going to have an appointment soon with 207 00:11:25.879 --> 00:11:30.519 my doctor knock around for my yearly checkup. 208 00:11:31.240 --> 00:11:35.200 So I have one coming up, you do, yes, I 209 00:11:35.240 --> 00:11:36.720 wonder if we have it the same day. I feel 210 00:11:36.759 --> 00:11:41.360 like my knock around appointment, I can't remember. 211 00:11:41.000 --> 00:11:42.600 Off they may, I mean it's soon? 212 00:11:43.039 --> 00:11:44.639 Is it soon? Yes? 213 00:11:44.720 --> 00:11:48.279 Yeah, mine's not for a while. Mine's for like a. 214 00:11:48.279 --> 00:11:51.000 Mine is Oh, mine's on Thursday. 215 00:11:51.240 --> 00:11:54.240 Oh yeah, no, mine's from like in a month. Oh 216 00:11:54.360 --> 00:11:55.440 I just made the appointment. 217 00:11:57.440 --> 00:12:01.879 Yeah, okay, so Thursday's actually really perfect because tomorrow I'm 218 00:12:01.919 --> 00:12:02.759 getting a tattoo. 219 00:12:03.519 --> 00:12:06.200 You are yes, and what are you getting? 220 00:12:06.399 --> 00:12:09.399 And where you're thinking. If you're thinking, oh, you're going 221 00:12:09.480 --> 00:12:12.480 to get a tattoo of Pepo, you would be incorrect 222 00:12:12.840 --> 00:12:15.639 not getting a tattoo of Pepo. I'm getting a tattoo. 223 00:12:15.799 --> 00:12:18.720 I think I said this before of the I want 224 00:12:18.759 --> 00:12:20.759 the outline of the state of California. 225 00:12:20.840 --> 00:12:24.960 That's cool on my forearm really like, oh, I'm by 226 00:12:25.000 --> 00:12:25.679 your wrist. 227 00:12:25.840 --> 00:12:29.759 Like but like here right under your risk forearm. Yeah, yeah, 228 00:12:29.799 --> 00:12:33.639 like above my wrist, how big? See funny thing you 229 00:12:33.639 --> 00:12:36.440 should say that. So when I was with Sadie, I'm 230 00:12:36.480 --> 00:12:40.919 going to the guy at the Honorable Society where Sadie 231 00:12:40.919 --> 00:12:44.320 got her big tattoo. And of course I don't know 232 00:12:44.320 --> 00:12:46.279 with tattoos. I feel like a lot of people are 233 00:12:46.320 --> 00:12:48.519 of the mind that bigger is better, but I'm not 234 00:12:48.600 --> 00:12:51.879 of that mind. Now. Yeah, So he showed me three drawings. 235 00:12:51.879 --> 00:12:54.600 He was like, I made three designs for you, and 236 00:12:54.679 --> 00:12:58.480 the smaller of the designs was still a little too 237 00:12:58.480 --> 00:13:01.000 big for me. But then say I was like, yeah, 238 00:13:01.120 --> 00:13:03.519 I think this, but like a little bit smaller than that. 239 00:13:03.600 --> 00:13:07.360 And Sadie's like, what, no, that's that's so small. And 240 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:11.320 I was like, it's not that small, you know. He 241 00:13:11.559 --> 00:13:13.559 don't want a giant I don't want to be I 242 00:13:13.559 --> 00:13:16.440 don't want my arm to be like Caliver, right, just 243 00:13:16.480 --> 00:13:18.519 want it to be like kind of something for me. 244 00:13:18.799 --> 00:13:20.000 Yeah, I get that. 245 00:13:20.240 --> 00:13:23.200 Somebody I know just got a tattoo of their their 246 00:13:23.279 --> 00:13:27.639 kids first initial on their arm, like right, kind of 247 00:13:27.679 --> 00:13:30.679 like on the inside of their arm, near the back 248 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:33.200 of the by the elbow, on the opposite side of 249 00:13:33.240 --> 00:13:36.200 the elbow. Okay, just a little, just a little like initial. 250 00:13:36.519 --> 00:13:40.279 But it's so small it looks like dirt. Oh that's 251 00:13:40.320 --> 00:13:40.679 the thing. 252 00:13:41.320 --> 00:13:44.320 And but but it is just an initial, it's not anything. 253 00:13:44.480 --> 00:13:46.720 Yeah, no, this would be a good couple inches. 254 00:13:46.879 --> 00:13:48.799 Yeah or what see, that's the thing you want it. 255 00:13:49.000 --> 00:13:51.360 You don't want it too little because then somebody's going 256 00:13:51.440 --> 00:13:52.720 to be like, you got something on your arm? 257 00:13:52.960 --> 00:13:55.639 No, no, no, but I think the design, I think 258 00:13:55.679 --> 00:13:58.480 the one that he drew was like three inches. It 259 00:13:58.559 --> 00:14:01.360 was pretty big. I I don't want like a little 260 00:14:01.399 --> 00:14:04.039 one where you'd have to be close to it. It is, right, 261 00:14:04.080 --> 00:14:08.639 but like okay, like that two inches big? Yeah, like 262 00:14:09.000 --> 00:14:11.360 two and a half inches me. Yeah, I don't know. 263 00:14:12.080 --> 00:14:17.039 That's great anyway. Doing that, John was annoyed. 264 00:14:18.279 --> 00:14:21.000 Because well, John doesn't have any tattoos, does he? 265 00:14:21.240 --> 00:14:26.120 No? No, No, he's a loss from Connecticut. He's there. 266 00:14:26.320 --> 00:14:31.879 The man has no he has edge in his personality 267 00:14:31.960 --> 00:14:34.279 and in his but he's not an edgy man. The 268 00:14:34.320 --> 00:14:38.559 guy's been wearing listen, he was like a gap guy. 269 00:14:39.200 --> 00:14:43.840 I think maybe J Crew. I got him into Lucky brand, 270 00:14:43.840 --> 00:14:46.080 but that was years ago, and now Lucky is like 271 00:14:46.440 --> 00:14:47.720 the official Dad brand. 272 00:14:47.919 --> 00:14:52.960 Yeah, like it's not like cool, right right, No, but. 273 00:14:52.919 --> 00:14:56.000 He's been He wears the same jeans and the same 274 00:14:56.159 --> 00:15:00.399 like the same look as for like twenty something yours. 275 00:15:00.720 --> 00:15:04.960 Yeah, that's a that's a dude. I had to do that, Sonny. 276 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:07.600 I had to update his wardrobe for Christmas because he 277 00:15:07.639 --> 00:15:10.799 was wearing the same Nike sweatpants, the kind that's tight 278 00:15:10.919 --> 00:15:14.039 around the ankle, and Natalian and I were like, dude, 279 00:15:14.039 --> 00:15:16.960 that's not cool, Like you don't want to wear you know, 280 00:15:17.840 --> 00:15:21.120 sweat You want sweatpants that are just lay flat around 281 00:15:21.120 --> 00:15:24.320 the ankle, just a straight leg, not not bunches up 282 00:15:24.360 --> 00:15:27.480 around the ankle. Yeah, so I got him some like 283 00:15:27.600 --> 00:15:31.279 Alo sweatpants, not like these, right. 284 00:15:31.039 --> 00:15:33.200 Or like what I'm but I got a pair. I 285 00:15:33.200 --> 00:15:34.879 know what you're saying. I got a pair of sweats 286 00:15:34.919 --> 00:15:36.559 that are like just the straight leg. 287 00:15:36.679 --> 00:15:39.200 Yeah, the straight leg. That's what he needed. So I 288 00:15:39.240 --> 00:15:41.679 got him a pair of those. Somebody gave him jeans 289 00:15:41.679 --> 00:15:45.759 for Christmas. He has not worn jeans since he was 290 00:15:45.799 --> 00:15:50.080 six years old. Never You've never seen sonnywear jeans. 291 00:15:50.159 --> 00:15:53.679 I get it. I know they're not comfortable. Once you've 292 00:15:53.720 --> 00:15:56.480 been in sweats for a while, You're like, why would 293 00:15:56.519 --> 00:15:59.399 I want to have to buttons that have. 294 00:15:59.360 --> 00:16:01.279 It like I waist now? 295 00:16:01.639 --> 00:16:03.159 And I was like, well, they're nice that you can 296 00:16:03.200 --> 00:16:05.120 wear them, like if you get dressed up and you 297 00:16:05.159 --> 00:16:07.120 got to go out to a nice restaurant or whatever. 298 00:16:07.639 --> 00:16:10.639 But he's like, yeah, other than that, probably never gonna 299 00:16:10.679 --> 00:16:14.039 wear them. You got a pair of two Levi jeans. Yeah, 300 00:16:14.080 --> 00:16:17.679 he's not wearing them. So how was your Christmas? 301 00:16:17.840 --> 00:16:21.039 Well wait, but how was your the gift exchange? Oh? 302 00:16:21.120 --> 00:16:23.639 So yeah, we went to Chicago and it was so 303 00:16:23.720 --> 00:16:28.000 it's just Sonny and I went and it was It 304 00:16:28.080 --> 00:16:32.720 was interesting because Natalia went to her dad's and Sonny 305 00:16:32.759 --> 00:16:36.440 and I went to Chicago and the gift exchange. 306 00:16:36.559 --> 00:16:39.960 Okay, it was better. This year. It was good. 307 00:16:40.200 --> 00:16:42.799 So I got the same girl I got. I got 308 00:16:42.799 --> 00:16:45.679 one of the wives, my nephew's wives. She got me, 309 00:16:45.919 --> 00:16:46.480 so I got her. 310 00:16:46.600 --> 00:16:47.000 She got me. 311 00:16:47.360 --> 00:16:50.519 I got her like some face stuff, some like nighttime 312 00:16:50.600 --> 00:16:53.799 face stuff. And she got me a Bruce Springsteen T 313 00:16:53.960 --> 00:16:58.279 shirt that says like LA eighty four or something like that, 314 00:16:58.360 --> 00:17:00.000 and on the back it says Bruce. 315 00:17:00.600 --> 00:17:03.080 So she got me that. So it was cute. It 316 00:17:03.120 --> 00:17:05.839 was good. It was better than a utility. 317 00:17:05.480 --> 00:17:08.480 Flash like one hundred dollars though it was fifty dollars. 318 00:17:08.640 --> 00:17:12.400 Oh okay, yeah yeah. And then I got and then 319 00:17:12.599 --> 00:17:16.680 what did she buy for herself with the leftover? I'm 320 00:17:16.759 --> 00:17:18.079 totally kidding that's that. 321 00:17:18.279 --> 00:17:21.279 I'm sure that it was like a nice yeah, Bruce Springsteen. 322 00:17:21.680 --> 00:17:22.200 It was cute. 323 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:27.160 She actually asked Suzanne like for a couple ideas, and 324 00:17:27.200 --> 00:17:28.119 Suzanne helped her. 325 00:17:28.559 --> 00:17:29.440 Oh it was cute. 326 00:17:29.759 --> 00:17:32.519 Yeah, it was whatever, Like I'm not expecting, you know, 327 00:17:32.960 --> 00:17:34.680 walking away with a bunch of you know. 328 00:17:34.759 --> 00:17:37.359 Oh, but you were probably excited when you opened the eyes. 329 00:17:37.400 --> 00:17:38.160 Yeah I was. 330 00:17:38.359 --> 00:17:40.160 Is it fit? Yeah it fits? 331 00:17:40.240 --> 00:17:41.319 Yeah, I should have. 332 00:17:41.440 --> 00:17:44.720 Well it's too cold today, but it's cute, just T 333 00:17:44.880 --> 00:17:49.519 shirt Okay, And then did you guys, do your seafood. 334 00:17:50.519 --> 00:17:53.039 Oh my god, we went to Bob Chin's. We're not 335 00:17:53.119 --> 00:17:56.559 going there anymore. First of all, I just only started 336 00:17:56.599 --> 00:17:58.599 going to Chicago in the last few years since this 337 00:17:59.000 --> 00:18:02.279 the divorce. They have been going to Bobchin's for twenty 338 00:18:02.359 --> 00:18:05.279 years with their other family that they get together. There's 339 00:18:05.519 --> 00:18:08.440 Wendy's friends get together with their kids. They come every 340 00:18:08.519 --> 00:18:13.079 Christmas Eve. Wendy, remember two years ago Wendy got sick, 341 00:18:13.359 --> 00:18:17.480 yes from bobchin It was two years ago. Same thing 342 00:18:17.599 --> 00:18:21.759 happened again this year. So last year she didn't eat 343 00:18:21.759 --> 00:18:25.039 any shellfish. This time she ate one of those little 344 00:18:25.039 --> 00:18:28.759 mini crab claw leggy things she had, like one or 345 00:18:28.759 --> 00:18:29.319 two of them. 346 00:18:29.960 --> 00:18:32.000 Woke up in the morning vomiting. 347 00:18:32.559 --> 00:18:36.519 Diary everything I had to do the whole spread, got 348 00:18:36.599 --> 00:18:39.359 up early in the morning, did everything, like helped her 349 00:18:39.400 --> 00:18:41.839 put I you know, she laid in bed, told me 350 00:18:41.839 --> 00:18:44.200 where to this time. She didn't even care what platters 351 00:18:44.240 --> 00:18:45.839 I put them on. She's like, just do whatever you 352 00:18:45.880 --> 00:18:51.599 want to do. And same thing happened again. So she's 353 00:18:51.640 --> 00:18:55.039 alertic she is allergic. Yeah, Susanne, the same thing happened 354 00:18:55.039 --> 00:18:57.640 to Suzanne later in life, like all of a sudden, 355 00:18:57.759 --> 00:19:01.839 she can't have shellfish, Like the same thing, same symptoms, 356 00:19:01.880 --> 00:19:05.000 same everything comes on a couple hours after you eat it, 357 00:19:05.559 --> 00:19:08.880 and so she's just like I thought, she was hoping 358 00:19:09.599 --> 00:19:13.119 that it was maybe she ate something bad that night, right, 359 00:19:13.400 --> 00:19:16.400 But she stayed away from shellfish throughout the years. And 360 00:19:16.440 --> 00:19:19.240 now she went there again and had a little bit 361 00:19:19.279 --> 00:19:22.359 of shellfish. Now she's allergic to it, I think, so 362 00:19:22.400 --> 00:19:25.519 she can't have it. But it was pretty bad to 363 00:19:25.559 --> 00:19:28.880 wake up Christmas morning knowing that you got like two 364 00:19:28.960 --> 00:19:31.920 other families coming over with their kids showing up at 365 00:19:31.920 --> 00:19:35.559 like ten am with the big locks and bagels spread 366 00:19:35.599 --> 00:19:37.799 that needs to be put out and all the you 367 00:19:37.799 --> 00:19:41.039 know traditional stuff she makes, like upside down French toast 368 00:19:41.359 --> 00:19:44.680 casserole thing that she makes, like you know, got to 369 00:19:44.680 --> 00:19:46.519 put it in the oven and gotta do this, Gotta 370 00:19:47.240 --> 00:19:50.079 defrost the breadth, got to cut up the tomatoes and 371 00:19:50.079 --> 00:19:53.240 the onions for the blocks, and so it was fine, 372 00:19:53.279 --> 00:19:56.160 but I like had a full day of putting everything 373 00:19:56.200 --> 00:19:59.400 out and doing it all for her, which was which 374 00:19:59.440 --> 00:20:02.359 was fine, but that sucks. 375 00:20:02.759 --> 00:20:05.480 Yeah, it sucked for her. Yeah, it was pretty bad. 376 00:20:05.599 --> 00:20:08.759 But she felt better as the day went on, and 377 00:20:08.799 --> 00:20:11.279 then so yeah, that we did our gift exchange, but 378 00:20:11.440 --> 00:20:16.160 Natalia so face I told Natalia because we're two hours 379 00:20:16.279 --> 00:20:18.880 ahead in Chicago, and I sent her a text in 380 00:20:18.880 --> 00:20:21.640 the morning and I said, because I was up really early, 381 00:20:21.759 --> 00:20:24.039 and I said, call us when you you know, FaceTime 382 00:20:24.160 --> 00:20:26.440 us when you get up or whenever you know want. 383 00:20:26.920 --> 00:20:29.519 So she facetimed she was at her dad's before she 384 00:20:29.559 --> 00:20:32.200 even left her bedroom. She went in her bathroom to 385 00:20:32.240 --> 00:20:35.000 do her contacts, brush her teeth. She face timed us 386 00:20:35.279 --> 00:20:37.319 and we were right in the middle of opening gifts, 387 00:20:37.400 --> 00:20:41.519 and her little cousin Riley, who loves Natalia, she's like. 388 00:20:41.680 --> 00:20:43.599 She's like, Natalia, I wish you were here. 389 00:20:44.039 --> 00:20:47.599 And she was on the phone with Natalia. Natalia just 390 00:20:47.680 --> 00:20:51.119 bursted into tears crying. Was so sad. She's like, I 391 00:20:51.440 --> 00:20:54.079 miss you, guys. I wish I was there, you know. 392 00:20:54.359 --> 00:20:56.200 And it was so I was like, well, now you know, 393 00:20:59.079 --> 00:21:03.039 Nuice to be you, I I wish you but yeah, 394 00:21:03.240 --> 00:21:06.519 so she was like really sad. But she had Phil 395 00:21:06.599 --> 00:21:11.200 with her and Malibu and and that worked out nicely. 396 00:21:11.839 --> 00:21:16.319 And then did she get any Christmas presents over there? 397 00:21:16.720 --> 00:21:20.279 She got Yeah, she got a lot of Christmas presents. Okay, yeah, 398 00:21:20.400 --> 00:21:20.799 she was. 399 00:21:20.960 --> 00:21:24.319 She did pretty well for herself over at her dad's 400 00:21:26.039 --> 00:21:28.359 but yeah, it was it was good. We had this 401 00:21:28.599 --> 00:21:33.720