Speaker 1: Sure. What's up, beautiful people. There's your baby Mama's favorite
Speaker 1: baby Mama, Stormy Pee And this is another episode of
Speaker 1: Chocolate Chip and Sip the modern day female perspective. Damn
Speaker 1: Son back at it again, and we're back at it again, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be completely honest because we are family and
Speaker 1: we share here and we keep it real. We did
Speaker 1: record before the New Year ended, but I didn't like
Speaker 1: the episode. I'm not gonna lie. I didn't like my
Speaker 1: tone of voice. Mentally. I was just going through some
Speaker 1: things that has some family stuff going on, and I
Speaker 1: didn't like it, so I didn't release it. But here
Speaker 1: we are first recording of twenty twenty five and it
Speaker 1: is great. I say all that to say, if you're
Speaker 1: on Live and you saw the last episode, laugh at
Speaker 1: these fucking jokes again. That's it. Okay, just laugh at
Speaker 1: the fucking jokes. It's gonna be some new stuff. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be some new stuff in here, but laugh at
Speaker 1: the old stuff too. Okay. With that being said, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I said, you know, treated like a fart at
Speaker 1: the gym and preticue you ain't here all right now,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep going and say, I do want to
Speaker 1: say thank you to everybody who brought something off of
Speaker 1: my Christmas list, because I did post the Amazon wish
Speaker 1: list on my stories before the New year ended, and
Speaker 1: y'all bore everything on my list, including that damn three
Speaker 1: D printer, and I just want to say thank you, okay,
Speaker 1: because y'all was looking out and honestly, I was a
Speaker 1: little bit tight because I was like, damn, I should
Speaker 1: have put Lead by Christmas shit on here too, But
Speaker 1: it's okay. You know, I bought the ocul list myself
Speaker 1: and the TV myself, and you know, next time, next time.
Speaker 1: My some birthday is in February though, So if y'all
Speaker 1: want to, I'm just gonna post another wish list and
Speaker 1: keep showing it up. Help old girl out. So, like
Speaker 1: I said, it's gonna be some new stuff and some
Speaker 1: old stuff on this episode, and y'all I said it before,
Speaker 1: but I really really am starting to believe it. God
Speaker 1: not even trying to send me a husband. He just
Speaker 1: sending content like that's it. Like all he do is
Speaker 1: be like yo, Storm, They're gonna love this shit, go
Speaker 1: through this, and I'm like, fuck, okay, Well, you know
Speaker 1: is the next one gonna be him, and he'd be like, chill,
Speaker 1: ch chill, chill, I got some more funny shit for y'all,
Speaker 1: And so I'm just gonna keep giving y'all this this
Speaker 1: funny shit, and that is it. That's where we are, okay.
Speaker 1: So I want to start this story off by saying,
Speaker 1: you gotta like me for me, and if I'm not enough,
Speaker 1: that's cool. I'm fine with that. I'm fine with that.
Speaker 1: I'm fine with that. You have to like me for
Speaker 1: me and if I'm not enough, cool. So I go
Speaker 1: on a date with this guy and the conversation was great,
Speaker 1: so great that I didn't even notice. Minutes will buy
Speaker 1: and we still ain't get our drinks. We robbing, robbing hard, hard,
Speaker 1: hard hard, right. So we finally get our drinks and
Speaker 1: he looked at me and said, what would you do
Speaker 1: if I drink out the straw? What we get our
Speaker 1: drinks and he looks at me and he says, what
Speaker 1: would you do if I drink out the straw? The
Speaker 1: straw that's meant to be drunken out of I'm confused?
Speaker 1: What the fuck are we talking about right now? What's happening?
Speaker 1: What's happening? What is happening. I'm confused. Phillies nineteen eighty
Speaker 1: five says, you ain't go out on a date with nobody,
Speaker 1: so all you do is lie your whole life. Strike
Speaker 1: the Villa says, no, hold on, that's a legit question.
Speaker 1: Ty Di Grind says what Lagosi Magic says at Phillies
Speaker 1: nineteen eighty five. Shut up, dude, I'm fucking crying. But
Speaker 1: y'all imagine my confusion when this man looked at me
Speaker 1: and said, what would you do if I drink out
Speaker 1: the straw right now? I'm I'm I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1: It's what the straw that's meant to be drunk out of.
Speaker 1: I'm confused, So I'm like, what what? And he's like, no.
Speaker 1: The last girl I went on a date with, we
Speaker 1: went and got drinks and I drank out the straw
Speaker 1: and she called me sassy and we had like a
Speaker 1: little back and forth at the restaurant. Y'all, I'm let's
Speaker 1: fucking retire the word sassy, okay, because somewhere along the
Speaker 1: way we stopped calling sassy things. Actually sassy okay, Little
Speaker 1: Toddler's in the pageant, is sassy? Okay? A man drinking
Speaker 1: out of straw is not sassy? What the fuck? I
Speaker 1: don't give a fuck if that may and when that's
Speaker 1: what the straws are, I don't care. I don't care. Okay,
Speaker 1: calling a man sassy for drinking out a straw is ridiculous.
Speaker 1: When straws are meant to be drunk out of straws
Speaker 1: are not gender specific. Straws are gender neutral. Okay. I
Speaker 1: don't know who needs to hear this, but I want
Speaker 1: to say it again. Straws are gender neutral. What the
Speaker 1: fuck is happening? What is happening? What is happening? Who
Speaker 1: is g Jones says, wait, make the face again? No, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not. Strefe the villain says, told you, that's a
Speaker 1: legit question. Legosi Maggot says, ninjas can't do anything anymore.
Speaker 1: Strepe the villain says, he's just trying to make sure
Speaker 1: you don't go on ig going as a man, why
Speaker 1: are you drinking out of a straw? I'm crying because yes,
Speaker 1: maybe he did think I was one of those girls
Speaker 1: that was gonna go on the internet and say, as
Speaker 1: a man, why are you drinking out of straw? That's
Speaker 1: not me? You with big Mama now, Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know what to tell you other than you with big Mama.
Speaker 1: Now that's it. That's it. Okay, that is it, y'all.
Speaker 1: I want to go back to my original point. Number one,
Speaker 1: you are allowed to drink out of a straw. Number two,
Speaker 1: If you like drinking out of a straw, your person
Speaker 1: is going to like you drinking out of a straw.
Speaker 1: You gotta like me for me and if that's not
Speaker 1: enough for you, cool, but for somebody it is. So
Speaker 1: while I appreciate the the the prompt, I don't want
Speaker 1: to say permission because that's crazy. But while I appreciate
Speaker 1: the thought of, hey, like you know, just cool, you
Speaker 1: are right, we're drinking out of straw. So it's like,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I'd rather you be
Speaker 1: confiding yourself, even if it includes drinking out of a straw,
Speaker 1: because like, you can't mold yourself to try to be
Speaker 1: something for somebody, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: that's not you, and you're not gonna be happy. You're
Speaker 1: only gonna be able to keep up this facade for
Speaker 1: so long. It's not gonna work. It's not going to
Speaker 1: be permanent, it's not going to work, and It's like,
Speaker 1: I think it's mostly because I've gotten to a point
Speaker 1: where I'm comfortable with all the quirks, Okay, me, my
Speaker 1: nerd shit, my soft spot in my head, all of it. Like,
Speaker 1: so I just want somebody who's as comfortable in themselves,
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna walk in every bit of me, and
Speaker 1: I want you to do the same thing. And it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: if what makes me me turns you off, that just
Speaker 1: means it wasn't there for me, And that's cool. Strike
Speaker 1: a feeling. Oh no, I'm sorry, y'all, I didn't scroll
Speaker 1: back down. Hold on my second m Jaden Moto says,
Speaker 1: love don't cost the thing taught us that I'm cracking up. Uh,
Speaker 1: Pharaoh I see says I feel like drinking or not
Speaker 1: drinking out of a straw isn't a facade. Yes it is. Okay,
Speaker 1: if you like to drink out of straws, drink out
Speaker 1: of straws. That's it, and that's all. The dream Leam says,
Speaker 1: sounds about right. Uh. The vegan bull says, I'll walk
Speaker 1: with you and us I'll carry you. Built for a
Speaker 1: tough six four six four says she was probably just
Speaker 1: joking about the sassy thing. Can't be so sensitive. No,
Speaker 1: he said. They had a nice little back and forth
Speaker 1: about it with Hair calling him sassy at the restaurant,
Speaker 1: like and it was like a thing. It was a thing,
Speaker 1: never broke. John said, soft spin in your head. Yeah,
Speaker 1: my flast spie, y'all know my flast fight like yes, yes,
Speaker 1: hold on, I'm trying to scroll back. Yeah, my bad
Speaker 1: already rentals. Yeah, man, So long story short, Like I said,
Speaker 1: you gotta like me for me and if that's not enough, cool,
Speaker 1: like some people like silver instead of gold. You know,
Speaker 1: that's it. That's it. I don't know what there was, no,
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna follow up to. It's just you know, they wrong,
Speaker 1: but you know whatever, that's what they like. Pharaoh I
Speaker 1: see says. I wouldn't say I like drinking out of
Speaker 1: straws unless it's a silly straw because they don't even
Speaker 1: give those out no more. And then that's a thing
Speaker 1: like she calling you sassy for drinking out of straws.
Speaker 1: What we gonna do if we go to like six
Speaker 1: Flags or Carnival and they give out fucking the silly
Speaker 1: loopy straws, because you better drink it, drink it. Because
Speaker 1: I'm a drink mine who is. G Jones says, silver
Speaker 1: instead of gold is crazy work. Ty Dic Grind says,
Speaker 1: my response would have been, I'll drink you in this
Speaker 1: drink with this straw, hold this motherfucker space. This is
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, y'all shit like that. That That is
Speaker 1: how you handle that. One thousand percent. I have no
Speaker 1: qualms with that. That is the perfect fucking answer, perfect
Speaker 1: fucking answer. Built four Tough said, did that ruin y'all date? No?
Speaker 1: But I did have to shift from Victoria to Stormy
Speaker 1: because when I be on dates, I don't be Stormy.
Speaker 1: Oh I'll be Victoria. So I did have to shift
Speaker 1: from Victoria to Stormy and give him like my podcast
Speaker 1: chocolate Chip and sip Tonight's conversation and the answer like, hey,
Speaker 1: you deserve somebody who likes you for you. I don't
Speaker 1: never feel like you gotta go, and like I was
Speaker 1: trying to like cut it short, and he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: well what do you think about? And then we kind
Speaker 1: of had like a small therapy session, which is crazy,
Speaker 1: but afterwards we had a good time. We had some
Speaker 1: good food and it was all right, But yeah, that's it.
Speaker 1: Hold on, y'all. Sorry, it's going too fast. I can't
Speaker 1: catch it. Okay, I can't go back up. Jay to
Speaker 1: the Jones said that's wild. So going on to my
Speaker 1: next point, I feel like that was something I just
Speaker 1: wanted to tap base with. And I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of the times we talk about uh things that
Speaker 1: go well and not so well on dates, and it
Speaker 1: really got me to thinking about what's something that would
Speaker 1: have had me in my mind like, yo, the next
Speaker 1: person not going to date? What I'm asking this? And
Speaker 1: I can't really find anything, But there was one thing
Speaker 1: that stuck out to me, and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't never want nobody do to shit to me again, right,
Speaker 1: And I feel like that was just as good and
Speaker 1: worth sharing. So I want to talk about knowing when
Speaker 1: to mind your fucking business. Okay, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna start here. I'm gonna talk about knowing when to
Speaker 1: mind your fucking business okay, and not even mind your business.
Speaker 1: Have some fucking kuth, have some decorum, okay, because I
Speaker 1: feel like we're losing recipes. This is a lost art.
Speaker 1: Kuth and de Korum are lost art. We're losing recipes people. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me say something. If I give you the grand
Speaker 1: opportunity of lending you some of my precious time, don't
Speaker 1: waste it by telling me how many hoes you think
Speaker 1: I got? What the fuck? Y'ah my god, oh my god.
Speaker 1: If I give you the grand opportunity of lending you
Speaker 1: some of my precious time, don't waste it by telling
Speaker 1: me how many hoes you think I got. Don't don't
Speaker 1: waste it by telling me how many hoes you think
Speaker 1: I got? If I got so many holes while I'm
Speaker 1: here with you, huh huh. Riddle me that. If I
Speaker 1: got so many holes, why I'm here with you? Make
Speaker 1: it make sense. I'm confused. I'm confused. I'm confused. Uh
Speaker 1: A Ramsey six three says lost art. Indeed, it's not
Speaker 1: tall anymore? Got something to proof? Says you got that
Speaker 1: money you owe me up? Please go to hell. I
Speaker 1: don't even know who that is? Rucks the Stampede says,
Speaker 1: Nigga's uncouth out here? Who is? G? Jones says? What's
Speaker 1: that shit? Kevin Hard said to his teacher her, I'm
Speaker 1: cracking up? Who is? G? Jones? Said? Mind Joe, motherfucking
Speaker 1: business bitch? I am crying A Ramsey six one three said,
Speaker 1: do one of his ego strokes? Is that? What it is?
Speaker 1: Is that? What it is? When y'all say that, is
Speaker 1: it because y'all want y'all ego stroked, stroke these nuts?
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. Okay, I'm never gonna do it.
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna do it. You telling me how many
Speaker 1: holes you think I got is never gonna make me
Speaker 1: be like, oh, you're the only one. I don't give
Speaker 1: a fuck. If my whole tech thread is empty and
Speaker 1: it is just you, I'm never gonna say it's just
Speaker 1: you for what does that make you feel good? Because
Speaker 1: I'm not here to make you feel good. I'm not
Speaker 1: here to stroke your ego, never have been, never will be. No, No,
Speaker 1: who is? G Jones said she was definitely the first
Speaker 1: batty he had. I'm crying pet for prophet said first batty,
Speaker 1: Syndroy Man. It's giving, it's giving, and I hate that.
Speaker 1: I hate that. I hate that. A Ramsey six three
Speaker 1: says he wanted validation. That's a sign of insecurity. I
Speaker 1: agree one thousand percent. But you can't say I don't wanna.
Speaker 1: I don't wanna, I don't want to cap it at
Speaker 1: I was his first batty, because I doubt I was
Speaker 1: his first batty. I was not. I was not. But
Speaker 1: I will say this is something that certain men do
Speaker 1: to me. They'll be like, oh, yeah, you know I
Speaker 1: got you got so many hopes. I'm just surprised you
Speaker 1: got time a little on me because you got sure
Speaker 1: we shut the fuck up up. Nobody wants to hear that.
Speaker 1: No woman hears that and be like, oh moist bruh.
Speaker 1: No one says that. Tigrind says, your hos and your
Speaker 1: hos and my holes are mine? Mind your business, okay,
Speaker 1: god Lee, Yes, yes, yes. And it's like y'all talk
Speaker 1: yourselves out of KOUCHI every time. Every time it be
Speaker 1: y'all okay, and this this is what stops to COUCHI.
Speaker 1: That's right here, Okay, that is what it be like. Bro,
Speaker 1: have some fucking kuth, have some decorum. What is this what?
Speaker 1: And and even if it does stroke your ego? Why
Speaker 1: does my hose stroke your ego? Something ain't right here?
Speaker 1: What's happening? Crush Paradise says it's weird to imagine anyone
Speaker 1: you're attracted to doesn't have one other person that thinks
Speaker 1: they're attractive. Other men are going to think your woman
Speaker 1: is attractive. It is what it is. I get that,
Speaker 1: but why do you want me to confirm it? That's
Speaker 1: the part that be getting me. I I'm confused. I'm confused.
Speaker 1: I'm confused. And it's like, Yo, every time you call me,
Speaker 1: I'm at home, I'm at gym, I'm at church. Okay,
Speaker 1: every time you FaceTime me, I'm at club bed. Okay,
Speaker 1: every once in a while, I go downstairs to you know,
Speaker 1: the living room lounge, standing on some couches, banging some
Speaker 1: wine bottles together for the club real fast, bruh. If
Speaker 1: every time we talk I am at home, at the
Speaker 1: gym or at church, when do I got time for hosts?
Speaker 1: If I got so many holes? Why I'm here with you? Okay,
Speaker 1: make it make sense, Like bro, Yes, I am attractive,
Speaker 1: but I'm also looking for a husband, and you know what,
Speaker 1: holes aren't usually at the same places as husbands. Okay,
Speaker 1: So for me, when we talk, I'm home, I'm minded
Speaker 1: my business, all right. Please. I say all this to say,
Speaker 1: no woman ever wants to hear how many who's you got?
Speaker 1: You got a who's? Don't do that, Okay. The next
Speaker 1: time you feel like you want to say that to
Speaker 1: a woman, send her some money, because I know you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna want to do that either. I'm joking, but seriously,
Speaker 1: the next time you want to do that, don't. That's
Speaker 1: just it, don't you know. I came across an article
Speaker 1: switching topics for a second. I came across an article
Speaker 1: not too long ago, and I thought it was very interesting.
Speaker 1: So couples tune in. Couples, couples, couples. Sorry, y'all, was
Speaker 1: shrinking beer. I was supposed to be on a cleanse,
Speaker 1: but fuck it. Shot just made the craziest face because
Speaker 1: I literally just made him go get me some before
Speaker 1: we started, not made. I asked, thank you, but yeah,
Speaker 1: so all right, we starting over. Okay, couples tune in.
Speaker 1: This one's for you. I will love your input, right,
Speaker 1: even if you're not in a relationship, you know, still
Speaker 1: like an input would just be something you'll be able
Speaker 1: to do. Right. So, according to Men's Health magazine, couples
Speaker 1: who spend at least forty minutes of quality time together
Speaker 1: daily have happier, healthier, and longer relationships. I don't want
Speaker 1: to repeat that, right, According to Men's Health magazine, couples
Speaker 1: who spend forty minutes daily of time together. Couples who
Speaker 1: spend sorry, couples who spent at least forty minutes of
Speaker 1: quality time together daily have happier, healthier relationships. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I just wanted to tap in and see what you
Speaker 1: shall think about that. Forty minutes daily. Forty minutes daily.
Speaker 1: I poop longer than that. I'ma be real with y'all.
Speaker 1: That's all it takes. Man, y'all better, Hope I never
Speaker 1: get in a relationship that's easy, okay easy. I spend
Speaker 1: longer than that at the gym. I spend longer than
Speaker 1: that pooping. I spend longer than that praying. Like what,
Speaker 1: that's all it takes to be happy? H A. Ramsey
Speaker 1: six three says that's hard to tell. To do a
Speaker 1: most household with kids, work, et cetera. Pharaoh Iic says
Speaker 1: makes sense. Number kind of low. Peter Prophet says, agree,
Speaker 1: you need some QT with your lady, a walk or
Speaker 1: the gym or whatever y'all like to do. Ara says.
Speaker 1: Immortal die Era says men can't commit to that. Jackson
Speaker 1: Junior Dot Paul says, forty minutes and a mule is crazy.
Speaker 1: Crushed Paradise says relationships are low key pretty easy. B
Speaker 1: Howard June says, ain't that much time to be happy?
Speaker 1: Jackson Junior Di Paul says, you just like saying poop no.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I say, I take the Browns to the super Bowl.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Okay, I don't just hit you with the
Speaker 1: same monotony, thank you very much. All right, it's only flashes.
Speaker 1: I agree. My lady and I done more. But with
Speaker 1: everything going on with working kids, we try to at
Speaker 1: least get a session of streets of rage and for show.
Speaker 1: I'm cracking a fuck up. I mean, daily is crazy,
Speaker 1: but quality time can be anything as long as you're
Speaker 1: being present. So I know, the like initial thought is, oh,
Speaker 1: with kids and work and life, like squeezing in forty
Speaker 1: minutes daily for your partner so hard. But it's like, bro,
Speaker 1: it's really not. It's really not like quality time can
Speaker 1: be anything like making cookies at three am, okay, having
Speaker 1: a karaoke session in the shower okay, and both of
Speaker 1: y'all ain't even got to be in the shower, all right,
Speaker 1: taking having a fire nap session on a couch while
Speaker 1: the office plays in the background, like, it really can
Speaker 1: be anything, like making each other laugh while you bump bellies.
Speaker 1: It can be anything, all right. Now, First of all,
Speaker 1: I do want to say, I'm not gonna lie laughing
Speaker 1: together while you're doing the no pants dance, top tier intimacy?
Speaker 1: What the fuck? What laughing while you top tier? Come on?
Speaker 1: Stop playing me like, no, no, are we in love?
Speaker 1: Why are you playing like this? I'm serious, Like, why
Speaker 1: are we like this? What is it like? What if
Speaker 1: we're laughing while we're being that intimate? Oh? We love
Speaker 1: each other, we love love, We in love love. Yes, yes, so,
Speaker 1: Grind says top Tier. Uh. The Grand Foundation eight one
Speaker 1: one eight says the Office as funny as hell and
Speaker 1: is and is the other day, I was watching a
Speaker 1: CPR episode where Dwight set the office on fire. Hilarious, hilarious.
Speaker 1: I know it's a two part episode, but I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put that in like the top five episodes of the
Speaker 1: whole goddamn series for sure, for sure. Uh. Pharaoh I C.
Speaker 1: Says elite for k Millie sent some fire emojis, Hey,
Speaker 1: Milly ty Die. Grond says, we ain't wiggling. If we
Speaker 1: ain't giggling, let me tell you something. We ain't wiggling,
Speaker 1: if we ain't giggling, Yes, yes, why is this not
Speaker 1: trademark somewhere? Get your money, king, do what you gotta
Speaker 1: do and get your money king, please please? Okay, but yeah, man,
Speaker 1: it's hard. But it's like, yo, how do we get
Speaker 1: to that point? Because there are so many things that
Speaker 1: go in between that, right, Like Immortal die Era says,
Speaker 1: laughing at how good this shit is, I'm crying for.
Speaker 1: Prophet says, that's how ugly niggas end up with the
Speaker 1: baddies and do and do. If you're ever wondering how
Speaker 1: them ugly and medium ugly niggas be getting the baddest
Speaker 1: of the baddest, they funny. It ain't the dick. It's
Speaker 1: never the deck. It's not the dick, it's not the money,
Speaker 1: it's not the cars, it's not the house. They're funny. Okay,
Speaker 1: they're funny. Y'all Always be telling these men, Oh, if
Speaker 1: you can't pull a batty, get your passport, get your
Speaker 1: money up, No, get some jokes. Okay. I guarantee you
Speaker 1: everybody know one ugly nigga who put a battest of
Speaker 1: the baddest every time and nobody knows why he funny? Hey, funny? Okay,
Speaker 1: left your ass? Write out them draws every time, every time,
Speaker 1: every time, God's workers just said the same thingle have
Speaker 1: you right out your drawers? Yes? Yes, Tydy Grind says
Speaker 1: self proclaimed medium. Ugly, I'm crying. Okay. Uh. Immortal Era
Speaker 1: says no, because who told you to believe that? Hugh
Speaker 1: knows best? Says if you make her giggle, you can
Speaker 1: make her booty jiggle. If you make her giggle, you
Speaker 1: can make her booty jiggle. I'm crying. Doodoo Brown should
Speaker 1: not play at this point. No Crush Paradye says people
Speaker 1: don't realize how far non sexual intimacy goes. I agree,
Speaker 1: one thousand percent. Like non sexual intimacy is really how
Speaker 1: you see a lot of those people who be those
Speaker 1: opposites of direct couples. Like, once you lock in that
Speaker 1: non sexual intimacy, everything else is easy, easiest. But pharol
Speaker 1: I C. Says not ugly, But I'm bringing the jokes,
Speaker 1: Okay okay, yeah? Uh. Immortal die Era says, who told
Speaker 1: you to believe that you got good sex because you
Speaker 1: a cancer? Oh? Y'all musta start talking about zodiaca here
Speaker 1: while I'm missed it. Yeah, that ain't even mm mmmmm mmm.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you I'm not even gonna get
Speaker 1: into that conversation. And the main reason I'm not going
Speaker 1: to get into that conversation is because y'all let cornyass
Speaker 1: scrpules believe they are God's gift to sex. And I
Speaker 1: hate that for them. I hate that for them. I
Speaker 1: also hate that as a Gemini, I am automatically two faced,
Speaker 1: have multiple personalities and blah blah blah blah blah, when
Speaker 1: in all actuality, it means that geminis are able to
Speaker 1: adapt to any situation that they're putting and y'all took
Speaker 1: it as oh you two faced it fucking multiple personalities. No, bitch,
Speaker 1: I know how to cold switch. I know how to
Speaker 1: move in a room full of vultures. That's what it
Speaker 1: actually is. But go off, you know what I mean? So, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really like talking about zodiacs. They get me
Speaker 1: a little tight a little time, I little bad type.
Speaker 1: Uh speaking of a little bit tight, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: say that. I'm gonna start that over. That was a
Speaker 1: bad transition. I want't even got to say it. I
Speaker 1: wasn't even gonna say that that just was a bad transition.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the It wasn't the transition. I thought it.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the transition. I it wasn't the transition. I
Speaker 1: thought it was. Okay, I'll say that, all right, so
Speaker 1: instead I'll say, yeah, just no transition at this point
Speaker 1: and clip all right. I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: times we ignore signs that people are strange, and these
Speaker 1: strange signs or inclinations of people being strange usually pop
Speaker 1: up fairly quickly. We just like to ignore them, right
Speaker 1: and me personally, I feel like those first few days
Speaker 1: of exchanging numbers and texting, that's the best time to
Speaker 1: figure out if they're a weirdo or not. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: always it's always little signs that always pop up. Like
Speaker 1: I know, I said it before, and I just want
Speaker 1: to say it again. Y'all talk y'rllselves out of kuci
Speaker 1: every day, Okay, every day, and it's usually within those
Speaker 1: first three days of texting and exchanging numbers. Those first
Speaker 1: few days of texting is the best time to figure
Speaker 1: out if that person is weird though. Okay, like first
Speaker 1: sign you start talking nasty too early? Bro who even
Speaker 1: said I was gonna let you hit like I am confused.
Speaker 1: I am fucking confused every time, Like y'all talk yourselves
Speaker 1: out of COUCHI every day. Don't be nasty with me
Speaker 1: until I be nasty with you, Okay, be like a vampire.
Speaker 1: Wait for me to open the door and then come in. Okay,
Speaker 1: you can't just start off being nasty. That's not the
Speaker 1: way it goes. Okay. And hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: full as I got you, ladies. Some of y'all be
Speaker 1: asking for money too early. I know, I know, I don't.
Speaker 1: We're fair here, we be fair here. Okay, fellas, y'all
Speaker 1: talk nasty too early, ladies, y'all asks for money too early,
Speaker 1: this first sign of being weird on both fronts. Don't
Speaker 1: do it. Don't fucking do it, people, Prophet said, niggas
Speaker 1: be like what's your favorite color? And what's your favorite position?
Speaker 1: I get, yes, Yes, that is it. That is it.
Speaker 1: I know y'all seen that video when the boy will
Speaker 1: be like, hey, you know, the girl will be like,
Speaker 1: what's your favorite color? And he'd be like red, what
Speaker 1: color is your nipples? That's it. That's what y'all be doing.
Speaker 1: Don't do that. We don't like that, We don't like that.
Speaker 1: Immortal die Era says, I get to my own bag.
Speaker 1: So a man has to come afore and I'm not
Speaker 1: mad at it. Yes, yes, well you know how ain't
Speaker 1: talking about you? Girlfriend? Tydy Grin says she have to
Speaker 1: invite me in suki ha ha. I'm crying every day.
Speaker 1: Dre says I'm laughing more. Uh. Mortar Era says that's dehydration.
Speaker 1: Crushed Paradise says, got a head out, be saving, have
Speaker 1: a good rest of the night. You too, you too,
Speaker 1: you too? Thanks for joining, Janks for joining. But yeah, man,
Speaker 1: those those those it really grinds my gears. Like, like
Speaker 1: I said, ladies, you'll be exked for money just a
Speaker 1: little bit too early, like how was your day good?
Speaker 1: But my phone bill? Do tomorrow? Or you just sex
Speaker 1: like I just got an attitude. Well keep your attitude, okay,
Speaker 1: because however you planned on paying for them bills before
Speaker 1: you met Sean. Okay, do that do that again? Okay? Please?
Speaker 1: Thank you? Ah God Lee No, yeah, I'm gonnaleave showing
Speaker 1: out of this, showing is that next question or next thing?
Speaker 1: I feel like during the first few days of Texan,
Speaker 1: another sign that that person is weird, though. Next sign
Speaker 1: you talking in cursive. I'm asking you straight questions, but
Speaker 1: you can't give me a straight answer. Bro, I don't
Speaker 1: want to play these games with you. Why are you
Speaker 1: talking in riddles? You want to be Batman so bad?
Speaker 1: You are not Bruce Wayne. Do you have a girlfriend
Speaker 1: or not? Okay? Does somebody think they're in a relationship
Speaker 1: with you or not? Do you have a wife? Do
Speaker 1: you have kids? Okay? Telling me you don't have kids?
Speaker 1: Know when you have a baby on the way. It's crazy, crazy, crazy,
Speaker 1: Stop it. I'm not playing with you. If I'm asking
Speaker 1: you straight, straight questions, give me straight answers. That's all.
Speaker 1: That's all. Im Mortal di Era says, I hate a
Speaker 1: cryptic talker. Bro, this nigga want to be the Riddler
Speaker 1: so bad? Okay, answer my questions, please please. Hughes Best says,
Speaker 1: you might not know if the kid is yours. Don't start.
Speaker 1: Don't you fucking start? Okay, Dommy, she says, answer my
Speaker 1: question with a question is annoying on God. Answering my
Speaker 1: question with a question will get you unanswered for the rest.
Speaker 1: For the rest of this conversation, Jordan Earra said, somebody said,
Speaker 1: if you love me, figure it out. Summer sanders Hey, Yo,
Speaker 1: nineties and two thousands kids appreciated that. Thank you, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. This is Le says, depend on a question.
Speaker 1: I know toxic when I see it. I know a
Speaker 1: villain when I see it. I know a villain when
Speaker 1: I see it. I do and do and do. Jackson
Speaker 1: Junior dot Ball says, Joan gonna get Sean gonna get
Speaker 1: hit somebody. I'm crying. This is La said, you can't
Speaker 1: handle the truth. Nah nah, I don't like that. I
Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't like that. So my last
Speaker 1: sign of you know, people showing that they're weird via
Speaker 1: texting in those first few days or whatever the case
Speaker 1: may be. My next sign is being mean, like I
Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't like that. I don't like
Speaker 1: that at all. It's it's it's it's not you being
Speaker 1: mean to me thinking it's cute. I don't like that.
Speaker 1: I had a dad growing up. Okay, now he left
Speaker 1: fairly early, but I still had I remember when it
Speaker 1: was good. You saying I remember when it was good.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you can't be mean to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it. I don't
Speaker 1: like it, and don't hate me with the Oh, they're
Speaker 1: just being mean to you because they like you. I'm
Speaker 1: not in fourth grade. Don't don't do that. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: And honestly, I teach my son that does not for
Speaker 1: around here. If she's being mean to you, fuck that bitch. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know what you want me to say. We're
Speaker 1: not playing those the emotional abuse games around here. I
Speaker 1: don't like that. I don't like that at all. But
Speaker 1: it's like, bro, like, no, you you being pushy, aggressive,
Speaker 1: low key controlling. You're trying to get me back hen
Speaker 1: and compliments. You're the meaning like do you like me
Speaker 1: or not? I'm confused, like what are we doing here?
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I don't like that at all.
Speaker 1: The Graham Foundation eight one one eight says, fuck that bitch,
Speaker 1: son and Duke, that's me. That's me. Let me say something.
Speaker 1: None of your daughters will ever be able to play
Speaker 1: my son. He will not be one of these niggas
Speaker 1: that your daughters say. My son is not no shade,
Speaker 1: no shade, no shade. I say this with love, But
Speaker 1: when I say this sharkon't know what I mean when
Speaker 1: I say it. My son is not gonna be a
Speaker 1: Travis Hunter. No, that's not gonna be him. That's not
Speaker 1: that's no no no no, no, no, no no no
Speaker 1: no shade no shade. And that's all I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1: Y'all get what I mean when I say it, that's it.
Speaker 1: Uh Im Mortal die Era says, like, don't make me
Speaker 1: mad because I'm performed. Smitty Say Slide says that's childish.
Speaker 1: Huban knows best says, but are you mean to them? No? No,
Speaker 1: Immortal die Era says, I immediately check out Sport two
Speaker 1: None says he left fairly early. Neer Underscore the one
Speaker 1: says like asshole mean or like me me, Like, y'all
Speaker 1: don't understand some men, especially like if a woman is
Speaker 1: very well put together, some men will purposely try to
Speaker 1: be little and demean you, to bring you down or
Speaker 1: to try to break whatever confidence they see that you have.
Speaker 1: Like I know some of y'all like, oh, that's corn you.
Speaker 1: Why was y'all even entertaining? I promise you act the
Speaker 1: women in your lives and a woman that you know,
Speaker 1: they'll tell you. There are some men out here who
Speaker 1: that's their version of flirting. They will be mean to you.
Speaker 1: There are some men out here where that's their version
Speaker 1: of flirting. They will be mean to you like. They
Speaker 1: will belittle you, give you backhanded compliments, talk about you
Speaker 1: still being single, your biological time plog. Don't let you
Speaker 1: be a single mom like. They will literally low key
Speaker 1: be pushy, mean aggressive. It's like, bro, you like me
Speaker 1: or no, because I don't know what the fuck you're doing.
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I'm not doing it. I'm not
Speaker 1: doing it. Hugh. No one's best says you mean to me,
Speaker 1: I'll like your ass up, mister, gimme the yacht says,
Speaker 1: that's not alpha mentality, that's actually beta male ish. Without
Speaker 1: getting into the alpha or beta conversation, I'm going to
Speaker 1: say automatically, that's a sign of insecurity that I'm not
Speaker 1: interested in, Like you being mean to me right off
Speaker 1: the back. Okay, cool, Yeah, you know what, I'm not
Speaker 1: really interested. But you know, good luck on your journey.
Speaker 1: Y'all know that's my shit. Tell a nigga good luck
Speaker 1: on your journey. In a minute. Hey, I just don't
Speaker 1: feel like we're on the same page here, But you know,
Speaker 1: good luck on your journey, all right, guys, So now
Speaker 1: it's time to get into the edible portion of the show.
Speaker 1: So the edible portion is when we read questions comments
Speaker 1: that you guys set in and on the day that
Speaker 1: we record, we usually put up a prompt saying ask
Speaker 1: me any thing. And if it's one of the days
Speaker 1: that we don't have a prompt up or it's too
Speaker 1: long to fit in the prompt, you can always send
Speaker 1: me an email at inquiries at stormypea dot com. Okay,
Speaker 1: so let's get into it. This first story was emailed
Speaker 1: to me and live. I would love for you guys
Speaker 1: to and hear what your response is because I have
Speaker 1: my own thoughts, but I would love to hear what
Speaker 1: y'alls are. So it says hello, as of lately in
Speaker 1: my dating journey, I keep oh, I'm sorry, this is
Speaker 1: from a heterosexual man. Okay, so let's start over. It
Speaker 1: says hello, as of lately and my dating journey, I
Speaker 1: keep finding myself in the same strange predicament. Anytime I
Speaker 1: meet a girl and we hit it off, we exchange
Speaker 1: contact info, etc. I get ghosted, which is fine. I'm
Speaker 1: comfortable with rejection. I just charge it to the game
Speaker 1: and keep it pushing. The part I don't understand is
Speaker 1: women will do this and then hit up my friends
Speaker 1: talking about me like, oh, why is your friend sel beojie?
Speaker 1: He acts like he's too good, et cetera. I've even
Speaker 1: showed my friends text messages left on red, no replies,
Speaker 1: calls not returned, and even they are dumbfounded. I don't
Speaker 1: got a problem pulling a date, but what's your opinion
Speaker 1: on this phenomenon? This isn't all the time, but it's
Speaker 1: consistent enough to make me wonder what's going on. So yeah,
Speaker 1: live happen. I would love to hear your response before
Speaker 1: I get my own. So, just to recap, this man
Speaker 1: is saying, Hey, I've got no problem pulling dates, but
Speaker 1: sometimes I go out own these dates and it's fine,
Speaker 1: we have a good time. Afterwards, I hit these women
Speaker 1: up and I get ghosted, no replies. But that's not
Speaker 1: the kicker. When we have mutual friends that acts them
Speaker 1: what happen to such and such, they hit them with
Speaker 1: the oh, he'd be acting too bougie. He thinks he's
Speaker 1: too good, right, So yeah, uh live tep in what
Speaker 1: you got for me? Hube knows Best says, lol, sounds
Speaker 1: like a figment of the imagination. Please fucking please, Okay,
Speaker 1: Ty Doc Grind says, I am stumped. Sir Hube knows
Speaker 1: Best says maybe he is too bougie. Ner Underscore to
Speaker 1: One says they don't like you. Sir Uh Immortal dot
Speaker 1: Era says bad guy vibe. Mister black Gemini says, sounds
Speaker 1: like he's given weird vibes. You probably trying to give
Speaker 1: too much info too fast. Ty Doc Grind says he's
Speaker 1: dating rats. Possibly, hold on, I'm trying to go down, y'all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was the last one. Okay, So I have two
Speaker 1: thoughts on this, right, two thoughts. One of them is
Speaker 1: a little bit more mean than the other one, but
Speaker 1: both of them come from a place of love. Okay.
Speaker 1: If you are going out with women and the date
Speaker 1: seems to be going good and afterwards they ghost you
Speaker 1: and then turn around and say, oh, he'd be acting
Speaker 1: to boogie boo boo boo, right, one possibility is these
Speaker 1: women don't actually like you, They just want to go
Speaker 1: on a date. There is a subservient level of women
Speaker 1: who date men because they are bored, because they are
Speaker 1: hungry because they want something to do, or because they
Speaker 1: want to experience something that they would not be able
Speaker 1: to provide for themselves. They out some of them know
Speaker 1: how to figure it. Okay. They will have you believe
Speaker 1: in this is the most amazing time, and you will
Speaker 1: see them again and you might potentially have met your partner.
Speaker 1: But that's not real. And you know it's not real
Speaker 1: because afterwards she ghosts you. There's no follow up. She
Speaker 1: has such a good time, but she doesn't want to
Speaker 1: interact with you afterwards. You're not on her mind afterwards.
Speaker 1: And sometimes it's not even that she's hungry or she's bored.
Speaker 1: It also could be yeah, you're cool, but you're not
Speaker 1: the one, okay. And because you're not the one, she's
Speaker 1: not reciprocating the same energy that you're putting out, which
Speaker 1: is why you get ghosted. Now, I will say kudos
Speaker 1: to you for not following up and her harassones women
Speaker 1: and being on they coltails and you know, being on
Speaker 1: the ass and da da da, They're like, no, okay,
Speaker 1: you got standards, you got boundaries. I love this for you,
Speaker 1: because if somebody isn't reciprocating the energy, okay, they want
Speaker 1: to ghost you cool, you leave them where they at.
Speaker 1: That's fine, right, But them turning around and saying, oh
Speaker 1: he too, bougie, That's what makes me believe, Oh they
Speaker 1: might like you, but you but just not the one,
Speaker 1: because if you was, they wouldn't have had a problem
Speaker 1: reaching back out, you know what I mean. Legacy Underscore
Speaker 1: Magic says I remember not wanting to go to a
Speaker 1: club and said I was stuck up. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: hate the club. Uh hold on, y'all. Ty that Grind says,
Speaker 1: if they're broke, store me just say that. Pe for
Speaker 1: Prophets says the dating game is a cruel game. He
Speaker 1: knows best says because he if he got money and
Speaker 1: flash it, that's a convenient reason. Jordan Arras says, damn,
Speaker 1: shaking my head, it's a good motherfucking game. A Legacy
Speaker 1: Magic says happened to me once. Ner Underscore the One
Speaker 1: says it beat a food. You a good dude, but
Speaker 1: the food was better. Hey, yo, please don't piss me off.
Speaker 1: Please don't piss me off. So my next thought would be,
Speaker 1: because like I said, it was a two part answer,
Speaker 1: My next part of this answer is, yes you're polite,
Speaker 1: Yes you're consistent, but are you intentional? Right, So some
Speaker 1: men say and do all the right things, but there's
Speaker 1: just no action behind it, Like we can go out
Speaker 1: on a date and it's cool, but it's like we
Speaker 1: just aren't interested in the same things. And a lot
Speaker 1: of women are not confident enough in themselves to say, hey,
Speaker 1: you're cool, but we aren't interested in the same things,
Speaker 1: so they'll just slowly stop responding and slowly stop putting
Speaker 1: forth effort, instead of being a mature adult and saying, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm not really interested because you know, you're not consistent
Speaker 1: enough for me, you're not intentional enough for me. We
Speaker 1: don't seem to have the same values, like we're not
Speaker 1: looking for the same things. But instead of acknowledging that
Speaker 1: and taking accountability for it, when someone aks him and
Speaker 1: be like, oh, yeah, he just stopped responding or he
Speaker 1: too bougie or blah blah blah, but no he not.
Speaker 1: Y'all just don't align and that's okay because everybody isn't
Speaker 1: for everybody. So yeah, those would be my two things.
Speaker 1: I would say, charges to the game, but just be
Speaker 1: more mindful when you're in these situations of the energy
Speaker 1: that's put out before and after the date. Is she
Speaker 1: as excited to see you as you are to her?
Speaker 1: Is she putting as much in this text message, this FaceTime,
Speaker 1: this phone call as you are, Because if she's not,
Speaker 1: this is the first telltale sign that she might not
Speaker 1: be that into you. So yeah, that's it, Hugh, but
Speaker 1: knows best said intention is important. Sometimes women goest you
Speaker 1: because they had another option already and didn't feel like
Speaker 1: they owed you an explanation for going with another option.
Speaker 1: I agree, And honestly, you don't have to go into
Speaker 1: detail and be like yo with somebody else. Just be like, hey,
Speaker 1: this doesn't really work for me, Good luck on your journey.
Speaker 1: Keep it short and sweet, keep going, keep it going.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, y'all. I may be by myself
Speaker 1: when I say this, but if I'm not the person
Speaker 1: for you, I'm fine with you. Let me know through text.
Speaker 1: I know. I know some people want this face to
Speaker 1: faith and they want to closure. Then want X, Y
Speaker 1: and Z nah. You can text me. You can text me,
Speaker 1: I go hoes, you can text me, And I want
Speaker 1: you to text me because first of all, what if
Speaker 1: I really like you, text me so you don't see
Speaker 1: my feelings turned what if I really want you? What
Speaker 1: if I thought you was the one? Text me so
Speaker 1: you don't see me breaking down inside? Okay, please please
Speaker 1: text me so you don't see me get in my
Speaker 1: car and like this cigarette going day after day. I
Speaker 1: greave my teeth and said it off. Text me because
Speaker 1: I don't want you to see me going out bad.
Speaker 1: Text me is fine, and it's short and sweet. Ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be in a follow up. You're gonna get up. Hey,
Speaker 1: thanks a lot, good luck on your journey. That's it.
Speaker 1: I just would rather you text me. Do you want
Speaker 1: somebody to tell you in person? Or would you rather
Speaker 1: than text you? Huban Noah's Best says wish you the best,
Speaker 1: but I wanna pursue another option. Cool, text it to me,
Speaker 1: Text it to me, text it to me. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I love this. What would you put in your text?
Speaker 1: All right? Hugh knows Best says wish you the best,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna pursue another option. Great, love it, I
Speaker 1: love it? I love it. Pharaoh I see says agreed.
Speaker 1: Pretty Boy Day says I'm sorry. But the truth is
Speaker 1: most guys don't approach you because they want to get
Speaker 1: to know you. Mister black Jim, and I says I'm
Speaker 1: weak tie that ground says okay. Then Cleo Striped Villain
Speaker 1: says a nice little hey. Hey, the nigga I want
Speaker 1: is acting right, so I'm crying. Huh, we are better
Speaker 1: off as friends. I don't really like that one. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna go g you cause, nigga, I don't want
Speaker 1: to be your friend. I want to put my koochie
Speaker 1: in your mouth. Stop playing with me. And we are
Speaker 1: not better off as friends. No, no, no, no, anything
Speaker 1: but that please. Uh Grind says no, because in person,
Speaker 1: you really gotta tame your serial killer. Exactly. If we're
Speaker 1: in person and you're telling me I'm not the one
Speaker 1: for you. Now, I gotta pretend to be cool. Now,
Speaker 1: I gotta pretend to be sane. Now, I gotta pretend
Speaker 1: I ain't been in therapy for five years. What text me?
Speaker 1: That's it, Ti Grind says, I've been the person in
Speaker 1: person before. Alas, I'm still free, mister reflection. When I
Speaker 1: said not gujini, my let's say what I say. It's cool.
Speaker 1: Just text me, long story short, just text me. That's
Speaker 1: my answer. That's my answer. All right, let's get to
Speaker 1: the next question, do you believe that social media has
Speaker 1: sort of brainwashed people into who they want? Ah? I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think that social media has brainwashed people into
Speaker 1: I don't think social media has brainwashed people into who
Speaker 1: they want. Social Media is a lie. I don't know
Speaker 1: if y'all know this or not, but social media is
Speaker 1: a lie. And the more you're able to present a
Speaker 1: relatable lie, the better you will do. Right. And it's
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I would say to each your own,
Speaker 1: cause it ain't brainwashed me into believe in shit. But
Speaker 1: I know there are some people. Some people think that
Speaker 1: the dating pool is trash and has pissing it because
Speaker 1: they watch Pop the Balloon videos. Y'all know that's a lie, right,
Speaker 1: y'all know people go on there to go viral, right
Speaker 1: you know? Like the ones that go viral are the
Speaker 1: ones that it don't and well, or have the most insults,
Speaker 1: or are the most absurd, Like do you know there
Speaker 1: are Popped Balloon clips and portions of that show where
Speaker 1: people actually find love? Did you know that? I bet
Speaker 1: you didn't, because all you see going viral is trash shit? Okay, Like,
Speaker 1: h I don't know. I just I would hope that
Speaker 1: social media had not brainwashed people into believing, you know,
Speaker 1: it was real in what they want because m m
Speaker 1: mister black jem and I says, no, it has given
Speaker 1: people more options. You don't have to see the same
Speaker 1: people in your little radius strife. The villain says, fake
Speaker 1: it till you make It has been a thing long
Speaker 1: before social media, but it wasn't as heavy as it
Speaker 1: is now. Isaiah HD says, I believe it has a
Speaker 1: lot of people's desires with a partner has been informed
Speaker 1: by social media, especially from a material level. Here's the
Speaker 1: thing though, Right, here's why I say it's not real.
Speaker 1: So you'll see and ladies, I love y'all, but I'm
Speaker 1: going on y'all for a minute. Like you'll see women
Speaker 1: on social media say, yo, he gotta make six figures,
Speaker 1: he gotta have this type of job, have this type
Speaker 1: of car, pay this much for my nails, and blah
Speaker 1: blah blah before the first date. Right, and then you
Speaker 1: look at the last three bodies they caught and they
Speaker 1: are damn they're homeless, Okay. And then you look at
Speaker 1: the last three bodies they caught and they're Jody from
Speaker 1: Baby Boy, Like we say these things on social media,
Speaker 1: and then we go home and we do different things,
Speaker 1: not all, but a lot. Right, You'll see these men
Speaker 1: who will like these BBL pictures and these women who
Speaker 1: have these perfect natural bodies and moms with no stretch marks.
Speaker 1: And then you look at day baby mom and she
Speaker 1: got a built in fanny peck. What the fuck are
Speaker 1: no shame, no shade. I'm just saying social media isn't
Speaker 1: real because when we're putting out and when we're actually
Speaker 1: living are two different things. Like so you have to
Speaker 1: sit and say to yourself, I'm not I'm not laughing,
Speaker 1: shoe stop laughing, shy, stop laughing. I'm just saying stretch guys.
Speaker 1: CJ says built in fanny pack as wild. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying nerder one says them fanny packs be fun. That's
Speaker 1: the name of pie. Fanny pack fund. Hold on, let
Speaker 1: me writing out. I forget fanny pack fun. Y'all ain't shit.
Speaker 1: Hube knows best says, just because it catches a double tap,
Speaker 1: don't mean I'll take her the mom uh Phillies nineteen
Speaker 1: eighty five says everything she say out our mouth, y'all
Speaker 1: is obituate. She bro what the fuck is up with you?
Speaker 1: Time out Phillies nineteen eighty five. What's good? Like? Are
Speaker 1: you okay? Bro? Like I've been skimming over like some
Speaker 1: of your comments. You're doing the most. Relax, this is
Speaker 1: a safe space. Like you don't have to do that here,
Speaker 1: chill Okay, that's first thing. Uh. CR five for Life says, like, Bro,
Speaker 1: then y'all like you are wallin'. Oh we're looks changed
Speaker 1: then what I'm just saying, Like Stretch CJ says, everybody
Speaker 1: ain't out here lifting baby daddies like you. Hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: are you hold on one second? I got a kukluks
Speaker 1: clamming but over here, let me just block you hold
Speaker 1: on one second. I don't think I've ever had to
Speaker 1: fucking block nobody in my live before. Like, Bro, you're
Speaker 1: doing the most. Yeah, He's just like I don't like you.
Speaker 1: I don't like black people, and God don't play about
Speaker 1: his people, all right, So in case you want to,
Speaker 1: you know, harass that man, it's p h I L
Speaker 1: L I E S one nine eight five. Thank you
Speaker 1: and you eve Ben blocked Jackson Junior Dot Paul says,
Speaker 1: uh definitely made us. Social media definitely made us all
Speaker 1: more accessible. Fanny pecks me fun some of them to
Speaker 1: hold on to Strife the villain says, no, that man
Speaker 1: is touched in the head and start for attention. I'm crying,
Speaker 1: say niggas shut up. Oh my god. Isaiah HD says
Speaker 1: a lot of people's personalities have been informed by social
Speaker 1: media as well. Post two thousand babies might be cooked.
Speaker 1: Big Dave the chef says, why does he be with you?
Speaker 1: I don't know who that person was. I don't I
Speaker 1: know it wasn't Sewan see y'all know most I don't
Speaker 1: know who that was. Like what mister his grandma was
Speaker 1: all alive and told her to hop on and he
Speaker 1: started talking shit mister black gem, and I said, story time.
Speaker 1: So I saw this girl on social media and she
Speaker 1: looked good. However, when I went to see her, she
Speaker 1: stayed in the slums. I caught my block and got
Speaker 1: out of their a set. I'm crying. Pula Na says,
Speaker 1: says that nigga was weird, but back to these extended warranties.
Speaker 1: I'm crying, yo. All that aside because that was weird
Speaker 1: of shit. Yeah, man, I just think social media has
Speaker 1: fooled us into saying and perpetuating narratives that we don't
Speaker 1: really believe in, that we don't really care, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I think if we all can
Speaker 1: just remember that two things can be true, we'll have
Speaker 1: a good time. Like it. Really, I do agree with
Speaker 1: that the post two thousands kids, they do might be cooked.
Speaker 1: They might be cooked, all right? Last question, as a
Speaker 1: single mother, do you have any tips on an introduction
Speaker 1: between your child and your partner? And live? I would
Speaker 1: like you to tap in on this as well, because
Speaker 1: you know my way might not be your way. You know,
Speaker 1: we all have different tendencies and things that we believe in.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I want to ask the question again, as
Speaker 1: a single mother, do you have any tips on an
Speaker 1: introduction between your child and your partner? Immortal die Era
Speaker 1: says Bull was a prime example of what this is exactly.
Speaker 1: Hugh knows best says as someone that was roasted, I
Speaker 1: learned to remain humble. Ty do Grind says, how do
Speaker 1: I introduce you to my daughters? Yeah? Here like it?
Speaker 1: I mean, she was saying from a mother's perspective, Do
Speaker 1: I have anyone tip on how I would suggest introducing,
Speaker 1: you know, my partner to my child or vice versa.
Speaker 1: So fun fact, my son will be thirteen next month
Speaker 1: and he has only met three men in his whole life.
Speaker 1: I know that, And I also want to say, first
Speaker 1: we be giving the mom shit because some of them
Speaker 1: let every nigga they fuck with meet day kids. I
Speaker 1: do want to say, there are some women who do
Speaker 1: not get a break and who are actual single mothers
Speaker 1: and do not have help. So unfortunately, if they want
Speaker 1: to get to know you, unfortunately you automatically kind of
Speaker 1: got to get to know their kid. And it's unfortunate circumstance,
Speaker 1: but it does exist. So no shade to the women
Speaker 1: who let every nigga they talk to meet day kid.
Speaker 1: Now to the women who have a baby by every
Speaker 1: nigger they talk to, you deserve some shame. I don't care.
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't care. Okay, but that's a
Speaker 1: conversation for another day. Right, But I will say, it's
Speaker 1: not my cup of tea if we are not locked
Speaker 1: into a relationship. You know, I'm it's it's not for me, right.
Speaker 1: Hugh knows best says if a woman is introducing me
Speaker 1: to her kid, I prefer to be in a soft setting,
Speaker 1: not some intimate SETTI setting then gradually increase the exposure,
Speaker 1: but let's make sure we really fuck with each other.
Speaker 1: First heard Big Day, the Chef two o five says,
Speaker 1: when I dated a single mother, I wait for at
Speaker 1: least two or three months before I meet her kids.
Speaker 1: And Mortal Error says, because I'm single with no kids,
Speaker 1: and I find that it's hard to date myself, so
Speaker 1: I asked her because she has a kid. Pharaoh I
Speaker 1: see says some kind of activity like an arcade or something.
Speaker 1: Mister black jam and I says, I don't mean I
Speaker 1: don't want to meet your kid unless me for real,
Speaker 1: for real, at least about three to six months. I
Speaker 1: love this in Mortal Era says, I was actually a question.
Speaker 1: This was actually a question I asked my friend who
Speaker 1: has a son as well. Hold on, let me run
Speaker 1: back down and run back down. Strike the Villain says,
Speaker 1: my mom wouldn't introduce me to no Negro to me
Speaker 1: till they was locked in for like six months. Tyg
Speaker 1: Grind says, it's the woman whose attitude change when they
Speaker 1: get somebody is what I can't stand. Okay, So for
Speaker 1: me personally, right, what I like to do is I
Speaker 1: like to let my son meet my boyfriend at the time,
Speaker 1: because that's how I usually end up doing it. I
Speaker 1: let them meet my boyfriend at the time in public settings.
Speaker 1: So like say somebody's kid was having a party, I'll
Speaker 1: have my son and said boyfriend there, but we won't
Speaker 1: arrive together, like he'll just know, Oh, that's him from
Speaker 1: such and such party. Next occasion, we're at the park
Speaker 1: such and such for just randomly walk up, Oh hey,
Speaker 1: I remember you from such and such party. Cool. Right,
Speaker 1: another public setting, we're out getting ice cream somewhere, you
Speaker 1: know such and such for walk up, Oh hey, such
Speaker 1: and such, how are you right now? Those little back
Speaker 1: to back to backs, that's weird right, space it out some.
Speaker 1: But what I will do is let my son get
Speaker 1: comfortable and see them interacting before I can introduce, as,
Speaker 1: this is my boyfriend, right, so that by the time
Speaker 1: we move fully to like phase four, where now he's
Speaker 1: at the crib, like, my son already has like a
Speaker 1: rapporum with him, and he's cool with him. They've already
Speaker 1: had their you know, little inside jokes. He remembers them
Speaker 1: from such and such and it's cool. That might not
Speaker 1: be fast enough for some people, but I like my
Speaker 1: son to believe that he's created bonds on his own
Speaker 1: and not been forced into them. I also want to
Speaker 1: see what their interaction is naturally, like, what's their chemistry
Speaker 1: naturally without him having the press of this is my
Speaker 1: mom's boyfriend. I have to like him. This is my
Speaker 1: mom's boyfriend. He's trying to impede on our emotional relationship.
Speaker 1: I have to share her now, I don't like him,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So when you allow them
Speaker 1: to build that on their own, it's a little bit
Speaker 1: easier for them to have their own connection. Jackson Junior
Speaker 1: Dot Paul says, that's actually a really good way to
Speaker 1: do that. Ty Doc Grind says, this is type slick
Speaker 1: but respectable. I'm cracking up. Hugh Knows Best says, that's
Speaker 1: how I met my girlfriend's son. She came to my
Speaker 1: kid's birthday party. Then we met at a park for
Speaker 1: a white castle picnic. Fuck that sounds cool. Fucking white
Speaker 1: castle picnic. You had me at white castle picnic. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold you. Then I started being around more.
Speaker 1: Isaiah HD says, see Stormy got the blueprint. I'm cracking up.
Speaker 1: Uh A Ramsey six point three says same for us
Speaker 1: single dads. You're not meeting my son until I know
Speaker 1: you have real potential. Nerd. The one says her kid
Speaker 1: gotta be a good win man for me to meet him.
Speaker 1: I'm cracking on funny, I'm crying right with people. Says
Speaker 1: that sounds cool. Tyder Grind says it is, though, mister
Speaker 1: black jimin I says, you got some good game. I
Speaker 1: can't lie. Aaron DoD Nash seventy three says son says, Mom,
Speaker 1: I was hit to the game the first meeting. You
Speaker 1: are alive. You are alive. My son will never say that.
Speaker 1: Brother underscore Mediano. She says, I've had one single mom
Speaker 1: tell that she's dating for her and not for her
Speaker 1: her kid. If that makes sense, that absolutely makes sense.
Speaker 1: And I'll be telling niggas the same thing. Like yo, bro, respectfully,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for daddy. My son ain't okay. He's very
Speaker 1: well taken care of. He he don't need a dad
Speaker 1: who stepped up. He good, He good. I need you
Speaker 1: to be my daddy first, and then we can work
Speaker 1: on how we won't have our own connection. Okay, I
Speaker 1: felt that. I thought that On a spiritual level, I'm
Speaker 1: with sis one percent, Troe four or five six, says
Speaker 1: you from Philly just asked, I'm into the page. I
Speaker 1: am love, I am so yeah. You know that was it,
Speaker 1: long story short. I hope you guys enjoyed yourself today.
Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this what seems like never ending
Speaker 1: fucking chronicle of road to marriage, road to a husband,
Speaker 1: she had, road to a boyfriend. Okay, but you now
Speaker 1: we're all in us together, and we're all having our
Speaker 1: own separate journeys but somehow having the same journeys. And
Speaker 1: I love that we have a safe space where we
Speaker 1: can talk about and have meaningful conversations, especially with all
Speaker 1: the toxic shit on the internet. My message is always
Speaker 1: gonna be the same. Follow me on the Gram at
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Speaker 1: you don't remember anything else, please remember Fanny peck fun.
Speaker 1: I love you, guys, and I've seen next week fees.