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Speaker 2: actress presenter among other things. Her name is Nandi Madida
Speaker 2: and pretty famous in South Africa, and she made some
Speaker 2: comments out there by the way, beautiful woman, and she
Speaker 2: mentioned how in South Africa that times are very tough,
Speaker 2: and I've talked to some girls in South Africa. Beautiful
Speaker 2: woman by the way down there, I show speed was
Speaker 2: just down there recently meeting and getting the feast his
Speaker 2: eyes on the beautiful wman that were there in South Africa,
Speaker 2: the dark skinned, lovely African females that were down there,
Speaker 2: And she is weighing in on why, in her views,
Speaker 2: some young women find themselves and compromise situations and relationships.
Speaker 2: If you didn't know, from the time I've spent browsing
Speaker 2: through sugar daddy sites, there were quite a few women,
Speaker 2: quite a few women in South Africa seeking sugar daddies
Speaker 2: because the price of the South African rand is minuscule
Speaker 2: when you look at it, Just to give me the
Speaker 2: heads up, So sixty three cents and a US dollar
Speaker 2: equals one South African rand, and I mean it just
Speaker 2: there's a lot to that. It's like even lower than
Speaker 2: what you would find in Jamaica or any other Caribbean
Speaker 2: countries as a matter of fact, or Dominican Republic for
Speaker 2: that matter. So, the thirty seven year old singer, actress,
Speaker 2: model presenter was on a podcast with El Tito, who
Speaker 2: discussed the growing trend of women dating for financial reasons. Now,
Speaker 2: this podcast that she was on, I wasn't on to
Speaker 2: find too much about, but the thing is she was
Speaker 2: featured on there, and she says she doesn't believe in
Speaker 2: judging women who find themselves in such circumstances, but the
Speaker 2: rather and exhibiting the systems that place them there. So
Speaker 2: I want to go and play what she actually said.
Speaker 4: When you have a government that doesn't empower enough youth, right,
Speaker 4: I'm talking about females in this instance, enough young females.
Speaker 4: There's not one female I can tell you now who
Speaker 4: wants to be at the criminal, who wants to be
Speaker 4: at the sugar daddy, who wants to be with some
Speaker 4: random I don't know, minister, or whatever the case may be.
Speaker 4: I can tell you any young woman first, he wants
Speaker 4: to be empowered, wants to be independent and to choose
Speaker 4: that they're the real love of their life, which is
Speaker 4: not usually that speck. Let's be honest, right, But now
Speaker 4: we have a country that doesn't have enough support. You've
Speaker 4: seen it, whether it's funding for university. You saw frismas four,
Speaker 4: you saw how the kids were treated, you saw what
Speaker 4: Keenan used to speak about AKA. You know, God bless him,
Speaker 4: we love him. It's still an issue and it's very
Speaker 4: intentional as well, or at least it feels that way.
Speaker 4: If a female is empowered, a young female, the chances
Speaker 4: of them compromising who they are a minimal I can
Speaker 4: tell you now why I'm so confident. It's like we
Speaker 4: could avoid al Tito's as a joke just.
Speaker 2: She has that tile I kind of feel to her.
Speaker 2: But that's obviously how the South African girls will talk,
Speaker 2: you know, just being flirty and very uh pretty and
Speaker 2: easy going like that. Now, al Tito is a rapper,
Speaker 2: a very famous rapper in South Africa. And of course listen,
Speaker 2: we don't know all about South Africa unless you're in
Speaker 2: South Africa. So if I'm talking about these folks, you
Speaker 2: obviously know who they are. But anyway, back to this,
Speaker 2: the empowerment of women that they're abably going to do
Speaker 2: what they want. But when times are economically tough, you know,
Speaker 2: recessionary kind of periods call for reactionary type of things,
Speaker 2: so you do something to go ahead and help to
Speaker 2: sustain so the women there or not against the idea
Speaker 2: of sugar dating. And she goes on but as a job.
Speaker 4: But the reason why you're like, yeah, ninety, you know
Speaker 4: you have integrity and whatever. I can't tell you with
Speaker 4: my chest had I not had my father being able
Speaker 4: to provide for me, you know what I'm saying. A
Speaker 4: husband who was supportive in that way. You don't know
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. I'm when to we provide
Speaker 4: having someone who can take you through college support you
Speaker 4: in that way. So what we're finding is a pandemic
Speaker 4: and I am my biggest passion is young females, where
Speaker 4: if we can empower females, think about it. Who wants
Speaker 4: to be with the sugar daddy? No one, guys. These
Speaker 4: beautiful girls don't want to be with the sugar daddy.
Speaker 4: They know it, but they're compromised from a financial perspective
Speaker 4: as well. Yes, there may be a few were into
Speaker 4: a lifestyle and whatever. But the truth is, if you
Speaker 4: can get empowered and if whether it's a government or
Speaker 4: private sectors really saying we can change your life, I'm
Speaker 4: telling you now, they'd be able to change their lives.
Speaker 2: So there you go. That's Nandie Madida who just to
Speaker 2: go back with some of the what she just said
Speaker 2: right there. I don't like judging any female, for example,
Speaker 2: who sometimes feel like it or is in a compromised situation.
Speaker 2: I want to break down the system. And this is
Speaker 2: my perspective. When you have a government that doesn't empower
Speaker 2: the youth, I'm talking about females. There's not one female
Speaker 2: who would tell you they want to be with a criminal,
Speaker 2: a sugar daddy, or some random minister, and that most
Speaker 2: young women simply want opportunities that allow them to stay
Speaker 2: on their room. This is the problem where we have
Speaker 2: women that are not able to go ahead and get
Speaker 2: any kind of sustainability from family when there's not a
Speaker 2: proper family structure and women are coming out of the woodwork,
Speaker 2: young beautiful women that are coming from single family homes,
Speaker 2: single mothers, and you know, step situations, fosters, whatever. Think
Speaker 2: of the situations that you know for some woman if
Speaker 2: they don't have that strong family structure. There's something to
Speaker 2: be said about where we want women to feel protected
Speaker 2: and loved and had had that wonderful atmosphere, because you
Speaker 2: have to ask yourself, how many women do you see
Speaker 2: out there that are influencers, which is a step away
Speaker 2: from they want to be able to be maintaining a lifestyle. Again,
Speaker 2: it's a fantasy. They want to go and live out.
Speaker 2: So they're trying to find a way to go ahead
Speaker 2: and live out the fantasy of not needing anyone because
Speaker 2: no one was there for them. Finding the money they
Speaker 2: want because they didn't have what was there for them
Speaker 2: and provided for them like they would want. And social
Speaker 2: media makes it very tough now because there's an impulse
Speaker 2: to be having what other women have, or having more
Speaker 2: than what they have, things like that. So it's very
Speaker 2: important to go in to that point and say, okay
Speaker 2: for women out there, yes, there are those you can tell.
Speaker 2: If you're going on to a sugar Day site, you
Speaker 2: realize there are some that are there just to go
Speaker 2: ahead and make ends meet because they just went away
Speaker 2: to get something done. And those are the good ones
Speaker 2: out there, the ones that you know are not like
Speaker 2: trying to go ahead and sanguine you and rob you
Speaker 2: of all your money. They might be asking for things
Speaker 2: because they're just asking like they would have only asked
Speaker 2: their father or ask you know, some other man of
Speaker 2: their life until they can get themselves to a point
Speaker 2: where they're on their own feet. Because I'm sure with
Speaker 2: many of those influencers out there, or many of those
Speaker 2: women out there, before they got themselves to be the
Speaker 2: independent modern women that they were, before they had to
Speaker 2: start somewhere, they did try to get some support from somewhere.
Speaker 2: I don't think any woman just comes out overnight. I
Speaker 2: mean for those that decide to go and go on
Speaker 2: to OnlyFans, it's the same idea that we know that
Speaker 2: they are working their way to get some kind of
Speaker 2: ends meet for themselves before they have to do themselves.
Speaker 2: So the empowerment is that women you don't inherently are
Speaker 2: supposed to be subservient. You would think there would be,
Speaker 2: there's a maternal instinct, there's a subservient instinct, of vulnerable instinct,
Speaker 2: a seminin instinct because they shouldn't have to go ahead
Speaker 2: and be out there doing it on their own. But
Speaker 2: obviously now it's become very obvious through the feminist culture
Speaker 2: has been around for sixty years that women are meant
Speaker 2: to go and feel like it's not even to the
Speaker 2: point where, okay, we want women to have equality. Absolutely
Speaker 2: as a man, I want that, but to feel like
Speaker 2: they don't need any man or any woman or anyone
Speaker 2: else to live their lives. That idea of loneliness and
Speaker 2: then trying to go and do things on their own
Speaker 2: and struggling, as we've seen with many people here in Florida,
Speaker 2: especially in South florid where I'm at or pickting where
Speaker 2: around the country in major cities, women that are struggling
Speaker 2: to make thems meet. It's not easy over here for
Speaker 2: women to go ahead and get themselves. Here in southwarda
Speaker 2: where I'm at, where it's a growing hub, tech, financial,
Speaker 2: what have you? Like? The thing is I see women
Speaker 2: now that are trying to live that life and they're
Speaker 2: being given all this impulsive area is to go ahead
Speaker 2: and go. So in downtown on what's pumping where I'm at.
Speaker 2: You know, you go down the street, you have alo
Speaker 2: to go find, you know, workout type gear or clothing,
Speaker 2: this everyday gear for the women out there, which is
Speaker 2: very expensive. Equanos, which is the extra high end gym
Speaker 2: out there, to go to pop up bagels or amnem
Speaker 2: or what is it, H and H Bagels, right, all
Speaker 2: these different shops Romoca, Latees, Machas, Salise or you know,
Speaker 2: three Natives and all these other places to go. And
Speaker 2: so women are being enticed to go ahead and just
Speaker 2: like live this lifestyle like an influencer. You come down here,
Speaker 2: come for the weather, come for the atmosphere, come for
Speaker 2: the people, and just come for this whole vibe that
Speaker 2: you get from this place. But it's very expensive. Go
Speaker 2: and live down here bus not to mention the housing
Speaker 2: down here, which is very expensive, and to live in
Speaker 2: the whole thing of having this concierge lifestyle and living
Speaker 2: all these things like it's just too much to ask for.
Speaker 2: So Nondi Madida goes on to say that impartment plays
Speaker 2: a critical role in predicting young women from compromising her values,
Speaker 2: and she says here, going back to what she said,
Speaker 2: we're going to play that back for you real quick.
Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, may go back to that
Speaker 2: real quick and just go to the part where she
Speaker 2: says this here, because I think what she said here
Speaker 2: was very important, because I think how she said it
Speaker 2: when it comes to empowering females, if you can get
Speaker 2: them empowered, they would be able to change your lives. Again,
Speaker 2: this is what she said in that clip. So we're
Speaker 2: gonna go back to that a once again and just
Speaker 2: make the point because I think what she says here
Speaker 2: is very clear and it makes a great point. So
Speaker 2: let's go back to this.
Speaker 4: If a female is empowered a young female, the chances
Speaker 4: of them compromising who they are a minimal. I can
Speaker 4: tell you now why I'm so confident. It's like we
Speaker 4: could avoid altitos as a joke, just wamy, but as
Speaker 4: a joint. But the reason why you're like, yeah, Nandy,
Speaker 4: you know you have integrity and whatever. I can't tell
Speaker 4: you what my chest had I not had my father
Speaker 4: being able to provide for me. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: A husband who was supportive in that way. You don't know.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. And when I we provide,
Speaker 4: having someone who can take you through college support you
Speaker 4: in that way. So what we're finding is a pandemic
Speaker 4: and I am my biggest passion is young females where
Speaker 4: if we can empower females, think about it. Who wants
Speaker 4: to be with the sugar daddy? No one, guys. These
Speaker 4: beautiful girls don't want to be with the sugar daddy.
Speaker 4: They know it. But they're compromised from a financial perspective
Speaker 4: as well. Yes, there may be a few were into
Speaker 4: a lifestyle and whatever. But the truth is, if you
Speaker 4: can get empowered and if whether it's a government or
Speaker 4: private sectors really saying we can change your life, I'm
Speaker 4: telling you now they'd be able to change their lives.
Speaker 2: But now that might be a South Africa where it's
Speaker 2: a different culture because there's i would say, little more respectable,
Speaker 2: more integrity, for the fact that women don't want to
Speaker 2: be in a place of destitution or depravity to where
Speaker 2: they have to rely on only fans or rely on
Speaker 2: these other things. This is much more of a Western
Speaker 2: culture kind of thing. But the thing is in South Africa,
Speaker 2: there are some Western cultures that are prominent down there,
Speaker 2: and they see that down there. But the thing is,
Speaker 2: these are African women that are beautiful that you know
Speaker 2: from a tribal point Okay, fathers, uncles, you know, brothers
Speaker 2: and sisters. It's a different family unit down They're very
Speaker 2: extended and very supportive you would imagine, and maybe they
Speaker 2: don't have that much, but just to try to do
Speaker 2: things to help them to find a way to a
Speaker 2: better life, as she says, help find for young women
Speaker 2: to make her way through college. You know, that's a
Speaker 2: very noble thing. And for any man who has a
Speaker 2: daughter or just has a woman in their life, they
Speaker 2: want to see them succeed in something. If they can
Speaker 2: find a career or hobby or something they find passion is, yeah,
Speaker 2: let's do something out of love and try to support
Speaker 2: in that way. But in America, it's a much different story, Nandy,
Speaker 2: because we have down here women that, as she says,
Speaker 2: they are looking at the financial freedom and they're looking
Speaker 2: to go ahead and live this lifestyle. Well, that lifestyle
Speaker 2: has been amplified for so much down here, it's gotten
Speaker 2: really bad and it's unfortunate in that way. But I
Speaker 2: gotta appreciate where she came from with this, and her
Speaker 2: idea here is is really good. So I like that
Speaker 2: she came and at the same time, she's also speaking
Speaker 2: about men at the same vein, which is also interesting,
Speaker 2: and she sparks a debate for grace for black men
Speaker 2: in South Africa, and we can also think this conversation
Speaker 2: and there's something more that's going on here for America
Speaker 2: as well. We can also think that. So she also
Speaker 2: spoke about the fact that in her marriage your career,
Speaker 2: she talked about systemic inequality, masculinity and economic pressure in
Speaker 2: South Africa. So she here's another clip from her talk
Speaker 2: about having grace for black men. I think you could
Speaker 2: take this subject and put it into even a bigger
Speaker 2: perspective about how it is for men to give respect.
Speaker 2: And I think that's what she's doing here, is she
Speaker 2: is really some of the fact of the issues that
Speaker 2: men go through and the financial hardships they also go
Speaker 2: through in a system of government, and just the way
Speaker 2: that the country is there economically, which is also again
Speaker 2: economic hardships are not just affecting for women, it's also
Speaker 2: for men. So for men that cannot make the kind
Speaker 2: of money to support the women out there, that's where
Speaker 2: she comes through with this. So let's play that part.
Speaker 4: I do. Yeah, I have to advocate in a very
Speaker 4: genuine way. Seriously, our black men have gone through so
Speaker 4: much and financially it is almost impossible to try empower yourself.
Speaker 4: Even when you try, you know, the systems against you.
Speaker 4: You know, people don't have support from the government. You
Speaker 4: have four hundred years of being you know, oppressed. Where's
Speaker 4: this money going to come from? You know? And so
Speaker 4: we do have to give our fellow black men grace.
Speaker 4: And if you can see, the intention is to do better,
Speaker 4: you know, and make someone something serious, you know, that's
Speaker 4: a good guy. Yeah, and I mean that genuinely. I
Speaker 4: always say that, like, oh black men particularly, I'm going
Speaker 4: to speak about Africa because I'm priorly sou Afrigan. Oh,
Speaker 4: you guys are up against so much, and.
Speaker 2: So the point is that it's also an acceptance of
Speaker 2: the fact that at least in South Africa, you know,
Speaker 2: women that are choosing to partake in the sugar beating
Speaker 2: lifestyle because there's a way for them to go hand
Speaker 2: make their way up that they want to go ahead
Speaker 2: and look at the fact that guys are up against
Speaker 2: so much of their own heart now for them, they're
Speaker 2: talking for the perspective of where in South Africa, you know,
Speaker 2: there might be a lot of people that would like
Speaker 2: to see government health. That's a political discussion that I'm
Speaker 2: not going to have here. But she makes a point
Speaker 2: on this program because she's trying to make the point
Speaker 2: about how guys of gals, you know, the job market,
Speaker 2: private jobs, public jobs, there's just jobs to find in
Speaker 2: South Africa in general are the worst of any you know, structured,
Speaker 2: highly developed country. Put it like that, for any highly
Speaker 2: developed country in any other part of the world, like
Speaker 2: so Europe or Asia, or North America here or South America,
Speaker 2: the job market there is extremely difficult because there are
Speaker 2: millions upon millions of people that are not working right now.
Speaker 2: So it's tough for everybody. And so for women, they
Speaker 2: can go the route of trying to find ways to
Speaker 2: go ahead and use their bodies and use who they are,
Speaker 2: you know, their youth, their to help get themselves ahead.
Speaker 2: But it's not something they want to do because there's
Speaker 2: a pride to being South Africa and being black that
Speaker 2: they don't want to go for this for too long.
Speaker 2: This is not kind of mindset that we've talked about here,
Speaker 2: where before we had OnlyFans. You know, if a woman
Speaker 2: wanted to find a way to go ahead and move
Speaker 2: ahead in life, if they went worked at a Hooters
Speaker 2: or a Twin Peaks, or work at a strip club
Speaker 2: or things like that where they did some things that
Speaker 2: were a little bit more sexual, salacious, a little more naughty.
Speaker 2: But like you know, if that was something a way
Speaker 2: to go ahead make ends meet, that's what they did.
Speaker 2: So what else can you do about that? But I
Speaker 2: love the fact that she actually brings us up about
Speaker 2: men just from a social factor that you know, appreciate
Speaker 2: where men are coming from. Because the thing is now
Speaker 2: social media has made it a point where women that
Speaker 2: are independent and modern, they don't even care about the
Speaker 2: men and the money they make or what they provide
Speaker 2: for them. That there's not even a care in the
Speaker 2: world for these men at all. So like, if a
Speaker 2: sugar daddy is out there, that woman's not appreciating him.
Speaker 2: If it's a younger, you're gotta especially even more. But
Speaker 2: even if it's a transactional relationship, the women don't care
Speaker 2: about the men at all. It's getting more and more
Speaker 2: clear all the time. It depends if the social media
Speaker 2: is out there and that the women are really bought
Speaker 2: onto that, and it's like they're basically like, you know,
Speaker 2: emotionally broken. They they don't have any empathy, no sympathy
Speaker 2: for a guy and what they're going through, what it
Speaker 2: took for them to go and make the money to
Speaker 2: go and buy them the back, buy them, you know,
Speaker 2: a nice dinner out, whatever. It's no appreciation for that.
Speaker 2: And the appreciation is not just the sex. Okay, this
Speaker 2: should be more than that. So being transactional like that
Speaker 2: to the point of being transactional is horrible. But we're
Speaker 2: getting to that point now and there's no appreciation for
Speaker 2: the men. So here's more from Ltito here, who's tucking
Speaker 2: to Nadima d a little bit more about this, a
Speaker 2: little more of this clip. We're gonna play this real quick.
Speaker 1: And you know, like I think it's interesting because we
Speaker 1: never have these conversations and the rhetoric and the narrative
Speaker 1: out there is like, yeah, I am not Bob the building.
Speaker 1: I'm not building any men. And we're not saying take
Speaker 1: a guy that's a bum that has no vision, that
Speaker 1: it has no ambition and making your man. But it's
Speaker 1: like everyone is still working on themselves. I think we
Speaker 1: judge each other like very hasty. We're looking for people
Speaker 1: who are already made or who are like already perfect,
Speaker 1: and I think that's why there's so much miscommunication between
Speaker 1: males and females.
Speaker 2: I love that that's very well said. We are talking
Speaker 2: about young men and young women specifically here when it
Speaker 2: comes to sugardating, because it's becoming a common thing for
Speaker 2: we know, the young men young women, you know, if
Speaker 2: they have to find a way to make against meat
Speaker 2: and being an influencer, going on only fans and finding
Speaker 2: ways to go and make against meat on their own
Speaker 2: or not working use your body for what has got
Speaker 2: And that's the point here, the idea of giving more
Speaker 2: grace that social media has amplified unrealistic standards of success
Speaker 2: and wealth and the digital ages burn the line between
Speaker 2: aspiration and reality creating pressure for people to perform prosperity
Speaker 2: in their everyday lives. But then there's a lot of
Speaker 2: backlash to this where I hear about what she said
Speaker 2: Nandi Vandita. So one person here, doctor Rebrandt on X
Speaker 2: rights the black community is very interesting to me. Nandy
Speaker 2: is saying something she would never do. She gives them
Speaker 2: grace from a distance. She'd never be with a broken man.
Speaker 2: Men who are applauding her in the comments will never
Speaker 2: even access her. The advocacy is for who exactly more commentary.
Speaker 2: I understand Nandy, and I also understand the girlies. Do
Speaker 2: black men have it hard because of the system, Yes
Speaker 2: they do. But do the girlies have a right to
Speaker 2: say they don't want a relationship build on struggle, Yes
Speaker 2: they do. Nobody is wrong, nobody's right. So there's a
Speaker 2: part where women don't want a relationship build on struggle.
Speaker 2: But see the honest relationships. You know, they always talk
Speaker 2: about the fact that you know, when you see a millionaire,
Speaker 2: a billionaire so into successful, when they stick with somebody
Speaker 2: that's been there since the beginning, since the jump up,
Speaker 2: from the get go, those are the ones that you
Speaker 2: stick around with. Because you realize it doesn't matter what
Speaker 2: you have, that's real love, and that's the part I
Speaker 2: think what's really understood. More women also coming to hear
Speaker 2: that not as a well grounded message, but it's over
Speaker 2: simplified and has selective emphasis, underplaying accountability, a select to
Speaker 2: focus on Black South africamand using social media as a scapegoat,
Speaker 2: and fell distress that healthy relationships require mutual grace, not
Speaker 2: one sided leniency. These gender wars must stop because carry
Speaker 2: generational curses and the Black community does not deserve the
Speaker 2: aunt attractiveness that comes with them. And by the way,
Speaker 2: this can go for any community out there. It's go
Speaker 2: for anybody as young. Let's just make that clear too.
Speaker 2: Now stay tuned because in just a minute, I'm going
Speaker 2: to tell you about the update on the Malaysian sugar
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Speaker 2: King Rajwan sing Gil Narajean sing So. I told you
Speaker 2: about the story of the Singapore Sugar Donny scam where
Speaker 2: he was able to get embezzel one hundred eighty three
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. Let me go and play back a little
Speaker 2: clip of that which I talked about, going back to
Speaker 2: December of last year, so only three months ago. Let's
Speaker 2: go back to it. This thirty eight year old Malaysian
Speaker 2: man would go on dating platforms like Tender and presented
Speaker 2: himself as a wealthy white man supposedly living aboard a
Speaker 2: yacht in Malaysia. He would arrange meetings, appear in person,
Speaker 2: pretend to be the man's driver before assuming the false
Speaker 2: identity of the sugar Daddy to pressure the woman into
Speaker 2: sleeping with him. Elaborate scheme. You know, this is one
Speaker 2: of those kind of things where I don't think I
Speaker 2: could go this much. But there must have been something
Speaker 2: about this guy that had some money on him to
Speaker 2: be able to orchestrate this kind of deal. He would
Speaker 2: further threaten to release explicit videos and victims unless they
Speaker 2: transferred money or provided other benefits. Now, one woman was
Speaker 2: promised thirty thousand dollars a month in return for a
Speaker 2: sexual relationship. Wow, for any woman that they they're going
Speaker 2: to be able to make that kind of money as
Speaker 2: a sugar baby, what kind of mindset do you have?
Speaker 2: You're saying seventy five hundred dollars, we're saying one thousand
Speaker 2: dollars a day. I gotta say it like this. I
Speaker 2: don't know how this woman didn't realize she was going
Speaker 2: to get screwed over. What kind of delusional thinking is
Speaker 2: there right there for one to go and think that. Listen,
Speaker 2: I feel bad for her. I can't believe this happened
Speaker 2: to her. This was wrong. But still she's already setting
Speaker 2: herself up for a trap because she's asking for so
Speaker 2: much by the way. That guy, remember, also had a
Speaker 2: wife and son. So now the story in this here
Speaker 2: is that he has been sentenced to twelve years in jail.
Speaker 2: For pretending to be a rich white man and coercing
Speaker 2: woman into sex. Now back in then the story, He's
Speaker 2: been convicted of two counts of cheating and one count
Speaker 2: each of extortion and attempted extortion, including involving two victims
Speaker 2: identified in core documents the WTE Public. WTE Public prosecutor
Speaker 2: Jeremy Benn told the court quote by his horrific and
Speaker 2: perverse conduct purely intended to satisfy both his sexual material desires,
Speaker 2: they accused as callously and irreptibly damaged the lives of
Speaker 2: his victims. He adopted multiple online personas, including Mike and
Speaker 2: Other Days, saying he was a white man with a
Speaker 2: lot of lifestyle and offering large monthly sums in return
Speaker 2: for sex and companionship. And he would refer to be
Speaker 2: the sugar Daddy's drivers in that role to gauge whether
Speaker 2: he could cultivate sympathy or resort to threats related to
Speaker 2: the fictional benefactor. So again, one hundred and forty two
Speaker 2: thousand dollars American or one hundred and eighty two thousand
Speaker 2: dollars in Singapore, And he still has pending charges involving
Speaker 2: thirteen other alleged victims, and in a separate case involving
Speaker 2: another woman, he was sentenced last year to four and
Speaker 2: a half years jail or to pay seven thousand dollars
Speaker 2: Singapore dollars compensation for pleading guilty to cheating offenses now
Speaker 2: in Singapore and Malaysia because he's from Malaysia but was
Speaker 2: also operating here in Singapore. That authorities and lawyers hey
Speaker 2: say that arrangements can quickly cross into criminal territory when
Speaker 2: payment is explicitly tied to sexual acts, when deception is
Speaker 2: used to obtain consent, or when threats and expectations are involved.
Speaker 2: So yeah, he used the sugar book dot com platform
Speaker 2: for sugar dating and was able to connect to mutually
Speaker 2: consumting adults, accused by critics and authorities of facilitating transactional sex.
Speaker 2: There was another case in twenty twenty one where there
Speaker 2: was a man jail for orchestrating and an elaborate and
Speaker 2: wall executed plan to cheat women by posing his wealthy benefactor,
Speaker 2: and several other men received jail sentences last year in
Speaker 2: some of the cases targeting teenagers and threatening to circulate
Speaker 2: explicit images to exert control over the victims. So this
Speaker 2: is nothing new, but there we go. The guy got
Speaker 2: his justice ERTs. He's going to be in jail, and
Speaker 2: I would imagine, I would imagine that that guy's not
Speaker 2: gonna do too well in jail. You know, instead of
Speaker 2: having young women or teenage women to extort and to
Speaker 2: get sex from, he's going to get it from some
Speaker 2: other guys out there that will see him to do
Speaker 2: something a little depraved. And the bonders