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<v Speaker 1>Podcasting since two thousand and five. This is the King

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it is time for us to stop throwing shade

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<v Speaker 2>on sugar dating.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad you made it back. Welcome back to

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome you to the program tonight. A South African singer.

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<v Speaker 2>It's proclaiming to the world that we need to stop

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<v Speaker 2>throwing shade on sugar daddies and women looking for sugar

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<v Speaker 2>daddies to sugar date. And so she's very vocal on

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<v Speaker 2>a podcast and talked about it. Plus I have a

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<v Speaker 2>talked about these Singapore sugar daddy scam. Well I've got

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead and do it right now. So the singer

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<v Speaker 2>actress presenter among other things. Her name is Nandi Madida

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<v Speaker 2>and pretty famous in South Africa, and she made some

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<v Speaker 2>comments out there by the way, beautiful woman, and she

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned how in South Africa that times are very tough,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've talked to some girls in South Africa. Beautiful

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<v Speaker 2>woman by the way down there, I show speed was

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<v Speaker 2>just down there recently meeting and getting the feast his

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<v Speaker 2>eyes on the beautiful wman that were there in South Africa,

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<v Speaker 2>the dark skinned, lovely African females that were down there,

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<v Speaker 2>And she is weighing in on why, in her views,

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<v Speaker 2>some young women find themselves and compromise situations and relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>If you didn't know, from the time I've spent browsing

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<v Speaker 2>through sugar daddy sites, there were quite a few women,

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<v Speaker 2>quite a few women in South Africa seeking sugar daddies

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<v Speaker 2>because the price of the South African rand is minuscule

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<v Speaker 2>when you look at it, Just to give me the

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<v Speaker 2>heads up, So sixty three cents and a US dollar

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<v Speaker 2>equals one South African rand, and I mean it just

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<v Speaker 2>there's a lot to that. It's like even lower than

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<v Speaker 2>what you would find in Jamaica or any other Caribbean

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<v Speaker 2>countries as a matter of fact, or Dominican Republic for

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<v Speaker 2>that matter. So, the thirty seven year old singer, actress,

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<v Speaker 2>model presenter was on a podcast with El Tito, who

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<v Speaker 2>discussed the growing trend of women dating for financial reasons. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast that she was on, I wasn't on to

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<v Speaker 2>find too much about, but the thing is she was

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<v Speaker 2>featured on there, and she says she doesn't believe in

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<v Speaker 2>judging women who find themselves in such circumstances, but the

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<v Speaker 2>rather and exhibiting the systems that place them there. So

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go and play what she actually said.

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<v Speaker 4>When you have a government that doesn't empower enough youth, right,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm talking about females in this instance, enough young females.

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<v Speaker 4>There's not one female I can tell you now who

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<v Speaker 4>wants to be at the criminal, who wants to be

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<v Speaker 4>at the sugar daddy, who wants to be with some

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<v Speaker 4>random I don't know, minister, or whatever the case may be.

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<v Speaker 4>I can tell you any young woman first, he wants

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<v Speaker 4>to be empowered, wants to be independent and to choose

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<v Speaker 4>that they're the real love of their life, which is

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<v Speaker 4>not usually that speck. Let's be honest, right, But now

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<v Speaker 4>we have a country that doesn't have enough support. You've

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<v Speaker 4>seen it, whether it's funding for university. You saw frismas four,

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<v Speaker 4>you saw how the kids were treated, you saw what

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<v Speaker 4>Keenan used to speak about AKA. You know, God bless him,

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<v Speaker 4>we love him. It's still an issue and it's very

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<v Speaker 4>intentional as well, or at least it feels that way.

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<v Speaker 4>If a female is empowered, a young female, the chances

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<v Speaker 4>of them compromising who they are a minimal I can

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<v Speaker 4>tell you now why I'm so confident. It's like we

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<v Speaker 4>could avoid al Tito's as a joke just.

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<v Speaker 2>She has that tile I kind of feel to her.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's obviously how the South African girls will talk,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just being flirty and very uh pretty and

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<v Speaker 2>easy going like that. Now, al Tito is a rapper,

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<v Speaker 2>a very famous rapper in South Africa. And of course listen,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't know all about South Africa unless you're in

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<v Speaker 2>South Africa. So if I'm talking about these folks, you

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<v Speaker 2>obviously know who they are. But anyway, back to this,

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<v Speaker 2>the empowerment of women that they're abably going to do

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<v Speaker 2>what they want. But when times are economically tough, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>recessionary kind of periods call for reactionary type of things,

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<v Speaker 2>so you do something to go ahead and help to

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<v Speaker 2>sustain so the women there or not against the idea

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<v Speaker 2>of sugar dating. And she goes on but as a job.

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<v Speaker 4>But the reason why you're like, yeah, ninety, you know

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<v Speaker 4>you have integrity and whatever. I can't tell you with

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<v Speaker 4>my chest had I not had my father being able

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<v Speaker 4>to provide for me, you know what I'm saying. A

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<v Speaker 4>husband who was supportive in that way. You don't know

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying. I'm when to we provide

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<v Speaker 4>having someone who can take you through college support you

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<v Speaker 4>in that way. So what we're finding is a pandemic

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<v Speaker 4>and I am my biggest passion is young females, where

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<v Speaker 4>if we can empower females, think about it. Who wants

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<v Speaker 4>to be with the sugar daddy? No one, guys. These

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful girls don't want to be with the sugar daddy.

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<v Speaker 4>They know it, but they're compromised from a financial perspective

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<v Speaker 4>as well. Yes, there may be a few were into

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<v Speaker 4>a lifestyle and whatever. But the truth is, if you

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<v Speaker 4>can get empowered and if whether it's a government or

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<v Speaker 4>private sectors really saying we can change your life, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>telling you now, they'd be able to change their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>So there you go. That's Nandie Madida who just to

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<v Speaker 2>go back with some of the what she just said

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<v Speaker 2>right there. I don't like judging any female, for example,

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<v Speaker 2>who sometimes feel like it or is in a compromised situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to break down the system. And this is

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<v Speaker 2>my perspective. When you have a government that doesn't empower

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<v Speaker 2>the youth, I'm talking about females. There's not one female

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<v Speaker 2>who would tell you they want to be with a criminal,

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<v Speaker 2>a sugar daddy, or some random minister, and that most

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<v Speaker 2>young women simply want opportunities that allow them to stay

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<v Speaker 2>on their room. This is the problem where we have

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<v Speaker 2>women that are not able to go ahead and get

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<v Speaker 2>any kind of sustainability from family when there's not a

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<v Speaker 2>proper family structure and women are coming out of the woodwork,

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<v Speaker 2>young beautiful women that are coming from single family homes,

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<v Speaker 2>single mothers, and you know, step situations, fosters, whatever. Think

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<v Speaker 2>of the situations that you know for some woman if

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<v Speaker 2>they don't have that strong family structure. There's something to

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<v Speaker 2>be said about where we want women to feel protected

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<v Speaker 2>and loved and had had that wonderful atmosphere, because you

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<v Speaker 2>have to ask yourself, how many women do you see

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<v Speaker 2>out there that are influencers, which is a step away

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<v Speaker 2>from they want to be able to be maintaining a lifestyle. Again,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a fantasy. They want to go and live out.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're trying to find a way to go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>and live out the fantasy of not needing anyone because

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<v Speaker 2>no one was there for them. Finding the money they

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<v Speaker 2>want because they didn't have what was there for them

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<v Speaker 2>and provided for them like they would want. And social

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<v Speaker 2>media makes it very tough now because there's an impulse

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<v Speaker 2>to be having what other women have, or having more

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<v Speaker 2>than what they have, things like that. So it's very

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<v Speaker 2>important to go in to that point and say, okay

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<v Speaker 2>for women out there, yes, there are those you can tell.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're going on to a sugar Day site, you

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<v Speaker 2>realize there are some that are there just to go

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<v Speaker 2>ahead and make ends meet because they just went away

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<v Speaker 2>to get something done. And those are the good ones

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<v Speaker 2>out there, the ones that you know are not like

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<v Speaker 2>trying to go ahead and sanguine you and rob you

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<v Speaker 2>of all your money. They might be asking for things

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<v Speaker 2>because they're just asking like they would have only asked

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<v Speaker 2>their father or ask you know, some other man of

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<v Speaker 2>their life until they can get themselves to a point

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<v Speaker 2>where they're on their own feet. Because I'm sure with

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<v Speaker 2>many of those influencers out there, or many of those

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<v Speaker 2>women out there, before they got themselves to be the

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<v Speaker 2>independent modern women that they were, before they had to

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<v Speaker 2>start somewhere, they did try to get some support from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think any woman just comes out overnight. I

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<v Speaker 2>mean for those that decide to go and go on

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<v Speaker 2>to OnlyFans, it's the same idea that we know that

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<v Speaker 2>they are working their way to get some kind of

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<v Speaker 2>ends meet for themselves before they have to do themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>So the empowerment is that women you don't inherently are

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be subservient. You would think there would be,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a maternal instinct, there's a subservient instinct, of vulnerable instinct,

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<v Speaker 2>a seminin instinct because they shouldn't have to go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>and be out there doing it on their own. But

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<v Speaker 2>obviously now it's become very obvious through the feminist culture

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<v Speaker 2>has been around for sixty years that women are meant

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<v Speaker 2>to go and feel like it's not even to the

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<v Speaker 2>point where, okay, we want women to have equality. Absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>as a man, I want that, but to feel like

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<v Speaker 2>they don't need any man or any woman or anyone

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<v Speaker 2>else to live their lives. That idea of loneliness and

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<v Speaker 2>then trying to go and do things on their own

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<v Speaker 2>and struggling, as we've seen with many people here in Florida,

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<v Speaker 2>especially in South florid where I'm at or pickting where

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<v Speaker 2>around the country in major cities, women that are struggling

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<v Speaker 2>to make thems meet. It's not easy over here for

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<v Speaker 2>what have you? Like? The thing is I see women

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<v Speaker 2>being given all this impulsive area is to go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you go down the street, you have alo

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<v Speaker 2>these different shops Romoca, Latees, Machas, Salise or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>so women are being enticed to go ahead and just

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<v Speaker 2>like live this lifestyle like an influencer. You come down here,

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<v Speaker 2>come for the weather, come for the atmosphere, come for

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<v Speaker 2>the people, and just come for this whole vibe that

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<v Speaker 2>you get from this place. But it's very expensive. Go

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<v Speaker 2>and live down here bus not to mention the housing

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<v Speaker 2>the whole thing of having this concierge lifestyle and living

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<v Speaker 2>all these things like it's just too much to ask for.

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<v Speaker 2>So Nondi Madida goes on to say that impartment plays

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<v Speaker 2>a critical role in predicting young women from compromising her values,

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<v Speaker 2>and she says here, going back to what she said,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to play that back for you real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>As a matter of fact, may go back to that

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<v Speaker 2>says this here, because I think what she said here

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<v Speaker 2>was very important, because I think how she said it

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to empowering females, if you can get

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<v Speaker 2>them empowered, they would be able to change your lives. Again,

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<v Speaker 2>this is what she said in that clip. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go back to that a once again and just

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<v Speaker 2>make the point because I think what she says here

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<v Speaker 2>is very clear and it makes a great point. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's go back to this.

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<v Speaker 4>If a female is empowered a young female, the chances

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<v Speaker 4>of them compromising who they are a minimal. I can

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<v Speaker 4>tell you now why I'm so confident. It's like we

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<v Speaker 4>could avoid altitos as a joke, just wamy, but as

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<v Speaker 4>a joint. But the reason why you're like, yeah, Nandy,

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<v Speaker 4>you know you have integrity and whatever. I can't tell

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<v Speaker 4>you what my chest had I not had my father

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<v Speaker 4>being able to provide for me. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 4>A husband who was supportive in that way. You don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. And when I we provide,

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<v Speaker 4>having someone who can take you through college support you

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<v Speaker 4>in that way. So what we're finding is a pandemic

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<v Speaker 4>and I am my biggest passion is young females where

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<v Speaker 4>if we can empower females, think about it. Who wants

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<v Speaker 4>to be with the sugar daddy? No one, guys. These

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful girls don't want to be with the sugar daddy.

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<v Speaker 4>They know it. But they're compromised from a financial perspective

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<v Speaker 4>as well. Yes, there may be a few were into

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<v Speaker 4>a lifestyle and whatever. But the truth is, if you

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<v Speaker 4>can get empowered and if whether it's a government or

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<v Speaker 4>private sectors really saying we can change your life, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>telling you now they'd be able to change their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>But now that might be a South Africa where it's

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<v Speaker 2>a different culture because there's i would say, little more respectable,

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<v Speaker 2>more integrity, for the fact that women don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be in a place of destitution or depravity to where

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<v Speaker 2>they have to rely on only fans or rely on

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<v Speaker 2>these other things. This is much more of a Western

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<v Speaker 2>culture kind of thing. But the thing is in South Africa,

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<v Speaker 2>there are some Western cultures that are prominent down there,

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<v Speaker 2>and they see that down there. But the thing is,

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<v Speaker 2>these are African women that are beautiful that you know

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<v Speaker 2>from a tribal point Okay, fathers, uncles, you know, brothers

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<v Speaker 2>and sisters. It's a different family unit down They're very

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<v Speaker 2>extended and very supportive you would imagine, and maybe they

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<v Speaker 2>don't have that much, but just to try to do

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<v Speaker 2>things to help them to find a way to a

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<v Speaker 2>better life, as she says, help find for young women

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<v Speaker 2>to make her way through college. You know, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>very noble thing. And for any man who has a

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<v Speaker 2>daughter or just has a woman in their life, they

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<v Speaker 2>want to see them succeed in something. If they can

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<v Speaker 2>find a career or hobby or something they find passion is, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>let's do something out of love and try to support

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<v Speaker 2>in that way. But in America, it's a much different story, Nandy,

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<v Speaker 2>because we have down here women that, as she says,

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<v Speaker 2>they are looking at the financial freedom and they're looking

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<v Speaker 2>to go ahead and live this lifestyle. Well, that lifestyle

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<v Speaker 2>has been amplified for so much down here, it's gotten

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<v Speaker 2>really bad and it's unfortunate in that way. But I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta appreciate where she came from with this, and her

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<v Speaker 2>idea here is is really good. So I like that

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<v Speaker 2>she came and at the same time, she's also speaking

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<v Speaker 2>about men at the same vein, which is also interesting,

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<v Speaker 2>and she sparks a debate for grace for black men

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<v Speaker 2>in South Africa, and we can also think this conversation

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<v Speaker 2>and there's something more that's going on here for America

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<v Speaker 2>as well. We can also think that. So she also

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<v Speaker 2>spoke about the fact that in her marriage your career,

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<v Speaker 2>she talked about systemic inequality, masculinity and economic pressure in

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<v Speaker 2>South Africa. So she here's another clip from her talk

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<v Speaker 2>about having grace for black men. I think you could

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<v Speaker 2>take this subject and put it into even a bigger

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<v Speaker 2>perspective about how it is for men to give respect.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's what she's doing here, is she

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<v Speaker 2>is really some of the fact of the issues that

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<v Speaker 2>men go through and the financial hardships they also go

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<v Speaker 2>through in a system of government, and just the way

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<v Speaker 2>that the country is there economically, which is also again

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<v Speaker 2>economic hardships are not just affecting for women, it's also

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<v Speaker 2>for men. So for men that cannot make the kind

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<v Speaker 2>of money to support the women out there, that's where

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<v Speaker 2>she comes through with this. So let's play that part.

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<v Speaker 4>I do. Yeah, I have to advocate in a very

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<v Speaker 4>genuine way. Seriously, our black men have gone through so

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<v Speaker 4>much and financially it is almost impossible to try empower yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Even when you try, you know, the systems against you.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, people don't have support from the government. You

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<v Speaker 4>have four hundred years of being you know, oppressed. Where's

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<v Speaker 4>this money going to come from? You know? And so

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<v Speaker 4>we do have to give our fellow black men grace.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you can see, the intention is to do better,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and make someone something serious, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 4>a good guy. Yeah, and I mean that genuinely. I

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<v Speaker 4>always say that, like, oh black men particularly, I'm going

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<v Speaker 4>to speak about Africa because I'm priorly sou Afrigan. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you guys are up against so much, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So the point is that it's also an acceptance of

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that at least in South Africa, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>women that are choosing to partake in the sugar beating

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<v Speaker 2>lifestyle because there's a way for them to go hand

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<v Speaker 2>make their way up that they want to go ahead

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<v Speaker 2>and look at the fact that guys are up against

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<v Speaker 2>so much of their own heart now for them, they're

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<v Speaker 2>talking for the perspective of where in South Africa, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there might be a lot of people that would like

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<v Speaker 2>to see government health. That's a political discussion that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to have here. But she makes a point

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<v Speaker 2>on this program because she's trying to make the point

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<v Speaker 2>about how guys of gals, you know, the job market,

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<v Speaker 2>private jobs, public jobs, there's just jobs to find in

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<v Speaker 2>South Africa in general are the worst of any you know, structured,

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<v Speaker 2>highly developed country. Put it like that, for any highly

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<v Speaker 2>so Europe or Asia, or North America here or South America,

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<v Speaker 2>the job market there is extremely difficult because there are

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<v Speaker 2>millions upon millions of people that are not working right now.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's tough for everybody. And so for women, they

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<v Speaker 2>can go the route of trying to find ways to

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead and use their bodies and use who they are,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, their youth, their to help get themselves ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's not something they want to do because there's

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<v Speaker 2>a pride to being South Africa and being black that

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<v Speaker 2>they don't want to go for this for too long.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not kind of mindset that we've talked about here,

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<v Speaker 2>where before we had OnlyFans. You know, if a woman

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to find a way to go ahead and move

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<v Speaker 2>ahead in life, if they went worked at a Hooters

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<v Speaker 2>or a Twin Peaks, or work at a strip club

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<v Speaker 2>or things like that where they did some things that

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<v Speaker 2>were a little bit more sexual, salacious, a little more naughty.

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<v Speaker 2>But like you know, if that was something a way

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<v Speaker 2>to go ahead make ends meet, that's what they did.

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<v Speaker 2>So what else can you do about that? But I

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<v Speaker 2>love the fact that she actually brings us up about

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<v Speaker 2>men just from a social factor that you know, appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>where men are coming from. Because the thing is now

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<v Speaker 2>social media has made it a point where women that

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<v Speaker 2>are independent and modern, they don't even care about the

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<v Speaker 2>men and the money they make or what they provide

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<v Speaker 2>for them. That there's not even a care in the

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<v Speaker 2>world for these men at all. So like, if a

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<v Speaker 2>If it's a younger, you're gotta especially even more. But

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<v Speaker 2>even if it's a transactional relationship, the women don't care

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<v Speaker 2>about the men at all. It's getting more and more

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<v Speaker 2>clear all the time. It depends if the social media

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<v Speaker 2>is out there and that the women are really bought

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<v Speaker 2>onto that, and it's like they're basically like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>emotionally broken. They they don't have any empathy, no sympathy

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<v Speaker 2>for a guy and what they're going through, what it

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<v Speaker 2>took for them to go and make the money to

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<v Speaker 2>go and buy them the back, buy them, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a nice dinner out, whatever. It's no appreciation for that.

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<v Speaker 2>And the appreciation is not just the sex. Okay, this

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<v Speaker 2>should be more than that. So being transactional like that

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<v Speaker 2>to the point of being transactional is horrible. But we're

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<v Speaker 2>getting to that point now and there's no appreciation for

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<v Speaker 2>the men. So here's more from Ltito here, who's tucking

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<v Speaker 2>to Nadima d a little bit more about this, a

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<v Speaker 2>little more of this clip. We're gonna play this real quick.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, like I think it's interesting because we

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<v Speaker 1>never have these conversations and the rhetoric and the narrative

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<v Speaker 1>out there is like, yeah, I am not Bob the building.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not building any men. And we're not saying take

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that's a bum that has no vision, that

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<v Speaker 1>it has no ambition and making your man. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>like everyone is still working on themselves. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>judge each other like very hasty. We're looking for people

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<v Speaker 1>who are already made or who are like already perfect,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's why there's so much miscommunication between

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<v Speaker 2>I love that that's very well said. We are talking

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<v Speaker 2>about young men and young women specifically here when it

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<v Speaker 2>comes to sugardating, because it's becoming a common thing for

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<v Speaker 2>we know, the young men young women, you know, if

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<v Speaker 2>and being an influencer, going on only fans and finding

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<v Speaker 2>or not working use your body for what has got

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<v Speaker 2>And that's the point here, the idea of giving more

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<v Speaker 2>grace that social media has amplified unrealistic standards of success

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<v Speaker 2>and wealth and the digital ages burn the line between

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<v Speaker 2>aspiration and reality creating pressure for people to perform prosperity

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<v Speaker 2>in their everyday lives. But then there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>backlash to this where I hear about what she said

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<v Speaker 2>Nandi Vandita. So one person here, doctor Rebrandt on X

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<v Speaker 2>rights the black community is very interesting to me. Nandy

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<v Speaker 2>is saying something she would never do. She gives them

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<v Speaker 2>grace from a distance. She'd never be with a broken man.

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<v Speaker 2>Men who are applauding her in the comments will never

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<v Speaker 2>even access her. The advocacy is for who exactly more commentary.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand Nandy, and I also understand the girlies. Do

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<v Speaker 2>black men have it hard because of the system, Yes

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<v Speaker 2>they do. But do the girlies have a right to

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<v Speaker 2>say they don't want a relationship build on struggle, Yes

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<v Speaker 2>they do. Nobody is wrong, nobody's right. So there's a

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<v Speaker 2>part where women don't want a relationship build on struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>But see the honest relationships. You know, they always talk

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<v Speaker 2>about the fact that you know, when you see a millionaire,

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<v Speaker 2>a billionaire so into successful, when they stick with somebody

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<v Speaker 2>that's been there since the beginning, since the jump up,

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<v Speaker 2>from the get go, those are the ones that you

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<v Speaker 2>stick around with. Because you realize it doesn't matter what

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<v Speaker 2>you have, that's real love, and that's the part I

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<v Speaker 2>think what's really understood. More women also coming to hear

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<v Speaker 2>that not as a well grounded message, but it's over

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<v Speaker 2>simplified and has selective emphasis, underplaying accountability, a select to

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<v Speaker 2>focus on Black South africamand using social media as a scapegoat,

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<v Speaker 2>and fell distress that healthy relationships require mutual grace, not

447
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<v Speaker 2>one sided leniency. These gender wars must stop because carry

448
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<v Speaker 2>generational curses and the Black community does not deserve the

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<v Speaker 2>aunt attractiveness that comes with them. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>this can go for any community out there. It's go

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<v Speaker 2>for anybody as young. Let's just make that clear too.

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<v Speaker 2>Now stay tuned because in just a minute, I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>King Rajwan sing Gil Narajean sing So. I told you

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<v Speaker 2>about the story of the Singapore Sugar Donny scam where

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<v Speaker 2>he was able to get embezzel one hundred eighty three

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. Let me go and play back a little

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<v Speaker 2>clip of that which I talked about, going back to

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<v Speaker 2>December of last year, so only three months ago. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>go back to it. This thirty eight year old Malaysian

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<v Speaker 2>man would go on dating platforms like Tender and presented

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<v Speaker 2>himself as a wealthy white man supposedly living aboard a

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<v Speaker 2>yacht in Malaysia. He would arrange meetings, appear in person,

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<v Speaker 2>pretend to be the man's driver before assuming the false

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<v Speaker 2>identity of the sugar Daddy to pressure the woman into

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<v Speaker 2>sleeping with him. Elaborate scheme. You know, this is one

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<v Speaker 2>of those kind of things where I don't think I

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<v Speaker 2>could go this much. But there must have been something

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<v Speaker 2>about this guy that had some money on him to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to orchestrate this kind of deal. He would

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<v Speaker 2>further threaten to release explicit videos and victims unless they

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<v Speaker 2>transferred money or provided other benefits. Now, one woman was

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<v Speaker 2>promised thirty thousand dollars a month in return for a

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<v Speaker 2>sexual relationship. Wow, for any woman that they they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to be able to make that kind of money as

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<v Speaker 2>a sugar baby, what kind of mindset do you have?

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<v Speaker 2>You're saying seventy five hundred dollars, we're saying one thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars a day. I gotta say it like this. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know how this woman didn't realize she was going

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<v Speaker 2>to get screwed over. What kind of delusional thinking is

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<v Speaker 2>there right there for one to go and think that. Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad for her. I can't believe this happened

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<v Speaker 2>to her. This was wrong. But still she's already setting

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<v Speaker 2>herself up for a trap because she's asking for so

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<v Speaker 2>much by the way. That guy, remember, also had a

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<v Speaker 2>wife and son. So now the story in this here

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<v Speaker 2>is that he has been sentenced to twelve years in jail.

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<v Speaker 2>For pretending to be a rich white man and coercing

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<v Speaker 2>woman into sex. Now back in then the story, He's

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<v Speaker 2>been convicted of two counts of cheating and one count

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<v Speaker 2>each of extortion and attempted extortion, including involving two victims

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<v Speaker 2>identified in core documents the WTE Public. WTE Public prosecutor

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<v Speaker 2>Jeremy Benn told the court quote by his horrific and

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<v Speaker 2>perverse conduct purely intended to satisfy both his sexual material desires,

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<v Speaker 2>they accused as callously and irreptibly damaged the lives of

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<v Speaker 2>his victims. He adopted multiple online personas, including Mike and

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<v Speaker 2>Other Days, saying he was a white man with a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of lifestyle and offering large monthly sums in return

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<v Speaker 2>for sex and companionship. And he would refer to be

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<v Speaker 2>the sugar Daddy's drivers in that role to gauge whether

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<v Speaker 2>he could cultivate sympathy or resort to threats related to

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<v Speaker 2>the fictional benefactor. So again, one hundred and forty two

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars American or one hundred and eighty two thousand

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<v Speaker 2>dollars in Singapore, And he still has pending charges involving

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<v Speaker 2>thirteen other alleged victims, and in a separate case involving

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<v Speaker 2>another woman, he was sentenced last year to four and

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<v Speaker 2>a half years jail or to pay seven thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 2>Singapore dollars compensation for pleading guilty to cheating offenses now

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<v Speaker 2>in Singapore and Malaysia because he's from Malaysia but was

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<v Speaker 2>also operating here in Singapore. That authorities and lawyers hey

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<v Speaker 2>say that arrangements can quickly cross into criminal territory when

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<v Speaker 2>payment is explicitly tied to sexual acts, when deception is

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<v Speaker 2>used to obtain consent, or when threats and expectations are involved.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, he used the sugar book dot com platform

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<v Speaker 2>for sugar dating and was able to connect to mutually

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<v Speaker 2>consumting adults, accused by critics and authorities of facilitating transactional sex.

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<v Speaker 2>There was another case in twenty twenty one where there

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<v Speaker 2>was a man jail for orchestrating and an elaborate and

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<v Speaker 2>wall executed plan to cheat women by posing his wealthy benefactor,

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<v Speaker 2>and several other men received jail sentences last year in

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<v Speaker 2>some of the cases targeting teenagers and threatening to circulate

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<v Speaker 2>explicit images to exert control over the victims. So this

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<v Speaker 2>is nothing new, but there we go. The guy got

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<v Speaker 2>his justice ERTs. He's going to be in jail, and

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<v Speaker 2>I would imagine, I would imagine that that guy's not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna do too well in jail. You know, instead of

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<v Speaker 2>having young women or teenage women to extort and to

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<v Speaker 2>get sex from, he's going to get it from some

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<v Speaker 2>other guys out there that will see him to do

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<v Speaker 2>something a little depraved. And the bonders