Speaker 1: I'm bad with something for you.
Speaker 2: To think about. Listen.
Speaker 1: This episode talks about how people think they're so mature.
Speaker 1: You can't tell them they're not mature. You cannot tell
Speaker 1: them that they are non mature. You cannot tell them.
Speaker 1: People think maturity means you're accomplished, whether you.
Speaker 2: In a certain position, has.
Speaker 1: A certain title, look a certain way, blah blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah.
Speaker 2: People think that means you are mature.
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have nothing to do with being immature
Speaker 1: or mature. Something that is very unsettling to me is
Speaker 1: when I hear men who are grown men who think,
Speaker 1: because they can talk well, that they are.
Speaker 2: Intelligent immature. But I beg the difference. And the reason
Speaker 2: I say that is because when men are calling women
Speaker 2: that B word, that H word, that C word, that
Speaker 2: is not immature.
Speaker 1: Man. When you're doing that, that shows just how immature
Speaker 1: you are.
Speaker 2: Any man who's calling his woman or.
Speaker 1: Any woman a bitch, you lack of maturity. Some men
Speaker 1: that just roll off of their lips like it's nothing
Speaker 1: like it is what they're supposed to be saying about women.
Speaker 1: And the reason men do that is because they put
Speaker 1: all women in.
Speaker 2: The same category.
Speaker 1: And that too shows a lack of maturity.
Speaker 2: And what's even worse.
Speaker 1: Is a lot of these people have followers on different
Speaker 1: social media platforms who are really engaging.
Speaker 2: With them and believing what they're saying. It's crazy.
Speaker 1: It shows you what I've talked about for so long,
Speaker 1: how people long for being a part of something. They
Speaker 1: have such a sense of belonging that they will entertain crap.
Speaker 2: Listen to men call women bees.
Speaker 1: And h's and c's, and I'm gonna say the words
Speaker 1: so you can know what I'm saying bitches, hoes, and cunts,
Speaker 1: and forgive me for that.
Speaker 2: But people from.
Speaker 1: All over the world is listening, and some people don't
Speaker 1: know what those bees, h and c's means.
Speaker 2: So that's what it means.
Speaker 1: But forgive me for saying it because I don't talk
Speaker 1: like that at all. And I just want to say
Speaker 1: people who do are immature. Even women women call each
Speaker 1: other that. That is in maturity. That listen, stop thinking
Speaker 1: just because you've grown, you're mature, you're not. Maturity does
Speaker 1: not necessarily come with age, and nine out of ten
Speaker 1: it don't. It comes through learning from your experiences, which
Speaker 1: a lot of people don't. And that's why they keep
Speaker 1: repeating the same cycles in their lives.
Speaker 2: Some of you you.
Speaker 1: Call your some women call their men out of his name,
Speaker 1: and the men called the women out of their names.
Speaker 1: That is in maturity, And it's a shame that you
Speaker 1: have these people on these platforms that's talking this way.
Speaker 1: When you have a platform of any sort, you should
Speaker 1: use it to uplift, to motivate, to inspire, not to
Speaker 1: bring people down, not to talk negative about people.
Speaker 2: But people are so caught.
Speaker 1: Up in negativity that they think is the greatest thing.
Speaker 1: People love hearing negativity. They love hearing people talk about
Speaker 1: other people. That is an immature mind on both counts,
Speaker 1: the person who's doing the talking and the person who's
Speaker 1: listening to it. Why listen to jump? But people are
Speaker 1: so mesmerized by it. But that's because of the mindset
Speaker 1: that people have. You gravitate towards what is familiar to you,
Speaker 1: what you're comfortable with. And if you're comfortable with gossip, negativity, voulness,
Speaker 1: foul mouths, disrespect, If you're comfortable with that, what does
Speaker 1: that say about you?
Speaker 2: What does that say about you? It says a lot.
Speaker 2: Because you shouldn't feel good, You shouldn't feel so being
Speaker 2: a person who's so in, who's willing to embrace that
Speaker 2: that kind of mess.
Speaker 1: So you gotta think about who you are and what
Speaker 1: this says about you, especially you're a woman, and you're
Speaker 1: okay with men calling women those nasty words, I mean,
Speaker 1: just rolling off their mouths.
Speaker 2: Like it's nothing.
Speaker 1: You're okay with that. Some of you give people the
Speaker 1: past because you think.
Speaker 2: He's handsome or he got a good following. That's ignorant.
Speaker 1: That lets you know you are an immature person, especially
Speaker 1: because you're attracted to the person. You don't know the person,
Speaker 1: You're just attracted to the person because they look good.
Speaker 1: Immaturity at its finest. You should never be okay as a.
Speaker 2: Woman with a man.
Speaker 1: Putting women down and disrespecting women. You should never be
Speaker 1: okay with that. That should not sit well with you
Speaker 1: at all. But it does with a lot of women
Speaker 1: because they are immature and they don't understand.
Speaker 2: What they're listening who.
Speaker 1: Is terrible, terrible and I do mean terrible things about themselves.
Speaker 1: But when they hear it, they don't connect the dots.
Speaker 1: They just think they're talking about other women. Know they're
Speaker 1: talking about you, booboo, They're talking about you. I can't
Speaker 1: stomach that, no way, no way, but so many people
Speaker 1: do because they love negativity, they love garbage because of
Speaker 1: their immature minds.
Speaker 2: You know, it's.
Speaker 1: Similar to black people who do nothing but down black people.
Speaker 1: Why would you ever do that to your own people?
Speaker 1: Consider in the history. But people are so immature and
Speaker 1: they're so mentally enslaved that they don't understand what they're doing.
Speaker 1: They think it's perfectly okay.
Speaker 2: They think they're set apart because.
Speaker 1: People have embraced them because they're down in their own race.
Speaker 1: They're doing what you're doing, what they want you to do,
Speaker 1: what racist people want you to do. They love it,
Speaker 1: they love when you down your own. But it's that
Speaker 1: immature mind, those un hearts and minds, that causes people
Speaker 1: to do those kind of things. And it's the same
Speaker 1: way with immature men and women. They don't understand that
Speaker 1: they are taking you know, they're taking in all.
Speaker 2: Of this stuff.
Speaker 1: And they're enjoying it, but they don't understand it because of.
Speaker 2: The mindsets that they have.
Speaker 1: They're unheal hearts and minds. That's why so many people
Speaker 1: are easily i mean easily led wrong.
Speaker 2: All you have to say is grapes are bad. I
Speaker 2: don't like grapes. We never need to sell grapes in
Speaker 2: this country ever.
Speaker 1: Again, if you're a person who's in a certain position,
Speaker 1: all you gotta do is say something as simple as that,
Speaker 1: and the next thing you know, people be throwing grapes,
Speaker 1: going in the store, throwing grapes against the while smashing
Speaker 1: them because they're so easily, easily easily manipulated and brainwashed
Speaker 1: and chords to do foolishness. That's why we've in our country,
Speaker 1: it's been murdered.
Speaker 2: Behind murder, behind murder, behind.
Speaker 1: Murders, behind murder, because these broken people are listening to
Speaker 1: these broken people, and then they go out and act
Speaker 1: because they got all of this hatred inside and they
Speaker 1: think that's what they're supposed to do, go out and
Speaker 1: and do mass shootings and things. The mind is a
Speaker 1: powerful tool. It's a powerful, powerful muscle. And let me
Speaker 1: tell you, when you lack control and understanding, when you
Speaker 1: have that unhealed hearted mind, you're so easily manipulated. Anything,
Speaker 1: anything could trigger a person who is broken. And that
Speaker 1: is why it is so easy for men and women
Speaker 1: to think all men and women are the same.
Speaker 2: When they're not.
Speaker 1: I'm speaking on a mental level because there is a
Speaker 1: difference between an immature person and immature person. They do
Speaker 1: not think the same. We all, at some point we're
Speaker 1: in immature beings. We all at some point we're immature.
Speaker 1: But when you go through life learning from your experiences.
Speaker 2: Good ord.
Speaker 1: And you not allowing bad things to dictate your life,
Speaker 1: you growth and you progress mentally.
Speaker 2: Into a mentally mature being.
Speaker 1: But most people deny themselves that opportunity. You can never,
Speaker 1: never ever get to that point of mental maturity by
Speaker 1: remaining the same.
Speaker 2: You just can't.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you accomplish, it does not matter.
Speaker 1: If you have no mental maturity, you cannot enjoy what
Speaker 1: you have because inside is broken.
Speaker 2: And you can have a whole.
Speaker 1: Entire world, but you will not be happy because you're
Speaker 1: broken inside.
Speaker 2: We see it all the time.
Speaker 1: We see millionaires committing suicide because they're broken, they're so
Speaker 1: broken inside. We see millionaires who are addicts, all types
Speaker 1: of addicts. Money does not change what's inside and does
Speaker 1: not heal what's inside of you that's broken. The poorest
Speaker 1: person on earth can be the happiest because of the
Speaker 1: mindset that they have too many people live fake lives.
Speaker 1: They're impostors. Complete and total impostors live in fake lives
Speaker 1: because they're trying to be appeasing and pleasing in the
Speaker 1: eyes of man while they suffer in silence, in silence inside.
Speaker 1: What's the point of that, You will never reach mental
Speaker 1: maturity that way.
Speaker 2: You will never grow.
Speaker 1: By allowing people to treat you any kind of way,
Speaker 1: talk to you any kind of way, you will never grow.
Speaker 2: All you will ever do is go.
Speaker 1: Through life being submissive, allowing people to do whatever they
Speaker 1: want to do to you or say to you. You
Speaker 1: just go along with it, and you are hurt inside.
Speaker 1: If you just compile more hurt on the hurt that's
Speaker 1: already there, you never reach mental maturity. And I see
Speaker 1: it all around me every day, every single day, just
Speaker 1: by watching how people are such easy followers, so easily
Speaker 1: bamboozled and manipulated, like puppets on a stream from the
Speaker 1: highest to what man consider the lowest. Because position doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: It just doesn't matter. It could be either end of
Speaker 1: the spectrum, and what's in you is coming out. You
Speaker 1: can fake and pretend all you want, but what's in
Speaker 1: a person is coming out. And most people in the world,
Speaker 1: just like most don't serve God but say they do.
Speaker 1: Most people fake and pretend that they got it together,
Speaker 1: but they far from it in maturity, no mental progress,
Speaker 1: no mental growth. That's why it's okay for you to
Speaker 1: follow all of these people who's spewing negativity talking about people.
Speaker 1: You love it because of the mindset that you have.
Speaker 1: Some of you live for every single day. You live
Speaker 1: for that negativity, and the more negativity that you allow
Speaker 1: into your life, you become.
Speaker 2: That dumping ground.
Speaker 1: So the more negativity you allow in your life, what
Speaker 1: do you.
Speaker 2: Think is doing to you?
Speaker 1: What do you think is doing to you? You're picking
Speaker 1: up those bad spirits.
Speaker 2: Truly you are.
Speaker 1: Some of you can see it in how you treat
Speaker 1: your children, your spouse, is, your significant others and other people.
Speaker 1: You find yourself gossiping and talking about people, It can
Speaker 1: easily happen if you don't check yourself, you can find
Speaker 1: yourself easily indulging in the same behaviors because that's all
Speaker 1: you're taking in negativity, negativity, talking about people, gossiping, pulling
Speaker 1: people down, degrading, disrespecting, So you begin to take in
Speaker 1: those ugly spirits. Most people in the world are not
Speaker 1: mentally mature. I don't care if you have degrees. I
Speaker 1: don't care if you sitting in the highest office in
Speaker 1: the land. I don't care if you have seven figure job.
Speaker 1: I don't care if you're the most beautiful. I don't
Speaker 1: care if you have all the houses and riches and
Speaker 1: everything in the land.
Speaker 2: I don't care.
Speaker 1: Most people are immature. It's just a fact, and they
Speaker 1: stay that way. Many have died that way.
Speaker 2: Because people choose to remain the same.
Speaker 1: And as long as people choose to remain the same,
Speaker 1: people are going to continue to be gullible and easily
Speaker 1: manipulated because all people are.
Speaker 2: Doing it, just dying to follow someone even though they
Speaker 2: are wrong. They can't see it. Blind blind blind blind.
Speaker 2: And it's a shame.
Speaker 1: Because God gave us all a mind to think for ourselves,
Speaker 1: but many people don't. They allow others to think for them,
Speaker 1: and vahlah, that's why we're in such a mess now
Speaker 1: all around the world. No mental maturity. Most people are
Speaker 1: mentally enslaved for multiple reasons, not just racist people. Most
Speaker 1: people on different in different areas for different reasons mentally
Speaker 1: and slave.
Speaker 2: But it all goes back to that.
Speaker 1: Mindset that have been developed, the mindset that you have
Speaker 1: that came from your experiences. Now you have that unhealed mind,
Speaker 1: that unhealed heart. You can change that, but you have
Speaker 1: to want to. You have to be willing to look
Speaker 1: at that mirror and be honest with yourself and love
Speaker 1: yourself enough to not care what other people say about you.
Speaker 1: Love yourself enough to not allow people to treat you
Speaker 1: any kind of way. Love yourself enough to not be
Speaker 1: disrespected by others and let.
Speaker 2: Them get away with it.
Speaker 1: Learn to love yourself enough to know that no man
Speaker 1: or woman is better than you, no matter what they
Speaker 1: have or who they are.
Speaker 2: Many people will never get there.
Speaker 1: Because you can talk to people until they're blue in
Speaker 1: the face and you're blue in the face, they still
Speaker 1: gonna do what they do and they will continue to
Speaker 1: be easily manipulated, persuaded, influenced. Most of the people that
Speaker 1: you love on social media's they're living lies.
Speaker 2: They're totally living lies, but you can't see it.
Speaker 1: You know, maturity does not come with age, point blank
Speaker 1: the end.
Speaker 2: I'm leaving the right there.
Speaker 1: You can choose to remain ain't the same, but you
Speaker 1: can choose to grow into to be a better person.
Speaker 1: That's totally up to you. Thank you for listening. Please
Speaker 1: share in every episode the same.
Speaker 2: And I pray you do it. Thank on it