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Speaker 1: Made a decant John.

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Speaker 2: Oh pay Sunny sun.

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Speaker 3: On I haddasione night.

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Speaker 1: So ch what's up everybody? Hey, hey, oh.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's been a long time since we've

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been here.

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Speaker 1: Last Listen, you and I are living a lot of

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life in short amount of times. Yeah, right now, and

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you have had a massive milestone happened this week and

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I cannot wait to hear all about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, I'll tell you all about moving Sonny out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Last last we were here with Monday last week, and

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then the next night after I was here on Monday,

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Sunday and night we drove to seeing Italia in Santa

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Barbara and it was really cute and we had dinner

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with her out there. Although Santa Barbara, you think it's well,

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it's actually quicker to get to Sunny on the flight

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from like flight time than it is to sit in

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a car and drive to Italia.

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Speaker 1: Was there traffic?

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Speaker 3: Well, now, there was a little bit traffic as we

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were heading out of out of this area to get

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to Santa Barbara, just a little, but then it eased up.

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But then we got home kind of late and we

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flew home and it was still like an almost two

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hour drive oh okay, flight to Oregon's and only like

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an hour and a half.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, it is better than San Diego though a

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lot of people feel like san Diego's close. That shit

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is not that it's not close. Now, that's like a

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good three sometimes four hour drive depending on traffic because

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you're on the four O five. So less than two

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hours is not bad. Yes, no, I'm not I'm not complaining,

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but yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was really nice and it was cute to see

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Natalia with her roommates, and.

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Speaker 1: Sonny got to see her place where she was.

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Speaker 3: Living and he and she was like, I'm gonna because

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I had to go charge the car. So while I

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did that, she took Sonny. She wanted to introduce Sonny

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to her other friends at the another location, another dorm.

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She said she was talking Sonny like, yeah, all my

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friends want to meet my brother. So she took him

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over there and she like met a bunch of her

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friends there and then we had dinner and.

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Speaker 1: It was really cute.

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Speaker 3: It was really sweet, and Italia gave him some good

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advice about, you know, get in touch with a counselor.

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I told him about advice that we got from Elbe,

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which was great. I love that episode with Elbe, so

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much good of information came out of that.

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Speaker 1: It was a good episode.

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Speaker 3: It was really good and I highly recommend anybody whose

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kids are going off to college, even next year, if

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they're leaving, like, listen to Elbe episode.

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Speaker 1: It was really good.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, that was nice. And then the next day, Uh.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so okay, so you're with Sonny, so you stayed overnight? No,

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we didn't stay over. You didn't. Yeah, it was okay,

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in the power for like four hours total. Yeah, yeah,

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was what was How was it like? Was there bonding?

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Speaker 3: We Yeah, we kind of listened to our Yeah, we

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talked for a little bit. The more bonding day was

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the next day. So we we just drove up and

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had dinner. It was really nice, but it was you know,

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we just ate dinner and then drove back. We went

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kind of later after all the traffic died down.

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Speaker 1: And was did you get any more information about like

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how she's doing. Is it's still good? Yeah, she's doing

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really well.

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Speaker 3: She was able to add that fifth class and she's

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she like, oh my god, she was talking about By

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the way, did you know that Garagos's daughter is representing

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P Didy?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I read that somewhere. That's crazy. Yeah, and I

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found that day.

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Speaker 3: I know I found out that day and uh when

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their daughter, you know, she's met her a bunch of times, right,

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and she worked for Garagos and I think she like

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hung out with his daughter while she was working for

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Garagos one day in the office or something. Anyway, Yeah,

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whoa what, like she couldn't believe it. I go, well,

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you know they're they're criminal defense attorneys.

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Speaker 1: But also if you're P Diddy, h do you kind

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of want Mark Garago said, not Mark Geragos's daughter. I

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like thinking that I could understand, like clients that are

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we don't have never heard of that are, Like i

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want the the offices of Garagos. But I'm not getting

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Garagos right now. But P Diddy, you think could afford

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Garagos himself?

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Speaker 3: Yes, but I think he had he hired this attorney

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who the guy and she's I guess they're his daughter.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so it's not she knows, she doesn't she I

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don't know if she if she is an independent contractor,

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I don't know. But she's working with this other attorney

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that he hired, working with him. So when you see

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like Prescott, he's the one doing all the talking. That's

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so interesting, and I feel like he doesn't she work

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with her dad or maybe she is but I don't,

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or maybe she doesn't want to, maybe she doesn't want

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to be seen as a net bo baby or I

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don't care.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's not like yes, not like she was

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a PA and hired to work on you know, a

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TV show and she went to Yeah, she went to

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law school.

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Speaker 1: I think she's like.

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Speaker 3: On on you know, the the board in New York.

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But she's she definitely knows her ship. But it's unclear

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what firm she works for or who. I don't know,

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but I just saw like, yes, that was his daughter.

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he handles a lot of like gang, you know, organized

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crime kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: So I think he's kind of used to that thing.

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Speaker 3: But anyway, so Natalia, I was telling her about that, yeah,

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and then and then we were talking about the menandas brothers.

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Mark's gonna help them get out and stuff, and she's

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because she watched the Netflix thing and she felt really

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bad for them.

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Speaker 1: So we were talking about that. Can I interject one

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quick thing about the that show? Yeah? The Netflix. So

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an entire episode where it was just sexual abuse the

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entire time. I was like, this is not entertaining in

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the least, Like you could say it's an educational I guess,

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but did you There was an entire episode with them

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on the stand, with and him talking to the lawyer

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in the jail. Oh, the whhire episode. So eventually I

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was like, let me just fast forward, let me keep

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fast forwarding. And I was like and then it end. O, Yes,

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it's the whole entire episode is him describing described sexual abuse. Yeah,

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no trigger warning, no nothing, just like, yeah, that's not fun. Now.

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Speaker 3: I guess it's like trying to, you know, tell their

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I felt like so

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detailed and it was so long. I know, it's over

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and over and over in every detail of it.

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the whole time. Yeah, I forgot about that. Yeah, I

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just felt like that it was just like that, didn't

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we talk about it?

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Speaker 1: The acting was so over the.

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Speaker 1: That's where they lost. Basically I just stopped like watching.

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Speaker 3: Is what we were talking about at dinner with Sunny

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in Italian. But okay, so then then, so it was

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a nice time. Then the next day, well, I asked

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we left, because he's like, I'm really going to miss

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it in and Out And I go, oh, that's well,

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Natural History Museum.

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Speaker 1: I know it's so cute.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So we went there and that was just the

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best day, like we had so much fun. We talked

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the whole ride there and the whole ride, like he

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Speaker 1: Know, because he put on the tea. We put the

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Speaker 3: To play music for Phil and he was like, let

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this like jazz station and they were playing some song

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was like no, and how do you know about that?

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a great day. It was a lot. It was It

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shit the nest. That's right, that's right. We talked about that.

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get go go. No, he did the opposite. I made

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the nest like really beautiful and fun and comfortable and happy. Yeah.

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I know, darn it, Sonny. Why couldn't you shit the nest? Right?

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Speaker 3: And then Thursday hung out with his friends and like

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and then Friday we got we got up did I

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tell you Olga came with us. No, because of the

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change of plans with his dad and everything. And she

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was like, I would really like to go with you, Lena.

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I think that it would be really nice if we

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she's like, yeah, but I really want. I really want

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to go with you. And I was like, okay, all right,

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and I am so happy she came because oh my god,

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his okay, his apartment building is three stories, no elevator.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and we had a lot of shit to buy

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Speaker 1: So you so you leave, so we let so packed.

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I returned them because it was going to be too

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much to take.

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Speaker 1: So okay, so three suitcases.

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Speaker 3: Then we so we fly out Friday morning. We get

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to Eugene. Beautiful Eugene. The weather is so nice because

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over here it's like one hundred degrees this week, not

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for long though, then it's going to rain, right, but

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over there, like the wind is blowing the leaves or

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you know, it's fall, Like we don't have that yet here.

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Speaker 1: So it was it was a really nice weather.

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Speaker 3: And Okay, So we get to his building and you know,

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it's cued on the outside, and the manager of the

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building was really nice.

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Speaker 1: All college students.

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Speaker 3: Gave us a little tour and there's just like this

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common area for the kids to study, and then there's

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a kitchen.

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Speaker 1: Now these are community college students or these are students.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, yeah, and he is, which I'm glad

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this happened this way. When I was looking into places

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for him, I didn't realize it. But he is very

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close to the University Oregon, which is good because his

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his a couple of his friends that he knows that

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are there are like a block away from where he lives.

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Speaker 1: Oh good, yes, But.

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Speaker 3: Then his campus is about a ten minute drive he

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has to go, and he's got the bus scheduled, so

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he's going to be taking the bus start school today.

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So we get there and and then they show us

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around and there's there. They provide meals for the students breakfast, lunch, dinner,

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and then they have like snacks and coffee in the

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main area.

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Speaker 1: Uh. And I think that's it. So that's like a

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meal plan for somebody college, Like you buy, it's.

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Speaker 3: Not just community, it's it's for college, it's for any

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of this. It's student housing. Yeah, so if you lease there,

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that's what you get. That's included in the lease.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And it's not a big building. It's kind of small.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't, I don't. I didn't see

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any other buildings on the inside. But it doesn't seem

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like it's that many like rooms and dorms or whatever.

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Some dorms have like two people or three people, and

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then some are single. Then he got a single and

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he's got he's got a upstairs downstairs it's like a loft,

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you know. And he just has like a sink in,

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a microwave and a little refrigerator. And I thought he

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was gonna have like a little like Natalia's got a

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stove and an oven.

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Speaker 1: No, because he doesn't need that.

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Speaker 3: They're they have they're making didn't they're making food downstairs,

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you know, right, so which is nice. And then yeah,

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so then we get in and like we carried the

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stuff up and then we just made lists and lists

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of things to get and then we got a lot

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of stuff done.

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Speaker 1: The first day we got there. So like, what kind

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of stuff did he need? Because it's basically furnished, right, there's.

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Speaker 3: Well, it just had a bed upstairs and just like

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a little couch downstairs, and that was it.

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Speaker 1: It was their room for cause I know with LB

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we were thinking, like my friend was like, oh do

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you want this? I have this sling backed chair and

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I have whatever stuff. And when I walked into her apartment,

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I was like, oh no, there's no room for any furniture.

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Like there was a couch and a table and that

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there's no walls, Like, there's no room, no furniture. Was

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there room at some there was some room. Yeah, there

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was some room.

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Speaker 3: And the nice thing though, is he had a pantry

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in downstairs by his little kitchenette area, like walk in pantry,

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you know, pretty big to keep all.

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Speaker 1: Of his you know, dry food. I bought him.

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Speaker 3: So there was there's that, and then upstairs he's got

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like a little walk in closet and a built in

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desk upstairs. So you know, so we what did we do? Oh,

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I got him a little TV upstairs. He has you know,

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he loves his sports, so he's got that. And then

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I got him you know, he just needed like fans,

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he needed, uh, clocks he needed and then like you know,

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trash bags and everything, like I stocked him with you know,

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food like microwaveable macaroni and cheese and oat meal and

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all that kind of stuff, snacks, all that stuff, and

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then everything like like plastic utensils and paper plates and cups,

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you know, everything plastic because you know, yeah, you know,

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he can go downstairs get food and bring it upstairs.

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And he got him a little like tray to sit

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on the couch and.

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Speaker 1: Eat, you know.

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Speaker 3: And I got him a little autumnan for the couch downstairs,

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and just that kind of stuff. But it was it

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was the stuff we got were kind of heavy, and like,

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oh and I got him a little bean bag chair.

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He wanted a bean bag chair that could fit next

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to the next to his sofa, and then so just

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that kind of stuff. But everything is just so bulky

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and heavy. And you know, but we got everything done,

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like in the first day, then the second day. In

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the first night we went out to dinner, which was nice,

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and then and then he went after we were so tired. Well,

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then I went back to our room, went to sleep,

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and he went out with his friend, met up with

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his friend out there, yeah, and walked around and then oh,

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one of the things, there's a skylight in his door.

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So it's right above his like where he sleeps, so

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it's just this huge light and you can't put curtain.

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I mean, it's a skylight. So I came up with

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the idea of getting one of the you know, resistant rods,

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like curtain rods, and we put we put him all

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the way across, and then I got curtain panels just

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to block out that light. And he's made a huge difference.

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The next day. Okay, first day it was like so bright.

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He was like, thank god, we got those curtains up.

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So we did that, just that kind of stuff, and

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then yeah, then we went out to dinner that night,

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and then the next day we went and did more stuff,

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went and got more things for him, and then went

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out to dinner again that night, and it was really

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cute because he his friend kept going like what are

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you doing tonight? And he's like, oh, I'm you know,

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I'm gonna go to dinner with my mom and Olga.

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And I was like, Sonny, you can go out. You

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can go out with your friend, you know. And he's

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like it's okay, it's okay, you know. But he was

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so appreciative and so sweet, and you know, help and

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it's constantly like helping us get like I got it,

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like I got like the heavy stuff, like I got it,

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I got it, you know. And and then you know,

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we got him settled, and I felt good leaving him yesterday,

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left yesterday morning.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so okay, so Saturday night, did you say bye

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to him or did you go back Sunday morning? I'll

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tell you. Should we take a little.

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Speaker 3: Breakah, let's take a little break, and then I'll tell

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you about the goodbye.

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Speaker 3: Morning, I just I wanted to get him a couple things,

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to Target because everybody at the university organ moved in

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the week before. Melissa was just there with Archie the

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week before moving him in. So when we got there

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a week later, I mean every like fans are sold out.

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I mean, you know a lot of stuff.

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Speaker 1: And was this an official move in for this building? Yes?

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Well was there college since it's all students?

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Speaker 3: Was no?

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Speaker 1: I think they moved in life.

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Speaker 3: It just this this building was like when when you

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when do you want to move in?

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Speaker 1: Got it you can come? Oh kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they really the guy, the manager guy is

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super nice, really very helpful. He's like, yeah, we got

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a we got a bunch of kids going to the

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community college that are staying here this year. And he

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told Sony about the bus route and where to catch

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the bus and stuff, which is great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was really helped.

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Speaker 3: People are really nice and Eugene super sweet. Like, you know,

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we we took an uber want because I rented a

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car and it was this big suv and my god,

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like it was just such a pain in the ass

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to park anywhere. So we the second night we just said,

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you know, let's just take an uber to go eat

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and uh it was.

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Speaker 1: Like she pulls up and she's like had a net

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and I was like, oh hi, oh that's cute.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was really cute and you know, very talking.

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Like everybody's super super friendly, super helpful. The areas where

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like Sonny loves the nature.

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Speaker 1: He's not like LB and Italia. You know, he likes trees,

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Albi likes pac son Yes, right, slight difference. Yes, yes,

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uh so.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's he's he was enjoying it and he was

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very comfortable. And then Sunday morning we went and you know,

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got him all finished up, and then where we left

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to go to the airport and was saying goodbye to him,

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and I just started crying. Of course you did. I

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don't what's wrong with me. I didn't cry when I

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said by to Italia because.

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Speaker 1: It's different because he's a flight away. He's a flight

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away and she's. It feels different. There's something different about

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knowing you could just get in your car and go

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see her, right totally, And that's how I feel. Yeah,

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And there's something very different about a whole like it's

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a whole thing. Yeah, but you can't just go. You

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can't just if he calls you and goes, mom, I

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need help. Can you just come for the weekend.

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Speaker 3: It's harder, right, I agree, Yeah, yeah, And he's farther

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away and he's but yeah, he's just he's a sensitive kid.

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And then when he saw me cry, the oldest started

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crying and he started choking up and crying, you know,

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and we were just hugging him goodbye, and he like

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thanked us so much.

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Speaker 1: He was like, thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad both of you came, you know, I'm like,

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it was so grateful, and yeah, it was really sweet

475
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:48,680
and yeah, and we left. Yeah, and then I called

476
00:24:48,759 --> 00:24:51,759
him last night and he stayed in. I got him

477
00:24:51,759 --> 00:24:54,240
a microwavable pizza.

478
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 1: But now you were leaving him like in the morning.

479
00:24:58,319 --> 00:25:00,640
But his dad was coming to to like be with

480
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,240
him that night. So he was going to have his

481
00:25:03,319 --> 00:25:03,920
dad there.

482
00:25:03,799 --> 00:25:10,039
Speaker 3: With him, right, WHOA, Oh, well that was the plan.

483
00:25:10,319 --> 00:25:14,559
But when I was leaving, he got a text from

484
00:25:14,599 --> 00:25:20,119
his dad that his dad's his grandpa was in bad.

485
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 1: Shape and he had to fly home. Oh.

486
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 3: So he said, he's gonna come. He's rescheduling his trip.

487
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,839
Speaker 1: He's going to go out And like, wait, so he'd

488
00:25:28,839 --> 00:25:29,799
never flown out there.

489
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 3: No, he didn't go to you, No, not, No, he

490
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,759
was supposed to fly in to Eugene. Oh okay that day,

491
00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:41,079
so he canceled his day. Yeah, so, but he said

492
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,039
he's gonna come out in like a week or two.

493
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,039
Speaker 1: Okay.

494
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 3: So I don't know when I I asked him last

495
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,759
night if he talked to his dad about his grandpa.

496
00:25:49,839 --> 00:25:52,279
Speaker 1: But he didn't really have any information. So so was

497
00:25:52,319 --> 00:25:54,480
Sunny bum that he was just kind of on his

498
00:25:54,519 --> 00:25:55,759
own or was he like cool with it?

499
00:25:56,319 --> 00:25:59,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's Sonny was yeah, Sonny, Sonny, he was like,

500
00:25:59,519 --> 00:26:01,039
you know, he was okay.

501
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: So he was starting classes just today this morning, Monday, yes, wow, yeah, yeah,

502
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,920
so he figured so he was just gonna be cool,

503
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,119
like the getting on the bus to yeah.

504
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they have this app out there for bus

505
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:21,000
routes and stuff. But you know, one of the things

506
00:26:21,039 --> 00:26:23,440
I did want to do is go for a drive

507
00:26:23,839 --> 00:26:27,440
to see the campus, to see where it was and stuff.

508
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,119
And we were going to do that, but then we

509
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,200
got caught up with we were just I really wanted

510
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,680
to get him set with everything he needed before I left,

511
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,079
because he doesn't have a car to go just run

512
00:26:37,079 --> 00:26:39,759
out and get a mile you know or whatever.

513
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,279
Speaker 1: Right, So, is there a store like nearby?

514
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 3: Is there a the Tarja is like fifteen minutes ten

515
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:48,279
to fifteen minute.

516
00:26:48,039 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 1: Drive, so he'd have to uber for to any to

517
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,880
go get supply to go to like a target or something.

518
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 3: But there there are like you know, there's like a

519
00:26:56,039 --> 00:27:01,400
safe way I think or something walking distances, yes, and

520
00:27:01,519 --> 00:27:04,559
yeah for groceries, he can just walk but there. I

521
00:27:04,559 --> 00:27:06,640
mean I think he might get a he might get

522
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:13,839
a scooter, yeah, because I hear bikes get stolen pretty

523
00:27:13,839 --> 00:27:16,880
frequently out there, and he's like, I don't know, I

524
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,519
just still want to deal with a bus, you know,

525
00:27:18,559 --> 00:27:20,720
and having to get the bike on the bus or whatever.

526
00:27:20,759 --> 00:27:24,599
But scooter's more easier to take around. So I think

527
00:27:24,599 --> 00:27:28,440
he's going to look into getting one of those. But yeah,

528
00:27:28,519 --> 00:27:32,880
and then he starts today and uh, he's settled, and

529
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:38,480
there's kids everywhere. I mean Saturday night they were It's

530
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,920
rush week, so like everybody was like out in the streets.

531
00:27:42,039 --> 00:27:45,960
Same in Santa Barbara. There's just kids everywhere walking around,

532
00:27:46,519 --> 00:27:50,680
you know, just everywhere you look, and it's it feels nice,

533
00:27:50,799 --> 00:27:53,400
you know, in that community, like it's okay. You know,

534
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,559
they're they're surrounded by other kids, you know.

535
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: Right, right, did he make any friends with anybody like

536
00:28:01,279 --> 00:28:03,880
on his floor, like we're people being friendly.

537
00:28:04,519 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there's a girl across the way. Yeah, her

538
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:11,359
name was Emily, and her and her mom and they

539
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,359
were like, you know we of course the moms start talking,

540
00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:18,960
of course, right, and then Sonny and introduced himself to her,

541
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,240
so he met her, but.

542
00:28:21,279 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: We didn't really see. I mean we saw people coming

543
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:23,680
and going.

544
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 3: It was a lot of like people moving in, carrying

545
00:28:26,759 --> 00:28:29,400
things up the stairs, opening the doors for each other,

546
00:28:29,519 --> 00:28:31,720
that kind of thing. But no, like you're not in

547
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,000
an elevator so you can chit chat, you know, like

548
00:28:34,039 --> 00:28:37,759
Attalia's building right, right, kind of passing people. But he

549
00:28:37,839 --> 00:28:40,480
did meet other kids, like when he went to see

550
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:45,039
his friend that's at the college dorm like a block away.

551
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,279
Speaker 1: So that's his friend who goes to University of Oregon though, Yeah,

552
00:28:48,559 --> 00:28:51,160
okay that he went to high school with. Right, does

553
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:56,519
he have any friends that are going to the community college? No? Okay, No, Wow,

554
00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:01,319
that's pretty brave, I know, just doing that on his own. Yeah,

555
00:29:01,359 --> 00:29:03,480
going to community college. Yeah.

556
00:29:03,599 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 3: I mean I think a lot of kids go off

557
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,160
to college and don't really know anybody. I think they're

558
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,480
lucky if they have friends that go where they go.

559
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,160
I would think, yeah, for sure.

560
00:29:14,319 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: I just I guess like and and community college, like

561
00:29:17,519 --> 00:29:19,599
is what you make of it? I think like Lbe

562
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,880
made nothing of going to Pierce, Right, she didn't really,

563
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,119
I mean she knew a few people there, but she didn't.

564
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,559
She only she did mostly like online classes. She had

565
00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:32,880
one class in person twice a week, but she didn't

566
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,440
join any clubs or be any In her mind, she

567
00:29:36,559 --> 00:29:38,880
was just like, this is just high school. But I'm

568
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:41,759
just getting it done. And her friends were at her job,

569
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:47,559
so but you know, other kids make peers like a

570
00:29:47,599 --> 00:29:50,000
college experience, you know. But she in her mind, she

571
00:29:50,079 --> 00:29:51,720
was like, I'm going to be here a year. I

572
00:29:51,759 --> 00:29:54,160
just wanted to take my classes, get my grades, and

573
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,960
get out. But you know, I'm sure that the Oregon

574
00:29:58,119 --> 00:29:59,440
City College is that what it is?

575
00:29:59,559 --> 00:30:03,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Laane, it's called oh okay.

576
00:30:03,759 --> 00:30:05,759
Speaker 1: I'm sure that there's a lot of kids that there's

577
00:30:05,799 --> 00:30:08,640
clubs and there's ways he could get involved, right.

578
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 3: No, I know, And you know he's the Stunny and

579
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,079
Italia are both kind of you know, looking at it

580
00:30:15,119 --> 00:30:18,480
as you know, this is their like they're they're just

581
00:30:18,599 --> 00:30:22,200
I think they both wanted to go away and be

582
00:30:22,279 --> 00:30:25,839
on their own and then but you know they're they're

583
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,200
just wanting to they want to get into the university,

584
00:30:28,599 --> 00:30:31,279
you know. And that's especially like that's why Natalia is

585
00:30:31,279 --> 00:30:33,599
taking as much as she can right now. And her

586
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,920
roommate is great because she's been there for a year

587
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,160
and she's already like she came with us to dinner

588
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,480
that night, and she was just so like she knew,

589
00:30:44,599 --> 00:30:48,640
like was guiding Natalia with everything. And she's a good student,

590
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,279
she has a full time job and uh, she's just

591
00:30:52,319 --> 00:30:55,680
a really good friend for Natalia right now, which is great.

592
00:30:55,759 --> 00:30:59,720
I love her roommate. So yeah, so I think the

593
00:31:00,079 --> 00:31:02,319
you know, there, they'll be, they'll be fine. I think

594
00:31:02,359 --> 00:31:05,720
Sonny's enjoying it, you know. I think he's been wanting

595
00:31:05,759 --> 00:31:06,720
to be on his own.

596
00:31:06,559 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: Kind of thing. Have you heard from him yet today?

597
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:10,920
Not today? No?

598
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 3: No, I said I'm at tex silfversting this morning. Hi,

599
00:31:16,039 --> 00:31:17,359
sunny Money.

600
00:31:19,759 --> 00:31:22,039
Speaker 1: I know it's funny. I've been texting Elbie a lot

601
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,440
and I have to sometimes like but I texted her

602
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,359
a lot when she was at home because I didn't

603
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,680
see her that much, so I was like texting her. Yeah,

604
00:31:34,599 --> 00:31:37,440
but it's so it's like I'm trying I try not

605
00:31:37,559 --> 00:31:42,000
to a little bit like I because I feel, I

606
00:31:42,039 --> 00:31:45,359
don't know, I'm like very attached to her. But also like, okay,

607
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:53,119
so say so not Sadie. Elbe is rushing story right?

608
00:31:54,079 --> 00:31:56,599
Did I tell you guys that on the show? I

609
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,559
think you said she was going to Yeah, she was

610
00:31:58,599 --> 00:32:01,640
going to so okay, yeah, so rush. So the whole

611
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:07,319
process probably started after we recorded our last show. It's

612
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,319
just so far from my experience. I'm really trying to

613
00:32:11,359 --> 00:32:13,960
give myself up to the fact that, you know, I

614
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,119
didn't go to college at all. I don't know if

615
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:20,440
I've mentioned that ever, but having never had that experience,

616
00:32:20,799 --> 00:32:22,839
I do have kind of a bias, like I feel

617
00:32:22,839 --> 00:32:26,200
like a sororities. That sounds so stupid. You know, all

618
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:30,640
the conform you know, conformity and is that a word?

619
00:32:30,759 --> 00:32:33,920
I just made myself like conformity. That's a word, right, Yeah,

620
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:37,680
like all that, it just seems so it's not in

621
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,079
my wheelhouse. So then I try to make assumptions for

622
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,839
my kids, like, oh, well she should. She wouldn't like that,

623
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:48,240
but she kind of would like yes. It's funny because

624
00:32:48,319 --> 00:32:52,319
I've always been way more of a rebel than Elba's.

625
00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:57,599
Elbe's always been much more of a rule follower. Basic

626
00:32:58,279 --> 00:33:00,680
She's a basic bitch, and she'll tell you she's basic bitch.

627
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,839
And she wants to do and blend with other kids

628
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,400
and do what other kids are doing. And it's always

629
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,680
been harder for her to be the first Like okay,

630
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,599
Elpie got a job. She was the first one of

631
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:15,759
her friends to get a job. But a lot of

632
00:33:15,759 --> 00:33:19,200
that was me pushing her and being like, your your

633
00:33:19,359 --> 00:33:22,519
friend group at school is causing you a lot of pain,

634
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:26,440
and like, fuck those bitches, get a job and like

635
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,720
expand your horizons and do your own thing. And you know,

636
00:33:30,799 --> 00:33:32,599
I pushed her into it, and I was the one

637
00:33:32,599 --> 00:33:35,319
who had to be like she didn't once she got

638
00:33:35,359 --> 00:33:40,200
she got she applied m I kind of oversaw her applying,

639
00:33:40,519 --> 00:33:43,160
not oversaw she did her own application and you know,

640
00:33:43,839 --> 00:33:46,920
had to describe herself. When she got the interviews, she

641
00:33:47,079 --> 00:33:50,519
freaked out. Then when she got it offered the job,

642
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,920
she almost backed out of it. Remember that she was

643
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,200
like no, because I think I kind of really want

644
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,640
to work at pacsun and work in retail. And I

645
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,119
was like, no, you don't. This is gonna be way

646
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,559
more fun. And plus the fact that Paxa's not offering

647
00:34:02,599 --> 00:34:06,359
you a job and this place is you're accepting the job,

648
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,480
and she was like okay. And then of course she

649
00:34:08,639 --> 00:34:10,960
was so thrilled to have a job and loved it

650
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,480
and you know, worked there for three years. But my

651
00:34:16,559 --> 00:34:20,320
point is she's it's hard for her to not do

652
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,719
what everyone else is doing. So when she told me

653
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,920
that all of her roommate everybody's rushing sororities and she

654
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,639
wants she thinks she wants to do it too, I

655
00:34:28,679 --> 00:34:31,880
was like, here we go, because she kept saying I'm

656
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,679
just going to check it out and like if it's

657
00:34:33,679 --> 00:34:35,440
not for me, it's not for me. And I was like,

658
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,360
it's of course it's going to be for her as

659
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,440
soon as she goes, because Elbie is the kind of

660
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,639
kid who if she's in a situation where people have

661
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,920
to validate you or like you, and then they do,

662
00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:50,639
she's going to be all like.

663
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:57,679
Speaker 3: Totally yes, yeah, of course. And I don't blame her,

664
00:34:58,079 --> 00:34:58,320
you know.

665
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: It was because old that was like what is rush?

666
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:03,440
What does that mean?

667
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: And we were like explaining it to her and I

668
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:11,119
I was thinking about it, and you know, I've never

669
00:35:11,159 --> 00:35:13,760
been in a sorority or but it.

670
00:35:13,639 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: Does make cud.

671
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 3: It makes sense to kind of have like a they

672
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,960
become like your family, you know, and they kind of

673
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,000
like look like, look, don't they look out for you?

674
00:35:23,119 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: Or they're like your big sorority sister or whatever. You know, Yeah,

675
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,719
all that stuff, yes, right, But on the other hand,

676
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:33,559
I'm like, you also are in an apartment with eight

677
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,639
that's people so like and and every text I get

678
00:35:37,639 --> 00:35:41,079
from Elb is like, Okay, this is really cute. I've

679
00:35:41,079 --> 00:35:44,079
gotten so many texts from Elbe where she's just like, Mom,

680
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,199
I love it here, Mom, I'm so happy. I love college.

681
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,920
Oh my god, my roomies are literally my besties, Like

682
00:35:52,199 --> 00:35:54,840
this is the greatest thing ever. So part of me

683
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,360
is like, Okay, then why do you need also sorority?

684
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,639
Like you're already happy, right, can't we just say how

685
00:36:00,639 --> 00:36:03,000
about we have that? And then you get a job

686
00:36:04,039 --> 00:36:06,880
and then you do your school work, you know, like, oh,

687
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,719
why do we need a sorority on top of that?

688
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:12,000
It seems like, yeah, bananas and bananas at this point, right, sure,

689
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:17,599
as the comedy writers say so, But I'm not I'm

690
00:36:17,599 --> 00:36:21,599
not gonna like yeah, it's funny too, because I've also

691
00:36:21,679 --> 00:36:23,480
thought like, it's going to be expensive.

692
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, that part I didn't. I don't know how that works.

693
00:36:27,119 --> 00:36:29,039
Speaker 1: What is it how? I don't know. I don't know

694
00:36:29,079 --> 00:36:31,639
exactly how much it costs, but I think it's expensive.

695
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:35,199
But then here's the thing. I was talking to Robin

696
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,960
about this the other day because she was like well,

697
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,400
are you going to make you can make her pay

698
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,800
for it? And I'm like, I'm not going to make

699
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,599
her pay for it. This kid had a bad year.

700
00:36:45,599 --> 00:36:47,719
She got a lot of rejection. Last we all know

701
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,760
what LB went through. And the thing is, she saved

702
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:54,159
me two full years of tuition, So like, it seems

703
00:36:54,199 --> 00:36:56,559
weird to then turn around and be like, oh, something

704
00:36:56,559 --> 00:36:59,400
that costs a few thousand dollars. We were planning to

705
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,320
send her to pay for college for four years. Now

706
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,280
we have to pay for college for two years for her.

707
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,400
So then do I turn around and go, Nope, not

708
00:37:07,559 --> 00:37:09,719
paying for you to be in a store. She wants

709
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,760
to have the full college experience. I'm gonna let her

710
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,639
have the full college experience. John was in a fraternity.

711
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,760
John went to four years of Syracuse did the deal,

712
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:25,320
did everything, lived at school, and John almost flunked out

713
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,280
of school. He was put on academic probation because he

714
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,800
partied so much his first two years. Neither John nor

715
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,840
I have a leg to stand on to demand some

716
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,800
kind of like academic rigor. By the way, I've been

717
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:44,440
doing this thing with Sadie and Xander, Sadie has been

718
00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,039
feeling this is like off topic for a minute. I'll

719
00:37:47,039 --> 00:37:51,480
get back to Elbie's school. But this is just a

720
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:54,880
little again. I'm gonna preface this by saying, this is

721
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,880
not apparenting how to show. This could be used as

722
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:03,320
a what not to do. It's anti advice, right, I'm

723
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,679
flying by the seat of my fucking pants here. Okay.

724
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,920
I don't claim to have any of the answers. I

725
00:38:09,039 --> 00:38:13,320
was a terrible student. I was a non joiner for everything.

726
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:18,119
I can't demand perfection from my kids. My kids, Xander

727
00:38:18,199 --> 00:38:21,159
is already a perfectionist. He's hard on himself. Sadie has

728
00:38:21,159 --> 00:38:23,800
been putting a lot of pressure on herself to like

729
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:27,039
do really well in school. So my new thing with

730
00:38:27,119 --> 00:38:29,239
my kids is to tell them to like aim for

731
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:33,920
mediocre constantly. I'm just like, stop aiming for perfect, stop

732
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:37,760
trying to be great, right, aim for like just Okay,

733
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:42,360
And especially with Sadie, this is not I'm not telling

734
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,280
people like, hey, have low expectations of your kids, but

735
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,679
also sometimes our kids can have really high expectations of themselves.

736
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:54,679
They don't need the added pressure. I'm like, don't try

737
00:38:54,679 --> 00:38:57,840
to get straight. A's Sadie on my account, Like, yeah,

738
00:38:58,199 --> 00:39:01,320
I always tell them, I'm like I did terrible in

739
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,679
high school. Things worked out, like things are going to

740
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,119
work out how they're gonna work out. If you're I

741
00:39:07,159 --> 00:39:11,840
don't necessarily think you belong at a college that expects

742
00:39:11,880 --> 00:39:15,320
like insane rigor and like you two have taken a

743
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,840
million AP classes and like, if you don't take a

744
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,679
bunch of AP classes, yeah, you're not meant to go

745
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,400
to a school that demands that. Like there's schools for everyone, exactly, Yeah,

746
00:39:27,679 --> 00:39:31,760
you don't have to like there there's community college, there's

747
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:38,599
and so every day I go, Okay, be mediocre, because

748
00:39:38,599 --> 00:39:42,960
they're gonna try hard anyway. They don't need me being like, well,

749
00:39:43,199 --> 00:39:45,239
what happened on that last test you took? Did you

750
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,360
get an A? Are you studying hard for this?

751
00:39:47,519 --> 00:39:47,639
Speaker 3: Like?

752
00:39:48,079 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: Of course they are. But I also want my kids

753
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,360
to like have some fun, yes, and be social.

754
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,559
Speaker 3: Your kids have always been that uh that, you know,

755
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,239
wanting to get good grades and wanting to take I

756
00:39:58,559 --> 00:39:59,119
know where.

757
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 1: They get that from. Yeah, they're not getting it from

758
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,119
me and John. We are not putting that on them. Right.

759
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,760
Let's just I want my kids to I want my

760
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,119
kids to prioritize their mental health. That's really what I want.

761
00:40:11,199 --> 00:40:14,599
I want them to be happy and well adjusted kids.

762
00:40:15,119 --> 00:40:18,639
That is why they're all getting therapy and they're all

763
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:23,239
getting told to be mediocre because I because they sweat

764
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,159
the small stuff. They worry about every test. Yes, I know,

765
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766
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worry as much? Planning for our future? Yes, and our

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800
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So with LB, I'm like, you know what, go live

801
00:42:36,519 --> 00:42:40,440
your life, follow your dreams, you know, far be it

802
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:43,000
from me to go. That's two. I'm not paying for that,

803
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,360
Like I don't want to rent under parade yet, but

804
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:50,440
it has been so interesting listening to. Okay, so the

805
00:42:50,519 --> 00:42:54,039
first day, here's how it works for anybody, for anybody

806
00:42:54,119 --> 00:42:56,440
that has kids who have rushed a story. You already know,

807
00:42:56,679 --> 00:42:59,199
you already know this. I didn't know any of this.

808
00:43:00,199 --> 00:43:04,079
Every I'm getting up to the minute, like updates from her. Okay,

809
00:43:05,519 --> 00:43:10,079
so spoiler alert. Today is bid day Monday, so by

810
00:43:10,159 --> 00:43:14,519
this by tonight, we will know what sorority she's in. Okay, Okay,

811
00:43:14,559 --> 00:43:17,239
So it started out with like they go meet all

812
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:21,440
the houses. I guess real, I think they quickly meet

813
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,840
every single house. They wear like a white shirt, a

814
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,000
white T shirt school shirt, like a UCLA shirt, and

815
00:43:28,039 --> 00:43:30,920
then they just go around they meet everybody. Then they

816
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,719
put their top I believe that night they they do

817
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:39,000
their prefs which is their preferences, which is so she

818
00:43:39,039 --> 00:43:42,760
puts down our top eight that she likes, that she likes.

819
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,239
Then or maybe she just ranks them all and then

820
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,519
they I'm going to get some of this wrong, so

821
00:43:51,679 --> 00:43:56,519
forgive me. But so the first night they also then

822
00:43:56,559 --> 00:43:59,920
the sororities rank her, so they so she could get drop.

823
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,440
So she picks like her top eight and then some

824
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:06,280
of those could they either have to like her back

825
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:09,360
or she gets dropped by something that what does she

826
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,519
do when she goes and meets them? What does she just?

827
00:44:12,159 --> 00:44:16,159
I think they just meet different girls and they sit

828
00:44:16,199 --> 00:44:17,880
with them and they talk to them, and they see

829
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:21,679
if they vibe okay, like do you guys vibe like?

830
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:22,159
Speaker 3: You know?

831
00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:24,679
Speaker 1: And then they ask you questions. And I saw some

832
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,119
of this I know from TikTok. But they have to

833
00:44:27,159 --> 00:44:30,360
avoid they're suppose they have to avoid some of the

834
00:44:30,519 --> 00:44:34,719
five bees booze. So they're not really supposed to talk

835
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,880
about like partying because that's really superficial, and that, like

836
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:43,400
talking about booze is very superficial. Boys superficial, Like we're

837
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,760
not talking about boys and where the hottest boys are

838
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,800
and who's the hottest sorority. All they're going to talk

839
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,360
about is boys. Oh yeah, once they're in, Yes, that's

840
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,599
all they're going to talk about. Bucks. Okay, don't talk

841
00:44:53,599 --> 00:44:55,920
about money, that is like very ghost.

842
00:44:58,440 --> 00:44:58,559
Speaker 3: Uh.

843
00:44:59,519 --> 00:45:03,639
Speaker 1: Politics, so I don't know how that's a bee Biden,

844
00:45:04,039 --> 00:45:07,519
you know. Nope, don't talk about politics, and don't talk

845
00:45:07,519 --> 00:45:11,159
about religion, okay, So okay, so those are the things

846
00:45:11,199 --> 00:45:13,400
you're not supposed to talk about. But I don't know,

847
00:45:13,599 --> 00:45:16,159
if you're super religious, you're probably gonna be like talking

848
00:45:16,159 --> 00:45:19,119
about religion, right, how much you love Jesus whatever? Sure,

849
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:22,440
you know, yeah, let people know who you are whatever,

850
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:26,679
So you talk about other things who you are. You

851
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,039
let them get a taste of who you are, Like,

852
00:45:29,119 --> 00:45:32,440
what's your interests? You know, what's your major? Why are

853
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,639
you at UCLA? Blah blah blah. Okay, so then they

854
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:40,360
narrow it down. The next day they visit eight, I guess,

855
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:45,039
and then you rank those and then a couple of

856
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:49,760
them are gonna drop you or you match basically. So

857
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:54,400
then the following day she was matched with five. Okay,

858
00:45:54,599 --> 00:45:58,280
so she got back. She ranked her top five and

859
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,679
they all liked her back. So she's been having a

860
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,519
very positive experience. That's good, she said. The first day

861
00:46:05,599 --> 00:46:07,920
she got dropped by one, but it was one that

862
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,159
she ranked low anyway, that she wasn't that into, so

863
00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:14,519
she didn't care. Yeah, the top five all liked her back.

864
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:21,079
So then and one of them is Bella's sorority. Oh nice. Yeah,

865
00:46:20,199 --> 00:46:30,800
So then she saw two on Thursday and three on Friday. Okay,

866
00:46:31,199 --> 00:46:33,199
how do they match? What have they got an app?

867
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,800
I don't know how that works. Yeah, but every morning

868
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,880
she wakes up and then there's an email saying which

869
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:44,679
one's so she puts in her preferences. Maybe there's an app.

870
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,000
Then the next day she finds out if they liked

871
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:52,199
her back. Okay, so what Thursday morning she found out

872
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:54,840
that all five that she ranked the highest all liked

873
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,880
her back. So then she visited two of them Thursday

874
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,199
and three of them Friday. She comes home Friday and

875
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:05,559
she's just like mom, all caps in the text, Oh

876
00:47:05,639 --> 00:47:10,519
my god, I love them all. I don't know, it's like, oh,

877
00:47:10,559 --> 00:47:14,719
but she picked. Then she picked her top three. Then

878
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,559
Sunday morning or I don't know if she was at

879
00:47:18,599 --> 00:47:23,840
her top two. All I know, okay, is that she

880
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:27,639
had okay, I think it was top three. Then Sunday

881
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:34,199
she visited two. Then she had to rank them in

882
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,440
order of what house she really wants. Okay, So basically

883
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:43,199
I guess Sunday morning she was like, mom, my top

884
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:48,760
two both liked me back. That so you know, because

885
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,400
it could have been one she ranked lower be more

886
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,320
into her. And then she has to decide between one

887
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,960
that she really likes and one that was ranked a

888
00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:00,639
little lower, so her top two also like her back.

889
00:48:01,079 --> 00:48:05,039
So she was just beyond excited, like I'm just getting

890
00:48:05,199 --> 00:48:10,760
furious all caps texts of like I'm so happy. I

891
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,639
didn't expect to love this so much. And I'm like, also,

892
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,159
you're happy because the who you they liked you. You're

893
00:48:19,199 --> 00:48:24,280
getting validated. Like how much of this is about loving

894
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:26,599
the idea of being in a sorority and how much

895
00:48:26,599 --> 00:48:33,000
of it is like oh like me, Yeah that's cute. Yeah,

896
00:48:33,039 --> 00:48:37,480
so let's see. So that was so now she had

897
00:48:37,519 --> 00:48:40,239
to decide, so she went and visited her top two

898
00:48:41,039 --> 00:48:42,920
and she came home and she was like, I just

899
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,199
don't know what I'm going to do. I love them

900
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,360
both so much. I'm I'm going to be really happy

901
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,079
with either, Like I wish it was random because I

902
00:48:51,159 --> 00:48:53,599
love both of these houses and one of them's Bellas.

903
00:48:54,159 --> 00:48:57,360
So she ranked those two but it was really hard

904
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,320
for her to do. And then today is bid day, Okay,

905
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:06,239
so tonight there'll be some ceremony where they all the

906
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,960
girls get an envelope and then they open their envelope

907
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,280
and it tells them what house they're in. And I

908
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,039
think there will be a lot of screaming, right, and

909
00:49:15,079 --> 00:49:18,239
then she will go run to her sorority house.

910
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 3: So okay, And then is this something that they do

911
00:49:23,119 --> 00:49:25,639
in freshman year and then they're stuck with this or

912
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,039
not stuck, but they're with the sorority throughout their rest

913
00:49:28,039 --> 00:49:28,480
of their.

914
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:33,679
Speaker 1: I guess yes. But also I think that like one

915
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,599
of Elbie's really good friends was in a sorority in

916
00:49:36,679 --> 00:49:41,559
Oregon where she was and like already by the end

917
00:49:41,599 --> 00:49:44,480
of freshman year was like no, she didn't like, this

918
00:49:44,519 --> 00:49:48,199
is not for me, so she dropped it and went.

919
00:49:48,199 --> 00:49:50,320
So I think a lot of girls by the time

920
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,320
their juniors like drop their like are life. Yeah, I

921
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:57,039
think it's a really big time I've heard it's a

922
00:49:57,039 --> 00:50:01,559
big time commitment. Yeah, so what I actually telling me, Mom,

923
00:50:01,639 --> 00:50:04,880
it's not because I'm like I'm concerned about the time commitment,

924
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:06,880
Like are you going to be able to also have

925
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,559
a job, because girl, you need to have a job,

926
00:50:10,039 --> 00:50:13,119
because I'll pay for the sorority and I am paying

927
00:50:13,119 --> 00:50:16,360
for her tuition, but like I I'm not paying for

928
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,760
like all the ubers and all the partying and all that.

929
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,960
Like she needs to have a part time job and

930
00:50:22,039 --> 00:50:24,880
she's used to having a job, and I know that

931
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,719
she can have a job and I manage her time,

932
00:50:27,519 --> 00:50:30,719
so I don't want another thing that's actually costing me

933
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:35,760
money that's also going to compete for work time. But

934
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:39,119
what she's like, no, there's like one meeting a week.

935
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:40,760
I don't know. I think she's in for a route

936
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,159
awakening when she finds out what yeah, because what do

937
00:50:44,199 --> 00:50:46,320
they do? She's like, I either ask them what the

938
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,119
time commitment is. I've asked them like what is expected,

939
00:50:49,159 --> 00:50:51,679
and they keep saying there's just like this one meeting.

940
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:54,559
And also, oh, she wrote to me. She goes, Mom,

941
00:50:54,639 --> 00:50:58,760
guess what you get free food if you're at the

942
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,440
sorority house? Like you for free? And I was like, well,

943
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:06,519
it's not free, right, that's true. Yeah, and then she

944
00:51:06,519 --> 00:51:11,719
said me roll emoji. Yeah. I'm like I used to

945
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,320
have a stand up joke that was like, remember when

946
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,440
you would go when you were a little kid. This

947
00:51:16,599 --> 00:51:18,960
was about going to Disneyland as an adult. How it's

948
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:22,039
just not as fun, right, And I was like, remember

949
00:51:22,039 --> 00:51:25,480
when you were little and Disneyland was free? Like yeah,

950
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,559
because your parents everything. So you're like this is so cool, right,

951
00:51:30,199 --> 00:51:33,679
I get my mouse ears and meals and all the rides,

952
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,199
and it's like, because somebody was paying for your ass,

953
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,960
I know. Yeah, it just made me laugh that she

954
00:51:40,039 --> 00:51:42,559
thought that the meals were free at the sorority house.

955
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:47,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not a charity exactly. So but do they

956
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,840
live in the sorority house or do they They don't

957
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,639
live there. She will never live there, right, but do

958
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,480
some girls do?

959
00:51:54,519 --> 00:51:57,039
Speaker 1: Or they just have? So here's how it works. A

960
00:51:57,079 --> 00:52:00,320
lot of girls. So as a freshman, you get, you

961
00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:03,679
pick your sorority, you rush, and then you're in the sorority.

962
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,960
And then a lot of them elect to live in

963
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,880
the sorority house for sophomore year, got it. Most of

964
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,679
them don't continue living their junior year or senior year.

965
00:52:12,079 --> 00:52:16,519
Oh they outgrow it, yeah kind of. And then some

966
00:52:16,559 --> 00:52:19,679
of them drop the sorority by then, which is which

967
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,719
opens up some space for transfer students because it looks

968
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,960
good for them to have like juniors and seniors who

969
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,960
will then graduate and still be affiliated with the sorority

970
00:52:29,079 --> 00:52:30,960
because they will ask you for money for the rest

971
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,039
of your life. Oh yeah, sure, because then you're an

972
00:52:34,079 --> 00:52:35,679
alum of that sorority.

973
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:40,079
Speaker 3: Right right. Wow, I'm just curious, what do they do

974
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:40,920
all day.

975
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, but these bitches are going to be

976
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,639
friends for life, right because like, don't you know people

977
00:52:45,679 --> 00:52:48,840
that are like, oh, have their sorority sisters are still

978
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,679
their best friends when they're like sixty. Yeah that now

979
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:53,840
I know, Like you and I have none of that,

980
00:52:54,119 --> 00:52:59,639
like we need to, right, we each have like a

981
00:52:59,679 --> 00:53:03,519
couple of friends that we've known forever. We don't have

982
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,159
our best friends from college now, like we're like still

983
00:53:07,199 --> 00:53:09,639
back on high school, right. I got my friends from

984
00:53:09,639 --> 00:53:12,920
my high school that was our glory days. Yeah exactly, Yeah,

985
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:17,239
we went to work, Kaitlin. You don't have that experience either.

986
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:19,760
I do not. Do you have friends that are we're

987
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:20,760
big like frack eyes?

988
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,199
Speaker 2: Uh? You have my best friend that I've known since

989
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:30,960
I was three. He was the typical lacrosse player, frat dude.

990
00:53:31,599 --> 00:53:33,039
But he went to school in New York, so I

991
00:53:33,119 --> 00:53:35,920
never like, let's go visit him or anything. But yeah,

992
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:37,679
he was a big He was a big fraternity guy.

993
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,599
Speaker 1: And does he still is. He still friends with a

994
00:53:39,599 --> 00:53:40,000
lot of his.

995
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:41,039
Speaker 2: Frat brothers, I think.

996
00:53:41,039 --> 00:53:41,119
Speaker 3: So.

997
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:46,320
Speaker 1: Yah. Here's the weird thing, though, Linette. Yeah, you see

998
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:49,039
these kids as you saw them too, and you're like

999
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:53,440
these are basically glorified high school students. They are, So

1000
00:53:53,679 --> 00:53:57,639
how are you finding your best friend? Like I don't understand,

1001
00:53:57,679 --> 00:54:00,400
like you're going to change so much? How are these

1002
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,760
your friends forever? And I know all the people listening

1003
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,280
to us are like, you don't understand, like college, like

1004
00:54:06,599 --> 00:54:08,760
you know, it's so formative and those friends are just

1005
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,000
your friends forever. But I don't get it because these

1006
00:54:11,079 --> 00:54:14,159
kids look sixteen. They look so young to me.

1007
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 3: So the other night, we were going back to our

1008
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:22,159
hotel and we were just leaving Sonny's place and a

1009
00:54:22,199 --> 00:54:24,400
lot of one way streets in his area.

1010
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: But anyway, going down.

1011
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 3: The street, there's kids everywhere walking around. There's like a

1012
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:32,400
bunch of girls all dressed in.

1013
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 1: Like blue.

1014
00:54:34,679 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 3: Like wigs and just like all dressed alike. Like I

1015
00:54:38,039 --> 00:54:40,320
don't know what they were doing. Then there's all just

1016
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:42,719
there's kids just everywhere, just kids everywhere.

1017
00:54:43,079 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 1: Oh I know what they were doing?

1018
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,559
Speaker 3: Were they doing? It was rush weeks that they were.

1019
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 1: Probably oh wait, oh yeah.

1020
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,400
Speaker 3: Maybe why what did you think they were doing?

1021
00:54:51,639 --> 00:54:54,039
Speaker 1: For a second, I was, well, for a second, and

1022
00:54:54,079 --> 00:54:56,840
I'm completely wrong. I was like, oh, well, because there

1023
00:54:56,880 --> 00:55:00,079
was a big Oregon UCLA game there was, which I

1024
00:55:00,119 --> 00:55:02,519
went to. But I don't know why people would be

1025
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:05,760
being blue for UCLA.

1026
00:55:06,599 --> 00:55:09,159
Speaker 3: And that game was on. Oh yeah, it was in

1027
00:55:09,159 --> 00:55:12,280
the same night. Yeah, yeah, Saturday night. He was watching

1028
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,039
that game. Yeah it was a blowout though, right.

1029
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:17,119
Speaker 1: It was. Yeah, I was there when he went to

1030
00:55:17,159 --> 00:55:18,599
the game. Yeah, I went to the game. I'll tell

1031
00:55:18,599 --> 00:55:21,239
you about that on Friday. Okay, anyway, there's this kid.

1032
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 3: We're going and there's this kid walking by himself. And

1033
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:30,800
when I say walking, that's being you know, generous.

1034
00:55:31,519 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: He was not.

1035
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:38,199
Speaker 3: He was like going and slow. He was clearly really

1036
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:42,480
really drunk. Okay, but he was looking at his phone

1037
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,079
and I was at first, I was like, I'm concerned

1038
00:55:45,079 --> 00:55:45,760
about that kid.

1039
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: Do you think we should check on him?

1040
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,119
Speaker 3: But there was cars behind me, and I didn't want

1041
00:55:50,159 --> 00:55:51,599
to like just stop in the middle. It was a

1042
00:55:51,639 --> 00:55:54,199
one way narrow street, and I didn't want to just stop,

1043
00:55:55,039 --> 00:55:57,840
and I was concerned. I was like, should we go

1044
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:00,239
around the block and like check on him? So I

1045
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:04,039
went around again. Because remember there was a story recently

1046
00:56:04,079 --> 00:56:07,719
where the kid was in college. They were out of

1047
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,440
town on a with his fraternity brothers, but they were

1048
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:14,159
in like South Carolina, North Carolina and he was missing.

1049
00:56:14,519 --> 00:56:17,280
Speaker 1: Yes, I was thought of that when you started to

1050
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,599
say there was a kid wandering drunk, That's what I

1051
00:56:19,639 --> 00:56:22,039
When I saw that, I thought, because that poor kid

1052
00:56:22,159 --> 00:56:23,679
and they found him in like a ravine.

1053
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he was drunk and he accidentally died.

1054
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,159
Speaker 1: So I thought about that.

1055
00:56:28,239 --> 00:56:30,639
Speaker 3: So then I drove around the block and I was

1056
00:56:30,679 --> 00:56:31,719
gonna pull over.

1057
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:32,639
Speaker 1: You know, when I wasn't.

1058
00:56:32,639 --> 00:56:34,639
Speaker 3: I don't know what my plan was, but I wanted

1059
00:56:34,679 --> 00:56:37,639
to check on him. And then I went around the

1060
00:56:37,679 --> 00:56:40,320
block and then he was gone. But I was like,

1061
00:56:41,199 --> 00:56:43,159
I felt, I don't know, it's just like it didn't sit.

1062
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:47,199
I thought about that kid the whole night. But I tried.

1063
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,719
But anyway, but there was still but there was a

1064
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:52,039
ton of kids on the street. You know, his friends

1065
00:56:52,079 --> 00:56:54,360
could have been walking five feet ahead of him, and

1066
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:58,920
there's just kids everywhere. But he was clearly no condition

1067
00:56:59,519 --> 00:57:04,039
to be walked. Yeah, he was really drunk, and I

1068
00:57:04,079 --> 00:57:05,800
really felt bad for him.

1069
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,199
Speaker 1: Well, there's gonna be a lot of that, I know, Yeah,

1070
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:11,360
a lot of drunkenness.

1071
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:17,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, but not Sunny, No, not Sonny no. Well, I

1072
00:57:17,119 --> 00:57:22,320
mean who knows. Yeah, but you know he's got his

1073
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:24,519
head that screwed on straight. That's all I can hope.

1074
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, well, let's say hello to our friends and

1075
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:32,519
wrap this show because we have more. We have more

1076
00:57:32,599 --> 00:57:35,480
for you on Friday. But first let's say hi to

1077
00:57:35,519 --> 00:57:39,639
Dick frolcking and Kelly Lady Dah and Katie's rolling on

1078
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:43,199
E and Nikki call your girl, Call your mom too,

1079
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:49,480
and Leslie's Coast to Coast and uh Rita is rocking,

1080
00:57:49,559 --> 00:57:55,159
Elizabeth Williamson's many beautiful children in her Bessonette and Elizabeth

1081
00:57:55,199 --> 00:58:00,920
Williamson is Williams is falling over her children, yeah, and

1082
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,039
taking pictures of them. And Athena Ginschert is dancing, and

1083
00:58:04,119 --> 00:58:07,679
Polly is making pancakes and Valerie is hitting it out

1084
00:58:07,679 --> 00:58:12,519
of the park. Katerina, check that Moeller seriously trust Gabby

1085
00:58:12,559 --> 00:58:14,400
and Missy. What are they doing? Oh? I saw them

1086
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:15,840
now down in Eugenie.

1087
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,079
Speaker 3: They were trying to get into the to the game,

1088
00:58:18,239 --> 00:58:20,760
but they didn't realize it was at the Rose Bowl.

1089
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 1: Guys, come back all right, Ishan Vajpe Rebecca Lubiner is

1090
00:58:28,119 --> 00:58:31,320
so cute and she just celebrated a lot of years

1091
00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:35,559
of sobriety. Yeah, and Kelly Brandt is not your aunt

1092
00:58:35,559 --> 00:58:39,199
and Alicia Escalante from the City of Almonte, and Leslie

1093
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:43,320
with the coughing stop it, Stephanie Stinker Wrinker, Sara Stefano,

1094
00:58:43,599 --> 00:58:46,800
Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer get up, Sandra's not easy

1095
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:52,280
being green now, Samantha Cruz says, do you know someone

1096
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in North Carolina, Florida or Georgia on Medicare you know

1097
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what she actually? I'm sorry, I I Am going to

1098
00:59:03,159 --> 00:59:06,000
wait on hers because she changed her shout out a

1099
00:59:06,039 --> 00:59:09,519
little bit. But let's talk about Krista Stroup is giving

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1102
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Sarah who lost her child to suicide and he was

1103
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only twenty one years old. And like, let's take away

1104
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the stigma of suicide and help fill in the gaps

1105
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in the community in Ohio where mental health needs aren't

1106
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being met. So Chase Haley Project. Also our friend Jen

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1120
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1121
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car I'm looking for. What do you think?

1122
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a trip, which you're going to be planning a lot

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without religion, Family Skeptical.

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who does videos to help the homeless. That's nice, so

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check them out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, all right, Thanks Calin, Thanks everybody.

1154
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Speaker 1: Your parent. Now, don't let it up. It's let ingle