1 00:00:02,799 --> 00:00:08,519 Speaker 1: Why I wrote this book. Let me begin by stating 2 00:00:08,679 --> 00:00:12,839 something that may surprise you. I'm not anti woman, far 3 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,560 from it. This book isn't a bitter screed or some 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,640 kind of revenge manifesto. It's not a place to bash 5 00:00:18,719 --> 00:00:21,600 women or point fingers. I wrote this because I've lived, 6 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:25,640 I've loved, I've lost, and I've learned. If anything, I 7 00:00:25,679 --> 00:00:28,640 admire and appreciate women more than ever. But I also 8 00:00:28,719 --> 00:00:32,320 understand them better now, and that changes everything. Yes, I've 9 00:00:32,359 --> 00:00:34,759 been through the emotional grinder more times than I care 10 00:00:34,799 --> 00:00:37,920 to count. Yes I've made mistakes, plenty of them. And yes, 11 00:00:38,039 --> 00:00:41,079 I've been burned, betrayed, and blindsided like most men who 12 00:00:41,079 --> 00:00:44,079 were never taught the truth about how attraction works, what 13 00:00:44,119 --> 00:00:46,799 women really respond to, and what we as men have 14 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:52,880 lost by abandoning our masculine core. But I don't blame 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,439 women for the changes we've seen in dating relationships or 16 00:00:56,479 --> 00:01:00,159 the breakdown of traditional roles. That shift was driven by 17 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:04,879 societal forces, economic changes, cultural movements, media influence, and yes, 18 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:09,200 sometimes misguided ideologies. But women have adapted to the environment 19 00:01:09,239 --> 00:01:11,560 they were placed in. Just like men. They're doing their 20 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:14,480 best to survive and thrive in a world that no 21 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:19,840 longer plays by the rules we grew up with. I 22 00:01:19,879 --> 00:01:22,439 take issue with the small but vocal group of anti 23 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,920 male women who spout nonsense like a woman needs a man, 24 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:29,439 like a fish needs a bicycle. That's not empowerment. That's division, 25 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:33,799 and it's destructive. The truth is, relationships work best when 26 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,840 men are free to express their masculine energy and women 27 00:01:36,879 --> 00:01:41,439 are equally free to express their feminine energy. That natural polarity, 28 00:01:41,519 --> 00:01:44,719 that magnetic push and pull between the sexes is what 29 00:01:44,799 --> 00:01:49,519 creates passion, depth, and lasting connection. But for that to happen, 30 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:55,840 men need to reclaim their strength, not through aggressional domination, 31 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:01,079 but through authenticity, clarity, confidence, and emotional self confer This 32 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,200 book is for the guy who's been through the ringer, 33 00:02:03,599 --> 00:02:05,640 the one who thought that being a nice guy, a 34 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,919 good provider, a doting boyfriend or husband would be enough, 35 00:02:09,159 --> 00:02:11,080 only to have it all blow up in his face. 36 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,439 It's for the man who knows he can do better 37 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:19,280 but just doesn't know where to start. And it's for 38 00:02:19,319 --> 00:02:22,360 the guy who's already successful in life but feels completely 39 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,400 lost when it comes to women. If you've ever looked 40 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,560 in the mirror and thought, how did I get here? 41 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,800 How did I become this guy who's afraid to speak 42 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,759 his truth, afraid to lead, afraid to lose her. You're 43 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,240 not alone. I've been there. This book is a roadmap out. 44 00:02:38,159 --> 00:02:42,280 It's not about tricks, manipulation, or game. It's about rediscovering 45 00:02:42,319 --> 00:02:46,039 the natural laws of attraction, the ones nobody taught you 46 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,680 growing up. It's about stepping fully into your masculine role, 47 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,719 not to overpower a woman, but to become the kind 48 00:02:52,719 --> 00:02:56,039 of man she wants to surrender to. Because whether they 49 00:02:56,039 --> 00:02:58,159 say it out loud or not, most women want a 50 00:02:58,199 --> 00:03:01,080 man who leads with strength, acts with purpose, and lives 51 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:09,080 with integrity. So if you're tired of being confused, disappointed, rejected, 52 00:03:09,199 --> 00:03:13,879 friend zoned, ghosted, used, manipulated, or walked all over, this 53 00:03:14,039 --> 00:03:16,120 book is for you. It's for the man who is 54 00:03:16,199 --> 00:03:19,759 done playing defense, done with the lies, done with pretending 55 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:24,360 to be something he's not. The lessons here weren't learned 56 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,240 in classrooms or from theory. They were earned in the trenches, 57 00:03:28,879 --> 00:03:32,199 through thousands of dates, years of trial and error, and 58 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:37,639 some of the most humbling moments of my life. It 59 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,919 wasn't always pretty, but it was real. And now I'm 60 00:03:39,919 --> 00:03:42,199 handing you what I've learned, so you don't have to 61 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:44,919 take the same punch as I did. Take what works 62 00:03:44,919 --> 00:03:48,319 for you, leave what doesn't. But if you take this seriously, 63 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,719 internalize it, and apply it, I can promise you your 64 00:03:51,759 --> 00:03:58,159 life will change. Let's begin to grab a copy of 65 00:03:58,159 --> 00:04:01,919 my book one thousand First Date. Portrait of a Palm 66 00:04:01,919 --> 00:04:04,759 Beach Player by Johnny Depth. Just click the link in 67 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:08,199 the description. To schedule a consult with Johnny Depth, send 68 00:04:08,199 --> 00:04:11,439 an email to Johnny deepth one thousand dot gmail dot com.