WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:03.359 Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Jenny gave me 2 00:00:03.399 --> 00:00:05.839 my Christmas gift, and it is you know those little 3 00:00:05.919 --> 00:00:08.080 tiny finger hands you can put on the tips of 4 00:00:08.119 --> 00:00:12.240 your fingers. Mine is a little hand flipping the bird. 5 00:00:12.320 --> 00:00:16.280 And that is the most perfect gift that I've ever received. Now, 6 00:00:16.359 --> 00:00:19.519 Phan and I don't give each other presents, don't Jenny, No, 7 00:00:20.039 --> 00:00:23.679 I was like, I saw it. It costs barely anything. 8 00:00:23.839 --> 00:00:26.280 I just had to get it for you. So she 9 00:00:26.440 --> 00:00:28.640 got that, and then she also brought me cookies, which 10 00:00:28.640 --> 00:00:31.280 I already started hammering, like half of the little baggy, 11 00:00:31.359 --> 00:00:34.039 cute little baggy that you brought so well. I gave 12 00:00:34.039 --> 00:00:35.640 those like everyone, and I was like, if you guys 13 00:00:35.679 --> 00:00:39.920 throw those away, my feelings will not be hurt, because 14 00:00:40.000 --> 00:00:42.799 you know, having other people bake stuff, you have to 15 00:00:42.799 --> 00:00:46.840 really trust them. Vaughn keeps actually posting about people like cooking, 16 00:00:47.079 --> 00:00:49.000 and and then like it shows like a time lapse 17 00:00:49.000 --> 00:00:50.719 of like a dog lapping up half the food. 18 00:00:50.759 --> 00:00:53.479 I'm like, uh, yeah, yeah, he is very anti eating 19 00:00:53.520 --> 00:00:54.840 it like a work pot luck. 20 00:00:55.119 --> 00:00:56.240 He brought that up, and so. 21 00:00:56.439 --> 00:00:58.320 Now I'm like, is that why you literally never eat 22 00:00:58.359 --> 00:01:00.560 anything when I bring baked goods and He's like, yeah, 23 00:01:00.560 --> 00:01:01.960 I don't trust any of you guys. And I'm like, 24 00:01:02.320 --> 00:01:03.640 I brought the cookies into him, and I go, if 25 00:01:03.640 --> 00:01:04.840 you don't eat them, that's fine, you can. 26 00:01:04.920 --> 00:01:06.319 I won't know if you throw them away. So he 27 00:01:06.359 --> 00:01:08.680 might have thrown them away whatever. I maybe. 28 00:01:08.799 --> 00:01:10.840 Honestly, I wouldn't put it past him. No, he really 29 00:01:10.879 --> 00:01:12.000 doesn't eat anything that we bring. 30 00:01:12.079 --> 00:01:15.480 It's fair I did. I will say Jenny and I 31 00:01:15.560 --> 00:01:18.400 we did have our holiday party. Yes, we got Friday. 32 00:01:18.519 --> 00:01:21.120 It was I keep saying we have had a holiday party, 33 00:01:21.560 --> 00:01:22.959 but I don't mean it like that, like the movie 34 00:01:22.959 --> 00:01:23.400 The Holiday. 35 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:24.000 So it was a theme. 36 00:01:24.480 --> 00:01:27.319 Jenny and Tina really went in on the costumes. I 37 00:01:27.359 --> 00:01:29.599 loved it. We put up a little real on our 38 00:01:29.599 --> 00:01:30.920 Instagram if you want to check it out. So we 39 00:01:30.959 --> 00:01:33.560 dressed up as characters from the holiday. We had some 40 00:01:33.599 --> 00:01:36.599 delicious pasta. Tina made good. People kept asking for the 41 00:01:36.719 --> 00:01:38.519 sprits recipe and my girl, I don't know what it was. 42 00:01:38.599 --> 00:01:41.120 It was all Tina stuff. But also she threw a 43 00:01:41.159 --> 00:01:44.319 mix of literally everything in the sprits, so we'll never 44 00:01:44.359 --> 00:01:46.120 be able to share the recipe. I don't think. 45 00:01:46.200 --> 00:01:48.400 Yeah, I think she forgot like one or two of 46 00:01:48.439 --> 00:01:50.840 the ingredients at day, so she kind of just made 47 00:01:50.840 --> 00:01:51.879 it her own and it was delightful. 48 00:01:51.879 --> 00:01:54.000 It was delightful, and we watched the movie The Holiday, 49 00:01:54.120 --> 00:01:55.840 We chatted, we gossip, we did all the things. 50 00:01:55.959 --> 00:01:58.000 And I didn't bring cookies, by the way, myself, I 51 00:01:58.040 --> 00:01:59.959 didn't contribute as much as Fallin and Tina, I feel, 52 00:02:00.280 --> 00:02:01.480 but Dolly. 53 00:02:01.280 --> 00:02:01.879 Ate most of them. 54 00:02:02.079 --> 00:02:06.120 Yeah, because she's bitch. Dolly is balanced dog if you've 55 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:08.680 never heard us talk about her before, and she is 56 00:02:08.759 --> 00:02:10.159 called beef for a reason. 57 00:02:10.400 --> 00:02:13.840 She's a great dog. But her one issue is she's 58 00:02:13.960 --> 00:02:15.719 like I think, I don't know if it's because she 59 00:02:15.759 --> 00:02:18.080 was like a puppy mail dog that like was rescued 60 00:02:18.199 --> 00:02:20.039 and we got her nine months, but like she is 61 00:02:20.080 --> 00:02:22.479 a counter surfer. There's nothing. I don't even know what 62 00:02:22.520 --> 00:02:25.280 to do because and so today she had a bunch 63 00:02:25.280 --> 00:02:27.599 of cookies. Also, I got so mad I put her 64 00:02:27.639 --> 00:02:29.960 in the bathroom because I was like, I have to 65 00:02:30.039 --> 00:02:32.360 go to work, Jake's not home. If she pukes everywhere, 66 00:02:32.360 --> 00:02:34.280 I don't want it on my rugs and on my couch. 67 00:02:34.439 --> 00:02:37.159 She ate the molding of the bathroom like wall, and 68 00:02:37.199 --> 00:02:39.080 I even thought, I bet she does that because she 69 00:02:39.159 --> 00:02:41.960 is a little bitch and surprise, surprise, she did so 70 00:02:42.639 --> 00:02:46.120 beautiful blessing. It's all we did post up and ask 71 00:02:46.319 --> 00:02:48.919 us anything, So we're going to jump into a bunch 72 00:02:48.960 --> 00:02:52.159 of those. We also have a couple of emails, so 73 00:02:52.280 --> 00:02:56.319 this one is like a question. Email says, first time 74 00:02:56.400 --> 00:02:59.159 writing into your new ish pod, and I absolutely love 75 00:02:59.199 --> 00:03:01.639 having you two together. I need advice something that's weighing 76 00:03:01.639 --> 00:03:04.199 on me heavily. I got married in September of twenty 77 00:03:04.240 --> 00:03:06.479 twenty two, and I still haven't written my wedding thank you. 78 00:03:07.000 --> 00:03:08.159 Yes you heard that right. 79 00:03:08.400 --> 00:03:11.159 There were several reasons in the year after that kept 80 00:03:11.199 --> 00:03:12.800 me from getting those done, but in the past year 81 00:03:12.800 --> 00:03:15.840 the only thing keeping me from completing the task was anxiety. 82 00:03:16.199 --> 00:03:18.199 The longer it took me, the more anxiety I had, 83 00:03:18.280 --> 00:03:20.520 kind of like doing laundry. It takes me a month 84 00:03:20.560 --> 00:03:22.919 to put away. I think about the thank yous daily 85 00:03:22.960 --> 00:03:24.560 and I can't find the words to write that are 86 00:03:24.639 --> 00:03:27.919 charming enough where people wouldn't be mad receiving a thank 87 00:03:28.000 --> 00:03:30.039 you note for a wedding they went to over two 88 00:03:30.120 --> 00:03:33.840 years ago. They'll also be handwritten and personal to an extent, 89 00:03:33.840 --> 00:03:36.639 because I'm an old fashioned girl and some people gave 90 00:03:36.879 --> 00:03:39.439 lovely gifts. I planned to add a New Year's card 91 00:03:39.479 --> 00:03:41.360 in them as well. I feel awful and it eats 92 00:03:41.360 --> 00:03:43.000 at me constantly, but I have to get them done. 93 00:03:43.080 --> 00:03:45.599 I just need an opener to put in all the 94 00:03:45.639 --> 00:03:48.400 notes that will help soften the blow of how crappy 95 00:03:48.520 --> 00:03:48.840 I am. 96 00:03:48.960 --> 00:03:53.919 Please help a girl out, Oh man, an opener. Hey, 97 00:03:54.280 --> 00:03:57.120 you probably thought you were never gonna see this before. 98 00:03:57.159 --> 00:03:59.960 Like at this point, I don't know, like I just 99 00:04:00.000 --> 00:04:03.960 I feel like you say something jokingly and then you 100 00:04:04.000 --> 00:04:07.520 just say thanks for the present. I loved my Ninja 101 00:04:07.520 --> 00:04:09.599 FOOTI you got me or whatever, which is a really 102 00:04:09.639 --> 00:04:11.879 good wedding present if someone got you there for Christmas 103 00:04:12.000 --> 00:04:13.080 or for your wedding. 104 00:04:13.360 --> 00:04:16.920 Okay, here we go. Chatgybt wrote one for you. Better 105 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:19.959 late than never. Comma write question mark as we finally 106 00:04:19.959 --> 00:04:24.000 sit down to write this in parentheses. Long overdue exclamation point. 107 00:04:24.079 --> 00:04:27.279 Thank you, kamma. Please know that our gratitude has been 108 00:04:27.279 --> 00:04:30.439 with us since the very beginning, just waiting to make 109 00:04:30.480 --> 00:04:31.360 it onto paper. 110 00:04:32.040 --> 00:04:34.199 There you go, there go, there's always enough. Go to 111 00:04:34.279 --> 00:04:35.720 chat Gybt for all your answers. 112 00:04:35.759 --> 00:04:38.600 Also, I do hope that you are having your partner 113 00:04:38.680 --> 00:04:40.920 sit down and write half of those with you, because 114 00:04:41.199 --> 00:04:44.480 that is not a bride job. That is a couple job. Yes, 115 00:04:44.759 --> 00:04:48.600 and I divvated up. I said, I'm gonna be honest. 116 00:04:48.639 --> 00:04:51.920 I was like, here's your stack, Jake for your family, 117 00:04:52.279 --> 00:04:54.639 and I'll do my family. There you go. And Jake's 118 00:04:54.639 --> 00:04:57.519 were probably much more legible, and because I have terrible 119 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:01.079 handwriting does and really were probably more thoughtful. Honestly, mine 120 00:05:01.079 --> 00:05:04.040 were like thanks for the cash, it'll go to great use, 121 00:05:04.160 --> 00:05:06.879 Love you Fallon and Jake, or like thanks for coming 122 00:05:06.920 --> 00:05:10.639 to our big day smooches. Or you could just do 123 00:05:10.800 --> 00:05:14.120 a generic one, like if you're doing a New Year's 124 00:05:14.160 --> 00:05:17.279 card on mented like people do Christmas cards, write that 125 00:05:17.399 --> 00:05:21.519 note and then just sign it and send her off. 126 00:05:21.800 --> 00:05:22.319 You know what I mean. 127 00:05:22.360 --> 00:05:24.639 It could be as simple as that, and say but 128 00:05:24.920 --> 00:05:26.319 she said she's old fashioned and she wants to do 129 00:05:26.360 --> 00:05:30.279 handwritten I'm all about efficiency, but you need too, Yes, exactly, Okay, 130 00:05:30.319 --> 00:05:34.639 And then we got one more email says, hey, ladies, 131 00:05:34.680 --> 00:05:36.720 I'm thirty seven from Minneapolis. I grew up listening to 132 00:05:36.759 --> 00:05:38.759 the morning show, and I love the chemistry you too 133 00:05:38.839 --> 00:05:40.959 brought to the show. The past summer, I discovered your 134 00:05:40.959 --> 00:05:43.040 podcast and went on a deep dive. I want to 135 00:05:43.079 --> 00:05:45.000 thank you too for doing this podcast because it feels 136 00:05:45.040 --> 00:05:47.079 like I'm hanging out with my girlfriends and always makes 137 00:05:47.079 --> 00:05:48.839 me laugh. I think you bring a lot of joy 138 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:51.360 to a lot of people. Thanks. I spent the last 139 00:05:51.439 --> 00:05:53.920 year of my life in an incredibly toxic work environment. 140 00:05:53.920 --> 00:05:57.079 I'm talking restraining orders and some other dark things that happened. 141 00:05:57.120 --> 00:06:00.759 I was, however, too scared to quit. Last week, I 142 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:02.600 listened to the episodes where you caught up with Tina 143 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:04.319 and Steve, and I just felt like there were so 144 00:06:04.439 --> 00:06:07.399 many other opportunities out there. And then I got fired 145 00:06:07.399 --> 00:06:10.279 from that job, so I guess the universe wanted me 146 00:06:10.319 --> 00:06:12.519 to get the hell out of there finally. Anyways, I 147 00:06:12.560 --> 00:06:14.560 was offered a new job that I'm very excited about 148 00:06:14.639 --> 00:06:17.560 just five days after being fired. I'm going from the 149 00:06:17.600 --> 00:06:19.800 service industry to a day job. I was hoping you 150 00:06:19.800 --> 00:06:22.439 two could offer me some advice about working a day job, 151 00:06:22.519 --> 00:06:25.480 and most importantly, if you have any clothing recommendations. I 152 00:06:25.519 --> 00:06:27.480 need to go shopping and I'm not sure where to start. 153 00:06:27.519 --> 00:06:30.040 Thank you to so much for being so funny and awesome. 154 00:06:31.879 --> 00:06:34.600 I've done the jump, obviously, from service industry. Say better 155 00:06:34.839 --> 00:06:38.279 than me. This is all I'll say, because I am 156 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:39.399 a chatty girl. 157 00:06:39.720 --> 00:06:41.920 Is it was really hard for me to go work 158 00:06:42.000 --> 00:06:45.279 in marketing like nine to five, from like being a 159 00:06:45.319 --> 00:06:47.839 server talking to people, like working with your friends and 160 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:49.800 then talking to customers and stuff that we're coming in. 161 00:06:50.120 --> 00:06:52.000 So that was a little bit difficult for me. 162 00:06:52.560 --> 00:06:58.519 But outside of that, the consistent schedule was wonderful, and 163 00:06:58.600 --> 00:07:02.480 I feel like my life became much more orderly once 164 00:07:02.639 --> 00:07:06.120 I got out of the service industry. So I don't 165 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:07.839 know that I have necessarily advice. I think you're just 166 00:07:07.879 --> 00:07:09.600 going to learn what you like and dislike about it, 167 00:07:09.600 --> 00:07:12.120 because it's one of the biggest perks that the service 168 00:07:12.120 --> 00:07:15.079 industry is the flexibility you can take off for two 169 00:07:15.160 --> 00:07:17.720 weeks if you want a lot of times. Can't really 170 00:07:17.720 --> 00:07:19.800 do that in an office job. You're usually required Monday 171 00:07:19.839 --> 00:07:25.560 through Friday to be there. But clothes wise, gosh, I 172 00:07:25.560 --> 00:07:28.040 don't know. I used to shop at H and M 173 00:07:28.079 --> 00:07:30.839 a lot because it was like reasonably priced. 174 00:07:30.959 --> 00:07:34.120 Even Target has great stuff that's like not expensive. I 175 00:07:34.120 --> 00:07:36.040 think you could easily People always asking me to get stuff, 176 00:07:36.040 --> 00:07:39.480 and I mean, I old Navy. There are lots of inexpensive, 177 00:07:39.720 --> 00:07:42.720 really great places. If you want to spend more, you 178 00:07:42.759 --> 00:07:47.240 can go to like made Well, you can go to Nordstrum. 179 00:07:47.560 --> 00:07:50.120 But I think you could still find all the things 180 00:07:50.120 --> 00:07:52.399 you're looking for. Yeah, like the old Navy target, H 181 00:07:52.439 --> 00:07:56.160 and M. Kind of cheaper places even like your coals 182 00:07:56.199 --> 00:07:59.279 and stuff are going to have them. But I don't 183 00:07:59.279 --> 00:08:01.600 have a lot of advice. The only thing I've literally 184 00:08:01.639 --> 00:08:05.000 worked in the same industry my entire life and the 185 00:08:05.040 --> 00:08:08.800 only thing I ever hear because radio is a very 186 00:08:08.879 --> 00:08:13.040 loud atmosphere. People that leave here a lot of time 187 00:08:13.079 --> 00:08:15.920 are surprised. They're like they're disturbed by how quiet their 188 00:08:15.920 --> 00:08:18.639 new office setting is. That's like the only difference that 189 00:08:18.839 --> 00:08:21.879 I've heard of, and that's that's totally different than being 190 00:08:21.879 --> 00:08:25.120 in the service world. Going to an office setting. Yeah, 191 00:08:25.199 --> 00:08:27.399 I don't know how that's going to be. Jenny's probably 192 00:08:27.480 --> 00:08:29.000 right because she experienced it. 193 00:08:29.079 --> 00:08:30.519 Yeah, it's just going to be a matter off. You'll 194 00:08:30.600 --> 00:08:33.639 learn what you like and dislike. But for me, I 195 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:35.120 think it was really good for me to get out 196 00:08:35.120 --> 00:08:37.799 of the service industry when I did, because it kind 197 00:08:37.799 --> 00:08:39.480 of forced me to grow up a little bit more. 198 00:08:39.840 --> 00:08:42.600 But also finding a job five days after being fired 199 00:08:42.720 --> 00:08:44.960 is unheard of, Like We have so many friends and 200 00:08:45.080 --> 00:08:47.799 past coworkers that were laid off and still haven't found 201 00:08:47.799 --> 00:08:50.039 a job or took them like like a full year 202 00:08:50.080 --> 00:08:52.879 to find a job. So that's exciting. That tells you 203 00:08:52.960 --> 00:08:55.120 also that if you don't like this job, you'll be 204 00:08:55.159 --> 00:08:58.799 able to find another way. So yeah, thanks for the emails. 205 00:08:58.799 --> 00:09:00.840 You can always email us. Obviously, Jenny and I are 206 00:09:00.840 --> 00:09:03.720 off until the new year after this episode, but we'll 207 00:09:03.720 --> 00:09:05.519 get back to it in the new year, and we 208 00:09:05.600 --> 00:09:07.679 have some ask us anything questions. 209 00:09:07.799 --> 00:09:11.080 Sure do all right? The first one says, ideas for 210 00:09:11.159 --> 00:09:13.559 celebrating a two year anniversary fell. 211 00:09:13.480 --> 00:09:17.480 And go ooh, what did you? And Jake, dude, you 212 00:09:17.559 --> 00:09:22.720 know no, because the first year anniversary was funny because 213 00:09:22.960 --> 00:09:26.279 we had a baby, and so I think we went 214 00:09:26.279 --> 00:09:29.000 and got cocktails somewhere and then we're like, we're lame. 215 00:09:29.000 --> 00:09:30.480 We're like, we missed all of we went home. 216 00:09:30.519 --> 00:09:30.840 I don't know. 217 00:09:30.879 --> 00:09:35.919 It was so lame, I would say, And overnight is 218 00:09:35.960 --> 00:09:38.720 never a bad thing, even in like this city that 219 00:09:38.759 --> 00:09:44.159 you live in. I like going places like there's the 220 00:09:44.200 --> 00:09:47.399 Anne Bean Mansion in Stillwater and it's a bed and 221 00:09:47.440 --> 00:09:50.360 breakfast and they make the most lovely breakfast and still 222 00:09:50.360 --> 00:09:52.519 water's cute and you're not too far away from things 223 00:09:52.519 --> 00:09:53.279 that could be fun. 224 00:09:53.600 --> 00:09:54.399 They have a lot of those. 225 00:09:55.120 --> 00:09:58.320 I like those, like candlelight orchestra shows they have. 226 00:09:58.440 --> 00:09:59.799 We did like a Taylor Swift. 227 00:09:59.519 --> 00:10:01.960 One where it's like a four piece string set and 228 00:10:02.000 --> 00:10:04.120 they only do like a certain artist songs and it's 229 00:10:04.159 --> 00:10:06.039 just a bunch of candles and it's really pretty. 230 00:10:06.919 --> 00:10:11.399 There's always great shows. Maybe do something fun, like a 231 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:13.320 make a game out of it, Like you each put 232 00:10:13.360 --> 00:10:15.799 something into a jar and one's like an activity for 233 00:10:15.840 --> 00:10:18.799 the morning, the afternoon, in the evening or something, and 234 00:10:18.840 --> 00:10:21.440 you have to pick out each time. One's your activity 235 00:10:21.480 --> 00:10:24.159 wants your partners and maybe you'll get lucky in all 236 00:10:24.200 --> 00:10:26.240 three will be yours and you'll love today. Or maybe 237 00:10:26.279 --> 00:10:28.919 it'll be your partners and you'll like eh. But regardless, 238 00:10:28.919 --> 00:10:31.840 you're spending time together and doing something I'm assuming you 239 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:34.919 guys somewhat like if it's like someone else's choice, but. 240 00:10:35.159 --> 00:10:37.399 Maybe a good idea for yeah, more active stuff. You 241 00:10:37.440 --> 00:10:40.559 could do top golf or can can Wonderland like fun stuff. 242 00:10:40.759 --> 00:10:42.679 But another thing that I think Jake and I did 243 00:10:42.720 --> 00:10:46.039 once is like a progressive dinner thing, so like an 244 00:10:46.039 --> 00:10:50.759 appetizer one place and cocktails, dinner, another place, desert another place, 245 00:10:50.799 --> 00:10:52.799 so you go like three different places and kind of 246 00:10:52.840 --> 00:10:53.159 do that. 247 00:10:53.600 --> 00:10:55.480 That would be fun too, It could be fun, Okay. 248 00:10:55.480 --> 00:10:58.519 Next one says advice you'd give to your mid twenties self. 249 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:00.840 I'm twenty four and would love advice from you too. 250 00:11:03.000 --> 00:11:06.480 You're you're gonna, you're gonna be, You're gonna get there. Yeah. 251 00:11:06.600 --> 00:11:10.679 It's if you're comparing your life and career to other 252 00:11:10.759 --> 00:11:13.120 twenty four year olds who have it all together, know 253 00:11:13.240 --> 00:11:18.000 that they're in the minority, not you, Like, it's not 254 00:11:18.799 --> 00:11:22.440 you have so much time. It's twenty four. You feel 255 00:11:22.480 --> 00:11:24.759 like it's especially like twenty five. Hit me hard for 256 00:11:24.840 --> 00:11:29.399 some weird reason, you have so much time. Like I 257 00:11:29.600 --> 00:11:32.399 do yourself a favor and read those like things where 258 00:11:32.440 --> 00:11:34.960 it's like this person, the super famous person you know, 259 00:11:35.080 --> 00:11:37.399 didn't have their first invention till they were fifty. This 260 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:39.720 super famous person didn't have their first acting role till 261 00:11:39.720 --> 00:11:42.679 they were forty five. You know what I so, I 262 00:11:42.840 --> 00:11:45.080 for me, my top advice to my young self would 263 00:11:45.080 --> 00:11:49.639 be like, girl, it's okay, it's gonna take time. It's 264 00:11:49.679 --> 00:11:54.080 just like anything else. Time, it's you, it's you. Regret 265 00:11:54.279 --> 00:11:56.519 not having more time as you get older, right, But 266 00:11:56.600 --> 00:11:58.759 when you're younger, you're like, I want to speed through time. 267 00:11:59.240 --> 00:12:03.000 And I think about like I would compare myself to 268 00:12:03.080 --> 00:12:06.000 other people. And it's even harder now with even more social media. 269 00:12:06.080 --> 00:12:10.240 But just you'll get there. Just keep working hard, You'll 270 00:12:10.240 --> 00:12:12.159 get there, whatever the thing is you want to do. 271 00:12:12.639 --> 00:12:15.039 I was just thinking the other day that I feel 272 00:12:15.039 --> 00:12:18.879 like in my twenties, I was constantly comparing to friends 273 00:12:18.919 --> 00:12:22.240 who were either further along in their career or like 274 00:12:22.360 --> 00:12:25.240 making much more money, or in a relationship or something like. 275 00:12:25.279 --> 00:12:28.720 It was a constant comparison of my life to everyone else's. 276 00:12:28.879 --> 00:12:30.879 And I'm at a point in my life now at 277 00:12:30.960 --> 00:12:33.639 thirty four, where, like I really don't look at anyone 278 00:12:33.679 --> 00:12:35.840 else's life and think that they have that much better 279 00:12:35.879 --> 00:12:37.600 of a life. Are there some really rich people out 280 00:12:37.639 --> 00:12:39.320 there who get the like jet off to Europe all 281 00:12:39.360 --> 00:12:42.080 the time or something that I know? Sure, But like, 282 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:44.039 for the most part, I like my life. And so 283 00:12:44.159 --> 00:12:47.200 I think that like having a little bit of jealousy 284 00:12:47.240 --> 00:12:49.200 in your twenties isn't a bad thing, but don't let 285 00:12:49.240 --> 00:12:51.320 it like take over yep. So, like you can be 286 00:12:51.320 --> 00:12:54.320 a little jealous of someone else being further along in 287 00:12:54.360 --> 00:12:56.720 some certain way, but don't let it take over, because 288 00:12:56.759 --> 00:12:59.519 like you're living the path that your life is going 289 00:12:59.600 --> 00:13:01.159 to take you, and you have to make sure that 290 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:04.159 you enjoyed along the way. Because I Fall and I 291 00:13:04.200 --> 00:13:07.559 are very similar that we were like career people right 292 00:13:07.600 --> 00:13:10.639 away out of college, and I think there was a 293 00:13:10.679 --> 00:13:13.519 lot of moments where I didn't stop and smell the flowers, 294 00:13:13.679 --> 00:13:15.440 like not to be corny, but I didn't. I was 295 00:13:15.480 --> 00:13:18.120 just like, well, what's next, what's next? And some of 296 00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:21.039 that is great to have that ambition, but sometimes you 297 00:13:21.120 --> 00:13:23.720 miss something that's right in front of you that's amazing 298 00:13:23.960 --> 00:13:27.440 right now. Yes, So, okay, do you guys get recognized 299 00:13:27.440 --> 00:13:29.679 in public often and how do you handle it? It 300 00:13:29.720 --> 00:13:34.240 seems overwhelming? I mean we do, but I wouldn't say 301 00:13:34.279 --> 00:13:37.600 it's like everywhere we go. Pallin probably a little bit 302 00:13:37.600 --> 00:13:39.240 more than me, especially now that you're on the adjacent 303 00:13:39.240 --> 00:13:41.360 show too, or does that has that not changed much 304 00:13:41.720 --> 00:13:42.840 that a little bit little? Right? 305 00:13:42.919 --> 00:13:44.440 Yeah? Yeah, I don't. 306 00:13:44.279 --> 00:13:46.559 Find it overwhelming and it doesn't bug me if you 307 00:13:46.600 --> 00:13:48.840 come up and say hi. The only time I pretty 308 00:13:48.919 --> 00:13:51.120 much say please let me be is at the gym. 309 00:13:51.279 --> 00:13:53.120 I just really want to get through my workout and 310 00:13:53.159 --> 00:13:55.360 get the fuck out of the gym. I yeah, just 311 00:13:55.559 --> 00:13:57.600 that's like the mindset I have. It's not because I 312 00:13:57.639 --> 00:13:59.519 don't want to talk. I just like already don't want 313 00:13:59.519 --> 00:14:01.200 to be there, I don't want to get done yet 314 00:14:01.240 --> 00:14:02.279 the workout same. 315 00:14:02.360 --> 00:14:05.320 I don't think it's I don't find it overwhelming. Yeah, 316 00:14:05.440 --> 00:14:06.879 it's not like I go out and there's like a 317 00:14:06.919 --> 00:14:08.919 mass like I'm not as you know what. We're not 318 00:14:09.000 --> 00:14:11.600 like Harry Styles. People don't mob us. We're fine. 319 00:14:11.679 --> 00:14:14.320 Yeah, yeah, Okay, I don't know if I should have 320 00:14:14.360 --> 00:14:17.720 a kid with my amazing husband. The world is scary, 321 00:14:18.200 --> 00:14:22.159 thoughts question Mark, you're the one who's a parent, So woman, 322 00:14:22.159 --> 00:14:22.919 I'll let you leave this. 323 00:14:23.200 --> 00:14:26.600 Well, I know, but that's Is it just because the 324 00:14:26.600 --> 00:14:29.600 world is scary? Yeah, I don't know. Or is it 325 00:14:29.600 --> 00:14:31.440 because you don't want kids? I think those are very 326 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:32.279 different things. 327 00:14:33.279 --> 00:14:35.879 I mean, clearly she loves her husband, because she says 328 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:36.759 my amazing husband. 329 00:14:36.879 --> 00:14:38.600 Yeah, but a lot of people you love Andrew, that 330 00:14:38.600 --> 00:14:39.600 doesn't make you want kids. 331 00:14:39.679 --> 00:14:42.600 Yeah. So still up in there for myself. I mean, 332 00:14:42.639 --> 00:14:46.240 I'm on the same page as you saying like, yeah, 333 00:14:46.279 --> 00:14:48.360 like there's thoughts of me wanting to have kids, but 334 00:14:48.559 --> 00:14:50.399 there's so many things in the world that are like 335 00:14:50.759 --> 00:14:53.559 unknown for me that I'm unsure about. 336 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:57.480 I think anytime you live your life based in fears 337 00:14:57.559 --> 00:15:02.080 of unknown, you're not living your life. And so I 338 00:15:02.159 --> 00:15:07.679 think it's a huge life choice. So I can't tell 339 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:10.840 you do it you won't regret it, because I don't 340 00:15:10.840 --> 00:15:13.559 know you and I don't have very minimal details. I 341 00:15:13.559 --> 00:15:16.440 think if it truly is just based on the world 342 00:15:16.480 --> 00:15:20.080 being a scary place, I would not not have a 343 00:15:20.159 --> 00:15:20.919 kid because of that. 344 00:15:21.240 --> 00:15:22.600 Yeah, I feel like. 345 00:15:24.080 --> 00:15:27.919 You'll get older and we'll all still be here, hopefully, 346 00:15:28.039 --> 00:15:31.639 and it'll be fine, but different, just like the world 347 00:15:31.759 --> 00:15:35.360 is right, and you might be like, why did I 348 00:15:35.559 --> 00:15:39.639 let the idea of the world going up in flames 349 00:15:39.759 --> 00:15:42.519 keep me from doing something beautiful with my partner? If 350 00:15:42.519 --> 00:15:45.639 that's really what you want. But if you don't really 351 00:15:45.679 --> 00:15:49.840 want kids, then that's a whole different topic. But based 352 00:15:49.879 --> 00:15:52.639 on just like the world and I don't think, I don't. 353 00:15:52.440 --> 00:15:55.360 Know, I would not not have kids just based off 354 00:15:55.399 --> 00:15:58.440 of me be nervous about something happening in the world. Yeah, 355 00:15:58.480 --> 00:16:00.399 it's more of like do I want them? 356 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:01.879 Do I not want them? Yeah, that's mine. 357 00:16:02.200 --> 00:16:04.679 Okay. Next one says honest reviews of botox, anything that 358 00:16:04.759 --> 00:16:07.600 surprised you or you wish you knew. Well, Polan knows, I, 359 00:16:07.840 --> 00:16:10.159 uh fainted the first time I got botox. That, yeah, 360 00:16:10.279 --> 00:16:13.559 is a that is I didn't have that experience. Yeah, 361 00:16:13.679 --> 00:16:15.480 this is what I would say, things that I wish 362 00:16:15.559 --> 00:16:17.879 I would have known. You can get numbing cream and 363 00:16:18.039 --> 00:16:21.440 it does change the feeling. I just think this is 364 00:16:21.440 --> 00:16:23.840 what I think though, the first time you ever get 365 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:27.200 it done, I think is like at a hundred of like, 366 00:16:27.279 --> 00:16:30.919 it feels weird, it's unique, it's whatever, and then going 367 00:16:30.960 --> 00:16:34.559 on after that, it's almost like it's nothing. But like, truthfully, 368 00:16:34.639 --> 00:16:37.159 I felt like I could feel it being injected into 369 00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:39.840 my face. And then I feel like ever since that 370 00:16:39.960 --> 00:16:43.120 first time, it's not the same. It's like, okay, I 371 00:16:43.159 --> 00:16:46.360 barely feel it even if I get the numbing cream 372 00:16:46.440 --> 00:16:48.320 or not. And I didn't do the numbing cream for 373 00:16:48.360 --> 00:16:50.480 a couple of years, But yeah, I fainted the first 374 00:16:50.480 --> 00:16:53.399 time because it was it messed with me, like they're 375 00:16:53.399 --> 00:16:55.840 putting needles into your head that's like right by your brain. 376 00:16:56.039 --> 00:16:58.480 So yeah, I just think that you should ask for 377 00:16:58.559 --> 00:17:01.480 numbing cream, and if you're anxious have like a stress ball. 378 00:17:01.559 --> 00:17:02.879 Usually they have a stress ball there. 379 00:17:02.919 --> 00:17:04.640 Yeah. Have you only got it done once? 380 00:17:04.759 --> 00:17:05.119 Twice? 381 00:17:05.200 --> 00:17:08.400 Twice? Okay? But I they didn't Eve bring up numbing cream. 382 00:17:08.440 --> 00:17:10.000 We just have a little ice pack. I put it 383 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:12.920 on the spot before she injects it. I mean, I 384 00:17:12.960 --> 00:17:15.480 feel it a little bit, but it just doesn't really. 385 00:17:15.920 --> 00:17:18.279 I don't know. Yeah, it didn't bother me that much. 386 00:17:18.359 --> 00:17:19.799 I don't feel like I felt it. She said that 387 00:17:19.799 --> 00:17:23.279 I would feel like some like after I first got in, 388 00:17:23.279 --> 00:17:25.559 and she's like, you might feel like some pressure on 389 00:17:25.640 --> 00:17:29.079 like your forehead or whatever. And I think I did. 390 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:31.279 But I wondered if I thought I felt it because 391 00:17:31.319 --> 00:17:32.759 she said I would, or if I really did. And 392 00:17:32.799 --> 00:17:34.200 the second time I didn't feel it at all. 393 00:17:34.720 --> 00:17:36.799 You do usually get a headache though, within like the 394 00:17:36.839 --> 00:17:39.839 first week. But maybe honestly, I feel like I probably 395 00:17:39.839 --> 00:17:41.759 get more done than you do. So it might be 396 00:17:41.799 --> 00:17:42.839 a level of how many units. 397 00:17:42.880 --> 00:17:45.759 Maybe I get like the least amount. Yeah, I get 398 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:48.559 such a small amount. Yeah, No, I think you probably 399 00:17:48.559 --> 00:17:51.799 get less than me because your girl has had elevens 400 00:17:51.799 --> 00:17:53.759 and wrinkles in her forehead since she was like twenty two. 401 00:17:53.759 --> 00:17:55.720