Speaker 1: Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. Jenny gave me
Speaker 1: my Christmas gift, and it is you know those little
Speaker 1: tiny finger hands you can put on the tips of
Speaker 1: your fingers. Mine is a little hand flipping the bird.
Speaker 1: And that is the most perfect gift that I've ever received. Now,
Speaker 1: Phan and I don't give each other presents, don't Jenny, No,
Speaker 1: I was like, I saw it. It costs barely anything.
Speaker 1: I just had to get it for you. So she
Speaker 1: got that, and then she also brought me cookies, which
Speaker 1: I already started hammering, like half of the little baggy,
Speaker 1: cute little baggy that you brought so well. I gave
Speaker 1: those like everyone, and I was like, if you guys
Speaker 1: throw those away, my feelings will not be hurt, because
Speaker 1: you know, having other people bake stuff, you have to
Speaker 1: really trust them. Vaughn keeps actually posting about people like cooking,
Speaker 1: and and then like it shows like a time lapse
Speaker 1: of like a dog lapping up half the food.
Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, yeah, yeah, he is very anti eating
Speaker 2: it like a work pot luck.
Speaker 1: He brought that up, and so.
Speaker 2: Now I'm like, is that why you literally never eat
Speaker 2: anything when I bring baked goods and He's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't trust any of you guys. And I'm like,
Speaker 2: I brought the cookies into him, and I go, if
Speaker 2: you don't eat them, that's fine, you can.
Speaker 1: I won't know if you throw them away. So he
Speaker 1: might have thrown them away whatever. I maybe.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I wouldn't put it past him. No, he really
Speaker 2: doesn't eat anything that we bring.
Speaker 1: It's fair I did. I will say Jenny and I
Speaker 1: we did have our holiday party. Yes, we got Friday.
Speaker 1: It was I keep saying we have had a holiday party,
Speaker 1: but I don't mean it like that, like the movie
Speaker 1: The Holiday.
Speaker 2: So it was a theme.
Speaker 1: Jenny and Tina really went in on the costumes. I
Speaker 1: loved it. We put up a little real on our
Speaker 1: Instagram if you want to check it out. So we
Speaker 1: dressed up as characters from the holiday. We had some
Speaker 1: delicious pasta. Tina made good. People kept asking for the
Speaker 1: sprits recipe and my girl, I don't know what it was.
Speaker 1: It was all Tina stuff. But also she threw a
Speaker 1: mix of literally everything in the sprits, so we'll never
Speaker 1: be able to share the recipe. I don't think.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she forgot like one or two of
Speaker 2: the ingredients at day, so she kind of just made
Speaker 2: it her own and it was delightful.
Speaker 1: It was delightful, and we watched the movie The Holiday,
Speaker 1: We chatted, we gossip, we did all the things.
Speaker 2: And I didn't bring cookies, by the way, myself, I
Speaker 2: didn't contribute as much as Fallin and Tina, I feel,
Speaker 2: but Dolly.
Speaker 1: Ate most of them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she's bitch. Dolly is balanced dog if you've
Speaker 2: never heard us talk about her before, and she is
Speaker 2: called beef for a reason.
Speaker 1: She's a great dog. But her one issue is she's
Speaker 1: like I think, I don't know if it's because she
Speaker 1: was like a puppy mail dog that like was rescued
Speaker 1: and we got her nine months, but like she is
Speaker 1: a counter surfer. There's nothing. I don't even know what
Speaker 1: to do because and so today she had a bunch
Speaker 1: of cookies. Also, I got so mad I put her
Speaker 1: in the bathroom because I was like, I have to
Speaker 1: go to work, Jake's not home. If she pukes everywhere,
Speaker 1: I don't want it on my rugs and on my couch.
Speaker 1: She ate the molding of the bathroom like wall, and
Speaker 1: I even thought, I bet she does that because she
Speaker 1: is a little bitch and surprise, surprise, she did so
Speaker 1: beautiful blessing. It's all we did post up and ask
Speaker 1: us anything, So we're going to jump into a bunch
Speaker 1: of those. We also have a couple of emails, so
Speaker 1: this one is like a question. Email says, first time
Speaker 1: writing into your new ish pod, and I absolutely love
Speaker 1: having you two together. I need advice something that's weighing
Speaker 1: on me heavily. I got married in September of twenty
Speaker 1: twenty two, and I still haven't written my wedding thank you.
Speaker 2: Yes you heard that right.
Speaker 1: There were several reasons in the year after that kept
Speaker 1: me from getting those done, but in the past year
Speaker 1: the only thing keeping me from completing the task was anxiety.
Speaker 1: The longer it took me, the more anxiety I had,
Speaker 1: kind of like doing laundry. It takes me a month
Speaker 1: to put away. I think about the thank yous daily
Speaker 1: and I can't find the words to write that are
Speaker 1: charming enough where people wouldn't be mad receiving a thank
Speaker 1: you note for a wedding they went to over two
Speaker 1: years ago. They'll also be handwritten and personal to an extent,
Speaker 1: because I'm an old fashioned girl and some people gave
Speaker 1: lovely gifts. I planned to add a New Year's card
Speaker 1: in them as well. I feel awful and it eats
Speaker 1: at me constantly, but I have to get them done.
Speaker 1: I just need an opener to put in all the
Speaker 1: notes that will help soften the blow of how crappy
Speaker 1: I am.
Speaker 2: Please help a girl out, Oh man, an opener. Hey,
Speaker 2: you probably thought you were never gonna see this before.
Speaker 2: Like at this point, I don't know, like I just
Speaker 2: I feel like you say something jokingly and then you
Speaker 2: just say thanks for the present. I loved my Ninja
Speaker 2: FOOTI you got me or whatever, which is a really
Speaker 2: good wedding present if someone got you there for Christmas
Speaker 2: or for your wedding.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Chatgybt wrote one for you. Better
Speaker 1: late than never. Comma write question mark as we finally
Speaker 1: sit down to write this in parentheses. Long overdue exclamation point.
Speaker 1: Thank you, kamma. Please know that our gratitude has been
Speaker 1: with us since the very beginning, just waiting to make
Speaker 1: it onto paper.
Speaker 2: There you go, there go, there's always enough. Go to
Speaker 2: chat Gybt for all your answers.
Speaker 1: Also, I do hope that you are having your partner
Speaker 1: sit down and write half of those with you, because
Speaker 1: that is not a bride job. That is a couple job. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I divvated up. I said, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: I was like, here's your stack, Jake for your family,
Speaker 1: and I'll do my family. There you go. And Jake's
Speaker 1: were probably much more legible, and because I have terrible
Speaker 1: handwriting does and really were probably more thoughtful. Honestly, mine
Speaker 1: were like thanks for the cash, it'll go to great use,
Speaker 1: Love you Fallon and Jake, or like thanks for coming
Speaker 1: to our big day smooches. Or you could just do
Speaker 1: a generic one, like if you're doing a New Year's
Speaker 1: card on mented like people do Christmas cards, write that
Speaker 1: note and then just sign it and send her off.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It could be as simple as that, and say but
Speaker 1: she said she's old fashioned and she wants to do
Speaker 1: handwritten I'm all about efficiency, but you need too, Yes, exactly, Okay,
Speaker 1: And then we got one more email says, hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: I'm thirty seven from Minneapolis. I grew up listening to
Speaker 1: the morning show, and I love the chemistry you too
Speaker 1: brought to the show. The past summer, I discovered your
Speaker 1: podcast and went on a deep dive. I want to
Speaker 1: thank you too for doing this podcast because it feels
Speaker 1: like I'm hanging out with my girlfriends and always makes
Speaker 1: me laugh. I think you bring a lot of joy
Speaker 1: to a lot of people. Thanks. I spent the last
Speaker 1: year of my life in an incredibly toxic work environment.
Speaker 1: I'm talking restraining orders and some other dark things that happened.
Speaker 1: I was, however, too scared to quit. Last week, I
Speaker 1: listened to the episodes where you caught up with Tina
Speaker 1: and Steve, and I just felt like there were so
Speaker 1: many other opportunities out there. And then I got fired
Speaker 1: from that job, so I guess the universe wanted me
Speaker 1: to get the hell out of there finally. Anyways, I
Speaker 1: was offered a new job that I'm very excited about
Speaker 1: just five days after being fired. I'm going from the
Speaker 1: service industry to a day job. I was hoping you
Speaker 1: two could offer me some advice about working a day job,
Speaker 1: and most importantly, if you have any clothing recommendations. I
Speaker 1: need to go shopping and I'm not sure where to start.
Speaker 1: Thank you to so much for being so funny and awesome.
Speaker 1: I've done the jump, obviously, from service industry. Say better
Speaker 1: than me. This is all I'll say, because I am
Speaker 1: a chatty girl.
Speaker 2: Is it was really hard for me to go work
Speaker 2: in marketing like nine to five, from like being a
Speaker 2: server talking to people, like working with your friends and
Speaker 2: then talking to customers and stuff that we're coming in.
Speaker 1: So that was a little bit difficult for me.
Speaker 2: But outside of that, the consistent schedule was wonderful, and
Speaker 2: I feel like my life became much more orderly once
Speaker 2: I got out of the service industry. So I don't
Speaker 2: know that I have necessarily advice. I think you're just
Speaker 2: going to learn what you like and dislike about it,
Speaker 2: because it's one of the biggest perks that the service
Speaker 2: industry is the flexibility you can take off for two
Speaker 2: weeks if you want a lot of times. Can't really
Speaker 2: do that in an office job. You're usually required Monday
Speaker 2: through Friday to be there. But clothes wise, gosh, I
Speaker 2: don't know. I used to shop at H and M
Speaker 2: a lot because it was like reasonably priced.
Speaker 1: Even Target has great stuff that's like not expensive. I
Speaker 1: think you could easily People always asking me to get stuff,
Speaker 1: and I mean, I old Navy. There are lots of inexpensive,
Speaker 1: really great places. If you want to spend more, you
Speaker 1: can go to like made Well, you can go to Nordstrum.
Speaker 1: But I think you could still find all the things
Speaker 1: you're looking for. Yeah, like the old Navy target, H
Speaker 1: and M. Kind of cheaper places even like your coals
Speaker 1: and stuff are going to have them. But I don't
Speaker 1: have a lot of advice. The only thing I've literally
Speaker 1: worked in the same industry my entire life and the
Speaker 1: only thing I ever hear because radio is a very
Speaker 1: loud atmosphere. People that leave here a lot of time
Speaker 1: are surprised. They're like they're disturbed by how quiet their
Speaker 1: new office setting is. That's like the only difference that
Speaker 1: I've heard of, and that's that's totally different than being
Speaker 1: in the service world. Going to an office setting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know how that's going to be. Jenny's probably
Speaker 1: right because she experienced it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just going to be a matter off. You'll
Speaker 2: learn what you like and dislike. But for me, I
Speaker 2: think it was really good for me to get out
Speaker 2: of the service industry when I did, because it kind
Speaker 2: of forced me to grow up a little bit more.
Speaker 1: But also finding a job five days after being fired
Speaker 1: is unheard of, Like We have so many friends and
Speaker 1: past coworkers that were laid off and still haven't found
Speaker 1: a job or took them like like a full year
Speaker 1: to find a job. So that's exciting. That tells you
Speaker 1: also that if you don't like this job, you'll be
Speaker 1: able to find another way. So yeah, thanks for the emails.
Speaker 1: You can always email us. Obviously, Jenny and I are
Speaker 1: off until the new year after this episode, but we'll
Speaker 1: get back to it in the new year, and we
Speaker 1: have some ask us anything questions.
Speaker 2: Sure do all right? The first one says, ideas for
Speaker 2: celebrating a two year anniversary fell.
Speaker 1: And go ooh, what did you? And Jake, dude, you
Speaker 1: know no, because the first year anniversary was funny because
Speaker 1: we had a baby, and so I think we went
Speaker 1: and got cocktails somewhere and then we're like, we're lame.
Speaker 1: We're like, we missed all of we went home.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was so lame, I would say, And overnight is
Speaker 1: never a bad thing, even in like this city that
Speaker 1: you live in. I like going places like there's the
Speaker 1: Anne Bean Mansion in Stillwater and it's a bed and
Speaker 1: breakfast and they make the most lovely breakfast and still
Speaker 1: water's cute and you're not too far away from things
Speaker 1: that could be fun.
Speaker 2: They have a lot of those.
Speaker 1: I like those, like candlelight orchestra shows they have.
Speaker 2: We did like a Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1: One where it's like a four piece string set and
Speaker 1: they only do like a certain artist songs and it's
Speaker 1: just a bunch of candles and it's really pretty.
Speaker 2: There's always great shows. Maybe do something fun, like a
Speaker 2: make a game out of it, Like you each put
Speaker 2: something into a jar and one's like an activity for
Speaker 2: the morning, the afternoon, in the evening or something, and
Speaker 2: you have to pick out each time. One's your activity
Speaker 2: wants your partners and maybe you'll get lucky in all
Speaker 2: three will be yours and you'll love today. Or maybe
Speaker 2: it'll be your partners and you'll like eh. But regardless,
Speaker 2: you're spending time together and doing something I'm assuming you
Speaker 2: guys somewhat like if it's like someone else's choice, but.
Speaker 1: Maybe a good idea for yeah, more active stuff. You
Speaker 1: could do top golf or can can Wonderland like fun stuff.
Speaker 1: But another thing that I think Jake and I did
Speaker 1: once is like a progressive dinner thing, so like an
Speaker 1: appetizer one place and cocktails, dinner, another place, desert another place,
Speaker 1: so you go like three different places and kind of
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 2: That would be fun too, It could be fun, Okay.
Speaker 2: Next one says advice you'd give to your mid twenties self.
Speaker 2: I'm twenty four and would love advice from you too.
Speaker 1: You're you're gonna, you're gonna be, You're gonna get there. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's if you're comparing your life and career to other
Speaker 1: twenty four year olds who have it all together, know
Speaker 1: that they're in the minority, not you, Like, it's not
Speaker 1: you have so much time. It's twenty four. You feel
Speaker 1: like it's especially like twenty five. Hit me hard for
Speaker 1: some weird reason, you have so much time. Like I
Speaker 1: do yourself a favor and read those like things where
Speaker 1: it's like this person, the super famous person you know,
Speaker 1: didn't have their first invention till they were fifty. This
Speaker 1: super famous person didn't have their first acting role till
Speaker 1: they were forty five. You know what I so, I
Speaker 1: for me, my top advice to my young self would
Speaker 1: be like, girl, it's okay, it's gonna take time. It's
Speaker 1: just like anything else. Time, it's you, it's you. Regret
Speaker 1: not having more time as you get older, right, But
Speaker 1: when you're younger, you're like, I want to speed through time.
Speaker 1: And I think about like I would compare myself to
Speaker 1: other people. And it's even harder now with even more social media.
Speaker 1: But just you'll get there. Just keep working hard, You'll
Speaker 1: get there, whatever the thing is you want to do.
Speaker 2: I was just thinking the other day that I feel
Speaker 2: like in my twenties, I was constantly comparing to friends
Speaker 2: who were either further along in their career or like
Speaker 2: making much more money, or in a relationship or something like.
Speaker 2: It was a constant comparison of my life to everyone else's.
Speaker 2: And I'm at a point in my life now at
Speaker 2: thirty four, where, like I really don't look at anyone
Speaker 2: else's life and think that they have that much better
Speaker 2: of a life. Are there some really rich people out
Speaker 2: there who get the like jet off to Europe all
Speaker 2: the time or something that I know? Sure, But like,
Speaker 2: for the most part, I like my life. And so
Speaker 2: I think that like having a little bit of jealousy
Speaker 2: in your twenties isn't a bad thing, but don't let
Speaker 2: it like take over yep. So, like you can be
Speaker 2: a little jealous of someone else being further along in
Speaker 2: some certain way, but don't let it take over, because
Speaker 2: like you're living the path that your life is going
Speaker 2: to take you, and you have to make sure that
Speaker 2: you enjoyed along the way. Because I Fall and I
Speaker 2: are very similar that we were like career people right
Speaker 2: away out of college, and I think there was a
Speaker 2: lot of moments where I didn't stop and smell the flowers,
Speaker 2: like not to be corny, but I didn't. I was
Speaker 2: just like, well, what's next, what's next? And some of
Speaker 2: that is great to have that ambition, but sometimes you
Speaker 2: miss something that's right in front of you that's amazing
Speaker 2: right now. Yes, So, okay, do you guys get recognized
Speaker 2: in public often and how do you handle it? It
Speaker 2: seems overwhelming? I mean we do, but I wouldn't say
Speaker 2: it's like everywhere we go. Pallin probably a little bit
Speaker 2: more than me, especially now that you're on the adjacent
Speaker 2: show too, or does that has that not changed much
Speaker 2: that a little bit little? Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 2: Find it overwhelming and it doesn't bug me if you
Speaker 2: come up and say hi. The only time I pretty
Speaker 2: much say please let me be is at the gym.
Speaker 2: I just really want to get through my workout and
Speaker 2: get the fuck out of the gym. I yeah, just
Speaker 2: that's like the mindset I have. It's not because I
Speaker 2: don't want to talk. I just like already don't want
Speaker 2: to be there, I don't want to get done yet
Speaker 2: the workout same.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's I don't find it overwhelming. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not like I go out and there's like a
Speaker 1: mass like I'm not as you know what. We're not
Speaker 1: like Harry Styles. People don't mob us. We're fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Okay, I don't know if I should have
Speaker 2: a kid with my amazing husband. The world is scary,
Speaker 2: thoughts question Mark, you're the one who's a parent, So woman,
Speaker 2: I'll let you leave this.
Speaker 1: Well, I know, but that's Is it just because the
Speaker 1: world is scary? Yeah, I don't know. Or is it
Speaker 1: because you don't want kids? I think those are very
Speaker 1: different things.
Speaker 2: I mean, clearly she loves her husband, because she says
Speaker 2: my amazing husband.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but a lot of people you love Andrew, that
Speaker 1: doesn't make you want kids.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So still up in there for myself. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm on the same page as you saying like, yeah,
Speaker 2: like there's thoughts of me wanting to have kids, but
Speaker 2: there's so many things in the world that are like
Speaker 2: unknown for me that I'm unsure about.
Speaker 1: I think anytime you live your life based in fears
Speaker 1: of unknown, you're not living your life. And so I
Speaker 1: think it's a huge life choice. So I can't tell
Speaker 1: you do it you won't regret it, because I don't
Speaker 1: know you and I don't have very minimal details. I
Speaker 1: think if it truly is just based on the world
Speaker 1: being a scary place, I would not not have a
Speaker 1: kid because of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1: You'll get older and we'll all still be here, hopefully,
Speaker 1: and it'll be fine, but different, just like the world
Speaker 1: is right, and you might be like, why did I
Speaker 1: let the idea of the world going up in flames
Speaker 1: keep me from doing something beautiful with my partner? If
Speaker 1: that's really what you want. But if you don't really
Speaker 1: want kids, then that's a whole different topic. But based
Speaker 1: on just like the world and I don't think, I don't.
Speaker 2: Know, I would not not have kids just based off
Speaker 2: of me be nervous about something happening in the world. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's more of like do I want them?
Speaker 1: Do I not want them? Yeah, that's mine.
Speaker 2: Okay. Next one says honest reviews of botox, anything that
Speaker 2: surprised you or you wish you knew. Well, Polan knows, I,
Speaker 2: uh fainted the first time I got botox. That, yeah,
Speaker 2: is a that is I didn't have that experience. Yeah,
Speaker 2: this is what I would say, things that I wish
Speaker 2: I would have known. You can get numbing cream and
Speaker 2: it does change the feeling. I just think this is
Speaker 2: what I think though, the first time you ever get
Speaker 2: it done, I think is like at a hundred of like,
Speaker 2: it feels weird, it's unique, it's whatever, and then going
Speaker 2: on after that, it's almost like it's nothing. But like, truthfully,
Speaker 2: I felt like I could feel it being injected into
Speaker 2: my face. And then I feel like ever since that
Speaker 2: first time, it's not the same. It's like, okay, I
Speaker 2: barely feel it even if I get the numbing cream
Speaker 2: or not. And I didn't do the numbing cream for
Speaker 2: a couple of years, But yeah, I fainted the first
Speaker 2: time because it was it messed with me, like they're
Speaker 2: putting needles into your head that's like right by your brain.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I just think that you should ask for
Speaker 2: numbing cream, and if you're anxious have like a stress ball.
Speaker 2: Usually they have a stress ball there.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Have you only got it done once?
Speaker 2: Twice?
Speaker 1: Twice? Okay? But I they didn't Eve bring up numbing cream.
Speaker 1: We just have a little ice pack. I put it
Speaker 1: on the spot before she injects it. I mean, I
Speaker 1: feel it a little bit, but it just doesn't really.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, it didn't bother me that much.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I felt it. She said that
Speaker 1: I would feel like some like after I first got in,
Speaker 1: and she's like, you might feel like some pressure on
Speaker 1: like your forehead or whatever. And I think I did.
Speaker 1: But I wondered if I thought I felt it because
Speaker 1: she said I would, or if I really did. And
Speaker 1: the second time I didn't feel it at all.
Speaker 2: You do usually get a headache though, within like the
Speaker 2: first week. But maybe honestly, I feel like I probably
Speaker 2: get more done than you do. So it might be
Speaker 2: a level of how many units.
Speaker 1: Maybe I get like the least amount. Yeah, I get
Speaker 1: such a small amount. Yeah, No, I think you probably
Speaker 1: get less than me because your girl has had elevens
Speaker 1: and wrinkles in her forehead since she was like twenty two.
Speaker 1: I look back at college photos and I'm like, wow,
Speaker 1: I really was like rocking eleven's already back when I
Speaker 1: was twenty two years old. Okay, next one says share
Speaker 1: the freaky.
Speaker 2: That's all.
Speaker 1: It says, share the freaky? Okay, what do you want
Speaker 1: to share a key? I have nothing good to share lately.
Speaker 1: I'm boring lately, although I will say I've been really
Speaker 1: just overly thinking of the girl that had sex with
Speaker 1: a hundred guys in one day. Who wants to have
Speaker 1: sex with a thousand? Yeah, and you tell me you
Speaker 1: guys talked about on the morning shot and hear that,
Speaker 1: But I just think about after, like like okay, like
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend, you know, like the first boyfriend
Speaker 1: I had, and we're just having sex all the time
Speaker 1: because I'm like, oh my god, I had sex finally,
Speaker 1: and we'd have sex like I was in college, like
Speaker 1: five times a day, and just how it didn't feel great, No,
Speaker 1: felt like she'd been rubbed raw, and like it was
Speaker 1: just not even a great feeling anymore. Yeah, No, I don't.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. I just can't imagine. It's done a
Speaker 1: slugshaming thing. I physically cannot imagine a hundred, much less
Speaker 1: one thousand dongs going in and out just can't do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the only thing I will say is
Speaker 2: if you're in well, actually it doesn't have to be
Speaker 2: just a heterosexual relationship. It could be in multiple different
Speaker 2: kinds or jeez as well.
Speaker 1: If you where are we going right now? I know
Speaker 1: I'm not really sure going.
Speaker 2: I would highly suggest riding someone's face like they're laying
Speaker 2: it on the bed and you're riding on top of them.
Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna say. Does that recently it happens
Speaker 2: kind of like a little bit more in my relationship, Yes,
Speaker 2: and it's the best.
Speaker 1: So you are never divided or do you just go?
Speaker 1: Are you just like literally he'll be laying there like
Speaker 1: he's ready to go to bed.
Speaker 2: Oh No, it's not just like it's not just immediately on, No,
Speaker 2: you're vadge on his face. No, it's usually like we're
Speaker 2: in the heat of the moment of things and we've
Speaker 2: switched positions a little bit and the next thing I know,
Speaker 2: he's like pulling me up versus like.
Speaker 1: I'm down below. Gun. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So okay, we got really drunk at a ski trip
Speaker 2: once and like it got really like pornoe. Yeah, with
Speaker 2: that move, and then ever since then, he like wants
Speaker 2: me to.
Speaker 1: Do that all the time. Yeah, because you probably were
Speaker 1: like so into it in surprise, and he was like, fuck, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so good at this. So anyways, ride people's faces. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't ride Jake's face enough, she said, Okay, I'll
Speaker 1: get into that. Do more to get in okay. And
Speaker 1: someone says, when are you two gonna get back together?
Speaker 1: On the radio?
Speaker 2: I miss you together. We miss each other too.
Speaker 1: One day. I do think I do genuinely have dreams
Speaker 1: to be reunited with Jenny one day.
Speaker 2: I have dreams to be reunited with Fallan in the bedroom,
Speaker 2: but not on the radios.
Speaker 1: Different dreams, but not on the radio. What the fuck? Jenny?
Speaker 2: Career wise, I could know, I'm just gonna ever take Yeah,
Speaker 2: we'll see. Maybe someday we would love to.
Speaker 1: But realistically that's so far out of an ever being
Speaker 1: in the realm of possibilities unfortunately.
Speaker 2: Sorry. Yeah, okay, let's see as public figures. How do
Speaker 2: you decide what to share about your life versus keeping private?
Speaker 1: A great question, I mean, there, I think you just
Speaker 1: know if something's like hard, like you you know, like
Speaker 1: you have certain things that happen in your life that
Speaker 1: you'll only share with a couple of people. Those things
Speaker 1: would I would never share on the radio. They're too personal,
Speaker 1: they're too intimate. And then there are still some things
Speaker 1: out of respect for other people I wouldn't share, Like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind sharing it, but I also know that
Speaker 1: that person might not want me to share it, so
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, there's probably like full chapters of my
Speaker 2: life I've never talked about on the radio, and still
Speaker 2: to this day. I mean, for instance, a recent thing
Speaker 2: was when I was dealing with some lymph nodes in
Speaker 2: my neck and I had to get a biopsy done
Speaker 2: and stuff, and I was dealing with that for like
Speaker 2: a month of just appointments, and I didn't want to
Speaker 2: share that on the radio until I knew what was
Speaker 2: going on, because truth be told, people will text in
Speaker 2: or DM horror stories, and I didn't want to get
Speaker 2: in my head about an already stressful situation. So once
Speaker 2: I got the clear that luckily everything was benign with
Speaker 2: my stuff, I was like, Okay, I'll talk about this
Speaker 2: now because I know I'm in the clear. But I
Speaker 2: wasn't going to talk about it until I got to
Speaker 2: that point, and then if it wasn't going to be,
Speaker 2: if it didn't come out the way it did and
Speaker 2: it was like a bad result. I don't know at
Speaker 2: what point I would have talked about that either, because
Speaker 2: then I would have had a deal with like the
Speaker 2: emotional rollercoaster going on in my head, and I was
Speaker 2: I'm not always prepared to bring that to the radio yet.
Speaker 2: So that was kind of like saying, like, I didn't
Speaker 2: talk about the fact that I was marrying Jake at all.
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, you just got married one day.
Speaker 2: And I remember I used to get blowouts all the time,
Speaker 2: so I would post about getting a blowout, and that
Speaker 2: day I one got a blowout, and like one or
Speaker 2: two people were like, you're getting a blow out for
Speaker 2: Paln's wedding. Like people were like they knew something was up,
Speaker 2: but I took that. I was yeah, and I was like,
Speaker 2: I mean I didn't respond to them. So, Okay, how
Speaker 2: do you find joy in fitness slash working out? We don't,
Speaker 2: we find no joy.
Speaker 1: I don't. Honestly, I am in such a bad spiral
Speaker 1: right now of not. Jenny said she's found like a
Speaker 1: good flow right now now. Yeah, I am in an
Speaker 1: off pattern. I think it's because it's the end of
Speaker 1: the year. I think literally as soon as January hits,
Speaker 1: I'll be back into it.
Speaker 2: It really is about.
Speaker 1: Finding something you like, and I honestly think like setting
Speaker 1: very very short time amount goals. I don't know what
Speaker 1: it is, but when I go in and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I send it for like an hour class, it is
Speaker 1: a mental thing if I would rather sign it for
Speaker 1: a twenty or thirty minute thing. Now granted pilates is
Speaker 1: like fifty minutes, so it basically is. But I also
Speaker 1: know I'm not going to be on my deathbed at
Speaker 1: the end of it, so that helps it be easier
Speaker 1: for me and what I mean. But that's like when
Speaker 1: I used to do like a Warrior sculpt, I knew
Speaker 1: I was on my deathbed at the end of that hour,
Speaker 1: and so I dreaded it. But I think like people
Speaker 1: like New Peloton and stuff, do like a twenty minute
Speaker 1: ride and then if you still are like, you know
Speaker 1: what I could do more, maybe then you add on
Speaker 1: like a strength training thing or something. But I think
Speaker 1: it's just like we go into the new year or
Speaker 1: set goals and we do all the goals at once
Speaker 1: and then it seems so. But I don't know how
Speaker 1: to stay motivated. Man, I can stay motivated for a
Speaker 1: minute and then I'm I think it's just normal to
Speaker 1: not stay consistently motivated.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that people are lying if they say
Speaker 2: that they find a ton of joy in working out.
Speaker 2: I think that working out can bring aspects of joy.
Speaker 2: But like, I don't wake up thinking, yes, I want
Speaker 2: to go to the gym today. I think this is
Speaker 2: part of my routine and I know I'm going to
Speaker 2: feel better after I get it done, and that's what
Speaker 2: motivates me. And I think that Like also, you know,
Speaker 2: everyone's affected differently mentally, and I do think that because
Speaker 2: I struggle with mental health issues, working out is one
Speaker 2: thing that really affects me in a positive way, probably
Speaker 2: more so than other people who might not deal with
Speaker 2: mental health issues. So I think that that's like a
Speaker 2: huge motivational factor for me, as I know I'm going
Speaker 2: to feel better mentally after working out.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's your death row slash last meal list, app entree,
Speaker 2: dessert and drink. Okay, my app is going to be
Speaker 2: nachos Okay, because it would have been like a Chips
Speaker 2: and sauce. But I was like, you know what, why
Speaker 2: not just have everything full nachos entree?
Speaker 1: Yeah, where are you going? It's not going to be
Speaker 1: it's it's not gonna be like steak or some of that.
Speaker 1: And I don't even think it's going to be pasta,
Speaker 1: which I like pasta. I think it would probably be
Speaker 1: like a like the best cheeseburger, okay, because I.
Speaker 2: Just I had a great choice. Yeah, I just like
Speaker 2: I love cheeseburgers.
Speaker 1: I thought about tacos for a second, but I already
Speaker 1: did NA chose and it was the rest of it.
Speaker 2: Dessert and drink diet.
Speaker 1: Coke, actually regular coke because I'm dying, yeah, which die
Speaker 1: coke is killing me, So maybe I don't know. I
Speaker 1: actually look at that differently. I'm just gonna be regular
Speaker 1: coke and I am also going to have for my dessert.
Speaker 2: God, this is a tear.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I want a lot of desserts. I'm a big sweets girl.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with the like a sticky toffee cake. O,
Speaker 1: great choice, thank you? What about you?
Speaker 2: Okay? App is going to be cheese curds. You know,
Speaker 2: Wisconsin through and Through, beautiful entre is gonna be probably
Speaker 2: king crab legs that are already cracked open. I have
Speaker 2: to do barely any work myself outsides putting it absolutely
Speaker 2: all the butter, like a gallon of butter to go
Speaker 2: with it. The dessert's gonna be cheesecake, just your basic
Speaker 2: playing like a New York cheesecake and drink. Ah. I'm
Speaker 2: probably gonna have to just like down the nicest like
Speaker 2: barrel age, some kind of liquor. Oh, because I want
Speaker 2: to feeld mom at that point, as I'm about to
Speaker 2: go off into my death, you know, I might as
Speaker 2: well just like feel a buzz and hopefully feel a
Speaker 2: little bit better right before it's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to see you later.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, if you could do any other job beside radio,
Speaker 2: what would it be?
Speaker 1: I can't, okay know you because I a fan head
Speaker 1: answer for this point.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, go ahead. I would like to be some
Speaker 2: kind of hiking guide or something in a national park.
Speaker 2: I would want something outdoorsy that I'm really skilled in,
Speaker 2: or maybe like a whitewater rafting instructor, which I've never
Speaker 2: done that in my life, or maybe a snowboarding instructor.
Speaker 2: Just something out doorsy that's still involved with like communicating
Speaker 2: people with people and like sharing a passion of mine
Speaker 2: which is just you know, seeing nature.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think just painting maybe, like you know, be
Speaker 1: able to expand and learn more and just go travel
Speaker 1: places where I can like paint what I see. That
Speaker 1: would be nice. Nice.
Speaker 2: We listen and we don't judge story. I already read
Speaker 2: this one last night, and so I like the house
Speaker 2: idea of God.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think you.
Speaker 2: Know the story already, so you might know, but those
Speaker 2: listening probably haven't heard this. So I'll just start so
Speaker 2: you can think of one. So when I was big
Speaker 2: into kickball, one weekend it was playoffs, and the night
Speaker 2: before I had gone to a concert. I had drink
Speaker 2: a lot, and so I was pretty hungover at playoffs
Speaker 2: the next day. And playoffs usually there was one porta
Speaker 2: potty for everyone there and there's like twenty teams. I
Speaker 2: go to use the bathroom, thinking it was just like
Speaker 2: a Pean situation. I pooped a lot, like I'll like
Speaker 2: just a lava flow came out explosion, and there was
Speaker 2: no toilet paper. So I'm looking around in peer panic,
Speaker 2: knowing there's people waiting outside to use the porta potty
Speaker 2: because everyone's drinking it needs to peep and I don't
Speaker 2: know what to do, so I shimming my leggings back up.
Speaker 2: I run to my car in the mix of like
Speaker 2: a five minute break between games that we had, and
Speaker 2: luckily I had wet ones in my card. I clean
Speaker 2: myself up as if I was like a baby, wiping
Speaker 2: my own ass yep, and cleaning my diaper.
Speaker 1: Thank god you had wipes. I don't have those laks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I have a kid.
Speaker 2: And I was doing that in like the backseat of
Speaker 2: my car, hoping nobody was walking past, like ass in
Speaker 2: the air, trying to like clean myself up because I
Speaker 2: had multiple games to play.
Speaker 1: Still.
Speaker 2: It was early in the morning, and our team was
Speaker 2: a champion team, so we played through and through to
Speaker 2: the end, and.
Speaker 1: I felt so disgusting. Yeah, so anyways, we listen and
Speaker 1: we don't judge. God, I'm trying to think of one
Speaker 1: that doesn't involve any poop and or pean so we
Speaker 1: don't like so we don't both do one of those.
Speaker 1: I mean, this one has come to me just because
Speaker 1: it just happened again. I went to a dinner at
Speaker 1: a woman's house who was very fancy, and I made
Speaker 1: a bunt cake. And this is not exaggeration. Dolly ate
Speaker 1: half of it. But I was in charge of the dessert,
Speaker 1: so I cut off just the ends of the bunt
Speaker 1: cake and then sliced the half that was left into
Speaker 1: slices and fed it to the full family. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you are so funny. I don't we listen. We don't judge, okay,
Speaker 1: but I think if that person knew that the dog
Speaker 1: had eaten, I didn't know what to do. I literally
Speaker 1: I think that she only did touch the that she ate.
Speaker 2: Right, you keep telling yourself that, We'll keep telling I
Speaker 2: hate too.
Speaker 1: But it's my dog, so it's different. There might have
Speaker 1: been some tongues on there. I don't know, that's the truth.
Speaker 1: There might have been some tongues on there. How much
Speaker 1: time do we have because we're at thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's just do a couple more and then we
Speaker 2: can do a lot more when we get back in
Speaker 2: the new year, because we have by the way, you say,
Speaker 2: we got so many questions, and I want to get
Speaker 2: to everyone. So I don't want you to think that
Speaker 2: we're picking and choosing. We just have so many questions,
Speaker 2: What is something you're looking forward to in twenty twenty five? Ooh,
Speaker 2: Google first, Jenny, Mine would definitely be whatever adventure the
Speaker 2: camper van takes us on, because we've only really gone
Speaker 2: out for one big trip with her so far, and
Speaker 2: I don't know what's next, and we'll see and we'll
Speaker 2: probably be working on the van and adding like additional
Speaker 2: things to it too, So I'm looking forward to like
Speaker 2: the project.
Speaker 1: Of the van too. I excuse me, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's had something in my head and now it's gone.
Speaker 1: Oh Colton, I joke that we we're going to get
Speaker 1: ABS in twenty twenty five. Yeah, girl, that's not happening.
Speaker 1: I don't really care about that. But Cole always said
Speaker 1: his motto is like when I get ABS, it's over
Speaker 1: for everyone else, like in every aspect of life, not
Speaker 1: just like physically, yeah, like everything his career, He'll art.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I have some hopes and dreams for
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five that I don't really want to share.
Speaker 2: I guess yet.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like they're you know
Speaker 1: how like I don't want to say things until, like unless.
Speaker 2: They actually were to happen. I move in silence and
Speaker 2: move in silence. That's what I am in art. I'm silent,
Speaker 2: but like God, I feel like that's how I am
Speaker 2: a lot of times with big things in my life now,
Speaker 2: Like Fallen was one of the only people who knew
Speaker 2: I was trying to put together travel website and stuff
Speaker 2: like that. So and Jenny knows my thing that I'm
Speaker 2: talking about, but it would Yeah, I think I don't
Speaker 2: like to say because then if it doesn't happen, I
Speaker 2: feel like I not didn't just let myself down, I'll
Speaker 2: let other people down.
Speaker 1: It's not a good feeling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. This one was any New Year's resident
Speaker 2: you care to share. I'm not really a resolution person.
Speaker 2: I'm more of a like goal take it by the
Speaker 2: month type of gal and see what I can accomplish
Speaker 2: and then see what I need to, like probably make
Speaker 2: my goal the next month to do I want to
Speaker 2: plump up my savings a little bit more, and you're
Speaker 2: going to score an ass that shows are ass. Jake
Speaker 2: and I we like allocate like a large chunk each
Speaker 2: month to go into our investment accounts, but I like
Speaker 2: to have like a little stack of cash available in
Speaker 2: case I need it, right because your investments. You can
Speaker 2: pull money, but it may take like a week. Right,
Speaker 2: So we have a big chunk, but I would like
Speaker 2: that chunk to grow, and like, so I want to
Speaker 2: be more in the first quarter, more chill about our spending.
Speaker 2: And I just mean, like, I'm not going super strict
Speaker 2: because Colt made a joke of like, you need to
Speaker 2: cut back your salads and blah blah blah and things
Speaker 2: like that I buy before the show.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to do that. And the reason
Speaker 1: why is I work two jobs. I am not going
Speaker 1: to penny pinch. Yeah, I'm going to still live like
Speaker 1: a comfortable existence. That's why I work very hard. However,
Speaker 1: I could easily pull back on a lot of things.
Speaker 1: No quick Amazon buys, no buying all of a dress
Speaker 1: at Target just because Jake and I don't need to
Speaker 1: go out to dinner like for a couple months. We're fine.
Speaker 1: So I would like to start off my year by
Speaker 1: being more intentional with my savings. I like that one.
Speaker 2: Okay, let's just do this last one because I think
Speaker 2: it's kind of Christmasy related. What's your favorite white lights
Speaker 2: are colored? And why are all blue ones so annoying?
Speaker 1: That's a hot take from them.
Speaker 2: White lights are colored when it comes I'm assuming they're
Speaker 2: talking about Christmas lights.
Speaker 1: Well, on a tree, I like white, but on the
Speaker 1: outside of a house, I like color. And Jake and
Speaker 1: I both decided we like the red, green and yellow
Speaker 1: pattern I think is what we've seen recently on some houses.
Speaker 1: Agreed like, I don't need the blue my favorite color
Speaker 1: overall cold. And I just did this on our show.
Speaker 1: He did, what your personality is based on your favorite
Speaker 1: Christmas color? Light? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Maybe?
Speaker 1: Laughed so hard because it's just he's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: But I chose.
Speaker 1: I chose green. Yeah, okay, nice, No way, I chose red.
Speaker 1: He chose green. Green is my favorite color. But I
Speaker 1: chose the red Christmas light. Go ahead. Sorry.
Speaker 2: If I had to pick, I'd go white lights. I'm
Speaker 2: a basic girl who likes simplicity. And then you can
Speaker 2: jug it up somehow with.
Speaker 1: Other things that would be what I do.
Speaker 2: So, okay, we have so many more that we can
Speaker 2: get back to when we come back for the New Year,
Speaker 2: which I don't even know how you're spending New Years.
Speaker 1: Do you have any plans? We have been on New
Speaker 1: Year's Eve the past couple of years. We go to
Speaker 1: dinner with Jake's siblings. So we're just going to do
Speaker 1: like a six thirty pm dinner. Yeah, And realistically, I
Speaker 1: do not know that Jake and I will be awake
Speaker 1: at midnight.
Speaker 2: What about you, I had no idea yet. We are
Speaker 2: working on getting a diesel heater installed in our van
Speaker 2: this week and we are diy in it. So either
Speaker 2: we're going to blow up the van or we're going
Speaker 2: to be living in heat while we travel somewhere in
Speaker 2: the van. This break coming up. So I love that.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: Fifty to fifty.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not really sure.
Speaker 2: I'm either going up to Mount Bohemia to snowboard, which
Speaker 2: Andrew told me that it's a big sausage fest up there,
Speaker 2: so it'll be really fun and we might do that,
Speaker 2: or we might just start driving south and go wherever
Speaker 2: the road takes us. Literally, we have zero plan right now.
Speaker 1: That's fun. I like that. That's a fun adventure. Very
Speaker 1: excited for it. Well, Jenny, I love you, Happy too, Christmas,
Speaker 1: Happy New Year, and same goes to you. Thank you
Speaker 1: for hanging out with us this year, Yes, thank you.
Speaker 1: Looking forward to twenty twenty five with you all so exciting.