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dot nete dot net. Enjoy your exploration when it's extremely
difficult to make up your mind. I mean, having that
power of choice can actually weaken a person's heart. On
this episode, we're going to explore our choice to p
or not to p Why do some people wait so long?
Plus the choice to spell poorly. It's become amazingly acceptable
to throw a bunch of words together and expect others
to understand what you're trying to say. My name is Arrow.
Life is a series of choices. I mean, who decides
when you're not making the right choice? And is it
a fear of going wrong? The greatest lessons in life
are often lost inside hidden away attempts and concepts. Well,
it's time to reopen your heart. Having that power of
choice is your daily gift. On this highway, we're going
to learn how to trust mirages. What is the choice?
How about making that choice to pee or not to pee? Seriously,
why do people wait so long before officially deciding to
let it all out? The answer to this is it
as easy as one, two, and three. It's a mix
of biology, psychology, and social conditioning. The report clearly states
that it isn't just stubbornness, it's a human trying to
learn the fine art of managing self control. What. Yeah,
the brain is in charge, not the bladder. The early
signs are signals, but not commands. The brain decides if
it's something it wants to deal with. Let's not forget
about why people back out on pein well, they're too busy.
They're focused on other issues and totally engage in other activities.
Only the brain can silence your need to pee, but
only temporarily. But what happens if you continue to hold
off on peen well, your bladder is going to stretch
and your brain recalibrates. The truth is the human has
learned to override its body, putting schedules and expectations ahead
of all other things. Long term comfort doesn't seem to
be an issue. It's still something you don't want to
mess around with. So always, no matter what your decision is,
update your doctor and just see if you're on the
same page or near the same toilet. How about that, hey,
coming up next? Why do we make the choice to
accept bad spelling? Hey? Thanks for coming back to the choice.
Why do we make this so called choice to accept
other people's bad spelling? How do others perceive us when
we do it? Wow? How far back can we go
on this one without pointing fingers at your elementary school teacher?
I mean, spelling poorly is the thing. The decision to
accept bad spelling is deliberate and deals with practical, psychological,
and cultural reasons. This generation is locked in on immediacy, texting,
social media, and other chat apps. Our brains are saying,
ah uh, just get it out. I don't want to
think about it anymore. I don't care if there's misspelled words.
So we do. We quickly shove things into that digital device.
We are depending way too much on autocorrect and predictive
text when we use the digital tools. The idea of
making the choice to spell correctly falls to the side.
Informality is actually our new norm. How we write today
is conventional versus formal. It is complete to totally focus
in on emotions, urgency, and storytelling without having to worry
about to spell that word correctly. Bad spelling doesn't reflect intelligence,
but it will mess up with other people's perception of you.
I've broken this bad habit of spelling how by getting
off the digital device. I physically use writing instruments, except
I don't use a ballpoint pin. I put a little
bit more effort and reward into it by dipping the
nib of my writing instrument into an equell, coming over
to the page and writing the old old fashion way.
And when I come across a word that I don't
know how to spell, you look it up. That's mister
Barone speaking to my heart, my fifth grade science teacher.
Look it up. It really is a choice. I'm Errow,
and that's what I was writing while the sun was
waking up on a brilliant new day.