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Speaker 1: There's always something going on on arrow dot nete dot net.

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We salute our US men and women who are serving

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in the military. Plus. Other podcasts include a foodies channel

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talking to the greatest chefs around the world, and what's

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this podcashing We physically talk with other podcasters. You mean

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there's not a wall of conceit or hey, this is

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mind standing around not in the world of podcasting Arrow

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dot nete dot net. Enjoy your exploration when it's extremely

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difficult to make up your mind. I mean, having that

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power of choice can actually weaken a person's heart. On

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this episode, we're going to explore our choice to p

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or not to p Why do some people wait so long?

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Plus the choice to spell poorly. It's become amazingly acceptable

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to throw a bunch of words together and expect others

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to understand what you're trying to say. My name is Arrow.

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Life is a series of choices. I mean, who decides

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when you're not making the right choice? And is it

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a fear of going wrong? The greatest lessons in life

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are often lost inside hidden away attempts and concepts. Well,

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it's time to reopen your heart. Having that power of

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choice is your daily gift. On this highway, we're going

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to learn how to trust mirages. What is the choice?

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How about making that choice to pee or not to pee? Seriously,

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why do people wait so long before officially deciding to

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let it all out? The answer to this is it

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as easy as one, two, and three. It's a mix

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of biology, psychology, and social conditioning. The report clearly states

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that it isn't just stubbornness, it's a human trying to

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learn the fine art of managing self control. What. Yeah,

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the brain is in charge, not the bladder. The early

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signs are signals, but not commands. The brain decides if

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it's something it wants to deal with. Let's not forget

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about why people back out on pein well, they're too busy.

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They're focused on other issues and totally engage in other activities.

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Only the brain can silence your need to pee, but

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only temporarily. But what happens if you continue to hold

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off on peen well, your bladder is going to stretch

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and your brain recalibrates. The truth is the human has

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learned to override its body, putting schedules and expectations ahead

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of all other things. Long term comfort doesn't seem to

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be an issue. It's still something you don't want to

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mess around with. So always, no matter what your decision is,

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update your doctor and just see if you're on the

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same page or near the same toilet. How about that, hey,

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coming up next? Why do we make the choice to

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accept bad spelling? Hey? Thanks for coming back to the choice.

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Why do we make this so called choice to accept

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other people's bad spelling? How do others perceive us when

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we do it? Wow? How far back can we go

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on this one without pointing fingers at your elementary school teacher?

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I mean, spelling poorly is the thing. The decision to

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accept bad spelling is deliberate and deals with practical, psychological,

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and cultural reasons. This generation is locked in on immediacy, texting,

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social media, and other chat apps. Our brains are saying,

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ah uh, just get it out. I don't want to

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think about it anymore. I don't care if there's misspelled words.

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So we do. We quickly shove things into that digital device.

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We are depending way too much on autocorrect and predictive

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text when we use the digital tools. The idea of

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making the choice to spell correctly falls to the side.

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Informality is actually our new norm. How we write today

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is conventional versus formal. It is complete to totally focus

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in on emotions, urgency, and storytelling without having to worry

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about to spell that word correctly. Bad spelling doesn't reflect intelligence,

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but it will mess up with other people's perception of you.

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I've broken this bad habit of spelling how by getting

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off the digital device. I physically use writing instruments, except

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I don't use a ballpoint pin. I put a little

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bit more effort and reward into it by dipping the

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nib of my writing instrument into an equell, coming over

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to the page and writing the old old fashion way.

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And when I come across a word that I don't

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know how to spell, you look it up. That's mister

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Barone speaking to my heart, my fifth grade science teacher.

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Look it up. It really is a choice. I'm Errow,

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and that's what I was writing while the sun was

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waking up on a brilliant new day.