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Speaker 1: I made a decision pace Sunny Sunny on ahead a vision.

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Speaker 2: It's nice.

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Speaker 1: What's up everybody? Welcome to for crying out loud, it's

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our last show. Well next next week we have lb

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uh huh with us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, and then shoot, keep talking.

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Speaker 1: The holidays are here. Uh excuse me, Sunny is home.

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Finally came home yesterday and uh came home and basically,

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what's this, Stephanie, Oh, we'll.

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Speaker 3: Open them on the air.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's a present from Betsy on the air, like

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we're live. I like the wrapping paper. It's cute.

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Speaker 3: She wraps it in a newspaper.

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Speaker 1: I like that. Yeah, I know. Okay, are we opening

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it now?

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Speaker 3: Hold, I'm going to open it right now.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Betsy, it's adorable. Okay, so cute.

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Speaker 3: I'll let I'll let Lynette open hers. This probably sounds.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, how cute.

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Speaker 1: Mine is a picture of a tree with Phil underneath it,

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with ice cream tacos and a hamburger and a heart

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above his head. How cute is that?

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Speaker 3: I have one with Penelope with a tree and a

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heart and a squirrel and a skunk.

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Speaker 1: That is so cute.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and it's got a little card on the back.

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you so much. This is so he that's

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very thoughtful.

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Speaker 3: Oh you want to hear what my what heard? The

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card says on the box we eat it. Yeah, it

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says beyond the clouds. Oh, no, I'm gonna I'm not

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going to read it because I was at the Rainbow Bridge.

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It's not rainbow Bridge, is it. No, it's a little different.

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That's why you have one. I don't have a No,

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it is rainbow Bridge. Yeah, I'm not going to read Rainbridge. Now,

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it's too sad, sad.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to cry.

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Speaker 2: BET's see.

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Speaker 1: That was so so sack so much. That's so cute.

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Speaker 3: I love O our audience.

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Speaker 1: So I have a painting for you coming. But but

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so do you want to you want to just wait

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until we're back in studio to open it in studio? Yeah?

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Are you sure?

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Speaker 3: It's not going to be that long? Right, it's two

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weeks or we could get together. We can get together

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for Christmas. I want to open it on air, Okay,

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then for show in the New York Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. His name is Robert Phelps p h E. L

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p S. And he's on Instagram and he's an artist

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and he did Molly's pictures and he did one with

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Phil and he I get him to do these paintings

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for people like in my family who had dogs that

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passed away, and he does an amazing job, like insane.

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You have to know your dog. When you look at it,

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you'll see this really looks like my dog. Like it's

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incredible what he does. So, yeah, he's doing it. And

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he was all excited to text me. He's like, it's

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almost done. I'm going to have it shipping out like

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next week, so maybe by the time. Yeah. So yeah,

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you sent me pictures of the work he does, and

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then I started crying.

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Speaker 3: Then I sent you asked me for photographs, and one

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of the photographs that I loved that I didn't use

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because it's not enough of her personality. But it's oh,

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that's so cute picture of her snout on your first

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snout on your phone. Oh no, I put it on.

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I put it as my wallpaper. It's so cute. Yeah,

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we don't deserve the dogs. So you were saying, I'm sorry.

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You were saying, Okay, Italia's home, no sunny.

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Speaker 1: Oh she's coming home Tuesday of next week of this

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you mean like tomorrow. No, yes, she's coming home tomorrow. Okay, yeah,

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today's our last day. And then Sonny got home over

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the weekend, and yeah, I was happy to see Sonny.

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Phil was so happy to see Sonny. So I got

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the house all decorated for Christmas, which was a lot,

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you know. I think I had to go get the

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fresh cut Christmas tree, and then doing the lights on

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the tree is always the I hate. It's the bane

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of my existence. Every year it's like worse because you

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got to think, like you put the plug is it

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the female or the male plug at the top, and

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then you got to which one's going to be at

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the one at the bottom, and all the lights still

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working and all this string's not working, so I'll get

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rid of that one put in another like such a

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pain in the ass. But I got a good sized

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Christmas tree. Then I put the lights, you know, so

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I spent like so I was having a Christmas party

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at my house with a bunch of my ABC girlfriends

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from ABC. Usually it's like four or five of us,

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but this year we we got together some other friend

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of ours that we used to work with, was that's

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not in our small group, reached out and she had

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a brunch. Recently so we saw a couple other girls

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and then we decided Suzanne and I throw the party.

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did it again this year that we would open it

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up to these other couple other girls to make it.

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and so do a white elephant. No, we don't do

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any gifts. We just have like we'd so we did

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last year we did, so this year we did appetizers.

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I did the CHARMUDERI trey the charcooter each a. I

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did like a board sharmuta board. So I did like

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the big with all the meads and then and then

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I did a big thing of fruit and all that.

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And then Suzanne comes up with these Instagram cock to

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holiday cocktails and so she makes big picture of those,

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and then we did this other thing like she found

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on Instagram, Like you get the little Tito's vodka bottles

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and you pour it out, but then you pour you

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bless you, thank you. You mix it with cranberry juice

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you pourt back into the Tito. So it's like a

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little cranberry and vodka cocktail with like a like a

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pretty straw and like some rosemary around the thing and whatever.

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And then in their cocktail glasses they got like candy

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canes hanging out of it. So it was very festive.

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And then so I got the house all decorated. I

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got their stockings out. I want to get one for

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Natalia's roommate who's going to be at our house a lot.

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Oh yeah, I'm going to get one that says her

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name on it personalized. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I know she's going to be there a lot,

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and you know, she says she doesn't she's not very

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close with her family. So got their their stockings hung up.

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Phil of course, like walk, he goes to the Christmas tree.

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I'm standing in my room and I hear gloop loop

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loop loopop, and I'm like, oh, what the fuck is

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He's drinking the water out of the Christmas tree bucket,

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Like what the hell? So then I come out. Then

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then he's like I go and then he gets up

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there because I'm like, no, don't you know, Phil, No?

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like a whole bunch and breaks like a whole bunch

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of ornaments. And then I got to clean it up

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and you know whatever. But then so I had that

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whole like day before of setting up for the party,

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and then and then everybody came to the party and

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it was fun and we all hung out. I got

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like my backyard fixed up. I got a big umbrella

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with like lights. It came with led lights that it

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charges during the day, solar panel lighting, and it was

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really cool. And then they got some furniture out there

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for everybody to sit outside because it was warm over

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the weekend, so people were like outside, you know, going

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in and out. And then we had and then we

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ordered like gourmet pizzas from Pit Fire Pizza and a

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couple salads, and then the food came and said then

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like the karaoke starts, even though I don't have karaoke,

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but the girls are like, we want to do karaoke.

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I'm like, I don't. I can play like Spotify. And

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then everybody starts singing, you know, duets. They're doing duets.

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Now it's like one o'clock and I'm like, when's everybody going.

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I'm tired, Like my eye was just ready.

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Speaker 3: One am is like late.

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Speaker 1: It was late. Yeah. Yeah. These are like not a bar,

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I know, but they're loving moms. Good, you're good. They

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never get out, like barely ever, so they're like, you know,

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they got the kids are covered and they don't have

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to get up in the morning, so they're like they're

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they're ubering it. How young are these women? They are

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a little some of them are a little younger than

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us because they still have young kids. Like Suzanna and

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I are like, we're we we don't have any kids

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at home anymore, you know, the our kids are gone. Yeah,

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but a lot of them are still like, oh, I

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gotta you know, we got to go to the baseball

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game and this and this. I got my husband to

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take the kids to the you know, dance recital. And

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I'm like, they still have little kids, Like I guess

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they still do, you know, that's what happens.

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Speaker 3: I remember when Sadie and Xander were in middle school

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and there were moms there who had an older kid

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that was already in college. And I always thought those

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were such aliens. I was like, what, like, yeah, I

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know a kid in college, like you must be so old,

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like and now I'm that person right now, even older. Yeah,

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I'm the person that should could easily have grandkids, like

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I know, but now I'm that person now. When I

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see people that are maybe not my age but a

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little bit younger than me, that have a kid that's

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like in middle school, I'm like, wait, what.

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Speaker 1: What that's how we That's what Suzanne and I were saying,

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like because his ants spent the night. We were like

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talking after everybody left in my bed, and it's like, yeah,

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like freaking Anna still has like, you know, a middle schooler.

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you feel like everybody, but you know, not everybody's the

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same age. Everybody's different and they you know, people had

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kids later or they're younger or whatever, but every woman

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that was there basically had kids still in school. You know.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't feel really good though in some ways, Like

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in some ways I miss like, oh the raising part.

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Speaker 3: There's wonderful, wonderful things about having older kids, and they

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are such good company and they're so fun and I

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love seeing like how they're turning out. But yeah, sometimes

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I miss them being young, like going, oh, I still

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have that ahead of me, right because I don't even

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have another year of high school, Like this is it? Yeah,

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everything I do right now with the kid in high school.

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It's like, this is the last time we're going to do.

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Speaker 1: This, you know.

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Speaker 3: But there's something also kind of cool about being like

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Speaker 1: I did it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That like from the time of them being babies and

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worrying about every noise they made and like, yeah, oh

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my god, are they sick? Oh what do you do

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about this?

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Speaker 1: What is rash?

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Speaker 3: And shit?

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Speaker 1: All the rashes that came and went like what is that?

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like thinking like, oh, you know, I hope I don't

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get the phone call from school that one of them

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fell and broke their arm. You know, like they made well,

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you made it through. Not saying that they couldn't still,

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but like, you know, you made it through that. That part,

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that part's cool, Yeah, the part of them being super dependent, right,

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Speaker 3: The time when they were young, which is like everybody

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knows better than everybody knows more than I do, you know,

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And now I realize there's a lot of ways to

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skin a cat, you know what I mean. There's like

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my way of parenting well, because it's always better when

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you're like, well, the kids came out pretty good, you

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know what I mean. When you're baking them, you're like, oh,

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right that I put in, which is like leniency or

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buying them things they want or all the things that

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you go like, what if I'm really fucking them up right?

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Speaker 1: Exactly Yeah, like they turned.

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Speaker 3: I knew what I Yeah, they went on instinct, right.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what I think too. But like my

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kids are both of our all of our kids are

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great kids. They're good human beings. You know, they have

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good work ethics, they get good grades. Now not my

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kids when they were in school, but now they are,

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you know, and like it feels good to know, like

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they're okay. They they're out in the world, they can

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take care of themselves, they live on their own, and

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you know, it just feels yeah, I guess I must

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have did something right, you know.

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Speaker 3: Although I walked into Elbie's room this morning and I

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was like, are you fucking kidding me? It's you can't walk,

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it's all there's trash bags of clothes that I guess

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she filed into this trash bag there as stuff that

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she could sell on like deep Op or depop or

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Poshmark or all the places. Yeah, but that's been that

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way since before she left for college. And now she's

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almost done with her second year of you know what

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I mean, it's like, I go, LB, you can't, like,

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this can't be our house, and she's like, I know, right,

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but what am I going to do?

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Speaker 1: Ground?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Now now? And it's our room.

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Speaker 3: You know, you don't understand you know the movie Cocoon

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where there were those big pods. Yes, imagine if the

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room had like a bed and like a shelf with

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a TV on it, and the rest of it was

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full of pods, like giant pods that humans. I mean,

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it's like bags of clothes and piles of other clothes,

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and I it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: That she has ambition to sell them, but she's not

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even starting. The entrepreneur and he is how you got

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to look at it. I mean, she's got to get

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that going. That's its whole, the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: She's gonna have to then figure out the shipping and

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the I don't know, right, good luck Albie.

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Speaker 1: Does does Sadie know how to do that? Sell clothes online?

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Or is she I mean, or is it an Elbie

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learn Yeah, Sadie would be more resourceful about it than Albie. Right,

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Olbie would be would half ass that kind of thing.

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Maybe she should give her a commission, like if she

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finds it and helps her.

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Speaker 3: No, she Sadie should keep the money. Ain't none of

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these kids bought their own clothes. That's in the first place,

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that's you know what I mean. Well, maybe Albi bought clothes.

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She can't keep track of stuff, you know. Albie like

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wears clothes, doesn't want to wash it, so just buy

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his new clothes, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, you get it, I get it, I get it.

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It's funny when we were taking all here next week,

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when we were talking to Elbe about her little outfits

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that she was wearing, like you should have seen Italian's

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outfit for Subtronic the rave. She went to, I'm like,

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I can see through your shirt, you know, like you're

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not wearing a bra, Like what the hell?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I'm gonna put paistis on her. But like

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still like what and then like little teeny tiny booty short,

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like she looks half naked, she looks like she's not

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wearing any underwear. The shirt is just barely covering her ass,

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and then she's got the booty shorts. Right, But that's

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how they all. They all dress like us.

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Speaker 3: It's the rave culture though too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like when I go into Santa Barbara, I

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drive through the streets to get to her place, and

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every girl is like, I mean, they're just like either

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at a bikini top or nothing. Like every all girls

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are just what a time to be a young dude, right,

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I mean, my god, I don't think I was a

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dressing like that, Like I would wear a bikini but

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at the beach, not just out and about running errands

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at Target where I see these girls just like nothing

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sports broad like tank top thing that's weird. Oh yeah

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makes you feel old, It's like, oh my god, it

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really does. But yeah, then Sonny's back, and then the

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sunny we were watching football and you could tell like

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he he was like, uh, it's Sunday football, and he

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was like watching it. When he watches it in the

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living room, it's because he wants somebody to talk to,

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you know, like he doesn't want to just sit in

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his room. So then we just and he's got all

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four games up on the screen, and and that was

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like I think I was texting around that like.

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Speaker 3: It was said, I'm talking sports with sony oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, YoY yo YOI. It went on and on and

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on for an hour, and like what are you gonna do?

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I'm not gonna be like what do I have to do?

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Speaker 3: You know? Like, but like you can't be like I'm bored.

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Speaker 1: I am like I mean, sometimes I'll start zoning out

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thinking about something else and then I'll go, oh, he's

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still talking. What's he talking about? Now?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: This quarterback went to this college and this this this

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coach is this age and he's the old what I

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didn't even know. He just was going on and on

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for an hour. But what are you supposed to do? Like,

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you can't go like I don't care about sports, I

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don't know what you're like, right, you don't want to

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do that.

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Speaker 3: But one thing that works, because it's what they do,

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is you can always act like, oh, I just got

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a text, like no, keep going, I'm just reading a text, right,

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and you can like scroll Facebook or something.

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Speaker 1: Well that sometimes what I do. But he doesn't care.

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He doesn't. He doesn't. Yeah, I'll be on my phone.

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But then if I'm on my phone. Then I really, sincerely,

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I'm not listening, and I have to listen a little

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bit so I can at least be like, oh, that's

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like I don't want to like if he's saying something

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that and I go, oh, wow, that's cool, but it's

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not cool. It doesn't make sense for me to.

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Speaker 3: Say that, like somebody's out with an injury, right, right,

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you're right.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, right, wrong, yeah, yeah, Like you're like cool, cool, right,

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He's like, no, I'm telling you this guy had an

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injury and he was like my number one fantasy football player,

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so I lost fantasy because of him.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so cool.

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Speaker 1: I can't do that, right, you know, but you know

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it's it's but I'm like so happy to have him home.

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I love having Sunny home. It's fun. And then we

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ate dinner last night and hung out, I watch football

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and blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: And now let me ask you this, when it's just

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the two of you, do you make dinner for the

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two of you or do you just order some food?

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll make dinner for the two of us, like

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pasta or something, or salmon or something easy.

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Speaker 3: Steak.

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Speaker 1: He loves steak and steak's easy. But last night it

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was Sunday night, so we just he went, I was

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craving pizzas, so we got pizza. Last night. We had it.

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We had tons of leftovers from the party, from my

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Christmas party from pit fire. Oh okay, so we got

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we had pizza. But and then today, as I'm about

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to leave to come here, he's like, when are you leaving?

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I go like in five minutes. He goes, can you

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make me a sandwich really quick? I love your sandwiches

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because I had a ton of Italian meat and cheeses

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and he saw that and he was like, like, you

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make the best sandwiches. I'm like, all right, all right,

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hurry up. I got to toast the bread, like you know,

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he can make it himself.

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Speaker 3: I know. But it's so nice to be out.

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Speaker 1: I know. It does make me happy. When he asked, like, yeah,

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of course, you know. But then he'll probably be with

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friends tonight. So yeah, so when he's home for dinner,

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A lot of times he's not around for dinner, he'll

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he'll be out with his friends. So then he's going

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to be He wants to go back to Oregon next

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weekend for the big Oregon game, and he wants to

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road trip with his friends that are going to drive

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out there, and he's just going to go for like

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two days and then come back and then we're going

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to Chicago. So he has that going on. Yeah, so

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he's road tripping into Oregon in a couple of days.

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Speaker 3: And Natalia's Natalia.

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Speaker 1: She's back, not going to Oregon. It's so funny.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, she's not going to Chicago.

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Speaker 1: No, she's She's gonna go to her dad. It's funny

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because all of her to all her friends call her Natalia,

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and I call her Natalia and her friends because didn't

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somebody like get mad at you said.

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Speaker 3: Somebody a long time ago was like, oh my god,

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you don't even know how to pronounce her daughter's name.

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And I was like, I feel like I've said this

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to you before. I was like, I feel like Lynette

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has a bit of an accent in my mind. I

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was like, I feel like her name is pronounced Natalia,

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but you say it like Natalia. Yes, you got a

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little jersey, and yeah, I know. But then I so

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then I asked you and you were like, no, it

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is it's Natalia. And I was like, oh fuck.

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Speaker 1: But it's not so.

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Speaker 3: But her dad and her brother call her Natalia, right,

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which you recently told me because we went over this,

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and I was like, okay, yeah, so fuck off, I

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don't feel.

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Speaker 1: So bad, right right. And then all of her friends

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call her Natalia. Well, they all call her nat which

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I don't really I am not a fan of, but yeah,

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they all call her like Natty Natty, they call her

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Natty nat Yeah, I call her tg but yeah. Yeah.

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And then her friend said to me like, cute. Yeah,

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her friends are like, you say Natalia's name different, and

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she's like, I know, my mom has like a twang.

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And I go, I say Natalia, but you can call

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her Natalia because you know, I do feel.

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Speaker 3: Like there are genuinely two different ways to say that name,

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though there is, yeah, I think there is. There is.

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There are people named in Natalia, and there's people named

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why were we saying about uh Natalia's name oh

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or test tap oh? And just that she's going to

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be with her dad for Chris.

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Speaker 1: She's going with her dad and hopefully Phil. I still

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haven't gotten confirmation back. If Phil's able to go, I

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would think so, but I keep asking, did you ask him?

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Did you have so? No, I'll get out. I'll let

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you know. I'll let you know.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, why wouldn't he be able to watch

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his dog too? Yeah, I don't unless he's traveling or something.

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But what he's not traveling if Natalie's going to be there, so.

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Speaker 1: I don't show on Christmas? Yeah, I don't write. So

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I mean we're gone from Tuesday to Sunday, so I

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don't know, or he's got playing he's traveling.

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Speaker 3: Is she traveling with them?

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Speaker 1: No, that's what I mean. Yeah, I do.

468
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,519
Speaker 3: Also, then if she's staying there, couldn't she watch Phil?

469
00:23:32,039 --> 00:23:34,079
Or if she's coming back home then she could take.

470
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,279
Speaker 1: Phil with her. No, yeah, she can watch Phil. It's

471
00:23:38,319 --> 00:23:43,079
her friends that I don't trust. But because you really

472
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,720
got to be or you don't want to board him, No,

473
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,759
I do have that option too, So anyway I'll find out.

474
00:23:49,039 --> 00:23:51,599
But yeah, see, Okay.

475
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 3: On our last show, we talked a bunch about the

476
00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,920
idea of getting another dog, and that is the one

477
00:23:57,039 --> 00:23:59,880
thing that I'm like already because Penelope.

478
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 1: I couldn't board her. Yeah, I just she would.

479
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:05,759
Speaker 3: They would have had to keep her, they would they

480
00:24:06,079 --> 00:24:08,279
they wouldn't. I don't think they would have let her

481
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,240
around a bunch of other dogs. I mean maybe they.

482
00:24:12,559 --> 00:24:14,440
I would have to have been like, I don't know

483
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,839
how she's gonna do in a big playgroup with a

484
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:17,759
bunch of dogs.

485
00:24:17,799 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: Right, And you don't want to find out when you

486
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,319
have to board her, right, That's not the way to

487
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,480
find out. No, you know when you're gone or something.

488
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,839
Speaker 3: I'll never forget. I know we've talked about this a

489
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,440
million times, but I'll never forget that leaving her. We

490
00:24:31,559 --> 00:24:34,519
went to Great Wolf Lodge and I used that Rover

491
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,559
dot com or whatever, and she stayed with We went

492
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,559
over to the woman's house who was going to watch

493
00:24:39,599 --> 00:24:43,200
her in her house, and she had two other little dogs.

494
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: I hadn't had.

495
00:24:44,319 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 3: Penelope that long. I was like, Penelope's the sweetest thing ever.

496
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: She's so sweet.

497
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 3: We met their dogs. She did fine, left her there.

498
00:24:52,319 --> 00:24:54,599
It was only we were only gone like one night, right,

499
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,559
maybe we were gone two nights. I remember it was

500
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:00,720
for the twins' birthday. And then I get that text

501
00:25:00,799 --> 00:25:04,200
from her that Penelope bit her dog, one of her

502
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,920
dogs on the nose, and the way she said it

503
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,960
to me too, like she was trying to be nice.

504
00:25:10,519 --> 00:25:12,880
She was somebody who had worked with the rescue where

505
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,200
we got Penelope. Okay, it was a coincidence. Even though

506
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,599
I found her on Rover. Maybe I didn't find her

507
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,839
on Rover. Maybe the woman who owned was like, try her,

508
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,079
and she worked for rover dot com so she did

509
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:29,759
professional pet sitting and she was like, hey, just to

510
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,119
let you know, Penelope did bite my dog and like

511
00:25:33,279 --> 00:25:37,200
drew blood and like unprovoked. Like she said, I was

512
00:25:37,279 --> 00:25:41,000
eating pizza. I wasn't like even making the dogs jealous.

513
00:25:41,079 --> 00:25:43,000
She wasn't like giving pizza to one of her dogs,

514
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,039
not Penelope. She was eating pizza, she said, and all

515
00:25:46,039 --> 00:25:48,079
of a sudden people just pounced on the other dog

516
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,920
and bit it. So that made me not feel good

517
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,160
about leaving her, right right, I know, like I can't

518
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,279
guarantee she's not gonna Then I was like, well, I

519
00:25:57,319 --> 00:26:00,160
can't leave her with anybody who has other dogs. And

520
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:03,480
most of the time people that watch dogs are watching

521
00:26:03,519 --> 00:26:04,400
a couple at a time.

522
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:07,759
Speaker 1: Right, that's true, So then that's just whatever, did you

523
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:09,240
ever have to leave her.

524
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 3: So one time I left her with when we went

525
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,640
to Crystal Beach. When we went to Canada, a guy

526
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,720
who had worked at the rescue was like, I got it,

527
00:26:21,839 --> 00:26:23,799
she can stay with me. I do have a pack,

528
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,759
but she's going to do fine. He was like, more

529
00:26:26,519 --> 00:26:29,440
in control. Yeah, and she did fine. They even had

530
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,799
a cat and she was fine with the cat. But

531
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,880
after that, I had to hire somebody. When we went

532
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,119
to San Francisco, I had to hire somebody to sleep

533
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,680
at my house. OHI yeah, I remember that, and it

534
00:26:41,839 --> 00:26:43,279
was hella expensive.

535
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's the only thing is what do you

536
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,200
do when you go out of town?

537
00:26:50,759 --> 00:26:54,279
Speaker 3: But could you get Jen to stay at your house?

538
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? I could? I also have her Yeah yeah, well

539
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,160
I think she's going to be out of town for

540
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,599
the holidays. But I do have that other place that

541
00:27:03,039 --> 00:27:05,640
that fill has been to, so I could, you know,

542
00:27:06,079 --> 00:27:09,880
he can go there. But I think I think I

543
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,319
think she he'll be fine going with Italia. Yeah, it'll

544
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:18,000
be fine. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean so we got

545
00:27:18,039 --> 00:27:22,599
that and I went to brunch yesterday. It was Gina

546
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:27,000
Kimmel's birthday. Oh, big birthday. So we went. There was

547
00:27:27,079 --> 00:27:29,960
a brunch that was could not have been further from

548
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,640
my house eleven am on Sunday, like all the way

549
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,720
across town, like Culver City.

550
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,319
Speaker 3: I knew you were gonna say Culver City really like

551
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,519
what it could be further from Lynette in Culver Culver

552
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,240
City be the worst place to try to get to, yes,

553
00:27:46,519 --> 00:27:50,799
but for like a Sunday morning, no traffic was pretty easy.

554
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: But that was nice too, Like haven't seen, you know,

555
00:27:54,079 --> 00:27:57,000
some of some of the cousins that I used to

556
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,200
see all the time, Like they were there, you know,

557
00:27:59,759 --> 00:28:01,559
and Gina, I haven't seen her in a while, and

558
00:28:01,599 --> 00:28:04,119
her sister and Melissa was there. It was really it

559
00:28:04,279 --> 00:28:06,200
was nice. Melissa and I went on in on a

560
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,160
little purse from an antique store because Gina loves antiques

561
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,039
and she likes little like anything from an antique store.

562
00:28:14,799 --> 00:28:19,240
And so yeah, that was fun. And it was like

563
00:28:19,319 --> 00:28:21,960
a little French bistro. So there's all these things on

564
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:26,480
the menu, like what's a monsieur croquette, croquette croquette.

565
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,519
Speaker 3: I don't like French food. Yeah I didn't say it.

566
00:28:30,279 --> 00:28:32,240
I hope I don't insult any French cheese, but I

567
00:28:32,279 --> 00:28:33,200
don't like their food.

568
00:28:33,519 --> 00:28:36,599
Speaker 1: It was really, really rich. It was. I got an

569
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:41,400
open face like croissant sandwich with ham and like melted cheese,

570
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,880
but then also like bechamel sauce on top, Like didn't

571
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,039
need all that, just put it with the chiam and

572
00:28:48,119 --> 00:28:50,119
cheese and call it a day. And then it was

573
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,640
like two layers. It was like a big like double

574
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:57,079
layer of it. Too much, too much meats, too much everything. Yeah,

575
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,079
I guess I'm not a big fan either, because there

576
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,839
wasn't anything really on the and then it was like

577
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,079
so much sauce, so much sauce. Everything was saucy.

578
00:29:05,279 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, croissant, it's like the most buttery croissant. Like I

579
00:29:09,799 --> 00:29:13,039
know people are going to be like that's that's blasphemy,

580
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,559
Like that's where the croissant comes from. Yeah, I get it,

581
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,559
But like the ones here, if you go to the

582
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,720
right place, it doesn't it's not like there's not butter like.

583
00:29:21,799 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: Dripping in your mouth. Oh like that.

584
00:29:23,319 --> 00:29:23,359
Speaker 3: No.

585
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: No, it was very very like very rich and heavy

586
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,759
and had to stomach ache the rest of the day.

587
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:36,480
Like oh, but but yeah, it was you know, it

588
00:29:36,839 --> 00:29:38,519
was it was fun. It was nice. You know, you

589
00:29:38,559 --> 00:29:41,920
spent a couple hours out there catching up. She really

590
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:44,599
wants me to like buy a house in Palm Springs.

591
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:49,359
Oh really, Like she lives out there now, and she's like,

592
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,319
I'm telling you, like the gated community is really cool,

593
00:29:52,839 --> 00:29:54,920
and you know there's all these other my friend just

594
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,599
bought a house out there, and my little she lives

595
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,359
in like a senior citizen's.

596
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,799
Speaker 3: Gated community over fifty five.

597
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,519
Speaker 1: Yes, and she's not even that old, like, but she

598
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,680
likes she likes the senior and her boyfriend love that

599
00:30:08,079 --> 00:30:11,359
kind of lifestyle where she can just go, you know,

600
00:30:11,519 --> 00:30:14,839
and they can have like play marj On on Sunday nights,

601
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,440
or they can have like little like uh outings, you know,

602
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,000
like we're going to go into the city on Saturday

603
00:30:21,119 --> 00:30:22,640
with a bunch of us and we're gonna go to

604
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,680
this new restaurant like she likes to. It's like she

605
00:30:25,799 --> 00:30:28,559
wants to be on a cruise. Director like be on

606
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,920
a on a cruise the whole time about her whole life.

607
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:32,880
That's what I was thinking.

608
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: Friday night. There's a magic show that's right at the

609
00:30:36,359 --> 00:30:39,799
community Yes, at the community center, Yes, yes, yeah.

610
00:30:40,119 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: And she's like she came me like the whole tour

611
00:30:42,319 --> 00:30:44,640
when she first bought the house there and she's like,

612
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,440
I'm telling you, you would love it here. You would

613
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,559
love it here. And I'm like, I don't know. First

614
00:30:49,559 --> 00:30:51,960
of all, my kids aren't really gonna like it if

615
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,319
I'm living in Palm Springs, right, I'm gonna live there.

616
00:30:56,079 --> 00:30:59,799
But but yeah, she's just trying to sell me on

617
00:31:00,039 --> 00:31:02,640
to it. I'm like, you know, I don't know. Well,

618
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,119
slow your role, but I'm not that age yet, i

619
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,559
don't know, Like, yeah.

620
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 3: But are you still thinking like possibly moving to Chicago

621
00:31:13,079 --> 00:31:14,279
or are you getting over that idea?

622
00:31:14,519 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: No, I would like to, but I just I need

623
00:31:18,079 --> 00:31:20,599
to have a home base for the kids here. So

624
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,200
I think after the new year, I'm going to start

625
00:31:24,319 --> 00:31:29,279
looking for houses to buy, probably like because I'm renting

626
00:31:29,319 --> 00:31:33,640
this house, probably like maybe in the Pasadena area, you know,

627
00:31:34,559 --> 00:31:36,680
and you know, and Gina knows that, and she's like, well,

628
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:38,960
you could get you know, bigger bang for your buck

629
00:31:39,039 --> 00:31:42,279
than you will in Pasadena out there, like obviously, right,

630
00:31:42,519 --> 00:31:45,240
I know, but it's in Palm Springs, right, That's why

631
00:31:45,519 --> 00:31:48,759
there's only what's the only community out there. There's the

632
00:31:49,519 --> 00:31:54,000
senior citizens and the gays, like right, right, you know, yeah,

633
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,279
and it's Palm Springs. But that's like a place you

634
00:31:57,359 --> 00:31:59,480
want to go on the weekends once in a while, right,

635
00:31:59,599 --> 00:32:01,359
I can't be like I don't. I don't think I'm

636
00:32:01,359 --> 00:32:03,359
going to live even told me that she doesn't live

637
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,279
there full time. I know why they travel around and

638
00:32:07,319 --> 00:32:10,079
they travel a lot. Yeah, she's there more and more

639
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,720
often now, but they do. Our big travelers. They have

640
00:32:13,799 --> 00:32:16,720
an RV and they go, like you know, I don't know,

641
00:32:16,799 --> 00:32:19,359
six months out of the year, different places like drive

642
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,839
to go visit her sister in Phoenix or wherever you know.

643
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,920
And that's just tell you how awful that sounds, isn't then?

644
00:32:27,039 --> 00:32:29,359
Speaker 3: Like, first of all, I don't like driving to the store,

645
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:34,000
like I know, like I imagine me like in a

646
00:32:34,119 --> 00:32:38,640
fucking RV, right, like praying that we don't get in

647
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,839
an accident every five minutes?

648
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,359
Speaker 1: Like now cars too big?

649
00:32:42,519 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 3: Are we gonna get Are we going to clear that time?

650
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:44,599
Speaker 1: All?

651
00:32:44,839 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 3: Like? Yeah, that would be me the whole time. That's

652
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,279
just your life for six months.

653
00:32:49,519 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 1: Oh what kind of Wi Fi do you get? You know,

654
00:32:52,039 --> 00:32:54,359
how are you getting Wi Fi all the time? Where?

655
00:32:54,559 --> 00:32:56,960
You know, if you're stopping in an RV park, do

656
00:32:57,039 --> 00:32:58,920
they have Wi Fi? Do you have to find out ahead?

657
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,880
Of time maybe, I know. And they're big on watching

658
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,440
their shows that you know. And then her boyfriend, praiys

659
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:07,279
a lot of video games, so he's got to have

660
00:33:07,359 --> 00:33:11,079
his WiFi. I don't know, like that's just that's what

661
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,160
they like to do and they can work from wherever

662
00:33:14,279 --> 00:33:17,599
they are in his RV. And then but she's got

663
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,160
it like all's like, you know, she's got the bedroom

664
00:33:20,319 --> 00:33:23,079
with the big bed, and she's got the TV, and

665
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,880
then the living room and the kitchen. She's got it

666
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,200
all set up like it's cool. Maybe for a week.

667
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:31,960
Maybe for a week that's a long time maybe, But

668
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,559
for them, no, it's like months, they're gone with that thing.

669
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,359
Speaker 3: I feel like one of the benefits of being an adult,

670
00:33:38,759 --> 00:33:41,880
like a whole adult, is you don't have to do

671
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,359
shit you don't want to do. Like I never liked

672
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,400
camping when I was a kid. Well, the only thing

673
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:51,960
I liked about camping was that my parents since well

674
00:33:52,119 --> 00:33:53,799
you know what, no very few things I.

675
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: Liked about camping.

676
00:33:56,079 --> 00:33:58,359
Speaker 3: If I was to like anything, it was because I

677
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,000
didn't have any involvement in like, you know, they'd make

678
00:34:01,039 --> 00:34:03,319
me help put up the tent. We had this tent

679
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,920
trailer that you would crank crank it open, and that

680
00:34:07,039 --> 00:34:09,880
would be like the beds are on either and there's

681
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,159
like a little sink in there. But you know, I

682
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,679
liked maybe going for a hike like once and like

683
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,599
seeing the stars, and I was over it. I don't

684
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,719
like camping food. I don't like trying to like go

685
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,079
to hot dog over a fire, like none of that

686
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:24,639
is for me.

687
00:34:25,039 --> 00:34:27,079
Speaker 1: Like how about going to the bathroom and taking a

688
00:34:27,199 --> 00:34:31,119
shower and those bathrooms out there? No, thank you no.

689
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 3: And it's not like I'm spoiled. It's not like, oh,

690
00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:36,199
I would only want to go glamping. I don't want

691
00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:38,079
to do any of it now. And what I love

692
00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:41,679
about being an adult is like both and neither John

693
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,360
or I have ever been like we should go camping.

694
00:34:45,119 --> 00:34:47,239
I think one time we were like, you know, our

695
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,679
kids have never experienced camping, and then I think both

696
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,440
of us realized, like, yeah, and if they want to

697
00:34:53,519 --> 00:34:55,239
experience that, they can do it when they're adults.

698
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,519
Speaker 1: Exactly. I don't need it, right, I don't like it,

699
00:34:58,599 --> 00:35:01,519
and I don't have to writ I never I never

700
00:35:01,599 --> 00:35:04,039
went camping with my family and didn't go anywhere. But

701
00:35:04,599 --> 00:35:07,719
but Natalia went camping for the first time recently, like

702
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,199
with her friends, and it's like, yeah, I never took you.

703
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:10,599
Speaker 3: You know.

704
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: She didn't say, hackeme, you never took us camping. Yeah,

705
00:35:13,519 --> 00:35:18,719
after she went, she knew why she never took She's like, no,

706
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,079
I don't. I can see why, Like it's not form.

707
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:23,880
And she's like, I did it. I'm good. I don't

708
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,119
need to do it, right, I know. Yeah, let them

709
00:35:26,159 --> 00:35:29,159
do it with their friends, right, Sunny went with his friends. Like,

710
00:35:29,199 --> 00:35:30,920
they've done it. They've gone with their friends. That's what

711
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,079
camping's for, by the way, go with your friends. Totally fun,

712
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,800
totally I That was one of the things.

713
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,599
Speaker 3: I didn't like about camping was all that forced family time.

714
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,719
I never like my family anyway, and they didn't particularly

715
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:43,239
like me.

716
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,559
Speaker 1: So it's like, well, why do we all need to

717
00:35:45,599 --> 00:35:49,000
be forced to be together in different Like what are

718
00:35:49,039 --> 00:35:49,480
we doing?

719
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 3: Right?

720
00:35:50,039 --> 00:35:51,639
Speaker 1: What are we doing here? Right? Right?

721
00:35:51,679 --> 00:35:54,599
Speaker 3: The only time I had fun now I'm remembering is

722
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,320
when my parents because my brother and sister were so

723
00:35:57,519 --> 00:36:00,760
much younger than I was. So my sister is nine

724
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:03,239
and a half years younger than me. My brother's seven

725
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,400
years younger, so they were way younger than me, and

726
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,440
they were closer in age to each other, so they

727
00:36:08,519 --> 00:36:11,719
had each other. So sometimes my parents, just so that

728
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,599
I wouldn't be a pain in the ass the whole time,

729
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,320
let me bring a friend. Uh huh.

730
00:36:15,679 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: Then it was more fun. Still not fun, right, but

731
00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:20,840
more tolerable.

732
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,119
Speaker 3: Tolerable, that's because it's so you have something to do

733
00:36:23,199 --> 00:36:26,519
with a friend, right, this forced family time?

734
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no. I remember our next door neighbor

735
00:36:30,519 --> 00:36:34,639
had this big camper that my mom planted palms tree

736
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,480
so she could hide it because she didn't like looking

737
00:36:36,519 --> 00:36:39,360
at it. But every like fourth of July, he would

738
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,000
take all the kids in the neighborhood and they would

739
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,800
go camping, and my mother didn't let. My parents didn't

740
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,159
want they wouldn't let me go with them. They were

741
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,639
not I was not allowed to go camping with them,

742
00:36:49,079 --> 00:36:51,960
Like why because my parents were like this like Italian,

743
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,159
just I didn't They didn't like me spending the night

744
00:36:55,199 --> 00:36:57,159
at people's houses, so they wouldn't let. So I was

745
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:00,320
so devastated every year because everybody the neighborhood woul leave

746
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,199
and it's the fourth of July. So now I'm just

747
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,840
stuck at home with my parents doing nothing. They're all

748
00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:09,239
going camping, and I got to watch them pack up

749
00:37:09,599 --> 00:37:11,639
and I got like a tear coming down my face

750
00:37:12,039 --> 00:37:15,519
as they're driving away every like July third off to

751
00:37:15,599 --> 00:37:19,360
their camping trip. It sucked. But then when I got

752
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,719
older and I went I think the first emone camping

753
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,719
was our high school, the Magnet School that we would

754
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,800
go to Carpenderrhea and they did like a camping trip.

755
00:37:28,199 --> 00:37:31,960
Right then I did that with friends and then I

756
00:37:32,079 --> 00:37:35,039
was like, yeah, I don't like camping. This is not great.

757
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,599
I like waking up on the ground, sleeping on the

758
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,519
uh and then the morning comes and it gets hot

759
00:37:40,559 --> 00:37:43,360
inside the tent and then of course with my afro,

760
00:37:43,559 --> 00:37:45,519
like all the girls are going to take showers, but

761
00:37:45,599 --> 00:37:48,000
I can't wash my hair, you know, because I don't

762
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,880
want my hair to frizz up and look like, you know,

763
00:37:50,079 --> 00:37:54,320
crazy crazy nutty hair. It just was bad all around.

764
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,320
Speaker 3: Did not like it always feel dirty. Yeah, and I

765
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,440
don't like the feeling of I don't like being barefoot.

766
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,039
Speaker 1: I don't like my feet feeling dirty. No, I don't

767
00:38:03,079 --> 00:38:03,400
like eat it.

768
00:38:03,559 --> 00:38:06,679
Speaker 3: It makes me crazy. It's a sensory thing, I guess,

769
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,280
but I've always been like that. Yeah, don't really like

770
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:13,199
sand I mean, I'll go barefoot on the sand, but I.

771
00:38:13,199 --> 00:38:15,159
Speaker 1: Don't love it. Do you have to like wash your

772
00:38:15,199 --> 00:38:17,360
feet before you get in bed? Yes, yeah, I don't

773
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,800
like there's like after walking around, even during the summer,

774
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,079
you know, I'll go inside and outside really quick barefoot

775
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,719
before I get in bed. I got to get the

776
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,079
white bees and white my feet down. Yes, hate it, yes, yeah.

777
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,679
Speaker 3: But especially like dirt, like it's it's one thing to

778
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,000
be on the beach, but just to be outside like

779
00:38:35,159 --> 00:38:36,119
walking and oh.

780
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:36,679
Speaker 1: I don't like it.

781
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:43,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know, so real quick before we wrap,

782
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:45,679
I just want to tell you that. So the kids

783
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:49,039
had their big this is a positive thing. They had

784
00:38:49,079 --> 00:38:52,760
their big music show that was on Saturday night so

785
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:55,159
today's Monday, and they just killed it.

786
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: It was so fun. I put it.

787
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 3: I posted the video. Oh you did, oh, I posted

788
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,639
a video on our page of Xander.

789
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:01,760
Speaker 1: So.

790
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:06,599
Speaker 3: Xander's band is Xander Lilyle Crocodile. Their other like really

791
00:39:06,639 --> 00:39:12,800
good friend and their drummer is awesome. So their guyliner

792
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,599
the one they play out but they also that's their

793
00:39:15,639 --> 00:39:20,000
school band, right, the same band, and they just they

794
00:39:20,079 --> 00:39:21,159
were so good.

795
00:39:21,199 --> 00:39:22,599
Speaker 1: And Sadie played in her.

796
00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:25,119
Speaker 3: Band, which is called the Wiggles, and her band did

797
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,119
really great too, and then they did songs where they

798
00:39:28,199 --> 00:39:31,039
guested on each other's song. So Xander did some guests

799
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:35,079
Oh Sadies with Sadie's band and they guessed it on

800
00:39:35,199 --> 00:39:39,559
other people's bands and Sony parents helped me. I did

801
00:39:39,679 --> 00:39:44,360
my opportunity, drawing raised like a few thousand dollars for

802
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,199
the music program. You didn't hear me bitching about it

803
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,400
leading up, and I'll tell you why, because I've I've

804
00:39:51,639 --> 00:39:55,719
kind of peace out pieced out out it a little

805
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:59,880
bit from the the bigger school stuff. I worked with

806
00:40:00,199 --> 00:40:02,360
hard for our big fall festival, right, but then I

807
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,239
was like, you know what, I'm doing my thing for

808
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:09,440
the music teacher. I will go judge speech and debate

809
00:40:09,599 --> 00:40:12,280
when that happens, when Xander gets into that, and other

810
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,719
than that, I'm just not gonna like yeah, just not

811
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,199
so I don't bother anybody else. I get all my

812
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:23,360
items together. I do the you know, the raffle. I

813
00:40:23,639 --> 00:40:26,320
had everybody I organized to sign up genius and got

814
00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,599
everybody to sign up to bring bake goods and like

815
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:32,239
bring soda and bring somebody brought a cooler. And then

816
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,840
I had like a couple of moms that were go

817
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,440
getters that were like, I'll help you, I'll be there early.

818
00:40:39,679 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: What do you just you tell me what you need?

819
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,639
Speaker 3: And I felt so supported. La Crocodile's mom came and

820
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:50,760
helped me the whole time, and then another three moms

821
00:40:51,559 --> 00:40:52,280
the whole time.

822
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: We're like, we got you. Like, so I had to.

823
00:40:55,519 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 3: I ordered a bunch of pizza, we sold pizza, we

824
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:02,079
sold bake goods, and they all were just like super helpful,

825
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,000
no stress.

826
00:41:04,039 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: That's not great, that's great.

827
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the kids were so good. You have to

828
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:08,559
watch the video.

829
00:41:08,599 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I want to watch. I want to see. Yeah,

830
00:41:11,119 --> 00:41:11,800
that's awesome.

831
00:41:12,159 --> 00:41:15,599
Speaker 3: So, in case you missed it, we did a Patreon

832
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,559
where we covered so because we haven't mentioned this, but

833
00:41:19,679 --> 00:41:24,719
we covered the almost said the Harvey Weinstein thing, Rob Reiner,

834
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,880
Rob Reiner and we have some a little bit of

835
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:32,519
stuff about that, and we're going to talk about Tara Reid. Yes,

836
00:41:33,199 --> 00:41:35,880
and what was our other one, oh Andy Dick. Yeah,

837
00:41:36,159 --> 00:41:38,360
so yeah, tune in for that.

838
00:41:39,159 --> 00:41:39,360
Speaker 1: Yep.

839
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 3: Last Patreon. Yeah, there's not going to be a Patreon

840
00:41:43,639 --> 00:41:46,360
next week because we we just did two shows with LB.

841
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:49,960
It's kind of bonus because it's Christmas Week, and then

842
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,239
we're dark for the final week, but then starting jan

843
00:41:53,639 --> 00:41:57,840
January beginning. Yeah, we're back back with Patreons. I'm sure

844
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,039
we'll have a lot of stories. Yeah, so before we

845
00:42:01,199 --> 00:42:06,320
totally go, let's just say hi to Stephanie Stinker rinker In. Sandra,

846
00:42:06,599 --> 00:42:08,840
it's not easy being green and christ to get this stop.

847
00:42:09,559 --> 00:42:10,519
Speaker 1: And Jennifer get up.

848
00:42:10,559 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 3: And Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, and Dick is frolicking, and

849
00:42:13,559 --> 00:42:16,760
Nikki call your girls, and Elizabeth Williamson have another kid

850
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:21,159
for the knee, Nina, we'll rock them in the past yet, Holly,

851
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,559
we love your pancakes. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick hits it out

852
00:42:24,559 --> 00:42:27,800
of the park. Katerina, make sure to take good care floss,

853
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:33,280
because that's how trouble starts, right, Gabby and Missy, I'll

854
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,280
see you in Times Square. Yeah, I'll be up there, yep,

855
00:42:36,639 --> 00:42:40,760
Yhon Vajpe. Rebecca Lupin is still so cute. Kelly Brandt's

856
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:42,880
not your aunt, but she will take you to planned parenthood.

857
00:42:43,079 --> 00:42:47,320
Alicia Scalante from the City of Monty did we already

858
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,199
tell Leslie to stop coughing? And Aaron's a dirty Sanchez

859
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,280
and Jennifer get Up. I think we already said that. Yeah,

860
00:42:53,679 --> 00:42:54,280
love you guys.

861
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: I love you guys your parent now, don't if it up.

862
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:04,039
Still the hiding that angle