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Speaker 2: And here we go. Oh my god, well, well, well,
Speaker 2: welcome back, Welcome back to Sorry for Asking, Season four,
Speaker 2: Season four. Here we are, happy twenty twenty five. I'm
Speaker 2: Adam Ramsey Connor.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hi Cole Connor.
Speaker 2: It's been a minute. It has been a minute. Oh
Speaker 2: my god. We made everybody wait longer this time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we made ourselves wait longer. Like it's
Speaker 1: been a busy season and now it's gonna be a
Speaker 1: busy season four. We're so happy to be back. We
Speaker 1: missed you, guys, We missed each other.
Speaker 2: What was the last one we did? Was it before
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving or after Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1: I don't even remember, man, it was definitely after the elections, yeah,
Speaker 1: because yeah, we saw that we had Davy wavyon and
Speaker 1: then we did our finale, and yeah, it's you know,
Speaker 1: like we've had the holidays, we've had New Years, we've
Speaker 1: had the Gay ends, some trips, some shoots. We have
Speaker 1: some things to catch up on and uh yeah, and
Speaker 1: then we're gonna have you know, a slew of good
Speaker 1: guests coming on later this season.
Speaker 2: I'm excited about a bunch of them. And but first
Speaker 2: we're gonna talk to each other. Yeah, hi, col Connor,
Speaker 2: what's going on?
Speaker 3: You know this and that?
Speaker 2: Quite a few things. Actually, what was the highlight of
Speaker 2: your holiday season?
Speaker 1: I'll tell you. Oh good, I was seen the d Yeah,
Speaker 1: nothing happened. Actually the holidays were no. Actually no, I
Speaker 1: was really nervous, as some of you may remember, because
Speaker 1: I was throwing my third Axis party, which is the
Speaker 1: party that I throw with DJ Jack Faulkner from Hot
Speaker 1: Dog where we celebrate the solstices and the equinoxes.
Speaker 2: And we did one for the Winter.
Speaker 1: Solstice, like on a crowded weekend three days before Christmas.
Speaker 1: So I was really kind of nervous that nobody was
Speaker 1: gonna come. But I really zeroed in on how I
Speaker 1: wanted to throw it, how I wanted to decorate it.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to, Like, you know, I worked worked
Speaker 1: really hard, but you know, the Harvest one in September
Speaker 1: took so much out of me, and by the end
Speaker 1: of it, I was a shell of myself. This time,
Speaker 1: I feel like I really dial it in and people
Speaker 1: came and it was I was there.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was Did you have fun? I did. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I missed the September one. Yeah, I made this one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: this one was the best one. Yeah, yeah it was.
Speaker 1: It was just a good vibe everyone there, Like I mean,
Speaker 1: I had I feel like, I'm really happy that people
Speaker 1: are starting to see what.
Speaker 2: I'm bringing to the table.
Speaker 1: Yeah, in terms of LA nightlife, and I feel like
Speaker 1: people were.
Speaker 2: Kind of getting it.
Speaker 1: There were three, literally three separate people who came up
Speaker 1: to me that night and who were like, this is
Speaker 1: the best party.
Speaker 2: Of my life.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, And I was like, wow, that's high praise.
Speaker 2: I'll take it.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's these substances you're on that
Speaker 1: are adding to this sentiment, well, I don't think. I'm
Speaker 1: sure they do help. But it was also just a
Speaker 1: really good vibe. It looked great in there, the music
Speaker 1: was fantastic, And now we are already starting to promote
Speaker 1: our Spring Equinox party, which will be on March twenty second, everybody,
Speaker 1: look at my website.
Speaker 2: You could see it right down here.
Speaker 1: You're under my name Adam Ramsey dot com. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: will be soon, and we have a theme this time.
Speaker 2: What is it seed? Oh yeah, I'm going We're going
Speaker 2: kind of like I'm trying to.
Speaker 1: Be like subversively obvious. It's like obvious, but but like
Speaker 1: not so much. I'm not going to hammer people over
Speaker 1: the head with the marketing as to what that means.
Speaker 1: But you can yess what it means, you know, in
Speaker 1: a celebration of spring.
Speaker 2: Intentions give people the opportunity to interpret at themselves exactly.
Speaker 1: And also, you know, use that spring horniness in the
Speaker 1: dark room if you've got it, use that seed, I mean,
Speaker 1: do it. We're there to as the Australians say, if
Speaker 1: you heard that before? Have you heard that term before?
Speaker 1: The Australians like root to get Oh no, I haven't.
Speaker 2: It's Australian for I like it. They have different words
Speaker 2: for things. I know.
Speaker 1: They're like, yeah, like when I went there from Marti
Speaker 1: gra few years ago. If you ask somebody like how
Speaker 1: are you feeling and they said, good root it means
Speaker 1: our horning.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: So that was my I would say that was my
Speaker 1: holiday highlight, apart from also moving. I moved to a
Speaker 1: new place on New Year's Day, which has been exciting.
Speaker 1: We can get to that minute. I want to hear
Speaker 1: about your holiday highlight if you have one to share.
Speaker 2: Oh, man, I mean. I went to visit my dad
Speaker 2: in Florida and my stepmom for part of Christmas Jacksonville, Jacksonville.
Speaker 2: I don't know much about Jacksonville. I don't either. I
Speaker 2: pretty much end up standing in the whole time. Like
Speaker 2: we just we cooked a lot and we went to
Speaker 2: see a movie.
Speaker 1: Wait, if I know Cole Connor, you at least found
Speaker 1: some trade once.
Speaker 2: I really don't do, and I don't. It was a
Speaker 2: family trip. It was like, okay, I was there to
Speaker 2: visit and fuck once on this trip. Didn't. I'm shocked
Speaker 2: I didn't. Yeah, I know it's weird, but like, where
Speaker 2: was I gonna go in Jacksonville? I guess I don't happen.
Speaker 2: So it was a short trip. I was only there
Speaker 2: for like four days, maybe three or four days, okay,
Speaker 2: But I had a great time. It was really nice.
Speaker 2: It was nice to see my dad and like, I
Speaker 2: feel like I am in a better headspace than I
Speaker 2: have been in the past couple of years, so just personally,
Speaker 2: but yeah, personally, so that's good to hear. Yeah, nice,
Speaker 2: it was nice to like be around family in a
Speaker 2: better mood.
Speaker 1: Did we do some winter restructuring?
Speaker 2: Restructuring as in just like mentally and you know, yeah,
Speaker 2: I did, you know, I think, I don't know. I
Speaker 2: just you know, I've had something creative that I've been
Speaker 2: working on, and it's like, how's that going? Makes all
Speaker 2: the difference really good? I'm like at the at the
Speaker 2: like the final stages of it, of just this one
Speaker 2: part of it, like of the beginning of it. But yeah,
Speaker 2: it's been really reflective and transformative for me. It's amazing
Speaker 2: so lot of things that I've been worried or stressed
Speaker 2: about in the past couple of years, seeing like, oh,
Speaker 2: I have control over this, I can make I can
Speaker 2: change this situation and this outcome more than any Like
Speaker 2: I can't sit around and wait for somebody to fix
Speaker 2: it for me. Yeah, I gotta do it. So it
Speaker 2: was that's where I am, and you're doing it.
Speaker 1: You're doing the thing. That's amazing. That's great. Well, happy holidays.
Speaker 1: We hope you all had happy holidays as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I moving to a new place was it was great
Speaker 1: for me. And I'm like living by myself again. I'm
Speaker 1: smacking the middle of Hollywood.
Speaker 2: Which feels good.
Speaker 1: It's a brand new apartment, like all new appliances, untouched
Speaker 1: by humans. I've never lived in any place like that before.
Speaker 1: Like and like you know, I've just been tricking it
Speaker 1: out and yeah, yeah, we keep saying we're gonna hang out,
Speaker 1: and it never happened.
Speaker 2: I know, like I was gonna cook dinner for you
Speaker 2: one time. I think I can canceled, and then the
Speaker 2: second one. I second one UKs. I'm like, oh god,
Speaker 2: damn it. Oh why is it this hard? I know
Speaker 2: because you heard that fucking Friday night drag race thing
Speaker 2: that you're comming out. Oh I know, when is it over?
Speaker 2: Come on? It just started? Are you not watching? Are
Speaker 2: you not that race? Girl? I watched. I don't need
Speaker 2: to watch it on Friday night with a bunch of people.
Speaker 2: I can watch it by myself Saturday or Sunday. I
Speaker 2: have something to admit.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna confess the second time when I had to cancel.
Speaker 1: It wasn't just the drag race thing that got in
Speaker 1: the way. We were invited to a sex party, and
Speaker 1: I just it's so rare that I go to those.
Speaker 2: What was the sex party? Our dinner was at like
Speaker 2: six thirty.
Speaker 1: Well, we had to do drag race first and then
Speaker 1: go to the sex party.
Speaker 2: Of course. Oh my god, I'm sorry, it's okay.
Speaker 1: It was just like so my gentleman friend and I,
Speaker 1: it's just something we don't normally get to do.
Speaker 2: And this was one of those really no afters and stuff.
Speaker 1: Not really we're not afters boys, Like if we're gonna
Speaker 1: a little late lately, yes, yeah, I Like I feel
Speaker 1: like I have friends lately who've been like who you know,
Speaker 1: we've been kind of talking about what it's like to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship and also go to these sex parties. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I invited them to come with because it was
Speaker 1: like a couple's date to a sex party basically, and
Speaker 1: they were like, yeah, it'll be nice to be like,
Speaker 1: you know, around horny boys. Not at six in the morning.
Speaker 2: Girl, you kids in.
Speaker 1: Your early thirties going to these sex parties at six
Speaker 1: in the morning, How does anything work?
Speaker 2: I think that that's why. I like, that's only like
Speaker 2: filming group things. Oh, I think because like people are sober,
Speaker 2: people can like people are you know, dicks are hard,
Speaker 2: and you know, people are ready, people are preps, right,
Speaker 2: you know. I think it's just can be and it
Speaker 2: just can be like kind of in and out. I
Speaker 2: don't need to do it for like hours and hours
Speaker 2: and hours.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: Sex parties to me are like two hours in an out.
Speaker 1: Like two hours is tops like like like you know,
Speaker 1: lots of tops hopefully, but yeah, it's time moves very
Speaker 1: differently at sex parties. For me, I feel like you
Speaker 1: can cram a lot in just an hour's worth of time.
Speaker 1: And exactly we're just walking into all of these innuendos
Speaker 1: no problem. But it was just fun. It was it
Speaker 1: was like, uh, this place in Vassiline Alleys. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you've heard of it. I think it's called
Speaker 1: the Speakeasy. It's like basically this like sex apartment. Oh wait,
Speaker 1: you can rent by the hour and invite whoever you want.
Speaker 1: There's like fuck benches and slings and the lighting is
Speaker 1: moody and.
Speaker 2: I think I know who was putting this on. And
Speaker 2: I think that's why I that's why I don't think
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 1: Ah, yes, okay, So if it's who I'm thinking of,
Speaker 1: that person wasn't there this time, which is why I
Speaker 1: felt more comfortable to show up. That person and I
Speaker 1: have been much more cordial with each.
Speaker 2: Other, by the way lately, but we're keeping it at
Speaker 2: cordial and it's yeah too, Yeah, that's a take with someone.
Speaker 2: That's kind of what I decided, yes, which made it
Speaker 2: worse in the first place. I was like, I just
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I think I'm gonna just
Speaker 2: like put invest a little less in this relationship. Yes,
Speaker 2: I remember, And that set off fucking the fire alarms,
Speaker 2: and then it was like, I'm like, that's it's literally
Speaker 2: like I don't I don't hate them, I don't want
Speaker 2: any bad blood. But it just became I guess that's
Speaker 2: not the first time that's happened to him.
Speaker 1: Correct, so as a trigger, Yes, yes, I yes, right,
Speaker 1: But anyway, it was really fun and like I learned
Speaker 1: something at that sex party and in Costa Rica that
Speaker 1: my I'm okay, we're going to get into the nitty gritty.
Speaker 1: Sorry everybody, but maybe some of you came here for this,
Speaker 1: but my penis is perfect for fucking men and slings.
Speaker 2: I learned that.
Speaker 1: I don't know how it took me this long to
Speaker 1: learn that, but three separate times in the last couple
Speaker 1: of months I have made people come without touching themselves
Speaker 1: because somehow the way my dingling is shaped or it's
Speaker 1: went really well for the way a man's body is
Speaker 1: positioned in a sling.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got very excited. You've got that missionary missionary
Speaker 2: dick babies and speaking of so put me behind you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we're gonna like it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, speaking out, I'm gonna make a little plug one
Speaker 1: of the things that I did in the New Year.
Speaker 1: And let me say also, we hope everybody is safe
Speaker 1: from the fires. That was such a scary, weird week
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. For those of you I'm sure have
Speaker 1: either experienced it or heard about it.
Speaker 2: It was a.
Speaker 1: Horrible few days. My entire family was evacuated. How are
Speaker 1: you doing. We didn't really talk about it. I was
Speaker 1: in Florida.
Speaker 2: You were in Florida, Okay, like another for another thing. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I left on Tuesday morning, and then Wednesday, like while
Speaker 2: I was in Florida, probably like at the gym or something, there,
Speaker 2: like people started to message me and ask me about
Speaker 2: it was okay, and like what was And I'm like,
Speaker 2: I hadn't been I hadn't been watching an I hadn't
Speaker 2: been paying attention, right, And I was like what And
Speaker 2: I was like looking at all the fire footage and everything,
Speaker 2: and but you know, and I would tell people, I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm in Florida. I'm I'm actually probably further away from yeah,
Speaker 2: or while they're asking like family and stuff, but I yeah,
Speaker 2: I just didn't know it was I had someone watching
Speaker 2: my cat and like that can that could take him?
Speaker 2: But that was really right. It was yes, I mean
Speaker 2: you and I are is safe for like my stuff,
Speaker 2: but you and.
Speaker 1: I are both for far enough into the city where
Speaker 1: like I think it wouldn't have really affected our homes necessarily,
Speaker 1: but it certainly affected the air.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: And yeah, everyone in my family was evacuated. And it
Speaker 1: was like emotional whiplash for me, because you know, after
Speaker 1: the elections, I was in such a funk. In December
Speaker 1: was such a busy month, but it wrapped up so beautifully.
Speaker 1: I was in such a good mood. And then I
Speaker 1: moved into this new place and it was like now,
Speaker 1: I'm starting to like put things away and put art
Speaker 1: up and start to nest. And then all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: it was like these two days when the plumbing in
Speaker 1: my apartment, like the showers and toilets just stopped working.
Speaker 1: Oh no, so I and that was when the fires happened.
Speaker 1: So I'm literally in an apartment with boxes everywhere, with
Speaker 1: horrible lightings I hadn't set up any lighting, no working plumbing,
Speaker 1: and just getting like messages from people having to evacuate,
Speaker 1: Like one friend of mine told me her house burned down,
Speaker 1: Like I was just like, oh my god, We're in hell.
Speaker 1: So the following week, I had this trip planned to
Speaker 1: a place in Costa Rica started by my friend Shelby Clark.
Speaker 1: If you guys want to look it up, Jungle Gighborhood
Speaker 1: is the Instagram handle, and they hosted a retreat that
Speaker 1: I had planned to go to. They host a number
Speaker 1: of retreats like plan medicine treats and kink workshop retreats,
Speaker 1: and this one was just kind of like a dance party,
Speaker 1: but like holistic hedonism is what they called it. The
Speaker 1: party was called Jungle Fag where it's like sound bats
Speaker 1: and yoga during the day hikes in the afternoon and
Speaker 1: then dance parties at night. And I was like, should
Speaker 1: I really go to this? Like it now is the time?
Speaker 1: Like my city's on fire, everyone's in a shit mood.
Speaker 1: Am I really going to go to this like tropical
Speaker 1: paradise with like a bunch of people and you know,
Speaker 1: have a good time. And everybody I spoke to was like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is exactly the time to go. Go get some
Speaker 1: fresh air. And it literally was one of the best
Speaker 1: weeks of my life. It was, And like I have
Speaker 1: a picture from it. If no one wants to pop
Speaker 1: it up there, that's like me at a waterfall living.
Speaker 2: That's my that's.
Speaker 1: Sober, by the way, just FYI, that's a real smile.
Speaker 1: I was having the best day of my life. And
Speaker 1: then we like stepped away from this waterfall and found
Speaker 1: a spot literally like on the rocks to fuck while
Speaker 1: like people were like busy taking pictures, Like nobody came
Speaker 1: and saw us. I mean, it would have been totally
Speaker 1: fine if they did found a sling in the middle
Speaker 1: of a jungle and fucked there. Wow, like a pool
Speaker 1: deck overlooking like the canyon with like monkeys and two
Speaker 1: cans around and We're just like there's like six of
Speaker 1: us just fucking each other at sunrise.
Speaker 2: It was fun. It was incredible.
Speaker 1: If you guys are interested in this at all Costa
Speaker 1: Rica has their shit dialed the fuck down. Like we
Speaker 1: were drinking water from the tap at this retreat, which
Speaker 1: apparently like is like really crazy in Latin America. So
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, this is okay cool. So yeah,
Speaker 1: look up the Jungle neighborhood. If you are interested in
Speaker 1: getting into your deeper core selves.
Speaker 2: I want to try it, but I am not an
Speaker 2: outdoor sex person. Like I don't love it.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're in a place like this, you
Speaker 1: might lean into it. I mean we had caban as
Speaker 1: a stuff which would private which we could go to, but.
Speaker 2: Like fucking on a rock doesn't sound fun to me. Oh,
Speaker 2: I mean we were standing like we were yes, well
Speaker 2: stand guys, hey listen. Sometimes sometimes things just happen. Sometimes
Speaker 2: spit is just enough sometimes and yeah it was amazing.
Speaker 1: So that was like how my went, like the best
Speaker 1: parts of my winter. And then you know, you come
Speaker 1: back and like people are like in better moods. Everyone
Speaker 1: is kind of helping each other. LA really rallied, crazy
Speaker 1: crazy stuff. I'm glad we're safe. I hope you're all safe,
Speaker 1: and this rain has been nice.
Speaker 2: I know it was just a little too late though,
Speaker 2: just a little tools. So we talked about gibeons were yes,
Speaker 2: were you there?
Speaker 1: Because they happened the day I flew back from Costa Rica.
Speaker 1: I want to hear everything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this year it was. They were on a Monday night.
Speaker 2: So I did a collab right before I left for
Speaker 2: it with Steve Rix and Sedona Rain Bye. Three Way.
Speaker 2: He's so pretty? Is he a pretty in person? He
Speaker 2: really is? And he's like I wasn't expecting. I guess
Speaker 2: I hadn't noticed. It doesn't translate when you see it
Speaker 2: on film, like how meedy Media's caucus. All of him
Speaker 2: is meety. That's probably why it was very nice cool.
Speaker 2: It was the first time I ever met him, so
Speaker 2: but we had a hot three Way one of my.
Speaker 1: New yes, remind our, remind our listeners and viewers, what
Speaker 1: what this venture?
Speaker 2: Is?
Speaker 4: This?
Speaker 2: My new uh for the Mom's My new male male
Speaker 2: female series. One gets released every Monday, every first Monday
Speaker 2: of every month on My Only Family.
Speaker 1: Wait for real, that's like a thing you're doing?
Speaker 2: Like where?
Speaker 1: Like now every first Monday of the month, you do
Speaker 1: an MMF scene.
Speaker 2: Specifically MMF Monday. You're so wow.
Speaker 1: MMF Monday by Cole Connor. Everyone, if you're interested in
Speaker 1: seeing him DP vagina.
Speaker 2: There are four of them out so far. They're only
Speaker 2: for sale. Okay, he's grabbed with your automnu on. You
Speaker 2: can get it for thirty dollars dollars. Has that been
Speaker 2: a lucrative venture? It's been good, Okay, Yeah, people like it.
Speaker 2: The only thing is sometimes people are like, oh, They're like, are.
Speaker 4: You gonna do just boy girl scenes. I don't want
Speaker 4: to see you just with just with a girl. Are
Speaker 4: you going to do like you and two girls. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 4: I'm I'm I'm still gay.
Speaker 2: I don't know how much money. I'm like, I like,
Speaker 2: I need at least one ps and I bring my
Speaker 2: gay content. So I'm like, it's just it just it's
Speaker 2: adding a lot. You know. That's cool.
Speaker 1: I mean no, no, no, I think I think you're doing
Speaker 1: it right. Yeah, because especially because if you just did
Speaker 1: boy girl scenes, you'd have the you know, the bisexuality
Speaker 1: is not a thing.
Speaker 2: Mafia come after you again. I mean they're always after
Speaker 2: they're always after it. I just black feel like people
Speaker 2: whenever I see any So, I don't know, I just
Speaker 2: don't really care, Like I can't really worry about people.
Speaker 2: Good for you being like demand that I define my
Speaker 2: sexuality to them, right exactly, I'm like. But anyway, going
Speaker 2: back to the gate, Yes, yes, so I did that right,
Speaker 2: I like literally shot out with them, cleared them all
Speaker 2: out of my apartment, cleared everybody out because like Sedona
Speaker 2: had someone with her last Steve had his girlfriend, Chloe.
Speaker 2: Chloe comes like during the shoot, yeah, she was filming.
Speaker 2: But like the guy, like Sedona's boyfriend, I guess, was
Speaker 2: there too. He was very nice. Okay, I'm sure. I
Speaker 2: think probably for girls it might be nice to have
Speaker 2: somebody that they trust come to where they're gonna get
Speaker 2: sucked by two guys. Sure, yes, I don't know. I
Speaker 2: didn't see it. He watch no, okay, because he was
Speaker 2: just like, get the kitchen and hang away, hanging out
Speaker 2: with Floris of course, but it was really hot. I
Speaker 2: just put that one out this month, a couple of
Speaker 2: weeks ago, so that one's really good. Also, at the
Speaker 2: Gabe ends, I did usually I don't do collab like that.
Speaker 2: Many collabs at an event weekend thing like that. But
Speaker 2: I was there Saturday. It's a Wednesday, and I did
Speaker 2: a collab with Nicholas Rider, a collab move Miles Fellon,
Speaker 2: and a collab with Frankie and Crush Daddy. Okay, that
Speaker 2: was another bye. It's another MMF. But I didn't fuck
Speaker 2: her at all. She pegged me. I got pegged. Can
Speaker 2: I say?
Speaker 1: Also, as we were texting today about what we were
Speaker 1: going to potentially talk about like today, like you know
Speaker 1: what the points we wanted to touch on, and I
Speaker 1: fucking love that. Like twenty minutes after we were texting,
Speaker 1: your text was oh yeah, and I got pegged excumation point.
Speaker 1: I was like this motherfucker, didn't we.
Speaker 2: He was like something after like yeah, let's talk about
Speaker 2: like lessons yes, running twy it's way four, and how
Speaker 2: we're going to implement them in twenty twenty five. And
Speaker 2: I'm like I got pegged. Oh yeah, and I got peggs.
Speaker 2: How was that? It was hot? It was good. I
Speaker 2: think I do prefer a day like a real peanut.
Speaker 2: But I mean it didn't made me come Okay, really
Speaker 2: it could have been here, we want your back. I'd
Speaker 2: have been his dick in my mouth. That really did it.
Speaker 1: I'm almost gonna say ninety five percent sure, that's what
Speaker 1: did it?
Speaker 2: Yes, knowing you for sure. For the moms, what's pegging?
Speaker 2: Tell us? Cool? Pegging is when a woman focks a
Speaker 2: man with a strap on? Yeah, foxes us so the
Speaker 2: first time, and we had we had someone like a
Speaker 2: YouTuber filming us, okay, and kind of frank he was
Speaker 2: filming him, kind of like from behind the scenes. A
Speaker 2: lot of it is just me and crush Daddy, okay,
Speaker 2: like at the beginning, but then she comes, she's she
Speaker 2: gets two strap ons and she's like, which one, which
Speaker 2: one do you want? And I'm like, I like, point
Speaker 2: to one. She's like size queen, he is it was
Speaker 2: the bigger one. Of course, good for you, weren't that big.
Speaker 2: It was just like you just wanted bigger one. One
Speaker 2: was blue, Yeah, the one I chose this blue. It
Speaker 2: was really the blue. I love blue.
Speaker 1: It was Yeah, that's why.
Speaker 2: But cool, that's exciting. Has that one released already? No,
Speaker 2: I was trying to get that one to come out
Speaker 2: first before the Steve Ricks one, but I ended up
Speaker 2: having everything from the Steve Rix and Saedana one. Okay, four,
Speaker 2: So I just went ahead and really start. But but
Speaker 2: now I'm like, now I got to get to Houston
Speaker 2: and film a DP one with Crush Daddy. Is that
Speaker 2: where he lives? Yeah? They lived there, okay or their couple?
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, oh I see, I see okay. Yeah, he's
Speaker 2: like big, right, he's very large. Yeah. Yeah, oh, I
Speaker 2: have a picture of it's actually five of us. So
Speaker 2: Ryan Landers on the left, Miles Fallin on the right
Speaker 2: and write me, and Crushed Daddy and Frankie Frankie there
Speaker 2: with her somoot. Yeah it was that's right, that's right
Speaker 2: after it. And then we went to eat sushi. All
Speaker 2: five of us even eat sushi. Miles is so little,
Speaker 2: Miles is little. You brought him the hot dog on Sunday.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you're just a little baby. He's
Speaker 2: very cute. I know. He stayed with me for like Friday,
Speaker 2: I want to say, Friday through Monday night. Wow. And
Speaker 2: he didn't film at all while that happened. No, I mean,
Speaker 2: you just get these boys hooked. I know, come visit me.
Speaker 2: We don't have to film at all, kind of just
Speaker 2: we'll just hang out with Boris and watch TV and
Speaker 2: drink wine and it was really nice. It's exactly what
Speaker 2: I needed after being like I was in nash bill
Speaker 2: for a weekend and then I went straight from Nashville
Speaker 2: to Cincinnati to visit family. I have a picture of
Speaker 2: my mom and my brother. Also there were Yo, look
Speaker 2: how cute here she is? Ah, that's us. I forgot
Speaker 2: her name. Most name Paula. Paula Paula, Yes, a veteran
Speaker 2: of the show. Yeah, suckt cool.
Speaker 1: Have you been shooting a lot of studio scenes lately
Speaker 1: or more your only kind?
Speaker 2: I shot some, say uncle. I shot like four scenes
Speaker 2: for them, event like over two days, and they were
Speaker 2: both really quick days, really fat. I think one was
Speaker 2: like four hour day and the other one was a fighter.
Speaker 2: But Jake Nicola was part of the second day and
Speaker 2: the second day there were four of us. In the
Speaker 2: first day, it was just me and a twink. Nice Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I filmed with Jake Nicola for my Only fans. I
Speaker 2: adore him. We've been friends a long time.
Speaker 1: Filmed are really really hot like big Bro Little Bro
Speaker 1: kind of scene, which was great, and then I took
Speaker 1: like a considerable break from filming like that. My winter
Speaker 1: was very not filming focused. It was more about parties
Speaker 1: and moves and but I had get.
Speaker 2: You backstays too. You have to like when you're moving
Speaker 2: that disrupt it's so disruptive. Yeah, like right, you can't
Speaker 2: get anything. Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: I do have a picture of one of my most
Speaker 1: recent collabs. Yeah, do you know this fellow.
Speaker 2: Is? Yeah, yeah, I've known him forever. He looks very
Speaker 2: different now than when I met him with with Julia Fox.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah Instagram. He did some I don't know what.
Speaker 1: He used to do on reality TV, so he knows
Speaker 1: a lot of people. But he and Logan Stevens have
Speaker 1: been a thing, and Logan filmed for us. I want
Speaker 1: to get Logan on this podcast sometime this season.
Speaker 2: We'll do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he'll be He'll be a great guest. I also
Speaker 1: worked with Sir Bub yesterday. I was very honored.
Speaker 2: Do you know who Sir Bub is?
Speaker 1: My friend Chay and he just kind of started getting
Speaker 1: into this in last year and he's skyrocketed and popularity
Speaker 1: because he's very specific about his aesthetic where he's just
Speaker 1: very like rough down top.
Speaker 2: We talked about filming but like a while ago, but
Speaker 2: it hasn't happened.
Speaker 1: I mean, his stuff is like fun to watch, but
Speaker 1: I don't know if like it's I'm I'm excited to
Speaker 1: ask him questions about it because he really leaned into
Speaker 1: like the leather boots, like boots on face while getting
Speaker 1: fucked kind of thing. But he asked me to be
Speaker 1: his first ever topping scene partner. So I did that yesterday,
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited. I was very honored that he
Speaker 1: asked me to him top him for his first ever
Speaker 1: bottoming scene.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it went really well. It was beautiful. Speaking
Speaker 2: of disruptive, did you see our Maria. I've been seeing
Speaker 2: it so everybody.
Speaker 1: If you may remember, we had Susie Q on. We
Speaker 1: did a scene with her directing where it's called Narcissist
Speaker 1: and it's about to release on asg Max.
Speaker 2: Look it up.
Speaker 1: Cole and I get to act together. I play a
Speaker 1: real bastard.
Speaker 2: He plays like a very Patrick Bateman.
Speaker 1: Yes, he it's very Yeah, but I mean I love
Speaker 1: the trailer for it. It's like artsy FARTSI Disruptive is
Speaker 1: like that disruptive as always. It always looks good. It's
Speaker 1: nice to have a studio because I have not been
Speaker 1: doing a lot of studio stuff lately. I haven't really
Speaker 1: contacted any directors about working together, but to have something
Speaker 1: like that looks high profile kind of coming out in
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, I'm very excited about. I do have
Speaker 1: a question for you, though, I was offered something by
Speaker 1: Say Uncle. I hope they're not listening. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: talk shit. I'm just gonna say, like, the off did you?
Speaker 2: Did?
Speaker 1: They offer you? The All Stars scene? So they're putting
Speaker 1: something together called like Say Uncle all Stars. They're like, hey,
Speaker 1: we want to feature you. We're really excited. Would you
Speaker 1: want to be one of our All Stars? And I
Speaker 1: was like me, oh my goodness, of course, Like sure,
Speaker 1: what do I need to know? And they're like here,
Speaker 1: we're gonna send you a questionnaire and just fill it out?
Speaker 1: And the questionnaire was like the questions were so different,
Speaker 1: they were just so broad. It was just like, what's
Speaker 1: your ideal porn scene? Who are the three actors you'd
Speaker 1: most like to work with? What is a talent you'd
Speaker 1: like to showcase that like people may not know about you?
Speaker 3: And I kind of was like, I don't want to
Speaker 3: answer any of these questions. Do you have something you
Speaker 3: want to cast me in? Like I cause I can
Speaker 3: tell you if that works for me. And they were
Speaker 3: real sweet about it.
Speaker 2: They were like, don't.
Speaker 1: Overthink it, like take your time, but like we'd love
Speaker 1: to get this going soon.
Speaker 2: And and I have not.
Speaker 1: Because I don't like how do I like, I'd love
Speaker 1: to fuck in a hot air balloon?
Speaker 2: Can you make that happen?
Speaker 1: Like, I don't know how to answer, like an ideal
Speaker 1: porn scene. I've been working in this industry for twelve years.
Speaker 1: I've done them all, Like how would you answer that?
Speaker 1: What is your ideal porn scene that say Uncle could
Speaker 1: potentially produce?
Speaker 2: I don't know if it would be say Uncle's thing.
Speaker 2: I mean, like, you know I love a gang bang, right,
Speaker 2: it's like an ideal one for me? Yeah, but you've
Speaker 2: done that. I've done it, and I feel like if
Speaker 2: they're picking the guys, it's not gonna be the kind of.
Speaker 1: Like you're like, can you make it a gang bang
Speaker 1: in uh the Oval office or something crazy?
Speaker 2: Like I don't know, well maybe not this Oval office.
Speaker 1: It's like god shit, yeah, and like three you know,
Speaker 1: three ideal porn stars like that I would film with,
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, do they have to be under
Speaker 1: twenty two?
Speaker 2: If they's a uncle. Anyway, I love the offer.
Speaker 1: I was very flattered, but I didn't I have not answered,
Speaker 1: so I got to think about it.
Speaker 2: Hey, reach out to me if you.
Speaker 1: Have any ideas for how to answer this question. Who
Speaker 1: do you want me to film with and what scenarios
Speaker 1: would you like to find me in?
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but anyway, I'm excited to see narcissists. I think
Speaker 1: that'll be fun. Do you have any studio scenes coming
Speaker 1: up that you're scheduled for.
Speaker 2: Well, it's not really a studio scene. It's like, you know,
Speaker 2: Mark mcnamaray does that porn star game show thing. You've
Speaker 2: told me I'll do it. I've done it on Fire
Speaker 2: Island a couple of times. But it's just kind of fun.
Speaker 2: And now they have like housewives involved in it too.
Speaker 2: The last one I did it was just kind of
Speaker 2: like it wasn't a full one, but it had one
Speaker 2: of them, like one of the Housewives of Orange County.
Speaker 2: She was there and it was just a like Mickey's
Speaker 2: you know, okay, but so he's doing something, he's shooting
Speaker 2: in it. We're shooting in Porta Viarta. I'm just flying
Speaker 2: in for like wow the night before and then we'll
Speaker 2: shoot on the day and then I go out, okay,
Speaker 2: and yeah it'll be it's called Mark McNamara's Hot Tub
Speaker 2: Party or something, hot Tub Games or something like that.
Speaker 1: Is this associated with Naked Sword or Falcon or is
Speaker 1: it just his own thing?
Speaker 2: I think it's his own thing. He told me that
Speaker 2: Raheem is another is also gonna be one of the
Speaker 2: important stars.
Speaker 1: And he's not really, but he's kind of part of
Speaker 1: their team, isn't he isn't?
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's He's definitely a producer right now. Voyeur is
Speaker 2: part of kind of under the Falcon Falcon umbrella. It's
Speaker 2: part of Naked Sword. Yeah, gotcha. I don't know. I
Speaker 2: don't really work with them that much. Well, that's why
Speaker 2: I asked.
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, are you still sort of
Speaker 1: under that umbrella yourself?
Speaker 2: A little bit? They just don't really. They just don't
Speaker 2: really seem interested in putting me in anything lately. Same, honey,
Speaker 2: I think my time has passed there. But that's okay.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm mentioning my daddy years. You know,
Speaker 2: maybe they're.
Speaker 1: Not ready to have me come back in that. I
Speaker 1: also haven't really asked. I haven't been like, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: looking real good these days.
Speaker 2: You want to have me back speaking out.
Speaker 1: I did unlock something also on my Coasreaker trip that
Speaker 1: I thought you'd find funny. If the airport, I realized
Speaker 1: something about myself that sometimes reading things can.
Speaker 2: Be a little hard. I have to look like this.
Speaker 1: And my gentleman friend was like, well, maybe you should
Speaker 1: get some reading glasses. So I did. Here, I'm going
Speaker 1: to put on my new prescription ones. They look kind
Speaker 1: of like this. I put these on and his fucking
Speaker 1: asshole started gaping and he was just like, you need
Speaker 1: to wear those one?
Speaker 2: Are you still giving the secret? No? I mean I
Speaker 2: just don't use his name.
Speaker 1: I mean people know it's pretty obvious, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but no, things have been going great there. We had
Speaker 1: a great time and I fucked him with these glasses on,
Speaker 1: and it was like.
Speaker 2: Could they fog up? Yes?
Speaker 1: You like uh, But it was like kind of a
Speaker 1: little bit dad sung role play, a little bit professor's
Speaker 1: student role play is kind of fun.
Speaker 2: You guys should make do a glasses series by fouls
Speaker 2: by Fuckles like.
Speaker 1: By Fuckles starring Adam Ramsey, just leaning into the dad stuff.
Speaker 2: Whatever. I give a massage in my apartment. I can
Speaker 2: see the clock on the microwave and on the stove
Speaker 2: like from afar, and I like, I've noticed that I
Speaker 2: have to squint more so like just in the justin Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then like the last six months, I haven't ice
Speaker 2: a thing that happened. I'm like, what, why can't I
Speaker 2: see it? Do I have like massage lotion in my eye? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Now I just anymore? How is massage going? It's good? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's it's been helpful.
Speaker 1: I have to say, do you know if you are
Speaker 1: actually good at massaging?
Speaker 2: I do know that I actually am good. I got
Speaker 2: really good at it. Like when I did it, I
Speaker 2: focused on it really hard for like a month or
Speaker 2: I gave I don't know, like so many I get,
Speaker 2: like I don't know, like forty or fifty massages in
Speaker 2: a month. Oh my god, that's a lot. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: And so I kind of it just kind of helped
Speaker 2: me nail down that because it's like it's like choreography.
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, you need to kind of time you
Speaker 2: need each session. Yeah, like you can, and you can.
Speaker 2: You can folk you can change the focus here and there,
Speaker 2: and like work, you know, you feel things that need
Speaker 2: to be worked out. Yes, but I feel like I'm
Speaker 2: just kind of I don't know, people say, people mention
Speaker 2: all the time that my hands feel like really big,
Speaker 2: like because I just really like spread them out. Like
Speaker 2: a lot of people like rely on leaning on their
Speaker 2: elbows and doing a lot of stuff with their farms
Speaker 2: and stuff you don't see. I do a little bit,
Speaker 2: but it's like it's a lot of hands. It's more hands.
Speaker 2: I love massaging. Yeah, and actually now and it's like
Speaker 2: so it's like so zen and like therapeutic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I got I got an Instagram friend of
Speaker 1: mine who's a big muscle behemoth to come over recently
Speaker 1: just so I could give him a massage.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fund it's fund of massage, like a big large.
Speaker 1: Yes, because there is something like I mean, no matter what,
Speaker 1: there is something into it about massage and like there
Speaker 1: you know, there is especially if you have this big,
Speaker 1: beautiful muscly body, Like I lean into the body worship
Speaker 1: thing about it, and I think that's so sexy.
Speaker 2: Yeah I never thought of it like that. But it's
Speaker 2: totally like you're like, oh yeah, yeah, this is a
Speaker 2: You're like I am a sucker for like a big
Speaker 2: ass and big legs, So like when I get down there, I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, I, well, I always ask, you know, it's my
Speaker 1: one of my things. It's like it's kind of fun
Speaker 1: to ask for permission. I think, like consent is sexy,
Speaker 1: like and I lean into that notion and I actually
Speaker 1: like massaging over.
Speaker 2: And around a butthole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not probing it too, but just like around it
Speaker 1: and at it and pressing it. And it's like really
Speaker 1: fun to see what kind of reactions I get. I know,
Speaker 1: speaking of consent to sexy, have you been have you
Speaker 1: been having issues with like guys being a little pushy lately?
Speaker 2: Pushy as in like asking to collab or pushy like
Speaker 2: when you're hooking up with them.
Speaker 1: I'm realizing that a lot of guys don't get the
Speaker 1: hint that like pushy's not sexy. I'll just give you
Speaker 1: one example. There was one dude at Hot Dog recently,
Speaker 1: very handsome, but he literally kept like he would come
Speaker 1: up to me and just be like, wow, you are
Speaker 1: so beautiful. I just can't you know. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: thank you, that's very sweet. I do my quite blushy
Speaker 1: thing that I do. And then he was just like,
Speaker 1: you need to give me your number, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm good.
Speaker 2: Thanks.
Speaker 1: I mean, he was not a bad looking guy, but
Speaker 1: like you know, I was just like, well, I gotta
Speaker 1: get going because you know, I'm.
Speaker 2: Always running around at Hot Dog.
Speaker 1: And he put his arm up against the hallway in
Speaker 1: front of me and was like, Nope, you can't pass
Speaker 1: until you give me your number. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't like that.
Speaker 2: Can you not do that?
Speaker 1: Actually, you know what, don't do that with anybody, and
Speaker 1: not me.
Speaker 2: Today or ever.
Speaker 1: Whatever progress you think you made with me is completely
Speaker 1: in the dust now because you thought that was the move.
Speaker 1: I was going to make a post about it the
Speaker 1: next day where I was going to be like talking
Speaker 1: to the camera just being like pushy is not sexy.
Speaker 1: People speak up, like, don't let this happen to you,
Speaker 1: And then I erased it because I was like, I
Speaker 1: feel so dumb.
Speaker 2: This has been happening to women for years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like now when it's like happening to me in
Speaker 1: a time when I feel like strong enough to stand
Speaker 1: up for myself, I'm going to say something about it
Speaker 1: when like women have literally been saying this for forever
Speaker 1: that like men can be really really tone.
Speaker 2: Deaf because I guess there are situations where you would
Speaker 2: respond differently to that depending on the person that you
Speaker 2: would be. Like you could be like, oh, why does
Speaker 2: that turn me on?
Speaker 1: But like yeah, you know, well yeah, like remember that
Speaker 1: story about the guy who stayed on my test?
Speaker 2: It he didn't earn it? Yeah, like you know, yeah, No,
Speaker 2: there's a you're at work because maybe he didn't realize
Speaker 2: that year.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I think what it is is I think
Speaker 1: for a lot of people they missed that there's a
Speaker 1: line between charm and like aggressions and charm and cringe.
Speaker 1: For sure, that's what it is, versus charm versus cringe.
Speaker 1: The title learn Learn the Difference, y'all. I had a
Speaker 1: coffee with a female friend of mine who I thought
Speaker 1: it was so cool that she remembered years ago that
Speaker 1: I had done something where like we were there's somebody
Speaker 1: I used to play music with and we were on
Speaker 1: tour and a strake I had a speck of something
Speaker 1: on his face and I told him about it and
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, where is it? And I put
Speaker 1: my hand out and I said may I and he
Speaker 1: was like, oh sure, And I like it was able
Speaker 1: to like peel it off of his face, and she
Speaker 1: remembered that moment. She was like, I thought it was
Speaker 1: so classy and kind of sexy how you did that.
Speaker 1: And I was just like, it's always better with permission.
Speaker 1: It's always sexy you with permission. It's like a rule
Speaker 1: of mine. And I love doing that with boys on
Speaker 1: like dance floors, when, like, you know, if I compliment
Speaker 1: their chest and I just put my hands up and
Speaker 1: I go, may I, They're almost always like, yes.
Speaker 2: Please seem about me, motor. I mean, at least my
Speaker 2: little Galinda. My tag on the red carpet? Is that
Speaker 2: a tiara? It is? It's my Glinda Crown.
Speaker 1: It's I like that you still say the A in
Speaker 1: the first syllable.
Speaker 2: You're Glinda Crown. Yeah, very cutely. They'll look at that.
Speaker 2: That's Miles and Ryes.
Speaker 1: He's so little, I know, that's really cute.
Speaker 2: That's us before the Men dot Com party, okay, which
Speaker 2: was super fun. That's Nicholas Ryder. Oh, he's so cute.
Speaker 2: Before we filmed. He looks kind of short too. He's
Speaker 2: kind of short. Really. Yeah.
Speaker 1: He always reads tall to me in his photos. Oh,
Speaker 1: oh interesting, No.
Speaker 2: And that's my Men dot Com surprise face. That is
Speaker 2: exactly what that is. Yes, that's because I had a
Speaker 2: I had a scene come out with Trevor something. It
Speaker 2: really doesn't matter anyway, but it was like where I'm
Speaker 2: I'm working at the massage place and I'm gonna put
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm just at the desk. So he comes
Speaker 2: comes in orders a treatment or massage, a cupping thing there.
Speaker 2: I am okay, cute. That is a very very good picture.
Speaker 2: Limited art imitates life. He goes on the table and
Speaker 2: there's like a curtain over over like his over his
Speaker 2: like tailbone, and there's a girl cupping him like she's
Speaker 2: next to his head, and I'm behind I come up
Speaker 2: and like start eating his ass without concept. Oh well,
Speaker 2: sounds like a porn scene. Sounds like a men. Dot
Speaker 2: comes in so she's cupping him and he's like moaning
Speaker 2: and stuff. And then like when she finally like opens
Speaker 2: the curtains to see what is going on, I'm under
Speaker 2: the table now and like under the like where he
Speaker 2: can see the floor. I skewed under there, and I'm like,
Speaker 2: has this released? It is? So why do you make
Speaker 2: your surprise face? What are you surprised by? It's like
Speaker 2: it's just the like I got I got caught face
Speaker 2: because like it's just for a still and she like
Speaker 2: opens the curtains and I'm there right that by his ass.
Speaker 2: Surprise face is like, oh no, busted.
Speaker 1: I mean they have they have guys do that face
Speaker 1: during like mid thrust too, for the marketing stills.
Speaker 2: It drives me crazy. I don't like it. Yeah, yeah, ready,
Speaker 2: okay two three surprise face.
Speaker 1: Uh okay, I think we got to wrap this up.
Speaker 1: But I've missed you, Cole. I'm really glad we're doing
Speaker 1: this again, and I'm so excited to continue and to
Speaker 1: bring everybody our guests and more conversations about being gay
Speaker 1: sluts on camera.
Speaker 2: And off camera. Hey guys, bye, like comment and subscribe,
Speaker 2: and until next time, stay sexy