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Speaker 2: Night.
Speaker 1: So what's that?
Speaker 2: Everybody welcome too for crying out loud.
Speaker 1: Woo woo woo woo.
Speaker 2: Okay, So, uh, Saturday, after our big fundraiser thing, Sadie
is like, by the way, Sadie, I'm so proud of her.
Speaker 1: She's been driving around. I love that she's been.
Speaker 2: It's been a little bit forced, as I told you,
because apparently Xander is treating her like a chauffeur and going, hey,
can you take me here?
Speaker 1: Can you take me there?
Speaker 2: And I think I told you this last week. She complains,
but I'm like, it's good for you. She's getting more confident.
She's been driving to school.
Speaker 1: Oh that's great. Yeah, yeah, and we offer.
Speaker 2: We're like, if you if you need us to drive
you and pick you up, it's fine. And she's like,
I got it.
Speaker 1: That's great. Oh I love that. Yeah, I'm kind of
proud of her for that.
Speaker 2: So so it's Saturday evening, it's kind of early. Sadie's like, Hey,
my friend and I are going to go because we're
going to a party tonight and Xander's coming with us.
So I was like okay, and she's like, so, but
I need Dad to drive us. So we were kind
of wrapping up what we were doing now. So keep
in mind if you listen to our Tuesday show, I
was so.
Speaker 1: Bone freakin tired.
Speaker 2: Like my feet I don't know if my feet have
ever hurt that bad, Like I had blisters on my
feet just from walking back and forth. My everything hurt,
my legs hurt, my back hurt. I was so done,
and if you remember from last week, I'm like, move it.
Even after the whole thing's over, been there eight hours,
I'm like moving.
Speaker 1: Chairs back, Like where is everybody? They're not helping. So finally,
you know, I just was like fuck it, I don't care.
I'm leaving.
Speaker 2: Like I was like, it's not mye Like, yeah, well,
people got there early. They got there early, but I
felt bad because some of the other people that got
there early were still there.
Speaker 1: But I was like, dude, I gotta go.
Speaker 2: I had people at home waiting to be walked. And
then I knew something about some party that was happening.
I was really too tired to think about it, but
I was like, Okay, they're going to a party and
John has to drive them. So then we're going home
and John's like, yeah, so the kids, So I have
to drive them to a thousand Oaks, which not to
be not to be SNL, but like thousand Oaks is
not that close to our house.
Speaker 1: It's kind of far. So I was like thousand Oaks,
Like who do they know in thousand Oaks?
Speaker 2: So we get home, I'm so tired and I really
haven't eaten that much, but like I'm thinking, like am
I going to go try to get some food?
Speaker 1: Am I going to order in? I'm so tired, I
just want to go to bed.
Speaker 2: So John's like, don't worry, I'll I'll drive them out
two thousand Oaks. So say they're all they're waiting to go,
and they're like, we need to go now because we
got to get there early because we're scared they're going
to stop letting people in. And I'm like, stop letting
people in, you know, And of course they're like, get
like an Instagram party close. It's Jamie Fox's daughter's sweet sixteen.
Speaker 3: I've heard of somebody's whose kids went to that too,
And it is a big kashaw.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 3: It is a cashaw getting in and out okay, and
his my friend's kid has gone I think two years
now in a row.
Speaker 1: It's a big thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, uh, it's a big thing. Every teenage girl in
the valley was at this thing. It turns out, so
I'm just like Jamie Fox's daughter. So Sadie's like, well,
my friend and so and so is friends with a
girl who's really good friends with her. Name's like Analise,
I think with Analse. So I'm like, oh, okay, Like
they're I was like, where is it. They're like I
think it's at his house. So I'm like okay. Like
at this point, I'm just like whatever, like go okay,
have fun. Yeah, So Xander's meeting his girlfriend there. She's
going with a group of her girlfriends. My kids are
going like a little bit later because we had just
gotten home. Right, they go home, they change into costumes,
they're ready to go. I'm like, bye, have a good time,
and John's like, don't worry, I'll take them both. I'll
go both both ways, both drives, Like I'll go out
there and then okay.
Speaker 1: So I'm like okay. So then I started getting text
from John at.
Speaker 2: Like like thirty minutes later, he's texting me he's like
this just the road there. Yeah, he's like, first of all,
this is in life the shadow ranch, which is not
this is like really not even thousand Oaks. It's like
way south. He goes, I'm on some rural road. I
have a picture of like the traffic jam, which I
could post.
Speaker 1: I was just talking to my friend, uh over the week.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, it was yesterday and he was telling
me he was going to pick up his kids from
this party.
Speaker 1: So there's no wife.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that looks like you're trying to get
into a state. She's showing me a picture. Yeah, the
traffic it looks like Dodger Stadium traffic.
Speaker 1: Yes, so it's that's insane.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so he's he's like, I don't know what to do.
He goes, I'm basically stuck on this road and there's
no stop traffic, right, there's no Wi Fi. So at
this time he's sending me the pictures. I was getting them,
but he's like, it's not his way to drop them,
this is not his way to just take them there.
So then he gets there, here's a picture. It's that's
like hard to see, but that's like that's outside, that's
not has nothing to do with the party. Yeah, it's
like a concert venue, it's like the Forum. So but
but at this point, understand that, like I'm in I'm
laying in bed, still fully dressed. But I'm like, okay,
He's like, I don't.
Speaker 1: Know how we're gonna get there.
Speaker 2: He's like, I've been sitting in So then eventually I'm
getting like a few updates. Then I just stopped getting
updates from him because he had no WiFi. Yeah, so
apparently what happened is he got he finally they're in
the car.
Speaker 1: They're stuck there.
Speaker 2: It took like forty five minutes to get like a mile,
you know, because they're just stop traffic. So then he
gets there, there's he said, there's just kids everywhere. There's
thousands of kids. It's not even at the house. It's
at this drop off point where they get on shuttle buses.
Now Sadie is now starting to panic and she's like,
I don't I don't want to do this. Yeah, just
take me home, right, But apparently Xander, who's meeting up
with his girlfriend's apparently already there and Sadie's friend are.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, it will be fine, Like let's just go,
let's just go.
Speaker 2: So she's like all right, So he drops him off,
which I'm sorry, but I was like, okay, but how
were you thinking we were going to be able to
pick him up again? He's like he had that internet
and he goes, I don't know. I guess I just
figured they'd figure it out. So I'm like, but I
don't know this until he's back close enough that he
has WiFi again. Then he calls me. He's like, oh
my god, that was such a shit show. He's like,
I waited in this crazy line. I finally was able
to drop him off. He's like, there's all these security guards.
I rolled down the window. I'm like, how I just
want to drop them off, like I'm not coming to
this party. And I guess the security guards were like, okay,
well let him off, but then you got to veer off,
like don't go to the parking letter.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be stuck there. You're not getting out.
Speaker 2: So they told him how he had to make like
some hair point turn turn around get back to the
main road, which also took time because there were other
cars that had just dropped off and ubers.
Speaker 1: You know, could you a man and if you drove them.
Speaker 2: No, Well, what we were what we were imagining is if
Sadie had driven, because we didn't know. He's like, I
am just thank god that Sadie didn't drive there. She
would have had an absolute panic attack. Like he's like,
it would have been difficulty level ten, you know for
this new driver. But he's like, thank god it was
me driving. Okay, So he lets him off, he leaves.
I'm like, he goes, I just now have back reception.
So of course, now I'm like, wait, what so they
have no reception?
Speaker 1: I said.
Speaker 2: He's like yeah, I go, well, how are we going
to find him again? And then he gives me It
shows me the pictures of like he's like, they're just
see of thousands, thousands of kids.
Speaker 1: The fuck that.
Speaker 2: This is not the party, by the way, this is
the spot, the drop off spot where they're going to
get on shuttle buses. So I said, so there was
no he goes, there is no way to wait there
to see if they're going to get in. He goes,
I there were cars behind me. I had to leave.
So I was like, okay, So now I'm racking my brain.
I'm just okay. So then I try to text Sadie
I'm like, hey, just seeing if you have cell reception.
Nothing doesn't it's undelivered delivery, No, it doesn't deliver. So
then I text Xander and it does deliver and it's
in blue, right, So I'm like, Okay, he does he
has cell reception, but he's not answering me. So I'm like, well,
maybe it's just really loud, maybe it's just crazy, maybe
he's not checking his phone. Okay, like maybe they have
cell reception. But then like a long time goes by
and he never responds to me, so I'm like, and
Sadie's text is still not delivered at this point, So
then I'm I'm starting to like panic a little bit
because I'm like, well, if they didn't get into this thing,
how are they going to tell us that they need
to get home? Xander supposedly had an Uber app on
his phone, but I'm like, if he doesn't have reception,
how's he going to call an uber?
Speaker 1: Right? So I'm starting to have like and I'm so tired.
Speaker 3: So there's no cell reception at the drop off place either,
because I.
Speaker 2: Know it's he it's so far off the beaten path,
it's down. John said it was like remote Oh my god. Right,
So okay, so this is what happens. So now I'm
just starting to get really nervous and I don't know
what to do. And John's like, I'm not like freaking out,
but I was like, I just don't feel comfortable, Like
we can't they can't contact us, We can't contact them.
How are we gonna go get him? There's no meat And.
Speaker 1: In my mind, I'm like, why didn't you just like
pick a meat spot, like just go just in case.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but He's he said, there's just no way to do,
like where It's.
Speaker 1: Funny because I was talking to my friend.
Speaker 3: You had to pick up his kid goes to school
with Jamie Fox's kid.
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah? And so he so he's gone like
two years in a row and the dad went to
uh yes.
Speaker 3: So it was a it was a shit show both.
Like last year, he remembers trying to he didn't go
to the party.
Speaker 1: He just dropped off. Pokay. So what he did was
he told his son this.
Speaker 3: Year, meeting you at midnight, meet me at this one spot.
Speaker 1: Well, of course that doesn't He's like, okay, got it.
Speaker 3: And he's not only picking up his son, but he's
picking up the other two friends that his son's with.
So he gets that he's in the same like it's
you're driving your drive, it's like there's traffic. It's just
a fucking shit show. It's like going to a concert.
And he goes to the spot and he's waiting and
he's giving it. Now it's a half an hour and
now his son shows up. But now he's supposed to
take the other two kids home. He's like, well, where's
what's his face? And what's his face? Well, one is
on his way, he's just taking a leak. Now he's
gonna meet he's coming. So then then that second kid
shows up. Now this other one kid is stuck at
the party and they don't They're like, we got lost,
they got we got separated. We couldn't find him. But
he knows that at midnight he's supposed to come and whatever.
And now they're waiting and wait.
Speaker 1: It was just to be responsible for another freaking kid,
That's exactly exactly.
Speaker 3: And then the kid came showed up and he was
like buzzed and he was like mouthing off a little bit,
like why do we got to leave so early and
stuff like that, and He's like, hey, I'm fucking eating
get home until like three o'clock in the morning, picking
the kid up at midnight because that's how long it
took to get in and out and no cell service
and it's just a fucking disaster.
Speaker 1: What do they do? Put this thing online?
Speaker 3: Like, is every kid in the San Fernando Valley invited
to Jamie Fox's party?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 2: Why because they like they have like a big club promoter. Yeah,
and then it just gets out it's on Instagram and
so okay.
Speaker 1: So okay, sorry, so no, no, no.
Speaker 2: No, that's this is basically the story. Yeah, except my
kids never got into the party. Spoiler alert, they didn't
go to the party. It was such a show. So
I'm starting to like get.
Speaker 1: I would have been if I were you. Two after
the day you had and had we had no meeting spot,
no meeting spot.
Speaker 2: So John's like, well, should I just go out there
and try to find them?
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, well that doesn't seem to
make sense.
Speaker 2: So I have this I can't think of anybody, but
I have this bright idea that I do have Xander's
girlfriend's mom. Okay, I have her text, I've I think
I met her once, like we said hi, and she
seems really nice, but we've texted.
Speaker 1: A couple of times.
Speaker 2: So I text her and I was like, hey, like now,
but by the way, I'm thinking, like, there's no way
Xander was even able to meet up with her, Like
she's not with my kids they were meeting up with her.
Speaker 1: She was with her own friends.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, this is already a long shot because
I don't know if I don't know if they found
each other in this enormous crowd. So I text her
and I was like, hey, do you have cell reception
with your kid? Let's call her a Jay. I'm like,
do you are you in contact with Jay? Like do
you have cell reception? And she's like, oh, uh, I
don't know. And I said because apparently, like there's no
cell reception down there, and I cannot get a hold
of my kids and it's like supposed to be a
big mess down there. Like I probably would have said Kashaw, yeah,
like she wouldn't have.
Speaker 1: Gotten it, you know.
Speaker 2: Then I would have had to explain which kashaw means,
and then I would have had to tell her I
have a podcast and then she might listen to it.
So that's all I know now, So I said. She
was like what, I No, I didn't know this, and
I said yeah, apparently, and then I start I was like, yeah,
it was like really crazy and there's no cell reception
and it's like a massive crowd, and I don't know
something about shuttle buses. And she's like, uh, well, hold on,
let me try to see if I can get a
hold of Jay.
Speaker 1: So I'm like okay. So then she gets back to me.
Speaker 2: Basically she's like, so, yeah, every nobody's having cele reception.
She goes, but one of my friends, she's like, Jay
is with like eight other girls, and she's like, and
one of them does one of the other parents has
had contact with her daughter. And I was like, oh, okay,
that's good to know, just because she's like, but nobody
else seems to be able to get their phones to work.
Speaker 1: So well, I was just gonna like, this is just insane.
Reads you a little bit of my nervous Yeah, so.
Speaker 3: The city have to like shut it down at some point,
Like what what does the city not get involved? I mean,
especially with traffic back bumper to bumper on the freeway
and shuttle buses and no, why I don't know yea.
Speaker 2: So she's like, she goes, Okay, Jay's phone is either
off or dead, but my friend's daughter texted and she
has a reception. She goes, want me to make sure
that Xander and Sadie found Jay, And I was like,
in my mind, I'm like that it's just such a
long shot. But anyway, she wrote, Okay, Jay is with
eight girls, so if we need to get a hold
of someone, I know a few of them have phones
that are working. So I'm like, okay, thanks, I haven't
heard back from my kids. They do not have reception,
And I said, but I guess it's probably going to
be a few hours till they want to leave the party. Anyway,
so she writes, Spotty's service with Jay, but I think
they're trying to leave. So I'm like, okay, that's not good.
And this, by the way, this is only at nine
forty five, so it's not like I'm thinking. I'm thinking
at this point like they're in a long line and
they can't like it's not fun, you know. So I said,
do you know if they're with Xander? And she wrote
they can't even they can't get into the party, and
then she wrote yes, they're all together.
Speaker 1: So I was like, it's good, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: So then I was able to calm down a little
bit that they're all together. Meanwhile, though, I have no
way to get a hold of my kids. And it
turned out later both their phones totally not working at all,
zero cell receptions. So maybe it had to do with
you know, maybe a couple of kids had a different
like maybe we have like T mobile, and maybe they
had something else that was able to get a tower,
you know, like so only like one so one girl
out of the group of Jay's friends, one girl's phone
had reception, but she was only at like ten percent battery.
Speaker 1: So it was like it was like alive, right, it
was like who are they going to eat first? You
know what I mean. They're like, so this one girl,
So they're all like crowded around this wall, like sheeting
up in a battery. Yes, yes, going like.
Speaker 2: And they're trying to ration out this girl's battery. So
like some people are trying to get a hold of
their they're trying to figure out.
Speaker 1: A plan to leave.
Speaker 2: Apparently I only found a lot of this out on
the back end, like from my kids. But so she wrote,
She wrote eleven of them are all together. They're sitting
on a shuttle, but the shuttle isn't moving because the
parties stopped letting people in. So I'm like, okay, are
they on a shuttle going toward the party or away
from the party? And she's like, from what I understand,
they're just waiting down the street, but sitting in a shuttle.
Then she's like, I'm trying to see if I can
order an uber. So this was like what you were
dealing with at that rave that tell you went to
where their batteries are out.
Speaker 1: You're trying to right somebody's phone stolen. You're sending the uh,
you're trying to send the uber. I'm trying to get
an uber to get right.
Speaker 2: So I said they don't have reception though to order
an uber and she's like, I could order it for
Jay Xander and Sadie and Sadie's friend and to go
to your house. And I was like, okay, I go,
I don't know, I can't get a hold of my kids.
She's like, no one's phone is working, and then she
wrote only one of the eleven is working. And then
I said, how do we get an uber to them?
With no location, and she's like, I have an address,
so okay. So then she's apparently, so here's what ended
up happening. She's try she tries to send them an Uber.
She tries like eight times. They just keep canceling because
I guess the ubers get to where there's just bumpered
up them for traffic. So she's like, it keeps saying
eighteen minutes away, the ubers eighteen minutes away.
Speaker 1: And she's like it canceled. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So then and this is so here's from the other
side of the story that I found out later.
Speaker 1: Apparently they were basically it was freezing cold out. These
girls are all.
Speaker 2: In Boostie's and so they they go knock on a shuttle.
I think it was like one of those situations where
it's like a it's not the shuttle that's hired by
the party that's going back and forth.
Speaker 1: It's one of those.
Speaker 2: Like party buses that you know how they park outside
of concerts and they charge you an arm and a
leg to like drive you home, right, but they'll charge
you light two hundred bucks.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: It's like an uber, but they're free range, right, They're
not working for a company. They're like doing their own thing.
So apparently the kids, some driver took pity on them
and let them sit in the car like in their
little shuttle. And then in my mind, I was like,
they should have.
Speaker 1: Just paid, we would have.
Speaker 2: Split it to drive me home, right, But they guess
they didn't think of that, and so then some family
or some group wanted to pay for that shuttle, so
they all got kicked off. So then apparently they couldn't
get any service on their phone. So the one girl
was service. She got an Uber, but there were so
many of them that they had to split up. So
the one girl, so my kid's group was on their own.
This other girl with the only one with phone reception,
got on an Uber and left.
Speaker 1: So oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: So Sadie and Xander and their front they all kept walking.
They walked, like they said, like a half a mile
up this, up this road until they got enough to call,
like they couldn't text. So then John gets a call.
They weren't panicked, but they were like, we don't we
can't get out of here, like the ubers keep canceling.
So John's like, all right, give me a landmark. Like
they were a little bit out of the traffic jam
because they'd walked like off that road. So basically they
were like, Okay, here's the we're at in front of
a house, here's the address.
Speaker 1: There's like fairy lights, and John's like, all right, horror movie.
Speaker 2: So John went and got them and they were all
a little bit like traumatized but hungry. So John turned
to Del Taco dropped Jay off at her house. The
mom was super grateful because all the ubers canceled.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's.
Speaker 3: Just such a fucked up situation.
Speaker 1: Nice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So, okay, Sadie, one of Sadie's friends, the one
who she thought was friends with Annalise Fox, did get
into the party. So that girl went super early though.
Speaker 1: That's how they got in. She was smart. Yeah, they
went up like six forty five. Oh wow.
Speaker 2: So she was at the party, but she said, so
I was privy to Sadie and I took a drive.
Speaker 1: It was really sweet.
Speaker 2: Sadie's been a little bit low lately, so LB was like, Sadie,
come down to UCLA on Sunday and let's hang and
it was really sweet.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute. That a sweet, big sister thing
to do.
Speaker 2: So I was driving Sadie down there and this girl
was they were They were on the phone on speaker,
so I got to ask questions and I was like, okay, girl.
Speaker 1: She's like, first of all, it was a shit show.
Speaker 2: It was massively crowded, like it wasn't She didn't have
a good time because it was too crowded. It was
just packed bodies together. And I was like, what was
their food. She's like, yeah, but.
Speaker 1: It was like too much stuff was just kind of
open food. She's like. But then they had so they.
Speaker 2: Basically built like a carnival in Jamie Fox's yard.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: So a lot of it was outdoors and they had
like a ferris wheel, they had rides geez. But there
were so many people that you couldn't get on anything,
Like you couldn't enjoy it. She's like, but they did
have some food outside that was like sealed, Like they
had hot dogs that you could get that were like,
she goes, so I had.
Speaker 1: That, She's like, I had a few things just that
were covered.
Speaker 2: But but basically she didn't really recognize any celebrities except
for Chris Brown was there, to which I was like.
Speaker 1: I heard that he was there too. Well. He beat Rihanna.
Is that Like, that's all I think about when I
hear Chris Brown.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think of Rihanna's face being beaten on the
side of the road and like, okay, you know, like
that's your big get is Chris Brown. And then I
saw some pictures. So then Xander found videos. So if
you you can go on Instagram m M and you
can put in in your search terms Jamie Fox Halloween party,
and you will see video of this crazy party and
it is insane. It absolutely looks like a concert.
Speaker 1: That's like a Coachella.
Speaker 2: Massive people, massive, just just bodies together fun.
Speaker 1: Is that I know?
Speaker 2: So Xander when he was looking up the videos, he
was like, I'm actually kind of relieved that we didn't
get into that party.
Speaker 1: It sounds it looked horrible, because.
Speaker 3: What what can you even do, Like, I guess maybe
look around for celebrities. I'm sure you don't even see
Jamie Fox.
Speaker 2: Probably No, Jamie Fox was like on the stage with
Chris Brown, Like it's.
Speaker 1: Not like he was like mingling. There was no mingling.
It was just sardines.
Speaker 2: And apparently in the house as well, like there was
just no you couldn't breathe.
Speaker 1: I let people in the house, I.
Speaker 2: Think so, I think parts of it, right, I think
there were some parts that you could go in, but
mostly it was outside.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I was probably freezing outside. Yeah,
and I'm sure there's a line. I can't imagine the
bathroom situation, Oh yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean they must have had order potties with the line,
and I don't know. I'm too old for that. Fucking shit.
Oh my god, that gnoying sounds like a nightmare. It
does sound like a nightmare. And I cannot believe the
day you had and you couldn't go to sleep.
Speaker 3: Now you're like your kids are sucked into Jamie Fox's vortex, right,
and you can't get him out right, and you have
no way to get a hold of him.
Speaker 2: It was so worny, and John was pissed. John was
mainly pissed about that because he had been there and
seen it, and he.
Speaker 1: Was like, what the fuck is Jamie Fox? Thinking?
Speaker 2: How narcissistic is this guy that he is like creating
such chaos?
Speaker 1: He said, it was like the you know, the fire
fire festival.
Speaker 2: Yes, basically, these kids are stranded out there with like
no bathrooms, no cell service, no phot Yeah, exactly, they're.
Speaker 1: Gonna like takes pity on them camp in front of
some buddy's house, like you know, like he's.
Speaker 2: Like it was just a nightmare. Oh and by the way,
the fire department had to come.
Speaker 1: Because I was wondering just because.
Speaker 2: Some some girl collapsed. There was like a couple of
different incidents where somebody was like too drunk and like collapsed,
and then somebody else was like I think just from
the crowd and.
Speaker 1: The whatever collapse.
Speaker 2: So yeah, there were ambulances there, fire department was there,
Police were there.
Speaker 1: Like, I don't like I would think he would have to.
Speaker 3: Have a permit to have this type of party. Maybe
he gets it, and maybe he.
Speaker 1: Does get it, but what's in it for him? Is
that fun for you? I I guess.
Speaker 3: Everybody's different and they have maybe wants to have his
kid have a great party, but then just the fight
like there are friends.
Speaker 1: Well that's what I was saying. You know what else
is a great party? Like one hundred people? Yes, like
you know you have to invite the whole Sam Fernando,
two hundred people and have a carnival. Yeah, right, right,
that she can have fun at.
Speaker 2: But also I realized too that this wasn't even really
her birthday party.
Speaker 1: It was even though it.
Speaker 2: Was twisted, because it's if he does this every year,
then that's not really her her birthday party, right, So
you're kind of being cheap if you think about it,
like you're just going like, you know what, it'll also
be your sweet sixteen party.
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, how come I didn't get so? I get really, no,
you are already gonna have this party anyway. Yeah, that's true,
that's true. That's true too, But I just don't.
Speaker 3: I don't know what it's in it for him, Yeah,
to have this kind of big party, and then kids
are getting dropped off to not to take the shuttle,
and then they can't get hold of anybody. They can't
get hold of uber, they can't get hold of their parents,
they can't or a fucking pizza outside, like, they can't
do shit, there's no cell and and it's not like
this was just the first time.
Speaker 1: This happened last year to my friend right with his son,
same thing.
Speaker 2: I think that's why John was mad, because he was
just like, you have to know that this is what's
gonna happen, right, You have to know, you have no
cell service. You have to know kids are going to
get stranded.
Speaker 1: You have to know that. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: And so the situation apparently that I found out later
was okay, so where they got dropped off, you have
to wait for a shuttle bus to take you to
the thing, but first you have to get in a
different line, and there was no lines. Xander said, it.
Speaker 1: Was just chaos.
Speaker 2: It was just hordes of people. You have to go
to this first, get a wristband. Okay, So there are
all these people trying to get wristbands. Well and oh,
this is like a funny part of the story. So
he's like, we were just like we're never getting wristbands,
Like there's so many people, and people are pushing and
shoving to get ahead, to get up to the front
of the line. And so one of the girls in
the other in the other little group of friends found
a VIP wristband on the ground, like somebody, I guess,
I've got a wristband and dropped it right, and it
was different than the other wristbands. It was like a
gold wristband and said VIP on it.
Speaker 1: So so this girl was kind of like us, and.
Speaker 2: So she has this idea so she goes up to
a security guard and she was like, hey, I am
friends with my my cousin is she says, she's very
good friends with an Lisa's cousin and she's supposed to
be there. She's like on a list. She's like, I'm VIP.
I'm supposed to be in there right now. They're asking
me like where are you?
Speaker 1: Wow? So this girl yeah.
Speaker 2: So somehow, so the security guard and she's like, look,
I have the I already had this ahead of time.
But she's like, my eleven friends were also supposed to
have them and they didn't get them, so like, how
can we fix this? So I guess the security guard
was like, well, I need to see proof or something,
and he's like, the girl had something in her phone
and I don't know how she had this, but something
that kind of would make it seem like maybe it
was like somebody named Annalise in her phone and she
just thought of that and she was like, yeah, it's
under a code name or whatever.
Speaker 1: But it's antally.
Speaker 2: So the security guard was like, okay, So they all
got risk bands. They all got VIP wristbands, so they
were all like, oh my god, yeah, we did it.
Like that's so crazy, like genius, Like we just totally
finagled that. So they're all got these wristbands, but now
they got to wait in line for the shuttle, right.
Speaker 1: And Xander's like, so you think, like we were all like,
I guess we're going to this party.
Speaker 2: Then we got VIP wristbands, but no, the shuttle line
was so long that all of these people, Xander said,
were just pushing and shoving and getting like the shuttle
doors would open for the next group of people and
all these kids would like shove their way on, but
then they would get turned away at the party because
they didn't have wristbands.
Speaker 1: So it's just people that hadn't waited in the line
for wristbands. We're getting on.
Speaker 2: So then the shuttles would come back full of kids,
and then so Xander's like, we just couldn't. I mean,
it just was hours of waiting until we were finally like,
screw this, it's not worth it. We're not going to
unorganized I know too, I know, and I guess a
bunch of kids decided to rush the property. So the
shuttle buses were driving. It was only like a half
a mile, but it was like up a hill. So
I guess a group of like one hundred kids decided
to just try to rush the party, rush the gates basically,
and then I guess there was a whole Maybe that
was when ambulances had to come because I guess the
security guards were going crazy, like grabbing people and turning them.
Speaker 1: Wow, way and wow.
Speaker 2: You know that's going to happen at your house, right,
And you're just like, I don't care.
Speaker 3: Yeah, You're just having a good old time with Chris
Brown inside your backyard eating your hot dog.
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, kids are getting tramp hurt.
Speaker 2: Yes, do we know what was actually wrong with Jamie Foxx?
I was gonna ask you because he was hospitalized. I
mean I suspected mental health issues, but didn't it turn
out to be like a medical issue, Like nobody really
knows because.
Speaker 3: Now he's okay, right, there was I think there was
talk of like he's going to be out of commission
for a long time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well remember he was acting like a crazy person
on a movie set, like and they were like, oh,
there's it's because of health reasons. Oh that's why everyone
thought it was like mental health stuff. But then he
was hospitalized. But then nobody ever knew what for, but.
Speaker 1: He was hot. Yeah, and he was hospitalized for a while.
And does it say anything.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying it just started with a bad headache,
is what he said. But he was in the hospital
for a long time. All I can I can't really
fund anything.
Speaker 1: Did they keep him you in the hospital for a
long time?
Speaker 2: If and what if? If it was something? Why won't
he say what it was?
Speaker 1: That's that's the weird part.
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you be like, oh my gosh, I had meningitis,
I almost died, Like what there's.
Speaker 1: Why keep it so secret? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know.
I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe we can send your kids out there next year,
do some crack investigating.
Speaker 1: He said.
Speaker 4: He doesn't want to say.
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to say, but I won't say it
on camera. So weird, right, Yeah, that is very weird.
Speaker 4: He said he was just gone for twenty days. He
doesn't remember anything while he was in the hospital. Really, yeah,
that was his quote. He goes, he recalls asking a
friend for advil, and then I was gone for twenty days.
I don't remember anything.
Speaker 2: Do you think it was like remember fluvi that uh
where that woman like loses time?
Speaker 1: Yeah, fused.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes, yeah, you'd like your state. Yes, there
was a documentary.
Speaker 1: I was just telling you. Yeah, yeah right, yeah, maybe
it was something like that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Maybe he thinks people would think he's crazy if he
was Like I was in a fuse state.
Speaker 1: Right, but why not it?
Speaker 3: Yeah it's weird, but yeah, that could have happened, but
then might not talk about it, like yeah, this is
what happened to me, or have your doctor talk about
it on your behalf. I don't know something, but to
keep quiet makes a little suspect, little sus.
Speaker 2: Little susy, as they say. Yeah, so that was my
crazy story that all happened in one day. That's crazy
crazy one day for me.
Speaker 1: What time do you go to bed that night? One? Maybe?
Speaker 2: What I mean, once everybody got home. I think they
didn't get dropped off until like twelve thirty, yeah, maybe
one thirty. I didn't even talk to the kids that night.
Speaker 1: I was so tired. I was in a fuse states.
Speaker 2: I mean, all I know is that they got in
the house and I was like, all right, done, and
then I just tried to go.
Speaker 1: To sleep, right, yeah, goodbye.
Speaker 2: But when I was checking life through sixty on John
because I had the other mom. Jay's mom was texting me,
going is he going to be able to drop her
off at home? And I was like, yeah, I'm sure
he will. But then I check and I'm like, what
these pitches are at Del Taco?
Speaker 1: Like you know what I mean? I was like, does
anybody have consideration for me?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I want to go to sleep.
Speaker 2: I'm sure I could have gone to sleep knowing everybody
was safe, but you know, at that point, I just
wanted to make sure everybody was in the house.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, I know. And I was talking to
my friend like what what this year? Like he drew
the short end of the straw, you know, because last
year his wife had to go get the kids and
she's like no, no, no, no, no, you're going to get
them this year. And he was like yeah, all right,
and did not know what he was in for, right,
you know, but luckily they made you know, they knew
to make a meeting spot and even that kind of work,
but not really you know, he didn't get home until
I think like three after dropping the other two. But
I said to I said, did other parents even thank
you or anything?
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking.
Speaker 3: No, It's like Nope, the funnary hot hair of attacks.
Speaker 1: Nothing, nobody nothing.
Speaker 2: Let's take another quick break. Yeah, my kids. One of
my kids has a friend that I won't I won't
say which kid or which friend, obviously, but I've actually
talked about this one on Patreon before. The parents are
fucking nightmares, like they are. I can't say too much
more specifically, but they are really nightmares, and they there
We have their kid all the time. And this is
a different kid than the one you guys are thinking about,
but always at She's always at our house and she's
absolutely sweet, really like this kid but like never has
a dime, you know, right, and the parents don't. I mean, yeah,
I and the dad tried to pick a fight with
us over our lawn sign. We have one of those
like oh boy, no one's illegal or whatever, you know,
one of those corny ass like liptard signs in front
of our house. But you know, but apparently he took
a picture of it and was saying like, look at
these people, like you know, it's like, well, okay, okay,
our politics don't align with yours. But also like, our
kid's never been to your house, like right, Like you
don't know how to treat your child, yes, like, and
is that really the fight you want to pick with us? Like, right,
who are very good to your kid?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's bizarre, that's not But like I would never
hold I would never hold it against the daughter.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with her.
Speaker 2: And she couldn't be like she's and I'm sure you
feed her when she comes over, of course, and she's
so polite too, like she's always thankful, but like I've
never gotten like a thank you from It's all the
times that you know, Sadie always Sadie. Now that Sadie drives,
Sadie always goes and picks her up, brings her to
our house, drives her home no matter how late it is,
and you know.
Speaker 1: And never like that.
Speaker 3: It's I you know, I've had the same thing, like
the mobile muffins mom.
Speaker 1: In a situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, lived at my house for so long and we
fed her and took her thing, took her place, it
took her out to dinners with us family dinners and shit,
and literally like lived in Italian's room every summer. And
never I didn't even meet the mom. Never, never a
thank you, never a text. Never, Hey, you know, my
mom wanted me to give this twenty dollars bill for
dinner last something like any you know, no, nothing nothing,
what kind.
Speaker 1: Of a weird take advantage? Yeah, I could do.
Speaker 3: I could not let my kid just hang out with
some other family and have them feed her and take
her places and take her to dinner and never like
not a thank.
Speaker 2: You, or also send her to events like where you
know your kid is going. Let's just say to Disneyland
or something, but send them with no money rights.
Speaker 3: It's baffling, it's yeah, or just offer like how about
I go pick them up for a change, Oh, instead
of you picking them up dropping them off?
Speaker 1: Never happened one time. No, it's strange. I know. Yeah,
wow what a weekend. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was just thinking too, like how did we because
we did shit like that when we were in high school,
Like we went to crazy to hear about some party.
Speaker 1: How did we get home from places? Friends? But we
didn't have cell phones at all?
Speaker 2: There was no uber right, I'd say we went to
something and it was just like a massive crowd, because
I remember I did that sometimes me too.
Speaker 1: I guess we just drove ourselves there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I had my friends drove or you found a
friend and you just got somebody that you even met them.
Speaker 1: There to give you a ride back.
Speaker 3: We would also take the RTD bus, yes, a rapid
transit UH District Rapid Transit it. It was URTD and we
would take it everywhere all the time.
Speaker 2: But like for me also, you know, when I was
in high school, beginning of high school, I lived in Spokane.
Second part of high school in Springfield, you could pretty
much well not Springfield Springfield. You'd have to take a
bus or we drove places. But in Spokane, what you
did was it was like kind of a condensed area
where the stuff happened. So it was a far walk,
but like if you had to, you'd just be kind
of walking drunk at like one in the morning, there'd
be a group of you and if you really couldn't
get a ride, even if it was.
Speaker 1: Five miles, you just walk, right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But you didn't go places that were like twenty
miles away, right, I didn't when I was a kid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we well we went.
Speaker 3: We would go to Hollywood Boulevard and we'd go see
bands like on Sunset. But that was with my friend
that had a car, right, Yeah, we had hot butt
in the back of her car, because right, your car
went over a heat and our asses would be on fire.
But yeah, I mean that's about the extent of it.
But yeah, we would just But do.
Speaker 2: You ever remember getting like lost somewhere or feeling like,
oh my god, there's no one to call to come
get us.
Speaker 3: Hell, really, I'm sure it's happened. Yes, Yeah, So you
have to go to like a phone booth and make
a call to your friend, right, I hope they pick up.
Speaker 2: I remember one time I think I've told this story before,
but where my friend and I got a ride to
this like pizza place late at night, and I think
we'd snuck out of the house. So then we were
at this far pizza place that was like five miles
from home, and somehow the guys left, like we got
left there and then we couldn't My parents would first
of all, they would have killed me. Second of all,
they would not have come to get us. Like that's
how my parents. My parents would have been like, go
fuck yourself. Yeah, figured out no buses were running, I'm
pretty sure at that time, So we had to walk
in the middle of the night.
Speaker 1: See that's the crazy five mile walk. You know.
Speaker 2: I don't think we were drunk or anything, but we
were scared the middle of the night and it was
really far and we didn't have like GPS on our
I guess we just knew.
Speaker 1: Enough about our neighborhood to figure out our way home. Yeah,
I would have to take the bus. Can we go again?
But you know the valley? So I lived at Sherman
Way in Fallbrook. Do it in Guilder Rodner's voice, So
when I was.
Speaker 3: At sixteen years old, I would have be afraid to
take of the bus. I would have had to take
of the buses down the Sherman Way and to catch
the Blue line over to the east of valley and
go to Pecaima, And then I'd be lost to go
on the way. The hell am I doing in a Palakuhima?
I'm supposed to be in the West Hills? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Right, you figure out? Figure it out to ping the mall?
Is these two buses? Yes? Yeah, yeah yeah. Our kids,
my kids have never seen the inside of a bus.
Speaker 3: Side I know though we did have a little bus
in our town, so they do. They would take the
bus like two blocks up like you could probably spit
from our house to where they get dropped off.
Speaker 1: It's just this little bussing down. That's it.
Speaker 3: There was no way they would be able to take
a bus, like we would have to take the bus
to the beach from the valley to the beach.
Speaker 2: Yes, my friend Cecily, not Podcast and her Cescily, but
my friend Cecily also grew up in La on the
West Side, and she was like, oh my god, we
would eat hitchhike. She goes, We would take We knew
all the bus routes. She goes, We were always taking
the bus.
Speaker 1: To the beach. Yeah, that's what we did. Yeah, out
on sunset, all the way down to the beach. Yeah.
Of for hitchhiking.
Speaker 3: My dad, don't you ever hitchhike? Don't you you know
that some girl got her arms chopped off?
Speaker 1: He would tell me that.
Speaker 3: And here I am later in life, recently watching some
documentary about this.
Speaker 1: I think it was on HBO.
Speaker 3: But this guy that they thought was the killer of
the these girls in the seventies, and one girl was
found in a ditch with her arms chopped off. Yes,
And I was like, you think that's what my dad
was talking about Because it was in the seventies and
I was a product of the seventies, my dad, and
it's stuck in my brain, like, don't ever hitchhike.
Speaker 1: My arms are going to get chopped off. Oh my god. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So I was afraid my friends would hitchhike and I'd
be like, I'm not chugging.
Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, I'm gonna have my arms.
Speaker 3: And now here I'm like as an adult watching a
documentary and it was this in the seventies, there was
a serial killer like kidnapping women and one girl was
found with her arms ACKed off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, oh my god. Yeah. On that note, I.
Speaker 2: Remember this Lifetime movie that has always haunted me, and
Mary Lou Henner.
Speaker 1: Was in it. Uh huh.
Speaker 2: So if you look up caitln will you look up
a movie Mary Lou Henner Lifetime movie about getting abducted.
But basically, these two women got abducted and one of
them got killed and Mary Lou Henner had to like
play dead. But it was a horrible kidnapping. But they
kind of tortured them and then they shot one of
them and they fell down like an embankment, and then
Mary Lou Henner lived. I believe she was shot, but
she played dead and then she had to, but she
was like really fucked.
Speaker 1: Up, like really hurt.
Speaker 2: But and then they left them in the middle of
like nowhere and she had to figure like try to
she had to get fined like somebody.
Speaker 1: And that movie has haunted me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like stolen by their father. No, that's not what
it's called.
Speaker 2: No, No, this was like a stranger abduction. Yeah, not
stolen by their father. She's probably been in a quite
a few. It's gonna be one of those, like justice.
Speaker 4: For so fight for justice, the Nancy Kahn story.
Speaker 3: I think that's that could be it read the abstract, uh,
it sounds like it's a true true.
Speaker 4: Left drama about a working mom whose life is put
back in jeopardy when the man who is convicted of
stalking her and killing her cousin comes up for parole.
Speaker 2: No different one. There's two that are kind of similar.
That was a good That was a good.
Speaker 1: One too, though I miss those movies. I used to
love Lifetime movies. I'll figure it out for you guys
and and post it. Yeah. I remember looking it up
and I knew it was.
Speaker 2: It's one of those, but it's a it's not that one, yeah,
because there's no stalker.
Speaker 1: This is about like this. But I've seen the movie.
Speaker 2: That that Nancy, that Fight for Job. I've seen that
on a few times. It's a good one.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I used to be so into Lifetime.
Speaker 2: Movies me too, really, like like I watched them all
the time. Yeah, there was like they were on like weekly.
It was even before they were It was when they
were Lifetime movies, not.
Speaker 1: The Lifetime channel. Was it the Lifetime channel, It was
just the.
Speaker 2: I think I think it was the Lifetime Channel. But
it was then they started making a different they started
calling them something, they started rebranding them, right, but this
was like straight up yeah, yeah, Lifetime right the best.
Speaker 1: I think they were just on every week. Maybe I've
been thinking.
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of also the after School Movies of the
Week too, the ABC after School Movies.
Speaker 2: Of the Week, Oh my god, I love those. You
remember James at sixteen? There was James at fifteen and
James at sixteen. Then and there was the Portrait of
a Teenage Runaway.
Speaker 3: Yes it wasn't like Christy McNichol, and yes, I think it.
Speaker 1: Was called Dawn Portrait of a Teenage Runaway. Yes, yeah.
And then there was like the one about the alcoholic
like Sarah.
Speaker 2: It was, I think because I referenced it in Drunkish
Uh huh. It was like called Sarah, like portrait of
an alcoholic teenage alcoholic or something.
Speaker 1: Wow. Then there was one I remember.
Speaker 3: I think it was Molly Ringwold and her and her
boyfriend were in love and then they wanted to kill
themselves and they sat in the car in the garage.
Speaker 1: Killing themselves that way. Yes, do you remember that? Yes? Yes,
Oh my god, we have to find that one Molly Ringwold,
I think, or I think it was. I think it was. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, remember when we felt bad for certain actresses because
they got like roped into only doing lifetime movie. Yes,
there was one that I loved with that Lisa Renna
was in that was years ago, called another Woman's husband.
Speaker 1: Oh, that sounds like something she would be in.
Speaker 2: Right, And like it's like this woman who's married to
this guy. These two women become friends and then and
Lisa Renna's like talking about like this, she meets this
guy and she's like falling in love with him, and
then she's always telling her friend like.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, like.
Speaker 2: Just and she only says his first name or something
because she's like I guess she knows he's married. I
can't remember she knows she he's married, but she like
can't help herself or whatever. Then of course it turns
out that the husband is her friends best friend, and
then the best friend is like so mad, you know.
Speaker 1: Like I can't believe it.
Speaker 2: And then she feels so bad and she's like, oh
my gosh, I'm so so and then she breaks up.
Speaker 1: Anyway, it was like, that was a good one.
Speaker 3: That's a good one, and they should bring those back. Yeah,
I know, yeah, they should watch the.
Speaker 1: Fuck out of those. I totally would. Well, I think, Oh,
wasn't it on were they on own?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, maybe he started having Yeah it was. Oh
it was before they had the Lifetime Movie Network, and
it was just Lifetime Channel and they had movies on
the right. Now they have the Lifetime.
Speaker 1: Movie Network, where I guess you could just watch them
all the time.
Speaker 3: Oh you could, if you have I don't know if
I haven't. No, yeah, I guess we'll leave you with that.
Nice Okay, all right, everybody your parent now.
Speaker 1: Don't have the
Speaker 3: Ma