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Speaker 1: I made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Past sunny sun on I had a vision.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 3: Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud, I'm your host,

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Linte Corolla and that over there, Stephanie.

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Speaker 2: Wow, there any video anymore? For good reason. The reason

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is that I'm in my pajamas right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean cute.

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Speaker 3: I'm literally hair like night hairs like piled on top

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of my head like a rat's nest.

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Speaker 1: I haven't brushed it since the fourth of July. Oh

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my god.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I really do have to go, Okay, what am

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I wearing? And was I with people yesterday that I

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was wearing the same thing. That's a sad fact of

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my life. I actually, after this have to go take

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my Tesla back. Oh yeah, because Adam, God bless him,

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it was too much.

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Speaker 1: I have to do it. It's a long.

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Speaker 3: Story, but I have to drive after this to Montebello

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and then take a frickin' Uber back, which.

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Speaker 2: I feel like Adam told me that there's a weird

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thing with Tesla and he can't.

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Speaker 1: They won't take a third party like returning it or something.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 3: No, So I'm doing it today because I had it

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extended anyway, So I've had it, but yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Might be getting the same car as you.

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Speaker 2: Oh really yeah, because their deals are so on fire

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right now. We're just checking to see if the insurance.

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First of all, the Mercedes is less money than we're

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paying for the Tiguan. Really yeah, So we're like, well,

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why wouldn't we have a nicer car for we're less

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than we're paying, I know, unless it costs us a lot.

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Speaker 1: More money in car insurance. Right, yeah, it does.

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Speaker 2: I think it's a nice it's a more expensive car.

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It might cost more money, but it's But here's the thing.

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So our other choice is this, uh, the VW Electric.

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So I don't know what I forgot what it's Yeah,

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all right, yeah you're not a car person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that.

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Speaker 2: Car is a little bit less than the Mercedes, but

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not much. But that's only if it's cloth seats. So

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if you want leathers, I know that's what I said, John,

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go's the lat price is with cloth seats? I literally said,

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hell no, no, because but if you want to upgrade,

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it's like fifty dollars a month for leather seats.

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Speaker 3: But then you can get the Mercedes for cheaper.

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Speaker 2: Cheaper than it would be to get the to get

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the v DOW with leather seats, the Mercedes would be

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quite a bit cheaper.

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Speaker 1: So it just depends on the insurance. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if the insurance is like my two hundred dollars

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more a month, yeah, obviously we won't do that. Y

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you know, if it's if it's coming in like in

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the ballpark, right, Yeah, you should definitely check it out.

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Speaker 1: Love it? Yeah? Do you like driving it?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I gotta be honest. It's taking me some getting

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used to. For one thing, I love the navigation that

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was in the test. I got used to it. The

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Mercedes is it's I'm trying to, like, you know, try

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to make that microphone.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying. I know.

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Speaker 3: That's another thing I'm trying to do. The microphone is

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drooping in front of me. I'm not kaylin I know.

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Is that better? Can you hear me better?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: I can hear you?

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll just edit this out and post I'll dont

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it out. But yeah, the navigation is taking some getting

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used to.

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Speaker 1: And the power is it's not as powerful as the Tesla. No,

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not this model.

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Speaker 3: I probably could have gotten the more the one up,

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but then it's like you know I'm not driving up

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to the ends of the earth for a volleyball anymore.

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And you know what I mean, Yeah, furtherest, I'm going

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as Santa Barbara. Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So you can get to Santa Barbara on a charge, right.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, And I know where to

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charge it when I get there if I have to.

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So yeah, it's fine. It's just getting a little getting

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used to, is all I mean.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'll be super nervous the first time I

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have to charge it. That's just my body. Now, my

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body's going to freak out and go what if you

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can't find a charging station. I won't say that out loud,

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my head will be going. You have to find them

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all ahead of time. What if there's Lynette story right

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in line waiting.

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Speaker 3: For my nightmare stories. But the nice thing is is

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it tells you on your name, It tells you on

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your car. You just want to find the closest one.

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oddly like Livetime, like twelve stalls and seven are taken,

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you know. Oh yeah, so it's not that bad, okay,

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matter with the electric cars around here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and there's crazy deals right now, yeah, and like

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rebates and you know, I don't know, I guess the

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won the Mercedes. The reason it's such a good deal

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right now is because they're changing the model.

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Speaker 1: There is that white something. I don't know. I I'm

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not sure which model you have.

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Speaker 2: I have. It starts with an E e Q two hundred. Okay,

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I think, Yeah, I don't know. I don't know what

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Adam said. Adam knows what he's doing.

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Speaker 3: Adam's Adam's got a car. Adam's got a car. Hey, Stephanie,

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I got presents for you for your birthday.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So as you know, so my birthday dinner was

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last night, yes, with my Jewish mom group. And as

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I told you, I was like, these ladies love to

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buy a bitch a gift, and who am I to

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deprive them of their joy?

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Speaker 3: I loved it last week when you were like, you

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know what, fuck it, I want a gift.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, make these bitches get me a gift. It wasn't

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so much that I want a gift. It was I

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don't if I'm going to have to buy everybody else

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a gift if it's a rotating thing. Imagine if your

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ABC reunions acquired you did them every time it was

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someone's birthday, and everybody was like, oh my god, I

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love gifts. Yes, I can't wait to open my gifts,

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and so every time you were like, it's like a

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freaking baby shower. Every time you were like, oh god,

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I gotta go shopping. Right, do they have a register? Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? That would drive me. Can I get a candle?

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Is that too impersonal?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: I have to Now you get to regift these gifts

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back to.

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Speaker 2: Them, thank you, thank you. And my brain was like,

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how why am I? How did I get hurt?

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Speaker 1: I am buying, I am shopping.

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Speaker 2: I'm making sure it's kind of personal for every picturing.

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Speaker 3: You at the dinner with like the little birthday act

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like con on your head askew getting presents.

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Speaker 2: I had so much fun, though, I just like decided

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Speaker 1: I'm back on the sugar.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 1: I was today's my first day off, so I was like, you.

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Speaker 2: Know what, let's go hard. Let's go hard on dessert.

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Let's just like, yeah, let's have a good time. But

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you know, Robin got me.

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Speaker 1: I know she got me the coolest. I'm going to

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put a picture of it on our Facebook.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there's some people that I'm so jealous of that

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are good gift givers, and I feel like Robin would be.

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Speaker 1: I knew it. She's a good test.

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Speaker 3: She looks like a good gift giver. So I hate

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I'm so jealous of those people. My girlfriend Dawn is

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a good gift giver. Really, yeah, I just you know

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I I'll tell you about my the birthday or fourth

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of July slash birthday party that I went to over

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the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I want to hear about that. But yeah, so

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she shows.

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Speaker 3: Up with gifts for the birthday party that we went

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to together, and I'm like, can you slap my name

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on that?

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Speaker 1: She did? Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: And then because when there's somebody because I went to

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Julie's for the fourth of July and I was really debating,

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like do I get her a gift? She said, no gifts,

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and I gave money to the charity that she wanted

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us to give you.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's good. So we did that.

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Speaker 2: But then I was like, a dude, do you show

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up to a party empty handed, like and then me

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and my other friend, you know, my friend Laura, who's

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also really good friends with her. We were both kind

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of obsessing about it, and she was like, should I

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stop and get a bottle of wine and like, I'll

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put your name on it. I was like, no, I mean,

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don't put that's that's don't put my name. It's fine

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if you feel like doing that, do that. I'm going

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to show up empty handed, yeah, because you know why,

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and Julia will hear this.

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Speaker 1: She won't care.

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Speaker 2: Though, because I was like, there's gonna be so many

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people there, nobody, it's nobody's going to see my virtue signaling.

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Speaker 1: A gift. That's why I didn't bring a gift.

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Speaker 3: I went to my It was him and my friend

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Glenn and his wife's birthdays. They're like a day apart

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around the North of July and housewarming, and down shows

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up with like this big box of like I don't know,

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glasses and like wine glasses, and then a nice bottle

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of cabernet because his wife likes that, and and Glenn's like,

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don't bring anything, don't get me anything, don't get me anything.

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Speaker 1: So I took him at his word, and then.

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Speaker 3: She in the cock she was riding the car and

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she goes, I'll just put your name on it.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I thanks, and.

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Speaker 3: Exam like I didn't bring anything because I know when

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gonna notice if you walk in right, and nobody did

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you know exactly? And I have to end up holding

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all that shit because Dawn is a handicap and I

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have to like.

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Speaker 1: Help her up the stairs and everything.

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Speaker 3: So I'm carrying everything anyway, so it looks like I

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brought it in joke.

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Speaker 1: Was on her. I know, right, yeah, so tell me

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I'm at your dinner. Where'd you guys go? Okay, so

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we went to this place called Vino. Do you know Vino? No,

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it's in my neighborhood, and you.

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Speaker 2: Know, it's really fun. It's like small Plates now and

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we've been going there for years. But these ladies decided

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to branch out, and now they've all been choosing different places.

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And remember I told you that one of the women

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picked like somewhere in a Gora last time, and I

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was like, what, yeah, absolutely not. And then I got

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voted down because these bitches they got nothing better to do.

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They know this about themselves, but they're like, oh that

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sounds fun. Oh that's a lovely boutique.

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Speaker 1: And Agora I've been wanting to go to. Yeah, I'm like,

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not me. First of all, the girl's far from us.

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Speaker 2: It's very far, and there's no reason for it, because

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I was like, we live in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: There are lots of ten good restaurants within two miles

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from us. Pick one of.

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Speaker 2: Those, you know, by the way is literally like I

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could practically walk there.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm like, that's why I chose it. But

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they're all like, oh, let's pick somewhere different. So then

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I told you this before we were making all these

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jokes about like I was like, yeah, road trip about

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their restaurant. So then the joke was that I was

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going to choose somewhere like really far, like Lancaster.

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Speaker 1: You know. I got Oxnar.

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, I heard about this restaurant in Oxnar. You know,

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I'll make it for later in the day on Sunday,

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so we all have time to drive there caravanravan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that was the It was kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: Some are close, but there were nine of us wowed up.

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Speaker 1: I know, everybody loves you, Stephanie, I know.

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Speaker 2: And then poor Julie because so Julie her birthday is

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July fourth and mine is July fifth.

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Speaker 2: Like my Jewish mom friends, right, But then like years ago,

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I used to invite my friend Lisa. She would come,

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of like, how do I put this? People will understand

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what I mean. These women are more friends with each

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other than they're friends with me. But I'm individually good

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friends with a couple of them, right, and then the

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other one just were part of their group.

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Speaker 1: They ended up.

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Speaker 2: They all come to the birthdays, and it's like, even

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though they're not even close enough friends of mine that

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I would like go to lunch with them on my own, Right,

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they're part of the group, so they like to come.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know them all. Yeah, I enjoy seeing them.

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There's nobody that I'm not friends with.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like my ABC friends, I'm the same. Yeah, there's

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a couple of them that I don't like keep in

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touch with, But then there's others, you know, Susanna Alyssa.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly, So like Cecily in that group and

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Lara those are like Lara, as I've told you million times,

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and then Cecily I met when my when the twins

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were like a year and a half or two years old.

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got to be friends with.

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Speaker 2: And anyway, the point is it was really lovely that

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they came. But Julie a couple of years ago was like,

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I don't know if I want to come because my

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birthday's the day before. So she came one time, and

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she felt a little awkward because people felt like they

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had to get her something. I think I remember that

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and she was like, yeah, it's this is first Stefanie,

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you know.

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Speaker 1: But then they felt a little bit obligated, like well,

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Speaker 2: You a card, yeah, you know, and then it's like yeah,

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she's like, oh, let me open the card. There's no

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gift card in it or anything. She's like it's awkward. Yeah,

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like a happy birthday, Julie. She's like great, and then

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I'm getting like my fancy candle or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So the couple of years ago, she was like, you

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know what, how about like just you, me and Lara

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go out because we're the three original friends and then

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you guys do your thing with your Jewish mom's group.

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So then this year, Julie called me and she was like,

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you know, she's like, Lara said.

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Speaker 1: Do you really do you want to come? Like do

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you want to be included in this?

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Speaker 2: Like it's totally like if you don't, that's fine, we

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could just do something on her own or like, and

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Julie goes, I want to be included.

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Speaker 1: She forgot that a few years ago.

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Speaker 2: She felt awkward, so then she wasn't like invited a

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few years in a row. But then Laura felt bad.

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So then it became this thing where she called me

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and she goes.

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Speaker 1: Hey, what's the deal? Am I not Jewish enough?

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Speaker 2: She goes.

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Speaker 1: I was like, maybe I'm just not a jew and

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then she goes and then I saw Robin was on

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the list, and I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't know, picking up strays, stray Christians.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, it's like it's not this like I have

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other friends.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it just became this group and then somehow I

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remember a couple of years ago Laura. I was like,

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do you want to invite Robin? Because she'd been to

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a bunch of things like postcard writing. She'd mess this anyway.

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The whole thing was kind of funny because I was like,

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oh my god, now Julie's feelings are hurt. She was

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genuinely a little bit like how come. I wasn't like,

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truly is it because I'm not Jewish? She really did,

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and I was like, Julie, I'm barely Jewish, like I know,

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you can totally come.

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Speaker 1: But then she was out of town anyway.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, yeah, well how come I get and

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get invited?

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Speaker 1: I'm just you can.

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Speaker 2: Totally get invited and feel awkward and have to get

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me a gift?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. They They were so funny though, because the last

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few years I was like, no gifts, gifts, and then

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they do it anyway and that right thing, But then

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they get you something that's like not a proper gift

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because they're like, this is not even really a gift,

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it's just a journal.

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Speaker 3: It's always a pre amble before somebody gives the gift. Right, Yeah,

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so did you get like nine gifts?

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Speaker 1: I got gifts? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Wow, I'm trying to remember the name of the artist. Okay,

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you know the artist that made the Obama hope. Yes,

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it's a famous artist. Okay, So Robin found this thing

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that's this poster that's like stay woke.

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Speaker 1: Basically, it's really cool.

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Speaker 2: I've a woke yent poster and it's about like being

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politically active and being aware and it's a beautiful I'm

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going to take a.

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Speaker 1: Picture of it and post it so you can see that.

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She's a good gift giver. And then it was kind

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of hard to follow.

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Speaker 2: I felt bad because a couple of people, one person

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in particular, you could tell one hundred percent, went into

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the regift closet and was honestly.

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Speaker 1: Like, I'm not even going to go for like a

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good regift.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go for like a few straps like

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which I was all for. I respected the game, you know, Yes,

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I was like, I will also be regifting what you

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just gave me.

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Speaker 1: My other friend is so funny.

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Speaker 2: She brags about her regifting closet, but she knew exactly

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I basically got to choose.

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Speaker 1: I told her what I wanted.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's nice because she knew. She gave this candle

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that smells really good. It's from anthropology.

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Speaker 1: What it's called. I want to say Capri blue. It's

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a so good they have good sorry.

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Speaker 2: So she gave it to somebody else and another birthday

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and I was like, oh, I like that and she

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was like, okay, well I know what to give you

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from my closet.

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Speaker 3: That's nice that you get to pick what gift you want. Yea,

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what regift you want?

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Speaker 2: Another girl got a got a necklace that I thought

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was really cute.

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Speaker 1: So I told the giver of that one.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I really like that necklace and

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she was like, good, I know it to get you.

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Speaker 1: Slash f col oo. So the other.

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Speaker 2: Thing that I did so I on my actual birthday, h.

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Speaker 1: Sweet Sadie baked me a cake. Oh I know, and

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it was so good. That's so cute.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: She made me a really nice like chocolate cake. Oh

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she's a little baker. She is cake she is.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember years ago I did this like for

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her birthday or a Christmas gift.

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Speaker 1: I got her this like Yolanda Cake bake a cake.

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Speaker 2: Remember, I think it was COVID because she was watching

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a lot of these videos and it was so much

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for that camp and it was live, and so I

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bought it for her.

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Speaker 1: I forgot how much it was.

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Speaker 2: And then the bad part about it was, so you

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buy the thing and you're like, oh, that's kind of affordable,

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a great gift. I'm like, Hey, you're going to your

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favorite YouTuber, Yolanda's baking camp and it's on this day

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from this time to this time. And she was so excited.

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things you need to buy.

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Speaker 1: I got and I was like, oy, we.

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Speaker 2: We have to buy that because they're like, we're going

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to be making this cake and you need uh diamond

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shaped oh blah blah blah, it's made of titanium whatever.

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Speaker 1: They're like, are you fucking kidding me?

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Speaker 2: God? I need all these things to be available at

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home goods, right or no?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? So you have to Oh.

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Speaker 3: I thought it would be like stuff at the grocery

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store you'd have to get well that too, but you have.

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Speaker 1: To get like too no specialized like cake pans and

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certain shapes and like.

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Speaker 2: Uh tools that you know, this this frosting tool and

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this kind of cookie cutter, and it was like it

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spent like probably hundreds of dollars because I couldn't get

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I tried to cut corners, but it's like I think

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she was kind of young.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It was like, oh, are we just gonna be

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like we'll skip that cake, you know?

473
00:21:52,759 --> 00:21:55,799
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah. Tried to get the cheapest version of all

474
00:21:55,839 --> 00:21:57,960
these things, some of the things you had to order online,

475
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:01,279
and then of course she has versions of it only

476
00:22:01,319 --> 00:22:02,720
available on our website.

477
00:22:03,319 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 1: That's where they get you that.

478
00:22:04,799 --> 00:22:05,039
Speaker 3: Yes.

479
00:22:05,519 --> 00:22:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, So she made me a cake, which is really sweet.

480
00:22:08,519 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 2: And then what I wanted to do for my birthday

481
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:16,160
was just stay home, order Indian dude, and then a watch.

482
00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,920
We watched A Star is Born. Oh Bradley Cooper version.

483
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,680
I love that movie. It's so good, so good.

484
00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 3: There was something about that song when I saw them

485
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,680
sing it together and she came on stage and she

486
00:22:30,799 --> 00:22:34,279
belted it out. I like something in my body just

487
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,519
like where I just started like tearing up.

488
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:38,839
Speaker 1: I just love that movie.

489
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 2: She's underrated for this acting prepare I know she did

490
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,559
a great Yeah, she did a great job. He did too,

491
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,279
two of them. Yeah, I gotta watch that movie again.

492
00:22:49,319 --> 00:22:53,559
I really loved it. She had never acted before. I

493
00:22:53,559 --> 00:22:56,920
think this was my now acting brands. She was so

494
00:22:57,039 --> 00:23:02,079
scared and Bradley Cooper, you know, just saw her star quality.

495
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,160
I read that he saw her perform the song love

496
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,759
Villon Rose. Huh Somewhere I said that so French lo'

497
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:14,240
vian rose and while eating a classan and he was

498
00:23:14,279 --> 00:23:17,880
like enamored with her and saw her for the role.

499
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 1: Right.

500
00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,519
Speaker 3: And then I saw like a YouTube video where she

501
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,640
was performing and he came on stage and saying with

502
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,039
her that like surprised the audience when she was in concert.

503
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,200
I just those two together was just like chemistry, was

504
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,920
I know, off the chain. What did you think of

505
00:23:34,079 --> 00:23:37,319
the casting of her dad Andrew days Clay.

506
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,799
Speaker 2: It was so funny because so John had never seen

507
00:23:39,839 --> 00:23:42,319
the movie before. Oh yeah, and by the way, he

508
00:23:42,319 --> 00:23:46,480
didn't love it, But okay, he's hard to please. And

509
00:23:46,519 --> 00:23:49,240
I'm telling you when I first saw it, so Elbe

510
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,039
was like thirteen because she's twenty. I think it came

511
00:23:52,079 --> 00:23:57,559
out in twenty seventeen, so she was about twelve thirteen

512
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:02,319
years old. Anyway, I remember at the time it started

513
00:24:02,319 --> 00:24:04,279
winning all these awards and John was like, oh, I

514
00:24:04,319 --> 00:24:06,440
want to I'm interested. I kind of want to see it.

515
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,039
And as time went by, like I think he forgot

516
00:24:10,079 --> 00:24:12,680
about it. And I always thought like, this is going

517
00:24:12,759 --> 00:24:15,480
to be too basic for him, right, like he's going

518
00:24:15,559 --> 00:24:20,319
to have notes. It's so funny because Adam doesn't watch

519
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,680
those kind of movies. But at the time I told

520
00:24:22,799 --> 00:24:26,359
him watch this song, watch this performance, and I thought

521
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,559
he would get a reaction, and he was like, it's

522
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:31,480
kind of a ditty's of a song. It's kind of

523
00:24:31,519 --> 00:24:34,720
like a like a simple song or something like that.

524
00:24:34,759 --> 00:24:37,519
Speaker 3: And I was like, what what is okay, We're headed

525
00:24:37,519 --> 00:24:40,839
for divorce now for sure? Give you like I don't

526
00:24:40,839 --> 00:24:43,559
know just the words, the lyrics, the way she felt,

527
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,559
I mean, it was just and he was just like, yeah,

528
00:24:45,559 --> 00:24:46,160
it's all right.

529
00:24:46,279 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like it's kind of basic.

530
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 2: John used to say, remember how much I loved Jonathan

531
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,599
Brook we had her on our show.

532
00:24:53,759 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

533
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 2: In fact, John used to be like, well, she doesn't

534
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,720
have any songs that like have a hook.

535
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,839
Speaker 1: It's all hooks. What are you talking about.

536
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 2: I can listen to those songs one hundred times in

537
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,559
a row and I get tired of them.

538
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,640
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, but they need a hook, like they

539
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:09,279
take too long.

540
00:25:09,319 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, right, every he's got an opinion and musicians.

541
00:25:14,039 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then Sadie's taken over how Elba used to

542
00:25:17,519 --> 00:25:19,440
be kind of like a sociopath and have like no

543
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,680
feelings until she saw Airbud years ago and cried.

544
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:23,599
Speaker 1: Yeah.

545
00:25:23,799 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 2: Now Sadie's like, mom, are you crying? I'm like, yues,

546
00:25:28,519 --> 00:25:33,920
I'm fucking crying. Yeah, just killed himself. What's wrong with you?

547
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,000
You're not crying. That's the real problem, Isn't that weird?

548
00:25:37,279 --> 00:25:38,519
Natalia was like that too.

549
00:25:38,799 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 3: The only the first time she cried was it was

550
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,880
the Richard Gear movie and it was based on true

551
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,440
story with a dog it's got one.

552
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: Hiko yes, yeah.

553
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 2: And the fact I will not see that movie, Oh

554
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,000
my god, I will. I'll need a year of therapy.

555
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,759
Speaker 3: She would not let it go, like at the end,

556
00:25:56,799 --> 00:25:59,200
I guess I can't remember. But the dog kept showing

557
00:25:59,279 --> 00:26:03,000
up weight because he passed away dog for like nine years.

558
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: And she's like nine years. She's like seven years old,

559
00:26:07,319 --> 00:26:10,079
nine years. She just showed up for nothing.

560
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,279
Speaker 3: And I'm like, that's what you cry about, huh like

561
00:26:13,039 --> 00:26:16,880
and then yeah, no, no emotion for other stuff, right, Yeah.

562
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: Well that was Albie with the air bud thing. I remember.

563
00:26:20,279 --> 00:26:23,680
Speaker 2: The scene was that the boy had to tell the

564
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,400
dog like, go away, go away because he thought the

565
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,319
dog was he was trying to save the dog, but

566
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,519
the dog was trying to go with him and would

567
00:26:31,519 --> 00:26:34,240
have into the wall. I can't remember exactly how it was,

568
00:26:34,279 --> 00:26:36,799
but basically he was like having to pretend to be

569
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,160
mad at the dog and go.

570
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,039
Speaker 1: Get away from me, go away bad, you know.

571
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,279
Speaker 2: And Albie was, oh my god, like sobbing mess and

572
00:26:45,319 --> 00:26:49,359
I was like, huh that's what it takes, huh right,

573
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,079
And then really for years after that, now.

574
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 1: I get turned back off right right, So funny people

575
00:26:56,559 --> 00:27:00,119
dying of cancer, people children.

576
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 3: Right, nothing, nothing, well, airbud airbudy, that's what it takes.

577
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

578
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: So we watched that and it was really nice. And

579
00:27:08,759 --> 00:27:14,240
then Elbe bought me a lip plumper of a fente

580
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,039
lip plumper with my money.

581
00:27:17,519 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 1: That was the thing.

582
00:27:18,279 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: Is. I was like, oh, you got me a present

583
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:21,640
with my money.

584
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,640
Speaker 1: Thank you. I didn't say it right, but I was like, LB,

585
00:27:24,839 --> 00:27:25,440
you really.

586
00:27:25,279 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 2: Shouldn't have me. You can't afford this. And she was like, mom,

587
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,200
I got a little bit of money.

588
00:27:31,039 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 1: From tours and I really I know you love your

589
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:33,720
lip plumper.

590
00:27:33,759 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 3: It was very kid's cute. Isn't that by fenti is Rihanna? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

591
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:41,839
it was cute.

592
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: I know. It was very cute of her. So tell

593
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,480
me about your party.

594
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 3: So my party was on July fourth. Well, it was

595
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:54,160
in Santa Rosa and that's when you weis it. We

596
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:57,279
talked about it last week, but you weigs it on

597
00:27:57,319 --> 00:27:59,680
the thing and it says the address is Santa Rosa.

598
00:27:59,759 --> 00:28:03,559
Any it was forty five minutes from my house. So

599
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,839
my girlfriend Dawn came over that day with all of

600
00:28:06,839 --> 00:28:10,440
her presents and then we ubered from there and then

601
00:28:10,519 --> 00:28:13,160
Suzanne and her boyfriend came from their house.

602
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 1: Anyway, beautiful house. They just moved into it.

603
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 3: He built it by himself, you know, like, you know,

604
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:25,960
laid everything out. I've never I've known Glenn for forty years,

605
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,200
I've never seen him do construction. And it was like

606
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,640
his dream house that you know, him and his wife

607
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:33,680
been married for a long time.

608
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,759
Speaker 1: Their daughter is the same age.

609
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,359
Speaker 3: They have a daughter the same age as my twins,

610
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,400
and just a really cute family. He's got four kids,

611
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,119
three daughters and a son. And it was like all

612
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,559
my old school friends that we went to Vegas with

613
00:28:47,279 --> 00:28:51,119
went out there and minus the guy I talked about

614
00:28:51,119 --> 00:28:53,519
on or No, I didn't even talk about him I

615
00:28:53,519 --> 00:28:55,240
talked about on the Regular show.

616
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, minus him. So it was nice. It was really sweet.

617
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,039
Speaker 2: How did he get he was everybody just in agreement

618
00:29:03,079 --> 00:29:03,960
that that guy should.

619
00:29:03,799 --> 00:29:06,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody talks to him anymore. So since nobody's talked

620
00:29:06,519 --> 00:29:09,680
to him in Vegas. Oh wow, so it's that bad. Yeah,

621
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,720
And nobody really talked to him before Vegas except for Glenn,

622
00:29:13,039 --> 00:29:15,319
and Glenn felt bad and invited him, and then now

623
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,519
after that Glenn doesn't talk to him either.

624
00:29:18,039 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: But he was an asshole in Vegas. Anyway, it was

625
00:29:23,039 --> 00:29:24,160
really nice.

626
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: He built his wife like a chicken coop because she

627
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,039
always wanted chickens. So it's like, got a big piece

628
00:29:30,079 --> 00:29:33,319
of property. I mean to see my friend that had

629
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,039
nothing growing up and then built his own business airplane

630
00:29:37,079 --> 00:29:40,559
does airplane parts and be successful and then have a

631
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,359
such a nice relationship with his wife, Like it's just

632
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,960
watching you know. He would call me and tell me,

633
00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:48,519
like he'd go to work and then he'd go to

634
00:29:48,559 --> 00:29:52,440
the construction site and then his wife Brandy, like they

635
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,079
work together as a team, you know, or and they'd

636
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,119
go home. They she'd prepare dinner and he'd cook dinner.

637
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,519
And I mean, just like of a movie, like you

638
00:30:01,519 --> 00:30:04,519
would never it's such a success story, you know, and

639
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,160
it just really made me happy to see. And uh,

640
00:30:10,319 --> 00:30:12,880
it just was like I told him, I said, when

641
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,759
you go when you do construction and you're building a house,

642
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,519
it can be hard on a marriage.

643
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,279
Speaker 2: But they got along great. They were a team and

644
00:30:20,599 --> 00:30:22,200
you know what I mean, like how it should be.

645
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: They have to move out at some point. Then they

646
00:30:25,319 --> 00:30:27,319
they moved out of that old that old house.

647
00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 2: They sold it and then they just moved into their

648
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,359
dream house that they built.

649
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:32,599
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, well.

650
00:30:32,559 --> 00:30:34,759
Speaker 2: At least they didn't have to move out wall of

651
00:30:34,759 --> 00:30:36,599
the constructions, right right.

652
00:30:36,759 --> 00:30:39,759
Speaker 3: Still it's the hard part, yes, and there's still some

653
00:30:41,119 --> 00:30:43,200
there is still some work to be done. You know,

654
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,039
there's always work to be done when you move into

655
00:30:45,079 --> 00:30:48,839
a new house. But he did a great job and

656
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,000
his kids are awesome. I got to meet his kids.

657
00:30:51,039 --> 00:30:53,920
I haven't seen him in years since they were little babies.

658
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,759
And you know, it was nice because I walk into

659
00:30:58,799 --> 00:31:01,799
the kitchen and his in laws are there, and I

660
00:31:01,839 --> 00:31:03,799
don't know his wife that that well.

661
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I talked to her on the phone more.

662
00:31:05,799 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 3: You know, I haven't seen her in years really, and

663
00:31:10,039 --> 00:31:12,240
his his her parents were like.

664
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Lynette, we've heard so much about you.

665
00:31:15,599 --> 00:31:18,279
Speaker 2: The in laws were so welcoming and like, you know

666
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:19,839
that they've heard so much about me.

667
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,319
Speaker 3: And all of our friends that were there. It was

668
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,480
just a really beautiful day and it was fun. And

669
00:31:25,519 --> 00:31:28,440
then I have a little Patreon that we'll talk about.

670
00:31:29,759 --> 00:31:33,160
And don spent the night. My two kids were in

671
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,079
Newport Beach for the night. It's weird. All the kids

672
00:31:37,079 --> 00:31:40,119
in our town go to Newport every Fourth of July.

673
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,160
They went last year too.

674
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: Oh interesting.

675
00:31:42,039 --> 00:31:45,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's there's some families in our neighborhood that have

676
00:31:45,759 --> 00:31:46,799
houses in Newport.

677
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:50,279
Speaker 1: And I remember that I spent a few days down there.

678
00:31:50,519 --> 00:31:54,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, she did last year, and so they were down

679
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,119
there together, which was cute.

680
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,599
Speaker 1: And and then that was it.

681
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 2: And then you know, we were dry home in our

682
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,559
uber and there was fireworks like above as we were

683
00:32:04,559 --> 00:32:07,079
coming home because we left at like nine o'clock and

684
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,720
you know, all the fireworks and stuff.

685
00:32:08,759 --> 00:32:11,519
Speaker 1: But it was a great. It was a really nice day.

686
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:13,440
It was good. It was nice.

687
00:32:13,519 --> 00:32:20,799
Speaker 2: The fireworks like by me. So Xander went with Lileyle Crocodile.

688
00:32:21,119 --> 00:32:24,079
Yet they went to a park near where Lyle lives

689
00:32:24,119 --> 00:32:26,920
and there were fireworks there and then the mom Anna

690
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:32,480
and my friend was sending me videos because Xander was dancing,

691
00:32:32,559 --> 00:32:34,880
because it was one of those things where it's just

692
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:38,200
like a free like people at a park with blankets.

693
00:32:38,359 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: You know, some of those people are kind of crazy.

694
00:32:40,359 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, So there's like an old man like with a

695
00:32:42,839 --> 00:32:46,319
huge mustache, just dancing by himself, right but kind of

696
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:50,160
behind Xander. So and then there was a lady, older

697
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:54,160
lady like dancing with Sander. I'll show you the lady

698
00:32:54,359 --> 00:32:59,440
later and okay, so she sends me these videos like

699
00:32:59,519 --> 00:33:03,640
three and then she's like they're still dancing like that lady.

700
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: Is still trying to dance with my hand.

701
00:33:05,039 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 2: This lady was probably like in her like early seventies,

702
00:33:08,039 --> 00:33:10,359
you know, but wearing like kind of a tight dress, right,

703
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,839
but like dancing up a store and I was like,

704
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,599
oh Lord, and she was like, yeah, they're still going.

705
00:33:16,039 --> 00:33:18,960
Oh my God, made me the video. So the next

706
00:33:19,039 --> 00:33:21,000
day in the mor I don't know, I was in

707
00:33:21,039 --> 00:33:23,039
my living room and on the coffee table there was

708
00:33:23,079 --> 00:33:26,640
like a business card like Kim somebodying something and I

709
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,599
was like, whose business.

710
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,359
Speaker 1: Card is this? Xander goes the lady that I was

711
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:36,920
dancing with her card? What does she do? What's her business?

712
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 2: No?

713
00:33:37,559 --> 00:33:40,119
Speaker 1: But she was I don't even remember.

714
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:46,039
Speaker 2: It was something like not consequential, but like, that's so funny.

715
00:33:46,559 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 1: Sounds like something my mom would do.

716
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Like Ellen Paradise would go to the

717
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:54,599
park right at Warner That's where it was. That's where

718
00:33:54,599 --> 00:33:57,759
it was. Yeah, in her park, she'd go dancing there. Yeah, yeah,

719
00:33:57,799 --> 00:34:01,039
that was her thing. It's probably my ghost of my mom.

720
00:34:01,519 --> 00:34:04,920
I was like, oh no, Xander was just laughing.

721
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:11,639
Speaker 1: And then what did the other kids do? The other kids?

722
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:16,159
Speaker 2: So Sadie had a couple of friends over. We were

723
00:34:16,199 --> 00:34:19,320
at Julie's party, and we came home kind of early,

724
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,280
and then I had to go get Xander.

725
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:22,519
Speaker 1: Oh.

726
00:34:22,559 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 2: The reason I was going to tell you that is

727
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:27,480
because the fireworks were so crazy everywhere, and when Xander

728
00:34:27,519 --> 00:34:29,400
wanted to pick up it was like the height of

729
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:30,480
fireworks happening.

730
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,039
Speaker 1: It was like going out into a war, really know.

731
00:34:33,599 --> 00:34:35,559
Speaker 2: Everywhere I drove, I was on the one O one,

732
00:34:35,639 --> 00:34:37,960
it was like there were fireworks on all sides of me.

733
00:34:38,119 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: I was like, this is crazy.

734
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 3: That's what we were driving home into. Yeah, it was everywhere

735
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,599
off the freeways. Yeah, it's kind of cool.

736
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 2: I know, it was sort of cool, but it was

737
00:34:47,519 --> 00:34:50,039
also a little just a little like disconcerting.

738
00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:52,679
Speaker 1: That's just sparks every everywhere.

739
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 2: I was like, can any of these like fall on

740
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,199
the freeway, And then I thought, well, obviously not, because

741
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,480
that would have happened then by now, right, I would

742
00:35:01,519 --> 00:35:02,599
I'm not going to be it's not going to be

743
00:35:02,679 --> 00:35:05,079
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745
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746
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Speaker 1: So listen to this. Yeah. Last week I was saying like,

802
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oh that I wanted to try to get Xander's band guyline, yes,

803
00:38:06,559 --> 00:38:07,719
a gig. Yeah.

804
00:38:08,199 --> 00:38:11,159
Speaker 2: One of our listeners messaged me and was like, hey,

805
00:38:11,599 --> 00:38:16,199
not for nothing, but my husband books a night there

806
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,800
for comedy I want to say, or for the open

807
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:20,280
mic night.

808
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:20,719
Speaker 1: I don't know.

809
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,519
Speaker 2: And she was like, let me see if I can

810
00:38:22,519 --> 00:38:24,840
get the guy's name who books the bands?

811
00:38:25,159 --> 00:38:30,119
Speaker 1: Oh where at Corbin Bowl? Oh oh that's right. Yeah.

812
00:38:30,199 --> 00:38:31,880
Speaker 2: So because that's what I was saying, I was like,

813
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:33,880
Corbyn Bowle has like they have bands there.

814
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:35,199
Speaker 1: I want to try to get him a gig.

815
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so she sent me the information and she

816
00:38:39,039 --> 00:38:40,559
was like, do your mamager thing.

817
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,199
Speaker 1: So I sent an email and I was just like

818
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:50,679
I was like, hey, listen, I go. I love Corbin Bowl.

819
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,119
Speaker 2: I've seen bands there before, and I was wondering what

820
00:38:53,159 --> 00:38:57,159
your booking process is because my son's band has been

821
00:38:57,159 --> 00:38:58,840
playing around and.

822
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: Whatever, you know, said the thing.

823
00:39:01,199 --> 00:39:05,519
Speaker 2: I said, he's played several gigs and anyway, what's the

824
00:39:05,519 --> 00:39:06,360
booking process?

825
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:07,519
Speaker 1: Uh huh.

826
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 2: So like two days go by and I get a call.

827
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:16,239
I get a call or a message or whatever. I

828
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:20,880
guess an email email and he goes, hih, I got

829
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:21,559
your email.

830
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:25,159
Speaker 1: Can you call me? I have some questions? Whoa Yeah.

831
00:39:25,159 --> 00:39:29,159
Speaker 2: So I was like, first of all, I got nervous

832
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,320
because it's that thing that we get right, like we

833
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,679
have some questions, like we're going to question my credibility,

834
00:39:35,119 --> 00:39:38,719
like or how'd you get my you know, I mentioned

835
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,280
the person who gave me the information, but I was like, uh, oh,

836
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,360
are you going to question whether I'm like good friends

837
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:44,880
with that person?

838
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 1: You know?

839
00:39:46,199 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like a friend of mine, you know,

840
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:54,440
told me whatever. Anyway, so he called I call and

841
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,360
I really did. I got like a little bit nervous.

842
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:57,920
I was like, oh, he's like, can you call me?

843
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,920
He gave me the phone number, so I called and

844
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:07,599
then uh he goes, oh yeah, so hey, well are

845
00:40:07,599 --> 00:40:11,840
they available? Is the band available next Friday? And I

846
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:16,880
was like, uh probably, And then he goes okay because

847
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,880
I have a cancelation and I really like are they

848
00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,320
so they've been they have experience they've been playing, and

849
00:40:22,679 --> 00:40:26,800
I was like, totally Generation Fest. Have you heard of it?

850
00:40:30,159 --> 00:40:34,360
They basically headlined after the beat Buds. I don't know

851
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:39,400
if you know that band, pretty big band. Yeah, I

852
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,679
don't know if you know the promoter, Patrick Hickey, but

853
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,480
he's pretty kind of.

854
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 3: Some open for LOXI yeah.

855
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,119
Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, he was like, yeah, so.

856
00:40:51,599 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: If they're available, and I and then I really tried

857
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,159
not to sound dumb, you know, I was like totally yeah,

858
00:40:58,199 --> 00:41:01,320
So like do they need to bring, like right now.

859
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:02,199
Speaker 1: What do they need to bring?

860
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:06,079
Speaker 2: And he's like, well, what do we have? Yeah, sound system,

861
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:10,679
they're instrument like and I was like totally yeah, yeah, yeah,

862
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:15,159
I'll course, I mean, all the bookings they get, like yeah,

863
00:41:15,199 --> 00:41:20,480
it's just so the usual, right, the usual. But he goes,

864
00:41:20,639 --> 00:41:22,920
you're gonna bring some people because he oh and then

865
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:27,920
he said, he goes, yeah, so the headliners apparently it's

866
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,079
not very easy. Like I guess I just hit him

867
00:41:30,079 --> 00:41:32,599
at the right time because this place is booked like

868
00:41:32,639 --> 00:41:35,159
a few months in advance. It turns out, and I

869
00:41:35,199 --> 00:41:37,239
guess the bands that are playing there are kind of

870
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,840
bigger bands, And he goes, I have to tell you

871
00:41:40,199 --> 00:41:42,199
I have to pay them a bunch of money for

872
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:46,440
the bands, but whatever I have left, I will I

873
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:50,119
will pay them something. Oh and I was like, I

874
00:41:50,159 --> 00:41:52,639
didn't expect that. I thought you do it for free.

875
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,760
Well that kind of makes sense, yeah, I know, but

876
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,760
I was like, okay, yeah, I go sure, Like that's great.

877
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,360
Whatever you can pay him, I go, we'll consider it

878
00:42:01,559 --> 00:42:02,159
an audition.

879
00:42:02,519 --> 00:42:04,039
Speaker 1: Uh huh, you know it is.

880
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: See guyliner get a feel for what they do. And

881
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:08,679
he's like, can they do thirty minutes? I was like,

882
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,960
of course. So what I'm saying is, if any of

883
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,960
you guys live in the San Fernando Valley, show up.

884
00:42:15,039 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: I'm to Corbin Bowl Friday night at eight o'clock. Really.

885
00:42:18,519 --> 00:42:20,639
In fact, I'll put a link for the tickets. It's

886
00:42:20,639 --> 00:42:21,559
fifteen bucks.

887
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 2: I'll put a link in the for crying out loud

888
00:42:24,119 --> 00:42:26,519
on our page in case you want to buy tickets.

889
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,199
Speaker 3: Dude, Stephanie, what if he gets like this gig where

890
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:30,880
they're playing every week.

891
00:42:31,599 --> 00:42:34,679
Speaker 1: I mean, it'll be amazing. He's so excited. I oh,

892
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:35,679
what did he say?

893
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 3: Oh? Right, they're good. They're very good. I saw them.

894
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,239
They're great, They're so cute. They're gonna I think they're

895
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,599
gonna win over the crowd.

896
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 1: Because you know, it's cute.

897
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 3: It's nice when you see these young kids on stage

898
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:50,719
like performing.

899
00:42:51,119 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: I know their drummer literally is a freshman in high school. Yeah.

900
00:42:54,519 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 2: So it was really funny because the thing says eighteen

901
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:57,360
and over.

902
00:42:58,079 --> 00:42:58,599
Speaker 1: And I was.

903
00:42:58,599 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 2: Like, when he sent me the info and I was like, hey,

904
00:43:05,079 --> 00:43:08,079
so the eighteen and over thing, I was like, how

905
00:43:08,639 --> 00:43:11,519
hard and fast a rule is that? Because you know,

906
00:43:11,559 --> 00:43:13,760
these guys are in high school. I don't know if

907
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:17,000
because I don't know if he took it in when

908
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,880
I originally was like, they're a high school right band

909
00:43:20,519 --> 00:43:23,920
that they met at a performing arts basically anyway, I

910
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,599
don't know if he thought like I just said, they

911
00:43:25,639 --> 00:43:27,400
formed in high school. But anyway, So I was like,

912
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,199
and a lot of their friends that would come see

913
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,199
them would be maybe seventeen.

914
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:32,679
Speaker 1: Anyway.

915
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:34,519
Speaker 2: He was like, yeah, it's totally fine. It's all ages.

916
00:43:34,559 --> 00:43:35,960
I just have to I just have to put that.

917
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,800
Oh nice, Oh okay cool. And then Xander started promoting

918
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,679
it and he was like, mom, it says it's eighteen

919
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,840
and over. Some people are asking and I was like, yeah, yeah,

920
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:47,880
that's just what they have to say right, you know.

921
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,679
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's so cool.

922
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 3: I know, look at him, Go, man, I did that.

923
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,679
You did that. You're a mama year now.

924
00:43:58,559 --> 00:44:00,559
Speaker 1: I know. I was like, I'm going to get these

925
00:44:00,599 --> 00:44:02,320
guys some gigs. That's great.

926
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 2: So then the other thing that I feel like I

927
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,559
accomplished and the moms and dads out there can back

928
00:44:08,639 --> 00:44:09,239
me up on this.

929
00:44:10,119 --> 00:44:12,559
Speaker 1: So you know how I've been like, Lbie, that bitch

930
00:44:12,599 --> 00:44:13,320
needs to get a job.

931
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, right before she starves our whole family, like with

932
00:44:17,039 --> 00:44:18,880
her buying tickets to Hard Summer.

933
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

934
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,079
Speaker 2: So I had been bugging her about it, and I

935
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,639
have been withstanding. I don't want to say she gives

936
00:44:27,639 --> 00:44:30,199
me dirty looks, but she gives me a little bit.

937
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,760
I'm like, so, what's happening on the job front. So

938
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,039
we sat down and I told you this last time.

939
00:44:35,079 --> 00:44:38,000
I think she had applied for some jobs. Yes, didn't

940
00:44:38,039 --> 00:44:41,039
hear anything. There's this one restaurant and I'm not going

941
00:44:41,079 --> 00:44:43,559
to say the name of it because she don't need stockers,

942
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,920
but where her friend had worked there last summer, and

943
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:53,440
I was like, ask your friend how you can get

944
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,719
a job there? Like, yeah, I know she doesn't work

945
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:57,280
there anymore. So she's not going to be able to

946
00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,000
be the best reference, but like she must know somebody

947
00:45:00,079 --> 00:45:00,440
that works.

948
00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

949
00:45:01,039 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 2: So she was like, Okay, ask my friend one of

950
00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,559
her roommates from last year who she's very close to.

951
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,199
And she was like and she said she'll ask her

952
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,079
friend who got her the job. So I was like great.

953
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,400
But then, you know, Elbe didn't follow up right. So

954
00:45:15,559 --> 00:45:18,840
and you know these kids, they're forgetful, their potheads. You know,

955
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,880
they're not on it right. You got to be in.

956
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,119
Speaker 1: Their face all the time. Yeah.

957
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 2: I was like, Elbie, you do not understand how the

958
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,000
world works right now, Because I was like, so what

959
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,719
did she say? She's like, she hasn't gotten back to

960
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,599
me yet, and I was like, you need to text

961
00:45:30,599 --> 00:45:33,840
her again, right, So she and then she gave me

962
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,000
a little bit of attitude and I was like, oh,

963
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:36,880
hell no.

964
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,599
Speaker 1: You need to get a job. You have a lead.

965
00:45:40,159 --> 00:45:42,920
You got to go after it. This is a hot lead. Yeah.

966
00:45:43,599 --> 00:45:46,639
Speaker 2: Her friend was like, yeah, I got you. This is

967
00:45:46,639 --> 00:45:49,760
how it went. Her friend was like totally, I'm going

968
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,519
to ask my friend. Then she didn't hear anything. So

969
00:45:52,559 --> 00:45:54,840
then I was like, you need to remind her, Hey,

970
00:45:55,079 --> 00:46:00,280
did you ever ask your friend so she was like okay, hey,

971
00:46:00,599 --> 00:46:03,960
and I was like okay, not like do it now? Yeah,

972
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,840
you know how I am. Yeah, And she was like okay,

973
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,800
I'll do it right now. And I was proud of

974
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:14,239
myself for not trying to be her best friend, trying

975
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:14,840
to be a parent.

976
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,599
Speaker 1: So I was like okay, Yeah.

977
00:46:16,639 --> 00:46:20,599
Speaker 2: So she did it, and her friend talked to her

978
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:22,880
friend talked to the other friend and guess what, she

979
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,519
got a call from the restaurant and she has an

980
00:46:25,559 --> 00:46:29,840
interview to day. We're recording on a Monday, so this

981
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,800
is your found. She has an interview in one hour.

982
00:46:34,199 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 1: Oh right now, right, so they're hiring too that you

983
00:46:37,039 --> 00:46:38,639
know it's.

984
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 2: A big restaurant, right, and it's just for a hostessing job.

985
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,360
And now it's really cute because she's really nervous.

986
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 1: So we were a role playing like a couple of

987
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:47,360
questions they could ask.

988
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,159
Speaker 2: She's get girl, you're overqualified for this job. You've been

989
00:46:51,199 --> 00:46:53,480
working at a job for three years. I've can a

990
00:46:53,519 --> 00:46:56,079
hostess at a restaurant. Yes, maybe if you were trying

991
00:46:56,079 --> 00:46:58,320
to get a server job, you probably couldn't because it's

992
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,039
hard these days.

993
00:46:59,119 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to work your way up, right.

994
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:02,599
Speaker 2: I was like but all I have to do is

995
00:47:02,679 --> 00:47:05,119
memorize where all the tables are and be like a

996
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:09,719
front facing customer, service oriented person, which you are.

997
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Natalia did it and it was easy. Was fine.

998
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:14,920
The kids.

999
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 3: I mean, I have a couple of girlfriends. Their kids

1000
00:47:18,039 --> 00:47:19,000
are home for the summer.

1001
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:20,079
Speaker 1: It's hard.

1002
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 3: They're all trying to apply, like Senny's been applying. It's like,

1003
00:47:25,119 --> 00:47:29,039
it's really hard for them to get a job, especially too,

1004
00:47:29,079 --> 00:47:31,280
when they're only in town for like a couple months

1005
00:47:31,599 --> 00:47:32,480
and then they have to leave.

1006
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,519
Speaker 2: You know, I told LB, you do not say this

1007
00:47:35,679 --> 00:47:38,000
is just for the summer, right, I said, if they ask,

1008
00:47:38,159 --> 00:47:42,039
you say, actually I would love to be Yes. When

1009
00:47:42,079 --> 00:47:44,480
I go back to school, i'll have less availability, but

1010
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,920
I would love to come pick up shifts on weekends.

1011
00:47:47,039 --> 00:47:48,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she could. Yeah. I was like, and then

1012
00:47:48,679 --> 00:47:51,719
if you can't, then you quit. But if you can't,

1013
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,039
I was like, but you might want to pick up

1014
00:47:54,039 --> 00:47:55,880
a few shifts during the n Yah. She might enjoy

1015
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:57,679
it like her other job. Yeah.

1016
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,639
Speaker 2: Plus, this place has a lot of outdoors, so I

1017
00:48:00,639 --> 00:48:02,800
have a feeling that they need more help in the

1018
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,599
summer anyway. Yeah, because there's a lot of like people

1019
00:48:05,639 --> 00:48:08,280
sitting outside. That's a great she got a good That

1020
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,199
was a good lead, I know. And then my other

1021
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,280
friends were like, oh, she should try this place and

1022
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,719
this place is opening, and I'm like, let's just you

1023
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,079
know what. The way Elbie's mind works is just like

1024
00:48:19,159 --> 00:48:21,679
you're if they offer her a job, she'll she'll take it.

1025
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, she doesn't want to go try to write, she

1026
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:25,679
doesn't want to walk in this cold call.

1027
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's all all scared about the job interview. But

1028
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,400
I was like, this is so perfect because this is

1029
00:48:33,599 --> 00:48:34,360
no stakes.

1030
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 1: You're going to get this.

1031
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 2: They're going to like you, I said, And that's practice

1032
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,280
for when you have an actual interview for a place

1033
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,079
you really want to work, You're not going to feel

1034
00:48:43,119 --> 00:48:43,840
so rusty.

1035
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 1: Exactly. Yeah, that's good. I know.

1036
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 3: I have a little update about Phil Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

1037
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,880
of course, so he doesn't have a job.

1038
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,159
Speaker 1: He needs to get a.

1039
00:48:55,159 --> 00:48:57,639
Speaker 3: Job, does because he's cost freaking cost me a lot

1040
00:48:57,639 --> 00:48:59,559
of money with these surgeries.

1041
00:49:00,519 --> 00:49:01,079
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1042
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 3: Yes, so he had to have surgery last week. When

1043
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,920
I left here, the doctor called and said he does

1044
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:12,199
have something now that's showing up, and I think we

1045
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,960
just need to get in there and find out what's

1046
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:19,159
going on. He's not feeling better, so you know, I said, okay,

1047
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,880
go for it. Within thirty five minutes, I get a

1048
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,760
call from the nurse and she's like, he's done.

1049
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,119
Speaker 1: He's sewing him back up.

1050
00:49:28,599 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 3: He had something in them and when you come pick

1051
00:49:31,079 --> 00:49:33,199
him up, the doctor will give it to you because

1052
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,199
he put it in a baggie.

1053
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 1: And so it's I think I sent you a picture

1054
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,239
of it. It did. It's it's hard to describe.

1055
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 3: It's like a shape like a light bulb, okay, and

1056
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,880
it's the size of a small light bulb, a small

1057
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:50,960
light bulb, but it's plastic. It's black plastic, and it

1058
00:49:51,039 --> 00:49:54,039
had grooves. So it's like something if you bought, like

1059
00:49:54,119 --> 00:49:56,920
ikea furniture or something and they give you the handle

1060
00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:00,280
of a nightstand and you screw it in. It's like

1061
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,639
something like that, or off of an end of a

1062
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,320
handle or a mop or I don't know. I have

1063
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:10,360
no idea where it came from. The kids don't know.

1064
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,239
It's not something like I would have had around my

1065
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:17,760
house that he would have pulled off of something maybe

1066
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,639
on his hikes or on his walks. He just swallowed

1067
00:50:20,639 --> 00:50:22,719
it because that's the kind of shit he does.

1068
00:50:23,199 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 1: But now I'm scared.

1069
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 3: Because I can't he can't be trusted, you know, like

1070
00:50:28,639 --> 00:50:30,280
if I'm taking him on a walk, or if I

1071
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,639
take him on a hike and I'm not you know,

1072
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,960
watching him twenty four to seven, he could pick up

1073
00:50:35,039 --> 00:50:36,320
something and swallow it like that.

1074
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,599
Speaker 1: So I'm getting him a muzzle. I think that's a

1075
00:50:40,599 --> 00:50:41,079
good idea.

1076
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,599
Speaker 2: I think I have to just when he's on a

1077
00:50:43,639 --> 00:50:46,320
walk or doing something where you can't.

1078
00:50:46,159 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 3: Write, he just can't be trusted. And I ordered it.

1079
00:50:51,039 --> 00:50:53,400
He's not going to like it very much. No, No,

1080
00:50:53,639 --> 00:50:56,639
he's going to be an asshole. He's probably not going

1081
00:50:56,679 --> 00:50:59,639
to want to walk. I know, Phil, it's going to

1082
00:50:59,679 --> 00:51:02,239
be interest. But when I put it on him and

1083
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,480
we start to walk, I can see it already. He's

1084
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,880
probably gonna stop and not want to walk and look

1085
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,880
at me like what the hell's on my face?

1086
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 1: But it's for him.

1087
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,159
Speaker 2: Is there a way to get like a really loose

1088
00:51:12,559 --> 00:51:14,800
muzzle so that it just they can't like open their

1089
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:16,599
mouth all the way, but that it's not.

1090
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:21,199
Speaker 3: Like, well, yes, my friend Jen takes you know, she

1091
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,119
has a dog walking business and she takes dogs on hikes,

1092
00:51:24,119 --> 00:51:26,119
and she's like, you know, we have a couple dogs

1093
00:51:26,119 --> 00:51:28,599
that eat stuff, so they do wear and it's very

1094
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,159
they can drink water and stuff like that, and it's

1095
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,239
it's loose, and.

1096
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 1: It doesn't She's like, they don't. They seem to get

1097
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:35,239
used to it.

1098
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 3: He's just gonna have to get used to it because

1099
00:51:38,679 --> 00:51:41,840
he just, I mean, I cannot believe what I found,

1100
00:51:42,079 --> 00:51:44,679
what he pulled out, what the doctor showed me. I

1101
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,639
was like, oh my god, it's bigger than a ping

1102
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,920
pong it's a little bit bigger than a ping pong ball.

1103
00:51:51,039 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: And would it wouldn't have passed on its own.

1104
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 3: No, no, no, it was a like plastic ball like

1105
00:51:59,079 --> 00:52:02,880
the size of my fist, and it was just obstructing,

1106
00:52:03,039 --> 00:52:08,159
just sitting in his stomach. Yeah, unbelievable, I know. But

1107
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,519
now he's all back to normal, even though he's got

1108
00:52:10,519 --> 00:52:13,199
stitches and he's got the cone on his head, you know,

1109
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,360
and he but he can't I can't take him on

1110
00:52:16,519 --> 00:52:19,480
a lot of exercise, so he's just you know, he

1111
00:52:19,559 --> 00:52:22,079
picked up my sandal the other day and rot, you know,

1112
00:52:22,199 --> 00:52:25,119
because he's not getting his exercise. So he's kind of

1113
00:52:25,119 --> 00:52:27,559
fucking with me. So I'm like trying to find you know,

1114
00:52:27,599 --> 00:52:29,920
I'm taking him for a little walks a little bit,

1115
00:52:30,079 --> 00:52:33,000
but he's not getting the exercise he needs because he's back.

1116
00:52:33,079 --> 00:52:36,719
He's feeling good. But he'll get his stitches out next week,

1117
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:41,920
next Tuesday. So there's a there's the fill update.

1118
00:52:43,679 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 1: Ourt dogs.

1119
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:48,519
Speaker 2: Man, I know, I know people's got some like yeast

1120
00:52:48,559 --> 00:52:51,119
on her foot. I think I told like it's she

1121
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:54,559
won't stop biting her paw. And then I took a

1122
00:52:54,599 --> 00:52:57,000
picture of it for my friend Mitch to send to

1123
00:52:57,039 --> 00:52:59,320
his friend who's a vet tech. Yeah, and she was like,

1124
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:02,840
you gotta do a treatment, you gotta take you got

1125
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,159
to take her in. But also I got this spray

1126
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,920
that we've been spraying on her and then I have

1127
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,559
to put this little grippy sock over it so she

1128
00:53:09,559 --> 00:53:10,480
doesn't eat her foot.

1129
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not getting better.

1130
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,119
Speaker 2: I mean I've only been doing it like five days,

1131
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:19,199
but for four days. Probably need some medication or something.

1132
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:20,039
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1133
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,199
Speaker 2: I hope they don't make us put a cone on her.

1134
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,440
Oh God, that just makes her crazy, I know. And

1135
00:53:27,559 --> 00:53:29,960
to be honest, I take the cone off sometimes when

1136
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:31,559
because you could just watch them.

1137
00:53:31,639 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he doesn't seem to be bothered by his stomach.

1138
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,400
Speaker 3: He doesn't. He's not like that. He's not a liquor

1139
00:53:38,599 --> 00:53:42,519
or a you know, he's so he's okay. But and

1140
00:53:43,079 --> 00:53:45,199
I saw his stitch it to the area yesterday and

1141
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,800
it looked red and I love my vet. They were

1142
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,599
open on Sunday and I sent them a text of

1143
00:53:49,639 --> 00:53:53,199
it a picture, and they're like, it's totally fine. It's

1144
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:55,280
it's normal for it to be read like that. No,

1145
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,599
as long as it's not bleeding and pussing or whatever.

1146
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:03,400
But yeah, So it's funny because I talked to Wendy

1147
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,960
last night. You know, she got that cat right right.

1148
00:54:07,599 --> 00:54:11,280
The cat's driving her fucking nuts. So now I'm like, oh,

1149
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,920
hell no, I don't know if I want a cat.

1150
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,159
She loves the cat, but like the thing wakes her

1151
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,719
up in the middle when she's sleeping.

1152
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: It's witching hour for the cat. Oh no.

1153
00:54:21,079 --> 00:54:23,440
Speaker 3: And she doesn't even want to get out of bed

1154
00:54:23,480 --> 00:54:25,599
to pee because as soon as she gets up, the

1155
00:54:25,639 --> 00:54:29,960
cats attacks her head, like scratches at her hair, like

1156
00:54:30,039 --> 00:54:32,920
bites her little ears, or like gets on her toes

1157
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,400
if anything's sticking. So she gets out, she goes to

1158
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,199
the bathroom, she runs back, she puts the covers and

1159
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,000
then she puts like just a little hole so she

1160
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:42,760
could breathe, and then the cat like sticks his paw

1161
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,159
and the hole on her lips.

1162
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,840
Speaker 1: It's hilarious. Like I said, I had a few.

1163
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,639
Speaker 3: The cat was like on good behavior in California, and

1164
00:54:49,679 --> 00:54:51,920
then once she got to Chicago, it's like all hell

1165
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,079
broke loose.

1166
00:54:53,159 --> 00:54:56,280
Speaker 1: And you don't really hear about people training cats, no,

1167
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,719
and get like a cat behavioralist, right, like okay, we

1168
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,639
got really show the cat who's alpha exactly.

1169
00:55:02,679 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 3: No, no, no, And he does things like he trips

1170
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,239
her down, like when she's walking down the stairs.

1171
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,159
Speaker 1: He did this at our house too, to kill her.

1172
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,519
Speaker 3: She walks down the stairs and it literally like a

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like goes over on her feet like trips, tries to

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trip her and then she she didn't kick them, and

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she like swiped him away and he like like rolled and.

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Speaker 1: She's like, nah, you like it.

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Speaker 3: It's funny, but she's that she she loves the cat,

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but it's it's she's like it's worse than a toddler

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because at least the baby sleeps at night.

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Speaker 1: This cat's up all night. Well is it a kitten.

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Speaker 2: It's still a kid a kitten, So is that it's

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going to be a good like, yeah, she looked at

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up puppies.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's like a puppy. He's still a kitten for like,

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I think two years, the first two years they say, oh, no,

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I know. So if anybody has any advice, because because

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I was like, yeah, you know, like when Phil gets

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like that, you take him for a walk and you

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tire them out.

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Speaker 1: But what do you do with a cat? Cat? Do

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you tie your a cat out?

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Speaker 2: Also, it's really hard to know what your cat's temperament is.

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I'm assuming I'm not a cat person, but like, right,

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like what if she just got an asshole cat? I

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and that's it. Yeah, it's not going to grow out

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of that, right, it's just a bad cat.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's I know.

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Speaker 3: But everything she's raining, it's kind of normal what the

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cat's doing.

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Speaker 1: But uh, it's just like I.

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Speaker 2: Go to worst case scenario, I know. And that does

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not sound normal. That sounds like your cat hates you.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't it. It sounds like the.

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Speaker 2: Cat's got it out for her, right, Yeah, I feel

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like she should just get another cat so that they

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can play each other.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't it's not always trying to attack her. Let

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them attack each.

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Speaker 3: Other, right, but then what if they both attack her.

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She's got two against one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, then there's a murder happens.

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Speaker 2: That's a dateline that I would for sure want to

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watch it, watch it, not just listen. Yes, yeah, yeah,

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speaking of like bad stuff, before we go, we should

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address the fact that, first of all, the thing that

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happened in Texas, yes, god awful, and I have a

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are are people that do shout outs. I was listening

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to the news on the way over here, and I

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got a charity.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, I'm sure we have some people that listen

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that are out in Texas and our hearts go out

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to you guys, and let's give them, yea some love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can help. Jacob Crowley does shout outs

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for charity, you know, for charity.

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Speaker 1: Yes, thanks, we love you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I have one that is directly helping. It's called

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the Community Foundation dot net Okay, and they are local helping, yes,

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like boots on the ground helping the community that it

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has been devastated by these floods.

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Speaker 3: I can't even the local charities from what I'm hearing,

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is the way to go.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, this is absolutely local and they they're a

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foundation that normally gives money to other like grants, but

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they're using the money and the funds directly to help

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victims and help with the.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so tragic. It happened like so fast. Yeah,

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it's really sad. But yeah, so that's thank you, Jacob.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and on Friday's episode, I'll tell you about what

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I can't tell you too many details, but i'll talk

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about like what you might have seen on my Facebook

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wall that and I will have done that on Thursday. Okay, yeah, okay,

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But before we wrap completely, let's say hi to our

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people like Dick frolicks Her and Kelly Laddie, don Nikki

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call your girl, and Elizabeth Williamson's got a lot of kids,

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Rita's got a bascinette full of kids, and Polly, we

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love your pancakes and your syrup, and Valerie hits it

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out of the park and Katerina check your moler and

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Missy and Gabby and Sean voj pay is hot as

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wool and his band a good guy, cut and a

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good guy. He's a good guy. Yes, I see you,

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e Sean. I know what you've been up to and

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I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: And Rebecca a little bit, she's so cute.

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Speaker 3: And Kelly Bryant, she's not your aunt, but she will.

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She'll gas up that man and put a diaper on

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and help you out.

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Speaker 1: Alicia as Go Day from the City by Leslie with

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all the coughing. You're like Lenette over here. Aaron is

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a dirty Sanchez Jennifer, get up, Sandra.

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Speaker 2: It's not easy being green. Athena. We love your lipstick.

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Stephanie's a stinker wrinker. Ashley so chic, Christa get the strap?

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Can you make me want shoop oop oop. Also, if

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you want to get some jewelry, especially a gift for

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your fella guys, great anniversary stuff from my friend Tamramello.

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The business is called Gray by Tamramello.

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Speaker 1: Look that up.

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Speaker 2: It's an Etsy shop. Each piece is forged from reclaimed

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metals like bronze, copper, sterling, silverl.

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Speaker 1: It's really cool.

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Speaker 2: Obviously they make stuff for women too, but Xander rocks

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his silver guitar tek It's really cool. Just great gifts

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and if you use the code FCL twenty she'll give

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you twenty percent off. Also Robin's charity, pop Culture Rescue

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dot Org. They take care of the pups, all these

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little sweet sweet dogs. You know how much we love

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our dogs. Popculture Rescue dot org. Gabby is doing a

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shout out for United farm Workers.

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Speaker 1: Go to you w.

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Speaker 2: You know what it is. It's a labor union for

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farm workers. They need our help. Let's let's get together.

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You know you know what we need.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: My friend has a column on Medium called Unbecoming Stories

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where her writing is insane. It's so good you will

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love it. So go check that out on Medium. If

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you want another podcast, The Family Skeptical about Raising Kids

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without Religion Any right, any Everybody's exactly Yeah. Also Kelly

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will menfrieda Yes Palm Springs podcast, Go get that salmon. Yeah.

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Basic Becky just Basic Beecky dot com or Basic Becky

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on Facebook. Also Maren has Sugar Skull that's a small

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bakery and gift shop on the island of Kawhaii. They

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have a really cool Instagram page at sugar.

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Speaker 1: Skull eight oh eight.

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Speaker 2: If you want to travel to Hawaii, why not go

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with Christine Black's company, Waves and Wonder Travel. Go to

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her email Christine at Waves and Wonder Travel send her

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an email. Why don't check and Ferncandle. Kelsey runs this

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business out of her home. She makes the good smelling

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soy candles, tobacco, stage, lavender, sandalwood. Her Instagram is Ferncandle

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Orferncandle dot com. And we already talked about Adam, so yeah, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, everybody, you're a parent now, don't f it up

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that angel.