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Speaker 1: I made a decision. Face sunny, sum, I had vision too.

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Wat welcome to for crying out loud. Oh my gosh,

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is it Lynette or is it Helen? Paradise? What are

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you are thoughting about? Its Stephanie? All right, so listen,

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mm hmm. Yesterday I did something that I haven't done before,

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an experience I had which I did not enjoy that much.

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I'm gonna tell you it was. Yeah. So I got

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a call from my neighbor, who I may or may

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not have a little patriot. Okay, well we'll see, Okay,

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we'll see how that how that goes. But so Sadie,

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who I have, who like you know, never wants to

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do anything, got invited to go to an escape room

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with our neighbors right now. This dad, this is the

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divorced dad who lives a couple doors down. Cute one

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cute divorced dad. Yeah, really like this guy. He's the

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one who took my kids to Disneyland for like three days.

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Disneyland Dad, he's Disneyland Dad. I told him, he's Disneyland Dad.

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I go, you're making all of us smile, dad. You know,

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he's like, hey, who wants to go to Dojo Boo.

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He's taking the kids out for all the kids out

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for dinner, and he's like us in our in our

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best mind, like how we want to be where He's like, Hey,

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the more the merrier he gets the kids invite your friends,

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like oh, I got this cousin's coming and that, but

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the kids this other friend. He's like, you know, it's

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like a car those dads Like why can't I be

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like a dad like that? You know, like I'm always

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like who's going? We had to pick who up? Me too,

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you know why we had to pick them up? Can't

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they drop you off? Of what? I know? Totally? You know? Yeah?

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So and John is Dojo Boom like a national thing.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard of it until you just said it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Dojo Boom is like this place that has

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it's like a trampoline park, except for they have even

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more stuff. Okay, you know it's I don't know what.

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They have like phone pits and a basketball thing and

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it's like a place where kids go and like you know,

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jump off of shit. Yeah. So he one day they

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called and the neighbors called, hey, you want to go

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to Dojo Boom. But they didn't have enough seats in

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the dad's car. So John drove Sadie and Xander and

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the dad drove his you know whatever the massive kids

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that were coming along with them, And then John said

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it was kind of funny because they, like I thought

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they were going to kind of bond, like, hey, you're

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gonna get some stories, you know, No so much. The

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dad was like, you know whatever, rolling calls. So John

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was sort of like like, all right, right, John doesn't care.

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He like wrote a script, you know. Okay, So anyway, yesterday,

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Sadie says, hey, can I go to an escape room

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and with our neighbors, you know? And I was like sure,

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But then I started feeling bad because like they this

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because he's Disneyland Dad. He's been so generous. Here's another

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thing too, which I hope he doesn't listen to this,

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because then he's going to see behind the curtain of

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how we think. But I was like, he spent so

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much money on my kids, taking them to Disneyland, putting

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them up in a hotel every meal, like he didn't

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let them spend ANYI their own money, And I felt

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like I wanted to do something nice, but I don't

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know him that well. So I was like, I don't

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want to get him like alcohol, like he doesn't drink,

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you know, and I don't want to like what am

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I going to send flowers? Like he's a dude, you know,

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So not that men don't like flowers. Sorry, I'm just saying,

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like the my normal go tos. Yeah, I was like,

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sense right, And I don't want to just like leave

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something on his port. So then there's a restaurant that

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he takes his kids to sometimes, and I was thinking, oh,

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you know what, maybe I'll get a gift card to

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that restaurant, you know, for a couple hundred bucks. Yeah, right, Yeah.

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But then I didn't do it because, you know, every

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time I thought about doing it, you know why, Because

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when I really thought of doing it was right before

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we went to San Francisco. You know that thing where

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you're like, I want to I got to do this thing,

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and it's one of our things where it's like then,

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every time I thought about doing it, I was like,

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they don't have my online, so I have to drive

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out to the right and get it. Yes, So every

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time I thought about doing it, and then it started

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to feel like it was too far away. I remember

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like a few months ago when you took Yeah, I

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guess so I hadn't done it. But now Sadie's being

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invited to an escape room, and even though I have

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zero interest and going to an escape room right have

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avoided it thus far, don't want to start now. But

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the feeling of kind of guilt came over me. I

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didn't realize he had invited a bunch of kids. At

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this point. It seemed like an idea that the two

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girls who lived his daughters and Sadie, they'd say, hey,

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let's go do this. So I text him and I go, hey,

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do you want me to do? You want me to

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take them to these I heard? I said, I heard

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there's an escape room adventure scheduled for later today. Do

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you want me to take them? I'm totally up for it. No,

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I really wasn't. I know. I know where you coming from,

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but I wanted to see, like, yeah, yeah, hey, you

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took my kids for an amazing thing. The least I

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could do is like brush, let the kids over to

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an escape room and hang out outside and look at

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Facebook while they're inside solving a mystery, right right? Yeah? Yeah,

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So he writes back, Oh that'd be great. No, come

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a come along. Oh no, no, no, that's the.

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Speaker 2: Same thing that happening with me in Vegas with the

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sky the ziplining and all the parents, and I was like, look, parents,

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I got this. Let me take your daughter's ziplining because

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this is just the beginning of the weekend, and I

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know I'm gonna want to lean on you guys to

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take my daughter at enough different time so I can

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go back to the room. So everybody go back to

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the room. I'll take these girls ziplining.

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Speaker 1: Take them.

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Speaker 2: We wait and line I'm killing an hour and a half.

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Two hours later they go down the zip line. Who's

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at the end of the zip line? But all the

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other fucking parents right.

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Speaker 1: Taping, like what the fuck? Witches? I thought that the

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whole point was for you guys to go back to

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your hotel room.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to get a Masterbace session on or

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watch some HBO show or something?

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Speaker 1: Is there any go to the bar?

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Speaker 2: Do something? You know, why hang around here for two

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where are you guys for two hours?

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Speaker 1: By the way, too, and how are you supposed to

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be the hero? They're all there anyway, It doesn't you

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don't even do it. Congratulated for thank you so much, Lynette.

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We really enjoyed our afternoon of masturbating. Thank you exactly

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with our kids appreciate it. I'm in a much better

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mood than I'll thank you. But instead they're like, oh,

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you must have really enjoyed that, from the look on

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your face. Was videotaping you. I was right there too,

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exactly sucks right, So I didn't even get that moment

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of him going, oh my gosh, like yeah, sure, I'll

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stay home, No, come along, I have I got to

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find his literal text to me, because it was okay.

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Speaker 2: He wrote, nobody want to go to the escape?

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Speaker 1: He wrote, I wrote, Hey, let's call it, Paul, I

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understand there's a scaping adventure this afternoon. Do you want

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me to take them? Totally happy to and he wrote

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that's so cool, come along and then and then there's

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an emoji. Right, But it's not okay. I tried to.

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I tried to show this to John and s get

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his thoughts on this, because it's not I want to

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show it to you. It's not a smile, it's not

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a full on smile, but it's also not a straight

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so cool.

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Speaker 1: Come along.

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Speaker 2: But that's not a smiley face.

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Speaker 1: It's just a but it's not a straight line either.

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John's like, no, that's a smiley face. I'm like, it's

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kind of like a half hearted smiley face. I was like,

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this is what it is, mixed messages. It's like a

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straight line, like or it's a little turned. It's a

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little it's a little smile. It's like a little oh.

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It's like hmm okay, and he goes, I'm just trying

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to figure out the time, and then he says, the

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girls have to do a couple of things, and basically

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I don't want to reserve a time until I know

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we're finished. So I'm like, okay, I guess I'm going too,

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So I write so but I can't get out of

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it now, so I go, sure, let me know, okay. Also,

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at the same time, I have been trying to bond

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with Sadie a little bit and do some things that

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she wants to do, because I feel like the stuff

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that I like to do, Sadie doesn't really like to do, right,

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like go to TJ Max or you know, go to

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CVS or go to the grocery store, go to the mall,

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like Sadie's always like eh, right, you know. So since

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she showed a little enthusiasm at going to an escape

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room something to do, I was like, oh, that will

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maybe me being part of it would be a nice

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bonding thing right now. So I'm not trying to get

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out of it, but I'm just trying to figure out,

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like when we're going whatever. Okay. So anyway, then he

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sends me the receipt, like okay, because he's sending me

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the reserve time and the address for the place, and

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so it's freaking like two hundred and sixty bucks and

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you put it down for seven people. I go Sadie,

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who's going into the escape room? Who's going? So she says, well,

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the girl, her sister, their cousin, and I think a

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friend and me, I'm like, okay, that's five. I'm like,

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you think he's including me in this mess? And himnah,

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Like are we going in the escape room? Because I'm

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not planning that. I was planning to sit in my

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ass on a bench outside the escape room and be like,

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good luck in there, hope you make it out right. Yeah,

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the mix, Like I'm hoping I'm going to see two

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more Rando kids. So I pull up, so we drive separately. Okay,

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so we pull up and they're all like, hey, you know,

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we all leave at the same time. They live two

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doors down, so they're all leaving at the same time.

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go I see you have it down for seven and

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there's five kids. I was like, so are we going in?

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And he goes, yeah, you and him. I was like, well, well,

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I've never done the escape from before head and then

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he says then he says, well, one parent has to

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go in. Somebody has to go in with them anyway,

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really I guess I guess one because maybe there's some

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kids that are too young. I don't know. I think honestly,

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and she's thirteen. Oh so yeah, AnyWho, we go in.

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It wasn't horrible, but it made me feel so dumb

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because these kids are walking around like, oh, there's a

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clue you do this? And I was like, how did

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you know that? Like what? And everything's kind of Harry

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Potter themed sort of there's wizards and there's po and

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I'm like, I have I was like, this all looks

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like a foreign language to me. What's his name? Paul?

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You know what I'm going to say, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no,

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so and Paul, you know it is like he's fun.

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Speaker 2: He's really fun fun.

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Speaker 1: So he was he was making like jokes and like

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he's totally our speed. You really like him, and but

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he's not complaining. I wanted to go. He's a fun day.

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So he's like he's like trying to help them. He's

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not like the same as me. It wasn't It was

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not torture, Honestly. The problem was that I felt so dumb.

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I was like, how am I in my fifties and

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I have no idea what's going on? And these like

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there's ten year olds there that are like, oh, oh

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open this mirror frame. Oh I found another clue. I'm like,

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what is happening? I don't And of course they want

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the parents to help, and both Paul and I are

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your head walking in a circle and then you know,

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there's constant like every so often there's like wow, there's cool.

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I had a door opens and you're like, oh, good

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for you guys, smarty fans. Meanwhile, I'm now like oh

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this is now. I'm like, this guy's now spent a

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lot more money, and now he's paid for me and

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my kid to go into this. And I didn't realize

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how expensive it is to go to escape room. So

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I'm like, hey, let me have your venmo, like I

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want to pay for this, you know, and he's like,

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absolutely not, don't worry about it. And I was like, no, no, no, no,

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Like you've already treated for so much stuff. He's taken

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my kids out to dinner more than once, right, So

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I'm like and he goes, oh, you can, you can

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like pay for like ice cream or yogurt or something. Afterward,

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I was like, well, that's not going to be enough,

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Like that's not going to cost that much money, and

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he's like sure, he's super nice, right. Yeah. So it

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was kind of funny because I'm.

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these these these is that what it's like like these

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you have to go through one room into another room

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or so room. You can't leave until you figured it out.

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Speaker 1: You can't. So the whole idea is that you put

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together all these clues and then if you figure it

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all out, it's one by one you start opening locks

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for things and you get code words, and like eventually

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you're opening locks to this main box and it's like

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there's like six lots anyway, and then if you solve

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it all, there's one main key and you and then

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it opens the door to the escape room and you

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get out. Okay, you have to do it in an hour.

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then you didn't successfully get out. Spoiler alert, we did

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not successfully get out, but we but they were really

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really close. They have like one like, if given another

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three minutes, we would have gotten out. Yeah we. I

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shouldn't include myself. I did nothing to help at all.

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Speaker 2: Now were you able to play your game on your

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phone inside the escape rooms? So?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you have to walk around and feign interest

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in what's happening. You have to be like, oh, you guys,

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got another clue. Oh, and then you have to kind

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of walk around and like read random shit on the

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wall and pretend you're interested in it and.

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Speaker 2: Go like trying to tell oh, this says right.

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Speaker 1: Which you're like, and then you go, hey, do these

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go to anything? And like you hold up a piece

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of paper you found on the floor and they're like, yeah,

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we already did that, right, And then you're like, okay, moded.

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Fourth thing? Is it an hour inside of that thing?

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One hour? Oh that's not bad? A lot of screaming, yeah,

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and the kids? Is there a yelling rooms that other? Yet?

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So another room like one it ain't to do something?

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And then one door opens and it's like a closet,

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but then there's more clues in there. Okay, And then

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like you know what happens is you get kind of

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into it for a minute because you think you're helping,

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and then you realize you can't figure it out. So

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then you go, never mind, and I can go sit down.

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So there's a place you could say, really there's like

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a chair where the people are actually working and doing stuff,

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but you can kind of sit there, which I did.

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You're basically walking around anyway. We finish all that and

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then we're driving and then he decides, Paul decides like, hey,

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do you guys want to go to dinner first, So

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of course I'm like sure, and I'm seeing that as

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an opportunity to like chip in a little more money,

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take all these assholes out for dinner. Right, So we did.

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Speaker 2: This is just so typical of my life, right, Yeah,

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and mom goes through this.

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Speaker 1: And then we took and then we walked over and

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we had yogurt, and yeah, I felt like kind of accomplished,

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but at the same time sort of like a loser, right,

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because I.

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Speaker 2: Know that feeling. And then you go home and you're like,

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why did my duty? I'm now I get to go

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straight to the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, straight to the bedroom and put on a podcast, right, exactly, done,

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pajamazon done, raw off. Yes, engaged with Sadie Hopefully she

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felt good about that, Like, go, I'm sure you have

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some YouTube videos to catch up on my job? Here

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is done? Right? Yeah? The best? And then I and

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then I do the I got to work tomorrow, right, No,

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pull that card? Yeah? Now, so you've never been to

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an escape room? No, you plan to keep it that way. Yes,

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I have escaped.

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Speaker 2: No, my kids went to one like it was some

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you know whose it was, remember the kid pe pew pew. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So Olga.

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Speaker 2: His nanny and Olga are like close at the time,

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and they I remember a couple of years ago when

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they were in town, they decided for his birthday instead

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of aving and extravaganza in my in my driveway with

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the vegan cake and the toilet paper stuffed right, And

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weren't they parked in like a cycle in like a yes,

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led up an RV out in front of my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you weren't home yet. I don't

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remember where I think they waited out from. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: They were supposed to be there at twelve, and they

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got there like eleven forty. So they just stayed out

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front and Adam was like, ho's in our driveway with

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the RV?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, don't worry.

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Speaker 1: I got it. I got it. I got it. Yeah,

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that kid's birthday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And so it was not the last time you saw

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that kid, or was it? This was like again, like

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came back again, and I.

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Speaker 2: Think that was the first so one year. So this

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kid lived up the street from us in our old neighborhood.

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He was born like a month apart from Sunny and Natalia,

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and he was sweetheart, nice family, sweet family, and his

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nanny and Olga.

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Speaker 1: Got to be close, just like the kids got to

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be close.

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Speaker 2: So Sonny and Italia were friends with this kid, but

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the parents didn't put him in like traditional school. Like

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they at some point moved to Paris so that the

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older sister could be in her equestrian sport, right, and

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so they moved and they she was homeschooling him at home.

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So whenever they got to come to La and they'd

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get together with Sonny and Italia, he was so like

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behind because he wasn't socializing with other kids his age,

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so like he came to visit and like on his

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way like Sonny and Italian. Sonny was fine with him,

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but Natalia is like, I don't know, you know, he's

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call him Aaron. No, Aaron is just he's got this,

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you know, like he just wants to play like cowboys

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and Indians all the time. And Sonny chimes in, going, yeah,

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you're right, he does like to do that, and then

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she's like, yeah, I just who wants to do that?

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Like we're you know, second Italian away. Beyond that, obviously

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they were like, I don't know, in sixth grade. Fifth

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now they were like in fifth sixth grade, and he's

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got the mentality of still of a fourth grader who

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wants to play cowboys and Indians with the guns. Pew pew, pew,

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peep pe pew. Right, So anyway, and and then I

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don't know, Olga just like sprung it on me that

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they were coming over because it was his birthday. But

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she's like, don't worry, they're bringing their own cake, right,

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And I was like, boll, I didn't even.

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Speaker 1: Have a gift for them.

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Speaker 2: And now I'm like going in the garage looking and

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like Sonny like, let's find something for him, Like, like,

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let's get something. Don't you have something in your room

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we could wrap up, right? And son he's like, well,

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we got the like the old build the uh some

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like remote control car in the garage. And now, of

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course I don't have any wrapping paper or battery bets

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or any batteries or any tissue paper.

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Speaker 1: So I took it. I took it.

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Speaker 2: Trader's Joe grocery bag. Yeah, and I took toilet stuffed it.

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But my excuse was Sonny and Natalia wrapped it for him,

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right me.

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Speaker 1: Right, That's what I was gonna say.

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Speaker 2: That was gonna be my excuse, and Sonny's like, don't

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blame that shit, honey, and August.

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Speaker 1: Like maybe I have time to run to the store,

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and I was like, nah, it's.

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Speaker 2: Fine, it's fine, you know, like we're never going to

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see these people again exactly. Well, turns out they come

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every summer when it's his birthday to back to La

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and they want to hook up with Sonny Italian. Although

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the last like two or three years now haven't heard

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a peep out of them, so I'm guessing either they

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heard my podcast or they got the end.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was so sad.

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Speaker 2: So they like waiting in the driveway for us, you know,

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until well, just.

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Speaker 1: The nanny too. It wasn't even like the.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the mom left, the mom dropped the nan Erica

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and Aaron off and she took off, and I was like,

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lucky her. So yeah, So then they're standing in the

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driveway holding cake. It's like listen our driveway and Olga's like, oh,

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tell him to come in, tell him. So of course

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they come in and he's brought his own like vegan

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cake that was just sugarless and flowerless, less and joyless.

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It's like, yeah, it was really really sad. So anyway,

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what was I talking about them for? What are we

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talking about?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't remember escape rooms?

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Speaker 2: Oh, escape room escaped me?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Gaben.

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Speaker 2: Yes, uh so, Olga and Erica the nanny took Aaron

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and Sonny to an escape room for his birthday. For

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Aaron's birthday the next year, I came back to visit. Okay,

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I think they decided to up their game a little bit, like, actually,

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now we're gonna have something planned. We're not coming to

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your dumb house and hang out to bring our own shit.

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Speaker 1: Right, And You're like, I don't even have any Trader

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Joe's bag thing you saved me? Yes?

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Speaker 2: So they went to an escape room. Yeah so I've

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never gone, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, it's this definitely not really my thing.

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Speaker 2: The worst is when you have to do shit with

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other parents, you know, like.

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Speaker 1: When you have to engage huh.

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Speaker 2: And and the other parents. I'm sure it's just fine,

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perfectly easy to get along with and stuff, but it's like,

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I just I don't know, I get a headache after

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a while of all that fake talk and fake interest

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and fake this and fake that, which reminds me so

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I'm hosting not hosting the Door of Hope who we

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all know that I work with. They're doing a fundraiser

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this year and it's in the backyard of one of

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our neighbors. It's like right around the block from our

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house and it's in their backyard. And of course it's

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this woman who does everything for the community everything, So

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she's at all the bdas, she's at all the shit.

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It's like her, right, I mean, I don't know. She's

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a nice woman, but yeah, she's a go getter, that's

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for sure. So of course it's at her house, right,

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So it's in her backyard. And they're like, so can

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we count on you to bring so we'll give you

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a table of ten, So can you fill the table

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of nine? I was like, I got to get nine

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other people on board with this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not good at that, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like, I like to just volunteer and do my thing, right,

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I don't like your person Yeah, I'm not good at that.

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And they're like, listen, we'll send you the the form letter.

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You can tweak it, make it, you know, we'll send

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you the invite. It's easy to email. I'm like, well,

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that's not the point. The point is is I hate

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asking people for this stuffy when is it? It's at

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the end of this it's the Sunday, last Sunday this month,

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I think the twenty sixth or something.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, because I was gonna say i'd go,

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but you know what, I have Kenny, Kenny Loggins. Everybody's

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got something I.

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00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 2: Honestly do ask uh oh, that's Gina's wedding. I believe Caylin.

466
00:25:12,559 --> 00:25:15,039
So that keeps you out of it, right, Yeah, I'm busy.

467
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:18,599
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh my god, I would go though I was

468
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,400
going to ask you. I totally would have gone, but

469
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,599
that is the night that I have.

470
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,319
Speaker 2: It's something twenty six and I say it right yea, yeah, okay,

471
00:25:26,599 --> 00:25:30,960
So here's my plan. So I decide, okay, so the

472
00:25:31,039 --> 00:25:33,920
mom's in the area, so I hit up last night.

473
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:38,640
I sent an email to like Natalia's Mommy's friends and

474
00:25:39,079 --> 00:25:42,400
Sonny's mom friends. Yeah, so where's like, I don't know

475
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,279
a total of ten, I guess that I invited. One

476
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,240
responded back right away like I would love so, thank you.

477
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,799
I'd love to And I was like, okay, you know,

478
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,839
and I was making it kind of fun, like it's

479
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,920
like we because I haven't seen a lot of them

480
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,359
in a long time. I've seen Natalia's friends' moms more

481
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,480
than I see on these moms because Natalia, you know,

482
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,279
I don't know they're they're around more often. And also

483
00:26:06,319 --> 00:26:09,119
they have get together that they invite me to, you know,

484
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:13,480
so like the pogo stick competition, you know. So I

485
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,519
so I sent an email and we'll see.

486
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 1: But I'll buy a seat though, Yeah, people will help you.

487
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,920
I'll buy a seat at your table. At the table. Yeah,

488
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,720
how much are they?

489
00:26:21,799 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 2: I don't think they are charging for the seats.

490
00:26:24,799 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: It's just not oh they're just auctioning stuff. No, and

491
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,319
it's not even going to be that. That's going to be.

492
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,839
Speaker 2: Like I like about them is that they they don't

493
00:26:31,839 --> 00:26:33,920
have a big budget. So it's like straight to the point.

494
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,519
So it's two hours of just.

495
00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: Like selling you. Do you want to getting donations? Yes,

496
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,480
well I'll make a donation for you. Thank you for

497
00:26:40,519 --> 00:26:42,480
the seat, all right, thanks, thank you.

498
00:26:42,839 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 2: So it's basically like you're going to meet families that

499
00:26:46,599 --> 00:26:48,920
have gone through their program and the now are on

500
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,119
their own. They're going to be there to tell their

501
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,160
stories and just basically an awareness of what they do

502
00:26:54,839 --> 00:26:57,839
and that's basically it. And I don't even think they're

503
00:26:57,839 --> 00:27:01,119
doing an auction, maybe like a silent OC, but not

504
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,319
like anything like that. It's very casual.

505
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: It's in the backyard. They should do some stuff, like

506
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:08,960
some raffles or something.

507
00:27:09,079 --> 00:27:11,920
Speaker 2: I know, I'm going to ask her what the deal

508
00:27:12,079 --> 00:27:15,720
is there, but she did tell me, yeah, that it's

509
00:27:15,799 --> 00:27:17,960
pretty scaled back. I think it's because of COVID and

510
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,759
the Delta and everything, like they just want people just

511
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:25,279
to just to see what they do and hear their stories,

512
00:27:25,559 --> 00:27:30,279
basically bring awareness. So I'm going to start there and

513
00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:33,079
if nobody, I mean, can you imagine I'm sitting there

514
00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:36,880
with like one other girl. So I made it like, look,

515
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,319
we haven't seen each other in a long time, Like,

516
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,680
of course you can bring your significant other. But I

517
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,559
thought it would be fun if us ladies got together

518
00:27:43,599 --> 00:27:46,200
and we all like, yeah, catch up, blah blah blah.

519
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,400
Hopefully I go down that route and everybody bites. If not,

520
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,599
I don't know, maybe I'll have to open it up

521
00:27:51,599 --> 00:27:52,960
to the SEOL community.

522
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: I know Jane'll come. Yeah, yeah, if she's around. Oh

523
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,680
my gosh, people would love to come with you. But

524
00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:02,839
Robin's not a it. I can't. She's gonna be at

525
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,400
Kenny with me.

526
00:28:03,519 --> 00:28:07,279
Speaker 2: Okay, So Robin, you can either come with me Gina

527
00:28:07,599 --> 00:28:08,319
that's her wedding.

528
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh boy, you're not going to her wedding. I

529
00:28:12,039 --> 00:28:13,039
would love to, but.

530
00:28:14,599 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 2: I think your boss you know, Oh Adam's going to

531
00:28:18,279 --> 00:28:25,000
go so got it? Yeah?

532
00:28:25,039 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

533
00:28:26,319 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 2: Politics, which is so funny because Gina's getting married the

534
00:28:30,279 --> 00:28:35,359
same weekend of is it the twenty th two days

535
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,279
before our.

536
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: Wedding?

537
00:28:38,039 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: Niver So we got married on the twenty eighth of September.

538
00:28:40,559 --> 00:28:44,200
Oh well, let you know, let's hope things go differently

539
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,359
for Gina.

540
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,039
Speaker 1: Well, you know what, things didn't go that bad for

541
00:28:48,079 --> 00:28:53,920
you get a good run. It's a lot of years. Yeah,

542
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:59,559
it'll be nineteen or twenty. I think it's going to

543
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,119
be our I don't know. He can't do the math.

544
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,960
You ever have friends that, uh are getting married to

545
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,759
somebody and you're like that is not gonna last and

546
00:29:10,799 --> 00:29:13,480
it doesn't have you experienced that where you're like this

547
00:29:13,559 --> 00:29:16,480
is not a good idea. Then you have to go

548
00:29:16,519 --> 00:29:19,920
to their wedding and go like yay, like when you're younger,

549
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,799
and then you go, I give it a year, right,

550
00:29:22,839 --> 00:29:26,000
and then a year later they get divorced and you

551
00:29:26,599 --> 00:29:30,319
don't you can't be like fucking told you.

552
00:29:29,559 --> 00:29:33,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody really comes to mind, right, but I know

553
00:29:33,559 --> 00:29:37,839
a lot of people definitely in relationships and stuff too,

554
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,519
not even just marriede.

555
00:29:39,519 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: But like, uh, that's not going to work out. You know.

556
00:29:43,759 --> 00:29:47,720
Have you ever been around couples that are like bickering

557
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,440
in front of you?

558
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 2: Yes, sad it is uncomfortable. Gena and Jimmy all the time.

559
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:58,319
Oh they did, Oh god, it was uncomfortable. Well, especially

560
00:29:58,359 --> 00:30:00,680
like he would they would yell at you other, like

561
00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:03,720
she would just put him down and he would just

562
00:30:03,839 --> 00:30:06,400
like tell her to fuck off, and like.

563
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,599
Speaker 1: I know, like yeah, and they were serious.

564
00:30:08,799 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I have pictures of us in Hawaii on

565
00:30:12,039 --> 00:30:15,400
a vacation. I just we just started like not just

566
00:30:15,559 --> 00:30:17,640
but it was like the first two years of us

567
00:30:17,799 --> 00:30:22,359
together and that like there's pictures of us like smiling,

568
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,440
and then there's Jimmy behind Gina like flipping her off,

569
00:30:26,119 --> 00:30:28,680
you know, and part of me is he's joking, but

570
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,799
he's not though, like that's and then they'll they'll say like, well,

571
00:30:32,799 --> 00:30:34,799
that's our shtick kind of thing, that's what we do,

572
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,559
and it's like well, it's uncomfortable. But yeah, a lot

573
00:30:39,599 --> 00:30:42,000
of people. I've had other couples like that too.

574
00:30:42,839 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes it's when you don't know them that well, right,

575
00:30:46,799 --> 00:30:50,640
and you're like if you feel that comfortable bickering, like

576
00:30:51,079 --> 00:30:53,000
and you know what the worst is, like when the

577
00:30:53,039 --> 00:30:57,079
woman that this is going to sound misogynistic, but the

578
00:30:57,119 --> 00:31:00,599
worst is when the woman is like one you to

579
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:03,480
bond with her because you're the other another woman and like,

580
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,720
I mean, can you fucking believe this guy? Like when

581
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,160
they're like rolling their eyes and making comments and like

582
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,000
this fucking guy and you're like, I'm not seeing.

583
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 2: Right problems Like yes, I've had that, Yeah, we are

584
00:31:15,759 --> 00:31:16,319
you gonna do? Go?

585
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, this guy seems like a real fucking jackass, and

586
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,880
you're not going to do that, right? I know? No,

587
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,000
I know. I know a couple that was like that.

588
00:31:24,079 --> 00:31:27,680
We traveled with them and uh, he treated his wife

589
00:31:27,759 --> 00:31:30,359
like shit though, like he was just and she kind

590
00:31:30,359 --> 00:31:32,839
of rolled with it kind of thing, and like thought

591
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,640
it was funny, but it was like the other wives

592
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:40,680
were like, it's not funny, it's like disrespectful. It's not funny, it's.

593
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,039
Speaker 2: Respectful and what a dick you look like you know

594
00:31:43,079 --> 00:31:45,039
what I mean, Like, do you really want to portray

595
00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:46,839
yourself as a dick in front of all of us?

596
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: Right? You know? Well that's like the opposite thing where

597
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,920
the guy's like you believe this this chick, like what

598
00:31:53,599 --> 00:31:54,119
an airhead?

599
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:54,799
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah?

600
00:31:54,839 --> 00:31:57,599
Speaker 1: And no one is on your side, nobody. I know,

601
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:03,519
I know, I know. But Gina, I'm happy for very happy.

602
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: Oh I couldn't have been. I mean I've known Gina

603
00:32:05,799 --> 00:32:09,599
for a long time well over Ginograt.

604
00:32:09,119 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yah yeah. And oh he's yeah I met.

605
00:32:12,279 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 2: Him, adorable, so cute, so sweet, obviously loves her. Oh

606
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,000
my god, I see the Facebook and how happy they are.

607
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,359
Speaker 1: So happy. I mean he asked me out, but I

608
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,400
was like, that's probably like totally platonic. We could talk

609
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:30,160
about that on Patriot. Can you imagine? I'm like, I

610
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,160
think he just wants to be friends. We have a

611
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:36,359
lot in common, right, Yeah, we've been communicated, Like his

612
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,759
text to me are just super funny, Like it's not

613
00:32:38,839 --> 00:32:41,079
even that flirty like at midnight?

614
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 2: Right could you imagine?

615
00:32:43,799 --> 00:32:45,759
Speaker 1: I'd be terrible? And I talk about it on the show.

616
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:50,440
I'm like, I'm sure she knows because they're super close,

617
00:32:50,559 --> 00:32:52,759
like they're getting married. I'm sure she knows who he's

618
00:32:52,759 --> 00:32:53,200
friends with.

619
00:32:55,279 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 2: It's just so interesting to see all these people around here,

620
00:32:59,119 --> 00:33:02,440
like Kaylen, Gary, Like I went to Gary's wedding and

621
00:33:02,599 --> 00:33:05,480
it's just weird to see Gary get married when he

622
00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:10,799
was just like this young little puppy I know, and

623
00:33:10,839 --> 00:33:13,359
now he's like you can tell he totally loves Joya.

624
00:33:13,559 --> 00:33:17,519
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're so cute together, so cute. He's really

625
00:33:17,559 --> 00:33:22,319
into being a dad. Yeah, he's a dad. Kaylin's like,

626
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:28,400
it's all right, let's up, Kaylen, what are you getting married?

627
00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:32,720
I don't know. Well, it's good going on that, Kaylen.

628
00:33:32,759 --> 00:33:35,640
You have a nice easy day today? Huh no, nohow no,

629
00:33:35,759 --> 00:33:37,880
I don't. Yeah, you don't know. I got to work today.

630
00:33:38,039 --> 00:33:40,359
You do. Is there a show today? No? But I

631
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,519
still have work to do, okay, all right, So you

632
00:33:42,559 --> 00:33:44,039
don't have an easy day. I do not have an.

633
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: Easy all right.

634
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: So here's my thing I've been trying to get. This

635
00:33:52,039 --> 00:33:55,160
is my theme today. Get Sadie like engaged with her,

636
00:33:55,279 --> 00:33:58,720
right yeah. And it's so frustrating because she doesn't I

637
00:33:58,759 --> 00:34:02,799
don't love watching movie movies anyway, but like what kid

638
00:34:03,119 --> 00:34:06,160
doesn't like what? She does? Not like watching movies. It

639
00:34:06,279 --> 00:34:08,320
is like torture for her to have to watch a

640
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:12,480
movie with me. So there's this new movie. It's called Koda.

641
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,599
Have you heard of this movie. It's with Marley Mattlins

642
00:34:16,599 --> 00:34:18,559
in it. It's about this girl who wants to be

643
00:34:18,599 --> 00:34:21,840
a singer and she her whole family is deaf. Her mom, dad,

644
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:26,880
and brother are deaf and they work as fishermen and

645
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,159
she helps them out because she's the only hearing one

646
00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:31,400
in the family. But she wants to be a singer

647
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,480
and she has got a really beautiful voice. Anyway, it's

648
00:34:33,519 --> 00:34:38,280
TOLLAPG thirteen. Like it's also funny. Yeah, it's got like

649
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,360
some swearing in it, Like it's not it's really good movie.

650
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,039
And I heard about it from a friend of mine

651
00:34:44,119 --> 00:34:48,719
who's like, it's a great movie. It's got it's you're

652
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,800
gonna love it. Watch it with the whole family. So

653
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:56,000
I got Sadie, But it's like pulling teeth. I was like, Sadie,

654
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,960
just give it a chance, like just watch thirty minutes

655
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,480
of it, you know, and then I have to do

656
00:35:01,519 --> 00:35:03,119
this thing where I have to bargain with her and go.

657
00:35:03,159 --> 00:35:05,400
You can bring your phone, like you could play a

658
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,039
game on your phone. I don't care. I just want

659
00:35:07,039 --> 00:35:09,039
to see if you like it, like maybe it'll suck

660
00:35:09,079 --> 00:35:14,360
you in, you know. So she agreed, but like under duress,

661
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,400
you know. She was like all right. So we watched

662
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,400
like thirty minutes of it, and I felt like she

663
00:35:21,519 --> 00:35:24,639
was liking it, like really, yeah, somebody calls someone a

664
00:35:24,679 --> 00:35:28,280
twat waffle, like there are something like that. Yeah, there's

665
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,760
some stuff that was like on her level. Yeah, you know, yeah,

666
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,360
and uh. But then after like thirty minutes, she was

667
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:39,039
like all right, she was done kind of and it's

668
00:35:39,079 --> 00:35:40,840
fine because I had to, like I had to go

669
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,000
do something else too, I can't remember what. So then

670
00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,000
I kept bringing it up, like, hey, you want to

671
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,400
watch the retifite. I was like, let's finish watching CODA,

672
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,480
and every time she'd be like, o h, we have to.

673
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,840
But I decided that I was going to see it through,

674
00:35:58,119 --> 00:36:00,320
even if it kind of tortured her, so I really did.

675
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,960
I was like, Okay, but Sadie, I really want to

676
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,480
watch this with you, and she was like.

677
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,800
Speaker 2: Why I don't want to want That's you hate when

678
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:09,880
you push something and they're like why are you being

679
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,320
so weird about it? Or what like Natalia will go

680
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,119
like what.

681
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: What do you care? Why do you what? All right?

682
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,039
I finally told Sadie though, I was like, because I'm

683
00:36:18,039 --> 00:36:20,880
trying to do something with you, and I feel like

684
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,719
like I want to do this, but I want to

685
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,840
do it with you. And then John gets on, you know,

686
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,159
He's like, come on, Sadie, like mom wants to watch

687
00:36:27,199 --> 00:36:30,639
this movie with you, and so she's like all right, yeah,

688
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,920
that's no fun going into it like that. But I

689
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,559
was like, but then I can't. I don't want to

690
00:36:35,559 --> 00:36:37,840
back down. I want to be like, fine, don't watch it. Then,

691
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:39,880
so I'm like, all right, so we're gonna watch it.

692
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:44,000
Can bring your phone, and she ended I think she

693
00:36:44,199 --> 00:36:46,320
ended up enjoying it, like we started it from where

694
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,880
we left off and it was really good. Of course,

695
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:56,039
then I'm crying during it, touching and Sadie's like, yeah right, yeah,

696
00:36:56,119 --> 00:36:58,400
my kids, all three of my kids are sociopaths. They

697
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,519
have no empathy or feelings. They can't understand crying for

698
00:37:01,599 --> 00:37:04,960
somebody else, Like I write, I know my kids are

699
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,519
like that too. No I'm like no, yeah, I am

700
00:37:08,599 --> 00:37:11,280
all right. I'm because you know what, I have a heart.

701
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,960
It's beating and this is emotional, Like, you don't think

702
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,039
this is emotional. She's like, I guess, yeah, but I

703
00:37:17,079 --> 00:37:19,119
do think she enjoyed it. I don't know. Do you

704
00:37:19,119 --> 00:37:22,119
think I won? No, I think I should.

705
00:37:22,199 --> 00:37:23,599
Speaker 2: I think that that was a good thing.

706
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: I was like, did you so did you like it?

707
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:28,760
Speaker 2: And she's like, yeah, maybe you could pick. Maybe she

708
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,119
could pick next time. Maybe you could say, like, Okay,

709
00:37:31,199 --> 00:37:33,519
let's have a movie night once a month or once

710
00:37:33,559 --> 00:37:36,679
every I don't know, like try and do it more consistently.

711
00:37:37,639 --> 00:37:39,920
She wouldn't be down. What does she like doing? She

712
00:37:40,079 --> 00:37:41,039
likes to be on YouTube?

713
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: My god. I was literally talking to Paul get that dad,

714
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,079
and I was telling him, you know, I was like, yeah,

715
00:37:47,119 --> 00:37:48,800
I wanted to come tonight because I wanted to, like,

716
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,280
you know, try to find some stuff that she likes

717
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:52,599
to do. And he's like, well, what does she like

718
00:37:52,639 --> 00:37:56,440
to do? I was like, yeah, great fucking question. If

719
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,559
I knew, I wouldn't be at an escape room right now.

720
00:37:58,599 --> 00:38:03,519
Did she like the escape room? I mean, she doesn't

721
00:38:03,599 --> 00:38:07,119
get that fired up. There's there's very few things that

722
00:38:07,199 --> 00:38:11,360
she goes that was really fun, right, right, right? Very

723
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:15,360
few things. Yeah, there's very few things she expresses interest

724
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:16,559
in trying or doing.

725
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,559
Speaker 2: She likes hanging out with Paul's kids though, right or

726
00:38:20,599 --> 00:38:21,599
she could take it or leave it.

727
00:38:22,199 --> 00:38:28,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, kind yeah, kind of, but she doesn't.

728
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,159
I think being around people is a lot of work

729
00:38:31,159 --> 00:38:36,119
for her. I think she likes it enough, like she

730
00:38:36,119 --> 00:38:38,039
she wanted to do it, she was up for it.

731
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,039
But I don't think she's like, oh my god, that

732
00:38:41,119 --> 00:38:44,960
sounds so fun. That's the whole thing with even with Disneyland,

733
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,280
when it was like, hey, he's inviting you guys, she

734
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,159
was like, I don't know, be away from home, yeah,

735
00:38:51,199 --> 00:38:56,320
two days? That doesn't She likes well, she loves dyeing

736
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,119
her hair different colors. She loves thinking about like, she

737
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,880
likes esthetics. She likes like she's she's been giving a

738
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:08,280
lot of thought to, like redecorating her room. Nice because

739
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,679
we're doing that build, so we go. She likes looking

740
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,239
at Amazon and planning, like decorating her room. Tell her

741
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:15,679
to get a.

742
00:39:15,639 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 2: Vision board, right or start a Pinterest page.

743
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 1: She likes looking at clothes and fashion and stuff, and

744
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:27,280
she likes so she has a passion for things. But

745
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,840
I feel like all kids have that, and then they

746
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,000
also have other interests.

747
00:39:32,119 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well.

748
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: It's hard.

749
00:39:36,519 --> 00:39:39,199
Speaker 2: It's hard because the kids have everything they need at

750
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,920
their fingertips all the time, so it's not like when

751
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,360
we were growing up where we needed to find things

752
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:49,559
to do to keep us busy, you know. So it's

753
00:39:49,599 --> 00:39:52,960
easy to just be like, once you have everything, you know,

754
00:39:53,039 --> 00:39:57,119
when you have things that you like and you can

755
00:39:57,159 --> 00:39:59,559
look at, and you know, you have YouTube in front

756
00:39:59,599 --> 00:40:01,880
of you, it's easy to be like and kind of

757
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,239
rather especially if that's your thing and not going out

758
00:40:05,679 --> 00:40:08,239
is your thing. It's easy to just go like, I'd

759
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,599
rather stay here and be on my YouTube page.

760
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: Right, But you have the same thing with Sonny. Yes, yeah,

761
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,159
and Sonny is he loved basketball and that was kind

762
00:40:18,199 --> 00:40:20,599
of his life. I remember he loved it so much

763
00:40:20,639 --> 00:40:23,159
that he was willing to be the team assistant.

764
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,119
Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, he loves sports.

765
00:40:26,119 --> 00:40:27,519
Speaker 1: Well then all but then he was.

766
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,280
Speaker 2: Like, eh, right, not going to do it right. Well,

767
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:35,320
now the thing is, uh so I just had their IEP. Well,

768
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,119
Sonny's boom testing very okay, Sonny's being tested still because

769
00:40:39,119 --> 00:40:43,679
it's his triannuals Natalia, I had her IEP and they

770
00:40:43,679 --> 00:40:46,159
did this thing. It's like seven forty five in the morning,

771
00:40:46,599 --> 00:40:49,159
you're going to get on zoom and you're going to

772
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,360
be with the counselor and all her teachers, and we

773
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,440
require Natalia at least beyond for the first few minutes,

774
00:40:55,639 --> 00:40:57,679
you know, of the of the call o kind of

775
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:02,679
like okay, So night before Natalia comes home from the

776
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:07,000
big game where everybody's chanting her and I'm like, it's

777
00:41:07,039 --> 00:41:09,400
ten thirty at night, and I'm like, okay, but hold on,

778
00:41:10,039 --> 00:41:12,360
slow your role. We have to be on zoom tomorrow

779
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,760
at seven forty five. Oh no, no, I can't tell them.

780
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:17,719
I can't tell them.

781
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:18,079
Speaker 1: I can't.

782
00:41:18,119 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 2: I want to sleep until the very last second and

783
00:41:20,519 --> 00:41:22,519
then get to school and I'm gonna be late for school.

784
00:41:22,519 --> 00:41:25,599
I said, they'll let you be late. Then she's like, oh,

785
00:41:25,639 --> 00:41:27,800
I can be late. I said yeah, and she's like,

786
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,320
all right, but I have to be on zoom on

787
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:35,719
the camera. And I said yeah, and she's like, she's like,

788
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,079
do I have to just just go to bed.

789
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: I'll get on the zoom. I'll call you when I'm

790
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:41,480
when we're ready.

791
00:41:42,599 --> 00:41:45,559
Speaker 2: So what happens is normally I don't have to think

792
00:41:45,559 --> 00:41:47,159
twice about going to get Natalia up.

793
00:41:47,199 --> 00:41:47,760
Speaker 1: She's up.

794
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 2: Well, of course, put it in her brain that she

795
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,239
could be late. I didn't put two and two together.

796
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:57,440
So anyway, I'm doing my zoom upstairs with the teachers

797
00:41:58,039 --> 00:42:02,480
and I'm on and I text Natalia, are you ready?

798
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,000
And I'm about to get on and she's like, I'll

799
00:42:05,039 --> 00:42:08,400
be on in a few minutes. So I didn't go back,

800
00:42:08,639 --> 00:42:10,960
so I start with them. Then we get through everything

801
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,360
I need to be on with and I'm like, okay, well,

802
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,239
let me go see where Natalia is. So I get

803
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,400
I put the I had them on my phone, I

804
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:22,360
put them down. I go downstairs. She's asleep, and I'm like,

805
00:42:22,599 --> 00:42:26,320
what the fuck? I have all your teachers upstairs in

806
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,360
my bedroom right now waiting for you, and you're asleep

807
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:30,280
in this dark room?

808
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:31,760
Speaker 1: Get up? Are you kidding?

809
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,280
Speaker 2: And I'm like, now, I'm like, what the fuck do

810
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,719
I do? So I go back upstairs, I get the phone.

811
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,360
I go she's ready, but I'm just gonna have her

812
00:42:39,599 --> 00:42:41,440
not on camera because she's got to get dressing and

813
00:42:41,519 --> 00:42:44,400
she's getting ready, so but she can hear everybody. So

814
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,239
then I go down there and she's like still like

815
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:48,159
half a sleep.

816
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: Her voice is like coarse because she was like.

817
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,320
Speaker 2: Screaming the night before I'm like and they're like Natalian,

818
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,599
She's like, yeah, oh my gosh, she's here.

819
00:42:57,639 --> 00:42:58,199
Speaker 1: She can hear you.

820
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, Natalia left, and by the way, I'm on

821
00:43:01,039 --> 00:43:03,440
the camera, so it's not like I can go, would

822
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,519
you you know I can't. I'm like smiling and you know. Meanwhile,

823
00:43:07,559 --> 00:43:10,039
I got my hand going like get the fuck up,

824
00:43:10,159 --> 00:43:11,440
get up, you know.

825
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 1: And she's like, what are you saying. I don't know.

826
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 2: I could come anyway. So it was working out okay.

827
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,960
Then Phil starts to wander in and she hates Phil

828
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,079
being in her bedroom and she's like trying. So now

829
00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:26,000
I'm following her around the room so she could hear.

830
00:43:26,039 --> 00:43:29,559
But meanwhile she's trying to get Phil. She's pulling him

831
00:43:29,559 --> 00:43:31,559
by his tail, trying to get him out, and I

832
00:43:31,679 --> 00:43:34,480
was like, Natalia, and I know why he's in there

833
00:43:34,519 --> 00:43:37,039
because he has to go to the bathroom. Nobody let

834
00:43:37,079 --> 00:43:39,920
him out yet to pee, and he's waiting for me,

835
00:43:40,079 --> 00:43:41,800
so he's coming to tell me he's got to go

836
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:43,679
to the bath So all this shit's going on, and

837
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:46,440
they're like, so for your third semaster, bablah, and I'm like,

838
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:51,039
can we wrap this fucking shit up already? Finally, like

839
00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:54,079
she got into a discussion with one of the counselors

840
00:43:54,079 --> 00:43:57,800
about something and they were going nowhere and they could

841
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,920
tell like from the look on my face. Then one

842
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,360
and one of them just says, okay, so maybe we

843
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,480
should just wrap this up and then you guys can

844
00:44:04,519 --> 00:44:07,280
talk off the you know, off the air or whatever

845
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:07,800
about what.

846
00:44:08,159 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

847
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:13,079
Speaker 2: It's like, thank god. But so that was Natalia's IEP.

848
00:44:13,599 --> 00:44:18,199
But so Sonny it's different because Sonny doesn't want to

849
00:44:18,199 --> 00:44:20,800
go to college, and of course the school's like what

850
00:44:21,599 --> 00:44:24,800
and then and then it's like, I'd like him to

851
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,840
go to college, but his dad, according to his dad,

852
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,400
doesn't think he needs to go to college. So I'm like,

853
00:44:32,079 --> 00:44:34,880
but we haven't gotten to the IEP meeting yet. So

854
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,480
I sent an email and I said, Adam, you need

855
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,280
to Can you write something up of what because I

856
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,599
want Sonny to have if he's not going to go

857
00:44:42,679 --> 00:44:44,840
to college, what is his goals? He's going to have

858
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,239
to have some goals. He's going to have to have

859
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:49,000
a direction to move towards. He's not just going to

860
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,360
like float around, you know what I mean? Everybody, Natalia's

861
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:55,079
got her goals. She wants to go to college.

862
00:44:55,079 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: She's got to get keep her grades up, she's got

863
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:58,639
to take this class to get to that class.

864
00:44:59,079 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 2: Sonny doesn't have any of that. But that's not I

865
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,280
don't want how it's going to work. And I told

866
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,039
this to Adam, and I said, this is what's going

867
00:45:07,119 --> 00:45:09,719
to have to happen. This is no secret, Like Adam

868
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,559
talks about it all the time. College, this is college

869
00:45:12,639 --> 00:45:15,599
that Okay, if the boy's not going to go to college,

870
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,880
then what is his objectives? What's his goal? What's his

871
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,320
you know? And what is he going to do to

872
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:26,360
achieve those goals? So I told Adam, like, his IEP's

873
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:27,840
going to come up. I think that you should be

874
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,079
a part of this. You should meet with the teachers.

875
00:45:30,159 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, tell them, you tell them, right, I don't want

876
00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,760
my kid going to college, right, have like.

877
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 2: Right, get get an outline working for Sonny, like what.

878
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 1: Is his what? And help him? What does he think?

879
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,840
What does Adam think? Yeah? Why? I mean he doesn't

880
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,599
want him to go to college? Why because it's like,

881
00:45:46,639 --> 00:45:48,639
oh that he doesn't want him to go to college.

882
00:45:48,679 --> 00:45:49,280
He says it.

883
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 2: Well, he's like, yeah, there's part of that. And then

884
00:45:52,039 --> 00:45:55,119
there's also like, but he's always been that way. Jimmy

885
00:45:55,199 --> 00:45:55,719
told this.

886
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,519
Speaker 1: Like weird anti liberal, like they're teaching them like that

887
00:45:59,639 --> 00:46:02,760
to in college. But it's been it's part of that

888
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:03,400
is some of it.

889
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:05,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's been like that since day one, since

890
00:46:05,559 --> 00:46:09,119
I met Adam and Jimmy for that matter, Anthony. When

891
00:46:09,159 --> 00:46:12,679
my nephew graduated high school, came out for the summer.

892
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:14,960
No before he graduated, he was out for the summer,

893
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,519
was playing catch with Sunny with Jimmy, and Jimmy was like,

894
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,079
you don't need that college bullshit. You come see me

895
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,280
when the time is right, you come see uncle Jimmy.

896
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:24,880
I'll give you a job. If you want to work

897
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,199
in the entertainment industry, come work for me. Get to

898
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,360
work first, Like that's if that's what you want to do.

899
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,760
Speaker 1: Get to work if that's what they want to do,

900
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,719
right Listen. I'm no like huge college pusher. I didn't

901
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,559
go like you know it's I was like, if you're scrappy,

902
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,039
you can make things work. But I also feel like

903
00:46:43,079 --> 00:46:45,199
I was at a disadvantage in a lot of ways

904
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:49,360
because no one was ever really pushing me. I mean,

905
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,400
I wasn't able to get help and tutors, and I

906
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,679
just thought I was bad at school, right, and so

907
00:46:56,159 --> 00:46:59,519
learning more and having more homework and more teachers sounded

908
00:46:59,559 --> 00:47:01,719
like a fate worse than death to me. And I

909
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,639
was like, I'd rather just figure it out myself, and

910
00:47:04,679 --> 00:47:08,280
I did. It is possible, But I do think for kids,

911
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,960
especially if they don't know what they want unless they know.

912
00:47:12,199 --> 00:47:14,679
Speaker 2: He thinks he knows, but if he wants to be

913
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:19,559
a sports commentator or whatever that industry, then he's got

914
00:47:19,559 --> 00:47:20,119
to write.

915
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:21,559
Speaker 1: Like it's like, start.

916
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,599
Speaker 2: Writing then, like, or start getting those skills that you

917
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,840
need if you're gonna really be if you're going to

918
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,400
be working on First Take with Max Kellerman and whoever

919
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:34,760
the other steven A, which is Sonny's dream job. Don't

920
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,519
you think these guys sat there and you know, don't

921
00:47:38,519 --> 00:47:40,159
you think they have some so they don't just go

922
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:41,519
on air and just start talking.

923
00:47:41,679 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 1: It's funny because my kids, Sadie and Xander literally have

924
00:47:45,599 --> 00:47:50,559
an elective called sports writing oh at their school. Really,

925
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,880
isn't that funny? See that's nice. Yeah, neither of my

926
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,000
kids want to be sports writers. That's the last thing

927
00:47:57,039 --> 00:47:58,880
they would sign up for. But I'm just saying, oh,

928
00:47:58,880 --> 00:47:59,639
that would be great.

929
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,199
Speaker 2: Yes, so writing like gets and Sonny doesn't like writing.

930
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,360
He doesn't look, he doesn't like pen to paper, he

931
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,800
doesn't mind the typing part. But it's more than that.

932
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,360
It's all of that, you know, just to start there,

933
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:12,840
just start there, you know.

934
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:17,679
Speaker 1: So well, I just don't love the idea of personally

935
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:21,639
of one way or the other either, being like, you

936
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,679
have to go to college, it's the only way. But

937
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,199
I also don't like, you don't need college, like a

938
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,639
lot of kids do need college, especially if they have

939
00:48:28,679 --> 00:48:32,719
the opportunity to go exactly, you know what I mean, Like, yeah,

940
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,760
a lot of kids would kill to go to college.

941
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,679
They don't have that opportunities. So it's weird to like dissuade,

942
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,800
like I guess if he's just going to go on

943
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,679
like people doing favors and getting him a job, but

944
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,679
what if that right? Right?

945
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 2: But I also like, you don't know where else?

946
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,079
Speaker 1: Well, also you don't know what you're gonna want.

947
00:48:53,199 --> 00:48:56,400
Speaker 2: You know, he's saying this now, but maybe you know

948
00:48:56,519 --> 00:48:59,599
who knows by the time he's in in senior year,

949
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,920
like comes with us to look at colleges for Natalia,

950
00:49:03,079 --> 00:49:05,880
maybe he has a different change of art. I mean

951
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,840
I'm not going to stop. I'm going to keep encouraging him.

952
00:49:09,039 --> 00:49:12,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all you can do, right, But if you

953
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,159
really get it in your head that you're not going

954
00:49:14,239 --> 00:49:16,239
to go to college, then you're not going to apply

955
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,400
yourself in school because you're gonna be like, why right,

956
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,639
I'm not going to go right like me. But that's

957
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,679
but and then I graduated with a horrible GPY.

958
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,159
Speaker 2: That's why I need Adam involved in this, because he

959
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,360
needs to be held accountable for something. He needs to

960
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:35,159
have a direction, he needs to you know, know, what

961
00:49:35,199 --> 00:49:37,800
he wants to And Sonny agrees with that, and he's like,

962
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,199
I'm all for that, but I just I don't see

963
00:49:41,199 --> 00:49:44,719
the need of, you know, going to college when I

964
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:46,639
know what kind I have an idea of what I

965
00:49:46,679 --> 00:49:50,960
want to do, all right, but so we'll see.

966
00:49:51,159 --> 00:49:53,119
Speaker 1: I was sort of like that too, like I said,

967
00:49:53,199 --> 00:49:55,400
but then it didn't really work out that well, I know,

968
00:49:55,519 --> 00:49:57,679
and I wish I had a father in the business.

969
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,199
I was like, oh, I'm gonna yeah, you think it's oh,

970
00:50:00,599 --> 00:50:02,800
And then honestly I got to a point where I

971
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,519
was like, how do people get these jobs? Like how

972
00:50:05,519 --> 00:50:07,960
are people doing well in their careers? And I'm waiting

973
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:11,559
tables like, I don't understand. There's like something missing. I

974
00:50:11,599 --> 00:50:14,280
think what that missing piece was like a community of

975
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,800
people that all graduated from the same school in any

976
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,639
kind of connection, right, but whatever. Yeah, my goodness, and

977
00:50:22,159 --> 00:50:26,719
thanks to everybody. Thank you guys for your support and yeah,

978
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,880
we love you guys and we'll see you. Thanks Kaylin,

979
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,159
thank you for coming in on the holiday. Yeah, and

980
00:50:32,199 --> 00:50:38,239
you're a parent now, don't have enough, man,