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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the two seventeen were numbering broadcast. If you

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<v Speaker 1>don't make mistakes, you won't learn.

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<v Speaker 2>With your host Corey Winfield, like, oh my gosh, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going into a place there can few people like talking to.

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<v Speaker 1>Walls And there was some of that, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>still pretty co host party Winfield.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't get that sincere messaging, then they're not going

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<v Speaker 3>to have that conversation on a level where maybe you

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<v Speaker 3>can get through to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Special guest Corey Smoker.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to hear the hero over here, but

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<v Speaker 4>then I know what you're skipping down the street over

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<v Speaker 4>there doing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know't got your wab.

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<v Speaker 2>It is the thirtieth of January twenty twenty six, the

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<v Speaker 2>first podcast of the new year.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been busy, Yeah, stuff going on, man, Corey Smoker,

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<v Speaker 2>Arnie Winfield.

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<v Speaker 1>In the studio today.

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<v Speaker 4>We all finally made it in one room together.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's been it's been a while, it's been

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<v Speaker 2>in forever almost. I think the last podcast we did

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<v Speaker 2>was the seven year anniversary. I was December fifteenth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I was like we got to get one in

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<v Speaker 2>before January ends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I feel like there was that one that you're

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<v Speaker 4>trying to make me the special host.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that before that or after?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure you'll yeah, okay, it could have been

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<v Speaker 2>this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. We're here now, yes, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's going well.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was thinking about the podcast and what I

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<v Speaker 2>used to use it for and man, it helped, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to get stuff off my chest. And lately the reason

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<v Speaker 2>why I kind of haven't been new a podcast because

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<v Speaker 2>I've just been afraid that I'm going to take the

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<v Speaker 2>the stuff that's just going on, the stuff that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>too close to and just like ah, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to use this as like a platform to do

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<v Speaker 2>like that, you know. So it's just like kind of

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<v Speaker 2>important to get back to having fun again and to

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<v Speaker 2>doing this podcast. And I think of topics tons throughout

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<v Speaker 2>the day. I'm like, maybe we should do a podcast

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<v Speaker 2>about that. And I think it's good that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>are sitting down and we're actually going to do one today,

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<v Speaker 2>are actually doing one right now. But one thing I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk to you guys about is AI and

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<v Speaker 2>how it runs your life, because I can see how

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<v Speaker 2>many emails that I get that just come and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just like, hey, I wrote that, and then I feel like,

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<v Speaker 2>because my vocabulary and attitude, I guess whatever you want

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<v Speaker 2>to say isn't the best. So like I'll type it

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<v Speaker 2>out like oh, here's what I would say back, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll throw it into some AI and then it'll kick

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<v Speaker 2>back the same thing pretty much that was sent to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, okay, so I know someone used AI

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<v Speaker 2>to send this to me, and I'm using AI, so

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<v Speaker 2>we're pretty much just using AI to say hello to

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<v Speaker 2>each other, which seems kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 4>But I don't know, because you're you're typing in there

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<v Speaker 4>way you want it to stay. AI is just formattying

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<v Speaker 4>it in a better language, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And taking out cuss words and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>There are there are some times where I think that

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<v Speaker 3>it it can skew the message some if you're not

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't look you back over you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Like you'll there's wording and stuff that gets

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<v Speaker 3>put in automatically that you know isn't really exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted it to say, Like you know, for me,

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<v Speaker 3>like my so I always if I ever use it,

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<v Speaker 3>which I do use it not often, not probably as

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<v Speaker 3>often as my husband, but I do use it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of more when I want it to be like

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<v Speaker 3>more clear and concise instead of like being all over

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<v Speaker 3>the place. Yeah, because I kind of I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>always know what I'm going to say and how I

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<v Speaker 3>want to say it. It's just like wanting to make

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<v Speaker 3>sure that I'm not like repeating myself or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>have it be confusing. I think I feel that I'm

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<v Speaker 3>fairly well spoken and like my vocabulary whatever you want

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<v Speaker 3>to call it. But I don't want to sound like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't try to use like huge big words to

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<v Speaker 3>like sound cool. And so when I think lots of

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<v Speaker 3>times when I put chatje put it in like CHATJEPT

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever, as long as I review it and make

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<v Speaker 3>sure like what's there is what I really want to say,

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<v Speaker 3>then yeah, I'm all for it. It's the bottom line.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I noticed, and it's AI and you hit down

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<v Speaker 2>this morning too. It's how you give it direction and

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<v Speaker 2>what you tell it to do and what you put

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<v Speaker 2>in there. I think I'm horrible at this stuff. I

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<v Speaker 2>was trying to chat with my sisters the other day

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<v Speaker 2>in a text chat, and man it it was horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I kind of put two and two together,

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<v Speaker 2>and like when I do that with chat JEBT or

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<v Speaker 2>the other whatever stuff. It never it's all it's horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I started thinking, like this is why people

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand what I say. It's because this is probably

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<v Speaker 2>what I really sound like, you know, LIKEGBT can't even

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<v Speaker 2>get it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know how people listen to this? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what I really sound like?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, sometimes it's like we're covering three things in one

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<v Speaker 4>sentence and I'm like what does that mean? Like what

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<v Speaker 4>am okay? Now?

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<v Speaker 3>What am I supposed to do? Or or you don't

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<v Speaker 3>respond to the like last three text questions and then

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<v Speaker 3>you respond to the first one, but you're not really

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<v Speaker 3>sure what the response is for you tend to do

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<v Speaker 3>that that has nothing to do with AI though. That

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<v Speaker 3>has to do with your you paying attention.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>It comes in fights with me like it's like, seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>this is the fifth time I'm not doing it anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, what hold on? Like you're fighting with me? Like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I fighting with me? Maybe this is how I talk

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<v Speaker 2>to my employees like this, This is the directions I give

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<v Speaker 2>to everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>Is everybody want to fight me? Like this? This is bad?

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<v Speaker 3>Knock knock knock.

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<v Speaker 4>I got a mental condition obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Yeah, well yeah, do we tell that story yet? No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>is that going to be your section of the podcast episode? Corey?

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<v Speaker 3>She tells it the best. You know, it's funny because

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<v Speaker 3>she wasn't even there, but she tells.

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<v Speaker 1>It the best.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, but I'm all died and no I

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<v Speaker 5>get to I'm sitting here like I'm on the spotlight

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<v Speaker 5>docket right now because both of you looking at me,

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<v Speaker 5>but you two can't look at each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, rewind, rewind It's fine. I can compliment the story

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<v Speaker 3>in terms of what actually happened, But all of this

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<v Speaker 3>has to do and why this is getting brought up

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<v Speaker 3>now is all this has to do with, Like Corey

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<v Speaker 3>has attention span pretty much is what this has to

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<v Speaker 3>do with basically, obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now I'll let you guys tell it. Let Corey

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<v Speaker 2>tell the story.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I just get told the story, so I just

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<v Speaker 4>tell it. There's only the really the one piece, but Pitt,

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<v Speaker 4>so if you just close your eyes and picture this.

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<v Speaker 4>Marnie has Corey go with her to the police station

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<v Speaker 4>because she needs to report damage to her car that

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<v Speaker 4>happened in a parking lot. Well, so I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 4>where because sometimes Corey I see him sitting in the

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<v Speaker 4>car and waiting, and then sometimes he's going in where

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<v Speaker 4>he thought that going in was maybe a good idea.

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<v Speaker 4>But today Corey decided he was going to go in

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<v Speaker 4>and support his wife. And I was like, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm like sitting here thinking of Corey sitting in

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<v Speaker 4>law jail or police department. And now you see his

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<v Speaker 4>legs shaking, and then he's around and you can only

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<v Speaker 4>see like three things on the wall, so he's definitely

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<v Speaker 4>not reading them because now he just wants to tear

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<v Speaker 4>every one of them apart. And he's in public with

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<v Speaker 4>his wife. So so Corey's getting anxious because now his

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<v Speaker 4>head's running eight miles a minute and he's got twenty

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<v Speaker 4>things to do. He just doesn't know which one we're

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<v Speaker 4>gonna do. And so he goes up to the window

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<v Speaker 4>where the little officers were going behind the window with

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<v Speaker 4>the you know the little metal circle you talked through,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's like, is anyone coming, Like, I mean, are

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<v Speaker 4>they walking up here?

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<v Speaker 3>Like they're on their way here? Someone's coming, right, So

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<v Speaker 3>I got a mental condition.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that. I think it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty you were pretty.

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<v Speaker 4>You were pretty probably.

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<v Speaker 3>To the pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>I was pretty assertive, Yes I was. I was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>assertive saying it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I think we had waited. We had

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<v Speaker 3>maybe waited about I would say it was less than

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<v Speaker 3>ten minutes. It was probably like eight or nine minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think what throw them off was we were

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<v Speaker 3>on I had called the police station and they had said,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you need just find come in, say your

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<v Speaker 3>name at the whatever. We'll let you in and then

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<v Speaker 3>we'll send an officer up to look at your car.

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<v Speaker 3>So that made it sound like we know you're coming,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is what's gonna happen, and it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>like being bang boom, kind of like what she said,

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<v Speaker 3>not like oh, you come here and then wait and

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<v Speaker 3>then we'll send it off or see who's available. It was.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was a little misleading, I will see.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's probably because right people they tell people to

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<v Speaker 4>call and come up there, well you don't know when

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<v Speaker 4>they're coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well she had said like, you can come up here now,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, great, I'm in town, so I'll

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<v Speaker 3>be on my way. Good sounds good. And then it

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<v Speaker 3>was just and I don't get me wrong, it was

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<v Speaker 3>an awkward place. There was a probably some trauma response there,

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<v Speaker 3>like being in that whole area, you know, like not

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<v Speaker 3>that I've not that it's a jail, but it has

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<v Speaker 3>that very kind of there's just.

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<v Speaker 4>That anxiety, Like I get it every time I pull

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<v Speaker 4>into the sally Port and they shut the door behind

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<v Speaker 4>me and I'm like they don't let me out. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>come on, you can come in.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and not my finest moment, but you know, some

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<v Speaker 2>things checked out because there's a lot of things that

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<v Speaker 2>make sense if something else that did it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yesterday too, when we were went with a taxpit person.

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<v Speaker 4>You told her you have a mental condition.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he didn't, he was just sitting. We were sitting

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<v Speaker 3>and our appointment was at our appointment was at three thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I told him that we would be there at three

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<v Speaker 3>forty five because I thought I had a zoom that

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<v Speaker 3>was gonna last until three thirty. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>And meeting with the tax person about the taxes for

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<v Speaker 2>It might be deeper than that, well, and it be yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it could be hereditary.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>Grow in situations I think, and speaking of being in

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<v Speaker 2>parents and all that stuff. Marnie, it's been so long

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<v Speaker 2>since you've been on the podcast really that you've talked

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<v Speaker 3>and I love every minute of it. Yeah, he's not.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, they're just things that are like particular to

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<v Speaker 4>You just start, you make a plate for yourself at thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's where the patience things comes in, is like

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<v Speaker 3>in like sugar, but just in like the fruit juice anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>And I obviously I would opt for fresh fruit over anything.

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<v Speaker 3>on those, so they get the little cups of them,

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<v Speaker 3>and those are like he loves them. He loves them.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll eat those no matter what. But you need to

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<v Speaker 3>be patient. You need to sit there and like helps,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, feed him the peaches. He will not. Corey

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<v Speaker 3>he took two bites and then he started grabbing them

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<v Speaker 3>out and making a mess. And I'm like, okay, that's

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<v Speaker 3>baby boy. Well he wants to feel it, sure, so

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<v Speaker 3>he just puts it away. He just stops feeding them.

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<v Speaker 2>Right or if he wants them, I'll feed it to

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<v Speaker 2>him on a spoon. But I don't just set it

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but he wants them. But you need to sit

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<v Speaker 3>there and wait for him to want them again. You

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<v Speaker 3>and you're done.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't just set them on the counters with the

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<v Speaker 2>I don't set them on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>In front of him.

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<v Speaker 4>Put him in the chair in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>If he wants him again, he knows where they're at.

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<v Speaker 2>He goes up to the table and starts wanting them.

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<v Speaker 1>But not in the middle of all his toys that

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<v Speaker 1>he just looks at it. He goes app throwing the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happens anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>No, well, he just wants his peaches, want to ride

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<v Speaker 4>the truck and stuff, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he pushes them in the truck blueberries.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just don't feel clean it up because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>the guy who has to do it. So Marnie does too.

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<v Speaker 2>She actually does it all, but like when she's not there,

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<v Speaker 2>living rock peaches around the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, he'll he'll put all fine like pieces of

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<v Speaker 3>It's really you know what, it's you really you as

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<v Speaker 3>our couches and stuff like whatever, right, I mean it's

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<v Speaker 3>not like we're like it's in our you know, our

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<v Speaker 3>we live very much, our living room, and so like

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<v Speaker 4>That's why you see too what like you know, this

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<v Speaker 4>was one thing that was really hard for Jesse when

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<v Speaker 4>he integrated his household into mine as being a single mom,

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<v Speaker 4>is that he was like, none of your stuff matches.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm. I'm like, well that's because I have a toddler.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hm, who's you want?

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<v Speaker 4>Watch and wait because you'll see markers and nail polish

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<v Speaker 4>and food and popsicles and spills, and so why would

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<v Speaker 4>family hand doowned stuff because it was like, or you

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<v Speaker 4>off a lot easier than you can take the couch

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<v Speaker 4>cushing off when they got cheeto.

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<v Speaker 3>Fingers, right right, yeah, And I'm sure there's so much

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<v Speaker 3>more to come. That's the exciting part.

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<v Speaker 4>But I have.

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<v Speaker 3>Realized, like I can't give them markers because our crayons

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<v Speaker 3>even like because he's just he's not there yet, Like

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't even understand the whole we talked about and

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<v Speaker 3>all that stuff we tell.

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<v Speaker 4>One day when he gets your lipstick and runs away

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<v Speaker 4>with it.

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<v Speaker 3>And he loves my makeup bag, he already knows about

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<v Speaker 3>taking tops off and stuff like that. Oh yeah, Mikayla.

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<v Speaker 4>One time she was in her room and she's, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>real quiet, and next thing you know, I go in

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<v Speaker 4>there and she's got this lipstick and she's at the

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<v Speaker 4>back of the wall, like, you know, making her own

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<v Speaker 3>Oh it's cute.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, how do you get mad? But at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>Right exactly, being a parent is really an amazing thing,

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<v Speaker 2>and I know Martie and I we really appreciate and

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<v Speaker 2>love every minute of It's difficult as it can be, but.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have to wrap up the podcast. I did

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<v Speaker 1>want to get in just one before the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the year. What are you saying.

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<v Speaker 4>I was the saying, you guys could still do a

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<v Speaker 4>podcast even though I got to exit.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think everybody has to exit.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh true, we had to pick up little little boys

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<v Speaker 3>from daycare and all that good stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I didn't give you the right. AI produced

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<v Speaker 1>her notes.

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<v Speaker 4>Next time a time limit really fast. I do want

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<v Speaker 4>to say that I did Michigan Works had a AI

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<v Speaker 4>in the workforce. I took that little zoom training on Tuesday,

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<v Speaker 4>But I haven't even got to go back and like

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<v Speaker 4>review the notes that I took from it or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>But there was some interesting things on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool.

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<v Speaker 3>That sounds great.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have more updates.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we'll need to do a couple more of these

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<v Speaker 3>to get really everybody updated on what's going on and

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<v Speaker 3>with everybody. Yeah, because there's more exciting stuff that what's

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<v Speaker 3>happening in.

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<v Speaker 2>Each of our life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and yeah, I think there's some really cool thanks

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<v Speaker 1>going say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just glad that we got on here for

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<v Speaker 4>a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Bit for sure. But nothing, yeah, something, nothing.

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