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Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny Sun yet on I

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had a vision. It's night, Hey everybody, what's up? Everybody?

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Welcome to for crying out loud.

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Speaker 2: It's Stephanie and Lynette, your girls, and uh we're recording

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from home today on.

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Speaker 1: Zoom. We are doing that. The reason why, though, is

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not laziness. Well it is also laziness arbit for me

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to call myself a non lazy person, but it's because

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we couldn't. I couldn't make the sound work properly. I

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was so scared that I was going to get the

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same audio glitch as I got last week, which trust me,

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many of you told me about. I heard all of

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your feedback. I know that. So what had happened? What happened?

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What happened? We recorded in the studio last week. My

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microphone sounded fucked up is the technical term. I went

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to go try to use it and I couldn't. I

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tried to fix it through a program that fixes audio,

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and it was making it dip in and out a

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little bit. But that was preferable to the original sound. Anyway.

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I couldn't be sure that I wasn't going to get

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that same problem, so we just came home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Stephanie, you worked your ass off in there.

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I tried, you really did. You tried everything. You got

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John on the phone. We tried to get Kaylan on

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the phone. He was a sleep, he was he was

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a sleep. Oh my gosh, of course he was.

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Speaker 1: So then I called you. So I said, can I

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can I call you? I said, you up? Can I

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call you? And he said yeah? And then I said, hey, anyway,

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I don't want to bother our audience with this. But

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Kaylin said that there was nothing different about the audio,

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and that he had used that same microphone the following

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day and it sounded just fine.

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Speaker 2: So oh jeez, all right, Well, well we're nice and comfy.

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Speaker 1: We sure are, and we are comfy, and we are

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still looking at each other. It's not like we can't

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see each other. Yeah, you guys can see us though.

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You don't need to see us. You just hear us

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in your earbuds. Funny Bob's in the background crying and

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he's not a cry baby. Oh he's crying just for

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anybody that's curious. He just went in his crate. Oh

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does he like us? Great? Now he doesn't normally like it?

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Speaker 2: And how has it been like, have you guys left

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the house and has he been okay being home alone?

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Speaker 1: So no, we have not left the house without him.

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We can leave the house without him if one person's home,

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So if like Sadie or Xander or somebody's around, I

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can leave for hours at a time. John can leave.

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He doesn't need constant attention, he really doesn't. We don't

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have to be like next to him all the time.

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It's not like it was when we first got him,

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and now we've had him for like seven weeks. But

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I have gotten so many messages and emails of people

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that are giving me training advice, and it's not a

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lot of it. We have a listener. Her name is Melody.

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She's really nice. Oh my god, it's funny. This is

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why we don't normally zoom because he's looking at me

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and crying. Anyway, we have this listener named Melody who's

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really great and she works with at shelters. She's an animal,

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she's a dog trainer, and she sent me a lot

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of advice. And sorry, it's.

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Speaker 2: Of course, Stephanie. She's like waving around her arm.

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Speaker 1: Because because he's not usually like this, but for some

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reason he's crying anyway. Melody was like, listen, here's what

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you got to do. Everybody's telling me I have to

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create train him. It's really hard to create train a dog. Yeah, like, yeah,

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I can't just stick him in the crate all of

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a sudden and shut the door and be like have

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a good day. Everyone's like, okay, you got to leave

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him in the crate for like a minute, you know,

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and then you can walk out. But it's easier said

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than done. It's a lie process. Also have to try

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leaving him at home for short. There's a Listen, Lynette,

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I'm not a dog trainer. Okay, that's not what you

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would think. You have to be a fully trained dog

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trainer to train your dog. Forget about like, hey, watch

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a YouTube video, work on it five minutes a day.

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That's not really how it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well you're really like getting me excited to

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get another dog.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Listen. A lot of people might think

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it's soon that I didn't that long, but I got

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to tell you it filled up. You're gonna see it

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really is great and I love him so much and

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he's yeah, he's really a good boy. And guess what

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my foot is better enough that I've been taking walks.

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I've been doing the walks again. He's really good on

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the little walks. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, it's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I my old boss at ABC texted me about Phil, like,

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and he's he lives in my neighborhood and he works

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he works at NBC, and he has two labberdoodles. And

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he was like, anytime you want them to hang out

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with you, I'll drop them off in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Pick them up at you know. And and I was.

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Speaker 2: Thinking about that, but like, then, you know what if

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I get attached to them, you know, it's not the same.

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And here's the other thing that I'm just driving me crazy.

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Ever since Phil passed away, I'm getting all these al

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our boyfriend algorithm is kind of screwing me up because

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I'm getting all these ads for like when your dog

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goes to the Rainbow Bridge and here's a beautiful statue

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of your dog, or here's a stuffed animal of your dog,

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or here's a beautiful painting of your I'm like, I

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want to it's like breaking my heart, like stop. I

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don't know how to get those ads to stop, but

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it's bothering me anyway. And now I'm looking for houses,

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and I'm going out this week to look at some houses,

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and I'm thinking, you know, I should probably wait till

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I move into a new house, especially if I get

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a puppy. So, you know, I don't know, and I

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don't know if I can wait that long, but hopefully

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it's sooner than I think that I get. Well, so okay, what, yeah,

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what's your what's your time timetable? Well, as soon as

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I can find something that I like. There's not a

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lot of you know, it's kind of slim pickings right now,

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but there's a couple places we're going to go look

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at this week, which I'm excited about. And I'm also

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getting the condo ready to be put up for sale,

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but I have to have the tenant move out first,

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so we'll probably touch a little bit on that on Patreon.

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But uh yeah, so I mean, you don't you never know.

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I don't know what the timeframe is. I mean, and

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then you got to go on to escrow, and that

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could be sixty days, thirty days, ninety I don't know,

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so it's probably gonna be a little while, but you know,

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and I've talked to the kids about the setup in

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the house, and yeah, I mean, you know, like I'd

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like for them to each have their own bathroom. But

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if I have to get a house where they have

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to share a bathroom, that you know, that's going to

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kind of be tough, especially with those two.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And then maybe I buy a fixer upper and put

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in a bathroom or put in a pool or whatever.

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But you know, but there's like some places that are

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out there that I'm looking at, so we'll see.

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Speaker 1: I'll keep you guys updated. That's so much. That's such

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a big project.

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Speaker 2: It kind of is, but it's kind of exciting. Like

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I'm excited about it, you know, and I get like

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my friends are sending me places on Zillo and I'm

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looking on Zillo as well.

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Speaker 1: You know, you get excited about it.

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Speaker 2: But the area that I'm looking at is kind of

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not that big, so it's like a specific area. So like,

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I like my realtor is like, but he sends me

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new listings like twice a week, which is nice, so

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you know, we're getting started with that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's similar to when you say you're

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open to getting another dog and then people just start

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sending you Oh, my god.

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Speaker 2: People have been sending me, you know, like here's a

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labradoodle rescue. I don't know if I want a labordoodle, though,

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like I've always wanted a Golden Retriever, so I've been

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looking at like Golden Retriever rescues. I always wanted one

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of those. I've always I had two labs back to back.

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Labradors or the Retrievers. So I don't know all but

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I don't want to start really looking into the dogs

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because I don't want to get excited, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So yeah, it's a lot. It's a lot. You've

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got sort of one thing after another, and I.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so I'm just, you know, one thing at

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a time. But I had we had Easter yesterday, which

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was nice, and I had this story about Natalia uh

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in Mexico.

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Speaker 1: But East, what did you do for it? Did you

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guys do anything? No? Absolutely nothing. And I woke up

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in the morning and I realized it was Easter, and

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I was like, oh, it's Easter. And I swear to you,

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I was remembering mostly our stories from like when your

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kids were younger, and the melting bunny and the like

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the melting with the eye kind of melting down.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, listen, East Easter buddy had hard time

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this year. We were doing construction on the house and

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everything was just a mess. Like literally the couch was

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outside where new floors were. It was just a mess.

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I got their Easter baskets and then left them in

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the car by accident, and the Easter bunnies melted and

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their eyes were down by his belly and the kids

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were like twelve, and they're like, what the hell? It

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was like listen, But I did send Sonny's in Oregon,

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so I sent him a little package of from a

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local bakery there, like a bunch of little cheesecakes because

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he loves that.

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Speaker 1: And then.

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Speaker 2: And then Natalia got back from Mexico a couple of

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nights ago, and I got her like little Susie cakes

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kind of thing. So that's cute, like little yeah, yeah.

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brunch yesterday, which was nice that to like really meet

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her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: And I like him a lot. He's a good kid.

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He is, but yeah he is. Yeah, did say it? Next?

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Speaker 2: Year, he's going to be saying anything about what happened

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with their breakup. Uh huh no, Now I'm gondn't tell

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you would have fucking kicked me end of the day. Yeah, yeah,

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she would have thrown a fork at me. But now

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they Uh well, I'll tell you what the Mexico ordeal

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after our break because it's kind of crazy.

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Speaker 1: But what was Oh I was just going to say though, too,

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that my kids like east the Easter Bunny ship sailed

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so long ago for me and I for me, I

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feel like I try, you know, I always go all

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out on the holidays. Well what I say all out,

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I mean all out for me. It's like we get

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a tree and then we celebrate, but it's not like

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moving the elf around like in the old days. But

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I feel like some of that, a lot of that

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stuff went away around the Tooth Fairy. What happened is

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LB figured out the Easter Bunny first, which is kind

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of funny that she did not put two and two

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together about the Tooth Fairy or Santa Claus. That lasted

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for a long time. But apparently when she was young,

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we were at a friend's house and we were you know,

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we would always get the kids in one room. We

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would always do Easter up. I'd either do it with

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the caseum's or I had this other LB's little bff

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from preschool. Her mom had us over a couple of

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years and whole spread, you know, bagels and the whole thing.

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of the adults hiding the eggs, and so she didn't

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say anything that day. She didn't go like, aha, I've

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caught you. But later she was like, so I know

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there's no Easter Bunny. And I was like, how do

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you know? And she goes, I saw, I saw the

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grown ups hiding stuff, so there's no Easter Bunny. And

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I was like, oh, you're right. And I didn't want to,

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like right away make that sort of a punishment. I

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didn't want her to equate figuring something out to like, well,

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now there's no Easter anymore. But it did kind of

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take away. I didn't knock the wind out of my sails.

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And I don't think I like did it up anymore

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after that? Right? I see?

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Speaker 2: For me, I keep it up. I'm like, well the

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Easter bunnies. Did the Easter bunny count yet? Like sunny.

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Did the Easter Bunny send you a package? Did you

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get anything yet?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I kind of came and they're like, you know, since

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they were young, but now they kind of expect a

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little something, right, So I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of cute. Whatever. Do you get

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your kids anything for Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 2: Now? I used to when they were little. I used

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to get them a little thing, But no, same, not

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in years. Yeah no, now that's that ship sailed a

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long time ago. I don't even wear green and sink

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Patrick's Day anymore.

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Speaker 1: Same, but who's gonna pinch me? Hey, my kids are

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way more into that stuff than I am. I just

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don't care.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well you know Saint Patrick's Day is a

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big day for college kids out there.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. So I yesterday, like you said, it

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was Easter and I woke up and so Thursday was

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John's birthday. But I had a really busy day on Thursday.

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I had stuff all day long. I had to and

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then I had to record, and then I had to

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teach my writing class, which, by the way, I have

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openings if anybody wants to come take my writing class,

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and a lot of for crying out loud. People have

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done it and do it. It's really fun. And I

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have openings on Thursdays and it starts not not this Thursday,

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but next Thursday. So anyway, and then I had to

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watch Real Housewives, and then I had to record Real

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Housewives because I was leaving early in the morning for

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somewhere which I'll tell you also about to go to Chapman.

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I took Xander on a tour of Chapman. That's another

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whole story. But so I was like, sorry, John, your

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birthday's kind of off for today. Well, let's pretend it's

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not your birthday. So we pretended it was his birthday

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on Sunday, see what I'm saying. So I woke up

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and I was like, today's the day we're celebrating John's birthday.

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Oh it's also east Her right. But so that night

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last night I made scallops in a like a butter

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garlic parmesan baked scallops. It was really good. Wow, garlic

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mashed potatoes and steam darta chokes. Oh that's awesome. And

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we had carrot cameber dessert.

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Speaker 2: Oh cute, not homemade from ralfs, right, that's so cute.

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Speaker 1: Did you get him anything I got. We're so not

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birthday people and we do not like to buy each

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other things for our birthday. But I did get him.

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We did get them a pair of Converse, some white converse.

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His are really dirty and gross, so we got him

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a new pair. Oh that's so cute. He goes, are

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these my size? It's like, no, no, John, I got

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them in my size because I want to wear them. Right,

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that's funny, Yeah, that's cute.

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Speaker 2: Last night, Natalia and her boyfriend left to go back

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to Santa Barbara, and like she came, you know, to

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say goodbye.

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Speaker 1: To me, and she was like she was like mom,

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you know, uh something like I just are you lonely?

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I'm worried? Like are you And I'm like no, I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: And she's like okay, well, you know, just because Phil's gone,

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and you know, like you just feel like She's like

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you can come up and visit and we can come

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visit you.

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Speaker 1: I'm like I'm I'm fine, I'm okay. You know.

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Speaker 2: Then they left and then you know, two hour drive

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to get back to Santa Barbara. Like an hour after

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they left, I get this like knock on the door

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and there's these little flower arrangement that and she's like,

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go to your door, there's a fly, there's flower. Go

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to your door, there's a sur pride. So she got

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her and her boyfriend gonna be flowers. Oh it's so cute, like,

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you know, thanks for everything that you do kind of thing.

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Natalia's gotten so much nicer in her older age. It's

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really nice. That's really sweet.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah, it was very thoughtful. I was remembering. See,

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I only remember the bad stuff, and not that this

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is even bad, but I was just thinking about when

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when Natalia was a little more of a handful, remember

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around the time that I feel like you were doing

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the volunteering thing, and I just remember or because she

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didn't do girl Scouts, I just remember her when a

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bunch of girls came over and they were gonna they

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were like making cookies and stuff, and you said they

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came in they were like a tornado. They like used

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all the dishes and then they were like.

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Speaker 2: Bye, Oh They've done that many, many times. Many times.

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She still does that. She comes, she cooks and she

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leaves a mess and like, hello, I'm not your maid.

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What do you do when you're back in Santa Barbara?

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You clean up. Yeah, yes, yeah, that was yes, yes

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she was her and her friends would always make a mess.

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But yeah, so's nice hanging out with her. Yeah, and

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her boyfriend. I got to get to know better, which

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was sweet.

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Speaker 1: So he stayed howweat? So they stayed over a couple nights.

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Speaker 2: A couple nights, and then I have this Disneyland story

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I'll tell you.

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Disneyland story? Well, so, or is this the Mexico story first? Well, okay,

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so I'll tell you the Mexico.

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Speaker 2: So basically, Natalia went on her spring break to Mexico

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to Tulom with like four guys, four girls, a bunch

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of them. They got an airbnb and I don't even

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know where Tuloom is.

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Speaker 1: Apparently it's pretty far.

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Speaker 2: She had like a seven hour layover at the Guatemala airport.

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Speaker 1: Wow. On the way out. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, so they get this airbnb. They're there for

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a couple of days and she calls me and tells

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me that they rented ATVs and her friend, her roommate

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and her best friend was driving.

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Speaker 1: One of them got pulled.

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Speaker 2: Over by the federal allies and was like hassling them

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and wanted money, and so they were like going to

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do so they followed them to like some atm and

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the locals were like, don't do it, like they do

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this all the time. Don't do it. And they took

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off and they left. So that happened. Wait, what do

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you mean? They took off and they left. They just

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like got back on their ATVs and zoom. The federalities

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left because the locals were like standing up to them.

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They're like no, they're not gonna yeah yeah, and so

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they just they left them alone.

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Speaker 1: They took off. Wow. And so that yeah, So that happened.

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I was like, you know, I'm sorry, I know.

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Speaker 2: And I was talking to Mike Durstein about it, and

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he said that happens a lot, like they pulled they

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see Americans, they pull them over in certain parts of

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Mexico and that'll happen, but yeah, don't give them money

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if you can or whatever.

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Speaker 1: So that happened.

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Speaker 2: Then she calls me on her way home, flying home,

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and she's like, I'm going to be home at like midnight,

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and we got to tell you this story that happened

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last night, so can stay up. So I fell asleep,

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woke up. They all come home and she tells me that.

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So their last night there, they all they were in

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the airbnb. The electricity went out, completely out, but they

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were getting ready to leave to go.

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Speaker 1: Have dinner or something for their last night, so.

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Speaker 2: They were like hopefully They went and checked the breaker

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and it wasn't the breaker, okay, So they called the

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guy or they texted the guy and the airbnb and

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went to dinner. They came back from dinner and they

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were still there's still no electricity, no water at all

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was working.

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Speaker 1: They went to check the breaker.

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Speaker 2: Somebody went to check the breaker again, and somebody destroyed

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the breaker. Took the breaker off and like destroyed it

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and it wasn't any of them obviously.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this electricity, we don't want to have electricity

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in this play came out. They just get drunk. It

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just like kick the breaker off the wall, right exactly.

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Speaker 2: So somebody did that, and so now they're in this

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dark airbnb kind of not kind of off the beaten path.

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Natalia was like the scaredest she's ever been. She couldn't

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sleep the next and then the next day, like they're

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getting ready to leave and they're using their jugs of

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water that they had to drink first like shower, you know,

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and it was she was like, I Am not going

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to Mexico again anytime soon. She was terrified, and I

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was kind of like glad because I was like, yeah,

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you know, like Airbnb, like go if you're gonna go,

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like stay in a resort area or someplace like that

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that's not off the beaten path, you know. I looked

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at her Airbnb and it was like in the middle

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of kind of nowhere, like mountains around it. So I'm

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sure they did it because they all pitched in or

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whatever and they were, you know, saving money, but like,

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come on, So she never not going to Mexico again

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anytime soon, because you know Natalia, she always loves to go.

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I remember I had to go with her on her

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spring break during high school and stuff. We stayed in

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like hotels, you know, so, yeah, she's not going anytime soon.

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Speaker 1: So that was pretty scary. When I went to Mexico

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with John, we'd been dating for nine months, and we

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went to this place called Mahauitas, which has all these

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little casitas. It was so it was really beautiful, all

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these little individual you know what a casita is, right,

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they just don't really some of them don't have a roof.

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They're kind of like their structures. It's really nice and

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they would come and bring you breakfast every morning. But

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you're on this little island and it was so freaking boring.

469
00:25:51,519 --> 00:25:53,640
Like I'm just saying, like, once you've been there one day,

470
00:25:53,759 --> 00:25:57,079
you're like, this is so beautiful. But then what And

471
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,799
I want to say, this was not like smartphones weren't

472
00:26:00,839 --> 00:26:03,240
really a thing, so you couldn't just scroll. You couldn't

473
00:26:03,279 --> 00:26:05,119
just lay on the beach and scroll on your phone.

474
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,880
That was not a thing. So you had to read

475
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:11,519
a book, which listen, no shade to reading. But like,

476
00:26:12,319 --> 00:26:15,279
I know, some people like nothing more than to read

477
00:26:15,319 --> 00:26:19,240
a good book. But the problem is when we first

478
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,039
went to Mexico, we stayed we were in a resort

479
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,240
for a couple of days, and that was just like

480
00:26:24,799 --> 00:26:26,640
First of all, I was still a drinker, so that

481
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,359
was like amazing. We're on the beach. You know, it's

482
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,240
great waves, you can go swimming in the beach, there's

483
00:26:33,319 --> 00:26:36,720
people around, there's people taking your order on the sand

484
00:26:36,759 --> 00:26:39,119
and bring in you a beer, have a little survesa,

485
00:26:39,599 --> 00:26:42,000
you know. Then there's activities. Then you can walk into

486
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:45,000
town and like go to dinner somewhere. So from that

487
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,480
we go to this, like I said, absolutely beautiful. Sounds

488
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,920
so good on paper, You're like it's just the most relaxing, like,

489
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,599
but I was like one day and that was going

490
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,119
to be the main part of our I think we

491
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:02,119
were there for five days and I bye, yeah, that's

492
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:02,599
too long.

493
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 2: Isn't this the trip that I remember that you guys

494
00:27:06,039 --> 00:27:09,200
went on a cruise, Yes, and you've got a big.

495
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,079
Speaker 1: Fight, big fight. Yeah, we went on what okay? And

496
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,160
you wrote about it. So what happened is we had

497
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,519
where we have peace in the casitos for five days.

498
00:27:18,839 --> 00:27:22,279
The last night before we were getting to the airport,

499
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:26,759
we stayed for one night in Puertavarda and we which

500
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,559
sounds great if you're watching the Love Boat, because I

501
00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:32,720
think they all sail out of Cerdiavarda. But isn't that a.

502
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: Vicki from Orange County? Whoops it up? Doesn't she go

503
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,039
to Codevarda? Uh?

504
00:27:38,799 --> 00:27:41,599
Speaker 1: Maybe, I'm not sure. Yeah, but we stayed at like

505
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:45,359
a motel. I mean, it was pretty icky, but it

506
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,279
was near the beach. And then we were on the

507
00:27:47,279 --> 00:27:49,200
beach and then these people came by and they're like,

508
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,519
do you want to do like a sunset cruise with

509
00:27:51,599 --> 00:27:55,279
a mariachi band and a steak dinner? And I was

510
00:27:55,319 --> 00:27:58,799
like that sounds amazing, Come on, John, And he's like,

511
00:27:59,039 --> 00:28:01,119
I don't think you're gonna like it. And I'm like,

512
00:28:01,599 --> 00:28:06,519
what's not to like? Right, said cruise? Do you hate romance?

513
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,880
What's wrong with you? You know? He's like okay. And it

514
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,119
was so crazy. It was a booze cruise is what

515
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,480
it was. And it was like crazy blaring music right

516
00:28:18,519 --> 00:28:22,559
as soon as you get on this boat, just yeah,

517
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,880
you can't get away from it. And then they're like

518
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,960
come on, ladies, and they're trying to make you do

519
00:28:28,039 --> 00:28:29,960
a thing where like you try to talk with ice

520
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,640
cubes in your mouth and the something where you're like

521
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:37,200
simulating a blowjob. It was just awful, and then you

522
00:28:37,279 --> 00:28:40,839
might remember this. So toward the end of it, so

523
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,119
I was getting really upset. I wanted to get off,

524
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,720
but John's like, well, we can't get off the boat,

525
00:28:45,839 --> 00:28:48,559
like you're just gonna have, you know, suck it up, Yeah,

526
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,240
right right, And I'm like okay, but I still want

527
00:28:51,279 --> 00:28:53,839
to complain about it constantly, and I want to say, like,

528
00:28:54,079 --> 00:28:58,319
isn't this horrible? And John's like, I've left my body.

529
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:02,279
I'm watching a basketball game in my head. I can't

530
00:29:02,279 --> 00:29:05,960
hear about this anymore. Yes, it's terrible, but like and

531
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,079
I was like, well, you're not getting upset enough for me.

532
00:29:08,119 --> 00:29:09,960
And then I was trying to get drunk, but I

533
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,720
couldn't even really like get drunk because we'd eatn dinner.

534
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 2: You know.

535
00:29:13,799 --> 00:29:16,039
Speaker 1: It was just like a train wreck. So towards the

536
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,240
end of it, they're like, everybody come to this one area,

537
00:29:19,279 --> 00:29:23,240
and then it was time to watch cock fights, and

538
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,079
they literally had these birds that were going to fight,

539
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,079
and I was not alone where I was like, oh

540
00:29:29,279 --> 00:29:33,240
hell no, I was getting up set. There were some

541
00:29:33,359 --> 00:29:37,279
drunk like sorority girls there and they started crying like

542
00:29:37,359 --> 00:29:39,880
we're all we're just like this is terrible. I don't

543
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:44,880
want to watch birds fight to the death. Yeah, and

544
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,839
then oh yes. And then so people were kind of

545
00:29:48,119 --> 00:29:52,240
going like no, and then the guys who are running it,

546
00:29:52,279 --> 00:29:56,000
they were like, please, you must respect our culture. And

547
00:29:56,559 --> 00:29:59,119
then that became like a private joke between me and

548
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:03,160
John for things so that we don't like respect our culture.

549
00:30:06,039 --> 00:30:07,920
Oh my god, what a nightmare.

550
00:30:08,319 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: It's a night going on those votes when you're trapped

551
00:30:11,079 --> 00:30:13,319
like that is just I had to do that too.

552
00:30:13,519 --> 00:30:13,759
Speaker 1: Once.

553
00:30:13,839 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: We did a Booze cruise and I was like, get

554
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,119
me on much longer? Are we on this day? And yeah,

555
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,279
the music is blaring and they make you do all

556
00:30:21,279 --> 00:30:24,160
these stupid games and stuff, and you're just like, leave

557
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,400
me out of it. I'm why did I do this?

558
00:30:27,079 --> 00:30:30,359
Can I jump into the ocean and just swim back?

559
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,759
Speaker 1: Sure, but there's nowhere to escape because it's not like

560
00:30:33,839 --> 00:30:36,279
you're not on a real cruise with like room a

561
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,799
different rooms or a there's one place below deck where

562
00:30:40,839 --> 00:30:44,039
you have the meal, but you can't be down there,

563
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,240
so then they show you back up the stairs and

564
00:30:46,279 --> 00:30:48,759
then you're just on this one deck and everyone's together

565
00:30:49,319 --> 00:30:52,640
is horrible. Yeah, and then John and I weren't speaking,

566
00:30:53,079 --> 00:30:56,440
so we get in this huge fight because I'm feeling

567
00:30:56,519 --> 00:30:58,920
like he doesn't care and he's not having empathy for

568
00:30:59,079 --> 00:31:01,880
what a bad time I'm having, and he's feeling like,

569
00:31:02,039 --> 00:31:04,440
what am I supposed to do? There's nothing I can

570
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,160
do to help you. So now I'm mad and drunk.

571
00:31:07,599 --> 00:31:10,039
And then we have this silent cab ride back to

572
00:31:10,079 --> 00:31:13,359
the hotel or motel, i should say, And then I

573
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:18,200
start doing my famous like I'm just gonna go. Where

574
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,319
am I gonna go? It's like midnight, and John's like,

575
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:26,240
you're not, No, You're not going anywhere. Yes I am.

576
00:31:26,599 --> 00:31:30,240
I'm out of here. I start going towards the door.

577
00:31:30,359 --> 00:31:33,440
John's like, don't do that. And you don't control me,

578
00:31:33,839 --> 00:31:37,440
you don't own me. Oh my god. And John's just like,

579
00:31:37,519 --> 00:31:40,799
if you walk out that door, I'm not coming after you.

580
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:44,839
It's really dangerous. You know you're gonna get stabbed, Like

581
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,319
not by me. I'm just saying, somebody is going to

582
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:53,759
stab you, right, And I didn't leave the room, but

583
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:58,720
then I just like sulked on the other bed for

584
00:31:58,759 --> 00:31:59,359
the whole night.

585
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: I mean, I do not miss those days of being

586
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,759
in like silence and being in a fight, like ugh,

587
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,480
the worst, just the worst.

588
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't miss that no. Yeah.

589
00:32:14,359 --> 00:32:17,119
Speaker 2: And then over the weekend, Sonny was watching the March

590
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,920
Madness game and so tonight, I guess it's the final

591
00:32:21,079 --> 00:32:25,559
final game and there was the two playoff games and

592
00:32:25,599 --> 00:32:29,119
he was like, Mom, he's like, you want to like

593
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,799
pitch in and bet on Arizona to win.

594
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,039
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, you know, like send

595
00:32:35,119 --> 00:32:36,359
him a couple of bucks.

596
00:32:36,759 --> 00:32:42,039
Speaker 2: He made his bet Arizona loss spoiler alert, Yeah yeah,

597
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,319
and he was like, I don't know what happened. And

598
00:32:44,359 --> 00:32:47,400
they really like got their clocks Queen by the other

599
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,920
by Michigan. Yeah, so no more bets for me and Sonny.

600
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:58,160
Oh no, yeah, yeah. He was probably cheesecake. Yeah he was,

601
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,720
he really was. But whatever. It was kind of fun though,

602
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,599
to watch it over the phone with him and stuff.

603
00:33:05,279 --> 00:33:05,880
That was fun.

604
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:11,519
Speaker 1: So Elbie's So UCLA women's basketball won the whole tournament

605
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:16,079
whatever it is. Yeah, tournament, yeah, tournament, the whole stage.

606
00:33:16,319 --> 00:33:18,160
I don't know what they won, but they won the

607
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:20,880
whole thing. They won it all you could win. They

608
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:24,160
won it, right, Yeah. I saw some of the game.

609
00:33:24,319 --> 00:33:25,039
It's pretty good.

610
00:33:25,559 --> 00:33:25,759
Speaker 2: Yeah.

611
00:33:25,799 --> 00:33:30,319
Speaker 1: Alby was at work, I think, yeah, she made them

612
00:33:30,319 --> 00:33:33,480
put it on. She said, nobody else really cared, but

613
00:33:33,599 --> 00:33:34,880
she was super excited.

614
00:33:35,319 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 2: She was inserted, Oh that's cute, that's nice. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

615
00:33:40,279 --> 00:33:44,519
So then like Suzanne earlier in the week was like, Hey,

616
00:33:44,759 --> 00:33:47,319
I'm going I have to work at Disneyland Park this

617
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:51,480
weekend Friday to Sunday, and I have a room. Do

618
00:33:51,519 --> 00:33:54,240
you want to like come Friday night? And I was

619
00:33:54,279 --> 00:33:57,920
like yeah, because Natalie wasn't coming on till Saturday, so

620
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,440
I was like, sure, I'll come, you know, for one night.

621
00:34:00,519 --> 00:34:02,759
So we went down there and she didn't have to

622
00:34:02,799 --> 00:34:05,440
work on Friday, well she did a little bit, but

623
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:08,119
and she was like, I can get us into the

624
00:34:08,159 --> 00:34:10,199
California Adventure Park, like if you want.

625
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: So we were like.

626
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,679
Speaker 2: Okay, we were hungry, she had some work to do.

627
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,480
She got that out of the wake. We got there

628
00:34:15,679 --> 00:34:18,920
in the afternoon on Friday. It was really nice. Made

629
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,039
me miss working at ABC so much. But wasn't it

630
00:34:23,159 --> 00:34:29,320
so crouded? Though not really? Well, So we she's got

631
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,320
a room at the California Adventure and it's right next

632
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,519
and not California, at the California Grand Hotel, which is

633
00:34:35,599 --> 00:34:40,639
right next to California Adventure Park. So and she works there,

634
00:34:40,679 --> 00:34:42,519
so she had her past to be able to get

635
00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:45,239
you know, she had to get talent into the park.

636
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:47,239
So we went into the park for a few minutes.

637
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,280
But then her and I were like, we don't really

638
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,119
want to be in the park right now. Let's we

639
00:34:51,119 --> 00:34:53,440
were hungry. So she's like, there's a good restaurant at

640
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,840
the hotel. We went to the hotel like by the

641
00:34:55,880 --> 00:35:00,760
pool and had lunch and we get this like big

642
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:07,719
tub of death, what do you call it, tostita, like

643
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:13,119
with half chicken, half steak, you know, with tortilla chips

644
00:35:13,159 --> 00:35:15,880
and beans and stuff like that. And we were just

645
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,519
so hungry and talking and into our conversation we were

646
00:35:18,559 --> 00:35:21,000
eating so much of it. It never ended. It was

647
00:35:21,039 --> 00:35:24,280
just this we shared. It's this big steel tub. And

648
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:26,800
then we were like, oh my god. We both felt

649
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,800
so sick because we felt like we ate so much grease,

650
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,559
and we ate so much. We weren't paying attention because

651
00:35:32,559 --> 00:35:34,800
we were talking and we were so hungry. We just

652
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:37,719
went at it and we were like, no, part, We're

653
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,880
not going to the park, and so we just like

654
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:43,079
went for a walk to try and walk it off,

655
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,920
and then and then went back to the room and

656
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,480
watched like Dateline and went to bed at like nine

657
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:54,000
and then got up early and then went home. Yeah,

658
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,559
to get back to Natalia. But that was fun. It

659
00:35:56,599 --> 00:35:59,639
was kind of nice, you know, to get down, get away.

660
00:36:00,039 --> 00:36:02,079
That is fun out of yeah.

661
00:36:02,679 --> 00:36:05,960
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Speaker 1: Yeah Love, Honey. Hold on one second. So I have

708
00:38:51,159 --> 00:38:54,280
a couple other things to tell you, but I got

709
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:59,239
this one. I took Bob to get his first bath,

710
00:39:00,079 --> 00:39:02,159
so I guess I could have done it in our

711
00:39:02,199 --> 00:39:04,800
bathtub at home, but I don't know. It was always

712
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:09,039
a big pain in the ass. Penelope was hated the water.

713
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,039
I mean she acted like taking a bath was the

714
00:39:11,079 --> 00:39:13,800
most torture. She would run away. She would not You'd

715
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:15,440
have to. John would have to pick her up and

716
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,679
physically put her in the tub, and she would fight him.

717
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,599
So we were I was kind of nervous about it.

718
00:39:22,159 --> 00:39:24,719
So but I took Bob to the store called pet

719
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,719
Food Express uh in Tarzana, and they have a self

720
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,679
washed thing, so for twenty bucks. You get a token

721
00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,639
and you can use all their like accoutrements, you know,

722
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,079
so they use the it's it's like a self car wash,

723
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:40,960
but you just it goes. Number one is you pick

724
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,840
your shampoo and conditioner and then you you know, anyway,

725
00:39:45,079 --> 00:39:47,119
then you could dry them off. So I did that

726
00:39:47,199 --> 00:39:51,440
with Bob all by myself. But so here's the thing

727
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:54,199
that when they had little tubs, right, were you like

728
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,199
a dog in the tub. Well, it's like it's like

729
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,880
these tile like bathtub things. Yeah, the dog walks up

730
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,119
a couple steps and then steps into this sort of

731
00:40:03,159 --> 00:40:05,239
tub and then you've got like it's like a sink,

732
00:40:05,679 --> 00:40:08,599
you know, a big sink, and then you spray the

733
00:40:08,639 --> 00:40:12,519
water on him. But walk into the store, and of

734
00:40:12,639 --> 00:40:16,880
course immediately Bob tries to pee on a display of

735
00:40:17,119 --> 00:40:23,800
like Linnette, this dog is wants to pee places. Oh yeah,

736
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,639
and he's bombed a pisser and he is house broken.

737
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,280
He goes, he goes, he knows as soon as we

738
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:33,039
go outside on the walk, he goes potty. He's but

739
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:38,480
he sees a store. He peed at the pet Co.

740
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:43,480
He peed at this pet food Express place, and then

741
00:40:43,519 --> 00:40:45,320
you know, I've got to be like, oh my god,

742
00:40:45,679 --> 00:40:48,159
I'm so sorry, And of course I said no, and

743
00:40:48,199 --> 00:40:53,400
I pulled him out, and I thought I caught him,

744
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,440
like he lifted his leg and I was like, oh,

745
00:40:55,599 --> 00:40:59,119
absolutely not, and I rolled him and brought him back outside.

746
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,679
But he when I went to go pay, I noticed

747
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,599
there was a little bit of pee on the floor.

748
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,599
He peed on a display. No, it wasn't really, no,

749
00:41:09,679 --> 00:41:11,920
it was just on the floor. But like he's there

750
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,360
was like a display like a big wire basket and

751
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,360
there would have been stuff in there, but it was protected,

752
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,360
like he didn't pee on stuff, but he lifted his

753
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,239
leg to pee on that, and then he peed a

754
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:27,280
little bit on the floor, which I'm one, Yeah, I'm

755
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,719
wondering if because of the story you told last week.

756
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm wondering if he smells other dogs in places,

757
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,679
then he's going to do that. Yeah, clearly, Like maybe

758
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,639
he's not going to do that at your brother's house

759
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,280
for Thanksgiving or Super Bowl.

760
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: Can't be sure. I cannot be sure, you can't, So

761
00:41:48,119 --> 00:41:52,760
I'm scared of that he will. Okay, this I have

762
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,679
a little crazy, a little kind of crazy story. But

763
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:59,320
I'm I'm having an internal debate whether to tell it now,

764
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,199
or to tell it on Patreon. I'm kind of leaning

765
00:42:03,199 --> 00:42:06,559
towards I think it might have to be a Patreon story.

766
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:11,000
Listen it. It's a new it's it's a like an

767
00:42:11,079 --> 00:42:13,800
old school how I had some stories about Penelope, but

768
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,440
now I have one about Bob and.

769
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 2: It's okay, and you don't want Bob to hear it,

770
00:42:19,519 --> 00:42:20,800
so it's got to go a Patreon.

771
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: I just feel like the wrong people are going to

772
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,840
have the wrong opinions of I don't know, I see Okay, Okay,

773
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,800
I don't know. I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna save it.

774
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:34,800
I think I'm gonna save it. But I will tell you.

775
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:39,719
I do have another story for you, which I'm trying

776
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:43,639
to decide. Well, yeah, we have I have shows to

777
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,440
watch for the Friday show. Okay, I'll just tell you

778
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,679
about this. So I took Xander to see Chapman. So

779
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:54,079
I've been talking about this school and it was really great.

780
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,480
It's not that far. I thought it was going to

781
00:42:56,559 --> 00:42:58,760
take us a long, much longer time to get there.

782
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:03,360
It's no different than like all these tournaments, tournaments that

783
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,079
we would take the kids to. It's in Orange, California.

784
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,639
Which is I guess it's part of Orange County. It

785
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,760
is in Orange County. But it's the cutest little town.

786
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:19,639
It's almost like if Westwood and Portland had a baby.

787
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,039
It's got these little like it's a little place where

788
00:43:23,039 --> 00:43:25,440
it's only a few blocks around in this area, but

789
00:43:25,599 --> 00:43:30,000
it's all little antique stores and like a record store

790
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,039
and like a vintage store, and you know, it's like

791
00:43:34,079 --> 00:43:37,119
a college, little college, little college town. You know what's

792
00:43:37,159 --> 00:43:40,840
funny is when we were kids and your parents would

793
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,800
go antiquing, right, is super boring because you'd be like,

794
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,119
it's just like old stuff. You don't know what's about. Okay,

795
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,079
guess what at our age when you go antiquing, it's

796
00:43:53,119 --> 00:43:56,599
all shit from our childhood. Like that really, yes, because

797
00:43:56,599 --> 00:43:59,559
think about it. Okay, if you're looking at stuff, if

798
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:03,639
it's fifty years old, that's an antique, right, that's true.

799
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,119
You're not looking at stuff that's like one hundred years old.

800
00:44:06,159 --> 00:44:09,119
That would be like valuables in a museum. You're looking

801
00:44:09,159 --> 00:44:12,679
at stuff that's fifty years old. I'm finding like really

802
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:16,480
cool like toys from my childhood. Like that's something like God,

803
00:44:16,599 --> 00:44:19,000
and I was like, this is really cool, Like now,

804
00:44:19,039 --> 00:44:21,679
I understand, like why my parents wanted to go antiquing

805
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:22,239
all the time.

806
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:26,519
Speaker 2: Oh, well, you know, my parents didn't, but Gina Kimmel

807
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,519
loved to go antiquing and we would go to the

808
00:44:29,639 --> 00:44:30,199
Rose Bowl.

809
00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: They would have their uh.

810
00:44:32,519 --> 00:44:36,039
Speaker 2: Flot meet once like once a month, like the second

811
00:44:36,039 --> 00:44:38,559
Sunday of every month, and it was all like antiques

812
00:44:38,599 --> 00:44:40,679
and she loved it and I was fucking bored to tears.

813
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,639
But I was just telling Sunny about it, and he

814
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:45,800
was like, I'd like to check it out sometime at

815
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,039
the Rose Bowl. I was like, Okay, it'd kind of

816
00:44:48,039 --> 00:44:50,679
be fun maybe, you know, because she was looking for

817
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,679
furniture and stuff, but there's also like records and yeah,

818
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,599
clothing and stuff like that that could be yeah, retro,

819
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:57,679
cool retro.

820
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 1: It's like tons of retro stuff, like cool cost jewelry,

821
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,599
but like I said, toys like from our child like fun.

822
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,639
I don't know. I thought that was really cute and

823
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,559
and Xander loved it too. We went with a friend

824
00:45:10,559 --> 00:45:13,920
of Xander's whose parents and the girl also wanted to

825
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,360
check out the school for her. So she's not going,

826
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,639
wouldn't be going this year, but she would maybe apply

827
00:45:18,679 --> 00:45:22,960
for next year. So she's older. She took like a

828
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,599
gap year from school. Really sweet, sweet kid. So we

829
00:45:26,679 --> 00:45:29,519
met up with them and we went to the Dodge College,

830
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,639
which is a film school basically. So first we go

831
00:45:33,679 --> 00:45:36,519
to the main campus and then we're in the completely

832
00:45:36,559 --> 00:45:38,880
wrong spot. So then I decided to actually read the

833
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,039
email and figure out where we're supposed to be, and

834
00:45:41,079 --> 00:45:44,440
it's nowhere near it's not part of the main campus.

835
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:47,159
So we and I'm like, it can't be this whole

836
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,960
other direction back where we parked. I didn't think that

837
00:45:51,079 --> 00:45:55,239
was possible. It was. It was completely separate. We go in.

838
00:45:55,519 --> 00:45:59,239
It's gorgeous what they'd the way it's set up, And

839
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,920
anybody who's listening who's like has a kid that goes

840
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:03,800
there or has seen it, knows what I'm talking about.

841
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:05,960
But it's like a movie studio in the way of

842
00:46:06,159 --> 00:46:08,480
like it's like it's like you've just walked into Burbank

843
00:46:08,519 --> 00:46:13,079
Studios or something, well, right, right, right, like this or

844
00:46:13,119 --> 00:46:18,119
like Warner Brothers. Yeah, but it's got a main lobby

845
00:46:18,199 --> 00:46:20,960
in this place. They have this big theater where the

846
00:46:21,039 --> 00:46:25,119
kids show their films, their shorts or whatever. Right, my god,

847
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:30,199
Sunny would love this place. Yeah, yeah, Well, anyway they

848
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,480
do because they have sports broadcasting at this they have everything.

849
00:46:34,599 --> 00:46:36,920
But this is like a film This is like a

850
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,519
film school, so they have all this really high end equipment.

851
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:43,760
They have animation, they have documentary filmmaking, they have editing,

852
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,440
and it was a very cool tour. And I was wondering.

853
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,559
I was I didn't know if Xander would have loved it,

854
00:46:50,599 --> 00:46:53,639
because I know he wants to be creative, but I

855
00:46:53,679 --> 00:46:55,840
didn't think he wanted to go to like film school

856
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,519
per se. Right, But it's very collaborative because he would

857
00:46:59,519 --> 00:47:06,039
be in the advertising marketing section, but they all do everything,

858
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:09,559
so like, even though you're in advertising, you still learn

859
00:47:09,679 --> 00:47:12,119
how to like edit and use the cameras and do

860
00:47:12,159 --> 00:47:16,159
all the stuff. And that's so cool. Yeah, I love that. Yeah,

861
00:47:16,199 --> 00:47:19,719
so he really liked it. I love the area. It's

862
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:25,079
very safe and clean and nice and everything. These freaking

863
00:47:25,159 --> 00:47:28,079
private schools they know how to do it. They have

864
00:47:28,159 --> 00:47:31,559
a lot of money, Their facilities are nice and like,

865
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,840
you know, did you get to see some of the dorms. No.

866
00:47:35,079 --> 00:47:40,119
But so this Saturday, John is taking him to Accepted

867
00:47:40,159 --> 00:47:43,880
Students Day. The thing was we were he was always

868
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:45,719
going to go to the Accepted students day, but he

869
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:50,039
was having trouble trying to picture, like get excited about

870
00:47:50,079 --> 00:47:53,519
any school because he hadn't seen He's only seen Santa Barbara,

871
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,920
so right right, it was like, if he was going

872
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:58,760
to be excited about Chapman, He's like, I have to

873
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,599
see it first, so so mm hmm. I said, well,

874
00:48:01,639 --> 00:48:04,679
let's just go have a collavitur of just the Dodge

875
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,320
school and then you can still go to accepted students

876
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,599
stay and see the rest of the campus and do

877
00:48:09,639 --> 00:48:12,239
what I can do tours and see dorms. But we

878
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:16,280
did find out that the dorms there triples, but they

879
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,400
each have their own bathroom, and he was pretty excited

880
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,559
about that. That's cool, Yeah, yeah, said that it kind

881
00:48:23,599 --> 00:48:26,000
of makes him nervous the idea of like having to

882
00:48:26,039 --> 00:48:28,239
have like a bathroom down the hall, you know what

883
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:28,559
I mean.

884
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:32,199
Speaker 2: I agree, Yes, that kind of that sucks. Yeah, that's

885
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,280
really cool. I think that sounds so perfect for him.

886
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,559
I mean, I wish like Sunny would have checked that out.

887
00:48:38,599 --> 00:48:40,760
He would have loved it. I don't know why he

888
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,159
never came up Chapman, but that's real. I mean, that

889
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:49,000
sounds so perfect to Frexander, and you know with I

890
00:48:49,079 --> 00:48:51,480
feel like a lot of people in the entertainment industry

891
00:48:51,599 --> 00:48:55,480
come probably from Chapman, especially the people that go right

892
00:48:55,519 --> 00:48:58,320
into like the film industry or documentaries.

893
00:48:58,559 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: I mean that sounds so perfect. Yeah, he had this

894
00:49:01,639 --> 00:49:06,679
really cute tour guide, this young guy who's a senior,

895
00:49:07,639 --> 00:49:10,440
and I just love this guy's energy. Right from the beginning,

896
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,840
he was just very engaging, really funny. You could just

897
00:49:15,079 --> 00:49:18,360
everybody you know, Well, there was a guy and a girl,

898
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:24,440
and the girl was a little Tracy Flick from election.

899
00:49:24,679 --> 00:49:27,239
She was a little intense and a little like too

900
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,599
peppy and a little like and so when you got

901
00:49:30,599 --> 00:49:32,440
to pick who you wanted to go with for the tour,

902
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:36,440
and even though the guy was like, I'm all my

903
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,360
my side of the tour will do the film, film

904
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,320
and production, and she'll do every all the other majors

905
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,960
at Dodge, but we were like, now, we're not gonna

906
00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,119
We're not gonna go with her now, so we'll go

907
00:49:48,159 --> 00:49:50,440
with him. So then we kind of whispered to him

908
00:49:50,519 --> 00:49:52,880
like hey, is it cool, like well you also cover

909
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:54,719
this stuff, and he's like, yeah, I'll cover all of it.

910
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,519
So we're like, okay, cool, Now we went with him.

911
00:49:57,679 --> 00:50:00,199
He was being very funny and he said, you you know,

912
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:05,000
we have you know, they get these like people who

913
00:50:05,039 --> 00:50:07,280
have come to the school before, like celebrities who have

914
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,599
graduated from Chapman, and they come and some of them

915
00:50:09,639 --> 00:50:12,599
do like a master class. I want to say, Bradley

916
00:50:12,639 --> 00:50:15,519
Cooper might have come and down a class. Ariana Grande

917
00:50:16,119 --> 00:50:18,559
did a class. So I guess there was this. He said,

918
00:50:18,599 --> 00:50:21,400
there was this like famous director that came to do

919
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:24,760
one of the master classes, and you have somehow he

920
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,480
got a spot to come to the master class and

921
00:50:27,519 --> 00:50:31,320
the they would show your short. So he had made

922
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:32,760
this short and I want to say this was in

923
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:35,000
his sophomore year. But he goes, yeah, so I'm I'm

924
00:50:35,039 --> 00:50:38,559
so excited. I'm getting my It's like my dream, like

925
00:50:38,639 --> 00:50:42,159
this director is going to watch my short. And then

926
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,639
afterwards the guy goes, he goes, that was the most

927
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:50,519
painful fifteen minutes of my entire life. Oh my god,

928
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,079
are you kidding me? The way he told the story

929
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,119
was so funny. He was like, I was like, oh no,

930
00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:00,119
but also, oh my god, like this director say, and

931
00:51:00,159 --> 00:51:02,119
then and then he goes, and then he proceeded to

932
00:51:02,119 --> 00:51:06,760
give me really helpful feedback like, so that's that's good.

933
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,079
He was, like, I was glad he didn't like blow

934
00:51:09,119 --> 00:51:11,800
smoke up my ass, Like, yeah, I'm here to learn,

935
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:14,119
you know. So he said it was really really cool,

936
00:51:14,119 --> 00:51:16,000
and I don't know it was. It was very helpful.

937
00:51:16,039 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 2: I like that kid. I love that kid. Good always

938
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,880
good when you have a good tour guy. Yes, yeah, yes,

939
00:51:22,119 --> 00:51:25,719
I've experienced some good ones and some duds when why

940
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:28,480
went when we took tours, and it really makes a

941
00:51:28,519 --> 00:51:31,239
difference when you got a kid that's really excited about

942
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,239
it and it's like super cool and not intense, you know,

943
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:38,480
it's nice. Yes, I oh, any more other tours on his.

944
00:51:38,679 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 1: On his agenda. So so this Saturday he'll go to

945
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:46,079
the Accepted Students Day and then the following weekend is

946
00:51:46,119 --> 00:51:49,000
his speech and debate tournament in Northern California.

947
00:51:49,639 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 2: Oh.

948
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,639
Speaker 1: Now, if he'd gotten into Berkeley, we would have toured Berkeley.

949
00:51:53,679 --> 00:51:55,679
But he did not get into Berkeley, so we won't

950
00:51:55,679 --> 00:51:59,400
be touring Berkeley. And then if he didn't love Chapman

951
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:02,000
were like, we could take a drive. It's like an

952
00:52:02,039 --> 00:52:05,239
extra hour and a half to Davis, But I don't

953
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,679
know that he needs to go see Davis because it's

954
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:11,119
going to be Santa Barbara but in a different location.

955
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:16,599
All the ucs have very similar majors. You know, I

956
00:52:16,599 --> 00:52:20,760
don't write. Yeah, yeah, I'm happy between you and me,

957
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,159
and I'll keep my I'll keep my voice down because

958
00:52:23,199 --> 00:52:25,920
I think he's just in the next room, in the room.

959
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:29,760
I just hope he loves Chapman. And then it's like done.

960
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,079
I agree, it's does he I mean, how did he feel? Does?

961
00:52:33,159 --> 00:52:35,320
He said? He really like, yeah, so I'll oh, so

962
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,800
I was just going to tell you that. I was like,

963
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,440
I'm not sure, and he was like, no, I really

964
00:52:40,599 --> 00:52:43,239
liked it. He's like, it's really cool. He said, there

965
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,559
was so much cool stuff to do, like I would

966
00:52:45,559 --> 00:52:48,599
have trouble figuring out, like narrowing it down. Yeah, I

967
00:52:48,639 --> 00:52:52,559
want to do everything there. So that's great. Yeah. Like

968
00:52:52,599 --> 00:52:55,519
I said, it's very creative school, and he'd be surrounded

969
00:52:55,519 --> 00:52:57,360
by you know, they have a whole One of the

970
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:01,960
majors is writing for film and television, which I don't

971
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,719
think he should do that major because it's very limiting.

972
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,320
I think I think if you do a major that

973
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:11,159
has a little more business in it, it's gonna make

974
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,480
you more well rounded.

975
00:53:13,159 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I agree, Yeah, like marketing and things

976
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,440
like that. Yeah, I mean it sounds to me like

977
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,559
he's gonna end up there.

978
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, fingers crossed. Yeah. But oh my god,

979
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:29,719
so I have so we have so much for Friday's show.

980
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,760
So let's do a shout out to our people. We

981
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,039
got a haities rolling on the e and Chris to

982
00:53:36,119 --> 00:53:38,559
get the strap, and Stephanie's a stinker rinker and Sandra

983
00:53:38,639 --> 00:53:42,679
it's not easy being green. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez, Leslie

984
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:48,119
Stash the cough She's been here since day one of Patreon.

985
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,480
I know, I don't know who she is. She's never

986
00:53:51,519 --> 00:53:54,519
been on Facebook, she's never Instagram, and she's never said like,

987
00:53:54,559 --> 00:53:58,960
hey it's me Leslie with the coughing. Never Hi, Leslie,

988
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:04,880
Alicia Lane, Hey, Helly Braon, he's your aunt. Rebecca Nubn

989
00:54:05,679 --> 00:54:10,480
he's so cute. And e Chehn is so hot that

990
00:54:10,559 --> 00:54:13,880
baby Missy and Gabby they're at Chapman. They were on

991
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,719
the tour even though they weren't accepted students. They were

992
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,760
just hanging out. That's what they do. They just tour

993
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,079
colleges with one flip flop of the two of them.

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Katerina check your Moler. Valerie hits it out of the park, Polly,

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1002
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leave it all behind, started, start fresh. Anyway, listen to

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all right, Thanks you guys. We love you. Your parent,

1017
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your parent now, don't f it up.

1018
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Speaker 2: It's good

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Speaker 1: Letting