WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.520 --> 00:00:00.800 Sure. 2 00:00:07.120 --> 00:00:08.119 What's that, beautiful people? 3 00:00:08.119 --> 00:00:10.359 It is your baby mama, favorite baby Mama, Stormy Pe 4 00:00:10.679 --> 00:00:13.839 And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip 5 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:17.239 the modern day female perspective Damn Son, back at it again, 6 00:00:18.120 --> 00:00:20.480 back at it again, And y'all listen. I'm just gonna 7 00:00:20.519 --> 00:00:23.920 start straight from the hip. You get it because I 8 00:00:24.000 --> 00:00:30.320 like shot straight? Okay, well, ah, y'all listen. The election 9 00:00:30.480 --> 00:00:32.719 is over. I know some of us are happy, some 10 00:00:32.759 --> 00:00:36.000 of us are sad. Me I'm happy because I was 11 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:40.039 sinking y'all niggas texting my phone. I have never text 12 00:00:40.119 --> 00:00:45.320 stop so much in my life. Okay, I was tired. 13 00:00:45.880 --> 00:00:48.880 I'm tired. I'm tired. First of all, I'm not gonna 14 00:00:48.880 --> 00:00:51.439 hold y'all. Who gave all y'all my number? Who the 15 00:00:51.520 --> 00:00:54.479 fuck gave all y'all my number? And how did y'all 16 00:00:54.560 --> 00:00:57.439 keep getting it? It didn't make sense to me? But yeah, 17 00:00:57.640 --> 00:01:01.039 I digress. Like I said, I'm happy, the election is over, 18 00:01:01.200 --> 00:01:03.280 and I just want to say, from the bottom of 19 00:01:03.320 --> 00:01:06.599 my heart, if you did not vote. 20 00:01:07.719 --> 00:01:10.560 Shut the fuck up. Okay, I don't. 21 00:01:10.400 --> 00:01:15.920 Want to hear nothing. I don't want to hear nothing nothing. 22 00:01:16.519 --> 00:01:19.120 If you did not vote, I don't want to hear 23 00:01:19.200 --> 00:01:21.959 nothing from you. I don't give a fuck. In fact, 24 00:01:22.319 --> 00:01:24.560 if you did not vote, I feel like you should 25 00:01:24.599 --> 00:01:26.239 not be eligible for government assistance. 26 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:28.280 Yeah said it, Yeah said it. 27 00:01:28.599 --> 00:01:31.400 If you did not vote, you should not be eligible 28 00:01:31.480 --> 00:01:35.280 for government assistance. That means no food stamps, no insurance, 29 00:01:35.599 --> 00:01:38.519 no lie heap, no medicaid, no, none of that. 30 00:01:39.040 --> 00:01:42.719 You don't deserve shit. You set it out. Remember remember, 31 00:01:43.000 --> 00:01:44.239 remember remember. 32 00:01:43.879 --> 00:01:46.239 When you sat out the election because you said you 33 00:01:46.239 --> 00:01:48.159 ain't want to choose between the lesser than two evils. 34 00:01:48.239 --> 00:01:50.040 Well guess what both of them said, you don't get shit. 35 00:01:50.079 --> 00:01:52.760 How about that. I'm just saying at this. 36 00:01:52.799 --> 00:01:54.400 Point, I feel like I need to run for something, 37 00:01:54.640 --> 00:01:57.879 because if you don't vote, I feel like you should 38 00:01:57.959 --> 00:01:59.959 not be eligible for any type of government assistance. 39 00:02:00.439 --> 00:02:00.640 Yeah. 40 00:02:01.159 --> 00:02:03.040 That's it. That's my piece. That's all I'm gonna say 41 00:02:03.079 --> 00:02:05.239 on that. And uh, at the end of the day, 42 00:02:05.680 --> 00:02:08.360 whether you did or did not get the turnout you 43 00:02:08.400 --> 00:02:11.319 were expecting, all you need to do is move a 44 00:02:11.400 --> 00:02:13.800 grace it don't I'm not gonna say it don't matter, 45 00:02:13.840 --> 00:02:16.840 but just be respectful like that's all. That's all I'm asking, 46 00:02:16.960 --> 00:02:19.919 that's all I'm asking. Whether you was on either side. 47 00:02:20.360 --> 00:02:24.039 Just be respectful. That's it. That's my piece, and we're 48 00:02:24.039 --> 00:02:29.080 gonna start the episode. Okay, so I know that we've 49 00:02:29.120 --> 00:02:32.520 all been wrapped up in Oh, thank you, Bucky frast 50 00:02:32.639 --> 00:02:34.639 box just for a badge, thank you. 51 00:02:36.560 --> 00:02:39.280 I don't got the button right here, but in post 52 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:39.960 we're gonna addit it. 53 00:02:40.159 --> 00:02:47.719 It's gonna be like bombs dropping, my nigga. But yeah, man, 54 00:02:50.120 --> 00:02:54.719 today has been a recoup day. I feel like I've 55 00:02:54.759 --> 00:02:58.479 taken the time to you know, reflect and get back 56 00:02:58.479 --> 00:03:00.719 to me, get back into the groove things, and you know, 57 00:03:01.000 --> 00:03:03.960 practice some self care, be kind to myself, and. 58 00:03:05.319 --> 00:03:10.599 Really just honestly laugh a little bit. Me and me 59 00:03:10.639 --> 00:03:13.680 and my friends we had some laughs in. 60 00:03:13.639 --> 00:03:17.719 The group chat and I got back on my bullshit respectfully. 61 00:03:17.759 --> 00:03:21.919 And one of the things that I noticed in that moment, 62 00:03:22.879 --> 00:03:24.199 so many things became clear. 63 00:03:24.719 --> 00:03:25.960 So many things became. 64 00:03:25.719 --> 00:03:28.400 Clear, and not just from me, just from hearing my 65 00:03:28.439 --> 00:03:32.080 friends talk, hearing outsiders talk, and it's like, shit, thein' 66 00:03:32.159 --> 00:03:34.759 got nothing to do with their lection, but somehow applies 67 00:03:34.800 --> 00:03:37.240 to so many people. It's like somehow we're all living 68 00:03:37.240 --> 00:03:39.319 the same lives, but we're missing it. And I just 69 00:03:39.360 --> 00:03:42.960 want to say, you know, that person that be acting 70 00:03:42.960 --> 00:03:47.159 all nonchalant, hot and cold, playing hard. 71 00:03:46.960 --> 00:03:48.800 To get you know how I'm talking about. You know 72 00:03:48.840 --> 00:03:49.599 how I'm talking about. 73 00:03:49.719 --> 00:03:53.319 You know that person who be acting all nonchalant, playing 74 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:54.520 hard to get. 75 00:03:54.560 --> 00:03:57.879 Hot and cold, back and forth. They available that are 76 00:03:57.919 --> 00:04:00.479 not available. You know what I'm talking about. Yet they 77 00:04:00.479 --> 00:04:08.080 don't like you. They don't like you. I know, I know, 78 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:09.400 I know it's hard to hear. 79 00:04:10.199 --> 00:04:12.960 They don't like you. You're not the one for them. 80 00:04:13.400 --> 00:04:17.639 You're not You're not the one for them. 81 00:04:17.199 --> 00:04:19.319 Like the whole little cat and mouse thing may be doing. 82 00:04:19.439 --> 00:04:22.240 They don't like you. They don't like you. I know, 83 00:04:22.519 --> 00:04:25.759 I know, I know y'all bump billies. I know y'all 84 00:04:25.759 --> 00:04:28.240 share a fork when y'all go out to eat. I know, 85 00:04:28.680 --> 00:04:30.959 I know all these things. He might even let you 86 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:34.000 meet his mom, She lets you meet her kid. Still 87 00:04:34.040 --> 00:04:37.240 don't like you. Still don't like you. Yeah, no, they 88 00:04:37.240 --> 00:04:39.879 think you're fun. They like hanging out with you. But 89 00:04:39.920 --> 00:04:42.160 you're not the one for them. And I need you 90 00:04:42.199 --> 00:04:44.759 to recognize that because you keep letting these people play 91 00:04:44.800 --> 00:04:47.800 in their face and in your mind you're like, oh, 92 00:04:48.199 --> 00:04:48.759 they just. 93 00:04:48.680 --> 00:04:51.319 Playing it hand again. They want me. 94 00:04:51.319 --> 00:04:55.360 To apply Lottle Prussia they want you to leave them alone, okay, 95 00:04:55.439 --> 00:04:57.040 And whether they're strong enough to say it or not, 96 00:04:57.399 --> 00:05:00.000 they want you to leave them alone because you're not it. 97 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:02.319 You're not it, And I hate that for you. I 98 00:05:02.360 --> 00:05:05.040 hate that you haven't realized that. I'm gonna tell you, 99 00:05:05.079 --> 00:05:07.240 like something that really really stuck hard to me. 100 00:05:08.800 --> 00:05:13.439 In my mind, the person you want wouldn't treat you 101 00:05:13.519 --> 00:05:16.920 like that. Shit mine wouldn't. I don't know about y'all, 102 00:05:16.920 --> 00:05:17.680 but mind wouldn't. 103 00:05:17.920 --> 00:05:21.680 The person that I genuinely want, My person is absolutely 104 00:05:21.720 --> 00:05:24.839 not gonna treat me that way. Not you think the 105 00:05:24.879 --> 00:05:27.560 person that God put on this earth with me for 106 00:05:27.800 --> 00:05:29.000 me is gonna play in. 107 00:05:28.920 --> 00:05:32.519 My face like that? Because I don't. I don't. I don't. 108 00:05:32.519 --> 00:05:33.040 I don't think. 109 00:05:33.639 --> 00:05:37.120 Bucky Frastbox says, until then, they're gonna use you for fun. 110 00:05:37.600 --> 00:05:40.600 I agree. P Mackie says, facts, And. 111 00:05:40.600 --> 00:05:42.839 I think you hit on a really important point here, 112 00:05:42.879 --> 00:05:46.680 because in all actuality, they are using you for fun, 113 00:05:47.319 --> 00:05:51.839 and they keep bread crumbing you with these little significant 114 00:05:51.839 --> 00:05:55.519 but really insignificant to them, these little significant things that 115 00:05:55.519 --> 00:05:57.279 make you feel like, well, if they didn't like me, 116 00:05:57.319 --> 00:05:59.720 why would they do that? Or if they don't like me, 117 00:05:59.759 --> 00:06:04.399 why they just say that. Why do they have to 118 00:06:05.000 --> 00:06:07.360 do you know how people who like you are supposed 119 00:06:07.360 --> 00:06:12.360 to act because it ain't that, It ain't that, It 120 00:06:12.399 --> 00:06:15.240 ain't that. And I feel like sometimes our brains be 121 00:06:15.279 --> 00:06:18.240 trying to trick us into these rabbit holes, saying to ourselves, well, like, 122 00:06:18.279 --> 00:06:21.560 you know, well, technically they didn't say no. Technically they 123 00:06:21.560 --> 00:06:22.720 didn't say they didn't like me. 124 00:06:23.240 --> 00:06:25.560 Maybe they don't have to. Their actions are showing you. 125 00:06:26.000 --> 00:06:28.680 Their actions are showing you that they do not like you. 126 00:06:29.199 --> 00:06:32.879 And for some reason, you have embedded it into your 127 00:06:32.879 --> 00:06:35.199 brain that until they say no, it's a yes. 128 00:06:35.920 --> 00:06:39.040 That is not true. That is not true. 129 00:06:40.399 --> 00:06:44.720 Mister Lopierre says, std equals something to do, and that 130 00:06:44.800 --> 00:06:49.639 is exactly it. You can't have the mindset of, oh, well, 131 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:52.800 if they didn't say no, it must be a yes. No, 132 00:06:52.920 --> 00:06:56.040 it's actually they're bored. They're bored, and nine times out 133 00:06:56.040 --> 00:06:59.000 of ten, the person that they actually want isn't giving 134 00:06:59.079 --> 00:07:01.160 them the attention that they need. So they're coming back 135 00:07:01.160 --> 00:07:03.480 to you to feed their ego, to make themselves feel 136 00:07:03.480 --> 00:07:06.199 good until they get attention from someone they actually want 137 00:07:06.199 --> 00:07:08.720 to get and then boom their out. Stop letting these 138 00:07:08.720 --> 00:07:14.480 people play with you please please. Jonathan says, it's ego. 139 00:07:14.800 --> 00:07:17.839 It absolutely is ego. It's ego. 140 00:07:17.920 --> 00:07:20.959 And the crazy part about it is sometimes they don't 141 00:07:21.000 --> 00:07:22.600 even be privy to the fact that they're playing with 142 00:07:22.639 --> 00:07:24.160 people say feelings and emotions. 143 00:07:24.560 --> 00:07:25.079 They don't know. 144 00:07:25.639 --> 00:07:28.360 They don't even know they are not Sometimes they are 145 00:07:28.360 --> 00:07:30.480 not emotionally intelligent to even know. 146 00:07:30.399 --> 00:07:32.399 What they're doing. They don't know. 147 00:07:32.839 --> 00:07:35.120 So when you tell them like yo, like you move 148 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:38.720 them weird, your patterns changing, you're not being consistent enough 149 00:07:38.720 --> 00:07:38.920 for me. 150 00:07:39.279 --> 00:07:40.600 Now all of a sudden, they're gonna flipp it in. 151 00:07:40.639 --> 00:07:42.879 It's your fault. Now, hold on, how fuck I get this? 152 00:07:43.600 --> 00:07:44.560 What does this got to do with me? 153 00:07:45.040 --> 00:07:47.279 What does this have to do with me? Like, I 154 00:07:47.360 --> 00:07:50.720 haven't switched up, I've been doing the same thing. So like, yeah, y'all, 155 00:07:51.279 --> 00:07:52.680 I don't know who needs to hear this, but that 156 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:59.399 person don't like you, not like that anyway, and which 157 00:07:59.680 --> 00:08:04.480 really made me reflect on like I said earlier, Bucky. Well, 158 00:08:04.519 --> 00:08:09.600 hold on, Bucky says, some know and don't care. I 159 00:08:09.680 --> 00:08:12.800 want better for you, not you in particular. I'm just saying, 160 00:08:13.560 --> 00:08:17.519 if you feel like you are willing to be second 161 00:08:17.560 --> 00:08:20.000 place in somebody's heart, or you are willing to deal 162 00:08:20.040 --> 00:08:22.040 with that type of treatment. I went better for you, 163 00:08:22.279 --> 00:08:25.240 I really do, mister Lil Pierre says, I tell women, 164 00:08:25.360 --> 00:08:25.879 don't just. 165 00:08:25.839 --> 00:08:31.360 Hey big hit me when they hungry the fuck exactly 166 00:08:31.399 --> 00:08:32.559 because a lot of times. 167 00:08:32.360 --> 00:08:34.360 Ladies, I know I'm gonna put you on a spiral fast, 168 00:08:34.360 --> 00:08:36.279 but sometimes y'all do do that when I just be hungry, 169 00:08:36.399 --> 00:08:38.840 when y'all be hungry, or y'all just want to excuse 170 00:08:38.879 --> 00:08:40.799 to get dressed up. And you know that one guy 171 00:08:40.840 --> 00:08:42.559 gonna take you to the nice place, you hit him 172 00:08:42.559 --> 00:08:43.360 with the hay big hair. 173 00:08:43.399 --> 00:08:46.039 It's like, damn, what's up? Like you don't know? Mean 174 00:08:46.080 --> 00:08:46.679 no more high. 175 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:49.600 But to be fair, niggas, y'all do the same thing, 176 00:08:50.240 --> 00:08:52.519 same thing, because you will see a girl post a 177 00:08:52.600 --> 00:08:54.879 fire picture on a gram and hit her with you 178 00:08:55.039 --> 00:08:57.039 be acting so hollywood, No the fuck. 179 00:08:56.840 --> 00:09:00.519 I don't. I really don't. I really don't. You do? 180 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:03.120 And you see me looking good and just reminded, you're like, yeah, 181 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:04.559 she's cool as shit, let me see what she up to. 182 00:09:04.879 --> 00:09:07.039 Still not you, big dog, Still not you? 183 00:09:07.159 --> 00:09:11.200 Okay, Outfit says, if he's only giving you backshots, he 184 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:13.279 don't like you. Sis, get someone who will look you 185 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:17.159 in the eyes. I'm not gonna hold y'all. I recently 186 00:09:17.159 --> 00:09:19.799 heard about this. I didn't know it was things. I 187 00:09:19.799 --> 00:09:23.679 didn't know it was a thing, and I heard about 188 00:09:23.720 --> 00:09:26.600 it in a group setting. These women were talking and 189 00:09:26.639 --> 00:09:29.720 they were like, Yo, it's one guy, like every time 190 00:09:29.720 --> 00:09:31.519 we doing it, he always just want to give me backshots. 191 00:09:31.960 --> 00:09:34.279 And I was like, that's so crazy, hmm. 192 00:09:34.559 --> 00:09:35.759 But I just told it was because she had a 193 00:09:35.759 --> 00:09:41.399 big butt, right, And then I heard from guys like no, 194 00:09:41.519 --> 00:09:43.440 like sometimes if like if she ain't cute, like we 195 00:09:43.559 --> 00:09:44.799 just only want to hit it from the back. 196 00:09:45.120 --> 00:09:46.399 And it's like, if she got a butt, you' were 197 00:09:46.399 --> 00:09:47.759 definitely only going to hit it from the back. 198 00:09:47.759 --> 00:09:50.600 And I was like, h niggas be trying to kiss 199 00:09:50.600 --> 00:09:51.080 me in my mouth. 200 00:09:51.080 --> 00:09:56.000 So I don't know what y'all talking about. I can't relate. 201 00:09:56.679 --> 00:09:59.200 I can't relate. I don't know that struggle. I'm not privy. 202 00:09:59.279 --> 00:10:02.000 I can't relate. But I did recently find out that 203 00:10:02.039 --> 00:10:02.600 this is the thing. 204 00:10:03.080 --> 00:10:07.240 Crazy to me, Crazy Bucky says our fans, giving out 205 00:10:07.279 --> 00:10:08.039 the sheet code. 206 00:10:08.480 --> 00:10:10.559 It's a safe space. We can share sheet cotes here, guys. 207 00:10:10.600 --> 00:10:13.840 It's okay. Hold on, let me swipe back up. 208 00:10:14.519 --> 00:10:18.200 One bullet for them, says Yes, it is a lot 209 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:21.480 of men, says people using people period. Just have to 210 00:10:21.559 --> 00:10:26.000 know your worth a man. Amen, Jonathan says. On the 211 00:10:26.039 --> 00:10:29.039 other side of the spectrum, fellas, we gotta stop long 212 00:10:29.080 --> 00:10:32.279 stroking these chicks that were really not interested in. 213 00:10:31.720 --> 00:10:35.360 In a real authentic way. I agree. We're gonna clap 214 00:10:35.360 --> 00:10:37.960 it up for that man in that accountability. Thank you, 215 00:10:38.600 --> 00:10:40.039 thank you, thank you. 216 00:10:41.480 --> 00:10:45.360 Jonathan says, I've been guilty of this myself. It's the accountability. 217 00:10:45.559 --> 00:10:48.120 Come on, kid, Yes, that's what we like to see here. 218 00:10:48.279 --> 00:10:49.399 Amen. Amen. 219 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:52.879 Mister lay Pierce says, I don't know. I thought back 220 00:10:52.919 --> 00:10:56.279 shots was equality for all. It's a difference between backshots 221 00:10:56.279 --> 00:10:58.200 and then you only want to do backshots like you 222 00:10:58.360 --> 00:10:59.919 only wanted to do backshots. 223 00:11:00.440 --> 00:11:01.919 Why you don't want to look at girl on her face? 224 00:11:02.679 --> 00:11:03.320 What's happening? 225 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:05.200 What's happening? Because I feel like we need to have 226 00:11:05.200 --> 00:11:07.120 an honest saut. It's a reason you don't want to look 227 00:11:07.080 --> 00:11:07.679 at gir on her face? 228 00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:10.440 Now what is it? Exactly? Exactly? 229 00:11:12.320 --> 00:11:15.559 But yeah, man, so I say all have to say, 230 00:11:16.320 --> 00:11:20.360 you know, sometimes you really have to start deciding and 231 00:11:20.399 --> 00:11:23.519 setting boundaries for yourself. There are things I will accept. 232 00:11:23.679 --> 00:11:25.799 There are things I won't accept. This is like the 233 00:11:25.840 --> 00:11:30.120 bare minimum that I need. And it really got me 234 00:11:30.159 --> 00:11:36.440 to thinking a lot of y'all are in relationships, but 235 00:11:36.480 --> 00:11:39.600 the ain't never asks to be in a relationship. 236 00:11:40.360 --> 00:11:43.000 A lot of y'all are in relationships but never got 237 00:11:43.080 --> 00:11:46.360 asked to be in a relationship. 238 00:11:46.879 --> 00:11:50.279 And I say all that to say, I don't care 239 00:11:50.320 --> 00:11:53.279 how many vibes we catch. You still got to ask 240 00:11:53.320 --> 00:11:54.240 me to be your girlfriend. 241 00:11:54.360 --> 00:11:56.480 Okay, I don't care. I don't care. 242 00:11:56.600 --> 00:11:58.759 I feel like this is a lost art. This is 243 00:11:58.799 --> 00:12:01.440 a lost art. Every we get further and further away 244 00:12:01.440 --> 00:12:05.200 from the Lord. Okay, I don't care how many vibes 245 00:12:05.240 --> 00:12:08.159 we catch, you still have to ask me to be 246 00:12:08.480 --> 00:12:11.480 your girlfriend. And before y'all say Stormy, you always doing 247 00:12:11.519 --> 00:12:14.440 the most, hold on, think about it. When the last 248 00:12:14.440 --> 00:12:17.000 time you asked a girl to be your girlfriend? Ladies, 249 00:12:17.480 --> 00:12:19.320 what's the last time somebody came and you say, hey, 250 00:12:19.360 --> 00:12:20.240 I appreciate you. 251 00:12:20.919 --> 00:12:22.679 I think we should take this to the next level. 252 00:12:22.879 --> 00:12:31.039 Will you be my girlfriend? What? What is exactly? Exactly exactly? 253 00:12:31.159 --> 00:12:32.519 And don't get me wrong, I know there are some 254 00:12:32.600 --> 00:12:34.240 out there. I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about 255 00:12:34.240 --> 00:12:36.240 the majority. Okay, why are. 256 00:12:36.080 --> 00:12:39.440 We not asking women to be in relationships anymore? What 257 00:12:39.639 --> 00:12:41.039 is this? When did this happen? 258 00:12:41.519 --> 00:12:45.480 Like, don't get cute and trying to introduce me to 259 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:47.639 your friends as your girlfriend because I'm going to. 260 00:12:47.639 --> 00:12:48.600 Introduce you as a joke. 261 00:12:48.720 --> 00:12:54.399 Don't don't do this, don't do this, don't. 262 00:12:53.879 --> 00:12:57.919 Make this a weird situation. Okay, I can't, I can't. 263 00:12:59.039 --> 00:13:04.720 Bucky fresh I says middle school. What the fuck? Middle 264 00:13:04.720 --> 00:13:07.159 school is crazy? Oh my god. 265 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:10.240 Kyle Ogm says, yeah, this definitely happened to me and 266 00:13:10.279 --> 00:13:12.080 I had to say, oh, hold up, we gotta con 267 00:13:12.120 --> 00:13:12.960 first brother. 268 00:13:14.200 --> 00:13:16.840 Jonathan says, why are you being weird? Why you being 269 00:13:16.840 --> 00:13:17.559 aware to me? 270 00:13:18.120 --> 00:13:22.080 Yes? Yes, yes, Silver Surfer says, Yo, you just got 271 00:13:22.120 --> 00:13:24.080 a job. You trying to get a chop cheese with 272 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:24.720 me and a beer. 273 00:13:24.879 --> 00:13:25.480 That's not it. 274 00:13:26.200 --> 00:13:28.200 That does not mean I'm your girlfriend. That does not 275 00:13:28.759 --> 00:13:31.440 That does not. Jay Knight says, should I asks now 276 00:13:31.600 --> 00:13:34.919 or later? Y'all get on my nerves? Seven six ' 277 00:13:34.960 --> 00:13:37.159 two tep Guy says, who just be walking up in 278 00:13:37.399 --> 00:13:41.679 waking up in a relationship? People, people on god, people 279 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:43.759 like if you don't believe me, ex women because they 280 00:13:43.759 --> 00:13:47.840 will tell you yes, ain't nobody asking no more? Hold on, 281 00:13:47.919 --> 00:13:50.240 I'm trying to score break down. Gu Beeg says, I'll 282 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:53.360 be asking girls to marry me. Yeh, but you need 283 00:13:53.360 --> 00:13:54.399 a green card. That's different. 284 00:13:54.399 --> 00:13:56.279 We're not talking about that, okay. 285 00:13:56.759 --> 00:13:58.600 A lot of men says I was just telling my 286 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:00.399 wife the other day. I asked, I want to be 287 00:14:00.440 --> 00:14:05.399 my girlfriend. You belong in jail? You at the same time, 288 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:08.240 like while you currently have a wife or no, because 289 00:14:08.240 --> 00:14:09.519 if so, you belong in jail. 290 00:14:09.559 --> 00:14:09.919 All right. 291 00:14:10.679 --> 00:14:13.039 King Corey says, I don't think it's a man thing 292 00:14:13.159 --> 00:14:16.320 in this generation. Outfitz says, So that's a good question. 293 00:14:16.720 --> 00:14:18.440 Is that the same as being exclusive? 294 00:14:19.159 --> 00:14:21.559 Hmmm? I don't think so. 295 00:14:22.320 --> 00:14:25.440 I think being exclusive and being in a relationship are 296 00:14:25.440 --> 00:14:29.039 different things, right, because you can date someone exclusively, but 297 00:14:29.080 --> 00:14:31.720 you're still trying to iron out the final pieces or 298 00:14:31.759 --> 00:14:34.200 tie up the last notes to realize if this is 299 00:14:34.320 --> 00:14:37.720 a situation that you want to turn into a relationship. 300 00:14:37.919 --> 00:14:40.440 So I don't I think dating exclusively and being in 301 00:14:40.440 --> 00:14:44.320 a relationship or two different things. Mister Lil Pier says, 302 00:14:44.360 --> 00:14:47.080 dead ass only getting backshots and try to qualify it 303 00:14:47.159 --> 00:14:50.600 for a relationship is wild. I'm crying Buggy says, one 304 00:14:50.639 --> 00:14:53.639 minute we vibe in, next minute, what are we? Yes, 305 00:14:54.159 --> 00:14:56.039 and y'all be trying clown girls? Will they be hit 306 00:14:56.120 --> 00:14:58.600 you with the what are we? Like? No, Sis just 307 00:14:58.639 --> 00:15:00.840 wants a little bit of reassurance and make sure she's 308 00:15:00.879 --> 00:15:03.440 not overplaying her role like anybody's trying to presure y'all. Relax, 309 00:15:03.480 --> 00:15:05.360 anybody trying pussy y'all. We ain't trying to rush y'all, 310 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:08.320 nothing like that. Sometimes we just do a little check in. 311 00:15:08.799 --> 00:15:10.759 I feel like we should start using different words for 312 00:15:10.799 --> 00:15:14.879 our check in ladies, because what are we? For some reason, 313 00:15:14.960 --> 00:15:17.480 it processes in a man's mind as are we getting 314 00:15:17.480 --> 00:15:20.759 married tonight or what like? They don't process that well 315 00:15:20.840 --> 00:15:27.840 at all, So don't ask what are we? King Corey says, 316 00:15:28.039 --> 00:15:29.879 we as men are dead ass not asking to be 317 00:15:29.919 --> 00:15:30.759 in relationships. 318 00:15:30.799 --> 00:15:36.080 I know, I heard. I heard a Restored Purpose says 319 00:15:36.279 --> 00:15:39.279 no more bullying into relationships too. I agree. I just 320 00:15:39.320 --> 00:15:39.720 said that. 321 00:15:39.879 --> 00:15:42.000 I just said that a lot of men says, leave 322 00:15:42.039 --> 00:15:46.720 a PS five at someone house in your relationship, Yes, baby, 323 00:15:47.039 --> 00:15:49.559 once he start coming over to your house with that 324 00:15:49.600 --> 00:15:52.039 book bag with his PS five minute, Now, y'all in 325 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:55.320 a relationship, once he start calling you on his lunch breaks. Now, 326 00:15:55.399 --> 00:15:58.519 y'all in a relationship, like, no fella. As soon as 327 00:15:58.559 --> 00:16:01.120 she start calling you at every minor convenience, you are now. 328 00:16:01.120 --> 00:16:03.799 In a relationship. You are you are okay. 329 00:16:04.000 --> 00:16:05.799 Once you start calling you every time she gets drunk 330 00:16:05.840 --> 00:16:08.399 with her girlfriends to come pick her up, Congratulations, you're 331 00:16:08.440 --> 00:16:09.159 in relationship. 332 00:16:09.279 --> 00:16:09.720 And it's like, we. 333 00:16:09.720 --> 00:16:14.799 Gotta get away from this. We gotta get away from this, y'all. 334 00:16:14.799 --> 00:16:16.440 We gotta get away from this. We gotta go back 335 00:16:16.440 --> 00:16:20.919 to traditional settings. Okay, oh my god. Mister PROC twenty 336 00:16:20.919 --> 00:16:22.879 one says, you just got to continue to court your girl. 337 00:16:23.480 --> 00:16:25.320 One bullet for them, says word. 338 00:16:27.279 --> 00:16:30.080 Bucky says that checking be somebody apply pressure real on 339 00:16:30.120 --> 00:16:32.600 the other side. Now that is true. Sometimes that checking 340 00:16:32.720 --> 00:16:35.039 do be caused because somebody else is applying pressure. And 341 00:16:35.360 --> 00:16:38.559 I feel like y'all be so suck on. The checking 342 00:16:38.639 --> 00:16:41.759 is because somebody else is applying pressure. That's you're not realizing. 343 00:16:42.360 --> 00:16:44.480 The checking is also her being courteous, like, yo, I 344 00:16:44.480 --> 00:16:46.720 don't want to disrespect you. So what are we doing 345 00:16:46.759 --> 00:16:49.919 so that I don't overstep or underplay my position? 346 00:16:50.039 --> 00:16:56.080 So yeah, that's it, But I don't know. I don't know, man, 347 00:16:56.480 --> 00:16:59.919 for me personally, like thinking you my man. 348 00:17:00.279 --> 00:17:03.919 When you have never asked me At a beach side 349 00:17:04.039 --> 00:17:07.519 candlelight dinner with Bois the Men singing live in the background. 350 00:17:07.519 --> 00:17:10.680 It's crazy to me. Crazy to me, And don't get 351 00:17:10.680 --> 00:17:12.799 me wrong, I'm reasonable. Ain't gotta be boised men. It 352 00:17:12.799 --> 00:17:15.200 can be one more, okay. You know times is tough, 353 00:17:15.200 --> 00:17:16.799 money is a little tight. It could be one more. 354 00:17:16.839 --> 00:17:21.519 I ain't even bad. It's good enough. If y'all don't 355 00:17:21.519 --> 00:17:24.240 know why more? You know wyan Ye from Voice the Men. 356 00:17:24.880 --> 00:17:27.880 He created a group with his sons, all named wan Ye, 357 00:17:28.319 --> 00:17:30.240 and they're fire. 358 00:17:30.279 --> 00:17:32.240 Though they sing fire, they saynd oh my god, so 359 00:17:32.240 --> 00:17:34.519 fucking amazing. This is like a shameless plug. Please will 360 00:17:34.519 --> 00:17:36.279 listen to one more. You are going to see. They 361 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:38.240 are gonna give you all the fills. It's for my 362 00:17:38.359 --> 00:17:40.599 nineties R and B lovers. You're gonna love one more. Okay, 363 00:17:40.599 --> 00:17:46.039 but yeah, listen, Thinking you are my man when you 364 00:17:46.079 --> 00:17:50.119 have not asked me the correct way with Rose Padalles, 365 00:17:51.279 --> 00:17:54.200 how how are we in a relationship. It's not making 366 00:17:54.240 --> 00:17:57.240 sense to me. It's not I don't get it. I 367 00:17:57.279 --> 00:17:59.720 don't get it. Maybe it's a me thin Maybe I'm 368 00:17:59.720 --> 00:18:02.359 asking too much. I know sometimes I'll be doing the most. 369 00:18:03.359 --> 00:18:04.880 It's crazy to me, and. 370 00:18:06.559 --> 00:18:09.359 I think that my problem is this is how we 371 00:18:09.400 --> 00:18:10.880 get into those situations of. 372 00:18:11.160 --> 00:18:13.400 Which understood ain't got to be explained. 373 00:18:14.440 --> 00:18:16.559 And then he gonna explain his ass at the next 374 00:18:16.640 --> 00:18:18.920 bitch house when he's telling her that he don't really 375 00:18:19.000 --> 00:18:21.519 fuck with you like that because you're not in a relationship. 376 00:18:22.359 --> 00:18:26.039 Stop it. Let's get back to titles. Let's get back 377 00:18:26.079 --> 00:18:30.119 to titles like talking about the GenZ platform. Let's get 378 00:18:30.119 --> 00:18:30.640 back to it. 379 00:18:31.119 --> 00:18:36.319 We need it, y'all, we need it. Bucky says, what 380 00:18:36.359 --> 00:18:40.920 if he rolls pedal and still don't ask? Okay, the fuck? 381 00:18:41.319 --> 00:18:43.480 We're not in a relationship, like I. 382 00:18:43.480 --> 00:18:43.960 Need you to. 383 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:48.519 I need you to specifically ask me will you be 384 00:18:48.759 --> 00:18:53.519 my girlfriend? Is that so hard? Is that hard? Is 385 00:18:53.599 --> 00:18:55.440 am I asking? Am I asking for too much? 386 00:18:55.559 --> 00:18:57.839 Let me know? Let me know. I can you know what. 387 00:18:57.920 --> 00:18:59.400 I'm a reasonable person. Let me know. 388 00:19:00.759 --> 00:19:03.440 So with that being said, I don't think it's recording. 389 00:19:03.440 --> 00:19:07.960 It's not on down here. My playback is off. It 390 00:19:08.039 --> 00:19:10.119 might be it might just be disconnected. I just wanted 391 00:19:10.160 --> 00:19:14.720 to be sure. Okay mm hmm. 392 00:19:17.000 --> 00:19:21.039 With that being said, you know, sometimes you will see 393 00:19:21.839 --> 00:19:25.759 people who have these cute little posts like oh, on 394 00:19:25.799 --> 00:19:31.000 this day he asked me to be his girlfriend and right, 395 00:19:31.880 --> 00:19:34.400 And you'll see some men like the best decision, not 396 00:19:34.480 --> 00:19:38.519 ever me who say asking you to be right. 397 00:19:41.559 --> 00:19:44.559 And if y'all can't tell I'm sorty, I be sorty. 398 00:19:44.759 --> 00:19:48.079 I'm not gonna lie y'all. I follow black love feet. 399 00:19:48.359 --> 00:19:53.720 And sometimes sometimes they'd give me a little takes. I'd 400 00:19:53.720 --> 00:19:56.400 be a little sorty, like why not mean lot? It 401 00:19:56.480 --> 00:19:57.599