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<v Speaker 1>There is something pulling at you, calling out to you,

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<v Speaker 1>something you've been wanting to do for a while now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been in the back of your mind, or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you've even tried to suppress it a bunch of times,

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<v Speaker 1>like shove it down every time I tried to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. But it's at the point now where you

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<v Speaker 1>just cannot ignore it anymore. What used to be a

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<v Speaker 1>whisper is now an unmistakable, clear, very loud voice telling

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<v Speaker 1>you to do the thing. Good morning, and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>your message of the day. Please know that, regardless of

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<v Speaker 1>when it was uploaded, if you found this message or

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<v Speaker 1>it found you, then your spirit team probably has something

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<v Speaker 1>they've been trying to say and you've been ignoring them,

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<v Speaker 1>so they found another way. Remember that the cards always

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<v Speaker 1>open the conversation, but the real work happens when we

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<v Speaker 1>lean into our intuition and listen for our own confirmations.

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<v Speaker 1>Because Taro and Oracle itself is just a tool, and

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<v Speaker 1>each card, much like everything else in life, is subject

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<v Speaker 1>to interpretation. Let's get into it. So about this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, it's a really good thing. It's something

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<v Speaker 1>that feels genuinely true to you and very aligned with

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say, very aligned with where you've always

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<v Speaker 1>envisioned yourself being, or envisioned yourself doing, or envisioned yourself becoming.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the problem is you doubt yourself way too much,

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<v Speaker 1>way way too much, and there are living beliefs hiding

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<v Speaker 1>inside of you. Please do some journaling around that, because

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<v Speaker 1>the truth of the matter is you are more than

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<v Speaker 1>capable of doing this thing, whatever it is. You know

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<v Speaker 1>way more than you think you do on the topic,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have a lot of lived experience that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you've just not been given yourself the proper credit for.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm going to be completely honest, you've not been

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<v Speaker 1>giving yourself the proper credit for. You keep looking for

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<v Speaker 1>answers outside of you, and that's why you're not getting them.

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<v Speaker 1>You See, what you're getting instead, is you're getting a

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<v Speaker 1>mix of advice from people who have never been where

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to go, never done that you're trying to do,

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<v Speaker 1>never been the woman that you want to be, and

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<v Speaker 1>advice from people who are. They're speaking through their wounds, right,

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<v Speaker 1>people who see that you have everything it takes to

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<v Speaker 1>do the thing, whatever it is, but are also very

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<v Speaker 1>envious of that. Right, They're very envious of that. They

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<v Speaker 1>know it'll mean that you're going to end up leaving

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<v Speaker 1>them behind by default because they themselves aren't willing to

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<v Speaker 1>work to do what it takes to come with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and therefore they're projecting their own insecurities onto you. And

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<v Speaker 1>I really need you to see that. You really need

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<v Speaker 1>you to see that. So no shit. The advice that

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting feels so confusing, so confusing, to the point

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<v Speaker 1>that it's led to you standing completely still. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>moving forward, you're not moving backwards, you're not moving to

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<v Speaker 1>the sad, you're not moving to the front. The advice

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<v Speaker 1>is just so confusing, so all over the place that

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're just like, well, fuck it, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>going I'm just going to stay here and hope that

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<v Speaker 1>somebody will come along and tell me what I need

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<v Speaker 1>to do or get me where I need to get to.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not going to happen because the answers you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for are within you. So you need to start

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in very very intentionally, which means stop talking, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>stop talking to everyone else, and start talking then listening

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<v Speaker 1>active listening to yourself. A lot of people don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what active listening. It leumit to something. Active listening means

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<v Speaker 1>no distractions, It means leaning in, It means eye contact.

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<v Speaker 1>It means asking questions to get a deeper answer. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what here, let's do this. Have you ever been

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<v Speaker 1>on a date or even out with a friend at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant okay, and their phone is sitting on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>face up and near them. You're talking, but every couple

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<v Speaker 1>of seconds, their phone is lighting up, their screen is

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<v Speaker 1>lighting up. There's a notification, there's something, and they're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it right, they're paying attention to it. And then

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying, sorry, sorry, continue, I'm listening. No, they're not,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not. They know it, and you know it more

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<v Speaker 1>than that, you can feel it. They might be hearing

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<v Speaker 1>your voice and the words you're saying, but they aren't

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<v Speaker 1>listening right now, as opposed to being on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with someone and their phone isn't even on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>it's in their jacket pockets and their whatever. Right, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking and they are following your thoughts, they are

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<v Speaker 1>asking thoughtful questions in response to your thoughts about your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>That is active listening, and that is what you need

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<v Speaker 1>to be doing to and for yourself. So that said,

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<v Speaker 1>there is something calling out to you, something you've been

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to do for a while now. It's been in

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<v Speaker 1>the back of your mind, or maybe you've even been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to suppress it, but it is very much to

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<v Speaker 1>the point where you can't ignore it anymore. So stop

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<v Speaker 1>talking to other people about it, unless very big. Unless

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<v Speaker 1>unless it's someone who is already doing the thing you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do, the woman who is already the woman

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to become, the woman who has already

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<v Speaker 1>done the things that you want to do, and or

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<v Speaker 1>you want to learn. Right, somebody whis someone happy to

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<v Speaker 1>assist you bring the thing or the version of yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, into existence, then yes, please go sit

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<v Speaker 1>with her or him or whatever and soak up their wisdom. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>But other than that, get comfortable with sitting crisscross apple

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<v Speaker 1>sauce on the floor with a mirror in front of you,

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<v Speaker 1>a journal and a pen, talking to yourself, asking yourself questions,

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<v Speaker 1>listening and writing that shit down. You've got what it takes.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need to get out of your own way.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that this helped you connect some dots for

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<v Speaker 1>yourself today. By the way, today's message came from the

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<v Speaker 1>High Priestess card and oh, in case you're new Year,

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<v Speaker 1>my name is Cynthia B. I'm an accountability coach and

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<v Speaker 1>a mentor who teaches women the lost art of self mastery.

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<v Speaker 1>It just so happens that I'm also deeply in tune

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<v Speaker 1>with all things magical and mystical that are rooted connected

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<v Speaker 1>to spirituality. I mean, what kind of pisces? What I

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<v Speaker 1>be of it? And honor the range of my dualities?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what I mean? I don't offer private

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<v Speaker 1>readings in case that's what you think you need, because

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to one on one work with women,

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<v Speaker 1>I prefer to do the kind that involves unearthing the

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<v Speaker 1>roots and planting new seeds. So if you're interested in

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of work, then please, By all means audacity,

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<v Speaker 1>redefine dot com is where you can find me. Until tomorrow,

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<v Speaker 1>go make the day work for you. Much love,