WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:02.799 The JV Show on Wild ninety four nine. 2 00:00:02.919 --> 00:00:03.799 Happy Friday. 3 00:00:04.040 --> 00:00:09.679 Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, bushes Jay show. 4 00:00:09.720 --> 00:00:12.599 Here, I'm Selena and I'm just let's get things started. 5 00:00:12.599 --> 00:00:14.080 The first talk back of the day. 6 00:00:14.199 --> 00:00:16.399 Good morning, JAF show. I'm probably not going to have 7 00:00:16.480 --> 00:00:19.440 the first talk back of the day, but Happy Friday, 8 00:00:20.079 --> 00:00:24.719 chol Friday, choke gule Chef. But anyways, man, I regret 9 00:00:24.800 --> 00:00:29.600 picking up this, this graveyard shift. I got three more 10 00:00:29.640 --> 00:00:30.359 hours to go. 11 00:00:30.760 --> 00:00:31.399 Yay me. 12 00:00:33.560 --> 00:00:38.119 Been up since twelve? All right now, Happy Friday, Jeff, 13 00:00:38.159 --> 00:00:39.240 What are you gonna drink today? 14 00:00:39.600 --> 00:00:39.840 Haha? 15 00:00:40.600 --> 00:00:43.399 Kidding, goodbye, just kidding. 16 00:00:43.119 --> 00:00:45.079 But actually, don't manifest me. 17 00:00:45.799 --> 00:00:48.719 The chug wheel is coming up at eight twenty this morning. Yeah, 18 00:00:48.759 --> 00:00:51.600 and likely just will be chugging. She has a knack 19 00:00:51.679 --> 00:00:55.240 for choosing her own name and then spending something gross 20 00:00:55.240 --> 00:00:56.159 and having to chug it. 21 00:00:56.159 --> 00:00:59.600 It feels a little different today, We'll see, does it. 22 00:01:00.399 --> 00:01:01.359 I'm manifesting you. 23 00:01:01.439 --> 00:01:04.359 No people vibes out there work in the graveyard shift? 24 00:01:04.400 --> 00:01:06.640 Could you would you ladies be able to do that? 25 00:01:06.920 --> 00:01:07.319 No? 26 00:01:07.319 --> 00:01:09.400 No, it's not. 27 00:01:09.439 --> 00:01:10.599 That different than what we do now. 28 00:01:10.680 --> 00:01:11.319 I mean, just shift. 29 00:01:11.599 --> 00:01:13.519 I never thought I could do this either, look at 30 00:01:13.519 --> 00:01:13.840 me now. 31 00:01:13.959 --> 00:01:15.719 Yeah, but I like still being able to enjoy the 32 00:01:15.760 --> 00:01:18.760 day and just going to sleep early versus sleeping the 33 00:01:18.799 --> 00:01:19.359 whole day. 34 00:01:19.319 --> 00:01:20.280 Yeah, you gotta be like a bat. 35 00:01:20.640 --> 00:01:20.840 Yah. 36 00:01:21.840 --> 00:01:23.799 I don't like that or co cod you know, either one, 37 00:01:23.799 --> 00:01:26.599 but you get used to it. 38 00:01:27.959 --> 00:01:28.879 Oh my god. 39 00:01:28.879 --> 00:01:31.120 Oh by the way, crazy cash one thousand dollars on 40 00:01:31.200 --> 00:01:32.120 standby now. 41 00:01:32.359 --> 00:01:33.359 Oh my god. 42 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:36.359 Okay, Bruno Mars has a new song. Okay, have you 43 00:01:36.359 --> 00:01:39.480 heard about this? I saw him tease it earlier this week. 44 00:01:39.719 --> 00:01:41.319 He wants He said he wanted to put out like 45 00:01:41.319 --> 00:01:43.560 a strip club anthem with sexy red and I was like, 46 00:01:43.560 --> 00:01:45.400 oh dear, I was like, oh my god, is he 47 00:01:45.480 --> 00:01:48.760 being serious right now? Sweet little Bruno Mars, the one 48 00:01:48.760 --> 00:01:54.719 that sings a Lady Gaga and Rose and Grandma stands next. 49 00:01:54.439 --> 00:01:56.719 To you, that guy. 50 00:01:56.879 --> 00:02:01.680 Yeah, the song is called fat and what excuse me? 51 00:02:01.760 --> 00:02:03.319 I heard it for the first time this morning. They 52 00:02:03.519 --> 00:02:06.120 just dropped it f j W. Yes, it's really actually, 53 00:02:06.120 --> 00:02:08.759 really really like this song. But my sweet little innocent 54 00:02:08.800 --> 00:02:12.680 Bruno Mars, gosh does this he changed? 55 00:02:12.719 --> 00:02:13.439 What happened? 56 00:02:13.800 --> 00:02:13.960 Well? 57 00:02:13.960 --> 00:02:15.439 He has a lot of debt, right or was that 58 00:02:15.479 --> 00:02:17.560 a rumor? I think the gambling addiction. 59 00:02:17.719 --> 00:02:20.080 Yeah, used to have to pay that I think that 60 00:02:20.159 --> 00:02:20.719 was just a rumor. 61 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:21.919 I don't think that was true. 62 00:02:22.080 --> 00:02:24.639 Not so sweet. What's he talking about? I don't get it. 63 00:02:24.680 --> 00:02:25.000 Fat. 64 00:02:25.199 --> 00:02:29.919 I thought like like a burger, probably like juicy Patty 65 00:02:29.879 --> 00:02:32.919 yet one. That's what I was thinking. That's the only 66 00:02:32.919 --> 00:02:33.520 thing I can think of. 67 00:02:33.560 --> 00:02:34.680 Actually, I hope so. 68 00:02:34.879 --> 00:02:38.840 And then you have sexy Red just being sexy Red, So. 69 00:02:38.800 --> 00:02:42.800 That song won't be getting a lot of I. 70 00:02:42.759 --> 00:02:44.560 Can't imagine that it would. 71 00:02:45.680 --> 00:02:47.360 What's an what was any of the song? 72 00:02:47.400 --> 00:02:47.639 Again? 73 00:02:47.879 --> 00:02:49.360 Just is like I'm gonna listen to that in my 74 00:02:49.400 --> 00:02:52.639 share time j W F j W. 75 00:02:52.560 --> 00:03:01.240 Okay, Well, Fat Juicy, Yeah, thank you, you're sick, read 76 00:03:01.439 --> 00:03:02.039 You're sick. 77 00:03:02.639 --> 00:03:05.520 The JV show on Wild ninety four nine. 78 00:03:05.719 --> 00:03:07.319 Just going back to Fat Juicy and we just really 79 00:03:07.400 --> 00:03:09.800 quick in case you missed it, Bruno Mars has a 80 00:03:09.800 --> 00:03:12.000 new song with sexy Red. The song is actually really 81 00:03:12.000 --> 00:03:13.960 good just and I really like it. But sexy Red, 82 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.360 you know, she's rapping about the things that sexy Red 83 00:03:16.439 --> 00:03:19.439 usually does. We were just watching some of the video Rose, 84 00:03:20.159 --> 00:03:22.159 who has that song with Bruno Mars right there. She 85 00:03:22.240 --> 00:03:25.879 makes a cameo in the video as well as Lady Gaga. 86 00:03:26.039 --> 00:03:27.159 Lady Gaga's is. 87 00:03:27.840 --> 00:03:30.479 Which is something that only Bruno Mars can pull off. 88 00:03:30.520 --> 00:03:31.400 So I do think that is. 89 00:03:31.400 --> 00:03:32.879 Really cool because she drop a versa. 90 00:03:32.919 --> 00:03:34.000 There, she's not on this song. 91 00:03:34.120 --> 00:03:35.919 She's just in the video, you know, dancing, And I 92 00:03:35.919 --> 00:03:38.319 can't help but wonder, like, what did Lady Gott think 93 00:03:38.360 --> 00:03:40.639 about Sexy Red in person and. 94 00:03:40.639 --> 00:03:41.599 The song in general? 95 00:03:42.400 --> 00:03:46.199 I just I just don't see gott vibe in is something. Well, 96 00:03:46.240 --> 00:03:48.800 I guess she would, she's you know, yeah, I guess 97 00:03:48.800 --> 00:03:51.240 she would, but it's not something I thought would be 98 00:03:51.280 --> 00:03:51.719 like her. 99 00:03:51.599 --> 00:03:52.360 Taste in music. 100 00:03:52.520 --> 00:03:54.560 When do you listen to a song like that? You 101 00:03:54.599 --> 00:03:58.400 guys are both like her. I like this song. I 102 00:03:58.400 --> 00:04:01.319 if anybody else was around, I'd too uncomfortable listening to 103 00:04:01.360 --> 00:04:03.120 that song with pretty much anybody. 104 00:04:03.280 --> 00:04:05.280 Yeah, I really, I would listen at the gym, you know, 105 00:04:06.319 --> 00:04:08.639 get some motivation, yeah, anyone. 106 00:04:08.800 --> 00:04:11.039 The song is all about. I can't even say what. 107 00:04:11.560 --> 00:04:14.039 There's a lot and you're standing in the mirror, the 108 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:16.399 mirror at the gym, like, you know, well, let me 109 00:04:16.399 --> 00:04:19.720 whip them out and start slapping people with them, because 110 00:04:19.720 --> 00:04:21.519 that's Sexy reds versus A lot about that? 111 00:04:22.360 --> 00:04:25.399 No, I mean, does anyone but my kids, My sister 112 00:04:25.600 --> 00:04:27.199 is my man, myself in your car. 113 00:04:27.399 --> 00:04:29.879 Yeah, so even around your man, you'd feel comfortable if 114 00:04:29.920 --> 00:04:31.800 that something came on and my wife and I were 115 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:34.759 in the car, I changed the station. Really, yeah, what 116 00:04:34.800 --> 00:04:35.879 do I want to sit like? 117 00:04:36.639 --> 00:04:39.160 My boyfriend would be like, what are you listening to? 118 00:04:41.240 --> 00:04:42.839 I like it? I think I think my man would 119 00:04:42.879 --> 00:04:44.759 like it. You know what, I'm gonna send him the song. 120 00:04:46.160 --> 00:04:49.000 You know it is, but I just thought, you know, 121 00:04:49.040 --> 00:04:50.519 I'm just wondering, when do you listen? 122 00:04:50.959 --> 00:04:52.279 Can you want to check it out? It's called Fat 123 00:04:52.360 --> 00:04:55.639 Juicy and what probably should be over eighteen? Hey Graham, 124 00:04:55.920 --> 00:04:57.879 the floor is yours? Anything you want to talk about? 125 00:04:58.160 --> 00:05:00.240 All right? If you guys are a guitar player and 126 00:05:00.279 --> 00:05:02.240 you have thought to yourself, you know what, this song 127 00:05:02.360 --> 00:05:05.720 needs more farts, you're in luck because the makers of 128 00:05:05.759 --> 00:05:09.040 the Fart Pedal are back with the Fart Pedal two, 129 00:05:09.560 --> 00:05:12.120 and they say this, Oh, I think we talked about 130 00:05:12.120 --> 00:05:14.040 the Fart Pedal one when I first came out. Remember this, 131 00:05:14.240 --> 00:05:15.680 I think it came out in twenty twenty one. When 132 00:05:15.680 --> 00:05:17.720 they got a new version. They say, this one one 133 00:05:17.720 --> 00:05:20.199 of a kind. Stompbox is packed with all kinds of 134 00:05:20.199 --> 00:05:24.040 new features and the very latest in musical fart technology 135 00:05:24.279 --> 00:05:26.839 a fart Pedal one users. They heard your feedback, and 136 00:05:26.879 --> 00:05:30.519 this version is gonna have real time pitch tracking that's 137 00:05:30.519 --> 00:05:32.680 going to allow you to rip your favorite solos using 138 00:05:32.839 --> 00:05:34.560 ear rattling butt blasters. 139 00:05:34.720 --> 00:05:36.240 It says, Oh my god. 140 00:05:36.360 --> 00:05:37.000 Don't worry though. 141 00:05:37.040 --> 00:05:39.439 It will still have the wet dry switch that everybody 142 00:05:39.480 --> 00:05:42.199 loved from the first version, so you can quote choose 143 00:05:42.279 --> 00:05:45.720 between dry bompers and juicy spluts with ease. 144 00:05:45.839 --> 00:05:46.879 Yeah, that way you. 145 00:05:46.839 --> 00:05:48.160 Can toggle between the two. 146 00:05:48.319 --> 00:05:50.800 I thought we should give it a listen and see 147 00:05:51.120 --> 00:05:52.199 what it sounds like. 148 00:05:52.560 --> 00:05:53.480 He's gonna open. 149 00:05:53.560 --> 00:05:55.920 What you're gonna hear in this guitar solo is just 150 00:05:56.120 --> 00:06:00.120 obviously standard guitar playing electric guitar planes. First, Yes, is 151 00:06:00.160 --> 00:06:01.120 this something people can buy. 152 00:06:01.160 --> 00:06:02.639 It's like an add on for their guitar. 153 00:06:03.120 --> 00:06:03.920 It's guitar pedal. 154 00:06:03.920 --> 00:06:05.720 It's on the ground and it's and you use your 155 00:06:05.720 --> 00:06:06.720 foot foot activated. 156 00:06:06.800 --> 00:06:08.000 There's a high demand for it. 157 00:06:08.759 --> 00:06:10.920 I don't know how many Fart pedal ones they sold, 158 00:06:10.959 --> 00:06:13.839 but enough that they came out with another version, so 159 00:06:13.879 --> 00:06:16.199 people clearly people are buying it. And this is the 160 00:06:16.279 --> 00:06:19.360 upgraded version, So you're gonna hear guitar solo start, and 161 00:06:19.399 --> 00:06:21.920 then he's going to begin using the fart pedal and 162 00:06:22.040 --> 00:06:23.360 working the farts in. 163 00:06:23.600 --> 00:06:28.279 Okay, do you guys recognize this song? 164 00:06:29.399 --> 00:06:30.319 Duh? 165 00:06:30.399 --> 00:06:31.920 What is it? 166 00:06:32.399 --> 00:06:33.240 Stairway to have it? 167 00:06:33.360 --> 00:06:37.279 Oh my god, that's shocked. You know that? 168 00:06:38.079 --> 00:06:42.720 Let me it's quick, just a bar answer. 169 00:06:42.920 --> 00:06:43.920 I have heard that song before. 170 00:06:44.199 --> 00:06:44.439 Okay. 171 00:06:44.519 --> 00:06:46.240 I would have never guessed the name, though. 172 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:47.920 I would have if you I'm a gambler. 173 00:06:47.959 --> 00:06:50.240 If I had to bet that you guys knew that song, 174 00:06:50.360 --> 00:06:53.560 I would have bet the absolute mind the house that 175 00:06:53.600 --> 00:06:55.319 I just felt that you guys had no idea what 176 00:06:55.360 --> 00:06:56.199 that was, even though it's. 177 00:06:56.079 --> 00:06:58.199 One of the most famous, the most famous songs of 178 00:06:58.240 --> 00:06:58.639 all time. 179 00:07:00.040 --> 00:07:05.480 All Right, it's the. 180 00:07:05.399 --> 00:07:10.639 Fart pedal in there. 181 00:07:19.120 --> 00:07:21.360 This is like really bad. I don't like it. 182 00:07:22.160 --> 00:07:23.319 You guys don't like the part pedal. 183 00:07:27.560 --> 00:07:30.959 I'm not a fan. It sounds like Bessy was too 184 00:07:31.000 --> 00:07:31.560 much going on. 185 00:07:31.800 --> 00:07:32.920 It's a lot of different farts. 186 00:07:32.920 --> 00:07:33.600 I don't like it. 187 00:07:33.720 --> 00:07:36.600 Each note is a different fart. Basically, it sounds. 188 00:07:36.319 --> 00:07:39.279 Like he's trying to tune the guitar well to. 189 00:07:39.319 --> 00:07:41.759 The turn of farts. He's tuning his guitar to the 190 00:07:41.759 --> 00:07:45.759 tune of farts. Fart Pedal two is coming out soon. 191 00:07:45.879 --> 00:07:47.519 It doesn't look like it's cheap. I think I saw 192 00:07:47.519 --> 00:07:49.319 one list person for one hundred and eighty bucks or something, 193 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:53.560 so that I'm sorry, don't people people that love guitar 194 00:07:53.680 --> 00:07:56.000 playing guitar and people that love farts. That's who's buying 195 00:07:56.079 --> 00:07:58.560 Night Fart Pedal two out of hitting stores near you. 196 00:07:58.600 --> 00:08:01.000 Hopefully guitars set are near you. Guitar Center. Still thing 197 00:08:01.120 --> 00:08:01.360 it is? 198 00:08:01.439 --> 00:08:01.720 Yeah? 199 00:08:01.879 --> 00:08:02.160 Is it? 200 00:08:02.160 --> 00:08:02.560 It is? 201 00:08:02.680 --> 00:08:02.879 Yeah? 202 00:08:03.040 --> 00:08:07.319 Interesting? The JV Show on Wild ninety Happy Friday. 203 00:08:09.600 --> 00:08:10.920 Thanks you for hanging out with us. 204 00:08:11.040 --> 00:08:13.199 All right, you guys, So here is the thing that 205 00:08:13.279 --> 00:08:16.240 apparently us ladies have to sacrifice if we want to 206 00:08:16.279 --> 00:08:19.720 be in a healthy relationship. According to this new study, 207 00:08:19.839 --> 00:08:22.879 if you get into a healthy relationship, you are at 208 00:08:23.000 --> 00:08:28.279 risk of losing your friends. So this study revealed, you know, 209 00:08:28.319 --> 00:08:31.639 women typically have around five close friends, but they tend 210 00:08:31.680 --> 00:08:38.120 to lose in Wow, that you're not really in this study, 211 00:08:38.159 --> 00:08:38.519 I guess. 212 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:40.679 So they tend to have five. 213 00:08:40.519 --> 00:08:43.639 Close friends but tend to lose at least two when 214 00:08:43.639 --> 00:08:44.799 starting a new Okay. 215 00:08:44.519 --> 00:08:46.720 Well let's let's ask you then, Jess. Would you say 216 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:49.480 five is about the magic number. 217 00:08:49.519 --> 00:08:50.799 Five close friends? 218 00:08:51.039 --> 00:08:51.279 Yeah? 219 00:08:51.320 --> 00:08:52.720 I'd say around. 220 00:08:52.480 --> 00:08:54.799 There and did you lose any when you got into 221 00:08:54.879 --> 00:08:55.799 your relationship. 222 00:08:56.000 --> 00:08:59.559 The thing is I didn't fun jealous bees, and no I. 223 00:08:59.480 --> 00:09:00.759 Didn't lose them. 224 00:09:01.039 --> 00:09:04.720 But I will say that I did start hanging out 225 00:09:04.720 --> 00:09:07.600 with my friends obviously a little less. 226 00:09:07.639 --> 00:09:10.679 Well that's everybody, right, that's everybody that gets in a relationship. 227 00:09:10.759 --> 00:09:12.480 You pularize them over. 228 00:09:13.000 --> 00:09:14.840 You're not hanging out. I'm not going out hanging out 229 00:09:14.840 --> 00:09:17.399 with the boys watching the game every night, now, you know. 230 00:09:17.480 --> 00:09:20.399 But Graham, do you think that this does happened with 231 00:09:20.519 --> 00:09:23.519 men as well? Or is it just like with women 232 00:09:23.639 --> 00:09:25.799 that we tend to kind of feel bad that our 233 00:09:25.840 --> 00:09:28.120 friends are choosing a man over us, so then we 234 00:09:28.879 --> 00:09:29.519 drift apart. 235 00:09:29.960 --> 00:09:34.600 I've never felt like bad or jealous or upset if well, 236 00:09:34.639 --> 00:09:36.440 I guess that's because I never really had many friends 237 00:09:36.440 --> 00:09:36.840 to begin with. 238 00:09:38.840 --> 00:09:41.080 He did have some. I think I would. 239 00:09:41.159 --> 00:09:43.120 I would understand that if I was in that position, 240 00:09:43.120 --> 00:09:44.799 I would probably do the same thing. This is somebody 241 00:09:44.799 --> 00:09:47.320 who I'm working on building a future with. Sorry, but 242 00:09:47.440 --> 00:09:51.240 like best friend, we're not gonna get married, yeah, because 243 00:09:51.279 --> 00:09:52.840 I just don't see. 244 00:09:52.600 --> 00:09:54.559 You in that way. 245 00:09:54.720 --> 00:09:57.480 But like, that's that's the ultimate goal, right, to find 246 00:09:57.480 --> 00:09:59.039 someone to settle down with and you hope you have 247 00:09:59.080 --> 00:10:01.559 your friends support. I never understood those friends that are like, 248 00:10:01.559 --> 00:10:04.000 oh but you didn't text me back, you didn't call me, 249 00:10:04.039 --> 00:10:07.039 and it's like whoa, whoa, whoa, You're not my man, right. 250 00:10:06.879 --> 00:10:10.759 But you can understand their feelings if like you guys 251 00:10:10.799 --> 00:10:13.879 did everything together. You were the first person, you know, 252 00:10:14.000 --> 00:10:15.720 like in the mornings, you guys went and got coffee, 253 00:10:15.720 --> 00:10:17.960 in the afternoons, you hung out after work and whatever, 254 00:10:18.399 --> 00:10:21.679 and suddenly that changes. You can understand how one person 255 00:10:21.919 --> 00:10:25.039 feels hurt. It's understandable, like oh my, I've now lost 256 00:10:25.080 --> 00:10:27.440 my best friend and they do stuff with somebody else. 257 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:31.799 You shouldn't. That shouldn't be grounds to end the friendship. 258 00:10:31.840 --> 00:10:33.799 Though you don't lose that person entirely as a friend. 259 00:10:33.840 --> 00:10:36.519 They should also understand that, like that's what happens when 260 00:10:36.559 --> 00:10:39.039 you get into relationship, and had the situation been reversed, 261 00:10:39.080 --> 00:10:40.639 you'd be doing the same thing to them. 262 00:10:40.600 --> 00:10:40.799 You know. 263 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:43.799 Yeah, because I had a friend once that would always 264 00:10:43.960 --> 00:10:47.919 like we'd make plans together, but then they'd cancel on me, 265 00:10:48.039 --> 00:10:50.799 like last minute because they were either gonna hang out 266 00:10:50.840 --> 00:10:53.559 with their partner or they were or their partner. 267 00:10:53.279 --> 00:10:56.720 Didn't want them to go, and it was. 268 00:10:56.720 --> 00:10:58.320 Like, Okay, well then I could have asked somebody else, 269 00:10:58.320 --> 00:10:59.840 why do you agree to go in the first place. 270 00:11:00.120 --> 00:11:02.320 It just it kind of messed with my plans. So 271 00:11:02.360 --> 00:11:04.240 then it would make me sad that dang, at the 272 00:11:04.279 --> 00:11:06.240 end of the day, you chose your partner, which I get. 273 00:11:06.360 --> 00:11:10.000 But also I'm right here like, hello, did. 274 00:11:09.879 --> 00:11:14.000 We need a sad music for that? 275 00:11:11.000 --> 00:11:11.120 All? 276 00:11:14.000 --> 00:11:16.919 That's true cause she replace people with cats. 277 00:11:17.039 --> 00:11:20.039 Yeah, but that relationship didn't work out anyway, so that's 278 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:21.279 back to being my friend. 279 00:11:21.879 --> 00:11:24.200 And then after that was she like back hanging out 280 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:24.399 with you. 281 00:11:24.960 --> 00:11:27.399 And and the thing is I understood because I knew 282 00:11:27.440 --> 00:11:31.759 that the relationship wasn't that they were struggling in the relationship, 283 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:33.960 so I was I didn't want to, you know, cause 284 00:11:34.000 --> 00:11:36.440 any more problems. So I would always be like, Okay, 285 00:11:36.480 --> 00:11:39.000 you know, that's fine. Hopefully I can see you soon. 286 00:11:39.039 --> 00:11:39.720 Hopefully I can. 287 00:11:39.639 --> 00:11:40.159 See you soon. 288 00:11:40.600 --> 00:11:43.159 And I was always there for the relationship, obviously, like 289 00:11:43.159 --> 00:11:43.759 for I wanted. 290 00:11:43.799 --> 00:11:44.639 I was rooting for them. 291 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:46.840 But in the end when it didn't work out, obviously, 292 00:11:46.879 --> 00:11:49.279 it's not like I held any resentment. 293 00:11:49.679 --> 00:11:50.000 Graham. 294 00:11:50.000 --> 00:11:52.879 From a guy's perspective, do you guys go through the 295 00:11:52.879 --> 00:11:55.360 same thing everything that just just laid out. Do you 296 00:11:55.399 --> 00:11:58.399 go through the same roller coaster of emotions, Like when 297 00:11:58.440 --> 00:11:59.200 a friend's. 298 00:11:58.919 --> 00:12:01.159 Like, oh, I'm not gonna make it. This girl wants 299 00:12:01.159 --> 00:12:02.399 me to go over to her house. Aren't you just 300 00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:05.840 like yeah? Are you not like, oh my god, my heart, 301 00:12:05.960 --> 00:12:07.799 my feelings. Oh no, I'm by myself. 302 00:12:08.320 --> 00:12:11.000 I think we get over it a bit, quite a 303 00:12:11.039 --> 00:12:12.519 bit quicker. 304 00:12:12.919 --> 00:12:14.879 I don't think a lot of guys being sad about 305 00:12:14.919 --> 00:12:17.000 that type of stuff the same way that we would. 306 00:12:17.080 --> 00:12:19.600 I feel like there's more of an understanding there. But 307 00:12:19.639 --> 00:12:24.759 maybe we're less code dependent on our friends. Our relationship 308 00:12:24.799 --> 00:12:28.159 with our close friends is slightly a little different. Maybe 309 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:30.559 not that it's not as close, but maybe, yeah, you 310 00:12:30.559 --> 00:12:32.559 guys build a little bit more of a code dependency. 311 00:12:32.759 --> 00:12:33.200 I don't know. 312 00:12:33.480 --> 00:12:37.279 I think part of it for ladies is your friend 313 00:12:38.000 --> 00:12:39.919 that you spend all this time with, now they've ditched 314 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:42.720 you because they've got a man, right, and in your mind, 315 00:12:42.759 --> 00:12:45.279 you're like, I've seen this movie before. They're gonna spend 316 00:12:45.279 --> 00:12:46.639 all this time with this guy and then they're gonna 317 00:12:46.639 --> 00:12:48.360 break up, and then they're gonna come back to me 318 00:12:48.399 --> 00:12:50.720 and expect that we just I'm here I'm waiting and 319 00:12:50.759 --> 00:12:53.159 now I now we hang out all the time again, 320 00:12:53.399 --> 00:12:55.320 and I'm supposed to be just sitting here waiting for 321 00:12:55.399 --> 00:12:57.799 you to come back. And you know, inside your head, 322 00:12:57.799 --> 00:13:01.039 like Jess said, this relationship ain't going to distance. She'll 323 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:03.679 be back. So the friend. You can see how the 324 00:13:03.720 --> 00:13:06.639 friend does feel a little scorned there, because it's like, okay, 325 00:13:06.679 --> 00:13:08.360 so I'm just supposed to sit here and wait and 326 00:13:08.399 --> 00:13:11.600 then and you just expect to pick up right where 327 00:13:11.600 --> 00:13:12.159 we left off. 328 00:13:12.240 --> 00:13:14.080 But isn't that what a good friendship should do. 329 00:13:14.919 --> 00:13:17.720 Yeah, it is, but I just I guess I understand 330 00:13:17.759 --> 00:13:20.679 their feelings, but I still don't think this is grounds 331 00:13:20.720 --> 00:13:23.399 to end any friendship when you say this, Oh no, no, 332 00:13:23.519 --> 00:13:25.879 people are losing two to three friends or whatever the 333 00:13:25.960 --> 00:13:28.600 number is. I don't if any of my buddies that 334 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:30.919 we didn't lose each other as friends. We just don't 335 00:13:30.919 --> 00:13:33.320 spend as much time together. But that's like normal, like 336 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:34.399 that's life, that's grown up. 337 00:13:34.480 --> 00:13:35.679 Yeah, I do agree with that. 338 00:13:36.960 --> 00:13:39.279 I do have a friend who actually did end up 339 00:13:39.320 --> 00:13:41.960 losing friends over so I don't know if this has 340 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:45.080 happened to you, Graham, but where you've lost friends because 341 00:13:45.120 --> 00:13:47.879 their girlfriends don't want you to be hanging out with them. 342 00:13:48.200 --> 00:13:50.399 Oh see, that's never happened to me, but I can 343 00:13:50.480 --> 00:13:52.440 see that scenario playing out as well. 344 00:13:53.799 --> 00:13:55.600 I feel like I wouldn't want my man hanging out 345 00:13:55.600 --> 00:13:57.639 with you that much. Graham, Well, hanging out with during 346 00:13:57.679 --> 00:13:58.399 your single days? 347 00:13:58.519 --> 00:14:00.559 No, not all awesome. 348 00:14:01.039 --> 00:14:03.600 Yeah, yeah you are like you were you still are, 349 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:05.519 But I'd be like, he just jokes around too much. 350 00:14:05.679 --> 00:14:07.720 Just he just loves to talk about farts and he's 351 00:14:07.759 --> 00:14:09.639 just gonna get a right, just breaking people. 352 00:14:09.759 --> 00:14:13.159 Yeah, the morning we got kids. You can't be hanging 353 00:14:13.200 --> 00:14:13.960 out with that Graham. 354 00:14:14.279 --> 00:14:18.320 Yeah, for a different life stage, that's that's fair. 355 00:14:18.759 --> 00:14:19.960 Hey, any thoughts that you have. 356 00:14:20.120 --> 00:14:22.399 That talk back mic is always open, don't be afraid 357 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:22.960 to use it. 358 00:14:22.960 --> 00:14:23.679 It's on the free. 359 00:14:23.759 --> 00:14:25.639 Then you and improved. I should say I heard radio 360 00:14:25.919 --> 00:14:29.080 while you're there leaving a talk back Add Wild to 361 00:14:29.279 --> 00:14:29.840 your preset. 362 00:14:30.000 --> 00:14:32.679 Yes, yeah, that's a requirement. You must do that. 363 00:14:32.720 --> 00:14:37.200 You must add the JV Show podcast as presett the 364 00:14:37.320 --> 00:14:40.480 JV Show on Wild ninety four nine on a Friday, 365 00:14:40.519 --> 00:14:43.080 where the JV Show I'm Selena and I'm Jess. You 366 00:14:43.080 --> 00:14:45.039 were just saying, how when women, according to a study, 367 00:14:45.039 --> 00:14:48.600 when women get into a healthy relationship relationship, they lose 368 00:14:48.759 --> 00:14:49.559 two out of. 369 00:14:49.519 --> 00:14:50.759 Their five close friends. 370 00:14:50.919 --> 00:14:55.000 Wow, good morning JV's show, Happy Friday. I just want 371 00:14:55.039 --> 00:14:58.080 to give a little comment on this relationship and you 372 00:14:58.120 --> 00:15:01.639 know thing, and yeah, once you find your person, you 373 00:15:01.679 --> 00:15:03.200 want to hang out with them all the time. But 374 00:15:03.559 --> 00:15:07.120 you know, we really should always make time for our 375 00:15:07.159 --> 00:15:10.039 friends because when our spouse is no longer there, it 376 00:15:10.080 --> 00:15:13.399 makes it really hard to try to go back to 377 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:17.279 those friends because you feel like you've abandoned them. And 378 00:15:17.840 --> 00:15:20.039 I don't know that your friends still always be there. 379 00:15:20.440 --> 00:15:22.639 That's true, That's something something to think about. 380 00:15:22.679 --> 00:15:24.200 That's why I don't like the way the study says, 381 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.000 like you lose the friends. 382 00:15:26.039 --> 00:15:26.360 I don't. 383 00:15:26.679 --> 00:15:30.440 I don't think any relationship is worth losing friends. Maybe, 384 00:15:30.480 --> 00:15:33.720 like Graham you were saying, I know it, but it shouldn't. 385 00:15:34.320 --> 00:15:37.000 I do think a good friend would understand why you 386 00:15:37.039 --> 00:15:39.080 don't hang out as often or you don't talk as often, 387 00:15:39.120 --> 00:15:40.159 and would still be there. 388 00:15:40.240 --> 00:15:41.320 Maybe I don't know. 389 00:15:41.360 --> 00:15:43.279 I just think a healthy relationship would also allow you 390 00:15:43.320 --> 00:15:44.679 to see those friends from. 391 00:15:44.519 --> 00:15:45.039 Time to time. 392 00:15:45.279 --> 00:15:47.559 But sometimes I think to her point, sometimes you don't 393 00:15:47.559 --> 00:15:49.840 because you just want to spend every second. We've all 394 00:15:49.879 --> 00:15:51.360 been there when you fall in love and you want 395 00:15:51.399 --> 00:15:54.080 to spend every single second you can with that person. 396 00:15:54.159 --> 00:15:55.279 You just want to be next to them, You want 397 00:15:55.320 --> 00:15:58.279 to be near them anything, and you almost have blinders 398 00:15:58.320 --> 00:16:00.279 on and hear your friends that have been with you 399 00:16:00.360 --> 00:16:04.399 this entire time, and you just totally deprioritize your relationship 400 00:16:04.399 --> 00:16:06.600 with them. So that's a good reminder right there. You 401 00:16:06.960 --> 00:16:09.720