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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm back.

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<v Speaker 2>With something for you to think about. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>question for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to allow yourself to have a breakthrough

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<v Speaker 1>or a breakdown? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know that punched somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you going to allow yourself to have a breakthrough.

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<v Speaker 2>Or a breakdown? Oh? Which is it?

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<v Speaker 1>People in this world always have a choice. Every single

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<v Speaker 1>day we get up, every single day, we breathe.

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<v Speaker 2>Every single day, our eyes open. We have a.

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<v Speaker 1>Choice to become better. Every last one of us. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had a hiccup, every last one of us. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a choice to become better. Unfortunately, most people don't

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<v Speaker 1>take it. People continue in life the same way, not

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<v Speaker 1>trying at all at.

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<v Speaker 2>All at all to become better, not.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to work through their own issues to become better.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what they do?

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<v Speaker 1>Instead, they compile the issues of other people on the

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<v Speaker 1>issues that.

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<v Speaker 2>They already have in their own lives.

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<v Speaker 1>They compile other people issues on their own own issues.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of time that's when people have over

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<v Speaker 1>loads of stress. And I've told you, if you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>listened to that episode, go and find it. Mental stress

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<v Speaker 1>is what leads to or can lead to mental illness

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<v Speaker 1>all the many, many people in this world who say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have this mental illness, I have this mental illness,

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<v Speaker 1>They was.

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<v Speaker 2>Not born that way. They were not born that way.

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<v Speaker 1>They developed those issues because of the lifestyles that they lived,

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<v Speaker 1>or because.

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<v Speaker 2>Of what they endure and held on too.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they have PTSD, schizophrenic, bipolar, multi personalities, disassociattive, this

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<v Speaker 1>associative disorder, all kinds of things, anxiety, depression, suicidal, homicidal,

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<v Speaker 1>all that comes from bad experiences, all of it, stress, overload,

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<v Speaker 1>and every bit of it is related to the mindset

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<v Speaker 1>that a person has, all of it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've told you many.

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<v Speaker 1>Times that no matter what we go through, no matter

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<v Speaker 1>how tragic, no matter how tragic, how devastating, how traumatizing, is.

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<v Speaker 2>Always something you can learn.

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<v Speaker 1>Always, if you can see past that hurt and pain,

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<v Speaker 1>that suffering, it is something you can learn that will

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<v Speaker 1>make you stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>But most people don't learn. They do not because.

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<v Speaker 1>They get caught up in the feelings and the emotions

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<v Speaker 1>and the thoughts of the hurt, of the pain, of

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<v Speaker 1>the suffering, of the struggling. They get caught up in

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<v Speaker 1>all of that, which makes them very negative.

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<v Speaker 2>And many people turn to darkness, make them even worse.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes them worse, and that's why a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people never get a breakthrough. It seems like they never experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Deliverance because they're too stuck in the negativity, and instead

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<v Speaker 1>of getting a breakthrough, they break down. I know many

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<v Speaker 1>people who have lost children and cannot function, They have

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<v Speaker 1>lost their parents, cannot function. You can talk to them

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<v Speaker 1>until you pass out. They will not hear you because

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<v Speaker 1>they're so.

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<v Speaker 2>Encapsulated in that hurt and that pain, in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Loss that they have. Death ears, death ears. So instead

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<v Speaker 1>of getting a breakthrough, they broke down. People do it

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<v Speaker 1>all the time in relationships. They're in relationships with individuals

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<v Speaker 1>who are no good for them, individuals.

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<v Speaker 2>Who treat them like pooh pooh under your shoe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they're treated terribly, but they still want that person,

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<v Speaker 1>and that person can walk away.

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<v Speaker 2>From them, you know, through.

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<v Speaker 1>Divorce, just walk away, separation or whatever, and they lose

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<v Speaker 1>it mentally.

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<v Speaker 2>When they should have looked at.

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<v Speaker 1>Themselves and say I deserve better than this, I deserve

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<v Speaker 1>better than this.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not what they do. Instead, they turn everything

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<v Speaker 2>inward on self. What I could have done better? It

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<v Speaker 2>was my fault.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not good enough to the point they want to

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<v Speaker 1>commit suicide over some joker, which could be a male

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<v Speaker 1>or female that was no good for them in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place. They want to kill themselves over somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>don't want them. Instead of having a breakthrough, they chose

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<v Speaker 1>a breakdown. It's like these a lot of these people

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<v Speaker 1>who get on the internet and do all of this

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<v Speaker 1>research to do nefarious things. They could very well gotten

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<v Speaker 1>on the internet and did something positive, but they chose

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<v Speaker 1>the other way instead of becoming better people who recognize

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<v Speaker 1>negative thoughts, instead of being that type of individual to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to recognize that they're having a negative thought,

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<v Speaker 1>they empower those thoughts. They give total power to those thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>And as you give power to thoughts, those thoughts rise

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<v Speaker 1>and rise and they magnify, they become stronger. When you

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<v Speaker 1>could have had a breakthrough to recognize, hey, this thought

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<v Speaker 1>is not right. I shouldn't be thinking of harming someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't be thinking of harming myself.

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<v Speaker 2>I know this is not right.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead of doing that, instead of getting that breakthrough, they

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<v Speaker 1>chose to break down and subcum to that negativity and

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<v Speaker 1>commit murder or harm themselves or harm someone because they

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<v Speaker 1>chose break down instead of.

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<v Speaker 2>A breakthrough.

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<v Speaker 1>You have.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm just throwing in some scenarios. I didn't write

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<v Speaker 2>anything down. I'm just thinking of stuff off of my head.

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<v Speaker 1>You have bosses, supervisors on the jobs, and I can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this to lie. I've seen it all that

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<v Speaker 1>instead of being the best supervisor that they can be,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of being someone who's trustworthy, instead of getting that

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<v Speaker 1>breakthrough being that person who is standing.

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<v Speaker 2>Strong on doing the right thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Standing strong on being the best supervisor or the best

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<v Speaker 1>boss possible, they choose breakdown.

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<v Speaker 2>They have.

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<v Speaker 1>Nefarious ways, they have inappropriate relationship with employees, They be little,

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<v Speaker 1>they cause harassment, they sexually assault, they sexually harass. See

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<v Speaker 1>when I say breakthrough or breakdown, it could be anything.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be dealing with your Christian life.

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<v Speaker 2>See, if you don't have roots, you already on your

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<v Speaker 2>way to break down.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't have roots serving God, you already on

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<v Speaker 1>your way to break down. When you could very well

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<v Speaker 1>choose breakthrough, getting off of that milk and getting the meat,

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<v Speaker 1>getting the substance, getting that daily prayer, life, walking and

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<v Speaker 1>talking with Jesus every day, reading your word. Without all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, you're gonna get breakdown. You're gonna be easily distracted,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be easily swathed, You're gonna be easily manipulated, deceived, brainwash, tricked,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're heading towards breakdown and that total disconnect from God.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so many things that's going on in people's lives

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<v Speaker 1>where they choose wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Just bottom line, people are choosing wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You're choosing to worship Man, You're choosing to worship things.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you worship Man.

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<v Speaker 1>They're gonna let you down, They're gonna use you, they're gonna.

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<v Speaker 2>Take you for granted. I mean, it's just what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But people don't understand it because they're looking for something else.

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<v Speaker 1>They're looking for, you know, they want to belong, so

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<v Speaker 1>they'll go along with anything to belong. They'll go along

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<v Speaker 1>with anything for love. You get with individuals.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are horrible and they just bring you down.

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<v Speaker 1>You get with individuals who are horrible to people, who

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<v Speaker 1>treat people bad.

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<v Speaker 2>And if they treat people bad, how you think they're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna treat you.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're on all kind of anxiety medication, You're on

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of depression medication. You're on medication because you're suicidal,

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<v Speaker 1>all because you choose.

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<v Speaker 2>The wrong thing for you or the wrong person for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Individuals, instead of choosing a breakthrough in their lives, becoming better,

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<v Speaker 1>not allowing their bad experiences to dictate the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>their lives. Instead of choosing a breakthrough to become better,

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<v Speaker 1>to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>From everything they went through to know what to do

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<v Speaker 2>and what not to do, they chose breakdown.

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<v Speaker 1>They turn to drugs, They turn to alcohol, They turn

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<v Speaker 1>to all types of crime, They turn to all negativity.

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<v Speaker 1>They turn to worshiping the devil when they could have

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<v Speaker 1>easily turned to a breakthrough. People fail themselves every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>When you choose to remain the same, you fail yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>When you choose to not grow and mature, you fail yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>It's personal choice, it's a personal decision. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want better in your life, guess what, you won't have it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody is just not going to just throw something at you.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to want to be a better person. People

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<v Speaker 1>can't change you. They can make you feel good for

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<v Speaker 1>a moment. They can give you insight, they can educate you,

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<v Speaker 1>motivate you, but once you over those feelings and emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>You're right back to you. That same person.

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<v Speaker 1>Who don't love his or herself who's unhappy because you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't choose a breakthrough. I know people say, Cherry, you

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<v Speaker 1>talk like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's as easy or as hard as you make it,

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<v Speaker 1>because your.

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<v Speaker 2>Mindset is your worst enemy. Your worst enemy, your mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not the person outside of your house, is you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your mindset is your worst enemy because according to the

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<v Speaker 1>mindset that you have, also will be the heart that

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<v Speaker 1>you have, and because of.

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<v Speaker 2>It, you will do the good or you would do

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<v Speaker 2>the bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You will allowing accept good, or you will allowing accept bad.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all according to the mindset that you have. Believe

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<v Speaker 2>it or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Challenge me, anybody on the face of the earth that

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<v Speaker 1>hear in my voice, challenge me.

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<v Speaker 2>Challenge me on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can tell me any situation in your life, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you being one hundred honest, I can always

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<v Speaker 1>bring it right back to you every single time. I

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<v Speaker 1>can bring it right back to you every single time.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't believe me, challenge me on it, anybody. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how confident I am, because I know people. I know

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<v Speaker 1>people more than anything else. I know people, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know that unhealed hearts and minds make people make bad

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<v Speaker 1>choices and decisions, and most people in the world are

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<v Speaker 1>not choosing a breakthrough because they want everything easy and quick,

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<v Speaker 1>And most people are breaking down because of the choices

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<v Speaker 1>and the decisions that they are making in their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Rea can happen in their own lives, we can have

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<v Speaker 1>it in the children lives and the lives of other

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<v Speaker 1>people around them. Sometimes it's just brutal going to work

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<v Speaker 1>because you're dealing with so many broken people who bring

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<v Speaker 1>all of their mess to work because guess what that

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<v Speaker 1>one person you can get away from is yourself. So

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<v Speaker 1>all of the mess inside of you, you take it

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<v Speaker 1>everywhere you go, spewing and projecting. And that's just the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>So I wanted to talk about it because it's always

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<v Speaker 2>a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what you go through in life, you can

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<v Speaker 1>choose breakthrough or break down.

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<v Speaker 2>No one should choose breakdown, but sadly, millions or four

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<v Speaker 2>millions or four millions are and have I'm leaving it

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<v Speaker 2>right there. I hope you got something from this. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for listening. Much love. I end every episode the same.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you share this, and I hope you do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank goin it