Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I'm back.
Speaker 2: With something for you to think about. I have a
Speaker 2: question for you.
Speaker 1: Are you going to allow yourself to have a breakthrough
Speaker 1: or a breakdown? Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that punched somebody.
Speaker 1: Are you going to allow yourself to have a breakthrough.
Speaker 2: Or a breakdown? Oh? Which is it?
Speaker 1: People in this world always have a choice. Every single
Speaker 1: day we get up, every single day, we breathe.
Speaker 2: Every single day, our eyes open. We have a.
Speaker 1: Choice to become better. Every last one of us. I
Speaker 1: just had a hiccup, every last one of us. We
Speaker 1: have a choice to become better. Unfortunately, most people don't
Speaker 1: take it. People continue in life the same way, not
Speaker 1: trying at all at.
Speaker 2: All at all to become better, not.
Speaker 1: Trying to work through their own issues to become better.
Speaker 2: You know what they do?
Speaker 1: Instead, they compile the issues of other people on the
Speaker 1: issues that.
Speaker 2: They already have in their own lives.
Speaker 1: They compile other people issues on their own own issues.
Speaker 1: And a lot of time that's when people have over
Speaker 1: loads of stress. And I've told you, if you haven't
Speaker 1: listened to that episode, go and find it. Mental stress
Speaker 1: is what leads to or can lead to mental illness
Speaker 1: all the many, many people in this world who say, oh,
Speaker 1: I have this mental illness, I have this mental illness,
Speaker 1: They was.
Speaker 2: Not born that way. They were not born that way.
Speaker 1: They developed those issues because of the lifestyles that they lived,
Speaker 1: or because.
Speaker 2: Of what they endure and held on too.
Speaker 1: Now they have PTSD, schizophrenic, bipolar, multi personalities, disassociattive, this
Speaker 1: associative disorder, all kinds of things, anxiety, depression, suicidal, homicidal,
Speaker 1: all that comes from bad experiences, all of it, stress, overload,
Speaker 1: and every bit of it is related to the mindset
Speaker 1: that a person has, all of it.
Speaker 2: And I've told you many.
Speaker 1: Times that no matter what we go through, no matter
Speaker 1: how tragic, no matter how tragic, how devastating, how traumatizing, is.
Speaker 2: Always something you can learn.
Speaker 1: Always, if you can see past that hurt and pain,
Speaker 1: that suffering, it is something you can learn that will
Speaker 1: make you stronger.
Speaker 2: But most people don't learn. They do not because.
Speaker 1: They get caught up in the feelings and the emotions
Speaker 1: and the thoughts of the hurt, of the pain, of
Speaker 1: the suffering, of the struggling. They get caught up in
Speaker 1: all of that, which makes them very negative.
Speaker 2: And many people turn to darkness, make them even worse.
Speaker 2: It makes them worse, and that's why a lot of
Speaker 2: people never get a breakthrough. It seems like they never experience.
Speaker 1: Deliverance because they're too stuck in the negativity, and instead
Speaker 1: of getting a breakthrough, they break down. I know many
Speaker 1: people who have lost children and cannot function, They have
Speaker 1: lost their parents, cannot function. You can talk to them
Speaker 1: until you pass out. They will not hear you because
Speaker 1: they're so.
Speaker 2: Encapsulated in that hurt and that pain, in that.
Speaker 1: Loss that they have. Death ears, death ears. So instead
Speaker 1: of getting a breakthrough, they broke down. People do it
Speaker 1: all the time in relationships. They're in relationships with individuals
Speaker 1: who are no good for them, individuals.
Speaker 2: Who treat them like pooh pooh under your shoe.
Speaker 1: I mean, they're treated terribly, but they still want that person,
Speaker 1: and that person can walk away.
Speaker 2: From them, you know, through.
Speaker 1: Divorce, just walk away, separation or whatever, and they lose
Speaker 1: it mentally.
Speaker 2: When they should have looked at.
Speaker 1: Themselves and say I deserve better than this, I deserve
Speaker 1: better than this.
Speaker 2: No, it's not what they do. Instead, they turn everything
Speaker 2: inward on self. What I could have done better? It
Speaker 2: was my fault.
Speaker 1: I'm not good enough to the point they want to
Speaker 1: commit suicide over some joker, which could be a male
Speaker 1: or female that was no good for them in the
Speaker 1: first place. They want to kill themselves over somebody that
Speaker 1: don't want them. Instead of having a breakthrough, they chose
Speaker 1: a breakdown. It's like these a lot of these people
Speaker 1: who get on the internet and do all of this
Speaker 1: research to do nefarious things. They could very well gotten
Speaker 1: on the internet and did something positive, but they chose
Speaker 1: the other way instead of becoming better people who recognize
Speaker 1: negative thoughts, instead of being that type of individual to
Speaker 1: be able to recognize that they're having a negative thought,
Speaker 1: they empower those thoughts. They give total power to those thoughts.
Speaker 1: And as you give power to thoughts, those thoughts rise
Speaker 1: and rise and they magnify, they become stronger. When you
Speaker 1: could have had a breakthrough to recognize, hey, this thought
Speaker 1: is not right. I shouldn't be thinking of harming someone.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be thinking of harming myself.
Speaker 2: I know this is not right.
Speaker 1: Instead of doing that, instead of getting that breakthrough, they
Speaker 1: chose to break down and subcum to that negativity and
Speaker 1: commit murder or harm themselves or harm someone because they
Speaker 1: chose break down instead of.
Speaker 2: A breakthrough.
Speaker 1: You have.
Speaker 2: And I'm just throwing in some scenarios. I didn't write
Speaker 2: anything down. I'm just thinking of stuff off of my head.
Speaker 1: You have bosses, supervisors on the jobs, and I can
Speaker 1: talk about this to lie. I've seen it all that
Speaker 1: instead of being the best supervisor that they can be,
Speaker 1: instead of being someone who's trustworthy, instead of getting that
Speaker 1: breakthrough being that person who is standing.
Speaker 2: Strong on doing the right thing.
Speaker 1: Standing strong on being the best supervisor or the best
Speaker 1: boss possible, they choose breakdown.
Speaker 2: They have.
Speaker 1: Nefarious ways, they have inappropriate relationship with employees, They be little,
Speaker 1: they cause harassment, they sexually assault, they sexually harass. See
Speaker 1: when I say breakthrough or breakdown, it could be anything.
Speaker 1: It could be dealing with your Christian life.
Speaker 2: See, if you don't have roots, you already on your
Speaker 2: way to break down.
Speaker 1: If you don't have roots serving God, you already on
Speaker 1: your way to break down. When you could very well
Speaker 1: choose breakthrough, getting off of that milk and getting the meat,
Speaker 1: getting the substance, getting that daily prayer, life, walking and
Speaker 1: talking with Jesus every day, reading your word. Without all
Speaker 1: of that, you're gonna get breakdown. You're gonna be easily distracted,
Speaker 1: You're gonna be easily swathed, You're gonna be easily manipulated, deceived, brainwash, tricked,
Speaker 1: because you're heading towards breakdown and that total disconnect from God.
Speaker 1: It's so many things that's going on in people's lives
Speaker 1: where they choose wrong.
Speaker 2: Just bottom line, people are choosing wrong.
Speaker 1: You're choosing to worship Man, You're choosing to worship things.
Speaker 2: And when you worship Man.
Speaker 1: They're gonna let you down, They're gonna use you, they're gonna.
Speaker 2: Take you for granted. I mean, it's just what it is.
Speaker 1: But people don't understand it because they're looking for something else.
Speaker 1: They're looking for, you know, they want to belong, so
Speaker 1: they'll go along with anything to belong. They'll go along
Speaker 1: with anything for love. You get with individuals.
Speaker 2: Who are horrible and they just bring you down.
Speaker 1: You get with individuals who are horrible to people, who
Speaker 1: treat people bad.
Speaker 2: And if they treat people bad, how you think they're
Speaker 2: gonna treat you.
Speaker 1: Now you're on all kind of anxiety medication, You're on
Speaker 1: all kind of depression medication. You're on medication because you're suicidal,
Speaker 1: all because you choose.
Speaker 2: The wrong thing for you or the wrong person for you.
Speaker 1: Individuals, instead of choosing a breakthrough in their lives, becoming better,
Speaker 1: not allowing their bad experiences to dictate the rest of
Speaker 1: their lives. Instead of choosing a breakthrough to become better,
Speaker 1: to learn.
Speaker 2: From everything they went through to know what to do
Speaker 2: and what not to do, they chose breakdown.
Speaker 1: They turn to drugs, They turn to alcohol, They turn
Speaker 1: to all types of crime, They turn to all negativity.
Speaker 1: They turn to worshiping the devil when they could have
Speaker 1: easily turned to a breakthrough. People fail themselves every single day.
Speaker 1: When you choose to remain the same, you fail yourself.
Speaker 1: When you choose to not grow and mature, you fail yourself.
Speaker 1: It's personal choice, it's a personal decision. If you don't
Speaker 1: want better in your life, guess what, you won't have it.
Speaker 1: Nobody is just not going to just throw something at you.
Speaker 1: You have to want to be a better person. People
Speaker 1: can't change you. They can make you feel good for
Speaker 1: a moment. They can give you insight, they can educate you,
Speaker 1: motivate you, but once you over those feelings and emotions.
Speaker 2: You're right back to you. That same person.
Speaker 1: Who don't love his or herself who's unhappy because you
Speaker 1: didn't choose a breakthrough. I know people say, Cherry, you
Speaker 1: talk like.
Speaker 2: It's so easy.
Speaker 1: It's as easy or as hard as you make it,
Speaker 1: because your.
Speaker 2: Mindset is your worst enemy. Your worst enemy, your mindset.
Speaker 1: It's not the person outside of your house, is you.
Speaker 1: Your mindset is your worst enemy because according to the
Speaker 1: mindset that you have, also will be the heart that
Speaker 1: you have, and because of.
Speaker 2: It, you will do the good or you would do
Speaker 2: the bad.
Speaker 1: You will allowing accept good, or you will allowing accept bad.
Speaker 2: That's all according to the mindset that you have. Believe
Speaker 2: it or not.
Speaker 1: Challenge me, anybody on the face of the earth that
Speaker 1: hear in my voice, challenge me.
Speaker 2: Challenge me on that.
Speaker 1: You can tell me any situation in your life, as
Speaker 1: long as you being one hundred honest, I can always
Speaker 1: bring it right back to you every single time. I
Speaker 1: can bring it right back to you every single time.
Speaker 1: You don't believe me, challenge me on it, anybody. That's
Speaker 1: how confident I am, because I know people. I know
Speaker 1: people more than anything else. I know people, and I
Speaker 1: know that unhealed hearts and minds make people make bad
Speaker 1: choices and decisions, and most people in the world are
Speaker 1: not choosing a breakthrough because they want everything easy and quick,
Speaker 1: And most people are breaking down because of the choices
Speaker 1: and the decisions that they are making in their lives.
Speaker 1: Rea can happen in their own lives, we can have
Speaker 1: it in the children lives and the lives of other
Speaker 1: people around them. Sometimes it's just brutal going to work
Speaker 1: because you're dealing with so many broken people who bring
Speaker 1: all of their mess to work because guess what that
Speaker 1: one person you can get away from is yourself. So
Speaker 1: all of the mess inside of you, you take it
Speaker 1: everywhere you go, spewing and projecting. And that's just the truth.
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about it because it's always
Speaker 2: a choice.
Speaker 1: No matter what you go through in life, you can
Speaker 1: choose breakthrough or break down.
Speaker 2: No one should choose breakdown, but sadly, millions or four
Speaker 2: millions or four millions are and have I'm leaving it
Speaker 2: right there. I hope you got something from this. Thank
Speaker 2: you for listening. Much love. I end every episode the same.
Speaker 2: I hope you share this, and I hope you do this.
Speaker 2: Thank goin it